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Donna Carney
LibertyUniversity
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Abstract
Pornography is a growing industry worldwide that is well recognized in all
forms of media; Internet, magazines and movies. As Society become more
advance with technology, the most accommodating tools can be the most
damaging. Computers are looked at as one of the paramount technologies of
the20
th
century butnot withoutit’sshareofcontroversialissues. Addiction to
pornography like all other addiction has become problematic to our society.
Extreme viewing of pornographic images online or via other media source can
be alleged as a warning sign of both Internet and sex addiction. The Internet
and other media sources with illicit sexual imagery have become a distraction
for both Christian and non-Christians alike. The astonishing development of
mass media over the years, and especially the creation of the Internet, has
immensely boosted approachability to pornography and other sexually related
material. With easier access to pornographic information people are faced with
obstacles of experiencing wholesome development of sexuality. Human sexual
conduct is contingent on an assortment of biological, psychological, social, and
cultural influences (Lewczuk et al, 2017). This student will examine causes and
effect of pornographic behaviors, how to minimize or prevent the viewing of
sexual explicit material, treatment for sexual addiction and the role of the
church as it relates to pornography.
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CausesandEffectofPornographicBehavior
Prevalent accessibility and acceptance of pornography have generated
curiosity as to what effect pornography has on self and relationships. This
industry has increased across numerous platforms over several decades. In the
early years of this industry, magazines like Playboy were accessible in certain
stores; however, people would hide to purchase or read this kind of material.
As times goes on and society became more accepting of this industry, more
pornographicmaterialwereintroduce. Individualcould becomeout ofcontrol has
he/she becomes so addictive to viewing and acting out illicit sexual behaviors
due to childhood trauma, psychological or neurological disorder, heredity, just
to name a few.
When this urge becomes demanding and leads to “out-of-control” sexual
interest, notwithstanding destructive results and jeopardy of destruction to
ones emotional and physical wellbeing, its defensive and evolutionary
principles are weakened. Likewise, if voluptuous action impedes
accomplishment of non-sex-related fundamental duties, this evolutionarily
constructive motivation has become harmful and debatably turned addictive
(Kor et al, 2013).
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Theadvancementoftechnologyhaveprovidemoreexposuretoall forms of
pornography through; the Internet, cable, and satellite television. It is
undoubtedly, not newsflash to most viewers that the magnitude and popularity
of sexual explicit resources on the Internet has amplified exponentially (Beaver
& Paul, 2011). The Internet has made it possible for individuals to act out their
sexual behaviors. Children who view pornographic material considerably
boosted communication to their sexual development at the onset of puberty
(Balswick & Balswick, 2008,p.281).Approximately 200 sex-related sites are
created daily. Currently, there are over 100,000 sites. “Sex on the Internet
constitutes the third largest economic sector on the Web, producing over a
billion dollars annually. Approximately one percent of Internet users have a
severe problemthatfocusesalmost exclusivelyon cybersex, withmajor neglect of
other life's activities” (Carnes 2003).
Pornographyisoneofthemanysexualaddictionsand(Clinton&Scalise,
2013,p.227)itissometimesusedtomaskpainfrombothpastandpresent”.
Sexual addiction is considered a disease but also have a lot to do with the way
the individual was nurtured; attachment and parenting style play a pivotal role
people’sbehavior.Neurosciencehasgivenunbiasedoutcomesthatforecast the
biological effects of addiction on the frontal lobes of the brain.Addictive
behavior triggers genetic neuroadaptation, and extent to other parts of the
body. It seems that pornography addiction often begins at a time of life (in
adolescence) when this incompatibility is not a consideration (White & Kimball,
2009).
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Addictivebehaviors,includingpornographydamagespeopleand obliterate
lives. It encumbers the development of wholesome sexuality especially among
adults; it distorts sexual advances and society involvements. The revenue for
Internet pornography is increasing; while having an adverse impact on
humanity. Internet pornography publicity was definitely linked with engaging
in paid sex, amount of sexual companions, and having adulterous sex(Wright
&Randall, 2012,p.1415)
As more families have access to computer and the Internet, even children can
accesses pornographic material on smart phones; computer and television .The
involvement of destructive sexual interest like pornography can jeopardize the
individual life in many ways.
Some examples of how this addictive behavior can be destructive are;
demotion or loss of work if they are caught using company computer to surf
pornographic sites. Secondly, it creates skepticism and disrespect among
families and friends and could lead to divorce and disagreement amongst
couples. Thirdly, this behavior could lead to the use of addictive substance.
