THINGS YOU LEARNED IN A HUMAN SEXUALITY COURSE
Human Sexuality
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Human Sexuality
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William L. Yarber INDIANA UNIVERSITY
Barbara W. Sayad CALIFORNIA STATE UNIVERSITY, MONTEREY BAY
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HUMAN SEXUALITY: DIVERSITY IN CONTEMPORARY AMERICA, EIGHTH EDITION
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This book is dedicated with admiration to Herman B Wells,
president of Indiana University when Dr. Alfred Kinsey
conducted and published his research on the sexual
behavior of Americans. Wells was a courageous and
unwavering defender of Kinsey's research, despite pressure
on Wells to end Kinsey's studies. Wells’s support of Kinsey’s
research 60 years ago is considered a landmark and
defi ning victory for academic freedom, which paved the way
for future research on human sexuality at other universities.
—W. L. Y.
To my family—with all my love and gratitude.
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entsBrief Contee tse Co te
1 Perspectives on Human Sexuality 1
2 Studying Human Sexuality 29
3 Female Sexual Anatomy, Physiology, and Response 68
4 Male Sexual Anatomy, Physiology, and Response 105
5 Gender and Gender Roles 125
6 Sexuality in Childhood and Adolescence 158
7 Sexuality in Adulthood 187
8 Love and Communication in Intimate Relationships 218
9 Sexual Expression 256
10 Variations in Sexual Behavior 298
11 Contraception, Birth Control, and Abortion 325
12 Conception, Pregnancy, and Childbirth 361
13 The Sexual Body in Health and Illness 396
14 Sexual Function Diffi culties, Dissatisfaction, Enhancement, and Therapy 437
15 Sexually Transmitted Infections 481
16 HIV and AIDS 518
17 Sexual Coercion: Harassment, Aggression, and Abuse 557
18 Sexually Explicit Materials, Prostitution, and Sex Laws 596
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1 Perspectives on Human Sexuality 1
STUDYING HUMAN SEXUALITY 2 ■ Practically Speaking ASSESSING SEXUAL SATISFACTION 4
SEXUALITY, POPULAR CULTURE, AND THE MEDIA 5 Media Portrayals of Sexuality 5 Television 8 Feature-Length Films 9 Gay Men, Lesbian Women, Bisexual and Transgender People in Film and
Television 10 Online Social Networks 11
■ Think About It BEFORE PRESSING “SEND”: TRENDS AND CONCERNS ABOUT TEXTING, SEXTING, AND DATING 12
SEXUALITY ACROSS CULTURES AND TIMES 14 Sexual Interests 14 Sexual Orientation 17 Gender 18
SOCIETAL NORMS AND SEXUALITY 19 ■ Think About It AM I NORMAL? 20
Natural Sexual Behavior 20 Normal Sexual Behavior 21
■ Think About It DECLARATION OF SEXUAL RIGHTS 23 Sexuality Behavior and Variations 24
■ Think About It “MY GENES MADE ME DO IT”: SOCIOBIOLOGY, EVOLUTIONARY PSYCHOLOGY, AND THE MYSTERIES OF LOVE 25
FINAL THOUGHTS 26 | SUMMARY 26 QUESTIONS FOR DISCUSSION 27 | SEX AND THE INTERNET 27 SUGGESTED WEBSITES 28 | SUGGESTED READING 28
ContentsContents VISUAL PREFACE xxvi | LETTER FROM THE AUTHORS xxxv
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2 Studying Human Sexuality 29 SEX, ADVICE COLUMNISTS, AND POP PSYCHOLOGY 30 Information and Advice as Entertainment 31
■ Practically Speaking EVALUATING POP PSYCHOLOGY 32 The Use and Abuse of Research Findings 32
THINKING CRITICALLY ABOUT SEXUALITY 33 Value Judgments Versus Objectivity 34 Opinions, Biases, and Stereotypes 34 Common Fallacies: Egocentric and Ethnocentric Thinking 35
SEX RESEARCH METHODS 36 Research Concerns 37 Clinical Research 38 Survey Research 39
■ Practically Speaking ANSWERING A SEX RESEARCH QUESTIONNAIRE: MEASURE OF SEXUAL IDENTITY EXPLORATION AND COMMITMENT 40
Observational Research 42 Experimental Research 42
THE SEX RESEARCHERS 44 Richard von Kraff t-Ebing 44 Sigmund Freud 45 Havelock Ellis 46 Alfred Kinsey 46 William Masters and Virginia Johnson 48
CONTEMPORARY RESEARCH STUDIES 49 ■ Think About It SEX RESEARCH: A BENEFIT TO INDIVIDUALS
AND SOCIETY OR A THREAT TO MORALITY? 50
The National Health and Social Life Survey 50 The National Survey of Family Growth 52 The Youth Risk Behavior Survey 53 The National College Health Assessment 53 The National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior 54
EMERGING RESEARCH PERSPECTIVES 55 Feminist Scholarship 56 Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, and Transgender Research 57 Directions for Future Research 59
ETHNICITY AND SEXUALITY 59 African Americans 59 Latinos 61 Asian Americans and Pacifi c Islanders 62 Middle Eastern Americans 64
FINAL THOUGHTS 64 | SUMMARY 65 QUESTIONS FOR DISCUSSION 66 | SEX AND THE INTERNET 66 SUGGESTED WEBSITES 67 | SUGGESTED READING 67
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3 Female Sexual Anatomy, Physiology, and Response 68
FEMALE SEX ORGANS: WHAT ARE THEY FOR? 69 External Structures (the Vulva) 71 Internal Structures 73
■ Practically Speaking PERFORMING A GYNECOLOGICAL SELFEXAMINATION 75 Other Structures 78 The Breasts 78
FEMALE SEXUAL PHYSIOLOGY 81 Reproductive Hormones 81 The Ovarian Cycle 81 The Menstrual Cycle 84
■ Practically Speaking VAGINAL AND MENSTRUAL HEALTH CARE 89 FEMALE SEXUAL RESPONSE 90 Sexual Response Models 90
■ Think About It SEXUAL FLUIDITY: WOMEN’S VARIABLE SEXUAL ATTRACTIONS 91 Desire: Mind or Matter? 95
■ Think About It THE ROLE OF ORGASM 98 Experiencing Sexual Arousal 98
FINAL THOUGHTS 101 | SUMMARY 101 QUESTIONS FOR DISCUSSION 103 | SEX AND THE INTERNET 103 SUGGESTED WEBSITES 103 | SUGGESTED READING 104
4 Male Sexual Anatomy, Physiology, and Response 105
MALE SEX ORGANS: WHAT ARE THEY FOR? 106 External Structures 106
■ Think About It THE PENIS: MORE THAN MEETS THE EYE 108 Internal Structures 110 The Breasts and Anus 112
MALE SEXUAL PHYSIOLOGY 113 Sex Hormones 114
■ Practically Speaking SEXUAL HEALTH CARE: WHAT DO MEN NEED? 115 Spermatogenesis 116
■ Practically Speaking MALE BODY IMAGE SELFCONSCIOUSNESS SCALE 118 Semen Production 118 Homologous Organs 119
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MALE SEXUAL RESPONSE 119 Erection 120 Ejaculation and Orgasm 120
■ Practically Speaking CAN AN ERECTION BE WILLED? 122 FINAL THOUGHTS 123 | SUMMARY 123
QUESTIONS FOR DISCUSSION 124 | SEX AND THE INTERNET 124
SUGGESTED WEBSITES 124 | SUGGESTED READING 124
5 Gender and Gender Roles 125 STUDYING GENDER AND GENDER ROLES 127 Sex, Gender, and Gender Roles: What’s the Diff erence? 127 Sex and Gender Identity 128 Masculinity and Femininity: Opposites or Similar? 130 Gender and Sexual Orientation 131
GENDERROLE LEARNING 131 Theories of Socialization 131 Gender-Role Learning in Childhood and Adolescence 133 Gender Schemas: Exaggerating Diff erences 136
CONTEMPORARY GENDER ROLES AND SCRIPTS 137 Traditional Gender Roles and Scripts 137
■ Think About It THE PURITY STANDARD: DEFINING WOMEN BY THEIR SEXUALITY 140
Changing Gender Roles and Scripts 141 Androgyny 142
GENDER VARIATIONS 143 The Transgender Phenomenon 144 Disorders of Sexual Development/Intersex 144
■ Think About It A NEW APPROACH TO ADDRESSING DISORDERS OF SEXUAL DEVELOPMENT OR INTERSEX 147
Unclassifi ed Form of Abnormal Development 151 Gender Identity Disorder 151 Transsexuality 152 Coming to Terms With Diff erences 153
■ Think About It SEX REASSIGNMENT 154 FINAL THOUGHTS 155 | SUMMARY 155
QUESTIONS FOR DISCUSSION 156
SEX AND THE INTERNET 156
SUGGESTED WEBSITES 157 | SUGGESTED READING 157
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6 Sexuality in Childhood and Adolescence 158
SEXUALITY IN INFANCY AND CHILDHOOD AGES 0 TO 11 159 Infancy and Sexual Response (Ages 0 to 2) 160 Childhood Sexuality (Ages 3 to 11) 160 The Family Context 163
SEXUALITY IN ADOLESCENCE AGES 12 TO 19 164 Psychosexual Development 164 Adolescent Sexual Behavior 172
■ Think About It THE “ORIGINS” OF HOMOSEXUALITY 175 ■ Practically Speaking FIRST SEXUAL INTERCOURSE REACTION SCALE 177
Teenage Pregnancy 178 Sexuality Education 181
■ Think About It ABSTINENCEONLY VERSUS COMPREHENSIVE SEXUALITY PROGRAMS: IT’S A NEW DAY 182
FINAL THOUGHTS 184 | SUMMARY 184
QUESTIONS FOR DISCUSSION 185 | SEX AND THE INTERNET 185
SUGGESTED WEBSITES 185 | SUGGESTED READING 186
7 Sexuality in Adulthood 187 SEXUALITY IN EARLY ADULTHOOD 188 Developmental Concerns 188
■ Think About It LIFE BEHAVIORS OF A SEXUALLY HEALTHY ADULT 190 Establishing Sexual Orientation 191
■ Think About It BISEXUALITY: THE NATURE OF DUAL ATTRACTION 194 Being Single 196
■ Think About It WHY COLLEGE STUDENTS HAVE SEX: GENDER DIFFERENCES, OR NOT? 199
Cohabitation 201
SEXUALITY IN MIDDLE ADULTHOOD 203 Developmental Concerns 203 Sexuality in Established Relationships 204 Divorce and After 205
SEXUALITY IN LATE ADULTHOOD 208 Developmental Concerns 208 Stereotypes of Aging 208 Sexuality and Aging 209
FINAL THOUGHTS 215 | SUMMARY 216
QUESTIONS FOR DISCUSSION 216 | SEX AND THE INTERNET 216
SUGGESTED WEBSITES 217 | SUGGESTED READING 217
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8 Love and Communication in Intimate Relationships 218
FRIENDSHIP AND LOVE 220
LOVE AND SEXUALITY 221 Men, Women, Sex, and Love 223 Love Without Sex: Celibacy and Asexuality 224
■ Think About It ARE GAY/LESBIAN COUPLES AND FAMILIES ANY DIFFERENT FROM HETEROSEXUAL ONES? 225
HOW DO I LOVE THEE? APPROACHES AND ATTITUDES RELATED TO LOVE 225
Styles of Love 226 The Triangular Theory of Love 227 Love as Attachment 230
■ Think About It THE SCIENCE OF LOVE 232 Unrequited Love 233
JEALOUSY 233 Defi ning Jealousy 234
■ Think About It THE PASSIONATE LOVE SCALE 235 Managing Jealousy 236 Extradyadic Involvement 236
MAKING LOVE LAST: FROM PASSION TO INTIMACY 238
THE NATURE OF COMMUNICATION 239 The Cultural Context 239 The Social Context 240 The Psychological Context 241 Nonverbal Communication 241
SEXUAL COMMUNICATION 243 Sexual Communication in Beginning Relationships 243 Sexual Communication in Established Relationships 246 Initiating Sexual Activity 246
DEVELOPING COMMUNICATION SKILLS 247 Talking About Sex 247
■ Practically Speaking COMMUNICATION PATTERNS AND PARTNER SATISFACTION 248
CONFLICT AND INTIMACY 250 ■ Practically Speaking LESSONS FROM THE LOVE LAB 251
Sexual Confl icts 251 Confl ict Resolution 252
FINAL THOUGHTS 252 | SUMMARY 252
QUESTIONS FOR DISCUSSION 254 | SEX AND THE INTERNET 254
SUGGESTED WEBSITES 254 | SUGGESTED READING 255
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9 Sexual Expression 256 SEXUAL ATTRACTIVENESS 258 A Cross-Cultural Analysis 258 Evolutionary Mating Perspectives 260
■ Think About It “HOOKING UP” AMONG COLLEGE STUDENTS 262 Views of College Students 263 Sexual Desire 266
SEXUAL SCRIPTS 266 Cultural Scripting 267 Intrapersonal Scripting 267 Interpersonal Scripting 267
AUTOEROTICISM 268 Sexual Fantasies and Dreams 269 Masturbation 271
■ Practically Speaking ASSESSING YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARD MASTURBATION 274 SEXUAL BEHAVIOR WITH OTHERS 278 Most Recent Partnered Sex 278 Couple Sexual Styles 279
■ Think About It YOU WOULD SAY YOU “HAD SEX” IF YOU . . . 280 Touching 282 Kissing 284 Oral-Genital Sex 284
■ Think About It GIVING AND RECEIVING PLEASURABLE TOUCH: “GEARS OF CONNECTION” 285
■ Think About It THE FIRST KISS: A DEALBREAKER? 286 Sexual Intercourse 289 Anal Eroticism 291 Health Benefi ts of Sexual Activity 294
FINAL THOUGHTS 295 | SUMMARY 295
QUESTIONS FOR DISCUSSION 296 | SEX AND THE INTERNET 296
SUGGESTED WEBSITES 296 | SUGGESTED READING 297
10 Variations in Sexual Behavior 298 SEXUAL VARIATIONS AND PARAPHILIC BEHAVIOR 299 What Are Sexual Variations? 299 What Is Paraphilia? 300
■ Think About It “SEXUAL INTEREST DISORDER”: A VIABLE ALTERNATIVE TO PARAPHILIA OR A RADICAL DEPARTURE? 302
Sexual Variations Among College Students 303
SEXUAL VARIATION: DOMINATION AND SUBMISSION 304
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NONCOERCIVE PARAPHILIAS 306 Fetishism 306 Transvestism 308
■ Practically Speaking SEXUAL SENSATION SEEKING SCALE 309 COERCIVE PARAPHILIAS 310 Zoophilia 311 Voyeurism 311
■ Think About It WOULD YOU WATCH? COLLEGE STUDENTS AND VOYEURISM 312 Exhibitionism 313 Telephone Scatologia 315 Frotteurism 315
■ Think About It “SEXUAL ADDICTION”: REPRESSIVE MORALITY IN A NEW GUISE? 316 Necrophilia 316 Pedophilia 317 Sexual Sadism and Sexual Masochism 318
ORIGINS AND TREATMENT OF PARAPHILIAS 321
FINAL THOUGHTS 322 | SUMMARY 322
QUESTIONS FOR DISCUSSION 323 | SEX AND THE INTERNET 323
SUGGESTED WEBSITES 323 | SUGGESTED READING 323
11 Contraception, Birth Control, and Abortion 325
RISK AND RESPONSIBILITY 326 Women, Men, and Birth Control: Who Is Responsible? 327 Family Planning Clinics 328
■ Think About It RISKY BUSINESS: WHY COUPLES FAIL TO USE CONTRACEPTION 329
METHODS OF CONTRACEPTION AND BIRTH CONTROL 330
Birth Control and Contraception: What’s the Diff erence? 330
Choosing a Method 331 Sexual Abstinence 331 Hormonal Methods 333 Barrier Methods 338
■ Practically Speaking TIPS FOR EFFECTIVE CONDOM USE 340
■ Practically Speaking CORRECT CONDOM USE SELFEFFICACY SCALE 341
Spermicides 344 The IUCs (Intrauterine Contraceptives) 346 Fertility Awareness–Based Methods 347 Lactational Amenorrhea Method (LAM) 348 Sterilization 349 Emergency Contraception (EC) 351
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ABORTION 352 Methods of Abortion 352 Safety of Abortion 353 Women and Abortion 354 Men and Abortion 355 The Abortion Debate 355
RESEARCH ISSUES 357
FINAL THOUGHTS 357 | SUMMARY 358
QUESTIONS FOR DISCUSSION 359 | SEX AND THE INTERNET 359
SUGGESTED WEBSITES 359 | SUGGESTED READING 360
12 Conception, Pregnancy, and Childbirth 361
FERTILIZATION AND FETAL DEVELOPMENT 362 The Fertilization Process 362 Development of the Conceptus 364
■ Think About It A MATTER OF CHOICE 367 BEING PREGNANT 367 Preconception Care 368 Pregnancy Detection 368 Changes in Women During Pregnancy 369
■ Think About It SEXUAL BEHAVIOR DURING PREGNANCY 372 Complications of Pregnancy and Dangers to the Fetus 372 Diagnosing Fetal Abnormalities 377 Pregnancy Loss 378
INFERTILITY 379 Female Infertility 379 Male Infertility 380 Emotional Responses to Infertility 380 Infertility Treatment 380
GIVING BIRTH 384 Labor and Delivery 384 Choices in Childbirth 386
■ Think About It THE QUESTION OF MALE CIRCUMCISION 387 ■ Practically Speaking MAKING A BIRTH PLAN 388
Breastfeeding 390 ■ Practically Speaking BREAST VERSUS BOTTLE: WHICH IS BETTER
FOR YOU AND YOUR CHILD? 391
BECOMING A PARENT 392
FINAL THOUGHTS 393 | SUMMARY 393
QUESTIONS FOR DISCUSSION 394 | SEX AND THE INTERNET 395
SUGGESTED WEBSITES 395 | SUGGESTED READING 395
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13 The Sexual Body in Health and Illness 396
LIVING IN OUR BODIES: THE QUEST FOR PHYSICAL PERFECTION 398 Eating Disorders 398
■ Think About It “OH TO BE BIGGER”: BREAST AND PENIS ENHANCEMENT 399 Body Image and Its Impact on Sexuality 402 Anabolic Steroids: A Dangerous Means to an End 403
ALCOHOL, DRUGS, AND SEXUALITY 403 Alcohol Use and Sexuality 403 Other Drug Use and Sexuality 405
SEXUALITY AND DISABILITY 408 Physical Limitations and Changing Expectations 408 Vision and Hearing Impairment 410 Chronic Illness 410 Developmental Disabilities 412 The Sexual Rights of People With Disabilities 412
SEXUALITY AND CANCER 413 Women and Cancer 413
■ Practically Speaking BREAST SELFEXAMINATION 416 Men and Cancer 424
■ Practically Speaking TESTICULAR SELFEXAMINATION 427 ■ Think About It FEMALE GENITAL CUTTING: MUTILATION OR
IMPORTANT CUSTOM? 429
Anal Cancer in Men and Women 430
ADDITIONAL SEXUAL HEALTH ISSUES 430 Toxic Shock Syndrome 430 Vulvodynia 431 Endometriosis 431 Lesbian Women’s Health Issues 432 Prostatitis 432
FINAL THOUGHTS 433 | SUMMARY 433
QUESTIONS FOR DISCUSSION 435 | SEX AND THE INTERNET 435
SUGGESTED WEBSITES 435 | SUGGESTED READING 436
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14 Sexual Function Diffi culties, Dissatisfaction, Enhancement, and Therapy 437
SEXUAL FUNCTION DIFFICULTIES: DEFINITIONS, TYPES, AND PREVALENCE 439
Defi ning Sexual Function Diffi culties: Diff erent Perspectives 439 Prevalence and Cofactors 443 Disorders of Sexual Desire 446
■ Practically Speaking SEXUAL DESIRE: WHEN APPETITES DIFFER 448 Sexual Arousal Disorders 450
■ Think About It IS INTERCOURSE ENOUGH? THE BIG “O” AND SEXUAL BEHAVIORS 452 Orgasmic Disorders 452 Sexual Pain Disorders 455 Other Disorders 456
PHYSICAL CAUSES OF SEXUAL FUNCTION DIFFICULTIES AND DISSATISFACTION 457
Physical Causes in Men 457 Physical Causes in Women 457
PSYCHOLOGICAL CAUSES OF SEXUAL FUNCTION DIFFICULTIES AND DISSATISFACTION 458
Immediate Causes 458 Confl ict Within the Self 459 Relationship Causes 460
SEXUAL FUNCTION ENHANCEMENT 461 Developing Self-Awareness 461
■ Think About It “GOOD ENOUGH SEX”: THE WAY TO LIFETIME COUPLE SATISFACTION 462
■ Think About It SEXUAL TURNONS AND TURNOFFS: WHAT COLLEGE STUDENTS REPORT 463
Intensifying Erotic Pleasure 465 Changing a Sexual Relationship 466
TREATING SEXUAL FUNCTION DIFFICULTIES 467 Masters and Johnson: A Cognitive-Behavioral Approach 467 Kaplan: Psychosexual Therapy 471 Other Nonmedical Approaches 471 Medical Approaches 472
■ Think About It THE MEDICALIZATION OF SEXUAL FUNCTION PROBLEMS 475 Gay, Lesbian, and Bisexual Sex Therapy 475
■ Practically Speaking SEEKING PROFESSIONAL ASSISTANCE 477 FINAL THOUGHTS 477 | SUMMARY 478
QUESTIONS FOR DISCUSSION 479 | SEX AND THE INTERNET 480
SUGGESTED WEBSITES 480 | SUGGESTED READING 480
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15 Sexually Transmitted Infections 481
THE STI EPIDEMIC 483 STIs: The Most Common Reportable Infectious Diseases 483 Who Is Aff ected: Disparities Among Groups 483 Factors Contributing to the Spread of STIs 486
■ Practically Speaking PREVENTING STIs: THE ROLE OF MALE CONDOMS AND FEMALE CONDOMS 489
■ Practically Speaking STI ATTITUDE SCALE 492 Consequences of STIs 493
PRINCIPAL BACTERIAL STIs 493 Chlamydia 493 Gonorrhea 497 Urinary Tract Infections 498 Syphilis 498
■ Think About It THE TUSKEGEE SYPHILIS STUDY: A TRAGEDY OF RACE AND MEDICINE 500
PRINCIPAL VIRAL STIs 500 HIV and AIDS 501 Genital Human Papillomavirus Infection 502 Genital Herpes 504 Viral Hepatitis 505
VAGINAL INFECTIONS 506 Bacterial Vaginosis 506 Genital Candidiasis 507 Trichomoniasis 508
OTHER STIs 508
ECTOPARASITIC INFESTATIONS 509 Scabies 509 Pubic Lice 509
STI AND WOMEN 510 Pelvic Infl ammatory Disease (PID) 510 Cervicitis 510 Cystitis 511
PREVENTING STIs 511 Avoiding STIs 511 Treating STIs 513
■ Practically Speaking SAFER AND UNSAFE SEX PRACTICES 514 FINAL THOUGHTS 515 | SUMMARY 515
QUESTIONS FOR DISCUSSION 516 | SEX AND THE INTERNET 517
SUGGESTED WEBSITES 517 | SUGGESTED READING 517
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16 HIV and AIDS 518 WHAT IS AIDS? 520 Conditions Associated With AIDS 520
■ Think About It THE STIGMATIZATION OF HIV AND OTHER STIs 521 Symptoms of HIV Infection and AIDS 522 Understanding AIDS: The Immune System and HIV 522 The Virus 523 AIDS Pathogenesis: How the Disease Progresses 524
THE EPIDEMIOLOGY AND TRANSMISSION OF HIV 526 The Epidemiology of HIV/AIDS in the United States 527 Myths and Modes of Transmission 530 Sexual Transmission 531 Injection Drug Use 532 Mother-to-Child Transmission 532 Factors Contributing to Infection 533
AIDS DEMOGRAPHICS 533 Minority Races/Ethnicities and HIV 533 The Gay Community 536 Women and HIV/AIDS 538 Children and HIV/AIDS 539 HIV/AIDS Among Youth 540 Older Adults and HIV/AIDS 541 Geographic Region and HIV 541
■ Practically Speaking HIV PREVENTION ATTITUDE SCALE 542 PREVENTION AND TREATMENT 542
■ Practically Speaking HEALTH PROTECTIVE SEXUAL COMMUNICATION SCALE 543
Protecting Ourselves 543 Saving Lives Through Prevention 544
■ Think About It “DO YOU KNOW WHAT YOU ARE DOING?” COMMON CONDOMUSE MISTAKES AMONG COLLEGE STUDENTS 545
HIV Testing 548 Treatments 550
LIVING WITH HIV OR AIDS 552 If You Are HIV-Positive 553
FINAL THOUGHTS 554 | SUMMARY 554
QUESTIONS FOR DISCUSSION 555 | SEX AND THE INTERNET 556
SUGGESTED WEBSITES 556 | SUGGESTED READING 556
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17 Sexual Coercion: Harassment, Aggression, and Abuse 557
SEXUAL HARASSMENT 558 What Is Sexual Harassment? 559 Flirtation Versus Harassment 561 Harassment in School and College 562 Harassment in the Workplace 564
HARASSMENT AND DISCRIMINATION AGAINST GAY, LESBIAN, BISEXUAL, AND TRANSGENDER PEOPLE 565
Heterosexual Bias 565 Prejudice, Discrimination, and Violence 566
■ Think About It PUBLIC OPINION ABOUT GAY AND LESBIAN ISSUES AND RIGHTS 569
Ending Anti-Gay Prejudice and Enactment of Antidiscrimination Laws 570
SEXUAL AGGRESSION 572 The Nature and Incidence of Rape 572 Myths About Rape 573
■ Practically Speaking PREVENTING SEXUAL ASSAULT 574 Forms of Rape 576
■ Think About It DATE/ACQUAINTANCE RAPE DRUGS: AN INCREASING THREAT 578
Motivations for Rape 583 The Aftermath of Rape 584
■ Practically Speaking HELPING SOMEONE WHO HAS BEEN RAPED 585
CHILD SEXUAL ABUSE 586 Forms of Intrafamilial Sexual Abuse 587 Children at Risk 588 Eff ects of Child Sexual Abuse 588 Treatment Programs 591 Preventing Child Sexual Abuse 592
FINAL THOUGHTS 593 | SUMMARY 593
QUESTIONS FOR DISCUSSION 594 | SEX AND THE INTERNET 594
SUGGESTED WEBSITES 595 | SUGGESTED READING 595
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18 Sexually Explicit Materials, Prostitution, and Sex Laws 596
SEXUALLY EXPLICIT MATERIAL IN CONTEMPORARY AMERICA 597 Pornography or Erotica: Which Is It? 598 Sexually Explicit Material and Popular Culture 598 Sexually Explicit Materials on the Internet 599
■ Think About It COLLEGE STUDENTS AND THE VIEWING OF SEXUALLY EXPLICIT MATERIALS 602
The Eff ects of Sexually Explicit Material 602 Censorship, Sexually Explicit Material, and the Law 606
PROSTITUTION 610 Females Working in Prostitution 611
■ Think About It HUMAN TRAFFICKING: INTERNATIONAL CHILD AND TEEN PROSTITUTION 612
Males Working in Prostitution 617 Prostitution and the Law 618 The Impact of HIV/AIDS and Other STIs 619
SEXUALITY AND THE LAW 620 Legalizing Private, Consensual Sexual Behavior 620 Same-Sex Marriage 621
■ Think About It AN EXPANDING DEFINITION OF “FAMILY”: A TREND LEADING TO FURTHER LEGALIZATION OF SAMESEX MARRIAGE? 623
Advocating Sexual Rights 623
FINAL THOUGHTS 624 | SUMMARY 624
QUESTIONS FOR DISCUSSION 625 | SEX AND THE INTERNET 626
SUGGESTED WEBSITES 626 | SUGGESTED READING 626
GLOSSARY G1
BIBLIOGRAPHY B1
CREDITS C1
NAME INDEX NI1
SUBJECT INDEX SI1
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WILLIAM L. YARBER is a senior research fellow at Th e Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender, and Reproduction and the senior director of the Rural Center for AIDS/STD Prevention at Indiana University, Bloomington. He is also professor of applied health science and professor of gender studies at IU. Dr. Yarber, who received his doctorate from Indiana University, has authored or co-authored numerous scientifi c reports on sexual risk behavior and AIDS/STD prevention in professional journals and has received several federal and state grants to support his research and AIDS/ STD prevention eff orts. He is a member of the Th e Kinsey Institute Condom Use Research Team (CURT) comprised of researchers from Indiana University, University of Kentucky, University of Guelph (Canada), and University of Southampton (United Kingdom). For over a decade, with federal and institutional research support, CURT has investigated male condom use, particularly use errors and problems, and has devel- oped behavioral interventions designed to improve correct condom use. At the request of the U.S. government, Dr. Yarber authored the country’s fi rst secondary school AIDS prevention education curriculum, AIDS: What Young People Should Know (1987). He also co-edited the Handbook of Sexuality-Related Measures, Th ird Edition (2011). Dr. Yarber chaired the National Guidelines Task Force, which developed the Guidelines for Comprehensive Sexuality Education: Kindergarten–12th Grade (1991, 1996, 2004), pub- lished by the Sexuality Information and Education Council of the United States (SIECUS). Dr. Yarber is past president of Th e Society for the Scientifi c Study of Sexuality (SSSS) and a past chair of the SIECUS board of directors. His awards include the SSSS Distinguished Scientifi c Achievement Award, the Professional Stan- dard of Excellence from the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors, and Th erapists, the Indiana University President’s Award for Distinguished Teaching, and the inaugural Graduate Student Outstanding Faculty Mentor Award at Indiana Uni- versity. Dr. Yarber has been a consultant to the World Health Organization Global Program on AIDS. He regularly teaches undergraduate and graduate courses in human sexuality. He was previously a faculty member at Purdue University and the University of Minnesota, as well as a public high school health science and biology teacher. Dr. Yarber is married and is the father of two adult daughters.
About the AuthorsAbout the Authors
William L. Yarber
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BARBARA W. SAYAD is a faculty member at California State University, Monterey Bay, where she teaches human sexuality, women’s health, behavior change, service learning, and health promotion in multicultural populations. Dr. Sayad holds a Ph.D. in Health and Human Behavior, an M.P.H. in Community Health Education, and a B.S. in Foods and Nutrition. Along with co-authoring six editions of Human Sexuality: Diversity in Contemporary America (McGraw-Hill), she has also co-authored Th e Marriage and Family Experience (Wadsworth) and has contributed to a number of other health-related texts, curricular guides, and pub- lications. In addition to her 30 years of teaching and mentoring in the university setting, Dr. Sayad has facilitated a number of training programs, presented at professional organizations, and worked as a training and curriculum consultant in nonprofi t and proprietary organizations. Dr. Sayad is married and with her hus- band, Bob, has three adult children.
Barbara W. Sayad
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A Guided Tour Through the Eighth Editionthe Eighth Edition
Since the fi rst edition, Human Sexuality: Diversity in Contemporary America has presented students with a nonjudgmental view of human sexuality while encouraging them to become proactive about their own sexual well-being. Th is sex-positive approach, combined with an integrated exploration of cultural diversity and contemporary research, continues today. Th e new edition emphasizes the importance of affi rming and supporting intimacy, pleasuring, and mutual satisfaction in human sexuality. Th is empha- sis can be found throughout the book but particularly in Chapter 8, Love and Communication in Intimate Relationships and Chapter 9, Sexual Expression. In addition, students are encouraged to critically assess their own values and modes of sexual expression. For instance, Th ink About It boxes prompt students to evaluate their knowledge of and opinions about high-interest topics in sex- uality such as sexting or the expanding defi nition of family.
• Expanding Students’ Knowledge of Human Sexuality How many students think they know everything about human sexuality but struggle on the fi rst exam? LearnSmart, McGraw-Hill’s adaptive learning sys- tem, helps students identify what they know—and, more importantly, what
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they don’t know. Based on Bloom’s Taxonomy, LearnSmart creates a customized study plan, unique to every student’s demonstrated needs. With virtually no administrative overhead, instructors using LearnSmart are reporting an increase in student performance by one letter grade or more.
• Assessing Student Progress McGraw-Hill’s Connect Human Sexuality off ers a wealth of assignable and assessable course materials. Videos, interactivities, and self-assessments engage students in human sexuality course concepts. Detailed reporting helps the stu- dent and instructor gauge comprehension and retention—without adding admin- istrative load.
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• Chapter-by-Chapter Changes Th e amount of research in gender and gender and queer studies is ever increasing, media continues to have a signifi cant impact on sexuality, and the approaches and language used to describe these areas are perpetually evolving. Th e eighth edition of Human Sexuality: Diversity in Contemporary America addresses these and many other important changes:
Chapter 1: Perspectives on Human Sexuality ■ Expanded and updated material on media portrayals of sexuality ■ New material on teens “coming out” ■ New research on social networking ■ Added discussion on the sexual revolution and its impact on sexual
expression
Chapter 2: Studying Human Sexuality ■ Findings of the latest CDC Youth Risk Behavior Survey ■ Results of the latest National Survey of Family Growth study on several
measures of sexual behavior, sexual attraction, and sexual identity of men and women aged 15–44 years
■ Th e most recent fi ndings of the American College Health Association research on college student sexual behavior
■ Findings of the National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior, the most expansive nationally representative study since 1994
■ New Th ink About It box: “Sex Research: A Benefi t to Individuals and Society or Th reat to Morality?”
Chapter 3: Female Sexual Anatomy, Physiology, and Response ■ Expanded discussion on the science behind the G-spot ■ Added theory and discussion around the dual control model ■ Discussion of the circular model of sexual desire and response ■ New research on the brain “in love”
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■ New research on “faking orgasm” ■ New Th ink About It box: “Sexual Fluidity: Women’s Variable Sexual
Attractions”
Chapter 4: Male Sexual Anatomy, Physiology, and Response ■ Expanded discussion on the sexual health of men ■ New Practically Speaking box: “Male Body Image Self-Consciousness Scale” ■ Updated discussion on low testosterone
Chapter 5: Gender and Gender Roles ■ Updated research and discussion on disorders of sexual development ■ Added discussion on gender bias and violence on college campus ■ Added discussion on nonmedical options for the transgender person ■ New Th ink About It box: “Th e Purity Standard: Defi ning Women by
Th eir Sexuality”
Chapter 6: Sexuality in Childhood and Adolescence ■ New table on childhood sexual behaviors witnessed by parents ■ New research on “precocious puberty” ■ Introduction to the Report of the APA Task Force on the Sexualization
of Girls ■ New research on and discussion of what constitutes having “had sex” ■ New research on physiological and psychological satisfaction of fi rst
vaginal intercourse ■ New Th ink About It box: “Abstinence-Only Versus Comprehensive Sexuality
Programs: It’s a New Day” ■ New Practically Speaking box: “First Intercourse Reaction Scale”
Chapter 7: Sexuality in Adulthood ■ Expanded discussion on an integrated GLBT identity ■ Updated data on and trends in cohabitation ■ New discussion about online dating ■ Updates on menopause and hormone replacement therapy ■ New research on sexuality among older adults
Chapter 8: Love and Communication in Intimate Relationships ■ New research on keeping love alive ■ Added discussion on gender, sexual orientation, and relationship
satisfaction ■ New research on the role of oxytocin and relationship satisfaction ■ New self-assessment: “Dyadic Sexual Communication Scale”
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■ New Th ink About It box: “Are Gay/Lesbian Couples and Families Any Diff erent from Heterosexual Ones?”
■ New research on jealousy ■ Updated data and discussion on infi delity among marital and nonmarital
couples
Chapter 9: Sexual Expression ■ Expanded discussion on physical characteristics and scent as related to
sexual attractiveness ■ Updated Th ink About It box: “‘Hooking Up’ Among College Students” ■ New research on “mate poaching” ■ Findings of the prevalence of nine sexual behaviors and contextual factors
and men and women from the National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior
■ New discussion of couple sexual styles ■ New Th ink About It box: “Giving and Receiving Pleasurable Touch:
‘Gears of Connection’” ■ New discussion on health benefi ts of sexual activity ■ New and lifelike positional art
Chapter 10: Variations in Sexual Behavior ■ New Practically Speaking box: “Sexual Sensation Seeking Scale” ■ Expanded discussion of domination and submission ■ New research on noncoercive paraphilias ■ Recent data concerning coercive paraphilias
Chapter 11: Contraception, Birth Control, and Abortion ■ New Practically Speaking box: “Correct Condom Use Self-Effi cacy
Scale” ■ New data on unintended pregnancies and outcomes ■ Latest research and updates on all birth control devices ■ Updated discussion of emergency contraception ■ New data on the prevalence and legal status of abortion ■ Updated research on and discussion of the role and impact of abortion
on males
Chapter 12: Conception, Pregnancy, and Childbirth ■ New discussion of pre-conception care ■ New research on the role of physical activity and obesity in pregnancy
outcomes ■ New research on Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS)
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■ Update on policies and procedures for pregnancy, delivery, and new mothers and families
■ Updated Th ink About It box: “Th e Question of Male Circumcision”
Chapter 13: The Sexual Body in Health and Illness ■ Updates on male cosmetic surgery, including a critical look at penis
enhancement ■ New research on eating disorders among gay, lesbian, and transgender
individuals ■ New research on the sexual consequences of eating disorders ■ New research on and discussion of the role of binge drinking and sexual
risk-taking ■ Updated and expanded discussion about recreational drugs and sexual
behaviors ■ Updated discussion of “natural substances” and sexual performance ■ Updates and recommendations for men’s and women’s sexual health care,
including use of mammograms and prostate screening
Chapter 14: Sexual Function Diffi culties, Dissatisfaction, Enhancement, and Therapy ■ New research on the prevalence of sexual function diffi culties ■ New research on changes in sexual desire among men and women from
12 age groups and intercourse prevalence among long-term couples ■ New Th ink About It box: “Sexual Desire: When Sexual Appetites Diff er” ■ Expanded discussion of the role of varied sexual behaviors as related to
experiencing orgasm ■ Added Th ink About It box: “ ‘Good Enough Sex’: Th e Way to Lifetime
Couple Satisfaction” ■ New discussion of developing and maintaining sexual desire ■ Added discussion of ways to deal with discrepancies in sexual desire
among couples
Chapter 15: Sexually Transmitted Infections ■ Updated information on the prevalence and incidence of major STIs ■ Updated medical information on the major STIs ■ New discussion of concurrent sexual relationships as an STI risk ■ Expanded discussion of the factors contributing to the spread of STIs ■ New information on circumcision and STI prevention ■ Updated information on the HPV vaccination
Chapter 16: HIV and AIDS ■ Updated information on the prevalence and incidence of HIV/AIDS in
the United States and worldwide
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■ Updated biological information on HIV/AIDS ■ Expanded discussion of the disproportionate impact of HIV/AIDS on
African Americans, Latinos, and men who have sex with men ■ Updated information on antiretroviral therapy ■ New material on the success of HIV prevention eff orts
Chapter 17: Sexual Coercion: Harassment, Aggression, and Abuse ■ New material on stalking ■ Updated information on the prevalence and outcomes of sexual harassment,
aggression, rape, and child sexual abuse ■ Expanded discussion of the outcomes of anti-gay prejudice and discrimination ■ New public opinion polls on gay and lesbian rights ■ Expanded discussion of antidiscrimination laws
Chapter 18: Sexually Explicit Materials, Prostitution, and Sex Laws ■ New material on Internet sex site use by college students and other
populations ■ Expanded and new information on the eff ects of sexually explicit materials ■ Added Th ink About It box: “Human Traffi cking: International Child
and Teen Prostitution” ■ New material on the nature and outcomes of prostitution ■ Updated discussion of same-sex marriage ■ New Th ink About It box: “An Expanding Defi nition of ‘Family’? A Trend
Leading to Further Legalization of Same-Sex Marriage?” ■ Update on recent milestone rulings affi rming gay rights in the
United States
• Human Sexuality Teaching and Learning Resources Program Human Sexuality is the centerpiece of a complete resource program for both students and instructors. Th e following materials have been carefully developed by a team of experienced human sexuality instructors to support a variety of teaching and learning styles.
Online Learning Center for Instructors Th is password-protected website con- tains the Test Bank, Instructor’s Manual, PowerPoint presentations, and image gallery, as well as access to the entire student side of the website. To access these resources, please go to www.mhhe.com/yarber8e.
Instructor’s Manual prepared by ANSR, a leading academic supplements development company. Th is guide begins with general concepts and strategies for teaching human sexuality. Th e Instructor’s Manual contains a chapter
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outline, learning objectives, discussion questions, activities, a list of videos, a bibliography, worksheets, handouts, and internet activities for each chapter. Th e Instructor’s Manual can be accessed on the Online Learning Center.
Test Bank prepared by Tori Bovard, American River College. Th e Test Bank has been revised and updated by the author of the previous edition’s Test Bank. Updated and revised for the new edition, each chapter off ers over 100 ques- tions, including multiple choice and short answer questions. Th ese test items are available on the instructors’ Online Learning Center as Word fi les and in EZ Test, an easy-to-use electronic test bank that allows instructors to easily edit and add their own questions.
PowerPoint Presentations prepared by ANSR, a leading academic supplements development company. Available on the Online Learning Center, these presen- tations cover the key points of each chapter. Th ey can be used as-is or modifi ed to support an individual instructors’ lectures and style. Digital version of many images and fi gures are also available in the Image Gallery.
Online Learning Center for Students includes multiple choice, true/false, and fi ll-in the blank practice quizzes to help students prepare for exams. To access these resources, go to www.mhhe.com/yarber8e.
McGraw-Hill publishes Annual Editions: Human Sexuality, a collection of articles on topics related to the latest research and thinking in human sexuality from over 300 public press sources. Th ese editions are updated annually and contain helpful features, including a topic guide, an annotated table of con- tents, unit overviews, and a topical index. An instructor’s guide containing testing material is also available. ISBN: 0078051177.
For information on any component of the teaching and learning package, instructors should contact their McGraw-Hill representative.
• Acknowledgments Many people contributed to the creation and development of this book. First and foremost, we wish to thank the many students whose voices appear in the introductions of each chapter. The majority of these excepts come from Bobbi Mitzenmacher’s, Barbara Sayad’s, and William L. Yarber’s undergraduate human sexuality students (California State University, Long Beach and Monterey Bay, and Indiana University), who have courageously agreed to share their experi- ences. All of these students have given permission to use their experiences and quotations so that others might share and learn from their reflections. A number of reviewers and adopters were instrumental in directing the authors to needed changes, updates, and resources, and we are most grateful for their insights and contributions. Whenever possible, we have taken their suggestions and integrated them into the text. Special thanks are owed to the following reviewers of the sixth edition:
Michael W. Agopian, Los Angeles Harbor College Glenn Carter, Austin Peay State University Ellen Cole, Alaska Pacifi c University Sara L. Crawley, University of South Florida Linda De Villers, Pepperdine University
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Bety Dorr, Fort Lewis College Amanda Emo, University of Cincinnati Jean Hoth, Rochester Community and Technical College Mary Meiners, Miramar College William O’Donohue, University of Nevada Carlos Sandoval, Cypress College Mary Ann Watson, Metro State College at Denver Laurie M. Wagner, Kent State University
Th anks also to the reviewers of the seventh edition:
Stephanie Coday, Sierra College Jodi Martin deCamilo, St. Louis Community College, Meramec-Kirkwood Dale Doty, Monroe Community College Duane Dowd, Central Washington University, Ellensburg Edward Fliss, St. Louis Community College, Florissant Valley Richard Hardy, Indiana University at Bloomington Lynne M. Kemen, Hunter College Nancy King, Western Michigan University, Kalamazoo Kris Koehne, University of Tennessee, Knoxville Jennifer Musick, Long Beach City College Diane Pisacreta, St. Louis Community College, Meramec-Kirkwood Grace Pokorny, Long Beach City College Michael Rahilly, University of California at Davis Sally Raskoff , Los Angeles Valley College Daniel Rubin, Valencia Community College, West Campus Regine Rucker, University of Illinois, Champaign Catherine Sherwood-Puzzello, Indiana University at Bloomington Peggy Skinner, South Plains College
And most recently, thanks to the reviewers of the eighth edition:
Janell Campbell, California State University, Chico Susan Horton, Mesa Community College Eileen Johnston, Glendale Community College Amanda LeBlanc, University of South Florida Richard McWhorter, Prairie View A&M University Grace Pokorny, Long Beach City College Tina Timm, Michigan State University
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When students fi rst enter a human sexuality class, they may feel uncomfortable, nervous, and excited, all at the same time. Th ese feelings are not at all uncom- mon. Th is is because the more an area is judged to be “off limits,” the less likely it is to be discussed. Yet sex surrounds us and impacts our lives every day from the provocative billboard ad on the highway, to men’s and women’s fashions, to prime-time television dramas. People want to learn about human sexuality and how to live a healthy life both physically and psychologically. In our quest for knowledge and understanding, we need to be intellectually curi- ous. As writer Joan Nestle observes, “Curiosity builds bridges. . . . Curiosity is not trivial; it is the respect one life pays to another.” Students begin studying sexuality for many reasons: to gain insight into their sexuality and relationships, to become more comfortable with their sexuality, to learn how to enhance sexual pleasure, to explore personal sexual issues, to dispel anxieties and doubts, to validate their sexual identity, to resolve traumatic sexual experiences, and to learn how to avoid STIs and unintended pregnancies. Many students fi nd the study of sexuality empowering; they develop the abil- ity to make intelligent sexual choices based on reputable information and their own needs, desires, and values, rather than on stereotypical, haphazard, unreli- able, incomplete, or unrealistic information or guilt, fear, or conformity. Th ose studying this subject often report that they feel more appreciative and less apologetic, defensive, or shameful about their sexual feelings, attractions, and desires. Particularly in a country as diverse as the United States, the study of sexuality calls for us to be open-minded: to be receptive to new ideas and to various per- spectives; to respect those with diff erent experiences, values, orientations, ages, and ethnicities; to seek to understand what we have not understood before; to reexamine old assumptions, ideas, and beliefs; and to embrace and accept the humanness and uniqueness in each of us. Sexuality can be a source of great pleasure. Th rough it, we can reveal our- selves, connect with others on the most intimate levels, create strong bonds, and bring new life into the world. Paradoxically, though, sexuality can also be a source of guilt and confusion, anger and disappointment, a pathway to infec- tion, and a means of exploitation and aggression. We hope that by examining the multiple aspects of human sexuality presented in this book, you will come to understand, accept, and appreciate your own sexuality and that of others and learn how to make healthy sexual choices for yourself.
Letter From the Authors
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Perspectives on Human Sexuality
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Studying Human Sexuality 2
Sexuality, Popular Culture, and the Media 5
Sexuality Across Cultures and Times 14
Societal Norms and Sexuality 19
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“The media, espe- cially magazines and television, has had an infl uence on shaping my sexual identity. Ever since I was a little girl, I have watched the women on TV and hoped I would grow
up to look sexy and beautiful like them. I feel that because of the constant barrage of images of beautiful women on TV and in magazines young girls like me grow up with unrealistic ex- pectations of what beauty is and are doomed to feel they have not met this exaggerated standard.”
—21-year-old female
“The phone, television, and Internet became my best friends. I never missed an episode of any of the latest shows, and I knew all the words to every new song. And when Facebook entered my life, I fi nally felt connected. At school, we would talk about status updates: whom we thought was cute, relationship sta- tus, and outrageous photos. All of the things we saw were all of the things we fantasized about. These are the things we would talk about.”
—23-year-old female
“Though I fi rmly believe that we are our own harshest critics, I also believe that the media have a large role in infl uencing how we think of ourselves. I felt like ripping my hair out every time I saw a skinny model whose stomach was as hard and fl at as a board, with their fl awless skin and perfectly coifed hair. I cringed when I realized that my legs seemed to have an extra ‘wiggle-jiggle’ when I walked. All I could do was watch the tele- vision and feel abashed at the diff erences in their bodies com- pared to mine. When magazines and fi lms tell me that for my age I should weigh no more than a hundred pounds, I feel like saying, ‘Well, gee, it’s no wonder I fi nally turned to laxatives with all these pressures to be thin surrounding me.’ I ached to be model-thin and pretty. This fi xation to be as beautiful and coveted as these models so preoccupied me that I had no time to even think about anyone or anything else.”
—18-year-old female
“I am aware that I may be lacking in certain areas of my sexual self-esteem, but I am cognizant of my shortcomings and am willing to work on them. A person’s sexual self-esteem isn’t something that is detached from his or her daily life. It is inter- twined in every aspect of life and how one views his or her self: emotionally, physically, and mentally. For my own sake, as well as my daughter’s, I feel it is important for me to develop and model a healthy sexual self-esteem.”
—28-year-old male
S exuality was once hidden from view in our culture: Fig leaves covered the “private parts” of nudes; poultry breasts were renamed “white meat”; censors prohibited the publication of the works of D. H. Lawrence, James Joyce, and Henry Miller; and homosexuality was called “the love that dares not speak its name.” But over the past few generations, sexuality has become more open. In recent years, popular culture and the media have transformed what we “know” about sexuality. Not only is sexuality not hidden from view; it often seems to surround us. In this chapter, we discuss why we study human sexuality and examine popular culture and the media to see how they shape our ideas about sexuality. Th en we look at how sexuality has been treated in diff erent cultures and at diff erent times in history. Finally, we examine how society defi nes various aspects of our sexuality as natural or normal.
• Studying Human Sexuality Th e study of human sexuality diff ers from the study of accounting, plant biol- ogy, and medieval history, for example, because human sexuality is surrounded by a vast array of taboos, fears, prejudices, and hypocrisy. For many, sexuality creates ambivalent feelings. It is linked not only with intimacy and pleasure but also with shame, guilt, and discomfort. As a result, you may fi nd yourself
Student Voices
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confronted with society’s mixed feelings about sexuality as you study it. You may fi nd, for example, that others perceive you as somehow “unique” or “dif- ferent” for taking this course. Some may feel threatened in a vague, undefi ned way. Parents, partners, or spouses (or your own children, if you are a parent) may wonder why you want to take a “sex class”; they may want to know why you don’t take something more “serious”—as if sexuality were not one of the most important issues we face as individuals and as a society. Sometimes this uneasiness manifests itself in humor, one of the ways in which we deal with ambivalent feelings: “You mean you have to take a class on sex?” “Are there labs?” “Why don’t you let me show you?” Ironically, despite societal ambivalence, you may quickly fi nd that your human sexuality textbook becomes the most popular book in your dormitory or apartment. “I can never fi nd my textbook when I need it,” one of our stu- dents complained. “My roommates are always reading it. And they’re not even taking the course!” Another student observed: “My friends used to kid me about taking the class, but now the fi rst thing they ask when they see me is what we discussed in class.” “People borrow my book so often without asking,” writes one student, “that I hide it now.” As you study human sexuality, you will fi nd yourself exploring topics not ordinarily discussed in other classes. Sometimes they are rarely talked about even among friends. Th ey may be prohibited by family, religious, or cultural teaching. For this reason, behaviors such as masturbation and sexual fantasizing are often the source of considerable guilt and shame. But in your human sexuality course, these topics will be examined objectively. You may be surprised to discover, in fact, that part of your learning involves unlearning myths, factual errors, distor- tions, biases, and prejudices you learned previously. Sexuality may be the most taboo subject you study as an undergraduate, but your comfort level in class will probably increase as you recognize that you and your fellow students have a common purpose in learning about sexuality. Your sense of ease may also increase as you and your classmates get to know one another and discuss sexuality, both inside and outside the class. You may fi nd that, as you become accustomed to using the accepted sexual vocabulary, you are more comfortable discussing various topics. For example, your communication with a partner may improve, which will strengthen your relationship and increase sexual satisfaction for both of you. (To assess your level of sexual satisfaction in a sexual relationship, complete the question- naires in either or both of the boxes “Communication Patterns and Partner Satisfaction” or “Th e Passionate Love Scale” found in Chapter 8.) You may never before have used the words masturbation, clitoris, or penis in a class setting (or any kind of setting, for that matter). But after a while, using these and other terms may become second nature to you. You may discover that discussing sexuality academically becomes as easy as discussing computer sci- ence, astronomy, or literature. You may even fi nd yourself, as many students do, discussing with your friends what you learned in class while on a bus or in a restaurant, as other passengers or diners gasp in surprise or lean toward you to hear better! Studying sexuality requires respect for your fellow students. You’ll discover that the experiences and values of your classmates vary greatly. Some have little sexual experience, while others have a lot of experience; some students hold progressive sexual values, while others hold conservative ones. Some students are gay, lesbian, or bisexual individuals, while the majority are heterosexual people. Most students
“ Sexuality is with us from the moment of birth to the moment of death. We can
deny it or defl ect it, we can pretend it’s something other than what it is, we can refuse to talk about it or act on it, we can do all sorts of things regarding our sexuality. The only thing we can’t do is get rid of it.
—Bernie Zilbergeld (1939-2002)
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are young, others middle-aged, some old—each in a diff erent stage of life and with diff erent developmental tasks before them. Furthermore, the presence of students from any of the numerous ethnic groups in the United States reminds us that there is no single behavior, attitude, value, or sexual norm that encom- passes sexuality in contemporary America. Finally, as your sexuality evolves as you yourself change, you will fi nd that you will become more accepting of yourself as a sexual human being.
practically speaking
Most individuals would agree that sexuality is a signifi cant component of one’s quality of life and well-being and that pleasure is a key element for their motivation to have sex. Given that one of the goals of this text is to provide information and tools for enhancing satisfaction in sexual relationships, em- phasis on sexual pleasure and pleasuring will occur throughout the book, but will be particularly highlighted in Chapters 7, 8, and 14. The New Sexual Satisfaction Scale (NSSS) was developed as a tool for assessing sexual satisfaction. This measure can be used by those who are or have been in sexual relationships within the past 6 months or by anyone who might fi nd it infor- mative and perhaps useful for when they do become involved in a sexual relationship. The scale is not specifi c to gender, sexual orientation, or relationship status. When individuals discover the signifi cance of their own sex- ual style and share this information with their partners, bonds can be strengthened, deeper connections can be made, and pleasure can be experienced as a component of holistic health and well-being.
Directions
Thinking about your sex life during the past 6 months, please rate your satisfaction with the following aspects:
1 � Not at all satisfi ed 2 � A little satisfi ed 3 � Moderately satisfi ed 4 � Very satisfi ed 5 � Extremely satisfi ed
1. The intensity of my sexual arousal
2. The quality of my orgasms
3. My “letting go” and surrender to sexual pleasure during sex
4. My focus/concentration during sexual activity
5. The way I sexually react to my partner
6. My body’s sexual functioning
7. My emotional opening-up in sex
8. My mood after sexual activity
9. The frequency of my orgasms
10. The pleasure I provide to my partner
11. The balance between what I give and receive in sex
12. My partner’s emotional opening-up during sex
13. My partner’s initiation of sexual activity
14. My partner’s ability to orgasm
15. My partner’s surrender to sexual pleasure (“letting go”)
16. The way my partner takes care of my sexual needs
17. My partner’s sexual creativity
18. My partner’s sexual availability
19. The variety of my sexual activities
20. The frequency of my sexual activity
Scoring
There are two components of this assessment: the Ego-Centered subscale (items 1–10), which measures sexual satisfaction gener- ated by your personal experiences and sensations, and the Partner/Sexual Activity-Centered subscale (items 11–20), which measures sexual satisfaction derived from your perception of your partner’s sexual behaviors and reactions and the diversity and/or frequency of your sexual activities. Scores will range between 20 and 100, 10–50 for each of the two subscales with the higher scores leaning toward more satisfaction.
Assessing Sexual Satisfaction
SOURCE: Stulhofer, A., Busko, V., & Brouillard, P. The New Sexual Satisfaction Scale and its short form. In T. D. Fisher, C. M. Davis, W. L. Yarber, & S. L. Davis (Eds.), Handbook of sexuality-related measures (pp. 530–532). Copyright 2011 by Routledge. Reprinted by permission of the publisher (Taylor & Francis Group, http://www.informaworld.com).
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• Sexuality, Popular Culture, and the Media Much of sexuality is infl uenced and shaped by popular culture, especially the mass media. Popular culture presents us with myriad images of what it means to be sexual. But what kinds of sexuality do the media portray for our consumption?
Media Portrayals of Sexuality
What messages do the media send about sex to children, adolescents, adults, and older people? To men and women and to those of varied races, ethnicities, and sexual orientations? Perhaps as important as what the media portray sexu- ally is what is not portrayed—masturbation, condom use, and older adults’ sexuality, for example. Th e media are among the most powerful forces in young people’s lives today (Kaiser Family Foundation, 2010). Next to sleeping, young people spend more time engaging with the media than any other activity—an aver- age of 7½ hours per day, 7 days per week (see Figure 1.1). Watching TV, playing video games, texting, listening to music, and searching the Internet provide a constant stream of messages, images, expectations, and values about which few (if any) of us can resist. Whether and how this exposure is related to sexual outcomes is complex and debatable, depending on the population studied. However, the data that are available may provide an impetus for policy makers who are forming media policies, parents who are trying to support their children’s identity and learning, and educators and advocates who are concerned about the impact of media on youth and who wish to underscore the potential impact of media in individuals’ lives. For those con- cerned about promoting sexual health and well-being, understanding media’s prominence and role in people’s lives is essential.
“ Nature is to be reverenced, not blushed at.
—Tertullian (c. 155 CE–c. 220 CE)
“ One picture is worth more than a thousand words.
—Chinese proverb
Images of sexuality permeate our society, sexualizing our environment. Think about the sexual images you see or hear in a 24-hour period. What messages do they communicate about sexuality?
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Mass-media depictions of sexuality are meant to entertain and exploit, not to inform. As a result, the media do not present us with “real” depictions of sexuality. Sexual activities, for example, are usually not explicitly acted out or described in mainstream media, nor is interracial dating often portrayed. Th e social and cultural taboos that are still part of mainstream U.S. culture remain embedded in the media. Th us, the various media present the social context of sexuality; that is, the programs, plots, movies, stories, articles, newscasts, and vignettes tell us what behaviors are appropriate (e.g., kissing, sexual inter- course), with whom they are appropriate (e.g., girlfriend/boyfriend, partner, heterosexual), and why they are appropriate (e.g., attraction, love, to avoid loneliness). Probably nothing has revolutionized sexuality the way that access to the Internet has. A click on a website link provides sex on demand. Th e Internet’s contributions to the availability and commercialization of sex include live images and chats, personalized pages and ads, and links to potential or virtual sex partners. Th e spread of the web has made it easy to obtain information, solidify social ties, and provide sexual gratifi cation. Th e music industry is awash with sexual images too. Contemporary pop music, from rock ’n’ roll to rap, is fi lled with lyrics about sexuality mixed with messages about love, rejection, violence, and loneliness. In fact, 37% of popu- lar songs refer to sexual activity, and 66% (mostly rap) include degrading sex (Primack, Gold, Schwarz, & Dalton, 2008). Because of censorship issues, the most overtly sexual music is not played on the radio, but can easily be streamed through the Internet. Magazines, tabloids, and books contribute to the sexualization of our society as well. For example, popular romance novels and self-help books disseminate ideas and values about sexuality. And each month, 63% of teens read a maga- zine for fun, with boys preferring sports and activity magazines and girls prefer- ring those on fashion and celebrities (Chartier, 2008). Men’s magazines have been singled out for their sexual emphasis. Playboy, Penthouse, and Maxim, with their Playmates of the Month, Pets of the Month, and other nude pictorials, are among the most popular magazines in the world.
“ Would you like to come back to my place and do what I’m going to tell my friends
we did anyway?
—Spanky
• FIGURE 1.1 Media Use Over Time. (Source: Rideout, V. J., Foehr, U. G., & Roberts, D. F. (2010). Generation M2: Media in the lives of 8 to 18 year olds, A Kaiser Family Foundation Study, January 2010. Copyright © 2010 This information was reprinted with permission from the Henry J. Kaiser Family Foundation. The Kaiser Family Foundation, a leader in health policy analysis, health journalism and communication, is dedicated to fi lling the need for trusted, independent information on the major health issues facing our nation and its people. The Foundation is a non-profi t private operating foundation, based in Menlo Park, California.)
Among all 8- to 18-year-olds, average amount of time (hours : minutes) spent with each medium in typical day
2009 2004 1999
TV content 4:29 3:51 3:47
Music/audio 2:31 1:44 1:48
Computer 1:29 1:02 :27
Video games 1:13 :49 :26
Print :38 :43 :43
Movies :25 :25 :18
TOTAL MEDIA EXPOSURE 10:45 8:33 7:29
Multitasking proportion 29% 26% 16%
TOTAL MEDIA USE 7:38 6:21 6:19
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Women’s magazines such as Cosmopolitan, Vogue, and Glamour use sex to sell their publications. How do these magazines diff er from men’s magazines such as Men’s Health, Playboy, and Maxim in their treatment of sexuality?
Sports Illustrated’s annual swimsuit edition sells more than 5 million copies, twice as many as its other issues. But it would be a mistake to think that only male-oriented magazines focus on sex. Women’s magazines such as Cosmopolitan and Redbook have their own sexual content. Th ese magazines feature romantic photographs of lovers to illustrate stories with such titles as “Sizzling Sex Secrets of the World’s Sexiest Women,” “Making Love Last: If Your Partner Is a Premature Ejaculator,” and “Turn on Your Man with Your Breasts (Even If Th ey Are Small).” Preadolescents and young teens are not exempt from sexual images and articles in magazines such as Seventeen and YM. Some of the men’s health magazines have followed the lead of women’s magazines, featuring sexuality-related issues as a way to sell more copies. Advertising in all media uses the sexual sell, promising sex, romance, popu- larity, and fulfi llment if the consumer will only purchase the right soap, perfume, cigarettes, alcohol, toothpaste, jeans, or automobile. In reality, not only does one not become “sexy” or popular by consuming a certain product, but the product may actually be detrimental to one’s sexual well-being, as in the case of cigarettes or alcohol. Media images of sexuality permeate a variety of areas in people’s lives. Th ey can produce sexual arousal and emotional reactions, increase sexual behaviors, and be a source of sex information. Studies examining the impact of exposure to sexual content in media have found modest but signifi cant associations, particularly as they relate to adolescents’ sexual beliefs and early sexual initiation (Strasburger, Jordan, & Donnerstein, 2010). Longitudinal studies link heavy exposure to sexual content in mainstream media with more rapid progression of sexual activity (Bleakley et al., 2008), earlier sexual behavior (Collins et al., 2004), greater risk for an unplanned pregnancy (Chandra et al., 2008), and STIs (Wingood et al., 2001). Th is may be because of media’s pervasive and consistent message: Sex is normative and risk-free (Strasburger et al., 2010). (See Figure 1.2 for the proportions of media time spent by 8- to 18-year-olds.)
Sexual images are used to sell products. What ideas are conveyed by this advertisement? How does its appeal diff er according to whether one is male or female?
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Television
Among all types of media, television has been the most prevalent, pervasive, and vexing icon, saturating every corner of public and private space, shaping consciousness, defi ning reality, and entertaining the masses. Between ages 8 and 18, the average youth spends nearly 5 hours a day watching TV and movies. By the time an American teenager fi nishes high school, he or she will have spent more time in front of a television screen than in the classroom or sleeping. At the same time, most of the consumption of media leaves the majority of young people outside the purview of adult comment and with few messages or images that demonstrate the risks and responsibilities that accompany sexuality (Kunkel, Eyal, Finnerty, Biely, & Donnerstein, 2005). While the frequency of TV viewing has been increasing, so has been the number of sexual references in programs. In fact, television shows geared toward teenagers have more sexual content than adult-oriented shows (Kunkel et al., 2005). Television is a major source of information about sex for teenagers, contributing to many aspects of young people’s sexual knowledge, beliefs, and behavior. Reporting on the health eff ects of media on children and adolescents, Strasburger and colleagues (2010) state that “virtually every Western country makes birth control available to adolescents, including allowing birth control advertisements in the media, but the major U.S. television networks balk at airing ads for contraception” (p. 760). In the accumulated volume of media research, media content does not refl ect the realities of the social world; rather, the media images of women and men refl ect and reproduce a set of stereotypical and unequal but chang- ing gender roles (Kim, Sorsoli, Collins, et al., 2007). For example, women wearing skimpy clothing and expressing their sexuality to attract attention underscores the objectifi cation of women seen in many genres of media. And men’s messages are equally unilateral, which is that they should accumulate sexual experience with women by any means possible. Sexist advertising and stereotypical roles in comedy series and dramas may take subtle (or not so subtle) forms that, over time, may have an eff ect on the way some women and men view themselves. For example, studies examining the eff ects of tele- vision have shown a positive correlation between television viewing self- image, and healthy development, particularly among girls and young women (American Psychological Association [APA], 2007). While it is apparent that exposure to television does not aff ect all people in the same way, it is clear
“ The vast wasteland of TV is not interested in producing a better
mousetrap but in producing a worse mouse.
—Laurence Coughlin
Reality shows, such as The Bachelorette, frequently highlight idealized and sexual themes. What are some of the most popular reality shows? Do they diff er according to ethnicity?
Movies
Live TV 25%
TV content on other platforms
17% Music/audio
22%
6%
4%
Computer 14%
Video games 11%
Among all 8- to 18-year-olds, proportion of media time spent with:• FIGURE 1.2 Media Time. (Source: Rideout, V. J., Foehr, U. G., & Roberts, D. F. (2010). Generation M2: Media in the lives of 8 to 18 year olds, A Kaiser Family Foundation Study, January 2010. Copyright © 2010 This information was reprinted with permission from the Henry J. Kaiser Family Foundation. The Kaiser Family Foundation, a leader in health policy analysis, health journalism and communication, is dedicated to fi lling the need for trusted, independent information on the major health issues facing our nation and its people. The Foundation is a non-profi t private operating foundation, based in Menlo Park, California.)
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that the sexual double standard that does exist taps into our national ambiv- alence about sex, equality, morality, and violence. Unlike the fi lm industry, which uses a single ratings board to regulate all American releases, television has been governed by an informal consensus. In 1997, networks began to rely on watchdog standards and practices depart- ments to rate their shows; however, these divisions have few, if any, hard-and- fast rules (Robson, 2004). While the Federal Communication Commission (FCC) does not off er clear guidelines about what is and is not permissible on the airwaves, the agency does permit looser interpretations of its decency stan- dards for broadcasts between 10 p.m. and 6 a.m. Additionally, in 2006, the television industry launched a large campaign to educate parents about TV ratings and the V-chip, technology that allows the blocking of programs based on their rating category. Because of the vulnerability that parents still feel about their children becoming involved in sexual situations before they are ready, the majority (65%) say they “closely” monitor their children’s media use (Rideout, 2007).
Music and Game Videos MTV, MTV2, VH1, BET, and music Internet programs are very popular among adolescents and young adults. Young peo- ple report watching these programs 2½ hours per day (Kaiser Family Founda- tion, 2010). Unlike audio-recorded music, music videos play to the ear and the eye. Young female artists such as Alicia Keys and Rihanna have brought energy, sexuality, and individualism to the young music audience. Music videos have also objectifi ed and degraded women by stripping them of any sense of power and individualism and focusing strictly on their sexuality. Male artists such as Eminem, Drake, and Jay-Z provide young audiences with a steady dose of sexuality, power, and rhythm. Video games that promote sexist and violent attitudes toward women have fi lled the aisles of stores across the country. Pushing the line between obscenity and amusement, games often provide images of unrealistically shaped and sub- missive women mouthing sexy dialogues in degrading scenes. Men, in contrast, are often revealed as unrealistic, violent fi gures whose primary purpose is to destroy and conquer. Th ough many of these video games are rated “M” (mature) by the Entertainment Software Ratings Board, they are both popular with and accessible to young people.
Feature-Length Films
From their very inception, motion pictures have dealt with sexuality. In 1896, a fi lm titled Th e Kiss outraged moral guardians when it showed a couple stealing a quick kiss. “Absolutely disgusting,” complained one critic. “Th e performance comes near being indecent in its emphasized indecency. Such things call for police action” (quoted in Webb, 1983). Today, in contrast, fi lm critics use “sexy,” a word independent of artistic value, to praise a fi lm. “Sexy” fi lms are movies in which the requisite “sex scenes” are suffi ciently titillating to overcome their lack of aesthetic merit. What is clear is that movies are not that dissimilar from television in their portrayal of the consequences of unprotected sex, such as unplanned pregnancies or STIs, including HIV/AIDS. In an analysis of 87 movies, 53 of which had sex episodes, there was only one suggestion of condom use, which was the only
“ Of the delights of this world man cares most for is sexual intercourse, yet he has
left it out of his heaven.
—Mark Twain (1835–1910)
Confi dent female icons such as Rihanna refl ect mainstream culture’s acceptance of assertive women.
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reference to any form of birth control (Gunasekera, Chapman, & Campbell, 2005). While one might argue that it is bad art to confuse education with entertainment, it is apparent that the Hollywood fi lm industry may be bad for one’s sexual health.
Gay Men, Lesbian Women, Bisexual and Transgender People in Film and Television
Gay men, lesbian women, and bisexual and transgender individuals are slowly being integrated into mainstream fi lms and television. However, when gay men and lesbian women do appear, they are frequently defi ned in terms of their sexual orientation, as if there is nothing more to their lives than sexuality. Gay men are generally stereotyped as eff eminate, fl ighty, or “arty,” or they may be closeted. Lesbian women are often stereotyped as super- feminine and stilettoed. “Coming out” stories are now the standard for television programs that deal with gay characters (Friedlander, 2011). However, what has recently changed is that the age of these characters has become younger. Teen coming-out stories seem relevant in that they refl ect the identity issues of being gay, transsexual, questioning, or unsure about their sexual identity and expose the vulnerability most young people in junior high and high school feel about being bullied. Diff erent from stories in which homosexual adults are marginalized and stereo- typed, the messages in many of the newer shows for younger audiences are quite consistent: that you will be accepted for who you are. Still, television and mainstream media have a long way to go in terms of presenting healthy sexual relationships between gay people. Th e biggest hurdle remains in showing adults, particularly males, kissing on screen as their heterosexual counterparts would. While teen shows may have somewhat overcome this barrier, most “adult” programs have not.
Mainstream movies, such as Milk, have presented their gay and lesbian characters as fully realized human beings.
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Online Social Networks
For millions, surfi ng the web has become a major recreational activity and has altered the ways in which they communicate and carry on interpersonal rela- tionships. Th ough social theorists have long been concerned with the alienating eff ects of technology, the Internet appears quite diff erent from other commu- nication technologies. Its effi cacy, power, and infl uence, along with the ano- nymity and depersonalization that accompanies its use, have made it possible for consumers to more easily obtain and distribute sexual materials and infor- mation, as well as to interact sexually in diff erent ways. In place of dance clubs and bars, the Internet and mobile technology have expanded the ways in which people meet and interact with others. Th e use of online dating sites as a means to meet and/or matchmake has become wide- spread. Additionally, social networking sites allow member users to communi- cate with others in innovative ways such as posting profi le information, sending public or private online messages, or sharing photos instantly (see the “Th ink About It” box on page 12). Newer technologies and interfaces allow users to become the producers and stars of their own productions when they create their profi les and observe those of others. It is apparent that social networking sites, like Facebook, are well integrated into the daily lives of young adults in the United States. Th eir popularity can- not be underestimated: Facebook alone reports to have more than 500 million active users, 50% of whom log on any given day. Th e average user has 130 friends and spends approximately 30 minutes per day or, together with others, 700 billion minutes per month interacting with one another (“Facebook,” 2011). In contrast to high school students, who primarily use social network- ing sites to make new friends, college students report to use it primarily to maintain friendships (Ellison, Steinfi eld, & Lampe, 2007; Pempek, Yermo- layeva, & Calvert, 2009). Adults of all ages are not strangers to social network- ing. Recent data from the U.S. Census Bureau (2011a) reveal that 62% have used social networking sites. Even more surprising might be social networking’s daily use—the percentage of individuals who report using it “yesterday” (U.S. Census Bureau, 2011b):
Ages 18–29 Ages 30–49 Ages 50–64 Over 65 Male Female 60% 39% 13% 13% 34% 41%
Social networking sites provide an opportunity for many to display their iden- tities: religious, political, ideological, work-related, and sexual orientation. While doing so, individuals can also gain feedback from peers and strengthen their bonds of friendship (Pempek et al., 2009). To this extent, sites like Facebook may have a positive eff ect on development and self-esteem. Wall posts are the preferred way of interacting with friends because they can be written quickly and provide a public display of information similar to online bulletin boards and chat rooms. In fact, exchanges with friends in a public wall space occur twice as fre- quently as one-on-one private exchanges with friends. Another common practice— observing others’ actions, such as reading the news feed about what another is doing or looking at others’ profi les or pictures—is more common than posting information or updating fi les. Like other forms of media, the Internet does not simply provide sexual culture; it also shapes sexual culture. With the widespread use of online dat- ing sites, the medium has become an accepted means by which numerous individuals meet new partners for dating, matchmaking, and/or sex. For the
For anyone with a computer, social networks, such as Facebook, provide readily accessible friends and potential partners, help to maintain friendships, and shape sexual culture.
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think about it
The increasing popularity and accessibility of digital media, including cell phones, MP3 players, blogs, and Internet social networking sites (SNS) such as Facebook, are allowing individuals more than ever before to present themselves publicly. Adolescents and young people are increasingly using these relatively new media to engage in activities relevant to sex and sexuality (Brown et al., 2009). Internet-based dating and sexting—the creating, sharing, and forwarding of sexually suggestive text and nude or nearly nude images—have drastically changed the culture of interpersonal communication. In fact, in several nationally representative surveys of those aged 12–26, researchers have found (Brown et al., 2009; Brown & L’Engle, 2009; The National Campaign to Pre- vent Teen and Unplanned Pregnancy, 2009; Pew Internet & American Life Project, 2009):
■ The average number of hours spent online per week was 12.5.
■ 30% of females and 70% of males view Internet porn. ■ 38% of tweens (ages 12–14) and 77% of teens (ages 15–17)
have an SNS profi le.
■ About 1 in 5 teens and 1 in 3 young adults (ages 20–26) are sexting, while 48% of teens and 64% of young adults are sending or posting sexually suggestive messages.
Before Pressing “Send”: Trends and Concerns About Texting, Sexting, and Dating
■ Teens and young adults are confl icted about sending/posting sexually suggestive content: 75% of teens and 71% of young adults say sending suggestive content “can have serious negative consequences.”
Perhaps interesting to note, teens and young adults are not the only age group sending sexual images of themselves. In a recent nationwide survey, 28% of parents of teens reported engaging in sexting (Steinberg, 2010). It may be signifi cant to note that these sexts may not always be with their partners. However, it may be a new and exciting way to explore or recharge a relationship. When asked, teens and young adults provide many reasons for sending and posting sexually suggestive content. The majority admit that it is a “fun and fl irtatious” activity. Three scenarios for sexting include (1) the exchange of images solely between two romantic partners, (2) exchanges between a partner and someone outside the relationship, and (3) exchanges between people who are not yet in a relationship but at least one person hopes to be. While the wide array of media available provides the opportunity for choosing diff erent purposes, including sexual self-expression, experimentation, self-defi nition, and education, it also invites con- cern, especially for girls who share provocative or sexual imagery of themselves, a form of self- objectifi cation. The self- objectifi cation involved in sexting has received some scrutiny from the American
isolated, underrepresented, and disenfranchised whose sexual identities up until now have been hidden, Internet communications may be a lifeline. Research indicates that gay, lesbian, and bisexual individuals use the Internet in similar ways that heterosexual individuals do (Lever, Grov, Royce, & Gillespie, 2008). Specifi cally, they fi nd that it is a means of identifying available partners, shielding themselves from prejudices, and providing a venue for virtual communities and sexual exploration. Th e use of the Internet also provides a means of avoiding the pitfalls inherent in relying solely on real- world meetings and experiences. With thousands of sexual health sites maintained online, new forms of media are also powerful tools for learning. When credible sources are located, these media have become convenient avenues by which people can get impor- tant sexual health information. One study of young adults found that 41% said they had changed their behavior because of health information they found online, while nearly 50% contacted a health-care provider as a result (Ybarra & Suman, 2008). Th ere are, however, two signifi cant concerns associated with
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Psychological Association (2007), which warns that young people “may internalize an observer’s perspective on their physical selves and learn to treat themselves as objects to be looked at and evaluated for their appearance” (p. 18). Though research on how individuals are using media for communicating and learning about sex and their own sexuality is just getting started, some recent and provocative trends are emerging, the results of which (as seen in the above discussion) have parents, teachers, and professionals concerned. It has become apparent that media use and its eff ects on sexuality vary dramatically depending on a number of factors, including gender, race, and sexual maturity (Brown et al., 2009). It’s also known that much of what is available on the Internet is not designed to result in healthy sexuality. Users need to be taught how to resist the temptation and pressure to engage in sexting and, rather, to fi nd and assess media sources that promote healthy sexual behavior. The National Campaign to Prevent Teen and Unplanned Pregnancy (2009) suggests “Five Things to Think About Before Pressing ‘Send’ ”:
1. Don’t assume anything you send or post is going to remain private. Your messages and image will get passed around, even if you think they won’t.
2. There is no changing your mind in cyberspace—anything you send or post will never truly go away. Something that seems fun and fl irty and is done on a whim will never really die. Potential employers, college recruiters, teachers, coaches, parents, and enemies may all be able to fi nd your posts, even after you delete them.
3. Don’t give in to the pressure to do something that makes you uncomfortable, even in cyberspace. More than 40% of teens and young adults say “pressure from guys” is a reason girls and women send and post sexually suggestive messages and images.
4. Consider the recipient’s reaction. Just because the message is meant to be fun doesn’t mean the person who gets it will see it that way. Whatever you write, post, or send does contribute to the real-life impression you’re making.
5. Nothing is truly anonymous. It is important to remember that even if someone knows you only by screen name, online pro- fi le, phone number, or e-mail address, they can probably fi nd you if they try hard enough.
Think Critically 1. Would you consider participating in or have you par-
ticipated in sexting? If so, what kind of image did you or might you send? Under what circumstances? If you would not consider participating in this activity, what prevents you from doing so?
2. Do you believe that Internet sites and their use should be censored? Why or why not?
3. What caveats of the National Campaign to Prevent Teen and Unplanned Pregnancy would you reinforce, add, revise, or omit?
SOURCE: From The National Campaign to Prevent Teen Pregnancy (2009) © 2012, The National Campaign to Prevent Teen and Unplanned Pregnancy. Reprinted by permission.
using new media to learn about sexuality and sexual health: the possibility that the information is inaccurate or misleading and that those who turn to the media may turn away from real people in their lives (Brown, Keller, & Stern, 2009). Given that only a small number of new media interventions have been systematically evaluated, it is still unclear about their impact on the health and well-being of youth. For most users, the Internet provides a fascinating venue for experiencing sex. For some users, however, porn consumption gets them in trouble: maxed- out credit cards, neglected responsibility, and overlooked loved ones. Th ere are both online and community resources for those who desire counseling. While searching for such sources, however, consumers and professionals must be aware of the diff erences between therapy, consultation, and entertainment. Additionally, because entrepreneurs can make more money from hype and misinformation than from high-quality therapy and education, consumers must remain vigilant in assessing the background of the therapist and the source of the information.
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Because of the high volume of sexual discussions and material available on the Internet, there is an increasing demand for government regulation. In 1996, Congress passed the Communications Decency Act, which made it illegal to use computer networks to transmit “obscene” materials or place “indecent” words or images where children might see or read them. However, courts have declared this legislation as a violation of freedom of speech. (For further discus- sion of this issue, see Chapter 18.)
• Sexuality Across Cultures and Times What we see as “natural” in our culture may be viewed as unnatural in other cultures. Few Americans would disagree about the erotic potential of kissing. But other cultures perceive kissing as merely the exchange of saliva. To the Mehinaku of the Amazon rainforest, for example, kissing is a disgusting sexual abnormality; no Mehinaku engages in it (Gregor, 1985). Th e fact that others press their lips against each other, salivate, and become sexually excited merely confi rms their “strangeness” to the Mehinaku.
Culture takes our sexual interests—our incitements or incli- nations to act sexually—and molds and shapes them, sometimes celebrating sexuality and other times condemning it. Sexuality can be viewed as a means of spiritual enlightenment, as in the Hindu tradition, in which the gods themselves engage in sexual activities; it can also be at war with the divine, as in the Judeo-Christian tradition, in which the fl esh is the snare of the devil (Parrinder, 1980).
Among the variety of factors that shape how we feel and behave sexually, culture is possibly the most powerful. A brief exploration of sexual themes across cultures and times will give you a sense of the diverse shapes and meanings humans have given to sexuality.
Sexual Interests
All cultures assume that adults have the potential for becoming sexually aroused and for engaging in sexual intercourse for the purpose of reproduction. But cultures diff er considerably in terms of how strong they believe sexual interests are. Th ese beliefs, in turn, aff ect the level of desire expressed in each culture.
The Mangaia Among the Mangaia of Polynesia, both sexes, beginning in early adolescence, experience high levels of sexual desire (Marshall, 1971). Around age 13 or 14, following a circum- cision ritual, boys are given instruction in the ways of pleasing a girl: erotic kissing, cunnilingus, breast fondling and sucking, and techniques for bringing her to multiple orgasms. After 2 weeks, an older, sexually experienced woman has sexual intercourse with the boy to instruct him further on how to sexually satisfy a woman.
Girls the same age are instructed by older women on how to be orgasmic: how to thrust their hips and rhythmically move their vulvas in order to have multiple orgasms. A girl fi nally learns to be orgasmic through the eff orts of a “good man.”
“ Birds do it, bees do it. Even educated fl eas do it.
—Cole Porter (1891–1964)
The sensual movements of Latin American dancing have become mainstream in American culture, as can be seen in the popularity of Dancing With the Stars.
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If the woman’s partner fails to satisfy her, she is likely to leave him; she may also ruin his reputation with other women by denouncing his lack of skill. Young men and women are expected to have many sexual experiences prior to marriage. Th is adolescent paradise, however, does not last forever. Th e Mangaia believe that sexuality is strongest during adolescence. As a result, when the Mangaia leave young adulthood, they experience a rapid decline in sexual desire and activity, and they cease to be aroused as passionately as they once were. Th ey attribute this swift decline to the workings of nature and settle into a sexually contented adulthood.
The Dani In contrast to the Mangaia, the New Guinean Dani show little interest in sexuality (Schwimmer, 1997). To them, sex is a relatively unimpor- tant aspect of life. Th e Dani express no concern about improving sexual tech- niques or enhancing erotic pleasure. Extrarelational sex and jealousy are rare. As their only sexual concern is reproduction, sexual intercourse is performed quickly, ending with male ejaculation. Female orgasm appears to be unknown to them. Following childbirth, both mothers and fathers go through 5 years of sexual abstinence. Th e Dani are an extreme example of a case in which culture, rather than biology, shapes sexual attractions.
Victorian Americans In the nineteenth century, White middle-class Amer- icans believed that women had little sexual desire. If they experienced desire at all, it was “reproductive desire,” the wish to have children. Reproduction entailed the unfortunate “necessity” of engaging in sexual intercourse. A lead- ing reformer wrote that in her “natural state” a woman never makes advances based on sexual desires, for the “very plain reason that she does not feel them” (Alcott, 1868). Th ose women who did feel desire were “a few exceptions amounting in all probability to diseased cases.” Such women were classifi ed by a prominent physician as suff ering from “Nymphomania, or Furor Uterinus” (Bostwick, 1860).
“ Sex is hardly ever just about sex.
—Shirley MacLaine (1934–)
Like beliefs about sexuality, ideals about body image (and what women are willing to do to achieve it) change over time.
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Whereas women were viewed as asexual, men were believed to have raging sexual appetites. Men, driven by lust, sought to satisfy their desires by ravaging innocent women. Both men and women believed that male sexuality was dan- gerous, uncontrolled, and animal-like. It was part of a woman’s duty to tame unruly male sexual impulses. Th e polar beliefs about the nature of male and female sexuality created destructive antagonisms between “angelic” women and “demonic” men. Th ese beliefs provided the rationale for a “war between the sexes.” Th ey also led to the separation of sex from love. Intimacy and love had nothing to do with male sexuality. In fact, male lust always lingered in the background of married life, threatening to destroy love by its overbearing demands.
The Sexual Revolution Between the 1960s and the mid-1970s, signifi cant challenges to the ways that society viewed traditional codes of behavior took place in the United States. Dubbed the “sexual revolution,” or “sexual libera- tion,” this period of rapid and complex changes invited individuals and society to confront the Puritan ideal and begin to recognize a separation and autonomy in what was thought to be unexamined decisions and regulations. Th is coun- terculture movement questioned previously established rules, regulations, and decisions in these areas:
■ Individual self-expression and autonomy. Previously structured around the collective good of the family and community, the countermovement found meaning and purpose in supporting the individual rights of men and women, including the right to sexual expression.
■ Women’s rights. Th e traditional, stereotypical role of the man being bread- winner and of the woman being the homemaker were challenged by roles whereby individuals could choose according to their needs. It became acceptable for women to express their inherent sexuality and for men to be their emotional and authentic selves. It was during this period that abortion became legal and widespread accessibility and dissemination of birth control became available.
■ Relationship status. No longer was marriage the only context within which couples could express their sexuality, love, and commitment for one another. A new philosophy of sex, referred to as “free love,” allowed individuals to broaden and act on their sexual desires without marriage, judgment, or contempt.
■ Sexual orientation. Overriding dogma from church and community, the counterculture encouraged a broader acceptance of homosexuality. Th is recognition was reinforced in 1973 when the American Psychiatric Association removed homosexuality from its list of diagnosable mental disorders.
■ Sexuality education. Th ough a handful of sexuality education programs were introduced prior to the 1960s, few were uniformly embraced or included in school curriculums until the Sexuality Information and Education Council of the United States (SIECUS) became a vocal force in educational and policy circles.
Although a signifi cant amount of time has passed since the end of the Victorian era and the counterculture’s attempt to shift values and attitudes about
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sexuality, many traditional sexual beliefs and attitudes continue to infl uence us. Th ese include the belief that men are “naturally” sexually aggressive and women sexually passive, the sexual double standard, and the value placed on women being sexually inexperienced. While the media continue to push boundaries about what is acceptable and desirable in sexual expression, so do most Americans continue to adapt their thinking about what is acceptable, desirable, normal, and tolerable.
Sexual Orientation
Sexual orientation is the pattern of sexual and emotional attraction based on the gender of one’s partner. Heterosexuality refers to emotional and sexual attraction between men and women; homosexuality refers to emotional and sexual attraction between persons of the same sex; bisexuality is an emotional and sexual attraction to both males and females. In contemporary American culture, heterosexuality is still the only sexual orientation receiving full social and legal legitimacy. Although same-sex relationships are common, they do not receive general social acceptance. Some other cultures, however, view same-sex relationships as normal, acceptable, and even preferable. A small number of countries worldwide and a few states in the United States have legalized same- sex marriage. (See Chapter 18 for further discussion of the legalization of same- sex marriage.)
Ancient Greece In ancient Greece, the birthplace of European culture, the Greeks accepted same-sex relationships as naturally as Americans today accept heterosexuality. For the Greeks, same-sex relationships between men repre- sented the highest form of love. Th e male-male relationship was based on love and reciprocity; sexuality was only one component of it. In this relationship, the code of conduct called for the older man to initiate the relationship. Th e youth initially resisted; only after the older man courted the young man with gifts and words of love
In ancient Greece, the highest form of love was that expressed between males.
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would he reciprocate. Th e two men formed a close, emotional bond. Th e older man was the youth’s mentor as well as his lover. He introduced the youth to men who would be useful for his advancement later; he assisted him in learning his duties as a citizen. As the youth entered adulthood, the erotic bond between the two evolved into a deep friendship. After the youth became an adult, he married a woman and later initiated a relationship with an adolescent boy. Greek male-male relationships, however, were not substitutes for male- female marriage. Th e Greeks discouraged exclusive male-male relationships because marriage and children were required to continue the family and society. Men regarded their wives primarily as domestics and as bearers of children (Keuls, 1985). (Th e Greek word for woman, gyne, translates literally as “childbearer.”) Husbands turned for sexual pleasure not to their wives but to hetaerae (hi-TIR-ee), highly regarded courtesans who were usually edu- cated slaves.
The Sambians Among Sambian males of New Guinea, sexual orientation is very malleable (Herdt, 1987). Young boys begin with sexual activities with older boys, move to sexual activities with both sexes during adolescence, and engage in exclusively male-female activities in adulthood. Sambians believe that a boy can grow into a man only by the ingestion of semen, which is, they say, like mother’s milk. At age 7 or 8, boys begin their sexual activities with older boys; as they get older, they seek multiple partners to accelerate their growth into manhood. At adolescence, their role changes, and they must provide semen to boys to enable them to develop. At fi rst, they worry about their own loss of semen, but they are taught to drink tree sap, which they believe magically replenishes their supply. During adoles- cence, boys are betrothed to preadolescent girls, with whom they engage in sexual activities. When the girls mature, the boys give up their sexual involvement with other males. Th ey become fully involved with adult women, losing their desire for men.
Gender
Although sexual interests and orientation may be influenced by culture, it may be difficult for some people to imagine that culture has anything to do with gender, the characteristics associated with being male or female. Our sex appears solidly rooted in our biological nature. But is being male or female really biological? The answer is yes and no. Having male or female genitals is anatomical. But the possession of a penis does not always make a person a man, nor does the possession of a clitoris and vagina always make a person a woman. Men who consider themselves women, “women with penises,” are accepted or honored in many cultures through- out the world (Bullough, 1991). Thus, culture and a host of other factors help to shape masculinity and femininity, while biology defines men and women. (For more information about gender and gender-related issues, see Chapter 5.)
Two-Spirits Most Americans consider transsexuality, a phenomenon in which a person’s genitals and/or identity as a man or a woman are discor- dant, problematic at best. But this is not the case in all regions of the world.
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Transsexuality appears in many cultures, crossing age, religion, and social status.
In some communities, an anatomical man identifying as a woman might be considered a “man-woman” and be accorded high status and special privileges. He would be identifi ed as a two-spirit, a man who assumes female dress, gender role, and status. Two-spirit emphasizes the spiritual aspect of one’s life and downplays the homosexual persona (Jacobs, Th omas, & Lang, 1997). It is inclusive of transsexuality, transvestism (wearing the clothes of or passing as a member of the other sex), and a form of same-sex relationship. Two-spirits are found in numerous communi- ties throughout the world, including American Indian, Filipino, Lapp, and Indian communi- ties. In South Asian society, the third gender is known as the hijra. Regarded as sacred, they perform as dancers or musicians at weddings and religious ceremonies, as well as providing blessings for health, prosperity, and fertility (Nanda, 1990). It is almost always men who become two-spirits, although there are a few cases of women assuming male roles in a similar fashion (Blackwood, 1984). Two-spirits are often considered shamans, individuals who possess great spiritual power. Among the Zuni of New Mexico, two-spirits are considered a third gender (Roscoe, 1991). Despite the existence of transsexual people and those born with disorders of sexual development (e.g., two testes or two ovaries but an ambiguous genital appearance), Westerners tend to view gender as biological, an incorrect assumption. Th e Zuni, in contrast, believe that gender is socially acquired. American Indian two-spirits were suppressed by missionaries and the U.S. government as “unnatural” or “perverted.” Th eir ruthless repression led anthro- pologists to believe that two-spirits had been driven out of existence in American Indian communities, but there is evidence that two-spirits continue to fi ll cere- monial and social roles in tribes such as the Lakota Sioux. Understandably, two- spirit activities are kept secret from outsiders for fear of reprisals. Among gay and lesbian American Indians, the two-spirit role provides historical continuity with their traditions (Roscoe, 1991).
• Societal Norms and Sexuality Th e immense diversity of sexual behaviors across cultures and times immedi- ately calls into question the appropriateness of labeling these behaviors as inher- ently natural or unnatural, normal or abnormal. Too often, we give such labels to sexual behaviors without thinking about the basis on which we make those judgments. Such categories discourage knowledge and understanding because they are value judgments, evaluations of right and wrong. As such, they are not objective descriptions about behaviors but statements of how we feel about those behaviors.
“ Put your paws up, I’m beautiful in my way.
—Lady Gaga (1986–)
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The question “Am I normal?” seems to haunt many people. For some, it causes a great deal of unnecessary fear, guilt, and anxiety. For others, it provides the motivation to study the litera- ture, consult with a trusted friend or therapist, or take a course in sexuality. What is normal? We commonly use several criteria in decid- ing whether to label diff erent sexuality behaviors “normal” or “abnormal.” According to professor and psychologist Leonore Tiefer (2004), these criteria are subjective, statistical, idealistic, cultural, and clinical. Regardless of what criteria we use, they ultimately refl ect societal norms.
■ Subjectively “normal” behavior. According to this defi nition, normalcy is any behavior that is similar to one’s own. Though most of us use this defi nition, few of us will acknowledge it.
■ Statistically “normal” behavior. According to this defi nition, whatever behaviors are more common are normal; less com- mon ones are abnormal. However, the fact that a behavior is not widely practiced does not make it abnormal except in a statistical sense. Fellatio (fel-AY-she-o) (oral stimulation of the penis) and cunnilingus (cun-i-LIN-gus) (oral stimulation of the female genitals), for example, are widely practiced today because they have become “acceptable” behaviors. But years ago, oral sex was tabooed as something “dirty” or “shameful.”
■ Idealistically “normal” behavior. Taking an ideal for a norm, individuals who use this approach measure all deviations against perfection. They may try to model their behavior after Christ or Gandhi, for example. Using idealized behavior as a norm can easily lead to feelings of guilt, shame, and anxiety.
■ Culturally “normal” behavior. This is probably the standard most of us use most of the time: We accept as normal what our culture defi nes as normal. This measure explains why our notions of normalcy do not always agree with those of people from other countries, religions, communities, and historical periods. Men who kiss in public may be considered normal in one place but abnormal in another. It is common for deviant behavior to be perceived as dangerous and fright- ening in a culture that rejects it.
Am I Normal?
■ Clinically “normal” behavior. The clinical standard uses scientifi c data about health and illness to make judgments. For example, the presence of the syphilis bacterium in body tissues or blood is considered abnormal because it indicates that a person has a sexually transmitted infection. Regard- less of time or place, clinical defi nitions should stand the test of time. The four criteria mentioned above are all somewhat arbitrary—that is, they depend on individual or group opinion—but the clinical criterion has more objectivity.
These fi ve criteria form the basis of what we usually consider normal behavior. Often, the diff erent defi nitions and interpre- tations of “normal” confl ict with one another. How does a per- son determine whether he or she is normal if subjectively “normal” behavior—what that person actually does—is incon- sistent with his or her ideals? Such dilemmas are commonplace and lead many people to question their normalcy. However, they should not question their normalcy so much as their con- cept of normalcy.
Think Critically 1. How do you defi ne normal sexuality behavior? What
criteria did you use to create this defi nition? 2. How do your sexual attitudes, values, and behaviors
compare to what you believe are “normal” sexuality behaviors? If they are diff erent, how do you reconcile these? If they are similar, how do you feel about oth- ers who may not share them?
3. In Nepal, young women are isolated for 1 week during their fi rst menses, whereas in Brazil, it is common to see men embrace or kiss in public. What are your thoughts about how other cultures defi ne normality?
SOURCE: Tiefer, L. (2004). Sex is not a natural act and other essays (2nd ed.). Boulder, CO: Westview Press.
Natural Sexual Behavior
How do we decide if a sexual behavior is natural or unnatural? To make this decision, we must have some standard of nature against which to compare the behavior. But what is “nature”? On the abstract level, nature is the essence of all things in the universe. Or, personifi ed as nature, it is the force regulating the universe. Th ese defi nitions, however, do not help us much in trying to establish what is natural or unnatural.
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When we asked our students to identify their criteria for determining which sexual behaviors they considered “natural” or “unnatural,” we received a variety of responses, including the following:
■ “If a person feels something instinctive, I believe it is a natural feeling.” ■ “Natural and unnatural have to do with the laws of nature. What these
parts were intended for.” ■ “I decide by my gut instincts.” ■ “I think all sexual activity is natural as long as it doesn’t hurt you or
anyone else.” ■ “Everything possible is natural. Everything natural is normal. If it is nat-
ural and normal, it is moral.”
When we label sexuality behavior as “natural” or “unnatural,” we are typi- cally indicating whether the behavior conforms to our culture’s sexual norms. Our sexual norms appear natural because we have internalized them since infancy. Th ese norms are part of the cultural air we breathe, and, like the air, they are invisible. We have learned our culture’s rules so well that they have become a “natural” part of our personality, a “second nature” to us. Th ey seem “instinctive.”
Normal Sexual Behavior
Closely related to the idea that sexuality behavior is natural or unnatural is the belief that sexuality is either normal or abnormal. More often than not, describing behavior as “normal” or “abnormal” is merely another way of mak- ing value judgments. Psychologist Sandra Pertot (2007) quips, “Normal today means that a person should have a regular and persistent physical sex drive, easy arousal, strong erections and good control over ejaculation for males, powerful orgasms, and a desire for a variety and experimentation [for women]” (p. 13). Although “normal” has often been used to imply “healthy” or “moral” behavior, social scientists use the word strictly as a statistical term. For them, normal sexuality behavior is behavior that conforms to a group’s average or median patterns of behavior. Normality has nothing to do with moral or psychological deviance. Ironically, although we may feel pressure to behave like the average person (the statistical norm), most of us don’t actually know how others behave sexually. People don’t ordinarily reveal much about their sexual activities. If they do, they generally reveal only their most conformist sexual behaviors, such as sexual inter- course. Th ey rarely disclose their masturbatory activities, sexual fantasies, or anxieties or feelings of guilt. All that most people present of themselves—unless we know them well—is the conventional self that masks their actual sexual feel- ings, attitudes, and behaviors. Th e guidelines most of us have for determining our normality are given to us by our friends, partners, and parents (who usually present conventional sexual images of themselves) through stereotypes, media images, religious teach- ings, customs, and cultural norms. None of these, however, tells us much about how people actually behave. Because we don’t know how people really behave, it is easy for us to imagine that we are abnormal if we diff er from our cultural norms and stereotypes. We wonder if our desires, fantasies, and activities are normal: Is it normal to fantasize? To masturbate? To enjoy erotica? To be
“ The greatest pleasure in life is doing what people say you cannot do.
—Walter Bagehot (1826–1877)
In some cultures, men who dress or identify as women are considered shamans. We’wha was a Zuni man-woman who lived in the nineteenth century.
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attracted to someone of the same sex? Some of us believe that everyone else is “normal” and that only we are “sick” or “abnormal.” Th e challenge, of course, is to put aside our cultural indoctrination and try to understand sexual behav- iors objectively. Because culture determines what is normal, there is a vast range of normal behaviors across diff erent cultures. What is considered the normal sexual urge for the Dani would send most of us into therapy for treatment of low sexual desire. And the idea of teaching sexual skills to early adolescents, as the Mangaia do, would horrify most American parents.
Kissing is “natural” and “normal” in our culture. It is an expression of intimacy, love, and passion for young and old, heterosexual persons, gay men, and lesbian women.
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think about it
Sexuality is an integral part of the personality of every human being. Its full development depends upon the satisfaction of basic human needs such as the desire for contact, intimacy, emotional expression, pleasure, tenderness, and love. Sexuality is constructed through the interaction between the individual and social structures. Full development of sexuality is essential for individual, interpersonal, and social well-being. Sexual rights are universal human rights based on the inherent freedom, dignity, and equality of all human beings. Since health is a fundamental human right, so must sexual health be a basic human right. In order to ensure that human beings and societies develop healthy sexuality, the following sexual rights must be recognized, promoted, respected, and defended by all societies through all means. Sexual health is the result of an environment that recognizes, respects, and exercises these rights.
1. The right to sexual freedom. Sexual freedom encompasses the possibility for individuals to express their full sexual potential. However, this excludes all forms of sexual coercion, exploitation, and abuse at any time and situations in life.
2. The right to sexual autonomy, sexual integrity, and safety of the sexual body. This right involves the ability to make autonomous decisions about one’s sexual life within a context of one’s own personal and social ethics. It also encompasses control and enjoyment of our own bodies free from torture, mutilation, and violence of any sort.
3. The right to sexual privacy. This involves the right for individual decisions and behaviors about intimacy as long as they do not intrude on the sexual rights of others.
4. The right to sexual equity. This refers to freedom from all forms of discrimination regardless of sex, gender, sexual orientation, age, race, social class, religion, or physical and emotional disability.
5. The right to sexual pleasure. Sexual pleasure, including autoeroticism, is a source of physical, psychological, intellectual, and spiritual well-being.
6. The right to emotional sexual expression. Sexual expression is more than erotic pleasure or sexual acts. Individuals have a
Declaration of Sexual Rights
right to express their sexuality through communication, touch, emotional expression, and love.
7. The right to sexually associate freely. This means the possibility to marry or not, to divorce, and to establish other types of responsible sexual associations.
8. The right to make free and responsible reproductive choices. This encompasses the right to decide whether or not to have children, the number and spacing of children, and the right to full access to the means of fertility regulation.
9. The right to sexual information based upon scientifi c inquiry. This right implies that sexual information should be generated through the process of unencumbered and yet scientifi cally ethical inquiry, and disseminated in appropriate ways at all societal levels.
10. The right to comprehensive sexuality education. This is a lifelong process from birth throughout the life cycle and should involve all social institutions.
11. The right to sexual health care. Sexual health care should be available for prevention and treatment of all sexual concerns, problems, and disorders.
Think Critically 1. What are your immediate reactions to the “Declaration
of Sexual Rights”? For whom should these rights be promoted? Would you delete, edit, or add rights to the list?
2. Why do you suppose such a declaration is necessary and important?
3. What (if any) consequences should there be for gov- ernments, cultures, or individuals who do not follow these rights?
SOURCE: “Declaration of Sexual Rights” from World Association for Sexual Health, 1999. http://www.worldsexology.org/about_sexualrights.asp.
Are there behaviors, however, that are considered essential to sexual functioning and consequently, universally labeled as normal? Not surprisingly, reproduction, or the biological process by which individuals are produced, is probably one shared view of normal sexuality behavior that most cultures would agree upon (Pertot, 2007). Th at is, “men should feel desire, achieve an erection, and ejaculate within the vagina, and women would participate in sex” (p. 15). All other beliefs about sexual expression and behavior develop from social context.
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Sexuality Behavior and Variations
Sex researchers have generally rejected the traditional sexual dichotomies of natural/unnatural, normal/abnormal, moral/immoral, and good/bad. Regarding the word “abnormal,” sociologist Ira Reiss (1989) writes:
We need to be aware that people will use those labels to put distance between themselves and others they dislike. In doing so, these people are not making a scientifi c diagnosis but are simply affi rming their support of certain shared concepts of proper sexuality.
Instead of classifying behavior into what are essentially moralistic normal/ abnormal and natural/unnatural categories, researchers view human sexuality as characterized by sexual variation—that is, sexual variety and diversity. As humans, we vary enormously in terms of our sexual orientation, our desires, our fantasies, our attitudes, and our behaviors. Alfred Kinsey and his colleagues (1948) succinctly stated the matter: “Th e world is not to be divided into sheep and goats.” Researchers believe that the best way to understand our sexual diversity is to view our activities as existing on a continuum. On this continuum, the frequency with which individuals engage in diff erent sexual activities (e.g., sexual intercourse, masturbation, and oral sex) ranges from never to always. Signifi cantly, there is no point on the continuum that marks normal or abnor- mal behavior. In fact, the diff erence between one individual and the next on the continuum is minimal (Kinsey, Pomeroy, & Martin, 1948; Kinsey, Pome- roy, Martin, & Gebhard, 1953). Th e most that can be said of a person is that his or her behaviors are more or less typical or atypical of the group average. Furthermore, nothing can be inferred about an individual whose behavior diff ers signifi cantly from the group average except that his or her behavior is atypical. Except for engaging in sexually atypical behavior, one person may be indistinguishable from any other. Many activities that are usually thought of as “deviant” or “dysfunctional” sexual behavior—activities diverging from the norm, such as exhibitionism, voyeurism, and fetishism—are engaged in by most of us to some degree. We may delight in displaying our bodies on the beach or in “dirty dancing” in crowded clubs (exhibitionism). We may like watching ourselves make love, viewing erotic videos, or seeing our partner undress (voyeurism). Or we may enjoy kissing our lover’s photograph, keeping a lock of his or her hair, or sleep- ing with an article of his or her clothing (fetishism). Most of the time, these feelings or activities are only one aspect of our sexual selves; they are not espe- cially signifi cant in our overall sexuality. Such atypical behaviors represent noth- ing more than sexual nonconformity when they occur between mutually consenting adults and do not cause distress. Th e rejection of natural/unnatural, normal/abnormal, and moral/immoral categories by sex researchers does not mean that standards for evaluating sexual behavior do not exist. Th ere are many sexual behaviors that are harmful to oneself (e.g., masturbatory asphyxia—suff ocating or hanging oneself during masturbation to increase sexual arousal) and to others (e.g., rape, child moles- tation, and obscene phone calls). Current psychological standards for determin- ing the harmfulness of sexual behaviors center around the issues of coercion, potential harm to oneself or others, and personal distress. (Th ese issues are discussed in greater detail in Chapter 10.)
“ Imagination is more important than knowledge.
—Albert Einstein (1879–1955)
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think about it
Do you ever wonder why you do what you do or feel as you feel—especially when it comes to matters like attrac- tion, relationships, and sex? Do you wonder why the object of your aff ection behaves in such inexplicable ways—why he or she fl ies into a jealous rage for no reason? Or why your friend always seems to fall for the “wrong” person? Sometimes, the an- swers may be obvious, but other times, they are obscure. Our motivations come from a variety of sources, including personal- ity traits, past experiences, peer pressure, and familial and cul- tural infl uences. Many of our feelings probably result from a complex yet subtle blending of these infl uences—combined with innate responses programmed into our genes and mani- fested in our brains. Our growing understanding of the biological bases of behavior comes from a variety of disciplines: history, psychol- ogy, sociology, neurophysiology, and endocrinology. Many scholars base their study of sexuality on Charles Darwin’s theory of evolution. According to Darwin’s theory, evolution favors cer- tain physical traits that enable a species to survive. To more fully understand the mechanisms through which the brain and body perpetuate mating and survival, MRI brain scans of people in love are helping scientists understand more about the science of love: why it is so powerful and why being rejected is so painful. From a sociobiological perspective, males, who are consis- tently fertile from early adolescence on, seek to impregnate as many females as possible to ensure genetic success. Diff erences in men’s and women’s brains reveal men’s to have more activity in the region that integrates visual stimuli. This is not surprising, considering that from an evolutionary perspective, men have to be able to size up a woman visually to see if she can bear babies (Fisher, 2004). Females, however, ovulate only once a month. For them, a single episode of intercourse can result in pregnancy, childbirth, and years of child rearing. Women’s brain activities, though more puzzling than men’s, reveal that their brain has more activity in the areas that govern memories. Dr. Helen Fisher, an anthropologist and author, theorizes that this may be a female mechanism for mate choice—that if a woman really studies a man and remembers things about his behavior, she can try to determine whether he’d make a reliable mate and fa- ther. In this way, women can help ensure that the carriers of their genes (their children) will reach adulthood and pass along their parents’ genetic legacy. The bonds of love are what keep the male around, or, in other words, females trade sex for love, and males trade love for sex. Evolutionary psychologists seek to explain the biological bases of love and other emotions such as hope, anger, jeal-
Sociobiology, Evolutionary Psychology, and the Mysteries of Love
ousy, fear, and grief. We may wonder why Mother Nature made us so emotional when emotion so often leads to disas- ter. But there are good reasons (evolutionarily speaking) for having emotions. Even though in the short term emotions can get us into trouble—if we act impulsively rather than ratio- nally—over the long term our emotions have helped our genes survive and replicate (Kluger, 2008). Emotions exist to motivate us to do things that serve (or once served) the best interests of our genetic material—things like fl eeing, fi ghting, or forming close relationships to protect our “genetic invest- ment” (off spring). Critics of sociobiology argue that inferences from animal be- havior may not be applicable to human beings; they feel that sociobiologists base their assumptions about human behavior (such as men wanting sex versus women wanting love) more on cultural stereotypes than on actual behavior. Sociobiologists re- ply that they report what they observe in nature and suggest connections to human behavior (humans are part of nature, af- ter all) but do not make judgments about the meaning or moral- ity of their observations. As you study human sexuality, we hope that the information you gain from this text will help you integrate your own feelings and experiences with the information and advice you get from family, friends, lovers, and society. In the text, we take what might be called a “biopsychosocial” approach to our subject, recognizing that the sexual self is produced by the interconnec- tions of body, mind, spirit, and culture. As you continue your study, remember that, although our culture, beliefs, and cogni- tive processes (what we might call the “software” of the mind) have been created by humans, our bodies and brains (the “hardware” of the mind) are the products of evolution. They’ve been developing over a long, long time.
Think Critically 1. To what extent do you agree or disagree with the bio-
psychosocial approach that the authors of this text take toward sexuality? On what do you base this?
2. To what do you attribute sexual attraction? On what observations and experiences do you base this?
3. How do you feel about the statement “Females trade sex for love, and males trade love for sex”?
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Summary Studying Human Sexuality
■ Students study sexuality for a variety of reasons. Examining the multiple aspects of this fascinating topic can help students understand, accept, and appreciate their own sexuality and that of others.
Sexuality, Popular Culture, and the Media
■ Th e media are among the most powerful forces in young people’s lives today. Mass-media depictions of sexuality are meant primarily to entertain and exploit, not to inform.
■ Th e Internet’s contributions to the availability and commercialization of sex and sexuality information have made it easy for individuals to obtain infor- mation, strengthen social ties, and provide sexual gratifi cation.
■ Television is the most prevalent and pervasive medium. At the same time, the risks and responsibili- ties that accompany TV programs remain sadly dis- proportionate to the sexual images that are portrayed.
Sexuality Across Cultures and Times
■ One of the most powerful forces shaping human sexuality is culture. Culture molds and shapes our sexual interests.
We, the authors, believe that the basic standard for judging various sexual activities is whether they are between consenting adults and whether they cause harm. Understanding diverse sexual attitudes, motives, behaviors, and values will help deepen our own value systems and help us understand, accept, and appreciate our own sexuality and that of others.
Sexuality can be a source of great pleasure and profound satisfaction as well as a source of guilt and means of exploitation. Popular culture both encourages and discourages sexuality. It promotes stereotypical sexual interactions but fails to touch on the deeper signifi cance sexuality holds for us or the risks and responsibili- ties that accompany it. Love and sexuality in a committed relationship are infrequently depicted, in contrast to casual sex. (By ignoring sex between committed partners, popular culture implies that partnership is a “sexual wasteland.” Yet it is within couples that the overwhelming majority of sexual interactions take place.) The media ignore or disparage the wide array of sexual behaviors and choices— from masturbation to gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender relationships—that are signifi cant in many people’s lives. They discourage the linking of sex and intimacy, contraceptive responsibility and the acknowledgment of the risk of contracting sexually transmitted infections. What is clear from examining other cultures is that sexual behaviors and norms vary from culture to culture and, within our own society, from one time to another. The variety of sexual behaviors even within our own culture testifi es to diversity not only between cultures but within cultures as well. Understanding diversity allows us to acknowledge that there is no such thing as inherently “normal” or “natural” sexual behavior. Rather, sexual behavior is strongly infl uenced by culture—including our own.
Final Thoughts
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■ Th e Mangaia of Polynesia and the Dani of New Guinea represent cultures at the opposite ends of a continuum, with the Mangaia having an elaborate social and cultural framework for instructing adoles- cents in sexual technique and the Dani downplaying the importance of sex.
■ Middle-class Americans in the nineteenth century believed that men had strong sexual drives but that women had little sexual desire. Because sexuality was considered animalistic, the Victorians separated sex and love. Th e sexual revolution brought signifi cant changes to previous assumptions about sexuality.
■ Sexual orientation is the pattern of sexual and emo- tional attraction based on the sex of one’s partner. In contemporary America, heterosexuality, or attraction between men and women, is the only sexual orienta- tion that receives full societal and legal legitimacy. Homosexuality refers to same-sex attractions, and bisexuality involves attraction to both males and females.
■ In ancient Greece, same-sex relationships between men represented the highest form of love. Among the Sambians of New Guinea, boys have sexual contact with older boys, believing that the ingestion of semen is required for growth. When the girls to whom they are betrothed reach puberty, adolescent boys cease these same-sex sexual relations.
■ Th e characteristics associated with being male or female are otherwise called gender. While culture helps to shape masculinity or feminity, biology defi nes men and women.
■ A two-spirit is a person of one sex who identifi es with the other sex; in some communities, such as the Zuni, a two-spirit is considered a third gender and is believed to possess great spiritual power.
Societal Norms and Sexuality
■ Sexuality tends to be evaluated according to categories of natural/unnatural, normal/abnormal, and moral/immoral. Th ese terms are value judg- ments, refl ecting social norms rather than any quality inherent in the behavior itself.
■ Th ere is no commonly accepted defi nition of natural sexuality behavior. Normal sexuality behavior is what a culture defi nes as normal. We commonly use fi ve criteria to categorize sexuality behavior as normal or abnormal: subjectively normal, statistically normal, idealistically normal, culturally normal, and clinically normal.
■ Human sexuality is characterized by sexual variation. Researchers believe that the best way to examine sexual behavior is on a continuum. Many activities that are considered deviant sexual behavior exist in most of us to some degree. Th ese include exhibition- ism, voyeurism, and fetishism.
■ Behaviors are not abnormal or unnatural; rather, they are more or less typical or atypical of the group aver- age. Many of those whose behaviors are atypical may be regarded as sexual nonconformists rather than as abnormal or perverse.
Questions for Discussion ■ At what age do you believe a young person
should be given a smartphone? What, if any, type of education should accompany it?
■ To what extent do you think your peers are infl uenced by the media? To what extent are you?
■ While growing up, what sexual behaviors did you consider to be normal? Abnormal? How have these views changed now that you are older?
Sex and the Internet Sex and the Media With hundreds of millions of sexuality- related web- sites available, you might wonder about the issues and laws associated with access to cyberspace. Though the following sites each deal primarily with intellectual freedom, they also contain information and links to other sites that address issues of sex and the media. Select one of the following:
■ Electronic Frontier Foundation http://www.eff .org
■ Entertainment Software Rating Board http://www.esrb.org/index-js.jsp
■ National Coalition for Sexual Freedom http://www.ncsfreedom.org
■ Kaiser Family Foundation http://kff .org/entmedia/index.cfm
■ Sexual Literacy http://nsrc.sfsu.edu/what_sexual_literacy
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Suggested Websites The Media Project http://www.themediaproject.com Off ers facts, research assistance, script consultation, and story ideas on today’s sexual and reproductive health issues, including condoms, pregnancy, HIV/AIDS, abstinence, and abortion.
National Gay and Lesbian Task Force http://thetaskforce.org Provides information and referrals on gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transsexual issues and rights.
Noah http://www.noah-health.org/en/healthy/sexuality Run by the New York Online Access to Health; contains informa- tion on various sexual health topics and links.
Suggested Reading Castaneda, L., & Campbell, S. B. (Eds.). (2005). News and
sexuality: Media portrayals of diversity. Th ousand Oaks, CA: Sage. Provides an understanding of issues and perspectives on gender, race, ethnicity, and sexual orientation as addressed in the media.
Francoeur, R. T., & Noonan, R. (Eds.). (2004). Th e continuum complete international encyclopedia of sexuality. New York: Continuum. Th e foremost reference work on sexual behavior throughout the world.
Gauntlett, D. (2008). Media, gender & identity: An introduction. New York: Routledge. An introduction to the main themes of popular culture and the ways in which it infl uences lifestyles and concepts of gender and identity.
Middleton, D. R. (2001). Exotics and erotics: Human culture and sexual diversity. Prospect Heights, IL: Waveland Press. Explores universal human sexuality in conjunction with its local manifestations in specifi c cultural contexts; topics include the body, patterns of sexuality, sexual behavior, romantic passion, marriage, and kinship.
Strasburger, V. C., Wilson, B.J., & Jordan, A. B. (2009). Children, adolescents, and the media (2nd ed.). Th ousand Oaks, CA: Sage. Explores mass media, including the sexual messages the media convey and their impact on adolescents.
Tiefer, L. (2004). Sex is not a natural act and other essays (2nd ed.). Boulder, CO: Westview Press. A revised collection of provocative essays on sex and its many meanings in our culture.
For links, articles, and study material, go to the McGraw-Hill website, located at
www.mhhe.com/yarber8e.
Go to the site and answer the following questions:
■ What is the mission of the site—if any? ■ Who are its supporters and advocates? ■ Who is its target audience? ■ What is its predominant message? ■ What current issue is it highlighting?
Given what you have learned about this site, how do your feelings about sex and the Internet compare with those of the creators of this website?
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Sex, Advice Columnists, and Pop Psychology 30
Thinking Critically About Sexuality 33
Sex Research Methods 36
The Sex Researchers 44
Contemporary Research Studies 49
Emerging Research Perspectives 55
Ethnicity and Sexuality 59
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“A new university study fi nds that many college students lie to a new sexual partner about their sexual past . . . but fi rst, a message from . . .” So begins a commercial lead-in on the news, reminding us that sex research is often part of both news and entertainment. In fact, most of us learn about the results of sex research from television, newspapers, the Internet, and magazines rather than from scholarly journals and books. After all, the mass media are more entertaining than most scholarly works. And unless we are studying human sexuality, few of us have the time or interest to read the scholarly journals in which scientifi c research is regularly published. But how accurate is what the mass media tell us about sex and sex research? In this chapter, we discuss the dissemination of sexuality-related information by the various media. Th en we look at the critical-thinking skills that help us evaluate how we discuss and think about sexuality. When are we making objec- tive statements? When are we refl ecting biases or opinions? Next, we examine sex research methods because they are critical to the scientifi c study of human sexuality. Th en we look at some of the leading sex researchers to see how they have infl uenced our understanding of sexuality. Next, we discuss fi ve national studies as examples of important research that has been conducted. Finally, we examine feminist, gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, and ethnic sex research to see how they enrich our knowledge of sexuality.
• Sex, Advice Columnists, and Pop Psychology As we saw in Chapter 1, the mass media convey seemingly endless sexual images. Besides various television, fi lm, Internet, and advertising genres, there is another genre, which we might call the sex information/advice genre,
Ignorance is like a delicate exotic fruit; touch it and the bloom is gone.
—Oscar Wilde (1854–1900)
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“I’ve heard about those sex surveys, and I wonder how truthful they are. I mean, don’t you think that people who volunteer for those studies only admit to behaviors which they deem
socially acceptable? I just don’t think people who lose their vir- ginity, for instance at age 12 or age 30, would actually report it. Besides, no sex study is going to tell me what I should do or whether I am normal.”
—21-year-old male
“I feel that sexual research is a benefi t to our society. The human sexuality class I took my sophomore year in college taught me a lot. Without research, many of the topics we learned about would not have been so thoroughly discussed due to lack of information. Sexual research and human sexuality
classes help keep the topic of sex from being seen as such a faux pas by society.”
—20-year-old female
“I took a sex survey once, during my undergraduate years. I found that the survey was easy to take, and the process of answering the questions actually led me to ask myself more questions about my sexual self. The survey was detailed, and I was encouraged to answer truthfully. Ultimately, every answer I gave was accurate because I knew that the research would benefi t science (and it was completely anonymous).”
—22-year-old female
“I think sex research is great because it helps remove the taboo from the topic. Sex, in this country, is on TV and the Internet all the time, but people do not want to seriously discuss it, espe- cially adults with children. Sex research, when made public, can help ease the tension of discussing sex—especially when it reveals that something considered abnormal actually is nor- mal and that many people practice the specifi c behavior.”
—24-year-old male
Student Voices
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that transmits information and norms, rather than images, about sexual- ity to a mass audience to both inform and entertain in a simplified man- ner. For many college students, as well as others, the sex information/ advice genre is a major source of their knowledge about sex. This genre is ostensibly concerned with transmitting information that is factual and accurate. In addition, on an increasing number of college campuses, sex columns in student-run newspapers have become popular and sometimes controversial.
Information and Advice as Entertainment
Newspaper columns, Internet sites, syndicated radio shows, magazine articles, and TV programs share several features. First, their primary purpose is fi nan- cial profi t. Th is goal is in marked contrast to that of scholarly research, whose primary purpose is to increase knowledge. Even the inclusion of survey ques- tionnaires in magazines asking readers about their sexual attitudes or behav- iors is ultimately designed to promote sales. We fi ll out the questionnaires for fun, much as we would crossword puzzles or anagrams. Th en we buy the subsequent issue or watch a later program to see how we compare to other respondents. Second, the success of media personalities rests not so much on their expertise as on their ability to present information as entertainment. Because the genre seeks to entertain, sex information and advice must be simplified. Complex explanations and analyses must be avoided because they would interfere with the entertainment purpose. Furthermore, the genre relies on high-interest or bizarre material to attract readers, viewers, and listeners. Consequently, we are more likely to read, hear, or view sto- ries about unusual sexual behaviors or ways to increase sexual attractiveness than stories about new research methods or the negative outcomes of sex- ual stereotyping. Th ird, the genre focuses on how-to information or on morality. Sometimes it mixes information and normative judgments. How-to material tells us how to improve our sex lives. Advice columnists often give advice on issues of sexual morality: “Is it all right to have sex without commitment?” “Yes, if you love him/her” or “No, casual sex is empty,” and so on. Th ese columnists act as moral arbiters, much as ministers, priests, and rabbis do. Fourth, the genre uses the trappings of social science and psychiatry without their substance. Writers and columnists interview social scientists and therapists to give an aura of scientifi c authority to their material. Th ey rely especially heavily on therapists, whose background is clinical rather than academic. Because clinicians tend to deal with people with problems, they often see the problematic aspects of sexuality. Th e line between media sex experts and advice columnists is often blurred. Th is line is especially obscure on the Internet, where websites dealing with sexuality have proliferated. Most of these sites are purely for entertainment rather than education, and it can be diffi cult to determine a site’s credibility. One way to assess the educational value of a website is to investigate its sponsor. Reputable national organizations like the American Psychological Association (http://www.apa.org) and the Sexuality Information and Education Council of the United States (http://www.siecus.org) provide reliable information and links to other, equally reputable, sites.
If you believe everything you read, don’t read.
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practically speaking
After you have read several sex books and watched several sex experts on television, you will discover that they tend to be repetitive. There are two main reasons for this. First, the media repeatedly report more or less the same stories because sex research is a small discipline and fewer studies are con- ducted compared to other academic areas. Scientifi c research can be painstakingly slow, and the results are often tedious to produce. Research results often do not change the way we view a topic; instead, they tend to verify what we already know. Although research is seldom revolutionary, the media must nevertheless continually produce new stories to fi ll their pages and programs. Consequently, they report similar material in diff erent guises—as interviews, survey results, and fi rst-person stories, for example. Second, the media are repetitive because their scope is narrow. There are only so many ways how-to books can tell you “how to do it.” Similarly, the personal and moral dilemmas most of us face are remarkably similar: Am I normal? When should I be sexual with another person? Is sex without love moral? With the media awash with sex information and advice, how can you evaluate what is presented to you? Here are some guidelines:
1. Be skeptical. Remember, much of what you read or see is meant to entertain you. If it seems superfi cial, it probably is.
2. Search for biases, stereotypes, and lack of objectivity. Informa- tion is often distorted by points of view. One should assess if there is any reason to suspect bias in the selection of subjects. Research funding from a drug or vitamin company, for exam- ple, may lead to suspicion of the independence of the
researcher. In recent years, eff orts have been made to ensure independence, such as declaring any confl ict of interest (e.g., who funded the study) in published research.
3. Look for moralizing. Many times, what passes for fact is really disguised moral judgment.
4. Go to the original source or sources. The media always simplify. Find out for yourself what the studies really reported. Learn- ing how representative the sample was, the study parame- ters, and the study strengths and limitations is also important.
5. Determine the credentials of the “sex experts” or researchers. Many of those who present sex advice in the media are largely entertainers, authors, or lecturers who typically pro- ject themselves as authorities or experts. However, many do not have adequate academic credentials, such as being a licensed psychologist or having completed graduate-level work in human sexuality. When assessing research studies, it is helpful to note the credentials of the researchers and the type of organization that conducted the study, as well as who, if anyone, funded the study. For example, the study would likely be more creditable if the researchers were from widely respected universities or institutions and the research was funded by a federal agency (e.g., the National Institutes of Health).
6. Seek additional information. The whole story is probably not told. Look for additional information in scholarly books and journals, reference books, or textbooks. Do not put too much credence in one study; later studies may contradict the fi ndings.
Keeping these guidelines in mind will help you steer a course between blind acceptance and off hand dismissal of a study.
Evaluating Pop Psychology
The Use and Abuse of Research Findings
To reinforce their authority, the media often incorporate statistics from a study’s fi ndings, which are key features of social science research. However, as Pulitzer Prize winner Susan Faludi (1991) notes:
Th e statistics that the popular culture chooses to promote most heavily are the very statistics we should view with the most caution. Th ey may well be in wide circulation not because they are true but because they support widely held media preconceptions.
Further, the media may report the results of a study that are contradicted by subsequent research. It is common, particularly in the medical fi eld, for the original results not to be replicated when continued research is conducted (Tanner, 2005). For example, a review of major studies published in three infl u- ential medical journals from 1990 to 2003 found that one third of the results
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do not hold up (Ionannidis, 2005). But, of course, changes in “current knowledge” also happen in behavioral research. For example, an assertion that is often presented in the media as defi nitive is that the consumption of alcohol always leads to risky sexual behaviors. Yet, studies have found that among young people the relationship between alcohol use and risky sexual behaviors is com- plex and often the research fi ndings are inconsistent or inconclusive (Cooper, 2006). An alternative explanation is that possibly a high proportion of young people take more risks than other young people in several areas such as cigarette use, drug use, alcohol use, driving, and sex. Th at is, there is a clustering of risk behaviors representing high sensation seeking, and alcohol use alone does not cause risky sex but both are part of the total risk behavior pattern (Coleman, 2001; Coleman & Cater, 2005; Zuckerman, 1994). Th e media frequently quote or describe social science research, but they may do so in an oversimplifi ed or distorted manner. An excellent example of dis- torted representation of sex-related research was some of the media coverage of the research on ram sheep by Charles Roselli, a researcher at the Oregon Health and Science University. Dr. Roselli searched for physiological explanations of why 8% of rams exclusively seek sex with other rams instead of ewes. His research was funded by the National Institutes of Health and published in major scientifi c journals. Following media coverage of his research, animal- rights activists, gay advocates, and others criticized the studies. A New York Times article in January 2007 noted that his research drew outrage based on, according to Dr. Roselli and his colleagues, “bizarre misinterpretation of what the work is about.” Th e researchers contended that discussion of possible human implications of their fi ndings in their reports diff ered from intentions of carrying the work over to humans. Critics claimed that the research could lead to altering or controlling sexual orientation. According to the Times article, Th e Sunday Times in London asserted, incorrectly, that Dr. Roselli found a way to “cure” homosexual rams with hormone treatment, adding that critics feared the research “could pave the way for breeding out homosexuality in humans.” John Schwartz, author of the Times article, concluded that “the story of the gay sheep became a textbook example of the distortion and vituperation that can result when science meets the global news cycle” (Schwartz, 2007). As this example illustrates, scholars tend to qualify their fi ndings as tentative or limited to a certain group, and they are very cautious about making generalizations. In contrast, the media tend to make results sound generalizable.
• Thinking Critically About Sexuality Although each of us has our own perspective, values, and beliefs regarding sexuality, as students, instructors, and researchers, we are committed to the scientifi c study of sexuality. Basic to any scientifi c study is a fundamental com- mitment to objectivity, or the observation of things as they exist in reality as opposed to our feelings or beliefs about them. Objectivity calls for us to sus- pend the beliefs, biases, or prejudices we have about a subject in order to understand it. Objectivity in the study of sexuality is not always easy to achieve, for sexu- ality can be the focal point of powerful emotions and moral ambivalence. We experience sex very subjectively. But whether we fi nd it easy or diffi cult to be objective, objectivity is the foundation for studying sexuality.
He who knows nothing doubts nothing.
—French proverb “
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Most of us think about sex, but thinking about it critically requires us to be logical and objective. It also requires that we avoid making value judgments; put aside our opinions, biases, and stereotypes; and not fall prey to common fallacies such as egocentric and ethnocentric thinking.
Value Judgments Versus Objectivity
For many of us, objectivity about sex is diffi cult because our culture has tradi- tionally viewed sexuality in moral terms: Sex is moral or immoral, right or wrong, good or bad, normal or abnormal. When examining sexuality, we tend, therefore, to make value judgments, evaluations based on moral or ethical standards rather than objective ones. Unfortunately, value judgments are often blinders to understanding. Th ey do not tell us about what motivates people, how frequently they behave in a given way, or how they feel. Value judgments do not tell us anything about sexuality except how we ourselves feel. In study- ing human sexuality, then, we need to put aside value judgments as incompat- ible with the pursuit of knowledge. How can we tell the diff erence between a value judgment and an objective statement? Examine the following two statements. Which is a value judgment? Which is an objective statement?
■ College students should be in a committed relationship before they have sex. ■ Th e majority of students have sexual intercourse sometime during their
college careers.
Th e fi rst statement is a value judgment; the second is an objective statement. Th ere is a simple rule of thumb for telling the diff erence between the two: Value judgments imply how a person ought to behave, whereas objective state- ments describe how people actually behave. Th ere is a second diff erence between value judgments and objective state- ments: Value judgments cannot be empirically validated, whereas objective statements can be. Th at is, the truth or accuracy of an objective statement can be measured and tested.
Opinions, Biases, and Stereotypes
Value judgments obscure our search for understanding. Opinions, biases, and stereotypes also interfere with the pursuit of knowledge.
Opinions An opinion is an unsubstantiated belief or conclusion about what seems to be true according to our thoughts. Opinions are not based on accurate knowledge or concrete evidence. Because opinions are unsubstantiated, they often refl ect our personal values or biases.
Biases A bias is a personal leaning or inclination. Biases lead us to select information that supports our views or beliefs while ignoring information that does not. We need not be victims, however, of our biases. We can make a concerted eff ort to discover what they are and overcome them. To avoid per- sonal bias, scholars apply the objective methods of social science research.
Stereotypes A stereotype is a set of simplistic, rigidly held, overgeneralized beliefs about an individual, a group of people, an idea, and so on. Stereotypical
Morality is simply the attitude we adopt towards people we personally dislike.
—Oscar Wilde (1854–1900)
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Truth is truth. You can’t have opinions about truth.
—Peter Schickele (1935–)
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The human understanding when it has once adopted an opinion . . . draws all
things else to support and agree with it.
—Francis Bacon (1561–1626)
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beliefs are resistant to change. Furthermore, stereotypes—especially sexual ones—are often negative. Common sexual stereotypes include the following:
■ Men are always ready for sex. ■ “Nice” women are not interested in sex. ■ Women need a reason for sex; men need a place. ■ Virgins are uptight and asexual. ■ Th e relationships of gay men never last. ■ Lesbian women hate men. ■ African American men lust after White women. ■ Latino men are promiscuous.
Psychologists believe that stereotypes structure knowledge. Th ey aff ect the ways in which we process information: what we see, what we notice, what we remem- ber, and how we explain things. Or, as humorist Ashleigh Brilliant said, “Seeing is believing. I wouldn’t have seen it if I hadn’t believed it.” A stereotype is a type of schema, a way in which we organize knowledge in our thought processes. Schemas help us channel or fi lter the mass of information we receive so that we can make sense of it. Th ey determine what we will regard as important. Although these mental plans are useful, they can also create blind spots. With stereotypes, we see what we expect to see and ignore what we don’t expect or want to see. Sociologists point out that sexual stereotyping is often used to justify discrim- ination. Targets of stereotypes are usually members of subordinate social groups or individuals with limited economic resources. As we will see, sexual stereotyping is especially powerful in stigmatizing African Americans, Latinos, Asian Americans, gay men, lesbian women, and bisexual and transgender individuals. We all have opinions and biases, and most of us to varying degrees think stereotypically. But the commitment to objectivity requires us to become aware of our opinions, biases, and stereotypes and to put them aside in the pursuit of knowledge.
Common Fallacies: Egocentric and Ethnocentric Thinking
A fallacy is an error in reasoning that aff ects our understanding of a subject. Fallacies distort our thinking, leading us to false or erroneous conclusions. In the fi eld of sexuality, egocentric and ethnocentric fallacies are common.
The Egocentric Fallacy Th e egocentric fallacy is the mistaken belief that our own personal experience and values generally are held by others. On the basis of our belief in this false consensus, we use our own beliefs and values to explain the attitudes, motivations, and behaviors of others. Of course, our own experi- ences and values are important; they are the source of personal strength and knowledge, and they can give us insight into the experiences and values of oth- ers. But we cannot necessarily generalize from our own experience to that of others. Our own personal experiences are limited and may be unrepresentative. Sometimes, our generalizations are merely opinions or disguised value judgments.
The Ethnocentric Fallacy Th e ethnocentric fallacy, also known as ethno- centrism, is the belief that our own ethnic group, nation, or culture is innately superior to others. Ethnocentrism is reinforced by opinions, biases,
No question is so diffi cult as that to which the answer is obvious.
—George Bernard Shaw (1856–1950)
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and stereotypes about other groups and cultures. As members of a group, we tend to share similar values and attitudes with other group members. But the mere fact that we share these beliefs is not suffi cient proof of their truth. Ethnocentrism has been increasingly evident as a reaction to the increased awareness of ethnicity, or ethnic affi liation or identity. For many Americans, a signifi cant part of their sense of self comes from identifi cation with their ethnic group. An ethnic group is a group of people distinct from other groups because of cultural characteristics, such as language, religion, and customs, that are transmitted from one generation to the next. Although there was little research on ethnicity and sexuality until the 1980s, evidence suggests that there are signifi cant ethnic variations in terms of sexual attitudes and behavior. When data are available, the variations by ethnicity will be presented throughout this book. Ethnocentrism results when we stereotype other cultures as “primitive,” “innocent,” “inferior,” or “not as advanced.” We may view the behavior of other peoples as strange, exotic, unusual, or bizarre, but to them it is normal. Th eir attitudes, behaviors, values, and beliefs form a unifi ed sexual system that makes sense within their culture. In fact, we engage in many activities that appear peculiar to those outside our culture.
• Sex Research Methods One of the key factors that distinguishes the fi ndings of social science from beliefs, prejudice, bias, and pop psychology is its commitment to the scientifi c method. Th e scientifi c method is the method by which a hypothesis is formed from impartially gathered data and tested empirically. Th e scientifi c method relies on induction—that is, drawing a general conclusion from specifi c facts. Th e scientifi c method seeks to describe the world rather than evaluate or judge it.
All universal judgments are weak, loose, and dangerous.
—Michel de Montaigne (1533–1595)
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We are the recorders and reporters of facts—not judges of the behavior we
describe.
—Alfred C. Kinsey (1894–1965)
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Ethnocentrism is the belief that one’s own culture or ethnic group is superior to others. Although child marriage is prohibited in our society, it is acceptable in many cultures throughout the world, including India.
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Although sex researchers, sometimes called sexologists, use the same meth- odology as other social scientists, they are constrained by ethical concerns and taboos that those in many other fi elds do not experience. Because of the taboos surrounding sexuality, some traditional research methods are inappropriate. Sex research, like most social science research, uses diff erent methodological approaches. Th ese include clinical research, survey research (questionnaires and interviews), observational research, and experimental research. And as in many fi elds, no single research paradigm has emerged in sexual science (Weis, 2002).
Research Concerns
Researchers face two general concerns in conducting their work: (1) ethical concerns centering on the use of human beings as subjects and (2) methodological concerns regarding sampling techniques and their accuracy. Without a representative sample, the conclusions that can be drawn using these methodologies are limited.
Ethical Issues Ethics are important in any scientifi c endeavor. Th ey are espe- cially important in such an emotional and value-laden subject as sexuality. Among the most important ethical issues are informed consent, protection from harm, and confi dentiality. Informed consent is the full disclosure to an individual of the purpose, potential risks, and benefi ts of participating in a research project. Under informed consent, people are free to decide whether to participate in a project without coercion or deceit. Studies involving children and other minors typi- cally require parental consent. Once a study begins, participants have the right to withdraw at any time without penalty. Each research participant is entitled to protection from harm. Some sex research, such as the viewing of explicit fi lms to measure physiological responses, may cause some people emotional distress. Th e identity of research subjects should be kept confi dential. Because of the highly charged nature of sexuality, participants also need to be guaranteed anonymity. All colleges and universities have review boards or human-subject commit- tees to make sure that researchers follow ethical guidelines. Proposed research is submitted to the committee for approval before the project begins.
Sampling In each research approach, the choice of a sample—a portion of a larger group of people or population—is critical. To be most useful, a sample should be a random sample—that is, a sample collected in an unbiased way, with the selection of each member of the sample based solely on chance. Fur- thermore, the sample should be a representative sample, with a small group representing the larger group in terms of age, sex, ethnicity, socioeconomic status, sexual orientation, and so on. When a random sample is used, informa- tion gathered from a small group can be used to make inferences about the larger group. Samples that are not representative of the larger group are known as biased samples. Using samples is important. It would be impossible, for example, to study the sexual behaviors of all college students in the United States. But we could select a representative sample of college students from various schools and infer from their behavior how other college students behave. Using the same sample to infer the sexual behavior of Americans in general, however, would mean using a biased sample. We cannot generalize the sexual activities of American college students to the larger population.
Anything more than truth would be too much.
—Robert Frost (1874–1963)
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Most samples in sex research are lim- ited for several reasons:
■ Th ey depend on volunteers or clients. Because these samples are generally self-selected, we cannot assume that they are representative of the popula- tion as a whole. Volunteers for sex research are often more likely to be male, sexually experienced, liberal, and less religious and to have more positive attitudes toward sexuality and less sex guilt and anxiety than those who do not choose to participate (Strassberg & Lowe, 1995; Wiederman, 1999).
■ Most sex research takes place in a university or college setting with stu- dent volunteers. Th eir sex-related attitudes, values, and behaviors may be very diff erent from those of older adults.
■ Some ethnic groups are generally underrepresented. Representative sam- ples of African Americans, Latinos, American Indians, Middle Eastern Americans, and some Asian Americans, for example, are not easily found because these groups are underrepresented at the colleges and universities where subjects are generally recruited.
■ Th e study of gay men, lesbian women, and bisexual and transgender indi- viduals presents unique sampling issues. Are gay men, lesbian women, and bisexual individuals who have come out—publicly identifi ed them- selves as gay, lesbian, or bisexual—diff erent from those who have not? How do researchers fi nd and recruit subjects who have not come out?
Because these factors limit most studies, we must be careful in making gener- alizations from studies.
Clinical Research
Clinical research is the in-depth examination of an individual or group that comes to a psychiatrist, psychologist, or social worker for assistance with psy- chological or medical problems or disorders. Clinical research is descriptive; inferences of cause and eff ect cannot be drawn from it. Th e individual is inter- viewed and treated for a specifi c problem. At the same time the person is being treated, he or she is being studied. In their evaluations, clinicians attempt to determine what caused the disorder and how it may be treated. Th ey may also try to infer from dysfunctional people how healthy people develop. Clinical research often focuses on atypical, unhealthy behaviors, problems related to sexuality (e.g., feeling trapped in the body of the wrong gender), and sexual function problems (e.g., lack of desire, early ejaculation, erectile diffi culties, or lack of orgasm). A major limitation of clinical research is its emphasis on pathological behavior, or unhealthy or diseased behavior. Such an emphasis makes clinical research dependent on cultural defi nitions of what is “unhealthy” or “patho- logical.” Th ese defi nitions, however, change over time and in the context of the culture being studied. In the nineteenth century, for example, masturbation
A couple is being interviewed by a sex researcher. The face-to-face interview, one method of gathering data about sexuality, has both advantages and disadvantages.
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was considered pathological. Physicians and clinicians went to great lengths to root it out. In the case of women, surgeons sometimes removed the clitoris. Today, masturbation is viewed more positively.
Survey Research
Survey research is a method that uses questionnaires or interviews to gather information. Questionnaires off er anonymity, can be completed fairly quickly, and are relatively inexpensive to administer; however, they usually do not allow an in-depth response. A person must respond with a short answer or select from a limited number of options. Th e limited-choices format provides a more objective assessment than the short-answer format and results in a total score. Interview techniques avoid some of the shortcomings of questionnaires, as interviewers are able to probe in greater depth and follow paths suggested by the participant. Although surveys are important sources of information, the method has several limitations, as people may be poor reporters of their own sexual behavior:
■ Some people may exaggerate their number of sexual partners; others may minimize their casual encounters.
■ Respondents generally underreport experiences that might be considered deviant or immoral, such as bondage and same-sex experiences.
■ Some respondents may feel uncomfortable about revealing information— such as about masturbation or fetishes—in a face-to-face interview.
■ Th e accuracy of one’s memory may fade as time passes, and providing an accurate estimation, such as how long sex lasted, may be diffi cult.
■ Some ethnic groups, because of their cultural values, may be reluctant to reveal sexual information about themselves.
■ Interviewers may allow their own preconceptions to infl uence the way in which they frame questions and to bias their interpretations of responses.
■ Th e interviewer’s sex, race, or orientation may also infl uence how com- fortable respondents are in disclosing information about themselves.
Interestingly, despite these limitations of self-reporting of sexual behavior, a recent review of seven population-based surveys of adults in the United States concluded that self-reported data may not be as unreliable as generally assumed. Th e study examined the consistency in the number of sexual partners reported in these seven national studies and found a remarkable level of consistency among the studies. Th e researchers concluded that the fi ndings show promise for research that relies on self-reported number of sexual partners (Hamilton & Morris, 2010). Some researchers use computers to improve interviewing techniques for sensi- tive topics. With the audio computer-assisted self-interviewing (audio-CASI) method, the respondent hears the questions over headphones or reads them on a computer screen and then enters her or his responses into the computer. Audio- CASI apparently increases feelings of confi dentiality and accuracy of responses on sensitive topics such as sexual risk behaviors (Cooley et al., 2001; Des Jarlais et al., 1999; Potdar & Koenig, 2005). Even though the use of audio-CASI has advantages, research has found that the use of the audio part by respondents was limited and that gains in more candid responses from the audio component are modest relative to text-only CASI (Couper, Tourangeu, & Marvin, 2009).
The great tragedy of science—the slaying of a beautiful hypothesis by an
ugly fact.
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To measure variables related to sexuality, many sex researchers use standardized (i.e., reliable and valid) questionnaires. One such questionnaire, the Measure of Sexual Identity Exploration and Commitment (MoSIEC), assesses sexual identity development and can be used by persons of any sexual orientation (Worthington, Navarro, Savoy, & Hampton, 2008). Sexual identity refers to one’s self-label or self-identifi cation as a heterosexual, gay, lesbian, or bisexual person (Hyde & DeLamater, 2011). The MoSIEC is a theoretically based questionnaire that contains four components or subscales: exploration (pursuit of a revised and refi ned sense of self ), commitment (choice to adopt a specifi c identity represented by a unifi ed set of goals, values, and beliefs), synthesis (a state of congruence among all dimen- sions of individual sexual identity and the broader sense of self ), and sexual orientation identity uncertainty (not being sure about one’s sexual identity). The MoSIEC can help sex researchers, for example, understand the relationship between the processes of sexual identity development and sexual risk behavior related to sexually transmitted infections, including HIV, and unintended pregnancy. The MoSIEC is presented below. Take it to fi nd out what it is like to complete a sex research questionnaire, as well as get a general idea about your own sexual identity development.
Directions
Refer to these defi nitions when completing the questionnaire:
Sexual needs An internal, subjective experience of instinct, desire, appetite, biological necessity, impulses, interest, and/or libido with respect to sex.
Sexual values Moral evaluations, judgments, and/or standards about what is appropriate, acceptable, desirable, and innate sexual behavior.
Sexual activities Any behavior that a person might engage in relating to or based on sexual attraction, sexual arousal, sexual gratifi cation, or reproduction (e.g., fantasy to holding hands to kissing to sexual intercourse).
Modes of sexual expression Any form of communication (verbal or nonverbal) or direct and indirect signals that a person might use to convey her or his sexuality (e.g., fl irting, eye contact, touching, vocal quality, compliments, suggestive body movements or postures).
Sexual orientation An enduring emotional, romantic, sexual, or aff ectional attraction to other persons that ranges from exclusive heterosexuality to exclusive homosexuality and includes various forms of bisexuality.
Respond to each below item as honestly as you can, using the key 1 � very uncharacteristic of me to 6 � very characteristic of me. Circle your response. There are no right or wrong answers.
Very Very uncharacteristic characteristic of me of me
1. My sexual orientation is clear to me. 1 2 3 4 5 6
2. I went through a period in my life when I was trying to determine my sexual needs. 1 2 3 4 5 6
3. I am actively trying to learn more about my own sexual needs. 1 2 3 4 5 6
4. My sexual values are consistent with all of the other aspects of my sexuality. 1 2 3 4 5 6
5. I am open to experiment with new types of sexual activities in the future. 1 2 3 4 5 6
6. I am actively trying new ways to express myself sexually. 1 2 3 4 5 6
7. My understanding of my sexual needs coincides with my overall sense of sexual self. 1 2 3 4 5 6
8. I went through a period in my life when I was trying diff erent forms of sexual expression. 1 2 3 4 5 6
9. My sexual values will always be open to sexual exploration. 1 2 3 4 5 6
10. I know what my preferences are for expressing myself sexually. 1 2 3 4 5 6
11. I have a clear sense of the types of sexual activities I prefer. 1 2 3 4 5 6
12. I am actively experimenting with sexual activities that are new to me. 1 2 3 4 5 6
Answering a Sex Research Questionnaire: Measure of Sexual Identity Exploration and Commitment
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Very Very uncharacteristic characteristic of me of me
13. The ways I express myself sexually are consistent with all of the other aspects of my sexuality. 1 2 3 4 5 6
14. I sometimes feel uncertain about my sexual orientation. 1 2 3 4 5 6
15. I do not know how to express myself sexually. 1 2 3 4 5 6
16. I have never clearly identifi ed what my sexual values are. 1 2 3 4 5 6
17. The sexual activities I prefer are compatible with all of the other aspects of my sexuality. 1 2 3 4 5 6
18. I have never clearly identifi ed what my sexual needs are. 1 2 3 4 5 6
19. I can see myself trying new ways of expressing myself sexually in the future. 1 2 3 4 5 6
20. I have a fi rm sense of what my sexual needs are. 1 2 3 4 5 6
21. My sexual orientation is not clear to me. 1 2 3 4 5 6
22. My sexual orientation is compatible with all of the other aspects of my sexuality. 1 2 3 4 5 6
Scoring
Scores for the questionnaire components or subscales are obtained by averaging the ratings on the items for each subscale (this method ensures scores when an item is not answered). Use the below items for an average or mean score for each subscale. Note: Items that should be scored in reverse are listed in bold type; for example, if you marked a 2, give it a 5 score.
Exploration � 2, 3, 5, 6, 8, 9, 12, 19 Commitment � 10, 11, 15, 16, 18, 20 Synthesis � 4, 7, 13, 17, 22 Sexual orientation identity uncertainty � 1, 14, 21
What Do Your Scores Mean?
Exploration Higher average scores on this subscale mean that a person has a greater tendency toward self-exploration across the dimensions of sexual identity (e.g., perceived sexual needs, preferred sexual activities, sexual values, recognition and
identifi cation of sexual orientation, and preferred modes of sexual expression). Sexual identity exploration is a normal aspect of human development, especially for people in their adolescence and young adulthood. Studies have shown that those who are uncertain about their sexual identity or who identify as a lesbian, gay, or bisexual person tend to score higher on this subscale than heterosexual individuals.
Commitment Higher average scores on this subscale mean that a person has a clear and relatively fi xed sense of perceived sexual needs, preferred sexual activities, sexual values, recognition and identifi cation of sexual orientation, and preferred modes of sexual expression. Sexual identity typically becomes stronger as one ages, and high scores can be found in persons of any sexual orientation identity.
Synthesis Higher average scores on this scale mean that the person has expressed greater congruence and correspondence in his/her level of commitment across all dimensions of sexual identity. That is, those who score higher on this subscale tend to perceive their sexual values, needs, activities, modes of sexual expression, and sexual orientation identities as in sync with one another, as well as with their broader sense of self.
Sexual Orientation Uncertainty Higher average scores on this subscale mean that the person has expressed greater uncertainty about his/her sexual orientation as a gay, lesbian, bisexual, or heterosexual individual. Research shows that many people experience sexual orientation uncertainty at some time in their lives, and that uncertainty is often accompanied by lower levels of sexual identity commitment and higher levels of sexual identity exploration. Bisexual persons tend to score higher on this subscale than those of other sexual orientation groups, possibly because of experiencing negative societal biases from heterosexual persons, as well as from lesbian women and gay men, which can result in greater demands for exploration among bisexual persons during the course of sexual identity formation.
Take some time to refl ect on your experience in completing this survey:
■ Did you learn something about your own sexual identity development?
■ How valid do you think the results from a questionnaire such as this are? That is, do you think the questionnaire actually measures what it claims to measure, such as sexual orienta- tion uncertainty?
■ Would your responses have been the same if you had been asked these same questions on the telephone, in an inter- view, or via the computer?
SOURCE: Worthington, R. L., Navarro, R. L., Savoy, H. B., & Hampton, D. (2008). “Development, reliability, and validity of the Measure of Sexual Identity Exploration and Commitment (MoSIEC).” Developmental Psychology, 44, 22- 33 (Table 1, p. 26). The use of APA information does not imply endorsement by APA.
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Another new technique is the use of the Internet to administer question- naires and conduct interviews. Respondents to web-based interviews tend to have a higher income and level of education than those without access to the Internet, making it diffi cult to generalize from their responses. However, geo- graphically isolated individuals can be reached more easily (Ross, Tikkanen, & Mansson, 2000). Stigmatized groups (e.g., bisexual people) may feel more com- fortable participating and much larger samples may be obtained. For example, a British Internet study on sexuality and gender had about 255,000 participants (Reimers, 2007). Daily data collection, using a sexual diary, or personal notes of one’s sexual activity, can increase the accuracy of self-report data (Crosby, DiClemente, & Salazar, 2006). Often, research participants make daily diary entries online or by phone, for example, about sexual variables such as interest, fantasies, and behavior. Or they may be requested to make entries only after a certain sexual activity has occurred, such as intercourse. Research suggests that event-specifi c behaviors such as condom use during sex will be more accurately recalled in diaries than by retrospective methods such as self-report questionnaires and interviews (Fortenberry, Cecil, Zimet, & Orr, 1997; Gilmore et al., 2001; Graham & Bancroft, 1997).
Observational Research
Observational research is a method by which a researcher unobtrusively observes and makes systematic notes about people’s behavior without trying to manipulate it. Th e observer does not want his or her presence to aff ect the subject’s behavior, although this is rarely possible. Because sexual behavior is regarded as signifi cantly diff erent from other behaviors, there are serious ethical issues involved in observing people’s sexual behavior without their knowledge and consent. Researchers cannot observe sexual behavior as they might observe, say, fl irting at a party, dance, or bar, so such observations usually take place in a laboratory setting. In such instances, the setting is not a natural environment, and participants are aware that their behavior is under observation. Participant observation, in which the researcher participates in the behav- iors she or he is studying, is an important method of observational research. For example, a researcher may study prostitution by becoming a customer or anonymous sex between men in public restrooms by posing as a lookout (Humphreys, 1975). Th ere are several questions raised by such participant observation: How does the observer’s participation aff ect the interactions being studied? For example, does a prostitute respond diff erently to a researcher if she or he tries to obtain information? If the observer participates, how does this aff ect her or his objectivity? And what are the researcher’s ethical respon- sibilities regarding informing those she or he is studying?
Experimental Research
Experimental research is the systematic manipulation of individuals or the environment to learn the eff ects of such manipulation on behavior. It enables researchers to isolate a single factor under controlled circumstances to deter- mine its infl uence. Researchers are able to control their experiments by using variables, or aspects or factors that can be manipulated in experiments. Th ere are two types of variables: independent and dependent. Independent variables are factors that can be manipulated or changed by the experimenter;
Discovery consists of seeing what everybody has seen and thinking what
nobody has thought.
—Albert Szent-Györgyi (1893–1986)
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An increasing number of sex researchers are placing their questionnaires on the Internet so that persons at any location or at any time can participate in the study.
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dependent variables are factors that are likely to be aff ected by changes in the independent variable. Because it controls variables, experimental research diff ers from the previous methods we have examined. Clinical studies, surveys, and observational research are correlational in nature. Correlational studies measure two or more natu- rally occurring variables to determine their relationship to each other. Because these studies do not manipulate the variables, they cannot tell us which variable causes the other to change. But experimental studies manipulate the indepen- dent variables, so researchers can reasonably determine what variables cause the other variables to change. Much experimental research on sexuality depends on measuring physiologi- cal responses. Th ese responses are usually measured by plethysmographs (pluh- THIZ-muh-grafs)—devices attached to the genitals to measure physiological response. Researchers use either a penile plethysmograph, a strain gauge (a device resembling a rubber band), or a Rigiscantm for men and a vaginal ple- thysmograph for women. Both the penile plethysmograph and the strain gauge are placed around the penis to measure changes in its circumference during sexual arousal. Th e Rigiscan, probably the most widely used device to measure male genital response, consists of a recording unit strapped around the waist or the thigh and two loops, one placed around the base of the penis and the other around the shaft just behind the glans. Th e Rigiscan not only measures penile circumference but also assesses rigidity (Janssen, 2002). Th e vaginal ple- thysmograph is about the size of a menstrual tampon and is inserted into the vagina like a tampon. Th e device measures the amount of blood within the vaginal walls, which increases as a woman becomes sexually aroused. Suppose researchers want to study the infl uence of alcohol on sexual response. Th ey can use a plethysmograph to measure sexual response, the dependent variable. In this study, the independent variable is the level of alcohol consump- tion: no alcohol consumption, moderate alcohol consumption (1–3 drinks), and high alcohol consumption (3� drinks). In addition, extraneous variables, such as body mass and tolerance for alcohol, need to be controlled. In such an
Participant observation is an important means by which anthropologists gain information about other cultures.
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experiment, subjects may view an erotic video. To get a baseline measurement, researchers measure the genitals’ physiological patterns in an unaroused state, before participants view the video or take a drink. Th en they measure sexual arousal (dependent variable) in response to erotica as they increase the level of alcohol consumption (independent variable).
• The Sex Researchers It was not until the nineteenth century that Western sexuality began to be studied using a scientifi c framework. Prior to that time, sexuality was the domain of religion rather than science; sex was the subject of moral rather than scientifi c scrutiny. From the earliest Christian era, treatises, canon law, and papal bulls, as well as sermons and confessions, catalogued the sins of the fl esh. Refl ecting this Christian tradition, the early researchers of sexuality were con- cerned with the supposed excesses and deviances of sexuality rather than its healthy functioning. Th ey were fascinated by what they considered the pathol- ogies of sex, such as fetishism, sadism, masturbation, and homosexuality—the very behaviors that religion condemned as sinful. Alfred Kinsey ironically noted that nineteenth-century researchers created “scientifi c classifi cations . . . nearly identical with theological classifi cations and with moral pronouncements . . . of the fi fteenth century” (Kinsey et al., 1948). As we will see, however, there has been a liberalizing trend in our thinking about sexuality. Both Richard von Kraff t-Ebing and Sigmund Freud viewed sexuality as inherently dangerous and needing repression. But Havelock Ellis, Alfred Kinsey, William Masters and Virginia Johnson, and many other more recent researchers have viewed sexuality more positively; in fact, historian Paul Robinson (1976) regards these later researchers as modernists, or “sexual enthu- siasts.” Th ree themes are evident in the work of modernists: (1) Th ey believe that sexual expression is essential to an individual’s well-being, (2) they seek to broaden the range of legitimate sexual activity, including homosexuality, and (3) they believe that female sexuality is the equal of male sexuality. As much as possible, sex researchers attempt to examine sexuality objectively. But, as with all of us, many of their views are intertwined with the beliefs and values of their times. Th is is especially apparent among the early sex research- ers, some of the most important of whom are described here.
Richard von Kraff t-Ebing
Richard von Kraff t-Ebing (1840–1902), a Viennese professor of psychiatry, was probably the most infl uential of the early researchers. In 1886 he published his most famous work, Psychopathia Sexualis, a collection of case histories of fetish- ists, sadists, masochists, and homosexuals. (He invented the words “sadomas- ochism” and “transvestite.”) Kraff t-Ebing traced variations in Victorian sexuality to “hereditary taint,” to “moral degeneracy,” and, in particular, to masturbation. He intermingled descriptions of fetishists who became sexually excited by certain items of cloth- ing with those of sadists who disemboweled their victims. For Kraff t-Ebing, the origins of fetishism and murderous sadism, as well as most variations, lay in masturbation, the prime sexual sin of the nineteenth century. Despite his misguided focus on masturbation, Kraff t-Ebing’s Psychopathia Sexualis brought to public attention and discussion an immense range of sexual behaviors that
Judge a man by his questions rather than by his answers.
—Voltaire (1694–1778)
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Richard von Kraff t-Ebing (1840–1902) viewed most sexual behavior other than marital coitus as a sign of pathology.
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had never before been documented in a dispassionate, if erroneous, manner. A darkened region of sexual behavior was brought into the open for public examination.
Sigmund Freud
Few people have had as dramatic an impact on the way we think about the world as the Viennese physician Sigmund Freud (1856–1939). In his attempt to under- stand the neuroses, or psychological disorders characterized by anxiety or tension, plaguing his patients, Freud explored the unknown territory of the unconscious. If unconscious motives were brought to consciousness, Freud believed, a person could change his or her behavior. But, he suggested, repression, a psychological mechanism that kept people from becoming aware of hidden memories and motives because they aroused guilt, prevents such knowledge. To explore the unconscious, Freud used various techniques; in particular, he analyzed dreams to discover their meaning. His journeys into the mind led to the development of psychoanalysis, a psychological system that ascribes behav- ior to unconscious desires. He fl ed Vienna when Hitler annexed Austria in 1938 and died a year later in England. Freud believed that sexuality begins at birth, a belief that set him apart from other researchers. Freud described fi ve stages in psychosexual development. Th e fi rst stage is the oral stage, lasting from birth to age 1. During this time, the infant’s eroticism is focused on the mouth; thumb sucking produces an erotic plea- sure. Freud believed that the “most striking character of this sexual activity . . . is that the child gratifi es himself on his own body; . . . he is autoerotic” (Freud, 1938). Th e second stage, between ages 1 and 3, is the anal stage. Children’s sexual activities continue to be autoerotic, but the region of pleasure shifts to the anus. From age 3 through 5, children are in the phallic stage, in which they exhibit interest in the genitals. At age 6, children enter a latency stage, in which their sexual impulses are no longer active. At puberty, they enter the genital stage, at which point they become interested in genital sexual activities, especially sexual intercourse. Th e phallic stage is the critical stage in both male and female development. Th e boy develops sexual desires for his mother, leading to an Oedipal complex. He simultaneously desires his mother and fears his father. Th is fear leads to castration anxiety, the boy’s belief that the father will cut off his penis because of jealousy. Girls follow a more complex developmental path, according to Freud. A girl develops an Electra complex, desiring her father while fearing her mother. Upon discovering that she does not have a penis, she feels deprived and develops penis envy. By age 6, boys and girls resolve their Oedipal and Electra complexes by relinquishing their desires for the parent of the other sex and identifying with their same-sex parent. In this manner, they develop their mas- culine and feminine identities. But because girls never acquire their “lost penis,” Freud believed, they fail to develop an independent character like that of boys. In many ways, such as in his commitment to science and his explorations of the unconscious, Freud seems the embodiment of twentieth-century thought. But in recent times, his infl uence among American sex researchers has dwin- dled. Two of the most important reasons are his lack of empiricism and his inadequate description of female development. Because of its limitations, Freud’s work has become mostly of historical interest to mainstream sex researchers. It continues to exert infl uence in some
The true science and study of man is man.
—Pierre Charron (1541–1603)
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Sigmund Freud (1856–1939) was the founder of psychoanalysis and one of the most infl uential European thinkers of the fi rst half of the twentieth century. Freud viewed sexuality with suspicion.
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fi elds of psychology but has been greatly modifi ed by other fi elds. Even among contemporary psychoanalysts, Freud’s work has been radically revised.
Havelock Ellis
English physician and psychologist Havelock Ellis (1859–1939) was the earliest important modern sexual theorist and scholar. His Studies in the Psychology of Sex (the fi rst six volumes of which were published between 1897 and 1910) consisted of case studies, autobiographies, and personal letters. One of his most important contributions was pointing out the relativity of sexual values. In the nineteenth century, Americans and Europeans alike believed that their society’s dominant sexual beliefs were the only morally and naturally correct standards. But Ellis demonstrated not only that Western sexual standards were hardly the only moral standards but also that they were not necessarily rooted in nature. In doing so, he was among the fi rst researchers to appeal to studies in animal behavior, anthropology, and history. Ellis also challenged the view that masturbation was abnormal. He argued that masturbation was widespread and that there was no evidence linking it with any serious mental or physical problems. He recorded countless men and women who masturbated without ill eff ect. In fact, he argued, masturbation had a positive function: It relieved tension. In the nineteenth century, women were viewed as essentially “pure beings” who possessed reproductive rather than sexual desires. Men, in contrast, were driven by such strong sexual passions that their sexuality had to be severely controlled and repressed. In countless case studies, Ellis documented that women possessed sexual desires no less intense than those of men. Ellis asserted that a wide range of behaviors was normal, including much behavior that the Victorians considered abnormal. He argued that both mas- turbation and female sexuality were normal behaviors and that even the so- called abnormal elements of sexual behavior were simply exaggerations of the normal. He also reevaluated homosexuality. In the nineteenth century, homosexual- ity was viewed as the essence of sin and perversion. It was dangerous, lurid, and criminal. Ellis insisted that it was not a disease or a vice, but a congenital condition: A person was born homosexual; one did not become homosexual. By insisting that homosexuality was congenital, Ellis denied that it could be con- sidered a vice or a form of moral degeneracy, because a person did not choose it. If homosexuality were both congenital and harmless, then, Ellis reasoned, it should not be considered immoral or criminal.
Alfred Kinsey
Alfred C. Kinsey (1894–1956), a biologist at Indiana University and America’s leading authority on gall wasps, destroyed forever the belief in American sexual innocence and virtue. He accomplished this through two books, Sexual Behavior in the Human Male (Kinsey, Pomeroy, & Martin, 1948) and Sexual Behavior in the Human Female (Kinsey, Pomeroy, Martin, & Gebhard, 1953). Th ese two volumes statistically documented the actual sexual behavior of Americans. In massive detail, they demonstrated the great discrepancy between public standards of sexual behavior and actual sexual behavior. Kinsey believed that sex was as legitimate a subject for study as any other and that the study of sex should be treated as a scientifi c discipline involving compiling and examining data and
Havelock Ellis (1859–1939) argued that many behaviors previously labeled as abnormal were actually normal, including masturbation and female sexuality. For example, he found no evidence that masturbation leads to mental disorders, and he documented that women have sexual drives no less intense than those of men.
Alfred C. Kinsey (1894–1956) photographed by William Dellenback, 1953. Kinsey shocked Americans by revealing how they actually behaved sexually. His scientifi c eff orts led to the termination of his research funding because of political pressure.
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drawing conclusions without moralizing. He challenged the traditional medical fi eld’s dominance of sexual research, leading to the fi eld becoming open to many more disciplines (Bullough, 1994). In the fi restorm that accompanied the publication of Kinsey’s books (popu- larly known as the Kinsey Reports), many Americans protested the destruction of their cherished ideals and illusions. Kinsey was highly criticized for his work—and that criticism continues even today. Many people believe that his fi ndings are responsible for a moral breakdown in the United States. Eminent sex researcher Vern Bullough (2004) stated that
few scholars or scientists have lived under the intense fi restorm of publicity and criticism that he did but even as the attacks on him increased and as his health failed, he continued to gather his data, and fi ght for what he believed. He changed sex for all of us.
Sexual Diversity and Variation What Kinsey discovered in his research was an extraordinary diversity in sexual behaviors. Among men, he found indi- viduals who had orgasms daily and others who went months without orgasms. Among women, he found individuals who had never had orgasms and others who had them several times a day. He discovered one male who had ejaculated only once in 30 years and another who ejaculated 30 times a week on average. “Th is is the order of variation,” he commented dryly, “which may occur between two individuals who live in the same town and who are neighbors, meeting in the same place of business and coming together in common social activities” (Kinsey et al., 1948).
A Reevaluation of Masturbation Kinsey’s work aimed at a reevaluation of the role of masturbation in a person’s sexual adjustment. Kinsey made three points about masturbation: (1) It is harmless, (2) it is not a substitute for sexual intercourse but a distinct form of sexual behavior that provides sexual pleasure, and (3) it plays an important role in women’s sexuality because it is a more reliable source of orgasm than heterosexual intercourse and because its practice seems to facilitate women’s ability to become orgasmic during intercourse. Indeed, Kinsey believed that masturbation is the best way to measure a woman’s inherent sexual responsiveness because it does not rely on another person.
Sexual Orientation Prior to Kinsey’s work, an individual was identifi ed as homosexual if he or she had ever engaged in any sexual behavior with a person of the same sex. Kinsey found, however, that many people had sexual experiences with persons of both sexes. He reported that 50% of the men and 28% of the women in his studies had had same-sex experiences and that 38% of the men and 13% of the women had had orgasms during these experiences (Kinsey et al., 1948, 1953). Furthermore, he discovered that sexual attractions could change over the course of a person’s lifetime. Kinsey’s research led him to conclude that it was erroneous to classify people as either heterosexual or homosexual. A person’s sexuality was signifi cantly more com- plex and fl uid. Kinsey wanted to eliminate the concept of heterosexual and homosexual identities. He did not believe that homosexuality, any more than heterosexual- ity, existed as a fi xed psychological identity. Instead, he argued, there were only sexual behaviors, and behaviors alone did not make a person gay, lesbian, bisexual, or heterosexual. It was more important to determine what proportion
You shall know the truth and the truth shall make you mad.
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of behaviors were same-sex and other-sex than to label a person as gay, lesbian, or heterosexual. He devised the Kinsey scale to represent the proportion of an individual’s sexual behaviors with the same or other sex (see Figure 2.1). Th is scale charted behaviors ranging from no behaviors with the same sex to behaviors exclusively with members of the same sex, with the behaviors existing on a continuum. His scale radicalized the categorization of human sexual behavior (McWhirter, 1990).
Rejection of Normal/Abnormal Dichotomy As a result of his research, Kinsey insisted that the distinction between normal and abnormal was mean- ingless. Like Ellis, he argued that sexual diff erences were a matter of degree, not kind. Almost any sexual behavior could be placed alongside another that diff ered from it only slightly. His observations led him to be a leading advocate of the toleration of sexual diff erences.
William Masters and Virginia Johnson
In the 1950s, William Masters (1915–2001), a St. Louis physician, became interested in treating sexual diffi culties—such problems as early ejaculation and erection diffi culties in men, and lack of orgasm in women. As a physician, he felt that a systematic study of the human sexual response was necessary, but none existed. To fi ll this void, he decided to conduct his own research. Masters was joined several years later by Virginia Johnson (1925–). Masters and Johnson detailed the sexual response cycles of 382 men and 312 women during more than 10,000 episodes of sexual behavior, including masturbation and sexual intercourse. Th e researchers combined observation with direct measurement of changes in male and female genitals using electronic devices. (See Chapter 3 for a detailed discussion of their four-phase sexual response cycle.) Human Sexual Response (1966), their fi rst book, became an immediate suc- cess among both researchers and the public. What made their work signifi cant was not only their detailed descriptions of physiological responses but also the articulation of several key ideas. First, Masters and Johnson discovered that, physiologically, male and female sexual responses are very similar. Second, they demonstrated that women achieve orgasm primarily through clitoral stimulation.
I don’t see much of Alfred anymore since he got so interested in sex.
—Clara Kinsey (1898–1982)
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• FIGURE 2.1 The Kinsey Scale. This scale illustrates the degree to which a person may engage in other-sex and same-sex behaviors.
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Penetration of the vagina is not needed for orgasm to occur. By demonstrating the primacy of the clitoris, Masters and Johnson destroyed once and for all the Freudian distinction between vaginal and clitoral orgasm. (Freud believed that an orgasm a woman experienced through masturbation was somehow physically and psychologically inferior to one experienced through sexual intercourse. He made no such distinction for men.) By destroying the myth of the vaginal orgasm, Masters and Johnson legitimized female masturbation. In 1970, Masters and Johnson published Human Sexual Inadequacy, which revolutionized sex therapy by treating sexual problems simply as diffi culties that could be treated using behavioral therapy. Th ey argued that sexual problems were not the result of underlying neuroses or personality disorders. More often than not, problems resulted from a lack of information, poor communication between partners, or marital confl ict. Th eir behavioral approach, which included “homework” exercises such as clitoral or penile stimulation, led to an astound- ing increase in the rate of successful treatment of sexual problems. Th eir work made them pioneers in modern sex therapy.
