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Chapter 12 Family Life
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Tracking the Trends: Family Life
In 2013, about half of all adults were married, the lowest share on record.
There have been corresponding increases for adults who have never married and for those who are divorced.
Q. Do you think that these trends are good for the country or not? Why?
Marital Status, 1960-2013
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Married1960 1970 1980 1990 2000 2010 2013 0.675560538116592 0.64221810214056974 0.60966711470316137 0.58724770977042939 0.56232750474800486 0.53593723533032844 0.52684949158239736 Never Married
1960 1970 1980 1990 2000 2010 2013 0.22041960281870596 0.24944547446485762 0.25865670512798139 0.26186044329042252 0.28074508593187197 0.3067296847306516 0.31413044783167199 Divorced
1960 1970 1980 1990 2000 2010 2013 2.2533632286995522E-2 2.8882521489971349E-2 5.7581417540919701E-2 7.8876705614907741E-2 9.30000842010 72183E-2 9.8084256363433556E-2 0.10159548286666695
Percentage of Population Age 15 and Older
What is a Family?
Family: The social institution that unites individuals in cooperative groups that care for one another, including any children
Nuclear Family: One or two parents and their children
Extended Family: Parents and children and also grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins who often live close to one another and operate as a family unit.
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What is a Family?
Families are built around marriage, a lawful relationship usually involving economic cooperation, sexual activity, and childbearing.
People today have a broader and more inclusive idea of what “family” means:
Single parent with a child
Married couple without children
Child being raised by a same-sex couple
Families of affinity
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A Sociological Approach to Family Problems
Looks not at the behavior of individuals, but how family is shaped by a society’s standard of living and technology
How patterns of family life are linked to income, education, gender, and race
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Living Together: Do We Need to Marry?
Cohabitation: The sharing of a household by an unmarried couple
From 500,000 in 1970 to 6.9 million today
650,000 same-sex couples
6.3 million heterosexual couples
About 6% of all households
In the U.S., 49% of people aged 25 to 44 cohabit at some point in their lives.
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Living Together: Do We Need to Marry?
Critics of cohabitation
Less stable setting for raising children
Can put woman and children at risk
Men can lose legal right to raise their children
Supporters of cohabitation
Living together is a private matter
Meets the needs of a diverse society
Pattern of cohabitation
After 3 years, 40% of cohabiting couples marry, 32% continue to cohabit, and 28% split up.
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Postponing Marriage
Men and women get married about six years later now than in 1950.
Women, 26.6 years old; men, 29.0 years old
Delaying marriage is a function of:
Spending more time in education
More women in labor force
Birth control technology and legal abortion
Economic conditions/uncertainty
Drop in overall childbearing
More freedom in forming relationships
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Parenting: Is One Enough?
In 2013, 1 in 3 families with children under age 18 had just one parent in the household
More than twice the share in 1970
Most people believe children are best served with two parents in the home
Biggest problem is poverty
41% of children living with one parent are poor
More likely to become single parents themselves
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Figure 12-1 Child Care Arrangements for Working Mothers
Half of the young children of working mothers receive care from a parent or other relative.
Back to Child Care Slide
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Families, Race and Poverty
The Moynihan Report (1965)
African American families
72% of African American children are born to single mothers
47% of families headed by a single African American mother are poor
38% of all African American children grow up in poverty
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Families, Race and Poverty
Liberals point out that single-parent families and poverty in the African American community are not so much family problems as they are economic and racial prejudice problems
William Julius Wilson: In a disadvantaged urban “underclass,” there are not enough jobs to allow men and women to support a family.
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African American Families: A Closer Look
African American families face more challenges than white families
low income, racial prejudice, and discrimination
Strengths of African American families
Strong kinship bonds
Religious traditions
Multi-generation households
importance of grandmothers
Networks of mutual assistance
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Conflict between Work and Family Life
Both parents work for income in 52% of U.S. families.
“Double shift:” women work for pay and do housework
Information Revolution: more people working from home, bringing workplace activities and concerns into the home
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Child Care
Most married mothers are working mothers:
54% of those with infants
60% of those with preschoolers
70% of those with school-age children
Figures are higher for single mothers
Child care options depend on income
4.5 million “latchkey children”
U.S. government support for child care is the income tax deduction
To Child Care Chart
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Divorce
Today’s divorce rate is four times what it was a century ago.
