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Chapter 3 Social Affect
Huge Fall in Global Markets Causes Fear and Panic for Investors
September 16, 2008, as a result of the failure of over a dozen large banks in the United States, was the
beginning of a stock market crisis around the world. On October 11, 2008, the head of the International
Monetary Fund (IMF) warned that the world financial system was teetering on ―the brink of systemi c
meltdown.‖
The Dow Jones Industrial Average fell 21 percent in one week, and BusinessWeekreferred to the crisis as a
―stock market crash–the ―Panic of 2008.‖
Over the next year, the crash erased $8.3 trillion in shareholder wealth.
Stock traders, bankers, and everyday investors all responded with panic:
―We aren’t dealing with a fundamental economic issue any longer,‖ said James Paulsen, chief investment
strategist for Wells Capital Management. ―We are dealing with fear. And that doesn’t respond to economic
medicine.‖
―I think right now there are just some very powerful negative images that are alive in many people’s
minds—images of the Depression, images of people selling apples,‖ said George Loewenstein, a behavioral
economist at Carnegie Mellon University.
Some investors, like software engineer Sandeep Bhanote, did their best to keep their emotions in check:
―Fear is the most dangerous emotion. It can really do the market a lot of harm when maybe it is not
necessary to be afraid,‖
―When investors act purely on emotion, there is greater chance of them sabotaging their financial goals,‖
said Stuart Ritter, a certified financial planner at T. Rowe Price.
Source: http://www.usatoday.com/money/economy/2008-10-09-145686747_x.htm?csp=34.
Although a good part of our social behavior is determined by cognitive, thoughtful, and rational processes,
another part—and particularly those behaviors that have substantial impact on our health and
happiness—is the result of affect. Our everyday experiences arouse in us a wide range of moods and
emotions, both positive and negative, and these feelings have profound consequences for our lives.
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Emotions are particularly social, and that is why they are of such interest to social psychologists. Although
we may get angry at our computer, frustrated by our stock trading decisions, or be in love with our car,
most emotions have a social component (DeSteno & Salovey, 1996; Keltner & Haidt, 1999). [1]
We
experience love, anger, guilt, shame, jealousy, and embarrassment for a reason—because these emotions
help us develop and maintain positive relationships with others.
We share our emotions with others through our social behavior, including our facial expressions, touch,
voice, and posture, and even in our art, poetry, and music (Hertenstein, 2002; Oatley, 2003; Scherer,
Johnstone, & Klasmeyer, 2003). [2]
And emotions influence our social judgments (Howard & Gengler,
2001; Ramanathan & McGill, 2007). [3]
When we are subliminally exposed to a happy facial expression of
another person just before we see another stimulus, we perceive that stimulus more positively than we do
when angry facial expressions have been primed (Murphy & Zajonc, 1993; Winkielman, Berridge, &
Wilbarger, 2005). [4]
Viewing sad faces of other people makes music seem more sad (Strahan, Spencer, &
Zanna, 2002), [5]
, and viewing happy faces of others make us like TV shows more (Ravaja & Kallinen,
2004). [6]
When we are with another person who is smiling, we rate products more positively (Tanner,
Ferraro, Chartrand, Bettman, & Van Baaren, 2008). [7]
The goal of this chapter is to review the wide influence of affect on our social lives. We’ll see how we use
moods and emotions to help us understand our social worlds and how they relate to our current
happiness and well-being (our sense of satisfaction with our everyday experience). We’ll consider the
negative outcomes of powerful negative affective states, including anxiety, depression, and stress, but also
the healing power of positive emotions. And we will review some of the most effective ways to cope with
negative emotions in order to improve our everyday affect.
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Social functions of emotions at four levels of analysis. Cognition & Emotion, 13, 505–521.
[2] Oatley, K. (2003). Emotional expression and experience in the visual and narrative arts. In R. J. Davidson, K. R.
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Scherer, K. R., Johnstone, T., & Klasmeyer, G. (2003). Vocal expression of emotion. In R. J. Davidson, K. R. Scherer,
& H. Goldsmith (Eds.), Handbook of the affective sciences (pp. 433–456). New York, NY: Oxford University Press.
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Research, 28(2), 189–201; Ramanathan, S., & McGill, A. L. (2007). Consuming with others: Social influences on
moment-to-moment and retrospective evaluations of an experience. Journal of Consumer Research, 34(4), 506–
524.
[4] Murphy, S. T., & Zajonc, R. B. (1993). Affect, cognition, and awareness: Affective priming with optimal and
suboptimal stimulus exposures. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 64(5), 723–739; Winkielman, P.,
Berridge, K. C., & Wilbarger, J. L. (2005). Unconscious affective reactions to masked happy versus angry faces
influence consumption behavior and judgments of value. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 31(1), 121–
135.
[5] Strahan, E. J., Spencer, S. J., & Zanna, M. P. (2002). Subliminal priming and persuasion: Striking while the iron is
hot. Journal of Experimental Social Psychology, 38(6), 556–568.
[6] Ravaja, N., & Kallinen, K. (2004). Emotional effects of startling background music during reading news reports:
The moderating influence of dispositional BIS and BAS sensitivities.Scandinavian Journal of Psychology, 45(3), 231–
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consumption: The impact of mimicry on choice and preferences. Journal of Consumer Research, 34(6), 754–766.
3.1 Moods and Emotions in Our Social Lives L E A R N I N G O B J E C T I V E S
1. Describe the physiology of emotions, including the actions of the sympathetic nervous
system, the parasympathetic nervous system, and the amygdala.
2. Differentiate the basic and secondary emotions and explain their functions.
3. Review the known gender and cultural differences in the experience and expression of
emotion.
4. Summarize the function and outcomes of our mood states.
5. Describe the phenomenon of misattributing arousal and its impact on our emotions.
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Although affect can be harmful if it is unregulated or unchecked, our moods and emotions normally help
us function efficiently and in a way that increases our chances of survival (Bless, Bohner, Schwarz, &
Strack, 1990; Schwarz et al., 1991). [1]
The experience of disgust helps us stay healthy by helping us avoid
situations that are likely to carry disease (Oaten, Stevenson, & Case, 2009), [2]
, and the experience of
embarrassment helps us respond appropriately to situations in which we may have violated social norms.
Affect signals either that things are going OK (e.g., because we are in a good mood or are experiencing joy
or serenity) or that things are not going so well (we are in a bad mood, anxious, upset, or angry). When we
are happy, we may seek out and socialize with others; when we are angry, we may attack; and when we are
fearful, we are more likely to turn to safety. In short, our emotions help us to determine whether our
interactions with others are appropriate, to predict how others are going to respond to us, and to regulate
our behavior toward others.
The Physiology of Affect
Our emotions are determined in part by responses of the sympathetic nervous system (SNS)—the division
of the autonomic nervous system that is involved in preparing the body to respond to threats by
activating the organs and the glands in the endocrine system. The SNS works in opposition to
the parasympathetic nervous system (PNS), the division of the autonomic nervous system that is
involved in resting, digesting, relaxing, and recovering. When it is activated, the SNS provides us with
energy to respond to our environment. The liver puts extra sugar into the bloodstream, the heart pumps
more blood, our pupils dilate to help us see better, respiration increases, and we begin to perspire to cool
the body. The sympathetic nervous system also acts to release stress hormones
including epinephrine andnorepinephrine. At the same time, the action of the PNS is decreased.
We experience the activation of the SNS as arousal—changes in bodily sensations, including increased
blood pressure, heart rate, perspiration, and respiration.Arousal is the feeling that accompanies strong
emotions. I’m sure you can remember a time when you were in love, angry, afraid, or very sad and
experienced the arousal that accompanied the emotion. Perhaps you remember feeling flushed, feeling
your heart pounding, feeling sick to your stomach, or having trouble breathing.
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The arousal that we experience as part of our emotional experience is caused by the activation of
the sympathetic nervous system.
The experience of emotion is also controlled in part by one of the evolutionarily oldest parts of our brain —
the part known as the limbic system—which includes several brain structures that help us experience
emotion. Particularly important is the amygdala,the region in the limbic system that is primarily
responsible for regulating our perceptions of, and reactions to, aggression and fear. The amygdala has
connections to other bodily systems related to emotions, including the facial muscles, which perceive a nd
express emotions, and it also regulates the release of neurotransmitters related to stress and aggression
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(Best, 2009). [3]
When we experience events that are dangerous, the amygdala stimulates the brain to
remember the details of the situation so that we learn to avoid it in the future (Sigurdsson, Doyère, Cain,
& LeDoux, 2007; Whalen et al., 2001). [4]
The limbic system is a part of the brain that includes the amygdala. The amygdala is an important
regulator of emotions.
Basic and Secondary Emotions
The basic emotions (anger, contempt, disgust, fear, happiness, sadness, and surprise) are emotions that
are based primarily on the arousal produced by the SNS and that do not require much cognitive
processing. These emotions happen quickly, without the need for a lot of thought or interpretation.
Imagine, for instance, your fearful reaction to the sight of a car unexpectedly pulling out in front of you
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while you are driving, or your happiness in unexpectedly learning that you won an important prize. You
immediately experience arousal, and in the case of negative emotions, the arousal may signal that quick
action is needed.
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The Basic Emotions
Paul Ekman and his colleagues (Ekman, 1992; 2003) [5]
studied the expression and interpretation of the
basic emotions in a variety of cultures, including those that had had almost no outside contact (such as
Papua New Guinea). In his research, he showed people stimuli that would create a given emotion (such as
a dead pig on the ground to create disgust) and videotaped the people as they expressed the emotion they
would feel in that circumstance.
