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Joy

 

            Here we are – week 3 – and while I am loving how the curriculum of this course is helping me grow personally, I still find myself with this nagging feeling of “Imposter Syndrome” –  Do I have what it takes? How am I going to manage this coursework while raising my children and working full-time? I haven’t been a student in 15 years, can my brain even absorb and process all this new information? The rigor has been a learning curve, for sure, and as I reach the end of some assignments, I’m still hearing that nagging voice:  You’re in over your head; you’re going to fail.

I don’t say this to be dramatic or sympathy seeking, I say it because it’s my very real felt experience, at times, and I wonder if anyone else in this program is feeling similarly? I’ve always been one to err on the side of “keeping it real” when it comes to my struggles because I know that I’m usually not alone. Sometimes it takes one person to rip off the proverbial Band-Aid of vulnerability to start the process of connection with others – something I believe strongly that we all very much need. The apostle Paul spoke to the Galatian people, “Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ” (ESV, 2016, Galatians 6:2). I love this exercise because I see how valuable it is to find connections with one another in our community of cohorts, while we’re all navigating through it. Watching  The Call to Adventure Three was so comforting because it not only mirrored my internal experiences, it reminded me that God is always in control and that He gifted us one another. If we tap into own gifts and share them with one another, we all experience love – God’s most precious design.

In my experience, I’ve learned that I need to tap into my own heart and understand my own needs to better understand the needs of others. I know that I am one who values (because I believe in the power of vulnerability – thank you, Brené Brown) sharing openly and honestly about my struggles, so one thing that is meaningful to me is having others – especially ones who are going through a similar journey to me – offer support and encouragement to me along the way. Paul, when speaking to the Thessalonian people also proclaimed, “Therefore encourage one another and build one another up, just as you are doing” (ESV, 2016, Thessalonians 5:11).

I believe that mutual encouragement with one another will help give us all “steam” and keep us empowered and motivated to work through this growth journey, together. I would love to be a listening ear and encourager to any of you who find yourselves in moments of overwhelm or worry, because I can relate to how you’re feeling. Jesus commanded his followers (which applies to all of us, here and now, in this journey of working toward our Positive Psychology degree), “A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another” (ESV, 2016, John 13:34-35). Jesus knows our hearts, our struggles, our fears: it is because He knows our needs intimately, and knows we need one another, which is why He’s insisted that we love one another.

 

References

Bible gateway passage: Galatians 6:2 - english standard version2016. Bible Gateway. (2016).

https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Galatians+6%3A2&version=ESV

Bible gateway passage: John 13:34-35 - english standard version2016. Bible Gateway. (2016).

         https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=John%2013%3A34-35&version=ESV

Bible gateway passage: 1 Thessalonians 5:11 - english standard version2016. Bible Gateway. (2016). https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=1%20Thessalonians%205%3A11&version=ESV

TED. (2011).  The Power of VulnerabilityYouTube. Retrieved September 10, 2023, from https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iCvmsMzlF7o.

YouTube. (2018).  The Call to Adventure ThreeYouTube. Retrieved September 10, 2023, from https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YRog6aUzD2c&t=9s.