8-1 Discussion: Revisiting Your Own Theory of Personality
How can you observe personality?
There are a variety of techniques one can utilize to observe personality. Personality can be observed by
watching and paying attention to an individual’s body language including posture, mannerisms, and
gestures and their interactions with others. In addition, personality can be inferred from how a person
takes care of themselves such as in personal grooming and hygiene. How an individual treats, acts
towards, and communicates – both verbally and nonverbally, can provide insight into what that person’s
personality is like. One can also gain much insight regarding another's personality by observing how an
individual behaves, reacts, and responds to various types of situations, especially those that may be
unexpected or challenging. When observing an individual for insight into their personality, attention
must be given to that person's appearance; by observing how they dress, their posture, physical
movements, and facial expressions. The way someone dresses can reveal things about their personality.
One can convey comfort and casualness by wearing jeans and a t-shirt, or success by donning a three-
piece suit. The posture of a person can indicate how confident they are. For instance, someone with low
self-esteem may be cowered down while someone with confidence may walk tall with their head held
high. A person's physical movements can also give insight into their personality. For example, a lip biter
or picker may be a sign of anxiety or social awkwardness. However, a person who crosses their arms and
legs may suggest they are defensive. One's feelings can be read from their facial expressions; for
example, clenching one's jaw or grinding one's teeth can signify tension, while smile lines can represent
happiness and joy.
Where does personality come from?
A complex and recurring interplay of genetic and environmental variables determines personality. The
development of specific behaviors, thought patterns, and other personality traits is greatly influenced by
genetics, which serve as "building materials," along with active engagement with the environment
(Shiraev, E., 2016). After looking at how my personality evolved, I discovered that I was genetically
predisposed to some mental health conditions like anxiety and depression. Environmentally, I was raised
in a home without a father, as he committed suicide and then later in a home with an abusive
stepfather. I watched my mother struggle to do the best she could for many years to a point where I did
not want to burden her with anything. I have come to understand how aspects of my mother's and
stepfather's personalities have influenced the development of my personality in both positive and
negative ways.
What is the value of studying personality in yourself and others?