• Contemporary Research Studies Several large, national sexuality-related studies have been conducted in recent years. We briefl y describe fi ve national surveys here to illustrate research on the general population of men and women, adolescents, and college students. Th e studies cited below, largely directed to determine the prevalence of certain behaviors, give little or no attention to factors that help explain the fi ndings. Further, these studies represent only the tip of the sexuality-related research pertinent to the topics covered in this textbook. Sex research continues to be an emerging fi eld of study. Most studies are not national projects but are smaller ones dealing with special populations or issues and focus on examining factors that are related to or infl uence sexual behavior. Even though these stud- ies may be smaller in scope, they provide valuable information for furthering our understanding of human sexual expression. Th roughout the book, we cite numerous studies to provide empirical information about the topic. Before describing these studies, it is important to note that, just like in the days of Alfred Kinsey, these are diffi cult times to conduct sex research. For exam- ple, members of Congress and some conservative groups are attacking the value of certain sex research topics, even those related to HIV prevention. Th e result: a chilling eff ect on sex research. Funding for sex research has become more lim- ited, and sexuality-related grant applications to the National Institutes of Health
The profoundest of all our sensualities is the sense of truth.
—D. H. Lawrence (1885–1930)
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William Masters (1915–2001) and Virginia Johnson (1925–) detailed the sexual response cycle in the 1960s and revolutionized sex therapy in the 1970s.
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think about it
Socrates said: “There is only one good, knowledge, and one evil, ignorance.” This philosophy has been a core tenet in the growth of humankind and cultures since it was fi rst written sometime between 469 BCE and 399 BCE. But, in one area of life, human sexuality, some espouse that there is one good, igno- rance, and one evil, knowledge. In our culture, the value of sex- ual knowledge is debated. One way this ambivalence manifests itself is through criticism and barriers to research on human sexuality (Yarber, 1992; Yarber & Sayad, 2011). Sex research faces many issues that other areas of scientifi c inquiry do not, largely because human sexuality in our culture is too often surrounded by fear and denial, and its expression is accompanied by shame, guilt, and embarrassment. These dis- comforts, particularly the fear of sexual knowledge, have fueled eff orts to refute sex research. Some opposed to sex research believe that it has little value, and the research may be discredited. As such, the researchers may face public scorn as Alfred Kinsey did. In fact, because of public outcry, Alfred Kinsey lost foundation funding for his research following the publica- tion of his fi rst book on male sexuality. Additionally, the National Health and Social Life Survey (Lauman et al., 1994) conducted in the 1990s had to seek funding from foundations and private donors after a large federal grant was withdrawn following political pressure. Even today, federal government funding of sexuality-related areas is limited primarily to the study of
Sex Research: A Benefi t to Individuals and Society or a Threat to Morality?
HIV/STI risk behavior and prevention, which means researchers must search for nongovernment funding sources for topics out- side this area. For example, a study of relationships between masturbation and mental health among older adults who no longer have a partner would most likely not be federally funded. The National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior (Herbenick et al., 2010a), a national study of Americans’ sexual behavior conducted in 2010, was funded by a condom manufacturer. A major test of academic freedom within the university oc- curred over 60 years ago when Alfred Kinsey’s research was heav- ily criticized and outside pressure was exerted upon Indiana University to end Kinsey’s work (Capshew, 2012). Herman B Wells, President of IU then, defended Alfred Kinsey by declaring that the search for truth is an important function of university and that a fundamental university tenet and core value is that a faculty member is free to conduct research on any subject in which the person has competence. Wells (1980) unequivocally articulated the tenet that “… a university that bows to the wishes of a person, group, or segment of society is not free.’’ Wells’s support of Alfred Kinsey’s research is considered a landmark victory for academic freedom and helped pave the way for sex research at other univer- sities (Clark, 1977). William Masters stated that without Kinsey’s work and the support it received from IU, he and Virginia Johnson would not have been able to conduct their observational research on sexual response and dysfunction (Maier, 2009).
that have been approved by peer review have been questioned (Clark, 2003; Navarro, 2004). Sex research is a relatively young area of study when compared to better-established fi elds such as psychology, and the number of researchers specializing in sexuality-related study is small. Hopefully, these eff orts to limit and discredit sex research will not discourage the next generation of researchers from becoming sex researchers. (To read a brief discussion about the controversy surrounding sex research, see the “Th ink About It” box above.)
The National Health and Social Life Survey
In 1994, new fi gures from the fi rst nationally representative survey of Ameri- cans’ sexual behavior were released showing us to be in a diff erent place than when Kinsey did his research a half century earlier. Researchers from the University of Chicago published two titles—the popular trade book Sex in America: A Defi nitive Survey (Michael, Gagnon, Laumann, & Kolata, 1994) and a more detailed and scholarly version, Th e Social Organization of Sexuality (Laumann, Gagnon, Michael, & Michaels, 1994). Th e survey contradicted many previous fi ndings and beliefs about sex in America.
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In the face of criticism, sex research has shown value—many in- dividuals and society have benefi ted in so many ways from the deeper understanding of human sexual expression that research brings. But not all persons agree. Here are just three examples of the cultural ambiguity surrounding sex research and sexual knowledge:
■ Some persons believed that Kinsey’s research was destruc- tive, leading to the sexual revolution of the 1960s and the breakdown of traditional mores. Yet, renowned sexologists consider Kinsey’s scientifi c fi ndings profound, making it pos- sible for individuals, couples, and the public to talk about sex as well as freeing many persons from the stigma of abnor- mality (Bullough, 2004; Gagnon, 1975).
■ Some persons were outraged upon learning that Masters and Johnson actually observed persons having sex, believing that such research had gone too far. Yet, Masters and Johnson’s lab- oratory observation and measurement of the sexual responses of men and women led to the development of eff ective behav- ioral therapy for sexual function problems that have benefi ted many individuals and couples (Masters & Johnson, 1970).
■ Some individuals and evangelical religious groups support abstinence-only education and contend that sexuality edu- cation that discusses methods of preventing HIV/STIs and pregnancy other than abstinence leads to sexual behavior among young persons outside of marriage. Yet, research has shown that abstinence-only sexuality education is largely ineff ective in delaying the onset of sex and that a compre- hensive approach which included information about HIV/STIs and pregnancy prevention methods postponed the initiation of sex and increased condom and contraception use (Kirby, 2007, 2008).
Supporters of sex research contend that we all suff er and the public loses when sex research is hampered. They believe that a fundamental principle of a democracy is at stake: the in- dividual right to know. One way of making it possible for peo- ple to learn more about sexuality is through sex research’s goals to increase people’s knowledge about sexuality and its various components and to show them the positive impact that a rewarding and health-enhancing sexuality can have. But many opponents believe that sex research is harmful to society and should be limited or even eliminated. So, what do you think? For human sexuality, was Socrates right or wrong when he said “There is one good, knowledge, and one evil, ignorance”?
Think Critically 1. Do you believe that sex research benefi ts individuals
and society or that it leads to moral decay? Explain. 2. Should researchers at colleges and universities have
the academic freedom to conduct any type of sex research? Defend your answer.
3. Given that the vast majority of federal government– funded sexuality-related research deals with HIV/STI risk behavior, do you think that other areas of human sexual- ity should be funded? If so, what areas? If not, why?
Th e study, titled the National Health and Social Life Survey (NHSLS), involved 3,432 randomly selected Americans aged 18–59, interviewed face-to-face. Even though this study was conducted about two decades ago (1992) and had some sampling limitations, sexual scientists regard it as one of the most meth- odologically sound studies; hence, we highlight major fi ndings here and in subsequent chapters of this text. Released as the fi rst study to explore the social context of sexuality, the NHSLS revealed the following:
■ Americans are largely exclusive. Th e median number of sexual partners since age 18 for men was six and for women, two.
■ On average, Americans have sex about once a week. Nearly 30% had sex with a partner only a few times a year or not at all, 35% had sex once or several times a month, and about 35% had sex two or more times a week.
■ Extramarital sex is the exception, not the rule. Among those who were married, 75% of men and 85% of women said they had been sexually exclusive with their spouse.
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■ Most Americans have fairly traditional sexual behaviors. When respondents were asked to name their preferences from a long list of sexual behav- iors, vaginal intercourse was considered “very appealing” by most of those interviewed. Ranking second, but far behind, was watching a partner undress. Oral sex ranked third.
■ Homosexuality is not as prevalent as originally believed. Among men, 2.8% described themselves as homosexual or bisexual; among women, 1.4% did so.
■ Orgasms appear to be the rule for men and the exception for women. Seventy-fi ve percent of men claimed to have orgasms consistently with their partners, whereas only 29% of women did. Married women were most likely to report that they always or usually had orgasms.
■ Forced sex and the misperception of it remain critical problems. Twenty-two percent of women said they had been forced to do sexual things they didn’t want to do, usually by a loved one. Only 3% of men reported ever forcing themselves on women.
■ Th ree percent of adult Americans claim never to have had sex.
The National Survey of Family Growth
Periodically, the National Center for Health Statistics (NCHS) conducts the National Survey of Family Growth (NSFG) to collect data on marriage, divorce, contraception, infertility, and health of women and infants in the United States. In 2011, the NCHS published Sexual Behavior, Sexual Attraction, and Sexual Identity in the United States: Data from the 2006–2008 National Survey of Fam- ily Growth, which presents national estimates of several measures of sexual behavior, sexual attraction, and sexual identity among males and females 15–44 years of age in the United States. In-person, face-to-face interviews and audio-CASI were used with a nationally representative sample of 13,495 males and females in the household population of the United States. Important fi ndings for this sample include the following:
■ Sexual behaviors among males and females aged 15–44, based on the 2006–2008 NSFG, were generally the same as those reported in a simi- lar report of 2002.
■ Among adults aged 25–44, about 98% of females and 97% of males ever had sexual intercourse, 89% of females and 90% of males ever had oral sex with an opposite-sex partner, and 36% of females and 44% of males ever had anal sex with an other-sex partner.
■ For men aged 15–44, the mean number of lifetime female partners was 5.1 and for women 3.2 lifetime male partners.
■ For ages 15–44, 21% of men and 8% of women reported 15 or more lifetime sexual partners.
■ For ages 15–44, 12.5% of women and 5.2% of men reported any same- sex contact in their lifetimes, and 9.3% of women and 5% of men reported oral sex with a same-sex partner.
■ For ages 15–44, for sexual identity, 92.8%, 1.0%, and 3.5% of women self- identifi ed as heterosexual (straight), homosexual (gay or lesbian), and bisex- ual, respectively. For men, 95.0%, 1.6%, and 1.1% self-identifi ed as heterosexual (straight), homosexual (gay or lesbian), and bisexual, respectively.
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■ Of sexually active people aged 15–24, 63% of females and 64% of males had oral sex, down from 69% in 2002.
■ Among teenagers aged 15–19, 7% of females and 9% of males had oral sex with an other-sex partner, but no vaginal intercourse.
For a full copy of the report, see the National Center for Health Statistics website: http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/nhsr/nhsr036.pdf.
The Youth Risk Behavior Survey
Th e Youth Risk Behavior Survey (YRBS), conducted biannually by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), measures the prevalence of six categories of health risk behaviors among youths through representative national, state, and local surveys using a self-report questionnaire. Sexual behaviors that contribute to unintended pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections, includ- ing HIV, are among those assessed. Th e 2009 YRBS includes a national school- based survey of students in grades 9–12, from 158 schools in 42 states, and 20 local surveys, revealing the following (CDC, 2010a):
■ Forty-six percent of students (46% of females and 46% of males) reported ever having had sexual intercourse.
■ Fourteen percent of students (11% of females and 16% of males) reported having had sexual intercourse with four or more partners during their life.
■ Six percent of students (3% of females and 8% of males) reported hav- ing had sexual intercourse for the fi rst time before age 13.
■ Th irty-four percent of students (36% of females and 37% of males) reported having had sexual intercourse with at least one person during the 3 months before the survey.
■ Sixty-one percent of students (54% of females and 69% of males) who reported being currently sexually active also reported using a condom during their most recent sexual intercourse.
■ Twenty percent of students (23% of females and 17% of males) who reported being currently sexually active also reported that either they or their partner had used birth control pills before their most recent sexual intercourse.
■ Twenty-two percent of students (15% of females and 24% of males) who reported being currently sexually active also reported using alcohol or drugs prior to their most recent sexual intercourse.
■ Seven percent of students (11% of females and 6% of males) reported ever being forced to have sexual intercourse.
■ Th irteen percent of students (18% of females and 11% of males) reported having been tested for HIV (not counting being done while donating blood).
See http://www.cdc.gov/mmwr/pdf/ss/ss5905.pdf for more information on the 2009 YRBS.
The National College Health Assessment
Since year 2000, every fall and spring term the American College Health Asso- ciation has conducted research at colleges and universities throughout the United States to assess students’ health behaviors and their perceptions of the prevalence
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of these behaviors among their peers. Areas covered are alcohol, tobacco, and other drug use; sexual health, weight, nutrition, and exercise; mental health, injury prevention, personal safety, and violence. For the Spring 2010 survey, 95,712 students at 139 U.S. campuses participated (American College Health Association, 2010). Findings from the sexual health questions include:
■ Within the last school year, 70% of college men and 72% of college women had at least one sexual partner. Most had one sexual partner— 42.6% of men and 48.9% of women—although 10.7% of men and 5.6% of women had four or more partners. (See Figure 2.2 for the percentage reporting having oral, vaginal and anal intercourse in the past 30 days and the percentage who used protection during these behaviors.)
■ Among sexually active students, birth control pills and male condoms were the most common (about 61% each) birth control methods used to prevent pregnancy by the students or their partner the last time they had vaginal intercourse.
■ Among sexually active students, 16% reported using (or reported their partner used) emergency contraception (“morning-after pill”) within the last school year.
A copy of the report can be found at the American College Health Association website: http://www.acha.org/reports_ACHA-NCHAII.html.
The National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior
Th e most expansive nationally representative study of sexual and sexual-health behaviors, the National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior (NSSHB), was published in 2010, 16 years following the fi rst nationally representative study, the 1994 National Health and Social Life Survey described earlier. Th e NSSHB, a study based on Internet reports from 5,865 American adolescents and adults aged 14–94, provides a needed and valuable updated overview of Americans’ sexual behavior and reveals an increase in sexual diversity since the NHSLS. A major strength of the NSSHB is its larger range of ages—spanning 80 years—in contrast to other studies that had narrow age ranges. Th e study was conducted and led by researchers from the Indiana University Center for
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Sexual Health Promotion with collaboration from researchers from Th e Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender, and Reproduction and the Indiana University School of Medicine. Th e fi rst reports of the NSSHB fi ndings were published in 2010 in nine articles as a special issue of the Journal of Sexual Medicine. (Th e NSSHB was funded by Church & Dwight, makers of Trojan condoms.) Th e NSSHB provides data on masturbation (solo and partnered), oral sex (given and received), vaginal intercourse, and anal intercourse, categorized by 10 age ranges. Th ese new data will be highlighted throughout the textbook, particularly in Chapter 9, Sexual Expression. Major generalized NSSHB fi nd- ings include the following (Dodge et al., 2010; Herbenick et al., 2010a, 2010b, 2010c; Reece et al., 2010a, 2010b; Sanders et al., 2010):
■ A large variability of sexual repertoires of adults was found, with numerous combinations of sexual behaviors described at adults’ most recent sexual event.
■ Men and women participated in diverse solo and partnered behaviors throughout their life course, yet in spite of lower frequency of these behaviors among older adults, many reported active, pleasurable sex lives.
■ Masturbation was more common among all age groups, but more com- mon among men than women and individuals aged 25–29.
■ Vaginal intercourse occurred more frequently than other sexual behaviors from early to late adulthood.
■ Partnered noncoital behaviors—oral sex and anal intercourse—were well- established components of couple sexual behavior and were reported in greater numbers than in the NHSLS.
■ Among adults, many sexual episodes included partnered masturbation and oral sex, but not intercourse.
■ Fewer than 1 in 10 men and women self-identifi ed as a gay man, lesbian woman, or bisexual person, but the proportion of study participants hav- ing same-gender interactions sometime in their lives was higher.
■ Masturbation, oral sex, and vaginal intercourse were prevalent among all ethnic groups and among men and women throughout the life course.
■ During a single sexual event, orgasm among men was facilitated by vagi- nal intercourse with a relationship partner, whereas women’s orgasm was facilitated by varied sexual behaviors.
■ Higher rates of condom use during most recent vaginal intercourse were found compared to other recent studies, and condoms were used more frequently with casual partners than relationship partners.
• Emerging Research Perspectives Although sex research continues to explore diverse aspects of human sexuality, some scholars feel that their particular interests have been given insuffi cient attention. Feminist, gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender research has focused on issues that mainstream research has largely ignored. And ethnic research, only recently undertaken, points to the lack of knowledge about the sexuality of some ethnic groups, such as African Americans, Latinos, Asian Americans, Middle Eastern Americans, and American Indians. Th ese emerging research perspectives enrich our knowledge of sexuality.
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Feminist Scholarship
Th e initial feminist research generated an immense amount of groundbreaking work on women in almost every fi eld of the social sciences and humanities. Feminists made gender and gender-related issues signifi cant research questions in a multitude of academic disciplines, with the goal of producing useful knowl- edge that can be valuable to individual and societal change (Letherby, 2003). In the fi eld of sexuality, feminists expanded the scope of research to include the subjective experience and meaning of sexuality for women; sexual pleasure; sex and power; erotic material; risky sexual behavior; and issues of female vic- timization, such as rape, the sexual abuse of children, and sexual harassment. Th ere is no single feminist perspective; instead, there are several. For our purposes, feminism is “a movement that involves women and men working together for equality” (McCormick, 1996). Feminism centers on understanding female experience in cultural and historical context—that is, the social con- struction of gender asymmetry (Pollis, 1988). Social construction is the devel- opment of social categories, such as masculinity, femininity, heterosexuality, and homosexuality, by society. Feminists believe in these basic principles:
■ Gender is signifi cant in all aspects of social life. Like socioeconomic status and ethnicity, gender infl uences a person’s position in society.
■ Th e female experience of sex has been devalued. By emphasizing genital sex, frequency of sexual intercourse, and number of orgasms, both researchers and society ignore other important aspects of sexuality, such as kissing, caressing, love, commitment, and communication. Sexuality in lesbian wom- en’s relationships is even more devalued. Until the 1980s, most research on homosexuality centered on gay men, making lesbian women invisible.
■ Power is a critical element in male-female relationships. Because women are often subordinated to men as a result of our society’s beliefs about gen- der, women generally have less power than men. As a result, feminists believe that men have defi ned female sexuality to benefi t themselves. Not only do men typically decide when to initiate sex, but the man’s orgasm often takes precedence over the woman’s. Th e most brutal form of the male expression of sexual power is rape.
■ Ethnic diversity must be addressed. Women of color, feminists point out, face a double stigma: being female and being from a minority group. Although few studies exist on ethnicity and sexuality, feminists are committed to examining the role of ethnicity in female sexuality (Amaro, Raj, & Reed, 2001).
Despite its contributions, feminist research and the feminist approach have often been marginalized. However, the feminist perspective in sex research has expanded in recent years, and many more women are making important con- tributions to the advancement of sexual science. As one consequence, the research literature has increased, resulting in an expansion of our understanding of female as well as male sexuality. For example, renowned sex researcher Charlene Muehlenhard of the University of Kansas has developed a body of research that has defi ned the fi eld of women’s experiences with sexual coercion. She has addressed controversial issues such as token sexual resistance and has challenged researchers to clarify their conceptualizations of wanted and unwanted sex, particularly among young women (Muehlenhard & Peterson, 2005; Peterson & Muehlenhard, 2007). Findings from her research are cited in Chapter 17.
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Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, and Transgender Research
During the nineteenth century, sexuality became increasingly perceived as the domain of science, especially medicine. Physicians competed with ministers, priests, and rabbis in defi ning what was “correct” sexual behavior. However, as noted previously, medicine’s so-called scientifi c conclusions were not scientifi c; rather, they were morality disguised as science. “Scientifi c” defi nitions of healthy sex closely resembled religious defi nitions of moral sex. In studying sexual activ- ities between men, medical researchers “invented” and popularized the distinc- tion between heterosexuality and homosexuality (Gay, 1986; Weeks, 1986).
Early Researchers and Reformers Although most physician-moralists con- demned same-sex relationships as not only immoral but also pathological, a few individuals stand out in their attempt to understand same-sex sexuality.
Karl Heinrich Ulrichs Karl Ulrichs (1825–1895) was a German poet and political activist who in the 1860s developed the fi rst scientifi c theory about homosexuality (Kennedy, 1988). As a rationalist, he believed reason was supe- rior to religious belief and therefore rejected religion as superstition. He argued from logic and inference and collected case studies from numerous men to reinforce his beliefs. Ulrichs maintained that men who were attracted to other men represented a third sex, whom he called “Urnings.” Urnings were born as Urnings; their sexuality was not the result of immorality or pathology. Ulrichs believed that Urnings had a distinctive feminine quality about them that dis- tinguished them from men who desired women. He fought for Urning rights and the liberalization of sex laws.
Karl Maria Kertbeny Karl Kertbeny (1824–1882), a Hungarian physician, created the terms “heterosexuality” and “homosexuality” in his attempt to understand same-sex relationships (Feray & Herzer, 1990). Kertbeny believed that “homosexualists” were as “manly” as “heterosexualists.” For this reason, he broke with Ulrichs’s conceptualization of Urnings as inherently “feminine” (Herzer, 1985). Kertbeny argued that homosexuality was inborn and thus not immoral. He also maintained “the rights of man” (quoted in Herzer, 1985):
Th e rights of man begin . . . with man himself. And that which is most immedi- ate to man is his own body, with which he can undertake fully and freely, to his advantage or disadvantage, that which he pleases, insofar as in so doing he does not disturb the rights of others.
Magnus Hirschfeld In the fi rst few decades of the twentieth century, there was a great ferment of reform in England and other parts of Europe. While Havelock Ellis was the leading reformer in England, Magnus Hirschfeld (1868– 1935) was the leading crusader in Germany, especially for homosexual rights. Hirschfeld was a homosexual and possibly a transvestite (a person who wears clothing of the other sex). He eloquently presented the case for the humanity of transvestites (Hirschfeld, 1991). And in defense of homosexual rights, he argued that homosexuality was not a perversion but rather the result of the hormonal development of inborn traits. His defense of homosexuality led to the popularization of the word “homosexual.” Hirschfeld’s importance, however, lies not so much in his theory of homosexuality as in his sexual reform eff orts. In Berlin in 1897, he helped found the fi rst organization for homosexual rights.
Magnus Hirschfeld (1868–1935) was a leading European sex reformer who championed homosexual rights. He founded the fi rst institute for the study of sexuality, which was burned when the Nazis took power in Germany. Hirschfeld fl ed for his life.
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In addition, he founded the fi rst journal devoted to the study of sexuality and the fi rst Institute of Sexual Science, where he gathered a library of more than 20,000 volumes.
Evelyn Hooker As a result of Kinsey’s research, Americans learned that same- sex sexual relationships were widespread among both men and women. A few years later, psychologist Evelyn Hooker (1907–1996) startled her colleagues by demonstrating that homosexuality in itself was not a psychological disorder. She found that “typical” gay men did not diff er signifi cantly in personality characteristics from “typical” heterosexual men (Hooker, 1957). Th e reverbera- tions of her work continue to this day. Earlier studies had erroneously reported psychopathology among gay men and lesbian women for two reasons. First, because most researchers were clini- cians, their samples consisted mainly of gay men and lesbian women who were seeking treatment. Th e researchers failed to compare their results against a control group of similar heterosexual individuals. (A control group is a group that is not being treated or experimented on; it controls for any variables that are introduced from outside the experiment, such as a major media report related to the topic of the experiment.) Second, researchers were predisposed to believe that homosexuality was in itself a sickness, refl ecting traditional beliefs about homosexuality. Consequently, emotional problems were automat- ically attributed to the client’s homosexuality rather than to other sources.
Later Contributions: Michel Foucault One of the most infl uential social theorists in the twentieth century was the French thinker Michel Foucault (1926–1984). A cultural historian and philosopher, Foucault explored how soci- ety creates social ideas and how these ideas operate to further the established order. His most important work on sexuality was Th e History of Sexuality, Volume I (1978), a book that gave fresh impetus to scholars interested in the social con- struction of sex, especially those involved in gender and gay and lesbian studies. Foucault challenged the belief that our sexuality is rooted in nature. Instead, he argued, it is rooted in society. Society “constructs” sexuality, including homosexuality and heterosexuality. Foucault’s critics contend, however, that he underestimated the biological basis of sexual impulses and the role individuals play in creating their own sexuality.
Contemporary Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, and Transgender Research In 1973, the American Psychiatric Association (APA) removed homosexuality from its list of psychological disorders in its Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-II). Th e APA decision was reinforced by similar resolutions by the American Psychological Association and the American Socio- logical Association. In 1997 at its annual meeting, the American Psychological Association overwhelmingly passed a resolution stating that there is no sound scientifi c evidence on the effi cacy of reparative therapies for gay men and lesbian women. Th is statement reinforced the association’s earlier stand that, because there is nothing “wrong” with homosexuality, there is no reason to try to change sexual orientation through therapy. In 1998, the APA issued a state- ment opposing reparative therapy, thus joining the American Psychological Association, the American Academy of Pediatrics, the American Medical Asso- ciation, the American Counseling Association, and the National Association of Social Workers.
Evelyn Hooker (1907–1996) conducted landmark research on homosexual individuals in the 1950s, fi nding that “typical” gay men had personalities similar to those of “typical” heterosexual men.
Michel Foucault (1926–1984) of France was one of the most important thinkers who infl uenced our understanding of how society “constructs” human sexuality.
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As a result of the rejection of the psychopathological model, social and behavioral research on gay men, lesbian women, and bisexual individuals has moved in a new direction. Research no longer focuses primarily on the causes and cures of homosexuality, and most of the contemporary research approaches homosexuality in a neutral manner.
Directions for Future Research
Historically, sex research has focused on preventive health, which “prioritizes sexuality as a social problem and behavioral risk” (di Mauro, 1995). In light of the HIV/AIDS pandemic and other social problems, this emphasis is impor- tant, but it fails to examine the full spectrum of individuals’ behaviors or the social and cultural factors that drive those behaviors. If sex research is to expand our understanding of human sexual expression, it should examine the numer- ous components of a broader defi nition of sexuality. Sex research, globally, faces several challenges. Few sex researchers and sex research centers exist worldwide, particularly in developing countries. Only a few Western countries have comprehensive statistics, and most of them are about fertility or sexually transmitted infections rather than sexual behaviors of various groups. Th ere is no international depository for sex data. Few standardized terms exist in sex research. Lastly, quantitative data are especially diffi cult to obtain, and qualitative data are less suitable for international comparisons (MacKay, 2001).
• Ethnicity and Sexuality Researchers have begun to recognize the signifi cance of ethnicity in various aspects of American life, including sexuality. Although there have been modest increases in ethnic diversity of research samples, important questions must still be addressed (CDC, 2011a). Th ese include the diff erences that socioeconomic status and environment play in sexual behaviors, the way in which questions are posed in research studies, the research methods that are used, and researchers’ preconceived notions regarding ethnic diff erences. Diversity-related bias can be so ingrained in the way research is conducted (Rogler, 1999) that it is diffi cult to detect. Although limited research is available, we, the authors, attempt to provide some background to assist an understanding of sexuality and ethnicity.
African Americans
Several factors must be considered when studying African American sexuality, including sexual stereotypes, racism, socioeconomic status, and Black subculture. Sexual stereotypes greatly distort our understanding of Black sexuality. One of the most common stereotypes, strongly rooted in American history, culture, and religion, is the image of Blacks as hypersexual beings (Staples, 2006). Th is stereotype, which dates back to the fi fteenth century, continues to hold consid- erable strength among non-Blacks. Family sociologist Robert Staples (1991) writes: “Black men are saddled with a number of stereotypes that label them as irresponsible, criminalistic, hypersexual, and lacking in masculine traits.” But the reality is, no one has attempted a comprehensive evaluation of the sexuality of Black males (Grimes, 1999). Evelyn Higginbotham (1992), a leading authority on the African American experience, discussed the racialized constructions of African American women’s sexuality as primitive, animal-like and promiscuous,
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and nonvirtuous. During the days of slavery, this representation of Black sexu- ality rationalized sexual exploitation of Black women by White masters (Nagel, 2003). Th e belief that Black women were “promiscuous” by nature was per- petuated by a variety of media, such as theater, art, the press, and literature. From this, historian Darlene Hine (1989) notes that silence arose among women: a “culture of dissemblance.” To protect the sanctity of inner aspects of their lives and to combat pervasive negative images and stereotypes about them, Black women (particularly the middle class) began to represent their sexuality through silence, secrecy, and invisibility. For example, they would dress very modestly to remain invisible—hence, not drawing attention that might lead to being sexually assaulted. Eff orts to adhere to Victorian ideology and represent pure morality were deemed by Black women to be necessary for protection and upward mobil- ity and to attain respect and justice. Th ese representations continue today for many older African American women. For some younger, “new” African Amer- ican women, however, the opposite is happening: being more visible and less reserved about their sexuality. Th ese younger women feel more self-assured about themselves and their sexuality. Th e emphasis on sexuality of the younger African American woman is often depicted, for example, in advertising and rap music videos, particularly Gangsta rap, shown on Black Entertainment Television (BET). Unfortunately, much Gangsta rap is explicit about both sex and violence and rarely illustrates the long-term consequences of sexual risk behaviors; research has shown that these videos lead to increased sexual risk behavior among African American adolescents (Wingood et al., 2002). Socioeconomic status is a person’s ranking in society based on a combination of occupational, educational, and income levels. It is an important element in African American sexual values and behaviors (Staples, 2006; Staples & Johnson, 1993). For example, a study of White and African American women and Latinas who voluntarily sought HIV counseling and testing found that socioeconomic status, not race, was directly related to HIV risk behavior. Women with lower
In the rich cultural history of African Americans, family life is very important.
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incomes had riskier (e.g., drug-injecting) sexual partners and higher levels of stress, factors related to risky sexual behaviors (Ickovics et al., 2002). Values and behaviors are shaped by culture and social class. Th e subculture of Blacks of low socio- economic status is deeply infl uenced by poverty, discrimination, and structural subordination. Although there has been a signifi cant increase in African American research, much still needs to be done. For example, researchers need to (1) explore the sexual attitudes and behaviors of the general African American population, not merely adolescents, (2) examine Black sexuality from an African American cultural viewpoint, and (3) utilize a cultural equivalency perspective that rejects diff erences between Blacks and Whites as signs of inherent deviance. (Th e cultural equivalency perspective is the view that the attitudes, values, and behaviors of one ethnic group are similar to those of another ethnic group.)
Latinos
Latinos are the fastest-growing ethnic group in the United States. Th ere is very little research, however, about Latino sexuality. Two common stereotypes depict Latinos as sexually permissive and Latino males as pathologically macho. Like African Americans, Latino males are often stereotyped as being “promiscuous,” engaging in excessive and indiscriminate sexual activities. No research, however, validates this stereotype. Th e macho stereotype paints Latino males as hypermasculine—swaggering and domineering. But the stereotype of machismo distorts its cultural meaning among Latinos. (Th e Spanish word “machismo” was originally incorporated into English in the 1960s as a slang term to describe any male who was sexist.) Within its cultural context, however, machismo is a positive concept, celebrating the values of courage, strength, generosity, politeness, and respect for others. And in day-to-day function- ing, relations between Latino men and women are signifi cantly more egalitarian than the macho stereotype suggests. Th is is especially true among Latinos who are more acculturated (Sanchez, 1997). (Acculturation is the process of adaptation of an ethnic group to the values, attitudes, and behaviors of the dominant culture.) Another trait of Latino life is familismo, a commitment to family and fam- ily members. Researcher Rafael Diaz (1998) notes that familismo can be a strong factor in helping heterosexual Latinos reduce rates of unprotected sex with casual partners outside of primary relationships. He warns, however, that for many Latino men who have sex with men, familismo and homophobia can create confl ict because families may perceive homosexuality as wrong. Rebellion against the native culture may be expressed through sexual behavior (Sanchez, 1997). Traditional Latinos tend to place a high value on female virginity while encouraging males, beginning in adolescence, to be sexually active (Guerrero Pavich, 1986). Females are viewed according to a virgin/whore dichotomy—“good” girls are virgins and “bad” girls are sexual (Espín, 1984). Females are taught to put the needs of others, especially males, before their own. Among traditional Latinos, fears about American “sexual immorality” produce their own stereotypes of Anglos.
In studying Latino sexuality, it is important to remember that Latinos come from diverse ethnic groups, including Mexican American, Cuban American, and Puerto Rican, each with its own unique background and set of cultural values.
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Adolescent boys learn about masturbation from peers; girls rarely learn about it because of its tabooed nature. Th ere is little acceptance of gay men and lesbian women, whose relationships are often regarded as “unnatural” or sinful (Bonilla & Porter, 1990; Raff aelli & Ontai, 2004). In traditional Latino culture, Catholicism plays an important role, especially in the realm of sexuality. Th e Church advocates premarital virginity and prohibits both contraception and abortion. Th ree important factors must be considered when Latino sexuality is studied: (1) diversity of ethnic groups, (2) signifi cance of socioeconomic status, and (3) acculturation. Latinos comprise numerous ethnic subgroups, such as Mex- ican American and Puerto Rican. Each group has its own unique background and set of cultural traditions that aff ect sexual attitudes and behaviors. Given the high rate of immigration of Latinos into the United States, par- ticular research attention has been given to examining the impact of accultura- tion. For example, studies have addressed the relationship between acculturation and sexual risk behavior. Research has examined the personal and family confl ict caused by the traditional Latino values and the progressive sexual values in the United States, and whether acculturation results in liberality among Latinos. For example, one study of college students found that Latinos who had greater iden- tifi cation with mainstream culture had more liberal sexual attitudes than those who had less identifi cation with mainstream culture (Ahrold & Meston, 2010).
Asian Americans and Pacifi c Islanders
Asian Americans and Pacifi c Islanders represent one of the fastest-growing and most diverse populations in the United States. Signifi cant diff erences in atti- tudes, values, and practices in this population make it diffi cult to generalize about these groups without stereotyping and oversimplifying. Given this caveat, we can say that many Asian Americans are less individualistic and more rela- tionship oriented than members of other cultures. Individuals are seen as the products of their relationships to nature and other people (Shon & Ja, 1982). Asian Americans are less verbal and expressive in their interactions and often rely on indirection and nonverbal communication, such as silence and avoid- ance of eye contact as signs of respect. In traditional Chinese culture, the in-laws of a married woman were responsible for safeguarding her chastity and keeping her under the ultimate control of her spouse. Where extended families worked and lived in close quarters for extended periods, many spouses found it diffi cult to experience intimacy with each other. As in other Asian American populations, the rate of cross-cultural marriage among younger Chinese Americans is higher than in their parents’ and grandparents’ gen- erations. Still, Confucian principles, which teach women to be obedient to their spouse’s wishes and attentive to their needs and to be sexually loyal, play a part in maintaining exclusivity and holding down the divorce rate among traditional Chi- nese families (Ishii-Kuntz, 1997). In contrast, men are expected to be sexually experienced, and their engagement in nonmarital sex is frequently accepted. For more than a century, Japanese Americans have maintained a signifi cant presence in the United States. Japanese cultural values of loyalty and harmony are strongly embedded in Confucianism and feudalism (loyalty to the ruler), yet Japanese lives are not strongly infl uenced by religion (Ishii-Kuntz, 1997). Like Chinese Americans born in the United States, Japanese Americans born in the United States base partner selection more on love and individual com- patibility than on family concerns (Nakano, 1990).
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Traditional Japanese values allowed sexual freedom for men but not for women. Traditionally, Japanese women were expected to remain pure; sexual permissiveness or nonexclusiveness on the part of women was considered socially disruptive and threatening (Ishii-Kuntz, 1997). Over time, attitudes and condi- tions related to sexuality have changed so that sexual activity is no longer con- sidered solely procreational, and there is increased use of contraceptives. As with other groups, the degree of acculturation may be the most important factor aff ecting sexual attitudes and behaviors of Asian Americans. Compared with those who were raised in the United States, those who were born and raised in their original homeland tend to adhere more closely to their culture’s norms, customs, and values. Further, a research study of Asian women attend- ing a large Canadian university found that those who maintained affi liation with traditional Asian heritage became less acculturated with the more liberal, Western sexuality–related attitudes (Brotto, Chik, Ryder, Gorzalka, & Seal, 2005). Th is fi nding was verifi ed in a study at a southern U.S. university in which students with less identifi cation with their heritage culture had sexual attitudes similar to those of Euro-Americans (Ahrold & Meston, 2010). Researcher and psychologist Sumie Okazaki (2002) reviewed the scientifi c lit- erature concerning several aspects of Asian Americans’ sexuality: sexual knowledge, attitudes, norms, and behavior. Okazaki reports that she found notable diff erences in several sexuality-related areas between Asian Americans and other ethnic groups:
For example, relative to other U.S. ethnic group cohorts, Asian American adoles- cents and young adults tend to show more sexually conservative attitudes and behavior and initiate intercourse at a later age. Th ere are indications that as Asian Americans become more acculturated to the mainstream American culture, their attitudes and behavior become more consistent with the White American norm. Consistent with their more sexually conservative tendencies in normative sexual behavior, Asian American women also appear more reluctant to obtain sexual and reproductive health care, which in turn places them at greater risk for delay in treatment for breast and cervical cancer as well as other gynecological problems.
Among Asian Americans (as with other ethnic groups), attitudes toward relationships, family, and sexuality are related to the degree of acculturation.
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As in other areas of social science research, there are gaps concerning the sexuality of Asian Americans and other racial and ethnic groups. Obviously, more empirical work is needed.
Middle Eastern Americans
Th ere is a scarcity of research on the sexuality of Middle Eastern Americans, espe- cially as it concerns women who have migrated from parts of the middle east (Rashidian, 2010). Furthermore, other than in the context of heterosexual relation- ships, research is almost nonexistent in the areas of sexual expression and sexual orientation. Wide historical contexts—cultural and ideological—of gender and gen- der bias suggest that the patriarchal system in place helps to perpetuate some of the struggles that many Middle Eastern women face when they arrive here (Ebadi & Moaveni, 2006). At the same time, it is known that many Middle Eastern immigrants have a poor understanding about sexuality-related topics (Khan & Khanum, 2000). For example, given that traditional beliefs dictate that women should not learn about sexual relationships until marriage, more often than not their primary source of sexuality, besides the media, comes from married friends. In the case of Iranian American women, culture has been a major factor in the construction of women’s sexual self, gender role, gender identity, and knowl- edge about sex. However, many of the messages received regarding their roles as women have been confusing and have resulted in a sense of self-worthlessness (Rashidian, 2010). Gender, birth order, family honor, religion, and traditional cultural values are all highly regarded and are often associated with lower status of women, male dominance, and discrimination against women. Obedience and fear of reprisal often help to sustain many of the related practices.
With increasing numbers of immigrants moving from other countries to the United States, it is important that American professionals be knowledgeable about the signifi cance of culture and gender role in the immigrant community. Research, sexuality education, and counseling need to take into consideration an awareness of individuals’ sexual beliefs; attempt to understand their current view of themselves as individuals, their values, and the presence and types of interpersonal relationships that exist in their lives; and ascertain their level of communication skills related to sexual topics (Rashidian, 2010).
Men do not seek truth. It is the truth that pursues men who run away and will not
look around.
—Lincoln Steff ens (1866–1936)
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Popular culture surrounds us with sexual images, disseminated through advertising, music, television, fi lm, video games, and the Internet, that form a backdrop to our daily living. Much of what is conveyed is simplifi ed, overgeneralized, stereotypical, shallow, sometimes misinterpreted—and entertaining. Studying sexuality enables us to understand how research is conducted and to be aware of its strengths and its limitations. Traditional sex research has been expanded in recent years by feminist, gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender research, which provides fresh insights and perspectives. Although the study of sexuality and ethnicity has yet to reach its full potential, it promises to enlarge our understanding of the diversity of attitudes, behaviors, and values in contemporary America.
Final Thoughts
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Summary Sex, Advice Columnists, and Pop Psychology
■ Th e sex information/advice genre transmits informa- tion to both entertain and inform; the information is generally oversimplifi ed and sometimes distorted so that it does not interfere with the genre’s primary purpose, entertainment. Much of the information or advice conveys dominant social norms.
Thinking Critically About Sexuality
■ Objective statements are based on observations of things as they exist in themselves. Value judgments are evaluations based on moral or ethical standards. Opinions are unsubstantiated beliefs based on an in- dividual’s personal thoughts. Biases are personal lean- ings or inclinations. Stereotypes—rigidly held beliefs about the personal characteristics of a group of people—are a type of schema, which is the organiza- tion of knowledge in our thought processes.
■ Fallacies are errors in reasoning. Th e egocentric fallacy is the belief that others necessarily share one’s own values, beliefs, and attitudes. Th e ethnocentric fallacy is the belief that one’s own ethnic group, nation, or culture is inherently superior to any other.
Sex Research Methods
■ Ethical issues are important concerns in sex research. Th e most important issues are informed consent, pro- tection from harm, and confi dentiality.
■ In sex research, sampling is a particularly acute prob- lem. To be meaningful, samples should be represen- tative of the larger group from which they are drawn. But most samples are limited by volunteer bias, de- pendence on college students, underrepresentation of ethnic groups, and diffi culties in sampling gay men and lesbian women.
■ Th e most important methods in sex research are clin- ical, survey, observational, and experimental. Clinical research relies on in-depth examinations of individu- als or groups who come to the clinician seeking treat- ment for psychological or medical problems. Survey research uses questionnaires, interviews, or diaries, for example, to gather information from a representative sample of people. Observational research requires the researcher to observe interactions carefully in as un- obtrusive a manner as possible. Experimental research presents subjects with various stimuli under con-
trolled conditions in which their responses can be measured.
■ Experiments are controlled through the use of inde- pendent variables (which can be changed by the ex- perimenter) and dependent variables (which change in relation to changes in the independent variable). Clinical, survey, and observational research eff orts, in contrast, are correlational studies that reveal rela- tionships between variables without manipulating them. In experimental research, physiological re- sponses are often measured by a plethysmograph, strain gauge, or Rigiscantm.
The Sex Researchers
■ Richard von Kraff t-Ebing was one of the earliest sex researchers. His work emphasized the pathological aspects of sexuality.
■ Sigmund Freud was one of the most infl uential think- ers in Western civilization. Freud believed there were fi ve stages in psychosexual development: the oral stage, anal stage, phallic stage, latency stage, and genital stage.
■ Havelock Ellis was the fi rst modern sexual theorist and scholar. His ideas included the relativity of sexual values, the normality of masturbation, a belief in the sexual equality of men and women, the redefi nition of “normal,” and a reevaluation of homosexuality.
■ Alfred Kinsey’s work documented enormous diversity in sexual behavior, emphasized the role of masturba- tion in sexual development, and argued that the dis- tinction between normal and abnormal behavior was meaningless. Th e Kinsey scale charts sexual behaviors along a continuum ranging from exclusively other- sex behaviors to exclusively same-sex behaviors.
■ William Masters and Virginia Johnson detailed the physiology of the human sexual response cycle. Th eir physiological studies revealed the similarity between male and female sexual responses and demonstrated that women achieve orgasm through clitoral stimula- tion. Th eir work on sexual inadequacy revolutionized sex therapy through the use of behavioral techniques.
Contemporary Research Studies
■ Th e National Health and Social Life Survey (NHSLS) in 1994 was the fi rst nationally representa- tive survey of Americans’ sexual behavior, and its
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fi ndings contradicted many prior fi ndings and be- liefs about sex in America.
■ Th e National Survey of Family Growth (NSFG) is a periodic survey that collects data related to marriage, divorce, contraception, infertility, and the health of women and infants in the United States. A 2005 NSFG is one of the most recent comprehensive sur- veys of the prevalence of certain sexual behaviors in the general population.
■ Th e Youth Risk Behavior Study (YRBS) is a large, national, school-based study of the health behaviors of adolescents. Behaviors related to sexuality and risk taking are assessed.
■ Th e American College Health Association National College Health Assessment has conducted research on campuses throughout the United States since 2000 to determine students’ health and sexual behaviors.
■ Th e National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior (NSSHB), conducted in 2010, was a nationally rep- resentative Internet study of adolescents and adults aged 14–95, an age range much greater than in other studies. Th e NSSHB provided an update on Americans’ sexual behavior, showing an increase in sexual diversity since the NHSLS.
Emerging Research Perspectives
■ Th ere is no single feminist perspective in sex research. ■ Most feminist research focuses on gender issues,
assumes that the female experience of sex has been devalued, believes that power is a critical element in female-male relationships, and explores ethnic diversity.
■ Research on homosexuality has rejected the moralistic- pathological approach. Researchers in gay and lesbian issues include Karl Ulrichs, Karl Kertbeny, Magnus Hirschfeld, Evelyn Hooker, and Michel Foucault.
■ Contemporary gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgen- der research focuses on the psychological and social experience of being other than heterosexual.
Ethnicity and Sexuality
■ Th e role of ethnicity in human sexuality has been largely overlooked until recently.
■ Socioeconomic status is important in the study of African American sexuality. Other factors to consider include the stereotype of Blacks as hypersexual and “promiscuous,” and racism.
■ Two common stereotypes about Latinos are that they are sexually permissive and that Latino males
are pathologically macho. Factors to consider in studying Latino sexuality include the diversity of national groups, the role of socioeconomic status, and the degree of acculturation.
■ Signifi cant diff erences in attitudes, values, and prac- tices make it diffi cult to generalize about Asian Americans and Pacifi c Islanders. Degree of accultur- ation and adherence to traditional Asian heritage are important factors aff ecting sexual attitudes and be- haviors. Religious and cultural values still play an important role in the lives of many Asian Americans and Pacifi c Islanders. Little research has been con- ducted on the sexuality of Middle Eastern Ameri- cans, yet it is known that many immigrants from the Middle East have a poor understanding about sexuality-related topics.
Questions for Discussion ■ Is sex research valuable or necessary? If you
feel that it is, what areas of sexuality do you think need special attention? Which, if any, areas of sexuality should be prohibited from being researched?
■ Alfred Kinsey was, and continues to be, criticized for his research. Some people even believe that he was responsible for eroding sexual morality. Do you think his research was valuable, or that it led to the sexual revolution in the United States, as many people claim?
■ Would you volunteer for a sexual research study? Why or why not? If so, what kind of study?
Sex and the Internet The Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender, and Reproduction Few centers that conduct research exclusively on sexuality exist in the world. One of the most respected and well-known centers is The Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender, and Reproduction (KI) at Indi- ana University, Bloomington. The institute bears the name of its founder, Alfred C. Kinsey, whose research was described earlier in this chapter. Visit the institute’s
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Society for the Scientifi c Study of Sexuality http://www.sexscience.org A nonprofi t organization dedicated to the advancement of knowl- edge about sexuality; provides announcements of the SSSS conferences and other meetings.
Suggested Reading Bancroft, J. (Ed.). (1997). Researching sexual behavior.
Bloomington: Indiana University Press. A discussion of the methodological issues of large-scale survey research in studying human sexuality.
Bullough, V. L. (1994). Science in the bedroom: A history of sex research. New York: Basic Books. A comprehensive history of sex research of the twentieth century.
Garton, S. (2004). Histories of sexuality: Antiquity to sexual revolution. New York: Routledge. A comprehensive historical review of major fi gures, from Havelock Ellis to Alfred Kinsey, and exploration of such topics as the “invention” of homosexuality in the nineteenth century to the rise of sexual sciences in the twentieth century.
Maier, T. (2009). Masters of sex. New York: Basic Books. An unprecedented look at Masters and Johnson and their pioneering work together that highlights interviews with both.
Meezen, W., & Martin, J. I. (Eds.). (2006). Research methods with gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgendered populations. New York: Harrington Park Press. Discusses the unique issues in sexuality-related research among gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender populations and provides suggestions for doing this research.
Staples, R. (2006). Exploring Black sexuality. Boulder, CO: Rowman & Littlefi eld. A distinguished Black sexologist explores the sexual mores, folkways, and values among African Americans.
Wiederman, M., & Whitley, B., Jr. (2002). Handbook for conducting research on human sexuality. Mahwah, NJ: Erlbaum. A reference tool for researchers and students interested in research in human sexuality from a variety of disciplines; examines the specifi c methodological issues inherent in conducting human sexuality research.
Wyatt, G. (1997). Stolen women: Reclaiming our sexuality and taking back our lives. New York: Wiley. Discusses sociocultural infl uences such as slavery and institutionalized racism on the expression of sexuality among African American women.
website (http://www.kinseyinstitute.org) and fi nd out information about the following:
■ The mission and history of KI ■ A chronology of events and landmark publications ■ The KI research staff and their publications ■ KI’s current research projects ■ KI’s exhibitions, services, and events ■ KI’s library and special collections ■ Graduate education in human sexuality at KI and
Indiana University
■ Links to related sites in sexuality research
Suggested Websites Advocates for Youth http://www.advocatesforyouth.org Focuses on teen sexual health; provides valuable data on issues related to teen sexual health.
Centers for Disease Control and Prevention http://www.cdc.gov A valuable source of research information about sexual behavior and related health issues in the United States.
Gallup Poll http://www.gallup.com Provides results of current surveys, including those dealing with sexuality-related issues.
International Academy of Sex Research http://www.iasr.org A scientifi c society that promotes research in sexual behavior; provides announcements of IASR conferences and abstracts of its journal’s recent articles.
Kinsey Confi dential http://kinseyconfi dential.org A sexuality information service designed by Th e Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender, and Reproduction to meet the sexual health information needs of college-age adults.
Magnus Hirschfeld Archive for Sexology http://www2.hu-berlin.de/sexology Has an extensive history of early and contemporary sex research- ers as well as other valuable sexology resources.
National Sexuality Resource Center http://nsrc.sfsu.edu Th is center gathers and disseminates the latest accurate informa- tion and research on sexual health, education, and rights.
For links, articles, and study material, go to the McGraw-Hill website, located at
www.mhhe.com/yarber8e.
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Female Sexual Response 90
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Student Voices
67 or so people one female would have a pad. I remember crying and my grandmother ask- ing me what was wrong. After I told her, she began to laugh and said it was a natural cycle. I knew this from sixth-grade sexuality education class, but I still didn’t want it. I was fi nally a woman.”
—19-year-old female
“I think I am a good sexual partner and enjoy pleasing a woman. I especially love the foreplay that occurs between two people because it gets the body more excited than just going at it. I can go on forever with foreplay because I get to explore my partner’s body, whether it is with my hands, lips, or tongue.”
—25-year-old male
“I identify with the passion [of women], the strength, the calmness, and the fl exibility of being a woman. To me being a woman is like being the ocean. The ocean is a powerful thing, even at its calmest moments. It is a beauty that commands respect. It can challenge even the strongest men, and it gives birth to the smallest creatures. It is a provider, and an inspiration; this is a woman and this is what I am.”
—20-year-old female
“The more I think about things that annoy me about being a woman, the more I realize that those annoyances are what make it so special. When I get my period, it isn’t just a ‘monthly curse’; it is a reminder that I can have children.”
—19-year-old female
“When I started my period, my father kept a bit of a distance. How could I forget [that day]? The entire family was at my aunt’s house, and no one had pads. You would think among
Although women and men are similar in many more ways than they are diff erent, we tend to focus on the diff erences rather than the simi- larities. Various cultures hold diverse ideas about exactly what it means to be female or male, but virtually the only diff erences that are consistent are actual physical diff erences, most of which relate to sexual structure and function. In this chapter and the following one, we discuss both the similarities and the diff erences in the anatomy (body structures), physiology (body functions), and sexual response of females and males. Th is chapter introduces the sexual structures and functions of women’s bodies, including hormones and the menstrual cycle. We also look at models of sexual arousal and response, the relationship of these to women’s experiences of sex, and the role of orgasm. In Chapter 4, we discuss male anatomy and physiology, and in Chapter 5, we move beyond biology to look at gender and the meanings we ascribe to being female and male.
• Female Sex Organs: What Are They For? Anatomically speaking, all embryos are female when their reproductive struc- tures begin to develop (see Figure 3.1). If it does not receive certain genetic and hormonal signals, the fetus will continue to develop as a female. In humans and most other mammals, the female, in addition to providing half the genetic instructions for the off spring, provides the environment in which it can develop until it becomes capable of surviving as a separate entity. She also nourishes the off spring, both during gestation (the period of carrying the young in the uterus) via the placenta and following birth via the breasts through lactation (milk production). In spite of what we do know, we haven’t yet mapped all of the basic body parts of women, especially as they relate to the microprocesses of sexual
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Genital tubercle
Labioscrotal swelling
Anus Urogenital fold Genital groove
Undifferentiated Stage Prior to 6th Week
Inner labial fold
Urogenital fold
Anus
Glans (penis)
Urethral groove
Scrotal swelling
Male7th–8th Week
Clitoris
Labia majora
Labia minora
Opening of vagina
Opening of urethra
Female 12th Week
Penis
Urethral closure
Scrotum
Male
Glans (clitoris)
Vulval groove
Labial swelling
Anus
Female
• FIGURE 3.1 Embryonic-Fetal Diff erentiation of the External Reproductive Organs. Female and male reproductive organs are formed from the same embryonic tissues. An embryo’s external genitals are female in appearance until certain genetic and hormonal instructions signal the development of male organs. Without such instructions, the genitals continue to develop as female.
response. Such issues as the function of the G-spot, the role of orgasm, and the placement of the many nerves that spider through the pelvic cavity still are not completely understood. Add to these puzzles the types, causes, and treat- ments of sexual function problems and one can quickly see that the science of sexual response is still emerging. Clearly, the female sex organs serve a reproductive function. But they per- form other functions as well. Signifi cant to nearly all women are the sexual parts that bring them pleasure; they may also serve to attract potential sexual partners. Because of the mutual pleasure partners give each other, we can see that sexual structures also serve an important role in human relationships. People demonstrate their aff ection for one another by sharing sexual pleasure and generally form enduring partnerships at least partially on the basis of mutual sexual sharing. Let’s look at the features of human female anatomy and physiology that provide pleasure to women and their partners and that enable women to conceive and give birth.
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External Structures (the Vulva)
Th e sexual and reproductive organs of both men and women are usually called genitals, or genitalia, from the Latin genere, “to beget.” Th e external female genitals are the mons pubis, the clitoris, the labia majora, and the labia minora, collectively known as the vulva (see Figure 3.2). (People often use the word “vagina” when they are actually referring to the vulva. Th e vagina is an internal structure.)
The Mons Pubis Th e mons pubis (pubic mound), or mons veneris (mound of Venus), is a pad of fatty tissue that covers the area of the pubic bone about 6 inches below the navel. Beginning in puberty, the mons is covered with pubic hair. Because there is a rich supply of nerve endings in the mons, caressing it can produce pleasure in most women. Th e current practice of trimming and shaving pubic hair has become one barometer of fashion (Ramsey, Sweeney, Fraser, & Oades, 2009). Over the past few years, it has become commonplace in both sexes and for similar reasons: aesthetic and psychosexual. Its acceptance and practice among women has been revealed in a recent publication (Herbenick, Schick, Reece, Sanders, & Fortenberry, 2010) which notes that a diverse range of pubic hair–grooming practices appears to be an important component of sexual expression and
People will insist on treating the mons veneris as though it were Mount Everest.
—Aldous Huxley (1894–1963)
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Ischiocavernosus muscle
Remnants of hymen
External urethral opening
Frenulum of clitoris
Prepuce of clitoris
Corpora cavernosa of clitoris
Vestibule of vagina; Frenulum of inner lips
External anal sphincter muscle
Anus
Greater vestibular gland and its orifice
Vestibular bulb
Vaginal opening
Inner lips
Crura of clitoris
Glans clitoris
Symphysis pubis Suspensory ligament of clitoris
• FIGURE 3.2 External Female Structures (Vulva)
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participation in sexual activity. Findings were that pubic hair styles are diverse and that it is more common than not for women to have at least some pubic hair on their genitals. Th e authors of the study found that women’s total removal of their pubic hair was associated with being young, being partnered, having looked closely at one’s own genitals, cunnilingus, positive genital self-image, and sexual function. Implicated in the shift in cultural attitudes regarding pubic hair is Internet- based pornography, where removal has become the “norm.” Th is practice, how- ever, is not new; many societies have decorated and sculpted their pubic hair for centuries, while others have removed the hair to avoid body lice. Many anecdotal reports on the removal of pubic hair highlight increased genital sen- sitivity and increased partner satisfaction. From a public health perspective, body hair removal may be a risk factor for folliculitis (the infl ammation of one or more hair follicles) (Trager, 2006). On the other hand, a signifi cant drop has been found in the number of cases of pubic lice (Armstrong & Wilson, 2006). If a woman chooses to shave, wax, or have her genitals pierced, she should use only clean tools and exercise caution, since this is obviously a sensitive area.
The Clitoris Th e clitoris (KLIH-tuh-rus) is considered the center of sexual arousal. It contains a high concentration of sensory nerve endings and is exqui- sitely sensitive to stimulation, especially at the tip of its shaft, the glans clitoris. A fold of skin called the clitoral hood covers the glans when the clitoris is not engorged. Although the clitoris is structurally analogous to the penis (it is formed from the same embryonic tissue), its sole function is sexual arousal. (Th e penis serves the additional functions of urine excretion and semen ejaculation.) Th e clitoris is a far more extensive structure than its visible part, the glans, would suggest (Bancroft, 2009). Th e shaft of the clitoris is both an external and an internal structure. Th e external portion is about 1 inch long and a quarter inch wide. Internally, the shaft is divided into two branches called crura (KROO-ra; singular, crus), each of which is about 3.5 inches long, which are the tips of erectile tissue that attach to the pelvic bones. Th e crura contain two corpora
cavernosa (KOR-por-a kav-er-NO-sa), hollow chambers that fi ll with blood and swell during arousal. Th e hidden erectile tissue of the clitoris plus the surrounding muscle tissue all contribute to muscle spasms associated with orgasm. When stimulated, the clito- ris enlarges initially and then retracts beneath the hood just before and during orgasm. With repeated orgasms, it follows the same pattern of engorgement and retraction, although its swellings may not be as pronounced after the initial orgasm. Th e role of the cli- toris in producing an orgasm is discussed later in the chapter.
The Labia Majora and Labia Minora Th e labia majora (LAY-be- a maJOR-a) (major lips) are two folds of spongy fl esh extending from the mons pubis and enclosing the labia minora, clitoris, urethral opening, and vaginal entrance. Th e labia minora (minor lips) are smaller folds within the labia majora that meet above the clitoris to form the clitoral hood. Th e labia minora also enclose the urethral and vaginal openings. Th ey are smooth and hairless and vary quite a bit in appearance from woman to woman. Another rich source of sexual sensation, the labia are sensitive to the touch and swell during sexual arousal, doubling or tripling in size and changing in color
Really that little dealybob is too far away from the hole. It should be built right in.
—Loretta Lynn (1935–)
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Artwork often imitates anatomy, as can be seen in this painting titled Black Iris (Georgia O’Keeff e, 1887–1986).
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from fl esh-toned to a deeper hue. Th e area enclosed by the labia minora is referred to as the vestibule. During sexual arousal, the clitoris becomes erect, the labia minora widen, and the vestibule (vaginal opening) becomes visible. Within the vestibule, on either side of the vaginal opening, are two small ducts from the Bartholin’s glands (or vestibular glands), which secrete a small amount of mois- ture during sexual arousal.
Internal Structures
Th e internal female sexual anatomy and reproductive organs include the vagina; the uterus and its lower opening, the cervix; the ovaries; and the fallopian tubes. (Figure 3.3 provides illustrations of the front and side views of the female internal sexual anatomy.)
Fallopian tube
Ovary
Uterus
Bladder
Pubic bone
Urethra
Crura Clitoris (glans)
Urinary opening
Labia majora
Fimbriae
Cervix
Rectum
Vagina
Approximate location of the G-spot
Anus
Vaginal opening (introitus)
Hymen
Labia minora
EndometriumUterus
Cervix
Os Vagina
Fimbriae
Fallopian tubes
Ovaries
(a) Side view
(b) Front view
• FIGURE 3.3 Internal Female Sexual Structures
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The Vagina Th e vagina (va-JI-na), from the Latin word for sheath, is a fl ex- ible, muscular structure that extends 3–5 inches back and upward from the vaginal opening. It is the birth canal through which an infant is born, allows menstrual fl ow to pass from the uterus, and encompasses the penis or other object during sexual expression. In the unaroused state, the walls of the vagina are relaxed and collapsed together, but during sexual arousal, the inner two thirds of the vagina expand while pressure from engorgement causes the many small blood vessels that lie in the vaginal wall to produce lubrication. In response to sexual stimulation, lubrication can occur within 10–30 seconds. Th e majority of sensory nerve endings are concentrated in the lower third of the vagina, or the introitus (in-TROY-tus). Th is part of the vagina is the most sensitive to erotic pressure and touch. In contrast, the inner two thirds of the vagina have virtually no nerve endings, which make it likely that a woman cannot feel a tampon when it is inserted deep in the vagina. Although the vaginal walls are generally moist, the wetness of a woman’s vagina can vary by woman, by the stage of her menstrual cycle, and after childbirth or at meno- pause. Lubrication also increases substantially with sexual excitement. Th is lubrication serves several purposes. First, it increases the possibility of concep- tion by alkalinizing the normally acidic chemical balance in the vagina, thus making it more hospitable to sperm, which die faster in acid environments. Second, it can make penetration more pleasurable by reducing friction in the vaginal walls. Th ird, the lubrication helps prevent small tears in the vagina which, if they occur, can make the vagina more vulnerable to contracting HIV. Prior to fi rst intercourse or other form of penetration, the introitus is partially covered by a thin membrane containing a relatively large number of blood ves- sels, the hymen (named for the Roman god of marriage). Th e hymen typically has one or several perforations, allowing menstrual blood and mucous secretions to fl ow out of the vagina (and generally allowing for tampon insertion). In many cultures, it is (or was) important for a woman’s hymen to be intact on her wed- ding day. Blood on the nuptial bedsheets is taken as proof of her virginity. Th e stretching or tearing of the hymen may produce some pain or discomfort and
The external female genitalia (vulva) can assume many diff erent colors, shapes, and structures.
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practically speaking
While reading this material, female readers may wish to examine their own genitals and discover their unique features. In a space that is comfortable for you, take time to look at your vulva, or outer genitals, using a mirror and a good light. The large, soft folds of skin with hair on them are the outer lips, or labia majora. The color, texture, and pattern of this hair vary widely among women. Inside the outer lips are the inner lips, or labia minora. These have no hair and vary in size from small to large and protruding. They extend from below the vagina up toward the pubic bone, where they form a hood over the clitoris. The glans may not be visible under the clitoral hood, but it can be seen if a woman separates the labia minor and retracts the hood. The size and shape of the clitoris, as well as the hood, also vary widely among women. These variations have nothing to do with a woman’s ability to respond sexually. You may also fi nd some cheesy white matter under the hood. This is called smegma and is normal. Below the clitoris is a smooth area and then a small hole. This is the urinary opening, also called the meatus. Below the urinary opening is the vaginal opening, which is surrounded by rings of tissue. One of these, which you may or may not be able to see, is the hymen. Just inside the vagina, on both sides, are the Bartholin’s glands. These may secrete a small amount of mucus during sexual excitement, but little else of their function is known. If they are infected, they will be swollen, but otherwise you won’t notice them. The smooth area between your vagina and anus is called the perineum. You can also examine your inner genitals, using a speculum, fl ashlight, and mirror. A speculum is an instrument used to hold the vaginal walls apart, allowing a clear view of the vagina and cervix. You should be able to obtain a speculum and information about doing an internal exam from a clinic that specializes in women’s health or family planning. It is a good idea to observe and become aware of what your normal vaginal discharges look and feel like. Colors vary from white to gray, and secretions change in consistency from thick
to thin and clear (similar to egg white that can be stretched between the fi ngers) over the course of the menstrual cycle. Distinct changes or odors, along with burning, bleeding between menstrual cycles, pain in the pelvic region, itching, or rashes, should be reported to a physician. By inserting one or two fi ngers into the vagina and reaching deep into the canal, it is possible to feel the cervix, or tip of the uterus. In contrast to the soft vaginal walls, the cervix feels like the end of a nose: fi rm and round. In doing a vaginal self-exam, you may initially experience some fear or uneasiness about touching your body. In the long run, however, your patience and persistence will pay off in increased body awareness and a heightened sense of personal health. Once you’re familiar with the normal appearance of your outer genitals, you can check for any changes, especially unusual rashes, soreness, warts, or parasites, such as pubic lice, or “crabs.”
Performing a Gynecological Self-Examination
possibly some bleeding. Usually, the partner has little trouble inserting the penis or other object through the hymen if he or she is gentle and there is adequate lubrication. Prior to fi rst intercourse, the hymen may be stretched or ruptured by tampon insertion, by the woman’s self-manipulation, by a partner during noncoital sexual activity, by accident, or by a health-care provider conducting a routine pelvic examination. Hymenoplasty, a controversial procedure that re- attaches the hymen to the vagina, is now sought by some women, particularly in Muslim countries where traditionalists place a high value on a woman’s virgin- ity, to create the illusion that they are still virgins. Hymen repair, also referred to as “revirgination,” may also be performed for women who have been abused
Examining your genitals can be an enlightening and useful practice that can provide you with information about the health of your body.
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or those from cultures who risk a violent reaction from their partners. In spite of its availability, the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists has issued strong warnings to women that there is no evidence cosmetic genital surgery is safe or eff ective (ACOG, 2007). An area inside the body, surrounding the urethra, is what many women report to be an erotically sensitive area, the Grafenberg spot, or G-spot. Th e name is derived from Ernest Grafenberg, a gynecologist, who fi rst discussed its erotic signifi cance. Located on the front wall of the vagina midway between the pubic bone and the cervix on the vaginal side of the urethra (see Figure 3.4), this area varies in size from a small bean to a half walnut. It can be located by pressing one or two fi ngers into the front wall of a woman’s vagina. Coital positions such as rear entry, in which the penis makes contact with the spot, may also produce intense erotic pleasure (Ladas, Whipple, & Perry, 1982; Whipple & Komisaruk, 1999). A variety of responses have been reported by women who fi rst locate this spot. Initially, a woman may experience a slight feeling of discomfort or the need to urinate, but shortly thereafter, the tissue may swell and a pleasurable feeling may occur. Women who report orgasms as a result of stimulation of the G-spot describe them as intense and extremely pleasurable (Perry & Whipple, 1981; Whipple, 2002). Th ough an exact gland or site has not been found in all women, nor do all women experience pleasure when the area is massaged, it has been suggested that the orgasm occurring in the area called the G-spot could be caused by the contact and connection of the richly innervated internal clitoris and the anterior vaginal wall (Foldes & Buisson, 2009). More specifi cally, by using special instruments and photography that measure changes in the vagina, it was found that the displacement of the anterior vaginal wall that occurs with pressure of the fi nger on this site, along with movement of the engorged and enlarged cli- toris that occurs during sexual arousal, could provide close contact between the internal root of the clitoris and the anterior vaginal wall and thereby lead to what
Urethral opening (exit point for emission)
Pubic bone
Approximate location of G-spot
Emptied bladder
Uterus
Anterior vaginal wall
Anus
Cervix
Urethra
• FIGURE 3.4 The Grafenberg Spot (G-Spot). To locate the Grafenberg spot, insert two fi ngers into the vagina and press deeply into its anterior wall.
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is known as a G-spot orgasm, sometimes with accompanying emission of fl uid. Th is fl uid, referred to as the “female ejaculate,” has the appearance of skim milk and is chemically similar to seminal fl uid, but diff erent from urine (Komisaruk, Whipple, Nasserzadeh, & Beyer-Flores, 2010). It has been suggested that the emit- ted fl uid comes from the para-urethral glands, which recently have been named the “female prostate gland.” Th e orgasm and emission that accompanies G-spot stimulation is a healthy part of sexual expression and can be pleasurable.
The Uterus and Cervix Th e uterus (YU-te-rus), or womb, is a hollow, thick- walled, muscular organ held in the pelvic cavity by a number of fl exible liga- ments and supported by several muscles. It is pear-shaped, with the tapered end, the cervix, extending down and opening into the vagina. If a woman has not given birth, the uterus is about 3 inches long and 3 inches wide at the top; it is somewhat larger in women who have given birth. Th e uterus expands during pregnancy to the size of a volleyball or larger, to accommodate the developing fetus. Th e inner lining of the uterine walls, the endometrium (en-doe-MEE-tree-um), is fi lled with tiny blood vessels. As hormonal changes occur during the monthly menstrual cycle, this tissue is built up and then shed and expelled through the cervical os (opening), unless fertilization has occurred. In the event of pregnancy, the pre-embryo is embedded in the nourishing endometrium. In addition to the more or less monthly menstrual discharge, mucous secre- tions from the cervix also fl ow out through the vagina. Th ese secretions tend to be somewhat white, thick, and sticky following menstruation, becoming thinner as ovulation approaches. At ovulation, the mucous fl ow tends to increase and to be clear, slippery, and stretchy, somewhat like egg white. (Birth control using cervical mucus to determine the time of ovulation is discussed in Chapter 11.)
The Ovaries On each side of the uterus, held in place by several ligaments, is one of a pair of ovaries. Th e ovary is a gonad, an organ that produces gametes (GA-meets), the sex cells containing the genetic material necessary for reproduction. Female gametes are called oocytes (OH-uh-sites), from the Greek words for egg and cell. (Oocytes are commonly referred to as eggs or ova [singular, ovum]. Technically, however, the cell does not become an egg until it completes its fi nal stages of division following fertilization.) Th e ovaries are the size and shape of large almonds. In addition to producing oocytes, they serve the important function of producing hormones such as estrogen, proges- terone, and testosterone. (Th ese hormones are discussed later in this chapter.) At birth, the female’s ovaries contain about half a million oocytes. During childhood, many of these degenerate; then, beginning in puberty and ending after menopause, a total of about 400 oocytes mature and are released during a woman’s reproductive years. Th e release of an oocyte is called ovulation. Th e immature oocytes are embedded in saclike structures called ovarian follicles. Th e fully ripened follicle is called a vesicular or Graffi an follicle. At maturation, the follicle ruptures, releasing the oocyte. After the oocyte emerges, the rup- tured follicle becomes the corpus luteum (KOR-pus LOO-tee-um) (from the Latin for yellow body), a producer of important hormones; it eventually degen- erates. Th e egg is viable for about 24 hours.
The Fallopian Tubes At the top of the uterus are two tubes, one on each side, known as fallopian tubes, uterine tubes, or oviducts. Th e tubes are about 4 inches long. Th ey extend toward the ovaries but are not attached to them.
Girls got balls. They’re just a little higher up, that’s all.
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Instead, the funnel-shaped end of each tube (the infundibulum) fans out into fi ngerlike fi mbriae (fi m-BREE-ah), which drape over the ovary but may not actually touch it. Tiny, hairlike cilia on the fi mbriae and ampulla become active during ovulation. Th eir waving motion, along with contractions of the walls of the tube, transports the oocyte that has been released from the ovary into the fallopian tube. Just within the infundibulum is the ampulla, the widened part of the tube in which fertilization normally occurs if sperm and oocyte are there at the same time. (Th e process of ovulation and the events leading to fertilization are discussed later in this chapter; fertilization is covered in Chapter 12.)
Other Structures
Th ere are several other important anatomical structures in the genital areas of both men and women. Although they may not serve reproductive functions, they may be involved in sexual activities. Some of these areas may also be aff ected by sexually transmitted infections. In women, these structures include the urethra, anus, and perineum. Th e urethra (yu-REE-thra) is the tube through which urine passes; the urethral opening, or meatus, is located between the clitoris and the vaginal opening. Between the vagina and the anus—the opening of the rectum, through which excrement passes—is a diamond-shaped region called the perineum (per-e-NEE-um). Th is area of soft tissue covers the muscles and ligaments of the pelvic fl oor, the underside of the pelvic area extending from the top of the pubic bone (above the clitoris) to the anus. (To learn more about this muscle and Kegel exercises, which can strengthen it, see Chapter 14.) Th e anus consists of two sphincters, which are circular muscles that open and close like valves. Th e anus contains a dense supply of nerve endings that, along with the tender rings at the opening, can respond erotically. (For additional discussion about anal eroticism, see Chapter 9.) In sex play or intercourse involv- ing the anus or rectum, care must be taken not to rupture the delicate tissues. Th is may occur because of the lack of adequate lubrication or very rough anal sex play. Anal sex, which involves insertion of the penis or other object into the rectum, is potentially unsafe, as is vaginal sex, because abrasions of the tissue provide easy passage for pathogens, such as HIV (the virus that causes AIDS), to the bloodstream (see Chapter 16). To practice safer sex, partners who engage in anal intercourse should use a latex condom with a water-based lubricant.
The Breasts
With the surge of sex hormones that occurs during adolescence, the female breasts begin to develop and enlarge (see Figure 3.5). Th e reproductive function of the breasts is to nourish off spring through lactation, or milk production. A mature female breast, also known as a mammary gland, is composed of fatty tissue and 15–25 lobes that radiate around a central protruding nipple. Around the nipple is a ring of darkened skin called the areola (a-REE-o-la). Tiny muscles at the base of the nipple cause it to become erect in response to touch, cold, or sexual arousal. When a woman is pregnant, the structures within the breast undergo further development. Directly following childbirth, in response to hormonal signals, small glands within the lobes called alveoli (al-VEE-a-lee) begin producing milk. Th e milk passes into ducts, each of which has a dilated region for storage; the ducts open to the outside at the nipple. (Breastfeeding is discussed in Chapter 12.) During lactation, a woman’s breasts increase in size from enlarged glandular tissues and stored milk. Because there is little variation in the amount
Uncorsetted, her friendly bust gives promise of pneumatic bliss.
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of glandular tissue among women, the amount of milk produced does not vary with breast size. In women who are not lactating, breast size depends mainly on fat content, which is determined by hereditary factors. In the Western culture, women’s breasts capture a signifi cant amount of atten- tion and serve an erotic function. Many, but not all, women fi nd breast stimula- tion intensely pleasurable, whether it occurs during breastfeeding or sexual contact. Partners tend to be aroused by both the sight and the touch of women’s breasts. Although there is no basis in reality, some believe that large breasts denote greater sexual responsiveness than small breasts. (See Chapter 13 for a discussion of breast enhancement.) (Table 3.1 provides a summary of female sexual anatomy.)
Areola
Nipple
Milk ducts
Fat
Suspensory ligaments
Chest wall
Ribs
Mammary glands
Alveoli
• FIGURE 3.5 The Female Breast. Front and cross-section views.
Western culture tends to be ambivalent about breasts and nudity. Many people are comfortable with artistic portrayals of the nude female body.
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TABLE 3.1 • Summary Table of Female Sexual Anatomy
External Structures (Vulva)
Mons pubis (mons veneris) Fatty tissue that covers the area of the pubic bone
Clitoris Center of sexual arousal
Clitoral hood Covers the glans clitoris when the clitoris is not engorged
Crura (singular, crus) Tips of erectile tissue that attach to the pelvic bones
Corpora cavernosa Hollow chambers that fi ll with blood and swell during sexual arousal
Labia majora (major lips) Two folds of spongy fl esh that extend from the mons pubis and run downward along the sides of the vulva
Labia minora (minor lips) Smaller, hairless folds within the labia majora that meet above the clitoris to form the clitoral hood
Vestibule (vaginal opening) Area enclosed by the labia minora
Bartholin’s glands Glands that secrete a small amount of moisture during sexual arousal
Internal Structures
Vagina (birth canal) Flexible, muscular structure in which menstrual fl ow and babies pass
Introitus The lower part of the vagina
Hymen Thin membrane that partially covers the introitus and contains a relatively large number of blood vessels
Grafenberg spot (G-spot) Located on the front wall of the vagina, an erotically sensitive area that may produce intense erotic pleasure and a fl uid emission in some women
Uterus (womb) Hollow, thick-walled muscular organ in which a fertilized ovum implants and develops until birth
Cervix Lower end of the uterus that extends down and opens to the vagina
Endometrium Inner lining of the uterine wall to which the fertilized egg attaches; partly discharged (if pregnancy does not occur) with the menstrual fl ow
Os Opening to the cervix
Ovary (gonad) Organ that produces gametes (see below)
Gametes Sex cells containing the genetic material necessary for reproduction; also referred to as oocytes, eggs, ova (singular, ovum)
Ovarian follicles Saclike structures that contain the immature oocytes
Corpus luteum Tissue formed from a ruptured ovarian follicle that produces important hormones after the oocyte emerges
Fallopian tubes (oviducts) Uterine tubes that transport the oocyte from the ovary to the uterus
Infundibulum Funnel-shaped end of each fallopian tube
Fimbriae Fingerlike projections that drape over the ovary and help transport the occyte from the ovary into the fallopian tube
Cilia Tiny, hairlike structures that provide waving motion to help transport the oocyte within the fallopian tube to the ovary
Ampulla Widened part of the fallopian tube in which fertilization normally occurs
Other Structures
Urethra Tube through which urine passes
Urethral opening (meatus) Opening in the urethra, through which urine is expelled
Anus Opening in the rectum, through which excrement passes
Perineum Area that lies between the vaginal opening and the anus
Pelvic fl oor Underside of the pelvic area, extending from the top of the pubic bone (above the clitoris) to the anus
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During ovulation, the ovarian follicle swells and ruptures, releasing the mature oocyte to begin its journey through the fallopian tube.
• Female Sexual Physiology Just how do the various structures of the female anatomy function to produce the menstrual cycle? Th e female reproductive cycle can be viewed as having two components (although, of course, multiple biological processes are involved): (1) the ovarian cycle, in which eggs develop, and (2) the menstrual, or uterine, cycle, in which the womb is prepared for pregnancy. Th ese cycles repeat approximately every month for about 35 or 40 years. Th e task of direct- ing these processes belongs to a class of chemicals called hormones.
Reproductive Hormones
Hormones are chemical substances that serve as messengers, traveling within the body through the bloodstream. Most hormones are composed of either amino acids (building blocks of proteins) or steroids (derived from cholesterol). Th ey are produced by the ovaries and the endocrine glands—the adrenals, pituitary, and hypothalamus. Hormones assist in a variety of tasks, including development of the reproductive organs and secondary sex characteristics during puberty, regula- tion of the menstrual cycle, maintenance of pregnancy, initiation and regulation of childbirth, initiation of lactation, and, to some degree, the regulation of libido (li-BEE-doh; sex drive or interest). Hormones that act directly on the gonads are known as gonadotropins (go-nad-a-TRO-pins). Among the most important of the female hormones are the estrogens, which aff ect the maturation of the repro- ductive organs, menstruation, and pregnancy, and progesterone, which helps to maintain the uterine lining until menstruation occurs. (Th e principal hormones involved in a woman’s reproductive and sexual life and their functions are described in Table 3.2.) (Testosterone is discussed later in this chapter.)
The Ovarian Cycle
Th e development of female gametes is a complex process that begins even before a woman is born. In infancy and childhood, the cells develop into ova (eggs). During puberty, hormones trigger the completion of the process of oogenesis
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(oh-uh-JEN-uh-sis), literally, “egg beginning” (see Figure 3.6). Th e oocyte, oth- erwise referred to as germ cell or immature ovum, marks the start of mitosis, the process by which a cell duplicates the chromosome in its cell nucleus. Oogenesis results in the formation of both primary oocytes, before birth, and as secondary oocytes after it and as part of ovulation. Th is process, called the ovarian cycle (or menstrual cycle), continues until a woman reaches menopause. Th e ovarian cycle averages 28 days in length, although there is considerable variation among women, ranging from 21 to 40 days. In their own particular cycle length after puberty, however, most women experience little variation. Generally, ovulation occurs in only one ovary each month, alternating between the right and left sides with each successive cycle. If a single ovary is removed, the remaining one begins to ovulate every month. Th e ovarian cycle has three phases: follicular (fo-LIK-u-lar), ovulatory (ov-UL-a-tor-ee), and luteal (LOO- tee-ul) (see Figure 3.7). As an ovary undergoes its changes, corresponding changes occur in the uterus. Menstruation marks the end of this sequence of hormonal and physical changes in the ovaries and uterus.
The Follicular Phase On the fi rst day of the cycle, gonadotropin-releasing hormone (GnRH) is released from the hypothalamus. GnRH begins to stim- ulate the pituitary to release follicle-stimulating hormone (FSH) and lutein- izing hormone (LH), initiating the follicular phase. During the fi rst 10 days, 10–20 ovarian follicles begin to grow, stimulated by FSH and LH. In 98–99% of cases, only one of the follicles will mature completely during this period.
TABLE 3.2 • Female Sex Hormones
Hormone Where Produced Functions
Estrogen (including estradiol, estrone, estriol)
Ovaries, adrenal glands, placenta (during pregnancy)
Promotes maturation of reproductive organs, development of secondary sex characteristics, and growth spurt at puberty; regulates menstrual cycle; sustains pregnancy; maintains libido
Progesterone Ovaries, adrenal glands, placenta Promotes breast development, maintains uterine lining, regulates menstrual cycle, sustains pregnancy
Gonadotropin-releasing hormone (GnRH)
Hypothalamus Promotes maturation of gonads, regulates menstrual cycle
Follicle-stimulating hormone (FSH) Pituitary Regulates ovarian function and maturation of ovarian follicles
Luteinizing hormone (LH) Pituitary Assists in production of estrogen and progesterone, regulates maturation of ovarian follicles, triggers ovulation
Human chorionic gonadotropin (HCG) Embryo and placenta Helps sustain pregnancy
Testosterone Adrenal glands and ovaries Helps stimulate sexual desire
Oxytocin Hypothalamus Stimulates uterine contractions during childbirth and possibly during orgasm, promotes milk let-down
Prolactin Pituitary Stimulates milk production
Prostaglandins All body cells Mediates hormone response, stimulates muscle contractions
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(Th e maturation of more than one oocyte is one factor in multiple births.) All the developing follicles begin secreting estrogen. Under the infl uence of FSH and estrogen, the oocyte matures, bulging from the surface of the ovary. Th is may also be referred to as the proliferative phase.
Ovulatory Phase Th e ovulatory phase begins at about day 11 of the cycle and culminates with ovulation at about day 14. Stimulated by an increase of LH from the pituitary, the primary oocyte undergoes cell division and becomes ready for ovulation. Th e ballooning follicle wall thins and ruptures, and the oocyte enters the abdominal cavity near the beckoning fi mbriae. Ovulation is now complete. Some women experience a sharp twinge, called Mittelschmerz, on one side of the lower abdomen during ovulation. A very slight bloody discharge from the vagina may also occur. Occasionally, more than one ovum is released. If two ova are fertilized, nonidentical twins will result. If one egg is fertilized and divides into two separate zygotes, identical twins will develop.
The Luteal Phase Following ovulation, estrogen levels drop rapidly, and the ruptured follicle, still under the infl uence of increased LH, becomes a corpus luteum, which secretes progesterone and small amounts of estrogen. Increasing levels of these hormones serve to inhibit pituitary release of FSH and LH. Unless fertilization has occurred, the corpus luteum deteriorates. In the event of pregnancy, the corpus luteum maintains its hormonal output, helping to
Mitosis
Meiosis I
Meiosis II
meiosis
meiosismeiosis
ovulation
mitosis
Polar bodies degenerating
Second polar body
First polar body
Oogonium (46 chromosomes)
Many oogonia
Primary oocyte (46 chromosomes)
Secondary oocyte (23 chromosomes)
Sperm (23 chromosomes)
Fertilization
Diploid zygote
growth and differentiation
before birth
after birth
sexual maturity
• FIGURE 3.6 Oogenesis. This diagram charts the development of an ovum, beginning with embryonic development of the oogonium and ending with fertilization of the secondary oocyte, which then becomes the diploid zygote. Primary oocytes are present in a female at birth; at puberty, hormones stimulate the oocyte to undergo meiosis.
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Fallopian tube
Ovary
Fimbriae
Uterine lining sloughs off and passes out of the body through the cervix and vagina
Vagina
Cervix
Uterus
Uterine lining
Oocyte disintegrates
(Menstruation)
Uterine lining renews
Maturing oocyte in follicle
Immature oocytes
(Follicle development)
Uterine lining thickens
Oocyte is released
Oocyte travels through tube
Remaining cells of follicle develop into corpus luteum
Lining continues to thicken
Menstrual Phase Follicular Phase
(also called the Proliferative Phase)
Ovulatory Phase Luteal Phase
• FIGURE 3.7 Ovarian and Menstrual Cycles. The ovarian cycle consists of the activities within the ovaries and the development of oocytes; it includes the follicular, ovulatory, and luteal phases. The menstrual cycle consists of processes occurring in the uterus. Hormones regulate these cycles.
sustain the pregnancy. Th e hormone human chorionic gonadotropin (HCG)— similar to LH—is secreted by the embryo and signals the corpus luteum to continue until the placenta has developed suffi ciently to take over hormone production. Th e luteal phase typically lasts from day 14 (immediately after ovulation) through day 28 of the ovarian cycle. Even when cycles are more or less than 28 days, the duration of the luteal phase remains the same; the time between ovulation and the end of the cycle is always 14 days. At this point, the ovarian hormone levels are at their lowest, GnRH is released, and FSH and LH levels begin to rise.
The Menstrual Cycle
As hormone levels decrease following the degeneration of the corpus luteum, the uterine lining (endometrium) is shed because it will not be needed to help sustain the fertilized ovum. Th e shedding of endometrial tissue and the bleeding
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that accompanies it are, collectively, a monthly event in the lives of women from puberty through menopause. Cultural and religious attitudes, as well as personal experience, infl uence our feelings about this phenomenon. (Th e physical and emotional eff ects of menstruation are discussed later in this section. Th e onset of menstruation and its eff ect on a woman’s psychosexual development are dis- cussed in Chapter 6. Menopause is discussed in Chapter 7.) Most American women who menstruate use sanitary pads, panty liners, or tampons to help absorb the fl ow of menstrual blood. While pads and panty liners are used outside the body, tampons are placed inside the vagina. For a wide variety of reasons, including environmental concerns, comfort, chemical residues, and toxic shock syndrome (a bacterial infection that can occur in menstruating women and cause a person to go into shock; discussed in Chapter 13), women are turning to alternative means for catching menstrual fl ow. While some Americans may question the use of alternative products, across time and culture a wide variety of methods have been used to absorb the fl ow of blood. Cloth menstrual pads are reusable, washable, and quite comfortable. For those desiring to wear something internally, other products, called Th e Keeper, DivaCuptm, or Instead, consist of a menstrual cup that is held in place by suction in the lower vagina and acts to collect menstrual fl uid. Some women have used the diaphragm or cervical cap in a similar manner. Reusable sea sponges can work like tampons in absorbing blood. Boiling the sponge before use and between uses can help to rid it of possible ocean pollutants and help to keep it sanitary. Sewing or tying a piece of cotton string on the sponge for easy retrieval is suggested. Most likely, the majority of American women will continue to rely on more widely available and advertised commercial tampons or sanitary pads; however, alterna- tives provide women with an opportunity to take charge of how they respond to their menstrual fl ow and the environmental impacts of that decision. Th e menstrual cycle (or uterine cycle), is divided into three phases: men- strual, proliferative, and secretory. What occurs within the uterus is inextricably related to what is happening in the ovaries, but only in their fi nal phases do the two cycles actually coincide (see Figure 3.8).
The Menstrual Phase With hormone levels low because of the degeneration of the corpus luteum, the outer layer of the endometrium becomes detached from the uterine wall. Th e shedding of the endometrium marks the beginning of the menstrual phase. Th is endometrial tissue, along with mucus, other cer- vical and vaginal secretions, and a small amount of blood (2–5 ounces per cycle),
An array of choices that collect and absorb menstrual fl ow are now available to women.
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is expelled through the vagina. Th e menstrual fl ow, or menses (MEN-seez), gen- erally occurs over a period of 3–5 days. FSH and LH begin increasing around day 5, marking the end of this phase. A girl’s fi rst menstruation is known as menarche (MEH-nar-kee).
The Proliferative Phase Th e proliferative phase lasts about 9 days. During this time, the endometrium thickens in response to increased estrogen. Th e mucous membranes of the cervix secrete a clear, thin mucus with a crystalline structure that facilitates the passage of sperm. Th e proliferative phase ends with ovulation.
The Secretory Phase During the fi rst part of the secretory phase, with the help of progesterone, the endometrium begins to prepare for the arrival of a fertilized ovum. Glands within the uterus enlarge and begin secreting glycogen, a cell nutrient. Th e cervical mucus thickens and starts forming a plug to seal off the uterus in the event of pregnancy. If fertilization does not occur, the corpus luteum begins to degenerate, as LH levels decline. Progesterone levels then fall, and the endometrial cells begin to die. Th e secretory phase lasts 14 days, corresponding with the luteal phase of the ovarian cycle. It ends with the shedding of the endometrium.
Follicle Corpus luteum degenerates
Ovum
Menstrual cycle
Ovarian cycle
Ovarian hormone levels in bloodstream
Pituitary hormone levels in bloodstream
Highest intimacy and sex drive
LH
FSH
Estrogen
Progesterone
Testosterone/Androgen
Menstrual flow
Endometrium Menstrual flow
Day 1 Day 14 Day 28
Menses Estrogenic phase
Ovulation Progestational phase
Menses
• FIGURE 3.8 The Menstrual Cycle, Ovarian Cycle, and Hormone Levels. This chart compares the activities of the ovaries and uterus and shows the relationship of blood hormone levels to these activities.
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Menstrual Synchrony Women who live or work together often report devel- oping similarly timed menstrual cycles (Cutler, 1999). Termed menstrual synchrony, this phenomenon appears to be related to the sense of smell—more specifi cally, a response to pheromones, chemical substances secreted into the air. Th ough there is considerable controversy among researchers as to whether the phenomenon actually exists, if it does, there could be implications for birth control, sexual attraction, and other aspects of women’s lives. (Pheromones are discussed later in the chapter.)
Menstrual Eff ects American women have divergent attitudes toward menstrua- tion. For some women, menstruation is a problem; for others, it is simply a fact of life that creates little disruption. For individual women, the problems associated with their menstrual period may be physiological, emotional, or practical. Th e vast majority of menstruating women notice at least one emotional, physical, or behav- ioral change in the week or so prior to menstruation. Most women describe the changes negatively: breast tenderness and swelling, abdominal bloating, irritability, cramping, depression, or fatigue. Some women also report positive changes such as increased energy, heightened sexual arousal, or a general feeling of well-being. For most women, changes during the menstrual cycle are usually mild to moder- ate; they appear to have little impact on their lives. Th e most common problems associated with menstruation are discussed below.
Premenstrual Syndrome A collection of physical, emotional, and psycho- logical changes that may occur 7–14 days before a woman’s menstrual period is known as premenstrual syndrome (PMS). Th ese symptoms disappear soon after the start of menstrual bleeding. Th ough no one knows for sure what causes PMS, it seems to be linked to alterations in the levels of sex hormones and brain chemicals, or neutrotransmitters. Controversy exists over the diff erence between premenstrual discomfort and true PMS. Premenstrual discomfort is a common occurrence, aff ecting about 75% of all menstruating women (InteliHealth, 2005). Only about 3–8% of women, however, have symptoms that are severe enough to be labeled PMS. While some doctors equate premenstrual dysphoric disorder to PMS, others use a less stringent defi nition for PMS, which includes mild to moderate symp- toms. Symptoms of PMS fall into two categories: physical symptoms, which may include bloating, breast tenderness, swelling and weight gain, headaches, cramping, migraine headaches, and food cravings; and psychological and emo- tional symptoms, which include fatigue, depression, irritability, crying, and changes in libido. For many, symptoms may be worse some months and better other ones. It may also be comforting to know that in most women, PMS symptoms begin to subside after the age of 35 and at menopause.
Menorrhagia At some point in her menstrual life, nearly every woman expe- riences heavy or prolonged bleeding during her menstrual cycle, also known as menorrhagia. Although heavy menstrual bleeding is common among most women, only a few experience blood loss severe enough for it to be defi ned as menorrhagia. Signs and symptoms may include a menstrual fl ow that soaks through one or more sanitary pads or tampons every hour for several consecutive hours, the need to use double sanitary protection throughout the menstrual fl ow, menstrual fl ow that includes large blood clots, and/or heavy menstrual fl ow that interferes with the regular lifestyle. Th ough the cause of heavy menstrual bleeding is unknown, a number of conditions may cause menorrhagia, including hormonal
Menstrual Period Slang that time of the month
monthlies the curse female troubles a visit from my friend a visit from Aunt Flo a visit from George on the rag on a losing streak falling off the roof
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imbalances, uterine fi broids, having an IUD, cancer, or certain medications. Th e combined eff ect of hormonal imbalances and uterine fi broids accounts for 80% of all cases of menorrhagia. Excessive or prolonged menstrual bleeding can lead to iron defi ciency anemia and other medical conditions; thus, it is advisable for women with this problem to seek medical care and treatment.
Dysmenorrhea While menstrual cramps are experienced by some women before or during their periods, a more persistent, aching, and serious pain suf- fi cient to limit a woman’s activities is called dysmenorrhea. Th ere are two types of dysmenorrhea. Primary dysmenorrhea is not associated with any diagnosable pelvic condition. It is characterized by pain that begins with (or just before) uterine bleeding when there is an absence of pain at other times in the cycle. It can be very severe and may be accompanied by nausea, weakness, or other physical symptoms. In secondary dysmenorrhea, the symptoms may be the same, but there is an underlying condition or disease causing them; pain may not be limited to the menstrual phase alone. Secondary dysmenorrhea may be caused by pelvic infl ammatory disease (PID), endometriosis, endometrial cancer, or other conditions that should be treated. (See Chapters 13 and 15.) Th e eff ects of dysmenorrhea can totally incapacitate a woman for several hours or even days. Once believed to be a psychological condition, primary dysmenor- rhea is now known to be caused by high levels of prostaglandins (pros-ta-GLAN- dins), a type of hormone with a fatty-acid base that is found throughout the body. Drugs like ibuprofen (Motrin and Advil) relieve symptoms by inhibiting the pro- duction of prostaglandins. Some doctors may prescribe birth control pills.
Amenorrhea When women do not menstruate for reasons other than aging, the condition is called amenorrhea (ay-meh-neh-REE-a). Principal causes of amenorrhea are pregnancy and breastfeeding. Lack of menstruation, if not a result of pregnancy or nursing, is categorized as either primary or secondary amenorrhea. Women who have passed the age of 16 and never menstruated are diagnosed as having primary amenorrhea. It may be that they have not yet reached their critical weight (when an increased ratio of body fat triggers men- strual cycle–inducing hormones) or that they are hereditarily late maturers. But it can also signal hormonal defi ciencies, abnormal body structure, or an inter- sex condition or other genital anomaly that makes menstruation impossible. Most primary amenorrhea can be treated with hormone therapy. Secondary amenorrhea exists when a previously menstruating woman stops menstruating for several months. If it is not due to pregnancy, breastfeeding, or the use of hormonal contraceptives, the source of secondary amenorrhea may be found in stress, lowered body fat, heavy physical training, cysts or tumors, disease, or hormonal irregularities. Anorexia (discussed in Chapter 13) is a frequent cause of amenorrhea. If a woman is not pregnant, is not breast- feeding, and can rule out hormonal contraceptives as a cause, she should see her health-care practitioner if she has gone 3 months without menstruating. Lifestyle changes or treatment of the underlying condition can almost always correct amenorrhea, unless it is caused by a congenital anomaly. Because there is no known harm associated with amenorrhea, the condition is corrected when an underlying problem presents itself or it causes a woman psychological distress.
Sexuality and the Menstrual Cycle Although studies have tried to deter- mine whether there is a biologically based cycle of sexual interest and activity
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practically speaking
Many factors can infl uence the way we experience the changes that occur over the course of the menstrual cycle. While the vast majority of women feel few and minor changes, others experience changes that are uncomfortable and debilitating. The variations can be signifi cant in any one woman and from month to month. For women, recognizing their men- strual patterns, learning about their bodies, and recognizing and dealing with existing diffi culties can be useful in heading off or easing potential problems. Diff erent remedies work for diff erent women. We suggest that you try varying combinations of them and keep a record of your response to each. Following are some common changes that occur during the menstrual cycle and self-help means to address them.
For Vaginal Changes
The mucous membranes lining the walls of the vagina normally produce clear, white, or pale yellow secretions. These secretions pass from the cervix through the vagina and vary in color, consistency, odor, and quantity, depending on the phase of the menstrual cycle, the woman’s health, and her unique physical characteristics. It is important for you to observe your secretions periodically and note any changes, especially if symptoms accompany them. Because self-diagnosis of unusual discharges is inaccurate over half the time, it is wise to go ahead with self- treatment only after a diagnosis is made by a health-care practitioner. Call a health professional if you feel uncertain or suspicious and/or think you may have been exposed to a sexually transmitted infection. Here are some simple guidelines that may help a woman avoid getting vaginitis:
1. Avoid douching and vaginal deodorants, especially deodorant suppositories or tampons. They upset the natural chemical balance of the vagina.
2. Maintain good genital hygiene by washing the labia and clitoris regularly (about once a day) with mild soap.
3. After a bowel movement, wipe the anus from front to back, away from the vagina, to prevent contamination with fecal bacteria.
4. Wear cotton underpants with a cotton crotch. Nylon does not “breathe,” and it allows heat and moisture to build up, creating an ideal environment for infectious organisms to reproduce.
5. If you use a vaginal lubricant, be sure it is water-soluble. Oil-based lubricants such as Vaseline encourage bacterial growth.
6. Socialize with others or go to a support group to help reduce the stress that may cause or exacerbate the infection.
For Premenstrual Changes
1. Consume a well-balanced diet, with plenty of whole-grain cereals, fruits, and vegetables.
2. Moderate your intake of alcohol, avoid tobacco, and get suffi cient sleep.
3. Exercise at least 30–45 minutes a day. Aerobic exercise brings oxygen to body tissues and stimulates the production of endorphins, chemical substances that help promote feelings of well-being.
For Cramps
1. Relax and apply heat by using a heating pad or hot-water bottle (or, in a pinch, a cat) applied to the abdominal area may help relieve cramps; a warm bath may also help.
2. Get a lower-back or other form of massage, such as acupres- sure, or Shiatsu.
3. Take prostaglandin inhibitors, such as aspirin and ibuprofen, to reduce cramping of the uterine and abdominal muscles. Aspirin increases menstrual fl ow slightly, whereas ibuprofen reduces it. Stronger antiprostaglandins may be prescribed by your health-care practitioner.
4. Having an orgasm (with or without a partner) is reported by some women to relieve menstrual congestion and cramping.
When symptoms are severe, further medical evaluation is needed.
in women that correlates with the menstrual cycle (such as higher interest around ovulation), the results have been varied. Th ere is also variation in how people feel about sexual activity during diff erent phases of the menstrual cycle. Th ere has been a general taboo in our culture, as in many others, against sexual intercourse during menstruation. Th is taboo may be based on religious or cultural beliefs. Among Orthodox Jews, for example, women are required to refrain from intercourse for 7 days following the end of menstruation. Th ey may then resume sexual activity after a ritual bath, the mikvah. Contact with
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blood may make some people squeamish. Some women, especially at the begin- ning of their period, feel bloated or uncomfortable; they may experience breast tenderness or a general feeling of not wanting to be touched. Others may fi nd that sexual activity helps relieve menstrual discomfort. For some couples, merely having to deal with the logistics of bloodstains, bath- ing, and laundry may be enough to discourage them from intercourse at this time. For many people, however, menstrual blood holds no special connotation. In a study of 108 women aged 18–23, females described their experiences with sexual- ity during menstruation. Nearly one half, most of whom were in committed relationships, stated they had sexual activity during their menstrual cycle (Allen & Goldberg, 2009). Young adults who were comfortable with menstrual sex saw it as just another part of a committed intimate relationship. It is important to note that although it is unusual, conception can occur during menstruation. Some women fi nd that a diaphragm or menstrual cup can collect the menstrual fl ow. Menstrual cups, however, are not a contraceptive. It is not recommended that women engage in intercourse while a tampon is inserted because of possible injury to the cervix. And inventive lovers can, of course, fi nd many ways to give each other pleasure that do not require putting the penis into the vagina.
• Female Sexual Response Th e ways in which individuals respond to sexual arousal are highly varied. Women’s sexuality, though typically thought of as personal and individual, is signifi cantly infl uenced by the social groups to which women belong. Socio- cultural variables include gender, religious preference, class, educational attain- ment, age, marital status, race, and ethnicity. For many women, gender—the social and cultural characteristics associated with being male or female—is probably the most infl uential variable in shaping their sexual desires, behaviors, and partnerships. Because gender is largely defi ned by cultural expectations, women’s sexual experiences must be understood in terms of cultural, political, and relational forces. New research into the anatomy and physiology of sexual- ity has helped us to increase our understanding of orgasm. By looking beyond the genitals to the central nervous system, where electrical impulses travel from the brain to the spinal cord, researchers are examining nerves and pathways to better understand the biology of the orgasm. What is probably most critical to all of these functions are the ways we interpret sexual cues. Th ough scientifi c research has contributed much to our understanding of sexual arousal and response, there is still much to be learned. One way in which researchers investigate and describe phenomena is through the creation of mod- els, hypothetical descriptions used to study or explain something. Although models are useful for promoting general understanding or for assisting in the treatment of specifi c clinical problems, we should remember that they are only models. It may be helpful to think of sexual functioning as interconnected, linking desire, arousal, orgasm, and satisfaction. Turbulence or distraction at any one point aff ects the functioning of the others.
Sexual Response Models
A number of sexologists have attempted to outline the various physiological changes that both men and women undergo when they are sexually stimulated.
Passion, though a bad regulator, is a powerful spring.
—Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803–1882)
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think about it
When the media report stories about same-sex lovers, such as actress Anne Heche leaving Ellen DeGeneres for a man, Cynthia Nixon (from Sex and the City) leaving her male partner of 15 years for a woman, and Julie Cypher leaving a heterosexual marriage for Melissa Etheridge then later leav- ing her for a man, what are your responses? Are these incidents simply fl ukes? Are the women confused? Bisexual? None of these, according to Lisa Diamond, professor of psychology and gender studies at the University of Utah. Rather, she has coined the term “sexual fl uidity” to describe sexual desires and attractions as situation-dependent in sexual responsiveness (Diamond, 2008). Based on her own research and analysis of animal mating and women’s sexuality, Diamond suggests that female desire may be dictated by both intimacy and emotional connection. She came to this conclusion after 10 years following the erotic attractions of nearly 100 young women who, at the start of her work, identifi ed themselves as lesbian, bisexual, or refused a label. From her analysis of their shifts between sexual identities and descriptions of their erotic lives, Diamond suggests that for her participants and possibly for women on the whole, desire is malleable, embedded in the nature of female desire, and cannot be captured by asking women to categorize their attractions. Among the women in her study who called themselves lesbian, one third reported attraction solely to women while the other two thirds revealed periodic and genuine desire and attraction to men. When discussing sexual orientation, Diamond sees sig- nifi cance in the fact that many of her subjects agreed with the statement “I am the kind of person who becomes physically attracted to the person rather than their gender.” Thus it is, in the cases of Diamond’s subjects, that emotional closeness overrode innate orientation, resulting in attraction and desire. This concept seems to violate the core underlying assump- tion of our model of sexuality: that sexual orientation is defi ned by sexual behavior. Not long ago, the sexualities—heterosexual- ity, homosexuality, and even bisexuality—were categorical. Sexual attraction and desire, sexual behavior, and sexual identity were assumed to be congruent; same-gender sexual attraction/ behavior assumed a gay, lesbian, or bisexual identity; and other sexual attraction/behavior assumed a heterosexual identity (Schecter, 2009). Now, Diamond’s work along with others’, reveals
Sexual Fluidity: Women’s Variable Sexual Attractions
this may be true for some women, but not true for all. In fact, desire/behavior and orientation/identity do not always match up. The more scholars learn about sexual desire, the more it becomes apparent that it involves a complex interplay among biological, environmental, psychological, cultural, and interpersonal factors. Evidence points to three characteristics about desire: (1) It is both hormonally and situationally driven, (2) individuals are often unaware of the full range of their de- sires, and (3) women’s sexual desires show more variability than do men’s. Probably the largest review of all the published data on the subject around the variability of women’s sexual desires was published by Roy Baumeister (2000), professor of psychology at Florida State University. The study found that women show greater variability than men in a wide range of sexual behaviors, including desired frequency of sex, preferred contexts for sexual behavior, types and frequency of fantasy, and desirable partner characteristics. Nevertheless, sex researchers still do not understand the mechanisms that underlie sexual fl uidity. While tremendous strides have been made to foster greater acceptance of a diversity of sexual expression, sexual minorities as a whole still remain isolated and unsupported. Textbooks, media, and culture continue to assume that there is a fi xed model of same-sex sexuality, in spite of the fact that many individuals know diff erently. Although the notion of sexual fl uidity may be confusing, frightening, or threatening to some, it does off er one more variable to the broad spectrum of sexual expression of which humans are capable and can celebrate.
Think Critically 1. Is sexual orientation innate and/or fi xed? If so, at what
age? How do you know this? 2. Have you experienced sexual fl uidity? If so, what were
your reactions? 3. What would you do if your same-sex or other-sex
best friend told you that he or she was romantically interested in you?
Th ree important models are described here. Th e sequence of changes and patterns that take place in the body during sexual arousal is referred to as the sexual response cycle. Masters and Johnson’s four-phase model of sexual response identifi es the signifi cant stages of response as excitement, plateau, orgasm, and resolution (see Figure 3.9). Helen Singer Kaplan (1979) collapses the excitement and plateau phases into one, eliminates the resolution phase, and adds a phase
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Resolution
Pubic bone
Uterus elevates
Clitoral hood
Urethra Labia minora
Labia majora
Anus
Clitoral shaft and glans swell; glans retracts beneath hood
Clitoris remains retracted under hood
Orgasmic platform contracts
Anal sphincter contracts
Labia minora deepen in color and enlarge
Bartholin’s glands may secrete a small amount of fluid
Uterus elevates further
Upper part of vagina expands
Vaginal wall forms orgasmic platform
Color of labia deepens
Rectal sphincter contracts
Rhythmic contractions in vagina
Contractions in uterus
Vaginal lubrication appears
Clitoris engorges with blood
Labia majora swell
Labia minora swell
Bladder
Excitement
Late Excitement or Plateau
Orgasm
Unaroused
Excitement
Orgasm
Clitoris withdraws under clitoral hood
Labia majora separate from the vaginal opening
Clitoris
Uterus lowers
Vagina returns to normal
Orgasmic platform disappears
Seminal pool
Clitoris returns to unaroused position
• FIGURE 3.9 Masters and Johnson Stages of Female Sexual Response (internal, left; and external, right)
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to the beginning of the process. Kaplan’s tri-phasic model of sexual response includes the desire, excitement, and orgasm phases. Th ough Masters and Johnson’s and Kaplan’s are the most widely cited models used to describe the phases of the sexual response cycle, they do little to acknowledge the aff ective parts of human response. A third but much less known pattern is Loulan’s sexual response model, which incorporates both the biological and aff ective components into a six-stage cycle. Beyond any questions of similarities and diff erences in the female and male sexual response cycle is the more signifi cant issue of variation in how individuals experience each phase. Th e diversity of experiences can be described only by the individual. (Th ese models are described and compared in Table 3.3.)
TABLE 3.3 • Models of the Sexual Response Cycle
Psychological/Physiological Process Name of Phase
People make a conscious decision to have sex even if there might not be emotional or physical desire.
Some form of thought, fantasy, or erotic feeling causes individuals to seek sexual gratifi cation. (An inability to become sexually aroused may be due to a lack of desire, although some people have reported that they acquire sexual desire after being sexually aroused.)
Physical and/or psychological stimulation produces characteristic physical changes. In men, increased amounts of blood fl ow to the genitals produce erection of the penis; the scrotal skin begins to smooth out, and the testicles draw up toward the body. Later in this phase, the testes increase slightly in size. In women, vaginal lubrication begins, the upper vagina expands, the uterus is pulled upward, and the clitoris becomes engorged. In both women and men, the breasts enlarge slightly, and the nipples may become erect. Both men and women experience increasing muscular contractions.
Sexual tension levels off . In men, the testes swell and continue to elevate. The head of the penis swells slightly and may deepen in color. In women, the outer third of the vagina swells, lubrication may slow down, and the clitoris pulls back. Coloring and swelling of the labia increase. In both men and women, muscular tension, breathing, and heart rate increase.
Increased tension peaks and discharges, aff ecting the whole body. Rhythmic muscular contractions aff ect the uterus and outer vagina in women. In men, there are contractions of the tubes that produce and carry semen, the prostate gland, and the urethral bulb, resulting in the expulsion of semen (ejaculation).
The body returns to its unaroused state. In some women, this does not occur until after repeated orgasms.
Pleasure is one purpose of sexuality and can be defi ned only by the individual. One can experience pleasure during all or only some of the above stages, or one can leave out any of the stages and still have pleasure.
Willingness (Loulan)
Desire (Kaplan, Loulan)
Excitement (Masters/Johnson, Loulan)
Plateau (Masters/Johnson)
Orgasm (Masters/Johnson, Kaplan, and Loulan)
Resolution (Masters/Johnson) Pleasure
(Loulan)
Excitement (Kaplan)
Engorgement (Loulan)
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To help organize our thinking about the complexities of human behavior, the dual control model provides a theoretical perspective of sexual response that is based on brain function and the interaction between sexual excitation (respond- ing with arousal to sexual stimuli) and sexual inhibition (inhibiting sexual arousal) (Bancroft, Graham, Janssen, & Sanders, 2009). Th e authors of this model argue that, though much research has been dedicated to understanding sexual excitation, little research has been conducted on the inhibitory brain mechanisms which provide an equally signifi cant role in sexual arousal and response. Th ey purport that the adaptive role the inhibitory mechanism pro- duces is relevant to our understanding of “normal” sexuality, individual vari- ability, and problematic sexuality. Th e functions of the inhibitory response can be found in the following circumstances: (1) When sexual activity in a specifi c situation is potentially risky (as when you or your partner suspects an unintended pregnancy could result); (2) when a nonsexual challenge occurs and sex needs to be suppressed (as when a child calls out for help); (3) when excessive involve- ment in the pursuit of sexual pleasure distracts from other important functions (as when someone is late for work because he or she is distracted by viewing sexually explicit materials); (4) when social or environmental pressure results in suppression of reproductive behavior (as when someone is so stressed during fi nals week, he or she doesn’t feel like having sex); and (5) when the conse- quences of continued excessive sexual behavior potentially reduces possible con- ception (as when repeated ejaculations can result in lower sperm count). A major fi nding of the dual control model is that it views excitation and sexual inhibition as separate systems, as opposed to other models that view these as two ends of a single dimension. Additional fi ndings from this model include the following:
■ Th ough most people fall in the moderate range on propensities toward sexual excitation and sexual inhibition, there is great variability from one person to the next.
■ Men, on average, score higher on excitation and lower on inhibition than women.
■ Gay men, on average, score higher on excitation and lower on inhibition than straight men.
■ Bisexual women, on average, score higher on excitation than lesbian and straight women.
■ Excitation lessens with age for men and women; however, inhibition is not age-related in women but is somewhat age-related in men.
■ Th e relation between negative mood and sexuality is best predicted by inhibition scores in men, but by excitation scores in women.
Th e dual control model postulates that individuals who have a low propen- sity for sexual excitation or a high propensity for sexual inhibition are more likely to experience diffi culties related to sexual response or sexual interest. Furthermore, those who have a high propensity for sexual excitation or low propensity for sexual inhibition are more likely to engage in problematic sexu- ality such as high-risk sexual behaviors, for example, not using a condom. Because the focus is on sexual arousal, there remain questions about if and how this model might apply to orgasm. As long as researchers see it as a model rather than as a description of reality, then the model and questionnaire used for investigating it can be improved.
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Desire: Mind or Matter?
Desire is the psychological component of sexual arousal. Although we can expe- rience desire without becoming aroused, and in some cases become aroused without feeling desire, some form of erotic thought or feeling is usually involved in our sexual behavior. Th e physical manifestations of sexual arousal involve a complex interaction of thoughts and feelings, sensory organs, neural responses, and hormonal reactions involving various parts of the body, including the nucleus accumbens, cerebellum, and hypothalamus of the brain, the nervous system, the circulatory system, and the endocrine glands—as well as the genitals. A meta-study, which combined the results of several studies, of men’s and women’s sexual arousal patterns found that in women, lubrication was only one of the physiological changes that occurred when they were sexually aroused, and not a necessary condition for women to report that they were sexually aroused (Chivers, Seto, Lalumière, & Grimbos, 2010). Much of the science behind sexuality was designed around a very linear model: First, there’s desire, then there’s arousal, followed by orgasms, then snuggling. For most women, this process is more circular, whereby sexuality is about intimacy, relationships, and wanting to cuddle fi rst and feel close to someone. It’s also about how women feel about themselves. If they do not feel desirable or comfortable with their bodies, it’s likely that they will not be able to relax and enjoy the sexual interchange. Among men who have trouble getting erect, genital engorgement is aided by drugs such as Viagra because the pills target genital capillaries. (See Chapter 14 for more information about erection-enhancing drugs.) Th us, the medications may enhance male desire by granting men a feeling of power and control, but not necessarily desire or wanting. For some men, desire is not an issue. In women, the primary diffi culty appears to be in the mind, not the body (Brotto, Heiman & Tolman, 2009). Th erefore, experimental attempts to use penile- enhancing drugs to treat women who complain of low sexual desire have proven ineff ective (Bergner, 2010). In both cases, then, the physiological eff ects of the drugs have proven irrelevant.
The Neural System and Sexual Stimuli Th e brain is crucial to sexual response and is currently a focus of research to understanding how we respond to sexual stimulation. Th rough the neural system, the brain receives stimuli from the fi ve senses plus one: sight, smell, touch, hearing, taste, and the imagination.
The Brain Th e brain, of course, plays a major role in all of our body’s func- tions. Nowhere is its role more apparent than in our sexual functioning. Th e relationship between our thoughts and feelings and our actual behavior is not well understood (and what is known would require a course in neurophysiology to satisfactorily explain it). Relational factors and cultural infl uences, as well as expectations, fantasies, hopes, and fears, combine with sensory inputs and neu- rotransmitters (chemicals that transmit messages in the nervous system) to bring us to where we are ready, willing, and able to be sexual. Even then, potentially erotic messages may be short-circuited by the brain itself, which can inhibit as well as incite sexual responses. It is not known how the inhibitory mechanism works, but negative conditioning and emotions will prevent the brain from sending messages to the genitals. In fact, the reason moderate amounts of alcohol and marijuana appear to enhance sexuality is that they
Some desire is necessary to keep life in motion.
—Samuel Johnson (1709–1784)
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reduce the control mechanisms of the brain that act as inhibitors. Conversely, women who feel persistent sexual arousal and no relief from orgasm reveal unusually high activation in regions of the brain that respond to genital stim- ulation (Komisaruk et al., 2010). (See Chapter 14 for a discussion of persistent sexual arousal syndrome.) Anatomically speaking, the part of the body that appears to be involved most in sexual behaviors of both men and women is the vast highway of nerves called the vagus nerve network that stretches to all the major organs, including the brain. Using MRI scans to map the brain, researchers have found increases in brain activity during sexual arousal (Holstege et al., 2003; Komisaruk et al., 2010). Since specifi c parts of the brain send their sensory signals via specifi c nerves, the diff erent quality of orgasms that result from clitoral or anal stimu- lation, for example, is divided among the diff erent genital sensory nerves. As many of us know, the early stages of a new romantic relationship are characterized by intense feelings of euphoria, well-being, and preoccupation with the romantic partner. Th is was observed in one study in which college students were shown photos of their beloved intermixed with photos of an equally attractive acquaintance (Younger, Aron, Parke, Chatterjee, & Mackey, 2010). Induced with pain during the experiment, students reported their pain was less severe when they were looking at photos of their new love. Th e test results suggest the chemicals the body releases in the early stages of love— otherwise referred to as endogeneous opioids—work on the spinal cord to block the pain message from getting to the brain. MRI scans showed that, indeed, the areas of the brain activated by intense love are the same areas targeted by pain-relieving drugs.
The Senses An attractive person (sight), a body fragrance or odor (smell), a lick or kiss (taste), a loving caress (touch), and erotic whispers (hearing) are all capable of sending sexual signals to the brain. Preferences for each of these sensory inputs are both biological and learned and are very individualized. Many of the connections we experience between sensory data and emotional responses are probably products of the limbic system, or those structures of the brain that are associated with emotions and feelings and involved in sexual arousal. Some sensory inputs may evoke sexual arousal without a lot of con- scious thought or emotion. Certain areas of the skin, called erogenous zones, are highly sensitive to touch. Th ese areas may include the genitals, breasts, mouth, ears, neck, inner thighs, and buttocks; erotic associations with these areas vary from culture to culture and from individual to individual. Our olfac- tory sense (smell) may bring us sexual messages below the level of our conscious awareness. Scientists have isolated chemical substances, called pheromones, that are secreted into the air by many kinds of animals, including humans, ants, moths, pigs, deer, dogs, and monkeys. One function of pheromones, in animals at least, appears to be to arouse the libido.
Hormones Th e libido in both men and women is biologically infl uenced by the hormone testosterone. In men, testosterone is produced mainly in the testes; in women, it is produced in the adrenal glands and the ovaries. Growing evidence suggests that testosterone may play an important role in the mainte- nance of women’s bodies (Davis, Davison, Donath, & Bell, 2005). Although it does not play a large part in a woman’s hormonal makeup, it is present in the blood vessels, brain, skin, bone, and vagina. Testosterone is believed to
Women might be able to fake orgasms. But men can fake whole relationships.
—Sharon Stone (1958–)
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Sensory inputs, such as the sight, touch, or smell of someone we love or the sound of his or her voice, may evoke desire and sexual arousal.
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contribute to bone density, blood fl ow, hair growth, energy and strength, and libido. Although women produce much less testosterone than men, this does not mean that they have less sexual interest; apparently, women are much more sensitive than men to testosterone’s eff ects. Th ough testosterone decreases in women as they age, the ovaries manufacture it throughout life. Symptoms produced by the decrease of testosterone can be similar to those related to estrogen loss, including fatigue, vaginal dryness, and bone loss. Signs specifi c to testosterone defi ciency are associated with reduced sexual interest and respon- siveness in men. Th e eff ects of such hormonal changes in women are less predictable (Bancroft, 2009). In spite of widespread claims of testosterone’s eff ect in treating low sex desire in women, in December 2004, the Food and Drug Administration voted against approval of a testosterone patch, citing concerns about the safety of long-term use of the patch and use by groups that have not been adequately studied. More recently, the balance of evidence seems to show that testosterone replacement therapy for surgically and naturally menopausal women has, if used properly under medical supervision, a more positive eff ect than a negative one on women (Panzer & Guay, 2009). Th ough sexual problems, including low libido and/or sexual dissatisfaction, may have physiological causes, they may also be caused by relationship issues, work fatigue, past experiences, or fi nancial problems. It is necessary to look beyond medical solutions when assisting women who have the courage to confront their sexual dissatisfaction. (Testosterone replacement therapy is discussed in Chapter 7.) Estrogen also plays a role in sexual functioning, though its eff ects on sexual desire are not completely understood. In addition to protecting the bones and heart, in women estrogen helps to maintain the vaginal lining and lubrication, which can make sex more pleasurable. Men also produce small amounts of estrogen, which facilitates the maturation of sperm and maintains bone density. Too much estrogen, however, can cause erection diffi culties. Like testosterone replacement, some doctors are also promoting estrogens and bioidentical or natural estrogen supplements to treat conditions caused by estrogen defi ciency. Th e most signifi cant push is aimed at menopausal women. Because no risk-free hormone has ever been identifi ed, claims that human estrogens will protect against cardiovascular eff ects and other maladies are misleading. While a num- ber of estrogens are eff ective treatments for hot fl ashes and vaginal dryness, any health-promotion claims for these drugs are clearly wrong. Shown to be some- what eff ective in relieving symptoms associated with some female sexual func- tion diffi culties is a botanical called Zestra (Ferguson, Hosmane, & Heiman, 2010). By increasing blood fl ow and nerve conduction, this product was found to signifi cantly increase clitoral and vaginal warmth, increase arousal, and improve sexual pleasure. Oxytocin is a hormone more commonly associated with contractions during labor and with breastfeeding. It is also increased by nipple stimulation in men and women. Th is neurotransmitter, which has also been linked to bonding, is released in variable amounts in men and women during orgasm and remains raised for at least 5 minutes after orgasm (Carmichael et al., 1987). It helps us feel connected and promotes touch, aff ection, and relaxation. Interestingly, oxy- tocin is important in stimulating the release of all the other sex hormones and, since it peaks during orgasm, it may be responsible for the desire to touch or cuddle after orgasm occurs (Chia & Abrams, 2005).
The age of a woman doesn’t mean a thing. The best tunes are played on
the oldest fi ddles.
—Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803–1882)
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think about it
Many of us measure both our sexuality and ourselves in terms of orgasm: Did we have one? Did our partner have one? If so, was it good? Did we have simultaneous orgasms? When we measure our sexuality by orgasm, however, we discount activities that do not necessarily lead to orgasm, such as touch- ing, caressing, and kissing. We discount erotic pleasure as an end in itself. Our culture tends to identify sexual activity with sexual intercourse, and the end of sexual intercourse is literally orgasm (especially male orgasm).
An Anthropological and Evolutionary Perspective
A fundamental, biological fact about orgasm is that male orgasm and ejaculation are required for reproduction, whereas the female orgasm is not. The male orgasm is universal in both animal and human species, but sociobiologists and anthropolo- gists have found immense variation in the experience of female orgasm. Anthropologists such as Margaret Mead (1975) found that some societies, such as the Mundugumor, emphasize the female orgasm but that it is virtually nonexistent in other societies, such as the Arapesh. In our culture, women most consistently experience orgasm through a combination of vaginal intercourse and manual and oral stimulation of the clitoris. In cultures that cultivate female orgasm, according to sociobiologist Donald Symons (1979), there is, in addition to an absence of sexual repression, an em- phasis on men’s skill in arousing women. In our own culture, among men who consider themselves (and are considered) “good lovers,” great emphasis is placed on their abilities to arouse their partners and bring them to orgasm. These skills include not only penile penetration but also, often more
The Role of Orgasm
importantly, clitoral or G-spot stimulation. This, of course, is based on the sexual script that men are to “give orgasms to women,” a message that places pressure on men and that tells women they are not responsible for their own sexual response. According to this script, the woman is “erotically dependent” on the man. The woman can, of course, also stimulate her own clitoris to experience orgasm. Because it is closely tied to reproduction, evolutionary scientists have never had diffi culty explaining the male orgasm; it ensures reproduction. In the same vein, scientists have for decades insisted on fi nding an evolutionary function for female orgasm but have not been as successful. Possibly, one eff ect of orgasm is to increase a suction in the uterus to draw up ejaculated semen thereby increasing the retention of sperm (Komisaruk et al., 2010). Since women can have sexual intercourse and become pregnant without experiencing orgasm, perhaps there is no evolutionary function for orgasm (Lloyd, 2005). However, philosopher and professor Elisabeth Lloyd acknowl- edges, evolution does not dictate what is culturally important. In reviewing 32 studies conducted over 74 years, Lloyd found that when intercourse was unassisted—that is, not accompa- nied by stimulation of the clitoris—just one quarter of the women studied experienced orgasms often or very often and a full one third never did; the rest sometimes did and sometimes didn’t.
The Tyranny of the Orgasm
Sociologist Philip Slater (1974) suggests that our preoccupation with orgasm is an extension of the Protestant work ethic, in which nothing is enjoyed for its own sake; everything is work,
In spite of what we do know about the importance of biological infl uences on sexual desire and performance, when biological determinants or evolutionary accounts are given undue weight and psychosocial forces are ignored or mini- mized, a medical model that negates the signifi cance of culture, relationships, and equality can emerge (Lloyd, 2007; Wood, Koch, & Mansfi eld, 2006).
Experiencing Sexual Arousal
For both males and females, physiological changes during sexual excitement depend on two processes: vasocongestion and myotonia. Vasocongestion is the concentration of blood in body tissues. For example, blood fi lls the genital regions of both males and females, causing the penis to become erect and the clitoris to swell. Myotonia is increased muscle tension accompanying the approach of orgasm; upon orgasm, the body undergoes involuntary muscle
Those who restrain desire do so because theirs is weak enough to be restrained.
—William Blake (1757–1827)
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including sex. Thus, we “achieve” orgasm much as we achieve success. Those who achieve orgasm are the “successful workers” of sexual activity; those who do not are the “failures.” As we look at our sexuality, we can see pressure to be suc- cessful lovers. Men talk of performance anxiety. We tend to evaluate a woman’s sexual self-worth in terms of her being or- gasmic (able to have orgasms). For men, the signifi cant ques- tion about women’s sexuality has shifted from “Is she a virgin?” to “Is she orgasmic?”
Pretending Orgasm
The idea that women “fake” orgasms is familiar, probably because there is considerable pressure on them to do so. What is less well-known is that some men also pretend or- gasm. Research on pretending orgasm can provide interest- ing insights into sexual scripts and their functions and meanings for both sexes (Muehlenhard & Shippee, 2009). Re- searchers and professors Muehlenhard and Shippee found that 25% of men and 50% of women reported pretending or- gasms, but that these rates were even higher for those who had experienced penile-vaginal intercourse. Frequently reported reasons for pretending orgasm (reported by both sexes) were that orgasm was unlikely, they wanted sexual activity to end, and they wanted to avoid negative conse- quences (hurting their partners’ feelings) and obtain positive ones (pleasing their partners). Both men’s and women’s narra- tives suggested a common sexual script in which the woman should orgasm first, ideally during intercourse, and when the man orgasms, sex is over. Thus, the researchers conclude, “It seems that much of people’s sexual behavior is guided by their or their partners’ scripts and expectations—even if this requires pretending.” Such questions are often asked by men rather than women, and women tend to resent them. Part of the pressure to pretend to have an orgasm is caused by these questions. What is really being asked? If the woman enjoyed
intercourse? If she thinks the man is a good lover? Or is the question merely a signal that the lovemaking is over?
“Was It Good for You?”
A question often asked following intercourse is “Was it good for you?” or its variation, “Did you come?” While the question “Was it good for you?” may initiate a dia- logue, the statement “Orgasm is good for us” acknowledges a fact. Though it’s apparent that orgasm feels good, some of us may not recognize that orgasm is indeed good for our health. Sexual activity not only burns quite a few calories and boosts the metabolism, it also improves immune function, helps you sleep better, and relieves menstrual cramps and stress. In fact, substan- tial connections between women’s sexual satisfaction and all three aspects of their well-being (relational, mental, and physical) have been reported (Holmberg, Blair, & Phillips, 2010). Though we don’t yet understand all of the benefi ts of sex and orgasm, there is mounting evidence that the enjoyment we receive from sex moderates our hormones and improves our emotional state.
Think Critically 1. How important is it that each partner experience
orgasm? What (if anything) would you say to a sexual partner who never or rarely experiences one?
2. Do you believe there are diff erences in the amount of emphasis that men and women give to orgasm? If so, why? If not, why not?
3. How would you feel about your partner pretending an orgasm? Would you like to know or not whether your partner actually experienced an orgasm? Why or why not?
contractions and then relaxes. Th e sexual response pattern remains the same for all forms of sexual behavior, whether autoerotic or sex with a partner, het- erosexual or homosexual. Nevertheless, approximately 30% of women report problems related to arousal (Chivers et al., 2010).
Sexual Excitement Many women do not separate sexual desire from arousal (Tiefer, 2004). Additionally, many seem to care less about physical arousal but rather place more emphasis on the relational and emotional aspects of inti- macy. In any case, for women, one of the fi rst signs of sexual excitement is the seeping of moisture through the vaginal walls through a process called vaginal transudation or sweating. Some women also report “tingling” in the genital area. Blood causes lymphatic fl uids to push by the vaginal walls, engorging them, lubricating the vagina, and enabling it to encompass the penis
The reason so many women fake orgasms is that so many men fake
foreplay.
—Graffi to
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or other object. Th e upper two thirds of the vagina expands in a process called tenting; the vagina expands about an inch in length and doubles its width. Th e labia minora begin to protrude outside the labia majora during sexual excitement, and breathing and heart rate increase. Th ese signs do not occur on a specifi c timetable; each woman has her own pattern of arousal, which may vary under diff erent conditions, with diff erent partners, and so on. Contractions raise the uterus, but the clitoris remains virtually unchanged during this early phase. Although the clitoris responds more slowly than the penis to vasocongestion, it is still aff ected. Th e initial changes, however, are minor. Clitoral tumescence (swelling) occurs simultaneously with engorgement of the labia minora. During masturbation and oral sex, the clitoris is generally stimulated directly. During intercourse, clitoral stimula- tion is mostly indirect, caused by the clitoral hood being pulled over the clitoris or by pressure in the general clitoral area. At the same time that these changes are occurring in the genitals, the breasts are also responding. Th e nipples become erect, and the breasts may enlarge somewhat because of the engorgement of blood vessels; the areolae may also enlarge. Many women (and men) experience a sex flush, a darkening of the skin or rash that temporarily appears as a result of blood rushing to the skin’s surface during sexual excitement. As excitement increases, the clitoris retracts beneath the clitoral hood and virtually disappears. Th e labia minora become progressively larger until they double or triple in size. Th ey deepen in color, becoming pink, bright red, or a deep wine-red color, depending on the woman’s skin color. Th is intense color- ing is sometimes referred to as the “sex skin.” When it appears, orgasm is imminent. Meanwhile, the vaginal opening and lower third of the vagina decrease in size as they become more congested with blood. Th is thickening of the walls, which occurs in the plateau stage of the sexual response cycle, is known as the orgasmic platform. Th e upper two thirds of the vagina contin- ues to expand, but lubrication decreases or may even stop. Th e uterus becomes fully elevated through muscular contractions. Changes in the breasts continue. Th e areolae become larger even as the nipples decrease in relative size. If the woman has not breastfed, her breasts may increase by up to 25% of their unaroused size; women who have breast- fed may have little change in size.
Orgasm Continued stimulation brings orgasm, a peak sensation of intense pleasure that creates an altered state of consciousness and is accompanied by involuntary, rhythmic uterine and anal contractions, myotonia, and a state of well-being and contentment. Th e upper two thirds of the vagina does not contract; instead, it continues its tenting eff ect. Th e labia do not change during orgasm, nor do the breasts (Komisaruk et al., 2010). Heart and respiratory rates and blood pressure reach their peak during orgasm. After orgasm, the orgasmic platform rapidly subsides. Th e clitoris reemerges from beneath the clitoral hood. Orgasm helps the blood to fl ow out of the genital tissue quickly (Meston & Buss, 2009). If a woman does not have an orgasm once she is sexually aroused, the clitoris may remain engorged for up to an hour: Th is unresolved vasocongestion sometimes leads to a feeling of frustration, analogous to what men call “blue balls.” Th e labia slowly return to their unaroused state, and the sex fl ush gradually disappears. About 30–40% of women perspire as the body begins to cool.
What is the earth? What are the body and soul without satisfaction?
—Walt Whitman (1819–1892)
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Interestingly, when women and men are asked to use adjectives to describe their experience of orgasm, data suggest that, beyond the awareness of ejacula- tion that men report, their sensations bear more similarities than diff erences (Mah & Binik, 2002). Prolactin levels double immediately following orgasm and remain elevated for about 1 hour (Meston & Buss, 2009). Th is prolactin is thought to be responsible for the refractory period, in which men are unable to ejaculate again. In contrast, women are often physiologically able to be orgasmic immediately following the previous orgasm. As a result, women can have repeated orgasms, also called multiple orgasms, if they continue to be stimulated. Th ough fi ndings vary on the percentage of women who experience multiple orgasms (estimates range from 14% to 40%), what is clear is that wide variability exists among women and within any one woman from one time to another.
In the next chapter, we discuss the anatomical features and physiological functions that characterize men’s sexuality and sexual response. The information in these two chapters should serve as a comprehensive basis for understanding the material that follows.
Final Thoughts
Summary Female Sex Organs: What Are They For?
■ All embryos appear as female at fi rst. Genetic and hormonal signals trigger the development of male organs in those embryos destined to be male.
■ Sex organs serve a reproductive purpose, but they perform other functions also: giving pleasure, attracting sex partners, and bonding in relationships.
■ Th e external female genitals are known collectively as the vulva. Th e mons pubis is a pad of fatty tissue that covers the area of the pubic bone. Th e clitoris is the center of sexual arousal. Th e labia majora are two folds of spongy fl esh extending from the mons pubis and enclosing the other external genitals. Th e labia minora are smooth, hairless folds within the labia majora that meet above the clitoris.
■ Th e internal female sexual structures and reproduc- tive organs include the vagina, the uterus, the cervix,
the ovaries, and the fallopian tubes. Th e vagina is a fl exible muscular organ that encompasses the penis or other object during sexual expression and is the birth canal through which an infant is born. Th e opening of the vagina, the introitus, is partially cov- ered by a thin, perforated membrane, the hymen, prior to fi rst intercourse or other intrusion.
■ Many women report the existence of an erotically sensitive area, the Grafenberg spot (G-spot), on the front wall of the vagina midway between the introitus and the cervix.
■ Th e uterus, or womb, is a hollow, thick-walled, muscular organ; the tapered end, the cervix, extends downward and opens into the vagina. Th e lining of the uterine walls, the endometrium, is built up and then shed and expelled through the cervical os (opening) during menstruation. In the event of preg- nancy, the pre-embryo is embedded in the nourishing
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endometrium. On each side of the uterus is one of a pair of ovaries, the female gonads (organs that produce gametes, sex cells containing the genetic material necessary for reproduction). At the top of the uterus are the fallopian tubes, or uterine tubes. Th ey extend toward the ovaries but are not attached to them. Th e funnel-shaped end of each tube (the infundibulum) fans out into fi ngerlike fi mbriae, which drape over the ovary. Hairlike cilia on the fi mbriae transport the ovulated oocyte (egg) into the fallopian tube. Th e ampulla is the widened part of the tube in which fer- tilization normally occurs. Other important structures in the area of the genitals include the urethra, anus, and perineum.
■ Th e reproductive function of the female breasts, or mammary glands, is to nourish the off spring through lactation, or milk production. A breast is composed of fatty tissue and 15–25 lobes that radiate around a central protruding nipple. Alveoli within the lobes produce milk. Around the nipple is a ring of darkened skin called the areola.
Female Sexual Physiology
■ Hormones are chemical substances that serve as mes- sengers, traveling through the bloodstream. Impor- tant hormones that act directly on the gonads (gonadotropins) are follicle-stimulating hormone (FSH) and luteinizing hormone (LH). Hormones produced in the ovaries are estrogen, which helps regulate the menstrual cycle, and progesterone, which helps maintain the uterine lining, until menstruation occurs.
■ At birth, the human female’s ovaries contain approxi- mately half a million oocytes, or female gametes. During childhood, many of these degenerate. In a woman’s lifetime, about 400 oocytes will mature and be released, beginning in puberty when hormones trigger the completion of oogenesis, the production of oocytes, commonly called eggs or ova.
■ Th e activities of the ovaries and the development of oocytes for ovulation, the expulsion of the oocyte, are described as the three-phase ovarian cycle, which is usually about 28 days long. Th e phases are follicular (maturation of the oocyte), ovulatory (expulsion of the oocyte), and luteal (hormone production by the corpus luteum).
■ Th e menstrual cycle (or uterine cycle), like the ovarian cycle, is divided into three phases. Th e shedding of the endometrium marks the beginning of the menstrual
phase. Th e menstrual fl ow, or menses, generally occurs over a period of 3–5 days. Endometrial tissue builds up during the proliferative phase; it produces nutri- ents to sustain an embryo in the secretory phase.
■ Women who live or work together often develop similarly timed menstrual cycles, called menstrual synchrony.
■ Th e most severe menstrual problems have been attributed to premenstrual syndrome (PMS), a cluster of physical, psychological, and emotional symptoms that many women experience 7–14 days before their menstrual period. Some women experience very heavy bleeding (menorrhagia), while others have pelvic cramping and pain during the menstrual cycle (dysmenorrhea). When women do not menstruate for reasons other than aging, the condition is called amenorrhea. Principal causes of amenorrhea are pregnancy and nursing.
Female Sexual Response
■ Masters and Johnson’s four-phase model of sexual response identifi es the signifi cant stages of response as excitement, plateau, orgasm, and resolution. Kaplan’s tri-phasic model of sexual response consists of three phases: desire, excitement, and orgasm. Loulan’s sexual response model includes both biological and aff ective components in a six-stage cycle. Th e dual control model helps to explain the interaction be- tween sexual excitation and sexual inhibition.
■ Th e physical manifestations of sexual arousal involve a complex interaction of thoughts and feelings, sen- sory perceptions, neural responses, and hormonal reactions occurring in many parts of the body. For both males and females, physiological changes dur- ing sexual excitement depend on two processes: vasocongestion, the concentration of blood in body tissues; and myotonia, increased muscle tension with approaching orgasm.
■ For women, an early sign of sexual excitement is the moistening, or vaginal transudation or sweating, of the vaginal walls. Th e upper two thirds of the vagina expands in a process called tenting; the labia may enlarge or fl atten and separate; the clitoris swells. Breathing and heart rate increase. Th e nipples become erect, and the breasts may enlarge somewhat. Th e uterus elevates. As excitement increases, the clitoris retracts beneath the clitoral hood. Th e vaginal opening decreases by about one third, and its outer third becomes more congested, forming the orgasmic platform.
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■ Continued stimulation brings orgasm, a peak sensa- tion of intense pleasure that creates an altered state of consciousness and is accompanied by contractions, myotonia, and a state of well-being and contentment. Women are often able to be orgasmic following a previous orgasm if they continue to be stimulated.
Questions for Discussion ■ Are changes in mood that may occur during a
woman’s menstrual cycle caused by biological factors, or are they learned? What evidence supports your response?
■ Given the choice between the environmentally friendly menstruation products and commercial products, which would you choose for yourself (or recommend to a woman), and why?
■ If another adult were to ask you, “What is an orgasm?”, how would you reply? If the person were to proceed to ask you how to induce one in a woman, what would you say?
■ What are your thoughts and reactions to learning about the Grafenberg spot? Do you believe it is an invented erotic spot for some women or a genuine gland or erogenous zone?
■ How important is it to you that both you and your partner enjoy sexual pleasuring and pleasure?
■ For women only: What is your response to looking at your genitals? For men only: What is your response to viewing photos of women’s genitals? Why is it that women are discouraged from touching or looking at their genitals?
■ How do you feel about the idea of having sex during a woman’s menstrual period? Why do you feel this way?
Suggested Websites Centers for Disease Control and Prevention http://www.cdc.gov/women/ Provides a wide variety of specifi c information and links related to all aspects of women’s health and well-being.
Guttmacher Institute http://www.guttmacher.org A global research institute that explores aspects of sexuality and relationships.
National Institute of Child Health and Human Development (part of the National Institutes of Health) http://www.nichd.nih.gov/womenshealth/womenshealth.cfm Provides a wide-ranging research portfolio on women’s health.
National Organization for Women (NOW) http://www.now.org An organization of women and men who support full equality for women in truly equal partnerships.
National Women’s Health Network http://www.womenshealthnetwork.org Provides clear and well-researched information about a variety of women’s health- and sexuality-related issues.
North American Menopause Society http://www.menopause.org Promotes women’s health during midlife and beyond through an understanding of menopause.
Our Bodies, Ourselves http://www.ourbodiesourselves.org Provides a multicultural and up-to-date perspective on women’s physical and sexual health.
Sex and the Internet Sexuality and Ethnicity Of the 307 million people living in the United States, over 155 million are women. Many of these women are in poor health, use fewer reproductive health services, and continue to suff er disproportionately
from premature death, disease, and disabilities. In ad- dition, there are tremendous economic, cultural, and social barriers to achieving optimal health. To fi nd out more about the reproductive health risks of special concern to women of color, go to the National Women’s Health Information Center website: http://www .womenshealth.gov/minority. From the menu, select one minority group of women and report on the following:
■ One reproductive health concern ■ Obstacles women may encounter that would
prevent them from obtaining services
■ Potential solutions to this problem
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The Women’s Sexual Health Foundation http://www.twshf.org Focuses on medical treatment and provides a multidisciplinary approach to sexual problems and health.
Suggested Reading Boston Women’s Health Book Collective. (2011). Our bodies,
ourselves. New York: Touchstone. A thorough, accurate, and proactive women’s text covering a broad range of health and sexuality-related issues.
Brizendine, L. (2006). Th e female brain. New York: Broadway Books. An enlightening guide to the biological foundations of human behavior.
Diamond, L. M. (2008). Sexual fl uidity: Understanding women’s love and desire. Cambridge, MA: Harvard University Press. Off ers insight into the context-dependent nature of female sexuality.
Komisaruk, B. R., Whipple, B., Nasserzadeh, S., & Beyer-Flores, C. (2010). Th e orgasm answer guide. Baltimore, MD: Johns
Hopkins University Press. Provides a broad overview of women’s orgasm and men’s orgasm, their anatomy and physiology, and their connection to relationships and health.
Meston, C. M., & Buss, D. M. (2009). Why women have sex. New York: Henry Holt. Combines psychology and biology to help uncover women’s sexual motivations.
Ogden, G. (2006). Heart and soul of sex: Making the ISIS connection. Boston: Trumpter. Explores women’s sexual experiences, holistically and with academic rigor.
Wingood, G., & DiClemente, R. (Eds.). (2002). Handbook of women’s sexual and reproductive health. New York: Kluwer Academic/Plenum. A sourcebook for women’s sexuality.
For links, articles, and study material, go to the McGraw-Hill website, located at
www.mhhe.com/yarber8e.
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Male Sexual Physiology 113
Male Sexual Response 119
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Clearly, male sexual structures and functions diff er in many ways from those of females. What may not be as apparent, however, is that there are also a number of similarities in the functions of the sex organs and the sexual response patterns of men and women. In the previous chapter, we learned that the sexual structures of both females and males derive from the same embryonic tissue. But when this tissue receives the signals to begin diff erentiation into a male, the embryonic reproductive organs begin to change their appearance dramatically.
• Male Sex Organs: What Are They For? Like female sex organs, male sex organs serve several functions. In their repro- ductive role, a man’s sex organs manufacture and store gametes and can deliver them to a woman’s reproductive tract. Some of the organs, especially the penis, provide a source of physical pleasure for both the man and his partner.
External Structures
Th e external male sexual structures are the penis and the scrotum.
The Penis Th e penis (from the Latin word for tail) is the organ through which both sperm and urine pass. It is attached to the male perineum, the diamond-shaped region extending from the base of the scrotum to the anus. Th e penis consists of three main sections: the root, the shaft, and the head (see Figure 4.1). Th e root attaches the penis within the pelvic cavity; the body of the penis, the shaft, hangs free. At the end of the shaft is the head of the penis, the glans penis, and at its tip is the urethral orifi ce, for semen ejacula- tion or urine excretion. Th e rim at the base of the glans is known as the corona (Spanish for crown). On the underside of the penis is a triangular area of sensitive skin called the frenulum (FREN-you-lem), which attaches the glans to the foreskin. Th e glans penis is particularly important in sexual arousal
“Of course the media played a huge role in my sexual identity. It seemed everything in the media revolved around sex when I was young. Magazines such as Playboy and
Penthouse off ered pictures of nude female bodies, while more hard-core media such as Hustler off ered a fi rst look at pene- tration and a man’s penis. Hustler magazine was a big step for me in my childhood; it gave me my fi rst look at another man’s erect penis and a fi rst look at actual intercourse. This was like the bible of sex to me; it showed what to do with the penis, how it fi t into the vagina, and gave me a scale by which I could measure my own penis up to.”
—23-year-old male
“I noticed while talking among my friends about sex that exaggeration was common. Far-fetched stories were frequent and easily spotted based on the frequency and lack of details. At a certain point, I tried separating what I thought were the lies from the truth so that I could get a better understanding of what men did. Later, I found myself occasionally inserting their lies into the stories I shared with my friends.”
—24-year-old male
“In the meantime, I was going through some physical changes. That summer, I worked hard to try to make the varsity soccer team. I was growing, putting on weight, and I was ‘breaking out.’ When school resumed that fall, I returned a diff erent person. Now, instead of being that cute little kid that no one could resist, I became this average-looking teenager with acne. The acne was one factor that aff ected my life more than anything.”
—21-year-old male
Student Voices
Behold—the penis mightier than the sword.
—Mark Twain (1835–1910)
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because it contains a relatively high concentration of nerve endings, making it especially responsive to stimulation. A loose skin covers the shaft of the penis and extends to cover the glans penis; this sleevelike covering is known as the foreskin or prepuce (PREE- pews). It can be pulled back easily to expose the glans. Th e foreskin of a male infant can sometimes be surgically removed by a procedure called circumci- sion. As a result of this procedure, the glans penis is left exposed. Th e reasons for circumcision seem to be rooted more in tradition and religious beliefs (it is an important ritual in Judaism and Islam) than in any fi rmly established health principles. Beneath the foreskin are several small glands that produce a cheesy substance called smegma. If smegma accumulates, it thickens, produces a foul odor, and can become granular and irritate the penis, causing discomfort and infection. It is important for uncircumcised adult males to observe good hygiene by periodically retracting the skin and washing the glans to remove the smegma. (For further discussion of circumcision, see Chapters 12, 13, and 15.) Th e shaft of the penis contains three parallel columns of erectile tissue. Th e two that extend along the front surface are known as the corpora cavernosa (KOR-por-a kav-er-NO-sa; cavernous bodies), and the third, which runs beneath them, is called the corpus spongiosum (KOR-pus spun-gee-OH-sum; spongy body), which also forms the glans (see Figure 4.2). At the root of the penis, the corpora cavernosa form the crura (KROO-ra), which are anchored by muscle to the pubic bone. Th e urethra, a tube that transports both urine and semen, runs from the bladder (where it expands to form the urethral bulb), through the spongy body, to the tip of the penis, where it opens to the outside. Inside the three chambers are a large number of blood vessels through which blood freely circulates when the penis is fl accid (relaxed). During sexual arousal, these vessels fi ll with blood and expand, causing the penis to become erect. (Sexual arousal, including erection, is discussed in greater detail later in the chapter.) In men, the urethra serves as the passageway for both urine and semen. Because the urinary opening is at the tip of the penis, it is vulnerable to injury and infection. Th e sensitive mucous membranes around the opening may be subject to abrasion and can provide an entrance into the body for infectious organisms. Condoms, properly used, can provide an eff ective barrier between this vulnerable area and potentially infectious secretions.
Shaft of
penis
Testes (in scrotum)
Glans
Urethral orifice
Circumcised Uncircumcised
Foreskin Corona
• FIGURE 4.1 External Male Sexual Structures
Corpus spongiosum
Penile urethra
Corpora cavernosa
(Top of penis)
Skin
• FIGURE 4.2 Cross Section of the Shaft of the Penis
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think about it
Man’s preoccupation with his “generative organ” extends far back into history and appears in diverse cultures all over the world. The penis is an almost universal symbol of power and fertility. It may also be a source of considerable pleasure and anxiety for the individuals who happen to possess one.
Power to the Penis
Earthenware fi gurines from ancient Peru, ink drawings from medieval Japan, painted walls in the villas of Pompeii—in the art and artifacts from every corner of the world, we fi nd a common theme: penises! And not just any old penises, but organs of such length, girth, and weight that they can barely be supported by their possessors. Whether as an object of worship or an object of jest, the giant penis has been (and continues to be) a symbol that holds deep cultural signifi cance, especially in societies in which men are dominant over women. Although it seems rea- sonable for the erect penis to be used as a symbol of love, or at least lust, many of its associations appear to be as an instrument of aggression and power. In New Guinea, Kiwai hunters pressed their penises against the trees from which they would make their harpoons, thereby ensuring the strength and straightness of their weapons. Maori warriors in New Zealand crawled under the legs of their chief so that the power of his penis would descend onto them (Strage, 1980). In many cultures, the penis has also represented fertility and prosperity. In India, large stone phalluses (lingams), associated with the Hindu god Shiva, are adorned with fl owers and propiti- ated with off erings. Ancient peoples as diverse as the Maya in Central America and the Egyptians in North Africa believed that the blood from the penises of their rulers was especially power- ful. Mayan kings ceremonially pierced their penises with stingray spines, and the pharaohs and high priests of Egypt underwent ritual circumcision. In other places, men have ritually off ered their semen to ensure a plentiful harvest.
“Phallic Phallacies”
It is interesting (but perhaps not surprising) that the responsi- bility of owning an instrument of great power can carry with it an equally great burden of anxiety. In some ways, the choice of the penis as a symbol of domination seems rather unwise. Any man can tell you that a penis can be disturbingly unreliable and appear to have a mind of its own. For men who are already inse- cure about their abilities on the job or in the bedroom, the penis can take on meanings quite beyond those of procreation,
The Penis: More Than Meets the Eye
elimination, or sensual pleasure. How can a man be expected to control his employees or his children when he can’t control the behavior of his own penis? As discussed in Chapter 2, Sigmund Freud believed that women are unconsciously jealous of men’s penises (penis envy). In reality, those who appear to suff er the most from penis envy are men, who indeed possess a penis but often seem to long for a bigger one. The idea that “the larger the penis, the more eff ec- tive the male in coital connection” is referred to by Masters and Johnson as a “phallic phallacy” (Masters & Johnson, 1966). Perhaps not surprising, girth, as opposed to length, has been judged as being more important to women in one study (Stulhofer, 2006). Another manifestation of penile anxiety, also named by Freud, is castration anxiety (see Chapter 2). This term is mislead- ing, for it does not describe what the actual fear is about. Castra- tion is the removal of the testes, but castration anxiety is fear of losing the penis. In China and other parts of Asia, there have been documented epidemics of koro (a Japanese term), the con- viction that one’s penis is shrinking and is going to disappear. Otherwise known as genital retraction syndrome, this malady has no physiological basis and appears to be most common in anxiety-prone men (Dzokoto & Adams, 2005). For his own psyche’s sake, as well as the sake of his partner and that of society, a man would do well to consider how his feelings about his penis and his masculinity aff ect his well- being. Additionally, he might consider learning that there is a wide variation in penis size—and understanding that he is in that range. At this point, we can only speculate, but perhaps there will come a time when men allow themselves to focus less on the size and performance of their “equipment” and more on acceptance, communication, and the mutual sharing of pleasure.
Think Critically 1. What type of symbolism, if any, do you attribute to
the penis? 2. How would you describe the signifi cance of the penis
in U.S. culture to a person from another culture? 3. Do you feel that men’s preoccupation with their penis
size is comparable to a preoccupation of women with their breast size? Explain.
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In an unaroused state, the average penis is slightly under 3 inches long, although there is a great deal of individual variation. When erect, penises become more uniform in size, as the percentage of volume increase is greater with smaller penises than with larger ones. Cold air or water, fear, and anxiety, for example, often cause the penis to temporarily be pulled closer to the body and to decrease in size. When the penis is erect, the urinary duct is temporar- ily blocked, allowing for the ejaculation of semen. But erection does not neces- sarily mean sexual excitement. A man may have erections at night during REM sleep, the phase of the sleep cycle when dreaming occurs, or when he is anxious. Myths and misconceptions about the penis abound, especially among men. Many people believe that the size of a man’s penis is directly related to his masculinity, aggressiveness, sexual ability, or sexual attractiveness. Others believe that there is a relationship between the size of a man’s penis and the size of his hands, feet, thumbs, or nose. In fact, the size of the penis is not specifi cally related to body size or weight, muscular structure, race or ethnicity, or sexual orientation; it is determined by individual hereditary factors. Except in very rare and extreme cases, there is no relationship between penis size and a man’s ability to have sexual intercourse or to satisfy his partner.
The Scrotum Hanging loosely at the root of the penis is the scrotum, a pouch of skin that holds the two testicles. Th e skin of the scrotum is more heavily pigmented than the skin elsewhere on the body; it is sparsely covered with hair and divided in the middle by a ridge of skin. Th e skin of the scrotum varies in appearance under diff erent conditions. When a man is sexually aroused, for example, or when he is cold, the testicles are pulled close to the body, causing the skin to wrinkle and become more compact. Th e changes in the surface of the scrotum help maintain a fairly constant temperature within the testicles (about 93�F). Two sets of muscles control these changes: (1) the dartos muscle, a smooth muscle under the skin that contracts and causes the surface to wrinkle, and (2) the fi brous cremaster muscle within the scrotal sac that causes the testes to elevate.
There is nothing about which men lie so much as about their sexual powers. In
this at least every man is, what in his heart he would like to be, a Casanova.
—W. Somerset Maugham (1874–1965)
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There is great variation in the appearance, size, and shape of the male genitalia. Note that the penis on the left is not circumcised, whereas the other two are.
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Internal Structures
Male internal reproductive organs and structures include the testes (testicles), seminiferous tubules, epididymis, vas deferens, ejaculatory ducts, seminal vesi- cles, prostate gland, and Cowper’s (bulbourethral) glands (see Figure 4.3).
The Testes Inside the scrotum are the male reproductive glands or gonads, which are called testicles or testes (singular, testis). Th e testes have two major functions: sperm production and hormone production. Each olive-shaped testis is about 1.5 inches long and 1 inch in diameter and weighs about 1 ounce; in adulthood and as a male ages, the testes decrease in size and weight. Th e testicles are usually not symmetrical; the left testicle generally hangs slightly lower than the right one. Within the scrotal sac, each testicle is suspended by a spermatic cord containing nerves, blood vessels, and a vas deferens (see Figure 4.4). Within each testicle are around 1,000 seminiferous tubules, tiny, tightly compressed tubes 1–3 feet long (they would extend several hundred yards if laid end to end). Within these tubes, spermatogenesis—the production of sperm—takes place. As a male fetus grows, the testicles develop within the pelvic cavity; toward the end of the gestation period, the testes usually descend into the scrotum. In about 3–4% of full-term infants and more commonly in premature infants, one or both of the testes fail to descend, a condition known as cryptorchidism, or undescended testicle (“Undescended Testicle,” 2009). In most cases, the testicles will descend by the time a child is 9 months old. If they do not, surgery is often recommended because bringing the testicles into the scrotum maximizes sperm production and increases the odds of fertility. It also allows examination for early detection of testicular cancer.
The Epididymis and Vas Deferens Th e epididymis and vas deferens (or ductus deferens) are the ducts that carry sperm from the testicles to the urethra for ejacu- lation. Th e seminiferous tubules merge to form the epididymis (ep-e-DID-i-mes),
Nowhere does one read of a penis that quietly moseyed out for a look at what
was going on before springing and crashing into action.
—Bernie Zilbergeld (1939–2002)
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Bladder
Pubic bone
Vas deferens
Corpus spongiosum
Corpus cavernosum
Penis
Urethral orifice
Urethra
Glans penis
Seminal vesicle Ureter
Ampulla
Rectum
Ejaculatory duct
Prostate gland
Cowper’s gland (Bulbourethral gland)
AnusSpermatic cord
Epididymis
Testis
Scrotum
• FIGURE 4.3 Internal Side View of the Male Sex Organs
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a comma-shaped structure consisting of a coiled tube about 20 feet long, where the sperm fi nally mature. Each epididymis merges into a vas deferens, a tube about 18 inches long, extending into the abdominal cavity, over the bladder, and then downward, widening into the fl ask-shaped ampulla. Th e vas deferens joins the ejaculatory duct within the prostate gland. Th e vas deferens can be felt easily in the scrotal sac. Because it is easily accessible and is crucial for sperm transport, it is usually the point of sterilization for men. Th e operation is called a vasectomy (discussed fully in Chapter 11). A vasectomy does not aff ect the libido or the ability to ejaculate because only the sperm are transported through the vas defer- ens. Most of the semen that is ejaculated comes from the prostate gland and the seminal vesicles.
The Seminal Vesicles, Prostate Gland, and Cowper’s Glands At the back of the bladder lie two glands, each about the size and shape of a fi nger. Th ese seminal vesicles secrete a fl uid that makes up about 60% of the seminal fl uid. Encircling the urethra just below the bladder is a small muscular gland about the size and shape of a chestnut called the prostate gland, which produces about 30–35% of the seminal fl uid in the ejaculated semen. Th ese secretions fl ow into the urethra through a system of tiny ducts. Some men who enjoy receiving anal sex experience erotic sensations when the prostate is gently stroked; others fi nd that contact with the prostate is uncomfortable. Men, especially if they are older, may be troubled by a variety of prostate problems, ranging from relatively benign conditions to more serious infl ammations and prostate cancer. (Problems and diseases of the prostate are covered in Chapter 13.) Below the prostate gland are two pea-sized glands connected to the urethra by tiny ducts. Th ese are Cowper’s or bulbourethral (bul-bo-you-REE-thrul) glands, which secrete a thick, clear mucus prior to ejaculation, the process by which semen is forcefully expelled from the penis. Th is fl uid may appear at the tip of the erect penis; its alkaline content may help buff er the acidity within the urethra and provide a more hospitable environment for sperm. Fluid from the Cowper’s glands may contain sperm that have remained in the urethra since
My brain. It’s my second favorite organ.
—Woody Allen (1935–)
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Vas deferens
Body of epididymis
Seminiferous tubules
Leydig or interstitial cells
Tail of epididymis
Head of epididymis
Outer layer of testis
Spermatic cord • FIGURE 4.4 Cross Section of a Testicle
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a previous ejaculation or that have leaked in from the ampullae. Consequently, it is possible for a pregnancy to occur from residual sperm even if the penis is withdrawn before ejaculation.
The Breasts and Anus
Male anatomical structures that do not serve a reproductive function but that may be involved in or aff ected by sexual activities include the breasts, urethra, buttocks, rectum, and anus. Although the male breast contains the same basic structures as the female breast—nipple, areola, fat, and glandular tissue—the amounts of underlying fatty and glandular tissues are much smaller in men. Our culture appears to be ambiv- alent about the erotic function of men’s breasts, but it does appear to place emphasis on their appearance. We usually do not even call them breasts, but refer to the general area as the chest or “pecs.” Some men fi nd stimulation of their nipples to be sexually arousing; others do not. Gynecomastia (gine-a-ko-MAS-tee-a), the swelling or enlargement of the male breast, is triggered by a decrease in the amount of testosterone compared with estrogen. Th is condition can occur during adolescence or adulthood. In puberty, gynecomastia is a normal response to hor- monal changes (see Chapter 6). In adulthood, its prevalence peaks again between the ages of 50 and 80 and aff ects at least one in four men. Its causes may include the use of certain medications, alcoholism, liver or thyroid disease, and cancer. Probably not surprising in this perfection-driven society is the rise in pectoral implants among men who wish to have sculpted chests. Th ough still a niche market, some men are fi nding these semisolid silicon implants to be a confi dence booster. Th e risks of the procedure are similar to those of female implant proce- dures (migration, infection, loss of feelings around the nipple). An organ used primarily for excretion, the anus can also be used by both men and women during sexual activity. Because the anus is kept tightly closed by the external and internal anal sphincters, most of the erotic sensation that occurs during anal sex is derived from the penetration of the anal opening. Beyond the sphincters lies a larger space, the rectum. In men, the prostate gland is located in front of the rectum, and stimulation of this and nearby structures
The penis is a prominent symbol in both ancient and modern art. Here we see a contemporary phallic sculpture in Frogner Park, Oslo, Norway, and a stone lingam from Thailand.
Male breasts, which are usually referred to euphemistically as “the chest” or “pecs,” may or may not be considered erotic areas. Men are allowed to display their breasts in certain public settings. Whether the sight is sexually arousing depends on the viewer and the context.
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can be very pleasing. Because the anus and rectum do not provide signifi cant amounts of lubrication, most people use some sort of water-based lubricant for penetrative sexual activity. Both men and women may enjoy oral stimulation of the anus (“rimming”); the insertion of fi ngers, a hand (“fi sting”), a dildo, or a penis into the rectum may bring erotic pleasure to both the receiver and the giver. (Anal sex is discussed more fully in Chapter 9; safer sex guidelines appear in Chapter 15. Table 4.1 provides a summary of male sexual anatomy.)
• Male Sexual Physiology Th e reproductive processes of the male body include the manufacture of hor- mones and the production and delivery of sperm. Although men do not have a monthly reproductive cycle comparable to that of women, they do experience regular fl uctuations of hormone levels; there is also some evidence that men’s moods follow a cyclical pattern.
TABLE 4.1 • Summary Table of Male Sexual Anatomy
External Structures
Penis Organ through which both sperm and urine pass
Root of penis Attaches the penis within the pelvic cavity
Shaft Body of the penis that hangs free
Glans penis Enlarged head of the penis
Corona Rim at the base of the glans
Frenulum A triangular area of sensitive skin that attaches the glans to the foreskin
Foreskin (prepuce) Loose skin or sleevelike covering of the glans. The removal of the foreskin in male infants is called circumcision.
Corpora cavernosa Two parallel columns of erectile tissue that extend along the front surface of the penis
Corpus spongiosum One of three parallel columns of erectile tissue that runs beneath the corpora cavernosa, surrounds the urethra, and forms the glans
Crura Root of the penis that is anchored by muscle to the pubic bone
Urethra Tube that transports both urine and semen and runs from the bladder
Scrotum Pouch of loose skin that holds the two testicles
Internal Structures
Testes (testicles) Male reproductive glands or gonads whose major functions are sperm and hormone production
Spermatic cord Located within the scrotal sac; suspends each testicle and contains nerves, blood vessels, and a vas deferens
Seminiferous tubules Tiny, highly compressed tubes where the production of sperm takes place
Epididymis Merged from the seminiferous tubules, a comma-shaped structure where the sperm mature
Vas deferens A tube that extends into the abdominal cavity and carries the sperm from the testicles to the urethra for ejaculation
Ampulla Widened section of the vas deferens
Ejaculatory duct One of two structures within the prostate gland connecting to the vas deferens
Seminal vesicle One of two glands at the back of the bladder that together secrete about 60% of the seminal fl uid
Prostate gland Produces about 30–35% of the seminal fl uid in the ejaculated semen
Cowper’s glands Also called bulbourethral glands; secrete a clear, thick, alkaline mucus prior to ejaculation
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Sex Hormones
Within the connective tissues of a man’s testes are Leydig cells (also called interstitial cells), which secrete androgens (male hormones). Th e most impor- tant of these is testosterone, which triggers sperm production and regulates the sex drive. Other important hormones in male reproductive physiology are GnRH, FSH, and LH. In addition, men produce the protein hormone inhibin, oxytocin, and small amounts of estrogen. (Table 4.2 describes the principal hormones involved in sperm production and their functions.)
Testosterone Testosterone is a steroid hormone synthesized from cholesterol. Tes- tosterone is made by both sexes—by women mostly in the adrenal glands (located above the kidneys) and ovaries and by men primarily in the testes. Furthermore, the brain converts testosterone to estradiol (a female hormone). Th is fl exibility of the hormone makes the link between testosterone and behavior precarious. During puberty, besides acting on the seminiferous tubules to produce sperm, testosterone targets other areas of the body. It causes the penis, testicles, and other reproductive organs to grow and is responsible for the development of secondary sex characteristics, those changes to parts of the body other than the genitals that indicate sexual maturity. In men, these changes include the growth of pubic, facial, underarm, and other body hair and the deepening of the voice. (In women, estrogen and progesterone combine to develop secondary sex characteristics such as breast development, growth of pubic and underarm hair, and the onset of vaginal mucous secretions.) Testosterone also infl uences the growth of bones and increase of muscle mass and causes the skin to thicken and become oilier (leading to acne in many teenage boys). Th ough numerous studies have attempted to understand the impact of tes- tosterone on personality, fi ndings are mixed. What complicates the research is the fact that testosterone levels vary according to what specifi c components of the hormone testosterone were measured and the fact that levels are rarely stable; they appear to respond positively or negatively to almost every challenge, and not necessarily in a way we might predict. Consequently, if a man suspects he has a testosterone defi ciency, he would be wise to have his bioavailable testosterone levels assessed (“Low Testosterone,” 2009). Th e increasing research about testosterone and its derivatives, the anabolic- androgenic steroids, has fueled a market for those seeking anti-aging therapies,
Women say it’s not how much men have, but what we do with it. How many
things can we do with it? What is it, a Cuisinart? It’s got two speeds: forward and reverse.
—Richard Jeni (1957–2007)
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The sex organ has a poetic power, like a comet.
—Joan Miró (1893–1983)
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TABLE 4.2 • Male Reproductive Hormones
Hormone Where Produced Functions
Testosterone Testes, adrenal glands Stimulates sperm production in testes, triggers development of secondary sex characteristics, regulates sex drive
GnRH Hypothalamus Stimulates pituitary during sperm production
FSH Pituitary Stimulates sperm production in testes
ICSH (LH) Pituitary Stimulates testosterone production in interstitial cells within testes
Inhibin Testes Regulates sperm production by inhibiting release of FSH
Oxytocin Hypothalamus, testes Stimulates contractions in the internal reproductive organs to move the contents of the tubules forward; infl uences sexual response and emotional attraction
Relaxin Prostate Increases sperm motility
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desiring athletic bodies and performance, and feeling entitled to unfailing and lifelong sexual prowess and fulfi llment. Th e complex interaction of hormonal, psychological, situational, and physical factors that men experience with age can result in erectile problems, decreased bone density, heart disease, changes in moods, diffi culty in thinking, and weakness (National Institute on Aging, 2010a). (For further discussion about males and aging, see Chapter 7.) Some of these symptoms can be reversed with testosterone replacement therapy; however, research also indicates that those receiving testosterone replacement should be checked often for prostate cancer. Because of lack of solid evidence, testosterone replacement therapy is recommended only for those who prove to have a defi - ciency of testosterone, which is common among men with metabolic syndrome— a constellation of risk factors including abdominal fat, high blood sugar, and high blood-fat levels. (For a discussion of male menopause, see Chapter 7.)
practically speaking
Men’s sexual health is directly related to their general health (Lindau & Gavrilova, 2010). However, because men do not get pregnant or bear children, and because condoms are available without a prescription, men’s sexual and reproductive health needs are not as obvious as women’s and often are ig- nored. In recent years, however, such issues as the high incidence of HIV and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs), prevalence of sexual function problems, and concerns regarding the role of males in teenage pregnancies and births have begun to alter this trend. Clearly, a movement toward a holistic and broad-based ap- proach to sexual and reproductive health care for men is needed. Here are some facts you may or may not know about the sexual health of men (Guttmacher Institute, 2008a; Lindau & Gavrilova, 2010; Meuleman, 2011):
1. Only 5% of those who receive services by the Title X Family Planning Program are men.
2. Of those men aged 15–19 who had a physical exam in the past year, less than 20% received counseling or advice about birth control or STIs, including HIV.
3. Men lose more years of sexually active life as a result of poor health than do women.
4. Considered the most important threat of the twenty-fi rst cen- tury to male sexual health is a common medical condition as- sociated with abdominal obesity called metabolic syndrome (MetS).
From adolescence on, most men need information and refer- rals for their sexual and reproductive concerns. Unfortunately, health insurance often does not cover the services men need, and a high proportion of men, particularly low-income men, do
not have health insurance. Thus, there are signifi cant gaps be- tween needs and services. Furthermore, few health professionals are specifi cally trained to provide men with sexual and repro- ductive health education and services. Men’s reproductive health involves both their own well-being and their ability to engage in healthy, fulfi lling relationships. To achieve this, men need the following:
1. Information and education about contraceptive use, preg- nancy, and childbearing
2. Education about and access to routine screening and treat- ment for sexually transmitted infections
3. Information about where to obtain and how to use condoms correctly
4. Counseling and support regarding how to talk about these and other sexuality-related issues with partners
5. Surgical services for vasectomies, screening and treatment for reproductive cancers (particularly prostate and testicular can- cer), sexual problems, and infertility treatment
Additionally, skills development related to self-advocacy, risk as- sessment and avoidance, resistance to peer pressure, communi- cation with partners, fatherhood skills, and role expectations are both needed and desired. The complex relationships between poverty, high-risk behav- iors, and poor health outcomes are undeniable for both men and women. Helping men lead healthier sexual and reproduc- tive lives is a goal that is garnering attention and legitimacy. What is increasingly seen as good for men in their own right should turn out to be just as good for their partners—to the ultimate benefi t of society as a whole.
Sexual Health Care: What Do Men Need?
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Male Cycles Studies comparing men and women have found that both sexes are subject to changes in mood and behavior patterns (Lips, 2004). Whereas such changes in women are often attributed (rightly or wrongly) to menstrual cycle fl uctuations, it is not clear that male changes are related to levels of tes- tosterone or other hormones. Men do appear to undergo cyclic changes, although their testosterone levels do not fl uctuate as dramatically as do women’s estrogen and progesterone levels. On a daily basis, men’s testosterone levels appear to be lowest in the evening and highest in the morning (midnight to noon) (see Figure 4.5) (Winters et al., 2001). Moreover, their overall levels appear to be relatively lower in the spring and higher in the fall. Th roughout the night, specifi cally during REM sleep, men experience spon- taneous penile erections. (Women experience labial, vaginal, and clitoral engorgement.) Th ese erections are sometimes referred to as “battery-recharging mechanisms” for the penis, because they increase blood fl ow and bring fresh oxygen to the penis. Typically, men have penile engorgement during 95% of REM sleep stages (Komisaruk, Whipple, Nasserzadeh, & Beyer-Flores, 2010). If a man has erectile diffi culties while he is awake, it is important to determine whether he has normal erections during sleep. If so, his problems may have to do with something other than the physiology of erection. Approximately 90% of men and nearly 40% of women have ever experienced nocturnal orgasms; for men, these are often referred to as “wet dreams” (Kinsey, Pomeroy, & Martin, 1948; Wells, 1986).