Ekman then asked people in other cultures to identify the emotions from the videotapes. He found that
the basic emotions were cross-cultural in the sense that they are expressed and experienced consistently
across many different cultures. A recent meta-analysis examined the perception of the basic emotions in
162 samples, with pictures and raters from many countries, including New Guinea, Malaysia, Germany,
and Ethiopia. The analysis found that in only 3% of these samples was even a single basic emotion
recognized at rates below chance (Elfenbein & Ambady, 2002). [6]
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Figure 3.1
The secondary emotions are derived from the basic emotions but are more cognitive in orientation
(Russell, 1980). [7]
In comparison to the basic emotions, other emotions, such as guilt, shame, and embarrassment, are
accompanied by relatively lower levels of arousal and relatively higher levels of cognitive activity. When a
close friend of yours wins a prize that you thought you had deserved, you might well feel depressed, angry,
resentful, and ashamed. You might mull over the event for weeks or even months, experiencing these
negative emotions each time you think about it (Martin & Tesser, 1996). [8]
In this case, although there is
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at least some arousal, your emotions are more highly determined by your persistent, and negative,
thoughts. As you can see in Figure 3.1, there are a large number of these secondary emotions—emotions
that provide us with more complex feelings about our social worlds and that are more cognitively based.
Cultural and Gender Differences in Emotional Responses
Although there are many similarities across cultures in how we experience emotions, there are also some
differences (Marsh, Elfenbein, & Ambady, 2003). [9]
In Japan, there is a tendency to hide emotions in
public, which makes them harder for others to perceive (Markus & Kitayama, 1991; Triandis,
1994). [10]
And as we would expect on the basis of cultural differences between individualism and
collectivism, emotions are more focused on other-concern in Eastern cultures, such as Japan and Turkey,
but relatively more focused on self-concern in Western cultures (Kitayama, Mesquita, & Karasawa, 2006;
Uchida, Kitayama, Mesquita, Reyes, & Morling, 2008). [11]
Ishii, Reyes, and Kitayama (2003) [12]
found
that Japanese students paid more attention to the emotional tone of voice of other speakers than did
American students, suggesting that the Japanese students were p articularly interested in determining the
emotions of others. Self-enhancing emotions such as pride and anger are more culturally appropriate
emotions to express in Western cultures, whereas other-oriented emotions such as friendliness and shame
are seen as more culturally appropriate in Eastern cultures. Similarly, Easterners experience more
positive emotions when they are with others, whereas Westerners are more likely to experience positive
emotions when they are alone and as a result of their personal a ccomplishments (Kitayama, Karasawa, &
Mesquita, 2004; Masuda & Kitayama, 2004). [13]
There are also gender differences in emotional experiences. Women report that they are more open to
feelings overall (Costa, Terracciano, & McCrae, 2001), [14]
are more likely to express their emotions in
public (Kring & Gordon, 1998), [15]
and are more accurate and articulate in reporting the feelings of others
(Barrett, Lane, Sechrest, & Schwartz, 2000). [16]
These differences show up particularly in terms of
emotions that involve social relationships. Kring and Gordon (1998) [17]
had male and female students
watch film clips that portrayed sadness, happiness, or fear and found that the women reacted more visibly
to each film. Coats and Feldman (1996) [18]
found that it is easier to read the emotions that women
express. Some of these observed gender differences in emotional experiences and expression are
biological in orientation, but they are also socialized through experience.
Moods Provide Information About Our Social Worlds
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One function of mood is to help us determine how we should evaluate our current situation. Positive
moods will likely lead us to maintain our current activities, which seem to be successful, whereas negative
moods suggest that we may wish to attempt to change things to improve our situation. And moods have
other influences on our cognition and behavior: Positive moods may lead us to think more creatively and
to be more flexible in how we respond to opinions that are inconsistent with cultural norms (Ashton-
James, Maddux, Galinsky, & Chartrand, 2009). [19]
Ito, Chiao, Devine, Lorig, and Cacioppo
(2006) [20]
found that people who were smiling were also less prejudiced.
Mood states are also powerful determinants of our current well-being. To study how people use mood
states as information to help them determine their current well-being, Norbert Schwarz and Gerald Clore
(1983) [21]
called participants on the telephone, pretending that they were researchers from a different city
conducting a survey. Furthermore, they varied the day on which they made the calls, such that some of the
participants were interviewed on sunny days and some were interviewed on rainy days. During the course
of the interview, the participants were asked to report on their current mood states and also on their
general well-being. Schwarz and Clore found that the participants reported better moods and greater well -
being on sunny days than they did on rainy days.
Schwarz and Clore wondered whether people were using their current mood (―I feel good today‖) to
determine how they felt about their life overall. To test this idea, they simply asked half of their
respondents about the local weather conditions at the beginning of the interview. The idea was to subtly
focus these participants on the fact that the weather might be influencing their mood states. And they
found that as soon as they did this, although mood states were still influenced by the weather, the weather
no longer influenced perceptions of well-being (Figure 3.2 "Mood as Information"). When the participants
were aware that their moods might have been influenced by the weather, they realized that the moods
were not informative about their overall well-being, and so they no longer used this information. Similar
effects have been found for mood that is induced by music or other sources (Keltner, Locke, & Audrain,
1993; Savitsky, Medvec, Charlton, & Gilovich, 1998). [22]
Figure 3.2 Mood as Information
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The current weather influences people’s judgments of their well being, but only when they are not
aware that it might be doing so. After Schwarz and Clore (1983). [23]
Even moods that are created very subtly can have effects on perceptions. Fritz Strack and his colleagues
(Strack, Martin, & Stepper, 1988) [24]
had participants rate how funny cartoons were while holding a
writing pen in their mouth such that it forced them either to use muscles that are associated with smiling
or to use muscles that are associated with frowning (Figure 3.3). They found that participants rated the
cartoons as funnier when the pen created muscle contractions that are normally used for smiling rather
than frowning. And Stepper and Strack (1993) [25]
found that people interpreted events more positively
when they were sitting in an upright position rather than a slumped position. Even finding a coin in a pay
phone or being offered some milk and cookies is enough to put people in good moods and to make them
rate their surroundings more positively (Clark & Isen, 1982; Isen & Levin, 1972; Isen, Shalker, Cl ark, &
Karp, 1978). [26]
These results show that our body positions, especially our facial expressions, influence our affect. We may
smile because we are happy, but we are also happy because we are smiling. And we may stand up straight
because we are feeling proud, but we also feel proud because we are standing up straight (Stepper, &
Strack, 1993). [28]
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Misattributing Arousal
Although arousal is necessary for emotion, it is not sufficient. Arousal becomes emotion only when it is
accompanied by a label or by an explanation for the arousal (Schachter & Singer, 1962). [29]
Thus, although
emotions are usually considered to be affective in nature, they really represent an excellent example of the
joint influence of affect and cognition. We can say, then, that emotions have two factors—an arousal
factor and a cognitive factor (James, 1890; Schachter & Singer, 1962). [30]
Emotion = arousal + cognition
In some cases, it may be difficult for people who are experiencing a high level of arousal to accurately
determine which emotion they are experiencing. That is, they may be certain that they are feeling arousal,
but the meaning of the arousal (the cognitive factor) may be less clear. Some romantic relationships, for
instance, are characterized by high levels of arousal, and the partners alternately experience extreme
highs and lows in the relationship. One day they are madly in love with each other, and the next they are
having a huge fight. In situations that are accompanied by high arousal, people may be unsure what
emotion they are experiencing. In the high-arousal relationship, for instance, the partners may be
uncertain whether the emotion they are feeling is love, hate, or both at the same time. Misattribution of
arousaloccurs when people incorrectly label the source of the arousal that they are experiencing.
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Figure 3.4 Misattributing Emotion
The results of an experiment by Schachter and Singer (1962) [31]
supported the two-factor theory of
emotion. The participants who did not have a clear label for their arousal were more likely to take
on the emotion of the confederate.
Research Focus
Misattributing Arousal
If you think a bit about your own experiences of different emotions, and if you consider the equation that
suggests that emotions are represented by both arousal and cognition, you might start to wonder how
much was determined by each. That is, do we know what emotion we are experiencing by monitoring our
feelings (arousal) or by monitoring our thoughts (cognition)?
Stanley Schachter and Jerome Singer (1962) [32]
addressed this question in a well-known social
psychological experiment. Schachter and Singer believed that the cognitive part of the emotion was
critical—in fact, they believed that the arousal that we are experiencing could be interpreted as any
emotion, provided we had the right label for it. Thus they hypothesized that if individuals are experiencing
arousal for which they have no immediate explanation, they will ―label‖ this state in terms of the
cognitions that are most accessible in the environment. On the other hand, they argued that people who
already have a clear label for their arousal would have no need to search for a relevant label and therefore
should not experience an emotion.
In the research experiment, the male participants were told that they would be participating in a study on
the effects of a new drug, called ―suproxin,‖ on vision. On the basis of this cover story, the men were
injected with a shot of epinephrine, a drug that produces physiological arousal. The idea was to gi ve all the
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participants arousal; epinephrine normally creates feelings of tremors, flushing, and accelerated
breathing in people.
Then, according to random assignment to conditions, the men were told that the drug would make them
feel certain ways. The men in the epinephrine-informed condition were told the truth about the effects of
the drug—they were told that other participants had experienced tremors and that their hands would start
to shake, their hearts would start to pound, and their faces might get warm and flushed. The participants
in the epinephrine-uninformed condition, however, were told something untrue—that their feet would
feel numb, that they would have an itching sensation over parts of their body, and that they might get a
slight headache. The idea was to make some of the men think that the arousal they were experiencing was
caused by the drug (the informed condition), whereas others would be unsure where the arousal came
from (the uninformed condition).
