I think of the four social errors I self-sabotage myself with the social expectancy. I
tend to put a lot of pressure on myself when it comes to accomplishments, which
then affects me in being unsuccessful. For many years I battled with myself about
my age and where I should be at different age points. When I realized I was not
meeting those milestones for one reason or another (not always negative) I put more
and more pressure on myself until I could not lead myself in a good direction
anymore. I think we expect a lot from ourselves because we are constantly in a silent
competition with others. We are influenced day in and day out with fitness, celebrity,
having a degree will make you rich, society instills these ideas in us subconsciously.
Overcoming this social error is about being aware. Knowing when you are having