Spermatogenesis
Within the testes, from puberty on, spermatogenesis, the production of sperm, is an ongoing process. Every day, a healthy, fertile man produces several hundred million sperm within the seminiferous tubules of his testicles (see Figure 4.6). After they are formed in the seminiferous tubules, which takes 64–72 days, immature sperm are stored in the epididymis. It then takes about 20 days for the sperm to travel the length of the epididymis, during which time they become fertile and motile (able to move) (see Figure 4.7). Upon ejaculation, sperm in the tail section of the epididymis are expelled by muscular contractions of its walls into the vas deferens; similar contractions within the vas deferens propel
Men always want to be a woman’s fi rst love—women like to be a man’s last
romance.
—Oscar Wilde (1854–1900)
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the sperm into the urethra, where they are mixed with semen, also called sem- inal fl uid, and then expelled, or ejaculated, through the urethral orifi ce. Th e sex of the zygote produced by the union of egg and sperm is determined by the chromosomes of the sperm. Th e ovum always contributes a female sex chromosome (X), whereas the sperm may contribute either a female or a male sex chromosome (Y). Th e combination of two X chromosomes (XX) means that the zygote will develop as a female; with an X and a Y chromosome (XY), it will develop as a male. In some cases, combinations of sex chromosomes other than XX or XY occur, causing sexual development to proceed diff erently. (Th ese variations are discussed in Chapter 5.)
Spermatogonium
Primary spermatocyte (46 chromosomes)
Secondary spermatocytes (23 chromosomes)
Spermatids (23 chromosomes)
Spermatozoa
Type A cell
Type B cell
Mitosis (16 days)
growth and differentiation
mitosis
meiosis
meiosismeiosis
Meiosis I (24 days)
Meiosis II (few hours)
• FIGURE 4.6 Spermatogenesis. This diagram shows the development of spermatozoa, beginning with a single spermatogonium and ending with four complete sperm cells. Spermatogenesis is an ongoing process that begins in puberty. Several hundred million sperm are produced every day within the seminiferous tubules of a healthy man.
• FIGURE 4.7 The Human Spermatozoon (Sperm Cell). The head contains the sperm’s nucleus, including the chromosomes, and is encased in the helmetlike acrosome.
Acrosome
Midpiece
Flagellum
(tail)
Head
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Semen Production
Semen, or seminal fl uid, is the ejaculated liquid that contains sperm. Th e func- tion of semen is to nourish sperm and provide them with a hospitable environ- ment and means of transport if they are deposited within the vagina. Semen is mainly made up of secretions from the seminal vesicles and prostate gland, which mix together in the urethra during ejaculation. Immediately after ejaculation, the semen is somewhat thick and sticky from clotting factors in the fl uid. Th is con- sistency keeps the sperm together initially; then the semen becomes liquefi ed, allowing the sperm to swim out. Semen ranges in color from opalescent or milky white to yellowish or grayish upon ejaculation, but it becomes clearer as it lique- fi es. Normally, about 2–6 milliliters (about 1 teaspoonful) of semen are ejaculated at one time; this amount of semen generally contains between 100 million and
practically speaking
The Male Body Image Self-Consciousness Scale was devel- oped to measure the extent to which one feels self- conscious about one’s body and physical features during sexual intimacy. Since body image is often an important com- ponent to a rewarding and fulfi lling sexual interaction with an- other person, this scale will help assess it. If you are a woman, you can also take this scale by inserting some of the vulnerable parts of your body into the questions and then responding appropri- ately. Think about someone with whom you are or have been ro- mantically or sexually intimate and indicate the most appropriate response next to each statement. The response format is:
1 � Strongly disagree 2 � Disagree 3 � Don’t know 4 � Agree 5 � Strongly agree
1. During sex, I would worry that my partner would think my chest is not muscular enough.
2. During sexual activity, it would be diffi cult not to think about how unattractive my body is.
3. During sex, I would worry that my partner would think my stomach is not muscular enough.
4. I would feel anxious receiving full-body massage from a partner.
5. The fi rst time I have sex with a new partner, I would worry that my partner would get turned off by seeing my body without clothes.
6. I would feel nervous if a partner were to explore by body be- fore or after having sex.
7. I would worry about the length of my erect penis during physically intimate situations.
8. During sex, I would prefer to be on the bottom so that my stomach appears fl at.
9. The worst part of having sex is being nude in front of another person.
10. I would feel embarrassed about the size of my testicles if a partner were to see them.
11. I would have diffi culty taking a shower or bath with a partner.
12. During sexual activity, I would be concerned about how my body looks to a partner.
13. If a partner were to put a hand on my buttocks I would think, “My partner can feel my fat.”
14. During sexually intimate situations, I would be concerned that my partner thinks I am too fat.
15. I could feel comfortable enough to have sex only if it were dark so that my partner could not clearly see my body.
16. If a partner were to see me nude, I would be concerned about the overall muscularity of my body.
17. The idea of having sex without any covers over my body causes me anxiety.
Scoring
Add the scores to provide a total score (possible range is 17 to 85), with higher scores denoting greater levels of body image self-consciousness during physical intimacy.
Male Body Image Self-Consciousness Scale
SOURCE: McDonagh, L. K., Morrison, T. G., & McGuire, B. E. (2008). The naked truth: Development of a scale designed to measure male body image self- consciousness during physical intimacy. Journal of Men’s Studies, 16, 253–265. Reprinted by permission of the publisher.
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Homologous Organs Glans penis Glans clitoris
Penile prepuce (foreskin) Clitoral prepuce (hood) Corpus cavernosum of the penis Corpus cavernosum of the clitoris
Urethral surface of the penis Labia minora Prostate gland Skene‘s glands
Scrotum Labia majora Corpus spongiosum Vestibular bulbs
Glans penis
Penile prepuce (foreskin)
Corpus cavernosum of the penis
Prostate glandand
Scrotum
Corpus spongiosum
Glans clitoris
Clitoral prepuce (hood)
Labia majora
Labia minora
Skene’s glands (either side of urethra)
Corpus cavernosum of the clitoris
Vestibular bulbs (either side of the vaginal opening)
Urethral surface of the penis
• FIGURE 4.8 Homologous Structures of Males and Females. Note that males and females share many of the same structures since they developed from the same cells during fetal development.
Between 100 million and 600 million sperm are present in the semen from a single ejaculation. Typically, following ejaculation during intercourse, fewer than 1,000 sperm will get as far as a fallopian tube, where an ovulated oocyte may be present. Though many sperm assist in helping to dissolve the egg cell membrane, typically only one sperm ultimately achieves fertilization.
600 million sperm. In spite of their signifi cance, sperm occupy only about 1% of the total volume of semen; the remainder comes primarily from the seminal vesicles (70%) and the prostate gland (30%). Fewer than 1,000 sperm will reach the fallopian tubes. Most causes of male infertility are related to low sperm count and/or motility. When the sperm count is low and if the goal is implantation, the optimal frequency for intercourse with ejaculation is every other day. (For more information about infertility, see Chapter 12.)
Homologous Organs
Interestingly, each of the male sexual structures has a homologous structure, or similar characteristic, that is developed from the same cells in the developing female fetus. Th e presence of a Y chromosome in a male produces testosterone in greater amounts. Without this Y chromosome, the fetus would become a female. (See Figure 4.8 for the homologous structures of males and females.)
• Male Sexual Response At this point, it might be useful to review the material on sexual arousal and response in Chapter 3, including the models of Masters and Johnson, Kaplan, Loulan, and Janssen and Bancroft. Even though their sexual anatomy is quite diff erent, women and men follow roughly the same pattern of excitement and orgasm, with two exceptions: (1) Generally (but certainly not always), men become fully aroused and ready for penetration in a shorter amount of time
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than women do; and (2) once men experience ejaculation, they usually cannot do so again for some time, whereas women may experience repeated orgasms. Probably one of the most controversial topics in the fi eld of sexuality theory is whether sexual desire is shaped more by nature or culture. One recent study suggests that the most signifi cant predictor of sexual desire among men is the lack of erotic thoughts during sexual activity (Carvalho & Nobre, 2011). As suggested in Chapter 3, societal expectations, health, education, class, politics, and relational factors are thought to infl uence both men’s and women’s sexual desire and functioning. Combined, these infl uence sexual desire and response in profound ways. (See Chapter 14 for further discussion of sexual desire.) Sexual arousal in men includes the processes of myotonia (increased muscle tension) and vasocongestion (engorgement of the tissues with blood). Vasocon- gestion in men is most apparent in the erection of the penis.
Erection
When a male becomes aroused, the blood circulation within the penis changes dramatically (see Figure 4.9). During the process of erection, the blood vessels expand, increasing the volume of blood, especially within the corpora caver- nosa. At the same time, expansion of the penis compresses the veins that nor- mally carry blood out, so the penis becomes further engorged. (Th ere are no muscles in the penis that make it erect, nor is there a bone in it.) Secretions from the Cowper’s glands appear at the tip of the penis during erection.
Ejaculation and Orgasm
What triggers the events that lead to ejaculation are undetermined, but it appears that it may be the result of a critical level of excitation in the brain or spinal cord (Komisaruk, et al., 2010). Regardless, increasing stimulation of the penis generally leads to ejaculation. Orgasm occurs when the impulses that cause erection reach a critical point and a spinal refl ex sets off a massive dis- charge of nerve impulses to the ducts, glands, and muscles of the reproductive system. Ejaculation then occurs in two stages.
Emission In the fi rst stage, emission, contractions of the walls of the tail portion of the epididymis send sperm into the vasa deferentia (plural for vas deferens). Rhythmic contractions also occur in the vasa deferentia, ampullae, seminal vesicles, and ejaculatory ducts, which spill their contents into the urethra. Th e bladder’s sphincter muscle closes to prevent urine from mixing with the semen and semen from entering the bladder, and another sphincter below the prostate also closes, trapping the semen in the expanded urethral bulb. At this point, the man feels a distinct sensation of ejaculatory inevita- bility, the point at which ejaculation must occur even if stimulation ceases. Th ese events are accompanied by increased heart rate and respiration, elevated blood pressure, and general muscular tension. About 25% of men experience a sex fl ush.
Expulsion In the second stage of ejaculation, expulsion, there are rapid, rhythmic contractions of the urethra, the prostate, and the muscles at the base of the penis. Th e fi rst few contractions are the most forceful, causing semen to spurt from the urethral opening. Gradually, the intensity of the contractions decreases and the interval between them lengthens. Breathing rate and heart
Bring me to my bow of burning gold. Bring me my arrow of desire.
—William Blake (1757–1827)
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An erection at will is the moral equivalent of a valid credit card.
—Alex Comfort, MD (1920–2000)
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When the prick stands up, the brain goes to sleep.
—Yiddish proverb “
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(1) Excitement
(3) Orgasm
(2) Late Excitement or Plateau
Prostate enlarges
Color of penile glans deepens
Cowper’s gland secretion
Testes increase in size and are fully elevated
Scrotum thickens and tenses
Cowper’s gland activates
Internal sphincter of bladder contracts
Vas deferens contracts
Seminal vesicles contract
Prostate gland contracts
Rectal sphincter contracts
Penile contractions
Sperm and semen expelled by rhythmic contractions of urethra
Vasocongestion of penis results in erection
Partial erection
Unstimulated state
Testes elevate toward perineum
Skin of scrotum tenses, thickens, and elevates
(4) Resolution
Erection subsides
Unstimulated state
Testes descend
Scrotum thins, folds return
Loss of testicular congestion
rate may reach their peak at expulsion. When the sensations of orgasm were compared among college-age women and men, the only signifi cant gender dif- ference involved the “shooting” sensations reported by men. Th is variation most likely refl ects ejaculation (Mah & Binik, 2002). Some men experience retrograde ejaculation, the “backward” expulsion of semen into the bladder rather than out of the urethral opening. Th is unusual malfunctioning of the urethral sphincters may be temporary (e.g., induced by tranquilizers), but if it persists, the man should seek medical counsel to determine if there is an underlying problem. Retrograde ejacula- tion is not normally harmful; the semen is simply collected in the bladder and eliminated during urination.
• FIGURE 4.9 Masters and Johnson Stages in Male Sexual Response
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Orgasm Th e intensely pleasurable physical sensations and general release of tension that typically accompany ejaculation constitute the experience of orgasm. Orgasm is a series of muscular contractions of the pelvis that occurs at the height of sexual arousal. Orgasm does not always occur with ejaculation, however. It is possible to ejaculate without having an orgasm and to experience orgasm without ejaculating. Additionally, ejaculation and orgasm don’t necessarily require an erection. Some men have reported having more than one orgasm without ejaculation (“dry orgasm”) prior to a fi nal, ejaculatory, orgasm. Follow- ing ejaculation, men experience a refractory period, during which they are not capable of having an ejaculation again. Th is is the time in which nerves cannot respond to additional stimulation. Refractory periods vary greatly in length, ranging from a few minutes to many hours (or even days, in some older men). Other changes occur immediately following ejaculation. Th e erection diminishes as blood fl ow returns to normal, the sex fl ush (if there was one) disappears, and fairly heavy perspiration may occur. Men who experience intense sexual arousal without ejaculation may feel some heaviness or discomfort in the testicles; this is generally not as painful as the common term “blue balls” implies. If discom- fort persists, however, it may be relieved by a period of rest or by ejaculation. When the seminal vesicles are full, feedback mechanisms diminish the quantity of sperm produced. Excess sperm die and are absorbed by the body. For some men, the benefi ts of strengthening the muscles that surround the penis by doing what are called Kegel exercises can produce more intense orgasms and ejacula- tions. (For a description of Kegel exercises, see Chapter 14.)
When the appetite arises in the liver, the heart generates a spirit which descends
through the arteries, fi lls the hollow of the penis and makes it hard and stiff . The delightful movements of intercourse give warmth to all the members, and hence to the humor which is in the brain; this liquid is drawn through the veins which lead from behind the ears to the testicles and from them it is squirted by the penis into the vulva.
—Constantinus Africanus (c. 1070)
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practically speaking
The erection refl ex can be triggered by various sexual and nonsexual stimuli, including tactile stimulation (touching) of the penis or other erogenous areas; sights, smells, or sounds (usually words or sexual vocalizations); and emo- tions or thoughts. Even negative emotions such as fear can produce an erection. Conversely, emotions and thoughts can also inhibit erections, as can unpleasant or painful physical sen- sations. The erectile response is controlled by the parasympa- thetic nervous system, a component of the involuntary or “autonomic” nervous system, and therefore cannot be con- sciously willed. What can be regulated in some men is their sexual arousal (Winters, Christoff , & Gorzalka, 2009). This knowl- edge can provide some men with a sense of comfort and re- duce their vulnerability in precarious situations. The length of time an erection lasts varies greatly from indi- vidual to individual and from situation to situation. With experi- ence, most men are able to gauge the amount of stimulation that will either maintain the erection without causing orgasm or cause orgasm to occur too soon. Not attaining an erection when one is desired is something most men experience at one
time or another. (Erectile diffi culties are discussed further in Chapter 14.) There are, however, some things you can do to maximize your chances of producing viable erections. Because you need a steady fl ow of blood to your penis, you should get enough aerobic exercise and refrain from smoking to maintain your circulation. A diet low in fat and cholesterol and high in fi ber and complex carbohydrates may also prevent hardening of the arteries, which restricts blood fl ow. Also, learning to relax during sexual activity with a partner can help with erections. Some conditions, including diabetes, stress, depression, and abnormalities in blood pressure, and some medications that treat these conditions may have an adverse eff ect on blood fl ow and erectile capacity. If any of these conditions are present, or if the failure to attain an erection is persistent, see your physician. What can you do about unwanted erections at inappropri- ate times? Distract yourself or stop your thoughts or images. Remember, the brain is the most erotic (and unerotic) organ of the body.
Can an Erection Be Willed?
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In this chapter and the previous one, we have looked primarily at the physical char- acteristics that designate us as female or male. But, as we discover in the following chapter, there’s more to gender than mere chromosomes or reproductive organs. How we feel about our physical selves (our male or female anatomy) and how we act (our gender roles) also determine our identities as men or women.
Final Thoughts
Summary Male Sex Organs: What Are They For?
■ In their reproductive role, a man’s sex organs produce and store gametes and can deliver them to a woman’s reproductive tract. Th e penis is the organ through which both sperm and urine pass. Th e shaft of the penis contains two corpora cavernosa and a corpus spongiosum, which fi ll with blood during arousal, causing an erection. Th e head is called the glans penis; in uncircumcised men, it is covered by the foreskin. Myths about the penis equate its size with masculinity and sexual prowess. Th e scrotum is a pouch of skin that hangs at the root of the penis. It holds the testes.
■ Th e paired testes, or testicles, have two major func- tions: sperm production and hormone production. Within each testicle are about 1,000 seminiferous tubules, where the production of sperm takes place. Th e seminiferous tubules merge to form the epididy- mis, a coiled tube where the sperm fi nally mature, and each epididymis merges into a vas deferens, which joins the ejaculatory duct within the prostate gland. Th e semi- nal vesicles and prostate gland produce semen, or semi- nal fl uid, which nourishes and transports the sperm. Two tiny glands called Cowper’s or bulbourethral glands secrete a thick, clear mucus prior to ejaculation, whereby semen is forcefully expelled from the penis.
■ Male anatomical structures that do not serve a reproductive function but that may be involved in or aff ected by sexual activities include the breasts, urethra, buttocks, rectum, and anus.
Male Sexual Physiology
■ Th e reproductive processes of the male body include the manufacture of hormones and the production and delivery of sperm, the male gametes. Although men do
not have a monthly reproductive cycle comparable to that of women, they do experience regular fl uctuations of hormone levels; there is also some evidence that men’s moods follow a cyclical pattern. Th e most im- portant male hormone is testosterone, which triggers sperm production and regulates the sex drive. Other important hormones in male reproductive physiology are GnRH, FSH, LH, inhibin, and oxytocin.
■ Sperm carry either an X chromosome, which will produce a female zygote, or a Y chromosome, which will produce a male.
■ Semen is the ejaculated liquid that contains sperm. Th e function of semen is to nourish sperm and pro- vide them with a hospitable environment and means of transport if they are deposited within the vagina. It is mainly made up of secretions from the seminal vesicles and prostate gland. Th e semen from a single ejaculation generally contains between 100 million and 600 million sperm, yet only about 1,000 make it to the fallopian tubes.
Male Sexual Response
■ Male sexual response, like that of females, involves the processes of vasocongestion and myotonia. Erection of the penis occurs when sexual or tactile stimuli cause its chambers to become engorged with blood. Continuing stimulation leads to ejaculation, which occurs in two stages. In the fi rst stage, emission, semen mixes with sperm in the urethral bulb. In the second stage, expul- sion, semen is forcibly expelled from the penis. Ejacula- tion and orgasm, a series of contractions of the pelvic muscles occurring at the height of sexual arousal, typi- cally happen simultaneously. However, they can also occur separately. Following orgasm is a refractory period, during which ejaculation is not possible.
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Questions for Discussion ■ Make a list of anything you have heard about
men’s sexuality. Identify the myths and compare them with information from the text.
■ If you had a son, would you get him circumcised? Why or why not? Do you think that the decision to circumcise a boy should be postponed until the child is old enough to decide for himself?
■ Do you believe that men have cycles, similar to women’s menstrual cycles? If so, what might contribute to this phenomena? If not, why not?
Male Health Center http://www.malehealthcenter.com Provides information on a wide variety of issues related to male genital health, birth control, and sexual functioning, from the male perspective.
Men’s Health Resource Guide http://www.menshealth.com A resource guide from Men’s Health magazine that off ers links to many topics in men’s health and to discussions of relationship and family issues.
National Organization of Circumcision Information Resource Centers http://www.nocirc.org Contains information and resources about male and female circumcision.
WebMD men.webmd.com/default.htm Focuses on popular men’s health topics.
Suggested Reading Friedman, D. (2003). A mind of its own: A cultural history of the
penis. New York: Free Press.
Hoberman, J. (2005). Testosterone dreams: Rejuvenation, aphrodisia, doping. Berkeley: University of California Press. Investigates the history of synthetic testosterone and other male hormone therapies and their implications and dangers.
McCarthy, B., & Metz, M. E. (2008). Men’s sexual health: Fitness for satisfying sex. New York: Routledge. Aimed to help men and women overcome sexual problems with the goal of greater acceptance and satisfaction.
McLaren, A. (2007). Impotence: A cultural history. Chicago: University of Chicago Press. By investigating the history of impotence, the author reveals the enormous pains a culture and society take in goading men in the painful pursuit of what is normal and natural.
Peate, I. (2005). Men’s sexual health. New York: Wiley. For nurses and others who need to consider the often complex sexual health-care needs of men.
Zilbergeld, B. (1999). Th e new male sexuality (Rev. ed.). New York: Bantam Books. An explanation of both male and female anatomy and sexual response, plus communication, sexual problem solving, and much more; authoritative, interesting, and readable; written for men (but recommended for women as well).
Sex and the Internet Men’s Sexuality Try to locate Internet sites about men’s sexuality. You’ll fi nd that, apart from those relating to erectile dysfunction, AIDS, and sexually explicit materials, few sites address this topic. What does this say about men? About the topic of men and sexuality? Because of this absence of content- specifi c sites, it is necessary to search a broader topic: men’s health. Go to the Men’s Health Network (http:// www.menshealthnetwork.org) and, in the Library section, scroll down to one of the health links. If you don’t fi nd a topic there that interests you, go to “Links” and search for a relevant subject. When you fi nd a topic that interests you, see if you can fi nd the following:
■ Background information about the topic ■ The incidence or prevalence of the issue/problem ■ Whom it impacts or aff ects ■ The causes and potential solutions ■ A related link that might broaden your understand-
ing of this topic
Last, what recommendation might you make to someone who identifi ed with this issue?
Suggested Websites American Urological Association http://auanet.org Provides a variety of information on adult sexual functioning and infertility.
For links, articles, and study material, go to the McGraw-Hill website, located at
www.mhhe.com/yarber8e.
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How can we tell the diff erence between a man and a woman? Everyone knows that women and men, at a basic level, are distinguished by their genitals. However, as accurate as this answer may be academically, it is not particularly useful in social situations. In most social situations—except in nud- ist colonies or while sunbathing au naturel—our genitals are not visible to the casual observer. We do not expose ourselves (or ask another person to do so) for gender verifi cation. We are more likely to rely on secondary sex characteris- tics, such as breasts and body hair, or on bone structure, musculature, and height. But even these characteristics are not always reliable, given the great variety of shapes and sizes we come in as human beings. And from farther away than a few yards, we cannot always distinguish these characteristics. Instead of relying entirely on physical characteristics to identify individuals as male and female, we often look for other clues. Culture provides us with an important clue for recognizing whether a person is female or male in most situations: dress. In almost all cultures, male and female clothing diff ers to varying degrees so that we can easily identify a per- son’s gender. Some cultures, such as our own, may accentuate secondary sex characteristics, especially for females. Traditional feminine clothing, for exam- ple, emphasizes a woman’s gender: dress or skirt, a form-fi tting or low-cut top revealing cleavage, high heels, and so on. Most clothing, in fact, that emphasizes or exaggerates secondary sex characteristics is female. Makeup (lipstick, mas- cara, eyeliner) and hairstyles also serve to mark or exaggerate the diff erences between females and males. Even smells (perfume for women, cologne for men) and colors (blue for boys, pink for girls) help distinguish females and males. Clothing and other aspects of appearance further exaggerate the physical diff erences between women and men. And culture encourages us to accentuate
There is no essential sexuality. Maleness and femaleness are something we are
dressed in.
—Naomi Wallace (1960–)
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“As early as pre- school I learned the diff erence between boy and girl toys, games, and colors. The boys played with trucks while the girls played with dolls. If a boy were to play with a doll,
he would be laughed at and even teased. In the make-believe area, once again, you have limitations of your dreams. Girls could not be police, truck drivers, fi refi ghters, or construction workers. We had to be people that were cute, such as models, housewives, dancers, or nurses. We would sometimes model ourselves after our parents or family members.”
—23-year-old female
“I grew up with the question of ‘why?’ dangling from the tip of my tongue. Why am I supposed to marry a certain person? Why do I have to learn how to cook meat for my husband when I am a vegetarian? Why can’t I go out on dates or to school formals? The answer was the same every time:
‘Because you’re a girl.’ Being that she is such a strong woman, I know it tore a bit of my grandmother’s heart every time she had to say it.”
—19-year-old female
“My stepfather and I did not get along. I viewed him as an out- sider, and I did not want a replacement father. Looking back, I feel like I overcompensated for the lack of a male fi gure in my life. I enlisted in the Navy at 18, have a huge fi rearm collection, and play ice hockey on the weekends. All of these activities seem to be macho, even to me. I guess it’s to prove that even though a woman raised me I’m still a man’s man.”
—27-year-old male
“I was in fi fth grade, and my parents put me on restriction. My mom inquired where I got the [Playboy] magazine. I told her we found it on the way home from school. She wanted to know where. I lied and said it was just sitting in somebody’s trashcan and I happened to see it. She wanted to know where. I said I forgot. My sexual identity was being founded on con- cealment, repression, and lies. Within my family, my sexual identity was repressed.”
—27-year-old male
Student Voices
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(or invent) psychological, emotional, mental, and behavioral diff erences. But what happens when these lines are blurred, especially in young children who defy gender norms? Should parents and their doctors be permitted to block puberty medically in order to buy time and fi gure out who these children are? While a biological understanding of gender identity remains somewhat of a mystery, medical, ethical, and parental maps are being created to respond to the growing number of individuals who see gender variance as a normal phenomenon rather than a disorder. In this chapter, we examine some of the critical ways being male or female aff ects us both as human beings and as sexual beings. We look at the connec- tion between our genitals, our identity as female, male, or intersex, and our feelings of being feminine, masculine, or other. We also examine the relation- ship between femininity, masculinity, and sexual orientation. Th en we discuss how masculine and feminine traits result from both biological and social infl u- ences. Next, we focus on theories of socialization and how we learn to act masculine and feminine in our culture. Th en we look at traditional, contem- porary, and androgynous gender roles. Finally, we examine gender variations: disorders of sexual diff erentiation/intersex, gender identity disorder, and transsexuality—phenomena that involve complex issues pertaining to gender, gender variance, and gender identity.
• Studying Gender and Gender Roles Let’s start by defi ning some key terms, to establish a common terminology. Keeping these defi nitions in mind will make the discussion clearer.
Sex, Gender, and Gender Roles: What’s the Diff erence?
Th e word sex refers to whether one is biologically female or male, based on genetic and anatomical sex. Genetic sex refers to one’s chromosomal and hor- monal sex characteristics, such as whether one’s chromosomes are XY or XX or something else and whether estrogen or testosterone dominates the hormonal system. Anatomical sex refers to physical sex: gonads, uterus, vulva, vagina, penis, and so on. Although “sex” and “gender” are often used interchangeably, gender is not the same as biological sex. As noted in Chapters 1 and 3, gender relates to femininity or masculinity, the social and cultural characteristics associated with biological sex. Whereas sex is rooted in biology, gender is rooted in culture. Assigned gender is the gender given by others, usually at birth. When a baby is born, someone looks at the genitals and exclaims, “It’s a boy!” or “It’s a girl!” With that single utterance, the baby is transformed from an “it” into a “male” or a “female.” Gender identity is a person’s internal sense of being male or female. Gender roles are the attitudes, behaviors, rights, and responsibilities that particular cultural groups associate with each sex. Age, race, and a variety of other factors further defi ne and infl uence these. Th e term “gender role” is gradually replacing the traditional term “sex role” because “sex role” continues to suggest a connection between biological sex and behavior. Biological males are expected to act out masculine gender roles; biological females are expected to act out feminine gender roles. A gender-role stereotype is a rigidly held, oversimplifi ed, and overgeneralized belief about how each gender should behave.
Whatever women do they must do twice as well as men to be thought half
as good. Luckily, this is not diffi cult.
—Charlotte Whitton (1896–1975)
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Stereotypes tend to be false or misleading, not only for the group as a whole (e.g., women are more interested in relationships than sex) but also for any individual in the group (e.g., Peter may be more interested in sex than relation- ships). Even if a generalization is statistically valid in describing a group average (e.g., males are generally taller than females), such generalizations do not nec- essarily predict the facts (e.g., whether Roberto will be taller than Andrea). Gender-role attitude refers to the beliefs a person has about him- or herself and others regarding appropriate female and male personality traits and activi- ties. Gender-role behavior refers to the actual activities or behaviors a person engages in as a female or a male. Gender presentation, either through gestures or personality, is what is perceived by others.
Sex and Gender Identity
We develop our gender through the interaction of its biological, cultural, and psychosocial components. Th e biological component includes genetic and ana- tomical sex; the cultural component creates gender distinctions; the psycho- social component includes assigned gender and gender identity. Because these dimensions are learned together, they may seem to be natural. For example, if a person looks like a girl (biological), believes she should be feminine (cultural), feels as if she is a girl (psychological), and acts like a girl (social), then her gender identity and role are congruent with her anatomical sex. Our culture emphasizes that there are only two genders and that there should be coherence among the biological, social, cultural, and psychological dimensions of each gender. Deviations, still often stigmatized, are now being reexamined, evalu- ated, and viewed as gender variations. Th ose individuals who cannot or choose not to conform to societal gender norms associated with their biological sex are gender variant. Other terms for this variation include gender atypical behav- ior, gender identity disorder, or gender dysphoria. Many experts are now fi nd- ing that molding a child’s gender identity is not as important as allowing them to be who they are and accepting that person, regardless of what their genitals may tell them (Brown, 2006).
The interaction of biological, cultural, and psychosocial factors contributes to the development of gender.
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Assigned Gender When we are born, we are assigned a gender based on anatomical appearance. Assigned gender is signifi cant because it tells others how to respond to us. As youngsters, we have no sense of ourselves as female or male. We learn that we are a girl or a boy from the verbal responses of others. “What a pretty girl ” or “What a good boy,” our parents and others say. We are constantly given signals about our gender. Our birth certifi cate states our sex; our name, such as Jarrod or Felicia, is most likely gender-coded. Our clothes, even in infancy, reveal our gender. By the time we are 2 years old, we are probably able to identify ourself as a girl or a boy based on what we have internalized from what others have told us coupled with factors not yet understood. We might also be able to identify strangers as “mommies” or “daddies.” But we don’t really know why we are a girl or a boy. We don’t associate our gender with our genitals. In fact, until the age of 3 or so, most children identify girls or boys by hairstyles, clothing, or other nonanatomical signs. At around age 3, we begin to learn that the genitals are what make a person male or female. By age 4 or 5, children have learned a wide array of social stereotypes about how boys and girls should behave. Consequently, they tend to react approvingly or disapprovingly toward each other according to their choice of sex-appropriate play patterns and toys. Fixed ideas about adult roles and careers are also estab- lished by this time.
Gender Identity By about age 2, we internalize and identify with our gender. We think we are a girl or a boy. Th is feeling of our femaleness or maleness is our gender identity. For most people, gender identity is permanent and is congruent with their sexual anatomy and assigned gender. Some cultures recognize that sex and gender are not always divided along binary lines, such as male and female or homosexual and heterosexual (World Health Organization [WHO], 2011b). In some East African societies, for exam- ple, a male child is referred to as a “woman-child”; there are few social diff er- ences between young boys and girls. Around age 7, the boy undergoes male initiation rites, such as circumcision, whose avowed purpose is to “make” him into a man. Such ceremonies may serve as a kind of “brainwashing,” helping the young male make the transition to a new gender identity with new role expectations. Other cultures allow older males to act out a latent female iden- tity with such practices as the couvade, in which husbands mimic their wives giving birth. And in our own society, into the early twentieth century, boys were dressed in gowns and wore their hair in long curls until age 2. At age 2
Roles came with costumes and speeches and stage directions. In a role, we don’t
have to think.
—Ellen Goodman (1948–)
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Although strangers can’t always readily tell the sex of a baby, once they learn the sex, they often respond with gender stereotypes and expectations.
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or 3, their dresses were replaced by pants, their hair was cut, and children were socialized to conform to their anatomical sex. Children who deviated from this expected conformity were referred to as sissies (boys) or tomboys (girls) and ridiculed to conform to gender stereotypes. More recently, a new brand of thinking supported by advocates of gender-identity rights has sparked debate among professionals over how to best counsel families whose child does not conform to gender norms in either clothing or behavior and has identifi ed intensely with the other sex. Transgender is currently the umbrella term for those who do not conform to traditional notions of gender expression.
Masculinity and Femininity: Opposites or Similar?
Each culture determines the content of gender roles in its own way; however, cultural norms fl uctuate and change with time and across cultures. Among the Arapesh of New Guinea, for example, members of both sexes possess what we consider feminine traits. Both men and women tend to be passive, coop- erative, peaceful, and nurturing. Th e father as well as the mother is said to “bear a child”; only the father’s continual care can make the child grow health- ily, both in the womb and in childhood. Eighty miles away, the Mundugumor live in remarkable contrast to the peaceful Arapesh. “Both men and women,” Margaret Mead (1975) observed, “are expected to be violent, competitive, aggressively sexed, jealous, and ready to see and avenge insult, delighting in display, in action, in fi ghting.” Biology creates males and females, but it is culture that creates our concepts of masculinity and femininity and its inher- ent fl uidity and complexity. In the traditional Western view of masculinity and femininity, men and women are seen as polar opposites. Our popular terminology, in fact, refl ects this view. Women and men refer to each other as the “opposite sex.” But this implies that women and men are indeed opposites, that they have little in common. (We use “other sex” in this book.) Our gender stereotypes fi t this pattern of polar diff erences: Men are aggressive, whereas women are passive; men embody instrumentality and are task-oriented, whereas women embody expressiveness and are emotion-oriented; men are rational, whereas women are irrational; men want sex, whereas women want love; and so on. It is important to recognize that gender stereotypes, despite their depiction of men and women as opposites, are usually not all-or-nothing notions. Most of us do not think that only men are assertive or only women are nurturing. Stereotypes merely refl ect probabilities that a woman or a man will have a certain characteristic based on her or his gender. When we say that men are more independent than women, we simply mean that there is a greater prob- ability that a man will be more independent than a woman. Recently, many individuals have been rejecting the traditional binary model of male versus female gender identity (Singh, Deogracias, Johnson, et al., 2010). Th is may be suggestive of greater acknowledgment of gender fl uidity, which needs to be understood if we are to embrace the complex nature of gender and sexual expression. Sexism, discrimination against people based on their sex rather than their individual merits, is often associated with gender stereotypes and may prevent individuals from expressing their full range of emotions or seeking certain voca- tions. For example, sexism may discourage a woman from pursuing a career in math or inhibit a man from choosing nursing as a profession. Children may
One half the world cannot understand the pleasures of the other.
—Jane Austen (1775–1817)
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The main diff erence between men and women is that men are lunatics and
women are idiots.
—Rebecca West (1892–1983)
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develop stereotypes about diff erences between men and women and carry these into their adult lives. As technology becomes more advanced, we learn more about what contrib- utes to making the sexes diff erent. We are already getting hints that our iden- tities as men and women are a combination of nature and nurture. It is through new technology that researchers can observe brains in the act of cogitating, feeling, or remembering. In fact, many diff erences and similarities that we once attributed to learning or culture have been found to be biologically based (Brizendine, 2006). Add to this our individual choices, sense of identities, environmental factors, and life experiences, and we can begin to get a picture of what contributes to making each person unique.
Gender and Sexual Orientation
Gender, gender identity, and gender role are conceptually independent of sex- ual orientation. But, in many people’s minds, these concepts are closely related to sexual orientation (discussed at greater length in Chapter 6). Our traditional notion of gender roles assumes that heterosexuality is a critical component of masculinity and femininity. Th at is, a “masculine” man is attracted to women and a “feminine” woman is attracted to men. From this assumption follow two beliefs about homosexuality: (1) If a man is gay, he cannot be masculine, and if a woman is lesbian, she cannot be feminine; and (2) if a man is gay, he must have some feminine characteristics, and if a woman is lesbian, she must have some masculine characteristics. What these beliefs imply is that homosexuality is somehow associated with a failure to fi ll traditional gender roles. A “real” man is not gay; therefore, gay men are not “real” men. Similarly, a “real” woman is not a lesbian; therefore, lesbian women are not “real” women. Th ese negative stereotypes, which hold that people fall into distinct genders, with natural roles, and are presumed to be heterosexual, are referred to as heteronormativity, and merely fuel homophobia.
• Gender-Role Learning As we have seen, gender roles are socially constructed and rooted in culture. So how do individuals learn what their society expects of them as males or females?
Theories of Socialization
It is important to recognize that defi nitions and concepts of how gender emerges come from a wide variety of theoretical perspectives. Th eories infl u- ence how we approach sexuality research, practice, education, and policy. Two of the most prominent theories are cognitive social learning theory and cog- nitive development theory. In the study of sexuality, a growing body of lit- erature uses a social constructionist perspective on gender (Tolman, Striepe, & Harmon, 2003). Cognitive social learning theory is derived from behavioral psychology. In explaining our actions, behaviorists emphasize observable events and their con- sequences, rather than internal feelings and drives. According to behaviorists, we learn attitudes and behaviors as a result of social interactions with others— hence the term “social learning” (Bandura, 1977).
The war between the sexes is the only one in which both sides regularly sleep
with the enemy.
—Quentin Crisp (1908–1999)
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Same-sex marriage has been on the political radar as legislation and legal action change around the world.
Stereotypes fall in the face of humanity . . . this is how the world will change for gay
men and lesbians.
—Anna Quindlen (1953–)
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Th e cornerstone of cognitive social learning theory is the belief that conse- quences control behavior. Behaviors that are regularly followed by a reward are likely to occur again; behaviors that are regularly followed by a punishment are less likely to recur. Th us, girls are rewarded for playing with dolls (“What a nice mommy!”), but boys are not (“What a sissy!”). Th is behaviorist approach has been modifi ed to include cognition—mental processes that intervene between stimulus and response, such as evaluation and refl ection. Th e cognitive processes involved in social learning include our abil- ity to (1) use language, (2) anticipate consequences, and (3) make observations. By using language, we can tell our daughter that we like it when she does well in school and that we don’t like it when she hits someone. A person’s ability to anticipate consequences aff ects behavior. A boy doesn’t need to wear lace stockings in public to know that such dressing will lead to negative conse- quences. Finally, children observe what others do. A girl may learn that she “shouldn’t” play video games by seeing that the players in video arcades are mostly boys. We also learn gender roles by imitation, through a process called modeling. Most of us are not even aware of the many subtle behaviors that make up gender roles—the ways in which men and women use diff erent mannerisms and gestures, speak diff erently, use diff erent body language, and so on. Initially, the most powerful models that children have are their parents. As children grow older and their social world expands, so does the number of people who may act as their role models: siblings, friends, teachers, athletes, media fi gures, and so on. Children sift through the various demands and expectations associated with the diff erent models to create their own unique selves. In contrast to social learning theory, cognitive development theory (Kohlberg, 1966) focuses on children’s active interpretation of the messages they receive from the environment. Whereas social learning assumes that children and adults learn in fundamentally the same way, cognitive development theory stresses that we learn diff erently depending on our age. At age 2, children can correctly identify themselves and others as boys or girls, but they tend to base this identifi cation on superfi cial features such as hair and clothing: Girls have long hair and wear dresses; boys have short hair and wear pants. Some children even believe they can change their gender by changing their clothes or hair length. When children are 6 or 7, they begin to understand that gender is permanent; it is not something they can alter in the same way they can change their clothes. Children not only understand the permanence of gender but also tend to insist on rigid adherence to gender-role stereotypes. Social construction theory views gender as a set of practices and perfor- mances that occur through language and a political system (Bartky, 1990; Butler, 1993; Connell, 1995; Gergen, 1985). Th is perspective acknowledges the relationships that exist among meaning, power, and gender and suggests that language mediates and deploys how each will be expressed. Inspired by feminist and queer theories, which identify gender and sexuality as systems that cannot be understood as gender neutral or by the actions of heterosexual males and females (Parker & Gagnon, 1995), social constructionists suggest that gendered meanings are only one vehicle through which sexuality is constituted. Feminist researchers and scholars purport that the meanings and realities associated with sexuality are socially constructed to serve political systems that perpetuate White, heterosexual, middle- and upper-class male privilege. Th us, a social constructionist approach to gender would inquire about ways in which males
Science magazine came out with a report on the diff erence between men’s
and women’s brains. Apparently, women are more controlled by a part of the brain called singletgyrus, and men are controlled by a part of the brain known as the penis.
—Jay Leno (1950–)
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and females make meaning out of their experiences with their bodies, their relationships, and their sexual choices. Among the contemporary philosophers and scholars who have advanced our understanding of gender are Judith Butler, Michel Foucault, Anne Fausto- Sterling, Candace West, and Don Zimmerman. While each of these individuals has raised awareness of the signifi cance of sexuality and gender and its connection to behavior, collectively they have challenged the idea that identities are fi xed and determine who we are. Instead, each in their own way proposes that we deliberately challenge in varied and nonpredictable ways all notions of fi xed identity and gender.
Gender-Role Learning in Childhood and Adolescence
It is diffi cult to analyze the relationship between biology and personality because learning begins at birth. In our culture, infant girls are usually held more gen- tly and treated more tenderly than boys, who are ordinarily subjected to rougher forms of play. Th e fi rst day after birth, parents characterize their daughters as soft, fi ne-featured, and small and their sons as strong, large-featured, big, and bold. When children do not measure up to these expectations, they may stop trying to express their authentic feelings and emotions. Evidence of sexual double standards—diff erent standards of behavior and permissiveness—still exists (Crawford & Popp, 2003). (See Chapter 6 for a discussion of socializing agents of children and adolescents.)
Parents as Socializing Agents During infancy and early childhood, chil- dren’s most important source of learning is the primary caregiver, whether the mother, father, grandmother, or someone else. Many parents are not aware that their words and actions contribute to their children’s gender-role socialization. Nor are they aware that they treat their daughters and sons diff erently because of their gender. Although parents may recognize that they respond diff erently to sons than to daughters, they usually have a ready explanation: the “natural” diff erences in the temperament and behavior of girls and boys. Children are socialized in gender roles through several very subtle processes (Oakley, 1985):
■ Manipulation. Parents manipulate their children from infancy onward. Th ey treat a daughter gently, tell her she is pretty, and advise her that nice girls do not fi ght. Th ey treat a son roughly, tell him he is strong, and advise him that big boys do not cry. Eventually, most children incorporate their parents’ views in such matters as integral parts of their personalities.
■ Channeling. Children are channeled by directing their attention to spe- cifi c objects. Toys, for example, are diff erentiated by sex. Dolls are considered appropriate for girls, and cars for boys.
■ Verbal appellation. Parents use diff erent words with boys and girls to describe the same behavior. A boy who pushes others may be described as “active,” whereas a girl who does the same is usually called “aggressive.”
■ Activity exposure. Th e activity exposure of girls and boys diff ers markedly. Although both are usually exposed to a variety of activities early in life, boys are discouraged from imitating their mothers, whereas girls are encouraged to be “mother’s little helper.”
What are little girls made of? Sugar and spice
And everything nice. That’s what little girls are made of. What are little boys made of? Snips and snails And puppy dogs’ tails. That’s what little boys are made of.
—Nursery rhyme
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Although hundreds of studies have examined gender roles and their importance, most have focused primarily on the traditional mainstream of White, middle-class, heterosexual people many of whom underscore the idea that women’s roles should be centered around the home and family. Social roles, cultural traditions, acculturation, and individual self-determination, however, are chang- ing the landscape of gender roles in this country.
As a result of their heritage of slavery, which meant among other things that women could not depend economically on men, African American women have represented the symbol of strength in their communities. Th is may account in part for more egalitarian roles and economic independence as not seen in other eth- nic or cultural groups (Lawrence-Webb, Little- fi eld, & Okundaye, 2004). Th ere is also evidence that African American families socialize their daughters to be more independent than White families do. Th e African American female role model in which the woman is both wage-earner and homemaker is more common and more accurately refl ects the African American experi-
ence than does the traditional female role model. Th e cultural stereotypes of marianismo and machismo, derived from the Roman Catholic belief that women should be pure and self-giving, has created a double standard that encourages boys to be sexually adventurous and girls to be virtuous and virginal (Bourdeau, Th omas, & Young, 2008). Assimilation, urbanization, and upward mobility of Hispanic Americans, however, have chal- lenged and reduced gender-role inequities, especially among young Hispanic Americans (Cespedes & Huey, 2008). Asian Americans represent a diverse number of cultures and beliefs. Tradi- tionally, the woman is expected to adhere to family obligations over individual aspirations (Pyke & Johnson, 2003). Th ough no typical pattern exists, young Asian Americans are less likely to embrace culturally based gender-role stereo- types than are older Asian Americans (Ying & Han, 2008). As children grow older, their social world expands, and so do their sources of learning. Around the time children enter day care or kindergarten, teachers and peers become important infl uences.
Teachers as Socializing Agents Day-care centers, nursery schools, and kin- dergartens are often children’s fi rst experience in the world outside the family. Teachers become important role models for their students. Because most day- care workers and kindergarten and elementary school teachers are women, chil- dren tend to think of child-adult interactions as primarily the province of women. In this sense, schools reinforce the idea that women are concerned with children and men are not. Teachers may also tend to be conventional in the gender-role messages they convey to children (Sadker & Zittleman, 2005). Th ey may encourage diff erent activities and abilities in boys and girls such as contact sports for boys and gymnastics or dance for girls. Academically, teachers tend
Parents’ infl uence on children cannot be overemphasized.
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to rate females higher than males in both math and science (Robinson & Lubienski, 2011). Nevertheless, beginning in fi fth grade, females lose some ground in math, but regain test scores in middle school. Gaps favoring females widen among low-achieving students. It has also been observed that teachers and parents may shame boys into conforming to the traditional image of masculinity. For example, boys are taught to hide their emotions, act brave, and demonstrate independence. Even though boys may get good grades and be considered normal, healthy, and well-adjusted by peers, parents, and teachers, they may also report feeling deeply troubled about the roles and goals of their gender. Gender bias often follows students into the college arena and can be witnessed both in and outside the classroom. Th is environment coupled with high rates of sexual violence has resulted in impediments to academic success, lower graduation rates, health problems, and mental health issues (American College Health Asso- ciation [ACHA], 2007). In recognition of this campus health concern, the ACHA has suggested policy that refl ects intolerance for sexual bias and violence across its continuum—from sexist statements to sexual harassment to sexual assault.
Peers as Socializing Agents Children’s age-mates, or peers, become espe- cially important when they enter school. By granting or withholding approval, friends and playmates infl uence what games children play, what they wear, what music they listen to, what TV programs they watch, and even what cereal they eat. Peers provide standards for gender-role behavior in several ways (Absi-Semaan, Crombie, & Freeman, 1993; Moller, Hymel, & Rubin, 1992):
■ Peers provide information about gender-role norms through play activi- ties and toys. Girls play with dolls that cry and wet themselves or with glamorous dolls with well-developed fi gures and expensive tastes. Boys play with video games in which they kill and maim in order to dominate and win.
Among African Americans, the traditional female gender role includes strength and independence.
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■ Peers infl uence the adoption of gender-role norms through verbal approval or disapproval. “Th at’s for boys!” or “Only girls do that!” is a strong negative message to the girl playing with a football or the boy playing with dolls.
■ Children’s perceptions of their friends’ gender-role attitudes, behaviors, and beliefs encourage them to adopt similar ones to be accepted. If a girl’s same-sex friends play soccer, she is more likely to play soccer. If a boy’s same-sex friends display feelings, he is more likely to display feelings.
Even though parents tend to fear the worst in general from peers, peers can provide important positive infl uences. It is within their peer groups, for example, that adolescents learn to develop intimate relationships.
Media Infl uences Media and the public benefi t when a broad range of voices are included; however, much of television programming promotes or condones negative stereotypes about gender, ethnicity, age, ability, and sexual orientation. Female characters on television typically are under age 40, well groomed, thin, and attractive. In contrast, male characters are aggressive and constructive; they solve problems and rescue others from danger. Indeed, all forms of media glorify stereotypic gender norms.
Gender Schemas: Exaggerating Diff erences
Actual diff erences between females and males are minimal or nonexistent, except in levels of aggressiveness and visual/spatial skills, yet culture exaggerates these diff erences or creates diff erences where none otherwise exist. One way that cul- ture does this is by creating a schema. Recall from Chapter 2 that a schema is a set of interrelated ideas that helps us process information by categorizing it in a variety of ways. We often categorize people by age, ethnicity, nationality, physical characteristics, and so on. Gender is one such way of categorizing.
That’s not me you’re in love with. That’s my image. You don’t even know me.
—Kelly McGillis (1957–)
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When boys and girls participate in sports together, they develop comparable athletic skills. Segregation of boys and girls encourages the development of diff erences that otherwise might not occur.
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Psychologist Sandra Bem (1983) observes that, although gender is not inher- ent in inanimate objects or in behaviors, we treat many objects and behaviors as if they were masculine or feminine. Th ese gender divisions form a complex structure of associations that aff ects our perceptions of reality. Bem refers to this cognitive organization of the world according to gender as a gender schema. We use gender schemas in many dimensions of life, including activities (nurtur- ing, fi ghting), emotions (compassion, anger), behavior (playing with dolls or action fi gures), clothing (dresses or pants), and even colors (pink or blue), con- sidering some appropriate for one gender and some appropriate for the other. Processing information by gender is important in cultures such as ours, for several reasons. First, gender-schema cultures make multiple associations between gender and other non-sex-linked qualities such as aff ection and strength. Our culture regards aff ection as a feminine trait and strength as a masculine one. Second, such cultures make gender distinctions important, using them as a basis for norms, status, taboos, and privileges. Th ese associa- tions, however, often undermine and undervalue the uniqueness of individuals.
• Contemporary Gender Roles and Scripts In recent decades, there has been a signifi cant shift toward more egalitarian gender roles. Although women’s roles have changed more than men’s, men’s are also changing, and these changes seem to aff ect all socioeconomic classes. Mem- bers of conservative religious groups still tend to adhere most strongly to tra- ditional gender roles. Despite the ongoing disagreement, it is likely that the egalitarian trend will continue.
Traditional Gender Roles and Scripts
In social science research, those who are studied have defi ned the norms against which all other experience has been evaluated. Consequently, much of what we know about sexuality is confi ned to a limited sector of society: White and middle class, many of whom are also college students. It is important to con- sider the relationships between the participants in sexuality research and the limitations regarding whom a study actually describes.
The Traditional Male Gender Role What does it mean to be a “real” man in America? One can simply go online to fi nd stereotypical jokes, images, and lyrics. Central personality traits associated with the traditional male role—no matter the race or ethnicity—are instrumental, or involve practical or task-oriented traits that may include aggressiveness, emotional toughness, independence, feelings of superiority, and decisiveness. Males are generally regarded as being more power- oriented than females, and they exhibit higher levels of aggression, especially violent aggression, dominance, and competitiveness. Although these tough, aggressive traits may be useful in the corporate world, politics, and the military (or in hunting saber-toothed tigers), they are rarely helpful to a man in his inti- mate relationships, which require understanding, cooperation, communication, and nurturing. Who perpetuates the image of the dominance of men, and what role does it serve in a society that no longer needs or respects such an image? It may be that a man’s task is not to defi ne masculinity but rather to redefi ne what it means to be human.
A man is by nature a sexual animal. I’ve always had my share of pets.
—Mae West (1893–1980)
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Men of color move between dominant and ethnic cultures with diff erent role requirements. Th ey are expected to conform not only to the gender-role norms of the dominant group but to those of their own group as well.
Male Sexual Scripts Diff erent from a role, which is a more generalized behavior, a script refers to the acts, rules, and expectations associated with a particular role. It is like the script handed out to an actor. Unlike dramatic scripts, however, social scripts allow for considerable improvisation within their general boundaries. We are given many scripts in life according to the various roles we play. Among them are sexual scripts that outline how we are to behave sexually when acting out our gender roles. Sexual scripts and gender roles for heterosexuals may be diff erent from those for gay, lesbian, bisexual, or trans- gendered people. Perceptions and patterns in sexual behavior are shaped by sexual scripts. (See Chapter 9 for further discussion of sexual scripts.) Psychologist Bernie Zilbergeld (1992) suggested that the male sexual script includes the following elements:
■ Men should not have (or at least should not express) certain feelings. Men should not express doubts; they should be assertive, confi dent, and aggressive. Tenderness and compassion are not masculine emotions.
■ Performance is the thing that counts. Sex is something to be achieved, to win at. Feelings only get in the way of the job to be done. Sex is not for intimacy but for orgasm.
■ Th e man is in charge. As in other realms, the man is the leader, the per- son who knows what is best. Th e man initiates sex and gives the woman her orgasm. A real man doesn’t need a woman to tell him what women like; he already knows.
■ A man always wants sex and is ready for it. No matter what else is going on, a man wants sex; he is always able to become erect. He is a machine.
■ All physical contact leads to sex. Because men are basically sexual machines, any physical contact is a sign for sex. Touching is seen as the fi rst step toward sexual intercourse, not an end in itself. Th ere is no physical pleasure other than sexual pleasure.
■ Sex equals intercourse. All erotic contact leads to sexual intercourse. Foreplay is just that: warming up, getting one’s partner ready for penetration. Kissing, hugging, erotic touching, and oral sex are only preliminaries to intercourse.
■ Sexual intercourse leads to orgasm. Th e orgasm is the “proof in the pud- ding.” Th e more orgasms, the better the sex. If a woman does not have an orgasm, she is not sexual. Th e male feels that he is a failure because he was not good enough to give her an orgasm. If she requires clitoral stimulation to have an orgasm, she has a problem.
Common to all these myths is a separation of sex from love and attachment. Sex is seen as performance.
The Traditional Female Gender Role Although many of the features of the traditional male gender role, such as being in control, are shared by both sexes, there are striking ethnic and individual diff erences in the female gender role. Traditional female roles are expressive, or assume emotional or supportive charac- terics. Th ey emphasize passivity, compliance, physical attractiveness, and being a wife and mother.
“Men ought to be more conscious of their bodies as an object of delight.
—Germaine Greer (1939–)
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A man can sleep around, no questions asked, but if a woman makes nineteen
or twenty mistakes, she’s a tramp.
—Joan Rivers (1933–)
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Among Whites, the traditional female gender role centers around women as wives and mothers. When this woman leaves adolescence, she is expected to get married and have children. Although the traditional woman may work prior to marriage, she is not expected to defer marriage for career goals. In recent years, the traditional role has been modifi ed to include work and marriage. Work roles, however, are clearly subordinated to marital and family roles. Upon the birth of the fi rst child, the woman is expected to both work and parent or, if economically feasible, to become a full-time mother. Th e traditional White female gender role does not extend to many African American women. Th is may be attributed to a combination of the African heritage; slavery, which subjugated women to the same labor and hardships as men; and economic discrimination, which forced these women into the labor force. African American men are generally more supportive than White or Latino men of egalitarian gender roles for both women and men. Among traditional Latinas, stereotypical gender roles are characterized by marianismo, which involves being faithful and subordinate to husbands and maintaining family traditions and culture (McNeill et al., 2001). Th ough not all Latinas strive to maintain these gender-role stereotypes, those who do may experience confl ict and stress as they try to balance these expectations with work-related and family demands. According to available data, Asian Americans are relatively conservative in their attitudes about sexual behavior and norms. Th ese attitudes, however, often change with increased exposure to the American culture (Okazaki, 2002). Asian Americans appear to share Asian cultural characteristics such as the central role of the family, the appropriateness of sexuality only within the context of mar- riage, and sexual restraint and modesty. Th e breakdown, by ethnicity, of traditional female gender roles has outcomes that are experienced by men in traditional male gender roles. Th ese individual and ethnic diff erences may account for the ways in which many men pattern their behavior.
Female Sexual Scripts Whereas the traditional male sexual script focuses on sex over feelings, the traditional female sexual script focuses on feelings over sex, on love over passion. Th e traditional female sexual script cited by psychologist and sex therapist Lonnie Barbach (2001) includes the following ideas:
■ Sex is good and bad. Women are taught that sex is both good and bad. What makes sex good? Sex in marriage or a committed relationship. What makes sex bad? Sex in a casual or uncommitted relationship. Sex is “so good” that a woman needs to save it for her husband (or for someone with whom she is deeply in love). Sex is bad—if it is not sanctioned by love or marriage, a woman will get a bad reputation.
■ It’s not OK to touch themselves “down there.” Girls are taught not to look at their genitals, not to touch them, and especially not to explore them. As a result, some women know very little about their genitals. Th ey are often concerned about vaginal odors and labia size, making them uncomfortable about cunnilingus.
■ Sex is for men. Men want sex; women want love. Women are sexually passive, waiting to be aroused. Sex is not a pleasurable activity as an end in itself; it is something performed by women for men.
Women are made, not born.
—Simone de Beauvoir (1908–1986)
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think about it
So, what is this thing called virginity and what does it have to say about women and men? Feminist writer and scholar Jessica Valenti, in her book The Purity Myth: How America’s Obsession With Virginity Is Hurting Young Women (2009), takes a sharp and uncom- promising look at purity, virginity, and abstinence education and provides solid evidence to reveal how the myth of “saving oneself” especially is hurting girls and women. Valenti states: “The message that the virginity movement is working so hard to send to women [is that] sex makes us less whole and a whole lot dirtier.” Outside of the occasional reference to the male virgin, the term “virgin” is almost always synonymous with “woman.” Even the dictionary defi nitions of virgin cite an “unmarried girl or woman” or a “religious woman, especially a saint.” No such characterization exists for men or boys. The relationship between sexual purity and women makes the concept of virginity, normalcy, and acceptance a dangerous mix, yet one that few are willing to challenge. In fact, normalcy itself is hard to defi ne, but there is a lot of evidence to purport that it is no longer defi ned by women or men. Rather, the media seem to be gaining an upper hand on what is viewed as acceptable and “normal,” in terms of both gen- der and gender roles. Center stage is sexuality whereby, among girls, virginity is seemingly the only truly valued personal charac- teristic. Women’s identities are seemingly tied up with whether or not they’ve had sex, or how sexual or abstinent they are.
The Purity Standard: Defi ning Women by Their Sexuality
Some of these purity eff orts can be seen in the use of “Virgin- ity Vouchers,” where, for example, abstinence commitment cards are distributed to students or sold on a website, along with a note that the card can be kept in their wallet to remind them of their decision to remain abstinent. In this case, not only is being sexual discouraged, virginity is commodifi ed. Or consider the gold rose pin with an attached small card that reads, “You are like a beautiful rose. Each time you engage in premarital sex, a precious petal is stripped away. Don’t leave your future husband holding a bare stem. Abstain.” The message is clear: Without virginity, you’re secondhand goods. Society’s current version of sexuality also makes it diffi cult for young women to have a healthy sexual outlook that centers on their desires. In fact, it appears that most desirable women are not women at all—they’re girls. Turn on the television to watch pro- grams like Toddlers and Tiaras and you might wonder if anyone is thinking outside of the construct of little girls as sexual divas. No one embodies the “perfect” young American woman like beauty queens. They’re pretty, thin, anxious to please, and supposedly virgin-like. Contrary to these models of women are those of “girls-gone-wild” and “raunch culture” seen in the media where young women are connected to disturbing narratives with some degree of pathologized sexuality. All of these images can lead to the emotional, moral, and spiritual erosion of women’s sexuality.
■ Men should know what women want. Th is script tells women that men know what they want even if women don’t tell them. Th e woman is supposed to remain pure and sexually innocent. It is up to the man to arouse the woman even if he doesn’t know what she fi nds arousing. To keep her image of sexual innocence, she does not tell him what she wants.
■ Women shouldn’t talk about sex. Many women are uncomfortable talking about sex because they are expected not to have strong sexual feelings. Some women (and men) may know their partners well enough to have sex with them but not well enough to communicate their needs to them.
■ Women should look like models. Th e media present ideally attractive women as beautiful models with slender hips, supple breasts, and no fat or cellulite; they are always young, with never a pimple, wrinkle, or gray hair in sight. As a result of these cultural images, many women are self-conscious about their physical appearance. Th ey worry that they are too fat, too plain, or too old. Because of their imagined fl aws, they often feel awkward without clothes on.
The beautiful bird gets caged.
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To further underscore the mixed messages that girls and women are getting about themselves and their sexuality, Valenti cites some facts:
■ “Vaginal rejuvenation”—in which a woman’s labia are trimmed and her vagina tightened, or her hymen completely replaced (a “re-virginization”)—is the fastest-growing form of plastic surgery in the United States.
■ Violence against women is decreasing, unless you’re not White. Between 2003 and 2004, the incidents of intimate partner violence among Black females nearly doubled, and the average rate for partner violence was highest among American Indian and Alaska Native women.
■ A 2007 report from the American Psychological Association found that nearly every form of media studied provided “ample evidence of the sexualization of women,” and that most of this sexualization focused on young women.
■ More and more laws are being enacted that attempt to curb pregnant women’s rights and even punish women if they become pregnant.
It’s not just girls and women who suff er from rigid gender norms: Men also suff er and benefi t from them. The never-ending struggle for dominance and the narrowing of their emotional range keeps men from connecting authentically with others. As long as men believe that the primary way to defi ne themselves is through experiencing sexuality with women, the status quo will continue. To change this paradigm, we need to support women (and men) with the knowledge that sex can be a pleasurable and
rewarding experience. This includes the right to make mistakes and, when appropriate, not be judged. Making sex acceptable and doing away with the myth of sexual purity is about trusting women to fi nd their way. Creating new media, critiquing online sources, launching more nationwide campaigns, taking action when abstinence education is up for refunding, and educating the people in our lives about sexuality-related issues we care about are signifi cant acts that can help to stop the epidemic of violence and misogyny. Continuing to tell the truth about how young women are suff ering under an unrealistic model of sexu- ality is a risky act, but one that can be accomplished one small act at a time.
Think Critically 1. How do you defi ne virginity? Where did this defi nition
come from (parents, friends, society)? To whom does it most apply? Why?
2. What are your thoughts about female sexuality? Male sexuality? How do these views aff ect you?
3. What are some ways of creating a more positive per- ception of women’s sexuality?
SOURCE: Adapted from Valenti, J. (2009). The purity myth: How America’s obsession with virginity is hurting young women. Berkeley, CA: Seal Press.
■ Women are nurturers. Women give; men receive. Women give themselves, their bodies, their pleasures to men. Everyone else’s needs come fi rst: his desire over hers, his orgasm over hers.
■ Th ere is only one right way to have an orgasm. Women often “learn” that there is only one “right” way to have an orgasm: during sexual inter- course as a result of penile stimulation.
Changing Gender Roles and Scripts
Contemporary gender roles are evolving from traditional hierarchical gender roles (in which one sex is subordinate to the other) to egalitarian roles (in which both sexes are treated equally) and to androgynous roles (in which both sexes display the instrumental and expressive traits previously associated with one sex). Th us, contemporary gender roles often display both traditional elements and egalitarian and androgynous ones.
Contemporary Sexual Scripts As gender roles change, so do sexual scripts. Traditional sexual scripts have been challenged by more egalitarian ones, and sexual attitudes and behaviors have become increasingly balanced for males and
I don’t know why people are afraid of new ideas. I am terrifi ed of the old ones.
—John Cage (1912–1992)
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If men knew all that women think, they’d be twenty times more audacious.
—Alphonse Kerr (1808–1890)
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females. Many women have made an explicit break with the more traditional scripts and outdated images. Contemporary sexual scripts include the following elements for both sexes:
■ Sexual expression is positive and healthy. ■ Sexual activities involve a mutual exchange of erotic pleasure. ■ Sexuality is equally involving, and both partners are equally responsible. ■ Legitimate sexual activities are not limited to sexual intercourse but
include a wide variety of sexual expression. ■ Sexual activities may be initiated by either partner. ■ Both partners have the freedom to experience orgasm, no matter from
what type of stimulation. ■ Sex is acceptable within a relationship context.
Th ese contemporary scripts can support intimacy and satisfaction in rela- tionships by allowing individuals to better understand gender-related issues and their impact on relationships. Th is deepened understanding along with the celebration of the uniqueness of each individual can assist couples in recognizing and freeing themselves from ineff ectual and limiting stereotypes.
Androgyny
Some scholars have challenged the traditional masculine/feminine gender-role dichotomy, arguing that such models are unhealthy and fail to refl ect the real world. Instead of looking at gender roles in terms of polar opposites, they sug- gest examining them in terms of androgyny. Androgyny refers to fl exibility in gender roles and the unique combination of instrumental and expressive traits as infl uenced by individual diff erences, situations, and stages in the life cycle (Bem, 1975; A. Kaplan, 1979). (Th e term “androgyny” is derived from the Greek andros, man, and gyne, woman.) An androgynous person combines both the instrumental traits traditionally associated with masculinity and the
Once made equal to man, woman becomes his superior.
—Socrates (c. 469–399 BCE)
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Men have traditionally coached women’s and men’s sports teams without ever being questioned or challenged. Changing gender roles are now supporting women in a wider array of fi elds and occupations.
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expressive traits traditionally associated with femininity. An androgynous lifestyle allows men and women to choose from the full range of emotions and behav- iors, according to their temperament, situation, and common humanity, rather than their gender. Flexibility and adaptability are important aspects of androgyny. Individuals who are rigidly instrumental or expressive, despite the situation, are not con- sidered androgynous. A woman who is always aggressive at work and passive at home, for example, would not be considered androgynous, as work may call for compassion and home life for assertion. Filling an androgynous gender role, however, may be just as stultifying to an individual as trying to be traditionally feminine or masculine. In advocating the expression of both feminine and masculine traits, perhaps we are imposing a new form of gender-role rigidity on ourselves.
• Gender Variations For most of us, there is no question about our gender: We know we are female or male. We may question our femininity or masculinity, but rarely do we question being female or male. For gender-variant individuals, or those who see themselves as part of a normal phenomenon with a right to self-defi nition and actualization in regard to sexual identity, “What sex am I?” is a real dilemma. Th eir answer to this question reinforces the fact that psychosexual development is infl uenced by multiple factors including exposure to androgens, sex chromosome genes, and brain structure, as well as social circumstance and family dynamics (Hughes et al., 2006). Because our culture views sexual anatomy as a male/female dichotomy, it is dif- fi cult for many people to accept another view of gender variation. (See Figure 5.1.) Most people still think of genetic sex—XX or XY—as a person’s “true sex.” Because gender is related to biological sex for most people, one of the primary challenges facing the public is to place the transgender experience into a con- text by which it can be understood and accepted. Transgender people are some of the most vulnerable members of American society (Human Rights Cam- paign, 2011a). While transgender people are most familiar with gender-variant expressions and cross-gender identities, there are many other forms of gender variance exhibited by all kinds of people. Revealing these other forms of gen- der variance can provide an important context to understand transgender people. At the same time, it is important to recognize that none of the forms of gender variance necessarily makes anyone a transgender, gay, lesbian, or bisexual individual.
Throughout history the more complex activities have been defi ned and
redefi ned, now as male, now as female— sometimes as drawing equally on the gifts of both sexes. When an activity to which each sex could have contributed is limited to one sex, a rich, diff erentiated quality is lost from the activity itself.
—Margaret Mead (1901–1978)
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Transgenderism
Female transvestite/
transgenderist
Masculine Feminine
Male transvestite/
transgenderist
Female occasional
cross-dresser
Male occasional
cross-dresser
Androgynous female or male
Female male transsexual
Male female transsexual
• FIGURE 5.1 Gender Variations: The Gender Continuum. In contrast to the traditional binary view, the concept of gender is on a continuum with a multitude of gender-variant identities.
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The Transgender Phenomenon
In recent years, there has been a major shift in the gender world. Upsetting old defi nitions and classifi cation systems, a new transgender community, one that embraces the possibility of numerous genders and multiple social identi- ties, has emerged. Transgenderism is an inclusive category. Th e term “transgenderist” was fi rst coined by Virginia Prince, the founder of the U.S. contemporary cross-dressing community, to describe someone who lives full-time in a gender role diff erent from the gender role presumed by society to match the person’s genetic sex (Richards, 1997). In past decades, those who were transgender could escape from the tradi- tional male and female categories only if they were “diagnosed” as transvestite or transsexual (Denny, 1997). Th is resulted in a larger number of “heterosexual” cross-dressers who were actually gay or bisexual or who had transsexual issues. It also involved diagnosis on the part of the psychiatric community and sub- sequent labeling and stigma. In North America, a paradigm shift has occurred that challenges the male/female dichotomy of gender, thereby making it more acceptable to live without the threat of “cure.” Th is acceptance has “opened the door for political and scientifi c activism and the realization that being preop- erative is not inevitably a way-station on the road to surgery” (Denny, 1997). Transgenderist Sky Renfro describes his gender identity (quoted in Feinberg, 1996):
My identity, like everything else in my life, is a journey. It is a process and an adven- ture that in some ways brings me back to myself, back into the grand circle of liv- ing. . . . My sense of who I am at any given time is somewhere on that wheel and the place that I occupy there can change depending on the season and life events as well as a number of other infl uences. Trying to envision masculine at one end of a line and feminine on the other, with the rest of us somewhere on that line, is a diffi cult concept for me to grasp. Male and female—they’re so close to each other, they sit next to each other on that wheel. Th ey are not at opposite ends as far as I can tell. In fact, they are so close that they’re sometimes not distinguishable.
Th is paradigm shift in thinking regarding gender has implications for the clin- ical management of gender identity disorder. Treatment is no longer aimed at identifying the “true transsexual” but is open instead to the possibility of affi rm- ing a unique transgender identity and role. A growing number of major employers are posting fi rst-of-a-kind policies covering transgender employees. Advocacy groups such as the Human Rights Campaign are pushing to get sexual orientation and transgender issues raised. Th eir success is noted in the fact that, in 2011, 433 (89%) of the Fortune 500 companies had implemented nondiscrimination policies that include sexual orientation, and 229 (46%) had nondiscrimination policies that include gender identity (Human Rights Campaign, 2011a). At the same time, lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender workers still have little protection against discrimina- tion. In most states, it is still legal for employers to discriminate based on sexual orientation or gender identity.
Disorders of Sexual Development/Intersex
Researchers have long recognized the existence of individuals who are born with a variety of conditions other than a “standard” male or female anatomy. In the recent past, terms such as intersex, pseudohermaphroditism, hermaphroditism,
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sex reversal, and gender-based diagnostic labels have been used to describe the existence of atypical anatomy. However, these labels are now recognized by some individuals as controversial and inadequate. Th e term intersex is used to refer to variations in congenital sex anatomy that are considered atypical for females or males (Dreger & Herdon, 2009). Like other disorders of sexual dif- ferentiation, it is an umbrella term that covers many diff erent conditions. How- ever, it is also used by adults to talk about their bodies and their experiences. Several dozen biological variations and conditions may be considered intersex; some have their basis in genetic variations, some result from nongenetically caused prenatal developmental anomalies, and a few involve ambiguous geni- talia. Still others involve more subtle blends of male and female characteristics. Th e term “intersex” still does not reveal anything specifi c about a person’s genes, anatomy, physiology, or developmental history that helps the novice understand intersex any better. Another term used to describe intersex is disorders of sexual development (DSD). (We shall utilize both terms interchangeably.) Nevertheless, using the general term “intersex” has allowed many adults with diff erent kinds of DSDs to come together and work for progress in the way individuals, families, and loved ones are treated. What causes DSD? As you may recall from Chapter 3, humans are born with 46 chromosomes in 23 pairs. Th e X and Y chromosomes determine a person’s sex, with most women born with 46,XX and most men, 46,XY. Th e chromosome that carries the gene responsible for sexual diff erentiation will, by week 7 or 8, usually dictate the sex of the child at birth. Research suggests that in a few births per thousand, some individuals will be born with a single sex chromosome (45,X or 45,Y) and some with three or more sex chromosomes (47,XXX, 47,XYY, or 47,XXY, etc.). In addition, some males are born with 46,XX; similarly, some females are born with 46,XY. Clearly, there are not only females who are XX and males who are XY; rather, there is a range of chromo- some complements, hormone balances, and phenotypic variations that deter- mine sex (WHO, 2011b). When the genetic or hormonal process that causes this fetal tissue to become male or female is disrupted, ambiguous genitalia can develop. Th us, a person is born with sex chromosomes, external genitalia, or an internal reproductive system that is not considered standard for either male or female, thereby making the person’s sex ambiguous (Accord Alliance, 2011). (Th e most common anomalies of sexual diff erentiation are discussed below and summarized in Table 5.1.) When it comes to management and treatment of intersex, most intersex adults “agree that the problem with the medical management of intersex is not gender assignment but surgical and hormonal reinforcement of the assignment and other risks—and indeed physically and emotionally costly—manifestations of shame and secrecy” (Dreger & Herdon, 2009, p. 158).
Sex Chromosome Anomalies Two syndromes resulting from erroneous chromosomal patterns may result in gender confusion: Turner syndrome and Klinefelter syndrome. In both of these, the body develops with some marked physical characteristics of the other sex.
Turner Syndrome (or 45,XO) Turner syndrome, otherwise referred to as 45,XO, is a genetic condition in which a female does not have the usual pair of two X chromosomes. It is one of the most common chromosomal DSDs found among females, occurring in an estimated 1 in 2,000 live births
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The genitals of a fetally androgenized female may resemble those of a male.
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TABLE 5.1 • Anomalies of Sexual Diff erentiation
Chromo- somal Sexa Gonads
Internal Reproductive Structures
External Reproductive Structures
Secondary Sex Characteristics Fertility
Gender Identity
Disorders of Gonadal Diff erentiation
Turner syndrome
Female (45,XO)
Nonfunctioning or absent ovaries
Normal female except for ovaries
Underdeveloped genitals
Undeveloped/ no breast development
Sterile Usually female
Klinefelter syndrome
Male (47,XXY)
Testes Normal male
Small penis and testes, gynecomastia (breast development)
Some female secondary sex characteristics
Sterile Usually male, but there may be gender identity confusion at puberty
Androgen insensitivity syndrome
Male (46,XY)
Undescended testes
Lacks normal male or female structures
Labia, shallow vagina
Female secondary sex characteristics develop at puberty; no menstruation
Sterile Usually female
Congenital adrenal hyperplasia (pseudo- hermaphro- ditism)
Female (46,XX)
Ovaries Normal female
Ambiguous tending toward male appearance; fused vagina and enlarged clitoris may be mistaken for empty scrotal sac and micropenis
Female secondary sex characteristics develop at puberty; abnormal growth for both sexes
Fertile Usually female unless condition discovered at birth and altered by hormonal therapy
5-alpha reductase defi ciency
Male (46,XY)
Testes undescended until puberty
Partially formed internal structures but no prostate
Ambiguous; clitoral appearing micropenis; phallus enlarges and testes descend at puberty
Male secondary sex characteristics develop at puberty
Viable sperm but unable to inseminate
Female identity until puberty; majority assume male identity later
Unclassifi ed Form of Abnormal Development
Hypospadias Male (46,XY)
Normal Normal Opening of penis located on underside rather than tip of penis; penis may also be twisted and small
Male secondary sex characteristics develop at puberty
Fertile Male
aChromosomal sex refers to 46,XX (female) or 46,XY (male). Sometimes a chromosome will be missing, as in 45,X, or there will be an extra chromosome, as in 47,XXY. In these notations, the number refers to the number of chromosomes (46, in 23 pairs, is normal); the letters X and Y refer to chromosomes.
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think about it
Disorders of sexual development occur in as much as 1% of the population. Sexually ambiguous infants have historically been given a gender assignment (usually female) along with treatment to support the assignment, including surgery, and, later, hormones and psychotherapy. Physicians have defended the practice of “correcting” ambiguous genitals, citing the suc- cess of current technology. Recently, however, this practice has undergone scrutiny by some physicians and patients who point to the lack of evidence supporting its long-term success. Endocrinologists, physicians, ethicists, and gender activists began in the 1990s to seriously challenge the traditional pediatric postulates for sex assignment/reassignment (Diamond, 1996; Diamond & Sigmundson, 1997a). Their research and that of others suggest that one’s sexual identity is not fi xed by the gender one is reared in, that atypical as well as typical individuals undergo psychosexual development, and that sexual orientation develops independent of rearing (Accord Alliance, 2011; Hughes, et al., 2006). Many individuals consider whether or not to have surgery a decision best delayed unless medically urgent (as when a genetic anomaly interferes with urination or creates a risk of infection) or requested by the individual. They believe that letting well enough alone is the better course and that the individualized, erotic, and reproductive needs of the adult should take prece- dence over the cosmetic needs of the child. Pointing to their own dissatisfaction, as well as to the lack of research supporting the long-term success of surgical treatment, those aff ected rec- ommend that the professional community off er support and in- formation to parents and families and empower the intersexed individual to understand his or her status and choose (or reject) medical intervention (Diamond & Sigmundson, 1997a). In cases where puberty may be psychologically traumatic, hormones may be used to delay its onset. Following an evidence-based review of the literature, 50 in- ternational experts in the fi eld of pediatric endocrinology pre- pared a framework for the management of intersex disorders. As a result, a consensus document, agreed on and published by the American Academy of Pediatrics, suggested the following (Lee, Houk, Ahmed, Ieuan, & Hughes, 2006):
A New Approach to Addressing Disorders of Sexual Development or Intersex
■ Avoid gender assignment before expert evaluation of newborns. ■ Carry out evaluation and long-term management at a center
with an experienced multidisciplinary team.
■ Assign all individuals a gender. ■ Encourage patients and families to communicate openly and
participate in decision making.
■ Address and respect patient and family concerns in strict confi dence.
Since this document was fi rst published, there has been prog- ress in diagnosis, surgical techniques, understanding psycho- social issues, and recognizing and accepting the place of patient advocacy. According to Edgardo Menvielle, a child- adolescent psychiatrist, “We know that sexually marginalized children have a higher rate of depression and suicide attempts. The goal is for the child to be well-adjusted, healthy, and have good self-esteem. What’s not important is molding their gender” (quoted in Brown, 2006). Such thinking, though still controversial, will no doubt continue to alter the gender- identity landscape.
Think Critically 1. Imagine you are the parent of a newborn and the
doctor approaches you with the diagnosis that your child’s sex is ambiguous. What, if anything, would you do? Whom might you consult? What might you tell your family and others?
2. What do you believe are the pros and cons to early versus late gender assignment? Which would you choose if your child was diagnosed as intersex?
3. What are your thoughts about cosmetic genital sur- geries performed on intersex infants being compared to the practice of female genital cutting performed in some African and Asian countries? Which, if either, is more acceptable?
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(“Turner Syndrome,” 2010). Infants and young girls with Turner syndrome appear normal externally, but they have no ovaries. At puberty, changes initi- ated by ovarian hormones cannot take place. Th e body does not gain a mature look or height, and menstruation cannot occur. Th e adolescent girl may ques- tion her femaleness because she does not menstruate or develop breasts or pubic hair like her peers. (See Figure 5.2.) Girls with Turner syndrome are usually of normal intelligence; however, some may have problems in math, poor memory, and diffi culty with fi ne fi nger movement. Hormonal therapy, including estro- gen replacement therapy and human growth hormone therapy, replaces the hormones necessary to produce normal adolescent changes, such as growth and secondary sex characteristics. Even with ongoing hormonal therapy, women with Turner syndrome will likely remain infertile, although they may success- fully give birth through embryo transfer following in vitro fertilization with donated ova. Having appropriate medical treatment and support allows a woman with Turner syndrome to lead a healthy and happy life.
Klinefelter Syndrome Males with Klinefelter syndrome have one or more extra X chromosomes (47,XXY) (“Klinefelter Syndrome,” 2010). Klinefelter syndrome is quite common, occurring in 1 in 600 males (WHO, 2011b). Th e eff ects of Klinefelter syndrome are variable, and many men with the syn- drome are never diagnosed until they see a physician because of infertility. Th e presence of the Y chromosome designates a person as male. It causes the formation of small, fi rm testes and ensures a masculine physical appearance. However, the presence of a double X chromosome pattern, which is a female trait, adds some female physical traits. At puberty, traits may vary: tallness, gynecomastia (breast development in men), sparse body hair, and/or small penis and testes. (See Figure 5.3.) XXY boys also tend to exhibit some degree of learning disability. Klinefelter syndrome can increase a person’s risk of
• FIGURE 5.2 Characteristics of Turner Syndrome
Short stature
Drooping eyelids and dry eyes
Wide and webbed neck
Extra folds of skin
Minimal breast development
Heart abnormalities
Kidney malformations
Underdeveloped ovaries
No menstruation
Swollen hands
Swollen feet
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developing attention defi cit hyperactivity disorder, depression, and some autoimmune disorders (“Klinefelter Syndrome,” 2010). Because of low testos- terone levels, there may be a low sex drive, inability to experience erections, and infertility. Consequently, individuals will need testosterone replacement to prevent osteoporosis and maintain physical energy, sexual functioning, and well-being (Zurenda & Sandberg, 2003a). In vitro techniques can allow some men to become biological fathers.
Mosaicism Th e condition in which cells within the same person have a dif- ferent genetic makeup is called mosaicism. Th is variation can aff ect any type of cell, including blood, egg and sperm, and/or skin cells (“Mosaicism,” 2010). Caused by an error in cell division early in the development of the unborn baby, it can later be diagnosed as mosaic Down syndrome, mosaic Klinefelter syndrome, or mosaic Turner syndrome. Its symptoms vary from person to person and are diffi cult to predict because the person has both abnormal and normal cells. Diagnosis through chromosome evaluation helps to determine the type and severity of the mosaicism. Treatment depends on the type of genetic disease that the individual experiences.
Hormonal Disorders Prenatal hormonal imbalances may cause males or females to develop physical characteristics associated with the other sex.
Androgen Insensitivity Syndrome When a person who is genetically male (has XY chromosomes) is resistant to male hormones or androgens, he is said to have androgen insensitivity syndrome (AIS) (“Androgen Insensitivity Syndrome,” 2010). As a result, the person has some or all of the physical
Tall stature
Lack of facial hair
Tendency to lose chest hairs
Long legs
Breast development
Osteoporosis
Short trunk
Female-type pubic hair pattern
Small, firm testicles
Slightly feminized physique
• FIGURE 5.3 Characteristics of Klinefelter Syndrome
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characteristics of a woman, despite having the genetic makeup of a man. At birth the child appears to be a girl. Th is syndrome occurs in approximately 1 in 20,000 individuals and is divided into two categories: complete or incom- plete. Complete androgen insensitivity prevents the development of the penis and other male body parts. Th us, a person with complete AIS appears to be female but has no uterus. At puberty, female secondary sex characteristics (such as breasts) develop, but menstruation and fertility do not occur, nor does the person have armpit or pubic hair. Persons with incomplete AIS have a broader range of symptoms, including infertility, breast development in men, failure of one or both testes to descend into the scrotum after birth, and hypospadias, a condition in which the opening of the urethra is on the underside rather than at the tip of the penis (for more information about hypospadias, see page 151). Most people with complete AIS are not diagnosed until they fail to menstru- ate or have diffi culties becoming pregnant. If it is discovered in childhood, it may be because the discovery of a mass that turns out to be a testicle. Th ose with incomplete AIS, however, are often diagnosed during childhood because the person may have both male and female physical characteristics. Treatment and gender assignment (see the “Th ink About It” box on page 147) can be a very complex issue and must be individualized with great care. Th is may involve removal of the undescended testes (to reduce the risk of cancer) and estrogen replacement therapy (to prevent osteoporosis).
Congenital Adrenal Hyperplasia Congenital adrenal hyperplasia refers to a group of inherited disorders of the adrenal gland and can aff ect both boys and girls. People with congenital adrenal hyperplasia lack an enzyme needed by the adrenal gland to make the hormones cortisol and aldosterone (“Con- genital Adrenal Hyperplasia,” 2010). Th us, a genetic female (XX) is born with ovaries and a vagina but develops externally as male. Th is condition is the most prevalent of the female intersex conditions, occurring in about 1 in 10,000–18,000 children. At birth, girls usually have normal female reproductive organs. However, during puberty a young person may have abnormal or no menstrual periods, develop a deep voice, and show excessive facial and body hair. Boys will show no symptoms at birth. However, beginning as early as age 2 or 3, they may show changes such as a deepening voice, large testes, small penis, and large muscle development. Treatment for congenital adrenal hyperplasia is aimed at returning the hor- mone levels to normal, without which the body produces more androgen, which causes male characteristics to appear early (or inappropriately). Addition- ally, the health-care provider will check the chromosomes to help determine the gender of the baby. Girls with male-appearing genitals may, between ages 1 and 3 months, have surgery to correct the ambiguous appearance.
5-Alpha Reductase Defi ciency A condition whereby a genetic male (XY) will not produce enough of a hormone called dihydrotestosterone (DHT) is called 5-alpha reductase defi ciency (“What Is 5-Alpha Reductase Syndrome?,” 2008). Given DHT’s signifi cant role in male sexual development, a shortage of this hormone in utero disrupts the formation of the external sex organs, causing individuals to be born with external genitalia that appear female. In other cases, the external genitalia do not look clearly male or clearly female (sometimes called ambiguous genitalia). Still other aff ected infants have genitalia that appear
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predominantly male, often with an unusually small penis (micropenis) and the urethra opening on the underside of the penis (hypospadias). Because of the rarity of this condition, there is no available estimate about how often it occurs. Children with 5-alpha reductase defi ciency are often raised as girls. About half of these individuals adopt a male gender role in adolescence or early adulthood.
Unclassifi ed Form of Abnormal Development
Of unknown origin, but in some cases passed down through families, is a condition called hypospadias (hi-puh-SPAY-dee-as), in which the opening of the penis, rather than being at the tip, is located somewhere on the underside, glans, or shaft, or at the junction of the scrotum. In addition, the foreskin may form a hood over the top of the glans, and there may be a twist in the shaft. In most cases, the condition will form a slit in the underside of the glans. In severe cases, the urethra may be open from midshaft out to the glans, or the urethra may be absent so that the urine exits the bladder behind the penis (“Hypospadias,” 2010). Hypospadias aff ects up to 4 in 1,000 newborn boys. Infants with hypospadias should not be circumcised. Surgery, which consists of straightening the penis and correcting the hypospadias, is usually done before the child is 18 months old.
Gender Identity Disorder
According to the American Psychiatric Association (2000), gender identity disorder (GID) consists of a strong and persistent cross-gender identifi cation and persistent discomfort about one’s assigned sex. Th is diagnosis, classifi ed and described in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-IV-TR), is not made if the individual has a concurrent physical disorder of sexual development or intersex condition. Furthermore, there must be clini- cally signifi cant distress or impairment in social, occupational, or other important areas of functioning. Th e causes of GID are unknown. It has been suggested that hormones in the womb, genes, and environmental factors (including parenting) may be involved (“Gender Identity Disorder,” 2010). Th is rare disorder may occur in children and adults. Boys with GID might be preoccupied with traditionally feminine activities. For example, they may prefer to dress in girls’ or women’s clothes, be attracted to stereotypical games and pastimes of girls, and express a wish to be a girl. Th ey may insist on sitting to urinate and, more rarely, fi nd their penis or testes disgusting. Girls with GID might display intense negative reactions to parental expectations or attempts to have them dress in feminine attire. Th eir fantasy heroes are often powerful male fi gures. Furthermore, they often prefer boys as playmates and show little interest in dolls or any form of feminine dress-up or role-play activity. Both boys and girls with GID are often disgusted by their own genitals and believe that they will grow up to be the other sex. Adults with GID are preoccupied with their wish to live as a member of the other sex. Th is preoccupation may be manifested as an intense desire to adopt the social role of the other sex or to acquire the physical appearance of the other sex through hormonal or surgical correction. Th ere is no diagnostic test specifi c for GID, nor are there data on its prevalence. However, there is counseling available for gender-variant individuals. Sex reassignment through surgery and hormonal therapy are also options.
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Traditional medical treatment for GID has included three phases: (1) a real- life experience in the desired role, (2) hormones of the desired gender, and (3) surgery to change the genitalia and other sex characteristics. However, the diag- nosis of GID invites the consideration of a broader spectrum of therapeutic options because the goal of treatment for people with GID is lasting comfort with the gendered self (“Standards of Care,” 2001). Th e World Professional Association for Transgender Health (WPATH), a professional organization dedicated to the treatment of individuals with gender identity disorders, has articulated a variety of factors and issues in treating those with GID. Th ough there are limitations to the knowledge in this area, there is an emerging thesis that the genitals are not the basis of the gendered self nor is assigned gender eff ective in establishing a gender identity (Vitale, 2005). Greater evidence of gender fl uidity coupled with the rejection by some research- ers for the traditional binary construct of male versus female gender identity (Diamond & Butterworth, 2008) is prompting professionals to further examine the sexual orientation of those who are labeled gender dysphoric. For a variety of reasons, the sexual orientation of these individuals is usually classifi ed with regard to their birth sex. New research among adolescents and adults with GID has found that the majority of the biological females (81.8%) and the minority of biological males (18.2%) report a homosexual sexual orientation (Singh et al., 2010). (Th e remainder had a nonhomosexual sexual orientation.) Signifi cantly more cross- gender behavior was also reported among both adolescents and adults. Th is kind of research provides support for the increasing interest in measuring gender dys- phoria as a dimensional (as opposed to binary) construct.
Transsexuality
In transsexuality, a person’s gender identity and sexual anatomy are not compat- ible. Transsexual individuals are convinced that by some strange quirk of fate they have been given the body of the wrong sex. Th ey generally want to change their sex, not their personality. Transsexuality revolves around issues of gender identity; it is a distinctly diff erent phenomenon from homosexuality. Gay men and lesbian women are not transsexuals. Rather, lesbian women and gay men feel confi dent of their female or male identity. Being a lesbian or gay person refl ects sexual orientation rather than gender questioning. Furthermore, following surgery, transsexual individuals may or may not change their sexual orientation, whether it is toward members of the same, the other, or both sexes. Transitioning does not always involve medical or surgical treatment. By dress- ing in preferred-gender clothing, modifying their bodies through exercise, adjust- ing mannerisms and speech patterns and/or requesting that friends and family address them with preferred names and pronouns, transgender people can use nonmedical options to comfortably live their gender identities or expressions (Human Rights Campaign, 2011a). Th ese individuals may still identify as trans- sexual, transgender, or gender variant. Others may opt not to identify as men or women, but rather to live completely outside the gender binary. Still others seek sex reassignment surgery (SRS) to bring their genitals in line with their gender identity and to help diminish the suff ering they experience. Hormone treatment often accompanies surgery and, combined, they help align these indi- viduals’ bodies with the gender they know themselves to be. Th e prevalence of transsexuality is unknown, though it is estimated that there may be 1 transsexual in 11,900 males and 1 transsexual in 30,400 females
The genitals of a postoperative male-to-female transsexual, above, and the genitals of a postoperative female-to-male transsexual, below.
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(WPATH, 2001). Some cultures accept a gender identity that is not congruent with sexual anatomy and create an alternative third sex, as we saw in Chapter 1. “Men-women”—Native American two-spirits, Indian hijras, and Burmese acaults— are considered a third gender (Bullough, 1991; Coleman, Colgan, & Gooren, 1992; Roscoe, 1991). Members of this third gender are often believed to possess spiritual powers because of their “specialness.”
Coming to Terms With Diff erences
Everyone wishes and deserves to be loved, accepted, and supported. At the same time, most societies have a diffi cult time with diff erences. Western society is not exempt, especially when these diff erences are complex, not understood, and/or may challenge the traditional or religious notions of “normal.” Because rejection and loss are common concerns for individuals facing gender transi- tion, some may feel their only choice is transition or suicide. When the real or perceived risk of loss and rejection is too great a price to pay, many will choose suicide. Th is may result when families and communities avoid discuss- ing children’s gender diff erences or sharing their own gender identity history. Most professionals, however, acknowledge that the more one educates oneself and talks about these issues, the easier it gets. Self-acceptance, beginning with an understanding and appreciation of our physical appearance and the expectations that come with our preferred gender, can be a gateway to building intimacy in personal relationships. Pleasure and satisfaction can be strengthened when individuals have a better understanding of gender issues and diff erences. Because people sometimes react negatively to variations simply because they are fearful or ignorant, educating others about disorders of gender, orientation, and sexual diff erences may help to reduce their fear and ignorance and the stigmatization that accompanies both. While societ- ies, laws, and some individuals may remain closed to accepting and supporting the wide variations in sexuality diff erentiation, gender, and expression, progress can be seen when education, advocacy, and open communication occur. It’s this kind of work that will help all of us to embrace our full humanity.
Following hormone treatment and surgery, most transsexual individuals cannot be identifi ed or diff erentiated from others.
Chaz Bono is a female-to-male transgender man who has documented his life in order to help educate others who might be questioning their own gender identity.
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think about it
Gender reassignment is not about sex but about helping to maximize overall psychological well-being and self-fulfi llment.
Psychotherapy
Many individuals with gender identity disorder (GID) fi nd that psychotherapy can be helfpful in coming to an acceptance of themselves; however, not every adult gender patient requests therapy. Though eff ective for many, psychotherapy is not an absolute requirement prior to hormone therapy, real-life experi- ence, or surgery (Gijs & Brewaeys, 2007). Most surgeons require two letters from mental health professionals experienced with gender variance issues before they will perform surgery.
Hormone Therapy
Hormonal treatments play an important role in the anatomical and psychological gender transition process and are often medi- cally necessary for successful living in the new gender. When physicians administer androgens to biological females and es- trogens, progesterone, and testosterone-blocking agents to bio- logical males, patients feel and appear more like members of their preferred gender.
The Real-Life Experience
Living as a member of the preferred gender is essential. This is not an easy task, for such subtle gender clues as mannerisms, voice infl ections, and body movement, learned in childhood, must be altered.
Sex Reassignment Surgery
Sex reassignment surgery (SRS), along with hormone therapy and real-life experience, is a treatment that has proved to be ef- fective. Breast augmentation and removal are common opera- tions. For the female-to-male patient, a mastectomy is usually the fi rst surgery recommended, sometimes when the individual begins hormones. For the male-to-female patient, augmentation may be performed if hormone treatment for 18 months is not suffi cient. Genital surgery for the male-to-female patient involves a penile inversion technique, in which doctors create a vaginal cavity with inverted penile skin, a rectosigmoid transplant, in which tis- sue is cut from the sigmoid section of the colon and used to cre- ate a vaginal cavity, or a free-skin graft to line the neovagina. A
Sex Reassignment
clitoris is formed from penile corpus spongiosum, and inner and outer lips are crafted from scrotal tissue. Other cosmetic proce- dures, such as nose surgery, tracheal shave, and electrolysis, may be performed. Though there may be some decline in orgasmic capacity, most postoperative transsexuals report an enjoyment of sexual activities. In female-to-male patients, the ovaries, uterus, and breasts can be removed. The clitoris, which has been enlarged by testos- terone therapy, can be refashioned into a penis, and the labia are formed into a scrotum, where skin is grafted from the thigh, abdomen, or forearm. Several techniques may be used to simu- late penile erection, ranging from the insertion of a semierect rod to the surgical implantation of an infl atable device. Accord- ing to studies, orgasmic capacity and/or sexual satisfaction among postoperative transsexuals varies (Gijs, 2007). Parent- hood is a choice for many transsexuals, and reproductive options are discussed with them in detail.
Follow-Up and Prognosis
Long-term postoperative follow-up is encouraged, from both a physical and psychological perspective. Research suggests that the majority of people who have undergone gender reassign- ment procedures report that sexual reassignment is the most appropriate treatment to alleviate the suff ering of extremely gender dysphoric individuals (Gijs & Brewaeys, 2007).
Think Critically 1. What would you say to another person who confi ded
in you that he or she was experiencing gender dys- phoria? To whom might you refer this person?
2. What are your thoughts about psychotherapy as a requirement prior to hormone treatment or before sex reassignment surgery?
3. How might you feel or react if it was revealed to you that your good friend, fellow student, or co-worker had undergone sex reassignment surgery? Would it make any diff erence if this was a close or a distant friend? Lover?
SOURCE: World Professional Association for Transgender Health. (2001). Harry Benjamin International Gender Dysphoria Association’s Standards of Care for Gender Identity Disorders, Sixth Edition. Available: http://www.wpath.org/ Documents2/socv6.pdf.
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We ordinarily take our gender as female or male for granted. The making of gender, however, is a complex process involving biological, cultural, and psychological elements. Biologically, we are male or female in terms of genetic and anatomical makeup. Psychologically, we are male or female in terms of our assigned gender and our gender identity. Only in rare cases, as with chromosomal and hormonal anoma- lies or gender dysphoria, can our gender identity be problematic. For most of us, gender identity is rarely a source of concern. More often, what concerns us is related to our gender roles: Am I suffi ciently masculine? Feminine? What it means to be feminine or masculine diff ers from culture to culture. Although femininity and mas- culinity are generally regarded as opposites in our culture, there are relatively few signifi cant inherent diff erences between the sexes aside from males impregnating and females giving birth and lactating. The majority of social and psychological dif- ferences are exaggerated or culturally encouraged. All in all, women and men are more similar than diff erent. The more that we as individuals and as a society do to educate ourselves, the more likely the shame and stigmatization that accompany sexual and gender variations will be reduced.
Final Thoughts
Summary Studying Gender and Gender Roles
■ Sex is the biological aspect of being female or male. Gender encompasses the social and cultural charac- teristics associated with biological sex. Normal gen- der development depends on biological, cultural, and psychological factors. Psychological factors include assigned gender and gender identity. Gender roles tell us how we are to act as men and women in a particu- lar culture. Gender variations occur among those who cannot or choose not to conform to societal gender norms.
■ Although our culture encourages us to think that men and women are “opposite” sexes, they are more similar than dissimilar. Innate gender diff erences are generally minimal; diff erences are primarily encour- aged by socialization.
■ Masculine and feminine stereotypes assume hetero- sexuality. Heteronormativity refers to the belief that if men or women do not fi t gender or sexual stereotypes, they are likely to be considered gay or lesbian. Gay men and lesbian women, however, are as likely as heterosexuals to be masculine or feminine.
Gender-Role Learning
■ Cognitive social learning theory emphasizes learning behaviors from others through cognition and model- ing. Cognitive development theory asserts that once children learn gender is permanent they indepen- dently strive to act like “proper” girls and boys because of an internal need for congruence.
■ Social construction theory views gender as a set of prac- tices and performances that occur through language and a political system. Queer theories view gender and sexuality as systems that cannot be understood as gender neutral or by the actions of heterosexuals.
■ Th ough the stereotypes are somewhat outmoded, children still learn their gender roles from parents through manipulation, channeling, verbal appella- tion, and activity exposure. Parents, teachers, peers, and the media are the most important agents of socialization during childhood and adolescence.
■ A gender schema is a set of interrelated ideas used to organize information about the world on the basis of gender. We use our gender schemas to classify many non-gender-related objects, behaviors, and activities as male or female.
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Contemporary Gender Roles and Scripts
■ Th e traditional male gender role is instrumental. It em- phasizes aggression, independence, and sexual prowess. Traditional male sexual scripts include the denial of the expression of feelings, an emphasis on performance and being in charge, the belief that men always want sex and that all physical contact leads to sex.
■ Traditional female roles are expressive. Th ey empha- size passivity, compliance, physical attractiveness, and being a wife and mother. Female sexual scripts sug- gest that sex is good and bad (depending on the con- text); genitals should not be touched; sex is for men; women shouldn’t talk about sex; women should look like models; and there is only one “right” way to experience an orgasm.
■ Important changes aff ecting today’s gender roles and sexual scripts include increasing questioning of values and expectations around parenting, dating, and careers.
■ Contemporary sexual scripts are more egalitarian than traditional ones and include the belief that sex is positive, that it involves a mutual exchange, and that it may be initiated by either partner.
■ Androgyny combines traditional female and male characteristics into a more fl exible pattern of behav- ior, rather than seeing them as opposites.
Gender Variations
■ Variations in congenital sex anatomy that are con- sidered atypical for females or males are referred to as disorders of sexual development or being intersex. Disorders of gonadal diff erentiation include Turner syndrome and Klinefelter syndrome, mosaicism, an- drogen insensitivity syndrome, congenital adrenal hyperplasia, and 5-alpha reductase defi ciency. An unclassifi ed form of abnormal development is hypospadias.
■ A transgender community, one that embraces the possibility of numerous genders and multiple social identities, has emerged. A transgender individual is one who lives full-time in a gender role diff erent from the gender role presumed by society to match that person’s genetic sex.
■ Gender identity disorder is the state of dissatisfaction individuals may experience about their gender. People who plan to or do transition to the “other” gender are known as transsexuals. Th is transition is known as sex reassignment. Th e causes of transsexuality are not known.
Questions for Discussion ■ How have gender stereotypes and roles
infl uenced your views of your sexuality and the ways in which you relate to others?
■ If you had an infant born with ambiguous genitalia, would you opt for surgery? Inhibit the onset of puberty with drugs? What gender would you raise the child? If surgery were chosen, when the child was old enough, would you inform him or her about this treatment? Or would you not choose surgery, and instead leave the decision to the individual at a later time?
■ Do you believe that your gender identity was biologically or socially determined? Who or what most infl uenced your gender identity? In what ways?
Sex and the Internet Gender Studies The number of gender studies has increased tremen- dously in recent years. Now, both men and women can learn more about the history and politics of gender by simply clicking onto a website. Go to the Voice of the Shuttle Gender Studies Page, based at the University of California at Santa Barbara (http://vos.ucsb.edu). Select “Gender and Sexuality Studies.” From there, click on three related links and read what they have to off er. Once you have read three articles, answer the following questions:
■ What is the history of this subject area? ■ How does the new information you have gathered
infl uence the way you think about gender and/or sexual orientation?
■ What was one specifi c aspect of this subject that most interested you?
■ What is one point you still have questions about?
■ What have you learned as a result of this research?
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Suggested Websites About Kids Health http://www.aboutkidshealth.ca/En/HowTheBodyWorks/ SexDevelopmentAnOverview/Pages/default.aspx An interactive website that provides pediatric health-care informa- tion in multiple languages.
Accord Alliance http://www.accordalliance.org Information, referrals, and support for those who are seeking in- formation and advice about disorders of sexual development (formerly the Intersex Society of North America).
Disorders of Sexual Development www.dsdguidelines.org Handbooks for clinicians and patients about the diagnosis, treat- ment, education, and support of children with disorders of sexual development.
Human Rights Campaign http://www.hrc.org Advocates for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender equal rights by lobbying, educating, and participating in election campaigns and policy matters.
National Center for Transgender Equality http://www.transquality.org Dedicated to advancing the equality of transgender people through advocacy, collaboration, and empowerment.
United Nations Inter-Agency Network on Women and Gender http://www.un.org/womenwatch Gateway to information and resources on the promotion of gender equality.
World Professional Association for Transgender Health (WPATH) http://www.path.org A professional organization that provides evidence-based care, edu- cation, research, and advocacy in transgender and transsexual health.
Suggested Reading Bono, C. (2011). Transition: Th e story of how I became a man.
New York: Penguin. Chronicles the personal transition from female-to-male of Chaz Bono and, in doing so, provides insight into gender, identity, sexuality, and the value of honesty.
Dreger, A. D. (2004). One of us: Conjoined twins and the future of normal. Cambridge, MA: Harvard University Press. An analysis of children born with anatomical anomalies and the lives they lead.
Eliot, L. (2009). Pink brain, blue brain: How small diff erences grow into troublesome gaps—and what we can do about it. New York: Houghton. Blends culture and biology to provide insights into parenting, educating, and raising children in a way that refutes an overemphasis on sex diff erences.
Fausto-Sterling A. (2012). Sex/Gender: Biology in a social world. New York: Routledge. Provides an explanation of the biological and cultural underpinnings of gender.
Harper, K. (2007). Intersex. Oxford, England: Berg Publishers. Reviews the available research and current thinking on raising intersex individuals.
Lips, H. (2008). Sex and gender: An introduction (6th ed.). Burr Ridge, IL: McGraw-Hill. Gender theories, research, and issues examined and discussed in light of their similarities and diff erences.
Meyer, I. H., & Northridge, M. E. (Eds.). (2010). Th e health of sexual minorities. Public health perspectives on lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender populations. New York: Springer. Challenges assumptions about how people manage their identities at various stages of their lives.
For links, articles, and study material, go to the McGraw-Hill website, located at
www.mhhe.com/yarber8e.
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Sexuality in Infancy and Childhood (Ages 0 to 11) 159
Sexuality in Adolescence (Ages 12 to 19) 164
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Sexuality in Infancy and Childhood (Ages 0 to 11) • 159
As we consider the human life cycle from birth to death, we cannot help but be struck by how profoundly sexuality weaves its way through our lives. From the moment we are born, we are rich in sexual and erotic potential, which begins to take shape in our sexual curiosity and experimentations in childhood. As children, we are only partly formed, but the world around us helps shape our sexuality. In adolescence, our education continues as a random mixture of learning, yearning, and experimenting with new behaviors. In this chapter, we discuss both the innate and the learned aspects of sexual- ity, from infancy through adolescence. We examine both physical development and psychosexual development, which involves the psychological aspects of sexuality. We see how culture, family, media, and other factors aff ect children’s feelings about their bodies and infl uence their sexual feelings and activities. We look at how the physical changes experienced by teenagers aff ect their sexual awareness and sexual identity as heterosexual, gay, lesbian, bisexual, or transgen- der individuals. And we discuss adolescent sexual behaviors, teenage pregnancy, teenage parenthood, and sexuality education.
• Sexuality in Infancy and Childhood (Ages 0 to 11) Our understanding of infant sexuality is based on observation and inference. It is obvious that babies derive sensual pleasure from stroking, cuddling, bath- ing, and other tactile stimulation. Ernest Borneman, a researcher of children’s sexuality in the 1950s, suggested that the fi rst phase of sexual development be called the cutaneous phase (from the Greek kytos, skin). During this period, an infant’s skin can be considered a “single erogenous zone” (Borneman, 1983).
Student Voices
“For most of college, I dated several women, but I never found the right one. Sex is special to me, and although at times I feel like just doing it with any- one, like all my friends, I don’t. However, the fi rst time that I did have actual intercourse was in my sophomore year with a random person. I was almost 20 years old and living in my fraternity house. Constantly, I was bombarded with stories of the conquests of my fraternity brothers. Why was I diff erent? I had remained a virgin for so long, and up until then I was pretty secure about it. But during that time, not only did I give up my virginity, but I also slipped in life. This represented a major down time for me.”
—25-year-old male
“I cannot say that I am sexually attracted to females, but I get lost in their looks and their angelic energy. I love to kiss girls and have close relationships with them. There is a liberating and beautiful trust that I fi nd between certain women and my- self that I have not shared with a man. I am, however, sexually attracted to men and love to be aff ectionate and have rela- tionships with them.”
—22-year-old female
“I discovered that White and Latino men fi nd me attractive, but I’m still hurt that I don’t fi t in completely with my own people. I’m sure most of it has to do with my baggage and me. I sometimes see Black men’s heads turn, and some speak to me. But it’s when that one or two don’t; it’s like a stab in the heart again. I believe that I reject those who show interest because of what Black guys in my past have put me through. Perhaps I think if I’m myself around them they may think I talk White and I’m stuck up. Because they have never wanted me, my preference is now Latino men.”
—19-year-old Black female
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Th e young child’s healthy psychosexual development lays the foundation for further stages of growth. Psychosexual maturity, including the ability to love, begins to develop in infancy, when babies are lovingly touched all over their bodies (which appear to be designed to attract the caresses of their elders). Infants and young children communicate by smiling, gesturing, crying, and so on. Before they understand the language, they learn to interpret movements, facial expressions, body language, and tone of voice. Humans’ earliest lessons are conveyed in these ways. Infants begin to learn how they “should” feel about their bodies. If a parent frowns, speaks sharply, or slaps an exploring hand, the infant quickly learns that a particular activity—touching the genitals, for example—is wrong. Th e infant may or may not continue the activity, but if he or she does, it will be in secret, probably accompanied by feelings of guilt and shame. Infants also learn about the gender role they are expected to fulfi ll (Bussey & Bandura, 1999). While there is evidence of inborn infl uences on sex-typed toy preferences (Jadva, Hines, & Golombok, 2008), much of what children experi- ence is reinforced by parental and societal upbringing. In our culture, baby girls are often handled more gently than baby boys, are dressed up more, and are given soft toys and dolls to play with. Baby boys, in contrast, are expected to be “tough.” Th eir dads may roughhouse with them and speak more loudly to them than to baby girls. Th ey are given “boy toys”—blocks, cars, and action fi gures. Th is gender-role learning is reinforced as the child grows older (see Chapter 5).
Infancy and Sexual Response (Ages 0 to 2)
Infants can be observed discovering the pleasure of genital stimulation soon after they are born. However, the body actually begins its fi rst sexual response even earlier, in utero, when sonograms have shown that boys have erections. Th is begins a pattern of erections that will occur throughout their lives. Signs of sexual arousal in girls, though less easily detected, begin soon after birth and include vaginal lubrication and genital swelling. In some cases, both male and female infants have been observed experiencing what appears to be an orgasm. Obviously, an infant is unable to diff erentiate sexual pleasure from other types of enjoyment, so viewing these as sexual responses are adult interpretations of these normal refl exes and do not necessarily signify the infant’s desire or inter- est. What it does reveal is that the capacity for sexual response is present soon after conception (DeLamater & Friedrich, 2002).
Childhood Sexuality (Ages 3 to 11)
Children become aware of sex and sexuality much earlier than many people realize. Th ey generally learn to disguise their interest rather than risk the disap- proval of their elders, but they continue as small scientists—collecting data, performing experiments, and attending conferences with their colleagues. In fact, more than 50% of children will engage in some type of sexual behavior before their 13th birthday (Larsson & Svedin, 2002).
Curiosity and Sex Play Starting as early as age 3, when they begin interacting with their peers, children begin to explore their bodies together. Th ey may masturbate or play “mommy and daddy” and hug and kiss and lie on top of each other; they may play “doctor” so that they can look at each other’s genitals. Author and social justice activist Letty Cottin Pogrebin (1983) suggests that we think of children as “students” rather than “voyeurs.” It is important for them to know what others look like in order to feel comfortable about themselves.
Conscience is the inner voice which warns us that someone may be looking.
—H. L. Mencken (1880–1956)
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I do not think that there is even one good reason for denying children
the information which their thirst for knowledge demands.
—Sigmund Freud (1856–1939)
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Physician and noted sexuality educator Mary Calderone (1983) stressed that children’s sexual interest should never be labeled “bad” but that it may be deemed inappropriate for certain times, places, or persons. According to Calderone, “Th e attitude of the parents should be to socialize for privacy rather than to punish or forbid.” If children’s natural curiosity about their sexuality is satisfi ed, they are likely to feel comfortable with their own bodies as adults. Children who participate in sex play generally do so with children of their own sex. In fact, same-sex activity is probably more common during the child- hood years when the separation of the sexes is particularly strong (DeLamater & Friedrich, 2002). Most go on to develop heterosexual orientations; some do not. But whatever a person’s sexual orientation, childhood sex play clearly does not create the orientation. Th e origins of sexual orientation are not well under- stood; in some cases, there may indeed be a biological basis. Many gay men and lesbian women say that they fi rst became aware of their attraction to the same sex during childhood, but many heterosexual people also report attraction to the same sex. Th ese feelings and behaviors appear to be quite common and congruent with healthy psychological development in heterosexual, lesbian, and gay individuals (DeLamater & Friedrich, 2002). (See Table 6.1 for common childhood sexual behaviors.)
Masturbation and Permission to Feel Pleasure Most of us masturbate; most of us also were raised to feel guilty about it. When college students were asked to recall when they fi rst masturbated, about 40% of the women and 38% of the men remember masturbating before puberty (Bancroft, Herbenick, & Reynolds, 2003). But the message “If it feels good, it’s bad” is often inter- nalized at an early age, leading to psychological and sexual diffi culties in later life. Virtually all psychologists, physicians, child development specialists, and other professionals agree that masturbation is healthy. Negative responses from adults only magnify the guilt and anxiety that a child is taught to associate with this behavior.
A good thing about masturbation is that you don’t have to dress up for it.
—Truman Capote (1924–1984)
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Kissing and cuddling are essential to an infant’s healthy psychosexual development.
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Children often accidentally discover that playing with their genitals is pleasur- able and continue this activity until reprimanded by an adult. Male infants have been observed with erect penises a few hours after birth. A baby boy may laugh in his crib while playing with his erect penis. Baby girls sometimes move their bodies rhythmically, almost violently, appearing to experience orgasm. By the time they are 4 or 5, children have usually learned that adults consider this form of behavior “nasty.” Parents generally react negatively to masturbation, regardless of the age and sex of the child. Later, this negative attitude becomes generalized
Children are naturally curious about bodies. It is important that these kinds of explorations are seen as normal and not be labeled “bad.”
SOURCE: Adapted from Table 3, Friedrick, W. N. (2003). Studies of sexuality of nonabused children. In Bancroft, J. (Ed.), Sexual development in childhood. Bloomington: Indiana University Press. Reprinted by permission.
Age Group Behavior % of Boys % of Girls
2–5 years Stands too close to people 29.3 15.8
Touches own sex parts when in public places 26.5 43.7
Touches/tries to touch mother’s or other woman’s breast 42.4 43.7
Touches sex parts at home 60.2 43.8
Tries to look at people when they are nude or undressing 26.8 26.9
6–9 years Touches own sex parts at home 39.8 20.7
Tries to look at people when they are nude or undressing 20.2 20.5
10–12 years Is very interested in the opposite sex 24.1 28.7
TABLE 6.1 • Childhood Sexual Behaviors Witnessed by at Least 20% of Parents, by Age Group and Gender
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to include the sexual pleasure that accompanies the behavior. Children thus learn to conceal their masturbatory play. Although children vary in the age at which they begin to conceal their sexuality, it appears to occur between the ages of 6 and 10 (Bancroft, 2009). Children need to understand that pleasure from self-stimulation is normal and acceptable. But they also need to know that self-stimulation is something that we do in private, yet something that some people are uncomfortable with.
When Children “Act Out”: Red Flags for Problematic Sexual Behavior Distinguishing between normal and problematic childhood sexual behaviors is a matter of degree and context of the behavior and may be diffi cult for many parents and adults to recognize. When sexual behaviors are persistently intru- sive, coercive, developmentally abnormal, or abusive, there may be broader issues that need to be addressed (Kellogg, 2009). For example, if a child appears preoccupied with touching himself or herself or others in public or appears to know “too much” about sexual behaviors, there may be cause for concern for parents or caregivers. It is important, at the same time, to know that the expres- sion of sexuality is only one component of many factors to consider before designating a behavior as a sexual problem (Kellogg, 2009). If, however, sexual abuse or an emotional problem is suspected, professional help should be sought. (Child sexual abuse is discussed further in Chapter 17.)
The Family Context
Family styles of physical expression and feelings about modesty, privacy, and nudity vary considerably.
Family Nudity Some families are comfortable with nudity in a variety of contexts: bathing, swimming, sunbathing, dressing, or undressing. Others are comfortable with partial nudity from time to time: when sharing the bathroom, changing clothes, and so on. Still others are more modest and carefully guard their privacy. Most researchers and therapists would agree that styles of modesty can be compatible with the formation of sexually well-adjusted children, as long as some basic guidelines are observed:
■ Accept and respect a child’s body (and nudity). If 4-year-old Chantel runs naked into her parents’ dinner party, she should be greeted with friendli- ness, not horror or harsh words. If her parents are truly uncomfortable, they can help her get dressed matter-of-factly, without recrimination.
■ Do not punish or humiliate a child for seeing his or her parents naked, going to the bathroom, or being sexual with each other. If the parent screams or lunges for a towel, little Robbie will think he has witnessed something wicked or frightening. He can be gently reminded that mommy or daddy wants privacy at the moment.
■ Respect a child’s need for privacy. Many children, especially as they approach puberty, become quite modest. It is a violation of the child’s developing sense of self not to respect his or her need for privacy. If 9-year-old Jeremy starts routinely locking the bathroom door or 11-year- old Sarah covers her chest when a parent interrupts her while she is dressing, it is most likely a sign of normal development. Children whose privacy and modesty is respected will learn to respect that of others.
Learning about sex in our society is learning about guilt.
—John Gagnon and William Simon “
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Expressing Aff ection Families also vary in the amount and type of physical contact in which they engage. Some families hug and kiss, give back rubs, sit and lean on each other, and generally maintain a high degree of physical close- ness. Some parents extend this closeness to their sleeping habits, allowing their infants and small children in their beds each night. (In many cultures, this is the rule rather than the exception.) Other families limit their contact to hugs and tickles. Variations of this kind are normal. Concerning children’s needs for physical contact, we can make the following generalizations:
■ All children (and adults) need freely given physical aff ection from those they love. Although there is no prescription for the right amount or form of such expression, its quantity and quality aff ect both children’s emotional well-being and the emotional and sexual health of the adults they will become.
■ Children should be told, in a nonthreatening way, what kind of touching by adults is “acceptable” and what is “not acceptable.” Children need to feel that they are in charge of their own bodies, that parts of their bodies are “private property,” and that no one has the right to touch them with sexual intent.
■ It is not necessary to frighten a child by going into great detail about the kinds of bad things that others might do to them sexually. A better strategy is to instill a sense of self-worth and confi dence in children so that they will not allow themselves to be victimized.
■ We should listen to children and trust them. Children need to know that if they are sexually abused it is not their fault. Th ey need to feel that they can tell about it and still be worthy of love.
• Sexuality in Adolescence (Ages 12 to 19) Puberty is the stage of human development when the body becomes capable of reproduction. For legal purposes (e.g., laws relating to child abuse), puberty is considered to begin at age 12 for girls and age 14 for boys. Adolescence is the social and psychological state that occurs between the beginning of puberty and acceptance into full adulthood.
Psychosexual Development
Adolescents are sexually mature (or close to it) in a physical sense, but they are still learning about their gender and social roles, and they still have much to learn about their sexual scripts (see Chapter 5). Th ey may also be struggling to understand the meaning of their sexual feelings for others and their sexual orientation.
Physical Changes During Puberty Th ough the mechanisms that activate the chain of development that occurs during puberty are not fully understood, researchers have observed that as the child approaches puberty, typically begin- ning between the ages of 8 and 13 for girls and 9 and 14 for boys, the levels of hormones begin to increase. Th is period of rapid physical changes is triggered by the hypothalamus, which plays a central role in increasing secretions that cause the pituitary gland to release large amounts of hormones into the blood- stream. Th e hormones, called gonadotropins, stimulate activity in the gonads
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and are chemically identical in boys and girls. In girls, they act on the ovaries to produce estrogen; in boys, they cause the testes to increase testosterone production. Th ese higher levels of male and female hormones result in the development of specifi c external signs of male and female sexual maturation, known as secondary sex characteristics, including the onset of menstruation (in girls) and ejaculation (in boys). (See Figure 6.1.) Th e fi rst sign of puberty in girls, which occurs at an average age of 10½ years, is breast development. Th is is also the beginning of their growth spurt, which is followed by the growth of pubic and underarm hair and the onset of vaginal mucous secretions. Menarche, the onset of menstruation, follows within a year or two. Th e average age of menstruation is 12 years 4 months, although girls may begin menstruating as early as 9 or as late as 17 (Anderson & Must, 2005). Given the fact that girls are undergoing sexual maturation at a younger age than previous studies had indicated, parents would be advised to read about the wide variety of changes and behaviors that exist among adolescents and discuss these changes with their children prior to the onset of puberty. Precocious puberty refers to the appearance of physical and hormonal signs of pubertal development at an earlier age than is considered typical. For many years, puberty was considered precocious in girls younger than 8 years; however, recent studies indicate that signs of early puberty (breasts and pubic hair) are often present in girls (particularly Black girls) aged 6–8 years. For boys, onset of puberty before age 9 years is considered precocious (Kaplowitz, 2010). Precocious puberty is seen in approximately 8% of White and 35% of Black girls in the United States. Reliable estimates of the frequency of precocious puberty in boys have not been published. However, it has been
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• FIGURE 6.1 Physical and Hormonal Changes During Puberty
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reported that between one fi fth and one tenth as many boys as girls experience this. Most who are diagnosed with precocious puberty are otherwise healthy children whose pubertal maturation begins at the early end of the normal distribution curve. No one is quite sure what is causing this early sexual development. A number of potential factors, including weight gain, a protein called leptin (produced by body fat), hormones in meat and milk, and expo- sure to chemicals that act as hormone disrupters, such as PCBs and certain pesticides, have been implicated (Anderson & Must, 2005; Lee et al., 2007; Steingraber, 2007). Perhaps as troubling as the early physical changes that are occurring are the potential psychological eff ects of premature sexual development. Th e concern, of course, is that young girls who look older than they are, might be pressured by others to act older. Unfortunately, when children are bombarded by sexual images and their bodies push them toward adulthood before they are ready psychologically, they lose the freedom to be a child. Th e cultural pressure to short-circuit the time when a young girl is developing her sense of self and her place in the world can set a dangerous precedent for later behavior. Because hormonal changes often stoke the fi res of sexual curiosity and behavior in young people, early dating and possible progression toward sexual intercourse may begin at a young age. Given the many psychological motives that are involved in sexual activity, if a young person is not prepared for the outcomes and responsibilities that accompany sexual behavior, social, psychological, and emotional problems can result. In response to younger girls’ earlier maturation, the American Psychological Association (APA) published the Report of the APA Task Force on the Sexualiza- tion of Girls in 2007. After analyzing 280 peer-reviewed journal articles, 80 books, and dozens of other sources, the task force concluded that the sexualization of girls is pervasive in U.S. culture and that this negatively impacts girls’ “cognitive functioning, physical and mental health, sexuality, and attitudes and beliefs” (p. 2). Th e authors of the report suggested numerous interventions to reverse the incidence of girls’ sexualization and its negative impact and, in doing so, have taken the lead in a growing movement within academia toward activism and public scholarship. As previously stated, puberty generally begins later in boys, at an average age of 11½–12 years. Th e fi rst sign is an increase in the size of the testicles, followed by the growth of pubic hair. Physical changes continue, including a growth spurt; hand and foot growth; muscle-mass growth; voice deepening; and hair growth on the face, the underarms, and sometimes on other parts of the body. Th e penis also grows larger. Some boys reach puberty around age 12; others, not until their later teens. Generally, however, they lag about 2–3 years behind girls in pubertal development. Th e scarcity of research on early orgasm is apparent in contemporary sexol- ogy (Janssen, 2007). However, we do know that at puberty, boys begin to ejaculate semen, which accompanies the experience of orgasm they may have been having for some time. Just as girls often do not know what is happening when they begin to menstruate, many boys are unnerved by the fi rst appearance of semen as a result of masturbation or nocturnal emissions during sleep (“wet dreams”). Like menstruation for girls, the onset of ejaculation is a sexual mile- stone for boys: It is the beginning of their fertility. Alfred Kinsey called fi rst ejaculation the most important psychosexual event in male adolescence (Kinsey, Pomeroy, & Martin, 1948).
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Infl uences on Psychosexual Development Besides biological forces, numer- ous factors are known to increase or decrease teen sexual behavior. Th ough teens’ behaviors cannot necessarily be controlled, parents and other concerned adults can attempt to aff ect the factors that infl uence teens’ sexual decisions in order to facilitate the development of a healthy sexuality.
Parental Infl uence Children learn a great deal about sexuality from their parents. For the most part, however, they learn, not because their parents set out to teach them, but because they are avid observers of their parents behav- ior and family dynamics and characteristics. Much of what they learn involves the connection (or lack of ) they have with their parents. Research reveals that individuals who had been insecure infants started and completed pubertal development earlier compared to those who had been secure infants (Belskys, Houts & Pasco Fearon, 2010). As they enter adolescence, young people are especially concerned about their own sexuality, but they are often too embarrassed to ask their parents directly about these “secret” matters. And most parents are ambivalent about their children’s devel- oping sexual nature. Parents often underestimate their children’s involvement in sexual activities, even as their children progress through adolescence, and so perceive less need to discuss sexuality with them. Th ey are often fearful that their children (daughters especially) will become sexually active if they have “too much” informa- tion. Th ey tend to indulge in wishful thinking: “I’m sure Jenny’s not really interested in boys yet”; “I know Jose would never do anything like that.” Parents may put off talking seriously with their children about sex, waiting for the “right time.” Or they may bring up the subject once, make their points, breathe a sigh of relief, and never mention it again. Still, teens continue to say that parents (46%) most infl u- ence their decisions about sex (Albert 2010). Far more (62%) wish they were able to talk more openly with their parents about relationships. Not talking about sex- related issues can have serious consequences, leaving adolescents vulnerable to other sources of information and opinions, such as media and peers.
Most mothers think that to keep young people from love making it is enough
not to speak of it in their presence.
—Marie Madeline de la Fayette (1634–1693)
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Rites of passage are built into the traditions of most cultures. Among them are the Jewish Bar Mitzvah, Indian Navjote ritual, and South African Xhosa initiation rite.
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Family characteristics and dynamics exhibit a strong infl uence on teens’ sexual attitudes and behaviors, most notably living with and experiencing close relationships with both parents, having parents who are more educated and have adequate family income, feeling parental support and connection, having no family abuse of alcohol or drugs, and having parents who identify sexual risk taking and early childbearing as inconsistent with their own values (Kirby, 2007). When parents have early and consistent conversations in an open and comfortable manner with their children, many of the risk factors associated with teen sexuality can be reduced. In fact, it is critical not only to explore the negative consequences associated with risky sexual behaviors, but also positive outcomes that adolescents experience during and following sexual activity with another person (Halpern-Felsher & Reznik, 2009).
Peer Infl uence Consistent in most research fi ndings is that adolescents receive more information about sex from peers (especially if they are same-sex) than from any other source (Sprecher, Harris, & Meyers, 2008). Additionally, they may put pressure on each other to carry out traditional gender roles. Boys encourage other boys to be sexually active even if they are unprepared or unin- terested. Th ey must camoufl age their inexperience with bravado, which increases misinformation; they cannot reveal sexual ignorance. Bill Cosby (1968) recalled the pressure to have sexual intercourse as an adolescent: “But how do you fi nd out how to do it without blowin’ the fact that you don’t know how to do it?” On his way to his fi rst sexual encounter, he realized that he didn’t have the faintest idea of how to proceed:
So now I’m walkin’, and I’m trying to fi gure out what to do. And when I get there, the most embarrassing thing is gonna be when I have to take my pants down. See, right away, then, I’m buck naked. . . . buck naked in front of this girl. Now, what happens then? Do . . . do you just . . . I don’t even know what to do . . . I’m gonna just stand there and she’s gonna say, “You don’t know how to do it.” And I’m gonna say, “Yes, I do, but I forgot.” I never thought of her showing me, because I’m a man and I don’t want her to show me. I don’t want nobody to show me, but I wish somebody would kinda slip me a note.
Even though many teenagers fi nd their early sexual experiences less than satisfying, they still seem to feel a great deal of pressure to conform, which means becoming or continuing to be sexually active. Th e social eff ects on teen
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• FIGURE 6.2 Percentage of Teenagers Aged 15–19 Who Talked With a Parent About Sex-Related Topics: United States, 2006–2008. (Source: Martinez, Abma, & Copen, 2010.)
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sexuality are strong. Teens are more likely to be sexually active if their best friends and peers are sexually active and are older, use alcohol or drugs, or engage in other risky behaviors (Kirby, 2007). Similarly, simply having a romantic partner increases the chances of sexual activity, especially if that part- ner is older.
The Media As discussed in Chapter 1, erotic portrayals—nudity, sexually pro- vocative language, and displays of sexual passion—are of great interest to the American viewing public. Th is public includes many curious and malleable chil- dren and adolescents who don’t just absorb mass media representations but respond to them in various ways. In an era in which we are bombarded with sexual images, the challenge of making healthy choices about sex is substantial. Given that teens watch about 3.3 hours of television every day, of which 70% contains sexual content, it is not surprising that the pervasive and explicit exposure increases teens’ willingness to experiment with sex (Kaiser Family Foundation, 2005a).
In addition to biological factors, social forces strongly infl uence young teenagers. Because certain types of violence and aggression are considered “manly” in our culture, the boys in this photograph (top) take great pleasure in a video game featuring simulated violence. For adolescent girls, the physical and social changes of puberty often result in a great deal of interest (some would say obsession) with personal appearance, including the selection of makeup, clothing, and shoes.
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Although some people would protect young viewers by censoring what is shown on television or the Internet, or played on the radio or CDs, a more viable solution to sexual hype in the media is to balance it with information about real life. It’s also important to remember that the media also off er posi- tive and informative sexual messages and outcomes that can be instrumental in educating young people about sex.
Religiosity Th ough most research examines the extent to which religion shapes adolescent sexual behaviors, little is known about its impact on attitudes about sexuality (Halpern-Felsher & Reznik, 2009). Adolescents who describe themselves as religious and indicate that religion is an important part of their lives are less likely to engage in any form of sexual behavior than those who say they are not religious (Uecker, Angotti, & Regnerus, 2008). Th is pattern is particularly strong among adolescents who frequently attend religious services (deVisser, Smith, Richters, & Rissel, 2007).
Gay, Lesbian, and Questioning Adolescents During adolescence and early adulthood, sexual orientation becomes a very salient issue. In fact, few adolescents experience this as a trouble- or anxiety-free time. Many young people experience sexual fantasies involving others of their own sex; some engage in same-sex play. For many, these feelings of sexual attraction are a normal stage of sexual development, but for 2–10% of the population, the realization of a romantic attraction to members of their own sex will begin to grow (Chandra, Mosher, Copen, & Sionean, 2011; Laumann, Gagnon, Michael, & Michaels, 1994). Some gay men and lesbian women report that they began to be aware of their “diff erence” in middle or late childhood. Th us, the term “questioning” is used to describe those individuals who are examining their sexual orientation during this time of life. Gay and lesbian adolescents usually have heterosexual dating experiences, and some engage in intercourse during their teens, but they often report ambivalent feelings about them. Society in general has diffi culty dealing with adolescent sexuality. Accept- ing the fact of gay and lesbian (or bisexual) adolescent sexuality has been especially problematic. Although there is more understanding of homosexual- ity now than in decades past, a better awareness that “reforming” gay people is ineff ective, and more counseling and support services are available in some
“ Nowadays the polite form of homophobia is expressed in
safeguarding the family, as if homosexuals somehow came into existence independent of families and without family ties.
—Dennis Altman (1943–)
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• FIGURE 6.3 When it comes to your/teens’ decisions about sexual activity, who is most infl uential? (Responses are a combination of teens and adults.) (Source: From Albert, B. (2010). With one voice, America’s adults and teens sound off about teen pregnancy. Washington, DC: The National Campaign to Prevent Teen and Unplanned Pregnancy.) Reprinted by permission.
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areas, gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender individuals are still subject to ridicule and rejection. Th e assumed heterosexuality of society has resulted in a collective homophobia such that the phrase “Th at’s so gay” (used as a derogatory statement) is part of mainstream and youth vernacular. Teachers, parents, and administrators also perpetuate homophobia by ignoring and/or contributing to the harassment of sexual minorities (Just the Facts Coalition, 2008). While over 80% of gay and lesbian youth report feeling “very good” or “OK” about their sexuality, about 5% hate or would do anything to change their sexual orientation (Savin-Williams, 2005). Teens who identify themselves as gay, lesbian, or bisexual are twice as likely as heterosexual teens to be threatened or injured with a weapon at their public high school, twice as likely to have skipped school in the last month for safety concerns, and four times more likely to have attempted suicide during the past year (“Lesbian, Gay . . . ,” 2010). Homophobia is also a major factor in precipitating homelessness, a state that renders young people especially vulnerable to sexual harm, including exploitation and abuse (Couch, Dowsett, Dutertrce, Keys, & Pitts, 2006). Very few gay and lesbian teens feel that they can talk to their parents about their sexual orientation. Many (especially boys) leave home or are kicked out because their parents cannot accept their sexuality. It is sobering to think that a signifi cant number of our children are forced into lives of secrecy, suff ering, and shame because of parents’ and society’s reluctance to openly acknowledge the existence of same-sex attractions. Nevertheless, evidence suggests a positive association between coming out to oneself and feelings of self-worth. Th ose who are “out” to themselves and have integrated a sexual identity with their overall personal identity are usually more psychologically well-adjusted than individuals who have not moved through this process (Savin-Williams, 2005). Support groups such as the Gay/ Straight Alliance and the “It Gets Better” Project can help homosexual adoles- cents deal with the discrimination and other diffi culties they face. For those who do not want their sexuality to defi ne them, an option is to shun their gay
The “It Gets Better” Project was created to show LGBT people the levels of happiness and potential they can achieve with support during their teen years.
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label. Nineteen-year-old Simone Sneed of Albany, New York (self-described as a “full-fl edged” lesbian when she was 13), states:
Over the years I have met an ever-expanding population of queers, polyamorous people, fl exuals, gender queers, bois, boy-girl wonders, tranny fags, tranny chasers, hetero boys who used to be lesbians, and lesbians who used to be hetero bio boys. . . . Th e gay community has bought into consumerism, and “gay” no longer appears to be an identity that my peers and I are comfortable with. . . . So please don’t call me a lesbian. (Matarazzo, 2004)
Th e unstated assumption that sexual identity is the united and stable aspect of one’s sexual concept and that it directs one’s inner desires and sexual orientation has been questioned and challenged by early reports sug- gesting that not all heterosexually-identifi ed young adults are exclusively other-sex oriented in all components of their sexual orientation (Vrangalova & Savin-Williams, 2010). Developing a mature identity is a more formidable task for gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgendered individuals who also face issues of color. Th e racial or ethnic background of a youth may be both an impediment and an advantage in forming a sexual identity. Th ough racial, ethnic, and cultural communities can provide identifi cation, support, and affi rmation, all too often families and peer groups within the community present youths with biases and prejudices that undermine the process of self-acceptance as a lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgendered person. Th e individual may have to struggle with the question of whether sexual orientation or ethnic identifi ca- tion is more important; he or she may even have to choose one identity over the other.
Adolescent Sexual Behavior
Hormonal changes during puberty bring about a dramatic increase in sexual interest. Whether this results in sexual activity is individually determined.
Masturbation If children have not begun masturbating before adolescence, they likely will begin this normal activity once the hormonal and physical changes of puberty start. Masturbation is less common among women than men and more common among Whites than Blacks, Hispanics, or Asians (Laumann et al., 1994). Among 18–24-year-olds students, it has been found that 78% of males and 60% of females masturbate either alone or with a partner at least once a month (Herbenick et al., 2010). Rates of masturbation appear to be aff ected by a wide range of complex factors. In addition to provid- ing release from sexual tension, masturbation gives us the opportunity to learn about our sexual functioning, knowledge that can also be shared with a sex partner. (For more information on masturbation rates, by age and gender, see Chapter 9.) When boys reach adolescence, they no longer regard masturbation as ambig- uous play; they know that it is sexual. Data reveal that many males begin masturbating between ages 13 and 15, whereas among females it occurs later (Bancroft, 2009). Additionally, among those adolescents who do masturbate, boys do so about twice as frequently as girls (Herbenick et al., 2010a). Gender diff erences may be the result of social conditioning and communi- cation. Th ough both boys and girls may feel guilt and shame for engaging in a behavior that their parents and other adults indicate is wrong or bad, most
“ Sex is a holy thing, and one of the most marvelous revelations of the divine.
—Alan Watts (1915–1973)
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boys discuss masturbatory experiences openly with one another, whereas girls seldom talk about their own sexuality, including masturbatory activities.
First Intercourse With the advent of the “sexual revolution” in the 1960s, adolescent sexual behavior began to change. Th e average age for fi rst intercourse has dropped in the past decade, to 17 years, with a signifi cant percentage of teens being sexually experienced by the time they graduate high school (Gutt- macher Institute, 2011) (see Table 6.2). Even with some important diff erences, though, men and women both experience similar events. Just what constitutes having “had sex” is debatable and context-specifi c. For example, age group, gender, and factors such as orgasm and giving/receiving stimulation may aff ect whether a person recognizes a behavior as “having had sex.” Researchers from Th e Kinsey Institute and the Rural Center for AIDS/ STD Prevention recently conducted a telephone survey of nearly 500 Indiana residents, ranging in age from 18 to 96 years. What they found was quite interesting: Th ere was no universal consensus on which behaviors constituted having “had sex” (Sanders, Hill, Yarber, Graham, Crosby, & Milhausen, 2010). Th is was true even though 90% indicated that having penile-vaginal intercourse was “having sex,” and about 80% believed that penile-anal intercourse was “having sex.” Th ough responses did not diff er signifi cantly overall between men and women, what did vary signifi cantly were the responses of the oldest and
TABLE 6.2 • Trends Among 9th–12th Graders in the Prevalence of Sexual Behaviors (By Percent): 1991–2009
Change Change 1991 1993 1995 1997 1999 2001 2003 2005 2007 2009 ’91–’09 ’07–’09 Sexual Behaviors
Who have ever had 54.1 53.0 53.1 48.4 49.9 45.6 46.7 46.8 47.8 46.0 Decrease None sexual intercourse
Who had sex 10.2 9.2 8.9 7.2 8.3 6.6 7.4 6.2 7.1 5.9 Decrease None before age 13
Sexually active 37.5 37.5 37.9 34.8 36.3 33.4 34.3 33.9 35.0 34.2 Decrease None (sex in the past 3 months)
Who have had four 18.7 18.7 17.8 16.0 16.2 14.2 14.4 14.3 14.9 13.8 Decrease None or more partners
Who were ever N/A N/A N/A N/A N/A 7.7 9.0 7.5 7.8 7.4 N/A None forced to have sex
Who experienced N/A N/A N/A N/A 8.8 9.5 8.9 9.2 9.9 9.8 N/A None dating violence
Who used alcohol 21.6 21.3 24.8 24.7 24.8 25.6 25.4 23.3 22.5 21.6 Increase ’91–01 None or drugs at last sex Decrease ’01–09
Contraceptive Behaviors
Who used a condom 46.2 52.8 54.4 56.8 58.0 57.9 63.0 62.8 61.5 61.1 Increase ’91–’03 None at last sex None ’03–’09
Who used the birth 20.8 18.4 17.4 16.6 16.2 18.2 17.0 17.6 16.0 19.8 None Increase control pill at last sex
SOURCE: Youth Risk Behavior Survey, 1991–2009.
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For most teens, increased commitment is accompanied by increased likelihood of sexual intimacy.
youngest men. For example, when participants were asked whether they agreed with the statement, “If two people had oral sex, but not intercourse, you would still consider that they had sex together,” three quarters of those aged 50–59 agreed, but only half of those aged 16–19 did. Th ese fi ndings not only provide insight into how people of varying ages defi ne sex, they also highlight the need to use behavior-specifi c terminology when discussing, teaching, and researching sexual health promotion. (For a further discussion about this, see Chapter 9, “Th ink About It: You Would Say You ‘Had Sex’ If You. . . .”) Th e Centers for Disease Control Prevention (CDC) investigated who is and is not engaging in oral, vaginal, or anal sex by surveying 5,300 young people aged 15 to 24 about whether they had sexual contact with another person. Th e CDC found that fewer young people were engaging in intercourse than in earlier years. Currently, about 28% report having had no sexual contact with another as compared to 22% a decade ago (Chandra, Mosher, Copen, & Sionean, 2011). Th ough experts cannot pinpoint why this decline has occurred, some suggest that this generation may be more cautious, more aware of STIs, more interested in postponing sexual activity for a quality sexual experience, or simply too busy. Why do some emerging adults (ages 13–19) engage in intimate sexual behavior with another person while others do not? As most of us know, the motivations for sexual experimentation and activity are numerous and com- plex: curiosity and desire, to name a few. Th ough these may not be articu- lated or lend themselves to scientifi c analysis or quantifi cation, sexuality researchers have been able to, nevertheless, target and cluster several impor- tant factors that are benefi cial to the understanding of sexual behavior and that predispose individuals to sexual behavior: social/environmental factors (which include community, family structure, peers, and romantic partners) and individual characteristics. Particularly infl uential are the individual’s char- acteristics, including biology (age, physical development, and gender); race and ethnicity; connection to family, school, church, and community; alcohol and drug use; levels of aggression; and involvement in sports, to name a few (Kirby, 2007).
“ Before she said, “I do . . .” she did.
—Bill Margold (1943–)
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think about it
What causes homosexuality? What causes heterosexuality? Many have asked the fi rst question, but few have asked the second. Although researchers don’t understand the origins of sexual orientation in general, they have nevertheless focused almost exclusively on homosexuality, and their explanations generally fall into either biological or psychological categories.
Biological Factors
In genetic studies of homosexuality, researchers found a strong link between both gay men and lesbian women and their identi- cal twins (Bailey, Dunne, & Martin, 2000; Bailey & Pillard, 1991; Bailey, Pillard, Neale, & Agyei, 1993). (As you might recall, identical twins are genetic clones, having developed from a single egg that split after fertilization; fraternal twins develop simultane- ously from two separate eggs and two sperm.) The researchers matched identical and fraternal twins and adopted siblings of the same age to determine if there was a genetic component in ho- mosexuality. The results from both studies were similar in that, among both gay men and lesbian women, a genetic marker for homosexuality was identifi ed in identical twins (depending on the study, there was between a 20% and 50% chance that the identical sibling would also be homosexual), less prevalent among fraternal twins (0–22%) and found only to a small degree among genetically unrelated (adopted) siblings (0–10%). Researchers have found a statistically signifi cant association in the number of older brothers a man has and his likelihood of being gay, regardless of the brothers’ sexual orientation; this is known as the “big brother eff ect” (Motluk, 2003). It has been found across cultures that each additional older brother increases the odds of a gay sexual orientation by one third (Cantor, Blanchard, Paterson, & Bogaert, 2002). In another study, Swedish researchers used brain scanning technology to examine brain areas related to emotional expres- sion and verbal skills (Savic & Lindstrom, 2008). When comparing the brains of homosexual and heterosexual subjects, researchers found that the brain structures related to language and emo- tional expression were similar for gay men and heterosexual women. To a lesser extent, these areas in lesbian women’s brains were similar to those in heterosexual men’s brains. Other researchers have explored the possibility that homosex- uality could have a hormonal basis. Because hormonal levels are sensitive to such factors as general health, diet, smoking, and stress, it is very diffi cult to control studies measuring sexual orien- tation. There are some relevant studies, however. It has been found that women who took the synthetic estrogen DES when pregnant were more likely to have daughters with bisexual or same-sex attraction (Fagin, 1995). No such increase was found in males. Suggesting biological infl uences in the development of some homosexual people, additional research has found a correlation between homosexuality and handedness in that homosexual par- ticipants had a 39% greater chance of being left-handed than het- erosexuals (Lalumière, Blanchard, & Zucker, 2000). Additional
The “Origins” of Homosexuality
fi ndings have shown that lesbian women and gay men are more likely to be left-handed than heterosexual people (Blanchard, Can- tor, Bogaert, Breedlove & Ellis, 2006). Other indicators of prenatal infl uences on the brain come as a result of studying age of onset of puberty (Bogaert, Friesen, & Klentrou, 2002), birth order of siblings (Blanchard & Bogaert, 2004), and fi nger-length patterns (Williams, Pepitone, Christensen, & Cooke, 2000). Collectively, these studies suggest a linkage between biology and sexual orientation.
Social Constructionism and Psychological Theories
A diff erent school of thought, known as social constructionism, regards sexual orientation as a malleable concept that varies from one culture to another. Daryl Bem, a social psychologist from Cornell University, states in a theory he refers to as “exotic becomes erotic,” that children who infrequently view members of the other sex (and in a minority of the cases, members of the same sex) see them as exotic. Exotic peers elicit physiological tingles and jolts that seem off ensive at fi rst but that fi re up sexual desire later in life (Bem, 1996, 2000). In spite of what these and many other studies report on the “origins” of homosexuality or any sexual orientation, much still remains unsettled (or unknown). Thus, it is important to examine any study in the context of biological, sociological, and psycho- logical factors, any or all of which might infl uence sexual orien- tation. Additionally, because research on the origins of sexual orientation focuses on homosexuality and not heterosexuality, there tends to be an underlying bias that homosexuality is not an acceptable or normal sexual variation. This bias has skewed research studies, especially psychoanalytic studies. Research should examine the origins of sexual orientation in general, not the origins of one type of orientation. As homosexuality has be- come increasingly accepted by researchers, the medical commu- nity, and psychologists as one type of sexual variation, scholars have shifted their research from determining the “causes” of ho- mosexuality to understanding the nature of gay men and les- bian women in relationships.
Think Critically 1. What, in your opinion, causes a person to have a
heterosexual orientation? A homosexual one? How do your thoughts about this compare and contrast with those presented in this box?
2. How important is it to understand the causes or fac- tors that lead to homosexuality? Would conclusive ev- idence alter your opinion about sexual orientation?
3. Who in your family would be most accepting and most rejecting of homosexuality? Why? How do these attitudes impact you and your feelings about sexual orientation?
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Th e experience of fi rst sexual intercourse, sometimes also referred to as sexual debut, often carries enormous personal and social meaning, often sym- bolizing an important milestone of adolescent development. While public health organizations and researchers have devoted considerable attention to the implications of fi rst intercourse, few studies have explored the degree to which young people (ages 18–24) are satisfi ed by these experiences.(See Figure 6.4 for percentages of teens who have engaged in sex-related behaviors with others.) Researchers have recently analyzed data from a cross-sectional survey of over 3,000 university students, in which respondents were asked to rate the degree to which their fi rst penile-vaginal intercourse was physiologi- cally and psychologically satisfying. Respondents’ mean age at fi rst sexual inter- course was 16.6, and the average age diff erence between partners was 1.1 years. Both Black and White women were signifi cantly less likely than Black and White men to feel physiologically satisfi ed. In fact, only a minor- ity of respondents said that they experienced considerable or extreme satis- faction at fi rst intercourse, both physiologically (40.1%) and psychologically (45.1%). Among both men and women, guilt and anxiety also accompanied
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this fi rst experience. Not surprisingly, psychological satisfaction was strongly associated with physiological satisfaction, and vice versa. Th ough the results of this study demonstrated signifi cant gender diff erences, among both genders and all racial groups, being in a committed relationship greatly increased psycho- logical satisfaction (Higgins, Trussell, Moore, & Davidson, 2010). (To assess your personal anticipated or actual response to fi rst sexual intercourse, see the “Practically Speaking” box above.)
practically speaking
When individuals recall or anticipate their fi rst sexual experience, they can and often do experience a myriad of feelings. In fact, no sexual milestone carries as much cultural or personal signifi cance as what is sometimes referred to as “virgin- ity loss” (Blank, 2007). Have you ever really identifi ed and broken down those feelings into sub-components and asked whether or how they might aff ect the way you see yourself? Such an as- sessment can signifi cantly help in facilitating a better under- standing of the relationship between these feelings and sexual behaviors, attitudes, and norms. The First Sexual Intercourse Reaction Scale consists of 13 items designed to indicate the degree to which you have experienced various feelings in reaction to your fi rst sexual intercourse at the time that it occurred. If you have not yet had sexual intercourse, you can still complete the scale by following the directions noted below.
Directions
The following items deal with your feelings about your fi rst sex- ual intercourse, defi ned as penile-vaginal or anal penetration. Please answer all items “a” through “m” by using a 7-point scale, 1 representing not experiencing the feeling at all, 7 representing strongly experiencing the feeling, and the numbers in between representing graduations between these extremes. Please circle the number in each item that most closely represents the way you feel or the way you anticipate you may feel when the time comes. What were your reactions to your fi rst sexual intercourse at the time that it occurred? I felt:
a. Not at all 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 Very confused confused
b. Not at all 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 Very satisfi ed satisfi ed
c. Not at all 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 Very anxious anxious
d. Not at all 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 Very guilty guilty
e. Not at all 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 Very romantic romantic
f. No pleasure 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 Much at all pleasure
g. Not at all 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 Very sorry sorry
h. Not at all 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 Very relieved relieved
i. Not at all 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 Very exploited exploited
j. Not at all 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 Very happy happy
k. Not at all 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 Very embarrassed embarrassed
l. Not at all 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 Very excited excited
m. Not at all 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 Very fearful fearful
Scoring
Greater positive feelings are represented by a lower total score while a higher total score would represent more nega- tive feelings. Note that some items are reversed. Items can also be looked at separately to assess the degree to which a specifi c reaction was experienced (e.g., guilt, exploitation, pleasure, etc.).
First Sexual Intercourse Reaction Scale
SOURCE: From Schwartz, I. M. (1993). First Coital Aff ective Reaction Scale. In T. D. Fisher, C. M. Davis, W. L. Yarber, & S. L. Davis (Eds.), Handbook of sexuality related measures (3rd ed., pp. 640–642). Copyright © 2011 by Routledge. Reprinted by permission of the publisher (Taylor & Francis Group, http://www.informaworld.com).
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Teenage Pregnancy
After a steady rise between the years 1990 and 2005, the overall teen birth rate fell 9% from 2009 to 2010, to 34.3, the lowest ever reported in the seven decades for which rates are available (Hamilton & Ventura, 2012). (See Figure 6.5.) Th ese trends generally held true for both older teens and younger teens. Still, 750,000 teens in this country get pregnant each year. Now, several years later, it’s still too soon to tell whether a slight decline in teen pregnancy is a short-term adjustment or the beginning of a long-term trend (Kost, Henshaw, & Carlin, 2010). Accord- ing to Th e National Campaign’s website (2011):
We do know that despite the nation’s progress in reducing teen pregnancy, about three in ten teens get pregnant by age 20. Th e rates in the United States are still the highest among fully industrialized nations. Moreover, among some groups, especially the large and growing Latino population, rates of teen pregnancy and birth are well above the national average and are declining far more slowly than the overall rates. Clearly, we all still have a lot of work to do.
It’s not surprising that the vast majority (81%) of these pregnancies are unin- tended, but what is interesting is that the majority (59%) result in live births (CDC, 2012). Teen pregnancies trap most of the young mothers and fathers and their children in a downward spiral of lowered expectations, economic hardship, and poverty. Because of poor nutrition and inadequate medical care during pregnancy, babies born to teenagers have twice the normal risk of low birth weight, which is responsible for numerous physical and developmental problems. Also, many of these children will have disrupted family lives, absent fathers, and the attendant problems of poverty, such as poor diet, violent neigh- borhoods, limited health care, and limited access to education. Th ey are also at higher risk for being abused than children born to older parents. Monetary costs are also high (Th e National Campaign, 2011b). Contraception can fail or not be available or used. But not all teen pregnan- cies are unintended; about 22% of them are planned (Abma, Martinez, Mosher, & Dawson, 2004). Th is compares with a 50% rate for all women (Guttmacher Institute, 2011). Unfortunately, for many expectant teens, parenthood may turn out to be as much a disaster as a blessing.
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Teenage Mothers In 2006, 750,000 women younger than 20 became preg- nant (Guttmacher Institute, 2010). Of those who have children, most feel that they are “good” girls and that they became pregnant in a moment of unguarded passion. Th e reality of the boy � girl � baby equation often doesn’t sink in until pregnancy is well advanced. Th is lack of awareness makes it diffi cult (emotionally and physically), if not impossible, for those who might otherwise choose to do so to have an abortion. Not only are African American, Hispanic, and American Indian teens more likely to be sexually active than Whites, but their birth rates are also higher (see Figure 6.6). Th is is partly explained by the way in which the forces of racism and poverty combine to limit the options of young people of color. (Whites living in poverty also have disproportionately high teenage birth rates.) But additional factors contribute to pregnancy and childbirth among Black and Hispanic teens. For one thing, African American communities are far more accepting of births to unmarried women than their White counter- parts; among Hispanics and African Americans, three-generation families are much more common, with the result that grandparents often play an active role in child rearing. Additionally, there is often a great deal of pressure among young men of color (especially in communities with lower socioeconomic status) to prove their masculinity by engaging in sexual activity (Staples & Johnson, 1993; Yawn & Yawn, 1997). Teenage mothers have special needs. Th e most pressing that can be provided for within the community are health care and education. Improving preconcep- tion health and regular prenatal care are essential to monitor fetal growth and the mother’s health, including diet, possible STIs, and possible alcohol or drug use. Babies born to young mothers are more likely to have childhood health problems and to be hospitalized than those born to older mothers. After the birth, both mother and child need continuing care. Th e mother may need contraceptive counseling and services, and the child needs regular physical checkups and immunizations. Graduation from high school is an important goal of education programs for teenage mothers because it directly infl uences their employability and ability to support (or help support) themselves and
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• FIGURE 6.6 Birth Rates for Women Aged 15–19, by Race and Hispanic Origin: United States, 1991–2010. Note: Data for 2010 are preliminary. Source: CDC/NCHS, National Vital Statistics System. Birth rates for U.S. teenagers reached historic lows for all age and ethnic groups. NCHS Data Brief, 89.
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their children. Some teenage mothers need fi nancial assistance, at least until they complete their education. Government programs such as food stamps, Medicaid, and WIC (Women, Infants, and Children, which provides coupons for essential foods) are often crucial to the survival of young mothers and their children. Even with programs such as these in place, most families need addi- tional income to survive. Coordination of health, educational, and social services is important because it reduces costs and provides the most comprehensive support for both moth- ers and fathers who, as a result of an unplanned pregnancy, are at greater risk for depression and family turmoil (Th e National Campaign, 2011c). Such pro- grams may be costly, but the costs of not providing them are far greater.
Teenage Fathers Th e incidence of teenage fatherhood is lower than that of teenage motherhood. Still, more than half (52%) of births to teen boys were the result of an unintended pregnancy, and 49% of births to men aged 20–24 were unintended (Th e National Campaign, 2011c). Teen fatherhood is not a function of any single risk factor. Living in an inner city, having certain expectations and values about early childbearing, having poor school achievement, and engaging in delinquent behavior seem to be pathways lead- ing to adolescent fatherhood. Other risk factors include a minority ethnic background and socioeconomic disadvantages. Such circumstances may prompt some men to react by avoiding marriage or rejecting the responsi- bilities of fatherhood. Adolescent fathers typically remain physically or psychologically involved throughout the pregnancy and for at least some time after the birth. It is usu- ally diffi cult for teenage fathers to contribute much to the support of their children, although most express the intention of doing so during the pregnancy. Most have a lower income, less education, and more children than men who postpone having children until age 20 or older. Th ey may feel overwhelmed by the responsibility and may doubt their ability to be good providers. Th ough many teenage fathers are the sons of absent fathers, most do want to learn to
MTV’s 16 and Pregnant focuses on the often challenging terrain of adolescence, navigating relationships, and coming of age, all while dealing with a pregnancy.
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be fathers. Teen fathers are a seriously neglected group who face many hard- ships. Policies and interventions directed at reducing teen fatherhood will have to take into consideration the many factors that infl uence it and focus eff orts throughout the life cycle.
Sexuality Education
Sexuality education is a lifelong process. From the time that we are born, we learn about love, touch, aff ection, and our bodies. As we grow, the messages continue from both our families and the social environment, with school-based programs complementing and augmenting these primary sources of information. Just what is comprehensive sexuality education? According to the Sexuality Information and Education Council of the United States (SIECUS) (2009):
Comprehensive sex education addresses the root issues that help teens make responsible decisions to keep them safe and healthy. Th ese programs use a holistic approach to provide young people with complete, accurate, and age-appropriate sex education that helps them reduce their risk of HIV/AIDS, other STIs, and unintended pregnancy. . . . Comprehensive sex education includes age-appropriate, medically accurate information on a broad set of topics related to sexuality, including human development, relationships, decision making, abstinence, contra- ception and disease prevention.
Th ough most teens and adults wish young people were getting information about both abstinence and contraception rather than either/or and believe religious leaders and groups should be doing more to help prevent teen pregnancy (Albert, 2010), it is clear that in contrast to abstinence-only education, only a minority are receiving comprehensive sexuality education beginning at a young age.
Expanding National and Worldwide Views Th e Sexuality Information and Education Council of the United States (SIECUS) developed the Guidelines for Comprehensive Sexuality Education (SIECUS, 2004), the fi rst national
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Note: Formal instruction refers to instruction in school, church, community center, or some other place.
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think about it
Though trends in the prevalence of sexual intercourse and pregnancy among teens have slightly declined over time and sexuality education programs have attempted to address these changes, existing evidence about com- prehensive sexuality education’s long-term eff ectiveness on teens’ behaviors, attitudes, or beliefs has been ignored by some policy makers. This changed in 2010 when a new federal administration used existing data to reframe the way that educators look at sexuality education. As part of the Aff ordable Care Act, the Personal Responsibility Education Program (PREP) now provides $75 million per year, for the period 2010–2014, to states to provide comprehensive, medically accurate, and age-appropriate sexuality education to prevent unintended pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections (STIs), including HIV/AIDS. PREP programs are also required to address life skills that help teens make responsible decisions that lead to safe and healthy lives. Advocates believe this approach gives kids the tools to help them succeed in school and make better life decisions, especially about sex. This change in policy follows the analysis of hundreds of program evaluations conducted by researcher Douglas Kirby (2007, 2008). He found strong evidence that comprehensive sexuality education can eff ectively delay sexual intercourse among young people and increase condom and contraceptive
Abstinence-Only Versus Comprehensive Sexuality Programs: It’s a New Day
use among those who are sexually active. This fi nding was fur- ther underscored by a congressionally mandated evaluation of federally funded abstinence-only programs by Mathematica Policy Research that found abstinence-only programs to have no benefi cial impact on young people’s sexual activity, have no eff ectiveness in reducing their number of sexual partners, and show no diff erence in rates of unprotected sex, but to have some impact on knowledge of STIs and perceived eff ectiveness of condoms and birth control pills (Trenholm et al., 2008). Note that even though these evaluations of the more comprehensive sexuality education programs are positive overall, the evalua- tions assess a limited scope of the Sexuality Information and Education Council of the United States (SIECUS) Guidelines ap- proach to comprehensive sexuality education programs (Yarber & Sayad, 2011). (See page 190 for expanded discussion of the SIECUS Guidelines.) That is, these evaluations are addressing both abstinence and risk-reduction methods, such as contra- ception and condom use, but are missing assessments of the impact of sexuality education on the positive aspects of human sexuality, such as sexual pleasure, becoming more accepting of and comfortable with one’s sexuality, sexual communication, developing a sexual code of behavior, and sexual response and function. At this point, few, if any, sound evaluations of these topics of a comprehensive sexuality education program have been assessed.
model for comprehensive sexuality education. Th e guidelines, the most widely recognized and implemented framework for comprehensive sexuality educa- tion in the United States and several countries worldwide, address four devel- opmental levels—early childhood, pre-adolescence, early adolescence, and adolescence—and six main topics—human development, relationships, personal skills, sexual behavior, sexual health, and society and culture. (See page 190 in Chapter 7 for the behaviors of a sexually healthy adult that are listed in the SIECUS guidelines.) In response to the increased attention that sexuality education has received, 35 organizations, including the American Psychological Association, American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists, and Planned Parenthood Federa- tion of America, have joined together to urge the federal government to support funding for comprehensive sexuality education. In 2010, the World Health Organization (WHO) released guidelines to help public health decision-makers develop a new approach to sexuality
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of self-destruction. However, evidence to support this has not been found. There are no easy answers, just as there is no specifi c pro- gram that provides a complete solution to getting young people to delay having sex or to use protection against pregnancy and STIs. These results are, however, providing the groundwork for signifi cant changes and positive outcomes in comprehensive sexuality education programs across the country and around the world.
Think Critically 1. What are your reactions to the changing funding and
curriculum priorities of the current administration? What do you feel is the role of the federal govern- ment in guiding states and communities in sexuality education?
2. While in school, what exactly were you taught about sex? What impact do you feel this curriculum had on you? On other students? What aspects of your sexuality education would you support and which would you change?
3. What would you say to a parent or community leader who continues to advocate on behalf of abstinence- only-until-marriage programs? Should their children have the right to opt out of comprehensive sexuality programs?
Until 2010, abstinence-only-until-marriage programs were the cornerstone of the previous two administrations and the an- swer to addressing the U.S. teen pregnancy and STI rates. In fact, since the late 1990s, over $1.5 billion has been spent on these programs with virtually no measured results (SIECUS, 2011). As of the writing of this text, additional federal funding for abstinence-only programs is being challenged. Of the 48 comprehensive sexuality programs studied:
■ over 40% delayed the initiation of intercourse, reduced the number of sexual partners, and increased condom or contra- ceptive use;
■ almost 30% reduced the frequency of sex (including a return to abstinence);
■ more than 60% reduced unprotected sex; and ■ nearly 40% had positive eff ects on more than one of these
behaviors (Kirby, 2007, 2008).
No comprehensive program was found to hasten the initiation of intercourse or increase the frequency of sex. Comprehensive programs work for both genders, for most ethnicities and races, for sexually inexperienced and experienced teens, in diff erent settings, and in diff erent communities. Furthermore, the more eff ective programs may reduce one or more types of risky behavior by roughly one third. Although the opposition to comprehensive sexuality education may be small, it is very vocal. Led by some conserva- tive politicians, parents, teachers, and religious individuals, this group argues that to instruct youth about birth control or abor- tion may confuse them and potentially lead them down a path
education (WHO, 2010a). Th ese guidelines, though similar to those proposed by SIECUS, off er a global perspective on providing sexuality education. Th e recommendations place facts in the broader context of values, knowledge, and life skills. Th ese new guidelines are based on a positive interpretation of sexu- ality as part of physical and mental health. Such topics as HIV/AIDS and sexual violence are embedded in a curriculum that focuses on the individual’s self-determination and responsibility for themselves and others. It is intended that the new guidelines will challenge the one-sided emphasis on the existing sexuality education programs and create the conditions for a sexually healthy society. Although much more research needs to be done on sexuality education and its impact on young people, most professionals agree that it is one of the most important preventive means we have. Young people, guided by their parents and armed with knowledge and self-confi dence, can make informed decisions and direct their own sexual destinies.
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From birth, humans are rich in sexual and erotic potential. As children, the world around us begins to shape our sexuality and the ways that we ultimately express it. As adolescents, our education continues as a random mixture of learning and yearning. With sexual maturity, the gap between physiological development and psychological development begins to narrow and emotional and intellectual capa- bilities begin to expand. Responses to and decisions about sexuality education, sexual activity, sexual orientation, and pregnancy begin to emerge. Each of these presents a challenge and an opportunity to more fully evolve into the sexual beings that we are.
Final Thoughts
Summary Sexuality in Infancy and Childhood
■ Psychosexual development begins in infancy, when we begin to learn how we “should” feel about our bodies and our gender roles. Infants need stroking and cud- dling to ensure healthy psychosexual development.
■ Children learn about their bodies through various forms of sex play. Th eir sexual interest should not be labeled “bad” but may be deemed inappropriate for certain times, places, or persons. Children need to experience acts of physical aff ection and to be told nonthreateningly about “good” and “bad” touching by adults.
Sexuality in Adolescence
■ Puberty is the biological stage when reproduction be- comes possible. Th e psychological state of puberty is adolescence, a time of growth and often confusion as the body matures faster than the emotional and in- tellectual abilities. Th e traits of adolescence are cul- turally determined.
■ Pubertal changes that result in secondary sex char- acteristics in girls begin between ages 8 and 13. Th ey include a growth spurt, breast development, pubic and underarm hair, vaginal secretions, and menarche (fi rst menstruation). Pubertal changes in boys generally begin between 9 and 14. Th ey in- clude a growth spurt, a deepening voice, hair growth, development of external genitals, and ejac- ulation of semen. Precocious puberty refers to the
appearance of pubertal signs at an earlier age than is considered typical. Preparing young people for these changes is helpful.
■ Children and adolescents often learn a great deal about sexuality from their family dynamics and characteris- tics. A strong bond between parent and child reduces the risk of early sexual involvement and pregnancy.
■ Peers provide a strong infl uence on the values, atti- tudes, and behavior of adolescents. Th ey are also a source of much misinformation regarding sex.
■ Th e media present highly charged images of sexuality that are often out of context. Parents can counteract media distortions by discussing the context of sexual- ity with their children and controlling access to tele- vision and the Internet.
■ Young gay and lesbian individuals are largely invis- ible because of society’s assumption of heterosexual- ity. Th ey may begin to come to terms with their homosexuality during their teenage years. Because of society’s reluctance to acknowledge homosexuality openly, most gay, lesbian, and bisexual teens suff er a great deal of emotional pain.
■ Most adolescents engage in masturbation. Gender diff erences in rates of masturbation may be the result of social conditioning and communication.
■ Th e birth rate among teens aged 15–17 has declined to the lowest ever reported in seven decades. Still, 750,000 teens in this country get pregnant each year.
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■ Most teenagers have pressing concerns about sexual- ity, and most parents and the public favor sexuality education for their children. National and interna- tional agencies are now using evidence-based research to design comprehensive sexuality education programs.
Questions for Discussion ■ Who or what taught you the most about
sexuality when you were a child and teenager? What lessons did you learn? What would have made the transition from childhood to adolescence easier?
■ Should masturbation in young children be ignored, discouraged, or encouraged? What eff ect might each of these responses have on a child who is just beginning to learn about herself or himself?
■ After reviewing the literature on abstinence-only-until-marriage versus comprehensive sexuality education, what are your thoughts on each? Which do you advocate and why?
■ What are some ways to reduce the rates of unintended teenage pregnancy?
Suggested Websites American Academy of Pediatrics http://www.aap.org A wealth of information about the physical, mental, and social health and well-being of infants, children, adolescents, and young adults.
Bedsider Bedsider.org Especially for teens, provides information about birth control and a birth control reminder.
Child Trends http://www.childtrends.org A nonprofi t, nonpartisan research center that studies developmen- tal stages of children and uses evidence-based data to provide guid- ance on policy and practice.
“It Gets Better” Project http://www.itgetsbetter.org Spreads the message that everyone deserves to be respected and denounces hate and intolerance.
Midwest Teen Sex Show http://www.midwestteensexshow.com Uses broadcast media to provide sex information to teens.
The National Campaign to Prevent Teen and Unplanned Pregnancy http://www.thenationalcampaign.org Seeks to improve the well-being of children, youth, families, and the nation by preventing unintended and teen pregnancy.
National Federation of Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG) http://www.pfl ag.org Provides information and support for those who care about gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender persons.
Sex and the Internet Sexual Activity and Teens Data on teen STI rates and unintended pregnancy have recently appeared in the headlines of our newspapers, not to remind us of the dismal fi gures, but to inform us that the rates are unacceptably high. One of the most helpful and thorough sites that report on this and other adolescent sexuality issues is the Guttmacher Institute: http://www.guttmacher.org. Access this site and see if you can fi nd each of the following:
■ The age of fi rst intercourse among teens ■ The most common type of contraceptive used ■ The risk of acquiring a specifi c STI with one act of
intercourse
■ The percentage of teen mothers who complete high school
■ The number of pregnancies that are terminated by abortion
Now answer the following questions:
■ Which fact was the most surprising to you? ■ Which fact was the least surprising? ■ If you had unlimited resources, how might you go
about solving the problem of teen pregnancy?
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Scarleteen http://www.scarleteen.com Staff ed by volunteers, some of whom are young adults. Provides sexuality education for a young adult population.
Society for Research on Adolescence (SRA) http://www.s-r-a.org A multidisciplinary, international organization dedicated to un- derstanding adolescence through research and dissemination.
Suggested Reading Bancroft, J. (2003). Sexual development in childhood.
Bloomington: Indiana University Press. Scholarly and well- researched edited text by one of the leaders in the fi eld; also, one of the few books available on this subject.
Freitas, D. (2008). Sex and the soul: Juggling sexuality, spirituality, romance, and religion on America’s college campuses. New York: Oxford University Press. Th rough a window on a Catholic college campus, the author examines and articulates students’ stories.
Haff ner, D. W. (2008). What every 21st-century parent needs to know: Facing today’s challenges with wisdom and heart. New York: New Market Press. A practical and reassuring book for parents.
Savin-Williams, R. C. (2006). Th e new gay teenager (adolescent lives). Boston: Harvard University Press. Contains real-world case studies that reveal that being young and homosexual is not the identity crisis we might expect.
Steinberg, L. D. (2010). Adolescence (9th ed.). Boston: McGraw- Hill. A comprehensive, research-based examination of adolescent development within the context of environmental and social relationships.
For links, articles, and study material, go to the McGraw-Hill websites, located at
www.mhhe.com/yarber8e.
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Sexuality in Early Adulthood 188
Sexuality in Middle Adulthood 203
Sexuality in Late Adulthood 208
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“By looking at me, no one would know that I am as sexual as I am. I see many interesting things out there and when the time is right, I will try them. I think it’s fi ne for a virgin (like me) to be
sexual and be with someone without sex, until they become familiar and comfortable with one another.”
—19-year-old female
“Sexuality has to have a place in my life because it is how I connect with a person and show her that I am a human who has feelings, whether it be giving aff ection or receiving it. Sexuality allows me to be free with my feelings, thereby
allowing myself to open up and become a better partner for my mate.”
—25-year-old male
“My skills and experience as a sexual person are limited com- pared to other people my age. I got married young and the fact that I was practically brainwashed as a child has greatly reduced my sexual partners. I have had intercourse with three people and oral sex with only one person (another female). . . . Just because I don’t have a lot of sex doesn’t mean I can’t satisfy others sexually.”
—23-year-old female
“Staying happily married isn’t easy. Children, workload, fi nancial issues, and a host of other factors create diffi cult cir- cumstances that often put my relationship on the back burner. If someone came along with a magic panacea that would help to ignite our marriage and our sexuality, I would take it.”
—51-year-old female
As we enter adulthood, with greater experience and understanding, we develop a potentially mature sexuality. We establish our sexual orientation; we integrate love and sexuality; we forge intimate connections and make com- mitments; we make decisions regarding our fertility; and we develop a coherent sexual philosophy. Th en, in our middle years, we redefi ne the role of sex in our intimate relationships, accept our aging, and reevaluate our sexual philosophy. Finally, in later adulthood we reinterpret the meaning of sexuality in accordance with the erotic capabilities of our bodies. We come to terms with the possible loss of our partner and our own eventual decline. In all these stages, sexuality weaves its bright and dark threads through our lives. In this chapter, we continue the exploration and discussion of sexuality over the human life cycle. We begin with an examination of the developmental con- cerns of young adults, further explore the establishment of sexual orientations, turn to singlehood and cohabitation, then to middle adulthood, continuing to focus on developmental concerns, relational and nonrelational sexuality, and separation and divorce. Next, we look at sexuality in late adulthood, examining developmen- tal issues, stereotypes, and diff erences and similarities in aging and sex between men and women. Finally, we examine the role of the partner in sustaining health.