Then the men were left alone with a confederate who they thought had received the same injection. While
they were waiting for the experiment (which was supposedly about vision) to begin, the confederate
behaved in a wild and crazy (Schachter and Singer called it ―euphoric‖) manner. He wadded up spitballs,
flew paper airplanes, and played with a hula hoop. He kept trying to get the participants to join in his
games. Then right before the vision experiment was to begin, the participants were asked to indicate their
current emotional states on a number of scales. One of the emotions they were asked about was euphoria.
If you are following the story here, you will realize what was expected —that the men who had a label for
their arousal (the informed group) would not be experiencing much emotion—they had a label already
available for their arousal. The men in the misinformed group, on the other hand, were expected to be
unsure about the source of the arousal—they needed to find an explanation for their arousal, and the
confederate provided one. Indeed, as you can see in Figure 3.4 "Misattributing Emotion", this is just what
the researchers found.
Then Schachter and Singer did another part of the study, using new participants. Everything was exactly
the same except for the behavior of the confederate. Rather than being euphoric, he acted angry. He
complained about having to complete the questionnaire he had been asked to do, indicating that they
questions were stupid and too personal. He ended up tearing up the questionnaire that he was working
on, yelling, ―I don’t have to tell them that!‖ Then he grabbed his books and stormed out of the room.
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What do you think happened in this condition? The answer, of course, is, exactly the same thing —the
misinformed participants experienced more anger than did the informed participants. The idea is that
because cognitions are such strong determinants of emotional states, the same state of physiological
arousal could be labeled in many different ways, depending entirely on the label provided by the social
situation.
K E Y T A K E A W A Y S
A major part of our everyday experiences—particularly those behaviors that have
substantial impact on our health and happiness—is the result of affect. Affect helps us
engage in behaviors that are appropriate to our perceptions of a social situation.
Our emotions are determined in part by responses of the sympathetic nervous system
(SNS) and the limbic system (particularly the amygdala). The outcome of the activation
of the SNS is the experience of arousal.
The basic emotions of anger, contempt, disgust, fear, happiness, sadness, and surprise
are expressed and experienced consistently across many different cultures.
There are also a large number of secondary emotions, such as guilt, shame, and
embarrassment, that provide us with more complex feelings about our social worlds and
that are more cognitively based.
There are at least some differences in the experience of emotion between men and
women and across cultures.
We use our mood states as information to help us determine our current situation and
our well-being. Mood states influence information processing through their effects on
processing fluency.
In some cases, it may be difficult to accurately determine the source of the arousal we
are experiencing, and we may misattribute the arousal. E X E R C I S E S A N D C R I T I C A L T H I N K I N G
1. Describe a time when a particular secondary emotion had an important influence on
your life.
2. Consider a time when your behaviors or judgments were based more on affect than on
cognition. Were the outcomes positive or negative?
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3. Visit the website of Paul Ekman, who has extensively studied the facial expressions of
emotion (http://www.paulekman.com). Prepare a report explaining the outcomes of
some of his important research.
4. Have you ever misattributed an emotion? If so, what was the impact of doing so?
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& Kitayama, S. (2004). Perceiver-induced constraint and attitude attribution in Japan and the US: A case for the
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3.2 Emotions, Stress, and Well-Being L E A R N I N G O B J E C T I V E S
1. Review the determinants of stress in everyday life.
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2. Describe the general adaptation syndrome and how stress influences the HPA axis and
the release of hormones.
3. Review the negative outcomes of stress on health.
4. Explain how the social situation may influence our experiences of depression and
anxiety.
People generally feel positive, both about themselves and about the other people around them. In fact,
people in almost all nations, both men and women, and people of all ages report that they are satisfied —at
least above the neutral point—on ratings of well-being (Diener, Suh, Lucas, & Smith, 1999; Kahneman,
Diener, & Schwarz, 1999). [1]
Nevertheless, there many social situations that can create negative feelings,
and this negative affect can have a variety of negative outcomes on people’s experiences. In this section,
we will consider how negative events influence our affective states and how the negative affect we
experience can influence our health and happiness. We will also consider how we can use positive af fect to
cope with the potential negative events that we may experience.
Stress and the Immune System
Emotions matter because they influence our behavior. And there is no emotional experience that has a
more powerful influence on us than stress. Social psychologists define stress as the physical and
psychological reactions that occur whenever we believe that the demands of a situation threaten our
ability to respond to the threat(Lazarus, 2000; Lazarus & Folkman, 1984). [2]
We experience stress when
we find ourselves in situations where we are not sure how to respond or whether we are going to be able to
adequately cope.
People who have recently experienced negative situations—for example, being the victim of a terrorist
attack or a natural disaster, going through a divorce, or experiencing the death of a close loved one—
report experiencing stress. Survivors of Hurricane Katrina had a rate of heart attacks that was three times
higher than the national average in the years following the disaster, and this w as probably due to the
stress that the hurricane created (American Medical Association, 2009). [3]
And people in New York City
who lived nearer to the site of the 9/11 terrorist attacks reported experiencing more stress in the year
following it than those who lived farther away (Lampert, Baron, McPherson, & Lee, 2002; Pulcino et al.,
2003). [4]
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Extreme social situations, such as being the victim of a terrorist attack, a natural disaster, or a violent
crime, may produce an extreme form of stress known as post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), a medical
syndrome that includes symptoms of anxiety, sleeplessness, nightmares, and social withdrawal. The
syndrome is frequently experienced by soldiers who return home from wars; those who experience more
extreme events during a war also experience more severe PTSD.
Stress is accompanied by increases in arousal. When we experience stress, our heart rate, breathing, and
blood pressure increase, and our body begins to secrete adrenaline and other hormones. Perspiratio n
increases to cool down the body. In addition, sugar is released to provide energy, and the pupils dilate to
improve our vision. At the same time, the less immediately essential body activities controlled by the
parasympathetic nervous system (PNS), including digestion, are reduced in order to divert more energy to
allow the body to react to the threat.
The experience of stress likely had positive aspects for human beings in an evolutionary sense. When we
are attacked, afraid, or concerned about our welfare, the body signals us that we need to react, and the
stress response is one of those signals. But problems begin when a threat continues over time. When it is
extreme or prolonged, stress can create substantial negative mental and physical effects. In fac t, when
stress occurs for too long, it can lead to exhaustion and even death.
General Adaptation Syndrome
The physiologist Hans Seyle (1907–1982) studied stress by examining how rats responded to being
exposed to stressors such as extreme cold, infection, shock, and excessive exercise. Seyle found that
regardless of the source of the stress, the rats experienced the same series of physiological changes as they
suffered the prolonged stress. Seyle created the term general adaptation syndrome to refer to the three
distinct phases of physiological change that occur in response to long-term stress: alarm, resistance,
and exhaustion (Figure 3.5 "General Adaptation Syndrome").
Figure 3.5 General Adaptation Syndrome
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Hans Seyle’s research on the general adaptation syndrome documented the stages of prolonged
exposure to stress.
The experience of stress creates both an increase in general arousal in the sympathetic nervous system
(SNS) and another, even more complex, system of physiological changes through the HPA axis (Figure 3.6
"HPA Axis"). The HPA axis is a physiological response to stress involving interactions among the
hypothalamus, the pituitary gland, and the adrenal glands. The HPA response begins when the
hypothalamus secretes hormones that direct the pituitary gland to release the hormoneACTH. The ACTH
then directs the adrenal glands to secrete more hormones, including epinephrine, norepinephrine,
and cortisol, a stress hormone that releases sugars into the blood to help prepare the body to respond to
threat(Rodrigues, LeDoux, & Sapolsky, 2009). [5]
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Cortisol is frequently referred to as the ―stress hormone,‖ and it is commonly measured by researchers in
order to assess the activation of the HPA axis in response to stress. Cortisol is measured by taking a
sample of saliva, which is then analyzed to determine cortisol levels. Cortisol increases when people are
stressed, for instance, when they are in dancing competitions (Edelstein, Yim, & Quas, 2010), [6]
when they
are experiencing public shame (Rohleder, Chen, Wolf, & Miller, 2008), [7]
and (I’m sure you won’t be
surprised) when taking school exams (Preuss, Schoofs, Schlotz, & Wolf, 2010). [8]
Figure 3.6 HPA Axis
Stress activates the HPA axis. The result is the secretion of epinephrine, norepinephrine, and
cortisol.
The experience of prolonged stress has a direct negative influence on our physical health because at the
same time that stress increases activity in the SNS, it also suppresses important activity in the PNS. When
stress is long-term, the HPA axis remains active and the adrenals continue to produce cortisol. This
increased cortisol production exhausts the stress mechanism, leading to fatigue and depression.
The HPA reactions to persistent stress lead to a weakening of the immune system, making us m ore
susceptible to a variety of health problems, including colds and other diseases (Cohen & Herbert, 1996;
Faulkner & Smith, 2009; Miller, Chen, & Cole, 2009; Uchino, Smith, Holt -Lunstad, Campo, & Reblin,
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2007). [9]
Stress also damages our DNA, making us less likely to be able to repair wounds and respond to
the genetic mutations that cause disease (Epel et al., 2006). [10]
As a result, wounds heal more slowly when
we are under stress, and we are more likely to get cancer (Kiecolt-Glaser, McGuire, Robles, & Glaser,
2002; Wells, 2006). [11]
Sheldon Cohen and colleagues (Cohen et al., 1998) [12]
demonstrated experimentally that repeated
exposure to threats and stress can increase susceptibility to the common cold virus, revealing the causal
link between psychological stress and actual susceptibility to disease. To begin, the researchers had adult
volunteers fill out several questionnaires about the stressful experiences in their lives. Then the
researchers administered nose drops into each participant’s nose. The control group (the lucky ones!)
received a placebo saline solution; the experimental group received a solution containing a cold virus.