Figure 12-2 U.S. Divorce Rate, 1890 -- 2011
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National Map 12-1 Divorce across the United States
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No-Fault Divorce
In all states by 1985
Based on irreconcilable differences
Made divorces easier to obtain; reduced the cases of alimony
Affects family income if woman has fewer workplace skills
Supporters: Treats men and women as equals
Critics: Bring back alimony to help support the ex-partner (typically, the woman) who stayed at home
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Too Much Divorce?
In global perspective, U.S. has the highest divorce rate in the world
More than four times higher than “low-divorce” nations such as Italy and Ireland
Figure 12-3 Divorce in Selected Countries
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Too Much Divorce?
Conservatives are more critical of the high rate of divorce than liberals.
Divorce suggests a “me first” attitude
Liberals see divorce as a way out of unhappy or abusive marriages
Public is divided:
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Is divorce too hard to get?
Sales
Too hard Too easy OK as is No opinion 0.33000000000000007 0.38000000000000006 0.22 7.0000000000000021E-2
Child Support
A cause of high poverty rates among children
$14 billion in child support is not paid
Courts award support to 49% of children
Of these, 57% receive only partial payment or no payment
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Child Support
In comparing only non-custodial parents, women are less likely to make support
Function of women earning less than men
1998: Deadbeat Parents Punishment Act
Felony to refuse to provide support payments to a child living in another state
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Remarriage: Problems of Blended Families
3 out of 4 people who divorce remarry, most within four years
More than 1/3 of all marriages are remarriages for at least one partner
Blended families: Families in which children live with some combination of biological parents and stepparents
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Remarriage: Problems of Blended Families
Blended family problems
Children learn a new social environment
Parent and sibling relationships
Managing relationship with ex-spouse
Stepparent families have high rate of physical and sexual abuse
Greater likelihood for divorce than for couples in first marriages
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Gay and Lesbian Families
2004: Massachusetts is first state to allow gay marriage
By 2015: 29 other states, plus D.C.
2013 Census data:
640,000 same-sex couples, 190,000 of which are married couples
1 in 4 couples are parents raising children
Same-sex marriage extends legal rights
hospital visitation, health insurance, child custody
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Global Map 12-1 Legal Same-Sex Marriage and
Registered Partnerships in Global Perspective
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Same-Sex Parenting
More than 1/3 of people who identify as LGBT have had a child at some point.
6 million U.S. children have an LGBT parent
Public opinion divided on gays raising children
Research shows little difference in parenting effectiveness
Problems due more to stigma than from family form itself
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Brave New Families: High-Tech Reproduction
In vitro fertilization: uniting egg and sperm in a laboratory
Expensive; only 176,000 couples a year
Ethical and moral questions related to selection of physical and perhaps mental traits
Surrogate motherhood: One woman carries and bears a child for another
Legal questions over child support
Cultural Lag: scientific discoveries advance more quickly than our ideas about the acceptable ways to use them
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Structural-Functional Analysis: Family as Foundation
Family is the most important social unit in society (Murdock, 1949)
Regulate reproduction
Secure setting for socialization
Units of economic cooperation
Provide emotional support to its members
The foundation of a healthy society
Criticism: Overlooks family conflict and violence; families contribute to social inequality
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Symbolic-Interaction Analysis: Family and Learning
Family is based on and evolves out of the ongoing interaction among its members
Family plays a role in how we think about ourselves and society
Family life and experience varies from one group and individual to the next
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Social-Conflict Analysis: Family and Social Class
Family is structured to benefit some and disadvantage others
Perpetuates capitalism and class inequality:
Engels: As the rich pass their money across generations (and other families transmit poverty), a society’s class system is reproduced in each new generation.
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Feminist Analysis: Family and Gender
Family is linked to societal domination of women by men
Men have power when they are heads of households
Household wealth = men’s wealth
Engels: The family turns women into the sexual and economic property of men.
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Conservatives: Traditional “Family Values”
The family as the core of a society
Instills basic values
Source of problems stem
from a break with traditional families
Rising divorce and cohabitation
Children are the ones who lose
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Liberals: Many Types of Families
Support wide range of family forms
Poverty and domestic violence are the biggest problems
Increase support to families
Child care
Higher minimum wage
Pay women as much as men
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The Radical Left: Replace the Family
Family perpetuates social inequality
Creates and maintains class stratification
Perpetuates gender stratification
Pushes same-sex couples to margins of society.
Society should
make child care a collective enterprise.
redefine marriage as equal partnership.
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