• Sexuality in Early Adulthood Like other life passages, the one from adolescence to early adulthood off ers potential for growth if one is aware of and remains open to the opportunities this period brings (see Figure 7.1).
Developmental Concerns
Several tasks challenge young adults as they develop their sexuality (Gagnon & Simon, 1973):
■ Establishing sexual orientation. Children and adolescents may engage in sexual experimentation, such as playing doctor, kissing, and fondling,
“ The good life is one inspired by love and guided by knowledge.
—Bertrand Russell (1872–1970)
Student Voices
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with members of both sexes, but they do not necessarily associate these activities with sexual orientation. Instead, their orientation as heterosexual, gay, lesbian, bisexual, or transgender is in the process of emerging.
■ Integrating love and sex. Traditional gender roles call for men to be sex- oriented and women to be love-oriented. In adulthood, this sex-versus-love confl ict needs to be addressed. Instead of polarizing love and sex, people need to develop ways of uniting them.
■ Forging intimacy and making commitments. Young adulthood is character- ized by increasing sexual experience. Th rough dating, courtship, and cohabitation, individuals gain knowledge of themselves and others as potential partners. As relationships become more meaningful, the degree of intimacy and interdependence increases. Sexuality can be a means of enhancing intimacy and self-disclosure, as well as a source of physical pleasure. As adults become more intimate, most desire to develop their ability to make commitments.
■ Making fertility/childbearing decisions. Becoming a parent is socially discouraged during adolescence, but it becomes increasingly legitimate when people reach their twenties, especially if they are married. Fertility issues are often critical but unacknowledged, especially for single young adults.
■ Practicing safer sex to protect against sexually transmitted infections (STIs). An awareness of the various STIs and ways to best protect against them must be integrated into the communication, values, and behaviors of all young adults.
“ Let’s face it, a date is like a job interview that lasts all night.
—Jerry Seinfeld (1954–)
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26.7 First marriage
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33.2 Intend no more children
30.9Intend no more children
25.1First marriage 26.0First birth
• FIGURE 7.1 Sexual and Reproductive Time Line: Mean Age of Major Events. (Source: Guttmacher Institute, Sex education: Needs, programs and policies. New York: Guttmacher Institute, 2006.)
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In 1996, the Sexuality Information and Education Council of the United States (SIECUS) published the fi rst national guidelines for comprehensive sexuality education in kinder- garten through 12th grade. These guidelines covered the life behaviors of a sexually healthy adult in six areas and were updated in 2004.
Behaviors of the Sexually Healthy Adult
1. Human development: a. Appreciate one’s own body. b. Seek further information about reproduction as needed. c. A ffirm that human development includes sexual devel-
opment, which may or may not include reproduction or sexual experience.
d. Interact with all genders in respectful and appropriate ways.
e. Affi rm one’s own sexual orientation and respect the sexual orientation of others.
f. Affi rm one’s own gender identities and respect the gender identities of others.
2. Relationships: a. Express love and intimacy in appropriate ways. b. Develop and maintain meaningful relationships. c. Avoid exploitative or manipulative relationships. d. Make informed choices about family options and
relationships. e. Exhibit skills that enhance personal relationships.
3. Personal skills: a. Identify and live according to one’s own values. b. Take responsibility for one’s own behavior. c. Practice eff ective decision making. d. Develop critical thinking skills. e. Communicate eff ectively with family, peers, and romantic
partners.
4. Sexual behavior: a. Enjoy and express one’s sexuality throughout life. b. Express one’s sexuality in ways congruent with one’s
values. c. Enjoy sexual feelings without necessarily acting on them. d. Discriminate between life-enhancing sexual behaviors and
those that are harmful to oneself and/or others. e. Express one’s sexuality while respecting the rights of
others. f. Seek new information to enhance one’s sexuality. g. Engage in sexual relationships that are consensual, non-
exploitative, honest, pleasurable, and protected.
Sexually Healthy Adult
5. Sexual health: a. Practice health-promoting behaviors, such as regular
checkups, breast and testicular self-exams, and early identifi cation of potential problems.
b. Use contraception eff ectively to avoid unintended pregnancy.
c. Avoid contracting or transmitting an STI, including HIV. d. A ct consistent with one’s values in dealing with an
unintended pregnancy. e. Seek early prenatal care. f. Help prevent sexual abuse.
6. Society and culture: a. Demonstrate respect for people with diff erent sexual
values. b. Exercise democratic responsibility to infl uence legislation
dealing with sexual issues. c. Assess the impact of family, cultural, religious, media, and
societal messages on one’s thoughts, feelings, values, and behaviors related to sexuality.
d. Critically examine the world around them for biases based on gender, sexual orientation, culture, ethnicity, and race.
e. Promote the rights of all people to have access to accurate sexuality information.
f. Avoid behaviors that exhibit prejudice and bigotry. g. Reject stereotypes about the sexuality of diff erent
populations. h. Educate others about sexuality.
Think Critically 1. Is it possible for young people to enact or achieve all
of the behaviors? 2. Which of the behaviors would seem to be the most
diffi cult to achieve? Why? 3. Would some of the behaviors change over the life
span? 4. Are there life behaviors related to sexuality that are
missing from the list?
SOURCE: National Guidelines Task Force. (2004). Guidelines for comprehensive sexuality education: Kindergarten–12th grade (3rd ed.). New York: Sexuality Information and Education Council of the United States. 130 W. 42nd St., Suite 350, New York, NY 10036. Reprinted with permission.
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■ Evolving a sexual philosophy. As individuals move from adolescence to adulthood, they reevaluate their moral standards, moving from moral decision making based on authority to standards based on their personal principles of right and wrong, caring, and responsibility. Th ey become responsible for developing their own moral code, which includes sexual issues. In doing so, they need to evolve a personal philosophical perspec- tive to give coherence to sexual attitudes, behaviors, beliefs, and values. Th ey need to place sexuality within the larger framework of their lives and relationships. Th ey need to integrate their personal, religious, spiritual, and humanistic values with their sexuality.
Establishing Sexual Orientation
A critical task of adulthood is establishing one’s sexual orientation as hetero- sexual, gay, lesbian, bisexual, or transgender. As mentioned previously, in child- hood and early adolescence, there is often sex play or sexual experimentation with members of the other sex and same sex. Th ese exploratory experiences are tentative in terms of sexual orientation. But in late adolescence and young adulthood, men and women are confronted with the important developmental task of establishing intimacy. And part of the task of establishing intimate relationships is solidifying one’s sexual orientation. Most people develop a heterosexual identity by adolescence or young adult- hood. Th eir task is simplifi ed because their development as heterosexuals is approved by society. But for those who are attracted to the same or both sexes or are unsure, their development features more doubt and anxiety. Because those who are attracted to the same sex are aware that they are violating deep societal taboos, it can take them longer to confi rm and accept their sexual orientation. It may also be diffi cult and dangerous for them to establish a relationship.
“ Somewhere in the mounting and mating, rutting and butting is the very
secret of nature itself.
—Graham Swift (1949–)
Critical life questions, such as those involving relationships, personal skills, sexual behavior, and health, often arise during the college-age years when young people begin to live independently and away from their parents.
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Models of Sexual Orientation Sexual orientation is an area of human sexu- ality that has been clouded by misunderstanding, myth, and confusion. To help explain the complex nature of sexual orientation, psychologists and researchers in sexuality have developed various models (see Figure 7.2). Much as our views of gender, masculinity, and femininity have changed, so have conceptualizations of sexual orientation, although these are diff erent phenomena. Until the research of Alfred C. Kinsey and his colleagues, sexual orientation was dichotomized into “heterosexual” and “homosexual”—that is, a person could be one or the other. As shown in Model A in Figure 7.2, some research- ers considered a third category, bisexuality, although others believed that a bisexual individual was a homosexual person trying to be heterosexual. One of Kinsey’s most signifi cant contributions was his challenge to this traditional model. Research by Kinsey and others showed that homosexuality was not uncommon and that engaging in same-sex behaviors did not necessarily make a person homosexual. Th ey also found that participation in both same- and other-sex behavior was not uncommon. Th is led them to conclude that sexual orientation is a continuum from exclusively heterosexual to exclusively homo- sexual, as depicted in Model B, and that a person’s sexual behavior pattern could change across a lifetime. Since that time, this continuum has been widely utilized in sexuality research, education, and therapy. Kinsey rejected the traditional explanation of sexual orientation and sexual- ity in general by saying:
Th e world is not divided into sheep and goats. Not all things are black nor all things white. . . . Nature rarely deals with discrete categories. Only the human mind invents categories and tries to force facts into separated pigeonholes. Th e
“ Sex lies at the root of life, and we can never learn to revere life until we know
how to understand sex.
—Havelock Ellis (1859–1939)
Heterosexual Homosexual
Bisexual Model A: Dichotomous-Psychoanalytic
Heterosexual
Homosexual
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Model C: Two-Dimensional—Orthogonal (Storms)
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Model B: Unidimensional-Bipolar (Kinsey)
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• FIGURE 7.2 Three Models of Sexual Orientation. (Source: Adapted from Sanders, Reinisch, & McWhirter, 1990.)
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living world is a continuum in each and every one of its aspects. Th e sooner we learn this concerning human sexual behavior the sooner we shall reach a sound understanding of the realities of sex. (Kinsey, Pomeroy, & Martin, 1948)
Th e Kinsey continuum has been criticized for its implication that the more heterosexual a person is the less homosexual he or she must be, and vice versa. Sex researchers Sanders, Reinisch, and McWhirter (1990) note that some researchers have modifi ed the Kinsey scale by using bipolar ratings of hetero- sexuality and homosexuality; that is, indicators such as sexual behavior, sexual fantasies, the person one loves, and feelings about which sex is more “attractive” can each be assessed independently. Storms (1980, 1981) suggested that homo- eroticism and heteroeroticism are independent continua (Model C). A bisexual individual is high on both homoeroticism and heteroeroticism dimensions, a heterosexual is high on heteroeroticism and low on homoeroticism, and a homosexual is high on homoeroticism and low on heteroeroticism. A person low on both dimensions would be considered asexual.
Statistics on Sexual Orientation We do not know the exact numbers of men and women who identify as heterosexual, gay, lesbian, bisexual, or transgender people. In large part, this is because homosexuality is stigmatized. Gay men, lesbian women, and bisexual individuals are often reluctant to reveal their iden- tities in research surveys for reasons of personal hesitancy as well as conceptual problems surrounding what constitutes sexual orientation. Th e majority of studies on the prevalence of people’s variations in sexual ori- entation suggest that about 1–4% of males and females consider themselves to be something other than heterosexual (either homosexual or bisexual) (Ellis, 1996; Herbenick et al., 2010; Laumann, Gagnon, Michael, & Michaels, 1994; Smith, Rissel, Richters, Grulich, & de Visser, 2003). Additionally, 10–15% report at least occasional sexual attraction to or sexual fantasy about their same sex (Ellis, 1996; Smith et al., 2003). (For additional data on same-sex behavior, see the National Survey of Family Growth, Chapter 2.) What are we to make of these fi ndings? In part, the variances that exist in the literature regarding the rates of homosexuality may be explained by diff er- ent methodologies, interviewing techniques, sampling procedures, defi nitions of homosexuality, or random response errors. Furthermore, sexuality is more than simply sexual behaviors; it also includes attraction and desire. One can be a virgin or celibate and still identify as gay, lesbian, or heterosexual. One can also participate in sexual behavior with a person of the other or same sex, but not label oneself as heterosexual or homosexual. Finally, because sexuality is varied and changes over time, its expression at any one time is not necessarily the same as at another time or for all time.
The Gay/Lesbian/Bisexual Identity Process Identifying oneself as a lesbian, gay, or bisexual person takes considerable time and, for some, may involve multiple paths (Rosario, Scrimshaw, & Hunter, 2011). Th e most intense phase in the development of one’s sexual identity is during late adolescence and early adulthood. Researchers have found that college graduates are more likely to identify themselves as gay, lesbian, or bisexual while they are attending college because postsecondary education tends to engage students with issues of plural- ism, diversity, and self-evaluation (Green, 1998). Homoeroticism—feelings of sexual attraction to members of the same sex—almost always precedes lesbian or gay activity by several years (Bell, Weinberg, & Hammersmith, 1981).
“ Love is sacred, and sex is sacred too. The two things are not a part; they belong
together.
—Lame Deer, Lakota Indian holy man (1903–1976)
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“Heterosexuality” and “homosexuality” are terms used to categorize people according to the sex of their sex partners. But, as noted in the discussion of Kinsey’s work in Chapter 2, such categories do not always adequately refl ect the complexity of sexual orientation or of human sexuality in general. Nevertheless, approximately 4.5% of men and women between the ages of 18 and 59 identifi ed themselves as bisexual, according to a nationally representative study by researchers at Indiana University (Herbenick et al., 2010c). Most individuals view bisexuality as a pattern of erotic responsiveness to both sexes. This broad thinking leaves some questions unanswered: Do short-term sexual experiences with both sexes qualify one to be labeled bisexual? Does everyone have the potential to be bisexual? Does attraction to the same or both sexes mean one is bisexual? Though some may suggest that love has no sexual orientation, others may desire a category for the feelings they experience. Regardless, researchers still wonder whether bisexuality is (1) a temporary stage of denial, transition, or experimentation; (2) a third type of sexual orienta- tion, characterized by fi xed patterns of attraction to both sexes; or (3) a strong form of all individuals’ capacity for sexual fl uidity (Diamond, 2008).
Bisexual Identity Formation
In contrast to homosexuality, there is little research on bisexuality. The process of bisexual identity formation appears to be complex, requiring the rejection of the two recognized categories of sexual orientation. Consequently, bisexual people often fi nd themselves stigmatized by gay men and lesbian women, as well as by hetero- sexual individuals, a kind of discrimination called biphobia. Those people who do identify as bisexual have partners of both sexes. Sometimes, they have had only one or two same-sex experiences; nevertheless, they identify themselves as bisexual. They believe they can love and enjoy sex with both women and men. In other instances, those with predominately same-sex experience and only limited other-sex experience consider themselves bisexual. In most cases, bisexual people do not have sex with men one week and women the next. Rather, their bisexuality is sequential. That is, they are involved in other-sex
Bisexuality: The Nature of Dual Attraction
relationships for certain periods, ranging from a few weeks to years; later, they are involved in same-sex relations for another period of time.
The Nature of Bisexuality
As discussed in this chapter and in Chapter 5, sexuality runs along a continuum, with bisexuality falling midway between exclusive heterosexuality and exclusive homosexuality. Given this, one might ask whether bisexual people are merely in transition toward one or the other end of the continuum or whether bisexuality is a sexual ordination in its own right. Research among women reveals some interesting fi ndings that are inconsistent with the long-debated belief that bisexuality is a transitional stage or “phase” (Diamond, 2008). Longitudinal data collected from 79 lesbian, bisexual, and “unlabeled” women reveal that there are, in fact, boundaries between the long-term development stages of lesbian, bisexual, and unlabeled women, but these boundaries are rather fl uid. More specifi cally, over time, it was found that more women appeared to have adopted bisexual/unlabeled identities rather than relinquish them. Hence, bisexuality is seen as a third type of sexual orientation and, as such, has a capacity for fl exibility in erotic response. Whether this fi nding is applicable to men remains unknown. U ltimately, accepting bisexuality as a legitimate orientation refl ects acknowledging our diversity.
Think Critically 1. What are your thoughts about bisexuality: a legiti-
mate sexual orientation or one that is uncertain or temporary?
2. Would you agree to completing a questionnaire on sexual orientation? If so, how might you feel if the results were diff erent from what you expected?
3. What might your reaction be if a dating partner revealed that he or she was bisexual?
How does one arrive at his or her sexual orientation? Does it really matter if one is born heterosexual or homosexual, whether it comes later, or whether one chooses? Would you be willing to complete a questionnaire that would measure your sexual orientation? Tools like the Sexual Orientation Identity Uncertainty scale (Worthington, Navarro, Savoy, & Hampton, 2008), included in Chapter 2, can provide one with a greater awareness and acceptance of
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sexual identity, the self-labeling or self-identifi cation as a heterosexual, homo- sexual, or bisexual person. For some, the awareness of being or feeling some- thing other than heterosexual occurs in phases. Th is fi rst phase is marked by the initiation of a process of self-discovery and exploration, including becoming aware of one’s sexual orientations; questioning whether one may be a lesbian, gay, or bisexual (LGB) person; and having sex with members of the same sex. Th e second phase, identity integration, is a continuation of sexual identity development as individuals integrate and incorporate the identity into their sense of self. Engaging in LBG-related social activities, addressing society’s neg- ative attitudes, and feeling more comfortable about disclosing one’s identity to others are part of this process (Rosario, et al., 2011). Diffi culties in developing an integrated LGB identity often cause distress and may have negative implications for the psychological adjustment of LGB youths. At the same time, the catego- rization of individuals as gay, straight, or bisexual does not allow for the fact that some may move back and forth among sexual identities, and it is this fl uidity that is a crucial variable in sexual development (Diamond, 2008). New to the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services’ Healthy Peo- ple 2020 goals (2011a) is the goal to improve the health, safety, and well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) individuals. Eliminating dis- parities and enhancing eff orts to improve gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender individuals’ mental and physical health are necessary to ensure that they, like everyone else, can lead long, healthy lives. For many, being a lesbian or gay person is associated with a total lifestyle and way of thinking. Publicly acknowledging one’s same-sex attraction (coming out) has become especially important. Coming out is a major decision because it may jeopardize many relationships, but it is also an important means of self- validation and self-affi rmation. By publicly acknowledging a lesbian, gay, or bisexual orientation, a person begins to reject the stigma and condemnation associated with it. Generally, coming out to heterosexual people occurs in stages involving friends and family members. Lesbian women, gay men, and bisexual individuals are often “out” to varying degrees. Some are out to no one, not even themselves, while others are out only to selected individuals and lovers, and others to close friends and lovers but not to their families and employers. Because of fear of reprisal, dismissal, or public reaction, many gay, lesbian, and bisexual professionals are not out to their employers, co-workers, or the public. Contradicting many assumptions about sexual orientation as being early developing and unstable, sexual fl uidity is situation-dependent fl exibility in the gender of a woman’s sexual attraction (Diamond, 2008). (See Chapter 3 for a discussion about sexual fl uidity.) Regardless of their sexual orientation, this fl exibility makes it possible for some women under unique circumstances to experience same-sex or other-sex desires. While men appear more likely to regard their sexual orientation as fi xed and innate, women are more likely to acknowledge choice and change, depending on the circumstances. Many gay men and lesbian women experience some of the same negative attitudes toward homosexuality as their heterosexual counterparts. Internalized homophobia is a set of negative attitudes and aff ects toward homosexuality in other persons and toward same-sex attraction in oneself. Growing up in a heterosexual world that condones only one way of sexual expression and repro- duction, many gay men and lesbian women learn to believe that heterosexuality is the only option and that homosexuality is a perversion. Such self-hatred can
“ Bisexuality immediately doubles your chances for a date on a Saturday night.
—Rodney Dangerfi eld (1921–2004)
Gay pride has taken root throughout the country.
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signifi cantly impede the self-acceptance process that many gay men and lesbian women go through in order to come out and embrace their sexuality.
Being Single
In recent decades, there has been a staggering increase in the numbers of unmarried adults (never married, divorced, or widowed). Most of this increase has been the result of men and women, especially young adults, marrying later.
The New Social Context of Singlehood Th e outcomes of this dramatic increase in unmarried young adults include the following:
■ Greater sexual experience. Men and women who marry later are more likely to have had more sexual experience and sex partners than earlier generations. Nonmarital sex has become the norm among many adults. (See Figure 7.3.)
■ Increased number of singles, or those who have never married, are divorced, or are widowed. Of all Americans, 43% of those over the age of 18 are single (U.S. Census Bureau, 2011c). Many factors may contribute to this, including fi nancial instability, societal acceptance, and personal preference.
■ Widespread acceptance of cohabitation. As young adults are deferring marriage longer and cohabitation is seen as a viable living arrangement, it has also become an integral part of young adult life. Because gay men and lesbian women are not legally permitted to marry in nearly all states, domestic partnerships have become for many of them a form of marriage.
■ Unintended pregnancies. Because greater numbers of women are single and sexually active, they are more likely to become unintentionally preg- nant as a result of unprotected sexual intercourse or contraceptive failure.
■ Increased numbers of abortions and births to single women. Th e increased number of unintended pregnancies has led to more abortions and births to single mothers. Birth among unmarried couples now rivals birth to married ones as a pathway by which children enter family structures.
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• FIGURE 7.3 Percentage of Males and Females Aged 15–24 Who Have Had Vaginal and Oral Sex Experience With an Other-Sex Partner: United States, 2006–2008. (Source: CDC. (2010). Educating teenagers about sex in the United States. NCHS Data Brief, 44.)
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■ Greater numbers of separated and divorced men and women. Approximately 23% of all individuals in the United States are divorced (U.S. Census Bureau, 2011c). Because of their previous marital experience, separated and divorced men and women tend to have diff erent expectations about relationships than never-married young adults. Nearly half of all mar- riages are now remarriages for at least one partner.
■ A rise in the number of single-parent families. Today, approximately 16% of all single parents—mostly mothers—are living with their children (U.S. Census Bureau, 2011c).
Th e world that unmarried young adults inhabit is one in which greater oppor- tunities than ever before exist for exploring intimate relationships.
The College Environment Th e college environment is important not only for intellectual development but also for social development. Th e social aspects of the college setting—classes, dormitories, fraternities and sororities, parties, clubs, and athletic events—provide opportunities for meeting others. For many, college is a place to search for or fi nd mates. Dating in college is similar to high school dating in many ways. It may be formal or informal (“getting together” or “hooking up”); it may be for recre- ation or for fi nding a mate. Features that distinguish college dating from high school dating, however, include the more independent setting (away from home, with diminished parental infl uence), the increased maturity of partners, more role fl exibility, and the increased legitimacy of sexual interactions. For most college students, love and dating become qualitatively diff erent during emerging adulthood, with more focus on sexuality as it relates to developing one’s own identity.
The college social setting provides opportunities for students to meet others and establish relationships.
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Sociologist Ira Reiss (1967) describes four moral standards of nonmarital sexuality among college students. Th e fi rst is the abstinence standard, which was the offi cial sexual ideology in American culture until the early 1960s. According to this belief, it is wrong for either men or women to engage in sexual intercourse before marriage regardless of the circumstances or their feelings for each other. Th e second is the double standard, widely practiced but rarely approved publicly. Th is permits men to engage in nonmarital inter- course, but women are considered immoral if they do so. Permissiveness with emotional aff ection represents a third standard. It describes sex between men and women who have a stable, loving relationship. Th ough these standards were put forth over 40 years ago, they are still widely held today. Permissive- ness without aff ection, the fourth standard and the type of sexual expression that usually occurs in “hooking up” on college campuses, holds that people may have sexual relationships with each other even if there is no aff ection or commitment. Although acceptance of sex outside of marriage is widespread among college students, there are more boundaries placed on women. If a woman has sexual intercourse, most people believe it should take place in the context of a com- mitted relationship. Women who “sleep around” are often morally censured. Refl ecting the continuing sexual double standard, men are not usually con- demned as harshly as women for having sex without commitment. For those who identify as nonheterosexual or transgender, the college envi- ronment is often liberating because campuses tend to be more accepting of sexual diversity than society at large is. College campuses often have lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender organizations that sponsor social events and get-togethers. Th ere, individuals can freely meet others in open circumstances that permit meaningful relationships to develop and mature. Although prejudice against those who are diff erent continues to exist in colleges and universities, college life has been an important haven for many.
The Singles World Men and women involved in the singles world tend to be older than college students, typically ranging in age from 25 to 40. Th ey have never been married, or, if they are divorced, they usually do not have primary responsibility for children. Single adults are generally working (or looking for a job) rather than attending school. Although dating in the singles world is somewhat diff erent from dating in high school and college, there are similarities. Singles, like their counterparts in school, emphasize recreation and entertainment, sociability, and physical attractiveness. Th e isolation many single people feel can be quite overwhelming. In col- lege, students meet each other in classes or dormitories, at school events, or through friends. Th ere are many meeting places and large numbers of eligi- bles. Singles who are working may have less opportunity than college students to meet available people. For single adults, the most frequent means of meet- ing others are introductions by friends, the Internet, parties, and social or religious groups. Sexual experimentation and activity are important for many singles. Although individuals may derive personal satisfaction from sexual activity, they must also manage the stress of confl icting commitments, loneliness, and a lack of con- nectedness. To fi ll the demand for meeting others, the singles world has spawned a multibillion-dollar industry—bars, resorts, clubs, housing, and Internet sites
“ I must paint you.
—Paul Gauguin, pick-up line (1848–1903)
“ Wherever there are rich men trying not to feel old, there will be young girls
trying not to feel poor.
—Julie Burchill (1959–)
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dedicated solely to them. In fact, of the 33 million U.S. adult singles who go online, about 6% of them subscribe to a dating website (Marcotty, 2007). Singles increasingly rely on social networking sites such as Facebook, match- making sites such as eHarmony.com or Chemistry.com, or chat rooms, in which men advertise themselves as “success objects” and women advertise them- selves as “sex objects.” Th ese ads, postings, and messages off er a wide variation of special interests and opportunities for anyone willing to take the time to fi nd a “match.” In the late nineteenth century, as a result of the stigmatization of homo- sexuality, groups of gay men and lesbian women began congregating in their own secret clubs and bars. Th ere, in relative safety, they could fi nd acceptance
think about it
The reasons why people have sex may appear obvious and simple when, in fact, they are actually quite complex and diverse. Add gender differences to this mix, and the reasons for having sex begin to mount. Researchers Cindy Meston and David Buss (2007), in a 5-year study, sought to identify an array of potential reasons that motivate people to engage in sexual intercourse and to classify reasons by gender. Meston suggests these findings have “refuted a lot of gender stereotypes that men only want sex for the physical pleasure and women want love.” What they found is that college-age men and women seek sex for mostly the same reason: lust in the body more than a love connection in the heart. In fact, both sexes agree that their primary reason for having sex was attraction; they wanted to experience physical pleasure. Men and women were not found to be very different on many counts: 20 of the top 25 reasons given for having sex were the same for men and women. Though expressing love and showing affection were in the top 10 for both men and women, the clear number-one reason was “I was attracted to the person.” The researchers began with 444 men and women—ranging in age from 17 to 52—and a list of 237 reasons why people have sex. Among the top 10 reasons for having sex (for all ages and both genders) were to experience physical pleasure, to express love, and to show aff ection. From the same list of reasons, the researchers asked 1,549 college students to rank the reasons and collected some interesting data:
■ What motivated college-age students most of the time in- cluded attraction, pleasure, aff ection, love, romance, emo- tional closeness, arousal, the desire to please, adventure, excitement, experience, connection, celebration, curiosity, and opportunity.
Why College Students Have Sex: Gender Diff erences, or Not?
■ The less frequently endorsed reasons for having sex included giving someone else an STI, wanting to break up a rival’s relationship by having sex with his/her partner, or wanting to get a promotion.
■ Men, signifi cantly more than women, cited reasons for hav- ing sex centered on the physical appearance and physical desirability of a partner. Additionally, they indicated experience-seeking and mere opportunity as factors.
■ Women exceeded men in endorsing certain emotional moti- vations for sex, such as wanting to express love and realizing they were in love.
■ Interestingly, among both the college students and older in- dividuals, none of the gender diff erences for why humans had sex were that signifi cant.
When examining the psychological motivations for having sex, the researchers noted that what constituted a rare reason for the population as a whole might constitute a major motivation for individuals. For example, though most people are not motivated by the desire to humiliate another or to feel humiliated through sex, for others who practice sadism or masochism, this is their principal sexual motivation.
Think Critically 1. Can you relate to any of these data? What are the
reasons you have or do not have sex? 2. Do you feel the data found in this study can be
replicated across cultures? Across age groups? 3. To what extent do the reasons for having sex change
across the life span?
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and support, meet others, and socialize. Today, some neighborhoods in large cities are identifi ed with gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender people. Th ese neighborhoods feature not only openly gay and/or lesbian bookstores, restau- rants, coff eehouses, and bars but also churches, clothing stores, medical and legal offi ces, hair salons, and so on. A growing body of evidence indicates that sexual minorities in the United States exhibit higher levels of psychiatric distress than their heterosexual counterparts (Chae & Ayala, 2010). For example, lesbian, gay, and bisexual individuals had a higher prevalence of psychiatric disorders, met criteria for having a psychiatric disorder, or were more likely to report a recent suicide attempt. Th ese elevated levels of psychiatric distress may, in part, be explained by the experience of social hazards associated with sexual minority status, including institutional and interpersonal forms of discrimination and preju- dice and instances of physical and verbal violence and harassment. African American gay men and lesbian women often experience a confl ict between their Black and gay identities. African Americans are less likely to disclose their gay identity because the Black community is less accepting of homosexuality than is the White community (Edozien, 2003). Several factors contribute to this phenomenon. Although there is some support for gay civil rights among Black leaders, strong fundamentalist Christian beliefs infl uence some African Americans to be unaccepting of lesbian women and gay men. Additionally, because homosexuality is sometimes thought of as having originated from slavery or imprisonment, these beliefs result in openly gay Black individuals being considered traitors to their own race. Th e internalization of the dominant culture’s stereotyping of African Amer- icans as highly sexual beings may also prompt many African Americans to feel a need to assert and express their sexuality in ways that are considered “normal.” For gay Latinos and lesbian Latinas living in cities with large Latino popu- lations, there is usually at least one gay bar. Such places specialize in dancing or female impersonation. Th e extent to which a gay Latino man participates in the Anglo or Latino gay world depends on the individual’s degree of accul- turation, with those who are U.S.-born more likely to identify as gay, lesbian, or bisexual (Chae & Ayala, 2010). While traditional standards of Latino and Latina culture expect men to support and defend the family and women to be submissive to men and maintain their virginity until married, it is not uncom- mon for some Latinos and Latinas to engage in same-sex behavior without declaring any particular sexual identity (Chandra, Mosher, Copen, & Sionean, 2011). Additionally, lesbian Latinas are doubly stigmatized because they may be seen as defying expectations of women’s roles and challenging the traditional male dominance of the culture (Trujillo, 1997). Traditional Asian cultures place signifi cance on respecting elders, conform- ing to one’s family’s expectations, and assuming distinct gender roles with less regard for individual needs and desires (Chan, 1992). As in strict traditional Latino(a) cultures, traditional Asian American culture de-emphasizes the importance of sex to women. Open acknowledgment of lesbian or gay iden- tity is seen by mainstream Asian society as a rejection of traditional cultural roles and a threat to the continuity of family life. If, however, family expec- tations can be met, then secretly engaging in same-sex behavior may not cause the individual to feel guilty or bring embarrassment to the family (Matteson, 1997).
Some people are committing to celibacy before marriage by the wearing of “celibacy vow” or “promise” rings.
While many gay men and lesbian women choose to have or adopt children, states across the country continue to argue about what constitutes ‘family.’
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An exception to the negativity experienced by many gay and lesbian people of color is experienced among Native American cultures, whose traditions place high value on individual diff erences. Based on the belief of the Great Spirit, who acknowledges the sacredness of each person’s sexual orientation and gender role, tolerance of individual diff erences has persisted despite long-standing assaults on the Native American culture (Epstein, 1997).
Cohabitation
In 2011, of the more than 118 million households in the United States, nearly 25 million of them consisted of unmarried couples (U.S. Census Bureau, 2011d). Most of these were younger adults, who tend to attach far less moral stigma to living together than did their parents and grandparents. Growing in number are elderly and immigrant unmarried couples (Tavernise, 2011). Th ough marriage remains an ideal for most, albeit a more elusive one, cohabitation is the lifestyle choice for a vast number of adults in this country. (See Figure 7.4 for trends by race/ethnicity in the percentage of women ever cohabitating.)
An Accepted Norm Cohabitation, or the practice of living together and having a sexual relationship, is increasingly accepted at almost every level of society. In fact, cohabitation is now the typical pathway into marriage, such that about two thirds of women married in the past decade cohabitated with their partner prior to marriage (Family Pro- fi les, 2010). Th e concept of domestic partnership, which refers to the rights of unmarried adults who choose to live together in the same manner as a married couple, has led to laws granting some of the protections of marriage to men and women, including gay men and lesbian women, who cohabit in committed relationships. Cohabitation has become more widespread and accepted in recent years for several reasons. First, the general climate regarding sexuality is more open-minded than it was a generation ago. Sexuality is more widely considered to be an important part of people’s lives, whether or not they are married. Th e moral criterion for judging sexual intercourse has shifted; a committed relationship or love rather than marriage is now widely regarded as making sex with another person moral. Second, divorce is seen now as more preferable than an unhappy marriage. Because of the dramatic increase in divorce rates in recent decades,
Lesbian women and gay celebrities, such as Ellen DeGeneres and her wife, Portia de Rossi, are increasingly being accepted into mainstream media.
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• FIGURE 7.4 Percentage of Women Aged 19–44 Ever Cohabiting, by Race/Ethnicity: 1987–2008. (Source: National Center for Family & Marriage Research, 2011.)
• FIGURE 7.5 Percentage of Adults Aged 20–24 Who Say Cohabitation Is OK. (Source: From Scott, M., Schelar, E., Manlove, J., & Cui, C. (2009, July). Young adult attitudes about relationships and marriage: Times may have changed, but expectations remain high. Child Trends Research Brief (Publication #2009-30), Fig 3, p. 3. © 2009 Child Trends. Reprinted by permission.
Agree 57%
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marriage is no longer thought of as necessarily a permanent commitment. Per- manence is increasingly replaced by serial monogamy, a succession of marriages, whereby the average marriage now lasts approximately 7 years. Th ird, young adults are continuing to defer marriage. At the same time, they want the com- panionship found in living intimately with another person.
In 2010, nearly 647,000 households in the United States consisted of same- sex couples (U.S. Census Bureau, 2011e). With same-sex marriage now legal in only a few states, this fi gure has changed and will continue to change. Th e relationships of gay men and lesbian women have been stereotyped as less committed than those of heterosexual couples because (1) lesbian women and gay men cannot legally marry in the vast majority of states, (2) they may not appear to emphasize sexual exclusiveness, (3) heterosexuals misperceive love between lesbian and gay partners as somehow less “real” than love between heterosexuals, and (4) some heterosexuals view same-sex relationships as a threat to traditional marriage. Regardless of their sexual orientation, most people want a close, loving relationship with another person. For gay men, lesbian women, and heterosexual individuals, intimate rela- tionships provide love, romance, satisfaction, and security. Th ere is one impor- tant diff erence, however: Many lesbian and gay relationships resist the traditional heterosexual provider/homemaker roles. Among heterosexual couples, these divisions are often gender-linked as male or female. In same-sex couples, how- ever, tasks are often divided pragmatically, according to considerations such as
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• FIGURE 7.6 Relationship Status of 18–25-Year Olds. (Source: From Scott, M., Schelar, E., Manlove, J., & Cui, C. (2009, July). Young adult attitudes about relationships and marriage: Times may have changed, but expectations remain high. Child Trends Research Brief (Publication #2009-30), Fig 1, p. 2. © 2009 Child Trends. Reprinted by permission.
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“ The censor believes that he can hold back the mighty traffi c of life with a tin
whistle and a raised hand. For after all, it is life with which he quarrels.
—Heywood Broun (1888–1939)
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who likes cooking more (or dislikes it less) and who works when. Most gay couples are dual-worker couples; neither partner supports or depends on the other economically. And because partners in gay and lesbian couples are the same sex, the economic discrepancies based on greater male earning power are often absent. Although gay couples emphasize egalitarianism, if there are dif- ferences in power, they are attributed to personality; if there is an age diff erence, the older partner is usually more powerful.
• Sexuality in Middle Adulthood In the middle-adulthood years, family and work become especially important. Personal time is spent increasingly on marital and family matters, especially if a couple has children. Sexual expression often decreases in frequency, intensity, and signifi cance, to be replaced by family and work concerns. Sometimes, the change refl ects a higher value placed on family intimacy; other times, it may refl ect habit, boredom, or confl ict.
Developmental Concerns
In the middle-adulthood years, some of the psychosexual developmental tasks begun in young adulthood may be continuing. Th ese tasks, such as ones related to intimacy issues or parenting decisions, may have been deferred or only partly completed in young adulthood. Because of separation or divorce, people may fi nd themselves facing the same intimacy and commitment tasks at age 40 that they thought they had completed 15 years earlier (Cate & Lloyd, 1992). But life does not stand still; it moves steadily forward, and other developmental issues appear, including the following:
■ Redefi ning sex in marital or other long-term relationships. In new relation- ships, sex is often passionate and intense; it may be the central focus. But in long-term marital or cohabiting relationships, habit, competing family and work obligations, fatigue, and unresolved confl icts often erode the passionate intensity associated with sex. Sex may need to be redefi ned as more of an expression of intimacy and caring. Individuals may also need to decide how to deal with the possibility, reality, and meaning of extramarital or extrarelational sex.
■ Reevaluating one’s sexuality. Single women and single men may need to weigh the costs and benefi ts of sex in casual or lightly committed relation- ships. In long-term relationships, sexuality often becomes less than central to relationship satisfaction, as nonsexual elements such as communication, intimacy, and shared interests and activities become increasingly important. Women who desire children and who have deferred their childbearing begin to reappraise their decision: Should they remain child-free, race against their biological clock, or adopt a child? Some people may redefi ne their sexual orientation. One’s sexual philosophy continues to evolve.
■ Accepting the biological aging process. As people age, their skin wrinkles, their fl esh sags, their hair turns gray (or falls out), their vision blurs— and they become, in the eyes of society, less attractive and less sexual. By their forties, their physiological responses have begun to slow. By their fi fties, society begins to “neuter” them, especially women who have gone through menopause. Th e challenge of aging is to come to terms with its biological changes and challenges.
“ Seldom, or perhaps never, does a marriage develop into an individual
relationship smoothly and without crisis; there is no coming to consciousness without pain.
—Carl Jung
(1875–1961)
With the increased acceptance of cohabitation, many couples are postponing decisions about mar r iage and children until their thirties.
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Sexuality in Established Relationships
When people marry, they may discover that their sex lives are very diff erent from what they were before marriage. Sex is now morally and socially sanc- tioned. It is in marriage that the great majority of heterosexual interactions take place, yet as a culture, we feel ambivalent about marital sex. On the one hand, marriage is the only relationship in which sexuality is legitimized. On the other, marital sex is an endless source of humor and ridicule.
Frequency of Sexual Interactions Ask any long-term couple about their patterns of lust over time, and you’ll no doubt fi nd wide variations, from no lust to large fl uctuations in desire and activity from day to day. (See Figures 14.3 and 14.4 in Chapter 14.) Sexual intercourse tends to diminish in frequency the longer a couple is married. For newly married couples, the average frequency of sexual intercourse is about 3-times a week. As couples get older, the frequency drops. In early middle age, married couples have sexual intercourse an average of 1–2 times a week. After age 50, the rate is about once a week or less (American Association of Retired Persons [AARP], 2010). Decreased frequency, how- ever, does not necessarily mean that sex is no longer important or that the partnership is unsatisfactory. It may be the result of bio-
logical aging and declining sexual drive, or it could be the way our brains adapt, from the initial surge of dopamine that prompts romance and desire to the rela- tive quiet of an oxytocin-induced attachment. Oxytocin is a hormone that pro- duces a feeling of connectedness and bonding. But decreasing frequency of sexual interaction may, for example, simply mean that one or both partners are too tired. For dual-worker families and families with children, stress, fi nancial worries, fatigue, and lack of private time may be the most signifi cant factors in the decline of frequency. Most married couples don’t seem to feel that declining frequency in sexual intercourse is a major problem if their overall relationship is good (Cupach & Comstock, 1990; Sprecher & McKinney, 1993). Sexual intercourse is only one erotic bond among many in committed relationships. Th ere are also kisses, caresses, nibbles, massages, candlelight dinners, hand-in-hand walks, intimate words, and so on.
Sexual Satisfaction and Pleasure Higher levels of sexual satisfaction and pleasure seem to be found in marriage than in singlehood or extramarital relation- ships (Laumann et al., 1994). More than 50% of married men report that they are extremely satisfi ed physically and emotionally with their partner, while 40–45% of married women report similar levels of satisfaction (Laumann et al., 1994; Lindau & Gavrilova, 2010; Smith et al., 2003). Th e lowest rates of satisfaction were among those who were neither married nor living with someone, a group thought to have sex most frequently.
“ Setting a good example for your children takes all the fun out of
middle age.
—William Feather (1889–1981)
The demands of parenting may diminish a couple’s ability to be sexually spontaneous.
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Adult love relationships often have complex expectations: emotional stabili- zation, shared time and values, personal enrichment, security, and support, to name a few (see Figure 7.8). Married partners have a commitment to learning each other’s likes and dislikes and being sensitive to the other’s needs. Th e longer the partnership lasts, the greater the commitment is likely to be to making its various aspects— including the sexual component—work.
Divorce and After
Divorce has become a major force in American life. A quick observation of demographics in this country points to a growing way of life: postdivorce single- hood. Contrary to divorce trends in the twentieth century, in recent decades, the divorce rate has actually dropped. In 1990, the divorce rate was 7.2 per 1,000; in 2000, it was 6.2; and in 2008, the rate dropped to 5.2 (U.S. Census Bureau, 2011c). And since more couples now live together without marrying, the divorce rate is down, especially among those who are college-educated. Scholars suggest that divorce represents, not a devaluation of marriage, but, oddly enough, an idealization of it. We would not divorce if we did not have such high expectations for marriage’s ability to fulfi ll various needs. Our divorce rate further tells us that we may no longer believe in the permanence of mar- riage. Instead, we remain married only as long as the marriage is rewarding or until a potentially better partner comes along.
Faithfulness
Happy sexual relationship
Sharing household choices
Adequate income
Agreement on politics
Children
Shared religious beliefs
Good housing
Shared tastes & interests
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Change • FIGURE 7.8 What Makes a Marriage Work? Percentage who say each expectation is very important for a successful marriage. (Source: From As marriage and parenthood drift apart, public is concerned about social impact. Washington, DC: Pew Research Center, July 1, 2007, p. 2. Reprinted with permission. http://pewresearch.org/ assets/social/pdf/Marriage.pdf )
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Consequences of Divorce Because divorce is so prevalent, many studies have focused on its eff ects on partners and children. From these studies, a number of consequences of divorce have been identifi ed (Amato, 2000, 2010; Th ables, 1997):
■ Th ere is often stigmatization by family, friends, and co-workers. ■ Th ere is a change of income (usually a substantial decline for women
and their children). ■ Th ere is a higher incidence of physical, emotional, behavioral, and social
problems among both men and women, including depression, injury, and illness.
■ Th ere are signifi cantly more problems with children, including criminality, substance abuse, lower academic attainment and performance, earlier sexual activity, and a higher rate of divorce.
■ Children are twice as likely as those in two-parent families to develop serious psychiatric problems and addictions later in life (Whitehead & Holland, 2003).
■ Many individuals report being less close to their parents and, if they marry, are more likely to get divorced than persons from two-parent families.
Slightly over half of all divorces involve children. Our understanding about the long-term impact of divorce on children is, at best, mixed. Research by psy- chologists Judith Wallerstein and her colleagues (2000) demonstrates fairly exten- sive, long-term trauma and distress that appeared to stay with and impact children of divorce well into their adulthood. Specifi cally, more than a third of the children at the 5-year mark of divorce struggled in school, experienced depression, had diffi culty with friendships, and had a higher than average rate of marriage before age 25 and consequent divorce. More moderate and encouraging views emerge from other studies (see Ahrons, 2004; Amato, 2003, 2010; and Hetherington & Kelly, 2002) that demonstrate the majority of children whose parents have divorced do not suff er long-term consequences simply because of the divorce. Rather, the consequences of divorce for children and adults are contingent on the quality of family relationships prior to marital dissolution. In most cases, the way the children think and feel about the important relationships in their fami- lies are not signifi cantly altered. In fact, these same children grow up to be well- adjusted adults who sustain family connections and commitments. Although there are several theories about how to maintain stability in a child’s life following divorce, it is the number of transitions rather than the divorce itself that is a central variable in determining a child’s well-being (Amato, 2010). Many experts cite the economic circumstances, quality of the parenting, timing of the divorce, level of respect between the parents, and quality of the social network, which includes teachers, parents, and other role models, as being signifi cant in a child’s ability to cope with the divorce. While our understanding of the long-term impact of divorce on children is still limited, there are some positive outcomes from divorce that may off set or even provide relief from the negative ones. Divorce off ers options for individuals in unhappy marriages. Divorce also may eliminate the stressful and frustrating experience of marriage and improve the family’s mental and emotional well-being. And divorce can provide both parents and children with a less idealized view of marriage, an opportunity for growth, and a more harmonious family situation. Obviously, most individuals would not opt for divorce if a viable alternative were
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available. However, when it is not, acknowledging that the process of divorce will involve change may help prepare the people involved for the transition that lies ahead.
Dating Again A fi rst date after years of marriage and subsequent months of singlehood evokes some of the same emotions felt by inexperienced adolescents. Separated or divorced men and women who are beginning to date again may be excited and nervous; worry about how they look; and wonder whether it’s OK to hold hands, kiss, or make love. Th ey may believe that dating is incon- gruous with their former selves, or they may be annoyed with themselves for feeling excited and awkward. Furthermore, they may know little about the norms of postmarital dating. No longer confi ned to one’s small network of friends and family, newly sin- gle people can now reach out to countless others to fi nd another who shares their interests. With approximately 30–35% of the U.S. population having at least one online profi le, numbers alone would seem to provide those who are newly single with a better chance of meeting potential partners, if they are willing to invest time and allow themselves to be vulnerable. Both pros and cons present themselves when using these sites. Th e advantages of using online dating sites are that (1) the technology enables one to overcome many geographical limitations, and (2) one may have a better chance of meeting people with sim- ilar beliefs and values, which are often listed in people’s profi les. On the other hand, one must (1) be wary of any distinct, special, or “scientifi c” claims for matching people and (2) acknowledge that the sites are moneymaking endeavors. No one has mastered the science of matchmaking (despite any of their claims), and though they usually allow a person to register and browse for free, once you confi rm, fees average $25–75 a month or more depending on the level of service. (For additional discussion about dating sites, see Chapter 1.) Sexual activity is an important component in the lives of separated and divorced men and women. Engaging in sexual behavior with someone for the fi rst time following separation helps people accept their newly acquired single status.
Single Parenting In 2008, nearly 30% of all families were headed by single parents, the vast majority of whom were single mothers (U.S. Census Bureau, 2011c). Several demographic trends have aff ected the shift from two-parent to
“ You have to accept the fact that part of the sizzle of sex comes from the danger
of sex.
—Camille Paglia (1947–)
“ The bed: A place where marriages are decided.
—Anonymous
Because of their child-rearing responsibilities, single parents are usually not part of the singles world.
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one-parent families, including a larger proportion of births to unmarried women, the delay of marriage, and the increase in divorce among couples with children. White single mothers are more likely to be divorced than their African American or Latina counterparts, who are more likely to be unmarried at the time of birth or to be widowed. Single parents are not often a part of the singles world, which involves more than simply not being married. It requires leisure and money, both of which single parents, especially women, generally lack because of their family responsibilities.
• Sexuality in Late Adulthood Sexual feelings and desires continue throughout the life cycle. Th ough many of the standards of activity or attraction are constant, it may be necessary for each of us to overcome the taboos and stereotypes associated with sex and aging in order to create a place for its expression in our lives.
Developmental Concerns
Many of the psychosexual tasks older Americans must undertake are directly related to the aging process, including the following (DeLamater & Sill, 2005):
■ Biological changes. As older men’s and women’s physical abilities change with age, their sexual responses change as well. A 70-year-old person, though still sexual, is not sexual in the same manner as an 18-year-old individual. As men and women continue to age, their sexuality tends to be more diff use, less genitally oriented, and less insistent. Chronic illness, hormonal changes, vascular changes, and increasing frailty understandably result in diminished sexual activity. Th ese considerations contribute to the ongoing evolution of the individual’s sexual philosophy.
■ Death of a partner. One of the most critical life events is the loss of a partner. After age 60, there is a signifi cant increase in spousal deaths. Because having a partner is the single most important factor determining an older person’s sexual interactions, the absence of a sexual partner signals a dramatic change in the survivor’s sexual interactions.
■ Psychological infl uences. Given America’s obsession with youth and sexuality, it is not surprising that many people consider it inappropriate for older men and women to continue to be sexually active. Such factors as lack of sexual information, negative attitudes toward sexual expression, and mental health problems including depression (along with the treatments that remedy it) may interfere with older individuals’ ability or willingness to see themselves as sexual beings.
Older adults negotiate these issues within the context of continuing aging. Resolving them as we age helps us to accept the eventuality of our death.
Stereotypes of Aging
Our society stereotypes aging as a lonely and depressing time, but most studies of older adults fi nd that, relative to younger people, they express high levels of satisfaction and well-being. It is poverty, loneliness, and poor health that make old age diffi cult. But, even so, older people have lower levels of poverty than
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most Americans, including young adults, women, and children. More importantly, until their mid-seventies, most older people report few, if any, restrictions on their activities because of health. Th e sexuality of older Americans tends to be invisible, as society discounts their sexuality. Several factors account for this in our culture. First, we associate sexuality with young people, assuming that sexual attraction exists only between those with youthful bodies. Interest in sex is considered normal in 25-year-old men, but in 75-year-old men, it is considered lecherous. Second, we associate the idea of romance and love with the young; many of us fi nd it diffi cult to believe that older adults can fall in love or love intensely. Th ird, we continue to associate sex with procreation, measuring a woman’s femininity by her childbear- ing and maternal role and a man’s masculinity by the children he has. Finally, older people do not have sexual desires as strong as those of younger people, and they do not express them as openly. Intimacy is especially valued and important for an older person’s well-being. Aging gay men and lesbian women face a double stigma: Stigmas related to their sexual orientation and to their age, which paint them as undesirable and target them for ostracism. But, like other stigmas of aging Americans, these refl ect myths rather than realities. Targeted educational programs can help to reduce fears and discomfort related to both aging and sexual orientation. Stereotypes and myths about aging are not the only factors that aff ect the sexuality of older Americans. Th e narrow defi nition of sexuality con- tributes to the problem. Sexual behavior is viewed by researchers and the general population as varied and unpredictable. Th e continued focus on physical and hormonal changes highlights the general trend toward the medi- calization of sexual functioning rather than the emotional, sensual, and relation- ship aspects that are enjoyed by all people, regardless of age (Tiefer, 2004).
Sexuality and Aging
Sexuality remains an essential element in the lives of individuals 45 and over (AARP, 2010), although men and women tend to view aging diff erently. For men, sex is far more important to the overall quality of life—and more critical to a good relationship. In contrast, 1 in 5 women in their 50s say she’d be quite happy never to have sex again. About 1 in 50 men in their 50s agrees. Cultural attitudes toward sexuality and aging appear to infl uence whether sex among older individuals is encouraged or discouraged. Sexual expression has historically been viewed in the United States as an activity reserved for young and newly married people. Fortunately, this viewpoint is not universally accepted. Cross-cultural studies show that in many countries sexual activity is not only accepted but also expected among older adults. Despite conventional wisdom, recent studies conducted in the United States have revealed that older Americans continue to be sexual. Not surprisingly, one of the major factors associated with the likelihood of being sexually active is the availability of a partner. Findings from the American Association of Retired People (AARP) 2010 survey of nearly 1,700 Americans aged 45 and over found that opposition to sex among those who are not married has, over time, been signifi cantly reduced as has the belief that there is too much emphasis on sex in our culture. During the same 10-year period in which these surveys were
“ You only possess what will not be lost in a shipwreck.
—Al Ghazali (1058–1111)
“ Old age has its pleasures, which, though diff erent, are not less than the pleasures
of youth.
—W. Somerset Maugham (1874–1965)
One of the most famous twentieth-century sculptures is Auguste Rodin’s The Kiss, which depicts young lovers embracing. Here, the aging model Antoni Nordone sits before the statue that immortalized his youth.
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conducted, the frequency of sexual intercourse and overall sexual satisfaction declined over the years. However, the frequency of self-stimulation and sexual thoughts and fantasies did not. Other fi ndings include the qualities that com- prise a happy sexual relationship:
■ A sexual partner (but not necessarily a spouse) ■ Frequent sexual intercourse (more than once a week, but not necessarily daily) ■ Good health (self and partner) ■ Low levels of stress ■ Absence of fi nancial worries
For a few highlights from this study, see Figure 7.9.
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Frequency of Sexual Intercourse by Gender and Age During the past 6 months, how often, on average, At least Once or Less than Never in have you engaged in once a twice a once a last 6 sexual Intercourse? week month month months % % % %
Total: Males and Females 45+ 28 12 12 48
Male Age 45–49 50 9 10 31
Age 50–59 41 22 9 28
Age 60–69 24 18 18 40
Age 70� 15 7 18 60
Total: Males 33 16 13 37
Female Age 45–49 26 12 20 42
Age 50–59 32 10 9 49
Age 60–69 24 8 13 55
Age 70� 5 6 3 87
Total: Females 23 9 10 58
• FIGURE 7.9 Sexual Frequency and Satisfaction of Older Americans. (Adapted from American Association of Retired People. (2010). Sex, romance, and relationships. Reprinted by permission.)
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Among older lesbian and gay couples, as well as heterosexual couples, the happiest are those with a strong commitment to the relationship. Th e need for intimacy, companionship, and purpose transcends issues of sexual orientation. Because our society tends to desexualize the old, aging people may interpret their slower responses as signaling the end of their sexuality. Sexuality education programs for older people, in which they learn about anatomy, physiology, STIs, and sexual response, have been shown to be helpful in dispelling myths, building confi dence, and giving permission to be sexual (Davila, 2008).
Women’s Issues Beginning sometime in their forties, most women start to experience a normal biological process resulting in a decline in fertility. Many women are relieved when they no longer have to worry about getting pregnant and pleased when they no longer have to deal with a monthly menstrual fl ow. Th is period of gradual change and adjustment is referred to as perimenopause. During this time, the ovaries produce less and less estrogen and progesterone, and ovulation becomes less regular. Over a few years’ time, menstrual periods become irregular and eventually stop, usually between the ages of 45 and 55, but it can happen anytime from the thirties to mid-fi fties or later. Th e average age of menopause, the complete cessation of menstruation for at least one year, is 51 (National Institute on Aging, 2010b). A woman can also undergo meno- pause as a result of a hysterectomy, the surgical removal of the uterus, if both ovaries are also removed. In postmenopausal women, estrogen levels are about one tenth those in premenopausal women, and progesterone is nearly absent (National Cancer Institute, 2002a). Most women experience some physiological or psychological symptoms during menopause, but for only about 5–15% of women are the eff ects severe enough to cause them to seek medical assistance.
Physical Eff ects of Menopause Whether a woman goes through menopause naturally or surgically, symptoms can appear as the woman’s body attempts to adjust to the drop in estrogen levels. Th e symptoms vary from one woman to the next: Some may breeze through menopause with few symptoms, whereas
Marital satisfaction and emotional health foster the desire for emotional intimacy. The greatest determinants of an older person’s sexual activity are the availability of a partner and health.
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others may experience many discomforting symptoms for several months or even years. Th e most common symptoms of menopause are hot fl ashes or fl ushes, vaginal dryness, and sleeping disturbances (National Institute on Aging, 2010b). Another symptom, thinning of the vaginal walls, can result in the length and width of the vagina decreasing and the vagina not being able to expand during penile-vaginal intercourse as it once could. Intercourse can be painful, bleeding can occur, and the vagina can be more susceptible to infection. Th ese eff ects may begin while a woman is still menstruating and may continue after menstruation has ceased. As many as 85% of women experience some degree of hot fl ashes, which usually diminish within 2 years following the end of menopause. Between 20% and 50% of women continue to have them for many more years. A hot fl ash is a period of intense warmth, fl ushing, and (often) perspiration, typically lasting for a minute or two, but ranging anywhere from 15 seconds to 1 hour in length. A hot fl ash occurs when falling estrogen levels cause the body’s “thermostat” in the brain to trigger dilation (expansion) of blood vessels near the skin’s surface, producing a sensation of heat. Hot fl ashes that occur with severe sweating during sleep are called night sweats. Some women who are going through menopause experience insomnia (which can be related to hot fl ashes), changes in sexual interest (more commonly a decrease), urinary incontinence, weakening of pelvic fl oor muscles, headaches, or weight gain. Some women also report depression, irritability, and other emotions. Long-term eff ects related to lowered estrogen levels may be experienced by some women. Osteoporosis, the loss of bone mass, leads to problems such as wrist and hip fractures. Lowered estrogen can also contribute to diseases of the heart and arteries related to rising levels of LDL (low-density lipoprotein, or “bad” cholesterol) and falling levels of HDL (high-density lipoprotein, or “good” cholesterol). Hereditary factors also play a part in cardiovascular disease. Th e physical eff ects of menopause may be reduced by a diet low in saturated fat and high in fi ber; calcium and vitamin D to reduce risk of osteoporosis; weight-bearing exercise; maintenance of a healthy weight; topical lubricants to counteract vaginal dryness; and Kegel exercises to strengthen pelvic fl oor mus- cles. Frequent sexual stimulation (by self or partner) may help maintain vaginal moistness. For women who smoke, quitting provides benefi ts in many areas, including reducing the risk of osteoporosis, diminishing the intensity of hot fl ashes, and establishing an improved sense of well-being (North American Menopause Society, 2011).
Menopausal Hormone Therapy To relieve the symptoms of menopause, a physician may prescribe menopausal hormone therapy (MHT), a more cur- rent name for hormone replacement therapy (HRT). Th e National Institutes of Health (NIH) has begun using the term “menopausal hormone therapy,” believing that it is a more current, umbrella term that describes several diff er- ent hormone combinations available in a variety of forms and doses. Th is therapy involves the use of the hormone estrogen or a combination of estrogen with another hormone, progesterone, or progestin in its synthetic form. Estrogen and progestin normally help regulate a woman’s menstrual cycle. In MHT, progestin is added to estrogen to prevent the overgrowth of cells in the lining of the uterus, which can lead to uterine cancer. If a woman is going through menopause and is experiencing symptoms that are interfering with her quality of life, she might be prescribed estrogen-plus-progestin therapy; a
“ You can take no credit for beauty at sixteen. But if you are beautiful at
sixty, it will be your soul’s own doing.
—Marie Stopes
(1880–1958)
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woman who has had a hysterectomy would receive estrogen-only therapy. Th e hormones can be taken daily or only on certain days of the month. Depending on their purpose, the hormones can be taken orally, applied as a patch on the skin, used as a cream or gel, or absorbed via an intrauterine device (IUD) or vaginal ring. A vaginal estrogen ring or cream can minimize vaginal dryness, urinary leakage, and vaginal or urinary infection, but it does not ease hot fl ashes. MHT may cause side eff ects such as bloating, breast tenderness or enlargement, bleeding, headaches, irritability, depression, nausea, and some- times having spotting or a return of monthly periods for a few months or years (National Institute on Aging, 2011b). Menopause is a normal part of life, not a disease that must be treated. Still, some women may be bothered enough by symptoms to seek medical advice or assistance. Some women may be concerned about the possibility of future prob- lems such as osteoporosis. Others may be concerned about changes in their sexual feelings or patterns or about the implications of fertility loss, aging, and changing standards of attractiveness. Because some physicians may treat meno- pause as a medical “problem,” women may fi nd themselves subjected to treat- ments they don’t understand or would not choose if they were better informed. It’s important that women seek out health-care practitioners who will work with them to meet their needs. Th ough there are benefi ts associated with taking menopausal hormone therapy, a clear understanding of the benefi ts versus the more signifi cant risks should be understood by any woman considering treatment (see Table 7.1). In a follow-up report on the results of a 3-year study conducted by the Wom- en’s Health Initiative, a study of 15,730 postmenopausal women aged 50–79 with an intact uterus, researchers concluded that the health risks of long-term use of combination (estrogen plus progestin) HRT to healthy, postmenopausal women persist even a few years after stopping the drugs and outweigh the benefi ts (Heiss et al., 2008). About 3 years after women stopped taking com- bination HRT, many of the health eff ects of the hormones, such as increased risk of heart disease, were diminished; however, overall risks, including risk of stroke, blood clots, and cancer, remained high. As a result, the National Insti- tutes of Health (2012) recommend that each woman discuss with her health- care provider the risks and benefi ts for her. If a woman decides to take HRT, it should be the lowest dose that helps and for the shortest time needed. A re-evaluation should occur every six months.
Men’s Issues Changes in male sexual responsiveness begin to become apparent when men are in their forties and fi fties, a period of change sometimes referred to as the male climacteric, or andropause. However, to date, there is little sci- entifi c evidence that this condition exists (National Institute on Aging, 2010c). For a minority of men, these physical changes of aging may be accompanied by experiences such as fatigue, an inability to concentrate, depression, loss of appe- tite, and a decreased interest in sex. As a man ages, his frequency of sexual activity declines, achieving erection requires more stimulation and time, and the erection may not be as fi rm. Ejaculation takes longer and may not occur every time the penis is stimulated; also, the force of the ejaculation is less than before, as is the amount of ejaculate; and the refractory period is extended (up to 24 hours or longer in older men). However, sexual interest and enjoyment generally do not decrease, as witnessed by the frequency and variety of sexual activity reported by older adults. Although some of the changes are related
“ Generally by the time you become real, most of your hair has been loved
off and your eyes drop out and you get loose in the joints and very shabby. But these things don’t matter at all, because once you are real you can’t be ugly, except to people who don’t understand.
—from The Velveteen Rabbit by Margery Williams
(1881–1944)
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directly to age and a normal decrease in testosterone production, others may be the result of diseases and conditions associated with aging. Poor general health, diabetes, atherosclerosis, urinary incontinence, and some medications can con- tribute to sexual function problems. It is important for older men to understand that slower responses are a normal function of aging and are unrelated to the ability to give or receive sexual pleasure. “Th e senior penis,” wrote Bernie Zilbergeld (1999), “can still give and take pleasure, even though it’s not the same as it was decades ago.” Prescription drugs have become available to aid men in achieving erections. In fact, approximately 14% of men and 1% of women say they have taken med- ication to improve their sexual performance. Many young men also take these drugs (Harvard Health Publications, 2010). About half of men over age 50 are aff ected to some degree by benign pros- tatic hyperplasia (BPH), an enlargement of the prostate gland. Th e prostate starts out about the size of a walnut. By age 40, it may have grown slightly larger, to the size of an apricot. By age 60, it may be the size of a lemon. By age 70, almost all men have some prostate enlargement. BPH is not linked to cancer and does not raise a man’s chance of getting prostate cancer, yet the
TABLE 7.1 • Benefi ts and Risks of Menopausal Hormone Therapy
Women with a Uterus: Women Without Estrogen � a Uterusa: Progestin Estrogen Only
Benefi ts
Relieves hot fl ashes/night sweats Yes Yes
Relieves vaginal dryness Yes Yes
Reduces risk of bone fractures Only when Yes drug is taken
Improves cholesterol levels Yes Yes
Reduces risk of colon cancer Only when Don’t know drug is taken
Risks
Increases risk of stroke Yes Yes
Increases risk of serious blood clots Yes Yes
Increases risk of heart disease Yes No
Increases risk of breast, endometrial, Yes Yes (except ovarian, and lung cancer breast cancer)
Increases risk of dementia, when begun Yes Yes by women age 65 and older
Unpleasant side eff ects, such as bloating, Yes Yes tender breasts, spotting or return of monthly periods, cramping
aWomen who have had a hysterectomy have had their uterus but not their ovaries removed.
SOURCES: (American Cancer Society. (2010). Menopausal hormone replacement therapy and cancer risk; National Institute on Aging. (2011). Hormones and menopause: Tips from the National Institute on Aging.
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symptoms of BPH and prostate cancer can be similar. Th e enlarged prostate may put pressure on the urethra, resulting in diffi culty urinating and the fre- quent and urgent need to urinate. It does not aff ect sexual functioning. BPH symptoms do not always get worse. At the same time, BPH cannot be cured, but drugs can often relieve its symptoms. If the blockage of the urethra is too severe, surgery can correct the problem.
Testosterone Supplement As you may recall from Chapter 4, testosterone plays an important role in puberty and throughout a man’s life. Although it is the main sex hormone of men, women produce small amounts of it as well. Testosterone production is the highest in adolescence and early adulthood and declines as a man ages. But the chance that a man will ever experience a major shutdown of hormone production similar to a woman’s menopause is remote (National Institute on Aging, 2010c). Most older men maintain a suffi cient amount for normal functioning. As men age, changes such as less energy and strength, decreased bone den- sity, and erectile diffi culties may occur; these changes are often erroneously blamed on decreasing testosterone levels. Because of changes like these—par- ticularly sexual declines—a rapidly growing number of older men are consider- ing taking supplemental testosterone. Testosterone is currently available in deep muscle injections, patches, and topical gels. However, despite the fact that some older men who have tried these supplements report feeling more energetic, experts are inconclusive about whether testosterone supplements should be pre- scribed. Th e National Institute on Aging (2010c) states that supplemental tes- tosterone remains a scientifi cally unproven method for preventing or relieving any physical or psychological changes that men with normal testosterone levels may experience as they age. Until more rigorous scientifi c studies are con- ducted, it is not known if the possible benefi ts of testosterone therapy outweigh its potential risks.
As this chapter has shown, psychosexual development occurs on a continuum rather than as a series of discrete stages. Each person develops in his or her own way, according to personal and social circumstances and the dictates of biology. In early adulthood, tasks that defi ne adult sexuality include establishing sexual orienta- tion, making commitments, entering long-term intimate relationships, and deciding whether or not to have children. None of these challenges is accomplished over- night. Nor does a task necessarily end as a person moves into a new stage of life. In middle adulthood, individuals face new tasks involving the nature of their long-term relationships. Often, these tasks involve reevaluating these relationships. As people enter late adulthood, they need to adjust to the aging process—to changed sexual responses and needs, declining physical health, the loss of a part- ner, and their own eventual death. Each stage is fi lled with its own unique meaning, which gives shape and signifi cance to life and to sexuality.
Final Thoughts
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Summary Sexuality in Early Adulthood
■ Th e two most widely held standards regarding non- marital sexual intercourse are permissiveness with aff ection and the double standard. For gay men, les- bian women, and bisexual and transgendered indi- viduals, the college environment is often liberating because of greater acceptance and tolerance.
■ Among single men and women not or no longer at- tending college, meeting others can be a problem. Singles often meet via the Internet and at work, clubs, resorts, housing complexes, and churches.
■ Internalization of a culture’s stereotyping about ho- mosexuality may be among the issues that prevent gay men and lesbian women of color from coming out.
■ Cohabitation has become more widespread and ac- cepted in recent years. At any one time, approxi- mately 20% of young adults are cohabiting. Domestic partnerships provide some legal protection for cohabiting couples in committed relationships.
Sexuality in Middle Adulthood
■ Developmental issues of sexuality in middle adult- hood include redefi ning sex in long-term relation- ships, reevaluating one’s sexuality, and accepting the biological aging process.
■ In marriage, sexual activity tends to diminish in fre- quency the longer a couple is married. Most married couples don’t feel that declining frequency is a major problem if their overall relationship is good.
■ Divorce has become a major force in American life. Sexual experiences following divorce are linked to well-being, especially for men. Single parents are usually not a part of the singles world because the presence of children constrains their freedom.
Sexuality in Late Adulthood
■ Many of the psychosexual tasks older Americans must undertake are directly related to the aging pro- cess, including changing sexuality and the loss of a partner. Most studies of older adults fi nd that they express relatively high levels of satisfaction and well- being. Older adults’ sexuality tends to be invisible because society associates sexuality and romance with youthfulness and procreation.
■ Although some physical functions may be slowed by aging, sexual interest and activity remain high for
many older people. Diminished sexual activity for both men and women is primarily due to health issues and/or loss of a partner.
■ In their forties, women’s fertility begins to decline. Generally, between ages 45 and 55, menopause, cessa- tion of menstrual periods, occurs. Other physical changes occur, which may or may not present problems. Menopausal hormone therapy (MHT ) is sometimes used to treat these symptoms.
■ Men need to understand that slower responses are a normal part of aging and are not related to the ability to give or receive sexual pleasure.
Questions for Discussion ■ The text describes some of the challenges
faced by people who choose to live together without marrying. Should society support cohabitation regardless of sexual orientation by providing tax benefi ts or acknowledging domestic partnerships? If so, how? If not, why not?
■ Many changes have taken place in marriage policies, and there has been liberalization of divorce laws. Has it become too easy to get divorced? What factors do you feel contribute to long-term partnerships?
■ Given the three models of sexual orientation (see Figure 7.2), which model do you think is most accurate? Can you fi nd a place for yourself within each model?
Sex and the Internet Sexuality in Early Adulthood Go Ask Alice! is the health question-and-answer Internet service produced by Alice!, Columbia University’s Health Promotion Program, a division of its Health Services. This site has three primary features: It provides recently published inquiries and responses, lets you fi nd health information by subject via a search of the ever-growing Go Ask Alice! Archives, and gives you the chance to ask and submit a question to Alice!
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Suggested Websites American College Health Association http://www.acha.org Provides information and resources for and about college-age students.
American Institute of Bisexuality http://www.bisexual.org Encourages, supports, and assists research and education about bisexuality.
Men’s Web, Men’s Voices http://www.menweb.org Provides discussions on a wide variety of issues for and about men.
National Institutes of Health—Menopausal Hormone Therapy Information http://www.nih.gov/PHTindex.htm New fi ndings from large studies off er important information about the risks and benefi ts of long-term menopausal hormone therapy.
National Institute on Aging http://www.nia.nih.gov Leads the federal government’s eff orts on aging research.
Sex.Really. http://sexreally.com A site for 20-somethings focused on relationships, love, and sex.
The Williams Institute http://services.law.ucla.edu/williamsinstitute/about/index.html Advances sexual orientation law and public policy through research.
Suggested Reading Badgett, M. V. (2009). When gay people get married. New York:
New York University Press. Th e author examines gay marriage in six countries and fi nds that gay people get married for much the same reasons as straight people.
Harvey, J. H., Wenzel, A., & Sprecher, S. (Eds.). (2004). Th e handbook of sexuality in close relationships. Mahwah, NJ: Lawrence Erlbaum Associates. Th e handbook brings together major scholars from diverse fi elds working on close relations topics to explore past contributions and new directions in sexuality.
Ince, J. (2005). Th e politics of lust. Amherst, NY: Prometheus Books. Th e author examines the sociocultural ambivalences and contradictions surrounding human sexuality and people’s erotophobic conditioning toward sexual expression.
Sheehy, G. (2007). Sex and the seasoned woman. New York: Random House. For women (and their partners) who are willing to embrace their “second adulthood” as a period of reawakening.
Sprecher, S., Wenzel, A., & Harvey, J. H. (Eds.). (2008). Handbook of relationship initiation. New York: Taylor & Francis. Th e handbook focuses on beginning stages of fi rst relationships: how people meet, communicate for the fi rst time, and begin to defi ne themselves as being in a relationship.
Wallerstein, J. S., Lewis, J., & Blakeslee, S. (2008). Th e unexpected legacy of divorce: A 25-year landmark study. New York: Hyperion. A long-term study assessing the eff ects of divorce on children as they grow into adulthood and pursue relationships of their own.
Zilbergeld, B., & Zilbergeld, G. (2010). Sex and love at midlife: It’s better than ever. New York: Crown Publishing. A guide for couples who wish to maintain a passionate relationship.
To access the site, go to http://www.goaskalice .columbia.edu and select two categories. In each one of these, investigate three responses to the options pro- vided and prepare a summary of what you have learned. Would you recommend this site to others? Why or why not? Did you feel comfortable entering your own re- sponse? What position did you take on the issue that you investigated? Do you feel that diversity in sexual atti- tudes and behaviors was represented by this site?
For links, articles, and study material, go to the McGraw-Hill websites, located at
www.mhhe.com/yarber8e.
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M A I N T O P I C S
Friendship and Love 220
Love and Sexuality 221
How Do I Love Thee? Approaches and Attitudes Related to Love 225
Jealousy 233
Making Love Last: From Passion to Intimacy 238
The Nature of Communication 239
Sexual Communication 243
Developing Communication Skills 247
Confl ict and Intimacy 250
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Love is one of the most profound human emotions, and it manifests itself in various forms across all cultures. In our culture, love binds us together as partners, parents, children, and friends. It is a powerful force in the intimate relationships of almost all individuals, regardless of their sexual orientation, and it crosses all ethnic boundaries. We often make major life decisions, such as whether or not to have children, based on love. We make sacrifi ces for it, sometimes giving up even our lives for those we love. Sometimes, we even become obsessed with love. Popular culture in America glorifi es it in music, fi lms, print, and on the Internet and television. Individuals equate romantic love with marriage and often assess the quality of their partnerships by what they consider love to be. Love is both a feeling and an activity. We can feel love for someone and act in a loving manner. But we can also be angry with the person we love, or feel frustrated, bored, or indiff erent. Th is is the paradox of love: It encompasses opposites. A loving relationship includes aff ection and anger, excitement and boredom, stability and change, bonds and freedom. Its paradoxical quality makes some ask whether they are really in love when they are not feeling “perfectly” in love or when their relationship is not going smoothly. Love does not give us perfection, however; it gives us meaning. In fact, as sociologist Ira Reiss (1980) suggests, a more important question to ask is not if one is feeling love, but “Is the love I feel the kind of love on which I can build a lasting relationship or marriage?” Communication is the thread that connects sexuality and intimacy. Th e quality of the communication aff ects the quality of the relationship, and the quality of the relationship aff ects the quality of the sex. Good relationships tend to feature good sex; bad relationships often feature bad sex. Sexuality, in fact, frequently serves as a barometer for the quality of the relationship. Th e ability
“ Love doesn’t make the world go round. Love is what makes the ride worthwhile.
—Franklin P. Jones (1853–1935)
“I have diffi culty trust- ing women. Getting close to my girlfriend has been diffi cult. My fi rst reaction in most instances is to wonder what her ulterior mo- tive is. Being intimate is tough for me because those I have trusted most have betrayed me. Sometimes I feel like I am alone for the simple fact that I don’t know how to act when I am with people.”
—23-year-old male
“Through high school and college, my relationship with my father grew. . . . During the time I lived with my father, I noticed his inability to express his emotions and his closed relationships with others. Thankfully, I have not yet noticed this rubbing off on my relationships or me.”
—20-year-old male
“Because my mother was both a raving drug addict and a loving warm mother, I grew up with a very dualistic look at women. I can be madly in love with them and bitterly hate them at the same time. This aff ects all of my relationships with women. I truly love them and can feel so connected to them one day, but other days I am so distant from them that I begin to wonder if I am there myself.”
—22-year-old male
“My grandfather, being a Hindustani priest, talks to me a lot about love. It was not through a lecture but through stories he told from the Gita [somewhat like an Indian Bible]. Spending time with him, I learned to respect sex, even though he never plain-out meant it; he described how marriage is a love bond between two people who share mind, body, and soul with each other and no one else. These stories like Kama Sutra and Ramayan sound so beautiful. Because of his infl u- ence, I want to try my best to wait to have sex until I meet my soul mate.”
—19-year-old female
Student Voices
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to communicate about sex is important in developing and maintaining both sexual and relationship satisfaction. People who are satisfi ed with their sexual communication also tend to be satisfi ed with their relationships as a whole. Eff ective communication skills do not necessarily appear when a person falls in love; they can, however, be learned with practice. Most of the time, we don’t think about our ability to communicate. Only when problems arise do we consciously think about it. Th en we become aware of our limitations in communicating or, more often, our perceptions of the limitations of others: “You just don’t get it, do you?” or “You’re not listening to me.” And as we know, communication failures are marked by frustration. In this chapter, we examine the relationship between sex, love, and com- munication and look at the always perplexing question of the nature of love. Next, we explore sex outside of committed relationships and examine the ways that social scientists study love to gain new insights into it. We then turn to the darker side of love—jealousy—to understand its dynamics. We see how love transforms itself from passion to intimacy, providing the basis for long- lasting relationships. We then examine the characteristics of communication and the way diff erent contexts aff ect it. We discuss forms of nonverbal com- munication, such as touch, which are especially important in sexual relation- ships. Th en we look at the diff erent ways we communicate about sex in intimate relationships, and explore ways we can develop our communication skills in order to enhance our relationships. Finally, we look at the diff erent types of confl icts in intimate relationships and at methods for resolving them.
• Friendship and Love Friendship and love breathe life into humanity. Th ey bind us together, provide emotional sustenance, buff er us against stress, and help to preserve our physical and mental well-being. What distinguishes love from friendship? Research has found that, although love and friendship are alike in many ways, some crucial diff erences make love relationships both more rewarding and more vulnerable (Davis & Todd, 1985).
“ Words are given to man to enable him to conceal his true feelings.
—Voltaire (1694–1778)
“ A friend may well be reckoned a masterpiece of nature.
—Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803–1882)
At the start of a relationship, it is often impossible to tell whether one’s feelings are infatuation or the beginning of love.
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Best-friend relationships are similar to spouse/lover relationships in several ways: levels of acceptance, trust, and respect; and levels of confi ding, understanding, spontaneity, and mutual acceptance. Levels of satisfaction and happiness with the relationship are also similar for both groups. What separates friends from lovers is that lovers have much more fascination and a greater sense of exclusiveness with their partners than do friends. Th ough love has a greater potential for dis- tress, confl ict, and mutual criticism, it runs deeper and stronger than friendship. Friendship appears to be the foundation for a strong love relationship. Shared interests and values, acceptance, trust, understanding, and enjoyment are at the root of friendship and a basis for love. Adding the dimensions of passion and emotional intimacy alters the nature of the friendship and creates new expectations and possibilities. With men and women marrying later than ever before and women being an integral part of the workforce, close friendships are more likely to be a part of the tapestry of relationships in people’s lives. Th e support of good friends is, in fact, a more signifi cant factor in determining marital longevity than close family ties (Giles, Glonek, Luszca, & Andrew, 2005). Partners need to communicate and seek understanding regarding the nature of activities and degree of emotional closeness they fi nd acceptable in their partner’s friendships. Boundaries should be clarifi ed and opinions shared. Many couples fi nd friendships acceptable and even desirable. Like other signifi cant issues involving partnerships, success in balancing a love relationship and other friendships depends on the ability to communicate concerns, the maturity of the people involved, and willingness to understand the mix of friendship and love as it aff ects marital satisfaction.
• Love and Sexuality Love and sexuality are intimately intertwined. Although marriage was once the only acceptable context for sexual intercourse, for many people today, love legitimizes sexuality outside of marriage. With the “friends with benefi ts” stan- dard of sexual expression, we use individualistic rather than social norms to legitimize sexual behavior with others. Our sexual standards may have become personal rather than institutional. Th is shift to personal responsibility makes love even more important in sexual relationships. We can even see this connection between love and sex in our everyday use of words. Th ink of the words we use to describe sexual interactions. When we say that we “make love,” are “lovers,” or are “intimate” with someone, we gen- erally mean that we are sexually involved. But this involvement has overtones of caring or love. Such potential meanings are absent in such technically correct words as “sexual intercourse,” “fellatio,” and “cunnilingus,” as well as in such slang words as “fuck,” “screw,” and “hook up.” Th ere is considerable evidence that demonstrates that love, in combination with a variety of factors including social rewards, intimacy, commitment, and equity, is an important determinant of sexual satisfaction (Harvey, Wenzel, & Sprecher, 2004; Sprecher, 2002). Two of the most important factors in sexual activity, however, are the level of intimacy in the relationship and the length of time the couple has been together. Even those who are less permissive in their sexual attitudes tend to accept sexual involvement if the relationship is emotionally intimate and long-standing. People who are less committed (or not committed) to a relationship are less likely to be sexually involved. A nationally
“ Sex is a momentary itch. Love never lets you go.
—Kingsley Amis (1922–1995)
“ Love has as few problems as a motorcar. The only problems are the driver, the
passengers, and the road.
—Franz Kafka (1883–1924)
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representative sample of 6,421 young adults in the United States, aged 18–26, found that those reporting mutually high levels of love between partners also reported a wide range of sexual activities, including oral sex for both males and females. Th us, both mutual love and varied sexual behaviors appeared to be major features of long-term, committed relationships. Th e researchers con- cluded that these fi ndings may indicate that, as the amount of time the couple has been sexually active grows, their comfort level with varied sexual activities increases (Kaestle & Halpern, 2007). People in relationships who share power equally are more likely to be sexu- ally involved than those in inequitable relationships. Using global data, researcher and professor Roy Baumeister (2011) found that there’s more sex in countries with higher gender equality than in those with less. Using two data sets of 37 countries, including an international online sex survey of 317,000 people, Baumeister reported that countries ranked higher in gender equality also generally had more casual sex, more sex partners per capita, younger ages for fi rst sex, and greater tolerance/approval of premarital sex. Among the top 10 countries ranked highest in gender equality were Sweden, Finland and Nor- way (tied), Iceland, Denmark, and Germany and Newfoundland (tied for 5th through 7th). According to Baumeister, women in countries where females are at a signifi cant disadvantage restrain sex, so men basically exchange resources to have sex. Th e reverse does not seem to occur. Environmental factors involving both the physical and the cultural setting play a role in the level of sexual activity. In the most basic sense, the physical environment aff ects the opportunity for sex. Because sex is a private activity, the opportunity for it may be precluded by the presence of parents, friends, roommates, or children. Th e cultural environment also aff ects the decision of whether to have sex. Th e values of one’s parents or peers may encourage or discourage sexual involvement as may one’s faith community. Furthermore, a person’s subculture—such as the university environment, a social club, the singles world, or the gay and lesbian community—exerts an important infl u- ence on sexual decision making.
Among the most important factors associated with nonmarital sex for both men and women are their attraction and feelings for each other, willingness to engage in sexual behavior, amount of preplanning, and sexual arousal prior to their encounter.
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Men, Women, Sex, and Love
Th ough men and women share more similarities than diff erences, they tend to have somewhat diff erent perspectives on love and sex (see Chapter 6). For example, men are more likely than women to separate sex from aff ection. Stud- ies consistently show that, for the majority of men, sex and love can be easily separated (Blumstein & Schwartz, 1983; Laumann, Gagnon, Michael, & Michaels, 1994). A factor that heterosexual men see as evidence of sexual interest and intensity in the context of an ongoing, romantic relationship is assertive, forceful, and even aggressive behavior on the part of the woman. Rather than viewing this behavior as inappropriate or threatening, men more often fi nd it to be desirable. Th is contrasts with the perceptions of heterosexual women, who more often perceive forceful behavior by men as related to power; these overtures may seem threatening and dangerous rather than sexually arousing. Women see sexual activity as being more appropriate and desirable when their romantic partner engages in behavior that inspires trust and confi dence (Hill, 2002). Th e theory that there are gender diff erences in love—that love is central to a woman and peripheral to a man—persists in both literature and popu- lar culture. Th is theory upholds all gender diff erences in behavior as instinc- tual or psychological, thereby perpetuating the notion that men and women have both diff erent views about and diff erent desires within relationships. However, research has shown not only that demographics, such as ethnicity, race, and social class, explain variations in views and desires but that cultural diff erences override gender diff erences (Sprecher & Toro-Morn, 2002). In fact, across three studies testing the accuracy of gender diff erences in love, the only stable and robust gender diff erence that emerged was a desire for relationship support, expressed more by women than by men (Perrin et al., 2011). Traditionally, women were labeled “good” or “bad” based on their sexual experiences and values. “Good” women were virginal, sexually naïve, and passive, whereas “bad” women were sexually experienced, independent, and passionate. Th is perception, however, may be altered as women and men age. Contrary to gender and age-related stereotypes, women aged 40–59 have reported their emotional satisfaction was closely associated with bodily sexual practices, whereas among the same age span, men’s physical pleasure has been linked to relational factors (Carpenter, Nathanson, & Kim, 2009). In spite of changing gender norms, society remains ambivalent about sexually active and experi- enced women. Researchers suggest that heterosexual men are not as diff erent from gay men in terms of their acceptance of casual sex. Heterosexual men, they main- tain, would be as likely as gay men to engage in casual sex if women were equally interested. Women, however, are not as interested in casual sex; as a result, heterosexual men do not have as many willing partners as gay men do (Blum, 1997). Gay men are especially likely to separate love and sex. Although gay men value love, many also value sex as an end in itself. Furthermore, they place less emphasis on sexual exclusiveness in their relationships. Many gay men appear to successfully negotiate sexually open relationships. Keeping the sexual agree- ments they make seems to matter most to these men.
“ There is hardly any activity, any enterprise, which is started with such
tremendous hopes and expectations and yet fails so regularly as love.
—Erich Fromm (1900–1980)
“ Familiar acts are beautiful through love.
—Percy Bysshe Shelley (1792–1822)
“ Love is the irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired.
—Robert Frost (1874–1963)
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Lesbian women tend to engage in sex less often than gay male couples or heterosexual couples. Studies have revealed that gay men have sex more fre- quently and lesbians less frequently than heterosexual married couples (Peplau, Fingerhut, & Beals, 2004; Solomon, Rothblum, & Balsam, 2005). For many lesbian women, caresses, nongenital stimulation, and aff ectionate foreplay are the preferred expressions of sexuality and love. Current research reveals a movement toward exclusiveness among same-sex couples (Gotta et al., 2011). Individuals in same-sex relationships were substan- tially less likely in 2000 than in 1975, for example, to have had sex outside their relationship or a meaningful love aff air. In addition, all types of couples were more likely in 2000 than in 1975 to discuss having sex outside the relationship and agree not to do so. Love is equally important for heterosexuals, gay men, lesbian women, and bisexual individuals, though many heterosexual individuals perceive lesbians’ and gay persons’ love relationships as less satisfying and less loving than their own (Wienke & Hill, 2009).
Love Without Sex: Celibacy and Asexuality
In a society that often seems obsessed with sexuality, it may be surprising to fi nd individuals who choose to be celibate as a lifestyle. Celibacy—abstention
from sexual activity—is not necessarily a symptom of a problem or disorder. It is important to note that though some researchers may blur the defi nitions of celibacy with asexuality, the absence of a traditional sexual orientation in which there is little or no sexual attraction to males or females, diff erences do in fact exist. Implicit in this discussion is consideration about what constitutes a “normal” level of sexual desire. Th e term “asexuality” implies an assumption that some level of sexual desire is normal.
While celibacy is considered by most to be a choice of refraining from sexual activity with a partner, asexuality is best predicted by low sexual desire. In fact, recent research has found that there are no gender or relationship status diff erences between asexual and non- asexual people, that a higher percentage of asexual individuals had completed at least a college degree, and that asexual and non-asexual people had an equal number of lifetime sexual partners (Prause & Graham, 2007). Celibacy may be a choice for some, such as those who have taken religious vows or are in relationships in which non- sexual aff ection and respect provide adequate fulfi llment. For others, it is a result of life circumstances, such as the absence of a partner or imprisonment. Still others report very low interest in sex or express concern over the spread of HIV or other sexually transmitted infec- tions. Less common and with little known about it, asexuality appears to occur in approximately 1% of a sample population (Bogaert, 2004). According to the National Social Life Survey, 4% of men and
14% of women rarely or never think about sex (Laumann, Gagnon, Michael, & Michaels, 1994). Individuals who choose celibacy may report a better appreciation of the nature of friendship. In giving up their sexual pursuits, celibate individuals may learn to relate to others without sexual tension. Although these traits may also be developed within a sexual relationship, those who choose celibacy as a lifestyle may feel that it frees up energy for personal growth or other kinds of relationships.
For lesbian women, gay men, and bisexual individuals, love is an important component in the formation and acceptance of their sexual orientation. The public declaration of love and commitment is a milestone in the lives of many couples.
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think about it
What impact does sexual orientation have on the longevity and quality of relationships? Are those qualities that help to sustain heterosexual couples and families any diff erent for same-sex ones? Though there is not much research yet on the impact that commitment and various other factors have on the quality of same-sex relationships and families, what researchers have found may have implications for all of us who desire healthy relationships and longevity with those we love. The lack of social support has been among the many challenges facing same-sex couples and their families, even though same-sex marriage is now legal in a few states and domestic partnerships or civil unions acknowledged in others. We know that a little more than 50% of Americans think that a same-sex couple with children constitutes a family compared to 100% who consider an other-sex couple and child a family (Krivickas & Lofquist, 2010). Approximately 40% of same-sex unmarried households contain children. The notion that committed same-sex relationships are atypical or psychologically immature is not supported by research. Nor are gay or lesbian individuals less satisfi ed with their relationships (Roisman, Clausell, Holland, Fortuna, & Elieff , 2010). In fact, it appears that same-sex relationships are similar to those of other-sex couples in many ways. In one study, though both groups indicated positive views of their relation- ships, those in committed relationships (gay and straight) resolved confl ict better than heterosexual dating couples. And lesbian couples worked together especially harmoniously to resolve their confl icts (Roisman et al., 2010). It is the level and type of communication that partners share that underscores much of the success (or lack of success) in the relationship. Same-sex couples are signifi cantly less belligerent, domineer- ing, and fearful, use more humor, and show greater aff ection than heterosexual married couples (Gottman et al., 2003). However, when gay men initiate diffi cult discussions with their partners, they are less likely to make up afterward. Assessing the infl uence that stability has in partnerships by comparing same-sex couples in civil unions (same-sex cohabitat- ing couples), researchers have found that same-sex couples were
Are Gay/Lesbian Couples and Families Any Diff erent From Heterosexual Ones?
also similar to heterosexual couples on most relationship variables (e.g., frequency of sexual behavior, contact with parents), and that the legalized status of a relationship did not seem to be the overriding factor aff ecting same-sex relationships (Roisman et al., 2010). When, in 2002, the American Academy of Pediatrics endorsed same-sex adoptions, saying gay couples can provide the loving, stable, and emotionally healthy family life that children need, concerns among heterosexuals about the quality of parenting among gay and lesbian parents were somewhat diminished. In fact, among households with only adopted children or only stepchildren, same-sex couples do not diff er signifi cantly from married heterosexual couples in terms of education, employment, home ownership, and residential stability (Krivickas, & Lofquist, 2010). At the same time, gay men and lesbian women still fi ght for the legal rights and protections they deserve. Because in the vast majority of states they cannot legally marry and because of pervasive anti-gay prejudices, such issues as custody, visitation, and adoption remain legal dilemmas or obstacles for many who are contemplating becoming parents or trying to become parents. Recent and ongoing studies share the same conclusion: Gay and lesbian couples and families are not that diff erent from heterosexual ones. In fact, in their desire to achieve healthy and long-term involvement, both groups have a lot to learn from each other.
Think Critically 1. What characteristics are important for you in maintain-
ing a committed relationship with another person? Do you feel that sexual orientation can alter these characteristics? If so, how?
2. Why does society perpetuate fears about gay men and lesbian women as parents?
3. How might the presence or absence of children in- fl uence the longevity of a same-sex relationship?
• How Do I Love Thee? Approaches and Attitudes Related to Love For most people, love and sex are closely linked in the ideal intimate relation- ship. Love refl ects the positive factors—such as caring—that draw people together and sustain them in a relationship. Sex refl ects both emotional and physical elements, such as closeness and sexual excitement, and diff erentiates
“ Love and you shall be loved. All love is mathematically just, as much as two
sides of an algebraic equation.
—Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803–1882)
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romantic love from other forms of love, such as parental love. Although the two are related, they are not necessarily connected. One can exist without the other; that is, it is possible to love someone without being sexually involved, and it is possible to be sexually involved without love.
Styles of Love
Sociologist John Lee describes six basic styles of love (Borrello & Th ompson, 1990; Lee, 1973, 1988). Th ese styles of love, he cautions, refl ect relationship styles, not individual styles. Th e style of love may change as the relationship changes or when individuals enter diff erent relationships. Eros was the ancient Greek god of love, the son of Aphrodite, the goddess of love and fertility. (Th e Romans called him Cupid.) As a style of love, eros is the love of beauty. Erotic lovers are passionate and delight in the tactile, the sensual, the immediate; they are attracted to beauty (though beauty is in the eye of the beholder). Th ey love the lines of the body, its feel and touch. Th ey are fascinated by every physical detail of their beloved. Th eir love burns brightly and is idealized but soon fl ickers and dies. Mania, from the Greek word for madness, is obsessive and possessive love. For manic lovers, nights are marked by sleeplessness and days by pain and anxiety. Th e slightest sign of aff ection brings ecstasy for a short while, only to disappear. Satisfactions last for but a moment before they must be renewed. Manic love is roller-coaster love. Ludus, from the Latin word for play, is playful love. For ludic lovers, love is a game, something to play at rather than to become deeply involved in. Love is ultimately “ludicrous”; encounters are casual, carefree, and often care- less. “Nothing serious” is the motto of ludic lovers. Th ose with a ludus style thrive on attention and are often willing to take risks (Paul, McManus, & Hayes, 2000). Storge (STOR-gay), from the Greek word for natural aff ection, is the love between companions. It is, wrote Lee, “love without fever, tumult, or folly, a peaceful and enchanting aff ection.” It usually begins as friendship and gradually deepens into love. If the love ends, that also occurs gradually, and the people often become friends once again. Agape (AH-ga-pay), from the Greek word for brotherly love, is the traditional Christian love that is chaste, patient, undemanding, and altruistic; there is no expectation of reciprocation. It is the love of saints and martyrs. Agape is more abstract and ideal than concrete and real. It is easier to love all of humankind than an individual in this way. Pragma, from the Greek word for business, is practical love. Pragmatic lovers are, fi rst and foremost, businesslike in their approach to looking for someone who meets their needs. Th ey use logic in their search for a partner, seeking background, education, personality, religion, and interests that are compatible with their own. If they meet a person who satisfi es their criteria, erotic, manic, or other feelings may develop. In addition to these pure forms, there are mixtures of the basic types: storge-eros, ludus-eros, and storge-ludus. Lee believes that, to have a mutually satisfying relationship, people have to fi nd a partner who shares the same style and defi nition of love. Th e more diff er- ent two people are in their styles of love, the less likely they are to understand each other’s love.
“ If you love somebody, let them go. If they return, they were always yours.
If they don’t, they never were.
—Anonymous
“ Love never dies a natural death. It dies because we don’t know how to
replenish its source.
—Anaïs Nin (1903–1977)
According to sociologist John Lee, there are six styles of love: eros, mania, ludus, storge, agape, and pragma. What style do you believe this couple illustrates? Why?
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One could expect there to be some consistency between love styles and sex- ual attitudes, since beliefs about sexuality could help determine the choice and maintenance of a romantic relationship. But are there gender diff erences in the ways men and women express their love style? Research reports the presence of signifi cant gender diff erences in love styles and attraction criteria among college students (Grello, Welsh, & Harper, 2006; Lacey, Reifman, Scott, Harris, & Fitzpatrick, 2004). Surveying the love styles of college students, researchers have found that men were more likely to have a ludus style while others who endorsed an eros style were more likely to either be virgins or engage in sexual activity with only a romantic partner (Grello et al., 2006).
The Triangular Theory of Love
Th e triangular theory of love, developed by psychologist and educator Robert Sternberg (1986), emphasizes the dynamic quality of love relationships. According to this theory, love is composed of three elements, as in the points of a triangle: intimacy, passion, and decision/commitment (see Figure 8.1). Each can be enlarged or diminished in the course of a love relationship, which will aff ect the quality of the relationship. Th ey can also be combined in diff erent ways. Each combination produces a diff erent type of love, such as romantic love, infatuation, empty love, and liking. Partners may combine the components diff erently at diff erent times in the same love relationship.
The Components of Love Intimacy refers to the warm, close, bonding feel- ings we get when we love someone. According to Sternberg and Grajek (1984), there are 10 signs of intimacy:
1. Wanting to promote your partner’s welfare 2. Feeling happiness with your partner
“ When you are courting a nice girl an hour seems like a second. When you sit
on a red-hot cinder a second seems like an hour. That’s relativity.
—Albert Einstein (1879–1955)
Romantic love (intimacy +
passion)
Infatuation (passion alone)
Fatuous love (passion + commitment)
Nonlove (absence of intimacy, passion, and commitment; takes many forms)
Empty love (commitment alone)
Companionate love (intimacy +
commitment) Consummate
love (intimacy + passion +
commitment)
In ti
m ac
y
Pa ssi
on Commitment
Liking (intimacy alone)
• FIGURE 8.1 Sternberg’s Triangular Theory of Love. The three elements of love are intimacy, passion, and decision/ commitment. (Source: From Sternberg, R. J. (1988). The triangle of love: Intimacy, passion, commitment. New York: Basic Books, 1988. Used by permission of Robert J. Sternberg.)
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3. Holding your partner in high regard 4. Being able to count on your partner in times of need 5. Being able to understand your partner 6. Sharing yourself and your possessions with your partner 7. Receiving emotional support from your partner 8. Giving emotional support to your partner 9. Being able to communicate with your partner about intimate things 10. Valuing your partner’s presence in your life
Th e passion component refers to the elements of romance, attraction, and sexuality in the relationship. Th ese may be fueled by a desire to increase self- esteem, to be sexually active or fulfi lled, to affi liate with others, to dominate, or to subordinate. Th e decision/commitment component consists of two separate parts—a short-term part and a long-term part. Th e short-term part refers to an indi- vidual’s decision that he or she loves someone. People may or may not make the decision consciously. But it usually occurs before they decide to make a commitment to the other person. Th e commitment represents the long-term part; it is the maintenance of love. But a decision to love someone does not necessarily entail a commitment to maintaining that love.
Kinds of Love Th e intimacy, passion, and decision/commitment components can be combined in eight basic ways, according to Sternberg:
1. Liking (intimacy only) 2. Infatuation (passion only) 3. Romantic love (intimacy and passion) 4. Companionate love (intimacy and commitment) 5. Fatuous love (passion and commitment) 6. Consummate love (intimacy, passion, and commitment) 7. Empty love (decision/commitment only) 8. Nonlove (absence of intimacy, passion, and commitment)
Th ese types represent extremes that few of us are likely to experience. Not many of us, for example, experience infatuation in its purest form, in which there is absolutely no intimacy. And empty love is not really love at all. Th ese categories are nevertheless useful for examining the nature of love.
Liking: Intimacy Only Liking represents the intimacy component alone. It forms the basis for close friendships but is neither passionate nor committed. As such, liking is often an enduring kind of love. Boyfriends and girlfriends may come and go, but good friends remain.
Infatuation: Passion Only Infatuation is “love at fi rst sight.” It is the kind of love that idealizes its object; the infatuated individual rarely sees the other as a “real” person with normal human foibles. Infatuation is marked by sudden passion and a high degree of physical and emotional arousal. It tends to be obsessive and all-consuming; one has no time, energy, or desire for anything or anyone but the beloved (or thoughts of him or her). To the dismay of the
“ If love does not know how to give and take without restrictions, it is not love,
but a transaction that never fails to lay stress on a plus and a minus.
—Emma Goldman (1869–1940)
“ Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength; loving someone deeply
gives you courage.
—Lao Tzu (sixth century BCE)
“ Don’t threaten me with love, baby.
—Billie Holiday (1915–1959)
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infatuated individual, infatuations are usually asymmetrical: Th e passion (or obsession) is rarely returned equally. And the greater the asymmetry, the greater the distress in the relationship.
Romantic Love: Intimacy and Passion Romantic love combines intimacy and passion. It is similar to liking except that it is more intense as a result of physical or emotional attraction. It may begin with an immediate union of the two components, with friendship that intensifi es into passion, or with passion that also develops intimacy. Although commitment is not an essential element of romantic love, it may develop.
Companionate Love: Intimacy and Commitment Companionate love is essential to a committed friendship. It often begins as romantic love, but as the passion diminishes and the intimacy increases, it is transformed into com- panionate love. Some couples are satisfi ed with such love; others are not. Th ose who are dissatisfi ed in companionate love relationships may seek extrarelational partners to maintain passion in their lives. Th ey may also end the relationship to seek a new romantic relationship that they hope will remain romantic.
Fatuous Love: Passion and Commitment Fatuous or deceptive love is whirlwind love; it begins the day two people meet and quickly results in cohab- itation or engagement, and then marriage. It develops so quickly that they hardly know what happened. Often, nothing much really did happen that will permit the relationship to endure. As Sternberg and Barnes (1989) observe, “It is fatuous in the sense that a commitment is made on the basis of passion without the stabilizing element of intimate involvement—which takes time to develop.” Passion fades soon enough, and all that remains is commitment. But commitment that has had relatively little time to deepen is a poor foundation on which to build an enduring relationship. With neither passion nor intimacy, the commitment wanes.
Consummate Love: Intimacy, Passion, and Commitment Consummate love results when intimacy, passion, and commitment combine to form their unique constellation. It is the kind of love we dream about but do not expect in all our love relationships. Many of us can achieve it, but it is diffi cult to sustain over time. To sustain it, we must nourish its diff erent components, for each is subject to the stress of time.
Empty Love: Decision/Commitment Only Th is is love that lacks intimacy or passion. Empty love involves staying together solely for the sake of appear- ances or the children, for example.
“ We are never so defenseless against suff ering as when we love.
—Sigmund Freud (1856–1939)
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Nonlove: Absence of Intimacy, Passion, and Commitment Nonlove can take many forms, such as attachment for fi nancial reasons, fear, or the fulfi ll- ment of neurotic needs.
The Geometry of Love Th e shape of the love triangle depends on the inten- sity of the love and the balance of the parts. Intense love relationships lead to triangles with greater area; such triangles occupy more of one’s life. Just as love relationships can be balanced or unbalanced, so can love triangles. Th e balance determines the shape of the triangle (see Figure 8.2). A relationship in which the intimacy, passion, and commitment components are equal results in an equilateral triangle. But if the components are not equal, unbalanced triangles form. Th e size and shape of a person’s triangle give a good pictorial sense of how that person feels about another. Th e greater the match between the tri- angles of the two partners in a relationship, the more likely each is to experience satisfaction in the relationship.
Love as Attachment
Humans desire to bond with other people. At the same time, many people fear bonding. Where do these contradictory impulses and emotions come from? Can they ever be resolved? Attachment theory, the most prominent approach to the study of love, helps us understand how adult relationships develop, what can go wrong in them, and what to do when things do go wrong. In this theory, love is seen as a form of attachment, a close, enduring emotional bond that fi nds its roots in infancy (Hazan & Shaver, 1987; Shaver, 1984; Shaver, Hazan, & Bradshaw, 1988). Research suggests that romantic love and infant-caregiver attachment have similar emotional dynamics.
Infant-Caregiver Attachment
■ Th e attachment bond’s formation and quality depend on the attachment object’s (AO) responsiveness and sensitivity.
■ When the AO is present, the infant is happier. ■ Th e infant shares toys, discoveries, and objects with the AO. ■ Th e infant coos, talks baby talk, and “sings.” ■ Th e infant shares feelings of oneness with the AO.
Romantic Love
■ Feelings of love are related to the lover’s interest and reciprocation. ■ When the lover is present, the person feels happier. ■ Lovers share experiences and goods and give gifts. ■ Lovers coo, sing, and talk baby talk. ■ Lovers share feelings of oneness.
Th e implications of attachment theory are far-reaching. Attachment aff ects the way we process information, interact with others, and view the world. Basically, it infl uences our ability to love and to see ourselves as lovable (Fisher, 2004).
Passion Decision/ commitment
Intimacy
Severely mismatched relationship
Moderately mismatched relationship
Closely matched relationship
Perfectly matched relationship
OtherSelf
• FIGURE 8.2 The Geometry of Love. According to the triangular theory of love, the shape and size of each person’s triangle indicates how well each is matched to the other. (Source: From Sternberg, R. J. (1988). The triangle of love: Intimacy, passion, commitment. New York: Basic Books, 1988, p. 79. Used by permission of Robert J. Sternberg.)
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Th e core elements of love appear to be the same for children as for adults: the need to feel emotionally safe and secure. When a partner responds to a need, for instance, adults view the world as a safe place. In this respect, we don’t diff er greatly from children. Th e most basic concept of attachment theory is that to be whole adults we need to accept the fact that we are also vulnerable children. In a secure, intimate adult relationship, it is neither demeaning nor diminishing nor pathological to share honest emotions. It is the capacity to be vulnerable and open and accepting of others’ giving that makes us lovable and human. Based on observations made by Mary Ainsworth and col- leagues (1978, cited in Shaver et al., 1988), Phillip Shaver and colleagues (1988) hypothesized that the styles of attachment developed in childhood—secure, anxious/ambivalent, and avoid- ant—continue through adulthood. Th eir surveys revealed similar styles in adult relationships. Adults with secure attachments found it relatively easy to get close to other people. Th ey felt comfortable depending on others and having others depend on them. Th ey didn’t fre- quently worry about being abandoned or having someone get too close to them. More than anxious/ambivalent and avoidant adults, they felt that others usually liked them; they believed that people were generally well intentioned and good-hearted. Th eir love experiences tended to be happy, friendly, and trust- ing. Th ey accepted and supported their partners. On average, their relation- ships lasted 10 years. About 56% of the adults in the study were secure.
According to attachment theory, the holding and cuddling behaviors between parents and babies resemble those of adult lovers.
Adults with secure attachments may fi nd it easy to get close to others.
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think about it
Throughout history there have been poems and stories, plays and pictures that have attempted to explain love. Each has provided some insight into the ways that passion grabs us and, almost as quickly, leaves us. More recently, science has explored the complexities involved in love by examining the parts of the brain linked to reward and pleasure and providing us with particu- lars of its chemical components. The scientifi c tale of love begins with the reward and plea- sure part of the brain: the ventral tegmental area (the part of the midbrain that is rich in dopamine and seratonin) and the caudate nucleus (located deep within the brain and involved with the control of involuntary movement). Anthropologist Helen Fisher, a professor at Rutgers University, has studied the biochemical pathways of love with the aid of an MRI machine. Fisher found that love lights up the caudate nucleus—home to a dense spread of receptors for a neurotransmitter called dopa- mine, the chemical in the brain that stimulates feelings of attrac- tion and accompanies passion. This is the same chemical that is produced in response to the ingestion of cocaine. Following the fl ooding of dopamine, the caudate then sends signals for more dopamine. “The more dopamine you get, the more high you feel,” says Dr. Lucy Brown, neurologist at the Albert Einstein Col- lege of Medicine in New York. In the right proportions, dopa- mine creates intense energy, focused attention, exhilaration, and desire. It is why a newly-in-love person can live passionately without sleep, feel bold and bright, and take risks. The simple act of kissing triggers and sends a fl ood of chemi- cals, including testosterone, and neural messages that transmit tactile sensations, sexual excitement, feelings of closeness, and euphoria (Brizendine, 2010; Walter, 2008). Since lips are densely populated with sensory neurons, when we kiss, these neurons along with those in the tongue and mouth send messages to the brain and body that intensify emotions and physical reactions. Kissing also unleashes a cocktail of chemicals that govern stress, motivation, social bonding, and sexual stimulation. Interestingly, the brains of love-struck men and women seem to diff er: More activity exists for men in the brain region that in- tegrates visual stimuli; whereas, for women, the areas of the brain that govern memories are more active. Women’s brain ac- tivity is diff erent than men’s, but it may be that when a woman really studies a man, she can remember things about his behav- ior in order to determine whether he’d make a reliable mate and father. Though diff erences appear in the male and female brain while they are being stimulated, there are few diff erences that occur during orgasm itself (Linden, 2011).
The Science of Love
Aside from the intense and short-lived pleasure of orgasm, there is also a warm, post-orgasmic afterglow caused by the release of the hormone oxytocin, which is thought to be crucial for sexual pair-bond formation. Oxytocin has also been found to play a role in trust, mother-infant bonding, and perception of emotional state. Though many have speculated that those with “cheating hearts” might have more diff erences in brain chemistry than their more faithful counterparts, there are some initial fi nd- ings in support of this (Linden, 2011). While there is a great deal of interest in understanding what enhances (or undermines) long-term human attachment, there is still much research to be done before we can fi nally understand the role of orgasm in human bonding. In studying romance and passion historically and globally, scientists now believe that romance is universal and has been embedded in our brains since prehistoric times. It has been observed that, in all societies, passion usually diminishes over time. From a physiological perspective, this makes sense. The dopamine-drenched state of romantic love adapts and changes into a relatively quiet one that is explained by the presence of oxytocin, a hormone that promotes feelings of connectedness and bonding. What researchers have learned from lovers’ brains is that romantic love isn’t really an emotion—it’s a drive that is based deep within our brains and that helps to explain why we might do crazy things for love.
Think Critically 1. How important is it that science investigates the
“brain in love”? What impact might this information have on you or others?
2. How much validity do you give to the various changes in chemicals that the brain undergoes in its response to love? Have you experienced these variations?
3. What gender diff erences do you see, if any, between how men and women respond to love?
SOURCES: Brizendine, L. (2010). The male brain. New York: Crown Publishing; Cohen, E. (2007, February 15). Loving with all your . . . brain. Available: http:// www.cnn.com/2007/HEALTH/02/14/love.science/index.html; Linden, D. J. (2011). The compass of pleasure. New York: Penguin; Slater, L. (2006, February). Love: The chemical reaction. National Geographic, pp. 34–49.
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Adults with anxious/ambivalent attachments believed that other people did not get as close as they themselves wanted. Th ey worried that their partners didn’t really love them or would leave them. Th ey also wanted to merge completely with another person, which sometimes caused others to withdraw. More than others, they felt that it is easy to fall in love. Th eir experiences in love were often obsessive and marked by desire for union, high degrees of sexual attraction, and jealousy. Th eir love relationships lasted an average of 5 years. Approximately 19–20% of the adults were identifi ed as anxious/ambivalent. Adults with avoidant attachments felt discomfort in being close to other people; they were distrustful and fearful of being dependent. More than others, they believed that romance seldom lasts but that at times it can be as intense as it was at the beginning. Th eir partners wanted more closeness than they did. Avoidant lovers feared intimacy and experienced emotional highs and lows and jealousy. Th eir relationships lasted an average of 6 years. Approximately 23–25% of the adults in the study were avoidant. In adulthood, the attachment style developed in infancy combines with sexual desire and caring behaviors to give rise to romantic love. However, it is also impor- tant to know that an individual’s past does not necessarily determine the future course of his or her relationships (Simpson, Collins, Tran, & Haydon, 2007).
Unrequited Love
As most of us know from painful experience, love is not always returned. People may suff er tremendous anguish when they feel they have been rejected or ignored, even if the relationship was imagined. Unrequited love—love that is not returned—is distressing for both the would-be lover and the rejecting person. Would-be lovers may have both positive and intensely negative feelings about their failed relationship. Th e rejectors, however, often feel uniformly negative about the experience. Unlike the rejectors, the would-be lovers feel that the attraction is mutual, that they have been led on, and that the rejection was never clearly communicated. Rejectors, in contrast, feel that they have not led the other person on; moreover, they feel guilty about hurting him or her. Nevertheless, many fi nd the other person’s persistence intrusive and annoying; they wish he or she would simply get the hint and go away. Rejectors view would-be lovers as self-deceiving and unreasonable; would-be lovers see their rejectors as inconsistent and mysterious.
• Jealousy Many of us think that the existence of jealousy proves the existence of love. We may try to test someone’s interest or aff ection by attempting to make him or her jealous by fl irting with another person. If our date or partner becomes jealous, the jealousy is taken as a sign of love. But provoking jealousy proves only that the other person can be made jealous. Making jealousy a litmus test of love is dangerous, for jealousy and love are not necessarily companions. Jealousy may be a more accurate yardstick for measuring insecurity or imma- turity than for measuring love (Pistole, 1995). It is important to understand jealousy for several reasons. First, jealousy is a painful emotion associated with anger, hurt, and loss. If we can understand jealousy, especially when it is irrational, then we can eliminate some of its pain.
“ Tis better to have loved and lost Than never to have loved at all.
—Alfred, Lord Tennyson (1809–1892)
“ Beware, my lord, of jealousy. It is the green-eyed monster that mocks the
meat it feeds on.
—William Shakespeare (1564–1616)
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Second, jealousy can help cement or destroy a relationship. Jealousy helps main- tain a relationship by guarding its exclusiveness. But in its irrational or extreme forms, it can destroy a relationship by its insistent demands and attempts at control. We need to understand when and how jealousy is functional and when it is not. Th ird, jealousy is often linked to violence in marriages and dating relationships (Buss, 1999; Easton & Shackelford, 2009). Furthermore, marital violence and rape are often provoked by jealousy. Rather than being directed at a rival, jealous aggression is often used against the partner.
Defi ning Jealousy
Jealousy is an aversive response that occurs because of a partner’s real, imagined, or likely involvement with a third person. Jealousy sets boundaries for the behav- iors that are acceptable in relationships; the boundaries cannot be crossed without evoking jealousy. Th ough a certain amount of jealousy can be expected in any loving relationship, it is important that partners communicate openly about their fears and boundaries. Jealousy is a paradox; it doesn’t necessarily signal diffi culty between partners, nor does it have to threaten the relationship.
The Psychological Dimension As most of us know, jealousy is a painful emotion. It is an agonizing compound of hurt, anger, depression, fear, and doubt. When we are jealous, we may feel less attractive and acceptable to our partner. Jealousy can also enrich relationships and spark passion by increasing the attention individuals pay to their partner. According to David Buss (2000), professor of psychology at the University of Texas at Austin, the total absence of jealousy is a more ominous sign than its presence for romantic partners because it signifi es emotional bankruptcy. Th ough both sexes may elicit jealousy intentionally as an assessment tool to gauge the strength of a partner’s com- mitment, they seem to use it unequally. Buss (2000) found that 31% of women and 17% of men had intentionally elicited jealousy in their relationship. Sex diff erences in the context and expression of jealousy have been docu- mented. For example, men more than women are upset by a partner’s sexual infi delity, whereas women more than men are upset by a partner’s emotional infi delity (Buss, Larsen, Westen, & Semmelroth, 1992; Cann, Mangum, & Wells, 2001). Th ese results are consistent with fi ndings reported across many cultures (Buss, 1999). Gender diff erences can partly be explained using an evolutionary model, which proposes that men, because they cannot be completely confi dent about the paternity of any off spring from a relationship, will be more upset by sexual nonexclusiveness. Women, in contrast, are more often upset by emotional nonexclusiveness, which might signal the man’s lack of commitment to the long- term success of the relationship and any off spring. Comparing cohabiting couples and noncohabiting couples did not reveal lower emotional or physical satisfaction in either group when jealous confl ict occurred (Gatzeva & Paik, 2011). Rather, jealous responses are most intense in marital relationships, as compared to cohabiting or noncohabiting couples (Gatzeva & Paik, 2011). An expectation occurs because our intimate partner is diff erent from everyone else. With him or her, we are our most confi ding, revealing, vulnerable, caring, and trusting. Th ere is a sense of exclusiveness. Being intimate outside the relationship violates that sense of exclusiveness because intimacy (especially sexual intimacy) symbolizes specialness. Words such as “disloyalty,” “cheating,” and “infi delity” refl ect the sense that an
“ Jealousy is not a barometer by which the depth of love can be read. It merely
records the depth of the lover’s insecurity.
—Margaret Mead (1901–1978)
“ Love is like quicksilver in the hand. Leave the fi ngers open and it stays.
Clutch it, and it darts away.
—Dorothy Parker (1893–1967)
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think about it
Are you in love with someone right now? Have you ever been in love? How intense are your feelings compared to those of other lovers? Researchers have suggested that almost everyone is capable of loving passionately. Social psychologists Hatfi eld and Walster (1978) described a kind of love, passionate love, as “a state of intense longing for union with another. Reciprocated love (union with the other) is associated with fulfi llment and ecstasy while unrequited love (separation) is associated with emptiness, anxiety, or despair. Both involve a state of profound physiological arousal” (p. 9). Sometimes labeled
The Passionate Love Scale
“puppy love,” “infatuation,” or “lovesickness,” passionate love often includes sexual desire. The Passionate Love Scale (PLS), which fol- lows, is a measure of these emotions. (Hatfi eld & Sprecher, 2010)
Directions
For each of the 15 sentences below, choose a number from 1 (not at all true) to 9 (defi nitely true) that most accurately describes your feelings toward the person you love or have loved. Indicate your answer by circling the number in the corresponding row.
Not at all Moderately Defi nitely true true true
1. I would feel deep despair if ____ left me. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9
2. Sometimes I feel I can’t control my thoughts; they are obsessively about ____. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9
3. I feel happy when I am doing something to make ____ happy. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9
4. I would rather be with ____ than anyone else. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9
5. I’d get jealous if I thought ____ were falling in love with someone else. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9
6. I yearn to know all about ____. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9
7. I want ____ physically, emotionally, mentally. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9
8. I have an endless appetite for aff ection from ____. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9
9. For me, ____ is the perfect romantic partner. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9
10. I sense my body responding when ____ touches me. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9
11. ____ always seems to be on my mind. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9
12. I want ____ to know me—my thoughts, fears and hopes. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9
13. I eagerly look for signs indicating ____’s desire for me. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9
14. I possess a powerful attraction for ____. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9
15. I get extremely depressed when things don’t go right in my relationship with ____. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9
Passionate Love Scale Scores
Extremely passionate � 106–135 (wildly, recklessly in love) Passionate � 86–105 (passionate, but less intense) Average � 66–85 (occasional bursts of passion) Cool � 45–65 (tepid, infrequent passion) Extremely cool � 15–44 (the thrill is gone)
Think Critically 1. How does your score compare to the PLS scores with
any other persons you have loved passionately? How reliable do you believe this instrument to be?
2. Do you believe that love changes over time? If so, in a long-term relationship, can passionate love be maintained? If it can, how?
3. What steps might you consider if you felt that the passion in your relationship was waning?
SOURCE: The Passionate Love Scale (shorter version) reprinted by permission of Elaine Hatfi eld. From Hatfi eld, E. (2010). The Passionate Love Scale. In Fisher, T. D., Davis, C. M., Yarber, W. L., & Davis, S. L., Handbook of sexuality-related measures. (3rd ed). New York: Routledge.
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unspoken pledge has been broken. Th is unspoken pledge is the normative expectation that serious relationships will be sexually exclusive. When jealousy is excessive or morbid, research has demonstrated that a greater percentage of men than women use physical violence, attempt to kill or actually kill their partners, and use their hands rather than an object as the instrument of violence. Women, on the other hand, are less likely to use violence against partners, even when they are threatened with partner infi del- ity. However, they do sometimes use violence in self-defense (Easton & Shackelford, 2009).
Managing Jealousy
Jealousy can be unreasonable, based on fears and fantasies, or realistic, in reac- tion to genuine threats or events. Unreasonable jealousy can become a problem when it interferes with an individual’s well-being or that of the relationship. Dealing with irrational suspicions can often be very diffi cult, for such feelings touch deep recesses in ourselves. As noted previously, jealousy is often related to personal feelings of insecurity and inadequacy. Th e source of such jealousy lies within ourselves, not within the relationship. If we can work on the underlying causes of our insecurity, then we can deal eff ectively with our irrational jealousy. Excessively jealous people may need considerable reassurance, but at some point, they must also confront their own irrationality and insecurity. If they do not, they emotionally imprison their partner. Th eir jealousy may destroy the very relationship they have been des- perately trying to preserve. But jealousy is not always irrational. Sometimes, there are valid reasons, such as the relationship boundaries being violated. In this case, the cause lies not within ourselves but within the relationship. If the jealousy is well founded, the partner may need to modify or end the relationship with the third party whose presence initiated the jealousy. Modifying the third-party relationship reduces the jealous response and, more importantly, symbolizes the partner’s commitment to the primary relationship. If the partner is unwilling to do this, because of a lack of commitment, unsatisfi ed personal needs, or problems in the primary relationship, the relationship is likely to reach a crisis point. In such cases, jealousy may be the agent for profound change. Th ere are no set rules for dealing with jealousy. Each person must deal with it using his or her own understanding and insights. As with many of life’s problems, jealousy has no simple answers.
Extradyadic Involvement
A fundamental assumption in our culture is that committed relationships are sexually exclusive. Each person remains the other’s exclusive intimate partner, in terms of both emotional and sexual intimacy. Extradyadic involvement (EDI), sexual or romantic relationships outside of a primary or dating couple, alters that assumption. According to nationally representative data, approximately 11% of Americans had at least one concurrent or extradyadic sexual relationship in the previous 12 months (Adimora, Schoenbach, & Doherty, 2007; Laumann et al., 1994). Another study found that the annual prevalence among married men aged 15–44 was 7.6% and 5.8% for married women aged 15–44 (Mosher, Chandra, & Jones, 2005). Th ese numbers exist in spite of the fact that approximately 95% of cohabitors
“ Love withers under constraints: its very essence is liberty: it is not compatible
either with obedience, jealousy, nor fear: it is there most pure, perfect, and unlimited where its votaries live in confi dence, equality and unreserve.
—Percy Bysshe Shelley (1792–1822)
“ What I have seen of the love aff airs of other people has not led me to regret
that defi ciency in my experience.
—George Bernard Shaw (1856–1950)
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and slightly more married individuals expect sexual exclusivity (Treas & Giesen, 2000). Although we tend to think of EDI involvements as being sexual, they actually assume several forms. Th ey may be: (1) sexual but not emotional, (2) sexual and emotional, or (3) emotional but not sexual. Has there been a change in the rates of extradyadic relations? Research has found that although there has been a general increase in rates across groups from diff erent marital and non-marital arrangements, the most dramatic rise was actually among the oldest cohort of men (ages 65–90). A study showed a two- to threefold increase in infi delity, a fi nding attributed in part to the intro- duction of Viagra and other easily accessible treatments for erectile dysfunction (Fincham & Beach, 2010). Additionally, the youngest cohort of men and women (ages 18–25), representing couples still in their early years of marriage, also demonstrated a steady increase in rates of infi delity over a 15-year period. It also appears that gender diff erence in rates of infi delity is closing, such that men and women under the age of 40 report similar rates of infi delity. Research into why people get involved in extradyadic relationships has been piecemeal and based on small samples that have limited generalizability. In spite of this, studies have shown that extradyadic relations and substance abuse are rated as more severe problems among middle- and high-income couples (Karney, Garyan, & Th omas, 2003). Th is suggests that sexual behavior may be in part positively correlated with social factors.
Extradyadic Involvements in Dating and Cohabiting Relationships Both cohabiting couples and those in committed relationships usually have expecta- tions of sexual exclusiveness. But, like some married men and women who take vows of exclusivity, these couples do not always remain sexually and/or emo- tionally exclusive. Research has revealed that cohabitors are more likely to have relationships outside their primary one, suggesting that perhaps they have lower investments in their unions (Treas & Giesen, 2000) or concerns about their sexual health (Allen, Atkins, et al., 2005). Gay men have more partners than cohabiting and married men, while lesbian women have fewer partners than any other group.
“ Of course heaven forbids certain pleasures, but one fi nds means of
compromise.
—Molière, Tartuff e (1622–1673)
“ There is one thing I would break up over, and that is if she caught me with
another woman. I won’t stand for that.
—Steve Martin (1945–)
When extradyadic sex occurs, a crisis in the primary relationship usually results.
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Extradyadic Involvement in Exclusive Marriages and Partnerships In mar- riages and committed partnerships that assume emotional and sexual exclusivity, mutuality and sharing are emphasized. Extradyadic sexual relationships are assumed to be destructive of the marriage; nonsexual heterosexual relationships may also be judged threatening. Th e possibility of infecting one’s partner with an STI must also be considered. As a result of assumptions, both sexual and nonsexual extradyadic relation- ships take place without the knowledge or permission of the other partner. If the extradyadic sex is discovered, a crisis often ensues. Many people feel that the partner who is not exclusive has violated a basic trust. Sexual accessibility implies emotional accessibility. When a person learns that his or her partner is having another relationship, the emotional commitment of that spouse is brought into question. How can the person prove that he or she still has a commitment? He or she cannot—commitment is assumed; it can never be proved. Furthermore, the extradyadic sex may imply to the partner (rightly or wrongly) that he or she is sexually inadequate or uninteresting.
Extradyadic Involvement in Nonexclusive Marriages and Partner- ships Th ere are several types of nonexclusive partnerships: (1) open in which intimate but nonsexual friendships with others are encouraged, (2) open in which outside sexual relationships are allowed, and (3) group marriage/multiple relationships. In open marriage, partners may mutually agree to allow sexual contact with others. Other terms used to describe these individuals are swing- ers or polyamorists. Th e committed relationship is considered the primary relationship in both nonsexual extradyadic relationships and open marriages. Only the group marriage/multiple relationships model rejects the primacy of the relationship. Group marriage is the equal sharing of partners, as in polyg- amy; it may consist of one man and two women, one woman and two men, or two couples. Open marriages are more common than group marriages.
• Making Love Last: From Passion to Intimacy Ultimately, passionate or romantic love may be transformed or replaced by a quieter, more lasting love. Otherwise, the relationship will likely end, and each person will search for another who will once again ignite her or his passion. Although love is one of the most important elements of our humanity, it seems to come and go. Th e kind of love that lasts is what we might call intimate love. In intimate love, each person knows he or she can count on the other. Th e excitement comes from the achievement of other goals—from creativity, from work, from child rearing, from friendships—as well as from the relationship. Th e key to making love endure seems to be, not maintaining love’s passionate inten- sity, but transforming it into intimate love. Intimate love is based on commit- ment, caring, and self-disclosure. Commitment is an important component of intimate love. It refl ects a determination to continue a relationship or marriage in the face of bad times as well as good. It is based on conscious choices rather than on feelings, which, by their very nature, are transitory. Commitment involves a promise of a shared future, a promise to be together, come what may. We seem to be as much in search of commitment as we are in search of love or marriage. We speak of
“ To be faithful to one is to be cruel to all the others.
—Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart (1756–1791)
“ Thou shalt not commit adultery . . . unless in the mood.
—W. C. Fields (1879–1946)
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“making a commitment” to someone or to a relationship. A “committed” rela- tionship has become almost a stage of courtship, somewhere between dating and being engaged or living together. Caring involves the making of another person’s needs as important as your own. It requires what the philosopher Martin Buber called an “I-Th ou” rela- tionship. Buber described two fundamental ways of relating to people: I-Th ou and I-It. In an I-Th ou relationship, each person is treated as a Th ou—that is, as a person whose life is valued as an end in itself. In an I-It relationship, each person is treated as an It; the person has worth only as someone who can be used. When a person is treated as a Th ou, his or her humanity and uniqueness are paramount. Self-disclosure is the revelation of personal information that others would not ordinarily know because of its riskiness. When we self-disclose, we reveal ourselves—our hopes, our fears, our everyday thoughts—to others. Self-disclosure deepens others’ understanding of us. It also deepens our own understanding, for we discover unknown aspects as we open up to others. Without self-disclosure, we remain opaque and hidden. If others love us, such love makes us anxious: Are we loved for ourselves or for the image we present to the world? Together, these principles help transform love. But in the fi nal analysis, perhaps the most important means of sustaining love are our words and actions; caring words and deeds provide the setting for maintaining and expanding love. Being able to sustain love in the day-to-day world involves commitment, compassion, and most importantly, communication. Clear communication can take the guesswork out of relationships, subdue jealousy, increase general satis- faction, and possibly put couple therapists out of business.
• The Nature of Communication Communication is a transactional process by which we use symbols, such as words, gestures, and movements, to establish human contact, exchange infor- mation, and reinforce or change our own attitudes and behaviors and those of others. Communication takes place simultaneously within cultural, social, and psychological contexts. Th ese contexts aff ect our ability to communicate clearly by prescribing rules (usually unwritten or unconscious) for communicating about various subjects, including sexuality.
The Cultural Context
Th e cultural context of communication refers to the language that is used and to the values, beliefs, and customs associated with it. Traditionally, refl ecting our Judeo-Christian heritage, our culture has viewed sexuality negatively. Th us, sexual topics are often taboo. Children and adolescents are discouraged from obtaining sexual knowledge; they learn that they are not supposed to talk about sex. Censorship abounds in the media, with the ever-present “bleep” on televi- sion or the “f—k” on some Internet sites and in magazines to indicate a “forbid- den” word. Our language has a variety of words for describing sex, including scientifi c or impersonal ones (“sexual intercourse,” “coitus,” “copulation”), mor- alistic ones (“fornication”), euphemistic ones (“doing it,” “hooking up,” “sleeping with”), and taboo ones (“fucking,” “screwing,” “banging”). A few terms place sexual interactions in a relational category, such as “making love.” But love is not always involved, and the term does not capture the erotic quality of sex.
“ Everyone has experienced that truth: that love, like a running brook, is
disregarded, taken for granted; but when the brook freezes over, then people begin to remember how it was when it ran, and they want it to run again.
—Kahlil Gibran (1883–1931)
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Furthermore, the gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender subcultures have devel- oped their own sexual argot, or slang, because society suppresses the open dis- cussion or expression of same-sex behavior. Diff erent ethnic groups within our culture also have diff erent language pat- terns that aff ect the way they communicate about sex and sexuality. African American culture, for example, creates distinct communication patterns. Among African Americans, language and expressive patterns are characterized by, among other things, emotional vitality, realness, confrontation, and a focus on direct experience (Mackey & O’Brien, 1999). Emotional vitality is communi- cated through the animated, expressive use of words. Realness refers to “telling it like it is,” using concrete, nonabstract language. Among Latinos, especially traditional Latinos, there may be power imbalances that are potentially more signifi cant for women than men. Th is may be due to the cultural values of a traditionally machista society in which men are defi ned by their ability to maintain control and to assert dominance by being the active sexual partner. Among traditional Latinos, the type and frequency of sexual behaviors are most often determined by men (Wood & Price, 1997). Although most Latinos agree that men tend to be the initiators of sexual activity and women are more likely to suggest condom use, they report that couples share responsibility for decisions regarding sexual activities and contraceptive use. Asian Americans constitute a population group that defi es simple character- izations; it includes a variety of demographic, historical, and cultural factors and traditions. At the same time, Asian Americans share many cultural char- acteristics, such as the primacy of the family and of collective goals over indi- vidual wishes, an emphasis on propriety and social roles, the appropriateness of sex only within the context of marriage, and sexual restraint and modesty (Okazaki, 2002). Because harmonious relationships are highly valued, Asian Americans have a greater tendency to avoid direct confrontation if possible. Despite signifi cant steps in modernization and sexual liberation in recent decades, many Asian Americans’ views of sexuality are still rooted in cultural heritage and traditional beliefs (So & Cheung, 2005). To avoid confl ict, their verbal communication is often indirect or ambiguous; it skirts issues rather than confronting them. As a consequence, Asian Americans rely on each other to interpret the meaning of conversations or nonverbal cues. Among those from the Middle East, partnered sexual behaviors are often rooted in power and based on dominant and subordinate positions (Rathus, Nevid, & Fichner-Rathus, 2005). Th e family is the backbone of Islamic society; Islam is the dominant religion in the Middle East. Because Muhammad decreed that marriage represents the only road to virtue, celibacy is frowned on while homosexuality is condemned.
The Social Context
Th e social context of communication refers to the roles we play in society as members of diff erent groups. For instance, as men and women, we play out masculine and feminine roles. As members of marital units, we act out roles of husband and wife. As members of cohabiting units, we perform heterosexual, gay, or lesbian cohabiting roles. Roles exist in relationship to other people. Without a female role, there would be no male role; without a wife role, there would be no husband role. Because roles exist in relation to others, status—a person’s position or ranking
“ The greatest science in the world, in heaven and on earth, is love.
—Mother Teresa (1910–1997)
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in a group—is important. In traditional gender roles, men are accorded higher status than women; in traditional marital roles, husbands are superior in status to wives. And in terms of sexual orientation, society awards higher status to heterosexual people than to gay men, lesbian women, or bisexual or transgen- der people. Because of this male/female disparity, heterosexual couples tend to have a greater power imbalance than do gay and lesbian couples (Lips, 2007).
The Psychological Context
Although the cultural and social contexts are important factors in communication, they do not determine how people communicate. Th e psychological context of communication does that. We are not prisoners of culture and society; we are unique individuals. We may accept some cultural or social aspects, such as lan- guage taboos, but reject, ignore, or modify others, such as traditional gender roles. Because we have distinct personalities, we express our uniqueness by the way we communicate: We may be assertive or submissive, rigid or fl exible, and sensitive or insensitive; we may exhibit high or low self-esteem. Our personality characteristics aff ect our ability to communicate, change, or manage confl ict. Rigid people, for example, are less likely to change than are fl exible ones, regardless of the quality of communication. People with high self- esteem may be more open to change because they do not necessarily interpret confl ict as an attack on themselves. Personality characteristics such as negative or positive feelings about sexuality aff ect our sexual communication more directly.
Nonverbal Communication
Th ere is no such thing as not communicating. Even when we are not talking, we are communicating by our silence (an awkward silence, a hostile silence, a tender silence). We are communicating by our body movements, our head positions, our facial expressions, our physical distance from another person, and so on. We can make sounds that aren’t words to communicate nonverbally; screams, moans, grunts, sighs, and so on communicate a range of feelings and reactions. Look around you: How are the people in your presence communicating nonverbally?
“ The cruelest lies are often told in silence.
—Robert Louis Stevenson (1850–1894)
Proximity, eye contact, and touching are important components of nonverbal communication. What do you think this man and woman are “saying” to each other?
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Most of our communication of feeling is nonverbal. We radiate our moods: A happy mood invites companionship; a solemn mood pushes people away. Joy infects; depression distances—all without a word being said. Nonverbal expressions of love are particularly eff ective—a gentle touch, a loving glance, or the gift of a fl ower. One of the problems with nonverbal communication, however, is the impre- cision of its messages. Is a person frowning or squinting? Does the smile indi- cate friendliness or nervousness? Is the silence refl ective, or does it express disapproval or remoteness? Th ree of the most important forms of nonverbal communication are proxim- ity, eye contact, and touching.
Proximity Nearness in physical space and time is called proximity. Where we sit or stand in relation to another person signifi es a level of intimacy. Many of our words that convey emotion relate to proximity, such as feeling “distant” or “close” or being “moved” by someone. We also “make the fi rst move,” “move in” on someone else’s partner, or “move in together.” In a social gathering, the distances between individuals when they start a conversation are clues to how they wish to defi ne the relationship. All cultures have an intermediate distance in face-to-face interactions that is neutral. In most cultures, decreasing the distance signifi es either an invitation to greater intimacy or a threat. Moving away denotes the desire to terminate the interac- tion. When we stand at an intermediate distance from someone at a party, we send the message “Intimacy is not encouraged.” If we move closer, however, we invite closeness and risk rejection.
Eye Contact Much can be discovered about a relationship by watching how the two people look at each other. Making eye contact with another person, if only for a split second longer than usual, is a signal of interest. Brief and extended glances, in fact, play a signifi cant role in women’s expression of initial interest. When we can’t take our eyes off another person, we probably have a strong attraction to him or her. In addition to eye contact, dilated pupils may be an indication of sexual interest. (Th ey may also indicate fear, anger, and other strong emotions.) Th e amount of eye contact between partners in conversation can reveal couples who have high levels of confl ict and those who don’t. Th ose with the greatest degree of agreement have the most eye contact with each other. Th ose in confl ict tend to avoid eye contact (unless it is a daggerlike stare). As with proximity, however, the level of eye contact may diff er by culture.
Touching It is diffi cult to overestimate the signifi cance of touch and its sig- nifi cance to human development, health, and sexuality. Touch is the most basic of all senses. Th e skin contains receptors for pleasure and pain, heat and cold, roughness and smoothness. “Touch is the mother sense and out of it, all the other senses have been derived,” writes anthropologist Ashley Montagu (1986). Touch is a life-giving force for infants. If babies are not touched, they can fail to thrive and even die. We hold hands and cuddle with small children and with people we love. Levels of touching diff er among cultures and ethnic groups. Although the value placed on nonverbal expression may vary across groups and cultures, the ability to communicate and understand nonverbally remains important in all cultures.
“ Touch is a language that can communicate more love in fi ve seconds
than words can in fi ve minutes.
—Ashley Montagu (1905–1999)
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But touch can also be a violation. Strangers or acquaintances may touch inappropriately, presuming a level of familiarity that does not actually exist. A date or partner may touch the other person in a manner she or he doesn’t like or want. And sexual harassment includes unwelcome touching (see Chapter 17). Touch often signals intimacy, immediacy, and emotional closeness. In fact, touch may very well be the closest form of nonverbal communication. One researcher writes: “If intimacy is proximity, then nothing comes closer than touch, the most intimate knowledge of another” (Th ayer, 1986). And touching seems to go hand in hand with self-disclosure. Th ose who touch appear to self-disclose more; in fact, touch seems to be an important factor in prompting others to talk more about themselves. If touching is an issue in your relationship, discussing what it means to each of you can begin to unravel and expose existing patterns of behavior. Also, experiment with nonsexual touching. Learn to enjoy giving and receiving touch. Give and accept feedback nondefensively. Give feedback, especially verbal cues, about what does and does not feel good. Initiate touch when it is appropriate, even though it may be awkward at fi rst. Don’t be afraid to be adventurous in learning and utilizing methods that are pleasing to both you and your partner. At the same time, be prepared to accept individual diff erences. In spite of forthright and ongoing communication, people still have unique comfort levels. Again, honest feedback will help you and your partner fi nd a mutually accept- able level. If you are both able to understand and enjoy the rich and powerful messages that touch sends, then your relationship can be enriched by yet another dimension.
• Sexual Communication Communication is important in developing and maintaining sexual relation- ships. In childhood and adolescence, communication is critical for transmitting sexual knowledge and values and forming our sexual identities. As we establish our relationships, communication enables us to signal sexual interest and initi- ate sexual interactions. In developed relationships, communication allows us to explore and maintain our sexuality as couples.
Sexual Communication in Beginning Relationships
Our interpersonal sexual scripts provide us with “instructions” on how to behave sexually, including the initiation of potentially sexual relationships. Because as a culture we share our interpersonal sexual scripts, we know how we are supposed to act at the beginning of a relationship. But how do we begin relationships? What is it that attracts us to certain individuals?
The Halo Effect Imagine yourself unattached at a party. You notice some- one standing next to you as you reach for some chips. In a split second, you decide whether you are interested in her or him. On what basis do you make that decision? Is it looks, personality, style, sensitivity, intelligence, smell, or what? If you’re like most people, you base this decision, consciously or uncon- sciously, on appearance. Physical attractiveness is particularly important during the initial meeting and early stages of a relationship. If you don’t know anything else about a person, you tend to judge on appearance.
“ Married couples who love each other tell each other a thousand things
without talking.
—Chinese proverb
“ Healing touch belongs to all of us.
—Dolores Kreiger (1935–)
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Most people would deny that they are attracted to others simply because of their looks. We like to think we are deeper than that. But looks are important, in part because we tend to infer qual- ities based on looks. Th is inference is based on what is known as the halo eff ect, the assumption that attractive or charismatic people also possess more desirable social characteristics than are actu- ally present.
One of the most primal means of assessment is smell. Humans, like all animals, assign values to scents, recognizing those that aff ect them in powerful ways (Fisher, 2004). Scent lets both
sexes narrow their choices of potential partners by identifying those unspoken characteristics, such as level of testosterone and ovulation, that may lead toward mating. (See Chapter 3 for the discussion on pheromones and menstrual syn- chrony and Chapter 9 for additional discussion of smell and mate selection.)
Interest and Opening Lines After sizing someone up based on his or her appearance, what happens next in interactions between men and women? (Gay men’s and lesbian women’s beginning relationships are discussed later.) Does the man initiate the encounter? On the surface, yes, but in reality, the woman often covertly sends nonverbal signals of interest and availability. Th e woman may “glance” at the man once or twice and “catch” his eye; she may smile or fl ip her hair. If the man moves into her physical space, the woman then com- municates interest by nodding, leaning close, smiling, or laughing. If the man believes the woman is interested, he then initiates a conversation with an opening line, which tests the woman’s interest and availability. Men use an array of opening lines. According to women, the most eff ective ones are innocuous, such as “I feel a little embarrassed, but I’d like to meet you” or “Are you a student here?” Th e least eff ective lines are sexually blunt ones, such as “You really turn me on.” In the digital world of dating, words or a single photo can capture (or repel) the potential love object. Since this method of communication can occur with- out having to make eye contact or interpret facial cues, it is safer, bolder, and uncensored. Consequently, individuals may be inclined to misrepresent or reveal themselves more quickly and intimately on social networking sites, which can result in relationships that escalate more quickly than those that begin face-to-face.
The First Move and Beyond When we fi rst meet someone, we weigh his or her attitudes, values, and philosophy to see if we are compatible. We evaluate his or her sense of humor, intelligence, “partner” potential, ability to function in a relationship, sex appeal, and so on. Based on our overall judgment, we may pursue the relationship. If the relationship continues on a romantic level, we may decide to move into one that includes some kind of physical intimacy. To signal this transition from nonphysical to physical intimacy, one of us must “make the fi rst move.” Making the fi rst move marks the transition from a potentially sexual relationship to one that is actually sexual. If the relationship develops along traditional gender-role lines, one of the partners, usually the man, will make the fi rst move to initiate sexual intimacy,
“ Whereas a lot of men used to ask for conversation when they really wanted
sex, nowadays they often feel obliged to ask for sex even when they really want conversation.
—Katharine Whitehorn (1928–)
Nontraditional roles are changing the ways in which couples make contact and initiate conversation. What appear to be the roles of each person in this photograph?
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whether it is kissing, fondling, or engaging in sexual intercourse. Th e point at which this occurs generally depends on two factors: the level of intimacy and the length of the relationship. Th e more emotionally involved the two people are, the more likely they will be sexually involved as well. Similarly, the longer the relationship, the more likely there is sexual involvement (Christopher & Sprecher, 2000). In new relationships, we communicate indirectly about sex because, although we may want to become sexually involved with the other person, we also want to avoid rejection. By using indirect strategies, such as turning down the lights, moving closer, and touching the other person’s face or hair, we can test his or her interest in sexual involvement. If he or she responds positively to our cues, we can initiate a sexual encounter. Because so much of our sexual communication is indirect, ambiguous, or nonverbal, there is a high risk of misinterpretation. Gay men and lesbian women, like heterosexual persons, rely on both non- verbal and verbal communication in expressing sexual interest in others. Unlike heterosexual people, however, they cannot necessarily assume that the person in whom they are interested is of the same sexual orientation. Instead, they must rely on specifi c identifying factors, such as meeting at a gay or lesbian bar, wearing a gay/lesbian pride button, participating in gay/lesbian events, or being introduced by friends to others identifi ed as lesbian or gay. In situations in which sexual orientation is not clear, some gay men and lesbian women use “gaydar” (gay radar), in which they look for clues as to orientation. Th ey give ambiguous cues regarding their own orientation while looking for cues from the other person. Th ese cues can include mannerisms, speech patterns, slang, and lingering glances. Th ey may also include the mention of specifi c places for entertainment or recreation that are frequented mainly by lesbian women or gay men, songs that can be interpreted as having “gay” meanings, or movies with gay or lesbian themes. Once a like orientation is established, lesbian women and gay men often use nonverbal communication to express interest.
“ If you don’t risk anything, you risk even more.
—Erica Jong (1942–)
Regardless of our sexual orientation, age, gender, or ethnicity, much of our sexual communication is nonverbal.
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Directing Sexual Activity As we begin a sexual involvement, we have several tasks to accomplish. First and foremost, we must practice safer sex (see Chap- ters 15 and 16). We should gather information about our partner’s sexual history, determine whether she or he knows how to practice safer sex, and use condoms. Unlike much of our sexual communication, which is nonverbal or ambiguous, practicing safer sex requires direct verbal communication. Second, heterosexual couples must discuss birth control (unless both partners have agreed to try for pregnancy, or one is sterile). Contraceptive responsibility, like safer sex, requires verbal communication (see Chapter 11). In addition to communicating about safer sex and contraception, we need to communicate about what we like. What kind of touching do we like? For example, do we like to be orally or manually stimulated? If so, how? What stimulation does each partner need to be orgasmic? Many of our needs and desires can be communicated nonverbally by movements or physical cues. But if our partner does not pick up our nonverbal signals or cues, we need to discuss them directly and clearly to avoid ambiguity.
Sexual Communication in Established Relationships
In developing relationships, partners begin modifying their individual sexual scripts as they interact with each other. Th e scripts become less rigid and con- ventional as each partner adapts to the uniqueness of the other. Partners develop a shared sexual script. Th rough their sexual interactions, they learn what each other likes, dislikes, wants, and needs. Much of this learning takes place non- verbally: Partners in established relationships, like those in emerging relation- ships, tend to be indirect and ambiguous in their sexual communication. Like partners in new relationships, they want to avoid rejection. Indirection allows them to express sexual interest and, at the same time, protect themselves from embarrassment or loss of face. Not surprisingly, communication accounts in part for increases and decreases in sexual satisfaction.
Initiating Sexual Activity
Within established heterosexual relationships, men continue to overtly initiate sexual encounters more frequently than women. But women continue to signal their willingness. Th ey show their interest in sexual activity with nonverbal cues, such as giving a “certain look” or lighting candles by the bed. (Th ey may also overtly suggest “making love.”) Th eir partners pick up on the cues and “initiate” sexual interactions. In established relationships, many women feel more comfortable with overtly initiating sex. In part, this may be related to the decreasing signifi cance of the double standard as relationships develop. In a new relationship, the woman’s initiation of intercourse may be viewed nega- tively, as a sign of a “loose” sexual standard. But in an established relationship, the woman’s initiation may be viewed positively, as an expression of love. Th is shift may also be the result of couples becoming more egalitarian in their gender-role attitudes. Not surprisingly, sexual initiations are more often suc- cessful in long-term relationships than in new or dating relationships. In both lesbian and gay relationships, the more emotionally expressive part- ner is likely to initiate sexual interaction. Th e gay or lesbian individual who talks more about feelings and who spontaneously gives his or her partner hugs or kisses is the one who most often begins sexual activity.
When in doubt, tell the truth.
—Mark Twain (1835–1910)
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Charm is a way of getting the answer without having asked any question.
—Albert Camus (1913–1960)
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Gender Diff erences in Partner Communication Th ough men and women speak about the same number of words each day, gender diff erences lie in the topics they discuss. Men often talk about technology, sports, and money, while women often talk about social events, fashion, and relationships. Specifi c gender diff erences in communication between sexual partners also seem to occur such that some men may avoid talking about feelings and personal issues, while some women may be inclined to show more interest and seek agreement and accep- tance in the context of the sexual relationship (Gottman & Carrere, 2000).
• Developing Communication Skills Generally, poor communication skills precede the onset of relationship prob- lems. Th e material that follows will help you understand and develop your skills in communicating about sexual matters.
Talking About Sex
Good communication is central to a healthy intimate relationship. Unfortu- nately, it is not always easy to establish or maintain.
Obstacles to Sexual Discussions Th e process of articulating our feelings about sex can be very diffi cult, for several reasons. First, we rarely have models for talking about sexuality. As children and adolescents, we probably never dis- cussed sex with our parents, let alone heard them talking about sex. Second, talking about sexual matters defi nes us as being interested in sex, and interest in sex is often identifi ed with being sexually obsessive, immoral, prurient, or “bad.” If the topic of sex is tabooed, we further risk being labeled “bad.” Th ird, we may believe that talking about sex will threaten our relationships. We don’t talk about tabooed sexual feelings, fantasies, or desires because we fear that our partners may be repelled or disgusted. We also are reluctant to discuss sexual diffi culties or problems because doing so may bring attention to our own role in them.
Keys to Good Communication Being aware of communication skills and actually using them are two separate matters. Furthermore, even though we may be comfortable sharing our feelings with another, we may fi nd it more diffi cult to discuss our sexual preferences and needs. Self-disclosure, trust, and feedback are three keys to good communication.
Self-Disclosure Self-disclosure creates the environment for mutual under- standing. Most people know us only through the conventional roles we play as female/male, wife/husband, parent/child, and so on. Th ese roles, however, do not necessarily refl ect our deepest selves. If we act as if we are nothing more than our roles, we may reach a point at which we no longer know who we are. Th rough the process of self-disclosure, we not only reveal ourselves to oth- ers but also fi nd out who we are. We discover feelings we have hidden, repressed, or ignored. We nurture forgotten aspects of ourselves by bringing them to the surface. Moreover, self-disclosure is reciprocal: In the process of our sharing, others share themselves with us. Th e ability to disclose or reveal private thoughts and feelings, especially positive ones, can contribute to enhancing relationships (MacNeil & Byers, 2009). Men are less likely than women, however, to disclose intimate aspects of themselves (Lips, 2007). Because they have been taught to
Men and women use the same words but speak a diff erent language.
—Deborah Tannen (1945–)
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To say what we think to our superiors would be inexpedient; to say what we
think to our equals would be ill-mannered; to say what we think to our inferiors is unkind. Good manners occupy the terrain between fear and pity.
—Quentin Crisp (1908–1999)
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A little sincerity is a dangerous thing, and a great deal of it is absolutely fatal.
—Oscar Wilde (1854–1900)
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be “strong and silent,” they are more reluctant to express feelings of tenderness or vulnerability. Women generally fi nd it easier to disclose their feelings because they have been conditioned from childhood to express themselves (Tannen, 2001). Th ese diff erences can drive wedges between men and women. Even when people cohabit or are married, they can feel lonely because there is little or no interpersonal contact. And the worst kind of loneliness is feeling alone when we are with someone to whom we want to feel close.
Trust When we talk about intimate relationships, the two words that most frequently pop up are “love” and “trust.” Trust is the primary characteristic we
The other night I said to my wife, Ruth: “Do you feel that the sex and excitement
has gone out of our marriage?” Ruth said: “I’ll discuss it with you during the next commercial.”
—Milton Berle (1908–2002)
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practically speaking
Researchers studying relationship satisfaction have found a number of communication patterns that off er clues to en- hancing our intimate relationships (Byers, 2005; Gottman & Carrere, 2000). They found that men and women in satisfying heterosexual relationships tend to have the following common characteristics regarding communication:
■ The ability to disclose or reveal private thoughts and feelings, especially positive ones. Dissatisfi ed partners tend to disclose mostly negative thoughts. Satisfi ed partners say such things as “I love you,” “You’re sexy,” or “I feel vulnerable; please hold me.” Unhappy partners may also say that they love each other, but more often they say things like “Don’t touch me; I can’t stand you,” “You turn me off ,” or “This relationship makes me miserable and frustrated.”
■ The expression of more or less equal levels of aff ective disclo- sures. Both partners in satisfi ed couples are likely to say things like “You make me feel happy,” “I love you more than I can ever say,” or “I love the way you touch me.”
■ More time spent talking, discussing personal topics, and express- ing feelings in positive ways. Satisfi ed couples talk about their sexual feelings and the fun they have in bed together.
Scoring
Add up your score. Higher scores (maximum of 16) indicate bet- ter sexual communication skills.
■ A willingness to accept confl ict but to engage in confl ict in non- destructive ways. Satisfi ed couples view confl ict as a natural part of intimate relationships. When partners have sexual dis- agreements, they do not accuse or blame; instead, they ex- change viewpoints, seek common ground, and compromise.
■ Less frequent confl ict and less time spent in confl ict. Both satis- fi ed and unsatisfi ed couples, however, experience perpetual problems surrounding the same issues, especially communi- cation, sex, and personality characteristics.
■ The ability to accurately encode (send) verbal and nonverbal mes- sages and accurately decode (understand) such messages. This ability to send and understand nonverbal messages is especially important for couples who seek satisfying sexual interactions.
How good are your sexual communication skills? Take the following Dyadic Sexual Communication Scale to fi nd out.
Instructions
Below is a list of statements diff erent people have made about discussing sex with their primary partner. Indicate how much you agree or disagree with each statement, on a scale from 1 (none) to 4 (a lot), by circling the appropriate number.
SOURCE: Catania, J. A. (2010). Dyadic sexual communication scale. In T. D. Fisher, C. M. Davis, W. L. Yarber, & S. L. Davis, Handbook of sexuality-related measures (3rd ed.). New York: Routledge.
Communication Patterns and Partner Satisfaction
None A lot
1. Some sexual matters are too upsetting to discuss with my sexual partner. 0 1 2 3 4
2. My partner has no diffi culty in talking to me about his or her sexual feelings and desires. 0 1 2 3 4
3. Talking about sex is a satisfying experience for both of us. 0 1 2 3 4
4. I have little diffi culty in telling my partner what I will or won’t do sexually. 0 1 2 3 4
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associate with love. But what, exactly, is trust? Trust is a belief in the reliabil- ity and integrity of a person. When someone says, “Trust me,” he or she is asking for something that does not easily occur. Trust is critical in close relationships for two reasons. First, self-disclosure requires trust because it makes us vulnerable. A person will not self-disclose if he or she believes the information may be misused—by mocking or revealing a secret, for example. Second, the degree to which we trust a person infl uences how we interpret ambiguous or unexpected messages from him or her. If our partner says that he or she wants to study alone tonight, we are likely to take the statement at face value if we have a high level of trust. But if we have a low level of trust, we may believe that he or she actually will be meeting someone else. Self-disclosure is reciprocal. If we self-disclose, we expect our partner to self-disclose as well. As we self-disclose, we build trust; as we withhold self- disclosure, we erode trust. To withhold ourselves is to imply that we don’t trust the other person, and if we don’t, she or he will not trust us.
Feedback A third critical element in communication is feedback, the ongoing process of restating, checking the accuracy of, questioning, and clarifying mes- sages. If someone self-discloses to a partner, his or her response to that self- disclosure is feedback, and the partner’s response is feedback to that feedback. It is a continuous process (see Figure 8.3). Th e most important form of feedback for improving relationships is constructive feedback. Constructive feedback focuses on self-disclosing information that will help partners understand the
Ninety-nine lies may save you, but the hundredth will give you away.
—West African proverb “
A half-truth is a whole lie.
—Yiddish proverb“
Sender Message
Nonverbal Proximity Eye contact Touching Tone Volume Pitch Rate Silence
Verbal Language Word choice
Intent Receiver
(Que stions, clarification)
(Restatement, accuracy c heck
)
Feedback
Feedback
• FIGURE 8.3 Communication Loop. In successful communication, feedback between the sender and the receiver ensures that both understand (or are trying to understand) what is being communicated. For communication to be clear, the message and the intent behind the message must be congruent. Nonverbal and verbal components must also support the intended message. Communication includes not just language and word choice but also nonverbal characteristics such as tone, volume, pitch, rate, and silence.
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consequences of their actions—for each other and for the relationship. For example, if your partner discloses her or his doubts about the relationship, you can respond in a number of ways. Among these are remaining silent, venting anger, expressing indiff erence, and giving constructive feedback. Of these responses, constructive feedback is the most likely to encourage positive change.
• Confl ict and Intimacy Confl ict is the process in which people perceive incompatible goals and inter- ference from others in achieving their goals. We expect love to unify us, but sometimes it doesn’t. Two people do not become one when they love each other, although at fi rst they may have this feel- ing or expectation. Th eir love may not be an illusion, but their sense of ultimate oneness is. In reality, we retain our individual identities, needs, wants, and pasts— even while loving each other. It is a paradox that, the more intimate two people become, the more likely they are to experience confl ict. In fact, a lack of arguing can signal trouble in a relationship because it may mean that issues are not being resolved or that there is indiff erence. Confl ict itself is not dangerous to intimate relationships; it is the manner in which the confl ict is handled. Th e presence of confl ict does not necessarily indicate that love is waning or has disappeared. It may mean that love is growing. A willingness to accept and engage in confl ict in nondestructive ways can assist couples in enhancing their relationship. Gender diff erences separate not only what couples argue about (see Figure 8.4), but also how arguing can take a toll on their health. One study revealed that, for women, whether a husband’s arguing style was warm or hostile had the most signifi cant eff ect on her heart health, whereas, for a man, heart risk increased if disagreements with his wife involved a battle for control (Smith et al., 2007). Th ese diff ering views of confl ict and confl ict resolution aff ect each group’s willingness to deal with sexual confl icts. Understanding these diff erences will help in resolving sexual problems and issues.
Confl ict is natural in intimate relationships because each person has her or his own unique identity, values, needs, and history.
Women Men
Children 9.7% 5.6%
Sex 7.1 9.1
Housework 8.7 4.2
Money 8.5 6.2
Leisure 8.1 6.2
Alcohol 7.2 4.4
• FIGURE 8.4 Why Couples Argue: The Percentage Indicating Various Reasons. Here are the top reasons men and women listed for why they argue. (Source: From Eaker, E. D., et al. (2007). Marital status, marital strain, and risk of coronary heart disease or total mortality: The Framingham Off spring Study. Psychosomatic Medicine, 69, 509–513. Copyright © 2007 by the American Psychosomatic Society. Reprinted by permission of Lippincott Williams & Wilkins. http://lww.com.)
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Sexual Confl icts
Common practices such as using sex as a scapegoat for nonsexual problems and using arguments as a cover-up for other problems frequently lead to addi- tional disagreements and misunderstandings. Clinging to these patterns can interfere with problem solving and inhibit confl ict resolution.
Arguing About Sex Confl ict about sex can be intertwined in several ways. A couple may have a disagreement about sex that leads to confl ict. For exam- ple, if one person wants to be sexual and the other does not, they may argue. Sex can also be used as a scapegoat for nonsexual problems. If a person is angry because a partner has called him or her a lousy communicator, that person may take it out on the partner sexually by calling him or her a lousy lover. Th ey argue about their lovemaking rather than about the real issue, their communication.
practically speaking
For many people, forming a new relationship appears to be a lot easier (and a lot more fun) than maintaining one. If this were not the case, then marital therapy and how-to articles and books on keeping love alive would not be so prevalent. One per- son who has spent a signifi cant part of his career investigating the quandaries of partnerships is John M. Gottman, professor emeritus of psychology at the University of Washington–Seattle’s Family Research Lab, better known as the “Love Lab.” Over the past 35 years, Gottman and his wife Julie and colleagues have videotaped thousands of conversations between couples, scor- ing words and sentences based on facial expressions such as dis- gust, aff ection, and contempt. Though most of their work has involved married couples, applications can be made to any cou- ple interested in improving their relationship. The Gottmans believe that in order to keep love going strong or to rescue a relationship that has deteriorated, partners, regard- less of their sexual orientation, need to follow seven principles:
1. Enhance your love map. Emotionally intelligent couples are in- timately familiar with each other’s world. They have a richly detailed love map—they learn the major events in each oth- er’s history, and they keep updating their information as their partner’s world changes.
2. Nurture fondness and admiration. Without the belief that your partner is worthy of honor and respect, there is no basis for a rewarding relationship. By reminding yourself of your partner’s positive qualities—even as you grapple with each other’s fl aws—and verbally expressing your fondness and admiration, you can prevent a happy partnership from deteriorating.
3. Turn toward each other. In long-term commitments, people periodically make “bids” for their partner’s attention, aff ection,
humor, or support. Turning toward one another is the basis of emotional connection, romance, passion, and a good sex life.
4. Let your partner infl uence you. The happiest, most stable part- nerships are those in which each individual treats the other with respect and does not resist power sharing and decision making. When the couple disagrees, individuals actively search for common ground rather than insisting on getting their way.
5. Solve your solvable problems. Start with good manners when tackling your solvable problems by (1) using a softened startup, such as stating your feelings without blame, express- ing a positive need, and using “I” statements; (2) learning to make and receive repair attempts, such as de-escalating the tension and sharing what you feel; (3) soothing yourself and each other; and (4) when appropriate, compromising.
6. Overcome gridlock. Many ongoing confl icts have a sustained base of unexpressed dreams behind each person’s stubborn position. In happy relationships, partners incorporate each other’s goals into their concept of what their partnership is about. The bottom line in getting past gridlock is not neces- sarily to become a part of each other’s dreams but to honor these dreams.
7. Create shared meaning. Long-term partnerships can have an in- tentional sense of shared purpose, meaning, family values, and cultural legacy that forms a shared inner life. This culture incor- porates both of their dreams, and it is fl exible enough to change as both partners grow and develop. When a marriage or partnership has this shared sense of meaning, confl ict is less intense and perpetual problems are unlikely to lead to gridlock.
SOURCE: This article is reprinted with permission from Bainbridge Island-based YES! Magazine’s Winter 2011 issue, “What Happy Families Know.” It was adapted from Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work, by John M. Gottman, Ph.D., and Nan Silver, Three Rivers Press, 1999.
Lessons From the Love Lab
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Finally, an argument can be a cover-up. If a person feels sexually inadequate and does not want to have sex as often as his or her partner, they may argue and make the other feel so angry that the last thing the partner would want to do is to be sexual with him or her. For couples with children, relationships tend to follow a predictable pattern of satisfaction in the early years, a decrease in satisfaction during the child- rearing years, and a return to a higher level after the children are grown. An awareness of this pattern can be helpful to couples whose levels of confl ict are escalating. Acknowledging a relationship’s changing nature and focusing on strengths that each person brings to the relationship are ways to adapt to the inevitable changes that occur over time.
Confl ict Resolution
Th e ways in which couples deal with confl ict refl ects and perhaps contributes to their relationship happiness. Partners who communicate with aff ection and interest and who integrate humor when appropriate can use such positive aff ect to defuse confl ict (Gottman & Carrere, 2000). Sometimes, diff erences can’t be resolved, but they can be lived with. If a relationship is sound, diff erences can be absorbed without undermining the basic ties. All too often, we regard diff erences as threatening rather than as the unique expression of two personalities. If one person likes to masturbate, the partner can accept it as an expression of her or his unique sexuality. Co existence focuses on the person we have the most power over—ourself.
For a marriage to be peaceful, the husband should be deaf and
the wife blind.
—Spanish proverb
“
Hatred does not cease by hatred at any time. Hatred ceases by love. This is an
unalterable law.
—Siddhartha Gautama, the Buddha (c. 563–483 BCE)
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The study of love is only beginning, but it is already helping us to understand the various components that make up this complex emotion. Although there is some- thing to be said for the mystery of love, understanding how it works in the day-to- day world may help us keep our love vital and growing. If we can’t talk about what we like and what we want, there is a good chance we won’t get either one. Communication is the basis for good sex and good relation- ships. Communication and intimacy are reciprocal: Communication creates intimacy, and intimacy, in turn, creates good communication. But communication is learned behavior. If we have learned not to communicate, we can learn how to communi- cate. Communication allows us to expand ourselves and to feel more connected to and intimate with another person.
Final Thoughts
Summary Friendship and Love
■ Close friend relationships are similar to spouse/lover relationships in many ways. But lovers/spouses have more fascination and a greater sense of exclusiveness with their partners.
Love and Sexuality
■ Sexuality and love are intimately related in our cul- ture. Sex is most highly valued in loving relation- ships. A loving relationship rivals marriage as an acceptable moral standard for intercourse.
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■ Nonmarital sex among young adults (but not adoles- cents) in a relational context has become the norm. An important factor in this shift is the surge in the numbers of unmarried men and women.
■ Men and women tend to have diff erent ideas about how they view love, sex, and attraction. Love, how- ever, is equally important for heterosexual people, gay men, lesbian women, and bisexual individuals.
■ For a variety of reasons, some people choose celibacy as a lifestyle. Th ese individuals may have a better appreciation of the nature of friendship and an increased respect for the bonds of long-term partnerships. Fewer people may be asexual, or not attracted to either sex.
How Do I Love Thee? Approaches and Attitudes Related to Love
■ According to sociologist John Lee, there are six basic styles of love: eros, mania, ludus, storge, agape, and pragma.
■ Th e triangular theory of love views love as consisting of three components: intimacy, passion, and deci- sion/commitment.
■ Th e attachment theory of love views love as being sim- ilar in nature to the attachments we form as infants. Th e attachment (or love) styles of both infants and adults are secure, anxious/ambivalent, and avoidant.
■ Unrequited love—love that is not returned—is distressing for both the would-be lover and the rejecting partner.
Jealousy
■ Jealousy is an aversive response to a partner’s real, imag- ined, or likely involvement with a third person. Jeal- ous responses are most likely in committed or marital relationships because of the presumed“specialness” of the relationship, symbolized by sexual exclusiveness.
■ As individuals become more interdependent, there is a greater fear of loss. Th ere is some evidence that jealousy may serve to ignite the passion in a relationship.
■ Extradyadic involvement exists in dating, cohabiting, and marital relationships. In exclusive partnerships, extradyadic involvement is assumed to be destructive to the marriage and is kept secret. In nonexclusive partnerships, extradyadic involvement is permitted. In open marriage, partners mutually agree to allow sexual relationships with others.
■ Extradyadic involvement appears to be related to three factors: values, opportunities, and the quality of the relationship.
Making Love Last: From Passion to Intimacy
■ Time aff ects romantic relationships, potentially trans- forming it, with words and actions, into something that sustains and expands. Intimate love is based on commitment, caring, and self-disclosure, the revelation of information not normally known by others.
The Nature of Communication
■ Th e ability to communicate is important in develop- ing and maintaining relationships. Partners satisfi ed with their sexual communication tend to be satisfi ed with their relationship as a whole.
■ Communication is a transactional process by which we use symbols, such as words, gestures, and move- ments, to establish human contact, exchange infor- mation, and reinforce or change the attitudes and behaviors of ourselves and others.
■ Communication takes place within cultural, social, and psychological contexts. Th e cultural context re- fers to the language that is used and to the values, be- liefs, and customs associated with it. Ethnic groups communicate about sex diff erently, depending on their language patterns and values. Th e social context refers to the roles we play in society that infl uence our communication. Th e most important roles af- fecting sexuality are those relating to gender and sex- ual orientation. Th e psychological context refers to our personality characteristics, such as having posi- tive or negative feelings about sex.
■ Communication is both verbal and nonverbal. Th e ability to correctly interpret nonverbal messages is important in successful relationships. Proximity, eye contact, and touching are especially important forms of nonverbal communication.
Sexual Communication
■ In initial encounters, physical appearance is espe- cially important. Because of the halo eff ect, we infer positive qualities about people based on their appear- ance. Women typically send nonverbal cues to men indicating interest; men often begin a conversation with an opening line.
■ Th e “fi rst move” marks the transition to physical inti- macy. In initiating the fi rst sexual interaction, people generally keep their communication nonverbal,
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ambiguous, and indirect. Sexual disinterest is usually communicated nonverbally. With sexual involvement, the couple must communicate verbally about contra- ception, STI prevention, and sexual likes and dislikes.
■ Unless there are defi nite clues as to sexual orientation, gay men and lesbian women try to determine through nonverbal cues whether others are appropriate partners.
■ In established heterosexual relationships, many women feel more comfortable in initiating sexual in- teractions than in newer relationships. Sexual initia- tions are more likely to be accepted in established relationships; sexual disinterest is communicated verbally. Women do not restrict sexual activities any more than do men.
■ Th ere are gender diff erences in partner communica- tion. Women send clearer messages; men tend to send negative messages or withdraw; and women tend to set the emotional tone and escalate argu- ments more than men.
Developing Communication Skills
■ Th e keys to eff ective communication are self- disclosure, trust, and feedback. Self-disclosure is the revelation of intimate information about ourselves. Trust is the belief in the reliability and integrity of another person. Feedback is a constructive response to another’s self-disclosure.
Confl ict and Intimacy
■ Confl ict is natural in intimate relationships. Confl icts about sex can be specifi c disagreements about sex, ar- guments that are ostensibly about sex but that are re- ally about nonsexual issues, or disagreements about the wrong sexual issue.
■ Confl ict resolution both refl ects and contributes to relationship happiness.
Questions for Discussion ■ Using Sternberg’s triangular theory of love,
identify one signifi cant past or a current relationship and draw triangles for yourself and your partner. Compare the components of each. Have you coupled with someone who shares the same view of love as you? Why or why not is/was this person your “ideal match”? What characteristics in a relationship are important to you?
■ What has been your experience when friends ask, “Are you two attracted to each other?” Can individuals be “just friends”? What are the meanings and implications of engaging in sex with a friend? What are the reasons underlying the decision to have sex?
■ Do you think sexual activity implies sexual exclusiveness? Do you feel that it is important for you and your partner to agree on this? If not, how might you address this?
■ How comfortable are you about sharing your sexual history with your partner? Do you feel that individuals should be selective in what they share, or do you fi nd it benefi cial to discuss your likes, dislikes, and past partners? How does this type of disclosure infl uence the nature of a relationship (dating, cohabiting, or married)?
Sex and the Internet Sexual Intelligence Sex therapist and licensed marriage and family therapist Marty Klein has established an online newsletter of sexuality-related information, updates, and political commentaries available at http://www .sexualintelligence.org. Go to the site and select and read one recent article, then answer these questions:
■ Why did you select this article? ■ What was the main point? ■ How was your thinking infl uenced by the viewpoint
of the author?
Suggested Websites Advocate http://www.advocate.com A comprehensive lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender news and resource site.
American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy http://aamft.org Provides referrals to therapists, books, and articles that address family and relationship problems and issues.
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Asexual Visibility and Education Network http://www.asexuality.org/home/ Strives to create open, honest discussion about asexuality.
Love and Health Information www.loveandhealth.info/ Experts express views, provide information, and answer questions about sexuality.
Intercultural Communication Institute http://www.intercultural.org/ Fosters awareness and appreciation of cultural diff erence, includ- ing those around sexuality and gender, in both the international and domestic arenas.
Psychology Today Relationship Center http://psychologytoday.com/topics/relationships.html Articles on friendship, relationship stages, sex, moods, and behavior, to name a few.
Suggested Reading Ackerman, D. (1995). A natural history of love. New York:
Random House. A historical and cultural perspective on love.
Buss, D. M. (2003). Evolution of desire. New York: Basic Books. A study encompassing more than 10,000 people, which resulted in a unifi ed theory of human mating behavior.