Over the next week, the participants were examined daily by a nurse. None of the control group
participants got a cold. But of those exposed to the cold virus, 82% did get a cold. Furthermore, within
this condition, those participants who reported enduring long-term stressors—particularly those who felt
that they were underemployed or who had enduring interpersonal difficulties with family or friends—were
significantly more likely to catch colds than those who had only short -term stress.
Chronic stress is also a major contributor to heart disease. Although heart disease is caused in part by
genetic factors, as well as by high blood pressure, high cholesterol, and cigarette smoking, it is also caused
by stress (Krantz & McCeney, 2002). [13]
Long-term stress creates two opposite effects on the coronary
system. Stress increases cardiac output (i.e., the heart pumps more blood ) at the same time that it reduces
the ability of the blood vessels to conduct blood through the arteries, as the increase in levels of cortisol
leads to a buildup of plaque on artery walls (Dekker et al., 2008). [14]
The combination of increased blood
flow and arterial constriction leads to increased blood pressure (hypertension), which can damage the
heart muscle, leading to heart attack and death.
Sources of Stress
The stressors for Seyle’s rats included electric shock and exposure to cold. Although these are probably
not on your top-10 list of most common stressors, the stress that we experience in our everyday social
interactions can also be taxing. Thomas Holmes and Richard Rahe (1967) [15]
developed a measure of some
everyday life events that might lead to stress, and you can assess your own likely stress level by completing
the measure in Table 3.1 "The Holmes and Rahe Stress Scale" and calculating your stress level by looking
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at Table 3.2 "Interpretation of the Holmes and Rahe Stress Scale". You might want to pay particular
attention to this score because it can predict the likelihood that you will get sick. Rahe and his colleagues
(Rahe, Mahan, Arthur, & Gunderson, 1970) [16]
asked 2,500 members of the military to complete the
rating scale and then assessed the health records of the soldiers over the following 6 months. The results
were clear: The higher the scale score, the more likely the soldier was to end up in the hospital.
Table 3.1 The Holmes and Rahe Stress Scale
Life Event Score
Death of spouse 100
Divorce 73
Marital separation from mate 65
Detention in jail, other institution 63
Death of a close family member 63
Major personal injury or illness 53
Marriage 50
Retirement 45
Major change in the health or behavior of a family member 44
Pregnancy 40
Sexual difficulties 39
Gaining a new family member (e.g., through birth, adoption, oldster moving) 39
Major business readjustment (e.g., merger reorganization, bankruptcy) 39
Major change in financial status 38
Death of close friend 37
Change to different line of work 36
Major change in the number of arguments with spouse 35
Taking out a mortgage or loan for a major purchase 31
Foreclosure on a mortgage or loan 30
Major change in responsibilities at work 29
Son or daughter leaving home (e.g., marriage, attending college) 29
Trouble with in-laws 29
Outstanding personal achievement 28
Spouse beginning or ceasing to work outside the home 26
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Life Event Score
Beginning or ceasing formal schooling 26
Major change in living conditions 25
Revision of personal habits (dress, manners, associations, etc.) 24
Trouble with boss 23
Major change in working hours or conditions 20
Change in residence 20
Change to a new school 20
Major change in usual type and/or amount of recreation 19
Major change in church activities (a lot more or less than usual) 19
Major change in social activities (clubs, dancing, movies, visiting) 18
Taking out a mortgage or loan for a lesser purchase (e.g., for a car, television, freezer) 17
Major change in sleeping habits 16
Major change in the number of family get-togethers 15
Major change in eating habits 15
Vacation 13
Christmas season 12
Minor violations of the law (e.g., traffic tickets) 11
Total ______
Note. You can calculate your score on this scale by adding the total points across each of the events that you have experienced over the past year. Then use Table 3.2 "Interpretation of the
Holmes and Rahe Stress Scale" to determine your likelihood of getting ill.
Table 3.2 Interpretation of the Holmes and Rahe Stress Scale
Number of Life-Changing Units Chance of Developing a Stress-Related Illness (%)
Less than 150 30
150–300 50
More than 300 80
Although some of the items on the Holmes and Rahe scale are major, you can see that even minor
stressors add to the total score. Our everyday interactions with the environment that are essentially
negative, known as daily hassles, can also create stress, as well as poorer health outcomes (Hutchinson &
Williams, 2007). [17]
Events that may seem rather trivial altogether, such as having an argument with a
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friend or getting cut off by another car in rush-hour traffic, can produce stress (Fiksenbaum, Greenglass,
& Eaton, 2006). [18]
Glaser (1985) [19]
found that medical students who were tested during, rather than
several weeks before, their school examination periods showed lower immune system functioning. Other
research has found that even more minor stressors, such as having to do math problems during an
experimental session, can compromise the immune system (Cacioppo et al., 1998). [20]
Responses to Stress
Not all people experience and respond to stress in the same way, and these differences can be important.
The cardiologists Meyer Friedman and R. H. Rosenman (1974) [21]
were among the first to study the link
between stress and heart disease. In their research, they noticed that even though the partners in married
couples often had similar lifestyles, diet, and exercise patterns, the husbands nevertheless generally had
more heart disease than did the wives. As they tried to explain the difference, they focused on the
personality characteristics of the partners, finding that the husbands were more likely than the wives to
respond to stressors with negative emotions and hostility.
Recent research has shown that the strongest predictor of a physiological stress response from daily
hassles is the amount of negative emotion that they evoke. People who experience strong negative
emotions as a result of everyday hassles and who respond to stress with hostility experience more negative
health outcomes than do those who react in a less negative way (McIntyre, Korn, & Matsuo, 2008; Suls &
Bunde, 2005). [22]
Williams and his colleagues (2001) [23]
found that people who scored high on measures of
anger were three times more likely to suffer from heart attacks in comparison with those who scored
lower on anger.
On average, men are more likely than are women to respond to stress by activating thefight-or-flight
response, which is an emotional and behavioral reaction to stress that increases the readiness for action.
The arousal that men experience when they are stressed leads them to either go on the attack, in an
aggressive or revenging way, or else retreat as quickly as they can to safety from the stressor. The fight -or-
flight response allows men to control the source of the stress if they think they can do so, or if that is not
possible, it allows them to save face by leaving the situation. The fight -or-flight response is triggered in
men by the activation of the HPA axis.
Women, on the other hand, are less likely to take a fight-or-flight response to stress. Rather, they are more
likely to take a tend-and-befriend response (Taylor et al., 2000). [24]
The tend-and-befriend response is a
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behavioral reaction to stress that involves activities designed to create social networks that provide
protection from threats. This approach is also self-protective because it allows the individual to talk to
others about her concerns as well as to exchange resources, such as child care. The tend -and-befriend
response is triggered in women by the release of the hormoneoxytocin, which promotes affiliation.
Overall, the tend-and-befriend response is healthier than the flight-or-flight response because it does not
produce the elevated levels of arousal related to the HPA, including the negative results that accompany
increased levels of cortisol. This may help explain why women, on average, have less heart disease and live
longer than men.
The experience of long-term stress—and its potential negative impact on our physical and mental health—
represents one example of the powerful influence of the social situation in our everyday lives. These
findings represent social psychological principles in action: Our affect, cognition, and behavior are
influenced in profound ways by the events that occur to us, and particularly by the people around us.
Furthermore, the observed gender differences in response to stress demonstrate another example of the
operation of the basic principles of social psychology: Men usually respond to stress by focusing on self-
concern (fight or flight) whereas women are more likely to respond by focusing on other-concern (tend-
and-befriend).
Depression and Anxiety
Unfortunately, stress is not the only negative health consequence that can be caused by our social
interactions. Depression is an affective disorder in which people experience sadness, low self-esteem,
negative thoughts, pessimism, and apathy. Physical symptoms, such as loss of appetite and insomnia,
may also accompany depression. Almost 3% of the U.S. population—that is, over 7 million people—
experience a major depressive event every year, and the incidence is somewhat greater for women than for
men (Kessler, McGonagle, Nelson, & Hughes, 1994). [25]
And many, many more people suffer from milder,
but also harmful, forms of depression. Minor depression—the everyday negative mood or ―blues‖ that
most of us experience—is a part of everyday life for many people. It is no surprise that depression has
been termed ―the common cold of mental illness.‖
Still another mental health outcome that relates to social behavior is anxiety—a psychological disorder
that may be accompanied by a number of physical symptoms, including diarrhea, upset stomach,
sweaty hands, shortness of breath, poor concentration, and general agitation. As with depression,
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anxiety may be severe in some cases for some people, but it can also occur in more subtle, minor, and yet
nevertheless troubling forms for many people.
Anxiety and depression have many causes. These syndromes are partially genetically inherited and are
also determined in part by body chemicals including hormones and neurotransmitters. Nevertheless,
depression and anxiety are also largely socially determined, and social psychologists naturally focus on
these aspects. To a social psychologist, depression and anxiety are maladies that are caused by our
everyday social lives and that can be understood and treated—at least in part—in a social sense.
