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Chapter 12
Family Life
Marital Status
- 96% in USA marry, at least once
- Reason for decreased number of married in later life?
- Widowhood
- Fewer than two per 1000 divorced
- Men more likely to be married in later life
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Figure 12.1 Marital Status, Population Age 65 and Over
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By Age Group and Sex, Percent, 2008
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Marriage: Advantages & Disadvantages
- Advantages
- Financial resources; Greater life satisfaction; Most older couples happy; Better health
- Better adjustment to aging; Adult-centered
- Disadvantages
- Interests may diverge; Potential sources of strain
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Common-Law Unions and Cohabitation
- Rate for older people has increased
- More men than women
- Increase in LAT relationships
- Why cohabitation?
- Common-law relationship after divorce; Desire for intimate relationship without marriage
- Poverty
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Divorce
- Divorced and separated age 65 and older 2006
- Significantly increased since 1980
- Remarriage rare
- May result in late life economic insecurity
- May result in loss of social contact with family
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Lifelong Singlehood
- Never married older adults
- Stereotype belief that never-marrieds are unhappy
- Many have chosen to be unmarried
- Report good health
- Report freedom and control over lives
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Lifelong Singlehood
- Have made unique adaptations to aging
- Develop relationships for support, companionship, confidants
- Report more loneliness than married people
- Have less of a family network for caregiving
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Widowhood
- USA 2008
- 8.8 million widows
- 2.2 million widowers
- Women more likely to be widowed
- Age 75 and older, most often living alone
- Men more likely to remarry
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Bereavement
- Common problems after death of a spouse
- Lack of emotional support after official mourning period
- “Identity foreclosure”
- Depression during first year
- Mental health before bereavement can affect response to loss
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Widows and Widowers: Coping with Loss
- Widows
- More social supports than men
- Support others through caregiving and other support; Financial difficulties
- Widowers
- Less likely than women to have a confidant
- More isolation; Higher risk of suicide
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Widows and Widowers: Coping with Loss
- Risk of institutionalization when sick
- Recent research on widowers
- Many bounce back; Re-establish meaningful lives; Self-reports
- Should study men differently
- Not based on female model of interpersonal relationships
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Dating and Remarriage
- Men tend to remarry after widowhood and women tend to stay single
- Older people date for several reasons
- 1/3rd of older daters had sexual intercourse at least once a month
- The trend toward the use of online connections by older people just begun
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Sexuality
- Sexuality in Long-Term Care Settings
- Physical Changes and Sexual Adaptations
- Attitudes toward later-life sexuality changing
- Interest in sex reported into very old age
- Why do people give up sex?
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Sexuality
- Benefits of Sex
- Reduces stress; Relaxes; Enhances intimacy
- Helps form foundation of strong and supportive personal relationships
- High life satisfaction
- Health benefits
- Self-esteem
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Sexuality
- Barriers to Later Life Sexual Activity
- Health
- Many sexual problems can be reversed
- Lack of a partner
- Especially for older women
- Attitudes
- Of older people; Of other people
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Figure 12.2 The Partner Gap: Having a Regular Sexual Partner
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By Sex and Age, Percent
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Figure 12.3 Differences in Sexual Attitudes, Thoughts, & Behaviors
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Physical Changes and Sexual Adaptations
- Adaptations that address health and life course causes of change
- Lifestyle
- Diet, weight control, limit use of alcohol, active sex life; Masturbation
- Sexual dysfunction
- Viagra and Levitra; Rest and exercise
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Gay and Lesbian Older People
- Most research misses these older people
- Don’t ask about sexual orientation
- Assume if never married, never in on-going relationship
- Extrapolating data
- Approximately 1 to 2.8 million LGBT seniors
- The Myths: Lonely; Rejected; Maladjusted
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Figure 12.4 Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, & Transgender (LGBT) Relationships
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Grandparenting
- The Grandparent–Grandchild Relationship
- Grandparenting and New Family Structures
- Grandparent Visitation Rights
- Grandparents as Surrogate Parents
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Figure 12.5 Estimated and Projected Grandparent Population (U.S.)
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1985–2015
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Figure 12.6 Purpose of Financial Assistance/Monetary Gifts
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From Grandparents to Grandchildren
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The Future of the Family
- Increased studies of aging in alternative relationships give a varied picture of aging
- People who enter old age today will bring with them more open attitudes toward sex
- Longer life expectancy will also lead to relationships across more generations
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