Fisher, H. (2004). Why we love: Th e nature and chemistry of romantic love. New York: Henry Holt. Th e author challenges traditional beliefs about love and romance and demonstrates
how love is a chemical state with genetic roots and environmental infl uences.
Gottman, J. M., Gottman, J., & Declaire, J. (2006). Ten lessons to transform your marriage: America’s Love Lab experts share their strategies for strengthening your relationship. New York: Random House. Helps couples gain skills to expand and nurture their relationships.
Peck, M. S. (2003). Th e road less traveled: A new psychology of love, traditional values, and spiritual growth. New York: Touchstone. A psychological/spiritual approach to love that sees love’s goal as spiritual growth.
Sternberg, R., & Weis, K. (Eds.). (2006). Th e new psychology of love. New Haven, CT: Yale University. An excellent collection of essays by some of the leading researchers in the fi eld of love.
Tannen, D. (2001). You just don’t understand: Women and men in conversation. New York: HarperCollins. A best-selling, intelligent, and lively discussion of how women use communication to achieve intimacy and men use communication to achieve independence.
Tepper, M., & Owens, A. F. (Eds.). (2007). Sexual health (Vols. 1–4). Westport, CT: Praeger Perspectives. A comprehensive text that explores sex, love, and psychology.
For links, articles, and study material, go to the McGraw-Hill website, located at
www.mhhe.com/yarber8e.
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Sexual Expression
M A I N T O P I C S
Sexual Attractiveness 258
Sexual Scripts 266
Autoeroticism 268
Sexual Behavior With Others 278
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Student Voices
subject, at least between the guys, I think. When some- one brings up mas- turbating, we all kind of have that uncomfortable mo- ment, but then we get into talking about when our last time was, how often, how we administer clean-up, techniques. It has become a normal subject with us. Considering how many males I have spoken to about masturbation, I think it is less taboo than they thought.”
—20-year-old male
“It bothers me as a woman that other women, or at least several I have come in contact with, feel that it is nasty for their partners to please them orally but have no problem pleasing their partners that way. That’s crazy!”
—21-year-old female
“I grew up thinking that I would wait until I got married before having sex. It was not just a religious or moral issue—it was more about being a ‘good’ girl. When I went away to college, some of my new friends were sexually active and had more open thoughts about having sex. I did have sex with someone during my fi rst year in college, but afterwards I felt really embarrassed about it. When some of my friends at home found out, they were really shocked as well. Even though my fi rst sexual relationship was one full of love and commitment, these feelings of shame and embarrassment and shock kept me from sleeping with my boyfriend for the next four months. I really struggled with the ‘good girl’ versus ‘slut’ extreme images I had grown up with.”
—29-year-old female
“I remember the fi rst time one of my girlfriends told me she went down on a guy. I was seventeen and she was eighteen. We were still in high school. I thought it was the grossest thing and couldn’t imagine doing it. I’m embarrassed to admit that I kind of thought she was a slut. Then, a few months later, I tried it with my boyfriend. Then I began to feel like a slut.”
—20-year-old female
“It’s funny now how easy it is to talk about masturbation. When you get to college, some of the taboo is lifted from the
S exual expression is a complex process through which we reveal our sexual selves. Sexual expression involves more than simply sexual behaviors; it involves our feelings as well. “Behavior can never be unemotional,” one scholar observes (Blechman, 1990). As human beings, we do not separate feelings from behavior, including sexual behavior. Our sexual behaviors are rich with emo- tions, ranging from love to anxiety and from desire to antipathy. To fully understand our sexuality, we need to examine our sexual behaviors and the emotions we experience along with them. If we studied sexual activities apart from our emotions, we would distort the meaning of human sexuality. It would make our sexual behaviors appear mechanistic, nothing more than genitals rubbing against each other. In this chapter, we fi rst discuss sexual attractiveness. Next, we turn to sexual scripts that give form to our sexual drives. Finally, we examine the most common sexual behaviors, both autoerotic, such as fantasies and mas- turbation, and interpersonal, such as oral-genital sex, sexual intercourse, and anal eroticism. When we discuss sexual behaviors, we cite results from numerous studies to illustrate the prevalence of those behaviors in our soci- ety. Th ese results most often represent self-reports of a certain group of people. As discussed in Chapter 2, self-reporting of sexual behavior is not always exact or unbiased. Th e research data provide only a general idea of what behaviors actually occur and do not indicate how people should express their sexuality or what “normal” behavior is. Sexuality is one of the most individualistic aspects of life; each of us has our own sexual values, needs, and preferences.
Sex is as important as eating or drinking and we ought to allow one appetite to
be satisfi ed with as little restraint or false modesty as the other.
—Marquis de Sade (1740–1814)
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• Sexual Attractiveness Sexual attractiveness is an important component in sexual expression. As we shall see, however, there are few universals in what people from diff erent cultures consider attractive.
A Cross-Cultural Analysis
In a landmark cross-cultural survey, anthropologists Clelland Ford and Frank Beach (1951) discovered that there appear to be only two characteristics that women and men universally consider important in terms of sexual attractive- ness: youthfulness and good health. All other aspects may vary signifi cantly from culture to culture. Even though this large survey was conducted over a half century ago, subsequent smaller and more-local studies support the impor- tance of youthfulness and good health in sexual attraction, as well as the signifi cance of culture in determining sexual attractiveness. One might ask why youthfulness and health were the only universals identifi ed by Ford and Beach. Why not other body traits, such as a certain facial feature or body type? Although we may never fi nd an answer, sociobiologists off er a possible (but untestable) explanation. Th ey theorize, as we saw in Chapter 1, that all animals instinctively want to reproduce their own genes. Consequently, both humans and other animals adopt certain reproductive strategies. One of these strategies is choosing a mate capable of reproducing one’s off spring. Men prefer women who are young because young women are the most likely to be fertile. Good health is also related to reproductive potential, because healthy women are more likely to be both fertile and capable of rearing their children. Evolutionary psychologist David Buss (1994a, 2003a) notes that our ancestors looked for certain physical characteristics that indicated a woman’s health and youthfulness. Buss identifi es certain physical features that are cross-culturally associated with beauty: good muscle tone; full lips; clear, smooth skin; lustrous hair; and clear eyes. Our ancestors also looked for behavioral cues such as animated facial expressions; a bouncy, youthful gait; and a high energy level. Th ese observable physical cues to youthfulness and health (and hence to repro- ductive capacity) constitute the standards of beauty in many cultures. Vitality and health are important to human females as well. Women prefer men who are slightly older than they are, because an older man is likely to be more stable and mature and to have greater resources to invest in children. Similarly, in the animal kingdom, females choose mates who provide resources, such as food and protection. Among American women, Buss (1994, 2003a) points out, countless studies indicate that economic security and employment are much more important for women than for men. If you look in the personal ads on Internet dating sites or in any newspaper, you’ll fi nd this gender diff er- ence readily confi rmed. A woman’s ad typically reads: “Lively, intelligent woman seeks professional, responsible gentleman for committed relationship.” A man’s ad typically reads: “Financially secure, fi t man looking for attractive woman interested in having a good time. Send photo.” Women also prefer men who are in good health and physically fi t so as to be good providers. If a woman chooses someone with hereditary health prob- lems, she risks passing on his poor genes to her children. Furthermore, an unhealthy partner is more likely to die sooner, decreasing the resources available to the woman and her children. Ford and Beach (1951) found that signs of ill health are universally considered unattractive.
You can’t control whom you are attracted to and who is attracted to you.
—Carol Cassell (1936–)
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After people are clothed and fed, then they think about sex.
—K’ung-Fu-tzu (Confucius) (551–479 BCE)
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Aside from youthfulness and good health, however, Ford and Beach found no universal standards of physical sexual attractiveness. In fact, they noted considerable variation from culture to culture in what parts of the body are considered erotic. In some cultures, the eyes are the key to sexual attractiveness; in others, it is height and weight; and in still others, the size and shape of the genitals matter most. In our culture, female breasts, for example, are considered erotic; in other cultures, they are not. Since the classic study by Ford and Beach (1951), researchers have continued to attempt to identify other factors that infl uence sexual attractiveness, such as physical characteristics, personality traits, and fertility factors. Th rough research involving various cultures, it has been discovered that one of the most important physical traits of attractiveness is symmetry. Th at is, both sides of the person— the right and left sides—are the same. For example, both eyes are the same shape, the ears are similar, the hands are the same size, and the arms are the same length. Th roughout the animal kingdom, which includes humans, males and females rate persons whose right and left sides are symmetrical as more attractive. One very noticeable physical feature is the face, and studies have shown that the more symmetrical a face, the more attractive persons of the other sex fi nd it (Fisher, 2009; Jasienska, Lipson, Th une, & Ziomkiewicz, 2006; Little, Apicella, & Marlow, 2007; Moalem, 2009; Tovee, Tasker, & Benson, 2000).
What constitutes physical attractiveness may vary among cultures.
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Another signifi cant factor in sexual attraction is scent. Th e other person’s smell— that is, his or her natural body scent mixed with the lingering smells of the day— plays a major role in drawing people together and fi nding optimal partners. Some people report that they know right away from his or her smell that a person is the one for them, and of course conversely some conclude that his or her body odor is a “deal-breaker.” (For a discussion of pheromones, see Chapter 3.) Psychologist Rachel Herz, author of the book Th e Scent of Desire: Discovering Our Enigmatic Sense of Smell (2007), states that “body odor is an external manifestation of the immune system and smells we think are attractive come from people who are most genetically compatible with us” (quoted in Svoboda, 2008). Interestingly, from what we discussed above about symmetry, men and women whose body odors are judged to be sexy by others are also more likely to have symmetrical faces. So, it seems that fi nding a person with a pleasing body odor is essential. People who want to fi nd out their partners’ true scent can go fragrance-free for a few days. Th ey may worry about their own scent, and some people may indeed not like it, but there will always be persons who will be attracted to their natural body odor (Fisher, 2009; Herz, 2007; Martins et al. 2005; Moalem, 2009; Svoboda, 2009). Cultures that agree on which body parts are erotic may still disagree on what constitutes attractiveness. In terms of female beauty, American culture considers a slim body attractive. But worldwide, Americans are in the minor- ity, for the type of female body most desired cross-culturally is plump. Similarly, Americans prefer slim hips, but in the majority of cultures in Ford and Beach’s study, wide hips were most attractive. In our culture, large breasts are ideal, but other cultures prefer small breasts or long and pendu- lous breasts. In recent years, well-defi ned pectoral, arm, and abdominal muscles have become part of the ideal male body. Interestingly, a study of college undergraduate women rated muscular men as sexier than nonmus- cular and very muscular men, but men with moderate muscularity were considered most attractive and more desirable for long-term relationships (Frederick & Haselton, 2007; Jayson, 2007). Participants thought that the more brawny men would be more domineering, volatile, and less committed to their partners, whereas the moderately muscular man would be more sexually exclusive and romantic.
Evolutionary Mating Perspectives
One prominent theoretical explanation for human mating is the sexual strat- egies theory (Buss, 2003b; Buss & Schmitt, 1993). An important component of this theory addresses gender diff erences in short-term and long-term hetero- sexual relationships from an evolutionary mating perspective. Th is theory pos- its that males and females face diff erent adaptive problems in “casual” or short-term mating and long-term, reproductive mating, leading to diff erent strategies or behaviors for solving these problems. A woman may select a part- ner who off ers immediate resources, such as food or money, for short-term mating, whereas for long-term mating, more substantial resources are impor- tant. For males, a sexually available female may be chosen for a short-term liaison, but this type of woman would be avoided when selecting a long-term mate (Hyde & DeLamater, 2008). David Geary and colleagues (2004) reviewed the evolutionary theory and empir- ical research on mating and identifi ed the potential costs and benefi ts of short-term and long-term sexual relationships in both men and women (see Table 9.1).
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Th e most fundamental diff erence is that women are predicted to be most selec- tive in mate choices for both short-term and long-term relationships given the costs of reproduction. Even in selecting a short-term mate, a woman may be more choosy than a man because she is evaluating him as a potential long-term mate. But, in general, women are predicted to avoid short-term relationships given that the possible costs outweigh the possible benefi ts. In contrast, the opposite is evident for men given that the potential benefi ts outweigh the poten- tial costs. In choosing a short-term partner, the man may want to minimize commitment. Once a man commits to a long-term relationship, the costs increase and the level of choosiness is also predicted to increase. In their research on short-term sexual relationships, Todd Shackelford and colleagues (2004) found that women preferred short-term partners who are not involved in other relation- ships to present a greater potential as a long-term partner and that men were more likely to pursue short-term, or casual, sexual relationships than women. Today, adolescents and young adults have their own form of casual sex, com- monly called hooking up or “friends with benefi ts.” Th ese types of casual sex, analogous to the “one-night stands” of prior generations, describe sexual interac- tions ranging from kissing to intercourse between two people who do not expect another sexual encounter or a romantic commitment. For hooking up, the two people may or may not already be friends, but in “friends with benefi ts,” both friendship and physical intimacy are blended and the sex may be recurring. Despite being very common on many campuses, research concerning the ante- cedents and the positive and negative outcomes of hooking up and “friends with benefi ts” has just begun (Fielder & Carey, 2010; Owen & Fincham, 2010a, 2010b). To fi nd out the results of recent studies on this contemporary form of casual sex among college students, see the “Th ink About It” box on page 262.
TABLE 9.1 • Examples of Costs and Benefi ts of Short-Term and Long-Term Sexual Relationships
Costs Benefi ts
Women’s short-term mating
Risk of STI Some resources from mate Risk of pregnancy Good genes from mate Reduced value as a long-term mate
Women’s long-term mating
Restricted sexual opportunity Signifi cant resources from mate Sexual obligation to mate Paternal investment
Men’s short-term mating
Risk of STI Potential to reproduce Some resource investment No parental investmenta
Men’s long-term mating
Restricted sexual opportunity Increased reproductive certainty Heavy parental investment Higher quality children Heavy relationship investment Sexual and social companionship
Note: STI � sexually transmitted infection. a Low paternal investment may result in lower quality children, but this is not a cost to the man because it does not lower his ability to invest in other relationships.
SOURCE: From Geary, D. C., Vigil, J., & Byrd-Craven, J. (2004). Evolution of human mate choice. Journal of Sex Research, 41(1), 29. Reprinted by permission of The Society for the Scientifi c Study of Sexuality.
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think about it
“Hooking up,” a term used by some college students to describe being sexual with others, has replaced traditional dating rituals—in fact, many have never gone out on a date—and is as ambiguous as the term “having sex.” For many college-age students, marriage no longer comes on the heels of graduation. Hooking up for “casual sex” allows them to put off serious romance yet be sexual with another person and free to pursue personal and career goals. A similar mating strategy among college students is having “friends with benefi ts” or making “booty calls,” which involve explicit or implicit solicitation of a non-long-term sex partner (Jonason, Li, & Cason, 2009). Studies from a large southeastern U.S. university found that 76% of men and 60% of women had hooked up over the past 12 months and that 54% of men and 43% of women reported at least one “friends with benefi ts” relationship in the past 12 months (Owen & Fincham, 2011a, 2011b). Although hooking up may sound like a good idea, casual sex may not be as simple as one might think. Sociologist Kathleen Bogle (2008) studied hooking up among undergradu- ates and alumni at two colleges and found that, although this type of sex gives both men and women more sexual options, it may favor men’s interest in “playing the fi eld” but not support women’s interest in the casual sex evolving into a relationship. Beyond identifying the prevalence of hooking up and “friends with benefi ts,” the studies cited above from the south- eastern university also examined the outcomes and predictors of this type of casual sex:
■ Compared to women, men reported more positive and fewer negative emotional reactions to hooking up, but both men and women reported that the experience was largely more positive than negative.
■ Hookups involving coitus were associated with fewer nega- tive emotional responses for men as compared to women who engaged in coital and non-coital hookups and to men who engaged in noncoital hookups.
■ For hookups involving coitus, women reported that condom use was associated with fewer positive and more negative emotional reactions, but for men, condom use was related to fewer negative emotional reactions.
■ For both men and women, negative emotional reactions to hooking up were also related to reports of depressive symp- toms and feelings of loneliness.
■ Women, in contrast to men, were more likely to report a hope that their hookup encounter would become a committed relationship.
■ Positive reactions to hooking up, alcohol use (more so for women than men), and loneliness were factors cited as reasons to hook up.
“Hooking Up” Among College Students
■ “Friends with benefi ts” relationships were associated with more positive emotional reactions than negative ones, although the diff erence was greater for men. Greater alcohol use was related to engaging in “friends with benefi ts” behav- ior; this relationship was stronger for women (Owen & Fincham, 2011a, 2011b, 2011c).
Other studies have found that casual sex is not without “strings attached.” For example, a study of 642 urban adults found that sexual involvements in nonromantic and casual dating con- texts were related to reporting less rewarding and less satisfying relationships in contrast to more serious involvements (Paik, 2010). An assessment of sexual hookups of 140 fi rst-semester col- lege students showed that penetrative sex increased psychologi- cal distress for females, but not for males (Fielder & Carey, 2010). These studies highlight the need for college students to understand the newer sexual norms of hooking up and “friends with benefi ts” behavior that are quite common on many college campuses. Particularly important is to know about the relation- ship between alcohol use and casual sex; this knowledge may help college students make wiser sexual decisions (Grello, Welsh, & Harper, 2006).
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Think Critically 1. If you know people who have hooked up or engaged
in “friends with benefi ts” behavior, have they talked about it positively or negatively?
2. Have you ever participated in casual sex with a partner as described above? If so, did you have similar experi- ences as found in the research studies reported here?
3. Is casual sex more socially accepted for males than females?
4. Do you think that hooking up or “friends with benefi ts” relationships have replaced traditional dating on your college campus? If so, is that a good or bad outcome?
SOURCES: Bogle, K. A. (2008). Hooking up: Sex, dating, and relationships on campus. New York: New York University Press; Fielder, R. L., Carey, M. P. (2009). Predictors and consequences of sexual “hookups” among college students: A short-term prospective study. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 39, 1105–1119; Grello, C. M., Welsh, D. P., & Harper, M. S. (2006). No strings attached: The nature of casual sex in college students. Journal of Sex Research, 43, 255–267; Jonason, R. K., Li, N. P., & Cason, M. J. (2009). The “booty call”: A comparison between men’s and women’s ideal mating strategies. Journal of Sex Research, 46, 460–470; Owen, J., & Fincham, F. D. (2011). Young adults’ emotional reactions after hooking up encounters. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 40, 321–330; Owen, J., & Fincham, F. D. (2011). Eff ects of gender and psychological factors on “friends with benefi ts” relationships among young adults. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 40, 311–320; Owen, J., & Fincham, F. D. (2001). Short-term prospective study of hooking up among college students. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 40, 331–334.
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Evolutionary biologists have hypothesized that men’s short-term mating strategy is rooted in the desire for sexual variety, and a massive cross-cultural study of 16,288 people across 10 major world regions seems to demonstrate this (Schmitt, 2003). Th is study on whether the sexes diff er in the desire for sexual variety found strong and conclusive diff erences that appear to be uni- versal across the world regions: Men possess more desire than women for a variety of sexual partners and are more likely to seek short-term relationships than women. Th is was true regardless of the participant’s relationship status or sexual orientation. Th e researchers concluded that these fi ndings confi rm that men’s short-term sexual strategy is based on the desire for numerous partners. Th is behavior, from an evolutionary perspective, would maximize reproductive success. Interestingly, the study also found that men required less time to elapse than women before consenting to intercourse. A study of undergraduate college students examined gender diff erences in an imagined desired number of sex partners during the next year (Fenigstein & Preston, 2007). In this imaginary scenario, the sex would be either safe from STIs and pregnancy or dangerous and relatively unavailable. Th e study found that over the next year, the majority of women desired one sex partner. In contrast, the men indicated a desire for numerous partners, especially when they imagined less negative sexual concerns. Th e researchers concluded that the results can be explained by the sexual strategies theory, discussed earlier in this section, and social role theory (Eagly, 1987), which contends that men are socialized toward the pleasurable components of sexual interaction and that women are more concerned with the relational components of sex. One mating strategy is mate poaching, the behavior designed to lure a person who is already in a romantic relationship to either a temporary, brief sexual liaison or a long-term relationship. Buss (2006) states that mate poach- ing evolved as a mating strategy because desirable mates attract many suitors and usually end up in relationships. Hence, to fi nd a desirable mate, it is often necessary to attempt to seek (mate poach) persons already in relationships. Figure 9.1 presents the frequency of romantic attraction and mate-poaching expe- riences of 173 college undergraduates (45 men and 128 women) (Schmitt & Buss, 2001). As shown, mate poaching is a common practice, with nearly equal frequencies for men and women undergraduates, but occurs less often than just trying to attract someone. Th e vast majority had experienced someone trying to poach them or their partner, but many attempts were not successful. Mate- poaching tactics were also assessed, and these included trying to drive a wedge in the relationship, enhancing one’s physical appearance, providing easy sexual access, developing an emotional connection, and demonstrating that one has resources. Like mate poaching, sexual nonexclusiveness in relationships poses signifi cant adaptive threats (Buss, 2006). See the discussion of extradyadic involvement in Chapter 8 for information on gender diff erences in outcomes and reactions to nonexclusiveness and strategies used for mate retention, also called mate guarding.
Views of College Students
Although attractiveness is important, looks aren’t everything. In a study spanning nearly six decades, undergraduate male and female college students rated the importance of 18 mate characteristics, including “good looks” (Buss, Shackelford, Kirkpatrick, & Larsen, 2001). Ratings were obtained using a questionnaire
A promiscuous person is someone who is getting more sex than you are.
—Victor Lownes (1928–)
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Sex is one of the nine reasons for reincarnation. . . . The other eight are
unimportant.
—Henry Miller (1891–1980)
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at one college in 1939 and 1956, four colleges in 1967 and 1977, and three colleges in 1996 in various locations across the United States. Th is longitudinal comparison allowed the researchers to determine which important characteristics in a mate had changed and if there were gender diff erences in ratings during the half century of dramatic cultural changes. One cultural change the research- ers noted was the proliferation of visual images of physically attractive models and actors via television, movies, and the Internet. Th e researchers explain: “From an evolutionary psychological perspective, such images may ‘trick’ our evolved mating mechanisms, deluding us into believing that we are surrounded by hundreds of attractive partners, as well as hundreds of potential intrasexual competitors.” Th ey ask whether this profusion of visual images in the twentieth century elevated the ranking of physical attractiveness relative to other traits. Several patterns were identifi ed across the 57-year span (see Figure 9.2). Mutual attraction and love, dependable character, emotional maturity and sta- bility, and pleasing disposition were rated highly at all times, suggesting that physical attractiveness is not the most important trait in mate selection. How- ever, over the years, a large shift occurred in the importance of good looks for both genders. For men, it jumped from 14th in 1939 to 8th in 1996; for women, it increased from 17th in 1939 to 13th in 1996. Th e surge of media images of attractive people may have contributed to this shift. Certainly, the popularity of cosmetics, diet, cosmetic surgery, exercise programs, and muscle- enhancing products refl ects this increasing value of physical attractiveness. Interestingly, the researchers note that the order of importance for both the male and female college students converged during the fi ve decades, with the ordering showing maximum similarity in 1996. Also, domestic skills plum- meted in importance for male students over the decades.
a “Have you ever?” was defi ned as scoring greater than 1 on a 1 (not at all successful) to 7 (very successful) scale for the success experiences.
Have You Ever?
Mate Attraction Experience % of Men % of Women
Attempted to attract someone as a long-term mate 87 86 as a short-term mate 91 74
Attempted to poach someone as a long-term mate 52 63 as a short-term mate 64 49
Experienced someone try to poach you as a long-term mate 83 81 as a short-term mate 95 91
Been successfully poached away from a past partnera
as a long-term mate 43 49 as a short-term mate 50 35
Experienced someone try to poach your partner as a long-term mate 70 79 as a short-term mate 86 85
Had a past partner successfully poached from youa
as a long-term mate 35 30 as a short-term mate 27 25
• FIGURE 9.1 Frequency of Romantic Attraction and Mate-Poaching Experiences of Undergraduates. (Source: Adapted from Schmitt & Buss, 2001.)
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Some Internet matchmaking services use information similar to the 18 mate characteristics of the study by Buss and colleagues (2001) discussed in this section to match persons wanting to fi nd partners. Th ese services believe that fi nding “last- ing love” is based on compatibility and shared interests. While they have successfully matched plenty of people, Carol Cassell, a nationally recognized leader in human sexuality, presents an interesting caveat to this type of search for compatibility. In her book Put Passion First (2008), Cassell states that, although compatibility is certainly important in long-term relationships, it is not the only or most valuable component. She contends that “if you have a comfortable, compatible love without sexual sparks, you don’t have enough.” She continues by noting that matchmaking that does not account for sexual chemistry rarely ignites fi re in a couple.
A pair of powerful spectacles has sometimes suffi ced to cure a person
in love.
—Friedrich Nietzsche (1844–1900)
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Mutual attraction, love Dependable character Emotional maturity, stability Pleasing disposition
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• FIGURE 9.2 Rank Ordering of Mate Characteristics by College Undergraduates Across Six Decades, by Gender. (Source: Adapted from Buss, Shackelford, Kirkpatrick, & Larsen, 2001.)
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Sexual Desire
Desire can exist separately from overtly physical sexual expression. As discussed in Chapter 3, desire is the psychobiological component that motivates sexual behavior. But little scientifi c research exists on sexual desire. One of the most important reasons researchers have avoided studying it is that desire is diffi cult to defi ne and quantify. Sexual desire is aff ected by physical, emotional, and sexual relationship issues, as discussed throughout this book. Life events can have both positive and negative impacts on sexual desire. (See Chapter 14 for a discussion of sexual desire disorders and desire diff erences within a couple.) Two factors aff ecting sexual desire are erotophilia and erotophobia. Erotophilia is a positive emotional response to sex- uality, and erotophobia is a negative emotional response to sexuality. Researchers have hypothesized that where someone falls on the erotophilic/erotophobic con- tinuum strongly infl uences his or her overt sexual behavior (Fisher, 1986, 1998). In contrast to erotophobic individuals, for example, erotophilic men and women accept and enjoy their sexuality, experience less guilt about engaging in sex, seek out sexual situations, engage in more autoerotic and interpersonal sexual activities, enjoy talking about sex, and are more likely to engage in certain sexual health practices, such as obtaining and using contraception. Furthermore, erotophilic people are more likely to have positive sexual attitudes, to engage in more involved sexual fantasies, to be less homophobic, and to have seen more erotica than ero- tophobic people. A person’s emotional response to sex is also linked to how she or he evaluates other aspects of sex. Erotophilic individuals, for example, tend to evaluate sexually explicit material more positively. Erotophilic and erotophobic traits are not fi xed. Positive experiences can alter erotophobic responses over time. In fact, some therapy programs work on the assump- tion that consistent positive behaviors, such as loving, affi rming, caring, touching, and communicating, can do much to diminish sexual fears and anxieties. Positive sexual experiences can help dissolve much of the anxiety that underlies erotophobia.
• Sexual Scripts As you will recall from Chapter 5, gender roles have a signifi cant impact on how we behave sexually, for sexual behaviors and feelings depend more on learning than on biological drives. Our sexual drives can be molded into almost any form. What is “natural” is what society says is natural; there is very little spontaneous, unlearned behavior. Sexual behavior, like all other forms of social behavior (such as courtship, classroom behavior, and sports), relies on scripts. As you will also recall from Chapter 5, scripts are like plans that organize and give direction to our behavior. Th e sexual scripts in our culture are highly gendered, meaning that they strongly infl uence our sexuality as men and women (Mahay, Laumann, & Michaels, 2001). Our sexual scripts have several distinct components (Simon & Gagnon, 1987):
■ Cultural. Th e cultural component provides the general pattern that sex- ual behaviors are expected to take. Our cultural script, for example, emphasizes heterosexuality, gives primacy to sexual intercourse, and dis- courages masturbation.
■ Intrapersonal. Th e intrapersonal component deals with the internal and physiological states that lead to, accompany, or identify sexual arousal, such as a pounding heart and an erection or vaginal lubrication.
The degree and kind of a person’s sexuality reaches up into the ultimate
pinnacle of his spirit.
—Friedrich Nietzsche (1844–1900)
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I am never troubled by sexual desires. In fact I rather enjoy them.
—Tommy Cooper (1921–1984)
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■ Interpersonal. Th e interpersonal component involves the shared conven- tions and signals that enable two people to engage in sexual behaviors, such as body language, words, and erotic touching.
Cultural Scripting
Our culture sets the general contours of our sexual scripts. It tells us which behaviors are acceptable (“moral” or “normal”) and which are unacceptable (“immoral” or “abnormal”). For example, a norm may have a sequence of sexual events consisting of kissing, genital caressing, and sexual intercourse. Imagine a scenario in which two people from diff erent cultures try to initiate a sexual encounter. One person follows the script described above, while the one from a diff erent culture follows a sequence beginning with sexual intercourse, moving to genital caressing, and ending with passionate kissing. At least initially, such a couple might experience frustration and confusion as one partner tries to initiate the sexual encounter with kissing and the other with sexual intercourse. Yet this kind of confusion occurs fairly often because there is not necessar- ily a direct correlation between what our culture calls erotic and what any particular individual calls erotic. Culture sets the general pattern, but there is too much diversity in terms of individual personality, socioeconomic status, and ethnicity for everybody to have exactly the same erotic script. Th us, sexual scripts can be highly ambiguous and varied. We may believe that everyone shares our own particular script, projecting our experiences onto others and assuming that they share our erotic defi nitions of objects, gestures, and situations. But often, they initially do not. Our partner may have come from a diff erent socioeconomic or ethnic group or religious background and may have had diff erent learning experiences regarding sexuality (Mahay et al., 2001). Each of us has to learn the other’s sexual script and be able to complement and adjust to it. If our scripts are to be integrated, we must make our needs known through open and honest communication involving words, gestures, and movements. Th is is the reason many people view their fi rst intercourse as something of a comedy or tragedy—or perhaps a little of both.
Intrapersonal Scripting
On the intrapersonal level, sexual scripts enable people to give meaning to their physiological responses. Th e meaning depends largely on the situation. An erec- tion, for example, does not always mean sexual excitement. Young boys some- times have erections when they are frightened, anxious, or worried. Upon awakening in the morning, men may experience erections that are unaccom- panied by arousal. Adolescent girls sometimes experience sexual arousal without knowing what these sensations mean. Th ey report them as funny, weird kinds of feelings, or as anxiety, fear, or an upset stomach. Th e sensations are not linked to a sexual script until the girl becomes older and her physiological states acquire a defi nite erotic meaning. Intrapersonal scripts provide a sequence of body movements by acting as mech- anisms that activate biological events and release tension. We learn, for example, that we may create an orgasm by manipulating the penis or clitoris during masturbation.
Interpersonal Scripting
Th e interpersonal level is the area of shared conventions, which make sexual activ- ities possible. Very little of our public life is sexual. Yet there are signs and
Many are saved from sin by being inept at it.
—Mignon McLaughlin (1913–1983)
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In our society, passionate kissing is part of the cultural script for sexual interactions.
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gestures—verbal and nonverbal—that defi ne encounters as sexual. We make our sexual motives clear by the looks we exchange, the tone of our voices, the move- ments of our bodies, and other culturally shared phenomena. A bedroom or a hotel room, for example, is a potentially erotic location; a classroom or an offi ce may not be. Th e movements we use in arousing ourselves or others are erotic activators. Within a culture, there are normative scripts leading to intimate sexual behavior. People with little sexual experience, especially young adolescents, are often unfamiliar with sexual scripts. What do they do after kissing? Do they embrace? Caress above the waist? Below? Eventually, they learn a comfortable sequence based on cultural inputs and personal and partner preferences. For gay men and lesbian women, learning the sexual script is more diffi cult because it is socially stigmatized. Th e sexual script is also related to age. Older children and young adolescents often limit their scripts to kissing, holding hands, and embracing, and they may feel completely satisfi ed. Kissing for them may be as exciting as intercourse for more experienced people. When the range of their scripts increases, they lose some of the sexual intensity of the earlier stages. Th e concept of sexual scripts has been used often in research to further explain sexual expression among individuals and couples. To illustrate with a study pertinent to college students, Columbia University researchers Sheri Dworkin and Lucia O’Sullivan (2005) note that research on men’s sexuality has tended to disregard looking at sexual scripts (e.g., aggressive initiators and orchestrators of sexual activity) or culturally dominant scripts. By interviewing 32 college-age men, they found that indeed these men wished to share initia- tion of sex, enjoyed being a desired sex object, and wanted egalitarian scripts. Dworkin and O’Sullivan conclude that these fi ndings may “mean shifts in broader gender relations towards more companionate norms, a stretching of traditional scripts, a desire for egalitarian relationships, or social structural shifts in women’s or men’s power that may make sexual scripts more fl exible.” Th ese results appear to counter the fi ndings from college “hooking-up” studies. Possibly, college men who hook up desire a more egalitarian relationship with women, but are infl uenced by the dominant script on the college campus, which is hooking up.
• Autoeroticism Autoeroticism consists of sexual activities that involve only the self. Autoeroticism is an intrapersonal activity rather than an interpersonal one. It includes sexual fanta- sies, erotic dreams, and self-masturbation (stimulating one’s genitals for pleasure). A universal phenomenon in one form or another (Ford & Beach, 1951), auto- eroticism is one of our earliest expressions of sexual stirrings. It is also one that traditionally has been condemned in our society. (Figure 9.3 shows one device cre- ated to curb masturbation.) By condemning it, however, our culture sets the stage for the development of deeply negative and inhibitory attitudes toward sexuality. Many people purchase or seek out materials and activities for their autoerotic behaviors. In the National Health and Social Life Survey (NHSLS), researchers found that 41% of men and 16% of women had engaged in an autoerotic activ- ity in the past year. Th e most common activities for men were viewing X-rated videos (23%) and visiting clubs with nude or seminude dancers (22%). Th e most common activity among women was also viewing videos (11%), followed by visiting clubs and viewing sexually explicit books or magazines (4% each). Sixteen percent of men reported purchasing explicit books or magazines. Other activities
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included using vibrators and other sex toys and calling sex phone lines (Laumann, Gagnon, Michael, & Michaels, 1994). Do people participate in autoerotic activities because they do not have a sex partner? Th e same survey found the opposite to be true (Laumann et al., 1994):
Th ose who engage in relatively little autoerotic activity are less likely to prefer a wider range of sexual techniques, are less likely to have a partner, and if they have a partner, are less likely to have sex frequently or engage in oral or anal sex. Similarly, individuals who engage in diff erent kinds of autoerotic activity more often fi nd a wider range of practices appealing and are more likely to have had at least one partner with whom they have sex frequently. Individuals who frequently think about sex, masturbate, and have used some type of pornography/erotica within the last year are much more likely to report enacting more elaborate interpersonal sexual scripts.
Sexual Fantasies and Dreams
Men and women, but especially men, think about sex often. According to sex researchers Harold Leitenberg and Kris Henning (1995), about 95% of men and women say that they have had sexual fantasies in one context or another. And a Details magazine study of more than 1,700 college students reported that 94% of men and 76% of women think about sex at least once a day (Elliott & Brantley, 1997). Erotic fantasy is probably the most universal of all sexual activities. Nearly every- one has experienced such fantasies, but because they touch on feelings or desires considered personally or socially unacceptable, they are not widely discussed. Fur- thermore, many people have “forbidden” sexual fantasies that they never act on. Whether occurring spontaneously or resulting from outside stimuli, fantasies are part of the body’s regular healthy functioning. Research indicates that sex- ual fantasies are related to sexual drives: the higher the sexual drive, the higher the frequency of sexual fantasies and level of satisfaction in one’s sex life (Leitenberg & Henning, 1995). Fantasies help create an equilibrium between our environment and our inner selves, as we seek a balance between the two. We use them to enhance our masturbatory experiences, as well as oral-genital sex, sexual intercourse, and other interpersonal experiences. A study of the sexual fantasies of 85 men and 77 women aged 21–45, recruited from a midsized midwestern city in the United States, found gender diff erences in fantasies, many of which refl ect common sexual scripts that both sexes learn from their culture (Zurbriggen & Yost, 2004):
■ Men’s fantasies, in contrast to women’s, were more sexually explicit and more likely involved multiple partners. Women’s fantasies were more emotional-romantic and more likely involved a single partner.
■ Men more often fantasized about dominance, and women fantasized more about submission. Men’s fantasies of dominance were associated with greater acceptance of rape myths, whereas women’s greater acceptance of rape myths was associated with emotional-romantic fantasy themes.
■ Women tended to mention fantasies related only to their own desire and pleasure, not to the desire and pleasure of their partners. In contrast, men mentioned the sexual desire and sexual pleasure of their partners as well as their own.
Grant yourself and your lover freedom of fantasy. Sexual fantasies are normal,
healthy and sex enhancing.
—Michael Castleman (1950–)
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• FIGURE 9.3 Devices Designed to Curb Masturbation. Because of the widespread belief in the nineteenth century that masturbation was harmful, various devices were introduced to prevent the behavior. (Sources: Crooks & Baur, 2005; Rathus, Nevid, & Fichner-Rathus, 2002.)
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Relative to the fantasy about sexual desire and pleasure, the researchers note that the traditional cultural heterosexual script has encouraged women to put their partner’s sexual desire and pleasure ahead of their own. Th ey conclude that “it makes sense, then, that in the realm of fantasy women might choose to emphasize their own needs rather than those of their male partners.” In regard to types of fantasies based on sexual orientation, Leitenberg and Henning (1995) found that the content of sexual fantasies for gay men and lesbian women tends to be the same as for their heterosexual counterparts, except that homosexuals imagine same-sex partners and heterosexuals imagine other-sex partners. In another study, Th omas Hicks and Harold Leitenberg (2001) found gen- der diff erences in the proportion of sexual fantasies that involved someone other than a current partner (extradyadic fantasies). In a sample of 349 university students and employees in heterosexual relationships, 98% of men and 80% of women reported having extradyadic fantasies in the past 2 months.
The Function of Sexual Fantasies Sexual fantasies have a number of impor- tant functions. First, they help direct and defi ne our erotic goals. Th ey take our generalized sexual drives and give them concrete images and specifi c con- tent. We fantasize about certain types of men or women and reinforce our attraction through fantasy involvement. Unfortunately, our fantasy model may be unreasonable or unattainable, which is one of the pitfalls of fantasy; we can imagine perfection, but we rarely fi nd it in real life. Second, sexual fantasies allow us to plan for or anticipate situations that may arise. Th ey provide a form of rehearsal, allowing us to practice in our minds how to act in various situations. Our fantasies of what might take place on a date, after a party, or in bed with our partner serve as a form of preparation. Th ird, sexual fantasies provide escape from a dull or oppressive environment. Routine or repetitive behavior often gives rise to fantasies as a way of coping with boredom. Fourth, even if our sex lives are satisfactory, we may indulge in sexual fantasies to bring novelty and excitement into the relationship. Fantasy off ers a safe outlet for sexual curiosity. One study found that some women are capable of experienc- ing orgasm solely through fantasy (Whipple, Ogden, & Komisaruk, 1992). Fifth, sexual fantasies have an expressive function in somewhat the same manner that dreams do. Our sexual fantasies may off er a clue to our current interests, pleasures, anxieties, fears, or problems. Repeated fantasies of extrady- adic relationships, for example, may signify deep dissatisfaction with a marriage, whereas mental images centering around erectile diffi culties may represent fears about sexuality or a particular relationship.
Fantasies During Sexual Expression A sizable number of people fantasize during sex. Th e fantasies are usually a continuation of daydreams or masturba- tory fantasies, transforming one’s partner into a famous, attractive Hollywood star, for example. Couples often believe that they should be totally focused on each other during sex and not have any thoughts about others, particularly sexual thoughts. However, during the passion of sex, many people have thoughts not only about their partner but also about others such as past lovers, acquain- tances, and movie stars. Many people feel guilty about such thoughts, feeling that they are being “mentally unfaithful” to their partner. Yet, sex therapists consider fantasies of other lovers to be quite normal and certainly typical. Women who fantasize about being forced into sexual activity or about being victimized do not necessarily want this to actually occur. Rather, these women
The only way to get rid of temptation is to yield to it.
—Oscar Wilde (1854–1900)
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When two people make love, there are at least four people present—the two
who are actually there and the two they are thinking about.
—Sigmund Freud (1856–1939)
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tend to be more interested in a variety of sexual activities and to be more sexually experienced than women who don’t have these fantasies.
Erotic Dreams Almost all of the men and two thirds of the women in Alfred Kinsey’s studies reported having had overtly erotic or sexual dreams (Kinsey, Pomeroy, & Martin, 1948; Kinsey, Pomeroy, Martin, & Gebhard, 1953). Sex- ual images in dreams are frequently very intense. Although people tend to feel responsible for their fantasies, which occur when they are awake, they are usu- ally less troubled by sexual dreams. Overtly sexual dreams are not necessarily exciting, although dreams that are apparently nonsexual may cause arousal. It is not unusual for individuals to awaken in the middle of the night and notice an erection or vaginal lubrication or to fi nd their bodies moving as if they were making love. Th ey may also experience nocturnal orgasm (or emission). About 2–3% of women’s total orgasms may be nocturnal, whereas for men the number may be around 8% (Kinsey et al., 1948, 1953). Dreams almost always accompany nocturnal orgasm. Th e dreamer may awaken, and men usually ejaculate. Although the dream content may not be overtly sexual, it is always accompanied by sensual sensations. Erotic dreams run the gamut of sexual possibilities: other-sex, same-sex, or autoerotic behav- ior; incestuous, dominant and submissive, bestial, or fetishistic behavior. Women seem to feel less guilty or fearful about nocturnal orgasms than men do, accepting them more easily as pleasurable experiences.
Masturbation
People report that they masturbate for several reasons: for relaxation, for relief of sexual tension, because a partner is not available or does not want sex, for physical pleasure, as an aid to falling asleep, and as a means to avoid STIs. Th ey may masturbate during particular periods or throughout their entire lives (see Table 9.2). For older adults, often after the loss of their partners,
MASTURBATION, n. An extremely disgusting act performed on a regular
basis by everyone else.
—Robert Tefton
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Female masturbation: Many people “discover” their sexual potential through masturbation. Sometimes, women learn to be orgasmic through masturbation and then bring this ability to their relationships.
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Note: Data based on 5,865 Americans.
SOURCE: Herbenick, D., et al. (2010). Sexual behavior in the United States: Results from a national probability sample of men and women aged 14–94. Journal of Sexual Medicine, 7, 255–265.
TABLE 9.2 • Percentage of Americans, ages 14–17�, Who Participated in Selected Sexual Behaviors in the Past Year
Age Groups
14–15 16–17 18–19 20–24 25–29 30–39 40–49 50–59 60–69 70�
Sexual Behavior
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Masturbated alone
62 40 75 45 81 60 83 64 84 72 80 63 76 65 72 54 61 47 46 33
Masturbated with partner
5 8 16 19 42 36 44 36 49 48 45 43 38 35 28 18 17 13 13 5
Received oral from women
12 1 31 5 54 4 63 9 77 3 78 5 62 2 49 1 38 1 19 2
Received oral from men
1 10 3 24 6 58 6 70 5 72 6 59 6 52 8 34 3 25 2 8
Gave oral to women
8 2 18 7 51 2 55 9 74 3 69 4 57 3 44 1 34 1 24 2
Gave oral to men
1 12 2 22 4 59 7 74 5 76 5 59 7 53 8 36 3 23 3 7
Vaginal intercourse
9 11 30 30 53 62 63 80 86 87 85 74 74 70 58 51 54 42 43 22
Received penis in anus
1 4 1 5 4 18 5 23 4 21 3 22 4 12 5 6 6 4 2 1
Inserted penis into anus
3 6 6 11 27 24 21 11 6 2
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masturbation regains much of the primacy of their earlier years and is often the most common sexual activity. Masturbation is an important means of learning about our bodies. Th rough masturbation, children and adolescents learn what is sexually pleasing, how to move their bodies, and what their natural rhythms are. Th e activity has no harmful physical eff ects. Although masturbation often decreases when indi- viduals are regularly sexual with another person, it is not necessarily a tempo- rary substitute for sexual intercourse but rather is a legitimate form of sexual activity in its own right. Sex therapists may encourage clients to masturbate as a means of overcoming specifi c sexual problems and discovering their personal sexual potential. Masturbation, whether practiced alone or mutually with a partner (see Figure 9.4), is also a form of safer sex. (See Chapter 6 for more information about masturbation and children and adolescents.)
Masturbation is an intrinsically and seriously disordered act.
—Vatican Declaration on Sexual Ethics, 1976
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Male masturbation: Masturbation is an important form of sexual behavior in which individuals explore their erotic capacities and bring pleasure to themselves.
• FIGURE 9.4 Mutual Masturbation. Many couples enjoy mutual masturbation, one form of safer sex.
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practically speaking
Masturbation guilt is a learned script in which the nega- tive aff ects of guilt, disgust, shame, and fear are related to masturbation (Abramson & Mosher, 1975). As discussed in this chapter, feelings of shame and guilt have long been associ- ated with masturbation, and a positive attitude has emerged only recently. Still, many people continue to feel guilty about their own masturbatory activity. Take this inventory to deter- mine how much you have been aff ected by negative messages about masturbation.
Directions
Indicate how true each of the following statements is for you, on a scale from “Not at all true” to “Very true,” by circling the appropriate number. Not at Very all true true
1. People masturbate to escape feelings of tension and anxiety. 1 2 3 4 5
2. People who masturbate will not enjoy sexual intercourse as much as those who refrain from masturbation. 1 2 3 4 5
3. Masturbation is a private matter which neither harms nor concerns anyone else. 1 2 3 4 5
4. Masturbation is a sin against yourself. 1 2 3 4 5
Not at Very all true true
5. Masturbation in childhood can help a person develop a natural, healthy attitude toward sex. 1 2 3 4 5
6. Masturbation in an adult is juvenile and immature. 1 2 3 4 5
7. Masturbation can lead to deviant sexual behavior. 1 2 3 4 5
8. Excessive masturbation is physically impossible, so it is needless to worry. 1 2 3 4 5
9. If you enjoy masturbating too much, you may never learn to relate to a sex partner. 1 2 3 4 5
10. After masturbating, a person feels degraded. 1 2 3 4 5
11. Experience with masturbation can potentially help a woman become orgasmic for sexual intercourse. 1 2 3 4 5
12. I feel guilt about masturbating. 1 2 3 4 5
13. Masturbation can be a “friend in need” when there is no “friend indeed.” 1 2 3 4 5
14. Masturbation can provide an outlet for sex fantasies without harming anyone else or endangering oneself. 1 2 3 4 5
Assessing Your Attitude Toward Masturbation
Prevalence of Masturbation As shown in Table 9.2, all 10 of the National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior (NSSHB) age groups incorporating men and women aged 14–70� reported solo masturbation and masturbation with partner in the past year. Figures 9.5 and 9.6 show the percentages of NSSHB men and women aged 18–39, by racial/ethnic group, who reported ever par- ticipating in solo masturbation or partnered masturbation. Both the table and fi gures indicate that masturbation is a common behavior that can be practiced alone or in a partnered relationship, occurs among all ages and ethnicities, and can be considered a typical and pleasurable part of an individual’s and a couple’s sexuality. A study of college undergraduates (78 men, 145 women) found that almost all of the men (98%) and the majority of women (64%) reported that they had masturbated in the past. Both indicated frequent masturbation: men aver- aging 36 times and women 14 times in the past 3 months. Th e study also examined factors that would predict frequent masturbation. For the college
Masturbation! The amazing availability of it!
—James Joyce (1882–1941)
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Not at Very all true true
15. Excessive masturbation can lead to problems with erections in men and women not being able to have an orgasm. 1 2 3 4 5
16. Masturbation is an escape mechanism which prevents a person from developing a mature sexual outlook. 1 2 3 4 5
17. Masturbation can provide harmless relief from sexual tension. 1 2 3 4 5
18. Playing with your own genitals is disgusting. 1 2 3 4 5
19. Excessive masturbation is associated with neurosis, depression, and behavioral problems. 1 2 3 4 5
20. Any masturbation is too much. 1 2 3 4 5
21. Masturbation is a compulsive, addictive habit which once begun is almost impossible to stop. 1 2 3 4 5
22. Masturbation is fun. 1 2 3 4 5
23. When I masturbate, I am disgusted with myself. 1 2 3 4 5
24. A pattern of frequent masturbation is associated with introversion and withdrawal from social contacts. 1 2 3 4 5
Not at Very all true true
25. I would be ashamed to admit publicly that I have masturbated. 1 2 3 4 5
26. Excessive masturbation leads to mental dullness and fatigue. 1 2 3 4 5
27. Masturbation is a normal sexual outlet. 1 2 3 4 5
28. Masturbation is caused by an excessive preoccupation with thoughts about sex. 1 2 3 4 5
29. Masturbation can teach you to enjoy the sensuousness of your own body. 1 2 3 4 5
30. After I masturbate, I am disgusted with myself for losing control of my body. 1 2 3 4 5
Scoring
To obtain an index of masturbation guilt, sum the circled num- bers to yield a score from 30 to 150. Before summing, reverse the scoring for these ten items: 3, 5, 8, 11, 13, 14, 17, 22, 27. That is, a 1 would be converted to a 5, a 2 to a 4, a 4 to a 2, and 5 to a 1. The lower your score, the lower your guilt about and negative attitude toward masturbation.
SOURCE: Adapted from Abramson, P. R., & Mosher, D. L. (1975). The development of a measure of negative attitudes toward masturbation. Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology, 43, 485–490. (Table 1, p. 487). Copyright © 1975 by the American Psychological Association. Adapted with permission. No further reproduction or distribution is permitted without written permission from the American Psychological Association.
men, higher frequency of masturbation occurred in men who believed that their peers masturbated frequently. And men who believed that masturbation was pleasurable also reported more frequent masturbation. For women, mas- turbation frequency was most associated with perceived pleasure and somewhat with the frequency of intercourse. Th e researchers concluded that, for this sample, perceived social norms, perceived pleasure, and sexual behaviors helped explain and understand masturbation among college students (Pinkerton, Bogart, Cecil, & Abramson, 2002). Masturbatory behavior is infl uenced by education, ethnicity, religion, and age, with education a particularly strong factor. Th e more educated one becomes, the more frequently he or she masturbates. A nationally representative British study of masturbation among the general population (ages 16–44) found that masturbation frequency was greater for both men and women with higher levels of education, in higher social classes, and at younger ages (Gerressu, Mercer, Graham, Wellings, & Johnson, 2008).
Masturbation is the primary sexual activity of [human] kind. In the
nineteenth century it was a disease; in the twentieth, it’s a cure.
—Thomas Szasz (1920–)
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Masturbation in Adulthood Masturbation is common among youth, peaks in young adulthood, and tends to decrease in later years (Table 9.2).
Women and Masturbation One way in which women become familiar with their own sexual responsiveness is through masturbation. Th e NSSHB found that the percentage of women who had masturbated in the preceding year ranged from 72% for the 25–29 age group to 33% for the 70� age group (Table 9.2) (Herbenick et al., 2010a). For women aged 18–39, 86%, 73%, and 68% of White, Black, and Hispanic women, respectively, reported ever masturbating alone and 63%, 56%, and 45% of White, Hispanic, and Black women reported ever experiencing partnered masturbation (Figure 9.5). (Reece et al., 2010c). Th e Brit- ish study of masturbation among the general population found that masturbation
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was more common among those who reported more frequent vaginal intercourse in the past 4 weeks, who had the greater repertoire of sexual behaviors such as oral and anal sex, who had the most sexual partners in the past year, who reported same-sex partners, and who were less religiously devout (Gerressu et al., 2008). Women who masturbate appear to hold more positive sexual attitudes and are more likely to be orgasmic than those who don’t (Kelly, Strassberg, & Kircher, 1990; Schnarch, 2002). Although the majority of women believe that orgasms experienced through masturbation diff er from those experienced in sexual inter- course, they feel the same levels of sexual satisfaction (Davidson & Darling, 1986). Th ough no two women masturbate in exactly the same manner, a number of common methods are used to achieve orgasm. Most involve some type of clitoral stimulation, by using the fi ngers, rubbing against an object, or using a vibrator. Th e rubbing or stimulation tends to increase just prior to orgasm and to continue during orgasm. Because the glans clitoris is often too sensitive for prolonged direct stimula- tion, women tend to stroke gently on the shaft of the clitoris. Another common method, which exerts less direct pressure on the clitoris, is to stroke the mons areas or the minor lips. Individual preferences play a key role in what method is chosen, how rigorous the stimulation is, how often masturbation occurs, and whether it is accompanied by erotic aids such as a vibrator or sensual oils. A number of women, for instance, may fi nd that running a stream of warm water over the vulva or sitting near the jet stream in a hot tub is sexually arousing. Stimulation of the breasts and nipples is also very common, as is stroking the anal region. Some women enjoy inserting a fi nger or other object into their vagina; however, this is less common than clitoral stimulation. Some women apply deep pressure in the region of the G-spot to give themselves a diff erent type of orgasm. Using common sense in relation to cleanliness, such as not inserting an object or fi nger from the anus into the vagina and keeping vibra- tors and other objects used for insertion clean, helps to prevent infection.
Men and Masturbation According to the NSSHB, the percentage of men reporting masturbation in the preceding year ranged from 84% in the 25–29 age group to 40% in the 70� age group (Table 9.2) (Herbenick et al., 2010a). For men aged 18–39, 96%, 93%, and 84% of Hispanic, White, and Black men, respectively, reported ever masturbating alone and 68%, 66%, and 39% of Hispanic, White, and Black men reported ever experiencing partnered mas- turbation (Figure 9.6) (Reece et al., 2010c). Th e study of masturbation of the British general population found that the prevalence of masturbation was higher among men reporting less frequent vaginal intercourse and among those reporting same-sex partners (Gerressu et al., 2008). Like women, men have individual preferences and patterns in masturbating. Nearly all methods involve some type of direct stimulation of the penis with the hand. Typically, the penis is grasped and stroked at the shaft, with up-and- down or circular movements of the hand, so that the edge of the corona around the glans and the frenulum on the underside are stimulated. How much pressure is applied, how rapid the strokes are, how many fi ngers are used, where the fi ngers are placed, and how far up and down the hands move vary from one man to another. Whether the breasts, testicles, anus, or other parts of the body are stimulated also depends on the individual, but it appears to be the up-and- down stroking or rubbing of the penis that triggers orgasm. Th e stroking tends to increase just prior to ejaculation and then to slow or stop during ejaculation.
What I like about masturbation is that you don’t have to talk afterwards.
—Milos Forman (1932–)
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To add variety or stimulation, some men may elect to use lubricants, visual or written erotic materials, artifi cial vaginas, infl atable dolls, or rubber pouches in which to insert their penis. Regardless of the aid or technique, it is impor- tant to pay attention to cleanliness to prevent bacterial infections.
Masturbation in Sexual Relationships Most people continue to masturbate after they marry or are in a steady relationship, although the rate is signifi cantly lower. Actually, the National Health and Social Life Survey (NHSLS) found that married people are less likely to have masturbated during the preceding 12 months than those never married or formerly married. About 57% and 37% of married men and women, respectively, reported having masturbated in the preceding year, as opposed to about 48% and 69% of formerly married and never-married men and women, respectively (Laumann et al., 1994). Th ere are many reasons for continuing the activity during marriage or other sexual relationships; for example, masturbation is pleasurable, a partner is away or unwilling, sexual intercourse is not satisfying, the partner(s) fear(s) sexual inadequacy, the individual acts out fantasies, or he or she seeks to release ten- sion. During times of relationship confl ict, masturbation may act as a distanc- ing device, with the masturbating partner choosing masturbation over sexual interaction as a means of emotional protection.
• Sexual Behavior With Others We often think that sex is sexual intercourse, but sex is not limited to sexual intercourse. Heterosexuals engage in a wide variety of sexual activities, which may include erotic touching, kissing, and oral and anal sex. Except for vaginal intercourse, gay and lesbian couples engage in basically the same sexual activi- ties as do heterosexuals. Which of these “sexual” activities actually constitute sex? Th is topic has been publicly debated, largely fueled by former president Clinton’s declaration that he did not have sex with Monica Lewinsky despite the fact that she performed fellatio on him. (To fi nd out what a representative sample of young adults believed constituted having “had sex,” see the “Th ink About It” box starting on page 280.)
Most Recent Partnered Sex
Like many national sex surveys, the NSSHB assessed the frequency of numer- ous sexual behaviors of which the major fi ndings are cited throughout this book (e.g., see Chapters 2 and 14). However, the NSSHB went beyond the typical sexual behavior statistics to assess other contextual factors during the last, sin- gle event of couple or partnered sex (Herbenick et al., 2010a). Th e contextual fi ndings from a nationally representative sample of 3,990 adults, aged 18–59 provide greater understanding of the circumstances and experiences of couple sex, such as where people have sex, with whom they have sex, and sexual func- tion during sex (e.g., pleasure, arousal, orgasm). Some of the more intriguing fi ndings give us a brief “snapshot” of the sexual repertoire of Americans’ reported last-partnered sexual event:
■ Most participants reported that their most recent sexual event occurred in their or their partner’s home.
■ Th e majority of the most recent sexual events occurred within a relationship or with a dating partner, although a sizable minority reported their most
Love is the self-delusion we manufacture to justify the trouble we take to have sex.
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recent sexual event occurred with a friend. However, most of the partici- pants aged 18–24 reported that their partner was a casual or dating partner.
■ Th e vast majority, but not all, reported that their most recent sexual event was with an other-sex partner.
■ An enormous variability in the sexual repertoire of the participants was found, with a diverse range of sexual behaviors in a given sexual episode.
■ Penile-vaginal intercourse was the most commonly reported sexual behavior of both men and women during the most recent sexual event, although oral sex (given and received) occurred frequently.
■ Th e largest proportion of men and women reported engaging solely in penile-vaginal intercourse during their most recent sexual event, although some indicated participating solely in noncoital behaviors such as part- nered oral sex and masturbation.
■ Most men and women reported that neither they nor their partner used alcohol or marijuana around the time of their most recent sexual event.
Findings related to the participants’ evaluation of their most recent partnered sexual event—such as arousal, pleasure, orgasm, and sexual function diffi culties— will be reported in the chapter on sexual function problems (Chapter 14).
Couple Sexual Styles
Barry McCarthy, a psychologist and renowned sex therapist, and his wife, Emily McCarthy, in their book Discovering Your Couple Sexual Style (2009), challenge couples, married or not, to develop a mature sexuality rather than adhering to unrealistic expectations of sexuality. Th e McCarthys contend that each couple develops their own sexual style. Th e challenge is for each partner to maintain individuality and also experience being part of an intimate, erotic sexual couple. Th ey state, in talking to couples, that “it takes most couples six months or longer to transition from the romantic love/passionate sex/idealized phase to develop a mature, intimate couple sexual style” (p. 33). Th ey continue by tell- ing couples that they can develop a mutually comfortable level of intimacy that promotes sexual desire and eroticism and provides energy for their relationship. Th e McCarthys identify four couple sexual styles and state that there is no “right” style that is best for all couples. Th ey state that most couples maintain their core sexual style because it is comfortable and satisfying, but they also encour- age couples to make adjustments and modifi cations as the relationship continues.
Complementary Style Th is is the most common sexual style and it allows each partner to have a positive sexual voice yet share as an intimate relationship. Th e couples who choose this style realize that the best aphrodisiac is an involved, aroused partner. Each partner is responsible for his or her sexual desire and response and feels free to initiate sex, say no to sex, and request a diff erent sexual scenario. In this style, it is not the partner’s role to give the partner an orgasm, but rather to be an intimate friend receptive and responsive to the partner’s sexual feelings and preferences. Th e strength of this style is its variability, fl exibility, and the value each person places on intimacy and eroticism. A possible vulnerability is that sex can become routine and, if the couple takes sex and each other for granted, they may become disappointed and frustrated in their sexual relationship.
Traditional Style Th is is the most predictable and stable style and is often called “acceptance and security” as it places high value on keeping the peace,
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commitment, and stability. In this confl ict-minimizing relationship, traditional gender scripts of sex being the man’s domain and aff ection and intimacy being the woman’s domain are paramount. Since emotional and erotic expression is discouraged, this is the least intimate and erotic couple sexual style, with sex being a lower priority than it is in the other couple sexual styles. Th e male initiates sex and the female is less erotically active but is open to the male prefer- ences. Th e strength of this style is predictability, security, and clearly defi ned roles, with sex rarely becoming an explosive issue. Th e vulnerability is that this style does not have enough mutually and sexual intimacy and, of all the couple sexual styles, it is most resistant to change.
Soulmate Style Being soulmates means experiencing the highest level of intimacy and closeness, a sexual couple style that has been considered the “perfect”style. Th ese couples share feelings, spend a lot of time together, enjoy shared experiences, and place a high priority on meeting each other’s needs. Th e fundamental tenet of this style is that the greater the intimacy,
think about it
When people say they “had sex,” “hooked up,” or “did some things” but did not have sex, what do they mean? Many people have diff erent ideas about what it means to have sex; it all depends on the behavioral criteria they use. Social and legal defi nitions of “sex” and crimes related to “having sex” vary and are sometimes vague, depending on the source. Some defi nitions may be used by
couples or individuals to justify a wide range of intimate behaviors other than penile-vaginal intercourse or penile-anal intercourse in order to, for example, preserve or lose their virginity, not to “have cheated” on another person, or to believe they had sex. Without a universal defi nition of “having sex,” confusion or false assumptions can result (Sanders & Reinisch, 1999).
Percentage of 18–29-year-old Indiana residents (31 females, 31 males) answering “yes” to the question “Would you say you ‘had sex’ with someone if the most intimate behavior you engaged in was . . . ?
Behavior % of Women % of Men
You touched, fondled, or manually stimulated a partner’s genitals 29.0 9.7 A partner touched, fondled, or manually stimulated your genitals 32.3 16.7 You had oral (mouth) contact with a partner’s genitals 61.3 33.3 A partner had oral (mouth) contact with your genitals 67.7 40.0 Penile-vaginal intercourse 93.5 96.7 Penile-vaginal intercourse with no ejaculation; that is, the man did not “come” 93.5 90.0 Penile-vaginal intercourse with no female orgasm; that is, the woman did not “come” 90.3 96.7 Penile-vaginal intercourse, but very brief 96.8 96.7 Penile-vaginal intercourse with a condom 93.5 100 Penile-anal intercourse 83.9 76.7 Penile-anal intercourse with no male ejaculation 83.9 76.7 Penile-anal intercourse with no female orgasm 83.9 76.7 Penile-anal intercourse, but very brief 83.9 76.2 Penile-anal intercourse with a condom 83.9 83.3
SOURCES: Sanders, S. A., Hill, B. J., Yarber, W. L., Graham, C. A., Crosby, R. A., & Milhausen, R. R. (2010). Misclassifi cation bias: Diversity in conceptualizations about having “had sex.” Sexual Health, 7 (Suppl. 5), 31–34; Yarber, W. L., Sanders, S. A., Graham, C. A., Crosby, R. A., & Milhausen, R. R. (2007, November). Public opinion about what behaviors constitute “having sex”: A state-wide telephone survey in Indiana. Paper presented at the annual meeting of The Society for the Scientifi c Study of Sexuality, Indianapolis, IN.
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the better the couple sex. Th e advantages of this style are a feeling of being accepted for who one truly is; feeling loved, desired, and desirable; and not having a fear of judgment or rejection. When working well, this style really meets the partners’ needs for intimacy and security. A major danger of this style is that too much closeness and predictability can subvert sexuality and partners can “de-eroticize” each other. Th at is, a person can become so close to their partner that they lose erotic feelings for him or her. In this style, the couple is hesitant to face the problems that come up in their relation- ship. Persons in this style need to be autonomous enough to maintain their own sexual voice, and partners should be committed to integrating intimacy and eroticism.
Emotionally Expressive Style Th is style is the most erotic style and is dominated with strong emotion and drama. Each partner is free to share positive and negative passions in word and deed. Of the four couple sexual styles, this one is the most engaging, exciting, fun, and unpredictable. It
SOURCES: Byers, F. S., Henderson, J., & Hobson, K. M. (2009). University students’ defi nitions of sexual abstinence and having sex. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 38, 665–674. Randall, H. E., & Byers, E. S. (2003). What is sex? Students’ defi nitions of having sex, sexual partner, and unfaithful sexual behavior. Canadian Journal of Human Sexuality, 12, 87–96; Sanders, S., & Reinisch, J. (1999). Would you say you “had sex” if . . . ? Journal of the American Medical Association, 281, 275–277.
Researchers at The Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gen- der, and Reproduction and the Rural Center for AIDS/STD Pre- vention at Indiana University conducted a public opinion study of a representative sample of adults to determine if certain sex- ual behaviors, as well as whether male ejaculation, female or- gasm, condom use, or brevity during penile-vaginal intercourse or penile-anal intercourse, are considered “having sex.” The opin- ions of 482 adult Indiana residents of varying ages were ob- tained by telephone, using random digital dialing. (Results of the participants, ages 18–29, are shown in the table on the previous page.) Not surprisingly, nearly all of the participants considered penile-vaginal intercourse—even under the specifi c circum- stances listed—as having “had sex.” This was basically true for penile-anal intercourse, although the percentage indicating “yes” was not quite as high. As expected, the percentage indicating “yes” to oral sex and manual stimulation of the genitals was less than intercourse; interestingly, the responses varied consider- ably by gender with a much greater percentage of women than men indicating “yes” to these two behaviors. Two additional studies of college students further our understanding of young adults’ defi nition of “having sex.” A study of 164 heterosexual Canadian university students not only asked their views of what constitutes “having sex,” but also examined what constitutes a sexual partner and what they con- sider to be “unfaithful” in a sexual partner. The results showed discrepancies in the students’ opinions on these three issues. For example, although 25% of the students considered oral- genital behaviors as having sex, more than 60% thought that the giver or receiver of oral sex was a sex partner, and more than 97% considered a sex partner who had oral sex with some- one else to have been unfaithful (Randall & Byers, 2003). Further, while masturbating to orgasm in the presence of another
person was considered as having sex by less than 4% of the stu- dents, 34% reported that this behavior would make that person a sexual partner and 95% considered it to be unfaithful if done with someone else. Lastly, another study of 298 heterosexual Canadian university students asked about their defi nitions of the terms “abstinence” and “having sex,” resulting in some intriguing results. For exam- ple, the researchers found a clear consensus that deep kissing was considered abstinence with a majority viewing nongenital behaviors such as showering together and breast play as absti- nence. As other studies have found, there was a consensus that penile-vaginal and penile-anal activities did not constitute sex- ual abstinence (Byers, Henderson, & Hobson, 2009).
Think Critically 1. Do any of the results of the research studies on the
defi nition of “having sex” surprise you? Do you agree or disagree with the fi ndings?
2. Does it make any diff erence how “having sex” is defi ned?
3. How do you defi ne “having sex”? Has your defi nition changed over time?
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includes a focus on external stimuli to enhance eroticism while downplaying intimacy. Th e openness to emotional and sexual expression and spontaneity are major strengths of this style. Th is style is the most resilient and engaging of the four styles, and couples often use sex to reconnect after a confl ict. Th e major drawback of this style is that it is the highest in relational instability. Th ese couples “wear each other out” with all of their emotional upheavals. Partners in this sexual style should honor personal boundaries and not be hurtful when the issue involves sexuality.
Touching
Whether sex begins with the heart or the genitals, touch is the fi re that melds the two into one. Touching is both a sign of caring and a signal for arousal. Touching does not need to be directed solely toward the genitals or eroge- nous zones. Th e entire body is responsive to a touch or a caress. Even hand- holding can be sensual for two people sexually attracted to each other. Women appear to be especially responsive to touch, but traditional male gender roles give little signifi cance to touching. Some men regard touching as simply a prelude to intercourse. When this occurs, touch is transformed into a demand for intercourse rather than an expression of intimacy or erotic play. Th e man’s partner may become reluctant to touch or show aff ection for fear her gestures will be misinterpreted as a sexual invitation. William Masters and Virginia Johnson (1970) suggest a form of touching they call “pleasuring.” Pleasuring is nongenital touching and caressing. Nei- ther partner tries to sexually stimulate the other; they simply explore, discov- ering how their bodies respond to touching. One partner guides the other partner’s hand over her or his body, telling her or him what feels good; the roles are then reversed. Such sharing gives each a sense of his or her own responses; it also allows each to discover what the other likes and dislikes. We can’t assume we know what a particular person likes, for there is too much variation among people: Watching a partner masturbate can provide clues on how he or she likes to be stimulated. Pleasuring opens the door to commu- nication; couples discover that the entire body, not just the genitals, is erog- enous. Actually, Masters and Johnson (1970) noted that women tend to prefer genital touching after general body contact, whereas many men prefer stroking of their genitals early. Some forms of touching are directly sexual, such as caressing, fondling, or rubbing our own or our partner’s genitals or breasts. Sucking or licking earlobes, the neck, toes, or the insides of thighs, palms, or arms can be highly stimulat- ing. Oral stimulation of a woman’s or man’s breasts or nipples is often exciting. Moving one’s genitals or breasts over a partner’s face, chest, breasts, or genitals is very erotic for some people. Th e pressing together of bodies with genital thrusting is called tribidism, “dry humping,” or “scissoring” among heterosexual couples. Many lesbian women enjoy the overall body contact and eroticism of this form of genital stimulation; sometimes, the partners place their pelvic areas together to provide mutual clitoral stimulation (Figure 9.7). Rubbing the penis between the thighs of a partner is a type of touching called interfemoral intercourse. Heterosexual couples who do not use contraception must be sure the man does not ejaculate near the vaginal opening so as to avoid conception, however unlikely it may be.
I scarcely seem to be able to keep my hands off you.
—Ovid (43 BCE–17 CE)
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Sex, indeed, has been called the highest form of touch. In the profoundest sense,
touch is the true language of sex.
—Ashley Montagu (1905–1999)
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Stimulating a partner’s clitoris or penis with the hand or fi ngers can increase excitement and lead to orgasm. A word of caution: Direct stim- ulation of the clitoral glans may be painful for some women at specifi c stages of arousal, so stimulation of either side of the clitoris may work better. Certainly, the clitoris and sur- rounding areas should be moist before much touching is done. Inserting a fi nger or fi ngers into a partner’s wet vagina and rhythmically moving it at the pace she likes can also be pleas- ing. Some women like to have their clitoris licked or stimulated with one hand while their vagina is being penetrated with the other. Men like having their penises lubricated so that their partner’s hand glides smoothly over the shaft and glans penis. (Be sure to use a water-based lubricant if you plan to use a condom later, because oil-based lubricants may cause the condom to deteriorate.) Masturbating while one partner is holding the other can be highly erotic for both people. Mutual masturbation can also be intensely sexual. Some people use sex toys such as dildos, vibrators, or ben-wah balls to enhance sexual touching. (Th ese are dis- cussed in Chapter 14.) Th e Advocate, a magazine focusing on gay and lesbian issues, conducted a survey of its readers concerning relationships and sexuality. A strong majority of the lesbian women said they loved many nongenital, touching activities: 91% loved hugging, caressing, and cuddling; 82% loved French kissing; 74% loved simply holding hands. Th ree quarters loved both touching a woman’s genitals and having their own touched. About 80% enjoyed caressing another woman’s breasts or sucking her nipples; 68% enjoyed receiving such attention (Lever, 1995). For 85% of gay men, hugging, kissing, and snuggling were also the favorite activities (Lever, 1994).
Touching can increase relaxation and enhance intimacy.
• FIGURE 9.7 Tribidism
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Sex therapist and psychologist Barry McCarthy and his wife, Emily McCarthy, have conceptualized fi ve dimensions of touch from aff ection to intercourse. In a novel way, they frame the fi ve touches as gears of a stick-shift automobile. See the box “Th ink About It” on page 285 to learn more about the fi ve gears of touch.
Kissing
Kissing is usually our earliest interpersonal sexual experience, and its primal intensity may be traced back to our suckling as infants. Th e kiss is magic: Fairy tales keep alive the ancient belief that a kiss can undo spells and bring a prince or princess back to life. Parental kisses show love and often remedy the small hurts and injuries of childhood. Kissing is probably the most acceptable of all sexual activities. Th e tender lover’s kiss symbolizes love, and the erotic lover’s kiss, of course, simultaneously represents and is passion. Both men and women regard kissing as a romantic expression, a symbol of aff ection as well as desire. Th e lips and mouth are highly sensitive to touch and are exquisitely erotic parts of our bodies. Kisses discover, explore, and excite the body. Th ey also involve the senses of taste and smell, which are especially important because they activate unconscious memories and associations. Often, we are aroused by familiar smells associated with particular sexual memories, such as a person’s body scent or a perfume or fragrance. In some languages—among the Borne- ans, for example—the word “kiss” literally translates as “smell.” In fact, among the Eskimos and the Maoris of New Zealand, there is no mouth kissing, only the touching of noses to facilitate smelling. Although kissing may appear innocent, it is in many ways the height of intimacy. Th e adolescent’s fi rst kiss is often regarded as a milestone, a rite of pas- sage, the beginning of adult sexuality. It is an important developmental step, marking the beginning of a young person’s sexuality. (To fi nd out the meanings of kissing, including their fi rst kiss, among a sample of college students, see the “Th ink About It” box on page 286.) Th e amount of kissing diff ers according to sexual orientation. Lesbian couples tend to engage in more kissing than heterosexual couples, while gay couples kiss less than heterosexual couples (Blumstein & Schwartz, 1983). Ordinary kissing is considered safer sex. French kissing is probably safe, unless the kiss is hard and draws blood or either partner has open sores or cuts in or around the mouth.
Oral-Genital Sex
In recent years, oral sex has become a part of many people’s sexual scripts. Th e two types of oral-genital sex are cunnilingus and fellatio, which may be performed singly or simultaneously. Recall from Chapter 1 that cunni- lingus is the erotic stimulation of a woman’s vulva and/or clitoris by her partner’s mouth and tongue. Recall, too, that fellatio is the oral stimulation of a man’s penis by his partner’s sucking and licking. When two people orally stimulate each other simultaneously, their activity is sometimes called “sixty- nine.” Th e term comes from the confi guration “69,” which visually suggests the activity. For people of every orientation (especially among high school and college students), oral sex is an increasingly important aspect of their sexual selves. Th e
The kiss originated when the fi rst male reptile licked the fi rst female reptile,
implying in a subtle, complimentary way that she was as succulent as the small reptile he had for dinner the night before.
—F. Scott Fitzgerald (1896–1940)
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If it’s uplift you’re after, if it’s that thrust, stop talking, put lips and tongue to
other use.
—Horace (65–8 BCE)
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As for the topsy turvy tangle known as soixante-neuf, personally I have always
felt it to be madly confusing, like trying to pat your head and rub your stomach at the same time.
—Helen Lawrenson (1904–1982)
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think about it
The essence of sexuality is giving and receiving pleasure-oriented touching.
—McCarthy & McCarthy (2009, p. 31)
Sex therapist and psychologist Barry McCarthy and his wife, Emily McCarthy, in their book Discovering Your Couple Sexual Style (2009), state that healthy sexual couples learn to value a range of ways to connect and reconnect physically and emotionally as a way to maintain a vital, satisfying sexuality. One important way this is done is through pleasure-oriented, nondemanding touch ranging from aff ectionate touch to intercourse touch. Sexual expression often does not include intercourse and nondemand pleasuring affi rms the value of nonintercourse touch. The McCarthys state that “touch counts, whether it eventually proceeds to intercourse or not.” Actually, sex often does not include intercourse. The concept of pleasure-oriented touch options helps negate the traditional male-female sexual script and power struggle about sex. Typically, the man pushes for intercourse and perceives touch only as “foreplay”; this often results in the woman feeling pressured rather than invited and confl icted about initiating touch unless she wants to have intercourse. With an “intercourse or nothing” perspective, other pleasure-oriented touch is devalued and often left out. The McCarthys use a meta- phor, the “gears of connection,” as a way to conceptualize fi ve touch dimensions: aff ection, sensuality, playfulness, erotic non- intercourse, and intercourse. Imagine the fi ve touch dimensions as the fi ve gears of a stick-shift car where one starts with the fi rst gear and shifts through the gears, all the way to fi fth. A 10-point scale of sexual arousal is used: 0 is neutral, 5 is the beginning of sexual touch, and 10 is orgasm. First gear: Aff ectionate touch. This type of touch involves en- joying the same warm, romantic experiences as when a couple fi rst meets. It is a genuine “reaching out” to the other person, feeling safe and connected, which facilitates receptivity to sen- sual and sexual connection. Examples of aff ectionate touch are clothes-on interactions such as holding hands, hugging, kissing, and walking arm-in-arm. This gear is a 1 on the 10-point scale and is not sexual, but it is an important part of an intimate rela- tionship. Knowing that gear 1 is as far as the interaction may get can enhance the joy of the moment. Second gear: The sensual gear. Being in the 2–4 range of the 10-point arousal continuum, this gear can be engaged in with clothes on, semi-clothed, or nude and includes touching the body, except the genitals. This nongenital touching gear is la- beled nondemand pleasuring by sex therapists, meaning that the person enjoys giving touch and pleasure but does not ex- pect anything in return except the good feelings of the touch. Neither partner demands moving beyond gear 2. Examples are cuddling while watching television or a DVD, kissing and cud- dling before going to sleep, giving and receiving a back rub, and cradling each other with arms intertwined.
Giving and Receiving Pleasurable Touch: “Gears of Connection”
Third gear: The playful gear. This gear involves playful non- genital and genital touching, while either nude or seminude. Playful touch can be fun, inviting, unpredictable and is 4–6 on the 10-point arousal scale. Called genital pleasuring by sex ther- apists, examples of playful touch are full-body massages, show- ering or bathing together, and playing with the other’s body. Playful touch, like the other gears, has value in itself, but it can also be a bridge to sexual desire and intercourse. Fourth gear: The erotic gear. Being 7–10 on the 10-point arousal scale, this gear involves erotic, nonintercourse touch and includes manual and oral genital touch, rubbing, and vibra- tor stimulation leading to high arousal and orgasm for one or both partners. Hence, this is the most challenging gear for cou- ples to enjoy without feeling pressure to transition to inter- course. This gear often leads to intercourse, but has value in itself as an erotic alternative to intercourse. Numerous erotic scenarios and techniques are possible in fourth gear that can be rewarding in themselves. Fifth gear: Intercourse. Fifth gear involves intercourse but is conceptualized diff erently than the “sex equals intercourse” perspective in that it is considered merely as one dimension of pleasure-oriented touch. Some couples hurry through the fi rst four gears in a race to intercourse (called sexual “drag racing”). Some transition to intercourse soon after reaching a high enough level that they can have intercourse, usually at level 5 on the 10-point arousal scale, though couples can learn to savor the pleasure-oriented touch of various types and not transition to intercourse until they are highly aroused, at 7 or 8 on the 10-point scale. Intercourse then occurs as part of a continuing erotic fl ow. Further, couples who enjoy multiple stimulation techniques during pleasuring can incorporate these behaviors during intercourse to enhance sexual function and satisfaction. Touch is an invitation to share pleasure. Learning about each other’s touch will help a couple nurture and develop their sexual style. The McCarthys state that “in celebrating the everyday joys of loving each other and incorporating all fi ve dimensions of touch into your relationship, you can learn to value a variable, fl exible sexuality, which maintains couple vitality and satisfac- tion” (p. 31).
Think Critically 1. What message does the “intercourse or nothing”
stance convey to men and women? And what would be the benefi ts of dismissing this concept?
2. Why do many couples fall into the “sexual drag racing” trap?
3. What can be done to help couples to accept and value all of the “gears of connection”?
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Is there more to kissing than just lips touching? Surprisingly, there has been little scientifi c research on this topic, although philosophers have written about “the kiss” for centuries. How- ever, a seminal study on college students and kissing published in the scientifi c journal Evolutionary Psychology revealed that a lot of information is exchanged during kissing (Hughes, Harrison, & Gallup, 2007). The study, involving in-depth interviews, provided a descriptive account of kissing behavior in a sample of 1,041 undergraduate students (limited to those indicating kiss- ing preference only or mostly with the other sex) at a large uni- versity in the eastern United States. About 70% of the students reported kissing six or more people, and 20% estimated to have kissed more than 20 people; no diff erences were found between men and women in the number of kissing partners nor the age of fi rst romantic kiss. An intriguing fi nding of the study was that a nearly equal number of men and women noted that a bad kiss is a “deal- breaker,” often leading to the ending of a potential new relation- ship. Fifty-nine percent of men and 66% of women said they were attracted to someone until they kissed the person; then they were no longer interested. One of the study’s researchers, Gordon Gallup, stated that while a kiss may not make a relation- ship, it can kill one and that “there may be unconscious mecha- nisms that would make people make an assessment of genetic compatibility through a kiss” (Gordon, quoted in Best, 2007). The research by Hughes and colleagues (2007) suggests that the meanings associated with kissing vary considerably between men and women. In this study, women placed more signifi cance on kissing as a way of assessing the person as a potential mating partner and as a means of initiating, bonding, maintaining, and monitoring the current status of a long-term relationship. Men, on the other hand, placed less emphasis on kissing, especially with short-term partners, and appeared to use kissing as a means to an end—that is, to gain sexual access. About one half of the men, in contrast to one third of the women, assumed that kissing would lead to sex whether they were in a short-term or long-term relationship. Gallup notes that kissing for males is one way of keeping their partners physically interested, stating that “as a consequence of male saliva ex- change extending over a long period of time, it’s conceivable that the testosterone in male saliva can stimulate female sex hormones and make females more receptive to sex” (Gordon, quoted in Best, 2007). Other notable gender diff erences found in the study:
■ Taste and smell of the person was more important to women. ■ Women were more likely to rebuff sex with a partner unless
they kissed fi rst.
The First Kiss: A Deal-Breaker?
■ More women indicated that they would refuse to have sex with a bad kisser.
■ Men were more likely to desire exchanging saliva during a kiss, showing greater preference for tongue contact and open-mouth kissing.
■ Men were more likely to believe that kissing could stop a fi ght.
■ More men felt that it was OK to kiss on the fi rst date and it was OK for the female partner to make the move for the fi rst kiss.
The fi rst kiss is a memorable, once-in-lifetime experience. A study of 356 heterosexual students at a large university in the western United States examined the emotional responses that commonly accompany the fi rst kiss (Regan, Shen, De La Pena, & Gosset, 2007). The researchers found that most reported an array of emotions—dread, nervousness, fright, awkwardness, and confusion—as they approached their fi rst kiss. They found that emotions shifted during the kiss. For men, their anxiety and fear was replaced with elation, happiness, sexual arousal, enjoyment, and other positive feelings. Women experienced a mixed reac- tion: disgust, uncertainty, boredom, enjoyment, tenderness, and excitement. Following the fi rst kiss, most men continued to feel positive responses, but some experienced embarrassment and other negative feelings. For women, although many reported positive feelings, negative responses such as disappointment, regret, and distress were more commonly experienced.
Think Critically 1. Do you agree that a bad fi rst kiss can be a potentially
new relationship “deal-breaker”? Has this happened to you?
2. How important is kissing to you in a relationship? 3. What is a good kiss? Should a kiss lead to sexual
intercourse? 4. What were your experiences with your fi rst kiss?
SOURCES: Best, K. (2007, December 17). Kiss and tell: Smooches make or break a relationship. Indianapolis Star, p. E1; Hughes, S. M., Harrison, M. A., & Gallup, G. G. (2007). Sex diff erences in romantic kissing among college students: An evolutionary perspective. Evolutionary Psychology, 5, 612–631; Regan, P. C., Shen, W., De La Pena, E., & Gosset, E. (2007). “Fireworks exploded in my mouth”: Aff ective responses before, during, and after the very fi rst kiss. International Journal of Sexual Health, 19(2), 1–16; Stein, R. On this you can rely: A kiss is fundamental. Indianapolis Star, p. A4.
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percentages of American men and women who received oral sex in the past year from either a man or a woman and gave oral sex to either a man or a woman, by the 10 NSSHB age groups, are shown in Table 9.2. Also, the per- centages of men and women aged 18–39 who had ever given oral sex to a partner or received oral sex from a partner are shown in Figures 9.5 and 9.6. Sociologists Philip Blumstein and Pepper Schwartz (1983) found that 50% of gay couples, 39% of lesbian couples, and 30% of heterosexual couples usually or always had oral sex as part of their lovemaking routine. A study of university students of both sexes revealed that a person’s atti- tudes toward his or her genitals may be an important facet of sexual interac- tion (Reinholtz & Muehlenhard, 1995). Someone who believes his or her genitals are attractive and sexy may be more comfortable during sexual inter- action than someone who feels self-conscious about them. Furthermore, this same study found that the vast majority of participants who had engaged in oral sex had both performed and received it. According to a study of nearly 2,000 college students, almost all of the students who ever had sexual inter- course had also engaged in oral sex, in contrast to only about 1 in 4 virgins having had oral sex (Chambers, 2007). In comparing both sexes, men reported more pleasure in receiving and giving oral sex than women. Nearly all of the sample cited the pleasure of their partner as the most important reason they gave or received oral sex. Th e study also found that the students, particularly the women, perceived oral sex as less intimate than intercourse. Most study participants noted that they felt comfortable engaging in oral sex in a com- mitted relationship. According to a survey of lesbian and gay sexuality, about 7 in 10 lesbian women and gay men enjoy giving and receiving oral sex (Lever, 1994).
Cunnilingus In cunnilingus, a woman’s genitals are stimulated by her part- ner’s tongue and mouth, which gently and rhythmically caress and lick her clitoris and the surrounding area (Figure 9.8). During arousal, the mouth and
• FIGURE 9.8 Cunnilingus
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lips can nibble, lick, and kiss the inner thighs, stomach, and mons pubis and then move to the sensitive labia minora clitoral area. Orgasm may be brought on by rhythmically stimulating the clitoris. During cunnilingus, some women also enjoy insertion of a fi nger into the vagina or anus for extra stimulation. Many women fi nd cunnilingus to be the easiest way to reach orgasm because it provides such intense stimulation. Among lesbian women, cunnilingus is a common activity for achieving orgasm. According to one study, however, as many as 25% of the lesbian women rarely or never engaged in cunnilingus (Blumstein & Schwartz, 1983). Instead, they relied on holding, kissing, manual stimulation, and pressing them- selves erotically against each other. Nevertheless, the more often the women in the study had oral sex, the more likely they were to be satisfi ed with their sex lives and partners. Some women, however, have concerns regarding cunnilingus. Th e most com- mon worries revolve around whether the other person is enjoying it and, espe- cially, whether the vulva has an unpleasant odor. Concerns about vaginal odors may be eased by washing. Undeodorized white soap will wash away unpleasant smells without disturbing the vagina’s natural erotic scent. If an unpleasant odor arises from the genitals, it may be because the woman has a vaginal infection. A woman may also worry that her partner is not enjoying the experience because she or he is giving pleasure rather than receiving it. What she may not recognize is that such sexual excitement is often mutual. Because our mouths and tongues are erotically sensitive, the giver fi nds erotic excitement in arousing her or his partner.
Fellatio In fellatio, a man’s penis is taken into his partner’s mouth. Th e part- ner licks the glans penis and gently stimulates the shaft (Figure 9.9). Also, the scrotum may be gently licked. If the penis is not erect, it usually will become erect within a short time. Th e partner sucks more vigorously as excitement increases, down toward the base of the penis and then back up, in a rhythmi- cal motion, being careful not to bite hard or scrape the penis with the teeth. While the man is being stimulated by mouth, his partner can also stroke the
• FIGURE 9.9 Fellatio
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shaft of the penis by hand. Gently playing with the testicles is also arousing as long as they are not held too tightly. As in cunnilingus, the couple should experiment to discover what is most stimulating and exciting. Th e man should be careful not to thrust his penis too deeply into his partner’s throat, for that may cause a gag refl ex. He should let his partner control how deeply the penis goes into the mouth. Th e partner can do this by grasping the penis below his or her lips so that the depth of insertion can be controlled. Furthermore, gag- ging is less likely when the one performing fellatio is on top. Th e gag refl ex can also be reconditioned by slowly inserting the penis into the mouth at increasing depth over time. Some women feel that fellatio is more intimate than sexual intercourse; others feel that it is less intimate. It is the most com- mon form of sexual activity performed on men by prostitutes (Monto, 2001). Most men fi nd fellatio to be highly arousing. For gay men, fellatio is an important component of their sexuality. As with sexual intercourse for heterosexual men, however, fellatio is only one activity in their sexual repertoire. Generally, the more often gay couples engage in giving and receiving oral sex, the more satisfi ed they are (Blumstein & Schwartz, 1983). Because oral sex often involves power symbolism, reciprocity is important. If one partner always performs oral sex, he may feel he is subordinate to the other. Th e most satisfi ed gay couples alternate between giving and receiving oral sex. A common concern about fellatio centers around ejaculation. Should a man ejaculate into his partner’s mouth? Some people fi nd semen to be slightly bit- ter, but others like it. Some fi nd it exciting to suck even harder on the penis during or following ejaculation; others do not like the idea of semen in the mouth. For many, a key issue is whether to swallow the semen. Some swallow it; others spit it out. It is simply a matter of personal preference, and the man who is receiving fellatio should accept his partner’s feelings about it and avoid equating a dislike for swallowing semen with a personal rejection. Some men try to provide oral stimulation to their own penis, a practice called autofellatio. Kinsey and his colleagues (Kinsey et al., 1948) found that many males try this behavior, but less than 1% of their sample were actually able to achieve it.
Sexual Intercourse
Sexual intercourse is the more common, less technical name for vaginal inter- course, penile-vaginal intercourse, or coitus. Sometimes, sexual intercourse is also used to describe penile-anal sex. But, for our discussion here, we mean penile-vaginal intercourse when we use the term “sexual intercourse.” Sexual intercourse has intense personal meaning; it is a source of pleasure, communi- cation, connection, and love. If forced, however, it becomes an instrument of aggression and pain. Its meaning changes depending on the context in which we engage in it. How we feel about sexual intercourse may depend as much on the feelings and motives we bring to it as on the techniques we use or the orgasms we experience. Being the most valued and sought-after sexual behavior among persons desiring sex with the other sex, the prevalence of sexual inter- course is very high, as shown in Table 9.2 and Figures 9.5 and 9.6.
The Signifi cance of Sexual Intercourse Although sexual intercourse is important for most sexually involved couples, the signifi cance of it often diff ers between men and women. For many men, “sex equals intercourse” and its occurrence is the pass-fail performance test. Most men have one orgasm that
The sexual act is in time what the tiger is in space.
—Georges Bataille (1897–1962)
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Sex is the great amateur art.
—David Cort“
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occurs during the intercourse part of a sexual episode. For many heterosexual women, however, intercourse is the most central but not the only component of their sexual satisfaction. More than any other heterosexual sexual activity, sexual intercourse can involve equal participation by both partners. Both partners equally and simultaneously give and receive. As a result, a woman may feel greater shared intimacy than she does in other sexual activities. McCarthy and McCarthy (2009) state that it is most important to view intercourse as a natural extension of the pleasuring and eroticism process.
The Positions Th e playfulness of the couple, their movement from one bodily confi guration to another, and their ingenuity can provide an infi nite variety of sexual intercourse positions. Th e same positions played out in diff erent settings can cause an intensity that transforms the ordinary into the extraordinary. Th e most common position is face-to-face with the man on top (Figure 9.10). Many people prefer this position, for several reasons. First, it is the traditional, correct, or “offi cial” position in our culture, which many people fi nd reassuring and validating in terms of their sexuality. (Th e man-on-top position is com- monly known as the missionary position because it was the position missionar- ies traditionally encouraged people to use.) Second, it can allow the man maximum activity, movement, and control of coitus. Th ird, it allows the woman freedom to stimulate her clitoris to assist in her orgasm. Th e primary disadvan- tages are that it makes it diffi cult for the man to caress his partner or to stimulate her clitoris while supporting himself with his hands and for the woman to control the angle, rate, and depth of penetration. Furthermore, some men have diffi culty controlling ejaculation in this position, because the penis is highly stimulated. Another common position is face-to-face with the woman on top (Figure 9.11). Th e woman either lies on top of her partner or sits astride him. Th is position allows the woman maximum activity, movement, and control. She can control the depth to which the penis penetrates. Additionally, when the woman sits astride her partner, either of them can caress or stimulate her labia and clitoris, thus facilitating orgasm in the woman. As with the man-on-top position, kissing is easy. A disadvantage is that some men or women may feel uneasy about the woman assuming a position that signifi es an active role in coitus. Th is position tends to be less stimulating for the man, thus making it easier for him to control ejaculation.
The sexual embrace can only be compared with music and prayer.
—Havelock Ellis (1859–1939)
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• FIGURE 9.10 Face-to-Face, Man on Top
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Intercourse can also be performed with the man positioned behind the woman. Th ere are several variations on the rear-entry position. Th e woman may kneel supported on her arms and receive the penis in her vagina from behind. Th e couple may lie on their sides, with the woman’s back to her part- ner (Figure 9.12). Th is position off ers variety and may be particularly suitable during pregnancy because it minimizes pressure on the woman’s abdomen. Th is position facilitates clitoral stimulation by the woman. Generally, it is also pos- sible for the man to stimulate her during intercourse. In the face-to-face side position, both partners lie on their sides facing each other (Figure 9.13). Each partner has greater freedom to caress and stimulate the other. As with the rear-entry position, a major drawback is that keeping the penis in the vagina may be diffi cult. Tantric sex is a type of sexual intimacy based on Eastern religious beliefs beginning in India around 5000 BCE. Th e tantric sex technique of sexual intercourse involves the couple sharing their “energies” by initially thrusting minimally, generating energy via subtle, inner movements. Th ey visualize the energy of the genitals moving upward in their bodies (Figure 9.14). Th e couple may harmonize their breathing and achieve intimacy (often looking into each other’s eyes), ecstasy, and abandon. Many books have been written on tantric sex, and numerous websites are devoted to it.
Anal Eroticism
Anal eroticism refers to sexual activities involving the anus, whose delicate membranes (as well as taboo nature) make it erotically arousing for many people. Th ese activities include analingus, the licking of the anal region
When I said I had sex for seven hours, that included dinner and a movie.
—Phil Collins (1951–)
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• FIGURE 9.11 Face-to-Face, Woman on Top
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• FIGURE 9.12 Rear Entry
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(colloquially known as “rimming” or “tossing salad”). Anal-manual contact consists of stimulating the anal region with the fi ngers; sometimes, an entire fi st may be inserted (known as “fi sting” among gay White males and “fi ngering” among gay African American males). Many couples engage in this activity along with fellatio or sexual intercourse. Th ough little is known about the prevalence of this activity, many report it to be highly arousing because of the sensitivity of the skin around the anus. Keeping this area clean is extremely important because the intestinal tract, which extends to the anus, carries a variety of microorganisms. Anal intercourse refers to the male’s inserting his erect penis into his part- ner’s anus (Figure 9.15). Both heterosexual people and gay men participate in anal intercourse. Th e prevalence of anal intercourse in the 10 NSSHB age groups in the past year is shown in Table 9.2. For the 18–39 NSSHB age groups (Figures 9.5 and 9.6), about 4 in 10 men reported ever having been the insertive partner during anal intercourse with a male or female partner. Likewise, about 4 in 10 women reported ever having experienced anal inter- course (Reece et al., 2010c). Among gay men, anal intercourse is an important sexual expression: Th e Advocate magazine survey found that 46% of gay men loved insertive anal intercourse and 43% loved receptive intercourse (Lever, 1994). Anal intercourse is prevalent among gay men, although studies have shown it is less common than oral sex. For example, a British study found that, for the past year, slightly more than half of men who have sex with men reported having anal sex (57% of insertive partners, 54% of receptive partners) and about 7 in 10 reported engaging in oral sex (71% of insertive partners, 71% of receptive partners) (Mercer et al., 2004). An Australian study of the most recent same-sex behav- ior among men who have sex with men found that about one third of encoun- ters involved anal intercourse (38% of insertive partners, 30% of receptive partners) with about three quarters involving oral sex (76% of insertive partners, 76% of receptive partners) (Grulich et al., 2003). Although heterosexual imag- ery portrays the person who penetrates as “masculine” and the penetrated per- son as “feminine,” this imagery does not generally refl ect gay reality. For both partners, anal intercourse is regarded as masculine.
• FIGURE 9.13 Face-to-Face on Side
• FIGURE 9.14 Tantric Sex
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Although anal sex may heighten eroticism for those who engage in it, from a health perspective, it is riskier than most other forms of sexual interaction. Th e rectum is particularly susceptible to STI. (see Chapters 15 and 16).
Health Benefi ts of Sexual Activity
Th roughout this chapter and others in this textbook, we have emphasized ways to enhance sexual pleasure. And, certainly, experiencing sexual pleasure is a powerful motive itself to participate in sexual activity. When sex is fun, it brings a unique joy and satisfaction. But beyond the pleasure reward of sexual expres- sion, does sex have health benefi ts? Physician Eric Braverman, author of the book Younger (Sexier) You (2011), states that “sex is like an electric charge, and an orgasm is like rebooting your entire computer, powering up your health in multiple ways.” Braverman contends that being sexually active can help keep one younger by decreasing stress, enhancing intimacy in relationships, and keeping hormone levels up, including testosterone, estrogen, and oxytocin, the “love hormone.” Persons who frequently engage in sexual activity are reported to experience numerous benefi ts, such as a longer life, a healthier heart, a better defense against illnesses, pain relief, lower blood pressure, a healthier body weight, lower risk of prostate cancer, better cognitive skills, better hormone levels, lower risk of breast cancer, and more satisfying relationships (Braverman, 2011; Brody, 2010; Cohen, 2010; Jannini, Fisher, Bitzer, & McMahon, 2009; Whipple, Knowles,
• FIGURE 9.15 Anal Intercourse
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& Davis, 2007). But does good sex enhance health or does good health make sex more frequent and pleasurable? Sex researcher Beverly Whipple states that “. . . it is not entirely clear whether sex makes people healthier, or whether healthy people tend to have more sex” (Whipple et al., 2007). Nearly all of the studies on the health benefi ts of sex are correlational; that is, they show a relationship but not a cause and eff ect (Jannini et al., 2009). Nevertheless, what we can say with some certainly is that good sex and good health reinforce each other (Braverman, 2011).
As we have seen, sexual behaviors cannot be separated from attraction and desire. Our autoerotic activities are as important to our sexuality as are our interpersonal ones. Although the sexual behaviors we have examined in this chapter are the most common ones in our society, many people engage in other, less typical, activities. We discuss these atypical behaviors in Chapter 10.
Final Thoughts
Summary Sexual Attractiveness
■ Th e characteristics that constitute sexual attractiveness vary across cultures. Youthfulness and good health appear to be the only universals. Body symmetry and smell are important to sexual attraction. Our culture prefers slender women with large breasts and men who are muscular, but not too brawny. A study of college students over fi ve decades found that “good looks” of a potential partner have increased in impor- tance for both men and women.
■ Hooking up and “friends with benefi ts” relationships are common on college campuses and have numer- ous advantages and disadvantages.
■ Sexual desire is aff ected by erotophilia, a positive emotional response to sex, and by erotophobia, a neg- ative response to sex.
Sexual Scripts
■ Sexual scripts organize our sexual expression. Th ey have three major components: cultural, intraper- sonal, and interpersonal. Th e cultural script provides the general forms sexual behaviors are expected to take in a particular society. Th e intrapersonal script interprets our physiological responses as sexual or
not. Th e interpersonal script is the shared conven- tions and signals that make sexual activities between two people possible.
Autoeroticism
■ Autoeroticism refers to sexual activities that involve only oneself. Th ese activities include sexual fantasies, erotic dreams and nocturnal orgasm, and masturbation, or stimulation of the genitals for pleasure. Persons practicing various types of autoerotic activity are also more likely to report enacting more elaborate interper- sonal sexual scripts.
■ Sexual fantasies and dreams are probably the most universal of all sexual behaviors; they are normal aspects of our sexuality. Erotic fantasies have several functions: Th ey take our generalized sexual drives and help defi ne and direct them, they allow us to plan or anticipate erotic situations, they provide pleasurable escape from routine, they introduce novelty, and they off er clues to our unconscious.
■ Most men and women masturbate. Masturbation may begin as early as infancy and continue throughout old age. Attitudes toward masturbation vary across ethnic groups.
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■ Each couple develops their own sexual style, although it may take several months for that to occur. Four common couple styles are complimentary, traditional, soulmate, and emotionally expressive.
■ Sexual intercourse is the most appealing sexual activity for both female and male heterosexuals, although there are several dimensions of pleasure-oriented touching.
■ Th e erotic potential of touching has been under- valued, especially among males, because our culture tends to be orgasm oriented.
■ Lesbian women and gay men report that hugging, kissing, and cuddling are their favorite erotic activities.
■ Erotic kissing is usually our earliest interpersonal sexual experience and is regarded as a rite of passage into adult sexuality.
■ Oral-genital sex is becoming increasingly accepted, especially among young adults. Cunnilingus is the stimulation of the vulva with the tongue and mouth. It is engaged in by both men and women. Fellatio is the stimulation of the penis with the mouth; it is engaged in by both men and women.
■ Sexual intercourse can be an intimate and rewarding in- teraction between two people. It is both a means of re- production and a pleasurable form of communication.
■ Anal eroticism refers to sexual activities involving the anus. It is engaged in by heterosexuals, gay men, and lesbian women.
■ Good health and good sex are highly associated with each other.
Questions for Discussion ■ What is your sexual script relative to initiating
sexual behavior with another person? Do you always want to take the lead, or are you comfortable with the other person doing that or sharing in initiating the sexual behavior?
■ How often do you fantasize about sex? Are you comfortable about your fantasies? Have you ever shared them with anyone?
■ What can be done to help persons become more accepting of pleasure-oriented touching that does not include intercourse?
Suggested Websites JackinWorld http://www.jackinworld.com Provides honest, straightforward, nonexplicit information on masturbation.
Sex Coach at iVillage http://www.ivillage.com Provides information on a broad range of sexuality and relationship issues, including suggestions for enhancing sexual pleasure. Click on the “Love” section.
Tantra.com http://tantra.com An online resource for tantric sex, tantra, and the Kama Sutra as well as numerous commercial products for enhancing sexual expression.
Yahoo! Directory on Masturbation http://www.yahoo.com/society_and_culture/sexuality/ activities_and_practices/masturbation Gives the names of and links to many websites concerning masturbation.
Sex and the Internet Sexual Health InfoCenter A well-done and comprehensive website, the Sexual Health InfoCenter has many features, including “channels” on better sex, masturbation, sex health videos, STIs, birth control, safe sex, sexual problems, and “Sex Tip of the Week.” The website also has featured articles on a variety of sexuality topics as well as “Frequently Asked Ques- tions,” “Our Community,” and a shopping section (videos, sex toys, etc.). Visit this web site (http://www.sexhealth.org) and fi nd out the following:
■ What are the options of the site? ■ How did the site begin? ■ What is the sex tip of the week? ■ For one sexual expression topic, such as masturbation
or oral sex, what information does the site provide?
■ Do you consider oral sex more or less intimate than sexual intercourse? What do you consider to be the primary reason for giving and receiving oral sex?
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Suggested Reading Bogle, K. (2008). Hooking up: Sex, dating, and relationships on
campus. New York: New York University Press. A sociologist employed in-depth interviews with students and graduates of two universities to identify the culture of hooking up in a historical and current context.
Braverman, E. R. (2011). Younger (sexier) you. New York: Rodale. A physician off ers a plan for restoring and invigorating one’s sexual life.
Cornog, M. (2003). Th e big book of masturbation: From angst to zeal. San Francisco: Down Th ere Press. An interdisciplinary examination of the history, evolution, psychology, literature, modern culture, and humor of masturbation.
Corwin, G. (2010). Sexual intimacy for women: A guide for same-sex couples. Berkeley, CA: Written by a clinical psychologist, this book includes exercises and client-based anecdotes to help women in same-sex relationships increase intimacy.
Giles, J. (2008). Th e nature of sexual desire. Lanham, MD: University Press of America. Sexual desire is explored from a psychological, philosophical, and anthropological perspective and in relation to sexual interaction, erotic pleasure, the experience of gender, and romantic love.
Joannides, P. (2009). Guide to getting it on (6th ed.). Waldport, OR: Goofy Foot Press. A very popular and thorough sex manual that has been translated into over 10 languages. Has superb anatomical and sexual behavior drawings.
Kouth, M. R. (Ed.). (2006). Handbook of the evolution of human sexuality. Binghamton, NY: Haworth Press. Leading experts examine various aspects of evolutionary theory and sexuality.
McCarthy, B. W., & McCarthy, E. (2009). Discovering your couple sexual style. New York: Routledge. Th e goal of this book is to assist persons to discover and enjoy their couple sexual style.
Moalem, S. (2009). How sex works. New York: HarperCollins. Discusses, in a popular writing style, the psychological, relationship, biological, and historical aspects of numerous sex topics while blending in anecdotes.
Silverstein, C., & Picano, F. (2003). Th e new joy of gay sex (3rd ed.). New York: HarperCollins. An illustrated guide to gay male sexuality.
For links, articles, and study material, go to the McGraw-Hill website, located at
www.mhhe.com/yarber8e.
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Noncoercive Paraphilias 306
Coercive Paraphilias 310
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Student Voices
else. To me, fetishism brings psychological incompleteness to the bedroom. It carries childhood problems, unresolved confl icts, and past trauma into an arena best suited for the psychologist’s couch.”
—23-year-old female
“My boyfriend always thought that having his feet licked would be weird and gross. I’d never tried it or had it done to me, but I’d heard a lot of people really love it, so on Valentine’s day, I tried it. Now he likes it almost as much as oral sex. In fact, he gets excited when he hears me walking around barefoot!”
—20-year-old female
“I do like sex a lot, but I wouldn’t call myself addicted. I think an addiction to sex would only be a bad thing in the event that it’s interfering with other parts of a person’s life.”
—27-year-old male
“I think that some fetishes are good and healthy. I really don’t think that someone who is turned on by feet or a pair of shoes is wrong. I do have a major problem with those who are into bondage because that is just sick.”
—21-year-old female
“I really don’t think that atypical sex exists. Everyone should fi nd what feels good and natural for them; others’ opinions and statistics shouldn’t matter.”
—20-year-old male
“From my point of view, fetishism misses the main point of sex: physical pleasure and emotional closeness. This sort of ‘erotic communion’ of sensation and emotion can be wholly fulfi lling without the bells and whistles of whips, diapers, or anything
Sexuality can be expressed in a variety of ways, some more common than others. Many of the less common behaviors have been negatively labeled by the public, often implying that the behavior is unnatural, pathological, or “perverted.” In this chapter, we examine variations in sexual behavior, such as cross-dressing and domination and submission, which are not within the range of sexual behaviors in which people typically engage. Th en we turn to sexual behaviors that are classifi ed by the American Psychiatric Association as non- coercive paraphilias, including fetishism and transvestism. Finally, we examine the coercive paraphilias, which include zoophilia, pedophilia, sexual sadism, sexual masochism, and necrophilia.
• Sexual Variations and Paraphilic Behavior Th e range of human sexual behavior is almost infi nite. Yet most of our activities and fantasies, such as intercourse, oral-genital sex, and masturbation, and our orientation as a heterosexual, gay, lesbian, or bisexual person cluster within a general range of behaviors and desires. Th ose behaviors and fantasies that do not fall within this general range are considered variations. In this chapter, we use the term sexual variations to refer to those behaviors that are not statistically typical of American sexual behaviors or that occur in addition to the “main- stream” expression of sexuality.
What Are Sexual Variations?
“Sexual variation” is the most common term used, although terms like atypical sexual behavior or kinky sex are used. It is important to note, however, that atypical does not necessarily mean abnormal; it simply means that the majority
“ There is hardly anyone whose sexual life, if it were broadcast, would not fi ll the
world at large with surprise and horror.
—Somerset Maugham (1874–1965)
“ It is very disturbing indeed when you can’t think of any new perversions that
you would like to practice.
—James Pickey (1923–1997)
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of people do not engage in that particular behavior or that it occurs outside of the culturally sanctioned sexual behaviors. Even though today’s society is less judgmental about sex, resulting in people who engage in sexual variations feel- ing less shame and guilt, some sexual variations are considered to be so extreme by the American Psychiatric Association (APA) that they are classifi ed as men- tal disorders, or paraphilias. Paraphilic behaviors tend to be compulsive, long- standing, and distressing to the individual. Having a diagnostic category like paraphilic may indicate that our culture continues to fi nd some sexual behav- iors unacceptable and needing treatment.
What Is Paraphilia?
According to the fourth edition (text revision) of the APA’s Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-IV-TR) (2000), a paraphilia is a mental disorder characterized by recurrent, intense sexually arousing fantasies, sexual urges, or sexual behaviors lasting at least 6 months and involving (1) nonhuman objects, (2) the suff ering or humiliation of oneself or one’s partner, or (3) children or other nonconsenting people. It is important to note that almost any behavior can take on erotic signifi cance, but Table 10.1 lists eight of the most common as well as six less common paraphilias. To minimize the
TABLE 10.1 • Paraphilias
Paraphilias Sexual Arousal Activity
Exhibitionism Exposing one’s genitals, buttocks, or breasts (females) in public to another person or group
Fetishism Using an inanimate object
Frotteurism Touching or rubbing one’s genitals or pelvis against a nonconsenting person in public places
Pedophilia Having primary or exclusive sexual behavior with a prepubescent child
Sexual masochism Being humiliated, beaten, bound, or otherwise made to suff er from real, not simulated behavior
Sexual sadism Infl icting psychological or physical suff ering upon another person
Transvestic fetishism Cross-dressing (usually males) in clothing of the other sex
Voyeurism Observing an unsuspecting person who is engaging in intimate behavior such as disrobing or having sex
Less Common Paraphilias Sexual Arousal Activity
Coprophilia Being sexually aroused from use of feces
Klismaphilia Being sexual aroused from having enemas
Necrophilia Having sexual activity with dead bodies
Telephone scatologia Making sexual and obscene phone calls
Urophilia Being sexually aroused from sight or thought of urine
Zoophilia Having sexual activity with non-human animals (bestiality)
SOURCE: Data from the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fourth Edition, Text Revision (Copyright 2000). American Psychiatric Association.
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negative message of labeling and to recognize individuals’ many components, it seems more appropriate to use the term “person with paraphilia” than “para- philiac.” Th is is the term we will use in this textbook. For people with a paraphilia, the paraphilic behavior is the predominant sexual behavior, although they may engage in other sexual activities as well. Th ey may engage in the paraphilic behavior every day or several times a day, or they may participate in a variety of paraphilic behaviors. Even though the behavior may lead to legal or interpersonal diffi culties, it may be so rewarding and irresistible that they continue to practice it. Typically, persons with para- philias feel that urges to participate in the behaviors are insistent, obsessional, or compulsory (Lehne, 2009). Mild versions of paraphilias may manifest only in disturbing fantasies, often occurring during masturbation. Severe versions can include sexual victimization of children and the use of threats or force with other adults (Seligman & Hardenberg, 2000). Th e overwhelming majority of people with paraphilia are males (Logan, 2008); they are most likely to engage in paraphilic activities between the ages of 15 and 25. One of the most common paraphilias, sexual masochism, is diagnosed much less frequently in women; the ratio is estimated to be 20 males for each female (APA, 2000). Paraphilias are diagnosed in all ethnic and socio- economic groups and among all sexual orientations. Th e distinction between sexual variations and behavior that might be classifi ed as paraphilic behavior is sometimes more a diff erence of degree than kind. For example, many men fi nd that certain objects, such as black lingerie, intensify their sexual arousal; for other men, these objects are nec- essary for arousal. In the fi rst case, there is nothing particularly unusual. But if a man is unable to become sexually aroused without the lingerie and the purpose of sex is to bring him in contact with it, the behavior is considered fetishism paraphilia by the APA (2000). (See page 306 for a discussion of fetishism.) It is also important to recognize that seemingly scientifi c or clinical terms may not be scientifi c at all. Instead, they may be pseudoscientifi c terms hiding moral judgments, as in the case of “nymphomania” and “satyriasis.” Nymphomania is a pejorative term referring to “abnormal or excessive” sexual desire in a woman and is usually applied to sexually active single women. But what is “abnormal” or “excessive” is often defi ned moralistically rather than scientifi cally. Nympho- mania is not recognized as a clinical condition by the APA (2000). Although the term “nymphomania” dates back to the seventeenth century, it was popular- ized in the nineteenth century by Richard von Kraff t-Ebing and others. Physi- cians and psychiatrists used the term to pathologize women’s sexual behavior if it deviated from nineteenth-century moral standards (see Chapter 2). Even today, “nymphomania,” “nymphomaniac,” and “nympho” retain pathological connotations. Very few studies have been conducted on women, or men, who might be considered “highly sexual” by cultural norms. American women with very strong sexual desire have been both largely ignored by researchers and stigma- tized by society. However, an interview study of 44 highly sexual women aged 20–82 provided insights into their sexual lives and how their sexuality has aff ected them (Blumberg, 2003). “Highly sexual” was defi ned as a woman who either (1) typically desired sexual stimulation, usually to the point of orgasm, by herself or a partner six to seven times per week or more and acted upon the desire whenever possible, or (2) thought of herself as a highly sexual person
“ Of all the sexual aberrations, the most peculiar is chastity.
—Remy de Gourmont (1858–1915)
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think about it
Since the APA began listing certain variant sexual behaviors as “paraphilia” in its 1980 edition of Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM), the paraphilia construct has been widely critiqued. Critics of the DSM paraphilias contend that the listing of behaviors as para- philic is merely an attempt to pathologize sexual behaviors not approved of by society. Physician and sexologist Charles Moser (2001; Moser & Kleinplatz, 2005) concurs with this stance and has suggested an alternative classifi cation. Moser notes that the term “paraphilia” was popularized by sexologist John Money (1980, 1984), as a way of describing non- standard or unusual sexual behavior in a nonjudgmental manner. He indicates that paraphilias, unfortunately, were assimilated into the DSM as a classifi cation of pathology. The DSM is the standard, worldwide resource for defi ning psychopathology (mental illness)—that is, for determining which behaviors and desires are healthy and unhealthy. Moser notes that each person has a unique sexual pattern, which has led to variations in sexual behaviors and to diff erences in acceptance by society. He explains:
Simplistically, the general public fi nds some sexual interests acceptable (heterosexual coitus within marriage), some possibly acceptable (homosexual attraction), some odd (shoe fetishes), and some disgusting (pedophilia). Acceptable sexual interests vary cross-culturally and change transhistorically. Over the last century, we have seen a relative reversal in North American societal and scientifi c views of masturbation, oral-genital contact, and homosexuality. Each of these was thought to be the cause, sign, or result of mental illness and all were seen as particularly dangerous to children; these behaviors are now relatively accepted.
Nevertheless, society continues to classify certain sexual behaviors as unacceptable, resulting in verbal and physical harassment, personal distress, and/or family dissolutions among individuals expressing these behaviors.
“Sexual Interest Disorder”: A Viable Alternative to Paraphilia or a Radical Departure?
Moser has proposed a new classifi cation—“sexual interest disorder (SID)”—to replace the paraphilias. This new classifi cation would emphasize the eff ect of the sexual interest on the individual rather than implying that participants in certain sexual behaviors are inherently “sick”; it would also avoid naming specifi c sexual behaviors. To qualify as an SID, a behavior would have to meet two criteria:
■ The sexual interest is not a specifi c fantasy, sexual urge, or behavior that causes clinically signifi cant distress or impair- ment in social, occupational, or other important areas of functioning.
■ The sexual interest is not better accounted for in another Axis I disorder (e.g., schizophrenia disorder, mood disorder, or anxiety disorder), not due to the eff ects of a general medical disorder, and not the result of substance use, misuse, or abuse.
This new classifi cation does not suggest that all sexual interests are acceptable, nor that any interest should be aff orded special rights or protections. As an example, Moser (2009) discusses pedophilia. He says, “To be perfectly clear, adult-child sexual contact should not be condoned under any circumstances.” Moser further states that having sex with a minor is criminal behavior that should be punished as such, but it is not clear that this type of behavior is a mental illness.
Think Critically 1. Do you believe that the DSM’s classifi cation of certain
variant sexual behaviors as paraphilia is “an attempt to pathologize sexual behaviors not approved by society” or a necessary way to address sexual behaviors that indeed represent mental illness?
2. Is Moser’s alternative classifi cation—SID—a viable alternative to or a radical departure from the DSM category of paraphilia?
with sex often on her mind and considered her sexuality as an aspect that strongly and frequently aff ected her behavior, life choices, and quality of life satisfaction. Th e women reported that their lives had been strongly aff ected by their sexuality, that their sexual appetite was too intense to be ignored, and for some, it was a major factor impacting their time and energy. Many
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reported struggles and challenges in their lives because of their sexuality including being labeled with historically pathologizing terms such as “nym- phomaniac” and “sex addict,” although the researcher conducting the inter- view concluded that neither the term “addiction” nor “compulsion” is applicable in describing these women. However, the women reported that their experiences as highly sexual women were fi lled with satisfactions and pleasure—in fact, each would not permanently change her sexuality if she had that option. Th e researcher also noted that many of the women indicated they wanted to participate in the study in hope that society would become more understanding and accepting of them and that other highly sexual women would become more accepting of themselves with less internal distress about their sexuality. Satyriasis, referring to “abnormal” or “uncontrollable” sexual desire in men, is less commonly used than “nymphomania” because society has come to believe and expect men to be more sexual than women. For this reason, defi nitions of satyriasis infrequently include the adjective “excessive.” Instead, refl ecting ideas of male sexuality as a powerful drive, “uncontrollable” becomes the signifi cant adjective. Satyriasis is not recognized as a clinical condition by the APA (2000). As you read this chapter, remember to distinguish clearly between the clinical, judgmental, or casual connotations of the various terms. It can be tempting to defi ne a behavior you don’t like or approve of as paraphilic. But, unless you are clinically trained, you cannot diagnose someone (including yourself ) as having a mental disorder. As touched on previously, the line between a sexual variation and a para- philia is often not exact, and the “labeling” of specifi c behaviors as either may be open to debate and void of scientifi c justifi cation. However, for the sake of discussion, several variations in sexual behaviors are presented in the context of the DSM-IV-TR classifi cations. Some mental health professionals believe that classifying some sexual behaviors as paraphilias is fl awed and refl ects a pseudoscientifi c attempt to control sexuality (see the “Th ink About It” box on the page 302).
Sexual Variations Among College Students
We have no reliable estimates of the number of individuals with paraphilias, as this aspect of sexuality is underresearched with few recent studies. However, we do know paraphilias tend to occur together (Bancroft, 2009). For example, it is not uncommon for an individual to express both fetishistic and sadomas- ochistic behaviors. However, various studies have produced some clues. For example, a Details magazine survey of college students reported the prevalence of some variant and paraphilic behaviors among the sample (Elliott & Brantley, 1997). (See Figure 10.1.) Except for one behavior, “talked dirty,” only a minor- ity of the students reported ever having engaged in any of the behaviors listed. Note that the percentages of female and male students who had participated in a behavior were often nearly equal; for example, 6% of both female and male students indicated that they had engaged in sadomasochism. Th ese fi nd- ings and those of nearly similar behaviors seem to refute societal beliefs that women, in contrast to men, are more reserved or conventional in their sexual expression.
“ Through me forbidden voices. Voices of sexes and lusts . . .
Voices veiled, and I remove the veil, Voices indecent by me clarifi ed and transfi gured.
—Walt Whitman (1819–1892)
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• Sexual Variation: Domination and Submission Variations in sexual behavior are not rare. Although the majority of people do not engage in these activities, they are not necessarily uncommon. One of the more widespread forms of sexual variation is domination and submission. Sexual arousal derived from the consensual acting out of sexual scenes in which one person dominates and the other submits is called domination and submission (D/S). Th e term sadomasochism (S&M) is also used by the gen- eral public to describe domination and submission, but it is no longer used as a clinical term in psychiatry and psychology to describe consensual domination and submission. Domination and submission are forms of fantasy sex, and the D/S behaviors are carefully controlled by elaborate shared scripts. Th e critical element is not pain, but power. Th e dominant partner is perceived as all-powerful, and the submissive partner as powerless. Signifi cantly, the amount or degree of “pain,” which is usually feigned or slight, is controlled by the submissive partner, typ- ically by subtle nonverbal signals. As such, fantasy plays a central role, especially for the submissive person. As two people enact the agreed-upon master-slave script, the control is not complete. Rather, it is the illusion of total control that is fundamental to D/S (Hyde & DeLamater, 2011). A large-scale study of a nonclinical population revealed that the majority of people who engage in domination and submission do so as “a form of sexual enhancement which they voluntarily and mutually choose to explore” (Weinberg, Williams, & Moser, 1984). As such, domination and submission are not paraphilic since the behavior is consensual and without pain. To be
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• FIGURE 10.1 Percentage of College Students Who Report Ever Having Engaged in Variations of Sexual Behavior. (Source: Adapted from Elliott & Brantley, 1997.)
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considered paraphilic, such behavior requires that the suff ering or humiliation of oneself or one’s partner be real, not merely simulated (APA, 2000). (Sexual sadism and sexual masochism, which are considered coercive paraphilias, are discussed later in the chapter.) Domination and submission take many forms. Th e participants generally assume both dominant and submissive roles at diff erent times; few are interested only in being on “top” or “bottom.” Probably the most widely known form is bondage and discipline (B&D). B&D is a fairly common practice in which a person is bound with scarves, leather straps, underwear, handcuff s, chains, or other such devices while another simulates or engages in light-to-moderate dis- cipline activities such as spanking or whipping. Th e bound person may be blind- folded or gagged. A woman specializing in disciplining a person is known as a dominatrix, and her submissive partner is called a slave. Bondage and discipline may take place in specialized settings called “dungeons” furnished with restraints, body suspension devices, racks, whips, and chains. Janus and Janus (1993) reported that 11% of both men and women had experience with bondage. A more recent investigation of four “kinky” sexual behaviors—bondage or domination, sadomasochism, photo or video exhibition- ism, and asphyxiation or breath play—among 347 lesbian and 58 bisexual women found that 32% and 41%, respectively, had ever participated in bondage/domi- nation. Th e study also found that 40% reported ever engaging in at least one of the four behaviors and 25% reported engaging in multiple behaviors (Tomassilli, Golub, Bimbi, & Parsons, 2009). Th e prevalence of the other three “kinky” sexual behaviors among this sample will be presented when the particular variant behavior is discussed in this chapter. Another common form of domination and submission is humiliation, in which the person is debased or degraded. Examples of humiliation include being verbally humiliated, receiving an enema (“water treatment”), being urinated on (“golden showers”), and being defecated on (“scat”). According to the DSM-IV-TR, sexual pleasure derived from receiving enemas is known as klismaphilia [klis-muh- FIL-ee-uh], that derived from contact with urine is called urophilia [yore-oh-FIL- ee-uh], and that derived from contact with feces is called coprophilia
“ Ah beautiful, passionate body, That never has ached with a heart!
On the mouth though the kisses are bloody, Though they sting till it shudder and smart More kind than the love we adore is They hurt not the heart nor the brain Oh bitter and tender Dolores Our Lady of Pain.
—Algernon Swinburne (1837–1909)
Bondage and discipline, or B&D, often involves leather straps, handcuff s, and other restraints as part of its scripting.
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[cop-ro-FIL-ee-uh]. Humiliation activities may also include servilism, infantilism (also known as babyism), kennelism, and tongue-lashing. In servilism, the person desires to be treated as a servant or slave. In infantilism, the person acts in a baby- ish manner—using baby talk, wearing diapers, and being pampered, scolded, or spanked by his or her “mommy” or “daddy.” Kennelism refers to being treated like a dog (wearing a studded dog collar and being tied to a leash) or ridden like a horse while the dominant partner applies whips or spurs. Tongue-lashing is verbal abuse by a dominant partner who uses language that humiliates and degrades the other person. People engage in domination and submission in private or as part of an organized subculture complete with clubs and businesses catering to the acting out of D/S fantasies. Th is subculture is sometimes known as “the velvet under- ground.” Th ere are scores of noncommercial D/S clubs throughout the United States. Th e clubs are often specialized: lesbian S&M, dominant men/submissive women, submissive men/dominant women, gay men’s S&M, and transvestite S&M. Leather sex bars are meeting places for gay men who are interested in domination and submission. Th e D/S subculture includes D/S videos, websites, books, social media networks, newspapers, and magazines.
• Noncoercive Paraphilias An important aspect of paraphilias is whether they involve coercion. Noncoercive paraphilias are regarded as relatively benign or harmless because they are victim- less. Noncoercive paraphilias include fetishism and transvestism.
Fetishism
We attribute special or magical powers to many things: a lucky number, a saint’s relic, an heirloom, a lock of hair, or an automobile. Th ese objects possess a kind of symbolic magic. We will carry our boyfriend’s or girlfriend’s photograph
“ Do not do unto others as you would that they should do unto you. Their
tastes may not be the same.
—George Bernard Shaw (1856–1950)
Bettie Page, who has become a cult fi gure among those interested in domination and submission, was one of the most photographed women in the 1950s.
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(and sometimes talk to it or kiss it), ask for a keepsake if we part, and become nostalgic for a former love when we hear a particular song. All these behaviors are common, but they point to the symbolic power of objects, or fetishes. Fetishism is sexual attraction to objects that become, for the person with the fetish, sexual symbols. Th e fetish is usually required or strongly preferred for sexual arousal, and its absence may cause erectile problems in males (APA, 2000). Instead of relating to another person, a fetishist gains sexual gratifi cation from kissing a shoe, caressing a glove, drawing a lock of hair against his or her cheek, or masturbating with a piece of underwear. But the focus of a person with fetishism is not necessarily an inanimate object; he may be attracted to a woman’s feet, ears, breasts, legs, or elbows or to any other part of her body. (Exclusive attraction to body parts is known as partialism.) However, using objects for sexual stimulation, such as vibrators, or using articles of female clothing for cross-dressing is not a sign of fetishism (APA, 2000). A study of the prevalence of fetishes involving Internet discussion groups representing at least 5,000 individuals found that the most common fetishes were for body parts or features (33%) and objects associated with the body (30%), such as panties and diapers. Feet and objects associated with feet, such as rubber, were the most frequently listed fetish targets (Scorolli, Ghirlanda, Enquist, Zattoni, & Jannini, 2007). Fetishistic behavior may be viewed as existing on a continuum, or existing in degrees, moving from a slight preference for an object, to a strong preference for it, to the necessity of the object for arousal, and, fi nally, to the object as a sub- stitute for a sexual partner. Most people have slight fetishistic traits. For example, some men describe themselves as “leg men” or “breast men”; they prefer dark- haired or light-haired partners. Some women are attracted to muscular men, others to hairy chests, and still others to shapely buttocks. However, to meet the APA defi nition of fetishism, a person must not be able to have sex without that fetish (Schwartz, 2000). Most fetishes and partialisms rarely cause harm, although, on rare occasions, individuals have committed burglary to acquire the fetish object (Lowenstein, 2002). Most often, fetish behavior occurs in private with a willing partner (Darcangelo, 2008).
Inanimate objects or parts of the body, such as the foot, may be sexualized by some people.
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Transvestism
Transvestism (“trans” means cross, “vest” means dress) is the wearing of cloth- ing of the other sex for any reason, sometimes sexual arousal (Wheeler, Newring, & Draper, 2008). Th e literature indicates that cross-dressing occurs almost exclusively in males, both heterosexual and gay men (Taylor & Rupp, 2004). However, there are studies of women who have erotic attachment to men’s gar- ments. Th e rarity of transvestism among women may have several reasons. One may be that our society is more accepting of women wearing “men’s” clothing, such as ties, than men wearing “women’s” clothes. So, women are not perceived as cross-dressing and men are less likely to report engaging in it because of negative social repercussions. According to a study of 1,032 cross-dressing men, excluding female imper- sonators and drag queens, 87% were heterosexual, 60% were married, and 65% were college educated. Sixty percent reported that sexual excitement and orgasm often or almost always occurred with cross-dressing (Docter & Prince, 1997). (Female impersonators are men who dress as women and male impersonators are women who dress as men, often as part of their job in entertainment. Gay men who cross-dress to entertain are often referred to as drag queens. Because neither female impersonators nor drag queens typically cross-dress for sexual arousal, they are not considered transvestites.) Transvestism covers a broad range of behaviors. Some persons with transvestism prefer to wear only one article of clothing (usually a brassiere or panties) of the other sex in the privacy of their home; others choose to don an entire outfi t in public. Th e distinction between fetishism and transvestism involves the wearing of the garment versus the viewing or fondling of it. Th e frequency of cross- dressing ranges from a momentary activity that produces sexual excitement, usually through masturbation, to more frequent and long-lasting behavior, depending on the individual, available opportunities, and mood or stressors. Some who cross-dress are considered psychologically disordered, as in transvestic fetishism. Research on the prevalence of transvestic fetishism is limited, but one random sample study of 2,450 persons from the general
Cross-dressing is not necessarily a paraphilia. It may be a source of humor and parody, as the traditional boundaries of gender are explored and challenged.
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practically speaking
The Sexual Sensation Seeking Scale assesses the need for varied, novel, and complex sexual experiences and the willingness to take personal, physical, and social risks for the sake of enhancing sexual sensations. The scale was designed as an assessment of sexual adventurism or sexual risk taking in adolescents and adults. Sexual sensation seeking is derived from the personality disposition trait of sensation seeking, which is a component of extraversion. Sexual sensa- tion seeking is not considered a paraphilia by the American Psychiatric Association, but this scale can be used to get a gen- eral idea of your own disposition toward enhancing sexual sen- sations. The scale has correlated positively with perceived pleasure from varied sexual activities and inversely with sexual risk reduction behaviors.
Directions
A number of statements that some people have used to describe themselves are given below. Read each statement and then use the key to indicate how well you believe each statement describes you.
Key
1 � Not at all like me 2 � Slightly like me 3 � Mainly like me 4 � Very much like me
Sexual Sensation Seeking Scale
1. I like wild “uninhibited” sexual encounters. 2. The physical sensations are the most important thing about
having sex. 3. My sexual partners probably think I am a “risk taker.” 4. When it comes to sex, physical attraction is more important
to me than how well I know the person. 5. I enjoy the company of sensual people. 6. I enjoy watching X-rated videos. 7. I am interested in trying out new sexual experiences. 8. I feel like exploring my sexuality. 9. I like to have new and exciting sexual experiences and
sensations. 10. I enjoy the sensations of intercourse without a condom.
Scoring
Sum the points for all the items. The higher the total score (e.g., a 38 in contrast to an 18), the greater the disposition for sexual sensation seeking.
SOURCES: Kalichman, S. C. (2010). Sexual Sensation Seeking Scale. In T. D. Fisher, C. M. Davis, W. L. Yarber, & S. L. Davis (Eds.), Handbook of sexuality-related measures (3rd ed., pp. 564–565). New York: Routledge; Hendrickson, C. S., Stoner, S. A., George, W. H., & Norris, J. (2007). Alcohol use, expectancies, and sexual sensation seeking as correlates of HIV risk behavior in heterosexual young adults. Psychology of Addictive Behaviors, 21, 365–372; Kalichman, S. C., & Rompa, D. (1995). Sexual sensation seeking and sexual compulsivity scales: Reliability, validity, and Predicting HIV risk behaviors. Journal of Personality Assessment, 65, 586–602.
population of Sweden revealed that 2.8% of men and 0.4% of women reported at least one episode of transvestic fetishism (Langstrom & Zucker, 2005). According to the APA (2000), people with transvestic fetishism are het- erosexual men who, over a period of at least 6 months, act upon recurrent, intense, usually distressful, sexual urges and fantasies involving the wearing of women’s clothes. Because many people with transvestism contend that they are not abnormal but are merely revealing a legitimate source of sexual expres- sion and arousal, they resist and shun this diagnosis. Transvestic fetishism usually begins prior to adulthood. Some men report childhood experiences of being humiliated or punished by women and forced to dress in female attire (Maxmen & Ward, 1995).
Men with transvestism are usually quite conventional in their masculine dress and attitudes. Dressed as women or wearing only one women’s garment, they may become sexually aroused and masturbate or have sex with a woman. As time passes, however, the erotic element of the female garment may decrease and the comfort level increase. Th e majority of people with transvestism have
“ Those hot pants of hers were so damned tight, I could hardly breathe.
—Benny Hill (1924–1992)
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no desire to undergo a sex-change operation. If they do, there may be an accom- panying diagnosis of gender dysphoria. Transvestism should not be confused with transsexualism. Most people with transvestism have no desire to change their anatomical sex, whereas transsexuals often do. “TV” is the acronym for “transvestism” and often appears in personal ads in underground newspapers and in Internet dating services. Many people with transvestism marry in hopes of “curing” their desire to cross-dress. Of those who marry, about two thirds have children. Some volun- tarily reveal their cross-dressing to their spouse after marriage, but for the majority, it is discovered. Invariably, the partners are distressed and blame them- selves for somehow “emasculating” their partners. Some people with transves- tism and their spouses and families are able to adjust to the cross-dressing. Data suggest, however, that women merely tolerate rather than support their partner’s cross-dressing, and many feel betrayed, angry, and scared that outsiders will fi nd out about their partner’s behavior (Reynolds & Caron, 2000). Sometimes, however, the stress is too great, and separation follows soon after the transves- tism is discovered. Transvestism is typically harmless and victimless, requiring treatment only when it is not controllable and causes distress in the person’s life (Hyde & DeLamater, 2011). Many transvestites seek counseling, often to deal with their feelings of guilt and shame.
• Coercive Paraphilias Few noncoercive paraphilias are brought to public attention because of their private, victimless nature. But coercive paraphilias, which involve victimization, are a source of concern for society because of the harm they cause others. All of these paraphilias involve some kind of coercive or nonconsensual relationship with another person or with an animal.
“ I don’t think painting my fi ngernails is a big deal. It’s not like I’m sitting home by
myself trying on lingerie. . . . When I cross- dress now, it’s just another way I can show all the sides of Dennis Rodman.
—Dennis Rodman (1961–)
“ I don’t mind drag—women have been female impersonators for some time.
—Gloria Steinem (1934–)
Actor James Franco appears in drag for a segment of the 83rd Academy Award show. Franco, who has portrayed several gay or bisexual characters in movies and posed in drag for a magazine cover, has been frequently asked by the media if he is gay or bisexual himself. This skit at the Oscars seemed to be a way of thumbing his nose at all the speculation.
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Zoophilia
Zoophilia, sometimes referred to as “bestiality,” involves deriving sexual plea- sure from animals (APA, 2000). True zoophilia occurs only when animals are the preferred sexual contact regardless of what other sexual outlets are available. Zoophilia is classifi ed as a coercive paraphilia based on the assumption that the animal is an unwilling participant. Few studies on the prevalence of zoophilia have been conducted. Alfred Kinsey and his colleagues reported that about 8% of the men and 4% of the women they surveyed had experienced at least one sexual contact with animals. Seventeen percent of the men who had been reared on farms had had such contact, but these activities accounted for less than 1% of their total sexual activity (Kinsey, Pomeroy, & Martin, 1948; Kinsey, Pomeroy, Martin, & Gebhard, 1953). A study of Native American adolescents found that 1% reported sexual contact with animals (Nagaraja, 1983). Crepault and Couture (1980) found that 5.3% of men had fantasized about having sex with an animal. Sexual contact with animals usually takes place among male ado- lescents and is a transitory phenomenon (Earls & Lalumière, 2009). Males are likely to have intercourse with the animal or to have their genitals licked by the animal. Females are more likely to have contact with a household pet, such as having intercourse, having the animal lick their genitals, or masturbating the animal. Despite earlier beliefs to the contrary, studies found that very few persons who had sex with animals considered the sex as a substitute for human sex; rather, for them it was just their preferred behavior (Beetz, 2004; Miletski, 2000, 2003). A research study of 114 self-identifi ed men with zoophilia examined sexual interest in animals. Th e participants were primarily acquired through the use of an online questionnaire, and those who volunteered were asked to refer others who had similar interests. More than 9 of every 10 men who self- identifi ed as “zoophiles” indicated that they were concerned with the welfare of the animals. Th ey emphasized the importance of consensual sexual activity in contrast to persons they labeled as “bestialists,” those who have sex with animals but are not concerned with the animals’ welfare. Th e men listed desire for aff ection and pleasurable sex as the most important reasons for sexual interest in animals. Many of the men had not had sex with a human partner of either sex in the past year. Th e researchers suggest that sexual activity with animals is usually immediate, easy, and intense, thus reinforcing the behavior (Williams & Weinberg, 2003).
Voyeurism
Viewing sexual activities is a commonplace activity. Many individuals have used mirrors to view themselves during sexual behavior, watched their partners mas- turbate, videorecorded themselves and their partner having sex for later viewing, or watched others having intercourse. Americans’ interest in viewing sexual activities has spawned a multibillion-dollar sex industry devoted to fulfi lling those desires. Sexually explicit magazines, books, websites, and X-rated DVDs are widely available. Topless bars, live sex clubs, strip and peep shows, and erotic dancing attest to the attraction of visual erotica. Th ese activities are not considered voyeurism because the observed person is willing and these activities typically do not replace interpersonal sexuality. Voyeurism involves recurring, intense sexual urges and fantasies related to secretly observing an unsuspecting person who is nude, disrobing, or engaging
“ I have a mirrored ceiling over my bed because I like know what I am doing.
—Mae West (1893–1980)
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think about it
Most research on voyeurism has focused on males in clini- cal and criminal settings. To investigate aspects of voyeurism in a relatively “normal” group of individuals, a sample of Canadian university students (232 women and 82 men) enrolled in a human sexuality class were asked to indicate whether they would watch an attractive person undressing or two attractive persons having sex in a hypothetical situation (Rye & Meaney, 2007). Students responded to the scenario below using a 0 to 100% scale with 0% meaning “extremely unlikely to watch” to 100% being “extremely likely to watch.” They were also asked if their responses would be diff erent if there was a possibility of being caught and punished for their behavior. Students were presented with the following scenario:
You see someone whom you fi nd very attractive. The person does not suspect that you can see him or her. He/she begins undressing.
Two questions were then posed:
1. If there were no chance of getting caught, how likely would it be that you would watch the person undressing?
2. He or she begins to have sex with another attractive person. How likely is it that you would watch the two people having sex?
Here is what the study found:
■ With both men and women combined, the self-reported likelihood of watching an attractive person undress was signifi cantly higher (67% on the 0 to 100% scale) than watching two attractive people having sex (45%).
■ Men and women were not signifi cantly diff erent in their reported likelihood of watching an attractive person undress (73% men, 65% women).
■ Men were signifi cantly more likely than women (64% men, 39% women) to be willing to watch two attractive people having sex.
■ When there was no possibility of being caught, men and women were much more likely to be willing to watch an attractive person undress.
Would You Watch? College Students and Voyeurism
■ When there was no possibility of being caught, men and women were only slightly more likely to be willing to watch two attractive people having sex.
In discussing the results, the researchers noted that the students may have considered watching a couple having sex as more invasive than watching a person undress. They note that there are many more opportunities to observe others, covertly, in the diff erent stages of undress (e.g., at the gym, at the beach) than seeing people having sex (usually limited to sex clubs or accidently walking in on a roommate or exhibitionistic, thrill- seeking couples in the college library stacks). The researchers also state that voyeuristic behavior may be acquired in several ways, such as evolutionary adaptations and social learning, then modifi ed by social constraints, and that this perspective “fi ts well with Buss’s (1998) sexual strategies theory. . . . Similarly, women may have less desire for sexual viewing, but may still engage in such behavior when social constraints are relaxed.” The research- ers also conclude that the study results support contentions that social constraints are a regulator of voyeurism. (See Chapter 9 for a discussion of Buss’s sexual strategies theory.)
Think Critically 1. How would you have answered the questions presented
in this research study? Were there any responses that surprised you? Would the possibility of being caught alter your responses?
2. How would you feel if you found out you had been watched while undressing or having sex with someone?
3. If you have had sex, did you enjoy watching your partner undress? If so, what impact did this have on your sexual interaction?
SOURCE: Rye, B. J., & Meaney, G. J. (2007). Voyeurism: It is good as long as we do not get caught. International Journal of Sexual Health, 19, 47–56.
in sexual activity (APA, 2000). To be considered paraphilic behavior, voyeurism must be preferred over sexual expression with another person or entail some risk. In order to become aroused, people with voyeurism must hide and remain unseen, and the person or couple being watched must be unaware of their presence. Th e excitement is intensifi ed by the possibility of being discovered. Sometimes, the person with voyeurism will masturbate or imagine having sex
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with the observed person. People with voyeurism are sometimes called “peepers” or “peeping Toms” (Mann, Ainsworth, Al-Attar, & Davies, 2008). (Watching others who know they are being observed, such as a sex partner, stripper, or actor in a sexually explicit fi lm, is not classifi ed as voyeurism.) Voyeurism appeals primarily to heterosexual men (Seligman & Hardenburg, 2000), most of whom are content to keep their distance from their victim. Many lack social and sexual skills and may fear rejection. In a more recent type of voyeurism, labeled “video voyeurism,” video cam- eras are used to take pictures of persons in private places as they change their clothes, shower, or engage in sexual activities. For example, video cameras have been hidden in places that are considered private, such as in health clubs and gyms. Cell phones with cameras have made it even easier to take pictures of nude persons and send them to others, a practice referred to as “sexting.” A 2009 national study conducted by MTV and the Associated Press of 1,247 respondents aged 14–24 found that 13% and 9% of females and males, respec- tively, had shared a naked photo or video of themselves. Th e receiving of a naked photo or video of someone else was nearly reversed: 14% of males and 9% of females had received such a photo. About 6 in 10 respondents (61%) who had sent a naked photo or video of themselves indicated that they had been pressured by someone else to do so at least one time (Associated Press & MTV, 2009). Th is study focused only on messages sent by cell phone. Other digital means such as e-mail and social networking sites can be venues for persons sharing explicit photos and videos. (See Chapter 1 for further discussion of sexting among young persons.) Very little research has been conducted on voyeurism, although the same nationally representative study of 2,450 persons in Sweden cited earlier in the discussion of transvestic fetishism also examined the prevalence of voyeurism, as well as exhibitionism (discussed in the next section of this chapter). Nearly 8% reported at least one incident of being sexually aroused by spying on others having sex (Langstrom & Seto, 2006). Like their study on transvestic fetish- ism, the researchers found that voyeurism and exhibitionism were associated with several variables; that is, those reporting voyeuristic and exhibitionistic behaviors were more likely to be male, to have more psychological problems, and to have lower life satisfaction. Further, they had greater odds of reporting other variant sexual behaviors, such as transvestic fetishism and sadomasoch- ism. (See the “Th ink About It” box on page 312 and consider how you would answer the research questions about voyeurism that were posed to a sample of college students.)
Exhibitionism
Also known as “indecent exposure,” exhibitionism is the recurring, intense urge or fantasy to display one’s genitals to an unsuspecting stranger (APA, 2000). Th e individual, almost always male and sometimes called a “fl asher,” has acted on these urges or is greatly disturbed by them. People with exhibitionism may derive sexual gratifi cation from the exposure of their genitals: Th e general population study in Sweden on voyeurism and exhibitionism found that 3.1% of the study participants reported at least one episode of being aroused by exposing their genitals to a stranger (Langstrom & Seto, 2006). However, exposure is not a prelude or invitation to intercourse. Instead, it is an escape from intercourse, for the man never exposes himself to a willing woman—only to strangers or
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near-strangers. Typically, he obtains sexual gratifi cation after exposing himself as he fantasizes about the shock and horror he caused his victim. Other people with exhibitionism experience orgasm as they expose themselves; still others may masturbate during or after the exhibitionism (APA, 2000). Th ese men generally expose themselves to children, adolescents, and young women; they rarely expose themselves to older women. In those few instances in which a woman shows interest, the person with exhibitionism immediately fl ees. Usu- ally, there is no physical contact. Exotic dancers and nude sunbathers are not considered people with exhibitionism because they typically do not derive sexual arousal from the behavior, nor do they expose themselves to unwilling people. Furthermore, stripping for a sex partner to arouse him or her involves willing participants. Exhibitionism is a fairly common paraphilia; more than one third of all males arrested for sexual off enses are arrested for exhibitionism (Murphy & Page, 2008). Th e study citied earlier of “kinky” sexual behaviors found that 19% and 40% of lesbian and bisexual women, respectively, had ever partici- pated in photo or video exhibitionism (exposing oneself or performing a sexual act in front of a camera, as a sexual stimulus, alone or with a partner or partners) (Tomassilli et al., 2009). Because of the widespread incidence of exhibitionism, many women may have witnessed exhibitionism at least once in their lives. Between 40% and 60% of female college students have reported having had someone expose himself to them, commonly known as being “fl ashed” (Murphy & Page, 2008). Th e stereotype of the person with exhibitionism as a dirty old man, lurk- ing in parks or building entryways, dressed only in a raincoat and sneakers, is erroneous. Less than 10% of these individuals are over 50 years old, although a few may be in their eighties when they fi rst begin (Arndt, 1991; Kenyon, 1989). Sometimes, the term “exhibitionist” is used in a pejorative way to describe a woman who dresses provocatively. Th ese women, however, do not fi t the American Psychiatric Association (2000) defi nition of exhibi- tionism described above. For example, they do not expose their genitals, nor does the provocative dressing cause marked distress or involve interpersonal behavior. Labeling women who dress provocatively as “exhibitionists” is more a case of a moral judgment than a scientifi c assessment. Actually, women in our culture have more socially acceptable ways of exposing their bodies than men. Showing breast cleavage, for example, is widely accepted in our culture (Carroll, 2010). A clinical interview study of 25 males with exhibitionism in which data were collected from 2003 to 2005 added further understanding of the features of males with exhibitionism. Most of the participants were heterosexual, and all reported urges to expose themselves with little control of the urges. For this sample of exhibitionists, exposing oneself while driving was the most common expression of this paraphilia. Over 90% suff ered from depression, personality disorders, or substance abuse disorders, and suicidal thoughts were common (Grant, 2005). Exhibitionists often feel powerless as men, and their sexual relations with their wives or partners usually are poor. Th is sense of powerlessness gives rise to anger and hostility, which they direct toward other women by exhibiting themselves. However, they rarely are violent. If a person with exhibitionism confronts you, it is best to ignore and distance yourself from the person and then report the incident to the police. Reacting strongly, though a natural response, only rein- forces the behavior.
Some people like to exhibit their bodies within public settings that are “legitimized,” such as Mardi Gras. Such displays may be exhibitionistic, but they are not considered exhibitionism in the clinical sense.
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Telephone Scatologia
Telephone scatologia—the making of obscene phone calls to unsuspecting people—is considered a paraphilia because the acts are compulsive and repetitive or because the associated fantasies cause distress to the individual. Th ose who engage in this behavior typically get sexually aroused when their victim reacts in a shocked or horrifi ed manner. Obscene phone calls are generally made randomly, by chance dialing or phone book listings. Some people with this paraphilia repeatedly make these calls. Th e overwhelming majority of callers are male, but there are female obscene callers as well (Price, Kafka, Commons, Gutheil, & Simpson, 2002; Quayle, 2008). Male callers frequently make their female victims feel annoyed, frightened, anx- ious, upset, or angry, while the callers themselves often suff er from feelings of inadequacy and insecurity. Th ey may use obscenities, breathe heavily into the phone, or say they are conducting sex research. Also, they usually masturbate during the call or immediately afterward. Th e victims of male callers often feel violated, but female callers have a diff erent eff ect on male recipients, who generally do not feel violated or who may fi nd the call titillating (Matek, 1988). If you receive a harassing or obscene phone call, the best thing to do is not to overreact and to quietly hang up the telephone. Don’t engage in a conversa- tion with the caller, such as trying to determine why the person is calling or why the person won’t stop calling. Remember, the caller wants an audience. You should not give out personal information such as your name or phone number to anyone who is a stranger nor respond to any questions if you do not know the caller. If the phone immediately rings again, don’t answer it. If obscene calls are repeated, the telephone company suggests changing your number (many com- panies will do this at no charge), keeping a log of the calls, or, in more serious cases, working with law enforcement offi cials to trace the calls. Other solutions include screening calls with an answering service and obtaining caller ID. By the way, don’t include your name, phone number, or other personal informa- tion such as when you will be away and returning in the outgoing message on your answering service. One fi nal suggestion—be cautious in placing ads in newspapers or on electronic media or allowing strangers access to personal information on social networking sites. Use a post offi ce number or e-mail address. If you feel you must give your phone number, don’t give the address of your residence.
Frotteurism
Frotteurism (also known as “mashing,” “groping,” or “frottage”) involves recur- rent, intense urges or fantasies—lasting over a period of at least 6 months—to touch or rub against a nonconsenting person for the purpose of sexual arousal and gratifi cation (APA, 2000). It is not known how many people practice frot- teurism, but 21% of college males in one study reported having engaged in at least one episode of frotteurism (Templeman & Stinnett, 1991). Th e person with frotteurism, most often a male, usually carries out his touching or rubbing in crowded public places like subways or buses or at large sporting events or rock concerts (Lussier & Piche, 2008). When he enters a crowd, his initial rubbing can be disguised by the crush of people. He usually rubs against his victim’s buttocks or thighs with his erect penis inside his pants. Other times, he may use his hands to rub a woman’s buttocks, pubic region,
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thighs, or breasts. Th e frotteurism may be so surreptitious that the woman may not know what is happening. If she discovers it, the man will usually run away. Hence, nearly all men with frotteurism are able to escape being caught. While mashing, the male may fantasize about having consensual sex with the women, and he may recall the mashing episode when masturbating in the future. Frotteurism often occurs with other paraphilias, especially exhibitionism, voyeurism, pedophilia, and sadism. It is also associated with rape.
Necrophilia
Necrophilia is sexual activity with a corpse. It is regarded as nonconsensual because a corpse is obviously unable to give consent. Th ere are relatively few instances of necrophilia, yet it retains a fascination in horror literature, especially vampire stories and legends, and in gothic novels. It is also associated with ritual cannibalism in other cultures. Within our own culture, Sleeping Beauty features a necrophilic theme, as does the crypt scene in Shakespeare’s Romeo and Juliet. In a review of 122 cases of supposed necrophilia or necrophilic fantasies, researchers found only 54 instances of true necrophilia (Rosman & Resnick, 1989). Th e study found that neither sadism, psychosis, nor mental impairment was
“ The dead person who loves will love forever and will never be weary of
giving and receiving caresses.
—Ernest Jones (1879–1958)
think about it
Are you a sex addict? As you read descriptions of sexual addiction, you may begin to think that you are. But don’t believe everything you read. Consider the following: “The moment comes for every addict,” writes psychologist Patrick Carnes (1983, 1991), who developed and marketed the idea of sexual addiction, “when the consequences are so great or the pain so bad that the addict admits life is out of control because of his or her sexual behavior.” Money is spent on pornography, aff airs threaten a marriage, masturbation replaces jogging, and fantasies interrupt studying. Sex, sex, sex is on the addict’s mind. And he or she has no choice but to engage in these activities. According to Carnes, sex addicts cannot make a commitment; instead, they move from one aff air to another. Their addiction is rooted in deep-seated feelings of worthlessness, despair, anxiety, and loneliness. These feelings are temporarily allayed by the “high” obtained from sexual arousal and orgasm. According to Carnes, sexual addiction is viewed in the same light as alcoholism and drug addiction; it is an activity over which the addict has no control. And, as for alcoholism, a 12-step treatment program for sex addiction has been established by the National Council on Sexual Addiction/Compulsivity. Are you wondering, “Am I a sex addict?” Don’t worry; you’re probably not. The reason you might think you’re suff ering from sexual addiction is that its defi nition taps into many of the underlying anxieties and uncertainties we feel about sexuality in
“Sexual Addiction”: Repressive Morality in a New Guise?
our culture. The problem lies not in you but in the concept of sexual addiction. Although the idea of sexual addiction has found some adher- ents among clinical psychologists, they are clearly a minority. The infl uence of the sexual addiction concept is not the result of its impact on therapy, psychology, and social work. Its infl uence is due mainly to its popularity with the media, where talk-show hosts interview so-called sex addicts and advice columnists caution their readers about the signs of sexual addiction. The popularity of an idea is no guarantee of its validity, however. The sexual addiction concept has been rejected by a number of sex researchers as noth- ing more than pop psychology. These researchers suggest that the idea of sexual addiction is really repressive morality in a new guise. Attempts to describe certain sexual behaviors by labeling them as sexual addictions continue to be problematic for the professional sexuality community. Diff erent terms have been used in attempts to describe certain behavioral patterns. For example, Eli Coleman (1991,1996; cited in Tepper & Owens, 2007), director of the human sexuality program at the University of Minnesota Medical School, favors “sexual compulsivity” over “sexual addiction” and goes further by distinguishing between compulsive and problematic sexual behavior:
There has been a long tradition of pathologizing behavior which is not mainstream and which some might fi nd
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inherent in necrophilia. Instead, the most common motive for necrophilia was the possession of a partner who neither resisted nor rejected. Clearly, many people with necrophilia are severely mentally disturbed.
Pedophilia
Pedophilia refers to “recurrent intense sexual urges and sexually arousing fantasies involving sexual activity with a prepubescent child or children” that the individual has acted upon or fi nds distressing or that results in interper- sonal diffi culty (APA, 2000). However, acting upon fantasies without personal distress is still considered a pedophilia by the APA. According to the APA, the children are aged 13 or younger and a person with pedophilia must be at least 16 and at least 5 years older than the child. (A late adolescent is not considered to have pedophilia if he or she is involved in an ongoing sexual relationship with a 12-year-old or older child.) Almost all people with pedo- philia are males. Yet, their sexual contacts with children are relatively rare, occurring among probably less than 3% of the male population (Seto, 2008). Girls are about twice as likely to be the sexual objects of pedophilic behavior (Murray, 2000).
distasteful. Behaviors which are in confl ict with someone’s value system may be problematic but not obsessive- compulsive. Having sexual problems is common. Problems are caused by a number of nonpathological factors. . . . Some people will use sex as a coping mechanism similar to the use of alcohol, drugs, or eating. This pattern of sexual behavior is problematic. Problematic sexual behavior is often remedied by time, experience, education, or brief counseling.
Coleman and colleagues (1987; Coleman, Raymond, & McBean, 2003; Miner, Coleman, Center, Ross, & Simon Rosser, 2007) consider compulsive sexual behavior as a clinical syndrome in which the person experiences sexual urges, fantasies, and behaviors that are recurrent and intense and interfere with daily functioning. The term “hypersexuality” has sometimes been used as a less prejorative term for sexual addiction, but it has not been accepted by the APA. John Bancroft, senior research fellow and former director of The Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender, and Reproduction, and colleague Zoran Vukadinovic (2004) add even another perspective. After reviewing the concepts and theoretical bases of sexual addiction, sexual compulsivity, and sexual impulsivity ( another labeling term), they concluded that it is premature to attempt an overriding defi nition. They continue by noting that until there is better understanding of this type of
sexual expression, they prefer the general descriptive term “ out- of-control sexual behavior” (Bancroft, 2009). All of this discussion has challenged us to consider what is “excessive sexual behavior” and how culture shapes norms and our reactions and thoughts surrounding it. Certainly, it has caused mental health professionals to consider ways to address highly sexual persons. If your sexual fantasies and activities are distressing to you, or your behaviors are emotionally or physically harmful to yourself or others, you should consult a therapist. The chances are, however, that your sexuality and your unique expression of it are healthy.
Think Critically 1. What are your thoughts about the term “sexual
addiction”? Do you like the term “sexual compulsivity” or “out-of-control sexual behavior” better?
2. Do you agree or disagree that the idea of sexual addiction is really repressive morality in a new guise?
3. Have you ever wondered if you are a sex addict or that your sexual behavior is out of control? On what did you base this label?
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In this section, we discuss only pedophilia. Pedophilia is diff erent from “child sexual abuse,” “child molestation,” and “incest,” although all denote sex with minors, which is a criminal action. Pedophilia, as defi ned by the APA, is a psychiatric disorder. Not all of those who sexually abuse minors would be considered people with pedophilia unless the APA criteria are met. Sexual contact with a minor is not, in itself, a determination of pedophilia (Fagan, Wise, Schmidt, & Berlin, 2002). It is, however, illegal. Nonpedophilic child sexual abuse and incest, their impact on the victims, and prevention of child sexual abuse are discussed in Chapter 17. Child sexual abuse is illegal in every state. Some individuals with pedophilia prefer only one sex, whereas others are aroused by both male and female children. Th ose attracted to females usually seek 8–10-year-olds, and those attracted to males usually seek slightly older children. Some people with pedophilia are sexually attracted to children only, and some are aroused by both children and adults (APA, 2000). Research has shown that many persons with pedophilia have personality dis- orders, but why pedophilia exists remains a puzzle (Madsen, Parsons, & Grubin, 2006i, Seto, 2008). About half of people with pedophilia report stressful events, such as marital or work confl ict, personal loss, or rejection, preceding the sexual assault. Many are fearful that their sexual abilities are decreasing or that they are unable to perform sexually with their partners. People with pedophilia often use seduction and enticement to manipulate children—their own children, relatives, or children outside the family (APA, 2000). Th e Internet provides a way for a person with pedophilia to make contact with unsuspecting children. A man sometimes cruises chat rooms designed for children, and he may convince a girl to agree to e-mail, text, social media network, or telephone contact. He may befriend the girl, talking to her and giving her gifts. Pedophilic behaviors rarely involve sexual intercourse. Th e person with pedo- philia usually seeks to fondle or touch the child, usually on the genitals, legs, and buttocks. Sometimes, he exposes himself and has the child touch his penis. He may masturbate in the presence of the child. Occasionally, oral or anal stimula- tion is involved.
Sexual Sadism and Sexual Masochism
Sadism and masochism (or S & M) are separate but sometimes related phenomena that tend to accompany each other (McLawsen, Jackson, Vannoy, Gagliradi, & Scalora, 2008). People with sadism do not necessarily practice masochism, and vice versa. In order to make this distinction clear, the APA (2000) has created separate categories: sexual sadism and sexual masochism. Often, there is no clear dividing line between sexual sadism/sexual masoch- ism and domination and submission. Hence, the acronym BDSM—bondage, discipline, sadism, and masochism—is often used today given the broad pos- sibility of experiences (Carroll, 2010; Kleinplatz & Moser, 2006; Wiseman, 2000). In the case of sadism, coercion separates sexual sadism from domina- tion. But for consensual behaviors, there is no clear distinction. A rule of thumb for separating consensual sexual sadism and masochism from domina- tion and submission may be that acts of sadism and masochism are extreme, compulsive, and dangerous. Sadomasochistic sex partners often make specifi c agreements ahead of time concerning the amount of pain and punishment
“ I had to give up masochism—I was enjoying it too much.
—Mel Calman (1931–1994)
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that will occur during sexual activity. Nevertheless, the acting-out of fantasies involves risk, such as physical injury (e.g., a deep cut); thus, it is important that individuals communicate their preferences and limits before they engage in any new activity. A questionnaire study of 184 Finnish men and women who were members of two sadomasochistic-oriented clubs identifi ed 29 sexual behaviors that were grouped in four diff erent sexual scripts: hypermasculinity (e.g., using a dildo, an enema), administration and receipt of pain (e.g., hot wax, clothespins attached to nipples), physical restriction (e.g., using handcuff s), and psycho- logical humiliation (e.g., face slapping and using knives to make surface wounds) (Alison, Santtila, Sandnabba, & Nordling, 2001; Santtila, Sandnabba, Alison, & Nordling, 2002). Research has shown that sadomasochistic behav- ior occurs among gay men, lesbian women, and heterosexual individuals (Sandnabba et al., 2002). Nineteen percent and 26% of lesbian and bisexual women, respectively, reported ever participating in sadomasochism (Tomassilli et al., 2009).
Sexual Sadism According to the DSM-IV-TR, a person may be diagnosed with sexual sadism if, over a period of at least 6 months, she or he experiences intense, recurring sexual urges or fantasies involving real (not simulated) behaviors in which physical or psychological harm (including humiliation) is infl icted upon a victim for purposes of sexual arousal. Th e individual either has acted on these urges with a nonconsenting person or fi nds them extremely distressful (APA, 2000). Charac- teristic symptoms include violent sexual thoughts and fantasies involving a desire for power and control centering on a victim’s physical suff ering, which is sexually arousing (Kingston & Yates, 2008). Th e victim may be a consenting person with masochism or someone abducted by a person with sadism. Th e victim may be tortured, raped, mutilated, or killed; often, the victim is physically restrained and blindfolded or gagged (Money, 1990). However, most rapes are not committed by sexual sadists.
“ I would love to be whipped by you, Nora, love!
—James Joyce (1882–1941), from a love letter to his wife
Masochistic behaviors expressed with a partner may include being restrained, blindfolded, and humiliated, as seen here.
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Sexual Masochism According to the DSM-IV-TR, for a diagnosis of sexual masochism to be made, a person must experience for a period of at least 6 months intense, recurring sexual urges or fantasies involving real (not sim- ulated) behaviors of being “humiliated, beaten, bound, or otherwise made to suff er.” Th ese fantasies, sexual urges, or behaviors must result in signifi cant distress or social impairment. Some individuals express the sexual urges by themselves (e.g., through self-mutilation or by binding themselves); others act with partners. Masochistic behaviors expressed with a partner may include being restrained, blindfolded, paddled, spanked, whipped, beaten, shocked, cut, “pinned and pierced,” and humiliated (e.g., being urinated or defecated on or forced to crawl and bark like a dog). Th e individual may desire to be treated as an infant and be forced to wear diapers (“infantilism”). Th e degree of pain one must experience to achieve sexual arousal varies from symbolic gestures to severe mutilations. As noted previously, sexual masoch- ism is the only paraphilia that occurs with some frequency in women (Hucker, 2008).
Autoerotic Asphyxia A form of sexual masochism called autoerotic asphyxia (also called hypoxphilia, breath play, sexual asphyxia, or asphyxiphilia) links strangulation with masturbation. Th ose who participate in this activity seek to heighten their masturbatory arousal and orgasm by cutting off the oxygen supply to the brain. A person may engage in this practice either alone or with a partner. If death occurs, it is usually accidental. Autoerotic asphyxiation is an increasing phenomenon, with more than 1,000 fatalities in the United States per year and the ratio of male to female accidental deaths being more than 50 to 1 (Gosink & Jumbelic, 2000). Five percent of both lesbian and bisexual women reported ever having participated in asphyxiation (the limit- ing, restricting, or controlling of an individual’s air supply) for the purposes of sexual arousal or to enhance orgasm (Tomassilli et al., 2009). Because of the secrecy and shame that accompany this and other masturbatory activities, it is diffi cult to estimate the number of individuals who fi nd this practice arousing. Reports by survivors are extremely rare or are masked by another cause of death. Self-hanging is the most common method of autoerotic asphyxia, although some type of suff ocation is frequently used (Hucker, 2008). Individuals often use ropes, cords, or chains along with padding around the neck to prevent telltale signs. Some devise hanging techniques that permit them to cut them- selves loose just before losing consciousness (Johnston & Huws, 1997). Others may place bags or blankets over their heads. Still others inhale asphyxiating gases such as aerosol sprays or amyl nitrate (“poppers”), a drug used to treat heart pain. Th e corpses are usually found either naked or partially clothed, often in women’s clothing. Various forms of bondage have also been observed. A review of all published cases of autoerotic deaths from 1954 to 2004 found 408 deaths reported in 57 articles. Th e review revealed that autoerotic practi- tioners were predominantly White males ranging in age from 9 to 77 years. Most cases of asphyxia involved hanging, use of ligature, plastic bags, chemical substances, or a combination of these. Atypical methods accounted for about 10% of the cases and included electrocution, overdressing/body wrapping, foreign-body insertion, and chest compression (Sauvageau & Racette, 2006). Studies of survivors found that many of these individuals fantasized about
“ Ouch! That felt good.
—Karen E. Gordon
“ It’s been so long since I made love I can’t even remember who gets tied up.
—Joan Rivers (1933–)
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masochistic scenarios during the autoerotic behavior (Hucker, 2008). Th e pos- sibility of suicide should always be considered even in cases that initially appear to be accidental (Byard & Botterill, 1998). Although researchers have some understanding of why people participate in this practice, it is more important that medical personnel, parents, and other adults recognize signs of it and respond with strategies commensurate with its seriousness. Th ose who engage in such sexual practices rarely realize the poten- tial consequences of their behavior; therefore, parents and others must be alert to physical and other telltale signs. An unusual neck bruise; bloodshot eyes; disoriented behavior, especially after the person has been alone for a while; and unexplained possession of or fascination with ropes or chains are the key signs. Until we as a society can educate about, recognize, and respond to autoerotic asphyxia assertively and compassionately, we can expect to see more deaths as a result of this practice.
• Origins and Treatment of Paraphilias How do people develop paraphilias? Research on the causes of paraphilias has been limited and diffi cult to conduct; hence, fi ndings, though informative, are largely speculative (Laws & O’Donohue, 2008). As with many other behaviors, paraphilias probably result from some type of interaction among biology, socio- cultural norms, and life experiences. Because most people with paraphilia are male, biological factors may be particularly signifi cant. Some researchers have postulated that males with paraphilia may have higher testosterone levels than those without paraphilias, that they have had brain damage, or that the paraphilia may be inherited. Because the data are inconclusive, however, it has not been possible to identify a specifi c biological cause of paraphilia. People with paraphilia seem to have grown up in dysfunctional environments and to have had early experiences that limited their ability to be sexually stimulated by consensual sexual activity; as a result, they obtain arousal through varied means. Th ey may have low self-esteem, poor social skills, and feelings of anger and loneliness; be self-critical; and lack a clear sense of self (Fisher & Howells, 1993; Goodman, 1993; Marshall, 1993; Ward & Beech, 2008). Another factor may be a limited ability to empathize with the victims of their behavior. Th e psychological out- comes of these behaviors serve to direct sexual attraction and response away from intimate relationships in later life (Schwartz, 2000). Th erapists have found paraphilias to be diffi cult to treat (Laws & O’Donohue, 2008; McConaghy, 1998). Most people who are treated are convicted sex off enders, who have the most severe paraphilias, while those with milder paraphilias go untreated. Multifaceted treatments, such as psychodynamic therapy, aversive conditioning, cognitive-behavioral programs, relapse preven- tion, and medical intervention, have been tried to reduce or eliminate the symptoms of the paraphilia. Enhancing social and sexual skills, developing self-management plans, modifying sexual interests, and providing sexuality and relationship education may help people with paraphilia engage in more appropriate behavior (Marshall, Marshall, & Serran, 2006). However, even when the client desires to change, treatments may not be eff ective, and relapses often occur. Hence, some experts believe that prevention is the best approach, although prevention programs are currently very limited.
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Studying variations in sexual behaviors reveals the variety and complexity of sexual behavior. It also underlines the limits of tolerance. Mental health professionals and many others believe unconventional sexual behaviors, undertaken in private between consenting adults as the source of erotic pleasure, should be of concern only to the people involved. As long as physical or psychological harm is not done to oneself or others, is it anyone’s place to judge? Coercive paraphilic behavior, however, may be injurious and should be treated.
Final Thoughts
Summary Sexual Variations and Paraphilic Behavior
■ Sexual variation is behavior in which less than the majority of individuals engage or that is outside of the “mainstream” of sexual behavior. Variant sexual behavior is not abnormal behavior, the defi nition of which varies from culture to culture and from one historical period to another.
■ Recurring, intense, sexually arousing fantasies, urges, or behaviors involving nonhuman objects, suff ering or humiliation, or children or other nonconsenting individuals or animals are known as paraphilias. Paraphilias tend to be injurious, compulsive, and long-standing. Th ey may be noncoercive or coercive.
Sexual Variation: Domination and Submission
■ Domination and submission (D/S) is a form of con- sensual fantasy sex involving no pain with perceived power as the central element.
Noncoercive Paraphilias
■ Although there is little reliable data on the number of individuals involved, paraphilic activities are wide- spread in the nonoff ender population.
■ Fetishism is sexual attraction to objects. Th e fetishism is usually required or strongly preferred for sexual arousal.
■ Transvestism is the wearing of clothes of a member of the other sex, usually for sexual arousal.
Coercive Paraphilias
■ Zoophilia involves animals as the preferred sexual outlet even when other outlets are available.
■ Voyeurism is the nonconsensual and secret observation of others for the purpose of sexual arousal.
■ Exhibitionism is the exposure of the genitals to a nonconsenting stranger.
■ Telephone scatologia is the nonconsensual telephoning of strangers and often involves the use of obscene language.
■ Frotteurism involves touching or rubbing against a non- consenting person for the purpose of sexual arousal.
■ Necrophilia is sexual activity with a corpse. ■ Pedophilia refers to sexual arousal and contact with
children aged 13 or younger by adults. A person with pedophilia must be at least 16 and at least 5 years older than the child. Child sexual abuse is illegal in every state. For many people with pedophilia, the fact that a child is 13 years or younger is more im- portant than gender. Heterosexual and gay men may both be pedophilically attracted to boys; gay men with pedophilia are less attracted to girls.
■ Th e Internet is a place for people with pedophilia to contact unsuspecting children.
■ Th e majority of people with pedophilia know their victim. About half of pedophiles have been married. Th e most common activities are fondling and masturbation.
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■ Th ere are relatively few reported cases of females with pedophilia, but it may be underreported for two reasons: because of stereotypes of female nurturance, pedophilic activities may not be recognized and the majority of male children apparently view the event positively or neutrally.
■ Sexual sadism refers to sexual urges or fantasies of intentionally infl icting real physical or psychological pain or suff ering on a person.
■ Sexual masochism is the recurring sexual urge or fantasy of being humiliated or made to suff er through real behaviors, not simulated ones.