Somebehavioraladdictsusesubstancetomasktheirfeelingsandovercome the
psychosomatic impediments that avert him/her from indulgence. Lastly, people
who are engaged in sexual addictive behaviors live a life of secrecy and
isolation, fearing condemnation from loves ones. “Overall, pornography use can
leadtorelationshiporfamilyproblems,arrestforsexualoffences,difficultiesat work,
financial problems, an over preoccupation with sexuality, and a pressing
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needfortheindividualtobetterregulatetheirown behavior”(Egan&Parmar,
2013,p.395)
LookingawayfromPornographicImager
Many people depend on the Internet to support with advanced learning, connecting
with friends and family, getting information about world events but could also devote
countless hours surfing sites that encourages a sinful desire. This rampant life style is not
gender-biased; both male and female have indulged in viewing pornographic material and
also being an active participant. The younger generation are more opt to using
computers/internet as a way to acquire knowledge for their private use which could be
enlightening for their day to day studying, however, because they could be more
technologicallysmart,parentsandguardiansmayignoredsignsthattheirchildrencouldbe
looking at material that could be detrimental to their cognitive, physical and spiritual
wellbeing. Teens and young adult use computers and other media sources for some of the
same reason as alder adults, including (Thornburg, 2002), motivation, relief from world-
weariness and emotional stimulation.
With the development of new sites, and people’s curiosity, there is an
alarming report; nearly 374 internet users are surfing various pornographic
sites every second, over 19% of men accessed pornography at work,
almost50% of Christian said that it was a problematic in their household, and
a shocking 53% promise keepers viewed pornography most recently (Tarver,
2010). Parents and caregivers can restrict the amount of time the younger
child stay on the computers, also add filters to prevent the child from
accessing illicit sexual material.The greatest safeguard against youngsters
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being unprotected to incongruous material on the Internet is the
presenceand supervision of a conscientious parent while the child is using the
Internet (Thornburgh et al, 2002) and mechanism that filters and hid
pornographic sites (Beaver & Paul, 2011).
It is harder to supervise adults since (Egar & Parmar, 2013,p.395)
pornographic material is now predominantly distributed using Internet based
technology. This addictive behavior is not just self-continued in home but in
colleges, work places and even in the church community. Both male and
female find their selves involved in this precarious sexual act. Males view
much more Internet pornography and have more optimistic approaches
toward it, while a substantial faction of females interpret it as a divergent
action. Approximately 65 percent of female have encouraging response to
pornography. The longer women have attended university, the more
accommodating they were of pornographic resources (Beaver & Paul, 2011).
People who turn to the Internet or other media sources to very
pornographic imagery must be conscientious that this behavior is unhealthy.
Some people cannot take there off of these material, however, it one has a
weakness to this for of sexual addiction, he/she must put some restrictions in
place. Filters are great for younger children but could be non-effective for the
grownups since they are the ones who install the soft ware. Simple things like,
having an accountability partner, putting the computer in a public space and
talkingabouttheuncontrollableurges.Lastly,takingtheeyesofa momentary
satisfaction and develop a deep-rooted relationship with Christ
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will help people heal and remain sober. “For this is the will of God, your
sanctification: that you abstain from sexual immorality; that each one of you
know how to control his own body in holiness and honor,
not
in the passion of
lust like the Gentiles who do not know God”, 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5(ESV).
Treatment
“Many rationalized their behavior as ”harmless” because they think they
are not actually
committing adultery or sexual sin”(Clinton & Hawkins, 2009,p.195). It takes
willingness and a heart of surrender to become emotionally, physically and
spiritual whole after losing control to any kind of addictive behaviors. Like all
addictions, whether, behavior or substance, it could lead to unhealthy romantic
relationships, feeling of embarrassment and self-reproach, problems with
employment or education, unemployment, financial struggles and brokenness in
families.Pornographyaddictionmanagementofferstheindividual
informationtoconstructwholesome,life-affirmingoptions.Thereisnoone
sizefitsalltreatmentforsexualaddiction.
To heal the self, treatment must discover and diminish the results of early
youthful ordeal on the emotional, intellectual, and interactive dimensions of the
addict, their partners and families (Katehakis, 2009). Individual and group
therapy can be very beneficial for the addict in restoring self to wholesomeness.
Some models may be more effective based on different needs. If the addict is
married or has a partner, structural therapy may be very useful because (Ford et
al, 2012), it helps the couple subsystem establish itself in a way that emboldens
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them to unravel their own difficulties. Consideration is placed upon the system's
restrictions, and the pertinence of partnerships, triangles, and associations in the
romantic relationship.
