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If we ask someone how she or he sees world, almost everyone will answer that by eyes. Yes, it is true, but eyes deliver only deceptive view of what we see. They will have never shown view on person’s inside. Different thing is when we use our heart for see what is hidden inside that person. It shows us character of this person, and how he or she is in life. I think that seeing by heart means to understand other people feelings. There is commandment “You shall love your neighbor as yourself”. In my opinion, people should treat other as they want to be treated. Our feelings and skills to logical thinking make us being different than other animals on this planet. 

People see only what people have outside. For example first what they look for, is how this person looks like, what is his status, and what car and mortgage he has. They do not care about how this person is for others, and what her or him character is. If we look at this person by our heart we will see those things which we cannot see by our eyes and any different sense. Heart helps us to fall in love with other person or to make friendship. It allows us to be happy when we spend time with people who we know. Because of our heart, we can distinguish what is bad and what is good for us. In many researches the scientists have proven that women use more feelings in life than men. They do not judge new people in them life only because of social status or look. They use feelings to show emotions. Why better mother for new-born child is almost always woman? It is because she sees this child by her heart and not only by eyes. Also, women have fewer conflicts with the law. They could predict what is bad and good and what will be the consequences.  In this time “seeing by heart” has been shaded by civilization properties. For us people, the most significant things are money and carrier. We are always in rush, doing our work and studying for example. If we add creating family, then we do not have time for nothing. We do not have time to speak with somebody, go somewhere, or even relax for a little bit after tough day at work. We do not see others wishes or intentions also. Our close family sometimes needs our help, but we cannot notice it because we see only their happy and smiling faces. They maybe need our help but do not want to say about it to us directly. It is paradox because how we should know that they need something from us, if they whole time look feel good and we do not use our heart for see what is the truth. For example in “What Women Want” movie, we see Nick Marshall (Mel Gibson) who is rich and handsome employee of the entertainment agency. He lives as successful person of XXI century. Only two rules which are in his life are money and beautiful women. His life and point of view changes after accident when he starts to hear what women are thinking about. From that moment he started see life as never before. Nick starts to see by his heart and makes people to feel happy. Adult people search only material goods and think; they will live in happiness if they reach it. Of course it is not truth. People who want to do big carrier and have everything what they need are too busy for enjoy those things. Our life is too short to understand our destination and why we are here. That is why we should open our hearts and almost close eyes to live this life as well as we can.