Depression and anxiety are caused at least partly by the lack of adequate social interactions. Almost half
of Americans describe themselves as being shy. Shy people frequently find it difficult to make friends
because they evaluate themselves negatively and feel that they cannot succeed in social encounters (Cheek
& Melchior, 1990). [26]
Extremely shy people may become lonely, and loneliness is a risk factor for a large
range of physical and mental health problems, including depression and anxiety (Cacioppo, Hawley, &
Berston, 2003; Christensen & Kashy, 1998). [27]
Depressed people frequently tend to avoid social
interactions altogether, whereas shy, anxious people tend to become uncomfortable in public and may
overestimate how much people are focusing on them. On the other hand, people who are more
extroverted (i.e., who enjoy making friends and being in social situations) are less depressed and have
fewer health problems (Diener, Suh, Lucas, & Smith, 1999). [28]
Depression and anxiety are determined both by how we feel about our own performance and by our social
interactions with others. We are more likely to feel good about ourselves when we perceive that we have
adequate social interactions and that we are accepted and cared for by others—but we are more likely to
feel poorly about ourselves when we perceive that we are not measuring up to the goals and standards that
others find important. When we feel that there are discrepancies between our goals and the actual
conditions in our lives, we feel more emotion (Carver & Scheier, 1981). [29]
Tory Higgins and his colleagues (Higgins, Bond, Klein, & Strauman, 1986; Strauman & Higgins,
1988) [30]
have proposed that the types of emotional distress we experience are determined by both our
perceptions of how well our own behaviors meet the standards and goals we have provided ourselves (our
internal standards) and our perceptions of how others think about us (our external standards). Higgins
found in his research that people were more likely to experience sadness, dissatisfaction, and other
depression-related emotions when they indicated that their current perception of themselves (the actual
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self-concept) was discrepant with their hopes and goals (the ideal self -concept). But people were more
likely to experience fear, worry, tension, and other anxiety-related emotions when they felt that the actual
self-concept was discrepant with their beliefs about important standards regarding duty and obligations
(the ought self-concept).
Higgins also found in his research that the same negative emotions resulted when there were
discrepancies between the actual self-concept and the ideal self-concept or the ought self-concept
provided by other important people, such as parents and friends. That is, the participants felt bad about
themselves when they did not meet the goals that other people thought were important (the external
standards), just as they felt bad about not meeting their own goals (the internal standards). You might not
care that much yourself about achieving in school or meeting your family obligations, but your failure to
meet these goals may still produce negative emotions because you realize that your parents do think it is
important. Again, the importance of the social situation in creating emotional experience is clear.
As you can see in Figure 3.7 "The Self-Fulfilling Nature of Anxiety and Depression", still another social
aspect of anxiety and depression is that they are contagious and self -fulfilling. When we are depressed or
anxious, these feelings show up in our behavior. Other people then see our negative states, a nd they are
likely to respond to us negatively. These responses make it more difficult for us to do well in school and at
work and lead to negative outcomes. For instance, people who are depressed or anxious are more likely to
be divorced and fired from their jobs and are less fun to be around (Coyne & Downey, 1991). [31]
And these
negative outcomes naturally create even more negative cognitions and more negative affect, which in turn
make us feel even worse about ourselves.
Figure 3.7 The Self-Fulfilling Nature of Anxiety and Depression
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Given the social determinants of depression and anxiety, it will probably not surprise you to hear that one
of the more important approaches to reducing anxiety and depression is to attempt to change our social
cognitions and to help us improve our social interactions with others. Many current psychological
therapies used to help alleviate depression and anxiety are designed to change the thought processes and
the social interactions of individuals with psychological difficulties (Ellis, 2004; Beck, Freeman, & Davis,
2004). [32]
K E Y T A K E A W A Y S
Although most people generally experience a sense of everyday well -being, negative
affect, particularly stress, can disrupt these feelings.
The experience of prolonged stress creates an increase in general arousal in the SNS and
physiological changes through the HPA axis.
People who have recently experienced extreme negative situations experience stress,
but everyday minor hassles can also create stress.
Not all people experience and respond to stress in the same way, and these differences
can be important. One difference in response is between the fight -or-flight response and
the tend-and-befriend response.
Depression and anxiety are largely socially determined, through a lack of adequate social
interactions and the inability to meet standards imposed by others. E X E R C I S E S A N D C R I T I C A L T H I N K I N G
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1. Describe a time when you experienced stress. Did you know you were experiencing it?
What emotional and physiological changes did you experience?
2. What advice would you give someone who is experiencing stress that might help them
better cope with it?
3. Give an example of a time when you or someone you know experienced depression or
anxiety that was caused or amplified by his or her social situatio n.
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3.3 How to Feel Better: Coping With Negative Emotions L E A R N I N G O B J E C T I V E S
1. Review the behaviors that are effective and those that are not in helping us cope with
negative emotions.
2. Explain the principles and positive outcomes of self-regulation.
3. Describe how positive emotions are related to health and happiness.
4. Review theory and research regarding the influence of social support on health and well -
being.
5. Describe how people overestimate the influence of material wealth on their well -being.
No matter how healthy and happy we are in our everyday lives, there are going to be times when we
experience stress, depression, and anxiety. Some of these experiences will be major and some will be
minor, and some of us will experience these emotions more than others. S ometimes these feelings will be
the result of clear difficulties that pose direct threats to us: We or those we care about may be ill or
injured; we may lose our job or have academic difficulties. At other times, these feelings may seem to
develop for no apparent reason.
Although it is not possible to prevent the experience of negative emotions entirely (in fact, given their
importance in helping us understand and respond to threats, we would not really want to if we could), we
can nevertheless learn to respond to and cope with them in the most productive possible ways. We do not
need to throw up our hands in despair when things go wrong—rather, we can bring our personal and
social resources to bear to help us. We have at our disposal many techniques that we can use to help us
deal with negative emotions.
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What Doesn’t Work: Distorting and Suppressing Negative Outcomes
Perhaps the most common approach to dealing with negative affect is to attempt to suppress, avoid, or
deny it. You probably know people who seem to you to be stressed, depressed, or anxious but who cannot
or will not see it in themselves. Perhaps you tried to talk to them about it, to get them to open up to you,
but were rebuffed. They seem to act as if there is no problem at all, simply moving on with life without
admitting or even trying to deal with the negative feelings. Or perhaps you have taken a similar approach
yourself: Have you ever had an important test to study for or an important job interview coming up, and
rather than planning and preparing for it, you simply tried put it out of your mind entirely?
Research has found that there are clear difficulties with an approach to negative events and feelings that
involves simply trying to ignore them. For one, ignoring our problems does not make them go away. Not
being able to get our work done because we are depressed, being too anxious to develop good
relationships with others, or experiencing so much stress that we get sick will be detrimental to our life
even if we cannot admit that it is occurring.
Suppressing our emotions is also not a very good option, at least in the long run, because it tends to fail
(Gross & Levenson, 1997). [1]
If we know that we have a big exam coming up, we have to focus on the exam
itself in order to suppress it. We can’t really suppress or deny our thoughts because we actually have to
recall and face the event in order to make the attempt to not think about it. Furthermore, we may
continually worry that our attempts to suppress will fail. Suppressing our emotions might work out for a
short while, but when we run out of energy, the negative emotions may shoot back up into consciousness,
causing us to reexperience the negative feelings that we had been trying to avoid.
Daniel Wegner and his colleagues (Wegner, Schneider, Carter, & White, 1987) [2]
directly tested whether
people would be able to effectively suppress a simple thought. They asked participants in a study to not
think about a white bear for 5 minutes but to ring a bell in case they did. (Try it yourself —can you do it?)
The participants were unable to suppress the thought as instructed —the white bear kept popping into
mind, even when they were instructed to avoid thinking about it. You might have had a similar experience
when you were dieting or staying home to study—the chocolate bar in the kitchen cabinet or the fun time
you were missing by staying home kept popping into mind, disrupting your work.
Another poor approach to attempting to escape from our problems is to engage in behaviors designed to
distract us from them. Sometimes this approach will be successful in the short term—we might try
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distracting ourselves from our troubles by going for a run, watching TV, or reading a book, and perhaps
this might be useful. But sometimes people go to extremes to a void self-awareness when it might be better
that they face their troubles directly. If we experience discrepancies between our ideal selves and our
important self-concepts, if we feel that we cannot ever live up to our or others’ expectations for us, or if we
are just really depressed or anxious, we may attempt to escape ourselves entirely. Roy Baumeister
(1991) [3]
has speculated that maladaptive behaviors such as drug abuse, sexual masochism, spiritual
ecstasy, binge eating, and even suicide are all mechanisms by which people may attempt to escape the self.
Not only does research show that attempting to suppress our negative thoughts does not work, there is
even evidence that the opposite is true—that when we are faced with troubles, it is healthy to let the
negative thoughts and feelings out by expressing them, either to ourselves or to others. James Pennebaker
and his colleagues (Pennebaker, Colder, & Sharp, 1990; Watson & Pennebaker, 1989) [4]
have conducted
many correlational and experimental studies that demonstrate the advantages to our mental and physical
health of opening up versus bottling our feelings. This research team has found that simply talking about
or writing about our emotions or our reactions to negative events provides substantial health benefits.
Pennebaker and Beall (1986) [5]
randomly assigned students to write about either the most traumatic and
stressful event of their lives or to write about a trivial topic. Although the students who wrote about the
traumas had higher blood pressure and more negative moods immediately after they wrote their essays,
they were also less likely to visit the student health center for illnesses during the following 6 months in
comparison to those who wrote about more minor issues. Something positive evidently occurred as a
result of confronting their negative experiences. Other research studied individuals whose spouses had
died in the previous year, finding that the more they talked about the death with others, the less likely
they were to become ill during the subsequent year. Daily writing about one’s emotional states has also
been found to increase immune system functioning (Petrie, Fontanilla, Thomas, Booth, & Pennebaker,
2004), [6]
and Uysal and Lu (2011) [7]
found that self-expression was associated with experiencing less
physical pain.