■ BDSM is an acronym used to describe the combination of bondage, discipline, sadism and masochism.
■ Autoerotic asphyxia is a form of sexual masochism linking strangulation with masturbatory activities.
Origins and Treatment of Paraphilias
■ Paraphilias are likely the result of social/environmental, psychological, and biological factors.
■ Paraphilias are diffi cult to treat, and relapses often occur.
■ Prevention programs may be the most eff ective way to address paraphilias.
Questions for Discussion ■ Do you consider certain sexual behaviors to
be “deviant,” “abnormal,” or “perverted”? If so, how did you come to believe this?
■ From the types of paraphilias discussed in this chapter, do you fi nd any of them to be repulsive or even “pathological”?
■ Do you think that labeling certain sexual behaviors as paraphilic is a refl ection of eff orts to control and discourage behaviors that society does not want expressed? If yes, should any sexual behaviors, such as pedophilia, be controlled? If no, why do you think certain sexual behaviors are labeled paraphilias?
■ Are you comfortable with the term “sexual variations”? If yes, why is it a good term for you? If no, which term do you like to describe “unusual” sexual behavior? Explain.
Sex and the Internet Paraphilias The web is one resource for locating information about paraphilias. Go to the Google website (http://www.google.com) and type “paraphilias” in the Google Search box. As you can see, there are a wide range of diff erent sites posted. Look over the posted sites and answer the following questions:
■ What types of websites are listed? ■ Are the sites from medical and academic organiza-
tions, individuals, or commercial groups?
■ Are there sites for specifi c paraphilias? ■ Which sites provide the most valuable information
to you? Why?
■ Did you learn anything new about paraphilias from the websites? If so, what?
■ Do you believe that any of the sites contain inaccurate or harmful information? Explain.
Suggested Websites AllPsych Online http://allpsych.com/disorders/paraphilias Off ers information on numerous psychiatric disorders, including symptoms, etiology, treatment, and prognosis for paraphilias and sexual disorders.
MedicineNet.com http://www.medicinenet.com/paraphilia/article Provides information on what behaviors are considered paraphilias, how common paraphilias are, the causes of paraphilias, and the treatment of paraphilias.
WebMD http://www.webmd.com/sexual_conditions/paraphilias Describes common paraphilias and provides a search for paraphilia information.
Suggested Reading Boyd, H. (2007). She’s not the man I married: My life with a
transgender husband. Emeryville, CA: Seal Press. Explores the impact of the author’s husband becoming a transgender person.
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Kleinplatz, P. J., & Moser, C. (2006). Sadomasochism: Powerful pleasures. Binghamton: NY: Harrington Park Press. Articles from leading experts discuss the results of research into practitioners’ behaviors and perspectives and stresses greater tolerance and understanding of S & M.
Laws, D. R., & O’Donohue, W. (Eds.). (2008). Sexual deviance: Th eory, assessment and treatment (2nd ed.).New York: Guilford Press. A collection of papers that examine the theories, assessment procedures, and treatment techniques for a spectrum of sexually variant behaviors.
Money, J. (1989). Lovemaps. Buff alo, NY: Prometheus Books. A description of variant and paraphilic behavior.
Tyler, A., & Bussel, R. K. (Eds.). (2006). Caught looking: Erotic tales of voyeurs and exhibitionists. San Francisco: Cleis Press.
A collection of 20 short fi ction stories with the theme being voyeurism and exhibitionism.
Valdez, N. (2010). A little bit kinky: A couple’s guide to rediscovering the thrill of sex. New York: Broadway Books. Th is book, for both men and women, provides ideas for the “kinky” side of sex, from the little bit kinky to the kinkiest behaviors.
For links, articles, and study material, go to the McGraw-Hill website, located at
www.mhhe.com/yarber8e.
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M A I N T O P I C S
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Methods of Contraception and Birth Control 330
Abortion 352
Research Issues 357
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Today, more than ever before, we are aware of the impact of fertility on our own lives, as well as on the world. Reproduction, once considered strictly a personal matter, is now a subject of open debate and political action. Yet, regardless of our public views, we must each confront fertility on a personal level. In taking charge of our reproductive potential, we must be informed about the availability and eff ectiveness of birth control methods, as well as ways to protect ourselves against sexually transmitted infections (STIs). But information is only part of the picture. We also need to understand our own personal needs, values, and habits so that we can choose methods we will use consistently, thereby minimizing our risks. In this chapter, we begin by examining the psychology of risk taking and the role of individual responsibility in contraception. We then describe in detail the numerous contraceptive devices and techniques that are used today: methods of use, eff ectiveness rates, advantages, and possible problems. Finally, we look at abortion, its eff ect on individuals and society, and research issues.
• Risk and Responsibility A typical American woman who desires two children spends about 5 years pregnant, postpartum, or trying to become pregnant and 30 years trying to avoid pregnancy (Guttmacher Institute, 2011b). Over the course of this time, her contraceptive needs will change; however, the most important factor in her choice of a method of contraception will often be its eff ectiveness. In the United States, nearly half of all pregnancies each year are unintended and about 4 in 10 of these are terminated by abortion (Guttmacher Institute, 2011c). Although on average a woman has only about a 2–4% chance of becoming pregnant during intercourse without contraception, age and timing aff ect the odds. For example, if intercourse occurs during ovulation, the chance of conception is about 25%. Over a period of a year, sexually active couples who do not use contraception have a 90% chance of conception. Because the potential for getting pregnant is so high for a sexually active, childbearing-age couple, it would seem reasonable that sexually active couples
The command ‘be fruitful and multiply’ was promulgated according to our
authorities, when the population of the world consisted of two people.
—Dean Inge (1860–1954)
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“My parents and I never talked about sex until I had to ask them questions for one of my high school classes. They got so excited about the topic. I guess they were just waiting for me to
ask. I remember my mom throwing a pack of condoms on the bed. She said, ‘Just in case!’ We just all laughed.”
—20-year-old male
“During the summer before my sophomore year, things started to change. My father came into my room much as he had done the fi rst time. It was ‘The Talk, Part Two.’ He asked me
if I knew what a condom was and told me about abstinence. I told him I wasn’t planning on having sex for a while, but I was lying; it was all I thought about. I felt awkward and embar- rassed. Nevertheless, he made his point, and before he left he said, ‘I love you.’ ”
—20-year-old male
“Mom gave me an important sense that my body was mine, that it was my responsibility and under my control. Birth control was always discussed whenever sex was mentioned, but when it was, it was treated like a joke. The message was that sex can be a magical thing as long as you are being responsible—responsible for not getting yourself or anyone else pregnant. Back then, sexually transmitted infections were not discussed, so it was the pill or a diaphragm for me and condoms for my brothers.”
—26-year-old female
Student Voices
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would use contraception to avoid unintended pregnancy. Unfortunately, all too often, this is not the case. Of the 62 million women in the United States of childbearing age (15–44), 38% do not need contraceptives because they are sterile, pregnant, postpartum, and breastfeeding, trying to become preg- nant, or abstinent (Mosher & Jones, 2010). Approximately 62% of the remaining women at risk for unintended pregnancy use some method of contraception (see Figure 11.1). Not surprisingly, the nonusers of contracep- tion account for about half of unintended pregnancies; those who used con- traception report that the method either failed or was not used correctly or consistently (see Figure 11.2). Numerous studies have indicated that the most consistent users of contracep- tion are men and women who explicitly communicate about the subject. People at greatest risk for not using contraceptives are those in casual dating relationships and those who infrequently discuss contraception with their partners or others.
Women, Men, and Birth Control: Who Is Responsible?
If oral contraceptives for men became available, how many women would trust their partner to use them? Because women bear children and have most of the responsibility for raising them, they often have a greater interest than their
Pill 17%
Condom 10%
All other methods
18%
Not using 38%
Female sterilization
17%
• FIGURE 11.1 Percentage of Women Aged 15–44 Who Used Each Contraceptive Method: United States, 2006–2008. (Source: Mosher & Jones, 2010.)
Did not think they could
get pregnant 44%
Did not expect to have sex
Worried about side
effects
Male partner did not want female to use birth control
Male partner did not want to use birth control
Did not really mind getting
pregnant
Note: Percentages add to more than 100 because women were allowed to give more than one reason for nonuse of contraception.
14% 23%
16%
7% 10%
• FIGURE 11.2 Unintended Pregnancy. Most unintended pregnancies are attributable to nonuse, ambivalence, fear of side effects, inconsistent use, or incorrect use of contraceptives. (Source: Mosher & Jones, 2010.)
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partners in controlling their fertility. Also, it is generally easier to keep one egg from being fertilized once a month than to stop millions of sperm during each episode of intercourse. For these and other reasons, birth control has tradition- ally been seen as the woman’s responsibility, but attitudes and practices are changing. Th e more schooling couples have, the more likely they are to talk about and utilize family planning. Education appears to instill confi dence in both partners to discuss intended family size and birth control methods. Regardless of the motive or level of education, society no longer views the responsibility for birth control to lie solely with women. Rather, the majority of men (as well as women) perceive that there is gender equality in sexual decision making and equal responsibility for decisions about contraception. Male methods account for approximately one fourth of all reversible contracep- tive use (Guttmacher Institute, 2010b). In fact, male methods of contraception (e.g., condoms and withdrawal) predominate among men 25–39 in all indus- trialized countries of the world except the United States. Although withdrawal, a common method in most countries around the world, is not considered a reliable method of birth control, the condom is quite eff ective when used consistently and correctly, especially in combination with a spermicide. In addition to using a condom, a man can take contraceptive responsibility by (1) exploring ways of being sexual without intercourse; (2) helping to pay doctor or clinic bills and sharing the cost of pills, injections, or other birth control methods; (3) checking on supplies, helping to keep track of his partner’s menstrual cycle, and helping her with her part in the birth control routine; and (4) in a long-term relationship, if no (or no more) children are planned, having a vasectomy.
Family Planning Clinics
Reproductive health care refl ects a deep commitment to supporting the family and makes an essential contribution to the human infrastructure in which our society thrives. Since more than 17 million women in the United States cannot
Planning contraception requires us to acknowledge our sexuality. One way a responsible couple can reduce the risk of unintended pregnancy is by visiting a family planning clinic—together.
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Most persons having sexual intercourse know they are taking a chance of getting pregnant when they don’t use contraception. But the more frequently a person takes chances with unprotected intercourse without resultant pregnancy, the more likely he or she is to do so again. Eventually, the woman or couple will feel almost magically invulnerable to pregnancy. Each time they are lucky, their risk taking is reinforced. The consequences of an unintended pregnancy—economic hardships, adoption, or abortion—may be overwhelming. So, why do people take chances in the fi rst place? Part of the reason is faulty knowledge. People often underestimate how easy it is to get pregnant, or they may not know how to use a contracep- tive method correctly. Additionally, talking about or using some types of birth control can be messy and can interrupt spontane- ity. But so can an unintended pregnancy. (See Figure 11.2 for reasons attributed to non use of contraceptives.)
Perceived Costs of Contraceptive Planning
One reason people avoid taking steps to prevent pregnancy is that they don’t want to acknowledge their own sexuality. Acknowledging our sexuality is not necessarily easy, for it may be accompanied by feelings of guilt, confl ict, and shame. The younger or less experienced we are, the more diffi cult it is for us to acknowledge our sexuality. Planning contraception requires us to acknowledge not only that we are sexual but also that we plan to be sexually active. Without such planning, men and women can pretend that their sexual intercourse “just happens”—when a moment of passion occurs, when they have been drinking, or when there is a full moon—even though it may happen frequently. Another reason people don’t use contraception is diffi culty in obtaining it. It is often embarrassing for sexually inexperienced people to be seen in contexts that identify them as sexual beings. The cost of contraceptives is also a problem for some. Although free or low-cost contraceptives may be obtained through family planning clinics or other agencies, people may have transportation or work considerations that keep them away. Because it is women who get pregnant, men may be un- aware of their responsibility or downplay their role in concep- tion, although with the popularity of the condom, responsibility may become more balanced (especially if women insist on it). Nevertheless, males, especially adolescents, often lack the awareness that supports contraceptive planning. Many people, especially women using the pill, practice birth control consistently and eff ectively within an ongoing relation- ship but may give up their contraceptive practices if the relation- ship breaks up. They defi ne themselves as sexual only within the
Risky Business: Why Couples Fail to Use Contraception
context of a relationship. When men or women begin a new relationship, they may not use contraception because the rela- tionship has not yet become established. They do not expect to have sexual intercourse or to have it often, so they are willing to take chances. Using contraception such as a condom or spermicide may destroy the feeling of spontaneity in sex. For those who justify their sexual behavior by romantic impulsiveness, using these devices seems cold and mechanical.
Anticipated Benefi ts of Pregnancy
Ambivalence about pregnancy is a powerful incentive not to use contraception. For many people, being pregnant proves that a woman is indeed feminine on the most fundamental biological level. Getting a woman pregnant provides similar proof of masculinity for a man. Pregnancy also proves beyond any doubt that a person is fertile. Many men and women have lingering doubts about whether they can have children. This is especially true for part- ners who have used contraception for a long time, but it is also true for those who constantly take chances. Another anticipated benefi t of pregnancy is that it requires the partners to defi ne their relationship and level of commitment to each other. It is a form of testing, albeit often an unconscious one. Many men and women unconsciously expect their partners to be pleased, but this is not always the reaction they get. Finally, pregnancy involves not only two partners but may involve their parents as well (especially the woman’s). Pregnancy may force a young person’s parents to pay attention to and deal with him or her as an adult. Pregnancy may mean many things with regard to the parent-child relationship: a sign of rebellion, a form of punishment for a parental lack of caring, a plea for help and understanding, or an insistence on autonomy, indepen- dence, or adulthood.
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Think Critically 1. If sexually active, do you take risks relative to not
adequately protecting yourself or your partner from conception? If so, what kinds? Why?
2. When do you believe a person is more inclined to take risks?
3. What would you say to a sexual partner who hesitates in using a condom because he or she doesn’t like the way it feels?
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aff ord reproductive health care, low-income women are far more likely to take advantage of publicly funded family planning clinics than those who have the means to seek out private care. Title X is the nation’s only federal program dedicated to providing family planning services for those in need, giving fund- ing for contraceptive services to approximately 7 million women each year. It is estimated that publicly funded family planning clinics result in a yearly savings of $5.1 billion in public funds (Guttmacher Institute, 2011b). In other words, for every $1.00 invested in family planning, $3.74 in Medicaid expenditures is saved. Among the poor are youth who either lack insurance or are afraid to ask their parents for help in gaining access to preventive doctor visits or contracep- tion. Over the past 30 years, some states have acknowledged this by providing laws that expand minors’ ability to consent to their own health care, including services related to family planning. Th is movement refl ects the recognition that many minors will remain sexually active but not seek services if they have to tell their parents beforehand. School districts are opting to provide birth control and condoms to their students. Still, creative strategies and broad-based changes aimed at both service providers and policy makers are still needed to improve access to and use of contraceptives among women, especially those who are disadvantaged (Guttmacher Institute, 2011b).
Adolescents and Contraception Condoms are the method of choice among sexually active teens. We know that among 15–19-year-olds, condom use at fi rst intercourse was 68% for females and 82% for males (Guttmacher, 2011b). It is important to remember that a sexually active teen who does not use con- traception has a 90% chance of becoming pregnant within a year (Guttmacher Institute, 2011e).
• Methods of Contraception and Birth Control Th e methods we use to prevent pregnancy or to keep it from progressing vary widely. Th us, the best method of contraception is one that will be used con- sistently and correctly. Hopefully, this method is also one that is available and in harmony with one’s preferences, fears, and expectations.
Birth Control and Contraception: What’s the Diff erence?
Although the terms “birth control” and “contraception” are often used interchange- ably, there is actually a subtle diff erence in meaning. Birth control is any means of preventing a birth from taking place. Th us, methods that prevent a fertilized egg from implanting in the uterine wall (such as the IUD in some instances and emergency contraceptive pills) and methods that remove the conceptus—the fer- tilized egg, embryo, or fetus—from the uterus (such as nonsurgical and surgical abortions) are forms of birth control. Th ese are not, however, true contraceptive methods. Contraception—the prevention of conception—is the category of birth control in which the sperm and egg are prevented from uniting. Th is is done in a variety of ways, including (1) barrier methods, such as condoms and diaphragms, which place a physical barrier between the sperm and the egg; (2) spermicides, which kill the sperm before they can get to the egg; (3) hormonal methods, such as the pill, the shot, the patch, the implant, and the ring, which inhibit the release of the oocyte from the ovary; and (4) intrauterine contraceptives or devices, which prevent the sperm from fertilizing the egg.
Inspired by the novel The Scarlet Letter, the comedy Easy A focuses on a set of teens who attempt to navigate their sexuality.
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Choosing a Method
To be fully responsible in using birth control, individuals must know what options they have, how reliable these methods are, and what advantages and disadvantages (including possible side eff ects) each has. Th us, it is important to be aware of both personal health issues and the specifi cs of the methods themselves. Most women who are not currently using contraception go to a clinic or doctor’s offi ce knowing exactly what method they want. However, many of these women are not aware of other options available to them. In some instances, the method they think they want may not be medically appropriate or may not be one they will use correctly and consistently. Knowing the facts about the methods gives you a solid basis from which to make decisions, as well as more security once you reach a decision. To help make an informed decision about which method of birth control is medically appropriate and will be used every time, consider these questions (Hatcher et al., 2011):
■ Do you have any particular preferences or biases related to birth control? ■ Do you know the advantages and disadvantages of each of the contraceptive
methods? ■ How convenient and easy is it to use this method? ■ If you or your partner is at risk, does this method protect against STIs,
including HIV? ■ What are the eff ects of this method on menses? ■ Is it important that you negotiate with your partner to help determine
the method? ■ What other infl uences (e.g., religion, privacy, past experience, friends’
advice, and frequency of intercourse) might aff ect your decision? ■ Have you discussed potential methods with your health-care practitioner?
In the following discussion of method eff ectiveness, “perfect use” refers to the percentage of women who become pregnant during their fi rst year of use when they use the method correctly and consistently. “Typical use” refers to the percentage of women who become pregnant during their fi rst year of use; this number includes both couples who use the method correctly and consistently and those who do not (see Table 11.1). Th us, typical use is the more signifi cant number to use when considering a method of contraception. In spite of very eff ective contraceptive options, and as mentioned earlier, about one half of all pregnancies in the United States are unintended.
Sexual Abstinence
Before we begin our discussion of devices and techniques for preventing concep- tion, we must acknowledge the oldest and most reliable birth control method of all: abstinence. Th ere is a wide variety of opinion about what constitutes sexual activity. However, from a family planning perspective, abstinence is the absence of genital contact that could lead to a pregnancy (i.e., penile penetration of the vagina). The term “celibacy” is sometimes used interchangeably with “abstinence.” We prefer “abstinence” because “celibacy” often implies the avoidance of all forms of sexual activity and, often, the religious commitment to not marry or to maintain a nonsexual life.
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Individuals who choose not to have intercourse are still free to express aff ection (and to give and receive sexual pleasure if they so desire) in a variety of ways that include talking, hugging, massaging, kissing, petting, and manually and orally stimulating the genitals. Th ose who choose sexual abstinence from sexual inter- course as their method of birth control need to communicate this clearly to their dates or partners. Th ey should also be informed about other forms of contracep- tion. And, in the event that either partner experiences a change of mind, it can’t hurt to have a condom handy. An advantage of abstinence is that refraining from
TABLE 11.1 • Failure Rates of Contraceptives During First Year of Use
% of Women Experiencing an Unintended Pregnancy Within the First Year of Use
% of Women Continuing Use at One Year
Method Typical Use
(%)a Perfect Use (%)b
No method 85 85
Spermicides 28 18 42
Fertility awareness-based methods 24 12 47
Withdrawal 22 4 46
Sponge
Parous women (given birth) 24 20 36
Nulliparous women (never given birth) 12 9 —
Condom
Female 21 5 41
Male 18 2 43
Diaphragm 12 6 57
Combined pill and progestin-only pill 9 0.3 67
Evra patch 9 0.3 67
NuvaRing 9 0.3 67
Depo-Provera 6 0.2 56
IUD
ParaGard (Copper T) 0.8 0.6 78
Mirena 0.2 0.2 80
Implanon 0.05 0.05 84
Female sterilization 0.5 0.5 100
Male sterilization 0.15 0.10 100
a The percentage of typical users who become pregnant within 1 year while using the method. b The percentage of women who become pregnant within 1 year using the method perfectly every time.
SOURCE: Adapted from Hatcher, R. A., et al. (2011). Contraceptive technology (20th rev. ed.). New York: Reprinted by permission of Ardent Media.
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sexual intercourse in a new relationship may allow two people to get to know and trust each other more before experiencing greater intimacy and it is nearly 100% eff ective at preventing pregnancy.
Hormonal Methods
In addition to the tried-and-true birth control pill, several varieties of hormonal contraception are also available. Th ese include a pill that causes menstrual sup- pression, birth control shot, a patch, a vaginal ring, and an implant.
The Pill Oral contraceptives (OCs), popularly called “the pill,” are the most popular form of reversible contraception in the United States, accounting for 17% of all contraceptives used (Guttmacher Institute, 2011b). Th e pill is actually a series of pills (various numbers to a package) containing synthetic estrogen and/ or progesterone that regulates egg production and the menstrual cycle. When taken for birth control, oral contraceptives accomplish some or all of the following:
■ Suppress ovulation (90–95% of the time). ■ Th icken cervical mucus (preventing sperm penetration into the woman’s
upper genital tract). ■ Th in the lining of the uterus to inhibit implantation of the fertilized ovum. ■ Slow the rate of ovum transport. ■ Disrupt transport of the fertilized egg. ■ Inhibit capacitation of the sperm, which limits the sperm’s ability to fer-
tilize the egg.
Th e pill produces basically the same chemical conditions that would exist in a woman’s body if she were pregnant.
Types and Usage Oral contraceptives must be prescribed by a physician or family planning clinic. More than 95 combinations are available, containing various amounts of hormones. Most commonly prescribed are the combination pills, which contain a fairly standard amount of estrogen (usually about 35 micrograms) and diff erent doses of progestin according to the pill type. In the triphasic pill, the amount of progestin is altered during the cycle, purportedly to approximate the normal hormonal pattern. Th ere is also a “minipill” contain- ing progestin only, but it has been generally prescribed only for women who should not take estrogen such as those who are breastfeeding and older women. It is considered slightly less eff ective than the combined pill, and it must be taken with precise, unfailing regularity to be eff ective. Progestin-only pills (POPs), sometimes called “minipills,” contain the hormone progestin. Taken at the same time each day, with no hormone-free days, the minipill provides an alternative to those who cannot safely take estrogen. Th ese include women who are breastfeeding or who have hypertension or sickle cell disease. Since the majority of the action of oral contraceptives relates to its progestin component, minipills may be a safe and eff ective alternative for some women. A woman can begin taking oral contraceptives on the same day as she receives her prescription, providing she is not pregnant and not in need of emergency contraception. Th is “quick start” practice may be preferred by women because other approaches generally leave a time gap between the time
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the pills are prescribed and the time one starts taking them. If a woman starts taking the pill within 5 days after starting her period, she is protected against pregnancy right away. Th e pill is considered the most eff ective birth control method available (except for sterilization) when used correctly. But the pill is not eff ective when taken inconsistently. It must be taken every day, as close as possible to the same time each day. If one pill is missed, it should be taken as soon as the woman remembers, and the next one taken on schedule. If two are missed, the method cannot be relied on, and an additional form of contraception should be used for the rest of the cycle. A shift to extended-use oral contraceptives acknowledges a little known fact: Women don’t need to have monthly periods. Extended-cycle oral contraceptives provide women with a safe, acceptable, and eff ective form of contraception (Planned Parenthood, 2011a). Th e use of these regimens provides women with more options and almost certainly improves the acceptability and effi cacy of hormonal contraception. Since none of the hormonal methods of birth control off er protection against STIs, women on the pill should consider the additional use of a condom.
Eff ectiveness Oral contraceptives are more than 99.7% eff ective if used cor- rectly. Th e typical-use rate is 91%.
Advantages Th e benefi ts of hormonal methods generally far outweigh any signifi cant negative eff ects. Pills are easy to take. Th ey are dependable. No appli- cations or interruptions are necessary before or during intercourse. In fact, mil- lions of women use the pill with moderate to high degrees of satisfaction. For many women, if personal health or family history does not contraindicate it, the pill is both eff ective and safe. Some women experience side eff ects that please them, such as more regular or reduced menstrual fl ow, less menstrual cramping, enlarged breasts, or less acne. Th e pill may off er some protection against osteopo- rosis and endometrial cancer, and may decrease the risk of benign breast condi- tions. In addition, new evidence has revealed that women on the birth control pill are protected from ovarian cancer, even decades after they stop taking it.
Possible Problems Th ere are many possible side eff ects, which may or may not prevent the user from taking the pill. Th ose most often reported are spot- ting, breast tenderness, nausea or vomiting, and weight gain or loss. Other side eff ects may include spotty darkening of the skin, nervousness and dizziness, loss of scalp hair, headaches, and changes in appetite, sex drive, and moods. Depending on the woman, hormones in the pills may increase or decrease a woman’s sex drive. Th ese side eff ects can sometimes be eliminated by changing the prescription, but not always. Certain women react unfavorably to the pill because of existing health factors or extrasensitivity to female hormones. Women who have certain inherited blood clotting disorders, high blood pressure, diabetes, gall bladder dis- ease, or sickle-cell disease, or who need prolonged bed rest, smoke, or are prone to migraine headaches are usually considered poor candidates for the pill. Women have a higher risk of blood clots if they are obese. Certain medications may react diff erently or unfavorably with the pill, either diminishing in their therapeutic eff ect or interfering with oral contraceptive eff ectiveness. Th us, it is important to check with your doctor before starting any new prescriptions if you are taking the pill.
Literature is mostly about sex and not much about having children and life is
the other way round.
—David Lodge (1921–2003)
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Although oral contraceptives are eff ective in preventing pregnancy, they do not provide protection against STIs, including HIV infection.
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Th e pill also creates certain health risks, but to what extent is a matter of controversy. Th ough the pill has been studied extensively and is very safe, in rare instances hormonal methods can lead to serious problems. Some of the warning signs to look for spell out the word “ACHES.” If you experience any of these, you need to check with your clinician as soon as possible:
■ Abdominal pain (severe) ■ Chest pain ■ Headaches (severe) ■ Eye problems (including blurred vision, spots, or a change in shape of
the cornea) ■ Severe leg pain
You should also consult your clinician if you develop severe mood swings or depression, become jaundiced (yellow-colored skin), miss two periods, or have signs of pregnancy. One brand of pill that has recently caught the attention of the public via a U.S. Food and Drug Administration (FDA) safety alert is Yaz, which has been shown to slightly increase the risk of blood clots and other vascular disorders (FDA, 2011a). Compared to older forms of oral contraceptives, the newer type of progestin hormone in this brand of pills may carry a higher risk of causing dangerous clots in the legs and lungs. Th erefore, women who are considering an oral contraceptive might want one of the older generation of drugs. Th e type of hormones and the stage of life when they are used may be what make them helpful at one point and harmful at another. Th e health risks for tak- ing the pill are low for the young, but they increase with age. Th e risk for smokers, women over 35, and those with certain other health disorders is considered high. Current literature on the pill especially emphasizes the risks for women who smoke. Defi nite risks of cardiovascular complications and various forms of cancer exist because of the synergistic action of the ingredients in cigarettes and oral contra- ceptives. Th is caution should be separated from claims linking the pill to breast cancer. Th e most recent literature suggests that the pill has little, if any, eff ect on the risk of developing breast cancer (Planned Parenthood, 2011b). Certain other factors may need to be taken into account in determining if oral contraceptives are appropriate for you. Since it is possible to get pregnant again shortly after a pregnancy or delivery, birth control needs to be considered. A woman can start the combination pill 3 weeks after giving birth vaginally or 6 weeks after giving birth if she is nursing or has an increased risk of blood clots. Th ough breast milk will contain traces of the pill’s hormones, it is unlikely that they will have any eff ect on a child and progestin-only pills will not aff ect a woman’s breast milk at all (Planned Parenthood, 2011b). Once a woman stops taking the pill, her menstrual cycle will usually resume within 2 months, though it may take several more months before it becomes regular. If a woman wants to become pregnant, it is recommended that she change to another method of contraception for 2–3 months after she stops taking the pill and then start eff orts to conceive.
Birth Control Shot (Depo-Provera) Th e birth control shot, known by the brand name Depo-Provera (DMPA), is an injection of the hormone progestin that is used to prevent pregnancy for 12 weeks. Th e progestin works by stop- ping ovulation, thickening the cervical mucus, and thinning the lining of the
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uterus, presumably to prevent a fertilized egg from attaching to the uterus (Planned Parenthood, 2011c). A woman should get her fi rst injection of DMPA within 7 days of the start of her menstrual period. Th e drug is eff ective imme- diately. Most women can use the birth control shot safely; however, risks and side eff ects are similar to those of the pill. Irregular bleeding is the most com- mon side eff ect, especially in the fi rst 6–12 months of use. Additionally, after 1 year, half of those using the shot will stop having periods completely. Th is side eff ect is very common and may cause some women who are not having periods to worry that they are pregnant. When the shot is used correctly, it is very eff ective. Th ere is no way to stop the side eff ects of Depo-Provera; they may continue for 12–14 weeks after the shot. Because it can take anywhere from 9 months to a year to become pregnant following the last shot, Depo- Provera is not a good birth control method for those desiring an immediate pregnancy. If a pregnancy does occur while a woman is on the shot, a rare occurrence, it is more likely to be an ectopic one, which can be life-threatening. (For more information about ectopic pregnancies, see Chapter 12.)
Eff ectiveness Th e perfect-use eff ectiveness rate is 99.8% while the typical-use rate is slightly less at 94%.
Advantages Because DMPA injections contain no estrogen, they do not appear to cause the rare but potentially serious problems associated with estro- gen. Additionally, DMPA is highly eff ective for 3 months, causes women to have very light or missed periods (women vary in their reactions to this), decreased menstrual symptoms, and less pain from endometriosis.
Disadvantages Menstrual cycle disturbances may occur, including unpre- dictable or prolonged episodes of bleeding or spotting, weight gain, and tem- porary and reversible decrease in bone density. Serious health problems are rarely associated with DMPA use; however, if a woman develops very painful headaches, heavy bleeding, serious depression, severe lower abdominal pain (may be a sign of pregnancy), or pus or pain at the site of the injection, she should see her clinician. Because Depo-Provera lowers estrogen levels, it may cause women to lose calcium stored in their bones. Women who use the shot may also have temporary bone thinning, which will abate once a woman stops taking the shot.
Birth Control Patch (Ortho Evra) Th e birth control patch, brand name Ortho Evra, is a thin, beige, plastic transdermal reversible method of birth con- trol that releases synthetic estrogen and progestin to protect against pregnancy for 1 month (Planned Parenthood, 2011d). Each week for 3 consecutive weeks, one patch is removed and a new one is placed on the lower abdomen, buttocks, upper arm, or upper torso (excluding the breast). Th is is followed by a patch-free week, when menstruation occurs. Th e combination of hormones works the same way that oral contraceptives do. Th e patch is most eff ective when it is changed on the same day of the week for 3 consecutive weeks. Pregnancy can happen if an error is made in using the patch, especially if it becomes loose for longer than 24 hours or falls off or if the same patch is left on for more than 1 week. If the patch has partially or completely detached for less than 24 hours, the woman should try to reapply it; however, if it does not stick well, a replacement should be applied. Two groups of women that may need additional counseling
The contraceptive patch, also called Ortho Evra, is prescribed by a physician and protects against pregnancy for one month.
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about the use of the contraceptive patch are adolescents and women who are above 130% of ideal body weight. Th e latter group should be aware that they have a slightly increased risk of pregnancy due to lower levels of blood hormones. In 2008, the FDA required that information appear on the label of the patch to warn users of their increased risk of developing serious blood clots (FDA, 2008). Women taking or considering using this product should work with their health-care practitioner to balance the potential risks related to increased estro- gen exposure against the risk of pregnancy. Like other hormonal methods of contraception, the patch requires a prescription.
Eff ectiveness Overall, contraceptive effi cacy of the patch is similar to that of oral contraceptives; if used perfectly, the patch is more than 99% eff ective. Typical use results in a success rate of 91%.
Advantages Like those who take OCs, many women who use the patch report the same benefi ts, including more-regular, lighter, and shorter periods. Furthermore, a woman’s ability to become pregnant returns quickly when the patch is discontin- ued. Ortho Evra is safe, simple, and convenient, and it does not interfere with sex. Additionally, a woman does not have to remember to take a pill each day.
Disadvantages Th e most common side eff ects reported by users of the patch include mild skin reactions, breast tenderness (mainly in cycles 1 and 2), head- aches, and nausea. Th e risk of stroke or heart attack is similar to that of com- bined oral contraceptives.
The Vaginal Ring (NuvaRing) A vaginal ring, commonly referred to as NuvaRing, is a form of a reversible, hormonal method of birth control (Planned Parenthood, 2011e). It is a small, fl exible ring inserted high into the vagina
Like a tampon, the ring can be placed anywhere in the vagina that is comfortable. There is no specifi c fi t or need to check the position of the ring. If it causes pressure, the user may just push it farther into the vagina.
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once every 28 days. Th e ring is kept in place for 21 days and removed for a 7-day break to allow a withdrawal bleed. Th e ring releases synthetic estrogen and progestin, preventing ovulation in a manner similar to that of other com- bined hormonal contraceptives. Th e vaginal ring is prescribed by a doctor.
Eff ectiveness Like the other methods of hormonal contraception, if used perfectly, the vaginal ring is more than 99% eff ective. Typical use results in a success rate of 91%.
Advantages Th e ring protects against pregnancy for 1 month and is easy to use. Many women who use the ring have more-regular, lighter, and shorter periods. A woman can stop using NuvaRing at any time, off ering her more control over contraception than with some other hormonal methods of birth control. Th e ring provides a consistent release of hormones, does not usually cause weight gain, and can be removed for up to 3 hours without compromising eff ectiveness.
Disadvantages Th e side eff ects of the ring are similar to those associated with oral contraceptives. Additionally, there may be an increased risk of blood clots possibly due to the hormone desogesterel. Vaginal wetness, sensation of a foreign body, expulsion, and headaches may also occur. Th e ring should not be used by women who have weak pelvic fl oor muscles. Additionally, it may be less eff ective for women weighing more than 200 pounds.
Implants Implanon, a contraceptive implant, is a thin, fl exible plastic rod about the size of a cardboard matchstick that is inserted under the skin of the upper arm and protects against pregnancy for up to 3 years (Planned Parent- hood, 2011f ). Like several other progestin-containing methods of birth control, Implanon prevents the ovaries from releasing eggs and thickens the cervical mucus to block sperm. Implants are among the most eff ective of the available contraceptives, sim- ilar in eff ectiveness to intrauterine devices (IUDs) and sterilization (Hatcher et al., 2011). Currently, there is no distinction between the implant and other progestin-only methods with respect to increased risk of blood clots. Implanon requires a doctor to insert and remove it, along with the use of local anesthesia. If a woman desires to become pregnant within the 3 years following insertion, the device can be removed.
Advantages Th e device is highly eff ective, easy to insert, discrete, does not interrupt sex or require maintenance, has no estrogen-related side eff ects, is easily reversible and may provide relief of pelvic pain due to endometriosis, or other causes.
Disadvantages Like all progestin-only methods, implants may cause unpre- dictable bleeding and weight gain, may have insertion complications, and may increase the risk of blood clots. Th e implant is also clinician-dependent, so that once it is inserted, women have little control over their contraceptive choices.
Barrier Methods
Barrier methods are designed to keep sperm and egg from uniting. Th e barrier device used by men is the condom. Barrier methods available to women include the diaphragm, the cervical cap, the female condom, the contraceptive sponge,
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FemCap, and Lea’s Shield. Th ese methods of birth control have become increas- ingly popular because, in addition to preventing conception, they can reduce the risk of STIs. Th e eff ectiveness of all barrier methods is increased by use with spermicides, which are discussed later in this chapter.
The Condom A condom (or male condom) is a thin, soft, fl exible sheath of latex rubber, polyurethane, or processed animal tissue that fi ts over the erect penis to help prevent semen from being transmitted. Condoms prevent infec- tions by covering the portals of entry and exit for many STI organisms. Condoms are the third most widely used form of birth control in the United States (after sterilization and the pill). Th eir use has increased signifi cantly since the late 1980s, due in large part to their eff ectiveness in helping prevent the spread of STIs, including HIV, when they are used properly. (For a further discussion of the use of condoms, see Chapter 15.) Condoms are available in a wide variety of shapes, sizes, and colors. Some are lubricated with a small amount of spermicide, nonoxynol-9 (N-9). A small proportion of condoms are made of polyurethane and other syn- thetic materials. Th ese condoms are more resistant to deterioration than latex condoms, have a longer shelf life, and can provide an alternative if a person is allergic to latex. Unlike latex condoms, oil-based lubricants can be used with condoms made from synthetic materials. Evidence for protection against STIs is not available; however, they are believed to provide protection similar to that of latex condoms (Hatcher et al., 2011). Most condoms are very thin (but also strong), conduct heat well, and allow quite a bit of sensation to be experienced. While picking out condoms can be a fun experience, if you need them for protection, be sure to read the label to see if they are FDA-approved for use against unplanned pregnancy and STIs. Latex condoms should be used with water-based lubricants (like K-Y Jelly) or glycerine only because oil-based lubricants such as Vaseline can weaken the rubber. If a condom breaks, slips, or leaks, there are some things a person can do (see the section “Emergency Contraception” later in the chapter).
Male condoms come in a variety of sizes, colors, and textures; some are lubricated, and many have a reservoir tip designed to collect semen.
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practically speaking
Condoms can be very eff ective contraceptive devices when used properly. They also can protect against STIs, including HIV. Here are some tips for their use:
1. Use condoms every time you have sexual intercourse; this is the key to successful contraception and disease prevention.
2. Check the expiration date on the package and press the container to make sure there is an air pocket.
3. Carefully open the condom package—teeth or fi ngernails can tear the condom.
4. If the penis is uncircumcised, pull back the foreskin before putting on the condom.
5. Do not use a condom lubricated with nonoxynol-9 (N-9) for vaginal or anal intercourse. Condoms with N-9 cost more, have a shorter shelf life, and lack any benefi t, compared to condoms that are not lubricated with N-9.
6. Put on the condom before it touches any part of a partner’s body.
7. If you accidentally put the condom on wrong-side up, discard the condom and use another.
8. Leave about a half inch of space at the condom tip, and roll the condom all the way down the erect penis to the base. Push out any air bubbles.
9. Withdraw the penis soon after ejaculation. Make sure some- one holds the base of the condom fi rmly against the penis as it is withdrawn.
10. After use, check the condom for possible tears. If you fi nd a tear or hole, consider the use of emergency contraception (see the section “Emergency Contraception” later in the chapter). If torn condoms are a persistent problem, use a water-based lubricant such as K-Y jelly.
11. Do not reuse a condom.
12. Keep condoms in a cool, dry, and convenient place.
13. To help protect against HIV and other STIs, always use a latex rubber or polyurethane condom, not one made of animal tissue.
14. Don’t forget to incorporate sensual ways of placing the condom on the penis.
Tips for Eff ective Condom Use
(a) Place the rolled condom on the erect penis, leaving about a half inch of space at the tip (fi rst, squeeze any air out of the condom tip). (b) Roll the condom down, smoothing out any air bubbles. (c) Roll the condom to the base of the penis. (d) After ejaculation, hold the condom base while withdrawing the penis.
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(c)
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Women and Condom Use Today, nearly half of male condoms are purchased by women, and condom advertising and packaging increasingly refl ect this trend. Several key points are relevant to the issue of women and condom use:
■ Women experience more health consequences than men from STIs; they can suff er permanent infertility, for example. Condoms, when used con- sistently and correctly, are an eff ective means of protection against these.
■ Since women are far more likely to contract an STI from intercourse with a male partner than vice versa, it is in the woman’s best interest to use or have her partner use a condom.
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practically speaking
This scale is designed to measure an individual’s perception of the ease or diffi culty with which he or she can correctly apply and use male condoms. Using a scale ranging from 1 (very diffi cult) to 5 (very easy), respondents are asked how it would be to perform various correct condom-use tasks.
Directions
Please circle the number that represents how easy or diffi cult it would be to do what each question asks.
1. How easy or diffi cult would it be for you to fi nd condoms that fi t you properly?
Very diffi cult Very easy
1 2 3 4 5
2. How easy or diffi cult would it be for you to apply condoms correctly?
Very diffi cult Very easy
1 2 3 4 5
3. How easy or diffi cult would it be for you to keep a condom from drying out during sex?
Very diffi cult Very easy
1 2 3 4 5
4. How easy or diffi cult would it be for you to keep a condom from breaking during sex?
Very diffi cult Very easy
1 2 3 4 5
Correct Condom Use Self-Effi cacy Scale
5. How easy or diffi cult would it be for you to keep an erection while using a condom?
Very diffi cult Very easy
1 2 3 4 5
6. How easy or diffi cult would it be for you to keep a condom on when withdrawing after sex?
Very diffi cult Very easy
1 2 3 4 5
7. How easy or diffi cult would it be for you to wear a condom from start to fi nish of sex with your partner?
Very diffi cult Very easy
1 2 3 4 5
Interpretation
A higher score indicates greater self-effi cacy for correct use of male condoms.
SOURCE: Crosby, R. A., Graham, C. A., Milhausen, R. R., Sanders, S. A., & Yarber, W. L. (2011). In T. D. Fisher, C. M. Davis, W. L. Yarber, & S. L. Davis, Handbook of sexuality-related measures (3rd ed.). New York: Routledge.
■ Condoms help protect women against unplanned pregnancy, ectopic pregnancy, bacterial infections such as vaginitis and pelvic infl ammatory disease (PID), viral infections such as herpes and HIV, cervical cancer, and infections that may harm a fetus or an infant during delivery.
■ A woman can protect herself by insisting on condom use. Even if a woman regularly uses another form of birth control, such as the pill or an intrauterine contraceptive (IUC), she may want to have the added protection provided by a condom.
Eff ectiveness With perfect use, condoms are 98% eff ective in preventing conception, but user eff ectiveness is about 88%. Failures sometimes occur from mishandling the condom, but they are usually the result of not putting it on until after some semen has leaked into the vagina or simply not putting it on at all. When used in anal sex, a male condom is more likely to break and slip than when used for vaginal sex if adequate lubrication is not used.
It is now vitally important that we fi nd a way of making the condom a
cult object of youth.
—Germaine Greer (1939–)
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Advantages Condoms are easy to obtain and do not cause harmful side eff ects. Th ey are easy to carry and are inexpensive or even free. Latex condoms help protect against STIs, including HIV infection. Some men appreciate the slightly reduced sensitivity they experience when using a condom because it helps prolong intercourse.
Possible Problems Condoms can reduce but cannot eliminate the risks of STIs, nor are they 100% eff ective in preventing pregnancy. Th e chief draw- back of a condom is that it should be put on after the penis has become erect but before penetration. Th is interruption is the major reason users neglect to put condoms on. Some men and women complain that sensation is dulled, and (very rarely) cases of allergy to rubber are reported. Couples who experience signifi cant loss of feeling with one type of condom are advised to try other kinds.
The Female Condom Currently, there is one female condom available for women. Called Reality, it is a disposable, soft, loose-fi tting polyurethane pouch with a diaphragm-like ring at each end. It is designed to line the inner walls of the vagina and to protect women against sperm. If used cor- rectly and consistently, the female condom reduces the risk of contracting many STIs, including HIV. One ring, which is sealed shut, is inside the sheath and is used to insert and anchor the condom against the cervix. Th e larger outer ring remains outside the vagina and acts as a barrier, protecting the vulva and the base of the penis (see Figure 11.3). Th is condom can also be inserted into the rectum to provide protection during anal intercourse. Th e pouch is lubricated both inside and out with a nonspermicidal lubri- cant and is meant for one-time use. Female and male condoms should not be used together because they can adhere to each other and cause one or both to slip out of position.
Uterus
Cervix covered
Vaginal canal
• FIGURE 11.3 The Female Condom in Position (left). The female condom, a sheath of soft polyurethane, is anchored around the cervix with a fl exible ring (much like a diaphragm). A larger ring secures the sheath outside the vagina and also helps protect the vulva.
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Eff ectiveness Th e perfect-use contraceptive eff ectiveness rate for female con- doms is 95%, similar to that for other barrier methods in protecting against pregnancy. Th e typical-use eff ectiveness rate is 79%.
Advantages One advantage of the female condom over the male condom is that it not only protects the vagina and cervix from sperm and microbes but also is designed so that the open end covers the woman’s external genitals and the base of her partner’s penis, thus off ering both people excellent protection against infections. Because polyurethane is stronger than latex, the device is less likely than the male latex condom to break and can be used with both water- and oil-based lubricants. Female condoms may prove advantageous for women whose partners are reluctant to use a male condom, in part because they do not constrict the penis as may male latex condoms. Th ey also give women an additional way to control their fertility, do not require a prescription, and transport heat.
Possible Problems Th e female condom is relatively problem-free. Th e major complaint is aesthetic: Some women dislike the complete coverage of the female genitals provided by the condom (one of its chief health advantages) and don’t want to use it for this reason. Sometimes, the female condom may slip into the vagina or anus during intercourse. Noise made during intercourse may be distracting; however, additional lubricant can quiet this.
The Diaphragm A diaphragm is a rubber cup with a fl exible rim that is placed deep inside the vagina, blocking the cervix, to prevent sperm from enter- ing the uterus and fallopian tubes. Somewhat eff ective by itself, the diaphragm is highly eff ective when used with a spermicidal cream or jelly. (Creams and jellies are considered more eff ective than foam for use with a diaphragm.) Once inserted, the diaphragm provides eff ective contraceptive protection for 6 hours. After intercourse, it should be left in place for at least 6 hours. A woman should not dislodge it or douche before it is time to remove it. If inter- course is repeated within 6 hours, the diaphragm should be left in place and more spermicide inserted with an applicator. To remove a diaphragm, the woman inserts a fi nger into her vagina and under the front of the diaphragm rim and then gently pulls it out. Th e diaphragm should be washed in mild soap and water and patted dry before being put away in its storage case. A diaphragm is available by prescription only and should be replaced about once a year.
Eff ectiveness Studies of diaphragm eff ectiveness have yielded varying results. Th ough the perfect-use eff ectiveness rate is quite high at 94%, the typical-use rate falls considerably, to 84%. Consistent, correct use is essential to achieve maximum eff ectiveness.
Advantages Th e diaphragm is safe, is relatively inexpensive, has limited side eff ects, and can be discretely used.
Possible Problems Some women dislike the process of inserting a diaphragm, or the mess or smell of the spermicide used with it. Some men complain of rubbing or other discomfort caused by the diaphragm. Occasionally, a woman will be allergic to rubber. Some women have a slightly increased risk of repeated urinary tract infections (see Chapter 15). Because there is a small risk of toxic
When used correctly and consistently and with a spermicide, the diaphragm can be an eff ective method of contraception.
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shock syndrome (see Chapter 3), associated with its use, a woman should not leave a diaphragm in her vagina for more than 24 hours.
The Sponge After being taken off the market in 1994, the sponge, other- wise called Today Sponge, has fi nally returned. Th is round plastic foam shield measures about 2 inches in diameter and has a pouch in the center that fi ts over the cervix. Th e sponge is fi lled with the spermicide nonoxynol-9 (N-9). Because N-9 does not reduce the risk of HIV infection, women should always use a latex condom—just as they should with all other contraceptive methods. Th e insertion and removal of the sponge is similar to that of the diaphragm and, with a little practice, is easy to do. An advantage of the sponge is that it can be left in place for up to 24 hours without reinsertion or the application of more spermicide. Th e perfect-use eff ectiveness rate varies, depending on whether a woman has had a baby, but averages 78% for typical use. Th e lowered eff ectiveness rate may be because the one size in which the sponge is available may not adequately cover the cervix after childbirth. Shelf life of the sponge is limited.
FemCap and Lea’s Shield Both FemCap and Lea’s Shield are vaginal barriers that prevent pregnancy in ways similar to those of the diaphragm. Made from silicon rubber shaped like a sailor’s cap, FemCap comes in three sizes and can be worn for up to 48 hours, double the time recommended for similar birth control devices. Lea’s Shield is a one-size, cup-shaped silicon device that con- tains a central valve that allows passage of cervical secretions and air. Both devices are held in place by suction, must be used with a spermicide, and must be obtained through a health-care provider. Th e perfect-use and typical-use eff ectiveness rates are similar to those of the diaphragm.
Advantages Th e cervical cap may be more comfortable and convenient than the diaphragm for some women. Much less spermicide is used than with the diaphragm, and spermicide need not be reapplied if intercourse is repeated. Th e cap can be inserted many hours before intercourse and can be worn for as long as 48 hours. It does not interfere with the body physically or hormonally.
Possible Problems Some users are bothered by an odor that may develop from the interaction of the cap’s rubber with either vaginal secretions or the spermicide. Th ere is some concern that the cap may contribute to erosion of the cervix. If a partner’s penis touches the rim of the cap, it can become dis- placed during intercourse. Th eoretically, the same risk of toxic shock syndrome exists for the cervical cap as for the diaphragm. (See also possible problems associated with the diaphragm.)
Spermicides
A spermicide is a substance that is toxic to sperm. Th e most commonly used spermicide in products sold in the United States is the chemical nonoxynol-9 (N-9). Originally developed as a detergent, N-9 has been used for nearly 50 years as a vaginal cream that rapidly kills sperm cells. Cautions about N-9 have been suggested for several years, and it is now known that frequent spermicidal use can lead to genital ulceration and irritation that could facilitate the transmis- sion of STIs, including HIV (Hatcher et al., 2011). Spermicidal preparations
Since if the parts be smooth conception is prevented, some anoint that part of
the womb on which the seed falls with oil of cedar, or with ointment of lead or with frankincense, commingled with olive oil.
—Aristotle (384–322 BCE)
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The sponge is easy to use, is relatively eff ective, and safe, but does not protect against HIV.
The cervical cap is smaller than a diaphragm and covers only the cervix.
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are available in a variety of forms: foam, fi lm, cream, jelly, and suppository and are considered most eff ective when used in combination with a barrier method of contraception. Spermicides are sold in tubes, packets, or other containers that hold 12–20 applications. Th e perfect-use eff ectiveness is 82% while the typical use eff ectiveness is 72%.
Contraceptive Foam Contraceptive foam is a chemical spermicide sold in aerosol containers. It is a practical form of spermicide for use with a condom. Methods of application vary with each brand, but foam is usually released deep in the vagina either directly from the container or with an applicator. Th e foam forms a physical barrier to the uterus, and its chemicals kill sperm in the vagina. It is most eff ective if inserted no more than half an hour before intercourse. Shaking the container before applying the foam increases its foaminess so that it spreads farther. Th e foam begins to go fl at after about half an hour. It must be reapplied when intercourse is repeated. Some women dislike applying foam, complaining of messiness, leakage, odor, or stinging sensations. Occasionally, a woman or a man may have an allergic reaction to the foam. Because it is impossible to know how much remains in a container of foam, it is wise to keep a backup can available at all times.
Contraceptive Film Contraceptive fi lm (also called vaginal contraceptive fi lm [VCF]) consists of a paper-thin tissue that contains nonoxynol-9, which dissolves into a sticky gel when inserted into the vagina. Th e fi lm is placed directly over the cervix at least 15 minutes before intercourse to allow time for the sheet to dissolve and disperse. Like other spermicides, contraceptive fi lm works eff ectively in conjunction with the male condom. Many women fi nd fi lm easy to use. It can be obtained from a drugstore and carried in a purse, wallet, or pocket. However, some women may not like insert- ing the fi lm into the vagina, and others may be allergic to it. Some women report increased vaginal discharge and temporary skin irritation to be a problem.
Creams, Jellies, and Vaginal Suppositories Spermicidal creams and jellies come in tubes and are inserted with applicators or placed inside diaphragms or cervical caps. Th ese chemical spermicides can be bought without a prescrip- tion at most drugstores. Th ey work in a manner similar to that of foams but are considered less eff ective when used alone. Suppositories are chemical spermicides inserted into the vagina before inter- course. Body heat and fl uids dissolve the ingredients, which will kill sperm in the vagina. Suppositories must be inserted early enough to dissolve completely before intercourse. Spermicidal creams, jellies, and suppositories are simple to use and easy to obtain. Th ey may reduce the danger of acquiring pelvic infl ammatory disease (see Chapter 13). Th e use of spermicides does not aff ect any pregnancy that may follow. Some people have allergic reactions to spermicides. Some women dislike the messiness or odor involved or the necessity of touching their own geni- tals. Others experience irritation or infl ammation, especially if they use any of the chemicals frequently. A few women lack the vaginal lubrication to dissolve the suppositories in a reasonable amount of time. And a few women complain of being anxious about the eff ectiveness of these methods during intercourse.
Contraceptive fi lm is among the types of spermicides that are available without a prescription.
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The IUCs (Intrauterine Contraceptives)
Intrauterine contraception (IUC), also referred to as an intrauterine device (IUD), is a long-acting reversible contraceptive method that involves the place- ment of a small fl exible plastic device into the uterus to prevent sperm from fertilizing ova (see Figure 11.4). Th e type of device inserted determines how long it may be left in place; the range is 5–20 years. Th e two IUCs currently available in the United States are the Copper T 380A (TCu380A), marketed as ParaGard, and a hormone-releasing intrauterine system, marketed as Mirena. ParaGard is made of polyethylene; the stem of the T is wrapped with fi ne copper wire. It can be left in place for 10 years, however, these devices have been safely left in place for up to 20 years. Mirena is made of a polymer plastic with a hollow stem containing levonorgestrel, a progestin, which is continually released. Th is device is eff ective for 5 years, though data suggest that it is eff ective for up to 7 years. At the time an IUC is removed, a new one can be inserted. IUCs are the most inexpensive long- term and reversible form of birth control, and must be inserted and removed by a trained practitioner. Current evidence does not support the common belief that the IUC is an abortifacient, a device or substance that causes an abortion. Rather, it primar- ily prevents pregnancy by preventing fertilization. Both types of IUCs alter the lining of the uterus. Additionally, the progestin in Mirena prevents ovulation and thickens cervical mucus. IUCs are 99% eff ective with perfect use; the typical-use eff ectiveness rate is 98%. Once inserted, IUCs require little care and don’t interfere with sponta- neity during intercourse; however, insertion may be uncomfortable. Also, heavy cramping typically follows and sometimes persists. Menstrual flow usually increases, often significantly, with the use of ParaGard but decreases after 3–6 months of using Mirena. An estimated 2–10% of IUC users, especially women who have never borne children, expel the device within the first year. This usually happens during the first 3 months after inser- tion. Another IUC can be inserted, however, and many women retain it the second time.
• FIGURE 11.4 An IUC (Copper T 380A or ParaGard) in Position (left) and the Progestin-Releasing IUC (Mirena) (right). Once the IUC is inserted, the threads attached to the IUC will extend into the vagina through the cervical opening.
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Few methods of contraception are as convenient, eff ective, and as low a daily cost as the IUC. Additionally, fertility rebounds quickly upon discontinuation, users are at low risk for side eff ects, and the device has been shown to provide some protection against ectopic pregnancy, or one that occurs outside the uterus. An IUC is also an excellent alternative for women who cannot use oral contraceptives because of medical disorders (Hatcher et al., 2011).
Fertility Awareness–Based Methods
Fertility awareness–based (FAB) methods of family planning require substan- tial education, training, and diligence. Th ey are based on a woman’s knowledge of her body’s reproductive cycle. Requiring a high degree of motivation and self-control, these methods are not for everyone. FAB methods are also referred to as “natural family planning.” Some people make the following distinction between the two: With fertility awareness, the couple may use an alternative method (such as a diaphragm with jelly or a male condom with foam) during the fertile part of the woman’s cycle. Natural family planning does not include the use of any contraceptive device and is thus considered to be more natural; it is approved by the Catholic Church. Fertility awareness–based methods include the calendar (rhythm) method, the basal body temperature (BBT) method, the cervical mucus method, and the symptothermal method, which combines the latter two (see Figure 11.5). Th ese methods are free and pose no health risks. If a woman wishes to become preg- nant, awareness of her own fertility cycles is useful. But these methods are not suitable for women with irregular menstrual cycles or for couples not highly motivated to use them. Certain conditions or circumstances, such as recent menarche, approaching menopause, recent childbirth, breastfeeding, and recent discontinuation of hormonal contraceptives, make fertility awareness methods more diffi cult to use and require more extensive monitoring. Couples practicing abstinence during fertile periods may begin to take risks out of frustration. Among typical users of fertility awareness, about 24% of women experience unintended pregnancy during the fi rst year of use because it is diffi cult to predict when ovulation will occur.
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Last day of unprotected intercourse after menstrual period
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• FIGURE 11.5 Fertility Awareness Calendar. To use the calendar method or other fertility awareness methods, a woman must keep track of her menstrual cycles. (a) This chart shows probable safe and unsafe days for a woman with a regular 28-day cycle. (b) This chart shows safe and unsafe days for a woman whose cycles range from 25 to 31 days. Note that the woman with an irregular cycle has signifi cantly more unsafe days. The calendar method is most eff ective when combined with the basal body temperature (BBT) and cervical mucus methods.
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The Calendar (Rhythm) Method Th e calendar (rhythm) method is based on calculating “safer” days, which depends on the range of a woman’s longest and shortest menstrual cycles. It may not be practical or safe for women with irregular cycles. Because sperm generally live 2–4 days, the maximum period of time in which fertilization could be expected to occur may be calculated with the assistance of a calendar. To prevent pregnancy, a woman should not rely on this method alone. Ovulation generally occurs 14 (plus or minus 2) days before a woman’s menstrual period. (However, ovulation can occur anytime during the cycle, including the menstrual period.) Taking this into account, and charting her menstrual cycles for a minimum of 8 months to determine the longest and shortest cycles, a woman can determine her expected fertile period. (Figure 11.5 shows the interval of fertility calculated in this way.)
The Basal Body Temperature (BBT) Method A woman’s temperature tends to be slightly lower during menstruation and for about a week afterward. Just before ovulation, it dips a few tenths of a degree; it then rises sharply (one half to nearly one whole degree) at the time of ovulation. It stays high until just before the next menstrual period. A woman practicing the basal body temperature (BBT) method must record her temperature every morning upon waking for 6–12 months to gain an accurate idea of her temperature pattern. Th is change can best be noted using a BBT thermometer, before getting out of bed. When she can recognize the rise in her temperature and predict when in her cycle ovulation will occur, she can begin using the method. She should abstain from intercourse or use an alternative contraceptive method for 3–4 days before the expected rise and for 4 days after it has taken place.
Cervical Mucus Method Women who use the cervical mucus method determine their stage in the menstrual cycle by examining the mucus secretions of the cervix. In many women, there is a noticeable change in the appearance and character of cervical mucus prior to ovulation. After menstruation, most women experience a moderate discharge of cloudy, yellowish or white mucus. Th en, for a day or two, a clear, stretchy mucus is secreted. Ovulation occurs immediately after the clear, stretchy mucus secretions appear. Th e preovulatory mucus is elastic in consistency, rather like raw egg white, and a drop can be stretched into a thin strand. Following ovulation, the amount of discharge decreases markedly. Th e 4 days before and 4 days after these secretions are considered the unsafe days. Fewer pregnancies occur when intercourse takes place only on the dry days following ovulation (“Fertility Awareness,” 2005).
The Symptothermal Method When two or more fertility indicators are used together, the approach is called the symptothermal method. Additional signs that may be useful in determining ovulation are midcycle pain in the lower abdomen on either side, a slight discharge of blood from the cervix (“spotting”), breast tenderness, feelings of heaviness, and/or abdominal swelling.
Lactational Amenorrhea Method (LAM)
A highly eff ective, temporary method of contraception used by exclusively breastfeeding mothers is called the lactational amenorrhea method, or LAM. LAM relies on lactational infertility for protection from pregnancy. Th is method
“ Women who miscalculate are called mothers.
—Abigail Van Buren (1918–)
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is more than 98% eff ective the fi rst 6 months following a birth if the woman has not experienced her fi rst postpartum menses and she is fully or nearly fully breastfeeding her child.
Sterilization
Sterilization is the most widely used method of contraception in the world, in both developing and developed countries (Landry, 2003). Of all women using a contraceptive in 2006–2008, 17% relied on female sterilization and 6% relied on male sterilization (Mosher & Jones, 2010). Couples and indi- viduals choose sterilization because they want to limit or end childbearing. Sterilization involves surgical intervention that makes the reproductive organs incapable of producing or delivering viable gametes (sperm and eggs). Th e sterilization procedure is simpler, safer, and cheaper when performed on men than when performed on women.
Sterilization for Women Female sterilization is now a relatively safe, simple, and common procedure. Most female sterilizations are tubal ligations, familiarly known as “tying the tubes” (Figure 11.6). Th e two most common operations are laparoscopy and minilaparotomy. Less commonly performed types of sterilization for women are laparotomy and culpotomy or culdoscopy. Generally, this surgery is not reversible; only women who are absolutely certain that they want no (or no more) children should choose this method.
Laparoscopy Th ere are a variety of techniques used to sterilize women, and all seem to provide the same eff ectiveness. Sterilization by laparoscopy is the most frequently used method. Th is procedure is performed on an out- patient basis and takes 20–30 minutes. Th e woman’s abdomen is infl ated with gas to make the organs more visible. Th e surgeon inserts a rodlike instrument with a viewing lens (the laparoscope) through a small incision at the edge of the navel and locates the fallopian tubes. Th rough this incision or a second one, the surgeon inserts another instrument that closes the tubes, usually by
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Uterus
• FIGURE 11.6 Types of Female Sterilization. A variety of techniques are used to render a woman sterile.
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electrocauterization (burning). Special small forceps that carry an electric cur- rent clamp the tubes and cauterize them. Th e tubes may also be closed off or blocked with tiny rings, clips, or plugs; no stitches are required. Th ere is a recovery period of up to a week. During this time, the woman will experi- ence some tenderness, cramping, and vaginal bleeding. Rest is important.
Transcervical Sterilization A permanent method of birth control that does not require surgery is called transcervical sterilization. Th is method involves inserting a thin instrument through the cervix and uterus to reach the fallopian tubes, which are then blocked permanently with a micro-rod to prevent preg- nancy. Currently, two methods are available in the United States, Essure and Adiana. Both are highly eff ective and convenient because insertion is usually done in an outpatient setting. During the fi rst 3 months following insertion, the device will form a tissue barrier that prevents sperm from reaching the egg. By 6 months, the device is considered nearly 100% eff ective at preventing pregnancy.
Evaluating the Sterilization Methods for Women Once sterilization has been done, no other method of birth control will ever be necessary. (A woman who risks exposure to STIs, however, should protect herself with a condom.) Sterilization does not reduce or change a woman’s hormone levels. It is not the same as menopause, nor does it hasten the onset of menopause, as some people believe. A woman still has her menstrual periods until whatever age menopause naturally occurs for her. Th e regularity of menstrual cycles is also not aff ected. A woman’s ovaries, uterus (except in the case of hysterectomy), and hormonal system have not been changed. Th e only diff erence is that sperm cannot now reach her eggs. (Th e eggs, which are released every month as before, are reabsorbed by the body.) Sexual enjoyment is not diminished. In fact, a high percentage of women report that they feel more relaxed during intercourse because anxiety about pregnancy has been eliminated. Th ere seem to be no harmful side eff ects associated with female sterilization. Sterilization should be considered irreversible.
Sterilization for Men A vasectomy is a surgical procedure that can be per- formed in a doctor’s offi ce under a local anesthetic. It takes approximately half an hour. In this procedure, the physician makes a small incision (or two incisions) in the skin of the scrotum. Th rough the incision, each vas deferens (sperm-carrying tube) is lifted, cut, tied, and often cauterized with electricity (Figure 11.7). After a brief rest, the man is able to walk out of the offi ce; complete recuperation takes only a few days. A man may retain some viable sperm in his system for days or weeks fol- lowing a vasectomy. Because it takes about 15–20 ejaculations to get rid of these sperm, a couple should use other birth control until the man’s semen has been checked. Vasectomies are 99.9% eff ective. Regardless, the man may still wish to use a condom to prevent acquiring or transmitting STIs. Sexual enjoyment will not be diminished; the man will still have erections and orgasms and ejaculate semen. A vasectomy is relatively inexpensive compared with female sterilization. Compared with other birth control methods, the complication rates for vasectomy are very low. Most problems occur when proper antiseptic measures are not taken during the operation or when the man exercises too strenuously in the few days after.
Transcervical sterilization involves inserting a micro-rod into each fallopian tube. Tissue growth (causing sterilization) takes about 12 weeks.
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Men who equate fertility with virility and potency may experience psycho- logical problems following a vasectomy. However, most men experience no adverse psychological reactions if they understand what to expect and have the opportunity to express their concerns and ask questions. Vasectomy should be considered permanent.
Emergency Contraception (EC)
No birth control device is 100% eff ective. Furthermore, intercourse sometimes occurs unexpectedly, and rape is, unfortunately, always a possibility. Emergency contraception (EC), also known as the “morning-after pill” or Plan B, One- Step, is a safe and eff ective way to prevent pregnancy following unprotected intercourse. To be eff ective, it must be taken within 3 days after unprotected sexual intercourse. Th e product contains higher levels of a hormone found in some types of daily-use oral contraceptive pills. EC is not the “abortion pill” (RU-486), and it will not terminate an established pregnancy, in which the fertilized egg has already attached itself to the wall of the uterus, nor will it cause any harm to the developing fetus. Rather, EC inhibits ovulation and thickens cervical mucus, which prevents the sperm from joining the egg. Capping a contentious eff ort around access to emergency contraception, the Department of Health and Human Services ruled that Plan B One-Step be available without a prescription for those over 18, but for women 17 and younger a prescription will be required (FDA, 2011b). Plan B One-Step is a brand of hormone pills that is specially packaged as emergency contraception. It does not, however, have the same risks as taking hormonal contraceptives because the hormones in Plan B One-Step do not stay in a woman’s body as long as they do with ongoing birth control. Emergency contraception should not be used as a form of ongoing birth control because it is less eff ective. Th ough many women use Plan B One-Step with few or no problems, nausea and vomiting are among the most common side eff ects. Other side eff ects may include breast tenderness, irregular bleeding, dizziness, and headaches.
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• FIGURE 11.7 Male Sterilization, or Vasectomy. This is a relatively simple procedure that involves local anesthesia and results in permanent sterilization.
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Th e ParaGard IUC can be used as EC when inserted by a health-care prac- titioner within 120 hours after unprotected sexual intercourse and then left in place to provide ongoing contraception. Th e mechanism interferes with implan- tation and may act as a contraceptive if inserted prior to ovulation.
• Abortion When most people hear the word “abortion,” they think of a medical procedure. But abortion, or expulsion of the conceptus, can happen naturally or can be made to happen in one of several ways. Many abortions occur spontaneously— because a woman suff ers a physical trauma, because the conceptus is not prop- erly developed, or, more commonly, because physical conditions within the uterus break down and end the development of the conceptus. Approximately one third of all abortions reported annually in the United States are spontaneous abortions, or death of a fetus before it can survive on its own, otherwise referred to as miscarriage (see Chapter 12). In this section, however, we examine induced abortions, or intentionally terminated pregnancies. Unless otherwise noted, when we refer to abortion, we mean induced abortion. Abortions cannot be viewed as if they are all the same. Distinctions must be made, for example, among wanted, unintended, and unwanted pregnancies. Th e duration of pregnancy, more than any other factor, determines which abor- tion method is performed.
Methods of Abortion
An abortion can be induced in several ways. Surgical methods are most common in this country, but the use of medications is also possible, as is suction. Methods for early abortions (those performed in the fi rst 3 months of pregnancy) diff er from those for late abortions (those performed after the 3rd month). Over 90% of all abortions occur in the fi rst 3 months of preg- nancy, and 63% occur in the fi rst 8 weeks (Mosher & Jones, 2010) (see Figure 11.8).
Medication Abortion (RU-486) After a decade of controversy, medication abortion (long known as RU-486 and marketed as Mifeprex) became available in the United States in 2000. Widely used in several European countries for over two decades, it has been shown to be safe, eff ective, and acceptable (Hatcher et al., 2011) and has become an increasingly common alternative to surgical procedures. In fact, RU-486 induced abortions now account for 25% of early abortions (Hatcher et al., 2011).
Doctors can now prescribe a number of regimens, though the two-drug regimen (mifepristone and misoprostol) remains the most common in the United States to terminate early pregnancy. Mife- pristone prevents the cells of the uterine lining from getting the progesterone that is necessary to establish and maintain placental
attachment. Depending on the regimen used, this method is most eff ective when used during the fi rst 63 days (9 weeks) of pregnancy.
Surgical Methods Surgical methods include vacuum aspiration, and dilation and evacuation (D&E).
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• FIGURE 11.8 Weeks of Pregnancy When Women Have Abortions. In 2008, 91.4% of abortions occurred In the fi rst 13 weeks of gestation. (Source: Mosher & Jones, 2010.)
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Vacuum Aspiration (First-Trimester Method) Vacuum aspiration is the method used for nearly all fi rst-trimester instrumental abortions (Hatcher et al., 2011). Th is safe and simple method is performed under local anesthesia. Th e fi rst step involves the rinsing of the vagina with an antiseptic solution. Next, the cervix is dilated with a series of graduated rods. Th en a small tube attached to a vacuum is inserted through the cervix. Th e uterus is gently vacuumed, removing the conceptus, placenta, and endometrial tissue (see Figure 11.9).
Dilation and Evacuation (D&E) (Second-Trimester Method) Dilation and evacuation (D&E) is usually performed during the second trimester (weeks 13 to 24) of pregnancy, but it can be performed beyond week 24. Local or general anesthesia is used. Th e cervix is slowly dilated, and the fetus is removed by alternating curettage and other procedures. Because it is a second-trimester procedure, a D&E is somewhat riskier and often more traumatic than a fi rst- trimester abortion.
Second-Trimester Induction Abortions In rare cases during the late part of the second trimester, abortion can be achieved by administering medications, such as misoprostol, that cause the uterus to contract and eventually expel the fetus and placenta. All second-trimester induced methods have side eff ects specifi c to the medications used.
Safety of Abortion
Abortions performed in the fi rst trimester pose virtually no long-term physical or psychological risks (Hatcher et al., 2011; Munk-Olsen et al., 2011). In fact, the risk of dying from a modern legal abortion is less than 1 in 100,000 procedures (Hatcher et al., 2011). Th e single greatest factor infl uencing the safety of abortion is gestational age, with those performed in early pregnancy being the safest. Regardless of the method performed, however, almost all women have some bleed- ing after the procedure that lasts from several days to several weeks, and the risks of complications increase with the length of pregnancy. For most women, transient feelings of loss, sadness, or stress that accompany the decision to have an abortion are often replaced with relief and satisfaction with their decision.
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• FIGURE 11.9 Vacuum Aspiration. (a) The vagina is opened with a speculum, and a thin vacuum tube is inserted through the cervix into the uterus. (b) The uterus is gently vacuumed, and the conceptus and other contents of the uterus are suctioned out.
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Women and Abortion
Many women are reluctant to talk openly about their abortion experiences, but accurate information about women who have abortions may help dispel their possible feelings of isolation or rejection. A broad cross section of U.S. women have abortions (Guttmacher Institute, 2011f, 2011g):
■ 58% of women having abortions are in their 20s; ■ 56% are unmarried and are not cohabiting; ■ 69% are economically disadvantaged; ■ 52% are Hispanic and White women, 40.2% are Black women, and
7.3% are women in other races ■ 78% report a religious affi liation; and ■ 61% have one or more children.
With an estimated 1.2 million procedures performed in 2008, abortion is a common experience among women in the United States (Guttmacher Institute, 2011f). (See Figure 11.10.) It is important to remember that women who have abortions are as diverse as their reasons for doing so. Th e reasons women have given for why they had an abortion underscore their understanding of the respon- sibilities of parenthood and family life. Th ree fourths of women cite concerns or responsibility for others; three fourths say they cannot aff ord a child; three fourths say that having a child would interfere with work, school, or the ability to care for dependents; and half say they do not want to be single parent or are having problems with their husband or partner (Guttmacher Institute, 2011f). Making a decision about abortion, regardless of the ultimate outcome, raises many emotional issues for women. Th ere are few painless ways of dealing with an unintended pregnancy. For many women, such a decision requires a reeval- uation of their relationships, an examination of their childbearing plans, a search to understand the role of sexuality in their lives, and an attempt to clarify their life goals. Clearly, women and men need accurate information about fertility cycles and the risk of pregnancy when a contraceptive is not used consistently or correctly, as well as access to contraceptive and abortion services.
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Men and Abortion
In the abortion decision-making process, the vast majority of male partners know about and support the woman’s decision (Jones, Moore, & Frohwirth, 2010). On the other hand, a sizable minority (12%) of U.S. women obtaining abortions are not in a relationship with the man who got them pregnant, and these women may be unable, or see little reason, to inform the biological father. Th ose who received the least amount of support (7%) were those who had experienced intimate partner violence. It’s probably not surprising to know that the ability to rely on their partners for support vastly improves women’s post- abortion well-being and adjustment (Jones et al., 2010). Still, there is the lure of fatherhood. A pregnancy forces a man to confront his own feelings about parenting. Parenthood for males, as for females, can be a profound right. For young men, there is a mixture of pride and fear about potential fatherhood and adulthood. After an abortion, many men feel residual guilt, sadness, and remorse. It is also somewhat common for couples to split up after an abortion; the stress, confl ict, and guilt can be overwhelming. Many clinics now provide counseling for men, as well as women, involved in an abortion.
The Abortion Debate
In the abortion debate, those who believe abortion should be prohibited gener- ally identify themselves as “pro-life.” Th ose who support a woman’s right to choose for herself whether to have an abortion generally identify themselves as “pro-choice.”
The Pro-Life Stance For those who oppose abortion, there is a basic principle from which their stance follows: Th e moment an egg is fertilized, it becomes a human being, with the full rights and dignity aff orded other humans. An embryo is no less human than a fetus, and a fetus is no less human than a baby. Morally, aborting an embryo is the equivalent of murder. Even though the majority of those opposing abortion would consider rape and incest (and sometimes a defective embryo or fetus) to be exceptions, the pro-life leadership generally opposes any justifi cation for an abortion other than to save the life of the pregnant woman. To abort the embryo of a rape or incest survivor, they reason, is still to take an innocent human life. In addition, pro-life advocates argue that abortion is the fi rst step toward a society that eliminates undesirable human beings. If we allow the elimination of embryos, they argue, what is to stop the killing of people who are disabled or elderly, or merely inconvenient? Finally, pro-life advocates argue that there are thousands of couples who want to adopt children but are unable to do so because so many pregnant women choose to abort rather than to give birth.
The Pro-Choice Argument Under safe, clean, and legal conditions, abortion is a very safe medical procedure. Self-administered or illegal, clandestine abor- tions, however, can be very dangerous. Th e continued availability of legal abor- tion is considered by most physicians, psychologists, and public health professionals to be critical to the public’s physical and mental well-being. Th ose who believe that abortion should continue to be legal present a number of arguments. First, the fundamental issue is who decides whether a woman will bear children: the woman or the government. Because women continue to bear
“ I have noticed that all the people who favor abortion have already been born.
—Ronald Reagan (1911–2004)
“ There are few absolutes left in the age after Einstein, and the case of abortion,
like almost everything else, is a case of relative goods and ills to be evaluated one against the other.
—Germaine Greer (1939–)
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the primary responsibility for rearing children, pro-choice advocates believe that women should not be forced to give birth to unwanted children. Second, in addition to supporting comprehensive sexuality education and contraception to eliminate much of the need for abortion, pro-choice advocates believe that abortion should continue to be available as birth control backup. Because no contraceptive method is 100% eff ective, unintended pregnancies occur even among the most conscientious contraceptive users. Th ird, if abortion is made illegal, large numbers of women nevertheless will have illegal abortions, substantially increasing the likelihood of procedural com- plications, infections, and death. Th ose who are unable to have an abortion may be forced to give birth to and raise a child they did not want or cannot aff ord to raise.
Constitutional Issues In 1969 in Texas, 21-year-old Norma McCorvey, a single mother, discovered she was pregnant. In the hope of obtaining a legal abortion, she lied to her doctor, saying that she had been raped. Her physician informed her, however, that Texas prohibited all abortions except those to save the life of the mother. He suggested that she travel to California, where she could obtain a legal abortion, but she had no money. Two lawyers heard of her situation and took her case in order to challenge abortion restrictions as an unconstitutional invasion of the individual’s right to privacy. For the case, McCorvey was given “Roe” as a pseudonym. In 1970, a court in Texas declared the law unconstitutional, but the state appealed the decision. Meanwhile, McCorvey had her baby and gave it up for adoption. Ultimately, the case reached the U.S. Supreme Court, which issued its famous Roe v. Wade decision in 1973. Under the 1973 Roe decision, a woman’s right to abortion is guaran- teed as a fundamental right, part of the constitutional right to privacy. At the time, only four states permitted abortion at the woman’s discretion. Th e Roe decision created a fi restorm of opposition among political and reli- gious conservatives and fueled a right-wing political resurgence. But because abortion was determined a fundamental right by the Roe decision, eff orts by the states to curtail it failed. Since the 1973 Supreme Court decision in Roe v. Wade, states have been undergoing rigorous debate about how best to interpret, regulate, limit, and defi ne under what circumstances a woman may obtain an abortion. Th ough a host of legislative challenges have occurred and a variety of abortion laws are on the books, many laws may not be enforced. A few highlights of the laws at the time of printing of this book include (Guttmacher Institute, 2011h):
■ 39 states require an abortion to be performed only by a licensed physician; ■ 40 states prohibit abortions, except when necessary to protect the woman’s
life or health, most often after fetal viability is determined; ■ 18 states prohibit “partial-birth” abortions, in spite of the fact that a
defi nition for this term is not yet suffi ciently precise or agreed upon; ■ 26 states require a woman seeking an abortion to wait a specifi ed period
of time, usually 24 hours, between abortion counseling and the procedure; ■ 36 states require some type of parental involvement in a minor’s decision
to have an abortion.
Th e shared objective between the pro-life and pro-choice camps is the reduction in the number of abortions performed each year in this country. Research both
“ If men could get pregnant, abortion would be a sacrament.
—Florynce Kennedy (attributed) (1916–2000)
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in this country and abroad has demonstrated that education about eff ective and safe sexual choices and access to contraceptive services can decrease abor- tion rates (Pazol et al., 2011). While each state will continue to defi ne and enforce laws according to the ideological standpoints of its leaders, the protec- tion of legal abortion is in the hands of the Supreme Court. Th e votes of these justices will be critical in infl uencing access to abortion in this country.
• Research Issues Most users of contraception fi nd some drawback to whatever method they choose. Hormonal methods may be costly or have undesirable side eff ects. Put- ting on a condom or inserting a sponge may seem to interrupt lovemaking too much. Th e inconveniences, the side eff ects, the lack of 100% eff ectiveness—all point to the need for more eff ective and more diverse forms of contraception than we have now. High developmental costs, government regulations, social issues, political con- straints, and marketing priorities all play a role in restricting contraceptive research. Th e biggest barrier to developing new contraceptive techniques may be the fear of lawsuits. Pharmaceutical manufacturers will not easily forget that the IUD market was virtually destroyed in the 1970s and 1980s by numerous costly lawsuits. Another reason for limited contraceptive research is extensive government regulation, which requires exhaustive product testing. Although no one wants to be poisoned by medicines, perhaps it wouldn’t hurt to take a closer look at the process by which new drugs become available to the public. Approval by the FDA takes an average of 7.5 years. Drug patents are in eff ect for only 17 years, so the pharmaceutical companies have less than 10 years to recover their devel- opmental costs once a medication is approved for sale. Furthermore, pharmaceu- tical companies are not willing to expend millions in research only to have the FDA refuse to approve the marketing of new products. According to chemist Carl Djerassi (1981), the “father” of the birth control pill, safety is a relative, not an absolute, concept. We may need to reexamine the question “How safe is safe?” and weigh potential benefi ts along with possible problems. Th ough research has investigated a number of contraceptives for men, none have been found to adequately eliminate sperm production while maintaining the libido.
“ A lily pond, so the French riddle goes, contains a single leaf. Each day the
number of leaves doubles—two leaves the second day, four the third, eight the fourth, and so on. Question: If the pond is completely full on the thirtieth day, when is it half full? Answer: On the twenty-ninth day. The global lily pond in which [six] billion of us live may already be half full.
—Lester Brown (1934–)
Control over our fertility helps us control our lives. It also allows the human species to survive and, at least in parts of the world, to prosper. The topic of birth control provokes much emotional controversy. Individuals and institutions alike are inclined to believe in the moral rightness of their particular stance on the subject, whatever that stance may be. As each of us tries to fi nd his or her own path through the quagmire of controversy, we can be guided by what we learn. We need to arm ourselves with knowledge—not only about the methods and mechanics of contraception and birth control but also about our own motivations, needs, weaknesses, and strengths.
Final Thoughts
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Summary Risk and Responsibility
■ Over the period of 1 year, sexually active couples who do not use contraception have a 90% chance of getting pregnant. Not surprising, the nonusers of contraception account for about half of unintended pregnancies.
■ Many people knowingly risk pregnancy by having unprotected intercourse. Th e more “successful” they are at risk taking, the more likely they are to take chances again. People also take risks because of faulty knowledge, denial of their sexuality, or a subconscious desire for a child.
■ Because women are the ones who get pregnant, they may have a greater interest than men in controlling their fertility. However, more men are now sharing the responsibility.
Methods of Contraception and Birth Control
■ Birth control is any means of preventing a birth from taking place. Contraception is birth control that works specifi cally by preventing the union of sperm and egg.
■ Th e most reliable method of birth control is abstinence—refraining from sexual intercourse.
■ Oral contraceptives are the most widely used form of reversible birth control in the United States. Th e majority of birth control pills contain synthetic hormones: progestin and (usually) estrogen. Th e pill is highly eff ective if taken regularly. Th ere are side eff ects and possible problems for some users. Th e greatest risks are to smokers, women over 35, and women with certain health disorders, such as cardio- vascular problems. Other methods of hormonal contraception include the birth control patch; the vaginal ring; the birth control shot, Depo-Provera; and the implant, Implanon.
■ A condom (or male condom) is a thin sheath of latex, rubber, polyurethane, or processed animal tissue that fi ts over the erect penis and prevents semen from be- ing transmitted. It is the third most widely used birth control method in the United States. Condoms are very eff ective for contraception when used correctly. Latex and polyurethane condoms also help provide protection against STIs.
■ Th e female condom, diaphragm, sponge, Lea’s Shield, and FemCap are barrier methods used by women.
Each covers the cervical opening and is used with spermicidal jelly or cream. Female condoms, in addi- tion to lining the vagina, cover much of the vulva, providing more protection against disease organisms.
■ Spermicides are chemicals that are toxic to sperm. Th ough nonoxynol-9 is the most common ingredient in spermicides, it is no longer recommended for use on condoms. Contraceptive foam provides fairly good protection when used alone, but other chemicals are more eff ective if combined with a barrier method. Other spermicidal products are fi lm, cream, jelly, and vaginal suppositories.
■ Intrauterine contraception (IUC), otherwise called an intrauterine device (IUD), is a small fl exible plastic device that is inserted through the cervical os into the uterus. It disrupts the fertilization and implantation processes.
■ Fertility awareness–based methods (or natural family planning) involve a woman’s awareness of her body’s reproductive cycles. Th ese include the calendar (rhythm), basal body temperature (BBT), cervical mucus, and symptothermal methods. Th ese methods are suitable only for women with regular menstrual cycles and for couples with high motivation.
■ Th e lactational amenorrhea method (LAM) is an eff ective, temporary method of contraception used by mothers who are exclusively breastfeeding their child.
■ Sterilization is the most widely used method of contraception in the world. Th e most common form for women is tubal ligation, closing off the fallopian tubes. Another permanent method that does not require surgery is called transcervical sterilization. Th e surgical procedure that sterilizes men is a vasectomy, in which each vas deferens (sperm-carrying tube) is closed off . Th ese methods of birth control are very eff ective.
■ Th e use of emergency contraception, or Plan B One Step, prevents pregnancy by keeping a fertilized egg from implanting into the uterus. When used within 3 days of unprotected intercourse, it can be quite eff ective. Th e ParaGard IUC can also be used as a postcoital form of birth control.
Abortion
■ Abortion, the expulsion of the conceptus from the uterus, can be spontaneous or induced. Medication abortion (also known as RU-486) is now available in
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the United States to terminate early pregnancy. Surgical methods of abortion are vacuum aspiration, and dilation and evacuation (D & E). Abortion is generally safe if done in the fi rst trimester. Second- trimester abortions are riskier.
■ In the United States, there are about 1.2 million abortions annually. Th e abortion rate has declined slightly in recent years.
■ For women, the abortion decision is complex and raises many emotional issues. Th ough the majority of men support their partner’s decision, many may still feel residual guilt and sadness following the abortion.
■ In the abortion controversy, pro-life advocates argue that life begins at conception, that abortion leads to euthanasia, and that many who want to adopt are unable to because fewer babies are born as a result of abortion. Pro-choice advocates stance that women have the right to decide whether to continue a pregnancy, that abortion is needed as a birth control alternative because contraceptives are not 100% eff ective, and that if abortion is not legal women will have unsafe illegal abortions. A key issue in the debate is when the embryo or fetus becomes human life.
■ Th e current constitutional doctrine on abortion is evolving and dependent upon decisions of the U.S. Supreme Court and interpretations of state governments.
Research Issues
■ High developmental costs, government regulations, political agendas, and marketing priorities all play a part in restricting contraceptive research. Th e biggest barrier, however, is the fear of lawsuits.
Questions for Discussion ■ Who, in your opinion, should have access
to birth control? Should the parent(s) of individuals younger than age 18 be informed that the child has obtained birth control? Why or why not?
■ What considerations do you have before you would use a method of birth control? With whom would you discuss these? What sources of information might you use to verify your concerns or issues?
Sex and the Internet Planned Parenthood Most of us have heard about Planned Parenthood and the services it off ers related to family planning. What we might not be aware of is the scope of the organization and the information it provides to aid us in our decisions. To learn more about Planned Parenthood or a specifi c topic related to their work, go to the group’s website: http://www.plannedparenthood.org. Select a content area and answer the following:
■ What topic did you choose? Why? ■ What are fi ve key points related to this topic? ■ As a result of what you have learned, what opinions
do you have or action would you take concerning this issue?
■ Would you recommend this site to a person i nterested in learning more about family planning? Why or why not?
Suggested Websites Association of Reproductive Health Professionals (ARHP) http://www.arhp.org A site for health-care providers, as well as those interested in reproductive health news.
Bedsider http://bedsider.org Operated by Th e National Campaign to Prevent Teen and Unplanned Pregnancy, this site exclusively focuses on birth control with articles, interviews, resources, and reminders.
Centers for Disease Control and Prevention Reproductive Health Information Source http://www.cdc.gov/reproductivehealth/index.htm Provides information, research, and scientifi c reports on men’s and women’s reproductive health.
■ If you or your partner experienced an unplanned pregnancy, what would you do? What resources do you have that would support your decision?
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The Emergency Contraception Website http://ec.princeton.edu Operated by the Offi ce of Population Research at Princeton University, this project is designed to provide accurate informa- tion about emergency contraception derived from the medical literature.
National Abortion and Reproductive Rights Action League http://www.naral.org Advocates for comprehensive reproductive health policies to secure reproductive choice for all Americans.
National Right to Life http://www.nrlc.org It’s goal is to provide legal protection to human life.
Population Council http://www.popcouncil.org An international, nonprofi t, nongovernmental organization that conducts biomedical, social science, and public health research.
Student Sex Life http://www.studentsexlife.org An educational resource for college students about birth control and healthy relationships.
United Nations Population Fund http://www.unfpa.org/public An international development agency that promotes well-being by providing countries with population data for policies and programs.
Suggested Reading Eldridge, L. (2010). In our control: Th e complete guide to
contraception. New York: Seven Stories Press. Provides medical evidence, personal stories, and history to help make information about contraception accessible.
Hatcher, R. A., et al. (2011). Contraceptive technology (20th rev. ed.) New York: Ardent Media. Th is updated book provides recent information on all methods of contraception.
Tone, A. (2002). Devices and desires: A history of contraceptives in America. Provides a social history of birth control, from the beginning use of condoms through the controversy surrounding the pill.
For links, articles, and study material, go to the McGraw-Hill website, located at
www.mhhe.com/yarber8e.
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Fertilization and Fetal Development 362
Being Pregnant 367
Infertility 379
Giving Birth 384
Becoming a Parent 392
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The birth of a child is considered by many parents to be the happiest event of their lives. For most American women, pregnancy is relatively comfortable and the outcome predictably joyful. Yet, for increasing numbers of others, espe- cially among the poor, the prospect of having children raises the specters of drugs, disease, malnutrition, and familial chaos. And there are those couples who have dreamed of and planned for families for years, only to fi nd that they are unable to conceive. In this chapter, we view pregnancy and childbirth from biological, social, and psychological perspectives. We consider pregnancy loss, infertility, and reproductive technology. And we look at the challenges of the transition to parenthood.
• Fertilization and Fetal Development As you will recall from Chapter 3, once the ovum has been released from the ovary, it drifts into the fallopian tube, where it may be fertilized if live sperm are present (see Figure 12.1). If the pregnancy proceeds without interruption, the birth will occur in approximately 266 days. (Traditionally, physicians count the fi rst day of the pregnancy as the day on which the woman began her last menstrual period; they calculate the due date to be 280 days, which is also 10 lunar months, from that day.)
The Fertilization Process
Th e oocyte (ovum, or unfertilized egg) remains viable for 12–24 hours after ovulation; most sperm are viable in the female reproductive tract for 12– 48 hours, although some may be viable for up to 5 days. Th erefore, for fertilization
“ If your parents didn’t have any children, there’s a good chance that you won’t
have any.
—Clarence Day (1874–1935)
“When I was in my teens, I moved from my home [Guatemala] to the states and found things turned upside [down] from my tra- ditional background. Take, for example, breastfeeding. In my
country, it is a normal thing to breastfeed; you would not think twice about seeing a nurturing mother breastfeeding her child in public. Here, it seems to upset people’s sensibilities when a nursing mother feeds her child in public. I wonder, that which is so natural and necessary, how can we debate whether a woman has a right to feed her child in public?”
—20-year-old female
“Pregnancy and childbirth have changed my life. As the mother of three young children, I look back at my pregnancies
as probably three of the best periods of my life. Oh, sure, there were the days of exhaustion and nausea, pelvic heaviness, the large cumbersome breasts, and lost sleep,but in retrospect, they were overshadowed by the life growing inside of me. In giving life, I celebrate my womanhood.”
—43-year-old female
“After getting married and having a daughter, things changed. While I was pregnant we, maybe, had sex 10 times. I was really sick during the fi rst trimester and on bed rest during the second and third trimesters. At the time, it wasn’t that big of a deal since we were so preoccupied with my health and our daughter. After she was born, it seemed that we were just out of practice and had a hard time initiating sex. When we did have sex we would both say, ‘WOW, we should do this more often,’ but then life would get in the way and 2 weeks would go by before we had sex again.”
—28-year-old female
Student Voices
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to occur, intercourse must take place within 5 days before and 1 day after ovulation. Of the millions of sperm ejaculated into the vagina, only a few thousand (or even a few hundred) actually reach the fallopian tubes. Th e others leak from the vagina or are destroyed within its acidic environment. Th ose that make it into the cervix (which is easier during ovulation, when the cervical mucus becomes more fl uid) may still be destroyed by white blood cells within the uterus. Fur- thermore, the sperm that actually reach the oocyte within a few minutes of ejaculation are not yet capable of getting through its outer layers. Th ey must fi rst undergo capacitation, the process by which their membranes become fragile enough to release the enzymes from their acrosomes (the helmetlike coverings of the sperm’s nuclei). It takes 6–8 hours for this acrosomal reaction to occur. It has been observed that sperm have receptor molecules that are attracted to a chemical released by the egg. Furthermore, the membrane of the sperm cell contains a chemical that helps the sperm adhere to, and eventually penetrate, the outer layer of the egg. Once a single sperm is inside the oocyte cytoplasm, an electrical reaction occurs that prevents any other sperm from entering the oocyte. Immediately, the oocyte begins to swell, detaching the sperm that still cling to its outer layer. Next, it completes the fi nal stage of cell division and becomes a mature ovum by forming the ovum nucleus. Th e nuclei of sperm and ovum then release their chromosomes, which combine to form the diploid zygote, containing 23 pairs of chromosomes. (Each parent contributes one chromosome to each of the pairs.) Fertilization is now complete, and pre-embryonic development begins. Within 9 months, this single cell, the zygote, may become the 600 trillion cells that constitute a human being.
“ Expectant parents who want a boy will get a girl, and vice versa; those who
practice birth control will get twins.
—John Rush
Unfertilized egg
Ruptured follicle
Endometrium
Sperm cell
Fertilization
24–30 hours after fertilization: Male and female genetic material combines
36 hours: 2 cells 48 hours: 4 cells
3 days: 16–32 cells
4 days: A hollow ball of 64–128 cells (a blastocyst)
Uterus
6 or 7 days: The blastocyst attaches to the uterine wall
11 or 12 days: Implantation of the embryo
Ovary
Oviduct Fallopian tube
Ova
• FIGURE 12.1 Ovulation, Fertilization, and Development of the Blastocyst. This drawing charts the progress of the released ovum (unfertilized egg) through fertilization and pre-embryonic development.
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Development of the Conceptus
Following fertilization, the zygote undergoes a series of divisions, during which the cells replicate. After 4 or 5 days, there are about 100 cells, now called a blastocyst. On about the 5th day, the blastocyst arrives in the uterine cavity, where it fl oats for a day or two before implanting in the soft, blood-rich uterine lining (endometrium), which has spent the past 3 weeks preparing for its arrival. Th e process of implantation takes about 1 week. Human chorionic gonadotro- pin (HCG) secreted by the blastocyst maintains the uterine environment in an “embryo-friendly” condition and prevents the shedding of the endometrium, which would normally occur during menstruation. Th e blastocyst, or pre-embryo, rapidly grows into an embryo, which will, in turn, be referred to as a fetus after the 8th week of gestation (pregnancy). During the fi rst 2 or 3 weeks of development, the embryonic membranes are formed. Th ese include the amnion (amniotic sac), a membranous sac that will contain the embryo and amniotic fl uid; the yolk sac, producer of the embryo’s fi rst blood cells and the germ cells that will develop into gonads; and the chorion, the embryo’s outermost membrane (see Figure 12.2). During the 3rd week, extensive cell migration occurs, and the stage is set for the development of the organs. Th e fi rst body segments and the brain begin to form. Th e digestive and circulatory systems begin to develop in the 4th week, and the heart begins to pump blood. By the end of the 4th week, the spinal cord and nervous system have also begun to develop. Th e 5th week sees the formation of arms and legs. In the 6th week, the eyes and ears form. At 7 weeks,
Maternal endometrial arteriolesUmbilical
vein
Umbilical cord
Umbilical artery
Placenta
Vagina (birth canal)
Cervix
Mucous plug
Amniotic sac filled with amniotic fluid
Muscle layer of uterine wall
Lining of uterus (endometrium)
Uterine cavity
Chorion
Maternal blood collects
Chorionic villi
Placenta
Maternal endometrial venule
• FIGURE 12.2 The Fetus in the Uterus and a Cross Section of the Placenta. The placenta is the organ of exchange between mother and fetus. Nutrients and oxygen pass from the mother to the fetus, and waste products pass from the fetus to the mother via blood vessels within the umbilical cord.
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(a) After ejaculation, several million sperm move through the cervical mucus toward the fallopian tubes; an ovum has moved into one of the tubes. On their way to the ovum, millions of sperm are destroyed in the vagina, uterus, or fallopian tubes. Some go the wrong direction in the vagina, and others swim into the wrong tube. (b) The woman’s and man’s chromosomes have united, and the fertilized ovum has divided for the fi rst time. After about 1 week, the blastocyst will implant itself in the uterine lining. (c) The embryo is 5 weeks old and is 2/5 of an inch long. It fl oats in the embryonic sac. The major divisions of the brain can be seen, as well as an eye, hands, arms, and a long tail. (d) The embryo is now 7 weeks old and is almost 1 inch long and is connected to its umbilical cord. Its external and internal organs are developing. It has eyes, nose, mouth, lips, and tongue. (e) At 12 weeks, the fetus is over 3 inches long and weighs almost 1 ounce. (f) At 16 weeks, the fetus is more than 6 inches long and weighs about 7 ounces. All its organs have been formed. The time that follows is now one of simple growth.
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the reproductive organs begin to diff erentiate in males; female reproductive organs continue to develop. At 8 weeks, the fetus is about the size of a thumb, although the head is nearly as large as the body. Th e brain begins to function to coordinate the development of the internal organs. Facial features begin to form, and bones begin to develop. Arms, hands, fi ngers, legs, feet, toes, and eyes are almost fully developed at 12 weeks. At 15 weeks, the fetus has a strong heartbeat, some digestive functioning, and active muscles. Most bones are devel- oped by then, and the eyebrows appear. At this stage, the fetus is covered with a fi ne, downy hair called lanugo (see Figure 12.3). Th roughout its development, the fetus is nourished through the placenta. Th e placenta begins to develop from part of the blastocyst following implantation. It grows larger as the fetus does, passing nutrients from the mother’s bloodstream to the fetus, to which it is attached by the umbilical cord. Th e placenta serves
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as a biochemical barrier, allowing dissolved substances to pass to the fetus but blocking blood cells and large molecules. By 5 months, the fetus is 10–12 inches long and weighs between 1/2 and 1 pound. Th e internal organs are well developed, although the lungs cannot function well outside the uterus. At 6 months, the fetus is 11–14 inches long and weighs more than 1 pound. At 7 months, it is 13–17 inches long and weighs about 3 pounds. At this point, most healthy fetuses are viable—that is, capable of surviving outside the womb. (Although some fetuses are viable at 5 or 6 months, they require specialized care to survive.) Th e fetus spends the fi nal 2 months of gestation growing rapidly. At term (9 months), it will be about 20 inches long and will weigh about 7 pounds. A full-term pregnancy lasts 40 weeks. Even though 37 weeks is also considered full term, studies show that babies born even a few weeks early are at greater risk for health problems than those who are born later (Boyle et al., 2012).
• Being Pregnant From the moment it is discovered, a pregnancy aff ects people’s feelings about themselves, their relationships with their partners, as well as the interrelation- ships of other family members. Th ere were 4.1 million births in the United States in 2009, nearly 3% less than in 2008 (Hamilton, Martin, & Ventura, 2010). Th e rates declined for all races and Hispanic origin groups. Th e birth
think about it
Parenthood is now a matter of choice, thanks to the widespread use of contraception and changing percep- tions of child-free couples. For the most part, women and men who want to have children can decide not only how many children they want but when to have them. Among women of childbearing age, approximately 6.6% have chosen not to have children (“Childless by Choice,” 2001). This trans- lates to over 4 million women. In the past, couples without children were referred to as “childless,” conveying the sense that they were missing something they wanted or were supposed to have. But this term has been replaced with child- free, as we have experienced a cultural shift and demographic trend in the direction of increasing numbers of women who expect and intend to remain nonparents. The term “child-free” suggests that couples who do not choose to have children need no longer be seen as sympathetic fi gures, lacking something considered essential for personal and relationship fulfi llment.
A Matter of Choice
Even with less familial and social pressure to reproduce, the decision not to have children can be a diffi cult one. Factors include timing, divorce, ambivalence on the part of one partner, lack of desire to conceive or adopt a child when single, and career ambitions and promotions. Before they marry, couples usually have some idea that they will or will not have children. If the intent isn’t clear from the start or if one partner’s mind changes, the couple may have serious problems ahead.
Think Critically 1. Do you want to have children? Why or why not? 2. What are your feelings about those who choose to
remain child-free? 3. Do you believe that the government should provide
tax incentives to couples who are child-free?
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rate for U.S. teenagers also fell 6% in 2009, the lowest recorded in nearly 7 decades. Th e fertility rate, now 2 children, is showing the largest decline since 1973. Th e percentage of births to unmarried women, however, has continued to increase. While fertility rates are increasing in some segments of the popula- tion, they tend to decline as women become better educated and gain career opportunities and as they postpone childbearing until they are older. Because not everyone chooses to be a parent, the term child-free is used to describe those who expect and intend to remain nonparents.
Preconception Care
Th e health of the mother before conception and early in pregnancy aff ects the health of the fetus. Currently, the usual entry into prenatal care is 12 weeks after conception. Preconception care comprises interventions that aim to identify and modify medical, behavioral, and social risks to a woman’s health and preg- nancy outcome through prevention and management (Kent, Johnson, Curtis, Hood, & Atrash, 2006). Preconception care can diagnose and intervene in some of the most common causes of maternal death, including hemorrhage, hyper- tensive disorder, pulmonary embolism, and preexisting health conditions, to name a few (Joint Commission, 2010). It is extremely important that women and men who are sexually active and not consistently or eff ectively using con- traception be mindful of the lifestyle choices they are making, including drink- ing, smoking, and taking prescription/over-the-counter and illegal drugs, and seek medical attention before they attempt to become pregnant.
Pregnancy Detection
Chemical tests designed to detect the presence of human chorionic gonadotropin (HCG), which is produced right after a fertilized egg attaches to the uterus and functions to promote the maintenance of the corpus luteum, can usually determine pregnancy approximately 1 week following a missed (or spotty) menstrual period. Pregnancy testing may be done in a doctor’s offi ce or family planning clinic, or at home with tests purchased from a drugstore. Th e directions must be followed closely. Blood analysis can also be done to determine if a pregnancy exists. Although such tests diagnose pregnancy within 7 days after conception with accuracy no absolute certainty exists until fetal heartbeat and movements can be detected or ultrasound is performed. A simple blood test can determine a baby’s sex with 95% accuracy at 7 weeks and 99% accuracy at 20 weeks. For this, a small sample of the mother’s blood is obtained by a fi nger prick and sent to a lab. If a Y chromosome is detected, the fetus is male (the absence of a Y chromosome means the fetus is female). Th e test is available to consumers online or at pharmacies; however, because it is not used for medical purposes, it is not yet regulated by the U.S. Food and Drug Administration. One potential concern about using such a test is that women might abort fetuses of an undesired sex. In fact, several companies do not sell such tests in China or India, where boys are prized over girls and fetuses found to be female are sometimes aborted (Devaney, Palomaki, Scott, & Bianchi, 2011). Th e fi rst reliable physical sign of pregnancy can be observed about 4 weeks after a woman misses her period. By this point, changes in her cervix and pelvis are apparent during a pelvic examination. At this stage, the woman is considered to be 8 weeks pregnant, according to medical terminology; physi- cians calculate pregnancy as beginning at the time of the woman’s last menstrual
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period rather than at the time of actual fertilization (because that date is often diffi cult to determine). Another signal of pregnancy, called Hegar’s sign, is a softening of the uterus just above the cervix, which can be felt during a vaginal examination. In addition, a slight purple hue colors the labia minora; the vagina and cervix also take on a purplish color rather than the usual pink.
Changes in Women During Pregnancy
A woman’s early response to pregnancy will vary dramatically according to who she is, how she feels about pregnancy and motherhood, whether the pregnancy was planned, whether she has a secure home situation, and many other factors. Her feelings may be ambivalent, and they will probably change over the course of the pregnancy. A couple’s relationship is likely to undergo changes during pregnancy. It can be a stressful time, especially if the pregnancy was unanticipated. Women with supportive partners have fewer health problems in pregnancy and more positive feelings about their changing bodies than those whose partners are not support- ive (“Especially for Fathers,” n.d.). Communication is especially important during this period, because each partner may have preconceived ideas about what the other is feeling. Both partners may have fears about the baby’s well-being, the approaching birth, their ability to parent, and the ways in which the baby will interfere with their own relationship. All of these concerns are normal. Sharing them, perhaps in the setting of a prenatal group, can strengthen the relationship. If the pregnant woman’s partner is not supportive or if she does not have a partner, it is important that she fi nd other sources of support—family, friends, women’s groups—and that she not be reluctant to ask for help. A pregnant woman’s relationship with her own mother may also undergo changes. In a certain sense, becoming a mother makes a woman the equal of her own mother. She can now lay claim to co-equal status as an adult. Women who have depended on their mother tend to become more independent and assertive as their pregnancy progresses. Women who have been distant from,
The physical and psychological changes that accompany pregnancy can have a ripple eff ect on a woman’s relationship with her partner and family.
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hostile to, or alienated from their mother may begin to identify with their mother’s experience of pregnancy. Even women who have delayed childbearing until their thirties may be surprised to fi nd their relationships with their mother changing and becoming more “adult.” Working through these changing relation- ships is a kind of “psychological gestation” that accompanies the physiological gestation of the fetus. Th e fi rst trimester (3 months) of pregnancy may be diffi cult physically for the expectant mother. Approximately two thirds of women experience nausea, vomiting, fatigue, and painful swelling of the breasts. Th e nausea and vomiting that often occur during the fi rst trimester of pregnancy usually subside with time. Th e pregnant woman may have fears that she will miscarry or that the child will not be normal. Her sexuality may undergo changes, resulting in unfamiliar needs (for more, less, or diff erently expressed sexual behaviors), which may, in turn, cause anxiety. (Sexuality during pregnancy is discussed further in the “Th ink About It” box on page 372.) Education about the birth process and her own body’s functioning and support from partner, friends, relatives, and health-care professionals are the best antidotes to fear. During the second trimester, most of the nausea and fatigue disappear, and the pregnant woman can feel the fetus move. Worries about miscarriage will probably begin to diminish, too, for the riskiest part of fetal development has passed. Th e pregnant woman may look and feel radiant. She will very likely be proud of her accomplishment and be delighted as her pregnancy begins to show. She may feel in harmony with life’s natural rhythms. Some women, however, may be concerned about their increasing size, fearing that they are becoming unattractive. A partner’s attention and reassurance may help ease these fears. Th e third trimester may be the time of the greatest diffi culties in daily liv- ing. Th e uterus, originally about the size of the woman’s fi st, enlarges to fi ll the pelvic cavity and push up into the abdominal cavity, exerting increasing pressure on the other internal organs (see Figure 12.4). Water retention (edema) is a fairly common problem during late pregnancy. Edema may cause swelling in the face, hands, ankles, and feet, but it can often be controlled by cutting down on the intake of salt and carbohydrates. If dietary changes do not help this condition, the woman should consult her physician. Her physi- cal abilities also are limited by her size, and she may need to cut back her work hours or stop working. Physical activity during pregnancy has resulted in babies with healthier hearts, even a full month after delivery (Reynolds, 2011). Th e eff ect was especially robust in the children whose mothers had exercised the most; these children showed slower heartbeats and presumably stronger hearts. It is unclear whether this training eff ect is a result of hormones released during exercise or a kind of “music” in the blood caused by gasping breaths and increased heartbeats. Th e woman and her partner may become increasingly concerned about the upcoming birth. Some women experience periods of depression in the weeks preceding delivery; they may feel physically awkward and sexually unattractive. Many feel a sense of exhilaration and anticipation marked by bursts of indus- triousness. Th ey feel that the fetus already is a member of the family. Both parents may begin talking to the fetus and “playing” with it by patting and rubbing the mother’s belly. (Th e principal developmental tasks for the expectant mother and father are summarized in Table 12.1.)
“ Only through sexual union are new beings capable of existing. This union,
therefore, represents a place between two worlds, a point of contact between being and nonbeing, where life manifests itself and incarnates the divine spirit.
—Alain Daniélou (1907–1994)
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TABLE 12.1 • Principal Tasks of Expectant Parents
Mothers Fathers
Development of an emotional Acceptance of the pregnancy and attachment to the fetus attachment to the fetus
Diff erentiation of the self from Acceptance and resolution of the the fetus relationship with his own father
Acceptance and resolution of the Resolution of dependency issues relationship with her own mother (involving parents or wife/partner)
Resolution of dependency issues Evaluation of practical and fi nancial (involving parents or husband/partner) responsibilities
Evaluation of practical and fi nancial responsibilities
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Complications of Pregnancy and Dangers to the Fetus
Usually, pregnancy proceeds without major complications. Good nutrition, a moderate amount of exercise, and manageable levels of stress are among the most signifi cant factors in a complication-free pregnancy. In addition, early and ongoing prenatal care is important.
Eff ects of Teratogens Substances other than nutrients may reach the develop- ing embryo or fetus through the placenta. Although few extensive studies have been done on the subject, toxic substances in the environment can also aff ect the health of the fetus. Whatever a woman breathes, eats, or drinks is eventually received by the conceptus in some proportion. A fetus’s blood-alcohol level, for example, is equal to that of the mother. Teratogens are substances that cause defects (e.g., brain damage or physical deformities) in developing embryos or
think about it
It is not unusual for a woman’s sexual feelings and actions to change during pregnancy, although there is great varia- tion among women in these expressions of sexuality. Some women feel beautiful, energetic, and sensual and are very much interested in sex; others feel awkward and decidedly unsexy. It is also quite possible for a woman’s sexual feelings to fl uctuate during this time. Men may also feel confusion or confl icts about sexual activity. Although there are no “rules” governing sexual behavior during pregnancy, a few basic precautions should be observed:
■ If the woman has had a prior miscarriage, she should check with her health-care practitioner before having intercourse, masturbating, or engaging in other activities that might lead to orgasm. Powerful uterine contractions could induce a spontaneous abortion in some women, especially during the fi rst trimester.
■ If the woman has vaginal bleeding, she should refrain from all sexual activity and consult her physician or midwife at once.
■ If the insertion of the penis or other object into the vagina causes pain that is not easily remedied by a change of position, the couple should refrain from penetration.
■ Pressure on the woman’s abdomen should be avoided, especially during the fi nal months of pregnancy.
■ Late in pregnancy, an orgasm is likely to induce uterine contractions. Generally, this is not considered harmful, but the pregnant woman may want to discuss it with her practitioner. (Occasionally, labor begins when the waters break as the result of orgasmic contractions.)
Sexual Behavior During Pregnancy
A couple may be uncertain as to how to express their sexual feelings, especially if it is their fi rst pregnancy. The following guidelines may be helpful:
■ Even during a normal pregnancy, sexual intercourse may be uncomfortable. The couple may want to try such positions as side by side or rear entry to avoid pressure on the woman’s abdomen and to facilitate shallow penetration. (See the illustrations of diff erent sexual positions in Chapter 9.)
■ Even if intercourse is not comfortable for the woman, orgasm may still be intensely pleasurable. She may wish to consider masturbating (alone or with her partner) or engaging in cunnilingus. It is important to note that air should not be blown into the vagina during cunnilingus.
Once the baby has been born, a couple can resume intercourse after the bleeding has stopped and the vaginal walls have healed. This may take anywhere from 4 to 8 weeks.
Think Critically 1. What are your views about having sex during
pregnancy? 2. How comfortable would you be in discussing the
topic of sexuality during pregnancy with your doctor? 3. What new information did you learn as a result of
reading this box?
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fetuses. In fact, an estimated 10% of birth defects may be caused by teratogens in the environment (Farrer, 2010). Chemicals and environmental pollutants are also potentially threatening. In fact, an estimated 10% of birth defects may be caused by teratogens in the environment (Farrer, 2010). Continuous exposure to lead, most commonly in paint products or water from lead pipes, has been implicated in a variety of learning disorders. Mercury, from fi sh contaminated by industrial wastes, is a known cause of physical deformities. Solvents, pesticides, and certain chemical fertilizers should be avoided or used with extreme caution both at home and in the workplace. X-rays should also be avoided if possible during pregnancy.
Alcohol Moderate alcohol, that is, an intake of at least four drinks per week, has been shown to retard the growth of the fetus (Strandberg-Larsen et al., 2009). Studies have linked heavy or chronic ingestion of alcohol during pregnancy to fetal alcohol syndrome (FAS), which can include unusual facial characteristics, small head and body size, congenital heart defects, defective joints, and intel- lectual and behavioral impairment. About half of all FAS children are develop- mentally disabled. Known prenatal consumption of alcohol without the associated facial features of FAS is linked to fetal alcohol eff ect (FAE). Children with FAE often have many of the same symptoms and issues as those with FAS, including intellectual and behavioral defi cits.
Tobacco Maternal cigarette smoking is associated with spontaneous abortion, persistent breathing problems, and a variety of complications during pregnancy and birth (Vardavas et al., 2010). Smoking during pregnancy impairs placental development by reducing blood fl ow, which can lead to a reduction of oxygen and micronutrients to the growing infant. Babies born to women who smoke during pregnancy may have low birth weight, suff er from fetal growth restric- tion, and have a smaller head circumference.
Other Drugs Mothers who regularly use opiates (heroin, morphine, codeine, and opium) are at greater risk for spontaneous abortion and are likely to have infants who are addicted to opiates at birth. In addition, these infants are at risk for neonatal intoxication, respiratory depression, low birth weight, and lower IQ scores (Pinto et al., 2010). Prescription drugs should be used during pregnancy only under careful medical supervision because some may cause serious harm to the fetus. Addi- tionally, over-the-counter drugs, including vitamins and aspirin, as well as large quantities of caff eine-containing food and beverages, should be avoided or used only under medical supervision.
Infectious Diseases Infectious diseases can also damage the fetus. If a woman contracts German measles (rubella) during the fi rst 3 months of pregnancy, her child may be born with physical or mental disabilities. Immunization against rubella is available, but it must be done before the woman is pregnant; otherwise, the injection will be as harmful to the fetus as the disease itself. Group B strep- tococcus, a bacterium carried by 15–40% of pregnant women, is harmless to adults but can be fatal to newborns. Th e American Academy of Pediatrics recom- mends that all pregnant women be screened for strep B. Antibiotics administered to the newborn during labor can greatly reduce the danger. Th ough there is no fl u vaccine licensed for children under 6 months, infants that age have the high- est rates of hospitalization for pediatric infl uenza. However, a fl u vaccine given
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to pregnant mothers at any time during their pregnancy can provide protection to the infant (Poehling et al., 2011). In fact, about 45% of infants whose mothers had gotten the fl u vaccine while pregnant were less likely to have infl uenza during their fi rst fl u season than those of unvaccinated mothers.
Sexually Transmitted Infections STIs can be transmitted from a pregnant woman to the fetus, newborn, or infant before, during, or after birth. Th e Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) recommends that all preg- nant women be screened for chlamydia, gonorrhea, hepatitis B, HIV, and syphilis. If a pregnant woman has contracted any of these or other STIs, she should discuss with her doctor potential eff ects on the baby, delivery proce- dures, treatment, and breastfeeding. Women who are pregnant can acquire an STI from their own risky behav- ior or from an infected partner. Because avoidance of STIs is critical through- out a woman’s pregnancy, she may want to consider consistent and correct use of latex condoms for each episode of sexual intercourse.
Maternal Obesity Obesity is a major public health and economic concern. From 2003 to 2009, obesity in women of reproductive age, ages 18–44, increased from 18.3% to 24.7% (Hayes, Fan, Smith, & Bomber, 2011). Mater- nal obesity, often defi ned as pre-pregnancy body mass index (BMI) of greater than 30, increases the risk of fetal death and of death in the infant’s fi rst month of life. In fact, in a nationally representative sample of nearly 10,000 women, the risk of infant death doubled in obese women, compared to lean women (less than 20% BMI) (Chen, Feresu, Fernandez, & Rogan, 2009). Maternal obesity also increases the risk of gestational hypertension, preeclampsia, gestational diabetes, labor induction, cesarean section, and postpartum hemorrhage. Addi- tionally, obesity signifi cantly increases the risk of a pregnancy aff ected by a neural tube defect, including spina bifi da, cardiovascular anomaly (abnormality of the heart), and anencephaly (absence of most of the brain and spinal cord) (Stothard, Tennant, Bell, & Rankin, 2009). In the Hayes et al. study mentioned above, mothers who were obese were more often African American, younger than 20 years old, and often smoked during pregnancy. Nonobese women with very low weight gain during pregnancy were also shown to have a higher risk of infant death. A number of potential explanations for these associations have been off ered, including metabolic disorders, such as diabetes, nutritional defi ciencies, especially a lack of folate, and excess adipose tissue interfering with ultrasound scanning which could detect fetal anomalies (Stothard et al., 2009). With the increasing trend in childhood obesity, it is anticipated that the prevalence of maternal obesity during pregnancy will be even higher in the future. Given that infant mortality in the United States is higher than in at least 20 other developed countries (Martin et al., 2005), it is even more evi- dent that obesity prevention should be practiced as a measure to reduce infant mortality.
Pregnancy After Age 35 Delaying pregnancy until after age 35 has become a more common reality for many women. While men can father children late in life, the quality and quantity of a woman’s eggs begin to decline in her late 20s and fall off rapidly after age 35 so that by age 40, her odds of conceiving decrease and her risk of pregnancy-related complications and having a live baby with a chromosomal abnormality signifi cantly increases (Bretherick, Fairbrother,
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Avila, Harbord, & Robinson, 2010). While the chromosomal abnormality Down syndrome aff ects 1 in 1,000 births at maternal age 30, the rate gradually increases to 1 in 35 births at maternal age 45 (March of Dimes, 2011a). Paternal age also increases the likelihood of Down syndrome, but only if the mother is over 35. Women who give birth at age 40 or older are also at a slightly higher risk for maternal death, premature delivery, Cesarean sections, and low-birth-weight babies (London, 2004). As women age, chronic illnesses such as high blood pressure and diabetes may also present pregnancy- and birth-related complications. Genetic counseling may help a woman and her partner assess their risks, make an informed choice about pregnancy, and decide whether or not to have testing for chromosomal abnormalities.
Ectopic Pregnancy In ectopic pregnancy (tubal pregnancy), which occurs in about 1% of all pregnancies, the fertilized egg grows outside the uterus, usually in a fallopian tube. Any sexually active woman of childbearing age is at risk for ectopic pregnancy. Women who have abnormal fallopian tubes are at higher risk for ectopic pregnancy. Generally, this occurs because the tube is obstructed, most often as a result of pelvic infl ammatory disease due to chla- mydia and gonorrhea infections. Factors such as a previous ectopic pregnancy and endometriosis (growth of tissue outside the uterus) can also increase the risk. Th e pregnancy will never come to term. Th e embryo may spontaneously abort, or the embryo and placenta will continue to expand until they rupture the fallopian tube. If the pregnancy is early and has not ruptured, drugs may be used instead of surgery to remove the conceptus. A ruptured ectopic pregnancy, however, is a true medical emergency that can endanger the mother’s life.
Pregnancy-Induced Hypertension Previously referred to as toxemia or eclampsia, pregnancy-induced hypertension is characterized by high blood pressure and edema along with protein in the urine. It occurs in less than 10% of pregnancies and can usually be treated by diet, bed rest, and medication. If untreated, it can progress to maternal convulsions that pose a threat to mother and child. It is important for a pregnant woman to have her blood pressure checked regularly.
Preterm Births Births that take place prior to 37 weeks of gestation are considered to be preterm births. About 12% of all pregnancies in the United States result in preterm births. A consequence of this is low-birth-weight infants (those who weigh less than 2,500 grams, or 5.5 pounds, at birth). About three fourths of infant deaths in the United States are associated with prematurity. Th e fundamental problem of prematurity is that many of the infant’s vital organs are insuffi ciently developed. Most premature infants will grow normally, but many will experience disabilities and health problems, including cranial abnormalities, various respiratory problems, and infections. Feeding, too, is a problem because the infants may be too small to suck a breast or bottle, and their swallowing mechanisms may be too underdeveloped to permit them to drink. As premature infants get older, problems such as low intelligence, learning diffi culties, poor hearing and vision, and physical awk- wardness may become apparent. Nevertheless, the majority of preterm babies eventually catch up with their peers and thrive.
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Preterm births are one of the greatest problems confronting obstetrics today; most of the cases are related to teenage pregnancy, smoking, poor nutrition, and poor health in the mother. Prenatal care is extremely impor- tant as a means of preventing prematurity. We need to understand that if children’s needs are not met today we will all face the consequences of their deprivation tomorrow. Th e social and economic costs are bound to be very high. (Table 12.2 lists various demographic “facts of life” for the United States and the rest of the world.)
Low birth weight aff ects about 8% of newborns in the United States. Adequate prenatal care signifi cantly reduces the risk of low birth weight.
TABLE 12.2 • The Demographic Facts of Life
United States World
Population 314 million 7.03 billion
Population density (people per 32 51 square kilometer)
Median age 37 29
Population increase (per year) 2.7 million 78 million
Population growth rate 0.85% 1.1%
Population doubling time 82 years 64 years
Total fertility rate 2.1 2.5
Births per 1,000 women 15–19 27 52
Life expectancy 75 (male), 67 (male), 80 (female) 71 (female)
Births per year 4.4 million 135.8 million
Infant morality rate (infant deaths 6.5 42 per 1,000 live births)
SOURCES: Updated from The Demographic Facts of Life. Population Connection. Used by permission; U.S. Census Bureau (2012). Available at www.census.gov/main/www/popclock.html.
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Delayed Labor About 10% of women have delayed labor, or pregnancies that go longer than 2 weeks after the expected delivery date. Th e primary risks associated with this are the fetus growing too large to pass through the birth canal and the placenta ceasing to nourish the child. Because postterm babies are about 3 times more likely to die neonatally than babies born at term, labor is often induced with drugs such as prostaglandins and oxytocin.
Diagnosing Fetal Abnormalities
Both the desire to bear children and the wish to ensure that those children are healthy have encouraged the use of diagnostic technologies. Physicians now recommend that all pregnant women, regardless of their age, be off ered screen- ing for chromosomal abnormalities before 20 weeks’ gestation (Anderson & Brown, 2009). Previously, women were automatically off ered genetic counseling and diagnostic testing for Down syndrome if they were 35 years and older. Because of the number of screening tests available, guidelines are now available that discuss the advantages and disadvantages of each test and some of the factors that determine which screening test should be off ered and when. Along with specifi c training, standardization, and use of appropriate equipment and quality assessment, the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG; 2007) recommends the following:
■ Late fi rst-trimester screening can use an ultrasound, consisting of high- frequency sound waves that create a computer-generated picture, to measure the thickness at the back of the neck of the fetus.
■ Women found to be at increased risk of having a baby with Down syn- drome should be off ered genetic counseling and the option of chorionic villus sampling (CVS), the removal of a small sample of cells taken from the placenta sometime between 10 and 13 weeks of gestation; amniocentesis, whereby a small amount of amniotic fl uid is withdrawn from the uterus at 14–20 weeks of gestation and tested for chromosomal defects (see Figure 12.5). Th e pregnancy loss rate for amniocentesis is 1%, while that for CVS is from .6% to 4.6% (Anderson & Brown, 2009).
The pictures produced by ultrasound are called sonograms. They are used to determine fetal age, position of the fetus and placenta, and possible developmental problems.
Ultrasound scanner
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• FIGURE 12.5 Diagnosing fetal abnormalities via (a) Amniocentesis and (b) Chorionic Villus Sampling
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■ Neural tube defect screening, performed on the mother’s blood to measure the level of alpha-fetoprotein, reveals possible defects of the spine, spinal cord, skull, and brain. Th is test should be off ered during the second trimester to women who elect only fi rst-trimester screening (CVS) for Down syndrome.
■ Other tests can be performed to provide further information. Regardless of the kind of prenatal diagnostic procedure done, there may be complications or risks for pregnancy loss associated with the tests, so the cost- benefi t ratio of the procedure should be discussed with one’s doctor.
Pregnancy Loss
A normal pregnancy lasts about 40 weeks. Th e death of a fetus before 20 weeks is called early pregnancy loss. Often, the death is a miscarriage (spontaneous loss of a fetus before it can survive on its own), stillbirth, or death during early infancy—a devastating experience that has been largely ignored in our society. Th e death of a baby at any stage in the pregnancy is as emotional as it is physical. Th e statement “You can always have another one” may be meant as consolation, but it can be particularly chilling to a grieving mother or father.
Miscarriage Spontaneous abortion, or miscarriage, is a powerful natural selec- tive force in bringing healthy babies into the world. About 10–15% of recognized pregnancies end before 20 weeks’ gestation, but as many as 40% of pregnancies may end in miscarriage, because many losses may occur before a women realizes she is pregnant (March of Dimes, 2008). Many of these—more than 50%— happen because of chromosomal abnormalities. Th e fi rst sign that a pregnant woman may miscarry is vaginal bleeding (spotting). If a woman’s symptoms of pregnancy disappear and she develops pelvic cramps, she may be miscarrying; the fetus is usually expelled by uterine contractions. Most miscarriages occur between the 6th and 8th weeks of pregnancy, are caused by an abnormal number of chromosomes, and usually occur before the end of the fi rst trimester. Some- times the embryos are healthy, but women miscarry for other reasons: for exam- ple, a misshapen or scarred uterus, insulin or hormonal imbalances, or chronic infections in the uterus. Women can take steps to lessen the likelihood of preg- nancy loss, beginning with taking a multivitamin with folic acid, not smoking or using drugs, reducing their intake of caff eine to no more than 200 mg, or 1 cup, per day, exercising, and maintaining a healthy weight.
Infant Mortality Th e U.S. infant mortality rate, although at its lowest point in many decades, remains far higher than that of most of the developed world: an estimated 6.06 deaths for every 1,000 live births (Central Intelligence Agency, 2011). Th e United States ranks 30th worldwide in infant mortality, with, for example, 1 in 8 births born preterm, compared with, for example, 1 in 18 births in Ireland and Finland (Reuters, 2009). Although many infants die of poverty-related conditions, including lack of prenatal care, others die from congenital problems (conditions appearing at birth) or from infectious diseases, accidents, or other causes. Sometimes, the causes of death are not apparent; more than 2,000 infant deaths per year are attributed to sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS), a phenomenon wherein an apparently healthy infant dies suddenly while sleeping (Hsu, 2011). Unsafe
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sleep practices are now believed to cause many of the SIDS deaths. Th e American Academy of Pediatrics (2011) now recommends that infants be breastfed and placed on their backs to sleep, and that parents not cover the heads of babies or overbundle them in clothing and blankets, not let them get too hot, not use soft bedding (including fl uff y blankets, stuff ed animals, and bumper rails), and keep the baby away from smoke.
Coping With Loss Th e feelings of shock and grief felt by individuals whose child dies before or during birth can be diffi cult to understand for those who have not had a similar experience. What they may not realize is that most women form a deep attachment to their children even before birth. At fi rst, the attachment may be to a fantasy image of the unborn child. During the course of the pregnancy, the mother forms an acquaintance with her infant through the physical sensations she feels within her. Th us, the death of the fetus can also represent the loss of a dream and of a hope for the future. Th is loss must be acknowledged and felt before psychological healing can take place.
• Infertility Some couples experience the pain of loss when they plan to have a child and then discover that they cannot get pregnant. Infertility is defi ned as the inabil- ity to conceive a child after a year of unprotected intercourse or the inability to carry a fetus to term. Fertility problems are equally likely to be caused by a disorder on the man’s side, the woman’s side, or both; but in 30% of cases, the cause is unexplained or attributable to both partners. Th e most common risk factors for infertility are advancing age, smoking, high or very low body weight, STIs, and consumption of alcohol (CDC, 2011c). Th e good news is that the majority of infertile couples can now be successfully treated using conventional fertility treatments, such as medications to trigger ovulation or surgical proce- dures to correct problems with the reproductive tract. For the remaining cou- ples, assisted reproductive technologies off er the greatest possibility of pregnancy. In 2008, over 46,000 live births occurred as a result of these technologies (CDC, 2011b).
Female Infertility
About 10%, or 6.1 million, women aged 15–44 in the United States have dif- fi culty getting or staying pregnant (CDC, 2011c). Most cases of infertility among women are due to physical factors. Hormones, stress, immunological factors, and environmental factors may also be involved.
Physical Causes Most cases of female infertility are caused by problems with ovulation. A below-normal or high amount of body fat may inhibit ovulation and delay pregnancy. Once normal body fat is restored, fertility is likely to occur. In addition, benign growths such as fi broids and polyps on the uterus, ovaries, or fallopian tubes may aff ect a woman’s fertility. Surgery can restore fertility in many of these cases. Many women are waiting until their 30s and 40s to have children. About one third of couples in which the woman is 35 or older have fertility problems, often caused by a variety of factors including ovaries that are less able to release eggs, a small number of eggs left, and eggs that are not healthy (CDC, 2011c).
“ Dear Auntie will come with presents and will ask, “Where is our baby, sister?”
And, Mother, you will tell her softly, “He is in the pupils of my eyes. He is in my bones and in my soul.”
—Rabindranath Tagore (1864–1941)
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Additionally, some health problems can increase the risk of infertility in women, including irregular, painful, or no menstrual periods, endometriosis, pelvic infl ammatory disease, and having more than one miscarriage. It is a good idea for a woman to talk to a doctor before trying to get pregnant; a doctor can help her prepare her body for a baby and answer any questions she may have about fertility.
Male Infertility
Th e primary causes of male infertility include having a varicocele, or varicose vein above the testicle, low sperm count, decreased sperm motility, and poor sperm morphology (misshapen sperm). Sperm ducts may become blocked, or for some reason, the male may not ejaculate. Th ough sperm morphology is the best indicator of fertility, since sperm counts are easy to perform, this param- eter is more often studied. Men are more at risk than women from environmental factors because they are constantly producing new sperm cells; for the same reason, men may also recover faster once the aff ecting factor has been removed. Increasing evidence suggests that toxic substances, such as lead and pesticides, are responsible for decreased number or poor health of sperm. Alcohol, tobacco, and marijuana use may also produce reduced sperm counts or abnormal sperm. Some prescrip- tion drugs have also been shown to aff ect the number of sperm a man produces.
Emotional Responses to Infertility
By the time partners seek medical advice about their fertility problems, they may have already experienced a crisis in confronting the possibility of not being able to become biological parents. Many such couples feel they have lost control over a major area of their lives. Coming to a joint decision with one’s partner about goals, acceptable therapies, and an endpoint for therapy is important and advisable.
Infertility Treatment
Almost without exception, fertility problems are physical, not emotional, despite myths to the contrary. Th e two most popular myths are that anxiety over becoming pregnant leads to infertility and that if an infertile couple adopt a child the couple will then be able to conceive on their own. Neither has any basis in medical fact, although some presumably infertile couples have conceived following an adoption. (Th is does not mean, however, that one should adopt a child to remedy infertility.) In some cases, fertility is restored for no discernible reason; in others, the infertility remains a mystery. Treatment for a successful outcome, defi ned as delivering a child or achieving an ongoing pregnancy within 18 months, can be both emotionally and fi nancially costly. In a recent study of nearly 400 women in California who sought treatment for infertility, about 20% of participants had pursued noncycle-based treatments such as surgery or tests. Treatment was successful for approximately 30% of these patients overall, at a cost of slightly over $1,000 for medication-only to over $38,000 for in vitro fertilization. Treatment cost for each successful outcome was higher: nearly $6000 for medication-only, $61,000 for IVF, and $73,000 for IVF with a donor egg (American Society for Reproductive Medicine, 2011).
Enhancing Fertility Th ere are many ways that fertility can be enhanced, the most important of which involves the timing of coitus with respect to the
“ Rarely is moral queasiness a match for the onslaught of science.
—Sharon Begley (1956–)
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woman’s menstrual cycle. Because an ovum is viable for about 24 hours after ovulation, a pregnancy is most likely to occur when intercourse takes place at the same time as ovulation. If a man wears tight underwear, he might switch to boxer-type shorts to allow his testicles to descend from his body. However, for many couples, these techniques are not enough; they may seek medical intervention to diagnose and treat infertility.
Medical Intervention Medical technology now off ers more treatment options to men and to women trying to conceive a child. Th e techniques and tech- nologies developed to promote conception include the following:
■ Fertility medications. A variety of medications can be used to treat infertility, so it is important to understand each one and its purpose.
■ Surgery. Th is is a treatment option for both male and female infertility. Used to correct a structural problem, surgery can often return normal fertility.
■ Artifi cial insemination. Used if sperm numbers are too low, artifi cial insemination (AI) involves injecting the woman with sperm from her partner or a donor. Th is procedure may be performed in conjunction with ovulation-stimulating medications.
■ Assisted reproductive technology (ART). All fertility treatments in which both eggs and sperm are handled are known as assisted reproductive technology (ART). In general, ART procedures involve surgically removing eggs from a woman’s ovaries, combining them with sperm in the laboratory, and returning them to the woman’s body or donating them to another woman. Th e types of ART include the following (CDC, 2011b).
■ IVF (in vitro fertilization). Th is involves extracting a woman’s eggs, fertilizing the eggs in the laboratory, and then transferring the result- ing embryos into the woman’s uterus through the cervix.
■ Intracytoplasmic sperm injection (ICSI). Th is involves injecting a single sperm directly into a mature egg. Th e embryo is then trans- ferred to the uterus or fallopian tube.
■ GIFT (gamete intrafallopian transfer). Th is involves the use of a fi ber-optic instrument to guide the transfer of unfertilized eggs and sperm (gametes) into the woman’s fallopian tubes through small incisions in her abdomen.
■ ZIFT (zygote intrafallopian transfer). A woman’s eggs are fertilized in the laboratory and then transferred to her fallopian tube.
ART is often categorized according to whether the procedure uses a wom- an’s own eggs (nondonor) or eggs from another woman (donor) and according to whether the embryos used were newly fertilized (fresh) or previously fertilized, frozen, and then thawed (frozen). ART babies are 2 to 4 times more likely to have certain types of birth defects, including heart and digestive system problems and cleft lip or palate. While it is uncertain why these problems occur, it may involve factors related to the age of the parents (CDC, 2011c).
■ Surrogate motherhood. In this case, one woman, a surrogate mother, agrees to become pregnant using the man’s sperm and her own egg.
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■ Gestational carrier. A woman with ovaries but no uterus may use a gestational carrier whereby she uses her own egg, which is fertilized by the man’s sperm. Th e embryo is then placed inside the carrier’s uterus. In this case, the carrier will not be related to the baby.
Th e most important factor for success of these procedures is the age of the woman. When a woman is using her own egg, success rates decline as she ages and drop off even more dramatically after about age 37. Other factors to consider are whether the woman is using her own eggs and the number of embryos transferred. In spite of signifi cant costs, risks, and uncertainty, it appears that patients are accepting these because the alternative is even more daunting: not having a child. Cloning is the reproduction of an individual from a single cell taken from a donor or parent. Specifi cally, this technique involves replacing the nucleus from a donor to produce an embryo that is genetically identical to it. Th e success of reproductive cloning depends on the species. For example, plant cloning occurs every day, as when an apple grows from a cloned fruit tree. Cloning in small animal species has been somewhat successful, though the spontaneous abortion rate is high, as are the rates of fetal mortality and genetic anomalies. What has caught the attention of the public is the potential for human reproductive clon- ing and the questions that accompany this procedure: When does human life begin, and what is the moral and legal status of the human embryo? Human embryonic stem cells, extracted from embryos when they are still tiny clusters of no more than 300 cells, are generating great excitement in science because they can, in theory, grow into any of the body’s cell types. Scientists hope someday to use them for replacement tissue and organs for patients with a variety of diseases, including diabetes and Parkinson’s. Cloning has huge potential as a source of organs for implantation or as an alternative in cases of infertility. Sex selection, also marketed under the title “family balancing,” is a technol- ogy that allows couples to choose whether to have a boy or a girl. It can be accomplished via both pre- and post-implantation of an embryo. By creating embryos outside the womb, then testing them for gender, pre-implantation genetic diagnosis can guarantee the sex of a baby. Price: $20,000 or more.
In Vitro Fertilization. Fertilization of an egg takes place by manually combining an egg and sperm in a laboratory dish and physically placing the embryo in the uterus.
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Controversy arises, however, over potential sex imbalances in our population and cases in which the sex selection results do not match the parents’ expectations. Each of these techniques raises questions. For example, some lesbian women, especially those in committed relationships, are choosing to create families through artifi cial insemination. To date, there are no reliable data on the number of such births, but experts in the fi eld estimate that at least 5% of lesbian women have used infertility clinics (Hall, 2007). In part, the increasing acceptance of nontraditional families is providing this boom in biological parenthood. Many questions are raised when a lesbian couple contemplate having a baby in this way: Who will be the birth mother? What will the role status of the other mother be? Will the donor be known or unknown? If known, will the child have a relationship with him? Will the child have a relationship with the donor’s
When assisted reproductive technology is used to treat infertility, there is about a 1 in 2 chance of a multiple birth.
Increasingly, gay and lesbian couples are creating families that are diverse along dimensions of social class, gender, and race.
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parents? Who gets custody if the couple breaks up? Will there be a legal contract between the parenting parties? Th ere are few precedents to learn from or role models to follow in these cases. Another issue that such couples face is that the nonbiological parent may have no legal tie to the child (in some states, the non- biological parent may adopt the child as a “second parent”). Furthermore, society may not recognize a nonbiological parent as a “real” parent, because children are expected to have only one “real” mother and one “real” father.
• Giving Birth Th roughout pregnancy, numerous physiological changes occur to prepare the woman’s body for childbirth. Hormones secreted by the placenta regulate the growth of the fetus, stimulate maturation of the breasts for lactation, and ready the uterus and other parts of the body for labor. During the later months of pregnancy, the placenta produces the hormone relaxin, which increases fl exibility in the ligaments and joints of the pelvic area. In the last trimester, most women occasionally feel uterine contractions that are strong but generally not painful. Th ese Braxton-Hicks contractions exercise the uterus, preparing it for labor.
Labor and Delivery
During labor, contractions begin the eff acement (thinning) and dilation (gradual opening) of the cervix. It is diffi cult to say exactly when labor starts, which helps explain the great diff erences reported in lengths of labor for diff erent women. True labor begins when the uterine contractions are regularly spaced, thinning and dilation of the cervix occurs, and the fetus presents a part of itself into the vagina. During the contractions, the lengthwise muscles of the uterus involuntarily pull open the circular muscles around the cervix. Th is process generally takes 2–36 hours. Its duration depends on the size of the baby, the baby’s position in the uterus, the size of the mother’s pelvis, and the condition of the uterus. Th e length of labor tends to shorten after the fi rst birth experience. Labor can generally be divided into three stages. Th e fi rst stage is usually the longest, lasting 4–16 hours or longer. An early sign of fi rst-stage labor is the expulsion of a plug of slightly bloody mucus that has blocked the opening of the cervix during pregnancy. At the same time or later on, there is a second fl uid discharge from the vagina. Th is discharge, often referred to as the “break- ing of the waters,” is the amniotic fl uid, which comes from the ruptured amnion. (Because the baby is subject to infection after the protective membrane breaks, the woman should receive medical attention soon thereafter, if she has not already.) Th e hormone oxytocin produced by the fetus, along with prostaglandins from the placenta, stimulate strong uterine contractions. At the end of the fi rst stage of labor, which is called the transition, the contractions come more quickly and are much more intense than at the beginning of labor. Most women report that transition is the most diffi cult part of labor. During the last part of fi rst-stage labor, the baby’s head enters the birth canal. Th is marks the shift from dilation of the cervix to expulsion of the infant. Th e cervical open- ing is now almost fully dilated (about 10 centimeters [4 inches] in diameter), but the baby is not yet completely in position to be pushed out. Transition can take from a few minutes up to several hours.
“ If men had to have babies, they would only ever have one each.
—Princess Diana (1961–1997)
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Second-stage labor begins when the baby’s head moves into the birth canal and ends when the baby is born. During this time, many women experience a great force in their bodies. Some women fi nd this the most diffi cult part of labor; others fi nd that the contractions and bearing down bring a sense of euphoria. Th e baby is usually born gradually. With each of the fi nal few contrac- tions, a new part of the infant emerges (see Figure 12.6). Th e baby may even cry before he or she is completely born, especially if the mother did not have medication. Th e baby will still be attached to the umbilical cord connected to the mother, which is not cut until it stops pulsating. He or she will appear wet and often be covered by a waxy substance called vernix. Th e head may look oddly shaped at fi rst, from the molding of the soft plates of bone during birth. Th is shape is temporary; the baby’s head usually achieves a normal appearance within 24 hours. After the baby has been delivered, the uterus continues to contract, expelling the placenta, the remaining section of the umbilical cord, and the fetal mem- branes. Completing the third and fi nal stage of labor, these tissues are collec- tively referred to as the afterbirth. Th e doctor or midwife examines the placenta
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• FIGURE 12.6 The Birth Process: Labor and Delivery. (a) In the fi rst stage, the cervix begins to eff ace (thin out) and dilate. (b) In the transition stage, the cervix dilates from 8 to 10 centimeters. (c) In the second stage, the infant is delivered. (d) In the third stage, the placenta (afterbirth) is delivered.
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to make sure it is whole. If the practitioner has any doubt that the entire placenta has been expelled, he or she may examine the uterus to make sure no parts of the placenta remain to cause adhesions or hemorrhaging. Immediately following birth, the attendants assess the physical condition of the neonate, or newborn. Heart rate, respiration, skin color, refl exes, and muscle tone are indi- vidually rated with a score of 0 to 2. Th e total, called an Apgar score, will range between 7–10 if the baby is healthy. For a few days following labor (especially if it is a second or subsequent birth), the mother will probably feel strong contractions as the uterus begins to return to its prebirth size and shape. Th is process takes about 6 weeks. She will also have a bloody discharge called lochia, which continues for several weeks. Following birth, if the mother did not receive pain medication, the baby will probably be alert and ready to nurse. Breastfeeding (discussed later) provides benefi ts for both mother and child. If the infant is a boy, the parents will need to decide about circumcision, the surgical removal of the foreskin of the penis.
Choices in Childbirth
Women and couples planning the birth of a child have decisions to make in a variety of areas: place of birth, birth attendant(s), medications, preparedness classes, circumcision, breastfeeding—to name just a few. Th e “childbirth mar- ket” has responded to consumer concerns, so it’s important for prospective consumers to fully understand their options.
During labor, uterine contractions cause the opening and thinning of the cervix. The length of labor varies from woman to woman and birth to birth. Encouragement from her partner can help the mother relax. During transition, the mother is coached to push as the baby’s head begins to crown.
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think about it
In 1975, when about 93% of newborn boys were circumcised, the American Academy of Pediatrics and the American Col- lege of Obstetricians and Gynecologists issued a statement declaring that there is “no absolute medical indication” for routine circumcision. This procedure, which involves slicing and removing the sleeve of skin (foreskin) that covers the glans penis, had been performed routinely on newborn boys in the United States since the 1930s. In 1999 and again in 2005, the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) changed from a neutral stance on circumcision to state that the data were insuffi cient to recommend routine neonatal male circumcision (AAP, 2007). The percentage of baby boys getting circumcised in hospitals has dropped slightly in the past decade, from 62.9% in 1999 to 54.7% in 2010 (CDC, 2011d). The CDC acknowledges that the fi gures likely underestimate the actual rate of circumcisions because they did not include those performed in small community settings. Many factors likely infl uence rates of newborn male circumci- sion. One study found that, after controlling for other factors, hospitals in states in which Medicaid covers routine male circum- cision had rates that were 24 percentage points higher than rates in hospitals in states without such coverage (Leibowitz, Desmond, & Belin, 2009). Recently, the World Health Organization (2011c) has cited compelling evidence that male circumcision reduces the risk of heterosexually acquired HIV infection in men by approxi- mately 60%. Three studies showed that circumcision of adult
The Question of Male Circumcision
heterosexual African men reduced their risk for acquiring human immunodefi ciency virus infection and other sexually transmitted infections (Auvert et al., 2005; Bailey et al., 2007; Gray et al., 2007; Tobian et al., 2010). (For further discussion about this, see Chapter 15.) Circumcision is a ritual obligation for infant Jewish boys, and a common rite among Muslims, who account for the largest share of circumcised men worldwide. Though the wider U.S. population has adopted the practice of male circumcision due to health benefi ts, these advantages have become subject for debate. Aside from reli- gious considerations and fi nancial reimbursements, the health- related reasons given by parents for circumcising their infants are “cleanliness” and “so he’ll look like his dad.” A circumcised penis is not necessarily any cleaner than an uncircumcised one. Infants do not require cleaning under their foreskins; adults do. As for “look- ing like dad,” there is no evidence to suggest that little boys are seriously traumatized if dad’s penis doesn’t look exactly like theirs.
Think Critically 1. Given the information we have about circumcision,
would you have your son circumcised? Why or why not?
2. How important would the data be in deciding whether to have your son circumcised?
Hospital Birth Because of the traditional and seemingly impersonal care provided in some hospitals, in recent decades, many people have recognized the need for family-centered childbirth. Fathers and other relatives or close friends often participate today. Most hospitals permit rooming-in, in which the baby stays with the mother rather than in the nursery, or a modifi ed form of rooming-in. Some form of pain relief is administered during most hospital deliveries, as are various hormones to intensify the contractions and to shrink the uterus after delivery. Th ere are two types of pain-relieving drugs—analgesics, which provide pain relief without loss of feeling or muscle movement; and anesthetics, which block all feelings, including pain. Th e most common form of analgesic administration is the epidural, which is administered through a tiny catheter placed in the woman’s lower back. When administered properly, an epidural diminishes the sensations of labor in the lower areas of the body. Drugs have been used successfully and safely during labor. However, the mother isn’t the only recipient of the drug; it travels through the placenta to the baby, in whom
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it may reduce heart and respiration rates. Th e use of an epidural entails a slightly higher risk of vacuum or forceps delivery and cesarean section than does a drug-free birth. Until recently, during delivery, the mother was given an episiotomy, an inci- sion that enlarges the vaginal opening by cutting through the perineum toward the anus. Contradicting the long-accepted rationale for the operation—to make childbirth less damaging—a comprehensive analysis has concluded that having an episiotomy has no benefi ts and actually causes more complications than not having one (American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists, 2006b). As a result, a restrictive policy regarding episiotomy use has resulted in a decreased rate, from 60.9% in 1979 to 24.5% in 2004 (Franklin et al., 2009). Th e baby is usually delivered on a table. If such factors as medication or exhaustion slow labor, he or she may be pulled from the womb with a vacuum extractor (which has a small suction cup that fi ts onto the baby’s head) or forceps. (In some cases of acute fetal distress, these instruments may be crucial in order to save the infant’s life.)
“ Minor surgery is one that is performed on someone else.
—Eugene Robin, MD (1920–2000)
practically speaking
Prospective parents must make many important decisions. The more informed they are, the better able they will be to decide what is right for them. If you were planning a birth, how would you answer the following questions?
■ Who will be the birth attendant—a physician or a nurse- midwife? Do you already have someone in mind? If not, what criteria are important to you in choosing a birth attendant? Have you considered hiring a labor assistant (sometimes called a doula, a professional childbirth companion employed to guide the mother during labor)?
■ Who will be present at the birth—your spouse or partner? Other relatives or friends? Children? How will these people participate?
■ Where will the birth take place—in a hospital, in a birthing center, or at home? If in a hospital, is there a choice of rooms?
■ What kind of environment will you create in terms of lighting, room furnishings, and sounds? Is there special music you would like to hear?
■ What kinds of medication, if any, would you feel comfortable being given? Do you know what the options are for pain- reducing drugs? What about hormones to speed up or slow down labor?
■ What about fetal monitoring? Will there be machines attached to the mother or the baby?
■ What is your attendant’s policy regarding food and drink during labor?
■ What about freedom of movement during labor? Will you (or your partner) want the option of walking around during labor? Will there be a shower or bath available? Will the baby be delivered with the mother lying on her back with her feet in stirrups, or will she be free to choose her position, such as squatting or lying on her side?
■ What do you know about having an episiotomy? Under what conditions would it be acceptable?
■ Under what conditions is a cesarean section acceptable? Who will decide?
■ Who will “catch” the baby as she or he is born? Who will cut the umbilical cord, and at what point will it be cut?
■ What will be done with the baby immediately after birth? What kinds of tests will be done on the baby, and when? What other kinds of procedures, such as shots and medicated eyedrops, will be given, and when?
■ Will the baby stay in the nursery, or is rooming-in available? Is there a visiting schedule?
■ How will the baby be fed—by breast or by bottle? Will feeding be on a schedule or “on demand”? Is there some- one with breastfeeding experience available to answer questions if necessary? Will the baby have a pacifi er between feedings?
■ If the baby is a boy, will he be circumcised? If so, when? Will anesthesia be used during the procedure to decrease pain?
Making a Birth Plan
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Elective Deliveries Statistics show that from 1990 to 2006, the percentage of women who chose elective deliveries, or those who scheduled a baby’s birth prior to its intended due date, more than doubled to about 30% (March of Dimes, 2011b). As mentioned earlier, a full-term pregnancy lasts 40 weeks, but elective deliveries are often planned for 2 or 3 weeks earlier. And though 37 weeks is still considered full term, babies born even a few weeks early are at greater risk for health problems than those who are born later. Th e reasons for this are twofold: It’s diffi cult to predict a woman’s due date and the brain, heart, lungs, and immune system all mature at diff erent rates. Th e March of Dimes stresses that some infants may indeed need a little more time in the womb than others to reach full maturity. Th e best labor plan for women: Hang in there and wait for delivery to begin on its own.
Cesarean Section Cesarean section, or C-section, involves the delivery of a baby through an incision in the mother’s abdominal wall and uterus. In 1970, 5.5% of American births were done by C-section. Today, about 30% are cesar- eans, a record high for the surgical method that is a controversial subject among both obstetricians and mothers (Hamilton et al., 2010). Th ere are many reasons to deliver a baby by C-section, such as abnormalities of the placenta and umbilical cord, and/or prolonged or ineff ective labor. Although there is a lower mortality rate for infants born by C-sections, the mother’s mortality rate is higher. As with all major surgeries, there are possible complications, and recovery can be slow and diffi cult. Th e fact that a woman has had a previous cesarean delivery does not mean that subsequent deliveries must be C-sections. In fact, 60–80% of women who attempt a vaginal delivery after cesarean (VBAC) have successful vaginal deliveries (March of Dimes, 2011c). Many times the condition that made a C-section necessary in one birth will not exist in the next; thus, a VBAC is safer than a scheduled repeat C-section.
Childbirth classes enable both partners to understand and share the birth process.
The Huichol people of Mexico traditionally practiced couvade. The father squatted in the rafters above the laboring mother. When the mother experienced a contraction, she would pull the ropes that had been attached to his scrotum so that he could “share” the experience of childbirth.
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Prepared Childbirth Increasingly, Americans are choosing among such childbirth alternatives as prepared childbirth, rooming-in birthing centers, home birth, and midwifery. Prepared childbirth (or natural childbirth) was popularized by English gyne- cologist Grantly Dick-Read (1972), who observed that fear causes muscles to tense, which, in turn, increases pain and stress during childbirth. He taught both partners about childbirth and gave them physical exercises to ease muscle tension. In the 1950s, French obstetrician Fernand Lamaze (1970) developed a method of prepared childbirth based on knowledge of conditioned refl exes. Women learn to mentally separate the physical stimulus of uterine contractions from the conditioned response of pain. With the help of a partner, women perform breath- ing and other exercises throughout labor and delivery. Prepared childbirth, then, is not so much a matter of controlling the birth process as of understanding it and having confi dence in nature’s plan. Prepared mothers (who usually attend classes with the father or another partner) handle pain better, use fewer pain- relieving drugs, express greater satisfaction with the childbirth process, and experi- ence less postpartum depression than women who undergo routine hospital births.
Birthing Rooms and Centers Birthing (or maternity) centers, institutions of long standing in England and other European countries, have now been developed in the United States. Although they vary in size, organization, and orientation, birthing centers share the view that childbirth is a normal, healthy process that can be assisted by skilled practitioners (midwives or physicians) in a homelike setting. Some centers provide emergency care; all have procedures for transfer to a hospital if necessary.
Home Birth Home births have increased during the past three decades, although they still constitute a small fraction of total births. Careful medical screening and planning that eliminate all but the lowest-risk pregnancies can make this a viable alternative for some couples.
Midwifery and Doulas In most countries, midwives attend the majority of births. Th e United States has an increasing number of certifi ed nurse-midwives who are registered nurses trained in obstetrical techniques. Th ey are qualifi ed for routine deliveries and minor medical emergencies. Th ey also often operate as part of a medical team that includes a backup physician. Th eir fees are generally considerably less than a doctor’s. Unlike midwives, who are medical professionals, doulas do not make clinical decisions. Rather, they off er emotional support and manage pain using massage, acupressure, and birthing positions. If a woman decides she wants to give birth with the aid of a midwife outside a hospital setting, she should have a thorough medical screening to make sure she and her infant will not be at risk during delivery. She should investigate the midwife’s or doula’s training and experience, the backup services available in the event of complications or emergencies, and the procedures for a transfer to a hospital if necessary.
Breastfeeding
About 3 days after childbirth, lactation—the production of milk—begins. Before lactation, sometimes as early as the second trimester, a yellowish liquid called colostrum is secreted by the nipples. It is what nourishes the newborn infant
“ All is beautiful All is beautiful
All is beautiful, yes! Now Mother Earth And Father Sky Join one another and meet forever helpmates All is beautiful All is beautiful All is beautiful, yes! Now the night of darkness And the dawn of light Join one another and meet forever helpmates All is beautiful All is beautiful All is beautiful, yes! Now the white corn And the yellow corn Join one another and meet forever helpmates All is beautiful All is beautiful All is beautiful, yes! Life that never ends Happiness of all things Join one another and meet forever helpmates All is beautiful All is beautiful All is beautiful, yes!
—Navajo night chant
Breastfeeding provides the best nutrition for infants. It also helps protect against many infectious diseases and gives both mother and child a sense of well-being.
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practically speaking
If you are a woman who plans to have children, you will have to decide whether to breastfeed or bottlefeed. Perhaps you already have an idea that breastfeeding is healthier for the baby but are not sure why. The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends that breastfeeding continue for at least 12 months, and thereafter for as long as mother and baby desire (CDC, 2011e). The World Health Organization (2011d) recommends continued breast- feeding up to 2 years of age or beyond. However, only 13% of babies in the United States are exclusively breastfed at the end of 6 months (U.S. Public Health Service, 2011). Rates are signifi - cantly lower for African American women. The following list of benefi ts and advantages should help you understand why mother’s milk is the ideal food for most infants.
Physical Benefi ts of Breastfeeding
■ Breast milk contains antibodies that protect the baby from many infectious diseases, ear infections, diarrhea, and other maladies for at least 6 months.
■ Breast milk forms softer curds in the infant’s stomach, making digestion and elimination easier.
■ Breast milk puts less stress on the infant’s immature liver and kidneys because its total protein is lower than that of other mammalian milk.
■ Breast milk is high in cholesterol, which is needed for proper development of the nervous tissue.
■ Breast milk causes fewer allergic reactions because of its con- centration and type of protein.
■ Breast milk is a better source of nutrition for low-birth-weight babies because nature adapts the content of the mother’s milk to meet the infant’s needs.
■ Children who were breastfed have fewer problems with tooth decay.
■ Breastfed babies are less likely to become obese. ■ For mothers, hormonal changes stimulated by breastfeeding
cause the uterus to contract and return to its normal size.
■ Breastfeeding mothers reduce their risk of ovarian cancer and early-onset breast cancer.
■ The longer a woman nurses, the lower her risk for developing type 2 diabetes.
Psychological Benefi ts of Breastfeeding
■ The close physical contact of breastfeeding provides a sense of emotional well-being for mother and baby.
■ Breastfeeding may help to lower the risk of postpartum depression.
Health and Logistical Advantages of Breastfeeding
■ Breastfeeding requires no buying, mixing, or preparing of formulas.
■ Breast milk is not subject to incorrect mixing or spoilage. ■ Breast milk is clean and is not easily contaminated. ■ Breastfeeding provides some protection against pregnancy
(if the woman is breastfeeding exclusively).
■ The breast is always available. ■ Better infant health means fewer health insurance claims and
less time off to care for sick children.
Bottlefeeding
For those women whose work schedules, health problems, or other demands prohibit them from breastfeeding, holding and cuddling the baby while bottlefeeding can contribute to the sense of emotional well-being that comes from a close parent- baby relationship. Bottlefeeding aff ords a greater opportunity for fathers to become involved in the feeding of the baby.
Breast Versus Bottle: Which Is Better for You and Your Child?
SOURCE: Adapted from U.S. Public Health Service (2011). The Surgeon General’s Call to Action to Support Breastfeeding. Available: www.surgeongeneval.gov/ topics/breastfeeding/calltoactiontosupportbreastfeeding.pdf.
before the mother’s milk comes in. Colostrum is high in protein and contains antibodies that help protect the baby from infectious diseases. Hormonal changes during labor trigger the changeover from colostrum to milk, but unless a mother nurses her child, her breasts will soon stop producing milk. If she chooses not to breastfeed, she may be given an injection of estrogen soon after delivery to stop lactation. It is not certain, however, whether estrogen is actually eff ective; furthermore, it may increase the risk of blood clotting.
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• Becoming a Parent Men and women who become parents enter a new phase of their lives. Even more than marriage, parenthood signifi es adulthood—the fi nal, irreversible end of childhood. A person can become an ex-spouse but never an ex-parent. Th e irrevocable nature of parenthood may make the fi rst-time parent doubtful and apprehensive, especially during the pregnancy. Yet, for the most part, parent- hood has to be learned experientially, although ideas can modify practices. A person may receive assistance from more experienced parents, but ultimately, each new parent has to learn on his or her own. Th e time immediately following birth is a critical period for family adjust- ment. No amount of reading, classes, and expert advice can prepare expectant parents for the “real thing.” Th e 3 months or so following childbirth (the “fourth trimester”) constitute the postpartum period. Th is time is one of physical stabilization and emotional adjustment. Th e abrupt transition from being a nonparent to being a parent may create considerable stress. Parents take on parental roles literally overnight, and the job goes on without relief around the clock. Many parents express concern about their ability to meet all the responsibilities of child rearing. To support couples in the adjustment and care of their newborn child, the Family and Medical Leave Act (FMLA) assures eligible employees up to 12 weeks of unpaid, job-protected leave for specifi ed family and medical reasons with continuation of group health insurance (U.S. Department of Labor, 2011). If the employee has to use some of that leave for another reason, including a dif- fi cult pregnancy, it may be counted as part of the 12-week FMLA leave entitlement. Th e sexual desire of women generally decreases during pregnancy and fol- lowing delivery. By 12 weeks postpartum, the majority of women have resumed sexual intercourse; however, many experience sexual diffi culties, particularly dyspareunia (genital pain) and lowered sexual desire. At 6 months postpartum, when the baby’s presence and the demands of parenting intrude on the sex lives of the parents, some women continue to report signifi cantly lowered sex- ual desire. Depending on a couple’s ability to adjust to the physical and psy- chological changes that occur during this time and the depth and range of their communication, most new parents experience a fulfi lling sexual relationship. Information about what changes to expect may help new parents avoid making unfounded and harmful assumptions about their relationship. Th e postpartum period may be a time of signifi cant emotional upheaval. Even women who had easy and uneventful pregnancies may experience the “baby blues.” More than half of new mothers have reported being depressed following the birth of their baby (CDC, 2004). New mothers often have irregular sleep patterns because of the needs of their newborn, the discomfort of childbirth, or the strangeness of the hospital environment. Some mothers may feel isolated from their familiar world. Th ese are considered normal, self- limiting postpartum symptoms and generally go away within a week or two. Postpartum depression occurs in 10–15% of new mothers and can have its onset at any time in the fi rst year postpartum. Like the blues, postpartum depression is thought to be related to hormonal changes brought on by sleep deprivation, weaning, and the resumption of the menstrual cycle. A prior his- tory of depression also increases a woman’s risk. It is common as well for anxiety disorders to arise or recur in the postpartum period, when some women may feel hypervigilant about possible harm to their baby. Th e most serious and
Before I got married, I had six theories about bringing up children. Now I have
six children and no theories.
—John Wilmot, Earl of Rochester (1647–1680)
“
We learn from experience. A man never wakes up his second baby just to see it
smile.
—Grace Williams
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rarest postpartum mental illness is postpartum psychosis. Unlike the other disorders, postpartum psychosis is thought to be exclusively biologically based and related to hormonal changes. Aff ected women tend to have diffi culty sleep- ing, be prone to agitation or hyperactivity, and intermittently experience delu- sions, hallucinations, and paranoia. Th is behavior represents a medical emergency and usually requires hospitalization. Depression rates, in compari- son, vary from industrialized cultures (more) to nonindustrialized ones (less), suggesting that psychological, cultural, and social factors have a more signifi cant eff ect on whether a woman experiences postpartum depression. As a result of rare but highly publicized instances in which infants have been abandoned and sometimes left to die, every state has enacted a provision to provide a safe and confi dential means of relinquishing an unwanted infant (Guttmacher Institute, 2008f ). Under certain circumstances and without the threat of prosecution for child abandonment, these policies, also called “safe haven” or “safe surrender,” typically allow a parent or other specifi ed person to relinquish an infant at specifi c locations or to personnel authorized to accept the child.
Cleaning and scrubbing can wait till tomorrow.
For babies grow up we’ve learned to our sorrow. So quiet down cobwebs, dust go to sleep. I’m rocking my baby and babies don’t keep.
—Anonymous
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For many people, the arrival of a child is one of life’s most signifi cant events. It signifi es adulthood and conveys social status for those who are now parents. It creates the lifelong bonds of family. And it can fi ll the new parents with a deep sense of accomplishment and well-being.
Final Thoughts
Summary Fertilization and Fetal Development
■ Fertilization of the oocyte by a sperm usually takes place in the fallopian tube. Th e chromosomes of the ovum combine with those of the sperm to form the diploid zygote; it divides many times to form a blastocyst, which implants itself in the uterine wall.
■ Th e blastocyst becomes an embryo and then a fetus, which is nourished through the placenta via the umbilical cord.
■ Parenthood is now a matter of choice. Increasing numbers of individuals and couples are choosing to remain child-free.
Being Pregnant
■ Preconception care is aimed at interventions that help to improve pregnancy outcomes.
■ Th e most commonly used chemical pregnancy test can be taken 2–4 weeks after a woman misses her menstrual period. Hegar’s sign can be detected by a trained examiner. Pregnancy is confi rmed by the detection of the fetal heartbeat and movements or through examination by ultrasound.
■ A woman’s feelings vary greatly during pregnancy. It is important for her to share her concerns and to have support from her partner, friends, relatives, and health- care practitioners. Her feelings about sexuality are likely to change during pregnancy. Men may also have
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confl icting feelings. Sexual activity is generally safe un- less there is pain, bleeding, or a history of miscarriage.
■ Harmful substances may be passed to the embryo or fetus through the placenta. Substances that cause birth defects are called teratogens; these include alcohol, tobacco, certain drugs, and environmental pollutants. Infectious diseases such as rubella may damage the fetus. Sexually transmitted infections may be passed to the infant through the placenta or the birth canal during childbirth.
■ Ectopic pregnancy, pregnancy-induced hypertension, and preterm birth are the most common complica- tions of pregnancy.
■ Abnormalities of the fetus may be diagnosed using ultrasound, amniocentesis, chorionic villus sampling (CVS), or neural tube defect screening.
■ Some pregnancies end in miscarriage. Infant mortality rates in the United States are extremely high compared with those in other industrialized nations. Loss of a preg- nancy or death of a young infant is a serious life event.
Infertility
■ Infertility is the inability to conceive a child after a year of unprotected intercourse or the inability to carry a child to term. Couples with fertility problems often feel they have lost control over an important area of their lives.
■ Techniques for combating infertility include fertility medications, surgery, and assisted reproductive technology. Surrogate motherhood or relying on a gestational carrier may be options for childless couples. Cloning, the most controversial of repro- ductive technologies, is still in its infancy.
Giving Birth
■ In the last trimester of pregnancy, a woman feels Braxton-Hicks contractions. Th ese contractions also begin the eff acement and dilation of the cervix to permit delivery.
■ Labor can be divided into three stages. First-stage labor begins when uterine contractions become regular. When the cervix has dilated approximately 10 centimeters, the baby’s head enters the birth canal; this is called transition. In second-stage labor, the baby emerges from the birth canal. In third-stage labor, the afterbirth is expelled.
■ Elective deliveries, or those scheduled prior to a child’s intended due date, consist of about 30% of all births.
■ Cesarean section, or C-section, is the delivery of a baby through an incision in the mother’s abdominal wall and uterus.
■ Prepared childbirth encompasses a variety of methods that stress the importance of understanding the birth process, teaching the mother to relax, and giving her emotional support during childbirth.
■ Birthing centers and birthing rooms in hospitals provide viable alternatives to traditional hospital birth settings for normal births. Instead of medical doctors, many women now choose trained nurse- midwives while others have doulas as labor assistants.
■ Male circumcision has been performed routinely in this country for many years. And evidence to support the practice of circumcision for HIV prevention is mounting. Circumcision holds religious meaning for Jews and Muslims.
■ Mother’s milk is more nutritious than formula or cow’s milk and provides immunity to many diseases and conditions. Breastfeeding also off ers benefi ts to mother, family, society, and the environment.
Becoming a Parent
■ A critical adjustment period—the postpartum period—follows the birth of a child. Th e mother may experience feelings of depression (sometimes called “baby blues”) that are a result of biological, psycho- logical, and social factors. Th e majority of women also experience a decrease in sexual desire.
Questions for Discussion ■ Most likely, you have a strong opinion about
pregnancy and how one would aff ect your life. If you or your partner became pregnant today, what would you do? Where would you go in order to receive support for your decision?
■ If you (or your partner) were to have a child, where and how would you prefer to deliver the baby? Whom would you want present? What steps would you be willing to take in order to ensure that your wishes were granted?
■ After trying but not being able to conceive for 1 year, you now realize that you or your partner may have a fertility problem. What measures would you consider in order to have a child? How much would you be willing to pay?
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■ Like many issues related to sexual orientation, adoption by same-sex couples is a controversial issue. What are your views on this, and do you feel that enacting laws is the best way to support your point of view?
La Leche League International http://www.llli.org Provides advice and support for nursing mothers.
Population Connection http://www.populationconnection.org Grassroots population organization that educates and advocates for action to stabilize world population.
Resolve: The National Infertility Association http://www.resolve.org Dedicated to providing education, advocacy, and support for men and women facing the crisis of infertility.
Share: Pregnancy & Infant Loss Support http://nationalshare.org Serves those whose lives are touched by the death of a baby.
Society for Assisted Reproductive Technology http://www.sart.org Promotes and advances the standards for the practice of assisted reproductive technology.
Suggested Reading For the most current research fi ndings in obstetrics, see Obstetrics and Gynecology, Th e New England Journal of Medicine, and JAMA: Journal of the American Medical Association.
Brott, A. A., & Ash, J. (2010). Th e expectant father (3rd ed.). New York: Abbeville Press. A guide to the emotional, physical, and fi nancial changes the father-to-be may experience during the course of his partner’s pregnancy.
Elder, K., & Dale, B. (2011). In-vitro fertilization (3rd ed.). Cambridge, UK: Cambridge University Press. A technical and comprehensive guide to the practice of in vitro fertilization.
Jana, L. A., & Shu, J. (2011). Heading home with your newborn (2nd ed.). IL: American Academy of Pediatrics. Off ers parent- tested, pediatrician-approved advice.
Murkoff , H., & Mazel, S. (2008). What to expect when you’re expecting. (4th ed.). New York: Workman Publishing. A complete book from preconception care through postpartum.
Nilsson, L. & Hamburger, L. (2004). A child is born (4th ed.). New York: Delacourt/Seymour Lawrence. Th e study of birth, beginning with fertilization, told in stunning photographs with text.
Wiessinger, D., West, D., & Pittman, T. (2010). Th e womanly art of breastfeeding (8th ed.). New York: La Leche League International. A comprehensive and supportive guide to breastfeeding.
Sex and the Internet Pregnancy and Childbirth Even though pregnancy is a natural and normal process, there are still myriad issues, questions, and concerns surrounding it. This is especially true when couples are considering pregnancy, are trying to become pregnant, or fi nd out that the woman is preg- nant. Fortunately, there is help and support on the Internet. One website was established specifi cally to educate men and women about pregnancy: http://www.childbirth.org. Go to this site and select two topics you wish to learn more about. You might choose “Pregnancy Basics,” “Lifestyle,” “Labor Induction,” or “Breastfeeding.” After you have investigated the topics and perhaps linked them to another resource, answer these questions for each:
■ What topics did you choose? Why? ■ What three new facts did you learn about each? ■ How might you integrate this information into your
own choices and decisions around pregnancy or parenthood?
■ What additional link did you follow, and what did you learn as a result?
Suggested Websites American College of Nurse-Midwives http://www.midwife.org Provides a directory of certifi ed nurse-midwives in your area.
American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists http://www.acog.org A professional association with information about pregnancy and childbirth.
Fatherhood.gov (National Responsible Fatherhood Clearinghouse) www.fatherhood.gov Established by President Obama, provides tips and hints for dads and kids and a library for laypeople and professionals.
For links, articles, and study material, go to the McGraw-Hill Web site, located at
www.mhhe.com/yarber8e.
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Alcohol, Drugs, and Sexuality 403
Sexuality and Disability 408
Sexuality and Cancer 413
Additional Sexual Health Issues 430
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Student Voices
infl uences how people react to you, especially the oppo- site sex. The real les- son comes from the betrayal I feel from my body. I was healthy before, and now that I am sick, I feel as if my identity has changed. I always saw my body as sexual. Now after surgery, which left a large scar where my cleavage used to be, and with chemotherapy, which left me bald, I feel like my body is a medi- cal experiment. My sexual desire has been very low, and I think it is all related to not feeling good about the way I look. Amazing how much of our identities are wrapped around the way we feel about the way we look. The good news for me is that my founda- tion is strong: I am not just what is on the outside.”
