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Discuss the most difficult constructive criticism or feedback you have received. How did you address it? What have you learned from it?

The most difficult constructive criticism I have received is when I got a promotion at my job at Walmart. I moved from been a cashier to the cosmetic department. At first I thought it was going to be very peaceful and not too many managers would not be over me in that department. I found out one of the mangers moved the same time as I left from being a cashier. I had heard about Jennifer Hudson, but I did not know how true it was about her being crazy . The reason why I said that because she always seemed so nice and always smiling at me when I passed by her. She actually laughed at my work that I worked hard at; she really did not believe me that I actually did the job right. She demanded me to do the task in the department, but I did it like she wanted me to do. She was always talking about me to other people. She told me she is not happy with my performance on the job. But I did my very best in that Department. She always thought everything was supposed to be perfect. She thought I did not know anything about cosmetic. It really hurt my feelings how she said it. It felt like I was not good enough to be working under her. At the end she really made me so angry at her i completely went off on her. I tried my best to stay away from her, but I guess if you are under alot of pressure you will explode into pieces.

I prayed about her every single night and day to keep her off of me, because she was the devil in the store. All I wanted from her was respected and diginity . I tried to keep my distance with her by making sure my job was performing well. I made sure I communicated with her about what was going on in the department. If something was not right I made sure it was directed to her not behind her back like she did to me. I alway gave her the upmost respected even thought she made me feel belittled in a certain situations I told her that I was sorry for I should have handle it more professionally.

I learned to be very careful on which door to take because all opportunities are not good opportunities. That is why it is good to look before you get ahead of yourself. I also learned how to be humble and content while I was in that department. I also learned that I am not perfect but I do make mistakes in life .I learned not to let things boiling up on you just speak your mind and do not be afraid expressed on how are you feeling. you can do it without being ugly but you can do more professionally. I learned, if a person gets ugly with you dont say nothing just let God do it works. I also learned that when people is not right it is best to keep your distance and just do as you are told. I learned that sometimes it so hard to accept constructive cristism from someone who is always down your back at work, home, or school.