Opening up probably helps in various ways. For one, expressing our problems allows us to gain
information from others and may also bring support from them. And writing or thinking about one’s
experiences also seems to help people make sense of the events and may give them a feeling of control
over their lives (Pennebaker & Stone, 2004). [8]
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A Better Approach: Self-Regulation
As we have seen, emotions are useful in warning us about potential danger and in helping us to make
judgments quickly, so it is a good thing that we have them. However, we also need to learn how to control
our emotions, to prevent our emotions from letting our behavior get out of control. The process of setting
goals and using our cognitive and affective capacities to reach those goals is known as self-regulation,
and a good part of self-regulation involves regulating our emotions.
To be the best people that we possibly can, we have to work hard at it. Succeeding at school, at work, and
at our relationships with others takes a lot of effort. When we are successful at self -regulation, we are able
to move toward or meet the goals that we set for ourselves. When we fail at self -regulation, we are not able
to meet those goals. People who are better able to regulate their behaviors and emotions are more
successful in their personal and social encounters (Eisenberg & Fabes, 1992), [9]
and thus self-regulation is
a skill we should seek to master.
Being able to exert self-control has some important positive outcomes. Consider, for instance, research by
Walter Mischel and his colleagues (Mischel, Shoda, & Rodriguez, 1989). [10]
In their studies, they had 4-
and 5-year-old children sit at a table in front of a yummy snack, such as a chocolate chip cookie or a
marshmallow. The children were told that they could eat the snack right away if they wanted to. However,
they were also told that if they could wait for just a couple of minutes, they’d be able to have two snacks —
both the one in front of them and another just like it. However, if they ate the one that was in front of
them before the time was up, they would not get a second.
Mischel found that some children were able to self -regulate—they were able to override the impulse to
seek immediate gratification in order to obtain a greater reward at a later time. Other children, of course,
were not—they just ate the first snack right away. Furthermore, the inability to delay gratification seemed
to occur in a spontaneous and emotional manner, without much thought. Th e children who could not
resist simply grabbed the cookie because it looked so yummy, without being able to cognitively stop
themselves (Metcalfe & Mischel, 1999; Strack & Deutsch, 2007). [11]
It turns out that these emotional
responses are determined in part by particular brain patterns that are influenced by body chemicals. For
instance, preferences for small immediate rewards over large later rewards have been linked to low levels
of the neurotransmitter serotonin in animals (Bizot, Le Bihan, Peuch, Hamon, & Thiebot, 1999; Wilkinson
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& Robbins, 2004), [12]
and low levels of serotonin are tied to violence, impulsiveness, and even suicide
(Asberg, Traskman, & Thoren, 1976). [13]
The ability to self-regulate in childhood has important consequences later in life. When Mischel followed
up on the children in his original study, he found that those who had been able to self -regulate as children
grew up to have some highly positive characteristics—they got better SAT scores, were rated by their
friends as more socially adept, and were found to cope with frustration and stress better than those
children who could not resist the tempting first cookie at a young age. Effective self -regulation is therefore
an important key to success in life (Ayduk et al., 2000; Eigsti et al., 2006; Mischel, Ayduk, & Mendoza-
Denton, 2003). [14]
Research Focus
Emotion Regulation Takes Effort
Self-regulation is particularly difficult when we are tired, depressed, or anxious, and it is under these
conditions that we more easily lose our self-control and fail to live up to our goals (Muraven &
Baumeister, 2000). [15]
If you are tired and worried about an upcoming exam, you may find yourself
getting angry and taking it out on your roommate, even though she really hasn’t done anything to deserve
it and you don’t really want to be angry at her. It is no secret that we are more likely to fail at our diets
when we are under a lot of stress or at night when we are tired.
Muraven, Tice, and Baumeister (1998) [16]
conducted a study to demonstrate that emotion regulation—
that is, either increasing or decreasing our emotional responses—takes work. They speculated that self-
control was like a muscle—it just gets tired when it is used too much. In their experiment, they asked their
participants to watch a short movie about environmental disasters involving radioactive waste and their
negative effects on wildlife. The scenes included sick and dying animals, which were very upsetting.
According to random assignment to conditions, one group (the increase-emotional-response condition)
was told to really get into the movie and to express emotions in response to it, a second group was to hold
back and decrease emotional responses (the decrease-emotional-response condition), and a third
(control) group received no instructions on emotion regulation.
Both before and after the movie, the experimenter asked the participants to engage in a measure of
physical strength by squeezing as hard as they could on a hand-grip exerciser, a device used for building
up hand muscles. The experimenter put a piece of paper in the grip and timed how long the participants
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could hold the grip together before the paper fell out. The following table shows the results of this study. It
seems that emotion regulation does indeed take effort because the participants who had been asked to
control their emotions showed significantly less ability to squeeze the hand grip after the movie than
before. Thus the effort to regulate emotional responses seems to have consumed resources, leaving the
participants less capacity to make use of in performing the hand-grip task.
Table 3.3 Self-Control Takes Effort
Condition Handgrip strength before
movie Handgrip strength after
movie Change
Increase emotional response 78.73 54.63 –25.1
No emotional control 60.09 58.52 –1.57
Decrease emotional response 70.74 52.25 –18.49
Participants who had been required to either express or refrain from expressing their emotions had less strength to squeeze a hand grip after doing so. Data are from Muraven et al. (1998). [17]
In other studies, people who had to resist the temptation to eat chocolates and cookies, who made
important decisions, or who were forced to conform to others all performed more poorly on subsequent
tasks that took energy in comparison to people who had not been emotionally taxed. After controlling
their emotions, they gave up on subsequent tasks sooner and failed to resist new temptations (Vohs &
Heatherton, 2000). [18]
Can we improve our emotion regulation? It turns out that training in self -regulation—just like physical
training—can help. Students who practiced doing difficult tasks, such as exercising, avoiding swearing, or
maintaining good posture, were later found to perform better in laboratory tests of self -regulation
(Baumeister, Gailliot, DeWall, & Oaten, 2006; Baumeister, Schmeichel, & Vohs, 2007; Oaten & Cheng,
2006), [19]
such as maintaining a diet or completing a puzzle. And we are also stronger when we are in
good moods—people who had watched a funny video clip were better at subsequent self-regulation tasks
(Tice, Baumeister, Shmueli, & Muraven, 2007). [20]
The Power of Positive Emotions
Although stress is an emotional response that can kill us, other emotions can help us cope with and
protect ourselves from stress. The stress of the Monday through Friday grind can be offset by the fun that
we can have on the weekend, and the concerns that we have about our upcoming chemistry exam can be
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offset by a positive attitude toward school, life, and other people. Put simply, the best antidote for stress is
a happy one: Think positively, have fun, and enjoy the company of others.
You have probably heard about ―the power of positive thinking‖—the idea that thinking positively helps
people meet their goals and keeps them healthy, happy, and able to effectively cope with the negative
events that they experience. It turns out that positive thinking really works. People who think positively
about their future, who believe that they can control their outcomes, and who are willing to open up and
share with others are healthier people (Seligman & Csikszentmihalyi, 2000). [21]
The power of positive thinking comes in different forms, but they are all helpful. Some researchers have
focused on optimism, a general tendency to expect positive outcomes, and have found that optimists are
happier and have less stress (Carver & Scheier, 2009). [22]
Others have focused on self-efficacy, the belief in
our ability to carry out actions that produce desired outcomes. People with high self-efficacy respond to
environmental and other threats in an active, constructive way—by getting information, talking to friends,
and attempting to face and reduce the difficulties they are experiencing. These people, too, are better able
to ward off their stresses in comparison with people with less self-efficacy (Thompson, 2009). [23]
Self-
efficacy helps in part because it leads us to perceive that we can control the potential stressors that may
affect us. Workers who have control over their work environment (e.g., by being able to move fu rniture
and control distractions) experience less stress, as do patients in nursing homes who are able to choose
their everyday activities (Rodin, 1986). [24]
Glass, Reim, and Singer (1971) [25]
found in a study that
participants who believed they could stop a loud noise experienced less stress than those who did not
think they could, even though the people who had the option never actually used it. The ability to control
our outcomes may help explain why animals and people who have higher social status l ive longer
(Sapolsky, 2005). [26]
Suzanne Kobasa and her colleagues (Kobasa, Maddi, & Kahn, 1982) [27]
have argued that the tendency to
be less affected by life’s stressors can be characterized as an individual-difference measure that has a
relationship to both optimism and self-efficacy—a measure known as hardiness. Hardy individuals are
those who are more positive overall about potentially stressful life events, who take more direct action to
understand the causes of negative events, and who attempt to learn from them what may be of value for
the future. Hardy individuals use effective coping strategies, and they take better care of themselves.
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Taken together, these various coping skills, including optimism, self -efficacy, perceived control, and
hardiness, have been shown to have a wide variety of positive effects on our health. Optimists make faster
recoveries from illnesses and surgeries (Carver et al., 2005). [28]
People with high self-efficacy have been
found to be better able to quit smoking and lose w eight and are more likely to exercise regularly (Cohen &
Pressman, 2006). [29]
And hardy individuals seem to cope better with stress and other negative life events
(Dolbier, Smith, & Steinhardt, 2007). [30]
The positive effects of positive thinking are particularly
important when stress is high. Baker (2007) [31]
found that in periods of low stress, positive thinking made
little difference in responses to stress, but that during stressful periods, optimists were less likely to smoke
on a day-to-day basis and to respond to stress in more productive ways, such as by exercising.
It is possible to learn to think more positively, and doing so can be beneficial. Antoni et al.
(2001) [32]
found that pessimistic cancer patients who were given training in optimism rep orted more
optimistic outlooks after the training and were less fatigued after their treatments. And Maddi, Kahn, and
Maddi (1998) [33]
found that a program of ―hardiness training‖ that included focusing on ways to
effectively cope with stress was effective in increasing satisfaction and decreasing self-reported stress.