—26-year-old female
“On the weekend, I like to go out with my friend. When I drink alcohol in excessive amounts, I never have any problems performing sexually. But when I smoke marijuana, I have a major problem performing up to my standards.”
—19-year-old male
“I have learned not to take the media or anyone else’s opinion as the gospel. Now when I look in the mirror, I see the strong, beautiful, Black woman that I am. I no longer see the woman who wanted breast implants and other superfi cial aspects of beauty. My beauty now fl ows from within, and all I had to acquire was love for myself and knowledge of myself, and it did not cost me anything.”
—21-year-old female
“It was never about food; it was always about the way I felt inside. The day that changed my life forever was January 29, 2007. It was the mortifying refl ection of myself off the porcelain toilet I hovered over that made me see the truth. At that moment, I knew I could no longer go on living or dying like a parched skeleton. I had to hit rock bottom before I realized that what I was doing was wrong. I feel that, even if twenty people had sat me down at that time and told me I had an eating disorder, I would have laughed. I was blind.”
—20-year-old female
“Interestingly, I am writing this paper with a bald head. I used to have long, beautiful blonde hair. Chemotherapy took care of that little social/sexual status symbol. I was not at all prepared for losing my looks along with that much of my sexual identity. It has taken me by surprise to realize how much the way you look
The interrelatedness of our physical health, our psychological well-being, and our sexuality is complex. It’s not something that most of us even think about, especially as long as we remain in good health. On the other hand, we may encounter physical and emotional problems and limitations, many of which may profoundly infl uence our sexual lives. We need to inform ourselves about these problems so that we can help prevent or deal with them eff ectively.
Contrary to popular stereotypes, people of all shapes, sizes, and ages can lead healthy and happy sexual lives.
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In this chapter, we examine our attitudes and feelings about our bodies and look at specifi c health issues. We begin with a discussion of body image and eating disorders. Next we look at the relationship between alcohol and other drugs and our sexuality. Th en we turn to issues of sexuality and disability. We also discuss the physical and emotional eff ects of specifi c diseases such as diabetes, heart disease, arthritis, and cancer as they infl uence our sexual functioning. Finally, we address other issues specifi c to women or men. As we grow emotionally and physically, we may also develop new percep- tions of what it means to be healthy. We may discover new dimensions in ourselves to lead us to a more fulfi lled and healthier sex life.
• Living in Our Bodies: The Quest for Physical Perfection Health is more than the absence of disease, and sexual health is more than the presence of healthy sexual parts. According to the World Health Organization (2006):
Sexual health is a state of physical, emotional, mental and social well-being related to sexuality; it is not merely the absence of disease, dysfunction or infi r- mity. Sexual health requires a positive and respectful approach to sexuality and sexual relationships, as well as the possibility of having pleasurable and safe sexual experiences, free of coercion, discrimination and violence. For sexual health to be attained and maintained, the sexual rights of all persons must be respected, protected and fulfi lled.
Sexual health has to do with how we function biologically, but it is also a function of our behavior and our awareness and acceptance of our bodies. In terms of sexuality, good health requires us to know and understand our bodies, to feel comfortable with them. It requires a woman to feel at ease with the sight, feel, and smell of her vulva, and to be comfortable with and aware of her breasts—their shape, size, and contours. Sexual health requires a man to accept his body, including his genitals, and to be aware of physical sensations such as lower back pain or a feeling of congestion in his bladder. A sexually healthy man abandons the idea that masculinity means he should ignore his body’s pains, endure stress, and suff er in silence. Our general health aff ects our sexual functioning. Fatigue, stress, and minor ailments all aff ect our sexual interactions. If we ignore these aspects of our health, we are likely to experience a decline in our sexual drive, as well as suff er physical and psychological distress. A person who always feels tired or stressed or who is constantly ill or debilitated is likely to feel less sexual than a healthy, rested person. Health and sexuality are gifts we must nurture and respect, not use and abuse.
Eating Disorders
Many of us are willing to pay high costs—physical, emotional, and fi nancial— to meet the expectations of our culture and to feel worthy, lovable, and sexually attractive. Although having these desires is clearly a normal human character- istic, the means by which we try to fulfi ll them can be extreme and even self- destructive. Many American women and some men try to control their weight
“ The essence of beauty is the unity of variety.
—William Somerset Maugham (1874–1965)
“ I wouldn’t sue anyone for saying I had a big prick. No man would. In fact, I might
pay them to do it.
—Joe Orton (1933–1967)
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think about it
In their search for the “perfect” body, many people try to achieve what they consider to be the cultural ideal for breast and penis size. Our culture, more than most, places emphasis on breast and penis size: Bigger is better. In fact, Americans spend approximately $10 billion each year on cosmetic proce- dures (American Society of Plastic Surgeons, 2010). In our preoccupation with size, many of us have come to believe that a larger penis or breasts will make us more alluring, a better lover, and more self-confi dent. Amazingly, some women have even had surgery (usually augmentation) on their labia to make them the supposedly “ideal” size. Both men and women believe that size is more important to their partners than it actually is. Women are often more unhappy than their partner about their own breasts. One study of 52,227 adults found that most women (70%) were dissatisfi ed with the size and shape of their breasts, whereas most men (56%) were satisfi ed with their partner’s breasts (Frederick, Peplau, & Lever, 2008). At the same time, men sometimes worry that their part- ners will think that their penis is too small, yet a study of 52,031 heterosexual men and women found that 85% of women were satisfi ed with their partner’s penis size (only 55% of men were satisfi ed with their penis size and 45% wanted it larger) (Lever, Frederick, & Peplau, 2006). The desire to be bigger has led to ads that try to make people feel inadequate or embarrassed if they are not “large.” The ads promote methods such as special pills or drugs to increase size and promise quick and easy results. What they may not address, however, are questions of safety, functioning, erotic pleasure, and necessity. Rarely, if ever, have the products been approved by the U.S. Food and Drug Administration (FDA) or been shown to be eff ective in clinical tests. In 2009, according to the American Society of Plastic Surgeons (2010), 289,328 women had either silicone or saline solution breast augmentation, an increase of 36% since 2000, making breast implantation the most popular cosmetic surgery performed in this country. Breast implants can cause serious and costly complications, such as pain, infection, and hardening of the area around the implant. Furthermore, all women with breast implants will likely need to have their implants replaced
“Oh to Be Bigger”: Breast and Penis Enhancement
or removed sometime during their lifetime. The FDA recom- mends that women who get the silicone gel implant have an MRI 3 years after the implant surgery and every 2 years there- after to check for “silent ruptures”(FDA, 2009). A variety of procedures are requested by men, one of which is penis augmentation. However, only rarely is a man’s penis too small; a more common problem is a partner’s complaint that it is too large. Nevertheless, a variety of procedures and techniques promise penis enlargement, including vacuum pumps, exercises, pills, and surgical procedures such as sucking fat from the abdo- men and injecting it into the penis. The short- and long-term eff ectiveness and safety of these methods have not been well established, and the degree of patient satisfaction varies. Given that size has been found to play a signifi cant role in the sexual positions that individuals may enjoy (Grov, Parsons, & Bimbi, 2010), it is imperative that we learn more about the conse- quences for all men and women of living in a “penis-driven” society. If you are unhappy with your breast or penis size, talk to a professional health-care provider such as a physician or mental health counselor. If you are in a relationship, talk to your partner. In most cases, you will learn that size is usually not an important issue. However, intimacy, communication, mutual respect, and acceptance of your own body and sexuality are.
Think Critically 1. How do you feel about the size of your penis, breasts,
or genitals? If you are uncomfortable, what might help you feel satisfi ed?
2. Have you ever been rejected by a sexual partner because he or she was dissatisfi ed with your breast or penis size? Have you ever rejected a sexual partner for the same reason?
3. What could you do to help a sexual partner feel more comfortable about accepting his or her body?
by dieting, but some people’s fear and loathing of fat (often combined with fear or disgust regarding sexual functions) impels them to extreme eating behaviors. Compulsive overeating (binge eating) and compulsive overdieting (which may include self-starvation and binge eating and purging)—and combinations thereof—are the behaviors classifi ed as eating disorders.
“ Muscles I don’t care about—my husband likes me to be squishy when
he hugs me.
—Dixie Carter (1939–)
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Most people with eating disorders have certain traits, such as low self-esteem, perfectionism, diffi culty dealing with emotions, unreasonable demands for self- control, negative perceptions of self in relation to others, and, of course, a fear of becoming fat. Often, the person lacks adequate skills for dealing with stress. Th e American Psychiatric Association Work Group on Eating Disorders (2006) states that eating disorders are real, treatable medical illnesses in which certain maladaptive patterns of eating take on a life of their own and are not due to lack of will or behavior. Eating disorders are frequently present with other psychiatric disorders, such as depression, substance abuse, and anxiety disorders (National Institute of Mental Health [NIMH], 2010). Th e epidemiology of eating disorders has gradually changed, with an increasing number of eating disorders seen in males and minority populations in the United States (Rosen, 2010). Of particular concern is the increasing prevalence and hospitalization among children younger than 12 years of age. Although many studies of eating disorders have singled out White middle- class and upper-class women, these problems transcend ethnic, socioeconomic, and gender boundaries. Most research suggests that eating disorders are equally common among White females and Latinas, more frequent among American Indian females, and not as common among African American and Asian American females. Among minority racial/ethnic groups, the females who are younger, have more body weight, are better educated, and identify with middle-class values are at higher risk for eating disorders than their peers (Insel & Roth, 2010). While body image and eating disorders have been discussed extensively in the heterosexual population, until recently little has been known about how prevalent these are in gay men, lesbian women, and transsexual people. New fi ndings from a study of over 56,000 heterosexual, gay, and lesbian individuals revealed that all women, regardless of sexual orientation, are similar in their level of body satisfaction; that is, they adhere to cultural ideals of attractiveness, including a high preoccupation with their weight, low evaluation of their appearance, and the experience of negative eff ects of their body image on their quality of life and sex life (Peplau et al., 2009). In contrast, the majority of men, both gay and heterosexual, reported being satisfi ed with their bodies. Nonetheless, a greater percentage of gay men than heterosexual men were dis- satisfi ed. Among those with gender identity disorder (GID) (see Chapter 5) those transitioning from male-to-female (MtF) reported to be at an enhanced risk of developing eating disorders and body image dissatisfaction (Vocks, Stahn, Loenser, & Legenbauer, 2009).
Anorexia Nervosa Anorexia is the medical term for loss of appetite. Th e term anorexia nervosa is a misnomer for the condition it purports to describe; the “relentless pursuit of excessive, thinness” (American Psychiatric Association [APA], 2000). Th ose with anorexia are, in fact, obsessively preoccupied with food; they live in a perpetual struggle with the pangs of hunger. Loss of appetite is rare. Typically, a person with anorexia has a body weight at least 15% below normal (APA, 2000). Anorexia usually develops between the ages of 10 and 18. (Th e percentages of men and women from the National Comormidity Survey Replication (NCS-R) reporting anorexia nervosa, bulimia, and binge eating dis- order at one point in their lives are presented in Figure 13.1.) Physiologically, those with anorexia suff er from amenorrhea, delay of menarche or cessation of menstrual periods for at least three menstrual cycles
People with anorexia are obsessed by a desire to be thin.
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(see Chapter 3); they may also suff er from hypothermia, the body’s inability to maintain heat. Hormone levels decline in both men and women. Adoles- cents with this disorder may not achieve the secondary sex characteristics that are normal for this stage, such as breast development and a growth spurt. Th e American Psychiatric Association (2000) identifi es two types of anorexia nervosa: restricting and binge eating/purging. Th e restricting type involves weight loss that occurs as a result of dieting, fasting, or excessive exercise but no regular binge eating or purging. Th e binge eating/purging type occurs as a result of binge eating or purging (or both) at least weekly. A person may purge by self-induced vomiting or misuse of laxatives, diuretics, or enemas. Some persons with anorexia do not binge eat but regularly purge after consuming small amounts of food.
Bulimia Bulimia is characterized by episodes of uncontrolled, often secret, overeating (binge eating), which the person then tries to counteract by purging— vomiting, fasting, excessive exercising or dieting, or using laxatives or diuretics. People with bulimia usually weigh within the normal range for their age and height, but they may fear gaining weight, desire to lose weight, and feel intensely dissatisfi ed with their bodies (NIMH, 2010). Diff erentiating between anorexia nervosa, binge eating/purging, and bulimia is often a matter of clini- cal judgment; however, the “sense of lack of control” is more characteristic of bulimia (APA, 2000). Traits that may distinguish the individual with bulimia from people without an eating disorder include childhood physical and sexual abuse, severe physical health problems, perfectionism, and/or parental depression. Bulimia has also been shown to develop more frequently in women who began to menstruate by age 12 than in those who began later. Early changes in body shape associated with puberty may be seen as another incentive to diet. Other characteristics associated with bulimia are dramatic weight fl uctuations, major life changes, emotional instability, and a high need for approval (APA, 2000).
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• FIGURE 13.1 Percentage of U.S. Men and Women Reporting Eating Disorders at One Point in Their Lives. (Source: Hudson, Hiripi, Pope, & Kessler, 2007.)
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Binge Eating Disorder Another recognized eating disorder, binge eating disorder, more commonly known as compulsive overeating, is similar to buli- mia except that there is no purging, excessive exercise, or fasting. Loss of con- trol may be accompanied by a variety of symptoms, including rapid eating, eating to the point of discomfort or beyond, continual eating throughout the day, eating alone to hide the binge eating, and eating large amounts when not hungry. Compulsive overeaters rarely eat because of hunger; rather, they use food to cope with stress, confl ict, and other diffi cult emotions (Insel & Roth, 2010; NIMH, 2010). Obsessive thinking, embarrassment, depression, and feel- ings of guilt and disgust often accompany the overeating. Th ose with binge eating disorder are often overweight or obese; many are dieters. Evidence indi- cates that 25–45% of obese dieters, most of whom are women, may have binge eating disorder (APA, 2000).
Treatment Strategies According to the National Institute of Mental Health (2010), eating disorders are very complex, and consequently researchers are unsure of their underlying biological, behavioral, and social causes. Scientists and physicians are increasingly thinking of them as medical illnesses with cer- tain biological causes. Because of their complexity, eating disorders often require a comprehensive treatment plan that involves medical care and monitoring, psychosocial intervention, nutritional counseling, and possible medication. Since many people with eating disorders do not recognize that they have an illness, they often strongly resist getting and staying in treatment; hence, family members and trusted individuals are valuable in ensuring that the person with an eating disorder receives treatment.
Body Image and Its Impact on Sexuality
Th e way that people feel about their bodies has a powerful eff ect on their self- confi dence and ability to enjoy their lives, including their sex lives. Clinicians who work with people who have eating disorders often fi nd that the causes behind eating disorders are complex and interrelated: genetic predisposition, environmental triggers, and personal experiences (Rosen, 2010). As such, treat- ment is often individualized, prolonged, and multifaceted. Recent data from a random sample of over 12,000 French adults aged 18–69 found pronounced gender diff erences in response to being overweight and obese, with obese women less likely to report having a sexual partner in the past 12 months. Obese men were less likely than normal-weight men to report more than one partner in the same period and more likely to report erectile dysfunction (Bajos, Wellings, Laborde, & Moreau, 2010). Additionally, obese women under 30 were less likely to access contraceptive health-care services and had more unplanned pregnancies. Another study reported additional consequences for women: less frequent intercourse (55.3%), less likelihood of having a partner (52.7%), decreased sexual desire (66.9%), and increased sexual anxiety (59.2%) (Pinheiro et al., 2010). Males with eating disorders appear to experience a dif- ferent set of consequences, including having a distorted sense of body image and muscle dysphoria characterized by an extreme concern with becoming more muscular. Men and boys may also exhibit the same types of emotional, physical, and behavioral signs and symptoms as girls, but are less likely to be diagnosed (NIMH, 2010). Primary-care providers are in a unique position to detect the onset of eating disorders at the earliest stages and to intervene in
“ O, that this too too solid fl esh would melt / Thaw and resolve itself into a dew!
—William Shakespeare, Hamlet (1564–1616)
The body type that is idealized by ultrathin fashion models is impossible for most women to obtain without imperiling their health.
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order to help stop their progression. Pediatricians in particular should screen for eating disorders as part of annual health checkups or during pre-participa- tion sports examinations by monitoring weight and height over time and pay- ing careful attention to potential signs and symptoms of disordered eating (Rosen, 2010).
Anabolic Steroids: A Dangerous Means to an End
Athletes and body-builders often embrace the goal of great success at their activity and optimal body composition. However, in their quest for enhanced performance, many of them reach the limits of their genetic endowment and training and turn to substances known as ergogenic aids. Among these is a synthetic version of the hormone testosterone, otherwise referred to as anabolic steroids. Th ese drugs are used by bodybuilders and other athletes to enhance their strength and add bulk to their bodies. In addition, they may produce a state of euphoria, diminished fatigue, and increased sense of power in both sexes, which gives them an addictive quality. A large study involving 199 nationally representative U.S. colleges found that the prevalence of lifetime, past-year, and past-month use of anabolic steroids by the college students who were interviewed was less than 1%, occurring more frequently among male intercollegiate athletes (McCabe, Brower, West, Nelson, & Wechsler, 2007). Anabolic steroids can also have serious adverse eff ects, some of which are irreversible. Th ese include sterility, heart attacks, strokes, liver damage, and personality changes, the most common being pathological aggressiveness (“NIDA [National Institute on Drug Abuse] Info Facts,” 2009). When taken by healthy men, anabolic steroids can cause the body to shut down its produc- tion of testosterone, causing their breasts to grow and testicles to atrophy. In women, the drugs can cause hirsutism (excessive hair growth), acne, reproduc- tive problems, and voice change, which can be permanent. When taken by adolescents, the drugs can cause stunted growth due to premature skeletal maturation and accelerated puberty changes (“NIDA Info Facts,” 2009). Ana- bolic steroids such as testosterone and its derivatives are prescription medica- tions with clearly defi ned uses. Procuring and using them without a prescription is both illegal and dangerous.
• Alcohol, Drugs, and Sexuality In the minds of many Americans, sex and alcohol (or sex and “recreational” drugs) go together. Although experience shows us that sexual performance and enjoyment generally decrease as alcohol or drug consumption levels increase, many people cling to the age-old myths.
Alcohol Use and Sexuality
Th e belief that alcohol and sex go together, although not new, is certainly reinforced by popular culture. Alcohol advertising often features beautiful, scantily clad women. Beer drinkers are portrayed as young, healthy, and fun- loving. Wine drinkers are romantics, surrounded by candlelight and roses. Th ose who choose Scotch are the epitome of sophistication. Th ese images rein- force long-held cultural myths associating alcohol with social prestige and sexual enhancement.
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It is well known that alcohol use among college students is very common. More than 1 in 10 young adults aged 18–24 are heavy drinkers and almost 2 in 5 are binge drinkers (Randolph, Torres, Gore-Felton, Lloyd, & McGarvey, 2009). Of those who reported having been sexually active, the numbers are even more signifi cant: More than one third (34.7%) reported binge drinking 3 or more times in the past 2 weeks. Drinking is associated with sexual risks. In fact, most risky fi rst-time sexual encounters involve being inebriated (George et al., 2009). In highly charged sexual situations, intoxication has been reported to increase drinkers’ willingness to engage in unprotected intercourse by foster- ing their belief that they are aroused. Because of the ambivalence we often have about sex (“It’s good but it’s bad”), many people feel more comfortable about initiating or participating in sexual activities if they have had a drink or two. Th is phenomenon of activating behaviors that would normally be suppressed is known as disinhibition. Although a small amount of alcohol may have a small disinhibiting, or relaxing, eff ect, greater quantities can result in aggression, loss of judgment, poor coor- dination, and loss of consciousness. Alcohol aff ects the ability of both men and women to become sexually aroused. Men may have diffi culty achieving or maintaining an erection, and women may not experience vaginal lubrication. Physical sensations are likely to be dulled. Chronic users of alcohol typically experience desire and arousal diffi culties. Researchers have determined that drinking a six-pack of beer in less
Researchers are not sure if alcohol use leads to risky sexual behavior, but it is possibly part of a risky health behavior pattern.
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than 2 hours can aff ect testosterone and sperm production for up to 12 hours. Th is does not mean, however, that no sperm are present; production is slowed, but most men will remain fertile when drinking alcohol. However, ingestion of large amounts of alcohol by both men and women can contribute to infer- tility and birth defects (see Chapter 12). Alcohol use has also been found to be associated with numerous dangerous consequences such as unwanted sexual intercourse and sexual violence. Th e disinhibiting eff ect of alcohol allows some men to justify various types of sex- ual violence they would not otherwise commit. Men may expect that alcohol will make them sexually aggressive and act accordingly. In drinking situations, women are viewed as more sexually available and impaired. Th us, males may participate in drinking situations expecting to fi nd a sexual partner. Addition- ally, a woman who has been drinking may have diffi culty in sending and receiv- ing cues about expected behavior and in resisting assault. Alcohol use is often a signifi cant factor in sexual violence of all types. According to data from 119 schools participating in three of the Harvard School of Public Health College Alcohol Study surveys, about 1 in 20 women reported being raped and nearly three quarters of the victims reported being raped while intoxicated (Mohler- Kuo, Dowdall, Koss, & Wechsler, 2004). Studies of college students have shown that alcohol consumption by either the perpetrator or the victim, or both, increases the chance of sexual assault (Abbey, 2002) and that the higher the amount of alcohol consumption by either person, the more likely the sexual victimization to the woman will be severe (Abbey, Clinton-Sherrod, McAussian, Zawacki, & Buck, 2003). Drinking alcohol has long been assumed in both the scientifi c and popular literature to lead to sexual risk taking. However, alcohol use among young people is just one component of an overall risk behavior pattern and not the cause of sexual risk behavior. Additionally, impulsivity/sensation seeking, socia- bility, and usual drinking pattern provide a broader explanation for sexual risk taking than acute alcohol eff ects (Velez-Blasini, 2008).
Other Drug Use and Sexuality
Substances that purport to increase sexual desire or improve sexual function are called aphrodisiacs. In addition to drugs, aphrodisiacs can include per- fumes and certain foods, particularly those that resemble genitals, such as bananas and oysters. Ground rhinoceros horn has been considered an aphro- disiac in Asia, possibly giving rise to the term “horny” (Taberner, 1985). Painstaking research, both personal and professional, inevitably leads to the same conclusion: One’s inner fantasy life and a positive image of the sexual self, coupled with an interested and responsive partner, are the most power- ful aphrodisiacs. Nevertheless, the search continues for this elusive magic potion, and many people take a variety of drugs in an attempt to enhance their sexual experiences. Studies have examined the prevalence of the use of drugs as an aphrodisiac. A sample of 1,114 sexually experienced individuals aged 18 to 39 years was studied to determine if the participants had ever used a drug to enhance their sexual experience. Among the 28% who reported ever using a drug to improve sexual functioning, several drugs were commonly cited (see Figure 13.2). When considering this self-report, it is important to realize that the “placebo eff ect,” of aphrodisiacs has been estimated at 50% (Yates & Wolman, 1991).
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Most recreational drugs, although perceived as increasing sexual enjoyment, actually have the opposite eff ect. (Many prescribed medications have negative eff ects on sexual desire and functioning as well, and users should read the information accompanying the prescription or ask the pharmacist about any sexual side eff ects.) Although recreational drugs may reduce inhibitions and appear to enhance the sexual experience, many also have the capacity to inter- fere with the libido and sexual functioning. Th ey also have the potential to interfere with fertility and can have a serious impact on overall health and well-being. Marijuana users often report that its use during sexual encounters increases stimulation and sensations. Th e eff ects of marijuana, however, are in large part infl uenced by the expectations of its users; therefore, no defi nitive statement can be made about how marijuana aff ects sexual encounters. Specifi c informa- tion about its eff ects in a relationship can be found by looking at the role it plays in a couple’s life. In some cases, marijuana (or any drug) can become a crutch to help people deal with situations or behaviors they fi nd uncomfortable. Long-term marijuana use can also cause or contribute to low motivation to achieve and to low sex drive. Th e substance amyl nitrate, also known as “poppers,” is a fast-acting muscle relaxant and coronary vasodilator, meaning it expands the blood vessels around the heart. Medically, it is used to relieve attacks of angina. Some people attempt to intensify their orgasms by “popping” an amyl nitrate vial and inhaling the vapor. Th e drug causes engorgement of the blood vessels in the penis, vagina, and anus. It also causes a drop in blood pressure, which may result in feelings of dizziness and giddiness. Th e most common side eff ects are severe headaches and fainting, and, if allowed to touch the skin, the drug can cause burns. Another drug widely considered to be an aphrodisiac is cantharides, or “Spanish fl y.” Th is substance is produced by drying and heating certain beetles’ bodies until they disintegrate into a powder. Th ere have not yet been controlled studies to confi rm its aphrodisiac eff ect. Taken internally, the substance causes acute irritation and infl ammation of the genitourinary tract, including the kid- neys, bladder, and urethra, and it can result in permanent tissue damage and death. Th is substance is banned in the United States.
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LSD and other psychedelic drugs (including mescaline and psilocybin) have no positive eff ects on sexual ability. Th ey may actually cause constant and pain- ful erections, a condition called priapism (see Chapter 14). Cocaine, a central nervous system stimulant, reduces inhibitions and enhances feelings of well-being. But regular use nearly always leads to sexual function diffi culties in both men and women, as well as an inability to achieve erection or orgasm. Male cocaine users also have a lower sperm count, less active sperm, and more abnormal sperm than nonusers. Th e same levels of sexual impairment occur among those who snort the drug and those who smoke or “freebase” it. Th ose who inject cocaine experience the greatest sexual function diffi culties. Ecstasy (MDMA) is a hallucinogenic amphetamine that produces height- ened arousal, a mellowing eff ect, and an enhanced sense of self. It is an illegal drug with no legitimate use. Rates of ecstasy use among college students vary from nearly 5% to 10%, depending on the study (Boyd, McCabe, & d’Arcy, 2003; Strote, Lee, & Wechsler, 2002). Th e drug has been associated with dehy- dration due to physical exertion without breaks for water; heavy use has been linked to paranoia, liver damage, and heart attacks. Because users feel increased empathy, ecstasy can lower sexual inhibitions. However, men generally cannot get erections when they are high but are often very sexual when the eff ects of the drug begin to fade. Th e use of methamphetamine, often referred to as “crystal,” “Christina,” or “Tina,” is increasingly becoming associated with casual sex. Prized as an aphro- disiac and stimulant used to prolong sexual arousal without orgasm, metham- phetamine can be snorted, inhaled, swallowed, or injected. Th e sharp increase in sexual interest caused by crystal use can lead to dangerous behavior. And meth- amphetamine use may increase the user’s susceptibility to HIV infection and progression through the use of contaminated needles, increased risky sexual behaviors, and poor medication adherence (“NIDA Topics in Brief,” 2011). Some men, in an attempt to enhance sexual functioning, are mixing recreational drugs such as methamphetamine, amyl nitrate, and ecstasy with Viagra or other pre- scription drugs used for erectile problems. Th e combination of methamphet- amine or amyl nitrate and Viagra has sometimes resulted in a phenomenon known as a “sexual marathon,” during which sexual activity can be prolonged over hours or even days. Research has found that men who engage in marathon sex used signifi cantly more illicit drugs and scored higher on a sexual compulsiv- ity scale compared to those who did not engage in marathon sex (Perera, Reece, Monahan, Billingham, & Finn, 2009; Semple, Zians, Strathdee, & Patterson, 2009). Th e use of these drugs along with the risky behaviors and individual consequences, including lowered blood pressure, heart attacks, and death, has gotten the attention of public health offi cials worldwide who wish to warn the public about the dangers of drug use. Aside from the adverse physical eff ects of drugs themselves, their use has begun to be associated with greater risk for acquiring STIs, including HIV infection (Foxman et al., 2006). Addiction to cocaine, especially crack cocaine, has led to the widespread practice of bartering sex for cocaine. Th is practice, as well as the practice of injecting cocaine or heroin, combined with the low rate of condom use, has led to epidemics of STIs, including AIDS, in many urban areas. (For additional information on drug use and HIV, see Chapter 16.) Current interest in nutrition, natural healing, and nutritional supplements coupled with the accessibility of the Internet has helped fuel an industry that is
The use of recreational drugs has become an all too common part of the party scene.
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selling products to stimulate or improve sexuality. Such herbs as avena sativa, cayenne, yohimbe, and damiana are claimed to increase sexual stamina, perfor- mance, and/or sensation. Additionally, lotions such as Zestra, a blend of botani- cal oils and extracts that promise to enhance sexual arousal for women, are available. Zestra’s limited availability on the market has less to do with its unproven eff ectiveness than with our culture’s discomfort with women’s sexual enjoyment (Ellin, 2010). Regardless, there is no current evidence to support any of these medicinal aids as eff ective at improving sexual functioning. However, if some individuals do benefi t, it may be because they believe that the products work. It is important to be aware that many of the herbs mentioned above can have side eff ects that can range from mild to severe.
• Sexuality and Disability A wide range of disabilities and physically limiting conditions aff ect human sexuality, yet the sexual needs and desires of those with disabilities have gener- ally been overlooked and ignored. About 10% of adults in the United States have a physical disability severe enough to impose a limitation on their life. Certainly, a disability or chronic condition does not inevitably mean the end of a person’s sexual life. In 1987, Ellen Stohl, a young woman who uses a wheelchair, created a controversy by posing seminude in an eight-page layout in Playboy. Some people (including some editors at Playboy) felt that the feature could be construed as exploitive of people with disabilities. Others, Stohl among them, believed that it would help normalize society’s perception of individuals who are disabled. She said, “I realized I was still a woman. But the world didn’t accept me as that. Here I am a senior in college [with] a 3.5 aver- age, and people treat me like I’m a 3-year-old” (quoted in Cummings, 1987). Th ough Stohl’s layout in Playboy occurred over two decades ago, even today we rarely see media depictions of people living with disabilities or chronic illness as having sex lives. A study involving 367 men and 381 women (average age 36 years) who had a physical disability investigated the association between the severity and dura- tion of physical disability and sexual esteem, depression, sexual satisfaction, and the frequency of sexual activity. Researchers found that people with more severe physical impairments experienced less sexual esteem and sexual satisfaction and more depression than those having a mild impairment or no impairment. Indi- viduals having the more severe physical disabilities engaged less frequently in sexual experiences with others. Women with physical disabilities had more positive feelings about their sexuality and more frequent sexual episodes with others than their male counterparts (McCabe & Taleporos, 2003).
Physical Limitations and Changing Expectations
Many people are subject to sexually limiting conditions for some or all of their lives. Th ese conditions may be congenital, appearing at birth, such as cerebral palsy (a neuromuscular disorder) and Down syndrome (a developmentally dis- abling condition). Th ey may be caused by a disease such as diabetes, arthritis, or cancer or be the result of an accident, as in the case of spinal cord injuries. In cases in which the spinal cord is completely severed, for example, there is no feeling in the genitals, but that does not eliminate sexual desires or exclude
“ “I get the feeling people think that because I am in a chair there is just a
blank space down there.”
—Anonymous quote in the book The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability
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other possible sexual behaviors. Many men with spinal cord damage are able to have full or partial erections; some may ejaculate, although the orgasmic feelings accompanying ejaculation are generally absent. Nearly 40% of quad- riplegic men are able to experience orgasm and ejaculation (Ducharme & Gill, 1997). Th ose who are not capable of ejaculation may be able to father a child through electroejaculation sperm retrieval and intrauterine insemination of the man’s partner. In this procedure, the prostate gland is electrically stimulated through the rectum, causing erection and ejaculation. Many women with spi- nal cord damage injuries are able to have painless childbirth, although forceps delivery, vacuum extraction, or cesarean section may be necessary. Since sexual- ity is still a relatively new target of pharmacological research, little is known about the impact of these kinds of treatments on sexuality-related outcomes. Recent research from clinical reports and practice fi nds that medication or treatments for neurological diseases, including spinal cord injuries, may either decrease or increase both sexual functioning and sexual well-being (Verschuren, Enzlin, Dijkstra, Geertzen, & Dekker, 2010). Women with spinal cord injuries experience many of the same sexual responses as other women, including (in about 50% of women) the capacity to achieve orgasm. People with spinal cord injuries (and anyone else, for that matter) may engage in oral or manual sex—anything, in fact, they and their partners fi nd pleasurable and acceptable. Th ey may discover a wide variety of erogenous areas, such as their breasts, thighs, necks, ears, or underarms. To establish sexual health, people with disabilities must overcome previous sexual function expectations and realign them with their actual sexual capaci- ties. A major problem for many people with disabilities is overcoming the anger or disappointment they feel because their bodies don’t meet the cultural “ideal.” Th ey often live in dread of rejection, which may or may not be real- istic, depending on whom they seek as partners. Many people with disabilities have rich fantasy lives. Th is is fortuitous because imagination is a key ingredi- ent to developing a full sex life. Robert Lenz, a consultant in the fi eld of sexuality and disability, received a quadriplegic (paralyzed from the neck
All individuals, including those with physical and mental limitations, have a need for touch and intimacy.
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down) spinal cord injury when he was 16 (Lenz & Chaves, 1981). In the fi lm Active Partners, he says:
One thing I do know is that I’m a much better lover now than I ever was before. Th ere are a lot of reasons for that, but one of the biggest is that I’m more relaxed. I don’t have a list of do’s and don’ts, a timetable or a proper sequence of moves to follow, or the need to “give” my partner an orgasm every time we make love. Sex isn’t just orgasm for me; it’s pleasuring, playing, laughing, and sharing.
Educating people with physical limitations about their sexuality and provid- ing a holistic approach that includes counseling to build self-esteem and combat negative stereotypes are increasingly being recognized as crucial issues by the medical community. Important tasks of therapists working with people with disabilities are to give their clients “permission” to engage in sexual activities that are appropriate to their capacities and to suggest new activities or techniques (Kaufman, Silverberg, & Odette, 2003; Kolodny, Masters, & Johnson, 1979). Researchers suggest that nonpenetrative sexual behaviors should be affi rmed as valid and healthy expressions of the individual’s or couple’s sexuality, recognizing that the men might feel a stronger desire than women for genitally focused activities such as oral sex or nude cuddling and that women may have a stron- ger desire for deep kissing (McCabe & Taleporos, 2003). Clients should also be advised about the use of vibrators, artifi cial penises and vaginas, and other aids to sexual excitement. Certainly, with proper information and sexual self-esteem, people with disabilities can have full and satisfying sex lives.
Vision and Hearing Impairment
Loss of sight or hearing, especially if it is total and has existed from infancy, presents many diffi culties in both the theoretical and the practical understanding of sexuality. A young person who has been blind from birth is unlikely to know what a person of the other sex actually “looks” (or feels) like. Children who are deaf often do not have parents who communicate well in sign language; as a result, they may not receive much instruction about sexuality at home, nor are they likely to understand abstract concepts such as “intimacy.” Older individu- als who experience signifi cant losses of sight or hearing may become depressed, develop low self-esteem, and withdraw from contact with others. Because they don’t receive the visual or auditory cues that most of us take for granted, people with hearing or vision impairments may have communication diffi culties within their sexual relationships. Th ese diffi culties often can be overcome with educa- tion or counseling, depending on the circumstances. Schools and programs for children who are sight- and hearing-impaired off er specially designed curricula for teaching about sexuality.
Chronic Illness
Diabetes, cardiovascular disease, and arthritis are three of the most prevalent diseases in America. Although these conditions are not always described as dis- abilities, they may require considerable adjustments in a person’s sexuality because they (or the medications or treatments given to control them) may aff ect libido, sexual capability or responsiveness, and body image. It is important to acknowledge that the partner’s sexuality may also be aff ected by chronic illness. Additionally, many older partners fi nd themselves dealing with issues of disease and disability as well as those of aging.
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Th ere may be other disabling conditions, too numerous to discuss here, that aff ect our lives or those of people we know. Some of the information presented here may be applicable to conditions not specifi cally dealt with, such as multiple sclerosis or postpolio syndrome. We encourage readers with specifi c questions regarding sexuality and chronic diseases to seek out networks, organizations, and self-help groups that specialize in those issues.
Diabetes Diabetes mellitus, commonly referred to simply as diabetes, is a chronic disease characterized by an excess of sugar in the blood and urine, due to a defi ciency of insulin, a protein hormone. About 26 million people in the United States, or 8.3% of the population, have diabetes (Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, 2012). Nerve damage or circulatory problems caused by diabetes can cause sexual problems. Men with diabetes are often more aff ected sexually by the disease than are women. Some men with diabetes experience problems with sexual desire, diffi culty achieving an erection, and not experiencing orgasm. Heavy alcohol use, age, smoking, and poor blood- sugar control also increase the risk of erectile problems. Diabetes can aff ect a woman’s sexuality as well. Female sexual function dif- fi culties have been found to occur in 35% of sexually active women with diabetes (Enzlin et al., 2009). Some women with diabetes may have less inter- est in being sexual because of frequent yeast infections. High blood-sugar lev- els can make some women feel tired, resulting in reduced sexual interest. Also, intercourse may be painful because of vaginal dryness. Problems with sexual functioning in men and women with diabetes are also associated with fear of failure, reduced self-esteem, and problems with accep- tance of the disease (Bhasin, Enzlin, Coviello, & Basson, 2007).
Cardiovascular Disease Obviously, a heart attack or stroke is a major event in a person’s life, aff ecting important aspects of daily living. Following an attack, a person often enters a period of depression in which the appetite declines, sleep habits change, and there is fatigue and a loss of libido. Th ere is often an overwhelming fear of sex based on the belief that sexual activity might provoke another heart attack or stroke. Sexual function diffi culties are common in car- diac patients and, in men, may precede cardiac symptoms; over 50% of men with coronary artery disease have erectile problems (Jackson, 2009). Th e partners of male heart attack patients also express great concern about sexuality. Th ey are fearful of the risks, concerned over sexual diffi culties, and apprehensive about the possibility of another attack during intercourse. Most people can start hav- ing sex again 3 to 6 weeks after their condition becomes stable following an attack, if the physician agrees (National Institute on Aging, 2008a). In general, the chance of a person with a prior heart attack having another one during sex is no greater than that of anyone else.
Arthritis About 1 in 5 Americans has some type of arthritis, most of them older women, but the disease may affl ict and disable children and adolescents as well. Arthritis is a painful infl ammation and swelling of the joints, usually of the knees, hips, and lower back, which may lead to deformity of the limbs. Some- times, the joints can be moved only with great diffi culty and pain; sometimes, they cannot be moved at all. Arthritis is a leading cause of disability in Americans and the third leading cause of work limitation in the United States (Lethbridge- Cejku, Schiller, & Bernadel, 2004). Th e cause of arthritis is not known.
“ LAMENT OF A CORONARY My doctor has made a prognosis
That intercourse fosters thrombosis, But I’d rather expire fulfi lling desire Than abstain, and suff er neurosis.
—Anonymous
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Sexual intimacy may be diffi cult for people with arthritis because of the pain. Oral sex, general pleasuring of the body, and creative sexual positioning have defi nite advantages for those with arthritis. Applying moist heat to the joints prior to sexual activity with a partner can help.
Developmental Disabilities
Developmental disabilities are severe, lifelong chronic conditions attributable to mental and/or physical impairments that manifest themselves before the age of 22 years and result in major lifestyle limitations. People with developmental disabilities most often have problems with major life activities such as language, mobility, learning, self-help, and independent living. Th e sexuality of those who are developmentally disabled has only recently been widely acknowledged by those who work with them. Th e capabilities of individuals with developmental disabilities vary widely. People with mild or moderate disabilities may be able to learn to behave appropriately, protect themselves from abuse, and understand the basics of reproduction. Some may manage to marry, work, and raise fami- lies with little assistance. Sexuality education is extremely important for adolescents who have devel- opmental disabilities. Some parents may fear that this will “put ideas into their heads,” but it is more likely, given the combination of explicit media and Internet images and the eff ects of increased hormonal output, that the ideas are already there. It may be diffi cult or impossible to teach more severely aff ected people how to engage in safe sexual behaviors. Th ere is ongoing debate about the ethics of mandatory birth control or sterilization for those who are developmentally disabled. Th ese issues are especially salient in cases in which there is the chance of passing the disability to a child.
The Sexual Rights of People With Disabilities
Although many of the concerns of people with disabilities are becoming more visible through the courageous eff orts of certain groups and individuals, much of their lives still remains hidden. By refusing to recognize the existence and
Though most people support the right of consenting adults to have access to sexuality education and a sexual life, few acknowledge the needs and rights of those with disabilities to have the same.
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concerns of those with physical and developmental limitations, the rest of us do a profound disservice to our fellow human beings—and, ultimately, to ourselves. Th e United Nations General Assembly (1993) noted that states “should promote their [persons with disabilities] rights to personal integrity and ensure that laws do not discriminate against persons with disabilities with respect to sexual relationships, marriage, and parenthood.” Th e federal Devel- opmental Disabilities Assistance and Bill of Rights Act of 2000 explicitly states that individuals with intellectual disability have the fundamental right to engage in meaningful relationships with others (Matich-Maroney, Boyle, & Crocker, 2007; U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, 2000). Th e sexual rights of persons with disabilities should be the same as those for persons without disabilities and include the following:
■ Th e right to sexual expression ■ Th e right to privacy ■ Th e right to be informed about and have access to needed services, such
as contraceptive counseling, medical care, genetic counseling, and sex counseling
■ Th e right to choose one’s marital status ■ Th e right to have or not have children ■ Th e right to make one’s own decisions and develop to one’s full potential
• Sexuality and Cancer Cancer is not a single disease; it is more than 300 distinct illnesses that can aff ect any organ of the body. Th ese various cancers grow at diff erent speeds and have diff erent treatment success and failure rates. Most cancers, but not all (e.g., leukemia), form solid tumors. All cancers have one thing in common: Th ey are the result of the aberrant behavior of cells. Cancer-causing agents (carcinogens) are believed to scramble the messages of the DNA within cells, causing the cell to abandon its normal functions. Tumors are either benign or malignant. Benign tumors usually are slow growing and remain localized. Malignant tumors, however, are cancerous. Instead of remaining localized, they invade nearby tissues and disrupt the normal functioning of vital organs. Th e process by which the disease spreads from one part of the body to another, unrelated, part is called metastasis. Th is metastatic process, not the original tumor, accounts for the vast majority of cancer deaths.
Women and Cancer
Because of their fear of breast cancer and cancer of the reproductive organs, some women avoid having regular breast examinations or Pap tests. If a woman feels a lump in her breast or her doctor tells her she has a growth in her uterus, she may plunge into despair or panic. Th ese reactions are understandable, but they are also counterproductive. Most lumps and bumps are benign conditions, such as uterine fi broids, ovarian cysts, and fi broadenomas of the breast.
Breast Cancer Excluding cancers of the skin, breast cancer is the most com- mon cancer among women, accounting for slightly more than 1 in every 4 cancers diagnosed in American women (National Cancer Institute, 2012a).
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After lung cancer, breast cancer is the second leading cause of death in women. About 207,090 women were found to have invasive breast cancer in 2010, with about 40,000 dying from the disease. Th e chance of dying from breast cancer is about 1 in 35 (American Cancer Society, 2012a). Th e chance of a woman having invasive breast cancer sometime during her life is about 1 in 8. Th ere are about 2.5 million breast cancer survivors in the United States. Even though the incidence of breast cancer has increased over the past decade, breast cancer deaths have declined probably because of earlier cancer detection, improved treatment, and decreased use of menopausal hormone therapy in older women. Nearly 89% of women diagnosed with cancer survive at least 5 years after diagnosis, 82% at least 10 years, and 75% at least 15 years (American Cancer Society, 2012a). Assessing the risk of getting breast cancer is a complex, imprecise, and evolv- ing science. However, there are three known factors that overwhelmingly infl u- ence a woman’s risk of developing a solid tumor that invades her breast tissue: age, genetic makeup, and lifetime exposure to estrogen. Simply being a woman who is aging increases the risk of developing breast cancer, with the majority of cases occurring in women aged 60 and older (see Figure 13.3). In fact, breast cancer is largely a disease of aging (National Cancer Institute, 2012a). About 5–10% of breast cancers are thought to be hereditary (American Cancer Society, 2012a). White women have a slightly greater risk for develop- ing breast cancer than African American women, although African American women are more likely to die from breast cancer. Asian, Hispanic, and Amer- ican Indian women have a lower risk of both developing and dying from breast cancer than White women. Th e risk is higher when the biological relationship of the aff ected relative is closer—that is, a woman’s risk of breast cancer is higher if her mother, sister, or daughter had breast cancer, particularly if the family member got breast cancer before age 40. Within the group of women with a family history of breast and/or ovarian cancer, a relatively small subset have inherited two genetic mutations. Having had certain types of abnormal biopsy results may increase a woman’s risk of developing breast cancer. Women who had cancer in one breast have an increased chance of getting cancer in the other breast or in a diff erent part of the same breast. Women who have had no children, had fewer children, or had their fi rst child after age 30 have a slightly greater chance of developing breast cancer than women who had children at a younger age. Higher risk also is associated with an increased amount of time a woman’s body is exposed to estrogen, such as for women who started menstruating at an early age (before age 12) or experienced menopause late (after age 55). Other factors implicated in increased risk for breast cancer include long-term estrogen-plus-progestin hormone therapy (see Chapter 7 on menopausal hormone therapy), not breast- feeding, alcohol use, obesity and dense breast tissue, earlier breast radiation,
Current Age 10 Years 20 Years 30 Years
30 0.4 1.9 4.1
40 1.5 3.8 6.9
50 2.4 5.6 8.7
60 3.5 6.7 8.7
• FIGURE 13.3 Percentage of U.S. Women Developing Breast Cancer Over 10-, 20-, and 30-Year Intervals, by Age. (Source: Altekruse, S. F., et al. (eds.), SEER Cancer Statistics Review, 1975–2007 (http://seer.cancer.gov/ csr/1975_2007), National Cancer Institute, Bethesda, MD.
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physical inactivity, and environmental pollution. Studies have shown that cur- rent users of oral contraceptives have a slightly higher risk than women who have never used them, but women who stopped using them more than 10 years ago do not seem to have the increased risk (American Cancer Society, 2012a). Studies have failed to show a link between breast cancer and breast implants, previous abortions, stillbirths, night work, antiperspirants, or bruising, bump- ing, or touching the breast (American Cancer Society, 2012a; National Cancer Institute, 2012a). Of course, having a risk factor does not always indicate that a woman will develop breast cancer.
Lesbian Women and Breast Cancer No epidemiological data exist indicat- ing that lesbian women are at increased risk for breast cancers (or other cancers). Studies, however, have shown a greater prevalence of certain risk factors in lesbian women, such as higher rates of alcohol usage, increased chances of being overweight, lower rates of breast cancer screening, and less likelihood of having children (Cochran et al., 2001; Institute of Medicine, 1999; Kavanaugh- Lynch, White, Daling, & Bowen, 2002), suggesting that lesbian women may be at greater risk of breast cancer than heterosexual women. Because lesbian women also get less routine care than other women, have lower rates of health insurance, face fear of discrimination by doctors and practitioners, and report negative experiences with health-care providers, many delay or avoid routine care, such as early detection tests (American Cancer Society, 2009). Missing routine cancer screenings, for example, can lead to cancer being diagnosed at a later stage, when it’s harder to treat. It’s important for lesbian and bisexual women to fi nd providers who are accepting and competent.
Detection Th e American Cancer Society (ACS) provides guidelines for early detection of breast cancer (American Cancer Society, 2012a). Th e screening recommendations, listed in Table 13.1, present guidelines for average-risk, asymptomatic women aged 40 or older and 20–39. Women at increased risk (e.g., having family history, genetic tendency, past breast cancer) should talk with their doctors about the benefi ts and limitations of starting mammography screening earlier, having additional tests (i.e., magnetic resonance imaging, or MRI), or having more frequent exams. Mammography is the use of X-rays to detect breast tumors before they can be seen or felt.
Ages 40 and older
■ Annual mammogram (and MRI screening for women at high risk for breast cancer) ■ Annual clinical breast examination Ages 20–39
■ Clinical breast examination every 3 years ■ Monthly breast self-examination (optional)
TABLE 13.1 • American Cancer Society Screening Guidelines for the Early Detection of Breast Cancer in Average-Risk, Asymptomatic Women
SOURCE: American Cancer Society. (2012). American Cancer Society guidelines for the early detection of cancer. Available: http://www.cancer.org/Healthy/FindCancerEarly.
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Early detection is an important part of preventive care. Th e earlier breast cancer is found, the better the chances that treatment will be eff ective and the breast can be saved. Th e goal is to discover cancer prior to symptoms appear- ing. Most physicians believe that early detection of breast cancer saves thou- sands of lives yearly (American Cancer Society, 2012a). Mammography-screened breast cancers are associated with reduced morbidity and mortality, and most women who participate in screening will not develop breast cancer in their lifetime. Harm may occur in women who undergo a biopsy for abnor- malities that are not breast cancer. In fact, a new study published in Th e New England Journal of Medicine suggests that increased awareness and improved treatments, rather than mammograms, are the main force in reduc- ing the breast cancer death rate (Kalager, Zelen, Langmark, & Adami, 2010). Th e debate has gotten fuel from a variety of sources (Gotzsche & Nielsen, 2011; Hellquist et al., 2011). Th is is why the American College of Physicians
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Breast examination is more eff ective when specifi c steps are followed. Any new symptoms should be promptly reported to a health care provider. For more information on breast self- examinations, please see the information provided by the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists at www.acog.org/~/media/For%20Patients/pfs002.pdf.
practically speaking
Breast lumps are often discovered by a woman or her sex partner. You should become familiar with the way your breasts normally look and feel. That way you will be more likely to notice any changes. Some women use breast self-exams (BSEs) to get to know their breasts. If you would like to learn how to do a BSE, your clinician can teach you. The best time for a BSE is a few days after your period, when your breasts are not swollen or tender. Lumps are also noticed during day-to-day activities such as showering or sex play. Most lumps are not cancerous. But report anything unusual to your clinician as soon as possible.
Three Positions for Breast Self-Exam
1. Lying down with a pillow or folded towel under your right shoulder, place your hand behind your head. Examine every part of your right breast using the pads of three middle fi ngers of your left hand to feel for lumps, bumps, or thickening. Move from spot to spot on your breast using a straight up-and-down pattern. Press each spot using a small, circular motion. Use three levels of pressure on each spot: light for the breast tissue near the surface, medium for the tissue underneath, and fi rm for the tissue closest to the ribs. Switch positions and feel the left breast with your right hand, making sure to examine all parts using the up-and- down pattern.
2. Standing up in front of a mirror, place your hands on your hips. Look at each breast for changes in size, shape, and form.
Breast Self-Examination
3. Standing up, raise your right arm slightly to the side and examine the underarm with your left hand. Feel for lumps, bumps, or thickening in the same way as you examined your breasts. Repeat with the other underarm.
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recommends that women consult with their doctors before undergoing routine mammography. Th e group says that the ben- efi ts of mammography have to be weighed against the risk of false-positives, which often lead to repeated exams and biopsies causing anxiety and possible disfi gurement. At this point, the delicate balance between potential benefi ts and potential harm of mammograms is a “close call.” Because a large majority of tumors are detected by women themselves, a heightened awareness of her normal breast com- position can help a woman to notice changes and, when neces- sary, seek early medical attention. Breast self-examination (BSE) is an option for women in their 20s and 30s. Th e American Cancer Society (2012a) says that it is alright for women not to do BSE or to do it once in a while. Research has shown that BSE plays a slight role in discovering breast cancer compared with fi nding a breast lump by chance or just being aware of what is normal for each woman. (Th e steps in doing BSE are described in the “Practically Speaking” box on page 416.) Women who have breast implants can also do BSE. Th ese women should have their surgeon help them identify the edges of the implant so that they can know what they are feeling (American Cancer Society, 2012a). It is important to recognize that most breast lumps—75–80%— are not cancerous. Many disappear on their own. Of lumps that are surgically removed for diagnostic purposes (biopsied), 80% prove to be benign. Most are related to fi brocystic disease (a com- mon and generally harmless breast condition, not really a disease at all), or they are fi broadenomas (round, movable growths, also harmless, that occur in young women). Because some benign breast lumps can increase a woman’s chance of developing breast cancer, it is important that any breast lumps be checked by a health-care provider.
Treatment Most women with breast cancer undergo some type of surgery to remove the primary tumor. Other reasons for surgery include fi nding out whether the cancer has spread to the lymph nodes under the arm, restoring the breast’s appearance, and relieving symptoms of advanced cancer. Common breast cancer surgeries described by the American Cancer Society (2012a) include the following (see Figure 13.4):
■ Lumpectomy. Th is procedure involves the removal of only the breast lump and some normal tissue around it.
■ Partial (segmental) mastectomy. Th is surgery involves the removal of more of the breast tissue than with a lumpectomy.
■ Simple or total mastectomy. Th is operation involves the removal of the entire breast, but not the lymph nodes from under the arm or muscle tissue from beneath the breast.
■ Modifi ed radical mastectomy. Th is surgery involves the removal of the entire breast and some of the lymph nodes under the arm. Th is is the most common breast cancer surgery.
Christina Applegate, an award- winning actress, became an advocate for breast cancer education and research after being diagnosed with breast cancer.
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■ Radical mastectomy. Th is operation involves the removal of the entire breast, lymph nodes, and chest wall muscles under the breast. Because the modifi ed radical mastectomy has proved to be just as eff ective, with less disfi gurement and fewer side eff ects, radical mastectomy is rarely done now.
Surgery may also be combined with other treatments such as chemotherapy, hormone therapy, or radiation therapy. Other treatments for cancer are external radiation and chemotherapy. Th e female hormone, estrogen, promotes the growth of breast cancer cells in some women. For these women, several methods, including the use of the drug tamox- ifen, can block the eff ects of estrogen or lower its levels (American Cancer Society, 2012a). Th e 5-year survival rate varies greatly, depending on many factors, includ- ing the grade of the cancer and the presence of hormone receptors on the cancer cells. Th ose who are diagnosed in the earliest stage have a 93% sur- vival rate. Survival rates drop for each stage of diagnosis (American Cancer Society, 2012a).
Sexual Adjustment After Treatment Sexuality is one aspect of life that may be profoundly altered by cancer. A woman with breast cancer often has worri- some concerns about her sexual identity and attractiveness (Scott & Kayser, 2009). Psychologically, the loss of a breast may symbolize for her the loss of sexuality; she may feel scarred and be fearful of rejection. Th is may be reinforced by partners who report that the diagnosis negatively impacted the sexual relation- ship (Hawkins et al., 2009). Besides aff ecting her body image, some breast can- cer treatments can change a woman’s hormone levels and may aff ect sexual interest and response. Some women continue to enjoy being touched around the area of surgery, whereas others do not and even may not enjoy being touched on the unaff ected breast. However, breast surgery or radiation does not physically decrease sexual desire in a woman, nor does it decrease her ability to have sexual
Tumor
Breast tissue removed
Skin incision (no skin removed)
Tumor
Breast tissue removed
Skin removed
Lumpectomy
Partial mastectomy Total mastectomy
Tumor
Breast tissue removed
Skin removed
• FIGURE 13.4 Types of Surgical Treatment for Breast Cancer. (Source: Reprinted by the permission of the American Cancer Society, Inc. from www. cancer.org. All rights reserved.)
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intercourse and orgasm. Many women with early-stage breast cancer have adjusted well within their fi rst year (American Cancer Society, 2012a). Realizing that there are alternative ways of expressing one’s sexuality can be valuable. Th e woman and her partner can decide what is satisfying and pleasurable. Being comfortable with her sexuality can enhance self-esteem, improve personal com- fort, and make coping with cancer easier. Th e American Cancer Society (2012a) provides several suggestions for stay- ing sexually healthy after being treated for cancer. To learn these suggestions, go to the “Sexuality for the Woman With Cancer” page at http://cancer.org.
Breast Reconstruction and Breast Implant Surgery Because breast cancer is sometimes treated by surgical removal of the breast, the subject of breast reconstruction—literally, building a new breast—is one of para- mount interest to many women (and those who care about them). Deciding about breast reconstruction involves many issues, and a woman should become fully informed about the procedure. For example, the feeling of pleasure from fondling the breast and nipple is typically decreased, but the reconstruction may provide the woman with increased feelings of wholeness and attractiveness. A woman should be realistic about what to expect from reconstruction—it does not fi x things that the person was unhappy with before the surgery.
Cervical Cancer and Cervical Dysplasia Cervical dysplasia, also called cervi- cal intraepithelial neoplasia (CIN), is a condition of the cervical epithelium (covering membrane). Although this is not cancer, it is considered a precancerous
“ The patient must combat the disease along with the physician.
—Hippocrates, Aphorisms (460–370 BCE).
Surviving cancer can deepen one’s appreciation of life. Notice the tattoo along this woman’s mastectomy scars.
For some women, breast reconstruction is chosen as one step in recovering from a mastectomy.
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condition. Most cases occur in women aged 25–35, although it can develop at any age (American Cancer Society, 2012b; “Cervical Dysplasia,” 2010). Almost all cases of cervical dysplasia or cervical cancer are caused by the human papillomavirus (HPV), a common virus that is spread through sexual contact. Th ere are several factors that may increase a woman’s risk of cervical dysplasia, including becoming sexually active before age 18, giving birth before age 16, having multiple sexual partners, using medications that suppress her immune system, and smoking. Without treatment, 30–50% of cases of severe cervical dysplasia may lead to invasive cancer; the risk of cancer is lower for mild dysplasia. Early diagnosis and prompt treatment cure nearly all cases of cervical dysplasia. Th e more advanced and dangerous malignancy is invasive cancer of the cervix (ICC), also called cervical cancer. Th e American Cancer Society (2012b) estimated over 12,170 new cases of invasive cervical cancer in 2012 and that 4,210 women would die from this disease. As previously stated, the most important risk factor for cervical cancer is infection by the sexually transmitted human papillomavirus (HPV), although most women with HPV do not get cervical cancer as the infection usually goes away without any treatment. Additional risk factors include age (half of all women newly diag- nosed with cervical cancer are age 48 and older), HIV infection (which makes women more vulnerable to HPV), chlamydia infection, poor diet, many sex- ual partners, a mother who was given diethylstilbestrol (DES) during preg- nancy, having sexual intercourse at an early age, long-term use of oral contraceptives, cigarette smoking, family history, and low socioeconomic sta- tus. When detected and treated in its early stages, the disease is both prevented from spreading to other organs and cured. Unusual discharge, bleeding, spot- ting, or pain or bleeding during sex may be signs of cervical cancer (American Cancer Society, 2012b). In June 2006, the U.S. Food and Drug Administration approved a vaccine, called Gardasil, that would protect thousands of women each year from cervi- cal cancer. Th e vaccine, the world’s fi rst cancer vaccine and a major medical advance, works by preventing infection by four of the numerous strains of the human papillomavirus, or HPV, the most common sexually transmitted infec- tion (see Chapter 15). Two of the strains the vaccine blocks cause 70% of cervical cancers, and the other two strains cause 90% of genital warts. Th e vaccine also protects against vaginal, vulvar, and anal cancers linked to the four strains of HPV. Th e vaccine has most recently been approved for both females and males. It works best when given between ages 9 and 26 and preferably before individuals begin having sex. Th e vaccine does not protect those already infected; hence, public health offi cials want the vaccine given prior to fi rst sexual intercourse. Th e vaccine requires three injections in a 6-month period. However, because it does not protect against all cancer-caus- ing types of HPV, Pap tests for women are still important (American Cancer Society, 2012b).
Detection: The Pap Test Th e most reliable means of early detection of cer- vical cancer is the Pap test (or Pap smear). Th is is a simple procedure that can not only detect cancer but also reveal changes in cells that make them precan- cerous. A Pap test can warn against cancer even before it begins, and the use of the Pap test has resulted in dramatic decreases in cervical cancer deaths in
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the United States. Newer, liquid-based Pap tests have been shown to improve the detection of cancer as well as reduce the number of tests that need to be repeated (American Cancer Society, 2012b). Th e Pap test is usually done during a pelvic exam and takes about a minute. Cell samples and mucus are lightly scraped from the cervix and examined under a microscope. If anything unusual is found, the physician will do further tests. Women should have a Pap test annually unless their physician recommends otherwise. Unfortunately, the test is not as eff ective in detecting cancer in the body of the uterus, which occurs in women most frequently during or after menopause. Th e American Cancer Society (2012b) off ers the following guidelines for early detection of precancerous changes of the cervix:
■ Cervical cancer screening (testing) should begin at age 21. Women under age 21 should not be tested.
■ Women between ages 21 and 29 should have a Pap test every 3 years. HPV testing should not be used in this age group unless it is needed after an abnormal Pap test result.
■ Women between ages 30 and 65 should have a Pap test plus an HPV test (called “co-testing”) every 5 years. Th is is the preferred approach, but it is also OK to have a Pap test alone every 3 years.
■ Women over age 65 who have had regular cervical cancer testing with normal results should not be tested for cervical cancer. Once testing is stopped, it should not be started again. Women with a history of a serious cervical pre-cancer should continue to be tested for at least 20 years after that diagnosis, even if testing continues past age 65.
■ A woman who has had her uterus removed (and also her cervix) for reasons not related to cervical cancer and who has no history of cervical cancer or serious pre-cancer should not be tested.
■ A woman who has been vaccinated against HPV should still follow the screening recommendations for her age group.
Some women—because of their history—may need to have a diff erent screen- ing schedule for cervical cancer. To make the Pap test more accurate, women should not schedule the appointment for a time during their menstrual period. Additionally, for 48 hours prior to the test, they should not douche, have intercourse, or use tampons, birth control foams, jellies, or other vaginal creams or vaginal medications.
Treatment Cervical dysplasia is very responsive to treatment in its early stages. With an abnormal Pap smear, a biopsy—surgical removal of tissue for diagnosis—may be performed. Some abnormalities clear up on their own, so the physician may not do the biopsy right away but do a follow-up smear in several months. Th e British study cited previously also concluded that there is only a 1-in-80 chance that a woman will develop cervical can- cer following an abnormal cervical screening (Raffl e et al., 2003). Th ere may be some risk in delaying treatment, however. If the cervix shows visible signs of abnormality, a biopsy should be performed at once. Sometimes, coniza- tion, the removal of a cone of tissue from the center of the cervix, is
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performed. Th is procedure is time-consuming and requires hospitalization. Depending on the extent and severity of the dysplasia and whether it has progressed to cancer, other treatment options range from electrocauterization (or cryosurgery) to laser surgery, radiotherapy, or hysterectomy. Th e 5-year survival rate for the earliest stage of cervical cancer is 93%; for all stages combined, it varies, depending on a variety of factors (American Cancer Society, 2012b).
Ovarian Cancer Ovarian cancer is the ninth most common cancer in women (excluding skin cancer) and is the fi fth-ranked cause of cancer death in women. Th e American Cancer Society (2012c) estimated that there were about 22,280 new cases of ovarian cancer in the United States in 2012 and that about 15,500 women would die from the disease. Ovarian cancer is slightly more common in White women than African American women. Th e odds of a woman getting ovarian cancer during her lifetime are about 1 in 71. Th e risk of getting ovar- ian cancer and dying is 1 in 95. Evidence links pregnancy, breastfeeding, tubal ligation or hysterectomy, and use of oral contraceptives with a lower risk of ovarian cancer, perhaps because each gives the woman a rest from ovulation and eases the hormonal fl uctuations that occur within the ovaries. Recent research has found that women who use any type of contraception—birth control pills, intrauterine contraceptives (IUCs), barrier methods, tubal liga- tion, or male vasectomy—have between a 40% and 65% lower risk of ever developing ovarian cancer (Ness, Dodge, Edwards, Baker, & Moysich, 2010). Th e question remains: Why and how? Factors that increase risk include age (about half of all ovarian cancers are found in women over 60), use of the fertility drug clomiphene citrate, more monthly periods, a family history of ovarian cancer, not having children, estro- gen replacement therapy, smoking and alcohol use, breast cancer, obesity, and poor diet. Ovarian cancer is hard to diagnose because there are no symptoms in the early stages; it is not usually detectable by a Pap test. Diagnosis is done by pelvic examination and needle aspiration (removal of fl uid) or biopsy. Treat- ment involves surgical removal of the tumor and ovary, often followed by radiation or chemotherapy. Follow-up care is especially important. If ovarian cancer is found early, the chances of survival are much greater. Th ough 93% of women will survive at least 5 years if the cancer is found and treated before it has spread outside the ovary, only 20% of ovarian cancers are found at this stage (American Cancer Society, 2012c).
Uterine (Endometrial) Cancer Slightly more than 47,000 new cases of cancers of the uterus were estimated for 2012, with 8,010 women in the United States dying from uterine cancer. More than 95% of cancers of the uterus involve the endometrium, the lining of the uterus. Certain women appear more at risk for developing endometrial cancer than others, including those who are American and who have had exposure to high-energy (ionizing) radiation. Obesity, certain types of estrogen replacement therapy, treatment with tamoxifen, infertility, diabetes, menstruation before age 12, and meno- pause after age 52 are risk factors for endometrial cancer (American Cancer Society, 2012d).
Hysterectomy Th e surgical removal of the uterus is known as a hysterectomy. Hysterectomy is the second most frequent major surgical procedure among
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reproductive-age women, with about 600,000 performed each year. Hysterec- tomy rates are the highest in women aged 40–44 years. More than one fourth of U.S. women will have a hysterectomy by the time they are 60 years old (Whiteman et al., 2008). A simple hysterectomy removes the uterus and the vagina remains entirely intact, and a radical hysterectomy involves the removal of the upper part of the vagina and adjacent tissues. Th e ovaries and fallopian tubes are not removed unless there is some other medical reason to do so (Amer- ican Cancer Society, 2012d). Certain conditions make a hysterectomy necessary: (1) when a cancerous or precancerous growth cannot be treated otherwise, (2) when noncancerous growths on the uterus become so large that they interfere with other organs (such as when they hinder bladder or bowel functions) or cause pain or pressure, (3) when bleeding is so heavy that it cannot be controlled or when it leads to anemia, and/or (4) when severe infection cannot be con- trolled in any other way. If a woman’s physician recommends a hysterectomy, she should have the opinion confi rmed by a second physician. A hysterectomy is performed by removing the uterus surgically through the vagina or through an abdominal incision. In spite of the trend in the United States to perform most hysterectomies via an abdominal approach, a new position statement by the American Academy of Gynecological Laparoscopists (2011) recommends that a minimally invasive surgical approach, such as vaginal hysterectomy or laparoscopic hysterectomy, be the procedure of choice for benign uterine diseases. At the same time, there may be an oophorectomy, removal of one or both ovaries, because of endometriosis, cysts, or tumors. If both ovaries are removed from a premenopausal woman, she may begin hormone supplement therapy to control the symptoms caused by the lack of estrogen. Removal of the ovaries can result in lowered libido because testosterone (the sex-drive hormone) is mainly produced there. Furthermore, the absence of ovarian estrogen can cause menopausal symptoms such as vaginal dryness and thinning of the vaginal walls. A hysterectomy alone is unlikely to cause sexual function problems. In fact, a radical hysterectomy does not alter a woman’s ability to feel sexual pleasure. A woman does not need a uterus or cervix to have an orgasm. However, in one study, among those who had undergone a hysterectomy, body esteem and relationship quality were found to be strongly associated with sexual function (Peterson, Rothenberg, Bilbrey, & Heiman, 2010). Th erapy and self-help groups for post-hysterectomy patients can be very useful for those who wish to improve the quality of their sexual lives and relationships.
Vaginal Cancer Vaginal cancer is rare, accounting for only about 2–3% of the cancers of the female reproductive system. Th e American Cancer Society (2012e) estimated that there were about 2,680 new cases of vaginal cancer in the United States in 2012, with about 840 women dying from this cancer. Although the exact cause of most vaginal cancers is not known, established risk factors include age (almost half of cases occur in women who are 70 and older), mother’s use of DES when pregnant, HPV infection, previous cervical cancer, and smoking. Symptoms include abnormal vaginal bleeding, vaginal discharge, a mass that can be felt, and pain during intercourse. Treatment options, based on the type of cancer and the stage of the disease when diag- nosed, are surgery, radiation, and chemotherapy in combination with radia- tion for advanced disease. For all cases of vaginal cancer combined, the 5-year
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survival rate is 72%. New surgical operations for repairing the vagina after radical surgery are being developed (American Cancer Society, 2012e).
Men and Cancer
Generally, men are less likely than women to get regular checkups and to seek help at the onset of symptoms. Th is tendency can have unfortunate conse- quences where reproductive cancers are concerned, because early detection can often mean the diff erence between life and death. Men should pay attention to what goes on in their genital and urinary organs.
Prostate Cancer Prostate cancer is the most common form of cancer (exclud- ing skin cancer) among American men; it causes the second highest number of deaths among men diagnosed with cancer (lung cancer is fi rst). Th e American Cancer Society (2012f) estimated that there were about 241,740 new cases of prostate cancer in the United States in 2012, with about 28,170 deaths. Th ough the yearly incidence and death rates of prostate cancer have been decreasing, still about 10% of cancer-related deaths in men are from prostate cancer. One man in 6 will get prostate cancer during his lifetime, but only 1 man in 36 will die from this disease. More than 2 million men in the United States are survi- vors of prostate cancer. Risk factors for prostate cancer include aging, a family history, being African American, a high-fat diet, obesity, and nationality; prostate cancer is more common in North America and northwestern Europe than in Asia, Africa, Central America, and South America. For reasons still unknown, African Amer- ican men are more likely to have prostate cancer, have a more advanced disease when it is found, and die from it than men of other races. Prostate cancer occurs less frequently in Asian American and Hispanic/Latino men than in non-Hispanic White men. About two thirds of prostate cancers are found in men over age 65. Some research suggests that high levels of testosterone may increase a man’s chance of having prostate cancer. Recent studies have not shown any increased risk among men who have had a vasectomy (American Cancer Society, 2012f ). Some researchers have tried to fi nd a relationship between risk for prostate cancer and ejaculation frequency. A longitudinal study of 29,342 men from the National Cancer Institute revealed that high ejaculations frequency—21 or more ejaculations per month—was related to decreased risk of prostate cancer. Each increment of an increase of 3 ejaculations per week across a lifetime was associated with a 15% decrease in risk of prostate cancer. Th e study also found that ejaculation frequency was not related to increased risk of prostate cancer (Leitzmann, Platz, Stampfer, Willet, & Giovannucci, 2004). For example, lower ejaculation frequency was not related to increased risk. Interestingly, high ejac- ulation frequency may actually decrease the concentration of carcinogens that accumulate in prostate fl uid. Frequent ejaculations are, however, associated with lower sperm counts (but not sperm motility or morphology), one factor in male infertility (Carlsen, Petersen, Anderson, & Skakkebaek, 2004).
Detection Various symptoms may point to prostate cancer, a slow-growing disease, but often there are no symptoms or symptoms may not appear for many years. Although the symptoms listed below are more likely to indicate
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prostatic enlargement or benign tumors than cancer, they should never be ignored. By the time symptoms do occur, the cancer may have spread beyond the prostate. When symptoms do occur, they may include:
■ Weak or interrupted fl ow of urine ■ Inability to urinate or diffi culty in beginning to urinate ■ Diffi culty holding back urine ■ Frequent need to urinate, especially at night; bed-wetting ■ Urine fl ow that is not easily stopped ■ Painful or burning urination ■ Diffi culty in having an erection ■ Painful ejaculation ■ Blood in urine or semen ■ Continuing pain in lower back, pelvis, or upper thighs
It is important to be aware that other diseases or problems can cause these symptoms (American Cancer Society, 2012f ). Updated guidelines from the American Cancer Society (2012f ) recom- mend that doctors stop giving the digital rectal exam (DRE) because it has not clearly shown a benefi t, though it can remain an option. A blood test, called the prostate-specifi c antigen (PSA) test, can be used to help diagnose prostate cancer although research shows that PSA poses new dilemmas, partly because levels of PSA can be elevated in men with a benign condition called prostatic hyperplasia, when the prostate gland enlarges and blocks the fl ow of urine. Additionally, the test cannot distinguish between aggres- sive and mild forms of the disease. Ultrasound is often used as a follow-up to the PSA test to detect lumps too small to be felt. A needle biopsy of suspicious lumps can be performed to determine if the cells are benign or malignant. Th e DRE and PSA tests together are better than either test alone in detecting prostate cancer. Some research has shown that many, and probably most, tumors discovered during the screenings are so small and slow growing that they are unlikely to do any harm to patients. Prostate cancer develops slowly over many years, and most cases are not life-threatening. Other research has shown that when dangerous tumors are found, the mortality rates are usually the same among men who had regular screenings and those who did not see a physician until they developed symptoms. However, if a young man gets prostate cancer it will probably shorten his life if it is not caught early. For an older man or one in poor health, prostate cancer may never become a major problem because it often grows so slowly. Th e American Cancer Society recommends that men have a chance to make an informed decision about the risks and benefi ts of prostate cancer screening. A conversation with their health-care providers should take place at age 50 for men who are at average risk of prostate cancer. Men at high risk, which includes African American men and men who have a father or brother diagnosed with prostate cancer before age 65, should have this talk with a doctor starting at age 45. Men should not be screened at an early age unless they know this information (American Cancer Society, 2012f ).
Treatment Ninety-one percent of all prostate cancers are detected while they are still in the prostate or nearby area, and the 5-year survival rate for these
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cancers is nearly 100%. Including all stages and grades of prostate cancer, about 99% of men diagnosed with prostate cancer survive at least 5 years, 92% sur- vive at least 10 years, and 61% survive at least 15 years. Th e death rates in men with localized prostate cancer are nearly the same as the 5- and 10-year survival rates in men without prostate cancer. For the 10% of men whose cancer has already spread to other parts of the body, the 5-year survival rate is 31% (American Cancer Society, 2012f ). Depending on the stage of the cancer, treatment may include surgery, hor- mone therapy, radiation therapy, and chemotherapy. If the cancer has not spread beyond the prostate gland, all or part of the gland is removed by sur- gery. Radical surgery has a high cure rate, but it often results in incontinence and erectile diffi culties. An alternative to removal of the prostate is “watchful waiting,” in which men do not have any treatment, such as surgery or radia- tion therapy, immediately after cancer diagnosis but are closely followed by their physicians to see if their tumors begin to grow and advance. Because prostate cancer often spreads slowly, some men may never need treatment. Th e premise of watchful waiting is that cases of localized cancer may advance so slowly that they are unlikely to cause men, especially older men, any health problems during their lifetime. Hence, the best candidates for watchful wait- ing are older men whose tumors are small and slow growing. A study of 900 older men with early-stage prostate cancer found that they were not taking a big risk by keeping an eye on their disease rather than immediately treating it (Marchione, 2008). Sensitive sex counseling should be an integral part of treatment for men who have had prostrate cancer surgery. Th e American Cancer Society (2012f ) also recommends the use of erection-enhancing drugs—Viagra, Levitra, Stendra, or Cialis—for those who experience erection diffi culties after surgery. Th ese drugs will not work, however, if important nerves are removed or damaged during surgery. Further, some men who retain the ability to become erect on their own experience retrograde ejaculation (see Chapter 4) and are infertile because semen does not pass out of the urethra. Since the exact cause of prostate cancer is unknown, it is not possible to prevent most cases of the disease. But some cases might be prevented. Th e American Cancer Society (2012f) suggests eating less red meat and fat and eat- ing more vegetables, fruits, and whole grains, which may also lower one’s risk for some other types of cancer and diseases. Recent research found that men taking the drugs Proscar or Avodart were up to 25% less likely to get prostate cancer than men taking a placebo. However, the men taking the drugs who did get prostate cancer were more likely to have cancers that looked like they might grow and spread. Further, the men taking the drugs were more likely to have heart problems and report decreased sex drive and erection diffi culties (Andriole & Brawley, 2010). Th e American Cancer Society (2012f) recommends that men thinking about taking these drugs to reduce their risk of prostate cancer discuss it with their doctors.
Testicular Cancer According to the American Cancer Society (2012g), about 8,590 new cases of testicular cancer were estimated to be diagnosed in 2012, with an estimated 360 deaths. Th e chance of a man developing testicular can- cer in his lifetime is about 1 in 300. Because treatment is very successful, the risk of dying from this cancer is 1 in 5,000. Th e exact cause of most cases of testicular cancer is unknown, but risk factors include age (9 out of 10 cases
“ Oh, to be seventy again [at the age of 91, upon seeing a young woman].
—Oliver Wendell Holmes, Sr. (1809–1894)
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occur between the ages of 20 and 54), undescended testicle(s), a family history of testicular cancer, HIV infection, cancer of the other testicle, and ethnicity. A man who has had cancer in one testicle has about a 3% chance of developing cancer in the other testicle. Th is is usually a new cancer. Th e risk of developing testicular cancer in the United States is 5 times greater for White men than for African American men and more than 3 times that for Asian American and American Indian men. Th e risk for Hispanics is between the risks for Asians and non-Hispanic Whites (American Cancer Society, 2012g).
Detection Most cases of testicular cancer can be found at an early stage. Th e fi rst sign of testicular cancer is usually a painless lump or slight enlargement and a change in the consistency of the testicle. In 90% of testicular cancer cases, the man has a lump on a testicle or notices that the testicle is swollen. Some types of testicular cancers have no symptoms until the advanced stage. Although the tumors that grow on the testes are generally painless, there is often a dull ache in the lower abdomen and groin, accompanied by a sensation of dragging and heavi- ness. If the tumor is growing rapidly, there may be severe pain in the testicles. Because of the lack of symptoms and pain in the early stage, men often do not go to a doctor for several months after discovering a slightly enlarged testicle. Th e examination of a man’s testicles is a valuable part of a general physical examination, and the American Cancer Society includes testicular examination in
practically speaking
Some doctors believe that a man increases the chances of early cancer detection by performing a monthly testicular self-exam. It is important that you know what your own testicles feel like normally so that you’ll recognize any changes. The best time to perform the examination is after a warm shower or bath, when the scrotum is relaxed.
1. Stand in front of a mirror and look for any swelling on the scrotum.
2. Hold the penis out of the way and examine each testicle separately. With your thumb on top of the testicle and two fi ngers underneath, gently roll the testicle to check for lumps or areas of particular fi rmness. A normal testicle is smooth, oval, and uniformly fi rm to the touch. Don’t worry if your testicles diff er slightly in size; this is common. And don’t mistake the epididymis, the sperm-carrying tube at the rear of the testicle, for an abnormality.
3. If you fi nd any hard lumps or nodules, or if there has been any change in shape, size, or texture of the testicles, a sudden collection of fl uid in the scrotum, a dull ache in the lower abdomen, or pain in a testicle or the scrotum, consult a physician. These signs may not indicate a malignancy, but only your physician can make a diagnosis.
Testicular Self-Examination
Testicular self-examination can enhance a man’s familiarity with his genitals.
SOURCE: From Fahey, T., Insel, P., & Roth, W. (2011). Fit and well: Core concepts and labs in physical fi tness and wellness (9th ed.). Copyright © 2011 by The McGraw-Hill Companies, Inc. Reprinted with permission.
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its recommendations for routine cancer-related checkups. Whether a man should perform a regular testicular self-examination is debated, though. Th e American Cancer Society believes that it is important to make men aware of testicular can- cer and to remind them that any testicular mass should be immediately evaluated by a physician. Some doctors recommend monthly testicular self-examination by all men after puberty. Th e American Cancer Society believes that for men with average testicular cancer risk there is no medical evidence to suggest that monthly examination is any more eff ective than simple awareness and prompt medical attention. However, whether to perform this examination is a decision best made by each man. Men with certain risk factors, such as previous testicular cancer or a family history, should consider monthly self-examinations and discuss the issue with their doctors. Sometimes, ultrasound and blood tests are used as diagnostic tools for testicular cancer.
Treatment Testicular cancer is a highly treatable form of cancer. Th e three main methods of treatment are surgery, radiation therapy, and chemotherapy. After the aff ected testicle is removed, an artifi cial one may be inserted in the scrotal sac. Radiation treatment or chemotherapy may follow. Th e success of treatment for testicular cancer has been highlighted by the athletic achieve- ments of Lance Armstrong. Following treatment for testicular cancer, he won more Tour de France bicycle races than anyone else—a record-breaking seven consecutive years, 1999 to 2005. Although the cure rate for all types of testicular cancer is very high (provided the disease has not widely metastasized), the man’s fertility is often a major concern. However, advances in assisted reproduction methods such as in vitro fertilization have made fatherhood possible for testicular cancer survivors, even if their sperm counts are extremely low. In some cases, sperm cells removed from a testicular biopsy specimen can result in a pregnancy when other options have failed (American Cancer Society, 2012g).
Penile Cancer Cancer of the penis aff ects only 1 out of every 100,000 men and accounts for less than 1% of cancers in men in the United States. Th e American Cancer Society (2012h) estimated that about 1,570 new cases of penile cancer were diagnosed in 2012, with an estimated 310 deaths from it. Although it is very rare in North America and Europe, it is more common in parts of Africa and South America, where it accounts for up to 10% of cancers in men. Risk factors include HPV infection, smoking, having AIDS, being treated for psoriasis with ultraviolet light and a drug called psoralen, and age (nearly two thirds of cases are diagnosed in men over 65). For reasons not entirely clear, men who are circum- cised as babies have less than half the chance of getting cancer of the penis than those who were not. Being circumcised later, as an adult, does not lower the risk of penile cancer. At this time, the American Academy of Pediatrics (2012) does not believe there is suffi cient evidence to recommend routine circumcision of newborns for medical reasons. Decisions about circumcision are highly personal, often depending more on relgious, cultural, and ethnic traditions. Many cases of penile cancer can be detected early on. Men should be alert to any unusual growths on or other abnormalities of the penis. If such changes occur, men should promptly consult a physician. Treatment options include sur- gery, radiation, and chemotherapy. Most early-stage penile cancers can be com- pletely cured by fairly minor surgery with little or no damage to the penis. Removal of all or part of the penis is rare, except for late-stage cancer. Adult men
The success rate of testicular cancer treatment is highlighted by the achievements of Lance Armstrong. Following treatment for testicular cancer, he won the Tour de France a record-breaking seven years in a row.
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think about it
In nearly 25 African countries, some parts of Asia, and the Middle East, and among certain immigrant communities in North America and Europe, female infants, girls, or young women may undergo female genital cutting (FGC). An estimated 100 to 140 million girls and women in the world are estimated to have undergone FGC, 3 million each year, or 6,000 each day. In the late 1970s, several international organizations, including the World Health Organization, began using the term “female genital mutilation” to refer to this act, emphasizing that the act violates girls’ and women’s human rights. The United Nations Children’s Fund and the United Nations Population Fund use the less judgmental expression “female genital mutilation/ cutting” (World Health Organization, 2010b). For the sake of this discussion, we will use the less judgmental female genital cutting as well. One type of FGC is clitoridectomy, or female circumcision: having their clitoris slit or cut out entirely and all or part of their labia sliced off . The sides of their vulvas or their vaginal openings may be stitched together—a process called infi bulation—leaving only a tiny opening for the passage of urine and menstrual blood. These surgeries are generally performed in unsanitary conditions, with a knife, a razor, or even a tin can lid or piece of broken glass, without medical anesthesia; antiseptic powder or concocted pastes may be applied. FGC has no known health benefi ts. On the contrary, the eff ects of the devastatingly painful operations include bleeding, infections, infertility, scarring, the inability to enjoy sex, and, not uncommonly, death. Upon marriage, a young woman may experience considerable pain and bleeding as the entry to the vagina is reopened by tearing her fl esh. In childbirth, the old wounds must be reopened surgically, or tearing will result. Women who have undergone FGC and their babies are more likely to die during childbirth (Eke & Nkanginieme, 2006; World Health Organization, 2010b). This ancient custom, practiced mainly in Africa, is diffi cult for outsiders to understand. Why would loving parents allow this to be done to their defenseless daughter, and even hold her down during the procedure? As with many other practices (including male circumcision in our own culture), the answer is “tradition.” The surgery is practiced for several reasons including as a way of controlling women’s sexuality, and for many women, FGC does impair sexual enjoyment. Yet a study of 1,836 Nigerian
Female Genital Cutting: Mutilation or Important Custom?
women found no diff erence in the frequency of sex and coital orgasm in women having undergone female genital cutting and those not having done so (Okonofua, Larsen, Oronsaye, Snow, & Slanger, 2002). Progress has been made in curtailing FGC throughout the world. For example, it has been banned in 17 African countries. However, strongly held customs are hard to change, and there are still many places where it continues. In 2008, ten United Nations agencies called for the global elimination of FGC within a generation and a major reduction by 2015 (World Health Organization, 2010b).
Think Critically 1. Should female genital cutting be eliminated worldwide,
or should it be permitted in countries where it is an important custom?
2. Which is the better term: female genital cutting or female genital mutilation? Why?
3. Does FGC violate the human rights of girls and women? If so, in what ways? If not, why?
Female genital cutting is common in many African, Asian, and Middle Eastern countries.
can lower their risk of penile cancer by avoiding the things that are known to increase the risk.
Male Breast Cancer Breast cancer is about 100 times less common among men than among women. Th e lifetime risk of a man getting breast cancer is 1 in 1,000. However, an estimated 2,190 new cases of breast cancer were diagnosed
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in men in the United States in 2012, with about 410 deaths (American Cancer Society, 2012i). As is the case for women, most breast disorders in men are benign. Known risk factors include aging (the average age is about 67 at diag- nosis), family history of breast cancer for both male and female blood relatives, heavy alcohol use, inheritance of BRCA2 gene mutation (responsible for some breast cancers in women), Klinefelter’s syndrome, radiation exposure, liver disease, physical inactivity and obesity, and estrogen treatment (for prostate cancer, for example). Symptoms of possible breast cancer include a lump or swelling of the breast, skin dimpling or puckering, nipple retraction (turning inward), redness or scaling of the nipple or breast skin, and discharge from the nipple. Diagnosis involves clinical breast examination, mammography, ultrasound, nipple discharge examination, and biopsy. Male breast cancer is treated with surgery, radiation therapy, and chemotherapy. Th e survival rate is very high following early-stage detection. Survival rates are about the same for both men and women when looking at each stage of breast cancer (American Cancer Society, 2012i).
Anal Cancer in Men and Women
Anal cancer is fairly uncommon, although the number of cases has been increas- ing for many years. Th e American Cancer Society (2012j) estimated that about 6,230 new cases of anal cancer were diagnosed in 2012, with about 780 deaths. Women get anal cancer slightly more often than men. Increasing rates of anal cancer may be due to the more prevalent practice of anal intercourse and to the high prevalence of HPV infection (McBride & Fortenberry, 2010). Additionally, risk factors include having numerous lifetime sex partners, history of receptive anal intercourse particularly under age 30, HIV infection, and smoking. Pain in the anal area, change in the diameter of the stool, abnormal discharge from the anus, and swollen lymph glands in the anal or groin areas are the major symptoms of anal cancer. Bleeding occurs in more than half of the cases of anal cancer and is usually the fi rst sign of the disease. Th e digital rectal examination for prostate cancer will fi nd some cases of rectal cancer. Like many other cancers, surgery, radiation therapy, and chemotherapy are the major treatments for anal cancer (American Cancer Society, 2012j). Because the majority of anal cancers are linked to HPV, condoms will provide some protection against the virus. Recently, the U.S. Food and Drug Administration (2011c) approved Gardasil for use by males aged 9–26 and females aged 9–45 years old to help prevent anal and genital warts, and to prevent anal, vulvar, vaginal, and cervical cancers and pre-cancers (Food & Drug Administration, 2011).
• Additional Sexual Health Issues In this section, we discuss two disorders of the female reproductive system, toxic shock syndrome and endometriosis, as well as some other sexual health issues. Sexually transmitted infections and related problems are discussed in Chapters 15 and 16.
Toxic Shock Syndrome
Toxic shock syndrome (TSS) is caused by the Staphylococcus aureus bacterium, a common agent of infection. Th is organism is normally present in the body and usually does not pose a threat. Tampons, especially the superabsorbent type, or
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other devices that block the vagina or cervix during menstruation apparently lead to the creation of an ideal culture medium for the overgrowth of staph bacteria. Women of all ages can get TSS, but those under age 30 are at higher risk because they may not have developed antibodies to the disease. TSS can occur in men— for example, from skin wounds and surgery—but it is uncommon. Th e risk of developing TSS is quite low; after the initial epidemic in the late 1970s and early 1980s, the number of reported cases decreased signifi cantly. Th e rate is estimated to be 3 to 4 cases per 100,000 menstruating women (Schlievert, cited in Roan, 2005). It is recommended that all women who use tampons reduce the already low risk by carefully following the directions for insertion, choosing the lowest-absorbing one for their fl ow, changing the tampon more frequently, and using tampons less regularly (“Toxic Shock Syndrome,” 2010). TSS can be treated eff ectively if it is detected. Th e warning signs are sudden fever (102°F or higher), diarrhea, vomiting, fainting or nearly fainting when standing up, and/or a sunburnlike rash. Early detection is critical; otherwise, TSS can be fatal. Women should talk with their health-care provider about any new information regarding prevention.
Vulvodynia
One condition that has received little attention from the general public and is rarely discussed by doctors is vulvodynia, defi ned as chronic vulvar pain with- out an identifi able cause (National Vulvodynia Association, 2010). Th ough often misdiagnosed, the pain that women who suff er from vulvodynia is often long- lasting, involves severe burning, and may interfere with their ability to maintain an active sex life. Th e location, constancy, and severity of the pain vary among suff erers, with some women experiencing pain in only one area of the vulva, while others experience pain in multiple areas. A woman experiencing pain in her genital area should discuss it with her doctor and consider asking for a referral to a gynecologist or dermatologist. At this time, there is no cure for vulvodynia. Treatments that can partially or totally alleviate symptoms are avail- able, including pelvic fl oor muscle therapy, psychotherapy, and pain control, but no single treatment works all the time or is best for every woman.
Endometriosis
Endometriosis is one of the most common gynecological diseases; it aff ects at least 5.5 million women in the United States, or 1 in 10 women during their reproductive years (“Endometriosis,” 2010; National Institute of Child Health and Human Development, 2010). Endometriosis involves the growth of endo- metrial tissue (uterine lining) outward into the organs surrounding the uterus. Endometriosis can aff ect any menstruating woman from the time of her fi rst period to menopause, regardless of whether she has had children, her race or ethnicity, and her socioeconomic status. Th e exact cause of endometriosis has not been identifi ed. About 30–40% of women with endometriosis are infertile, making it among the top three causes of infertility in women. Symptoms of endometriosis include pain (usually pelvic pain, which can be very intense), very painful cramps or periods, heavy periods, intestinal pain, pain during or after sex, and infertility. Some women do not have symptoms and may not fi nd out they have the disease until they have trouble getting pregnant. It is usually diagnosed by imaging tests (e.g., ultrasound) to produce a picture of the inside of the body or by laparoscopic examination. Prompt
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treatment is crucial if endometriosis is suspected. Th ere is currently no cure for endometriosis, but there are ways to minimize the symptoms caused by the condition, and endometriosis-related fertility often can be treated successfully using hormones and surgery (National Institute of Child Health and Human Development, 2010).
Lesbian Women’s Health Issues
Research specifi cally focused on lesbian women did not begin until the 1950s. Th en the origins of sexual orientation and the psychological functioning of lesbian women were major topics of study. During the 1970s, studies on lesbian women as psychologically healthy individuals emerged, and some of the research of the 1980s examined issues related to the development of lesbian women across their life span (Tully, 1995). It was found that lesbian women may be at higher risk than other women for uterine, breast, cervical, endometrial, and ovarian cancers because they are less likely to bear children; have higher rates of alcohol use, obesity, and poor nutrition; and are less likely to visit a health- care provider for routine screenings, such as a Pap test. And, as discussed in Chapter 15, some lesbian women are at risk for many of the same STIs as heterosexual women (National Women’s Health Information Center, 2010). In addition to many of the medical concerns shared by all women, lesbian women face other challenges. For example, lesbian women encounter prejudice and discrimination when seeking health care (Human Rights Campaign, 2009). First, it may be assumed that they are heterosexual, leading to the inclusion of inappropriate questions, comments, or procedures and the exclusion of appro- priate measures. Second, if they do disclose their orientation, they may be treated with hostility. Th ird, their low perceived risk of getting STIs and some types of cancer decreases the chances of early detection and treatment. And lack of health insurance because of no domestic-partner benefi ts often delays proper medical care (“Lesbian Health,” 2010). As a result of these experiences, lesbian women are less likely than heterosexual women to seek health care. Further, research has shown that lesbian and bisexual women report much lower rates of recent preventive health behavior than national rates for all women (Wells, Bimbi, Tider, Van Ora, & Parsons, 2006).
Prostatitis
Many of men’s sexual health problems are related to STIs. One condition aff ecting men that is not sexually transmitted is prostatitis, the infl ammation of the prostate gland. Researchers estimate that 10–12% of men experience prostatitis-like symptoms (McNaughton-Collins, Joyce, Wise, & Pontari, 2007). Men are more likely to develop prostatitis when they are young, even prior to age 40 (Mayo Clinic, 2010a). Prostatitis is usually caused by bacteria found in the large intestines. Most often, acute prostatitis originates in the prostate, but occasionally the infection can spread from a bladder or urethral infection. Men infected with HIV are at greater risk for bacterial prostatitis, although it is not clear why. Symptoms of prostatitis include frequent and urgent need to urinate and pain or burning when urinating, often accompanied by pelvic, groin, or low-back pain. Prosta- titis can be diffi cult to diagnose because the symptoms often are similar to those of other medical conditions such as bladder infections, bladder cancer, or prostate enlargement. No evidence exists indicating that having prostatitis
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increases the risk of prostate cancer. Digital rectal exam and urine and semen tests are used to diagnose prostatitis. Antibiotics and pain relievers are the main treatment for prostatitis; acute prostatitis may require a short hospital stay. Prostatitis can aff ect fertility as it interferes with movement of sperm cells and may interfere with ejaculation. However, a man does not necessarily need to avoid sexual intercourse if he has prostatitis. Prostatitis is usually not made worse by sexual activity although, sometimes, men with prostatitis will experi- ence pain during ejaculation or sexual intercourse. If sex is too painful, a man may consider abstaining from sexual activity until the prostatitis symptoms improve (Mayo Clinic, 2010a, 2010b).
In this chapter, we’ve explored issues of self-image and body image as they interact with our society’s ideas about beauty and sexuality. We’ve considered the eff ects of alcohol and certain drugs on our sexuality. We’ve looked at physical limitations and disabilities and cancer and other health issues. Our intent is to give you information to assist you in personal health issues and to stimulate thinking about how society deals with certain aspects of sexual health. We encourage you to learn more about your own body and your own sexual functioning. If things don’t seem to work right, if you don’t feel well, or if you have questions, consult your physician or other health-care practitioner. If you’re not satisfi ed, get a second opinion. Read about health issues that apply to you and the people you’re close to. Because we live in our bodies, we need to appreciate and respect them. By taking care of ourselves physically and mentally, we can maximize our pleasures in sexuality and in life.
Final Thoughts
Summary Living in Our Bodies: The Quest for Physical Perfection
■ Our society is preoccupied with bodily perfection. As a result, eating disorders have become common, especially among young women. Eating disorders reduce a person’s health and vigor; are carried out in secrecy; are accompanied by obsessions, depression, anxiety, and guilt; lead to self-absorption and emotional instability; and are characterized by a lack of control.
■ Anorexia nervosa is characterized by an all-controlling desire for thinness. Th ose with anorexia, usually female teenagers, are convinced that their bodies are too large, no matter how thin they actually are. Sexual diffi culties often accompany anorexia. Th ose with anorexia diet (and often exercise) obsessively. Anorexia is potentially fatal.
■ Bulimia nervosa is characterized by episodes of uncon- trolled overeating (binge eating), counteracted by purging—vomiting, dieting, exercising excessively, or taking laxatives or diuretics.
■ Binge eating disorder is similar to bulimia except that the purging does not occur.
■ Anabolic steroids, used to enhance body appearance and athletic performance, can cause serious and permanent body damage.
Alcohol, Drugs, and Sexuality
■ Drugs and alcohol are commonly perceived as enhancers of sexuality, although in reality this is rarely the case.
■ Researchers are beginning to believe that alcohol use among young people is just one component of an
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■ New cases of ovarian cancer have been slowly decreas- ing since 1991. Pregnancy, breastfeeding, birth control, tubal ligation, and hysterectomy are considered factors that lower the risk of ovarian cancer.
■ A vaccine called Gardasil guards against four strains of the STI human papillomavirus (HPV) that cause 70% of cervical cancer and 90% of genital warts and is now available for males and females. Th is vaccine works only if the individual is not already infected with any of the four specifi c strains of HPV. Th e HPV vaccine has been approved to also protect against vaginal, cervical, vulvar, and anal cancer.
■ Nearly all cancers of the uterus involve the endome- trium, the lining of the uterus. Uterine cancer is treated with surgery (hysterectomy), radiation, or both.
■ Hysterectomy is the surgical removal of the uterus. A hysterectomy is required when cancerous or precancerous growths cannot be treated with less invasive procedures, when noncancerous growths interfere with other organs, when heavy bleeding cannot be otherwise controlled, and when severe infection cannot be otherwise controlled. Other problems may sometimes require a hysterectomy. Th e removal of the ovaries (oophorectomy) will precipitate menopausal symptoms because the estrogen supply stops.
■ Vaginal cancer represents only 2–3% of the cancers of the female reproductive system.
■ Prostate cancer is the most common form of cancer among men, excluding skin cancer. If detected early, it has a high cure rate. It is recommended that men discuss with their doctor the risks and benefi ts of prostate cancer screening. Surgery, radiation, hormone therapy, and chemotherapy are possible treatments.
■ Testicular cancer primarily aff ects men aged 20–54. If caught early, it is curable; if not, it may be deadly. Self-examination is the key to detection; even slight symptoms should be reported at once.
■ Penile cancer aff ects only 1 in 100,000 men in the United States, with most early-stage cancers being completely cured. Men can develop breast cancer, but this cancer is 100 times more common among women.
■ Anal cancer is uncommon, although it has been increasing in both men and women in recent years.
overall risky health behavior pattern—not the cause of sexual risk behavior—and that other factors are powerful causes of risk.
■ Some people use alcohol to give themselves permission to be sexual. Some men may use alcohol to justify sexual violence. People under the infl uence of alcohol or drugs tend to place themselves in risky sexual situations, such as exposing themselves to sexually transmitted infections.
Sexuality and Disability
■ A wide range of disabilities and physical limitations can aff ect sexuality. People with these limitations need support and education so that they can enjoy their full sexual potential. Society as a whole needs to be aware of the concerns of people with disabili- ties and to allow them the same sexual rights as others have.
■ Chronic illnesses such as diabetes, cardiovascular dis- ease, and arthritis pose special problems with regard to sexuality. People with these diseases (and their partners) can learn what to expect of themselves sexually and how to best cope with their particular conditions.
Sexuality and Cancer
■ Cancer (in its many forms) occurs when cells begin to grow aberrantly. Most cancers form tumors. Benign tumors grow slowly and remain localized. Malignant tumors can spread throughout the body. When malignant cells are released into the blood or lymph system, they begin to grow away from the original tumor; this process is called metastasis.
■ Other than cancers of the skin, breast cancer is the most common cancer among women. Although the survival rate is improving, those who survive it may still suff er psychologically. Mammograms (low-dose X-ray screenings) are the principal method of detection, though some are calling its risks versus benefi ts a “close call.” Surgical removal of the breast is called mastectomy; surgery that removes only the tumor and surrounding lymph nodes is called lumpectomy. Radiation and chemotherapy are also used to fi ght breast cancer.
■ Cervical dysplasia, or cervical intraepithelial neoplasia (CIN), the appearance of certain abnormal cells on the cervix, can be diagnosed by a Pap test. It may then be treated by biopsy, cauterization, cryosurgery, or other surgery. If untreated, CIN may lead to cervical cancer.
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Additional Sexual Health Issues
■ Toxic shock syndrome (TSS) is a potentially fatal disease caused by the Staphylococcus aureus bacte- rium. Th e disease is easily cured with antibiotics if caught early.
■ Vulvodynia is a chronic vulvar pain without an identifi able cause. At this time, there is no cure for vulvodynia.
■ Endometriosis is the growth of endometrial tissue outside the uterus. It is a major cause of infertility. Symptoms include intense pelvic pain and abnormal menstrual bleeding. Treatment depends on a number of factors. Various hormone treatments and types of surgery are employed.
■ Lesbian women are less likely to seek health care than heterosexual women, partly because they may face hostility from health-care practitioners. Fear of discrimination may keep them from getting early diagnosis of serious diseases, such as breast cancer.
■ Prostatitis is the infl ammation of the prostate gland. Antibiotics and pain medications are the primary treatment for prostatitis. No evidence has been found that prostatitis increases the risk of prostate cancer.
Questions for Discussion ■ Is there too much emphasis on body
perfection in our society? Have you had friends who took extreme measures to make their body fi t the cultural ideal? How have you dealt with pressure to have a certain body?
■ How comfortable are you in discussing your sexual and reproductive health with your doctor? If you feel uncomfortable, why do you think you feel that way?
■ Do many of your peers use alcohol as a “sexual lubricant” hoping that its use will lead to sexual activity? Do you know of individuals who regret being sexual because they were not able to make responsible decisions after drinking alcohol? What, in your opinion, is the role of alcohol in dating?
Suggested Websites Mautner Project http://www.mautnerproject.org An education and support organization for lesbian women with cancer and their loved ones. In English and Spanish.
National Breast Cancer Coalition http://www.stopbreastcancer.org A grassroots advocacy organization that provides information on breast cancer and supports research, medical access, and infl uence.
National Eating Disorders Association http://www.nationaleatingdisorders.org An organization that is dedicated to providing education, resources, and support to those aff ected by eating disorders.
National Institutes of Health http://www.nih.gov Off ers information on an array of health topics, including cancer. (See also www.cancer.gov.)
ZERO—The Project to End Prostate Cancer http://www.zerocancer.org Contains information on prostate cancer, as well as outreach and advocacy information.
Sex and the Internet Cancer and Sexuality The American Cancer Society (ACS) has an extensive website that provides detailed information on prevention of and risk factors for, detection and symptoms of, and treatment for the various cancers, including those of the reproductive system. The impact of cancer of the repro- ductive structures on sexuality also is discussed. Go to the ACS website (http://www.cancer.org) to research this issue. After getting on the website, answer the following questions concerning a specifi c cancer:
■ What are the risk factors for the cancer? ■ How can the cancer be prevented? ■ What are some of the methods used to treat this
form of cancer?
■ What are the sexuality-related outcomes of the cancer and its treatment?
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Suggested Reading Journals with articles relevant to sexual health include JAMA: Journal of the American Medical Association, Th e New England Journal of Medicine, and the British journal Lancet.
Dibble, S., & Robertson, P. (2010) Lesbian health 101: A clinician’s guide. San Francisco: University of California Nursing Press. Written in medical language and designed for doctors, nurses, and other health-care providers as well as those lesbian women who are interested in understanding their own health issues.
Katz, A. (2009). Woman, cancer, sex. Also: Man, cancer, sex (2009). Pittsburgh, PA: Hygeia Press. Both books explain the changes that many women and men with cancer experience and off er practical and compassionate advice on how to handle these changes.
Kaufman, M., Silverberg, C., & Odette, F. (2007). Th e ultimate guide to sexuality and disability (2nd ed.). San Francisco: Cleis Press. A sex guide for people living with disabilities, chronic pain, and illness.
Kuczynski, A. (2008). Beauty junkies: In search of the thinnest thighs. New York: Doubleday. An analysis of the beauty industry and its trends.
Love, S., & Lindsey, K. (2010). Dr. Susan Love’s breast book. (5th ed.). Philadelphia, PA: Da Capo Press. An authoritative guide that refl ects the promising changes in identifying and treating breast cancer.
Silver, M. (2004). Breast cancer husband: How to help your wife (and yourself ) through diagnosis, treatment, and beyond. New York: Rodale. A practical guide for men and women that combines information, wit, humor, and empathy.
For links, articles, and study material, go to the McGraw-Hill website, located at
www.mhhe.com/yarber8e.
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Physical Causes of Sexual Function Diffi culties and Dissatisfaction 457
Psychological Causes of Sexual Function Diffi culties and Dissatisfaction 458
Sexual Function Enhancement 461
Treating Sexual Function Diffi culties 467
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“Sometimes my sexual desire gets so low that I will not be intimate with my girlfriend for a few weeks. And then there are times when sexual desire is so high that I can’t control myself. Why is this?”
—19-year-old male
“My friend has a problem that seems to occur once every few months. He suddenly becomes not able to get erect. It seems like it happens very suddenly.”
—18-year-old male
“I have not experienced any sexual function diffi culties. On the other hand, I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and I
only had two orgasms. I enjoy having sex with him even though I don’t have an orgasm every time. Sometimes I’m really into it, but sometimes I’m not. I do sometimes feel like something is wrong, but I do feel it is normal and okay as long as I enjoy it. I guess I may be thinking about it too hard, but like I said, I enjoy it either way.”
—21-year-old female
“When having a sexual experience with a new partner, I sometimes have a sense of guilt about past relationships. This can make performing in the new situation really diffi cult.”
—21-year-old male
“I always had a really low sex drive with past boyfriends. I never understood why until I started dating my current boyfriend. The key is communication! We’re open with each other and honest about what we like and dislike. Now my sex drive is through the roof!”
—20-year-old female
The quality of our sexuality is intimately connected to the quality of our lives and relationships. Because our sexuality is an integral part of ourselves, it refl ects our excitement and boredom, intimacy and distance, emo- tional well-being and distress, and health and illness. As a consequence, our sexual desires and activities ebb and fl ow. Sometimes, they are highly erotic; other times, they may be boring. Furthermore, many of us who are sexually active may sometimes experience sexual function diffi culties or problems, often resulting in disappointment in ourselves, our partners, or both. Studies indi- cate that many men and women report occasional or frequent lack of desire, problems in arousal or orgasm, and pain during intercourse or noncoital sex. Here are the “real-life” facts that illustrate that not all couple sex matches media portrayals of couples always having great sex (McCarthy & McCarthy, 2003, 2009):
■ Less than 50% of happy, sexually satisfi ed couples described having similar desire, arousal, orgasm, and pleasure during a particular sexual episode.
■ For about 25% of the sexual experiences, one partner described the sex as positive, whereas the other considered it as “OK.” Yet, these experiences were good for nourishing the intimacy of the relationship. Sometimes one partner “went along for the ride.”
■ Fifteen percent of sexual experiences were considered unremarkable even though there were no sexual function problems. If the couple had to do it over again, they probably would have chosen something else to do.
■ Five to 15 percent of the sexual experiences were dissatisfying or represented a sexual function problem.
“ When sex is good, it’s 10% of the relationship. When it is bad, it’s 90%.
—Charles Muir
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Later in this chapter, we discuss the prevalence and predictions of sexual function diffi culties found in three nationally representative studies to illustrate the commonality of sexual problems. Th e widespread variability in our sexual functioning suggests how “normal” at least occasional sexual diffi culties are. Sex therapist Bernie Zilbergeld (1999) writes:
Sex problems are normal and typical. I know, I know, all of your buddies are functioning perfectly and never have a problem. If you really believe that, I have a nice piece of oceanfront property in Kansas I’d like to talk to you about.
In this chapter, we look at several common sexual function diffi culties, their causes, and ways to enhance your sexuality to bring greater pleasure and intimacy.
• Sexual Function Diffi culties: Defi nitions, Types, and Prevalence Nearly all of the literature concerning sexual diffi culties or problems with sexual functioning deals with heterosexual couples; thus, most of the discussion in this chapter refl ects that bias. Unfortunately, too little research has been done on the sexual function diffi culties of gay, lesbian, bisexual, or transgender individuals and couples (Institute of Medicine, 2011). In general, heterosexual individuals, gay men, and lesbian women seemingly experience similar kinds of sexual func- tion problems, yet further research is needed on sexual function diffi culties among varied populations.
Defi ning Sexual Function Diffi culties: Diff erent Perspectives
Th e line between “normal” sexual functioning and a sexual diffi culty or problem is not always clear. Enormous variation exists in levels of sexual desire and forms of expression, and these diff erences do not necessarily indicate any sexual func- tion diffi culty. It can be challenging to determine exactly when something is a sexual function problem, and so we must be careful in defi ning a particular sexual function diffi culty as a problem. Some people have rigid and possibly unrealistic expectations for their own or their partner’s sexual expression and may perceive something wrong with their behavior that need not be considered a “sexual function problem.” Still, people sometimes experience diffi culties in sexual function that are so persistent, they would benefi t from sex therapy. Health-care providers, including sex therapists, need to be aware of diff erent types of sexual function diffi culties that can interfere with sexual satisfaction and intimacy. Th erefore, a structure to diagnose and address diffi culties can be valuable. However, there has been some debate among sexuality and mental health professionals about which terms accurately describe sexual function problems and how to classify these diffi culties (West, Vinikoor, & Zolnoun, 2004). Th ough categories such as “dysfunction,” “disorder,” “diffi culty,” and “problems” have been used, this chapter presents alternate classifi cation models. Th e standard medical diagnostic classifi cation of sexual function diffi culties is found in the American Psychiatric Association’s Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-IV-TR) (2000), which uses the terms “dys- function” and “disorders.” Because the DSM’s is the most widely used classifi - cation system, the discussion of various sexual function diffi culties in the professional literature is largely based on the DSM and uses the terms “sexual dysfunction” and “sexual disorders.” Th us, the DSM terminology is quoted
“ Most of sex is psychological—most of it is between our ears and not between
our legs.
—Joy Browne (1944–)
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often in this chapter, particularly in the context of the DSM categories of sexual dysfunction.
An alternative term to “sexual dysfunction” is sexual function dissatisfaction. Sexual dissatis- faction is a common outcome of a diffi culty in sexual functioning. In contrast to the broad med- ical focus of the DSM term, this term refl ects an individual perception. Th at is, a person or couple could experience some of the DSM dysfunctions yet be satisfi ed with their sex lives. Th e diffi culty in functioning might be considered a “dysfunc- tion” only when the two people are dissatisfi ed and decide they may have a problem. Th e “dis- satisfaction” concept is a fundamental tenet of the classifi cation system for women’s sexual problems of the Working Group for a New View of Wom- en’s Sexual Problems (2001). Th e system begins with a woman-centered defi nition of sexual func-
tion problems as “discontent or dissatisfaction with any emotional, physical, or relational aspects of sexual experience”—a defi nition that could also be applied to men. Furthermore, according to the World Health Organization’s (2010c) International Classifi cation of Diseases and Related Health Problems (ICD-10), “sexual dysfunction” includes “the various ways in which an individual is unable to participate in a sexual relationship as he or she would wish.” An advantage of the term “sexual function dissatisfaction” is that it acknowledges sexual scripts as individual and avoids an overarching defi ni- tion of what is “normal” versus what is dysfunctional (i.e., pathological). Adopting this subjective and personal view might help people be more com- fortable with their own sexuality and less likely to feel “sexually fl awed.” We favor the terms “sexual function diffi culties” and “sexual function dissatisfac- tion” and use them in this chapter whenever possible. However, in citing reports or research related to sexual diffi culties, we often utilize the terms used therein. Two alternate classifi cations of sexual function diffi culties and dissatisfaction, based on medical and feminist models, illustrate diff erent perspectives on the origins and causes of sexual problems: the DSM-IV-TR and the Working Group for a New View of Women’s Sexual Problems.
The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders Th e fourth edi- tion (text revision) of the American Psychiatric Association’s Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-IV-TR) (2000) labels sexual func- tion diffi culties as disorders and characterizes them according to the four phases of Masters and Johnson’s sexual response cycle. Th e DSM-IV-TR defi nes sexual dysfunctions as “disturbance in sexual desire and in the psychophysiological changes that characterize the sexual response cycle and cause marked distress and interpersonal diffi culty” (see Table 14.1). For any clinical diagnosis of sexual disorders, the term “persistent or recurrent” must also apply. Th e disor- ders could occur at one or more of the response cycle stages, meaning that a person could have more than one disorder, as often occurs. Th e DSM-IV-TR notes that other factors—such as age, psychological problems, sexual desires and expectations, ethnic and sociocultural background, the adequacy of sexual
Couples can experience sexual function diffi culties that may lead to dissatisfaction, as well as frustration, with their sex lives.
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stimulation during sexual encounters, and drug use—should be considered in making any diagnosis of sexual disorders. For each sexual dysfunction, the DSM-IV-TR has subtypes based on the onset of the dysfunction and the context in which it occurs. Lifelong dysfunctions are those present since the beginning of sexual functioning; acquired patterns develop only after a period of normal functioning. A generalized pattern of dysfunction is one that occurs in practically all sexual situations; a situational type of dysfunction is limited to certain types of situations, stimulation, or partners. In most instances, the dysfunction whether generalized or situational, occurs during sexual activity with a partner. Th e acquired and situational dys- functions typically are more successfully addressed in sex therapy. Although the DSM-IV-TR is the most widely used categorization of sexual disorders, it largely refl ects a psychiatric medical model and has been criticized.
TABLE 14.1 • Categories of Sexual Dysfunctions
SOURCE: Diagnostic and Statistical Manual for Mental Disorders, 4th ed. (DSM-IV), Washington, D.C.: American Psychiatric Association, 1994.
Desire Disorders
Normal asexuality: the individual who naturally has low levels of need for sexual gratifi cation (not necessarily a dysfunction)
Hypoactive sexual desire disorder (HSDD)
Sexual aversion disorder: caused by anxiety and phobias related to sexual activity
Arousal (Vasocongestive) Disorders
Problems in achieving a suitable level of sexual arousal
Male erectile disorder
Female sexual arousal disorder: lack of vaginal lubrication, general sexual dysfunction
Orgasmic (Reversed Vasocongestive) Disorders
Problems in triggering orgasm, creating an inordinate orgasmic delay or a complete inability to reach orgasm
Male orgasmic disorder
Female orgasmic disorder
Premature ejaculation: lack of ejaculatory control in men
Sexual Pain Disorders
Spasm of outer vaginal musculature in women: vaginismus
Dyspareunia
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It generally presents problems only in the heterosexual context and it focused on genital events in a linear sequence of desire, arousal, orgasm, and so on (Basson, Wierman, van Lankveld, & Brotto, 2010).
A New View of Women’s Sexual Problems In recent years, more attention has been directed to increasing our understanding of female sexual desire and function diffi culties (Basson et al., 2010; Wood, Koch, & Mansfi eld, 2006). Th e Working Group for a New View of Women’s Sexual Problems (2001), a group of clinicians and social scientists, off ers a new classifi cation system called “A New View of Women’s Sexual Problems.” Th is system classifi es women’s sexual function diffi culties based on women’s own needs and sexual realities. Th e Working Group contends that the DSM framework has shortcomings as applied to women, which include the following:
■ A false notion of sexual equivalency between men and women. Early researchers emphasized similarities in men’s and women’s physiological responses during sexual activities and concluded that their sexual problems must also be similar. Th e few studies that asked women to describe their own experiences found signifi cant diff erences.
■ Th e unacknowledged role of relationships in sexuality. Th e Working Group states that the DSM-IV-TR does not address the relational aspects of women’s sexuality, which are often fundamental to sexual function satisfaction and problems. It contends that the DSM-IV-TR reduction of “normal sexual functioning” to physiology implies, incorrectly, that sexual dissatisfaction can be treated without considering the relationship in which sex occurs.
■ Th e leveling of diff erences among women. Th e Working Group contends that women are dissimilar, and the varied components of their sexuality do not fi t neatly into the categories of desire, arousal, orgasm, or pain.
Th e Working Group suggests a women-centered defi nition of sexual function problems “as discontent or dissatisfaction with any emotional, physical, or relational aspect of sexual experience,” which may arise in one or more of four categories underlying the dissatisfaction.
■ Sociocultural, political, or economic factors. Th ese include inadequate sexuality education, lack of access to health services, a perceived inability to meet cultural norms regarding correct or ideal sexuality, inhibitions due to confl ict between the sexual norms of the subculture or culture of origin and those of the dominant culture, and a lack of interest, time, or energy due to family and work obligations.
■ Partner and relationship problems. Th ese include discrepancies in desire for sexual activity or in preferences for various sexual activities, inhibitions about communicating preferences, loss of interest due to confl icts over commonplace issues, and inhibitions due to a partner’s health status or sexual problems.
■ Psychological problems. Th ese include past abuse; problems with attachment, rejection, cooperation, or entitlement; fear of pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections (STIs); and loss of partner or good sexual reputation.
■ Medical factors. Th ese include numerous local or systemic medical conditions, pregnancy, STIs, and side eff ects of drugs, medications, and medical treat- ments, including surgery.
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Prevalence and Cofactors
National studies have been conducted on the prevalence of sexual function diffi culties and factors related to them. We will briefl y describe the major fi nd- ings of three such studies conducted in Britain, United States, and Denmark followed with a more detailed review of two major U.S. studies. Looking at the results of these studies will provide an overview of how common and uni- versal certain sexual function diffi culties are and factors related to the problems. Th e prevalence of sexual function diffi culties and their cofactors are generally in the same range from study to study. Diff erences in prevalence may refl ect varied study methodologies, such as how sexual function problems are defi ned or perceived by the respondent, and variations in the period of time assessed (e.g., the problem may have occurred in the past year, in the past month, or at the last sexual event), which may make it diffi cult to compare the data from one study to the other. Note that the following studies are cross-sectional, which means it is not possible to determine causality—some of the factors identifi ed in the studies (e.g., sociodemographic factors, equality of partnership) may have caused the sexual function problems, whereas other factors may be a consequence of sexual function problems. In 2000, a nationally representative survey, called the National Survey of Sexual Attitudes and Behaviors (the Natsal study), interviewed 11,161 British men and women aged 16–44 who reported at least one heterosexual partnership in the past year (Mercer et al., 2003, 2005). Th e study found that about one half of the women (54%) and about one third of the men (35%) reported experiencing any sexual function diffi culty for at least 1 month in the past year. Smaller proportions—16% of women and 6% of men—reported a sexual function prob- lem lasting at least 6 months in the past year. Th e Natsal researchers discovered that the reported sexual function problems were signifi cantly related to socio- demographic, health-related sexual behaviors and attitude factors. Th ey also noted that, in some cases, sexual function problems were not an individual’s problem but may have been partnership specifi c, which may indicate the value of consider- ing the partnership in any treatment of sexual function problems. In 1999 and 2000, Th e Kinsey Institute studied the prevalence of distress about sexuality and predictors of such distress among a national sample of women in a random telephone survey (Bancroft, Loftus, & Long, 2003). Th e sample included 835 women aged 20–65 who had been in a heterosexual relationship for at least 6 months. In the study, about 24% of the women reported experiencing “marked distress” because of their sexual relationship, their own sexuality, or both within the previous month. Th e report cautioned that treatment for “sexual dysfunction” should consider whether the diffi culty is the primary problem or a “reaction to circumstances.” Women with good mental health who felt close to their partners during sex were most likely to be sexually satisfi ed and less distressed. In Denmark in 2005, a study of sexual dysfunction and sexual diffi culties was conducted examining 4,415 Danes aged 16–95 years as part of the Danish Health and Morbidity Program (Christensen et al., 2011). Overall, 11% of both men and women reported at least one sexual dysfunction (a frequent sexual diffi culty that was perceived as a problem) in the past year, and another 68% of men and 69% of women reported infrequent or less severe sexual function diffi culties. Th e highest prevalence of sexual dysfunctions was in men above 60 years and women below 30 years or above 50. Further, economic hardship was associated with sexual dysfunctions, particularly among women.
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The National Health and Social Life Survey: Sexual Dysfunction Findings Th e National Health and Social Life Survey (NHSLS), using a U.S. national sample of 1,749 women and 1,410 men aged 18–59, found that self-reported sexual dysfunctions are widespread and are infl uenced by both health-related and psychosocial factors (Laumann, Paik, & Rosen, 1999). According to the NHSLS, sexual dysfunctions were more prevalent among women (43%) than men (31%) and were generally most common among young women and older men (Figure 14.1). Sexual dysfunctions are associated with poor quality of life, although females appear to be impacted by this factor more than males. Th ose who experienced emotional or stress-related problems had more diffi culties. Other important fi ndings by gender include the following:
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Females
■ Th e prevalence of sexual function problems for women tends to decrease with increasing age except for those who report trouble lubricating.
■ Women who have graduated from college are about half as likely to experience low sexual desire, diffi culties achieving orgasm, sexual pain, and sexual anxiety as women who have not graduated from high school. Overall, women with lower educational attainment report less pleasure with sex and greater levels of sexual anxiety.
■ Women with low sexual activity or interests are at higher risk for low sexual desire and arousal problems.
■ Rates of sexual problems are the same for women who report any same-sex activity and those who do not.
■ All types of sexual function diffi culties are correlated with levels of physical and emotional satisfaction and happiness.
Males
■ Th e prevalence of erection problems and lack of sexual desire increases with age for men.
■ Male college graduates are only two thirds as likely to report early orgasm and half as likely to report nonpleasurable sex and sexual anxiety as men who have not graduated from high school.
■ Men with poor health have an elevated risk for all types of sexual function diffi culties.
■ Low sexual activity or interest is not related to low sexual desire and arousal problems in men.
■ Men reporting any same-sex activity are more than 2 times as likely to experience early ejaculation and low sexual desire than men who do not report same-sex activity.
■ Men reporting erection diffi culties and low sexual desire experience dimin- ished quality of life, but those with early ejaculation are not aff ected.
The National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior Th e National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior (NSSHB)(see Chapter 2) assessed several measures of sexual functioning among a probability sample in the United States. Data from 3,900 adults aged 18–59 years who reported about their last partnered sexual event were analyzed. Participants were asked to evaluate that sexual event relative to pleasure, arousal, erection/lubrication diffi culty, and orgasm (Herbenick et al., 2010c). Th e degree to which the participants reported their experiences for each of the fi ve measures is shown in Figure 14.2. Th e NSSHB found that most men and women—even those in their 50s—evaluated the experience of their last sexual event as high on a scale measuring pleasure and arousal. For men, age was associated with greater erection diffi culties, greater pain during sexual activity, and less likelihood of experiencing orgasm. For women, older age was associated with more problems with lubrication and a greater likelihood of experiencing orgasm. Th e study also found that men with a relationship partner reported greater arousal, greater pleasure, more frequent orgasm, fewer problems with erectile function, and less pain during their last sexual event than those whose last sexual event was with a nonrelationship partner. For women, those whose last sexual event was with a relationship partner reported greater problems with
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• FIGURE 14.2 Percentage of Self- Reported Sexual Functioning at Most Recent Partnered Sexual Event Among U.S. Adults Aged 18–59, 2009. (Source: Adapted from Herbenick et al., 2010c).
arousal and lubrication yet greater likelihood of their partner experiencing orgasm than women whose last sexual event was with a nonrelationship partner.
Disorders of Sexual Desire
Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorder Th e persistent or recurrent defi ciency or lack of sexual fantasies and desire for sexual activity that causes marked distress or interpersonal diffi culty is called hypoactive sexual desire (HSD) in the DSM-IV-TR (2000). It is sometimes called inhibited sexual desire or “low sexual desire.” Th is disorder may encompass all types of sexual behavior or may be limited to one partner or to a specifi c problem such as arousal or orgasm diffi culties. In the NHSLS, about 3 in 10 women report a lack of interest in sex, although the number decreases slightly with age; fewer men (about 1 in 7)
“ Sexual desire is a fragile, mysterious appetite.
—Michael Castleman (1950–)
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report HSD disorder, with a very slight increase with age (see Figure 14.1). An online study also found that men reported more sexual desire than women. Persons in a same-sex relationship reported a slightly higher sexual desire than those in other-sex relationships (Holmberg & Blair, 2009). Th e number-one sexual function problem of American couples is inhibited sexual desire. (Discrepancies in sexual desire, discussed in the “Practically Speak- ing” box on page 448, is the second most common problem.) More than one half of married couples experience inhibited sexual desire or desire discrepancy at some time in their marriage. Inhibited sexual desire causes more stress in a marriage than any other sexual function problem (McCarthy & McCarthy, 2003). Defi ning low desire is tricky, often subjective, as there is no norm level for sexual desire, and based on an assumption that there is an optimal level of sexual desire (Hall, 2004). Certainly, sexually “normal” people vary consider- ably in their sexual fantasies and desires and occasionally experience a lack of desire. Low sexual desire is most often acquired; that is, the person felt sexual previously, but no longer experiences desire. Th e good news: It is often transi- tory. People with HSD disorder reluctantly participate in sex when it is initiated by a partner. Actually, a study of 63 persons aged 18–24 in a committed het- erosexual relationship found that 17% of all sexual activity was rated as compliant/ obliging with no diff erence between men and women being compliant (Vannier & O’Sullivan, 2010). Most often, HSD disorder develops in adulthood in association with psychological distress resulting from depression, stressful life events, or interpersonal diffi culties. Th e loss of desire, whether ongoing or situational, can negatively aff ect a relationship (American Psychiatric Associa- tion [APA], 2000). Anger within a relationship can also diminish sexual desire. Over time, if the anger is not resolved, it may develop into resentment or hatred that colors every aspect of the relationship. Most people cannot experience sexual desire for someone with whom they are angry or whom they deeply resent. Drugs, hormone defi ciency, and illness can also decrease desire. One should note that beyond any individual, situational, or relationship factors that can result in low sexual desire, sex desire declines for most people through time. A Finnish study of 2,650 adults found that feelings of sexual desire decreased as the individual aged (Figure 14.3) and as a relationship continued through the years (Figure 14.4) (Kontula, 2009; Kontula & Haavio- Mannila, 2009). Gay men and lesbian women may experience HSD disorder for a number of reasons, one of which could be that they are having diffi culty with their sexual orientation (Margolies, Becher, & Jackson-Brewer, 1988; Reece, 1988).
Sexual Aversion Disorder According to the DSM-IV-TR, persistent and recurrent aversion to and avoidance of genital contact with a partner that causes marked distress is called sexual aversion disorder. Th e possibility of sexual contact may cause anxiety, disgust, or fear in a person with this disorder, and some suff erers create covert strategies (e.g., traveling, sleeping, or being heavily involved with work) to avoid sex (APA, 2000). A mere kiss, touch, or caress may cause a phobic response out of fear that it might lead to something sexual. Sometimes, these responses are internalized; other times, they can lead to panic attacks and physiological responses such as sweating, nausea, vomiting, and diarrhea. For people with this disorder, the frequency of sexual contact with a partner is rare and can lead to severe relationship stress. Sexual aversion often results from severely negative parental attitudes during childhood; sexual
“ If you have a comfortable compatible love without sexual sparks, you don’t
have enough. If you have sexual heat but not friendship, you don’t have enough. Neither lust nor love by itself is enough. You have to have passion.
—Carol Cassell (1936–)
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practically speaking
How much sexual desire is “normal” and what can couples do when one partner has more—or less—desire than the other? Sex therapist and clinical psychologist David Schnarch (2002) observes:
Couples frequently argue about low desire, but their real issue is diff erence in desires. Neither partner’s desire need be particularly low or high. Disparity in sexual desire is couples’ most common sexual complaint.
For most long-term relationships, sexual passion subsides but not always at the same rate for each partner. Most sex therapists believe that diff erences arise because, for example, one or both partners may be fatigued, ill, under the infl uence of alcohol or other drugs, or consumed with the tasks of daily living. Or there may be problems with the sexual relationship of the couple, such as anger or imbalance of power between the partners. Clinical psychologist and sex therapist Sandra Pertot, in her book When Your Sex Drives Don’t Match (2007), presents another perspective on why couples experience variation in sexual desire. She contends that the sexual issues, including very common desire discrepancies, typically do not represent individual pathology or relationship problems, but, instead, refl ect the fact that there are diff erent sexual types, which she labels “libido types,” such as sensual, erotic, stressed, detached, and disinterested. Interestingly, she
states that “people are diff erent just because they are, not because there is anything wrong with them” and encourages an acceptance of diff erent libido types as one way to minimize misinterpreting each other’s sexuality. Michael Castleman (2004), an award-winning medical writer, notes in his book Great Sex: A Man’s Guide to the Secret Principles of Total-Body Sex that the partner who desires more sex often may experience an array of feelings, such as rejection, confusion, and anger, may feel unloved and unattractive, and may be labeled a “sex fi end.” The person who wants more sex may stop initiating sex just to see how long it will take his or her partner to ask for it; often this takes a long time, making the high-desire partner even more frustrated or angry. The partner with the lower desire may feel guilty, confused, and resentful of perceived constant demands for sex, and may believe that the other partner doesn’t love him or her, but just wants sex. Castleman notes that “as goodwill erodes, it becomes harder to ask about sex. Couples often slip into two modes: bickering and silence.” He continues by noting that both partners may have more power than they realize—the power to drive each other crazy. Another unfortunate outcome of persistent desire diff erences may be the decline in nonsexual aff ection: Holding hands, hugging, cuddling on the sofa, for example, often becomes more infrequent.
Sexual Desire: When Appetites Diff er
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• FIGURE 14.3 Percentage of Finnish Adults Who Indicated That They Feel Sexual Desire at Least a Few Times a Week. (Source: Kontula, Between Sexual Desire and Reality: The Evolution of Sex in Finland. 2009. Helsinki, Finland: Vaestoliitto.)
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Castleman notes that there is no magic formula for resolving sexual desire diff erences, but here are some suggestions he off ers for dealing with libido diff erences in couples:
■ Count your blessings. The higher desire partner may want sex more often than the lower desire partner. But at least the lower desire person wants sex sometimes. Isn’t some sex better than none? Because diff erences in sexual desire occur in most long- term relationships, adapting to the change is the key.
■ Don’t try to change your partner’s libido. In a couple with desire diff erences, each partner may hope that the other person will change and acquire a compatible level of desire. But it is dif- fi cult for a person to do that. Sexual desire can change, but this must come from within the person.
■ Consider your choices and negotiate. A couple having chronic diffi culties with sexual desire has three choices: (1) break up, (2) do nothing and live in misery, or (3) negotiate a mutually agreed compromise. Couples wanting to live comfortably with each other have no choice other than to compromise by being fl exible, showing good faith, and being willing to invest in the happiness of the relationship.
■ Schedule sex dates. Certainly there is some excitement when sex occurs spontaneously. But scheduling has an advantage of eliminating sexual uncertainty for couples facing major desire diff erences. Both partners know when sex will occur: The higher desire person then may not make as many sexual advances, and the lower desire person will not have to experience repeated requests.
■ Cultivate nonsexual aff ection. Once sex dates are sched- uled, nonsexual aff ection has less chance of being mis- construed as having sexual expectations. Being held and touched is one of the most important ways to nurture a relationship, and knowing that it has no sexual connota- tions may provide a great relief.
■ Savor your solution. Once a couple negotiates a mutual compromise, the relationship often improves and resentments slowly fade. The lower desire person may become more comfortable, which often improves that person’s responsiveness. There may still be some desire diff erences; the ability to compromise means that the couple has found a workable solution for their relationship.
Because fl uctuations in individual sexual desire are a normal part of life, as are diff erences in desire between partners, individuals may choose masturbation as an ac- ceptable and pleasurable outlet for sexual desire. As is true for all areas of sexual functioning, the important thing to remember, when sexual appetites diff er, is that communi- cating openly and honestly and appreciating what a person brings to the relationship pave the way to resolution and fulfi llment. Cultivating sexuality by planning for sex, using one’s imagination, learning to be playful, recognizing your partner’s mystery, and respecting his or her privacy can all increase desire. If given suffi cient attention, desire often returns (Perel, 2006; Pertot, 2007).
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trauma, such as rape or sexual abuse, especially in women; consistent sexual pressure from a long-term partner; a history of erectile diffi culties in men; and/ or gender identity confusion (Masters, Johnson, & Kolodny, 1992). Barry McCarthy and Emily McCarthy, in their book Rekindling Desire: A Step-by-Step Program to Help Low-Sex and No-Sex Marriages (2003), write about what they call “no-sex marriages,” the extreme of desire problems which they defi ne as having sex less than 10 times a year. Th ey state that couples in a no-sex marriage experience a cycle of anticipatory anxiety, negative experiences, and eventually, avoidance of sex—a cycle that they did not plan for in their marriage. According to the McCarthys, about 1 in 5 marriages is a no-sex marriage. Th e longer the couple avoids sexual contact, the more diffi cult it is to break the cycle and the more they blame each other. Further, the more shameful they feel, the harder it is to break the cycle. Th e McCarthys note, however, that motivated couples can reestablish desire through self-help and therapy. As with heterosexuals, gay men and lesbian women may enjoy certain activities, such as kissing or mutual masturbation, but feel aversion to other activities. For gay men, sexual aversion often focuses on issues of anal eroticism (Reece, 1988; Sandfort & de Keizer, 2001). For lesbian women, it may focus on cunnilingus (Nichols, 1987), which is often their preferred activity for reaching orgasm. Interestingly, the DSM-IV-TR does not include a “hyperactive sexual desire disorder,” implying that its authors, mental health professionals, do not believe that high sexual desire is a mental disorder. Th is is contrary to the view of the general public and some professionals who espouse the concept of sexual addic- tion (see Chapter 10). Sexual desire exists on a continuum, with some people having very low desire and others having very high desire. Most people seem to be somewhere in the middle, however.
Sexual Arousal Disorders
Female Sexual Arousal Disorder Th e persistent or recurring inability to attain or maintain the level of vaginal lubrication and swelling associated with sexual excitement, causing marked distress or interpersonal diffi culty, is called female sexual arousal disorder by the DSM-IV-TR. Th is disorder may be accompanied by sexual desire disorder and female orgasmic disorder. Th e term “frigid” was once used to describe this problem, but this pejorative and value- laden term is no longer used by professionals. Th is diffi culty can occur when a woman desires sex but has diffi culty maintaining arousal, resulting in vaginal dryness and tightness and subsequent discomfort if intercourse is attempted. Th irty-fi ve percent of women in the NSSHB reported at least some diffi culty with lubrication (see Figure 14.2), a problem shown to increase with age (see Figure 14.1). Female sexual arousal disorder is often accompanied by sexual desire and orgasm disorders, as well as sexual avoidance and stress in sexual relationships. If there are no physiological or substance use reasons for poor lubrication, this disorder is diagnosed as psychological in origin (APA, 2000). However, the lack of vaginal lubrication may be misleading, as some women reporting dryness indicate the presence of sexual excitement and arousal. Th ese women often use supplemental lubricants. Further, some women report their clitoris engorged and their vagina lubricated, but that they do not feel psycho- logically aroused. Given these experiences, many sex therapists believe that sexual arousal is much more of a psychological process in women than in men and that the DSM-IV-TR fails to account for this diff erence (Keesling, 2006).
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Male Erectile Disorder Th e persistent or recurring inability to attain or maintain an adequate erection until completion of sexual activity, causing marked distress or interpersonal diffi culty, is called male erectile disorder, or erectile dysfunction, by the DSM-IV-TR. At one time, this disorder was called “impotence,” but like “frigid,” this value-laden and pejorative term is no longer used. Th is was a very common male sexual diffi culty treated by therapists before the introduction of Viagra and other prescription erection-enhancing drugs. Sexual anxiety, fear of failure, high performance standards, concerns about sexual performance, and low sexual desire and excitement, as well as specifi c medical conditions and medications, are often associated with male erectile disorder (APA, 2000; Hall, Shackelton, Rosen, & Araujo, 2010). Eighteen percent of the men in the NSSHB reported at least some diffi culty with erections during their most recent partnered sexual event (see Figure 14.2). Th e prevalence of male erectile disorder increases with age, with more than twice as many men 50–59 reporting problems with erections as men 18–29 in the NHSLS (see Figure 14.1). However, it is important to note that, like female arousal disorders, male erectile disorders are not an inevitable consequence of aging. But the health problems that often accompany aging increase the disor- der’s prevalence. Th e prevalence of erectile diffi culty has been directly correlated with certain diseases, such as hypertension, diabetes mellitus, and heart disease; certain medications, such as cardiac drugs and antihypertensives; cigarette smoking in association with treated heart disease and treated hypertension; excessive alcohol consumption; suppression and expression of anger; obesity; and depression (Bancroft, 2009; Feldman et al., 1994; Nusbaum, 2002). Th e diagnosis of male erectile disorder is usually psychologically based. Men who have erections while sleeping or masturbating obviously are physically able to have erections, meaning that an erectile disorder during two-person sexual activity has a psychological origin. As with the other DSM-IV-TR sexual dys- functions, male erectile disorder is typically diagnosed only when the man or his partner is dissatisfi ed and distressed by the occurrence (Schwartz, 2000). Sex therapist and author Barbara Keesling (2006) gives some cautions relative to expectations of erections. She notes that men’s concept of an adequate erection varies considerably from person to person, and that a man does not necessarily have an erection problem if he doesn’t have refl ex or spontaneous erections from viewing a partner’s body, for example. Many men, even young men, always need direct stimulation to have an erection. Also, she says that “it’s probably also unre- alistic to expect that your erection will maintain the same level of rigidity through- out the course of a sexual encounter.” During any particular sexual encounter, a man’s erection can vacillate between several levels of rigidity depending on the amount of stimulation.
Persistent Sexual Arousal Syndrome A sexual function problem not included in the DSM-IV-TR but described in the professional literature is persistent sexual arousal syndrome (PSAS). Sex therapists Sandra Leiblum and Sharon Nathan note several cases of women reporting that their sexual arousal does not resolve in ordi- nary ways and continues for hours, days, or even weeks (Leiblum & Nathan, 2001). Sexual stimulation, masturbation, stress, and anxiety often trigger the symptoms (Leiblum, Brown, Wan, & Rawlinson, 2005). Th e therapists state that the women came to them for therapy because of distress about their symptoms, but they point out that other women may not fi nd the symptoms to be upsetting. To date, no obvious hormonal, vascular, neurological, or psychological causative factors have
“ Thou treacherous, base deserter of my fl ame,
False to my passion, fatal to my fame, Through what mistaken magic dost thou prove So true to lewdness, so untrue to love?
—John Wilmot, Earl of Rochester (1647–1680)
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been linked to PSAS. Th e number of women experiencing PSAS is unknown, because some women may be embarrassed to report it to their health-care provider or not be distressed by it. No reports of persistent sexual arousal syndrome occur- ring among men have been reported. Perhaps this absence of reports represents a bias that many men are highly sexual and any persistent sexual arousal is “normal” and certainly not a “syndrome.”
Orgasmic Disorders
Female Orgasmic Disorder According to the DSM-IV-TR, the persistent and recurrent absence of or delay in orgasm for women following normal sexual excitement is called female orgasmic disorder. It is the second most common sexual function diffi culty (after low sexual desire) treated by therapists (Keesling, 2006). Th is disorder has also been called anorgasmia, inorgasmia, pre-orgasmia, inhibited female orgasm, and the pejorative “frigidity.” Most female orgasmic disorders are lifelong rather than acquired problems; once a woman learns how to have an orgasm, it is uncommon for her to lose that capacity (APA, 2000).
think about it
In sexual encounters between men and women, is penile-vaginal intercourse suffi cient stimulation for orgasm to occur? As we know, men almost always have orgasms during sexual encounters with women, and that is not considered a sexual function problem unless the man experiences early or delayed ejaculation. However, women are less likely to have orgasms during sex with men, and that is viewed as disappointing to many women and their partners. Several personal and relationship factors, such as anxiety and shame about one’s sexuality and lack of trust of one’s partner, can keep women, or men, from experiencing orgasms. However, a more proxi- mal cause, such as the type of sexual stimulation received during a sexual encounter with a male partner, also plays an important role. Data from two national studies help answer the question of whether vaginal intercourse is enough or if other sexual behaviors are necessary for men and women to experience orgasm during partnered sex. The National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior (NSSHB) assessed via the Internet the sexual behaviors during the most recent partnered event of a probability sample of 3,990 U.S. adults aged 18–59 (Herbenick et al., 2010c). The NSSHB found that during the most recent sexual event:
■ Great diversity in behaviors occurred during a single sexual event, although 33% of the men and 39% of the women reported having engaged solely in penile-vaginal intercourse, the most commonly reported behavior.
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■ Men reported that they had an orgasm more frequently if the sexual event included penile-vaginal intercourse than if it did not.
■ Women reported that they were more likely to have had an or- gasm if they gave oral sex, received oral sex, had penile-vaginal sex, or received anal sex than if they had not.
■ Both men and women were more likely to experience orgasm if they engaged in a greater number of sexual behaviors.
The Australian Study of Health and Relationships, a national telephone study of a representative sample of 5,111 Austra- lians aged 15–59, also assessed behaviors during the partici- pant’s most recent sexual encounter (Richters, de Visser, Rissel, & Smith, 2006). For their last sexual encounter, 95% of the men and women reported having vaginal intercourse, about 8 in 10 reported manual stimulation of the woman by the man, about 7 in 10 reported manual stimulation of the man by the woman, about one quarter reported cunnilingus and fellatio, and less than 1 in 10 reported anal intercourse. Here is what else the researchers found:
■ At their last sexual encounter, 95% of men and 69% of women had an orgasm.
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Female orgasm is not universal; a slight minority never or rarely have them. Th e NSSHB found that 35% of women reported not having an orgasm at their most recent partnered sexual event (see Figure 14.2). No relationships were found between certain personality traits or psychopathology and orgasm among women in the NHSLS study (Laumann, Paik, & Rosen, 1994). Some women who enjoy sexual activity with partners have diffi culty expe- riencing orgasm with them, thereby sometimes causing dissatisfaction or dis- tress within the relationship. Many women with female orgasmic disorder have negative or guilty attitudes about their sexuality, as well as relationship diffi cul- ties. Inadequate sexual stimulation is also a factor in this disorder (APA, 2000). Keesling (2006) states that “the number-one reason why some women have diffi culty with orgasm is lack of experience with self-touch.” As described in the box “Is Intercourse Enough? Th e Big ‘O’ and Sexual Behaviors,” studies have found that women were more likely to experience orgasm during part- nered sex that included a wider variety of sexual behaviors than intercourse. Some women have wondered “Why all this fuss about having orgasm dur- ing sex?” and have questioned whether women need to have orgasms during
■ Almost all men (95%) experienced orgasm in encounters that included vaginal intercourse, whereas orgasm for women was less likely (50%) among those who reported only having vaginal intercourse.
■ For women, the rate of orgasm (about 70%) was higher among those reporting intercourse plus receiving manual stimulation or intercourse plus cunnilingus, although orgasm did not necessarily occur during these practices; orgasm was even more likely for those who had intercourse and had received both manual and oral stimulation.
The researchers for the Australian study cautioned that we should not assume that everyone having a sexual encounter wants to experience an orgasm; that is, they do not need to have an orgasm to be physically and emotionally satisfi ed with sex. They note that one possible reason for the lower orgasm rate for women is that on occasion a woman may have an intercourse-only encounter (a “quickie” or “freebie”) with their male partner to oblige the man. Further, some of the no-intercourse episodes reported by the participants may have been the man obliging the woman; that is, the man might have provided manual and oral stimulation of the woman although he was not interested in experiencing orgasm him- self. The National Health and Social Life Survey found that only 29% of females reported always having had an orgasm with their partner during the preceding year, yet 41% said that they were “extremely physically satisfi ed” by sex and 39% reported “extreme emotional satisfaction” (Laumann, Gagnon, Michael, & Michaels, 1994). Possibly, tenderness, intimacy, and
Think Critically 1. For most persons of your age, how important is expe-
riencing orgasm during a sexual encounter? 2. Are persons of your age interested in providing sexual
stimulation other than intercourse to their partners, and are most persons comfortable and willing to request these behaviors?
3. Can a person experience physical satisfaction and not experience an orgasm during sex? Do women and men feel the same way about this?
4. Is emotional satisfaction more a matter of expressing tender feelings than experiencing an orgasm? Explain your answer.
5. Is orgasm sometimes perceived to be more satisfying than penetrative sex?
aff ection were more important determinants of gratifi cation than having an orgasm.
SOURCES: Herbenick, D., Reece, M., Schick, V., Sanders, S. A., Dodge, B., & Fortenberry, J. D. (2010). An event-level analysis of the sexual characteristics and composition among adults ages 18 to 59: Results from a national probability sample in the United States. Journal of Sexual Medicine, 7, 346–361; Richters, J., de Visser, R., Rissel, C., & Smith, A. (2006). Sexual practices at last heterosexual encounter and occurrence of orgasm in a national survey. Journal of Sex Research, 43, 217–226.
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partner sex to feel sexually satisfi ed. As described in the box on the page 452, many women surveyed for the NHSLS reported that they do not need to have an orgasm to be physically and emotionally satisfi ed with sex.
Male Orgasmic Disorder Th e DSM-IV-TR defi nes male orgasmic disorder as the persistent or recurrent delay in or absence of orgasm (following a normal sexual excitement phase of Masters and Johnson’s sexual response cycle; see Chapter 3) that causes marked distress or interpersonal diffi culty. Because ejac- ulation and orgasm are two separate events (see Chapter 4), the delay or absence of ejaculation is a more accurate description of the disorder; that is, these men may have an orgasm (the full-body response) but either do not have the geni- tal response of ejaculation or have a delayed response. A component of this disorder is inhibited ejaculation, in which the man is unable to ejaculate no matter how long stimulation is maintained. In delayed ejaculation, the man is not able to ejaculate easily; it may take 40 minutes or more of concentrated thrusting before ejaculation occurs. In the most common form of male orgasm disorder, the man cannot ejacu- late during intercourse but can ejaculate from a partner’s manual or oral stim- ulation. To be considered a disorder, the lack of ejaculation cannot be caused by substance abuse or illness (APA, 2000). Anxiety-provoking sexual situations can interfere with a man’s ejaculatory refl ex, or he may not be able to have an orgasm in situations in which he feels guilty or confl icted. Often, the man can overcome this disorder when the situation or partner changes or when he engages in a fantasy or receives additional stimulation.
Premature Ejaculation Th e persistent and recurrent ejaculation with minimal sexual stimulation, before or shortly after penetration, that causes marked distress or interpersonal diffi culty is called premature ejaculation by the DSM-IV-TR. Th is disorder is fairly common, with about 3 out of every 10 men in the NHSLS reporting it (see Figure 14.1). Some professionals use the term “early ejaculation” or “rapid ejaculation,” believing it is less pejorative than “premature ejaculation,” whereas others use “involuntary ejaculation” (see below). Couples often are confused, bewildered, and unhappy when the man con- sistently ejaculates too early, although the woman often seems to be more disturbed by the disorder than the man is. Th e woman may be sexually dis- satisfi ed, while her partner may feel that she is too demanding. He may also feel considerable guilt and anxiety. Th ey may begin to avoid sexual contact with each other. Th e man may experience erectile problems because of his anxieties over early ejaculation, and he may withdraw from sexual activity completely. Other factors may contribute to early or involuntary ejaculation in men, such as inexperience in negotiating with a sex partner, inadequate understanding of sexual response in both women and men, unwittingly training themselves to ejaculate quickly during masturbation, inability to relax deeply during sexual intercourse, nonsensual lovemaking, and a narrow focus on the penis and a partner’s genitals during sex (Castleman, 2004). Most men with early or involuntary ejaculation can delay ejaculation during self-masturbation for a longer period of time than during coitus. With sexual experience and aging, many males learn to delay ejaculation, but others con- tinue to ejaculate early and may seek professional help (APA, 2000). Th is disorder often occurs in young and sexually inexperienced males, especially those who have primarily been in situations in which speed of ejaculation was
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important so as for example, to avoid being discovered. It is the number-one sexual function complaint of young men. As with many sexual diffi culties, there is a problem with defi nitions: What is premature ejaculation? Some sex therapists have defi ned it according to how long intercourse lasts, how many pelvic thrusts there are, and how often the woman achieves orgasm. Th erapist Helen Singer Kaplan (1974) suggested that the absence of voluntary control at orgasm is the key to defi ning premature ejaculation. Some sex therapists suggest that the term “involuntary ejaculation” is the more accurate term, given that the treatment focuses on acquiring vol- untary control over something that has been involuntary (Castleman, 2004). Early ejaculation is a problem when the man or his partner is dissatisfi ed by the amount of time it takes him to ejaculate. Some couples want intercourse to last a long time, but others are not concerned about that. Interestingly, the DSM-IV-TR does not have a premature or rapid orgasm category for women. Some women do have orgasms very quickly and may not be interested in continuing sexual activity; others, however, are open to con- tinued stimulation and may have repeated orgasms.
Sexual Pain Disorders
Vaginismus According to the DSM-IV-TR, the persistent or recurrent invol- untary spasm of the muscles of the outer third of the vagina (pubococcygeus) that interferes with sexual intercourse and causes marked distress or interper- sonal diffi culties is called vaginismus. In vaginismus, the muscles around the vaginal opening go into involuntary spasmodic contractions, preventing the insertion of the penis, fi nger, tampon, or speculum. Vaginismus occurs in some women during sexual activity or during a pelvic examination; it is found more often in younger than older women (APA, 2000). In rare cases, the vaginal entrance becomes so tight that the penis or another object cannot penetrate it (Leiblum & Nathan, 2001). Vaginismus may occur in conjunction with other sexual function diffi culties, such as hyposexual disorder or dyspa- reunia, or sexual function diffi culties in the partner such as problems with erections or ejaculation.
Dyspareunia Persistent or recurrent genital pain, ranging from mild to severe, that is associated with intercourse and that causes marked distress or interpersonal diffi culty is called dyspareunia by the DSM-IV-TR. A key to the DSM-IV-TR defi nition is that the pain must be persistent or recurrent. Occasional genital pain that is experienced during sex and is temporary is not part of this defi nition. Th is disorder can occur in both men and women. In the NSSHB, for example, 30% of the women and 6% of the men reported at least some pain during their most recent partnered sexual event (see Figure 14.2). Many women experience occasional pain during intercourse, but persistent dyspareunia may indicate diffi culties that need to be addressed. When the pain occurs exclusively as a result of a medical or physiological condition, such as an STI, acute infections in the pelvic area, or menopause, the per- son has, not dyspareunia, but “sexual dysfunction due to a general medical condition” or “substance-induced sexual dysfunction” (APA, 2000). Th is disturbance is not caused exclusively by vaginismus or lack of lubrication. Th e diagnosis of dyspareunia usually has a strong psychological component (McCabe et al., 2010).
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A type of pain associated with sex that is not included in the DSM-IV-TR is anodyspareunia, pain occurring during anal intercourse. Gay men sometimes experience this, often due to lack of adequate lubrication. Th e depth of penile penetration into the anus, the rate of thrusting, and anxiety or embarrassment about the situation often are associated with anodyspareunia (Rosser, Short, Th urmes, & Coleman, 1998). A study of 404 men who have sex with men found that 55 (14%) experienced anodyspareunia; these men reported their pain as lifelong, experienced psychological distress as a result, and avoided anal sex for periods of time (Damon & Rosser, 2005).
Other Disorders
Two other disorders not mentioned in the DSM-IV-TR because they are based on physical conditions are Peyronie’s disease and priapism. Th ese conditions can also cause other diffi culties in sexual functioning.
Peyronie’s Disease A condition in which calcium deposits and tough fi brous tissue develop in the corpora cavernosa within the penis is known as Peyronie’s disease. Th is problem occurs primarily in older men (usually for no apparent reason) and can be quite painful. Th e disease results in a curvature of the penis that, in severe cases, interferes with erection and intercourse (Wilson & Delk, 1994). Medical treatments can alleviate the source of discomfort, and sometimes the condition disappears without treatment. A study involving 4,432 men in Germany found the prevalence of Peyronie’s disease was 3.2% (Schwarzer et al., 2010). (For the record, rarely are penises perfectly straight; most curve to one side or the other.)
Priapism Prolonged and painful erection, occurring when blood is unable to drain from the penis, is called priapism. Lasting from several hours to a few days, this problem is not associated with sexual thoughts or activities. Rather, it results from certain medications, including some antidepressants, erection medications, and excessive doses of penile injections for producing an erection.
Discussing sexuality and becoming educated about one’s sexual functioning with a qualifi ed health-care professional can sometimes help resolve questions, issues, or problems.
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Medical conditions such as sickle-cell disease and leukemia may also cause priapism (“What Is Priapism?,” 1997).
• Physical Causes of Sexual Function Diffi culties and Dissatisfaction Until recently, researchers believed that most sexual function problems were almost exclusively psychological in origin. Current research challenges this view as more is learned about the intricacies of sexual physiology, such as the subtle infl uences of hormones. Our vascular, neurological, and endocrine systems are sensitive to changes and disruptions. As a result, various illnesses or disturbances to these systems may have an adverse eff ect on our sexual functioning (Nusbaum, Hamilton, & Lenahan, 2003). Some prescription drugs, such as medication for hypertension or for depression, may aff ect sexual responsiveness. Chemotherapy and radiation treatment for cancer, and pain from cancer, aff ect sexual desire and responsiveness (American Cancer Society, 2010k).
Physical Causes in Men
Diabetes and alcoholism are leading causes of male erectile diffi culties; together, they account for several million cases. Diabetes damages blood vessels and nerves, including those within the penis. Other causes of sexual function diffi culties include lumbar disc disease and multiple sclerosis, which interfere with the nerve impulses regulating erection. In addition, atherosclerosis causes blockage of the arteries, including the blood fl ow necessary for erection. Spinal cord injuries and prostate-cancer treatment may aff ect erectile abilities as well. Alcoholism and drug use are widely associated with sexual diffi culties. Smoking may also contribute to erection diffi culties (Gades et al., 2005). One study found that men who are heavy smokers are 50% more likely to experience erectile problems than non- smokers (National Center for Environmental Health, 1995). Bicycle-induced sexual diffi culties can occur as a result of a fl attening of the main penile artery, thereby temporarily blocking the blood fl ow required for erections. Diseases of the heart and circulatory system may be associated with erectile diffi culty. A four- country study of 2,400 men found that “erectile dysfunction was associated with diabetes, heart disease, lower urinary tract symptoms, heavy smoking and depres- sion and increased by 10 percent per year of age” (Nicolosi, Moreiba, Shirai, Bin Mohd Tambi, & Glasser, 2003).
Physical Causes in Women
Organic causes of female orgasmic disorder include medical conditions such as diabetes and heart disease, hormone defi ciencies, and neurological disorders, as well as general poor health, extreme fatigue, drug use, and alcoholism. Spinal cord injuries may aff ect sexual responsiveness. Multiple sclerosis can decrease vaginal lubrication and sexual response. Dyspareunia may result from an obstructed or thickened hymen, clitoral adhe- sions, infections, painful scars, a constrictive clitoral hood, vulvodynia (see Chap- ter 13), or a weak pubococcygeus (pew-bo-kawk-SEE-gee-us), or P.C., the pelvic fl oor muscle surrounding the urethra and the vagina. Antihistamines used to treat colds and allergies can reduce vaginal lubrication, as can marijuana. Endometrio- sis and ovarian and uterine tumors and cysts may aff ect a woman’s sexual response.
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Th e skin covering the clitoris can become infected. Women who masturbate too vigorously can irritate their clitoris, making intercourse painful. A partner can also stimulate a woman too roughly, causing soreness in the vagina, urethra, or clitoral area. And unclean hands may cause a vaginal or urinary tract infection.
• Psychological Causes of Sexual Function Diffi culties and Dissatisfaction Sexual function diffi culties may have their origin in any number of psychological causes. Some diffi culties originate from immediate causes, others from confl ict within the self, and still others from a particular sexual relationship.
Immediate Causes
Th e immediate causes of sexual function diffi culties include fatigue, stress, inef- fective sexual behavior, and sexual anxieties.
Fatigue and Stress Many diffi culties have fairly simple causes. Individuals may fi nd themselves physically exhausted from the demands of daily life. Th ey may bring their fatigue into the bedroom in the form of sexual apathy or disinterest. “I’m too tired to make love tonight” can be a truthful description of a person’s feelings. What these couples may need is not therapy or counsel- ing but temporary relief from their daily routines. Long-term stress can also contribute to lowered sexual drive and reduced responsiveness. A person preoccupied with making fi nancial ends meet, raising children, or coping with prolonged illness, for example, can temporarily lose sexual desire.
Ineff ective Sexual Behavior Ignorance, ineff ective sexual communication, and misinformation prevent partners from being eff ectively sexual with each other (see Chapter 8). Ineff ective sexual stimulation is especially relevant in explaining
The demands of work and child rearing may create fatigue and stress, which can create sexual apathy for one or both partners.
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why some women do not experience orgasm in sexual interactions, as discussed earlier and in the box “Is Intercourse Enough? Th e Big ‘O’ and Sexual Behaviors.” Some gay men and lesbian women have not learned eff ective sexual stimula- tion behaviors because they are inexperienced. Th ey may have grown up without easily accessible sexual information or positive role models.
Sexual Anxieties A number of anxieties, such as performance anxiety, can lead to sexual function diffi culties and dissatisfaction (Bancroft, 2009). If a man fails to experience an erection or a woman is not orgasmic, he or she may feel anxious and fearful. And the anxiety may block the very response desired. Performance anxieties may give rise to spectatoring, in which a person becomes a spectator of her or his own sexual performance (Masters & Johnson, 1970). When people become spectators of their sexual activities, they critically evaluate and judge whether they are “performing” well or whether they are doing everything “right.” Kaplan and Horwith (1983) suggest that spectatoring is involved in most orgasmic diffi culties. Performance anxiety may be even more widespread among gay men (Sandfort & de Keizer, 2001). Sex researcher Rex Reece (1988) writes: “Many gay men move in a social, sexual milieu where sexual arousal is expected immediately or soon after meeting someone. If response is not rapidly forthcoming, rejection is very likely.”
Excessive Need to Please a Partner Another source of anxiety is an excessive need to please a partner. A man who feels this need, sometimes labeled as trying to be the “delivery boy,” may want a speedy erection to please (or impress) his partner (Castleman, 2004). He may feel that he must “give her orgasms” through his expert lovemaking or always delay his orgasm until after his partner’s. A woman who experiences this anxiety may want to have an orgasm quickly to please her partner. She may worry that she is not suffi ciently attractive to her partner or that she is sexually inadequate. One result of the need to please is that men and women may pretend to have orgasms. (Meg Ryan famously demonstrated faking an orgasm in a deli in the fi lm When Harry Met Sally.) Women fake orgasm most often to avoid disap- pointing their partner or hurting his feelings and, according to sex therapist Kathryn Hall (2004), “are buying into the myth that men are really concerned only with satisfying their own ego.” Both men and women also fake orgasm to present a false image of their sexual performance. Unfortunately, faking orgasm miscommunicates to the partner that a person is equally satisfi ed. Because the orgasmic problem is not addressed, negative emotions may simmer. Th e wisest decision is never to pretend to experience feelings, interests, or pleasures that do not happen (Hall, 2004). (For a discussion on pretending orgasms among college students see the box “Th e Role of Orgasm” in Chapter 3.)
Confl ict Within the Self
Negative parental attitudes toward sex are frequently associated with subsequent sexual function diffi culties. Much of the process of growing up is a casting off of the sexual guilt and negativity instilled in childhood. Some people fear becoming emotionally intimate with another person. Th ey may enjoy the sex but fear the accompanying feelings of vulnerability and so withdraw from the sexual relationship before they become emotionally close to their partner (Hyde
“ In the 1990s a feminist joke asked, “Why do women fake orgasm?” and
answered “Because men fake foreplay.” In the masculinist version, the question was “Why do women fake orgasm?” and the answer, “Because they think men care.”
—Angus McLaren
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& DeLamater, 2011). And among gay men, lesbian women, and bisexual indi- viduals, internalized homophobia—self-hatred because of one’s homosexuality— is a major source of confl ict that can be traced to a number of factors including conservative religious upbringing (Frost and Meyer, 2009). Sources of severe sexual function diffi culties include childhood sexual abuse, adult sexual assault, and rape. Guilt and confl ict do not usually eliminate a person’s sex drive; rather, they inhibit the drive and alienate the individual from his or her sexuality. He or she may come to see sexuality as something bad or “dirty,” rather than something to happily affi rm. Th erapists Robert Firestone, Lisa Firestone, and Joyce Catlett (2006) provide an alternative perspective on the decline of sexual passion in long-term relation- ships and marriage. Th ey believe that the decline cannot be attributed to the usual given reasons such as familiarity, gender diff erences, economic hardships, and other stressors, but rather to changes in the relationship dynamics, emergence of painful feelings from childhood, and fears of rejection that cause partners to retreat to a more defended posture. Many men and women have diffi culty in maintaining sexually satisfying relationships “because in their earlier relationships, hurt and frustration caused them to turn away from love and closeness and to become suspicious and self-protective.” In advising couples in longer-term rela- tionships, the therapists note:
To sustain a loving sexual relationship, individuals must be willing to face the threats to the defense system that loving another person and being loved for oneself evoke. To be able to accept genuine aff ection, tenderness, love, and fulfi lling sexual experiences as part of an ongoing relationship, they must be willing to challenge their negative voices, modify the image of themselves formed in the family, and give up well-entrenched defenses, which would cause them a great deal of anxiety.
Relationship Causes
Sexual function diffi culties do not exist in a vacuum, but usually within the context of a relationship. All couples at some point experience diffi culties in their sexual relationship. Sex therapist David Schnarch (2002) writes that “sexual problems are common among healthy couples who are normal in every other way—so common, in fact, that they are arguably a sign of normality.” Most frequently, married couples go into therapy because they have a greater investment in the relationship than couples who are dating or cohabiting. Sexual function diffi culties in a dating or cohabiting relationship often do not surface; it is sometimes easier for couples to break up than to change the behaviors that contribute to their sexual function problems. Sex therapist Esther Perel, in her book Mating in Captivity (2006), presents a provocative view of desire diffi culties in marriage, one that is counter to often- held perspectives among sex therapists. She contends that eroticism thrives on the unpredictable and that increased intimacy often leads to a decrease in sexual desire. Perel states that love is fed by knowing everything about one’s partner while desire needs mystery, and that love wants to shrink the distance between the two people while desire is energized by it. She continues by declaring that “as an expression of longing, desire requires elusiveness.” Perel contends that couples may be more successful in maintaining and cultivating sexual desire by enriching their separate lives instead of always striving for closeness. Th e challenge for many couples is balancing separateness with togetherness as both are impor- tant components of a loving relationship.
Pleasure is the object, duty, and the goal of all rational creatures.
—Voltaire (1694–1770)
“
As with singers in a harmony, a harmonious sex life is not necessarily
one in which you are both wanting and doing exactly the same things in the same way, but one that is characterized by blending the strengths that you each have to create an agreeable and pleasant sex life.
—Sandra Pertot (1950–)
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If sexual function problems are left unresolved, disappointment, rage, anger, resentment, power confl icts, and hostility often become a permanent part of couple interaction.
• Sexual Function Enhancement Improving the quality of a sexual relationship is referred to as sexual function enhancement. Th ere are several sexual function–enhancement programs for people who function well sexually but who nevertheless want to improve the quality of their sexual interactions and relationships. Th e programs generally seek to provide accurate information about sexuality, develop communication skills, foster positive attitudes, provide sexual homework for practicing tech- niques discussed in therapy, and increase self-awareness (Castleman, 2004).
Developing Self-Awareness
Being aware of our own sexual needs is often critical to enhancing our sexual functioning.
What Is Good Sex? Sexual stereotypes present us with images of how we are supposed to behave sexually. Images of the “sexually in charge” man and the “sexual but not too sexual” woman may interfere with our ability to express our own sexual feelings, needs, and desires. We follow the scripts and stereo- types we have been socialized to accept, rather than our own unique responses. Following these cultural images may impede our ability to have what therapist Carol Ellison calls “good sex.” In an essay about intimacy-based sex therapy, Ellison (1985) writes that we will know we are having good sex if we feel good about ourselves, our partners, our relationships, and our sexual behaviors. Further, we will feel good about sex before, during, and after being sexual with our partners (Hall, 2004). Good sex does not neces- sarily include orgasm or intercourse. It can be kissing, cuddling, masturbating, performing oral or anal sex, and so on. With an emphasis on and even a frequent expectation for good sex, one might ask if there is a cost to this approach to couple sex. See the “Th ink About It” box on page 462 for the presentation of an alternative model to good or “perfect” partnered sex.
Discovering Your Conditions for Good Sex Zilbergeld (1999) has suggested that to fully enjoy our sexuality we need to explore our “condi- tions for good sex.” Th ere is nothing unusual about requiring conditions for any activity. Of conditions for good sex, Zilbergeld (1999) writes:
In a sexual situation, a condition is anything that makes you more relaxed, more comfortable, more confi dent, more excited, more open to your experience. Put diff erently, a condition is
Good sex involves the ability to communicate well nonverbally— through laughter and positive body language and facial expressions—as well as verbally.
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something that clears your nervous system of unnecessary clutter, leaving it open to receive and transmit sexual messages in ways that will result in a good time for you.
Each individual has his or her own unique conditions for good sex. Th is might include factors such as feeling intimate and emotionally close with one’s partner, feeling trust toward one’s partner, being physically and mentally
“ When our innermost desires are revealed and are met by our loved one
with acceptance and validation, the shame dissolves.
—Esther Perel (1958–)
think about it
Sex provides a buffet of experiences: at times, sex is enthusiastic, cheerful, erotic, gratifying and at other times uninspiring.
—Metz and McCarthy (2011, p. 7)
Renowned sex therapists and authors Michael Metz and Barry McCarthy, in their book Enduring Desire: Your Guide to Lifetime Intimacy (2011), challenge the current cultural models of “perfect sex” and “perfect intercourse” with an alternative concept for long-term, committed couples, the “Good Enough Sex” (GES) model. They contend that prevailing beliefs that sex should always be perfect are toxic and can lead to disappointment and disillusionment. Unrealistic expectations about sex precipitate a sense of failure as “great sex” in committed relationships, particu- larly, is uneven and variable. Metz and McCarthy state that the GES model with its physical, psychological, and interpersonal dimensions is not a cop-out that leads to mediocre, boring, or mechanical sex, but rather a “roadmap to a lifetime of terrifi c, meaningful sex, a guide to help you feel sexually satisfi ed, not in a fantasy world but in real life.” They note that research suggests that regular, variable, and fl exible couple sex that is fully integrated into real life is the best couple sex. The GES model does not lead to disappointing compromise or feelings of “selling out” but rather to feelings of relief, affi rmation, and inspiration; it seeks realistically great sex grounded on a realistic appreciation that variations in couple sex over time are both healthy and necessary. The GES approach works best when one develops realistic, fl exible, accurate, and positive beliefs about GES’s three dimen- sions, what great sex is and is not, and what sex can be for one’s self. GES partners embrace concepts such as:
■ Sexual satisfaction varies from one experience to the next. ■ Achieving high-quality sex is a lifelong process. ■ Sexual function diffi culties are opportunities for increased
cooperation and intimacy.
■ Satisfi ed couples cooperate as an intimate team. ■ Quality sex is fl exible: you adapt to the inevitable variability
and diffi culties.
“Good Enough Sex”: The Way to Lifetime Couple Satisfaction
■ Sex fi ts real life, and real life should be brought into the sexual relationship.
■ The best sex involves being intimate and erotic partners. ■ Quality sex is cooperative relationship sex.
There are numerous benefi ts of “Good Enough Sex.” One feels self-assured and proud of being a sexual person knowing that positive, realistic expectations decrease embarrassment and shame about one’s body and sexuality. A person will view sex as a normal, real, and positive part of an honest and genuine life. One adopts beliefs that sex is “decent” and wild and that passionate couple sex is “good.” One accepts that sex is variable and creates fl exible ways to integrate variability into the couple’s life situation to enhance mutual pleasure. Partners form an intimate team to discover the meanings of sexuality and to balance eroticism and intimacy. Metz and McCarthy state that “no longer bound by shame, no longer having to be diff erent than who you are, no longer anxiously fearing failure, and no longer pursuing perfection, you feel self assured, confi dent, and content.”
Think Critically 1. In what ways does society stress “perfect sex”? 2. Do you think by adopting the “Good Enough Sex”
approach one would be settling for mediocre and boring sex?
3. Is the “Good Enough Sex” approach realistic for college- age students? Why or why not?
4. If you have been in a sexual relationship, have you experienced “great sex” and “uninspiring sex”? If so, how did you deal with that? Is the “Good Enough Sex” approach a good way to deal with the variability of sex?
SOURCE: Metz, M. E., & McCarthy, B. W. (2011). Enduring desire: Your guide to lifelong intimacy. New York: Routledge.
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alert, and embracing one’s own sexual desire and eroticism (Ogden, 2008; Zilbergeld, 1999). If you are or have been sexually active, to discover your conditions for good sex, think about the last few times you were sexual and were highly aroused. Th en compare those times with other times when you were much less aroused (Zilbergeld, 1999). Identify the needs that underlie these factors and communicate these needs to your partner.
think about it
What turns college men and women on and off sexually? Are there gender diff erences and similarities? Sex researcher Robin R. Milhausen conducted an online study of 822 hetero- sexual students (440 women and 382 men) aged 18–37 from Indiana University who were randomly selected to participate. She contends that a greater understanding of factors that turn on and turn off men and women can be valuable in increasing sexual well-being and improving sexual relationships. Here are the study’s major fi ndings.
Some Important Factors Men and Women Agreed On
Factors that enhance sexual arousal for both men and women:
■ A good sense of humor, self-confi dence, and intelligence ■ Feeling desired as a partner ■ Spontaneous and varied sex (e.g., not the same activities
every time, having sex in a diff erent setting)
■ Fantasizing about and anticipating a sexual encounter ■ Doing something fun together
Turn-off s for both men and women:
■ A lack of balance in giving and receiving during sex ■ A partner who is self-conscious about his or her body ■ Worrying about getting a bad sexual reputation ■ Worrying about STIs ■ Using condoms
Some Important Factors Men and Women Disagreed On
■ Women were more concerned about their sexual functioning (e.g., being a good lover, worrying about taking too long to become aroused, feeling shy or self-conscious).
