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Research paper: Love at First Sight

1. Parading prejudices force towards women due to their gender is a clear call of sexism.

This consists of appropriate and inappropriate gestures, talking a distinct way, and showing

unseemly behaviors toward women. This is generally done by the opposite sex stereotyping

women based on their physical presence. With the grounds of sexism, it was backed in this

documentary stereotypical acts shown as well as different types of sexism. One of the most

prevalent acts of sexism in the feature was gender microaggression critiquing the women of

their allure this was done more so by men who went on the tour. From hearing them speak to

the ladies at the social ball scoping out what they like and addressing their findings. The main

ognized for their eagerness to satisfy. Handling their spouse and/or suitor with effigy for com-

modities as if they’re his domestic slave. Indication of ambivalent sexism was demonstrated

through the documentary the men that were arguing their reasoning for going on a marriage tour

indicating it was for love. Their action showed differently by requesting to remain anonymous on

the film. In Columbia, this is a profitable industry for introducing American men to women.

Even booking them for the marriage tours to find a companion as advertised on the tour site. This

comes off more so like a transaction for service or even sex for purchase.'

One of the men over the company advises the men attending the introduction meeting not

to forget why you came…when all the beautiful women come into the room try not to get lustful.

From looking at the bigger picture overall the women know they are somewhat being exploited

and this is a business but there has to be something in it for them which for most a better life and

they like and then execute a plan to meet when they arrive. As stated previously the stereotype

for foreign women consists of servant wives with a big sex drive. The prejudice of these

women’s attributes and roles is a clear gender stereotype in which is sexist canvasing a negative

image of the women. There is previously a stigma of intimacy with international women by the

selection of the women through a sexual glass networked. Illustration of this at the beginning of

the documentary a young woman was getting seductive photos taken for the website for potential

suitors. The cameraman even confirmed this notion advising her certain ways to pose.'

Even jokingly saying you may get a bad boy is a sexist gesture. On the dating sites as the

reporter stated on the documentary you have a headline stating foreign woman will take care of

your better they are waiting for you all of this is a ploy to bring American men over to these

countries for their gains but capitalizing off the women in the process. The forum for this type of

business international online dating is established on the commodification of potential relation-

ships and advertise women. From the reading of the chapter concentrating on stereotypes, this

implies the representation of international women as portrayed as sexy, and submissive, and ex-

the stereotypes.

marriage from a conclusion of online dating has expanded in the previous years. The cyber-

matched bride (CMBs) a few call them others names given to. Myths circulating are these

women are opportunists wanting an improved life from a man. From late discovery, the disparity

of looking for relations international is truly a gamble. According to the research, people must

understand the difference between myth and reality when considered this type of relationship.

Some American men are either giving false hope and promises or looking for love like David in

the video. Information pulled from the peer review article spoke on research that has shown typi-

cally the mail-ordered brides endure from mistreatment from their partner if the end game is to

The women are treated less than equal to American men according to the research from

the journal. Specifically speaking on some of the American men who potentially become suiters

are exploiters of these women. Or the women are being misled by some of these men to fulfill

their agenda which untimely leaving the women after they have gotten what they wanted. More

Which is typically is sexual favors wrapped up in marriage illusions while living out fantasies

taking advantage of these women. This would explain some of what the women’s experiences

marry.'

tal span of their relationship was three months, she was in love with the man she stated. Finding

out the man had a wife in America and a second wife in her country with kids. The American

man has nothing to do with Karan and now she has a baby to take care of alone. This goes hand

and hand with the article on the alternative motives some of the American men have when look-

ing from an online bride. Even though this experience happened to Karan this did not deter her

from still wanting to find “happiness”. Background of Karan she lives with her grandmother, sib-

lings, and of course her child so happiness simply put from the video would be security, a

provider, and a family man. In the end, she did not find what she was looking for at the social

One particular woman that stuck out to me when watching the social ball was Diana. An

older man name Lamar twice her age was grabbing on her and talking as if she was just an ob-

ject. The body language of Diana revealed how uncomfortable she was and that she was truly not

interested in Lamar. When asked questions by the film crew he replied she is very, very attrac-

tive, beautiful smile stating this is what make guys from the US comes to Columbia. Directing

her to smile and acknowledging her age difference was not a problem. This was not the case

1. According to the chapter on Beauty Matters my finding was supported quite heavily in

prime example at the social ball the way the men starred at the women as there were lustful ob-

jects as stated in the textbook this is a symbol of the male gaze. Even the tone of the men in the

documentary showed the motive of objectification. Confirmed by observing the body language

of some of the men at the social gathering it was evident there was a complete absence of bound-

ary integrity towards the women from the amorous conversation and unnecessary touching. The

second backed example dealt with the women meaning self-objectification behaviors of perceiv-

ing the self as an object and in a constant mode of comparing oneself to other women.''