The benefits of taking positive approaches to stress can last a lifetime. Christopher Peterson and his
colleagues (Peterson, Seligman, Yurko, Martin, & Friedman, 1998) [34]
found that the level of optimism
reported by people who had first been interviewed when they were in college during the years between
1936 and 1940 predicted their health over the next 50 years. Students who had a more positive outlook on
life in college were less likely to have died up to 50 years later of all causes, and they were particularly
likely to have experienced fewer accidental and violent deaths, in comparison with students who were less
optimistic. Similar findings were found for older adults. After controlling for loneliness, marital status,
economic status, and other correlates of health, Levy and Myers found that older adults with positive
attitudes and higher self-efficacy had better health and lived on average almost 8 years longer than their
more negative peers (Levy & Myers, 2005; Levy, Slade, & Kasl, 2002). [35]
And Diener, Nickerson, Lucas,
and Sandvik (2002) [36]
found that people who had cheerier dispositions earlier in life had higher income
levels and less unemployment when they were assessed 19 years later.
Finding Satisfaction Through Our Connections With Others
Well-being is determined in part by genetic factors, such that some people are naturally happier than
others (Braungart, Plomin, DeFries, & Fulker, 1992; Lykken, 2000), [37]
but also in part by the situations
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that we create for ourselves. Psychologists have studied hundreds of variables that influence happiness,
but there is one that is by far the most important, and it is one that is particularly social psychological in
nature: People who report that they have positive social relationships with others—the perception
of social support—also report being happier than those who report having less social support (Diener,
Suh, Lucas, & Smith, 1999; Diener, Tamir, & Scollon, 2006). [38]
Married people report being happier than
unmarried people (Pew, 2006), [39]
and people who are connected with and accepted by others suffer less
depression, higher self-esteem, and less social anxiety and jealousy than those who feel more isolated and
rejected (Leary, 1990). [40]
Social support also helps us better cope with stressors. Koopman, Hermanson, Diamond, Angell, and
Spiegel (1998) [41]
found that women who reported higher social support experienced less depression when
adjusting to a diagnosis of cancer, and Ashton et al. (2005) [42]
found a similar buffering effect of social
support for AIDS patients. People with social support are less depressed overall, recover faster from
negative events, and are less likely to commit suicide (Au, Lau, & Lee, 2009; Bertera, 2007; Compton,
Thompson, & Kaslow, 2005; Skärsäter, Langius, Ågren, Häagström, & Dencker, 2005). [43]
Research Focus
Cultural Differences in Seeking Social Support
Social support buffers us against stress both directly and emotionally. The direct effects of social support
occur, for instance, when one person helps another to better understand and determine how to deal with a
stressor or when the other provides direct help or financial assistance. On the other hand, the emotional
effects of social support occur simply because we know that others are available if we might need them.
Gençöz and Özlale (2004) [44]
found that students with more friends felt less stress and reported that their
friends helped them, but they also reported that just having friends ma de them feel better about
themselves.
In some cases, emotional support may be more effective than direct support, in part because the actual
seeking of support may itself serve as an additional cause of stress. Asking for help may reduce our own
self-esteem and may be seen as unfair to the other (Bolger, Zuckerman, & Kessler 2000; Wethington &
Kessler, 1986). [45]
We have seen that, on average, Westerners tend to view people as independent and separate from others,
whereas Easterners tend to view people as fundamentally connected with others. This difference might
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lead to the prediction that using others for direct social support would be especially common among
Easterners, who focus primarily on other-concern. But asking for social support from others to solve one’s
problems may be a particularly Western approach. In Eastern cultures, asking others for help in solving
one’s personal problems may be seen as too self-concerned and as making inappropriate demands on the
others (Kim, Sherman, & Taylor, 2008). [46]
To test this idea, Shelley Taylor and her colleagues (Taylor et al., 2004) [47]
compared the use of different
coping strategies between Korean college students (studying in Seoul, South Korea) and American college
students (studying in California). In the first study, the students were all asked the same question—―What
are the kind of things you do to relieve stress?‖—and the answers were coded into different categories. As
you can see in the following table, the American students were significantly more likely to rely on exercise
to reduce stress and were also significantly more likely to report using social support. No other coping
approaches differed significantly between cultures.
Table 3.4 Percentage of Students Using Stress-Coping Strategies
Coping Strategy American Students
(%) Korean Students
(%)
Social support (e.g., talking with others, being with friends) 57.1 39.3
Exercise 42.9 23.2
Entertainment (e.g., going to a movie) 51.8 50.9
Self-care (e.g., eating, relaxing) 44.6 40.0
Organizing (e.g., cleaning) 10.7 10.9
To assess the reasons for these differences, Taylor and her colleagues then asked a second sample of
Korean and American students to indicate, for each of the concerns show in Table 3.5 "Cultural
Differences in Perceptions About Social Support", ―How important would each of the following concerns
be for you in deciding whether or not to seek or use social support or help from others in dealing with a
stressor?‖
As you can see in the following table, compared with American students, Korean students were
significantly more likely to report that seeking social support would disrupt group harmony, make one’s
problems worse, elicit criticism, and cause one to lose face.
Table 3.5 Cultural Differences in Perceptions About Social Support
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American students Korean students
Asking for help would…
Decrease group harmony 2.05 2.65
Make my problems worse 1.88 2.26
Lead others to criticize me 1.82 2.29
Lead me to lose face with others 2.03 2.51
Although these results may seem counterintuitive to you, they do make sense given our understanding of
the differences between people from Eastern and Western cultures. In individualist cultures, relationships
are used in part to promote our individual goals, and it is appropriate to ask for help from those in one’s
social networks in order to help one do better. In collectivist cultures, individual goals are more likely to
be seen as a means for promoting relationships, and pursuing the goals of self -concern may risk straining
relationships if one calls on his or her social support network for aid (Markus, Mullally, & Kitayama,
1997). [48]
Do We Know What Makes Us Happy?
One difficulty that people face when trying to improve their well-being is that they may not always know
what will make them happy. As one example, many of us think that if we just had more money, we would
be happier. While it is true that we do need money to afford food and adequate shelter for ourselves and
our families, after this minimum level of wealth is reached, more money does not generally buy more
happiness (Easterlin, 2005). [49]
For instance, as you can see in Figure 3.8 "Income and Happiness", even
though income and material success improved dramatically in many countries in past decades, happiness
did not. Despite tremendous economic growth in France, Japan, and the United States between 1946 and
1990, there was no increase in reports of well-being by the citizens of these countries. Americans today
have several times the buying power they had in the 1950s, and yet overall happiness has not increased.
The problem seems to be that we never seem to have enough money to make us ―really‖ happy.
Csikszentmihalyi (1999) [50]
reported that people who earned $30,000 per year felt that they would be
happier if they made $50,000 per year, but that people who earned $100,000 per year said that they
would need $250,000 per year to make them happy.
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Figure 3.8 Income and Happiness
Although personal income keeps rising, happiness does not.
Source: Layard, R. (2005). Happiness: Lessons from a new science. New York, NY: Penguin.
These findings might lead us to conclude that we don’t always know what does or might make us happy,
and this seems to be at least partially true. For instance, Jean Twenge and her colleagues (Twenge,
Campbell, & Foster, 2003) [51]
reviewed studies relating to the impact of having children on well-being and
found that although people with children frequently claim that having children makes them happy,
couples who do not have children actually report being happier than those who do.
Psychologists have found that people’s ability to predict their future emotional states is not very accurate
(Wilson & Gilbert, 2005). [52]
For one, people overestimate their emotional reactions to events. Although
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people think that positive and negative events that they might experience will make a huge difference in
their lives, and although these changes do make at least some difference in well -being, they tend to be less
influential than we think they are going to be. Positive events tend to make us feel good, but their effects
wear off pretty quickly, and the same is true for negative events. For instance, Brickman, Coates, and
Janoff-Bulman (1978) [53]
interviewed people who had won more than $50,000 in a lottery and found that
they were not happier than they had been in the past and were also not happier than a control group of
similar people who had not won the lottery. On the other hand, the researchers found that individuals
who were paralyzed as a result of accidents were not as unhappy as might be expected.
How can this possibly be? There are several reasons. For one, people are resilient; they bring their coping
skills into play when negative events occur, and this makes them feel better. Second, most people do not
continually experience very positive or very negative affect over a long period of time but, rather, adapt to
their current circumstances. Just as we enjoy the second chocolate bar we eat less than we enjoy the first,
as we experience more and more positive outcomes in our daily lives, we habituate to them and our well-
being returns to a more moderate level (Small, Zatorre, Dagher, Evans, & Jones-Gotman,
2001). [54]
Another reason we may predict our happiness incorrectly is that our social comparisons change
when our own status changes as a result of new events. People who are wealthy compare themselves to
other wealthy people, people who are poor tend to compare themselves with other poor people, and
people who are ill tend to compare themselves with other ill people. When our comparisons change, our
happiness levels are correspondingly influenced. And when people are asked to predict their future
emotions, they may focus only on the positive or negative event they are asked about and forget about al l
the other things that won’t change. Wilson, Wheatley, Meyers, Gilbert, and Axsom (2000) [55]
found that
when people were asked to focus on all the more regular things that they will still be doing in the future
(working, going to church, socializing with family and friends, etc.), their predictions about how
something really good or bad would influence them were less extreme.
If pleasure is fleeting, at least misery shares some of the same quality. We might think we can’t be happy if
something terrible, such as the loss of a partner or child, were to happen to us, but after a period of
adjustment, most people find that happiness levels return to prior levels (Bonanno et al., 2002). [56]
Health
concerns tend to put a damper on our feeling of well-being, and those with a serious disability or illness
show slightly lowered mood levels. But even when health is compromised, levels of misery are lower than
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most people expect (Lucas, 2007; Riis et al., 2005). [57]
For instance, although disabled individuals have
more concern about health, safety, and acceptance in the community, they still experience overall positive
happiness levels (Marinić & Brkljačić, 2008). [58]
It has been estimated that taken together, our wealth,
health, and life circumstances account for only 15% to 20% of well-being scores (Argyle, 1999). [59]
Clearly,
the main ingredient in happiness lies beyond, or perhaps beneath, external factors.
