Self-Reflection Paper
When I first started this class, I remember thinking to myself “I already know all of this.” I was under the impression that this would be a walk in the park and that I would be hearing information that I was already aware of. However, I am glad to say that I have acquired new skills and knowledge through this course that I am confident will help me as I grow professionally. The concepts that I benefited the most from are how to become an effective listener, develop an effective resume and cover letter, compose business emails, and achieve your goals in communicating negative news.
Most of the concepts, if not all, presented in class have been used continuously in my workplace. Learning how to become an effective listener was definitely an opportunity for me. To my surprise, I related most to the barriers to effective listening. I realized that I especially had trouble with keeping an open mind, holding my “fire,” faking attention, and wanting to speak instead of listen. Often times we are so passionate about what we believe is right and wrong and we tend to shut down other people’s perspectives. I found myself doing this because I was convinced that what I believe to be right is right and vice versa. Additionally, I would have a difficult time allowing myself to listen to the other speaker’s argument, logic, or reasons if I did not agree with them.
Faking attention is something I would frequently do in the workplace. As a personal banker, you also become a therapist to your clients. There were times when I would have so much paperwork to get done and my clients would want to talk to me about their personal matters. During these times, I found myself pretending to listen by shaking my head or occasionally saying “mhm;” although I had no clue what they were saying because I was trying to get my work done in between. Other times, I would be having a conversation with a coworker and I would wait for them to finish their sentence so that I could jump in and share my story because I considered mine to be “better.” However, all of these barriers have led me to realize that I was not being an effective listener in the workplace. I was even able to apply these concepts to my personal relationships and I feel that I have become a better person through my improvement.
The concept of developing an effective resume and cover letter has helped me tremendously. I have been very successful in obtaining jobs that I am interested in. Therefore, I thought that my resume and cover letters were at their highest potential. However, I learned that both my resume and cover letter needed much improvement. Learning how to customize them for the specific job will help open more opportunities for me.
In the workplace, the most common source of communication is via email. Through this course, I have learned how to properly and effectively compose those business emails. I constantly have to relay information to my clients and I always use a formal approach. Before taking this course, I was under the impression that if I needed to compose an email to a colleague, it would have to be just as formal. Now that we have discussed business emails in class, I feel that my peers are able to better understand my requests, while keeping the email concise, direct and professional.
Lastly, we discussed how to convey negative news. Delivering negative news is difficult and happens quite often in my industry. As a personal banker, I must inform clients, who have applied for an account, credit, or loan, whether they have been approved or declined. Letting them know that they have been declined is challenging because the goal is to retain their business while still declining a request. This class has allowed me to develop skills that will help me achieve my goal of keeping that business relationship even though I must decline a service the client is requesting. In doing so, I have made it a point to use an indirect approach and offer the client alternative services as well as let them know what I can do for them.
Completing this course has been an immense advantage for me as I move forward in my career. I have learned new skills and have been able to enhance existing ones. Going forward, I will reference this class in my business practices and use the knowledge and experience that I have acquired. I am thankful for these past 10 weeks and I look forward to applying what I have learned as I advance in my career.
Self-Reflection
Paper
When
I
first
started
this
class,
I
remember
thinking
to
myself
“
I
already
know
all
of
this.
”
I
was
under
the
impression
that
this
would
be
a
walk
in
the
park
and
that
I
would
be
hearing
information
that
I
was
already
aware
of.
However,
I
am
glad
to
say
that
I
have
acquired
new
skills
and
knowledge
through
this
course
that
I
am
confident
will
help
me
as
I
grow
professionally.
The
concepts
that
I
benefited
the
most
from
are
how
to
become
an
effective
listener,
develop
an
effective
resume
and
cover
letter,
compose
business
emails,
and
achieve
your
goals
in
communicating
negative
news.
Most
of
the
concepts,
if
not
all,
presented
in
class
have
been
used
continuously
in
my
workplace.
Learning
how
to
become
an
effective
listener
was
definitely
an
opportunity
for
me.
To
my
surprise,
I
related
most
to
the
barriers
to
effective
listening.
I
realized
that
I
especially
had
trouble
with
keeping
an
open
mind,
holding
my
“
fire,
”
faking
attention,
and
wanting
to
speak
instead
of
listen.
Often
times
we
are
so
passionate
about
what
we
believe
is
right
and
wrong
and
we
tend
to
shut
down
other
people
’
s
perspectives.
I
found
myself
doing
this
because
I
was
convinced
that
what
I
believe
to
be
right
is
right
and
vice
versa.
Additionally,
I
would
have
a
difficult
time
allowing
myself
to
listen
to
the
other
speaker
’
s
argument,
logic,
or
reasons
if
I
did
not
agree
with
them.
Faking
attention
is
something
I
would
frequently
do
in
the
workplace.
As
a
personal
banker,
you
also
become
a
therapist
to
your
clients.
There
were
times
when
I
would
have
so
much
paperwork
to
get
done
and
my
clients
would
want
to
talk
to
me
about
their
personal
matters.
During
these
times,
I
found
myself
pretending
to
listen
by
shaking
my
head
or
occasionally
saying
“
mhm;
”
although
I
had
no
clue
what
they
were
saying
because
I
was
trying
to
get
my
work
done
in
between.
Other
times,
I
would
be
having
a
conversation
with
a
coworker
and
I
would
wait
for
them
to
finish
their
sentence
so
that
I
could
jump
in
and
share
my
story
because
I
considered
mine
to
be
“
better.
”
However,
all
of
these
barriers
have
led
me
to
realize
that
I
was
not
being
an
effective
listener
in
the
workplace.
I
was
even
able
to
apply
these
concepts
to
my
personal
relationships
and
I
feel
that
I
have
become
a
better
person
through
my
improvement.
The
concept
of
developing
an
effective
resume
and
cover
letter
has
helped
me
tremendously.
I
have
been
very
successful
in
obtaining
jobs
that
I
am
interested
in.
Therefore,
I
thought
that
my
resume
and
cover
letters
were
at
their
highest
potential.
However,
I
learned
that
both
my
resume
and
cover
letter
needed
much
improvement.
Learning
how
to
customize
them
for
the
specific
job
will
help
open
more
opportunities
for
me.
In
the
workplace,
the
most
common
source
of
communication
is
via
email.
Through
this
course,
I
have
learned
how
to
properly
and
effectively
compose
those
business
emails.
I
constantly
have
to
relay
information
to
my
clients
and
I
always
use
a
formal
approach.
Before
taking
this
course,
I
was
under
the
impression
that
if
I
needed
to
compose
an
email
to
a
colleague,
it
would
have
to
be
just
as
formal.
Now
that
we
have
discussed
business
emails
in
class,
I
feel
that
my
peers
are
able
to
better
understand
my
requests,
while
keeping
the
email
concise,
direct
and
professional.
Lastly,
we
discussed
how
to
convey
negative
news.
Delivering
negative
news
is
difficult
and
happens
quite
often
in
my
industry.
As
a
personal
banker,
I
must
inform
clients,
who
have
applied
for
an
account,
credit,
or
loan,
whether
they
have
been
approved
or
declined.