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Parents Effect Their Children Future

Nowadays, many students are suffering from their parent’s reaction about the school and their delay life. The parents who always tracking their sons and daughters school and grades even some parents chose their university major for them. Those children of parents care called “Helicopter Parents.” Helicopter Parent who pays extremely close attention to children experiences and problems, particularly at educational institutions. They named them Helicopter parents because, they just like helicopter tracking you over your head. “According to a UCLA 84 percent of college freshmen nationwide reported that Mom and Dad showed the right amount of involvement in the decision to go to college. Of those, 80.5 percent said they were fine with the amount of input their parents offered in choosing a school.” What helicopter parents believe? Children also feel uncomfortable of their parent’s reaction. Helicopter parent can affect their children in negative ways, health and mantel affect. Avoid being a helicopter parents.

Some parents when the fight their children battles and when they tracking them in everything they do in order to help them. What they want is never let their children fail in everything, so they push them hard and kind of control everything they do. Of course all parents want their children to success in life. Helicopter parents always think that they had enough life experience to lead their kids. For example, helicopter parents are aware about education more than their children do, so they don’t listen to their children needs in school or college. What they do is just order them to do this and that and whatever they think is best without asking their children opinion.

However, children with all study stress and their parent’s pressure that’s could make their children to not want to do their jobs and sometimes even they feel uncomfortable to study. Is not necessary that children should have the same inters as their parents do. We all have different thinking, dreams and goals. Parents can only give good advice or put them on the right path, but the final forming of a persons character lies in their own hands. Helicopter parents however keep pushing their children whatever they think is best for them in order to not let them to have any mistakes in their life for better future. If the student fail in class or made a bad diction it doesn’t mean bad student or unsuccessful. We learn from our mistake and we avoid of doing it again. Helicopter parents don’t believe that is true. What they believe is led their children to the right path and force them if they have to, which that could affect their children future in a negative ways.

There are many negative effects for the children under their helicopter parent’s control. When parents control almost all aspects of their kids life, its not surpassing that these children will feel as if the don’t have any control in their lives. Children of helicopter parents will have a lack of responsibility for the own action or beaver, because the parents always in charge of solving their children mistakes. These children who don’t take care of their own problem and living such a easy happy life that absolutely will effect them in the real life when the grow up. For instance, living a life that the parents handle everything you did or going to do, its away different when the children grow up and have their own job, the parents will not be there for them in that moment, so the will find it very hard and feel unsure that they can do the right thing or completely uncomfortable.

In addition, helicopter parents can cause health and mental effects. Helicopter parenting can cause children to experience depression and dissatisfaction with life, according to a study conducted by researchers from the University of Mary Washington and published in the Journal of Child and Family Studies. Some kids even if the grow up will be in fear and feel lonely and not capable to do any thing with without their parents present. That will be a huge issue for the children or students in the future.

On the other hand, some people believe that helicopter parents are a good thing for the future of their children and enhance it as well. Some helicopter parents have the best of intonation for their children and they do mange to get things done. Children of helicopter parents will do paperwork, appointments and homework on time. Also, the parents should know where is their young kids or teenagers at all the time, which is an important safety consideration. Moreover, children should be under the parents control to learn life basics until certain age.

How to not be a helicopter patents? Parents should lets their children face their own problem and deal with it. That doses not mean not help them at all. For example, if they find it its very hard to do their homework parents should led them and give then a hint to find the answer by their own not do the assignments for them. Life lessons should take a place in their life; parents will not be there to stop their kids of doing something risky so they can deal with bigger things when they grow up. In other word, so that they won’t be shocked when life gets more complicated and tougher.

In conclusion, helicopter parents are highly involved in the children behave and their study success. Parents should lead their kids to with right path and advice the as much as they can for better future. Students have right to choose the major that they interest in. all students have a goals and dreams for the future, so the parents should be on their side and support them as much as the can for the kids good.

Sources,

1. Adapted from “College Freshman Okay with Parental Watchdogs, Survey Finds” Larry Gordon and Victoria Kim (Los Angeles Times, 1/24/2008)