Our perceptions of our own well-being depend on both situational and person factors. As we have seen,
people who report that they have positive social relationships with others—the perception of social
support—also report being happier than those who report that they do not have social support (Diener &
Suh, 2000). [60]
On the other hand, there are also individual differences in happiness, and these seem to be
in part genetically determined (Baumgart, Plomin, DeFries, & Fulker, 1992; Lykken, 2000). [61]
Some
people are just naturally happier than others.
Social Psychology in the Public Interest
Regulating Emotions to Improve Our Health
Although smoking cigarettes, drinking alcohol, using recreational drugs, engaging in unsafe sex, and
eating too much may produce enjoyable positive emotions in the short term, they are some of the leading
causes of negative health outcomes and even death in the long term (Mokdad, Marks, Stroup, &
Gerberding, 2004). [62]
To avoid these negative outcomes, we must use our cognitive resources to plan, guide, and restrain our
behaviors. And we can also use our emotion regulation skills to help us do better. Even in an age where
the addictive and detrimental health effects of cigarette smoking are well understood, more than 60% of
children try smoking before they are 18 years old, and more than half who have smoked have tried and
failed to quit (Fryar, Merino, Hirsch, & Porter, 2009). [63]
Although smoking is depicted in movies as sexy
and alluring, it is highly addictive and probably the most dangerous thing we can do to our body.
Poor diet and physical inactivity combine to make up the second greatest threat to our health. But we can
improve our diet by eating more natural and less processed food and by monitoring our food intake. And
we can start and maintain an exercise program. Exercise keeps us happier, improves fitness, and leads to
better health and lower mortality (Fogelholm, 2010; Galper, Trivedi, Barlow, Dunn, & Kampert, 2006;
Hassmén, Koivula, & Uutela, 2000). [64]
Exercise also has a variety of positive influences on our cognitive
processes, including academic performance (Hillman, Erickson, & Kramer, 2008). [65]
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Alcohol abuse, and particularly binge drinking (i.e., having five or more drinks in one sitting), is often the
norm among high school and college students, but it has severe negative health consequences. Bingeing
leads to deaths from car crashes, drowning, falls, gunshots, and alcohol poisoning (Valencia-Martín,
Galán, & Rodríguez-Artalejo, 2008). [66]
Binge-drinking students are also more likely to be involved in
other risky behaviors, such as smoking, drug use, dating violence, or attempted suicide (Miller, Naimi,
Brewer, & Jones, 2007). [67]
Binge drinking may damage neural pathways in the brain (McQueeny et al.,
2009) [68]
and lead to lifelong alcohol abuse and dependency (Kim et al., 2008). [69]
Illicit drug use has also
been increasing and is linked to the spread of infectious diseases such as HIV, hepatitis B, and hepatitis C
(Monteiro, 2001). [70]
Some teens abstain from sex entirely, particularly those who are very religious, but most experiment with
it. About half of U.S. children under 18 report having had intercourse, a rate much higher than in other
parts of the world. Although sex is fun, it can also kill us if we are not careful. Sexual activity can lead to
guilt about having engaged in the act itself and may also lead to unwanted pregnancies and sexually
transmitted infections, including HIV infection. Alcohol consumption also leads to risky sexual behavior.
Sex partners who have been drinking are less likely to practice safe sex and have an increased risk of
sexually transmitted infections, including HIV infection (Hutton, McCaul, Santora, & Erbelding 2008; Raj
et al., 2009). [71]
It takes some work to improve and maintain our health and happiness, and our desire for the positive
emotional experiences that come from engaging in dangerous behaviors can get in the way of this work.
But being aware of the dangers, working to control our emotions, and using our resources to engage in
healthy behaviors and avoid unhealthy ones are the best things we can do for ourselves.
However, although people are resilient, this does not mean that they adapt perfectly to all events. For
example, Stroebe, Stroebe, Abakoumkin, and Schut (1996) [72]
found that people who had lost their
spouses were still more depressed than those who were still married, even after 2 years, although the rate
of depression did decline over this period. And Diener, Diener, and Diener (1995) [73]
found that
respondents in very poor nations such as India and Nigeria reported much lower well -being than did
people in wealthier nations.
K E Y T A K E A W A Y S
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Suppressing or ignoring our problems is usually not successful because it takes effort and
does not make them go away. It is healthier to express our negative thoughts and
feelings, either to ourselves or to others.
Being able to effectively regulate our emotions is a skill that has important and positive
consequences.
Positive thinking, including optimism, hardiness, and self-efficacy, is associated with a
wide variety of positive effects on our health.
One difficulty that people face when trying to improve their happiness is that they may
not always know what will make them happy.
Building effective lives requires us to use our cognitive resources to avoid engaging in
pleasurable but health-threatening behaviors. E X E R C I S E S A N D C R I T I C A L T H I N K I N G
1. Think about your own well-being. What things make you happy and unhappy?
2. Do you think you are able to regulate your own emotions well?? What strategies might
you use to do better?
3. Do you know people who do not effectively regulate their emotions? What are the
outcomes for them of this failure to regulate?
4. Review the things you do or should do and the things you don’t do or shouldn’t do for
yourself to help keep yourself happy and healthy.
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3.4 Thinking Like a Social Psychologist About Social Affect
If you have carefully studied this chapter, you will have learned a great deal about how emotions influence
our everyday lives and the harmful roles that negative emotions can play. But you will also have learned a
great deal about how best to stay happy and healthy. This is not to say that you’ll never be sad or sick—you
will—but rather that you will understand how to best cope with these threats. Let’s close this chapter with
some thoughts about how a social psychologist, and now you, might think about these topics. I encourage
you to practice them—and share them with your friends and family!
Avoid as many negative emotions as you can. Think positively —do something positive
for yourself every day.
Believe that you can make a difference, but don’t exaggerate your ability to do s o.
Be aware of your stress level and work to reduce it through relaxation or other
techniques if you can.
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Set realistic goals that you believe you can attain, and carefully regulate your emotions
and behaviors as you try to reach them.
Practice healthy behaviors, including aerobic exercise. People who exercise regularly
may live 1 to 2 years longer than those who don’t (Paffenbarger, Hyde, Wing, & Hsieh,
1986). [1]
Avoid unhealthy activities such as smoking, drinking excessively, and unsafe sex.
Develop close relationships with others, and if you can, share your problems with them.
Realize—really!—that money cannot buy happiness.
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mortality, and longevity of college alumni. New England Journal of Medicine, 314, 605–613.
3.5 Chapter Summary
Affect, the A within social psychology’s ABCs, refers to the feelings we experience as part of our everyday
lives. Although affect can be harmful when it gets out of control, our affective experiences normally help
us to function efficiently and in a way that increases our chances of survival. Although affect is involved in
many aspects of our life, it is particularly social—our emotions provide us with information about our
relationships with others.
One component of affect is mood—the positive or negative feelings that are in the background of our
everyday experiences. Emotions are affective states like moods, but they are shorter lived, stronger, more
intense, and more specific forms of affect. There are both basic emotions, which are communicated
through culturally shared facial expressions, and secondary emotions—those that provide us with more
complex feelings about our social worlds.
Emotions have both a biological and a cognitive aspect. The biological component of emotions is arousal,
which is created by the parasympathetic nervous system and regulated by the limbic system and the
amygdala. The cognitive component is the label we place on the arousal. There are some gender and
cultural differences in the experience of emotion.
When people incorrectly label the source of the arousal that they are experiencing, we say that they have
misattributed their arousal. Misattributing arousal may make it difficult for us to determine what emotion
we are experiencing.
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One outcome of threatening life experiences is stress—the physical and psychological reactions that occur
whenever we believe that the demands of the situation threaten our ability to respond to the threat.
Extreme events and just everyday hassles can create stress. The experience of prolonged stress has a
direct influence on our immune system, leaving us more susceptible to a variety of health problems. Stress
influences our behavior through its effects on the HPA axis and the secretion of stress hormones,
including cortisol.
Depression is an affective disorder in which people experience sadness, low self -esteem, negative
thoughts, pessimism, and apathy. Anxiety is an affective disorder that may be accompanied by a number
of physical symptoms, including diarrhea, upset stomach, sweaty hands, and shortness of breath. Anxiety
and depression are partially genetically inherited but are influenced by our social interactions.
The attitude that we express toward our life in general is known as well-being. In general, people feel
positive about themselves, but there are many potential threats to the self -concept, and we must learn to
effectively cope with them.
Research has found that there are clear difficulties with an ap proach to negative events and feelings that
involves simply trying to ignore them—suppressing our emotions is not a very good option, at least in the
long run, because it tends to fail. Rather, when we are faced with troubles, it is healthy to let the nega tive
thoughts and feelings out by expressing them, either to ourselves or to others, and by practicing effective
self-regulation.
In general, we can say that we will feel good about ourselves when we have successfully met the goals of
creating adequate social support—the development of positive social connections with others. Happiness
does not come through money and material wealth.
Social psychologists have investigated the ability of human beings to predict their future emotional states
and found that they are not very accurate in this regard. Although positive and negative life changes do
make at least some difference in well-being, they tend to be less influential than we think they are going to
be.
Your new understanding of the role of affect in social judgment and in mental and physical health, and
particularly your understanding of the importance of self -regulation, can help you respond more
effectively to the negative situations that you experience.
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