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NEXT STEPS TRANSFORMATIONAL PURPOSE STATEMENT

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ONE Goals vs. Purpose 3Dimensional Coaches must understand the difference between goals and purpose. Goals are important, but it’s also important to remember that goals are specific events that take place within a specific time. We must see purpose beyond our goals because every goal will eventually become a piece of history. A primary focus on goals becomes problemat- ic in the end, because once our days of performing are behind us, we are left looking in the wrong direction. A greater understanding of purpose is the key that allows us to live in a perpetual state of faith, hope and love.

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TWO The Funeral Topics Forecasting Your Legacy: A eulogy is a speech or piece of writing that praises someone or something highly, typically someone who just died or recently retired. A eulogy is an opportunity to reflect upon a life lived, and highlights the character and passions of the subject at hand. While answering the questions below, base your responses on the relationships you hope to have possessed and the cause(s) you ideally gave yourself to during your career.

Watch or listen to the teaching component of this unit at www.fcacoachesacademy.com. Share your thoughts, ideas, and coaching strategies on our online Academy Forum.

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GAME

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If you could write three sentences that were to be read at your funeral, what would they be?

In three sentences or less, what are the types of things that you hope your family and friends will say about you at your funeral?

In three sentences or less, what are the types of things that you hope your former players will say about you at your funeral?

20/20 FORESIGHT Defining Your Core Values: We are all familiar with the famous adage “hindsight is 20/20.” But does it have to be that way? Do we have to learn every lesson the hard way? If we can look with 20/20 foresight towards a preferred vision of the future, we can seek to identify the core values that will help us navigate towards the end we are after. Identifying your personal core values is important because they are there to guide your choices and behaviors in everyday life. They act as guardrails to keep you on track and headed in the right direction.

Research indicates that if you truly want to impact behavior, no more than three or four core values should be emphasized. Look at the ab- breviated list to the right and circle the core values that will best help you leave the legacy you desire.

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Authenticity Balance Beauty Commitment

Community Compassion Concern Courage

Creativity Dedicated Determined Durable

Empathy Enthusiastic Excellent Faith

Family Fairness Freedom Friendship

Generosity Genuineness Grace Happiness

Harmony Health Honesty Hope

Humor Integrity Innovation Joyfulness

Journey Justice Kindness Knowledge

Leadership Learning Love Loyalty

Merciful Neighborly Noble Non-conforming

Nurturing Objective Openness Optimistic

Organization Original Peace Performance

Perseverance Respectfulness Relationships Responsibility

Security Serenity Serving Spirituality

Stability Success Teamwork Togetherness

Trust Truth Understanding Unity

Victory Virtuous Wholeness Wisdom

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3Dimensional COACHING POINT

“The most important thing in life is to decide what is most important.” – Ken Blanchard

STEP FOUR Transformational Purpose Statement Drafting Your Purpose: Whether you are writing a first draft or refining a previously written statement, it is important to get your ideas out of your head and onto a piece of paper. As you complete this exercise, keep in mind the following suggestions that will help you write an effective transformational purpose statement.

1. Be Authentic: This is your personal statement. Don’t write what you think you’re supposed to say, rather write something that you will actually use as a filter for how you run your program.

2. Be Brief: Try to write a single sentence that contains 25 words or less.

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Sample Tranformational Purpose Statement: “To inspire (verb) coaches and athletes (target) towards the pursuit of excellence in sports and in life while enjoying the journey (outcome which incorporates core values).”

Identifying Your Gifting: What verbs listed below best describe how you most successfully interact with people? Use these verbs to craft your “Transformational Purpose Statement.”

Act Coach Construct Create

Demonstrate Develop Educate Empower

Encourage Help Identify Initiate

Inspire Lead Love Manage

Mentor Model Motivate Plan

Prepare Produce Recognize Relate

Stimulate Study Teach Tell

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My Transformational Purpose in coaching is:

3. Be Deliberate: What relationships matter to you the most? What is the cause you are giving yourself to? Be intentional about using words that will remind you of these two important issues.

4. Be Structured: Think verb, target, outcome. The verb describes how you most successfully interact with people according to your gifting. The target is the set of relationships you hope to impact. The outcome is the transcendent cause you are after, and should incorporate your highest core values.

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