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Growing Up in the British Virgin Islands

Growing Up in the British Virgin Islands

When individuals are referring to the British Virgin Islands (BVI), they are picturing white sand and blue waters, for Me I am standing in front of the Rite Way grocery store in Road Town, I was still in uniform, and I saw neighbors pass by each aisle greeting each other. Nothing was rushed. The scene, to me, describes life in the BVI slow, community, and highly connected.

Discipline is one aspect that many individuals in the United States would be surprised about due to its free approach to the matter. BVI has a tradition of parents publicly punishing their children, and they do not think it would be any lighter. I observed that when a child would be out of control in town, a parent would discipline them at that particular moment even in the presence of other people. This is indicative of a culture in which the community responsibility is the more important than the comfort of an individual. BVI prioritizes respect, order, and shared values compared to life in the U.S., where discipline is usually low profile and doubted by the outsiders.

Music and celebration are also a way of culture in the BVI. The Calypso music is like the heartbeat of local life played in groups on occasions and festivals. The Emancipation Festival is an event we observe every year in commemoration of slavery. I recall the streets that were full of colorful costumes, the smell of fungi and fish and even playing of music till late hours of the night. Our festival is nearly two weeks long and this unites everyone, locals, visitors and young and old. This festival is a lesson about history that is being repeated and filled with cheer as compared to U.S. holidays that can take one day.

The BVI life is slower than that of the United States. Slow implies that people are slow to speak and converse, slow to assist, and slow to live. A short trip may involve meeting three people that you know on the way. The BVI puts relationships ahead of speed and efficiency in the U.S. The thing that I miss the most is that feeling of belonging. Residing in the British Virgin Islands also informed me that community is not the place you live, but rather the way you pivot up to others show up. It is more than the beaches that make home that way.