All of the women in the film displayed examples of where their appearance could be a

deal-breaker in finding a suitor. Karan her dress shrunk in the dryer and it was tight as the result,

she became upset as this would possibly hurt her in finding a man at the ball. Another confirma-

tion of this was the women excessively looking at themselves in the mirror and comparing them-

selves to the competition speaking on how they have to look good and different to stand out in

the crowd. The act of self-objectification is a negative trait when done in routine reasoning being

this typically develops presentation anxiety and ultimately lowering esteem in some cases. These

compared to Latina/Hispanic women being sexualized. Negative narratives among other races of

women are out there. According to the textbook when looking at the film the women reminded

me of these petite barbie dolls all had long hair and appealing features. This may be a repetitive

notion but yes from the textbook the research is being supported by the evidence of the film

throughout. An example of this you kept hearing from the marriage tour manager telling the men

consistently Columbia has nothing but beautiful women all the women are perfect. This is a blunt

pattern some may see this as a positive but with that information comes with some negative con-

sequences. Being objectified, assaulted even solely due to how you are viewed by the ideology

tributes you heard little to no information about other key things about them as in are your col-

lege education, what is your stance on your country’s economy and act. The only agenda dis-

cussed was their looks and what they liked in men. Overall, from what was being broadcasted to

the men by the company providing the tours it is a standard it seems the women have to obey by

the company’s culture.'

3. There is an obscene amount of reasoning why women may prioritize their physical pre-

appearance is their reputation in the community. Beauty and status typically go hand and hand

ers.'

Bringing desirable characteristics to the table can get them to the socioeconomic status

they craved. Speaking frankly marrying a social standing American man for a family and to live

a better life is the ultimate goal. This was apparent in the film of women putting their appearance

first to get a chance for a suitor. The film itself explains “Love at First Sight” is this love or lust?

Men are looking for beautiful women, while these women are looking for social classman that

can elevate them in that aspect. The implications of these findings were indeed confirmed by

constantly having the women express what they can offer which to sum it up being submissive

nothing more than what was shown from the outer appearance. Possibly this was due to the little

time they had with each other well as both parties had alternative motives potentially.'

So, yes in the film women prioritized their appearance to be more favorable for the men

to get a better chance upon the other women in obtaining a suitor. From a psychology view, this

continues to be self-objectification for a purpose. The women's choice of wear was racy, some of

the women wore revealing clothing showing stomach, cleavage, thighs broadcasting a more ap-

person’s life but will be tailored towards mental health. During the documentary, I did not see

any women who had that support. All of the main character women in the film showed being

alone and that finding a man would complete them. The second type of support that was used

in the film was active constructive responding. Answering constructively in a positive manner

promoting the prosperity for the person providing the information to the receiver, this was

demonstrated by the reporter multiple times throughout the film.'

When she went over to one of the women’s house to somewhat touch base on her dates

and time spent with David (potential suitor). When she was invited in the woman told the re-

porter that David was in her home he spent the night. The reporter did not respond negatively.

From the body language of the reporter and her emotions responding to the good news, her reac-

tion was genuinely authentic. Responding positively informing the women and David she is

happy for them. As well as asking the now couple follow-up questions on their relationship

showing care and extended that positive emotion.'

ing submissive, having a family, and the dream of marrying a social, financially stable American

from their spouse. Another benefit that is key in a marriage is the physical aspect that was dis-

cussed and broadcasted in the film. Nevertheless, psychological and financial support was not

talked about amongst the women who were interviewed in qualities they want in a marriage.

These are considered institutionalized benefits of marriage. The women in the film only deliber-

ated on materialistic ideals and the dreamer marriage to just being married and live happily ever

after. This is not a realistic stance on marriage and nor from that notation are the women truly

prepared if this way of thinking is continued.''