Assignment 1 and 2
Working with Parents
Comprehensive Classroom Management: Creating Communities of Support and Solving Problems
Eleventh Edition
Vern Jones and Louse Jones
Developed by Karen Cole, Ph.D.
University of North Carolina Asheville
Family/caregiver support for students’ school experiences…
- affects students’ academic success, their in-school behavior, their motivation, and the probability that they will finish high school.
- can be encouraged by teachers who communicate respect for students families, their cultures, and their roles in the students’ education.
- enhances student learning when teachers help parents in understanding school culture and supporting school expectations.
Parents, families, and caregivers…
- will differ in their understandings of what it means to support students throughout the school experience.
- will differ in the amounts of time and energy they have to devote to their students’ educational experiences.
- may have different standards for behavior than those set forth by the school, and may need help understanding and supporting the school’s behavioral standards.
- reflect myriad family structures and dynamics, all of which teachers need to understand and respect.
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Teachers who cultivate relationships with students’ families often find that…
- student attitudes are improved.
- parent acknowledgment of the importance of school success significantly impacts students’ achievement.
- when a student behavior change is called for, parental support can facilitate the success of interventions.
- caregivers and family members can serve as valuable resources by providing assistance and expertise in the classroom.
Teacher Challenges in Establishing Effective Relationships
- Parents can be emotionally demanding.
- Interactions with parents take time.
- Teachers can be intimidated by parents.
- Parents may not hold teachers in high esteem and may be critical or demanding.
- Sometimes language/communication barriers lead to awkwardness.
- Teachers often contact parents to report problems or issues rather than positives/accomplishments.
In interactions with parents, teachers should…
- maintain a high level of communication, finding efficient ways to keep in touch with parents.
- provide a high ratio of positive to negative feedback.
- listen carefully to concerns, requests, and criticism.
- recognize that parents are the experts when it comes to their children.
- be especially mindful of the nature and quality of family interactions across cultural and socioeconomic groups.
To create trust with parents and caregivers, teachers should…
- remember that teachers often have more social capital than parents/family members.
- be sensitive to the anxiety parents may have when facing a teacher who has evaluative knowledge about their child.
- focus more on listening and less on telling.
- ask parents their goals for their children.
- learn more about the students by interacting with the parents.
Early teacher contact with parents/families should…
- provide the opportunity for all parties to get to know one another.
- be warm, inviting, respectful, and validating.
- solicit information that will help the teacher engage with and support the student.
- provide information that will help the parent/caregiver support the student’s school efforts.
- be developed as a way to celebrate successes and prevent later issues.
Consider engaging parents through the use of…
- introductory letters and/or phone calls.
- home visits when appropriate.
- social events at school (e.g., open house, ice cream social).
- involving them in the classroom (e.g., tutoring, chaperoning, providing special lessons).
- involving them outside the classroom (e.g., research, materials preparation).
Teachers must protect student privacy in all situations.
Relationships are stronger when teachers…
- contact the parent directly with specific, personalized invitations to any event.
- communicate in ways that convince parents that their participation is truly welcome and important.
- give parents meaningful information about classroom expectations, curriculum, instructional activities, etc.
- communications are made in the parents’ native language whenever possible.
- commit to ongoing communication with family members.
Parent contacts and conferences…
- are often an important factor in parental satisfaction with their student’s school experiences.
- should be summarized/logged in a way that preserves pertinent details.
- are more likely to be positive experiences if the teacher is well-prepared.
- should be communicated about openly with students to maintain transparency and trust.
- should provide parents with understandable data and examples of student work to the extent possible.
Topics for Parent Communications
- Academic progress of the student
Grades
Quality of assignments
Regularity of attendance/assignment submission
- Behavior in class/school
Successes and areas of focus
Social interactions
- Student self-evaluations (if desirable)
- Parent input/questions
Effective conferences…
- take place in a comfortable setting.
- when possible, seat participants next to one another rather than across from one another.
- start with a sincere welcome and chat.
- share positive statements about the student.
- involve the student as appropriate.
- address parental questions.
- provide collaborative problem-solving as needed.
- are summarized and followed up on.
When parents are highly emotional, critical, and/or confrontational…
- ensure the conference takes place in a safe space where assistance is readily available.
- greet them warmly.
- utilize active listening as a way to diffuse strong emotion.
- avoid appearing defensive or argumentative; remain calm.
- ask parents what they would like to see happen.
- set a time limit prior to the meeting if necessary.
When parents are highly emotional, critical, and/or confrontational (cont)…
- ask if the student is aware of the problem.
- be honest, clear, and objective.
- emphasize data.
- tell the parent what will be done in response to the problem.
If the parents are dissatisfied, schedule a follow-up conference involving school administrators or other personnel who may help resolve the situation
When working with parents of English Language Learners…
- read and research the student’s native culture to develop an understanding of cultural influences.
- avoid the tendency to shy away from interactions as a way of avoiding awkwardness.
- provide for translation/interpretation and bilingual materials as often as possible.
- engage with family members outside of the school.
- recognize the differences in power between school personnel and individuals from the non-dominant culture.