The 12-step program offers support for the addicts’ sobriety. The CBT isalso
very useful in recovery; it allows the addict to take responsibility for his/her
actions. With the growing population of porn addiction, more treatment would be
helpful to care for theses sex addicts. A developing treatment methodology, ACT,
embracesassuranceasatreatmentforInternetpornographywatchingbecause of its
emphasis on practices assumed to trigger this maladaptive performance. (Twohig
& Crosby,2010,p.285)Lastly, froma Christianperspective, therewill not be total
restoration and healing without the application of Spiritual counseling.
Addictsarepowerlessovertheirsituation,onlyChrist canheal. “And theGod of
allgrace, whocalled you tohiseternalglory in Christ,afteryou have suffered a
littlewhile,willhimselfrestoreyouandmakeyoustrong,firmandsteadfast”,1 Peter
5:10 (NIV).
TheRoleoftheChurch
God createdpeopletoenjoy life and allhehascreatedbut thefallofman
distorted His plan
.
The
church should be a place where people feel free to
unburden their pain, shame and guilt. People with limited understanding of this
maladaptive behavior have frowned upon sexual addiction. The church can no
longer stand on the sideline and watch the lives of humanity wasted. Christians
today struggle with some of the very things that non-Christians are faced with.
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Studiesrevealthatabout40%ofChristiansacknowledgedthatpornographyis
problematicintheirhousehold(Clinton&Laaser,2012,p.158).Theethical
examplebordersaddictionasanoutcomeofhumanflaw,animperfectionin
character.
It doesn’t distinguish biological or genetic factors to addiction and give
verylittleempathyforthosewhodemonstrateaddictivebehaviors(James &Badger,
2012,p.204).
AsthechurchmodelsChristinmeetingtheneedsofthosewhoare powerless over
their indulgences, pastors and other congregants must go beyond
thewallsoftheirlocalassembly,sharingtheloveofGod.Galatian6:1, “Brethren, if a
man be overtaken in a fault, ye which are spiritual, restore such an one in the
spirit of meekness; considering thyself, lest thou also be tempted” (KJV). People
are afraid to openly communicate their struggles, because they may be judge,
which only add to their guilt and shame. Individuals who are wounded want tofind
a safe place where their chains can be broken. The church must open their doors
to teach men and women how to experience healthy sexuality, God’s way.
“Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you
may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective” James
5:16(NIV).
Overthepastseveralyearsmanypriestandministershavebeenexposure
forsexualmisconduct.PeoplesometimesseeChristianashypocritesbecauseof
theiraction.Regardlessofone’scondition,Christiansarecalledtoguidethe
addictonajourneyofsurrendertoahigherpowerthatwilloffergrace,pardon
andwholesomeness.Societytendstobemorelenienttowardsmenwhenthey
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display inappropriate set act, however the woman behaviors is so shameful and
demoralizing. The church must now teach that all men are treated equally
regardless of gender. The story in John chapter 8 is a classic example of a woman
living an adulterous life, brought to Jesus to be condemned, but was redeemed.
ReligiosityalleviatesmaladaptiveconductbyfullydependinguponGodratherthanself.Thusthe
pathwayoffreedomfromsexualbondagecanbeachievedwhenpeoplesubmittothewillofGod.
TheChristiancommunitymustfocusonbringingtheawarenesstopeoplethattheirbodies are
God’s temples and that avoidance from all forms of sexual sins keeps man and God in
harmonious living. “One who seeks to be holy before God must learn to discern between what
one is free to do in Christ”(Balswick
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Balswick, 2008,p.292).
Conclusion
The easy access to Internet and society’s acceptance of pornography has
created challenges for families worldwide. Addicts are not just viewing illicit
sexual imageries, but are also involved with chat room entertainers and more
prone to act out in real life.Pornography, the cybernetic adultery, disconnects
families, demonstrating unfaithfulness to God and man, only to fulfill lustful
desires of the heart. The creator has put in place the all tool necessary to
experience healthy sexuality; however, sin has separated man from God.
“Consistent useof pornography promotes thenotionthat womenandones spouse are
to be viewed as mere objects and that sex is unrelated to love, commitment and
marriage”(Clinton &Laaser, 2010,p.158).
“
But among you there must not be even
a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these
are improper for God’s holy people”, Ephesians 5:3(NIV).
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