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FEMALE SPEAKER: So what is empathy and why

is it very different than sympathy?

Empathy fuels connection.

Sympathy drives disconnection.

Empathy, it's very interesting.

Teresa Wiseman is a nursing scholar

who studied professions, very diverse professions where

empathy is relevant and came up with four qualities of empathy.

Perspective taking, the ability to take

the perspective of another person

or recognize their perspective as their truth.

Staying out of judgment, not easy when you enjoy

it as much as most of us do.

Recognizing emotion in other people

and then communicating that.

Empathy is feeling with people.

And to me, I always think of empathy

as this kind of sacred space when

someone's kind of in a deep hole and they

shout out from the bottom and they say, "I'm stuck.

It's dark.

I'm overwhelmed."

And then we look and we say, "Hey," and we climb down,

"I know what it's like down here.

And you're not alone."

Sympathy is, "Oh!"

[laughter]

"It's bad, uh-huh."

[laughter]

"No.

You want a sandwich?"

[laughter]

Empathy is a choice, and it's a vulnerable choice,

because in order to connect with you

I have to connect with something in myself that

knows that feeling.

Rarely, if ever, does an empathic response begin with,

"at least."

[laughter]

I had a, yeah.

And we do it all the time, because you know what?

Someone just shared something with us

that's incredibly painful and we're

trying to silver lining it.

I don't think that's a verb, but I'm using it as one.

We're trying to put this silver lining around it.

So, "I had a miscarriage."

"At least you know you can get pregnant."

"I think my marriage is falling apart."

"At least you have a marriage."

[laughter]

"John's getting kicked out of school."

"At least Sarah is an A student."

But one of the things we do sometimes

in the face of very difficult conversations

is we try to make things better.

If I share something with you that's very difficult,

I'd rather you say, "I don't even

know what to say right now, I'm just so glad you told me."

Because the truth is, rarely, can a response

make something better.

What makes something better is connection.