· What is Self-Control?
· The Egotistical Ego
· The Role of Feedback
· Nonconscious Control, I: Mental Dissociation
· Nonconscious Control, II: Defense Mechanisms
· What is Self-Control?
· Self-control dynamics can be conscious (ego-controlled) or nonconscious.
· Self-control is goal-directed; aimed at our physical, intrapersonal, and social needs.
E.g., relationships, self-esteem, career, fun…
· The Egotistical Ego
· Greenwald (1980)—problem of the “totalitarian ego”:
The ego is like a dictator, and behaves in three ways similar to dictators:
Egocentrism
Beneffectance
Confirmation bias
· Egocentrism: The person is at the center of all they know.
· Beneffectance: taking credit for good outcomes while avoiding responsibility for bad ones.
· Confirmation Bias—seeking and acknowledging only evidence that confirms what we already believe.
· Examples:
Police interrogations
Paranormal beliefs
Religious beliefs
Political debates
· The Role of Feedback
· “Feedback” can come from
outside the person; resultant self-control is usually goal-oriented.
· Negative feedback loops eliminate (negate) discrepancies in seeking control.
· Standard Control vs. Dissociation
· Mental Dissociation
· “Classic suggestion” effect:
Participants instructed to imagine a movement or idea.
Some will then actually make the movement or imagine the idea vividly.
Experience may be felt as being outside of their control.
· Although this is not hypnosis, it moderately predicts susceptibility for hypnotism (Hilgard).
· Characteristics of hypnotic trance:
Suppression of planning
Redistribution of attention
Increased availability of memories
Reduction in reality testing
Increased suggestibility
Enhanced role behavior
Spontaneous amnesia
· Mental Defense
· Defense mechanisms: unconscious mental operations that deny or distort reality in order to preserve the ego.
Original descriptions by Sigmund Freud
Systematized by Anna Freud
· Protect the conscious executive (ego) from mental pain, e.g., humiliation, shame, fear…
“Primitive” Defenses
·
Denial: outright rejection of something that is clearly true.
Least mature of all defenses.
E.g., Bornstein (1999).
Common (and normal) among children.
· “Primitive” Defenses
·
Suppression: conscious blocking of unpleasant thoughts.
E.g.
, Wegner (1989): “Don’t think about… a white bear.”
Best suppressors actually thought
more
about the bear later on.
·
Repression: “motivated forgetting” of threatening or unpleasant material.
Ex.: Forgetting an important appointment with a loan officer.
· E.g., Sparks et al. (1999)
· Repression: Collins, McLeod, & Jacoby (1992)
· “Specific” Defenses
·
Projection: attributing one’s own unpleasant, anxiety-inducing thoughts to someone else.
Ex.: “I’m not angry, you’re angry.”
·
Reaction formation: overemphasizing the opposite of an unwanted behavior or characteristic.
Ex.: Homophobia? (e.g., Adams et al., 1996)
·
Regression: reverting back to an earlier, more immature stage of life.
·
Intellectualization: distracting one’s self from an anxiety-provoking situation by studying it.
·
Rationalization: coming up with plausible (but spurious) reasons for own actions.
“I don’t drink every day…I don’t have a problem…”
“I don’t drink half of what my father does…”
“If you had the same problems I have, you would drink this much too.”
“Things will get better soon—then I’ll cut down.”
·
Identification: trying to imitate, or connect with an unpleasant stimulus.
· “Healthy Defenses”
·
Displacement:
shifting an unpleasant feeling to a non-threatening, neutral object.
Ex.: kicking the dog.
·
Sublimation: transformation of unpleasant urges into productive and socially-approved actions.
Ex.: an aggressive person becoming a butcher or a football coach.
· Dollinger & Cramer (1987): Development and Defense Mechanisms
· TAT stories of 320 children analyzed for themes.
· Use of denial decreased with age
· Use of identification increased with age
· Use of projection remained somewhat constant.