■ Being in a relationship characterized by trust and emotional safety was considered more important to sexual arousal for women than for men.
Sexual Turn-Ons and Turn-Off s: What College Students Report
■ More women than men indicated that “feeling used” was a big turn-off .
■ Men more often considered a variety of sexual stimuli (e.g., thinking about someone they fi nd sexually attractive, “talking dirty,” thinking and talking about sex, being physically close to a partner) as enhancers to sexual arousal.
■ Women more often considered partner characteristics and behaviors (e.g., partner showing talent, interacting well with others, doing chores) as enhancers to sexual arousal.
■ Women more often considered elements of the sexual setting (e.g., a setting where they might be seen or heard while having sex) as inhibitors to sexual arousal.
■ Women were more aware of the role of hormones in sexual arousal.
■ Women more often considered elements of the sexual inter- action (e.g., partner not sensitive to the signals being given and received during sex, being uncertain how her partner feels) as inhibitors of sexual arousal.
■ More men than women disagreed that “going right to the genitals” during sex would be a turn-off during sex.
Think Critically 1. Were you surprised by any of the fi ndings? Which one
and why? 2. Are some of the results similar to what you would con-
sider sexual turn-ons and turn-off s? 3. Have you learned anything from this study that you
might use in your future sexual encounters? 4. Do you think the results would be similar for gay and
lesbian couples?
SOURCES: Milhausen, R. R. (2004). Factors that inhibit and enhance sexual arousal in college men and women. Doctoral dissertation. Indiana University, Bloomington, IN; Milhausen, R. R., Yarber, W., Sanders, S., & Graham, C. (2004, November). Factors that inhibit and enhance sexual arousal in college men and women. Paper presented at the annual meeting of the Society for the Scientifi c Study of Sexuality, Orlando, FL.
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Doing Homework Exercises Sexual function–enhancement programs often specify exercises for couples to undertake in private. Such “homework” exercises require individuals to make a time commitment to themselves or their partner. Typical assignments include the following exercises.
■ Mirror examination. Use a full-length mirror to examine your nude body. Use a hand mirror to view your genitals. Look at all your features in an uncritical manner; view yourself with acceptance.
■ Body relaxation and exploration. Take 30–60 minutes to fully relax. Begin with a leisurely shower or bath; then, remaining nude, fi nd a comfortable place to touch and explore your body and genitals.
■ Masturbation. In a relaxed situation, with body oils or lotions to enhance your sensations, explore ways of touching your body and genitals that bring you pleasure. Do this exercise for several sessions without having an orgasm; experiencing erotic pleasure without orgasm is the goal. If you are about to have an orgasm, decrease stimulation. After several sessions without having an orgasm, continue pleasuring yourself until you have an orgasm.
■ Sexual voice. Each person has his or her own erotic “sexual voice” that is enhanced by discovering, nurturing, and integrating into the couple’s sex- ual style. Traditionally, many women have been dependent on the male partner’s eroticism and his sexual lead; the woman was not supposed to have her own erotic voice (McCarthy & McCarthy, 2009). Women who develop their own sexual voice open themselves up to a more satisfying and rewarding sexual experience with a partner.
■ Kegel exercises for women and men. Originally developed to help women with controlling urination, Kegel (KAY-gul) exercises involve exercising a muscle in the pelvic fl oor called the pubococcygeus (or P.C.) muscle. Because the P.C. muscle also encircles the outside of the vagina, women report that exercises have a pleasant side eff ect: increased sexual awareness. Apparently the outcome is similar in men: Th e exercises can improve erection function and help the man learn ejaculatory control. In fact, a British study found that erection function improved signifi cantly in men after 3 months of Kegel exercises (Dorey, Speakman, Feneley, Swinkels, & Dunn, 2005). Th e Kegel exercises basically involve tightening the P.C. muscle as one does to stop the fl ow of urine. Check with a health-care professional or a reputable medical website to learn more about how to do Kegel exercises.
■ Erotic aids. Products designed to enhance erotic responsiveness, such as vibrators, dildos, G-spot stimulators, artifi cial vaginas and mouths, clitoral stimulators, vibrating nipple clips, explicit videos, oils, and lotions, are referred to as erotic aids. Th ey are also called sex toys, emphasizing their playful quality. Vibrators and dildos seem to be the most common sex toys and are usually considered “women’s toys.” But, of course, they can be for either gender and can be used alone or with a partner. Two recent national studies of men and women in the U.S., ages 18-60, assessed lifetime use of vibrators: 44.8% of men had incorporated a vibrator into their sexual activities during their lives and 52.5% of women had ever used a vibrator (Reece et al., 2009; Herbenick et al., 2009). You may wish to try using a sex toy or shower massage as you masturbate with your partner or by your- self. You may also want to view erotic DVDs, go online to fi nd sexually explicit images, or read erotic poetry or stories to yourself or your partner.
A vibrator can be a valuable aid in increasing sexual arousal and experiencing an orgasm.
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Intensifying Erotic Pleasure
One of the most signifi cant elements in enhancing our physical experience of sex is intensifying arousal. In intensifying arousal, the focus is on erotic pleasure rather than on sexual functioning. Th is can be done in a number of ways.
Developing Bridges to Desire Sex therapist Barry McCarthy and author Emily McCarthy (2009) state that sexual desire is the core element of a healthy sexuality and that developing and maintaining sexual desire is important to a satisfying couple sexual style. Couples prefer to experience the fun and energiz- ing eff ect of spontaneous sex that is common in the romantic/passionate sex/ idealization phase of a new sexual relationship in which sex occurs nearly every time the couple gets together. But for couples past the 6-month to 2-year passion- ate sex phase, especially those with demanding jobs, kids, mortgages, and so on, most sexual encounters are planned and many couples begin to experience lower sexual desire. Th at this occurs because couples are not able to transfer from the passionate sex stage to an enduring intimate and erotic couple sexual style. Th e key is to integrate intimacy and eroticism by “building bridges to desire.” Th e McCarthys state that “bridges to desire require ways of thinking, antic- ipating, and experiencing a sexual encounter that makes sex inviting.” Th e most important bridge to desire involves couples anticipating a sexual encounter in which the partner is involved, giving, and aroused. Each partner and the couple
“ Sex is more about imagination than friction.
—Erica Jong (1942–)
Some individuals and couples use erotic aids like vibrators, dildos, videos, oils, and lotions to enhance their sexual pleasure and responsiveness.
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should be creative in developing and maintaining bridges to desire. Even though individual bridges are important, discovering unique, mutual bridges can be a valuable couple resource. Th e more varied the bridges, the easier it is to maintain desire. Further, the more bridges to desire, the more ways to connect and recon- nect through touch. One way to develop a bridge to desire is for each partner to inform the other partner what his/her two favorite ways to initiate a sexual encounter are and two favorite ways to be invited for a sexual encounter.
Sexual Arousal Sexual arousal refers to the physiological responses, fantasies, and desires associated with sexual anticipation and activity. We have diff erent levels of arousal, and they are not necessarily associated with particular types of sexual activities. Sometimes, we feel more sexually aroused when we kiss or masturbate than when we have sexual intercourse or oral sex. Th e fi rst element in increasing sexual arousal is having your conditions for good sex met. If you need privacy, fi nd a place to be alone; if you need a romantic setting, go for a relaxing walk or listen to music by candlelight; if you want limits on your sexual activities, tell your partner; if you need a certain kind of physical stimulation, show or tell your partner what you like. A second element in increasing arousal is focusing on the sensations you are experiencing. Once you begin an erotic activity such as massaging or kissing, do not let yourself be distracted. When you’re kissing, don’t think about what you’re going to do next or about an upcoming test. Instead, focus on the sensual experience of your lips and heart.
Alternatives to Intercourse Waiting, delaying, and facing obstacles may intensify arousal. Th is is one of the pleasures of sexual abstinence that may be forgotten soon after you begin intercourse. Renowned sex therapist and author Lonnie Barbach (2001) suggests that sexually active people may intensify arousal by placing a ban on sexual intercourse for a period of time. If you are a gay or lesbian person, you may place a comparable ban on your preferred sexual activity. During this time, explore other ways of being erotic or sexual, such as showering together, giving or receiving an erotic massage without gen- ital stimulation, sharing one’s sexual fantasies, or dancing together sexually. (See the box “Giving and Receiving Pleasurable Touch: ‘Gears of Connection’” in Chapter 9 for a discussion of pleasure-oriented, nondemanding touch ranging from aff ectionate to intercourse touch.)
Changing a Sexual Relationship
In his book Resurrecting Sex (2002), David Schnarch, a prominent sex therapist and clinical psychologist, discusses common sexual function diffi culties of couples and provides practical suggestions for addressing them. Schnarch says that every couple has sexual function problems at some point, although most couples do not anticipate that they will end up experiencing sexual dissatisfaction. In a statement that might seem surprising he notes, “If your sexual relationship stays the same, you are more likely to have sexual dysfunctions (and be bored to death).” Schnarch declares that changing the sexual relationship is necessary for couples having sex- ual function problems and suggests 22 ways to “resurrect sex.” His concepts and strategies for resolving sexual function diffi culties include the following:
1. Put some eff ort into the nonsexual aspects of the relationship. Focus on the tasks of daily living that you share.
“ The best aphrodisiac is an involved, aroused partner.
—Barry McCarthy (1943–)
and Emily McCarthy
(1945–)
“ License my roving hands, and let them go,
Behind, before, above, between, below.
—John Donne (1572–1631)
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2. Expand your repertoire of sexual behaviors, “tones,” styles, and meanings. Push yourself to try sexual behaviors that might seem to be a stretch. Resurrecting sex means doing things diff erently.
3. Address any issues you and your partner have swept under the carpet. Trying to be intimate and sexual when you are angry, frustrated, or resentful often does not work.
4. Deal with unresolved personal issues. Th ey can hinder your arousal and make you vulnerable to sexual diffi culties.
5. Do not become overly concerned with possible unconscious meanings of your sexual problems, and don’t get sidetracked playing amateur psychoanalyst. No personality traits or life experiences invariably result in sexual function diffi culties. Pay attention to your specifi c situation, and focus on what is actually happening to you.
6. Recognize that changing a sexual relationship typically involves embracing a deeper connection. Given that many couples do not achieve much emotional connection through sex, this can be a challenge. Intimate, deep connection during sex requires a sensory and emotional bond with your partner.
Schnarch guarantees one thing: To resurrect or improve an intimate relation- ship, you have to change the current relationship. He notes that this is no small task. Rather, it involves, for example, raising your level of stimulation, accept- ing new truths about you and your partner, becoming closer, and changing yourself in the process. Resurrecting sex requires being able to make positive changes without taking out frustrations on your partner, even if you think she or he deserves it.
• Treating Sexual Function Diffi culties Th ere are several psychologically based approaches to sex therapy, the most important ones being behavior modifi cation and psychosexual therapy. William Masters and Virginia Johnson were the pioneers in the cognitive-behavioral approach; one of the most infl uential psychosexual therapists is Helen Singer Kaplan. Medical approaches may also be eff ective with some sexual function problems.
Masters and Johnson: A Cognitive-Behavioral Approach
Th e program developed by Masters and Johnson for the treatment of sexual function diffi culties was the starting point for contemporary sex therapy. Not only did they reject the Freudian approach of tracing sexual function problems to childhood; they relabeled sexual function problems as sexual dysfunctions rather than aspects of neuroses. Masters and Johnson (1970) argued that the majority of sexual function problems are the result of sexual ignorance, faulty techniques, or relationship problems. Th ey treated diffi culties using a combina- tion of cognitive and behavioral techniques, and they treated couples rather than individuals.
Couples With Diffi culties Cognitive-behavioral therapists approach the prob- lems of erectile and orgasmic diffi culties by counseling the couple rather than the individual. Th ey regard sexuality as an interpersonal phenomenon rather
“ Surprising how the most common sexual problem is not low libido, rapid
ejaculation, or diffi culty with orgasm: it is that people are not prepared for the extent of individual diff erences in human sexuality.
—Sandra Pertot (1950–)
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than an individual one. In fact, they tell their clients that there are no indi- viduals with sexual function diffi culties, only couples with sexual function dif- fi culties. Sex therapist Sandra Pertot (2007) states that “even people with secure, happy personal histories can end up with unsatisfying sexual relationships, because it is how your individual sexuality interacts with your partner’s that defi nes what is a problem and what isn’t.” In this model, neither individual is to blame for any sexual dissatisfaction; rather, it is their mutual interaction that sustains a diffi culty or resolves a problem. Masters and Johnson called this prin- ciple “neutrality and mutuality” (Masters & Johnson, 1974).
Sensate Focus A common therapeutic method is sensate focus, the focus- ing on touch and the giving and receiving of pleasure (see Figure 14.5). Th e other senses—smell, sight, hearing, and taste—are worked on indirectly as a means of reinforcing the touch experience. To increase their sensate focus, the couple are given “homework” assignments. In the privacy of their own home, the partners are to take off their clothes so that nothing will restrict their sensations. One partner must give pleasure and the other receive it. Th e giver touches, caresses, massages, and strokes his or her partner’s body everywhere except the genitals and breasts. Th e purpose is not sexual arousal but simply sense awareness.
Treating Male Function Diffi culties Sex therapy utilizes diff erent techniques for treating the specifi c problem.
Erection Diffi culties When the problem is erection diffi culties, the couple is taught that fears and anxieties are largely responsible and that the removal of these fears is the fi rst step in therapy. Once these are removed, the man is less likely to be an observer of his sexuality; he can become a participant rather than a spectator or judge. After integrating sensate focus into the couple’s behavior, the partners are told to play with each other’s genitals, but not to attempt an erection. Often, erections may occur because there is no demand on the man; but he is encouraged to let his penis become fl accid again, then erect, then fl accid, as reassurance that he can successfully have erections. Th is builds his confi - dence, as well as his partner’s, by letting this person know that the partner can excite him.
“ Full nakedness! All joys are due to thee,
As souls unbodied, bodies unclothed must be, To taste whole joys.
—John Donne (1572–1631)
“ The penis, far from being an impenetrable knight in armor, in fact
bears its heart on its sleeve.
—Susan Bordo (1947–)
• FIGURE 14.5 Sensate Focus
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Th erapists also try to dispel many of the erection myths. Although the majority of diffi culties with erections are caused by a combination of factors, such as rela- tionship diffi culties, cardiovascular problems, and depression, becoming more knowledgeable and realistic about erections is an important step to overcoming diffi culties. Common erection myths include (Castleman, 2004):
■ Erection is something that is achieved. Penises don’t become erect through work, but from just the opposite. Th e more sensual the lovemaking, the more likely an erection will occur.
■ Men are sex machines, always ready, always hard. A man can really enjoy sex, but if certain conditions are not met, his penis might not become aroused. Instead of thinking of sex as performance, think about it as play that occurs best when both partners are able to relax.
■ During a sexual encounter, you get only one shot at an erection. Erection changes during a sexual encounter are very common. If an erection subsides during sex, the man shouldn’t tense up and decide it is over, but instead breathe deeply, keep the faith, and request the partner to provide stimulation that is sensual.
■ I blew it last time; I will never get it up again. It’s a mistake to overgeneralize from a single sexual episode to a lifetime of erection diffi culties. Overgener- alizing can cause stress, sometimes resulting in a self-fulfi lling prophecy.
■ If I can’t have an erection, my partner can’t be sexually satisfi ed. Certainly there are numerous ways of providing sexual stimulation to a partner without an erection. How many people who care about their partners would leave him if he has erection problems? Most would want to help him resolve them.
Early Ejaculation Cognitive-behavioral therapists treat early or rapid ejacula- tion by using initially the same pattern as in treating erection diffi culties. Th ey concentrate especially on reducing fears and anxieties and increasing sensate focus and communication. Th en they use a simple exercise called the squeeze technique (see Figure 14.6). Th e penis is brought manually to a full erection. Just before he is about to ejaculate, his partner squeezes his penis with thumb and forefi nger just below the corona. After 30 seconds of inactivity, the partner
• FIGURE 14.6 The Squeeze Technique
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arouses him again and, just prior to ejaculation, squeezes again. Using this technique, the couple can continue for 15–20 minutes before the man ejaculates. Some sex therapists suggest that a man can learn ejaculatory control by increasing his ability to extend the plateau phase of his sexual response cycle, largely through learning to delay ejaculation during masturbation. Th ey encour- age men to learn their plateau phase well and, when the “point of no return” is reached during masturbation, the man should stop stroking his penis but not cease caressing completely. Th is “start-stop” technique can be done by the man himself or during partnered sex. He should also strengthen his P.C. muscle so that he can squeeze it to delay ejaculation at the point of no return. Th en he returns to masturbation and repeats the cycle several times. For a man to learn ejaculatory control, sex therapists recommend masturbation several times a week for about 30–60 minutes per session. After several weeks, many men are able to hold themselves in the plateau phase for as long as they want. Further, if a man can learn to last 15 minutes, he can probably last as long as he’d like (Castleman, 2004; Keesling, 2006).
Male Orgasmic Disorder Th is condition, also referred to as delayed ejacula- tion, is treated by having the man’s partner manipulate his penis. Th e partner asks for verbal and physical directions to bring him the most pleasure possible. It may take a few sessions before the man has his fi rst ejaculation. Th e idea is to identify his partner with sexual pleasure and desire. He is encouraged to relax to keep the P.C. muscle from tightening and to feel stimulated, not only by his partner but also by the partner’s erotic responses to him. After the man has reached orgasm through manual stimulation, he can then proceed to vaginal or anal intercourse. With further instruction and feedback, the man should be able to function sexually without fear of delayed ejaculation. Sex therapist Barbara Keesling (2006) states, “Ejaculation will happen when it happens,” and it will happen when the man focuses on the sensations that allow ejaculation to occur rather than trying to make it happen.
Treating Female Function Diffi culties Each female diffi culty is treated dif- ferently in behavior modifi cation therapy.
Female Orgasmic Disorder After doing sensate focus, the woman’s partner begins to touch and caress her vulva; she guides the partner’s hand to show what she likes. Th e partner is told, however, not to stimulate the clitoris directly because it may be extremely sensitive and stimulation may cause pain rather than pleasure. Instead, the partner caresses and stimulates the area around the clitoris, the labia, and the upper thighs. During this time, the partners are told not to attempt to achieve orgasm because it would place undue performance pressure on the woman. Th ey are simply to explore the woman’s erotic potential and discover what brings her the greatest pleasure. Here is a special message to partners of women who have diffi culty experienc- ing orgasm during sex: Support her to have an orgasm any way it happens for her. Sexual partners do not give each other orgasms—lovers are traveling com- panions experiencing their own erotic journey (Castleman, 2004). Sex therapist and author Marty Klein, speaking to partners of women with orgasmic diffi cul- ties, states that “you can create the environment in which your lover feels relaxed enough and turned on enough to have one [orgasm]. But, she creates her own orgasm. You don’t give it to her” (quoted in Castleman, 2004). In support of
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Klein’s contention that a woman creates her own orgasm, a study of 2,371 women revealed that many women do things during sex beyond getting specifi c physical stimulation to aid them in experiencing orgasm (Ellison, 2000). Th e most frequent activities of these women are shown in Table 14.2. For example, 9 in 10 women indicated that they positioned their body in a way to get the stimulation they needed.
Vaginismus Vaginismus is one of the easiest sexual problems to overcome. Th e woman uses a set of vaginal dilators (plastic, penile-shaped rods) graduated in diameter. She inserts one before going to bed at night and takes it out in the morning. As soon as the woman is able to receive a dilator of one size without having vaginal spasms, a larger one is used. In most cases and over time, the vaginismus disappears.
Kaplan: Psychosexual Therapy
Helen Singer Kaplan (1974, 1979, 1983) modifi ed Masters and Johnson’s behavioral treatment program to include psychosexual therapy. Th e cognitive- behavioral approach works well for arousal and orgasmic diffi culties resulting from mild to midlevel sexual anxieties. But if the individual experiences severe anxieties resulting from intense relationship or psychic confl icts or from child- hood sexual abuse or rape, a behavioral approach alone frequently does not work. Such severe anxieties usually manifest themselves in sexual aversion disorder or hypoactive sexual desire.
Other Nonmedical Approaches
Both cognitive-behavioral and psychosexual therapy are expensive and take a considerable amount of time. In response to these limitations, “brief” sex therapy and self-help and group therapy have developed.
TABLE 14.2 • Women’s Most Frequent Activities to Facilitate Orgasm During Intercoursea
Activity Percentage
Positioned my body to get the stimulation I needed 90
Paid attention to my physical sensations 83
Tightened and released my pelvic muscles 75
Synchronized the rhythm of my movements to my partner’s 75
Asked or encouraged my partner to do what I needed 74
Got myself in a sexy mood beforehand 71
Focused on my partner’s pleasure 68
Felt/thought how much I love my partner 65
Engaged in a fantasy of my own 56
a From a list of 14 possible answers, the answers that were chosen by at least one half of the women who responded to their sentence “In addition to getting specifi c physical stimulation, I often have done the following to help me reach orgasm during sex with a partner.”
SOURCE: Ellison, C. R. (2006). Women’s sexualities: Generations of women share intimate secrets of sexual self-acceptance. Read File Publications, 2006. Reprinted by permission of the author.
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PLISSIT Model of Therapy One of the most common approaches used by sex therapists is based on the PLISSIT model (Annon, 1974, 1976). “PLISSIT” is an acronym for the four progressive levels of sex therapy: permission, limited information, specifi c suggestions, and intensive therapy. About 90% of sexual function diffi culties can be successfully addressed in the fi rst three levels; only about 10% of patients require extensive therapy. Th e fi rst level in the PLISSIT model involves giving permission. At one time or another, most sexual behaviors were prohibited by important fi gures in our lives. Because desires and activities such as fantasies or masturbation were not validated, we often question their “normality” or “morality.” We shroud them in secrecy or drape them with shame. Without permission to be sexual, we may experience sexual diffi culties and dissatisfaction. Sex therapists act as “permis- sion givers” for us to be sexual. Th e second level involves giving limited information. Th is information is restricted to the specifi c area of sexual function diffi culties. If a woman has an orgasmic disorder, for example, the therapist might explain that not all women are orgasmic in coitus without additional manual stimulation before, during, or after penetration. Th e third level involves making specifi c suggestions. If permission giving and limited information are not suffi cient, the therapist next suggests specifi c “homework” exercises. For example, if a man experiences early or involuntary ejaculation, the therapist may suggest that he and his partner try the squeeze technique. A woman with orgasmic disorder might be instructed to masturbate with or without her partner to discover the best way for her partner to assist her in experiencing orgasm. Th e fourth level involves undergoing intensive therapy. If the individual continues to experience a sexual function problem, he or she will need to enter intensive therapy, such as psychosexual therapy.
Self-Help and Group Therapy Th e PLISSIT model provides a sound basis for understanding how partners, friends, books, sexuality education fi lms, self- help exercises, and group therapy can be useful in helping us deal with the fi rst three levels of therapy: permission, limited information, and specifi c suggestions. Partners, friends, books, sexuality education fi lms, and group therapy sessions under a therapist’s guidance, for example, may provide “permission” for us to engage in sexual exploration and discovery. From these sources, we may learn that many of our sexual fantasies and behaviors are very common. Th e fi rst step in dealing with a sexual function diffi culty can be to tap your own immediate resources. Begin by discussing the problem with your partner; fi nd out what she or he thinks. Discuss specifi c strategies that might be useful. Sometimes, simply communicating your feelings and thoughts will resolve the dissatisfaction. Seek out friends with whom you can share your feelings and anxieties. Find out what they think; ask them whether they have had similar experiences and, if so, how they handled them. Try to keep your perspective— and your sense of humor.
Medical Approaches
Sexual function diffi culties are often a combination of physical and psychological problems. Even people whose diffi culties are physical may develop psychological or relationship problems as they try to cope with their diffi culties. Th us, treatment
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for organically based problems may need to include psychological counseling. Th e combined medical and psychological intervention has several advantages such as greater treatment effi cacy and patient satisfaction (Althof, 2010). Vaginal pain caused by inadequate lubrication and thinning vaginal walls often occurs as a result of the decreased estrogen associated with menopause. A lubricating jelly or estrogen therapy may help. Vaginitis, endometriosis, and pelvic infl ammatory disease may also make intercourse painful. Lubricants or short-term menopausal hormone therapy (discussed in Chapter 7) often resolves diffi culties. Loss of sex drive and function, low energy and strength, depressed mood, and low self-esteem may sometimes occur from testosterone defi ciency. Th e sex lives of people with signifi cant testosterone defi ciencies may be helped by testosterone supplements (see Chapter 4). Most medical and surgical treatment for men has centered on erection diffi cul- ties. Such approaches include microsurgery to improve a blood fl ow problem, suction devices to induce and maintain an erection, a prosthesis implanted in the penis and abdomen, and drugs injected into the penis. Because these methods are not practical or pleasant, they became virtually obsolete with the introduction of an erection-enhancing drug, Viagra, in 1998 by Pfi zer. Viagra, the trade name for sildenafi l citrate, is the fi rst eff ective and safe oral drug for the treatment of male erection diffi culty, whether caused by psychological or medical conditions. Viagra revolutionized the treatment of erection diffi culties, representing the beginning of a pharmacological approach to treating sexual diffi culties. Medical literature shows that Viagra is an eff ective and well-tolerated treatment for erec- tion diffi culties, even for men who have taken the drug for a long period of time, and can improve the sexual satisfaction of both the man and his partner in couples with male erection diffi culties (Heiman et al., 2007; Padma-Nathan, Eardley, Kloner, Laties, & Montorsi, 2002). In 2003, two other drugs were approved by the FDA for treatment of erection problems: GlaxoSmithKline and Bayer’s Levitra (vardenafi l HCI) and Eli Lilly’s Cialis (tadalafi l). Th ese three drugs are one of the most popular groups of drugs in pharmaceutical industry history. In April 2012, the U.S. Food and Drug Administration approved a new erection- enhancing drug, Stendra (avanafi l). Th e National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior found that 3% of men aged 18–59 had used an erection medication the last time they had sex. Use was greater for men in the 50–59 age group (8%) than the younger age groups (e.g., 18–24, �1%) (Herbenick et al., 2010). Viagra and Levitra are eff ective for a few hours, whereas Cialis is eff ective for 24 to 36 hours. Among the several benefi ts of the erection-enhancing drugs is that they
“ The penis used to have a mind of its own. Not anymore. The erection
industry has reconfi gured the organ, replacing the fi nicky original with a more reliable model.
—David Friedman (1949–)
Three prescription drugs—Viagra, Cialis, and Levitra—have revolutionized the treatment of male erection diffi culties.
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are often eff ective in treating erection diffi culties that occur as a result of prostate- cancer treatment and surgery, including complete removal of the prostate (Ameri- can Cancer Society, 2010k; Brock et al., 2003). Erection-enhancing drugs allow the muscles in the penis to relax and penile arteries to dilate, thus expanding the erectile tissues that squeeze shut the veins in the penis. Th ey are taken before sex; the amount of time the eff ects last varies depending on the drug. Th e drugs do not increase sexual desire, nor do they produce an erection itself; there still must be sexual stimulation. After sex is over, the erection goes away. Th e primary psychological role of the erec- tion drugs is to eliminate the anticipatory and performance anxiety surround- ing intercourse which will usually, in itself, result in erections and increased confi dence (McCarthy, 1998). Some men take the drugs as a “quick fi x” for a temporary problem or as “insurance” even though they may not really need the drug. Because Viagra increases pelvic blood fl ow, many women began using it when it was fi rst released in hopes of increasing sensation and orgasm. Th ese experiences, and the results of medical research, though, have yielded mixed results as insuffi cient vasocongestion probably does not solely account for orgasm diffi culties in women. Eff orts to create an eff ective drug for female sexual diffi culties, particularly low sex desire, continue but to no avail (Angier, 2007; Bancroft, 2009). Th e U.S. Food and Drug Administration notes that these drugs are safe for most men if used according to directions, except for men taking nitrates (often prescribed for chest pain), and those having poor cardiovascular health. Headaches, visual disturbances, and fl ushing sometimes occur, and in rare cases extended and painful erections occur (Ashton, 2007; Reitman, 2004). Some men are using the erection drugs casually, as party drugs or as insurance against the eff ects of alcohol and for a desired increase in “prowess” (Harte & Meston, 2011). Th e mixing of street drugs and an erection-enhancing drug is dangerous. And people should never use someone else’s erection-enhancing drug; they should always get their own prescription from a doctor. Some experts caution people not to over-rely on medical approaches to solve sexual function diffi culties (see the box “Th e Medicalization of Sexual Function Problems”). Sex therapist and clinical psychologist Julian Slowinski (2007) states that “a man’s sexual functioning is determined and aff ected by the health of his body and lifestyle, his personal emotional state, the quality of his relationship, and the infl uence of life and environmental stress.” Most sexual function diffi cul- ties can be resolved through individual and couple therapy. Th e optimal approach in the use of drugs is in concert with psychotherapy. A word of caution: Numerous homeopathic products, often known as “natural sexual enhancers,” are being sold on the Internet and at health-food stores, convenience stores, and drugstores and promise to “spice up your sex life,” “rekindle desire,” and “improve sexual performance.” Supported by unsubstantiated claims and personal testimonials, these capsules, herbal erec- tion creams, sprays, lubricants, gels, and tonics promise greater sexual arousal and rock-hard erections. Th ese products are not regulated by the U.S. Food and Drug Administration, may or may not contain ingredients listed on the label, and instead may contain ingredients that could be harmful to people, especially those with medical conditions. Conclusive evidence of the eff ective- ness of the natural sexual enhancers treating male and female sexual function problems have not been established. In short, there aren’t any natural “magic bullets” that turn you into an instant, perfect love machine (Riscol, 2003).
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think about it
Since the early 1980s, a number of pharmacological therapies have been introduced for treatment of men’s sexual function problems. The erection-enhancing drugs— Viagra, Levitra, Cialis, and Stendra—enable some men suff er- ing from hypertension, diabetes, and prostate problems to get an erection by increasing the fl ow of blood to the penis, pro- vided there is sexual stimulation. However, the pills do not cure fractured relationships, make people more sensual lovers, en- large penises, or address the complexity of all sexual problems (Moynihan & Mintzes, 2010; Reitman, 2004; Slowinski, 2007). One problem with the erection-enhancing drugs is that they reinforce the widespread, but mistaken, belief that an erection equals a satisfying sexual experience for both men and women. It perpetuates the notion, fed by many erotic videos, that sticking an erection into an erotic opening is the only thing sex is about (Castleman, 2004). Sex therapist Marty Klein says that “it’s possible to have a rock-hard erection and still have lousy sex” (quoted in Castleman, 2004). The pills often help individuals postpone or avoid self and couple analysis. Some experts contend that the erection-enhancing pills have, thus, medicalized sexual problems, resulting in the prevailing medical model that promotes a specifi c norm of sexual func- tioning: correct genital performance (Tiefer, 2001). The medical solution would be to take a pill for an erection problem, thus taking the focus off the individual and the dynamics of the re- lationship (Bancroft, 2009; Tiefer, 2001, 2004). However, the best use of Viagra (and Levitra, Cialis, and Stendra) is in the context of a comprehensive assessment and intervention by a sex therapist that focuses on the physical, emotional, and rela- tional aspects of the male (McCarthy, 1998; Slowinski, 2007). The “Viagra phenomenon,” the most recent event in the medicalization of male sexuality, has both positive and negative consequences: It enables millions of men to have reliable erections, but it also calls for a similar pill that would increase female sexual response. Dr. John Bancroft, senior research fel- low at The Kinsey Institute, in speaking about pharmacological
The Medicalization of Sexual Function Problems
approaches to female sexual function problems, contends that the term “sexual dysfunction” commonly used in medicine is misleading and dangerous; portraying sexual diffi culties as dysfunctions “encourages physicians to prescribe drugs to change sexual function when the attention should be paid to other aspects of the woman’s life” (quoted in Moynihan, 2002). Bancroft (2002, 2009) stated that a Viagra-type drug might infl uence female sexual response and enjoyment but treatment should not separate sexual expression from other factors that infl uence sexual functioning in women such as fatigue, stress, or threatening behavior from their partners. Leonore Tiefer (2004), a sex therapist and psychiatry faculty member at New York University School of Medicine, says that innumerable professional and scientifi c conferences have been held on female sexual dysfunction, enthusiastically backed by drug companies. She contends that this is an eff ort to sell female sexual function problems as a new medical disorder solvable by medical treatments. In response to this, she and other experts developed a perspective of female sexuality, “The New View of Women’s Sexual Problems,” described earlier in this chapter, to challenge the medicalization of women’s sexuality.
Think Critically 1. Do you think that the sexuality of men and women is
being medicalized? 2. Do you think it would be easier to take an erection-
enhancing drug than seek therapy for erection diffi culties?
3. Should a drug like Viagra be developed for women? 4. Are people over-relying on drugs to solve their sexual
function problems?
As suggested throughout this book, enhancing your emotional and physical health, as well as your relationship with your partner, is usually the best path to sexual fulfi llment.
Gay, Lesbian, and Bisexual Sex Therapy
Until recently, sex therapists treated sexual function diffi culties as implicitly heterosexual. Th e model for sexual functioning, in fact, was generally orgasmic heterosexual intercourse. Th ere was virtually no mention of gay, lesbian, bisexual, or transgender sexual concerns.
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For gay men, lesbian women, and bisexual individuals, sexual issues diff er from those of heterosexuals in several ways. First, although gay men and lesbian women may have arousal, desire, erectile, or orgasmic diffi culties, the context in which they occur may diff er signifi cantly from that of heterosexual individuals (Institute of Medicine, 2011). Problems among heterosexuals most often focus on sexual intercourse, whereas the sexual dissatisfaction of gay men, lesbian women, and bisexual people focuses on other behaviors. Gay men in sex therapy, for example, most often experience aversion toward anal eroticism (Reece, 1988; Sandfort & de Keizer, 2010). Lesbian women in sex therapy frequently complain about aversive feelings toward cunnilingus. Female orgasmic diffi culty, however, is not frequently viewed as a problem (Margolies et al., 1988). Heterosexual women, in contrast, frequently complain about lack of orgasm. Second, lesbian women, gay men, and bisexual individuals must deal with both societal homophobia and internalized homophobia. Fear of violence makes it diffi cult for gay men, bisexual individuals, and lesbian women to openly express their aff ection in the same manner as heterosexuals. As a consequence, lesbian women, bisexual individuals, and gay men learn to repress their expres- sions of feelings in public; this repression may carry over into the private realm as well. Internalized homophobia may result in diminished sexual desire, creat- ing sexual aversion and fostering guilt and negative feelings about sexual activity. Th ird, gay men must deal with the association between sex and HIV infection that has cut a deadly swath through the gay community. Th e death of friends, lovers, and partners has left many depressed, which, in turn, aff ects sexual desire and creates high levels of sexual anxiety. Many gay men are fearful of contracting HIV even if they practice safer sex. And HIV-positive men, even if they are prac- ticing safer sex, are often afraid of transmitting the infection to their loved ones. Th ese unique lesbian, bisexual, and gay individuals’ concerns require that sex therapists expand their understanding and treatment of sexual function problems. If the therapist is not a gay man or a lesbian woman, he or she needs to have a thorough knowledge of sexual orientation issues and the gay and lesbian world. Th erapists further need to be aware of their own assumptions and feelings about homosexuality and be free of bias and value judgments.
“ Impulse arrested spills over, and the fl ood is feeling, the fl ood is passion, the
fl ood is even madness: It depends on the force of the current, the height and strength of the barrier. . . . Feeling lurks in that interval of time between desire and its consummation.
—Aldous Huxley (1894–1963)
It is important for gay, lesbian, and bisexual people with sexual diffi culties to choose a therapist who affi rms their orientation and understands the special issues confronting them.
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practically speaking
Because something is not “functioning” according to a therapist’s model does not necessarily mean that something is wrong. You need to evaluate your sexuality in terms of your own and your partner’s satisfaction and the meanings you give to your sexuality. If, after doing this, you are unable to resolve your sexual function diffi culties yourself, seek professional assistance. It is important to realize that seeking such assistance is not a sign of personal weakness or failure. Rather, it is a sign of strength, for it demonstrates an ability to reach out and a willingness to change. It is a sign that you care for your partner, your relationship, and yourself. As you think about therapy, consider the following:
■ What are your goals in therapy? Are you willing to make changes in your relationship to achieve your goals?
■ Do you want individual, couple, or group therapy? If you are in a relationship, is your partner willing to participate in therapy?
■ What characteristics are important for you in a therapist? Do you prefer a female or a male therapist? Is the therapist’s age, religion, or ethnic background important to you?
■ What are the therapist’s professional qualifi cations? There are few certifi ed sex therapy programs; most therapists who treat sexual function diffi culties come from various professional backgrounds, such as psychiatry, clinical psychology, psycho- analysis, marriage and family counseling, and social work. The American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists certifi es sex therapists and has a list of certifi ed persons with contact information, by state and country, on
their website (http://www.aasect.org). Because there is no licensing in the fi eld of sex therapy, it is important to seek out those trained therapists who have licenses in their generalized fi eld.
■ What is the therapist’s approach? Is it behavioral, psychosexual, psychoanalytic, medical, religious, spiritual, feminist, or some- thing else? Do you feel comfortable with the approach?
■ If necessary, does the therapist off er a sliding-scale fee, based on your level of income?
■ If you are a lesbian, gay, or bisexual person, does the therapist affi rm your sexual orientation? Does the therapist understand the special problems gay men, bisexual individuals, and lesbian women face?
■ After a session or two with the therapist, do you have confi - dence in him or her? If not, discuss your feelings with the therapist. If you believe your dissatisfaction is not a defense mechanism, change therapists.
Most sex therapists believe that their work results in considerable success. Not all problems can be resolved completely, but some— and often great—improvement usually occurs. Short-term therapy of 10 or fewer sessions helps some people, although most require therapy for 4 months or longer (McCarthy & McCarthy, 2009). Much of therapy’s success depends on a person’s willingness to confront painful feelings and to change. This entails time, eff ort, and often considerable amounts of money. But, ultimately, the dif- fi cult work may reward partners with greater satisfaction and a deeper relationship.
Seeking Professional Assistance
As we consider our sexuality, it is important to realize that sexual function diffi culties and dissatisfaction are commonplace. But sex is more than orgasms or certain kinds of activities. Even if we have function diffi culties in some areas, there are other areas in which we may be fully sexual. If we have erection or orgasmic problems, we can use our imagination to expand our repertoire of erotic activities. We can touch each other sensually, masturbate alone or with our partner, and caress, kiss, eroticize, and explore our bodies with fi ngers and tongues. We can enhance our sexuality if we look at sex as the mutual giving and receiving of erotic pleasure, rather than a com- mand performance. By paying attention to our conditions for good sex, maintaining intimacy, and focusing on our own erotic sensations and those of our partner, we can transform our sexual relationships.
Final Thoughts
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Summary Sexual Function Diffi culties: Defi nitions, Types, and Prevalence
■ Th e line between “normal” sexual functioning and a sexual function diffi culty is often not defi nitive.
■ Diffi culties in sexual functioning are often called sexual problems, sexual disorders, or sexual dysfunctions.
■ Th e Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-IV-TR) classifi es four types of sexual dysfunction: disorders of desire, sexual arousal disor- ders, orgasmic disorders, and sexual pain disorders. According to a newer, woman-centered classifi ca- tion system, sexual function diffi culties arise from cultural and relational factors, not medical problems.
■ A sexual function diffi culty can be defi ned as a disappointment on the part of one or both partners.
■ Several national studies show that many men and women experience, on occasion, sexual function diffi culties. Th e NSSHB found that, with men, older age was associated with greater erection prob- lems, greater pain during sex, and less likelihood of experiencing orgasm. For women, older age was associated with lubrication problems and greater likelihood of orgasm.
■ Hypoactive sexual desire (HSD) is low sexual desire. Th is disorder usually develops in adulthood and is associated with psychologically stressful life situations. Sexual aversion disorder is a consistently phobic response to sexual activities or the idea of such activities.
■ Female sexual arousal disorder is an inability to attain or maintain the normal vaginal lubrication and swelling that accompany sexual excitement. It is usually accompanied by desire and orgasmic disorders.
■ Male sexual problems typically focus on the excite- ment stage. Male erectile disorder is the inability to have or maintain an erection until completion of sexual activity. Erection diffi culties may occur because of fatigue, too much alcohol, smoking, depression, confl ict, certain medical conditions, or a host of other transitory reasons.
■ Persistent sexual arousal syndrome, a newly reported diffi culty in women, is persistent arousal that does not resolve itself in ordinary ways and continues for hours, days, and even weeks.
■ Female orgasmic disorder refers to the condition of not being orgasmic. Negative or guilty sexual atti- tudes, inadequate sexual stimulation, and relation- ship diffi culties contribute to this disorder. Women are more likely to experience orgasm during sexual encounters that include more sexual behaviors than intercourse.
■ Male orgasmic disorder is the delay or absence of ejaculation following normal sexual excitement. Psychosocial factors contribute to this condition. In inhibited ejaculation, the penis is erect, but the man is unable to ejaculate. In delayed ejaculation, the man is not able to ejaculate easily during intercourse.
■ Involuntary ejaculation, also called early or rapid ejac- ulation, is the inability to control or delay ejaculation as long as desired, causing personal or interpersonal distress.
■ In vaginismus, the muscles around the vaginal entrance go into spasmodic contractions. Vaginismus is essentially a conditioned response that refl ects fear, anxiety, or pain. Dyspareunia, painful intercourse, often occurs because a woman is not entirely aroused before her partner attempts intercourse. Sexual inhibitions, a poor relationship with her partner, or hormonal imbalances may contribute to dyspareunia.
Physical Causes of Sexual Function Diffi culties and Dissatisfaction
■ Health problems such as diabetes and alcoholism can cause erectile diffi culties. Some prescription drugs aff ect sexual responsiveness.
■ Coital pain caused by inadequate lubrication and thinning vaginal walls often occurs as a result of decreased estrogen associated with menopause. Lubricants can resolve the diffi culties.
Psychological Causes of Sexual Function Diffi culties and Dissatisfaction
■ Sexual function diffi culties may have their origin in any number of psychological causes. Th e immediate causes of these diffi culties lie in the current situa- tion, including fatigue and stress, ineff ective sexual behavior, sexual anxieties, and an excessive need to please a partner. Internal confl ict, caused by religious teachings, guilt, negative learning, and internalized homophobia, can contribute to dissatisfaction, as can relationship confl icts.
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Sexual Function Enhancement
■ Many people and all couples experience sexual function diffi culties and dissatisfaction at one time or another. Diff erences in sexual desire are the most common complaint among couples. Th e widespread variability of sexual functioning suggests the “normality” of at least occasional sexual function diffi culties.
■ Sexual function enhancement refers to improving the quality of one’s sexual relationship. Sexual function– enhancement programs generally provide accurate information about sexuality, develop communication skills, foster positive attitudes, and increase self- awareness. Awareness of your own sexual needs is often critical to enhancing your sexuality. Enhancement of sex includes the intensifi cation of arousal.
■ Th ere has been a dramatic increase in over-the-counter, natural sexual enhancers, but none have been scientifi - cally shown to be eff ective.
Treating Sexual Function Diffi culties
■ Masters and Johnson developed a cognitive- behavioral approach to sexual function diffi culties. Th ey relabeled sexual problems as dysfunctions rather than neuroses or diseases, used direct be- havior modifi cation practices, and treated couples rather than individuals. Treatment includes sensate focus without intercourse, “homework” activities, and, finally, “permission” to engage in sexual intercourse. Kaplan’s psychosexual therapy program combines behavioral activities with insight therapy.
■ Th e PLISSIT model of sex therapy refers to four progressive levels: permission, limited information, specifi c suggestions, and intensive therapy. Individuals and couples can often resolve their sexual function diffi culties by talking them over with their partners or friends, reading self-help books, and attending sex therapy groups. If they are unable to resolve their diffi culties in these ways, they should consider intensive sex therapy.
■ Viagra was introduced in the United States in 1998 and is the fi rst eff ective and safe oral drug for treatment of male erection diffi culty. Subsequently, three other prescription drugs, Levitra, Cialis, and Stendra, have been approved by the U.S. Food and Drug Adminis- tration. Th ese drugs do not increase sexual excitement but rather facilitate blood engorgement in the penis.
■ Some sexuality professionals claim that drug com- panies have exaggerated and “medicalized” sexual function diffi culties to promote sales.
■ Th ere are three signifi cant concerns for gay men, bisexual individuals, and lesbian women in sex therapy. First, the context in which problems occur may diff er signifi cantly from that of a heterosexual person; there may be issues revolving around anal eroticism and cunnilingus. Second, they must deal with both societal homophobia and internalized homophobia. Th ird, gay men must deal with the association between sex and HIV/AIDS.
■ In seeking professional assistance for a sexual problem, it is important to realize that seeking help is not a sign of personal weakness or failure, but rather a sign of strength.
Questions for Discussion ■ Do you think that sexual function diffi culties
should be determined by a medical group such as the American Psychiatric Association or by what the individual and/or couple decides is dissatisfying?
■ If you have been sexual with another person, have you ever experienced sexual function dissatisfaction or diffi culty? After reading this chapter, do you think that this experience is actually a “sexual dysfunction” or possibly a dissatisfaction based on an unrealistic expectation of what sex should be like? Did you talk to your partner about the disappointment?
■ What do you consider to be a satisfying sexual experience with a partner? Did the information in this chapter cause you to reevaluate what you consider “good sex” for you and a partner?
■ If you had a sexual function diffi culty, how comfortable would you be in seeking help from a sex therapist?
■ If you or your male partner were having diffi culties with erections, would you seek prescription drugs (Viagra, Levitra, Cialis, or Stendra) to deal with the problem? Is it possible for a man and his partner to have good sex without an erection?
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Sex and the Internet Sexual Diffi culties The website WebMD provides information on various health issues, including sexual function diffi culties. Go to this site (http://www.webmd.com) and fi nd the “Search” box. Type in various sexual function diffi culty terms, such as “sexual dysfunction,” “erectile dysfunction,” “premature ejaculation,” “female orgasmic disorder,” and “dyspareunia.” Review the information for each topic.
■ Is the information given appropriate for nonmedical people?
■ What new information is provided? ■ Are there links to other sites that provide sexuality
information?
Suggested Websites American Family Physician http://www.aafp.org Provides information about both female and male sexual function diffi culties.
New View Campaign http://www.newviewcampaign.org Promotes an alternative view of female sexual function diffi culties, challenges the pharmaceutical industry, and calls for further re- search on these diffi culties.
Sexual Problems in Men on Medicine.com http://www.medicinenet.com/sexual_sex_problems_in_men/ article.htm Provides information on the types, causes, and treatment of sexual function problems in men.
Women’s Sexual Health http://www.womenssexualhealth.com Addresses the questions and concerns of women and their partners concerning female sexual function diffi culties and includes a “Physician Locator” to help them fi nd local physicians who treat these diffi culties.
Suggested Reading Cassell, C. (2008). Put passion fi rst: Why sexual chemistry is the key
to fi nding and keeping lasting love. New York: McGraw-Hill. Written for women (but can be valuable to men, too), this
book helps the reader understand the signifi cance and role of sexual passion within a relationship with emphasis on increasing couple intimacy.
Castleman, M. (2004). Great sex: A man’s guide to the secret principles of total-body sex. New York: Rodale. An exceptionally easy-to-read and practical book for men in which the author quotes well-respected sex therapists throughout the book to show therapists’ suggestions for various sexual function problems.
Keesling, B. (2006). Sexual healing: Th e complete guide to overcoming common sexual problems (3rd ed.). Alameda, CA: Hunter House. A greatly expanded edition of the classic book on the healing power of sex that off ers more than 125 exercises that help with a wide range of sexual function diffi culties.
McCarthy, B. W., & McCarthy, E. (2009). Discovering your couple sexual style. New York: Routledge. Focuses on helping couples enhance intimacy and sexual satisfaction by providing relevant sexual information, exercises, and practical tools.
McLaren, A. (2007). Impotence: A cultural history. Chicago: University of Chicago Press. A serious, but entertaining, cultural history of how male sexuality was and is constructed around erections.
Metz, M. E., & McCarthy, B. W. (2011). Enduring desire: Your guide to lifelong intimacy. New York: Routledge. A superb guide on creating and maintaining a satisfying sex life across ages of a long-term relationship.
Moynihan, R., & Mintzes, B. (2010). Sex, lies & pharmaceuticals. Vancouver, British Columbia: Greystone Books. Explores the causes of women’s sexual dissatisfaction and the global eff orts of drug companies to medicalize women’s sexual problems.
Ogden, G. (2008). Th e return of desire: A guide to discovering your sexual passions. Boston: Trumpeter. Written by an experienced sex therapist, this book is a wise guide that focuses on women and enhancing their sexual desire and passion.
Perel, E. (2006). Mating in captivity. New York: Harper. Presents a provocative perspective on intimacy and sex in exploring the paradoxical union of domesticity and sexual desire.
Pertot, S. (2007). When sex drives don’t match. New York: Marlow & Company. Presents 10 libido types and how they aff ect a couple along with rational ways for couples to work through diff ering sex drives.
Schnarch, D. (2002). Resurrecting sex. New York: HarperCollins. Deals with the sexual problems of couples and off ers frank talk about sex, intimacy, and relationships.
For links, articles, and study material, go to the McGraw-Hill website, located at
www.mhhe.com/yarber8e.
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Principal Bacterial STIs 493
Principal Viral STIs 500
Vaginal Infections 506
Other STIs 508
Ectoparasitic Infestations 509
STIs and Women 510
Preventing STIs 511
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“Up to this date, I have slept with about thirteen men. My most recent ‘wake-up call’ was from a threat from a prospective partner and from a human sexuality course. I took a test for HIV; the result was
negative. However, I did get infected and passed on genital warts to my ex-boyfriend. I simply pretended that I had never slept with anyone else and that if anyone had cheated it was him. It never fazed me that I was at such a risk for contracting HIV. My new resolutions are to educate my family, friends, and peers about sex, take a proactive approach toward sex with prospective partners, and discuss sex openly and honestly with my mother.”
—23-year-old female
“My partner and I want to use a condom to protect ourselves from STIs. But I feel inadequate when we are intimate and he cannot keep an erection to put a condom on. I feel too embar- rassed for him to discuss the situation. So, we both walk away a
bit disappointed—him because he could not stay erect and me because I did not take the time or have the courage to help him. I think if he masturbated with a condom on it would help him with his performance anxiety problem.”
—22-year-old female
“STIs and HIV are precisely the reason I exercise caution when engaging in sexual activity. I don’t want to ever get an STI, and I’d rather never have sex again than have HIV.”
—24-year-old male
“Why do males often convince women to have sex without proper protection? I don’t understand this because there is always a risk of getting an STI. I know that women think about this just as often as men do, but why is it that men do not seem to care?”
—21-year-old female
“I am usually very careful when it comes to my sexual relations and protecting myself from STIs, but there have been a couple of times when I’ve drunk a lot and have not practiced safe sex. It scares me that I have done things like that and have tried to make sure it doesn’t happen again. STIs are just a very uncomfortable subject.”
—27-year-old male
The term “sexually transmitted infections” (STIs) refers to more than 25 infectious organisms passed from person to person primarily through sexual contact. STIs were once called venereal diseases (VDs), a term derived from Venus, the Roman goddess of love. More recently, the term “sexually transmitted diseases” (STDs) replaced “venereal diseases.” Actually, many health professionals continue to use “STD.” However, some believe that “STI” is a more accurate and less judgmental term. Th at is, a person can be infected with an STI organism but not have developed the illness or disease associated with the organism. So, in this book, we use “STI,” although “STD” may appear when other sources are cited. Th ere are two general types of STIs: (1) those that are bacterial and curable, such as chlamydia and gonorrhea, and (2) those that are viral and incurable— but treatable—such as HIV infection and genital herpes. STIs are a serious health problem in our country, resulting in considerable human suff ering. In this chapter and the next, we discuss the incidence (number of new cases) and prevalence (total number of cases) of STIs in our country particu- larly among youth, the disparate impact of STIs on certain population groups, the factors that contribute to the STI epidemic, and the consequences of STIs. We also discuss the incidence, transmission, symptoms, and treatment of the principal STIs that aff ect Americans, with the exception of HIV/AIDS, which is the subject of Chapter 16. Th e prevention of STIs, including protective health behaviors, safer sex practices, and communication skills, is also addressed in this chapter.
“ O rose, thou art sick! The invisible worm That fl ies in the night, In the howling storm, Has found thy bed Of crimson joy, And his dark secret love Does thy life destroy.
—William Blake (1757–1827)
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• The STI Epidemic Th e federal Institute of Medicine (IOM) characterizes STIs as “hidden epidemics of tremendous health and economic consequences in the United States,” adding that “STDs represent a growing threat to the nation’s health and national action is urgently needed.” Th e IOM notes that STIs are a challenging public health problem because of their “hidden” nature. Th e IOM adds that “the sociocultural taboos related to sexuality are a barrier to STD prevention” (Eng & Butler, 1997). Th e “silent” infections of STIs make them a serious public threat requiring greater personal attention and increased health-care resources.
STIs: The Most Common Reportable Infectious Diseases
STIs are common in the United States, but identifying exactly how many cases there are is impossible, and even estimating the total number is diffi cult. Often, an STI is “silent”—that is, it goes undiagnosed because it has no early symptoms or the symptoms are ignored and untreated, especially among people with limited access to health care. Asymptomatic infections can be diagnosed through testing, but routine screening programs are not widespread, and social stigmas and the lack of public awareness about STIs may result in no testing during visits to health-care professionals. And even when STIs are diagnosed, reporting regula- tions vary. Only a few STIs—gonorrhea, syphilis, chlamydia, hepatitis A and B, HIV/AIDS, and chancroid—must be reported by health-care providers to local or state health departments and to the federal Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC). But no such reporting requirement exists for other common STIs, such as genital herpes, human papillomavirus (HPV), and trichomoniasis. In addition, the reporting of STI diagnoses is inconsistent. For example, some private physicians do not report STI cases to their state health departments (American Social Health Association [ASHA], 2006a; CDC, 2011f). In spite of the underreporting and undiagnosed cases, several signifi cant indicators illustrate the STI problem in the United States:
■ STIs are the most common reported infectious diseases in the United States. In 2008, STIs represented four of the fi ve most frequently reported infectious diseases (CDC, 2010d) (see Figure 15.1).
■ An estimated 19 million new STI cases occur each year (CDC, 2011g). ■ STIs negatively impact the lives of more than 65 million Americans
(CDC, 2008g). ■ By age 25, 1 in 2 young persons will acquire an STI (Cates, Herndon,
Schulz, & Darroch, 2004). ■ More than one half of sexually active men and women will become
infected with an STI at some point in their lives (CDC, 2011f ). ■ One in four teenage girls (3.2 million) in the United States is infected
with at least one of the most common STIs: HPV, chlamydia, genital herpes, or trichomoniasis (CDC, 2008h).
Who Is Aff ected: Disparities Among Groups
Anyone, regardless of gender, race/ethnicity, social status, or sexual orientation, can get an STI. What people do—not who they are—exposes them to the organisms that cause STIs. Nevertheless, some population groups are disproportionately
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aff ected by STIs; this disparity refl ects gender, age, and racial and ethnic diff erences (CDC, 2011g).
Gender Disparities Overall, the consequences of STIs for women often are more serious than those for men. Generally, women contract STIs more easily than men and suff er greater damage to their health and reproductive functioning. STIs often are transmitted more easily from a man to a woman than vice versa. Women’s increased likelihood of having an asymptomatic infection results in a delay in diagnosis and treatment (ASHA, 1998a; CDC, 2011f). A kind of “biological sexism” means that women are biologically more sus- ceptible to infection than men when exposed to an STI organism (Hatcher et al., 2007). A woman’s anatomy may increase her susceptibility to STIs. Th e warm, moist interior of the vagina and uterus is an ideal environment for many organisms. Th e thin, sensitive skin inside the labia and the mucous membranes lining the vagina may also be more receptive to infectious organisms than the skin covering a man’s genitals. Th e symptoms of STIs in women are often very mild or absent, and STIs are more diffi cult to diagnose in women due to the physiology of the female reproductive system. Th e long-term eff ects of STIs for women may include pelvic infl ammatory disease (PID), ectopic pregnancy, infertility, cervical cancer, and chronic pelvic pain, as well as possible severe damage to a fetus or newborn, including spontaneous abortion, stillbirth, low birth weight, neurological damage, and death (CDC, 2011f). Lesbian and bisexual women may also be at risk for STIs. A nationally rep- resentative study found the rates of self-reported genital herpes and genital warts to be 15–17% among self-identifi ed bisexual women and 2–7% among self- identifi ed lesbian women (Tao, 2008), both groups aged 15–44. Another study of lesbian and bisexual women found that many underestimated their risk for STIs, had limited knowledge of potential STI transmission, and reported little use of preventive behaviors with female partners, such as washing hands, using rubber gloves, and cleaning sex toys (Marrazzo, Coff ey, & Bingham, 2005). According to a study conducted in Sydney, Australia, women who had sex with other women had a higher rate of bacterial vaginosis (BV) than heterosexual women. Among the women who had sex with other women, 93% reported
*Infection with the Salmonella bacterium that causes diarrheal illness.
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• FIGURE 15.1 Selected Notifi able Diseases, United States, 2008. (Source: Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, 2010d.)
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previous sexual contact with men; they had a median (the numerical value in the middle of the upper half and lower half of a group of numbers) of 12 lifetime male sexual partners, compared with 6 lifetime partners for the heterosexual women. Th us, lesbian women may not be free of STI risk because many women who have sex with other women and self-identify as lesbian also have sex with men during their lifetime (Fetters, Marks, Mindel, & Estcourt, 2000). A study of 35 lesbian and bisexual women aged 16–35 found that BV was associated with reporting a partner with BV, vaginal lubricant use, and the sharing of sex toys (Marrazzo, Th omas, Agnew, & Ringwood, 2010). Studies have found that women who had sex with both men and women had greater odds of having acquired a bacterial STI and had more HIV/STI behavioral risk factors than women who had sex only with men (Bauer, Jairam, & Baidoobonso, 2010; Kaestle & Waller, 2011; Mercer et al., 2007; Scheer et al., 2002). A case study found that female- to-female transmission of syphilis occurred through oral sex (Campos-Outcalt & Hurwitz, 2002). Surveillance data on several STIs suggest that an increasing number of men who have sex with men (MSM) are acquiring STIs. For example, in recent years, MSM have accounted for an increasing number of estimated syphilis cases in the United States. In 2010, 67% of syphilis cases in the U.S. were among MSM (CDC, 2011f ). (HIV/AIDS data for men who have sex with men will be presented in Chapter 16.)
Age Disparities Compared to older adults, sexually active young adolescents, 12 to 19 years old, and young adults, 20 to 24 years of age, are at higher risk for acquiring an STI. About one half of new STI cases are among individuals aged 15–24 although they comprise only about one quarter of the sexually active population (CDC, 2011f; Weinstock, Berman, & Cates, 2004). Young people are at greater risk because they are, for example, more likely to have multiple sexual partners, to engage in risky behavior, to select higher-risk partners, and face barriers to accessing quality STI prevention products and services (CDC, 2007e, 2011f).
Racial and Ethnic Disparities Race and ethnicity in the United States are STI risk markers that correlate with other basic determinants of health status, such as poverty, access to quality health care, health-care-seeking behavior, illegal drug use, and communities with high prevalence of STIs. STI rates are higher among racial and ethnic minorities. (See Figures 15.2 and 15.3 for rates of two STIs—chlamydia and gonorrhea—by race/ethnicity, 2000–2009.) Social factors,
• FIGURE 15.2 Rates of Chlamydia by Race/ Ethnicity, United States, 2000–2009. (Source: CDC, 2010e.)
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such as poverty and lack of access to health care, in contrast to inherent factors, account for this discrepancy.
Factors Contributing to the Spread of STIs
According to the Institute of Medicine, “STDs are behavioral-linked diseases that result from unprotected sex,” and behavioral, social, and biological factors contribute to their spread (Eng & Butler, 1997). Th ese factors are obstacles to the control of STIs in the United States.
Behavioral Factors
Early Initiation of Intimate Sexual Activity People who are sexually active at an early age are at greater risk for STIs because this early initiation increases the total time they are sexually active and because they are more likely to have nonvoluntary intercourse, to have a greater number of sexual partners, and to use condoms less consistently (Manlove, Ryan, & Franzetta, 2003). For exam- ple, a nationally representative sample of 9,844 respondents found that the odds of contracting an STI for an 18-year-old who fi rst had intercourse at age 13 were more than twice those of an 18-year-old who fi rst had intercourse at age 17 (Kaestle, Halpern, Miller, & Ford, 2005).
Sequential Sexual Relationships Th e more exclusive sexual partners an individual has over a period of time (called serial monogamy), the greater the chance of acquiring an STI. (For a discussion of serial monogamy, see Chapter 7.) For example, according to one national study, 1% of respondents with 1 sexual partner within the past year, 4.5% of those with 2–4 partners, and 5.9% of those with 5 or more partners reported that they had become infected with an STI (Laumann, Gagnon, Michael, & Michaels, 1994). In addition, the more sexual partners respondents had, the more likely it was that each of those partners was unfamiliar and nonexclusive. Being unfamiliar with part- ners, especially knowing the person for less than 1 month before fi rst having sex, and having nonexclusive partners were both strongly associated with higher STI incidence. Data from the National Survey of Men and the National Survey of Women discovered that the likelihood of contracting an STI increased with an increase in the number of lifetime sexual partners: Compared to persons with 1 partner, those reporting 2 or 3 partners have 5 times the likelihood of having an STI, and the odds were as high as 31 to 1 for those
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• FIGURE 15.3 Rates of Gonorrhea by Race/ Ethnicity, United States, 2000–2009. (Source: CDC, 2010e.)
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reporting 16 or more lifetime partners (Tanfer, Cubbins, & Billy, 1995). A study found that 34% of sexually active women aged 15–44 were at risk for STIs because either they had more than 1 sexual partner (21%) or their partners had 2 or more partners (23%). Interestingly, 20% of the women whose partners had multiple sexual partners thought that they were in mutually exclusive sexual relationships. Among men aged 18–24, 24% were at risk for STIs because of having 2 or more sexual partners (Finer, Darroch, & Singh, 1999).
Concurrent Sexual Relationships Having concurrent sexual relationships— overlapping sexual partnerships—facilitates the spread of STIs. Research has shown that sexual concurrency is associated with individual STI risk (Manhart, Aral, Holmes, & Foxman, 2002). Th is risk is especially true during acute HIV infection, when transmission is greatest. A nationally representative study of men found that 11% reported concurrent sexual relationships in the past year, mostly involving women. Th ese men were less likely to use a condom during their last sexual encounter; were less likely (than those not reporting concurrent sexual partners) to be married; and were more likely to report several risk factors including drug or alcohol intoxication during sexual intercourse, nonmonogamous female and male partners, and sexual intercourse with men (Adimora & Schoenbach, 2007; Doherty, Schoenbach, & Adimora, 2009). Among women in a nationally repre- sentative study, the prevalence of reported concurrent sexual relationships was 12%, with lowest concurrency being among those currently married (Adimora et al., 2002). A study of STI clinic patients—one half reporting concurrent sexual partners in the past 3 months—found that both men and women believed that having concurrent partners was normal. Th ey thought that no one was exclusive and that, based on previous relationships with nonexclusive partners, they found it diffi cult to trust their partners and be emotionally invested in the relationship. Most of the study participants, particularly the women, were looking for exclusive sexual relationships (Senn, Scott-Sheldon, Seward, Wright, & Carey, 2011).
High-Risk Sexual Partners Having sex with a person who has had many partners increases the risk of acquiring an STI. One example of this is a female who has a bisexual male partner. Often, the female does not know that her male partner also has sex with men. Another example is when an older, sexually experienced person has sex with a younger and less experienced partner (Boyer et al., 2000; Th urman, Holden, Shain, & Perdue, 2009). Also, a survey of 1,515 men aged 18–35 attending health centers found that those who had purchased sex were twice as likely to be infected with an STI than those who had not purchased sex (Decker, Raj, Gupta, & Silverman, 2008). People often select new sexual partners from their social network. If a person acquires an STI, then the social network could be considered a high-prevalence group, thus increasing a person’s chance of future STI infections. Research has shown that selecting new partners from outside one’s social network is associated with reduced risk for repeat STIs (Ellen et al., 2006).
High-Risk Sexual Behavior Certain sexual behaviors with a partner put individuals at higher risk for acquiring an STI than other behaviors. For exam- ple, a study of 1,084 heterosexual men and women patients at an STI clinic found that individuals who had ever engaged in anal intercourse were more likely to report a history of having had an STI (Gorbach et al., 2009). A study
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of women in the rural southern U.S. found that those who reported engaging in more high-risk behaviors in the past 12 months were more likely to report having an STI during that same time (Yarber, Crosby, & Sanders, 2000).
Inconsistent and Incorrect Condom Use Correctly using a latex male con- dom during each sexual encounter and at any time the penis comes into con- tact with the partner signifi cantly reduces the risk of STIs. Several studies have shown that both correct and consistent condom use is associated with lower STI rates in both men and women and lower rates of PID outcomes in women (Grimley, Annang, Houser, & Chen, 2005; Hutchinson, Kip, & Ness, 2007; Nielson et al., 2010; Paz-Bailey et al., 2005; Shlay, McClung, Patnaik, & Douglas, 2004; Wald et al., 2005). (See the box “‘Do You Know What You Are Doing?’ Common Condom-Use Mistakes Among College Students” in Chapter 16 for a review of recent studies of college students and condom-use errors and problems.)
Substance Abuse Th e abuse of alcohol and drugs is associated with high-risk sexual behavior, although researchers are not certain if there is a cause-and-eff ect relationship between alcohol/drug use and risky sexual behavior. Substances may aff ect cognitive and negotiating skills before and during sex, lowering the likelihood that partners will protect themselves from STIs and pregnancy (U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, 2011a). A review of 11 studies of problem drinking and STIs showed an overall association between problematic alcohol use and STI infection (Cook & Clark, 2005).
Sexual Coercion Not all people enter sexual relationships as willing partners, particularly women. Th e 2009 Youth Risk Behavior Survey (CDC, 2010a) revealed that 8% of the adolescents surveyed had experienced forced sexual intercourse, with a greater percentage of females (11%) being coerced than males (6%). Individuals experiencing violence are less able to protect themselves from STIs.
Lack of Knowledge of and Concern About STIs It is important for persons who are sexually active with partners to have knowledge about the wide range of STIs and the ways they are transmitted and prevented. With increased STI information on the Internet and in school health classes, most persons have some fundamental knowledge of STIs and the potential for acquiring an STI through risk behavior. Yet, there are gaps in knowledge among some persons. For example, a study of 393 adolescents found that their specifi c knowledge about non-HIV STIs was only cursory, despite their reports of having received education about STIs (Clark, Jackson, & Allen-Taylor, 2002). A study of 300 sexually active adolescent females, some of whom had received an STI diagnosis and were recruited from health-care sites, concluded that they knew more about their previous STI than about other STIs, including ones they had unknowingly contracted. Th at is, they appeared to learn about STIs mainly after an STI diag- nosis, too late for eff ective prevention behavior, early medical detection, or prompt disease treatment (Downs, de Bruin, Murray, & Fischhoff , 2006). Lastly, focus groups of lesbian and bisexual women revealed that the knowledge of the potential for STI transmission between women and of bacterial vaginosis was limited (Marrazzo, Coff ey, & Bingham, 2005). A study of 1,101 women aged 18–25 found that 75% believed they were at low risk of acquiring an STI in
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For decades, the male condom has been promoted by public health offi cials as an important STI prevention device for sexually active individuals. However, there has been much discussion about how eff ective condoms really are in preventing HIV and other STIs. Some skeptics argue that condoms fail too often and that claims of condom eff ectiveness are misleading and exaggerated. Interestingly, despite these claims and denunciations by skeptics, a random telephone survey of 517 Indiana residents found that nearly 92% considered condoms at least somewhat eff ective in preventing HIV and STIs (Yarber, Milhausen, Crosby, & Torabi, 2005). The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) has issued statements and recommendations on male condoms, female condoms, and STI prevention for public health personnel.
Male Condoms
The CDC’s (2007f, 2009b) recommendations about the male latex condom and the prevention of STIs, including HIV, are based on information about the ways the various STIs are transmitted, the physical nature of condoms, the coverage or protection that condoms provide, and epidemiological studies of condom use and STIs. About STI prevention and condoms, the CDC has this to say:
For persons whose sexual behaviors place them at risk for STDs, correct and consistent use of the male latex condom can reduce the risk of STD transmission. However, no protec- tive method is 100 percent eff ective, and condom use cannot guarantee absolute protection against any STD. Furthermore, condoms lubricated with spermicides are no more eff ective than other lubricated condoms in protecting against the transmission of HIV and other STDs. In order to achieve the protective eff ect of condoms, they must be used correctly and consistently. Incorrect use can lead to condom slip- page or breakage, thus diminishing their protective eff ect. Inconsistent use (e.g., failure to use condoms with every act of intercourse) can lead to STD transmission because transmission can occur with a single act of intercourse.
In addressing specifi c STIs, the CDC has stated that latex con- doms, when used consistently and correctly, are highly eff ective
in preventing the sexual transmission of HIV and reduce the risk of transmission of gonorrhea, chlamydia, and trichomoniasis. Correct and consistent use of latex condoms reduces the risk of genital herpes, syphilis, and chancroid only when the infected area or site of potential exposure is protected. Genital ulcer diseases and human papillomavirus (HPV) infections can occur in both male and female genital areas that are covered or pro- tected by a latex condom, as well as areas that are not covered. Condom use may reduce the risk for HPV infection and HPV- associated diseases such as genital warts and cervical cancer. Two other nonlatex condoms are available. The fi rst type is made of polyurethane or other synthetic materials and provides pro- tection against STIs. It can be substituted for a latex condom for persons with latex allergies. The other type is natural membrane condoms, which are not recommended for protection against STIs (CDC, 2011f, 2011i).
Female Condoms
Research has shown that female condoms, when used properly, are as eff ective as barriers to semen during intercourse as male condoms (Macaluso et al., 2007). When used consistently and correctly, the female condom might substantially reduce the risk for STIs including HIV. The CDC recommends that when a male condom cannot be used properly, sexual partners should con- sider using a female condom. The female condom has also been used for STI/HIV protection during receptive anal intercourse (Gross et al., 1999).
Preventing STIs: The Role of Male Condoms and Female Condoms
SOURCES: Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. (2007). Male latex condoms and sexually transmitted diseases. Available: http://www.cdc.gov/ condomeff ectivness/latex.htm (Last visited 10/12/08); Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. (2010). Sexually transmitted diseases treatment guidelines, 2010. Morbidity and Mortality Weekly Report, 59 (No. RR-12); Yarber, W. L., Milhausen, R. R., Crosby, R. A., & Torabi, M. R. (2005). Public opinion about condoms for HIV and STD prevention: A midwestern state telephone survey. Perspectives on Sexual and Reproductive Health, 37, 148–154; Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. (2011). Condoms and STDs: Fact sheet for public health personnel. Available: http://www.cdc.gov/condomeff ectiveness/ latex.htm (Last visited 11/16/11). Gross, M., et al. (1999). Use of Reality “female condoms” for anal sex by US men who have sex with men. American Journal of Public Health, 89, 1739–1741; Zimmerman, R. (2002, September 25). Some makers, vendors drop N-9 spermicide on HIV risk. The Wall Street Journal Online.
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the next year even though most were having unprotected sex. Some of the women did not perceive STIs as a “big deal” and were desensitized to the risk of contracting STIs (Yarnall et al., 2003).
Erroneous Perception of Partner’s STI Status People also often do not have an adequate perception of whether or not their sexual partner has been diag- nosed with an STI. In one study of STI clinic patients in Southern California, participants indicated that they did not use condoms when they perceived new sexual partners to be STI-free. Instead of directly discussing their partners’ sex- ual history, they relied on both visual and verbal cues to judge whether their partners were disease-free. Th is assessment refl ected serious error in judgment because most of the study participants had, in fact, contracted an STI (Hoff man & Cohen, 1999). A recent study of heterosexual couples attending outpatient clinics found that 10% of women and 12% of men were unaware that their partner had recently received an STI diagnosis. Two percent of women and 4% of men were unaware that their partner is HIV-positive (Witte, El-Bassel, Gilbert, Wu, & Chang, 2010). Th is kind of information underscores the need for communication and honesty as part of STI prevention.
Social Factors
Poverty and Marginalization Individuals in lower socioeconomic groups and those in social networks in which high-risk behavior is common and access to health care is limited are disproportionately aff ected by STIs. Th ese groups include sex workers (people who exchange sex for money, drugs, or other goods), adoles-
cents, persons living in poverty, migrant workers, and incarcerated individuals. STIs, substance abuse, and sex work are closely connected (Eng & Butler, 1997; U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, 2000b). Analysis of nationally representative data of adults aged 18–27 found that contextual conditions were associated with prevalence and recent contraction of STIs. As the number of contextual conditions increased, STI prevalence similarly increased. Conditions associated with STI included housing insecurity, expo- sure to crime, having been arrested, gang participation, childhood sexual abuse, frequent alcohol use, and depression (Buff ardi, Th omas, Holmes, & Manhart, 2008).
Access to Health Care Access to high-quality and culturally sensitive health care is imperative for early detection, treatment, and prevention counseling for STIs. Unfortunately, health services for STIs are limited in many low-income areas where STIs are common, and funds for public health programs are scarce. Without such programs, many people in high- risk social networks have no access to STI care.
Secrecy and Moral Confl ict About Sexuality One factor that separates the United States from other countries with lower rates of STIs is the cul- tural stigma associated with STIs and our general discomfort with sexuality issues. (For further discussion about stigma, see the box “Th e Stigmatization of HIV and Other STIs” in Chapter 16.) Historically, a moralistic, judgmental
stance on STIs has hindered public health eff orts to control STIs. For example, signifi cant funding for AIDS research did not begin until it was clear that hetero- sexual individuals as well as gay men were threatened (Altman, 1985; Shilts, 1987).
It is important for persons who are sexually active to have knowledge about the wide range of STIs and the ways they are transmitted and prevented.
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Biological Factors
Asymptomatic Nature of STIs Most STIs either do not produce any symp- toms or cause symptoms so mild that they go unnoticed or disregarded. A long time lag—sometimes years—often exists between the contracting of an STI and the onset of signifi cant health problems. During the time in which the STI is asymptomatic, a person can unknowingly infect others. Th e individual may not seek treatment, allowing the STI to damage the reproductive system.
Resistance to Treatment or Lack of a Cure Because resistant strains of viruses, bacteria, and other pathogens are continually developing, antibiotics that have worked in the past may no longer be eff ective in treating STIs. Infected people may continue to transmit the STI, either because they believe they have been cured or because they currently show no symptoms. And some STIs, such as genital herpes, genital warts, and HIV, cannot be cured. Th e individual who has any of these viruses is always theoretically able to transmit them to others.
Susceptibility in Women Adolescent women are highly susceptible to acquir- ing chlamydia and gonorrhea because of an immature cervix (ASHA, 1998c). Women who practice vaginal douching are also at greater risk for PID and STIs (National Women’s Health Information Center, 2002b).
Other Biological Factors For many STIs, most scientifi c literature appears to support the preventive value of circumcision; however, other studies refute these fi ndings. A circumcised penis has been linked to reduced risk of STIs such as HPV, gonorrhea, HIV, genital herpes, and syphilis (Bailey et al., 2007; Gray, 2009; National Institutes of Health, 2011; Weiss, Th omas, Munabi, & Hayes, 2006), and one study found reduced risk of HPV for female partners of circumcised males (Wawer et al., 2011). Other studies found that circumci- sion was not related to reduced syphilis and genital herpes prevalence (National Institutes of Health, 2011; Xu, Markowitz, Sternberg, & Aral, 2007), and one study found that early childhood circumcision does not markedly reduce the risk of genital herpes in the general population (Dickson, van Roode, Herbison, & Paul, 2008). Further, research on male circumcision and STI infection in women found that women with circumcised partners had similar risk of chla- mydia, gonorrhea, and trichomoniasis (Turner et al., 2008). Male circumcision has been associated with lower risk of HIV infection in international observational studies and clinical trials in Africa. From these stud- ies, the World Health Organization (WHO) states that “there is compelling evidence that male circumcision reduces the risk of heterosexually acquired HIV infection in men by approximately 60%” (WHO, 2011c). Th e WHO continues to state that it and the Joint United Nations Programme on HIV/ AIDS recommend that male circumcision should be considered as an eff ective intervention for HIV prevention in countries and world regions with heterosexually-acquired HIV epidemics, high HIV prevalence, and low male circumcision prevalence. Th e groups also note that male circumcision provides only partial protection as one element in a comprehensive HIV prevention program that includes HIV testing and counseling, STI treatment, promotion of safer sex behavior, and provision of male and female condoms and promo- tion of their correct and consistent use. Th e U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) states that it has not yet determined if male circumcision
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This scale was developed by William L. Yarber, Mohammad Torabi, and C. Harold Veenker to measure the attitudes of young adults to determine whether they may be predisposed to high or low risk for contracting a sexually transmitted infection. The scale presented here is an updated version of the originally published scale. Follow the directions, and mark your responses to the statements below. Then calculate your risk as indicated.
Directions
Read each statement carefully. Indicate your fi rst reaction by writing the letter that corresponds to your answer.
Key
SA � Strongly agree A � Agree U � Undecided D � Disagree SD � Strongly disagree
1. How I express my sexuality has nothing to do with STIs.
2. It is easy to use the prevention methods that reduce my chances of getting an STI.
3. Responsible sex is one of the best ways of reducing the risk of STIs.
4. Getting early medical care is the main key to preventing the harmful eff ects of STIs.
5. Choosing the right sexual partner is important in reducing my risk of getting an STI.
6. A high prevalence of STIs should be a concern for all people.
7. If I have an STI, I have a duty to get my sexual partners to seek medical treatment.
8. The best way to get my sexual partner to STI treatment is to take him or her to the doctor with me.
9. Changing my sexual behaviors is necessary once the presence of an STI is known.
10. I would dislike having to follow the medical steps for treating an STI.
11. If I were sexually active, I would feel uneasy doing things before and after sex to prevent getting an STI.
12. If I were sexually active, it would be insulting if a sexual partner suggested we use a condom to avoid getting an STI.
13. I dislike talking about STIs with my peers.
14. I would be uncertain about going to the doctor unless I was sure I really had an STI.
15. I would feel that I should take my sexual partner with me to a clinic if I thought I had an STI.
16. It would be embarrassing to discuss STIs with my sexual partner if I were sexually active.
17. If I were to have sex, the chance of getting an STI makes me uneasy about having sex with more than one partner.
18. I like the idea of sexual abstinence (not having sex) as the best way of avoiding STIs.
19. If I had an STI, I would cooperate with public health people to fi nd the source of my infection.
20. If I had an STI, I would avoid exposing others while I was being treated.
21. I would have regular STI checkups if I were having sex with more than one partner.
22. I intend to look for STI signs before deciding to have sex with anyone.
23. I will limit my sexual activity to just one partner because of the chances of getting an STI.
24. I will avoid sexual contact any time I think there is even a slight chance of getting an STI.
25. The chance of getting an STI will not stop me from having sex.
26. If I had a chance, I would support community eff orts to control STIs.
27. I would be willing to work with others to make people aware of STI problems in my town.
Scoring
Calculate points as follows:
Items 1, 10–14, 16, and 25: Strongly agree � 5, Agree � 4, Undecided � 3, Disagree � 2, Strongly disagree � 1 Items 2–9, 15, 17–24, 26, and 27: Strongly Agree � 1, Agree � 2, Undecided � 3, Disagree � 4, Strongly disagree � 5
The higher the score, the stronger the attitude that may predis- pose a person toward risky sexual behaviors. You may also calcu- late your points within three subscales: items 1–9 represent the “belief subscale,” items 10–18 the “feeling subscale,” and items 19–27 the “intention to act” subscale.
SOURCE: Adapted from Yarber, W. L., Torabi, M. R., & Veenker, C. H. (1989). Development of a three-component sexually transmitted diseases attitude scale. Journal of Sex Education and Therapy, 15, 36–49. With permission from the authors.
STI Attitude Scale
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should be recommended for any population in the United States. Th e CDC (2009c) declares that the implementation of any male circumcision recom- mendation would be voluntary and that the ultimate decision rests with indi- viduals and parents. For men who have sex with men, little evidence supports circumcision for HIV/STI prevention. A review of 15 studies involving 53,567 gay and bisexual men in eight countries failed to show any benefi t for HIV protection for those who were circumcised (Millett, Flores, Marks, Reed, & Herbert, 2008). Whether male circumcision should be routinely done as an HIV/STI preven- tion strategy is still debated and remains controversial at the time of the print- ing of this book. On a side note, some males worry that being circumcised will decrease their sexual pleasure; most studies have found little diff erence in sexual sensation and sexual function between those circumcised and those not (CDC, 2008c; Kigozi et al., 2008).
Consequences of STIs
Th e list of problems caused by STIs seems almost endless. Women and infants suff er more serious health damage than men from all STIs. Without medical attention, some STIs can lead to blindness, cancer, heart disease, infertility, ectopic pregnancy, miscarriage, and even death (CDC, 2007g, 2010d; Yarber, 2003). A serious outcome of STI infection is that the presence of other STIs increases the likelihood of both transmitting and acquiring HIV. When someone who is infected with another STI is exposed to HIV through sexual contact, the likeli- hood of acquiring HIV infection is at least 2–5 times higher than when he or she is not infected with an STI. Research has also shown that if an HIV-infected individual is also infected with another STI, that person is more likely to transmit HIV through sexual contact than HIV-infected persons not infected with another STI (CDC, 2010g; U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, 2000b). Besides having human costs, the estimated cost of STI treatment within the U.S. health-care system was $16.9 billion in 2010. Th is cost does not include indirect, nonmedical costs such as lost wages and productivity due to illness, out-of-pocket expenses, and costs related to STI transmission to infants (Chesson et al., 2011).
• Principal Bacterial STIs In this section we discuss chlamydia, gonorrhea, urinary tract infections, and syphilis, the major bacterial STIs. As indicated earlier, bacterial STIs are curable. Table 15.1 summarizes information about all of the principal STIs, including bacterial STIs, viral STIs, vaginal infections, other STIs, and ectoparasitic infestations (parasites that live on the outer skin surfaces).
Chlamydia
Th e most common bacterial STI and most commonly reported infectious dis- ease (see Figure 15.1) in the United States is caused by an organism called Chlamydia trachomatis, commonly known as chlamydia. In 2010, 1,307,893 cases of chlamydia were reported to the CDC, representing a rate increase of about 5% over the 2009 rate. Th e 2010 national rate of chlamydia was
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426 cases per 100,000. An estimated 2.8 million individuals are infected annu- ally with chlamydia. Rates of reported chlamydia infections have been increas- ing annually since 1990, and adolescent and young women remain the population most aff ected by chlamydia (see Figure 15.4) (CDC, 2011f, 2011i; Satterwhite, Tian, Braxton, & Weinstock, 2010).
TABLE 15.1 • Principal Sexually Transmitted Infections
STI and Time from Infecting Exposure to Medical Organism Symptoms Occurrence Treatment Comments
Bacterial STIs
Chlamydia Women: 75% asymptomatic; 7–21 days. Antibiotics If untreated, may lead (Chlamydia others may have abnormal to pelvic infl ammatory trachomatis) vaginal discharge or pain disease (PID) and with urination. Men: About subsequent infertility one half asymptomatic; others in women. Sexually active may have discharge from females aged 25 and penis, burning or itching younger need testing around urethral opening, or every year. persistent low fever.
Gonorrhea Women: Up to 80% Women: Often no Antibiotics If untreated, may lead (Neisseria asymptomatic; others may noticeable symptoms. to pelvic infl ammatory gonorrhoeae) have symptoms similar Men: Usually 2–5 days, disease (PID) and to those of chlamydia. but possibly 30 days subsequent infertility Men: Some asymptomatic; or more. in women. People with others may have itching, gonorrhea can more burning or pain with, easily contract HIV. urination discharge from penis (“drip”).
Urethritis Painful and/or frequent 1–3 weeks. Antibiotics Laboratory testing is (various urination; discharge from important to determine organisms) penis; women may be appropriate treatment. asymptomatic. Can have discharge from vagina and painful urination.
Syphilis Stage 1: Red, painless sore Stage 1: 10–90 days Antibiotics Easily cured, but untreated (Treponema (chancre) at bacterium’s (average 21 days). syphilis can lead to pallidum) point of entry. damage of internal organs. Stage 2: Skin rash over body, Stage 2: 6 weeks There is a two- to including palms of hands and after chancre fi vefold increase of soles of feet. appears. acquiring HIV when already infected with syphilis.
Viral STIs
HIV infection Possible fl ulike symptoms but Several months to No cure available, HIV infection is usually and AIDS often no symptoms during several years. although new diagnosed by tests for (human early phase. Variety of later treatment drugs have antibodies against HIV. immunode- symptoms, including weight improved the health One in fi ve people living fi ciency virus)* loss, persistent fever, night and lengthened the with it are unaware of sweats, diarrhea, swollen lives of many HIV- their infections. lymph nodes, bruise- infected individuals. like rash, persistent cough.
*HIV infection and AIDS are discussed in detail in Chapter 16.
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Genital Small sore or itchy bumps on Within 2 weeks No cure, although Virus remains in body, and herpes genitals or rectum, becoming antiviral medications outbreaks of contagious (herpes blisters that may rupture, can relieve pain, sores may recur. Most simplex forming painful sores; fl ulike shorten and prevent people diagnosed with fi rst virus) symptoms with fi rst outbreak. outbreaks, and reduce episode have four to fi ve transmission to symptomatic recurrences a partners when year, although recurrences medication is taken. are most noticeable in fi rst year and decrease in frequency over time.
Genital Over 40 HPV types, Most people with Visible genital warts Some HPV types can human including genital warts, genital HPV infection can be removed cause cervical cancer. papillomavirus infect the genitals; do not know they by patient or health- HPV usually disappears on infection rectum, mouth, are infected; some care provider with its own without causing (group of and throat. get visible genital prescribed health problems Most people viruses) warts. In 90% of medication. who have sex acquire HPV at cases, the body some time in their lifetime. clears HPV naturally Vaccines protect girls and within 2 years. women against genital warts and cervical, anal, vaginal and vulvar cancers and boys and men against genital warts and anal cancers.
Viral Fatigue, diarrhea, nausea, 1–4 months No medical treatment Hepatitis B is more hepatitis abdominal pain, jaundice, available; rest and commonly spread through (hepatitis A darkened urine due to fl uids are prescribed sexual contact. Both A or B virus) impaired liver function. until disease runs and B can be prevented its course. by vaccinations.
Vaginal Infections
Vaginitis Intense itching of vagina Within a few days Depends on Not always acquired (Gardnerella and/or vulva, unusual up to 4 weeks. organism; oral, sexually. Other causes vaginalis, discharge with foul or fi shy topical, and vaginal include stress, birth control Trichomonas odor, painful intercourse. Men medications are pills, pregnancy, tight vaginalis, or who carry organisms may be available. pants or underwear, Candida asymptomatic. antibiotics, douching, vaginal albicans) products, and poor diet.
Ectoparasitic Infestations
Pubic lice, Itching, blue and gray spots, Hatching of eggs Creams, lotions, or Avoid sexual contact with crabs and insects or nits (eggs) in in 6–10 days. shampoos—both people having unusual (Pediculosis pubic area; some people may over-the-counter spots or insects or nits in pubis) have no symptoms. and prescription. the genital area. Also avoid contaminated clothing, sheets, and towels.
STI and Time from Infecting Exposure to Medical Organism Symptoms Occurrence Treatment Comments
Chlamydia is so common in young women that, by age 30, 50% of sexually experienced women show evidence that they had chlamydia sometime during their lives (CDC, 2001). Women who develop the infection 3 or more times have as great as a 75% chance of becoming infertile. Pelvic infl ammatory disease (PID) occurs in 10–15% of women with untreated chlamydia. Also, research
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shows that women infected with chlamydia have a 5 times greater chance of acquiring HIV if exposed (CDC, 2011i). Untreated chlamydia can be quite painful and can lead to conditions requiring hospitalization, including acute arthritis. Infants of mothers infected with chlamydia may develop dangerous eye, ear, and lung infections. Any sexually active person can become infected with chlamydia. Th is is particularly true for adolescent girls and young women since their cervix is not fully matured and is probably more susceptible to infection. Chlamydia can be transmitted during vaginal, anal, or oral sex and from an infected mother to her baby during vaginal childbirth. Men who have sex with men are at risk for chlamydial infections since chlamydia can be transmitted dur- ing oral or anal sex. Chlamydia is known as a “silent” disease; about three fourths of infected women and about one half of infected men have no symptoms. If symptoms do occur, they usually appear within 1–3 weeks after exposure. When early symptoms occur in women, they are likely to include unusual vaginal discharge, a burning sensation when urinating and frequent urination, and unexplained vaginal bleeding between menstrual periods. Later symptoms, when the infection spreads from the cervix to the fallopian tubes, are low abdominal pain, lower back pain, bleeding between menstrual periods, a low- grade fever, and pain during intercourse. One third to one half of men are asymptomatic when fi rst infected. Men’s symptoms may include unusual dis- charge from the penis, a burning sensation when urinating, itching and burn- ing around the urethral opening (urethritis), pain and swelling of the testicles, and a low-grade fever. Th e last two symptoms may indicate the presence of chlamydia-related epididymitis, infl ammation of the epididymis. Untreated epididymitis can lead to infertility. Chlamydia responds well to antibiotic ther- apy. Rectal pain, discharge, or bleeding may occur in men or women who acquired chlamydia during receptive anal intercourse. A study of 3,076 men who have sex with men that was conducted in London HIV clinics found that the prevalence of chlamydia in the rectum was 8% and in the urethra 5%. HIV and rectal chlamydia coinfection was 38%. Most of the rectal infections (69%) were asymptomatic and would not have been found if screening had not been conducted (Annan et al., 2009). Chlamydia can also be found in the throats of men and women engaging in oral sex with an infected person (CDC, 2011f, 2011j).
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Th e CDC recommends yearly chlamydia testing for all sexually active women aged 25 and younger, older women with risk factors (new sex partner or multiple sex partners), and all pregnant women. Two types of laboratory tests can be used to detect chlamydia. One kind tests a urine sample; another tests fl uid from a man’s penis or a woman’s cervix. A Pap smear does not test for chlamydia (CDC, 2011j).
Gonorrhea
Gonorrhea is the second most commonly reported notifi able disease in the United States, where the highest reported rates of infection are among sexually active teenagers, young adults, and African Americans. Th e CDC estimates that more than 700,000 persons in the United States become infected with gonor- rhea each year. Less than half of these infections are reported to the CDC. In 2010, 309,341 cases of gonorrhea in the U.S. were reported to the CDC, a rate of 101 per 100,000 (CDC, 2011f, 2011k). Popularly referred to as “the clap” or “the drip,” gonorrhea is caused by the Neisseria gonorrhoeae bacterium. Th e organism thrives in the warm, moist environment provided by the mucous membranes lining the mouth, throat, vagina, cervix, urethra, and rectum. Gon- orrhea is transmitted during vaginal, anal, or oral sex with an infected person. Ejaculation does not have to occur for gonorrhea to be transmitted or acquired. Men tend to experience the symptoms of gonorrhea more readily than women, notably as a watery discharge (“drip”) from the penis, the fi rst sign of urethritis. (“Gonorrhea” is from the Greek, meaning “fl ow of seed.”) Some men infected with gonorrhea may have no symptoms at all. Other men have signs and symptoms that appear 2–5 days after infection. But symptoms can take as long as 30 days to appear (CDC, 2011k). Besides a watery discharge, symptoms in men may include itching or burning at the urethral opening and pain when urinating. If untreated, the disease soon produces other symptoms, such as thick yellow or greenish discharge, increasing discomfort or pain with urination, and painful or swollen testicles. Up to 80% of women with gonorrhea show no symptoms or very mild symptoms, which they tend to ignore. Because untreated gonorrhea, like untreated chlamydia, can lead to PID, it is important for women to be on guard for symptoms and to be treated if they think they may have been exposed to gonorrhea (e.g., if they have had numerous sexual partners). Symptoms a woman may experience include thick yellow or white vaginal discharge that might be bloody, a burning sensation when urinating, unusual pain during menstruation, and severe lower abdominal pain. Both females and males may have mucous discharge from the anus, blood and pus in feces, irritation of the anus, and mild sore throat. Gonorrhea is curable with several antibiotics. However, drug-resistant strains of gonorrhea are increasing in many parts of the United States and the world, making successful treatment more diffi cult. Persons with gonorrhea should be tested for other STIs. Untreated gonorrhea can cause sterility in both sexes, ectopic pregnancy, prostate damage, epididymitis, scarring of the urethra in men, and testicular pain. Gonorrhea may be passed to an infant during childbirth, causing conjunctivitis (an eye infection) and even blindness if not treated. Peo- ple with gonorrhea can more easily contract HIV. People with HIV infection and gonorrhea are more likely than people with HIV infection alone to transmit HIV to others (CDC, 2008j, 2011k).
Gonorrhea infection in men is often characterized by a discharge from the penis.
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Urinary Tract Infections
Urethritis, the infl ammation of the urethra, can result from sexual exposure and noninfectious conditions. Among the several organisms that cause these infections, the most common and most serious is chlamydia. Urinary tract infections are sometimes referred to as nongonococcal urethritis (NGU). Th e diagnosis of NGU occurs more frequently in men, largely due to their anatomy. In men, ure- thritis may produce a burning sensation when urinating, burning or itching around the opening of the penis, white or yellowish discharge from the penis, and underwear stain. Women are likely to be asymptomatic. Th ey may not realize they are infected until a male partner is diagnosed. If a woman does have symptoms, they are likely to include itching or burning while urinating and unusual vaginal discharge. It is important to have a laboratory test for an unusual discharge from the penis or vagina so that the appropriate antibiotic can be prescribed. Antibiotics are usually eff ective against NGU. Untreated NGU may result in permanent damage to the reproductive organs of both men and women and problems in pregnancy. Th e organisms that cause NGU in men may cause other infections in women, such as cervicitis, which is discussed later in this chapter (ASHA, 2008, 2011a; CDC, 2011f ). Th e most common urinary tract infection among women, cystitis, is briefl y discussed later in this chapter.
Syphilis
Syphilis, a genital ulcerative disease, is caused by the bacterium Treponema pallidum. In the United States, health offi cials reported 45,834 cases of syphilis in 2010, including 13,774 cases of primary and secondary syphilis (see below for explanation of primary and secondary syphilis). Most syphilis cases in 2011 occurred in individuals aged 20–36. Although syphilis rates decreased steadily in the United States during 1900–2000, the rate increased annually during 2001–2009 before decreasing in 2010 to 4.5 cases per 100,000 in the population. Syphilis continues to be a serious problem in the south and in urban areas in other parts of the U.S. and among MSM (CDC, 2011f; Su, Beltrami, Zaidi, & Weinstock, 2011). In 2010, 67% of the reported primary and secondary (P&S) syphilis cases were among MSM, largely because of high rates of HIV coinfection and high-risk sexual behavior. Treponema pallidum is a spiral-shaped bacterium (a spirochete) that requires a warm, moist environment such as the genitals or the mucous membranes inside the mouth to survive. It is spread by direct contact with a syphilis sore during vaginal, anal, and oral sexual behavior. Syphilis cannot be spread through contact with toilet seats, doorknobs, swimming pools, hot tubs, bathtubs, shared clothing, or eating utensils. Th e syphilis bacterium of an infected mother can infect the baby during the pregnancy. Depending on how long the woman has been infected, she may have a high risk of having a stillborn baby or giv- ing birth to a baby who dies soon after birth. An infected baby may be born and not have any signs or symptoms, but if not treated immediately, the baby may develop serious health problems within a few weeks. Untreated infants may become developmentally delayed, have seizures, or die. Untreated syphilis in adults may lead to brain damage, heart disease, blindness, and death. Syphilis has often been called “the great imitator” since many of its signs and symptoms are indistinguishable from those of other diseases. Yet, many people infected with syphilis do not have any symptoms for years but remain at risk for complications if they are not treated. Although transmission occurs
“ I had the honor To receive, worse luck!
From a certain empress A boiling hot piss.
—Frederick the Great (1712–1786)
“ And he died in the year fourteen-twenty. Of the syphilis, which he had a-plenty.
—François Rabelais (1490–1553)
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from individuals with sores who are in the primary and secondary stages, many of these sores are unrecognized or hidden. Th us, transmission may occur from people who are unaware of their infection. Syphilis progresses through three discrete stages, although it is most often treated during the fi rst two:
■ Stage 1: Primary syphilis. Th e fi rst symptom of syphilis appears from 10 to 90 days (average 21 days) after contact with an infected partner. It is a small, red, pea-sized bump that soon develops into a round, painless sore called a chancre (SHANK-er). Th e person’s lymph nodes may also be swollen. Th e chancre may appear on the labia, the shaft of the penis, the testicles, or the rectum; within the vagina; within the mouth; or on the lips. Unless it is in a visible area, it may not be noticed. Without treat- ment, it will disappear in 3–6 weeks, but the bacterium remains in the body, and the person is still highly contagious.
■ Stage 2: Secondary syphilis. Untreated primary syphilis develops into second- ary syphilis about 6 weeks after the chancre has disappeared. Th e principal symptom at this stage is a skin rash that neither itches nor hurts. Th e rash is likely to occur on the palms of the hands and the soles of the feet, as well as on other areas of the body. Th e individual may also experience fever, swollen lymph nodes, patchy hair loss, headaches, weight loss, muscle aches, and fatigue. Th e rash or other symptoms may be very mild or may pass unnoticed. Th e person is still contagious.
■ Stage 3: Latency. If secondary syphilis is not treated, the symptoms disappear within 2–6 weeks, and the latent stage begins. Th e infected person may experience no further symptoms for years or perhaps never. After about a year, the bacterium can no longer be spread to sex partners, although a pregnant woman can still transmit the disease to her fetus. Th e late stages of syphilis can develop in about 15% of people who have not been treated for syphilis and can appear 10–20 years after infection was acquired. In the late stages, damage may occur many years later in internal organs, such as the brain, nerves, eyes, heart, blood vessels, liver, bones, and joints. Damage could also include diffi culty coordinating muscle move- ments, paralysis, numbness, gradual blindness, dementia, and even death.
The fi rst symptom of syphilis is a red, pea-sized bump called a chancre at the site where the bacterium originally entered the body.
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In the primary, secondary, and early latent stages, syphilis can be successfully treated with antibiotics. Th ere is an estimated two- to fi vefold increase in the chances of acquiring HIV if exposed to that infection when syphilis is present (CDC, 2008k, 2011l).
• Principal Viral STIs Four principal viral STIs—HIV and AIDS, genital human papillomavirus infection, genital herpes, and hepatitis—are discussed here. Recall that diseases caused by viruses are treatable, but not curable.
think about it
In 1932 in Macon County, Alabama, the U.S. Public Health Service, with the assistance of the Tuskegee Institute, a prestigious Black college, recruited 600 African American men to participate in an experiment involving the eff ects of untreated syphilis on Blacks. Of this group, 399 men had been diagnosed with syphilis and 201 were controls. The study was originally meant to last 6–9 months, but “the drive to satisfy scientifi c curiosity resulted in a 40-year experiment that followed the men to ‘end point’ (autopsy)” (Thomas & Quinn, 1991). The history of this experiment—the racial biases that created it, the cynicism that fueled it, and the callousness that allowed it to continue—is chillingly chronicled by James Jones (1993) in Bad Blood: The Tuskegee Syphilis Experiment and Susan Reverby (2009) in Examining Tuskegee: The Infamous Syphilis Study and Its Legacy. The purpose of the study was to determine if there were racial diff erences in the developmental course of syphilis. The racial prejudice behind this motivation may seem hard to fathom today, yet, as we shall see, the repercussions still reverberate strongly through African American communities (Ross, Essien, & Torres, 2006). Much of the original funding for the study came from the Julius Rosenwald Foundation (a philanthropic organization dedicated to improving conditions within African American communities), with the understanding that treatment was to be a part of the study. Although Alabama law required prompt treatment of diagnosed venereal diseases, the state Public Health Service managed to ensure that treatment was withheld from the participants. Even after 1951, when penicillin became the standard treatment for syphilis, the Public Health Service refused to treat the Tuskegee “subjects” on the grounds that the experiment was a “never-again-to-be-repeated opportunity” (Jones, 1993).
The Tuskegee Syphilis Study: A Tragedy of Race and Medicine
The Tuskegee participants were never informed that they had syphilis. The Public Health Service, assuming they would not understand medical terminology, referred to it as “bad blood,” a term used to describe a variety of ailments in the rural South. The participants were not told their disease was sexually transmitted, nor were they told it could be passed from mother to fetus. It was not until 1966 that anyone within the public health system expressed any moral concern over the study. A congres- sional subcommittee headed by Senator Edward Kennedy began hearings in 1973. The results included the rewriting of the Department of Health, Education, and Welfare’s regulations on the use of human subjects in scientifi c experiments. A $1.8-billion class-action suit was fi led on behalf of the Tuskegee participants and their heirs. A settlement of $10 million was reached out of court. Each survivor received $37,500 in damages, and the heirs of the deceased each received $15,000. Also, a congressionally mandated program, the Tuskegee Health Benefi t Program, provides comprehensive lifetime medical benefi ts to the aff ected widows and off spring of participants in the Tuskegee syphilis study (Reverby, 2009). Current public health eff orts to control the spread of HIV infection, AIDS, and other STIs raise the specter of genocide and beliefs of conspiracy among many members of the African American community. Research on African American people living in the United States has found that a signifi cant proportion of respondents endorsed HIV/AIDS conspiracy beliefs; that is, HIV/AIDS was created by the federal government to kill and wipe out African Americans. Among African American men, stronger conspiracy beliefs were signifi cantly associated with negative attitudes about condoms and lower likelihood of condom use (Bogart, Galvan, Wagner, & Klein, 2011; Bogart & Thornton, 2005; Hutchinson et al., 2007; Ross, Essien, & Torres, 2006).
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Many of the current beliefs of African American people about HIV/AIDS as a form of genocide are attributed to the Tuskegee syphilis study. On both physiological and psychological levels, there is much healing to be done. Even though it is unthinkable that such a study would be done today, eff orts must still be made to ensure that all people are protected against such tragedies. For refl ections on the legacy of the Tuskegee study, see Caplan, 1992; Jones, 1993; King, 1992; and Reverby, 2009). Several Internet sites provide further information about this terrible experiment, including the transcript of President Clinton’s 1997 formal apology to study participants.
Think Critically 1. Is it possible for another medical experiment like the
Tuskegee syphilis study to happen in America today? Explain your view.
2. What can be done to prevent another Tuskegee syphilis study?
3. What can the medical and scientifi c community do to gain the trust of all Americans?
AUTH © 1972 The Philadelphia Inquirer. Reprinted with permission of UNIVERSAL PRESS SYNDICATE. All rights reserved.
HIV and AIDS
On June 5, 1981, the U.S. government published a report warning about a rare disease, eventually named as acquired immunodefi ciency syndrome, or AIDS (CDC, 1981). Since that time, this disease has become an enor- mous public health challenge nationally and globally. Human immunodefi - ciency virus (HIV)—the virus that causes AIDS—and AIDS have claimed millions of lives worldwide, becoming one of the deadliest epidemics in human history. Despite advances in medical testing and treatment and pre- vention eff orts, HIV/AIDS remains a signifi cant public health problem. Because of its major global impact and continued medical and prevention
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challenge, we have decided to devote an entire chapter to HIV and AIDS, which follows this chapter.
Genital Human Papillomavirus Infection
Genital human papillomavirus infection, or genital HPV, is a group of viruses that includes more than 100 diff erent strains; over 40 are sexually transmitted and can infect the genitals, rectum, mouth, and throat. Currently, at least 20 million people in the U.S. are infected with HPV, with 6 million new infec- tions reported each year, accounting for one third of all new STIs. HPV is the most common STI among young, sexually active people, particularly women. At least one half of sexually experienced men and women acquire genital HPV infection at some point in their lives. By age 50, at least 80% of women will have acquired genital HPV infection (ASHA, 2011b; CDC, 2008l, 2011h). Th e type of HPV that infects the genital area is spread primarily through sexual contact with an infected person. In rare instances, a pregnant woman can pass HPV to her baby during vaginal delivery. Th e incubation period (the period between the time a person is fi rst exposed to a disease and the time the symptoms appear) is usually 6 weeks to 8 months. You cannot see HPV. Most people who have a genital HPV infection do not know they are infected, and most infections are temporary. Sometimes, certain types of HPV can cause genital warts in men and women. Other HPV types can cause cervical cancer and less common cancers of the vulva, vagina, anus, and penis. Th e types of HPV that can cause genital warts are not the same as the types that can cause cancer. HPV types are referred to as “low risk” (wart causing) or “high risk” (cancer causing). In 90% of the cases, the body’s immune system clears the HPV—both high-risk and low-risk types—naturally within 2 years. If a high-risk HPV infection is not cleared by the immune system, it can linger for many years and turn abnormal cells into cancer over time. About 10% of women with high-risk HPV on their cervix will develop long-lasting HPV infections that will put them at risk for cervical cancer (CDC, 2008l, 2011h). Th e Pap test can identify abnormal or precancerous tissue in the cervix so that it can be removed before cancer develops. An HPV DNA test, which can fi nd high-risk HPV on a women’s cervix, may also be used with a Pap test in certain cases. Th ere is no general test for men and women to check one’s over- all “HPV status,” nor is there an approved HPV test to fi nd HPV on the genitals or in the mouth or throat. HPV usually goes away on its own, without causing health problems. So an HPV infection that is found today will most likely not be there a year or two from now. Hence, there is no reason to be tested just to fi nd out if you have HPV now. But you should get tested for signs of diseases that HPV can cause, such as cervical cancer (CDC, 2008l, 2011h). (See Chapter 13 for recommendations about frequency of pap smears.) Th e genital-wart history of a national sample of 8,849 men and women found that 7% of women and 4% of men reported ever being diagnosed with genital warts (Dinh, Sternberg, Dunne, & Markowitz, 2008). About 1% of sexually active adults in the U.S. have genital warts at some point in their lives. Genital warts usually appear as soft, moist, pink, or fl esh-colored swell- ings, usually in the genital area. Th ey can also be fl at, single or multiple, small or large, and sometimes caulifl ower shaped. Th ey can appear on the penis or scrotum, in or around the vagina or anus, on the cervix, or on the groin or
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thigh. Visible genital warts can be removed by the patient him- or herself with prescribed medications or treated by a health-care provider. Some people choose not to treat warts but see if they disappear on their own. No one treatment is better than another. If the warts cause discomfort or problems (such as interfering with urination), they can be removed by cryosurgery (freezing) or laser surgery. Removal of the warts does not eliminate HPV from the person’s system. Because the virus can lie dormant in the cells, in some cases warts can return months or even years after treatment. Th e extent to which a person can still transmit HPV after the visible warts have been removed is unknown. In recent years, a major medical breakthrough has occurred in protecting thousands of females and males against the health-impairing outcomes of HPV infection. Two HPV vaccines have been developed, and the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services highly recommends their use. In June 2006, the U.S. Food and Drug Administration approved the HPV vaccine Gardasil (Merck) for use by females aged 9–26; in October 2009, this vaccine was also licensed for use in males aged 9–26. Gardasil protects against HPV types 6 and 11 (the cause of 90% of genital warts) and types 16 and 18 (the cause of 70% of cervical cancer). Gardasil also prevents HPV associated with anal, vulvar and vaginal cancers. In 2009, another HPV vaccine, Cervarix (GlaxoSmithKline), was approved for types 16 and 18. Both of these vaccines are given in three shots over 6 months (ASHA, 2011a; CDC, 2011f, 2011m). One study found that since the Gardasil HPV vaccination began in 2007 in Australia, the num- ber of women seeking treatment for genital warts decreased 59% (Donovan et al., 2011). Despite its signifi cant health value, the eff ort to vaccinate all young people has faced diffi culties. For example, nationally representative data have shown that only one third of girls aged 13–17 have been vaccinated (Pruitt & Schootman, 2010). Studies have shown that some girls taking the HPV vaccine did not complete the vaccine series in the 6-month time period or did not complete the series (Widdice, Bernstein, Leonard, Marsolo, & Kahn, 2011) or would not take the vaccine even if it was free (Crosby, Casey, Vanderpool, Collins, & Moore, 2011). In addition, parental acceptance of the HPV vaccine has been mixed (Dempsey, Butchart, Singer, Clark, & Davis, 2011; Milhausen, Crosby & Yaber, 2008). Although many parents accept HPV vac- cination, some parents believe that vaccinating girls against HPV condones premarital/teen sex. Further educational eff orts to promote the value of HPV vaccines, particularly to parents, need to occur. Th e American Social Health Association (ASHA) has developed a support service for people with HPV called the HPV and Cervical Cancer Prevention Resource Center (http://www.ashastd.org). It provides information about HPV and its link to cervical cancer, support groups for emotional issues surrounding HPV, and an e-mail address ([email protected]) where people share their experiences with HPV, which are posted on the ASHA website. If you have HPV, don’t blame your current sexual partner or assume that your partner is not sexually exclusive with you. Remember, most people who have sex will have HPV at some time in their lives, and they may have HPV for a very long time before it is detected. Most people do not realize they are infected or that they are passing on the virus to a sexual partner. Sexual partners usually share HPV, particularly those who are together for a long time. Th ere should be no shame or blame involved with having genital HPV; the virus is very common.
Genital warts appear in a variety of forms.
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Genital Herpes
Genital herpes is an STI caused by the herpes simplex virus (HSV) type 1 (HSV-1) and type 2 (HSV-2). Most genital herpes is caused by HSV-2. Nation- ally representative data show that genital herpes infection occurs commonly in the United States, with 16.2% of people aged 14–49, or about 1 in 6 persons in that age group, having a genital HSV-2 infection. Over the past decade, the percentage of Americans with genital herpes in the United States has remained stable. Genital HSV-2 infection is more common in women (about 1 in 5 women aged 14–49) than men (about 1 in 9 men aged 14–49). Th is may be due to male-to-female transmission being more likely than female-to-male transmis- sion. Herpes can make people more susceptible to HIV infection, and it can make HIV-infected individuals more infectious (CDC, 2010h). Actually, many HIV-infected persons are coinfected with HSV-2 (Romanowski et al., 2009). HSV-1 and HSV-2 can be found and released from the sores that the viruses cause, but also can be released between outbreaks from skin that does not appear to be broken or have a sore (Tronstein, 2011). Generally, a person can get HSV-2 infection only during sexual contact with someone who has a gen- ital HSV-2 infection. It is important to know that transmission can occur from an infected partner who does not have a visible sore and may not know that he or she is infected. HSV-1 can cause genital herpes, but it more often causes infections of the mouth and lips, so-called fever blisters. HSV-1 infection of the genitals can be caused by oral-genital or genital-genital contact with a person infected with HSV-1. Genital HSV-1 outbreaks recur less regularly than genital HSV-2 outbreaks. Most infected people have no or minimal signs or symptoms from HSV-1 and HSV-2 infection. When signs appear, they typically occur within 2 weeks after the virus is transmitted and appear as one or more blisters on or around the genitals or rectum. Th e blister breaks, leaving tender ulcers (sores) that may take 2–4 weeks to heal the fi rst time they occur. Most people diagnosed with a fi rst episode of genital herpes can expect to have several (typically four or fi ve) outbreaks within a year, but they are almost always less severe and shorter than the fi rst outbreak. Even though the infection can stay in the body indef- initely, the number of outbreaks tends to decrease over a period of years (CDC, 2008m, 2010a).
Managing HSV Th ere is no cure for herpes, but there are medications that can help to keep the virus in check (Handsfi eld, Warren, Werner, & Phillips, 2007). Antiviral medications can relieve pain, shorten the duration of sores, prevent bacterial infections at the open sores, and prevent outbreaks while the person is taking the medications. Other actions that may be useful in prevent- ing, shortening the duration of, or lessening the severity of recurrent outbreaks include getting plenty of rest, maintaining a balanced diet, avoiding tight clothes, keeping the area cool and dry, taking aspirin or other painkillers, and reducing stress. Individuals with herpes should inform their partners and together decide what precautions are right for them. Because having sex during a recognized outbreak or when other symptoms are present (e.g., fl ulike symptoms, swollen glands, fever) puts an uninfected partner at risk, people should abstain from sex when signs and symptoms of either oral or genital herpes are present. Th e male latex condom can help prevent infections, but only when the condom covers the ulcer. Condoms should be used between outbreaks of the ulcers.
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Also, daily suppressive therapy for symptomatic herpes can reduce transmission to partners. Pregnant women or their partners who have HSV should be sure to discuss precautionary procedures with their medical practitioners. Genital herpes often causes psychological distress in people who know they are infected. ASHA has developed a support service for people with herpes infections called the Herpes Resource Center (http://www.ashastd.org). It pro- vides accurate and current information about herpes, such as the STI Resource Center Hotline (919-361-8488), and referrals to local support groups.
Viral Hepatitis
Hepatitis is a viral disease meaning infl ammation of the liver. Th e most com- mon types of the virus that can be sexually transmitted are hepatitis A and hepatitis B. A third type, hepatitis C, is a common virus passed on primarily through contact with infected blood; risk of transmittal from sexual partners or from mothers to newborns during birth is low. Hepatitis A is transmitted primarily through oral contact with contaminated food or water or through sexual contact, especially oral-anal sex. In the United States, there were an estimated 21,000 new hepatitis A infections in 2009, a decrease from 56,000 estimated new infections in 2004. A highly eff ective vac- cine, which is routinely given to all children, travelers to certain countries, and persons at risk for the disease, can prevent hepatitis A. Although the symptoms of hepatitis A are similar to those of hepatitis B, the disease is not considered as dangerous. Individuals infected with hepatitis A usually experience short- term illness, recover completely, and develop immunity against reinfection (CDC, 2009d, 2011n). Hepatitis B is 50–100 times more infectious than HIV. It is commonly spread through sexual contact, in blood, semen, saliva, vaginal secretions, and urine. In the United States, two thirds of acute hepatitis cases resulted from sexual contact with the virus. It can also be contracted by using contaminated needles and syringes, including those used in ear piercing, acupuncture, and tattooing, and by sharing the toothbrush or razor of an infected person. Unlike hepatitis A, hepatitis B is not spread routinely through food or water. It is not spread by sharing eating utensils, breastfeeding, hugging, kissing, holding hands, coughing, or sneezing. An estimated 700,000 to 1.4 million Americans are chronically infected with hepatitis B. Th e number of new infections per year has declined dramatically from an average of 260,000 per year in the 1980s to about 38,000 in 2009 (CDC, 2009e, 2011n). Anyone can get hepatitis B,
Herpes lesions may develop on the penis, perineum, anus, vulva, or within the vagina.
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but individuals in their teens and twenties are at greater risk. Because hepatitis B spreads “silently”—that is, without easily noticeable symptoms—many peo- ple are not aware it is in their communities. Chronic hepatitis B is a serious disease that can result in long-term health problems and even death. About 2,000 to 4,000 people die every year from hepatitis B–related liver disease (CDC, 2009e). Hepatitis B can be prevented by a simple, widely available vaccine. Th e CDC (2009e) recommends routine vaccination for those most at risk, includ- ing sexually active people not in a long-term, exclusive relationship, men who have sex with men, people who share drug-injection equipment, people whose sexual partner has hepatitis B, and people with HIV. Screening for hepatitis B is also recommended for pregnant women so that their newborns can be imme- diately vaccinated if necessary. Usually given as three or four shots over a 6-month period, the vaccine is safe and eff ective and provides lasting protec- tion. Tattoos and body piercings should be done at parlors that thoroughly sterilize the instruments used to penetrate the skin. In 2009, there were an estimated 16,000 new hepatitis C virus infections in the United States. An estimated 3.2 million individuals in the U.S. have chronic hepatitis C, and about 75–85% of people who become infected with hepatitis C will develop a chronic infection. About 8,000 to 10,000 people die every year from hepatitis C–related liver disease (CDC, 2009f, 2011n). Risk of infec- tion from sexual activity is low unless it involves blood contact; numerous sexual partners, failure to use condoms, a history of STIs, and sexual activities involving trauma (e.g., “rough” sex) increase the risk. About 50–90% of HIV- infected persons who use injection drugs are also infected with hepatitis C. Most cases of hepatitis C can be traced to blood transfusions before 1992, the sharing of needles during injection drug use, and accidental needle-sticks. Known as the “silent epidemic,” hepatitis C damages the liver over the course of many years, and even decades, before symptoms appear. Th e symptoms of all forms of hepatitis include fatigue, diarrhea, nausea, abdominal pain, jaundice, darkened urine, and an enlarged liver. About 15–25% of people who get hepatitis C will clear the virus from their bodies without treatment and will not get a chronic infection. Th ere is no medical treatment nor vaccine for hepatitis C. Occasionally, serious liver damage or death results.
• Vaginal Infections Vaginal infections, or vaginitis, aff ect 3 out of 4 women at least once in their lives. Th ese infections are often, though not always, sexually transmitted. Th ey may also be induced by an upset in the normal balance of vaginal organisms by such things as stress, birth control pills, antibiotics, nylon panty hose, and douching. Th e three principal types of vaginitis are bacterial vaginosis, candi- diasis, and trichomoniasis.
Bacterial Vaginosis
Bacterial vaginal infections, referred to as bacterial vaginosis (BV), may be caused by a number of diff erent organisms, most commonly Gardnerella vagi- nalis, often a normal inhabitant of the healthy vagina. An overabundance of Gardnerella, however, can result in vaginal discharge, odor, pain, itching, or burning. Bacterial vaginosis is the most common vaginal infection in women
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of childbearing age and, in the United States, is common among pregnant women. An estimated 29% of American women (21 million) aged 14–49 have BV now, but the vast majority do not report symptoms to their health-care provider (CDC, 2008q, 2010i; Koumans et al., 2007). Not much is known about how women get bacterial vaginosis, and there are many unanswered questions about the role that harmful bacteria play in causing it and what role sexual activity plays in its development. Any woman can get BV, although some activities can upset the normal balance of bacteria in the vagina and put women at risk, including having a new sexual partner or numerous partners and douch- ing. Research has shown that douching at least once a month is associated with BV but that most female hygienic behaviors, such as type of underwear, men- strual protection, or hygienic spray or towelettes, were found not to be related to BV (Hutchinson, Kip, & Ness, 2007; Klebanoff et al., 2010). Bacterial vaginosis may also be spread between female sex partners (Bailey, Farquhar, & Owen, 2004). Women who never had sexual intercourse may get BV (Tabrizi, Fairley, Bradshaw, & Garland, 2006). Most often this infection causes no com- plications, although having it can increase a woman’s susceptibility to HIV infection and other STIs such as chlamydia and gonorrhea and can increase the chances that an HIV-infected woman can pass HIV to her sexual partner. BV may also put a woman at increased risk for some complications during pregnancy. Even though bacterial vaginosis sometimes clears up without treatment, all women with symptoms of BV should be treated with antibiotics so that the bacteria that cause BV do not infect the uterus and fallopian tubes, an infection called pelvic infl ammatory disease, or PID. Male partners generally do not need to be treated (CDC, 2010d). A study of women at high risk for STI found that consistent condom users had a 45% decreased risk for BV than women not using condoms consistently (Hutchinson et al., 2007).
Genital Candidiasis
Genital candidiasis, also known as a “yeast infection,” is a common fungal infection that occurs when there is an overgrowth of the fungus called Candida albicans. Candida is always present in the body (e.g., vagina, mouth, gastroin- testinal tract) in a small amount; however, when an imbalance occurs, such as when the normal acidity of the vagina changes or when hormonal balance changes, Candida can multiply. Women with a vaginal yeast infection usually experience itching or burning, with or without a “cottage cheese–like” vaginal discharge. Males with genital candidiasis, which occurs on rare occasions, may have an itchy rash on the penis. Nearly 75% of all adult women have had at least one vaginal yeast infection in their lifetime. Vaginal yeast infections are rarely transmitted during sexual activity. While most cases are caused by the person’s own Candida organisms, the use of birth control pills or antibiotics, frequent douching, pregnancy, and diabetes can promote yeast infections. Gen- ital candidiasis occurs more often and with more severe symptoms in people with weakened immune systems. Antifungal drugs, taken orally, applied directly to the aff ected area, or used vaginally, are the drug of choice for vaginal yeast infections and are eff ective 80–90% of the time. Because over-the-counter (OTC) treatments are becoming more available, more women are diagnosing themselves with vaginal yeast infec- tions and using one of a family of drugs called “azoles” for therapy. However,
“Sex is a pleasurable exercise in plumbing, but be careful or you’ll get
yeast in your drainpipe.
—Rita Mae Brown (1944–)
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personal misdiagnosis is common and studies show that as many as two thirds of OTC drugs sold to treat vaginal yeast infections are used by women without the disease, which may lead to resistant infections. Resistant infections are very diffi cult to treat with currently available medications. Th erefore, it is important to be sure of the diagnosis before treating with OTC or other antifungal med- ications (CDC, 2010j).
Trichomoniasis
Trichomoniasis is caused by a single-celled protozoan parasite, Trichomonas vaginalis. Trichomoniasis is the most common curable STI in young, sexually active women. An estimated 7.4 million new cases occur each year in women and men (CDC, 2007i). One study of 1,209 women attending three STI clin- ics found that trichomoniasis, unlike other STIs, was found more often in older compared to younger women (Helms et al., 2008). In women, the vagina is the most common site of infection; in men, it is the urethra. Th e parasite is sexually transmitted during penile-vagina intercourse or vulva-to-vulva contact with an infected person. Women can acquire the disease from infected men or women, but men usually contract it only from infected women. Symptoms are more common in women than men, although up to one half of infected women are asymptomatic. Some women have signs and symptoms usually within 5–28 days after exposure, which include frothy, yellow-green vaginal discharge with a strong odor. Th e infection may also cause discomfort during intercourse and urination, as well as itching and irritation of the female genital area, and, rarely, lower abdominal pain. Some men may temporarily have an irritation inside the penis, mild discharge, or slight burning after urination or ejaculation. For both women and men, a physical examination and a laboratory test are used to diagnose trichomoniasis, although it is harder to detect in men (CDC, 2007i). Prescription drugs are eff ective in treating trichomoniasis. To prevent reinfec- tion, both partners must be treated, even if the partner is asymptomatic.
• Other STIs A number of other STIs appear in the United States, but with less frequency than they do in some developing countries. Among these other STIs are the following:
■ Chancroid is a painful sore or group of sores on the penis, caused by the bacterium Hemophilus ducreyi. Women may carry the bacterium but are generally asymptomatic for chancroid.
■ Cytomegalovirus (CMV) is a virus of the herpes group that aff ects peo- ple with depressed immune systems. A fetus may be infected with CMV in the uterus.
■ Enteric infections are intestinal infections caused by bacteria, viruses, protozoans, or other organisms that are normally carried in the intestinal tract. Amebiasis, giardiasis, and shigellosis are typical enteric infections. Th ey often result from anal sex or oral-anal contact.
■ Granuloma inguinale appears as single or multiple nodules, usually on the genitals, that become lumpy but painless ulcers that bleed on contact.
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■ Lymphogranuloma venereum (LGV) begins as a small, painless lesion at the site of infection and then develops into a painful abscess, accompa- nied by pain and swelling in the groin.
■ Molluscum contagiosum, caused by a virus, is characterized by smooth, round, shiny lesions that appear on the trunk, on the genitals, or around the anus.
• Ectoparasitic Infestations Although they are not infections per se, parasites such as scabies and pubic lice can be spread by sexual contact. Scabies and pubic lice are considered ecto- parasitic parasites or infestations since they live on the outer surfaces of the skin.
Scabies
Th e red, intensely itchy rash caused by the barely visible mite Sarcoptes scabiei is called scabies. It usually appears on the genitals, buttocks, feet, wrists, knuckles, abdomen, armpits, or scalp as a result of the mites’ tunneling beneath the skin to lay their eggs and the baby mites’ making their way back to the surface. Typically, fewer than 10 to 15 mites can be present on the entire body of an infested person. On a person, scabie mites can live as long as 1–2 months, but off a person they usually do not survive more than 48–72 hours. It is highly contagious and spreads quickly among people who have close contact, both sexual and nonsexual. Th e mites can also be transferred during prolonged contact with infested linens, furniture, or clothing. Scabies is usually treated with a prescribed lotion, applied at bedtime and washed off in the morning. Clothing, towels, and bedding of people who have scabies should be disinfected by washing in hot water and drying in high heat or by dry cleaning (CDC, 2010k).
Pubic Lice
Th e tiny Phthirus pubis, commonly known as a “crab,” moves easily from the hair of one person to that of another (probably along with several of its relatives). Pubic lice usually are found in the genital area on pubic hair, although they can be found on other coarse body hair such as hair on the legs, armpits, mustache, and beard. To live, lice must feed on blood. When pubic lice mate, the male and female grasp adjacent hairs; the female soon begins producing eggs (nits), which she attaches to the hairs at the rate of about three eggs a day for 7–10 days. Th e nits hatch within 6–10 days and begin reproducing in about 2–3 weeks, creating a very ticklish (or itchy) situation. Although pubic lice and nits can be large enough to be seen with the naked eye, a magnifying lens may be necessary to fi nd lice or eggs. Pubic lice can be transmitted during sexual contact with a person who has crabs, moving from the pubic hair of one person to the pubic hair of another. Th ey may fall into underwear, sheets, or towels, where they can survive up to a day and lay eggs that hatch in about a week. Th us, it is possible to get crabs simply by sleeping in an infected person’s bed, wearing his or her clothes, or sharing a towel. People can usually tell when they have pubic lice. Th ere is intense itching, and upon inspection, they discover a tiny, pale, crablike louse or its minuscule, pearly nits attached near the base of a pubic hair. Th ere are both prescription
Pubic lice, or “crabs,” are easily spread during intimate contact; they may also be transmitted via bedding, towels, or underwear.
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and over-the-counter treatments for pubic lice. An infested person does not have to shave off his or her pubic hair to get rid of crabs. In addition to kill- ing all the lice and nits on the body, infested individuals must wash all linen and clothing in hot water and dry it in high heat, or the crabs may survive (ASHA, 2011d; CDC, 2010l).
• STIs and Women In addition to the direct eff ects that STIs have on the body, women are vulner- able to complications from STIs that threaten their fertility. Th ese are related to the biological factors, discussed earlier, that make women more susceptible to STIs and make STIs more diffi cult to detect in women than in men.
Pelvic Infl ammatory Disease (PID)
As discussed in Chapter 12, pelvic infl ammatory disease (PID), also known as salpingitis, is one of the leading causes of female infertility. Up to 750,000 women experience an episode of acute PID annually, resulting in 10–15% of these women becoming infertile each year due to the consequences of PID. PID occurs when bacteria move upward from a woman’s vagina or cervix into her uterus, fallopian tubes, and other reproductive organs. Several organ- isms can cause PID, but many cases are associated with gonorrhea and chla- mydia. A prior episode of PID increases the risk of another episode because the reproductive organs may have been damaged during the initial episode. Sexually active women in their childbearing years are at most risk, and those under age 25 are more likely to develop PID than those older than 25. Because the cervix of teenage girls and young women is not fully mature, their suscep- tibility to the STIs that are linked to PID are increased. Women with repeated episodes of PID are more likely to suff er infertility, ectopic pregnancy, or chronic pelvic pain than those who have had just one episode. Risk behaviors for PID include having numerous sex partners, having a partner who has more than one sex partner, and douching. Symptoms of PID vary from none, to subtle and mild, to severe. PID is diffi cult to diagnose because of the absent or mild symptoms, and many epi- sodes go undetected. PID goes unrecognized by women and their health-care providers about two thirds of the time. Because there is no precise test for PID, a diagnosis is usually based on clinical fi ndings. Symptoms of PID include lower abdominal pain, fever, unusual vaginal discharge that may have a foul odor, painful intercourse, painful urination, irregular menstrual bleeding, and, rarely, pain in the upper right abdomen. PID can be cured with several types of antibiotics (CDC, 2011o).
Cervicitis
Cervicitis is an infl ammation of the cervix, the lower end of the uterus. Cer- vicitis might be a sign of upper genital infection, most often caused by a sexually transmitted infection such as gonorrhea or chlamydia. Frequently there are no signs of cervicitis, but some women complain of abnormal vaginal dis- charge, painful urination, and vaginal bleeding between menstrual periods, such as after sexual intercourse. A woman is at greater risk for cervicitis associated with STIs if she engages in high-risk sexual behavior, such as not using condoms
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or having sex with numerous partners, and if she began having sex at an early age. Having a history of STIs is also a risk factor. Since the signs of cervicitis are not often noticed, the infection may be discovered only in the course of a routine Pap test. Th is is one important reason to have regular pelvic exams and Pap tests. A woman may not need treatment for cervicitis if it is not caused by an STI. If it is caused by an STI, both the woman and her partner are likely to need treatment. Prescription medications often are eff ective in clearing up the infl ammation of cervicitis (CDC, 2007g, 2011f; Mayo Clinic, 2007c).
Cystitis
A bladder infection that aff ects mainly women, cystitis is often related to sexual activity, although it is not transmitted from one partner to another. Cystitis is characterized by painful, burning urination and a nearly constant need to urinate. Cystitis occurs when a bacterium such as Escherichia coli, normally present in the lower intestine and in fecal material, is introduced into the urinary tract. Th is can occur when continuous friction (from intercourse or manual stimula- tion) in the area of the urethra traumatizes the tissue and allows nearby bacte- ria to enter the urinary tract. It often occurs at the beginning of a sexual relationship, when sexual activity is high (hence the nickname “honeymoon cystitis”). If cystitis is not treated promptly with antibiotics, more serious symp- toms such as lower abdominal pain, fever, and kidney pain will occur. Damage to the kidneys may occur if treatment is delayed.
• Preventing STIs It seems that STIs should be easy to prevent, at least in theory. But in reality, STI prevention involves a subtle interplay of knowledge, psychological factors, couple dynamics, and behaviors.
Avoiding STIs
STIs can be transmitted by sexual contact with an infected partner, by infected blood in injection-drug equipment, and from an infected mother to her child. Because we know that STIs are transmitted by certain behaviors, we know exactly how to keep from getting them. Th ose behaviors are particularly impor- tant because research has shown, for example, that many people underestimate their risk of becoming infected with an STI and the risk behavior of potential sexual partners, and in one study most heterosexual dating couples with a sexual relationship had not done anything in the past 4 weeks to avoid STIs (Billy, Grady, & Sill, 2009; Kaiser Family Foundation, 2001b; Masaro, Dahinten, Johnson, Ogilvie, & Patrick, 2008). Here is how to avoid STIs:
1. Practice abstinence. Th e closest thing to a foolproof method of STI prevention is abstaining from intimate sexual contact, especially penile- vaginal intercourse, anal intercourse, and oral sex. Hugging, kissing, caressing, and mutual masturbation are all ways of sharing intimacy that are extremely unlikely to transmit STIs. Freely adopted, abstinence is a legitimate personal choice regarding sexuality. If you wish to remain abstinent, you need to communicate your preferences clearly and unambiguously to your dates or partners.
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2. Practice sexual exclusivity. Uninfected partners who practice sexual exclusivity in a long-term relationship or marriage will not contract an STI through sexual contact unless one partner had an STI when he or she started having sexual contact. Certainly, it is not always possible to know if someone is infected or if she or he is exclusive. Th is is one reason it is wise to refrain from sexual activity until you can form a trusting relationship with an uninfected partner.
3. Reduce risk during sexual intimacy. Unless you are certain that your partner is not infected, you should not allow his or her blood, semen, or vaginal fl uids to touch your genitals, mouth, or anus. One of the best ways to prevent these fl uids from entering your body is to properly use the male latex condom (or polyurethane condom if allergic to latex). (Guidelines on proper use of the condom are provided in Chapter 11.) Studies have shown that adolescent couples who use condoms at the beginning of their sexual relationship often stop using them and turn to hormonal contraception. Certainly, the lack of condom use for these couples makes them vulnerable to STI transmission if one of the partners is not sexually exclusive. Douching, washing, and urinating after sex have been suggested as possible ways of reducing STI risk, but their eff ectiveness has not been proved.
4. Select partners carefully. Knowing whether a partner might be infected with an STI can be tricky. Th us, this strategy is often not reliable. Certainly, you should avoid sexual contact with someone at high risk for having an STI, such as an individual who has had numerous or has concurrent partners and/or who injects drugs. A person may not be honest about his or her sexual partners or drug use. As shown in studies, it is usually impossible to determine who is infected by merely looking at the person or by his or her reputation. One research project showed
An important part of controlling the spread of STIs is having free access to condoms and relevant information.
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that the most attractive persons were perceived to be at least risk for STI/HIV (Hennessy, Fishbein, & Curtis, 2007). According to another study, the participants had used visual and verbal cues to judge if their partners were disease-free. But in this case, their judgment was wrong, as most of their partners had contracted an STI (Hoff man & Cohen, 1999). A study of STI clinic patients found that many used partner attributes and relationship characteristics (family, trust, knowledge of partner’s sexual history) as an index in evaluating partner safety; their assessments were inaccurate when compared to their partner’s self- reported risk (Masaro, Dahinten, Johnson, Ogilvie, & Patrick, 2008). If you do not know each other well, you would be wise to exchange phone numbers in the event of an STI infection or other problem or, better yet, wait until you know each other better before initiating sexual activity.
5. Avoid numerous partners. As noted in this chapter, having numerous sexual partners (sequential sexual relationships over time) increases the risk for STIs.
6. Avoid injection and other drugs. Another way to avoid HIV and hepatitis B is to not inject drugs and to not share needles and syringes if drugs are injected. Certainly, the drug equipment should be cleaned if sharing occurs. Not only can drugs harm your health, but they can also alter your judgment.
7. Get vaccinated. Unfortunately, only HPV and hepatitis A and hepatitis B have vaccines. Th e vaccine for HPV was approved by the FDA for girls and young women and boys and young men.
8. Protect babies. Most STIs can be transmitted from mother to child during pregnancy or childbirth. Most often, proper medical treatment can protect the baby from permanent damage. HIV-infected mothers should not breastfeed their babies. A woman who has an STI and becomes pregnant should inform her doctor, and all pregnant women should be checked for STIs.
9. Be a good communicator. Acquiring an STI requires that you have been sexually intimate with another person. Avoiding an STI demands even more intimacy because it frequently means having to talk. You need to learn how best to discuss prevention with potential sexual partners and to communicate your thoughts, feelings, values, needs, and sexual code of behavior. Good communicators are less likely to do things against their values or beliefs. And you should never have sex with someone who will not talk about STI prevention.
Treating STIs
If you contract an STI, you can infect others. Practicing health-promoting behaviors will prevent others from acquiring an STI.
1. Recognize STI symptoms. People who practice risky sexual behaviors or inject drugs should be alert to possible STI symptoms, especially if they have sex with partners at risk for STIs. To help avoid STIs, you should know what symptoms to look for, in yourself and others. Changes in the genitals may indicate an infection, although symptoms of some STIs can appear anywhere, and some changes may indicate a health problem other than an STI. If you suspect an infection, you
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practically speaking
Safer sex practices are an integral part of good health prac- tices. (Many people prefer the term “safer sex” to “safe sex” be- cause all sexual contact carries at least a slight risk—a condom breaking, perhaps—no matter how careful we try to be.)
Safer Practices
■ Hugging ■ Kissing (but possibly not deep, French kissing) ■ Massaging ■ Petting ■ Masturbation (solo or mutual, unless there are sores or
abrasions on the genitals or hands)
■ Erotic videos, books, and so on
Possibly Safe Practices
■ Deep, French kissing, unless there are sores in the mouth ■ Vaginal intercourse with a latex condom (or polyurethane
condom if allergic to latex)
■ Fellatio with a latex condom ■ Cunnilingus, if the woman is not menstruating or does not
have a vaginal infection (a latex dental dam provides extra protection)
■ Anal intercourse with a latex condom (experts disagree about whether this should be considered “possibly safe” even with a condom because it is the riskiest sexual behavior without one)
Unsafe Practices
■ Vaginal or anal intercourse without a latex condom ■ Fellatio without a latex condom ■ Cunnilingus, if the woman is menstruating or has a vaginal
infection and a dental dam is not used
■ Oral-anal contact without a dental dam ■ Contact with blood, including menstrual blood ■ Semen in the mouth ■ Use of vibrators, dildos, and other “toys” without washing
them between uses
Safer and Unsafe Sex Practices
should not try to diagnose the condition yourself, but should consult a physician or health-care provider. In general, the symptoms of STIs are genital or rectal discharge, abdominal pain, painful urination, skin changes, genital itching, and fl ulike conditions. However, some STIs do not have any symptoms until the disease is well advanced, symptoms often disappear and then come back, and most STIs can still be passed on to someone even when the symptoms are not visible, are absent, or disappear. Actually, most people who are infected with an STI have no noticeable symptoms. Males are likely to notice symptoms earlier and more frequently than females. If you suspect an infection, you should stop having sex, stop injecting drugs, promptly see a health-care provider, and have sexual partners go to a doctor or clinic.
2. Seek treatment. If you suspect that you might have an STI, you should seek medical care immediately. Public STI and HIV/AIDS clinics, private doctors, family planning clinics, and hospitals are all places to get treatment. Do not use home remedies, products bought in the mail or through the Internet, or drugs obtained from friends.
3. Get partners to treatment. People who get treatment for an STI are doing the right thing, but they also need to encourage sexual partners and injection-drug-use partners to seek professional care immediately. Th is helps prevent serious illness in the partner, prevents reinfection, and helps control the STI epidemic. Because the fi rst sign that a woman has
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an STI is often when her male partner shows symptoms, female partners especially should be advised. And even if a partner has no symptoms of an STI, he or she should still see a health-care provider.
We kill our selves, to propagate our kinde.
—John Donne
(1572–1631)
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Summary The STI Epidemic
■ STIs are a “hidden” epidemic in the United States, representing four of the fi ve most frequently re- ported infectious diseases. STIs negatively aff ect more than 65 million Americans. Women, teens and young adults, and minority racial and ethnic groups are disproportionately aff ected by STIs.
■ STIs are behavior-linked diseases resulting largely from unprotected sexual contact. Behavioral, social, and biolog- ical factors contribute to the spread of STIs. Th e behav- ioral risk factors include early initiation of intimate sexual activity, sequential sexual relationships, high-risk sex- ual partners, high-risk sexual behavior, inconsistent and incorrect condom use, substance abuse, sexual coercion, lack of personal knowledge and concern about STIs, and erroneous perception of partner’s risk. Social risk factors include poverty and marginalization, lack of access to health care, and secrecy and moral confl ict about sexuality. Biological factors include the asymptomatic nature of STIs, resistance to treatment, and lack of cures.
■ Without medical attention, STIs can lead to serious health problems, including sterility, cancer, heart disease, blindness, ectopic pregnancy, miscar- riage, and death. Th e presence of an STI increases the risk of acquiring an HIV infection if exposed. Th e direct cost of STIs is $16.9 billion annually.
Principal Bacterial STIs
■ Bacterial STIs are curable and include chlamydia, gonorrhea, urinary tract infections (NGU), and syphilis.
■ Chlamydia is the most common bacterial STI in the United States and very common in young women in whom repeated chlamydial infections can lead to infertility.
■ Gonorrhea is the second most commonly notifi able disease in the United States. Men tend to experience the symptoms of gonorrhea more readily than women. Untreated gonorrhea can lead to pelvic infl ammatory disease.
A national panel of public health offi cials and youth, in its 2004 report addressing the STI problem among youth aged 15–24, Our Voices, Our Lives, Our Futures: Youth and Sexually Transmitted Diseases (Cates, Herndon, Schulz, & Darroch, 2004), empha- sized in the conclusion the importance and role of youth in stemming the STI prob- lem in America. Still pertinent today, the report stated:
In conclusion, young people need to participate in protecting their health, talking with their partners and others about sexual issues, pursuing how and when to get medical testing, and making wise choices as they grow up. It is the responsibility of the larger community to support young people with adequate and easy access to STD information and services. Young people are not mere statistical victims of this country’s STD epidemic, and they are not unique in acquiring sexually trans- mitted infections. They have a crucial role to play in designing, running, and evalu- ating programs aimed at protecting youth from STDs. In partnership with parents, policy makers, health-care providers, religious leaders, educators, and others, youth hold the key to conquering this epidemic in American society. When youth are able to prevent STDs and make healthy choices for themselves, the results benefi t not only youth, but society at large and potentially future generations.
Final Thoughts
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■ Urinary tract infections can occur in both men and women and are sometimes referred to as nongonococcal urethritis. Untreated NGU can lead to damage of the reproductive organs of both men and women.
■ Syphilis, a genital ulcerative disease, increases by two- to fi vefold the chances of an infected person acquiring HIV if exposed to an HIV-infected person.
Principal Viral STIs
■ Viral STIs are incurable, but treatable, and include HIV and AIDS, genital human papillomavirus infec- tion, genital herpes, and hepatitis.
■ HIV and AIDS has become one of the deadliest epi- demics in human history. Because this disease remains an enormous medical and public health challenge, an entire chapter (16) is devoted to it.
■ Genital human papillomavirus infection, or HPV, is the most common STI among sexually active young people, particularly women. Some people infected with HPV get genital warts. Persistent HPV infection is a key risk factor for cervical cancer. A vaccine has been approved for both males and females that pro- tects against HPV strains that can result in cervical and anal cancer and genital warts.
■ One in fi ve women and one in nine men aged 14–49 are infected with genital herpes. Genital herpes can make people more susceptible to HIV infection, and it can make HIV-infected individuals more infectious.
■ Hepatitis is a viral disease aff ecting the liver. Th e most common types that can be sexually transmitted are hepatitis A and hepatitis B.
Vaginal Infections
■ Vaginal infections, or vaginitis, are often, though not always, sexually transmitted and include bacterial vaginosis, candidiasis, and trichomoniasis.
■ Bacterial vaginosis (BV) is the most common vaginal infection in women of childbearing age. Any woman can get BV, even women who never have had sexual intercourse.
■ Candidiasis, also known as a “yeast infection,” is an overgrowth of a normally present fungus in the body. Nearly 75% of all adult women have at least one vag- inal yeast infection in their lifetime.
■ Trichomoniasis is the most common curable STI in young, sexually active women. Th ere are an esti- mated 7.4 million new cases in the United States each year in women and men.
Other STIs
■ Several STIs that do not appear in the United States as often as in developing countries include chancroid, cy- tomegalovirus, enteric infections, granuloma inguinale, lymphogranuloma, and molluscum contagiosum.
Ectoparasitic Infestations
■ Ectoparasitic infestations are parasites that live on the outer surface of the skin and can be spread sexually. Th ey include scabies and pubic lice.
■ Scabies is caused by a barely visible mite and is highly contagious. It spreads quickly among people who have close contact, sexually or nonsexually (e.g., prolonged contact with infested bedding).
■ Pubic lice, commonly known as “crabs,” can move easily from the pubic hair of one person to that of another.
STIs and Women
■ Women tend to be more susceptible than men to STIs and to experience graver consequences, such as pelvic infl ammatory disease (PID), an infection of the fallopian tubes that can lead to infertility, and ec- topic pregnancy. Cervicitis is the infl ammation of the cervix, most commonly caused by an STI. Intense stimulation of the vulva can irritate the urethra, lead- ing to cystitis (bladder infection).
Preventing STIs
■ STI prevention involves the interaction of knowl- edge, psychological factors, couple dynamics, and risk-avoiding behaviors. Ways to avoid STIs include abstinence, sexual exclusivity, careful partner selec- tion, male condom use, and avoidance of numerous partners and injection drugs. People practicing risky behavior should be alert to possible STI symptoms, seek treatment promptly if an STI is suspected, and inform partners of a known or suspected STI.
Questions for Discussion ■ Given that condoms are one of the most
important measures for reducing the risk of STI transmission and that many young people do not like condoms, what can be done to make condom use more appealing?
■ What would be your most important concern if you just learned you had an STI? Who would
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you tell? What resources would you need? And where could you go to get help?
■ Would it be diffi cult for you to inform a past sexual partner that you have an STI and that he or she might have it too? What would be your “opening line” to get the discussion started?
Rural Center for AIDS/STD Prevention http://www.indiana.edu/~aids Provides information about issues related to HIV/STI prevention in rural communities.
World Health Organization http://www.who.int/topics/sexually_transmittedinfections/en Provides STI fact sheets and publications and information on related topics.
Suggested Reading Brandt, A. M. (1987). No magic bullet: A social history of venereal
disease in the United States since 1880. New York: Oxford University Press. An informative and highly readable history of the social and political aspects of STIs.
Dizon, D. S., & Krychman, M. L. (2011). Questions and answers about human papillomavirus (HPV). Burlington, MA: Jones & Bartlett. Written by two medical doctors, this book provides authoritative answers to the most commonly asked questions about HPV.
Ebel, C., & Wald, A. (2007). Managing herpes: Living and loving with HSV. Research Triangle Park, NC: American Social Health Association. An essential resource for anyone looking for more information about topics such as transmission, treatment, and telling a partner about one’s genital herpes infection.
Hayden, D. (2003). Pox: Genius, madness, and the mysteries of syphilis. Boulder, CO: Basic Books. From Beethoven to Oscar Wilde, from Van Gogh to Hitler, this book describes the eff ects of syphilis on the lives and works of seminal fi gures from the fi fteenth to twentieth centuries.
Lowry, T. P. (2005). Venereal disease and the Lewis and Clark expedition. Lincoln: University of Nebraska Press. Describes how sex and venereal disease aff ected the men and mission of the Lewis and Clark expedition.
Marr, L. (2007). Sexually transmitted diseases: A physician tells you what you need to know. Baltimore, MD: Th e Johns Hopkins University Press. A comprehensive guide on the prevention, diagnosis, and treatment of STIs for both gays and straights.
Reverby, S. M. (2009). Examining Tuskegee: Th e infamous syphilis study and its legacy. Chapel Hill, NC: University of North Carolina Press. An analysis of the 40-year syphilis experiment by the U.S. Public Health Service involving hundreds of African American men.
Sex and the Internet The American Social Health Association The American Social Health Association (ASHA), founded in 1914, is a nonprofi t organization focusing on STI preven- tion. ASHA publishes a variety of educational materials, provides direct patient support through a national STI hotline and resource centers, and advocates increased funding for STI programs and sound public policies on STI control. ASHA also operates a website: http://www.ashastd .org. Go to it and then answer the following questions:
■ What programs does ASHA off er? ■ What services are provided on its website? ■ What are the current ASHA headlines? ■ What products are available at the ASHA online store?
If you were diagnosed with an STI, would you seek more information from this site? Why or why not?
Suggested Websites CDC National Prevention Information Network http://www.cdcnpin.org Th e nation’s largest collection of information resources on HIV/AIDS, STI, and TB prevention.
Centers for Disease Control and Prevention http://www.cdc.gov/hiv Provides information on HIV/AIDS. http://www.cdc.gov/std Provides information on STIs.
Joint United Nations Programme on HIV/AIDS http://www.unaids.org Contains epidemiological information on HIV/AIDS worldwide, as well as perspectives on HIV/AIDS-related issues.
Kaiser Family Foundation http://www.kff .org Off ers fact sheets and news releases on STI and HIV/AIDS.
For links, articles, and study material, go to the McGraw-Hill website, located at
www.mhhe.com/yarber8e.
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What Is AIDS? 520
The Epidemiology and Transmission of HIV 526
AIDS Demographics 533
Prevention and Treatment 542
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Student Voices
mad at both of my parents for not tell- ing me earlier. My mom wouldn’t let me go see Dad because he looked really bad and was in a lot of pain. I didn’t get to see him or talk to him before he died. If I had known he was going to die so soon, I would have found a way to see him.”
—19-year-old female
“You have to deal not only with the illness [AIDS] but with the prejudices that you encounter every day.”
—26-year-old male
“I think HIV and STDs are the biggest reasons why I’m not promis- cuous. I’d love to have sex with multiple partners and experiment, but even if I used a condom every time, I would still feel very much at risk. That is why I am monogamous in my relationship.”
—20-year-old female
“I am aware of HIV and STDs, and they are not something I take lightly. In my relationship, trust and honesty are key points, and we discussed our histories ahead of time. We then made educated decisions.”
—20-year-old female
“I no longer hate you or feel angry with you [AIDS]. I realize now that you have become a positive force in my life. You are a messenger who has brought me a new understanding of my life and myself. So for that I thank you, forgive you, and release you. Because of you I have learned to love myself.”
—21-year-old male
“My father had AIDS. When he found out, I was only four years old. My parents chose to keep it a secret from me and my brothers. I lived with my dad then. Though he felt sick some- times, we did the normal things that a family would do throughout the rest of my childhood. When I turned twelve Dad became very sick and was hospitalized. I went to live with my mother. When Dad came out of the hospital, he went to live with my grandparents. Still, no one told me what was wrong with him. Two years later, my mom fi nally told me that Dad had AIDS and was going to die soon. I was shocked and
Few phenomena have changed the face of sexuality as dramatically as the appearance over 30 years ago of the microscopic virus known as HIV, or human immunodefi ciency virus. In the early 1980s, physicians in San Francisco, New York, and Los Angeles began noticing repeated occurrences of formerly rare diseases among young and relatively healthy men. Kaposi’s sarcoma, a cancer of the blood vessels, and Pneumocystis carinii pneumonia, a lung infection that is usually not dangerous, had become killer diseases because of the breakdown of the immune system of the men in whom these diseases were being seen (Cen- ters for Disease Control and Prevention [CDC], 1981). Even before the virus responsible for the immune system breakdown was discovered, the disease was given a name: acquired immunodefi ciency syndrome, or AIDS. In the mid-1980s, the causative agent of AIDS, HIV, was discovered. At fi rst, AIDS within the United States seemed to be confi ned principally to three groups: gay men, Haitians, and people with hemophilia. Soon, how- ever, it became apparent that AIDS was not confi ned to just a few groups; the disease spread into communities with high rates of injection drug use and into the general population, including heterosexual men and women (and their children) at all socioeconomic levels. Th e far-reaching consequences of the AIDS epidemic, in addition to the pain and loss directly caused by the illness, have included widespread fear, superstition, stigmatization, prejudice, and hatred. Ignorance of its modes of transmission has fueled the fl ames of homophobia among some people. Among others, it has kindled a general fear of sexual expression. By now, most of us know how HIV is spread. And yet, for a variety of reasons, people continue to engage in behaviors that put them at risk. We hope that the material in this chapter will help you make healthy, informed choices
AIDS has changed us forever. It has brought out the best of us, and the
worst.
—Michael Gottlieb, MD (1948–)
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for yourself and become an advocate for education and positive change in the community. Because of the tremendous amount of AIDS research being con- ducted, some of the information presented here, particularly HIV/AIDS inci- dence and prevalence, could be outdated by the time this book appears in print. For updates on HIV/AIDS research fi ndings and news, contact the U.S. Cen- ters for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) (the web address is given in the “Sex and the Internet” section) or one of the agencies or websites listed at the end of this chapter. We begin the chapter by describing the biology of the disease and the immune system. We next discuss the epidemiology and transmission of HIV and the demographic aspects of the epidemic—that is, the eff ect of HIV/AIDS on various groups and communities. Th en we address HIV prevention, testing and current treatment. Finally, we discuss living with HIV or AIDS.
• What Is AIDS? AIDS is an acronym for acquired immunodefi ciency syndrome. Th is medical condition was so named because HIV is acquired (not inherited) and subse- quently aff ects the body’s immune system to the point where it often becomes defi cient in combating disease-causing organisms, resulting in a group of symp- toms that collectively indicate or characterize a disease or syndrome. To monitor the spread of AIDS through a national surveillance system, the CDC has established a defi nition of AIDS. To receive an AIDS diagnosis under the CDC’s classifi cation system (and thus be eligible for treatments, programs, and insurance funds that would not otherwise be available), a person must, in most cases, have a positive blood test indicating the presence of HIV antibod- ies and a T-cell count (discussed later) below 200. If the T-cell count is higher, AIDS can still be diagnosed if the person has one or more of the diseases or conditions associated with AIDS (discussed shortly). If a person has HIV anti- bodies, as measured by a blood test, but does not meet the other criteria, he or she is said to “have HIV,” “be HIV-positive,” “be HIV-infected,” or “be living with HIV.” Infection with HIV produces a spectrum of diseases that progress from a latent or asymptomatic state to AIDS as a late manifestation. Th e rate of this progression varies (CDC, 1992, 2007j). In 1993, T-cell count, along with cervical cancer/cervical intraepithelial neo- plasia (CIN), pulmonary tuberculosis, and recurrent bacterial pneumonia, was added to the CDC defi nition of AIDS (CDC, 1992). Th ese additions led to a dramatic increase in the number of people who “offi cially” have AIDS.
Conditions Associated With AIDS
Th e CDC lists over 20 clinical conditions to be used in diagnosing AIDS along with HIV-positive status (CDC, 1996b). Th ese conditions fall into sev- eral categories: opportunistic infections, cancers, conditions associated specifi - cally with AIDS, and conditions that may be diagnosed as AIDS under certain circumstances.
Opportunistic Infections Diseases that take advantage of a weakened immune system are known as opportunistic infections (OIs). Normally, these infections do not develop in healthy people or are not life-threatening. Com- mon OIs associated with HIV include certain types of tuberculosis, a parasitic
What we learn in times of pestilence [is] that there are more things to admire in
men than to despise.
—Albert Camus (1913–1960)
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think about it
The deep ambivalence our society feels about sexuality is clearly brought to light by the way in which we deal with HIV and other STIs. If we think we have strep throat, we waste no time getting ourselves to a health center or doctor to obtain the appropriate medication. But let’s say we’re experiencing some discomfort when we urinate, and there’s an unusual discharge. We may disregard the symptoms at fi rst. Soon, we’re feeling some pain, and we know something is defi nitely not right. With fear and trepidation, we slink into the clinic or doctor’s offi ce, hoping we don’t see anyone we know so we won’t have to explain why we’re there. When we pick up our prescription, we can’t look the pharmacist in the eye. And then there’s the whole problem of telling our partner—or, worse yet, partners—about our predicament. Why all this emotion over an STI but not over strep throat? Where does all the fear, denial, embarrassment, guilt, shame, and humiliation come from? Why are STIs the only class of ill- nesses we categorize by their mode of transmission rather than by the type of organism that causes them? All these questions stem from a common source: the stigmatization of persons who contract HIV or another STI. The Joint United Nations Programme on HIV/AIDS (UNAIDS) (2005) describes the origin of HIV stigma- tization and some of its negative outcomes:
HIV stigma stems from fear as well as associations of AIDS with sex, disease and death, and with behaviours that may be illegal, forbidden or taboo, such as pre- and extramarital sex, sex work, sex between men, and injecting drug use. Stigma also stems from lack of awareness and knowledge about HIV. Such stigma can fuel the urge to make scapegoats of, and blame and punish, certain people or groups. Stigma taps into existing prejudices and patterns of exclusion and further marginalizes people who might already be more vulnerable to HIV infection.
Fear of stigmatization and feelings of shame are among the principal factors contributing to the spread of HIV and other STIs (Mahajan, et al., 2008). For example, in a sample of clinic patients
The Stigmatization of HIV and Other STIs
and others at high risk for gonorrhea and HIV in seven cities, both shame and stigma were related to seeking STI-related care, but stigma may have been a more powerful barrier to obtaining such care (Fortenberry et al., 2002). A study of stigma at public health clinics in western and central Alabama reported that “patient spotting”—neighbors in the nearby housing complex viewing patients entering and leaving the STI clinic and then humiliating them by gossip—was considered a local sport at the small-town clinic. To avoid being discovered by “patient spot- ting,” many men pursued alternative treatments, delayed seek- ing care, or failed to keep appointments for follow-up care (Lichtenstein, 2003). A telephone survey in Alabama found that STIs are shrouded in secrecy and shame and that infected women are more stigmatized than infected men, although men are held responsible for spreading STIs (Lichtenstein, Hook, & Sharma, 2005). The UNAIDS (2008a; 2010a) says that stigma and other soci- etal causes of HIV risk and vulnerability are roadblocks to HIV pre- vention worldwide and need to be addressed as a “rights-based” response to the epidemic. The organization states that “long- term success in responding to the epidemic will require sus- tained progress in reducing human rights violations associated with it, including gender inequality, stigma and discrimination.”
Think Critically 1. How have you observed HIV/STI stigma among your
friends or others in our society? How were these stigmas demonstrated?
2. In your view, what can be done to eliminate the cultural stigma of HIV/STI?
3. If you became infected with HIV or another STI, would stigma and shame be an issue for you? If so, how would you deal with it? From what resources would you seek help and support?
disease of the brain and central nervous system, and certain types of pneumo- nia, including Pneumocystis carinii pneumonia (PCP), caused by a common organism (probably a protozoan or fungus) that is not usually harmful.
Cancers Certain types of cancer are commonly associated with AIDS, including cancer of the lymphatic system, invasive cervical cancer, and a cancer of the blood vessels called Kaposi’s sarcoma. Cervical cancer and CIN are more common in women who are HIV-positive than in women who are not. Kaposi’s sarcoma, rare in healthy people, causes red or purple blotches to appear under the skin.
The fear of stigma leads to silence, and when it comes to fi ghting AIDS, silence
is death.
—Kofi Annan, former Secretary General, United Nations
(1938–)
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Clinical Conditions Conditions specifi cally linked to AIDS include wasting syndrome, symptoms of which include severe weight loss with weakness and persistent diarrhea, and AIDS dementia, characterized by impairment of men- tal and physical functioning and changes in mood and behavior.
Other Infections Infections that may lead to an AIDS diagnosis under cer- tain circumstances include candidiasis (thrush), a fungal infection that aff ects the respiratory system and vagina; genital herpes; and cytomegalovirus, a virus of the herpes family that is often sexually transmitted. Because the immune systems of people with HIV may not be functioning well (and those of people with advanced AIDS certainly are not), these indi- viduals may be subject to numerous other infections that would not normally be much of a problem, such as colds, the fl u, and intestinal infections. Health precautions for people living with HIV are discussed later in the chapter.
Symptoms of HIV Infection and AIDS
Within a few weeks of becoming infected with HIV, some people develop fl ulike symptoms that last for a week or two, but others have no symptoms. Persons living with HIV may appear and feel healthy for several years after becoming infected. But, even if they feel healthy, HIV is still aff ecting their bodies. Early diagnosis can be very valuable to eff ective HIV treatment, as we discuss later. Th e following may be symptoms of advanced HIV infection when oppor- tunistic infections may have appeared:
■ Breathing problems ■ Mouth problems, such as thrush (white spots), sores, change in taste,
dryness, trouble swallowing or loose teeth ■ Fever lasting more than 2 days ■ Weight loss ■ Change in vision or appearance of fl oaters (moving lines or spots in
one’s vision) ■ Diarrhea ■ Skin rashes or itching
A person cannot rely on symptoms to establish that he or she has AIDS. Each symptom can be related to other illnesses. Remember, AIDS is a medical diagnosis made by a physician using the specifi c CDC criteria (CDC, 2007j; 2011p).
Understanding AIDS: The Immune System and HIV
Th e principal components of blood are plasma (the fl uid base), red blood cells, white blood cells, and platelets.
Leukocytes Th ere are several kinds of leukocytes, or white blood cells, all of which play major roles in defending the body against invading organisms or mutant (cancerous) cells. Because HIV invades and eventually kills some kinds of leukocytes, it impairs the body’s ability to ward off infections and other harmful conditions that ordinarily would not be threatening. Th e prin- cipal type of leukocyte we discuss is the lymphocyte.
Kaposi’s sarcoma is a cancer of the blood vessels commonly associated with AIDS. It causes red or purple blotches to appear under the skin.
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Macrophages, Antigens, and Antibodies White blood cells called macro- phages engulf foreign particles and display the invader’s antigen (antibody generator) like a signal fl ag on their own surfaces. Antigens are large molecules that are capable of stimulating the immune system and then reacting with the antibodies that are released to fi ght them. Antibodies bind to antigens, inac- tivate them, and mark them for destruction by killer cells. If the body has been previously exposed to the organism (by fi ghting it off or being vaccinated), the response is much quicker because memory cells are already biochemically pro- grammed to respond.
B Cells and T Cells Th e lymphocytes (a type of leukocyte) crucial to the immune system’s functioning are B cells and several types of T cells. Like macrophages, helper T cells are programmed to “read” the antigens and then begin directing the immune system’s response. Th ey send chemical signals to B cells, which begin making antibodies specifi c to the presented antigen. Helper T cells also stimulate the proliferation of B cells and T cells (which are genet- ically programmed to replicate, or make copies of themselves) and activate both macrophages and killer T cells, transforming them into agents of destruction whose only purpose is to attack and obliterate the enemy. Helper T cells display a type of protein receptor called CD4. Th e number of helper T cells in an individual’s body is an important indicator of how well the immune system is functioning, as we discuss later.
The Virus
A virus is a protein-coated package of genes that invades a cell and alters the way in which the cell reproduces itself. Viruses can’t propel themselves inde- pendently, and they can’t reproduce unless they are inside a host cell. It would take 16,000 human immunodefi ciency viruses to cover the head of a pin in a single layer. Under strong magnifi cation, HIV resembles a spherical pincushion, bristling with tiny pinheadlike knobs (see Figure 16.1). Th ese knobs are the antigens, which contain a protein called GP 120; the CD4 receptors on a helper T cell are attracted (fatally, as it turns out) to GP 120. Within the virus’s protein core is the genetic material (RNA) that carries the information the virus needs to replicate itself. Also in the core is an enzyme called reverse transcrip- tase, which enables the virus to “write” its RNA (the genetic software or pro- gram) into a cell’s DNA. Viruses with the ability to reverse the normal genetic writing process are known as retroviruses. Th ere are numerous variant strains of HIV as a result of mutations. Th e virus begins undergoing genetic variation as soon as it has infected a person, even before antibodies develop. Th is ten- dency to mutate is one factor that makes HIV diffi cult to destroy.
Eff ect on T Cells When HIV enters the bloodstream, helper T cells rush to the invading viruses, as if they were specifi cally designed for them. Normally at this stage, a T cell reads the antigen, stimulating antibody production in the B cells and beginning the process of eliminating the invading organism. In the case of HIV, however, although antibody production does begin, the immune process starts to break down almost at once. HIV injects its contents into the host T cell and copies its own genetic code into the cell’s genetic material (DNA). As a result, when the immune system is activated, the T cell begins producing HIV instead of replicating itself. Th e T cell is killed in the
A T cell infected with HIV begins to replicate the virus, which buds from the cell wall, eventually killing the host cell.
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process. HIV also targets other types of cells, including macrophages, dendritic cells (leukocytes found in the skin, lymph nodes, and intestinal mucous mem- branes), and brain cells.
HIV-1 and HIV-2 Almost all cases of HIV in the United States involve the type of the virus known as HIV-1. Another type, HIV-2, has been found to exist mainly in West Africa. Both HIV-1 and HIV-2 have the same mode of transmission and are associated with similar OIs and AIDS.
AIDS Pathogenesis: How the Disease Progresses
As discussed earlier, when viruses are introduced into the body, they are imme- diately taken up by helper T cells and quickly moved to the lymph nodes. HIV begins replication right away within the host cells. Most people will develop detectable antibodies to HIV within 2–8 weeks after exposure (the average is 25 days). Th e process by which a person develops antibodies is called serocon- version. A person’s serostatus is HIV-negative if antibodies to HIV are not detected and HIV-positive if antibodies are detected.
2 Infection: Virus penetrates cell. Contents emptied into cell.
1 Binding and Fusion: Virus binds to a CD4 receptor. Then the virus fuses with the cell.
CD4 Receptor
6 Budding: New copies of the virus are assembled, bud out of the cell, and can go on to infect other cells.
Human DNA
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3 Reverse Transcription: Single strands of viral RNA are converted into double-stranded DNA by the reverse transcriptase enzyme.
4 Integration: Viral DNA is combined with the cell’s own DNA by the integrase enzyme.
5 Transcription: When the infected cell divides, the viral DNA is “read” and long chains of proteins are made.
• FIGURE 16.1 The Infection of a CD4 Cell by HIV. (Source: Adapted from HIV Lifecycle. Fact Sheet 106. University of New Mexico, Health Sciences Center, April 18, 2008. www.aidsinfonet.org/ fact_sheets/view/106. Used with permission.)
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During the initial acute illness, CD4 levels (green line) fall sharply and HIV RNA levels (red line) increase; many infected people experience flulike symptoms during this period. Antibodies to HIV usually appear 2–8 weeks after the initial infection. During the asymptomatic phase that follows, CD4 levels (a marker for the status of the immune system) gradually decline, and HIV RNA levels again increase. Due to declines in immunity, infected individuals eventually begin to experience symptoms; when CD4 levels drop very low, people become vulnerable to serious opportunistic infections char- acteristic of AIDS. Modern treatment delays or slows the decline of the CD4 level. Chronic or recurrent illnesses continue until the immune system fails and death results.
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• FIGURE 16.2 The General Pattern of HIV Infection.
T-Cell (CD4) Count T-cell count—also called CD4 count—refers to the number of helper T cells that are present in a cubic millimeter of blood. A healthy person’s T-cell count averages about 1,000, but it can range from 500 to 1,600, depending on a person’s general health and whether she or he is fi ghting off an illness.
Phases of Infection Th e pace of disease progression is variable, with the time between infection with HIV and development of AIDS ranging from a few months to many years, depending on several factors including treatment regimes and the person’s genetic makeup and health status (see Figure 16.2). Fortunately, people with HIV who are taking proper medication can live a long time before their immune system is damaged enough for AIDS to develop. When a person is fi rst infected with HIV, he or she may experience severe fl ulike symptoms as the immune system goes into high gear to fi ght off the invader. Th ese symptoms usually disappear within a week to a month and are often mistaken for those of another viral infection. More persistent and severe symptoms may not appear for 10 years or more after HIV fi rst enters the body in adults (National Institute of Allergy and Infectious Diseases, 2008). His or her T-cell count may temporarily plunge as the virus begins rapid replication. During this period, the virus is dis- persed throughout the lymph nodes, where it replicates, a process called “seeding.” Th e virus may stay localized for years, but it continues to replicate and destroy T cells. Research has shown that viral load is the chief predictor of transmission of HIV; the HIV-infected person is most infectious when the viral load is the high- est (Quinn et al., 2000; Wilson, Law, Grulich, Cooper, & Kaldor, 2008). Detect- ing infection early and beginning treatment can reduce the viral load, and likely
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• FIGURE 16.3 Percentage of Adults (Prevalence) by Region, Worldwide, Who Are Living With HIV in 2009. (Source: UNAIDS, Joint United Nations Programme on HIV/AIDS. [2010]. Figure 2.4 (p. 23). © Joint United Nations Programme on HIV/AIDS [UNAIDS] 2010. http://www.unaids .org/globalreport/Global_report.html. Reprinted with permission.)
an individual’s infectiousness, and boost survival (Cates, Chesney, & Cohen, 1997; CDC, 2011f; Sternberg, 2008). As time goes by, the T cells gradually diminish in number, destroyed by newly created HIV. During this phase, as the number of infected cells goes up, the num- ber of T cells goes down, generally to between 200 and 500 per millimeter of blood. When AIDS is in the advanced phase, the T cells and other fi ghter cells of the immune system are no longer able to trap foreign invaders. Infected cells continue to increase, and the T-cell count drops to under 200. Th e virus is detectable in the blood. At this point, the person may be fairly ill to very ill, although some may not have symptoms. Th e T-cell count may continue to plummet to zero. Th e person with AIDS dies from one or more of the oppor- tunistic infections.
• The Epidemiology and Transmission of HIV Epidemiology is the study of the incidence, process, distribution, and control of diseases. An epidemic is the wide and rapid spread of a contagious disease. Worldwide, the Joint United Nations Programme on HIV/AIDS (UNAIDS) and the World Health Organization report that more than 60 million people
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have been infected with HIV and more than 30 million people have died from AIDS, making this epidemic one of the most destructive in recorded history. In 2010, an estimated 1.8 million people died from AIDS. Th e UNAIDS notes that an estimated 34 million people worldwide are now living with HIV and 2.7 million individuals were newly infected with HIV in 2010. Over 7,000 new infections occur globally each day (UNAIDS, 2010a, 2010b, 2011). Th e UNAIDS states that the HIV/AIDS epidemic has been halted and a reverse of the epidemic has begun. Th e annual number of new HIV infections has declined steadily since the late 1990s, down 21% when comparing the numbers of 2010 and 1997, the peak of the global epidemic. HIV incidence declined in 33 countries in 2010, 22 of them in sub-Saharan Africa, the region most impacted by the AIDS epidemic (Figure 16.3). Th e number of AIDS- related deaths in 2010—1.8 million—was lower than the peak number of deaths of 2.2 million in the mid-2000s, largely because of greater availability of antiret- roviral therapy in the past few years. UNAIDS notes that, although the number of new infections has been decreasing, the number of new infections overall is still high. Further, with the new medical treatments, the number of people living with HIV worldwide has increased and only a few countries have achieved the levels of HIV health care and other services needed to halt the epidemic (UNAIDS, 2010a, 2011).
The Epidemiology of HIV/AIDS in the United States
In the United States, since the diagnosis of the fi rst AIDS case over three decades ago, the number of adults and adolescents living with diagnosed and undiagnosed HIV infection has grown from a few dozen to 1.2 million, with nearly 600,000 deaths cumulative through 2009. Th e estimated annual new HIV infections (HIV incidence) has remained relatively stable since the late 1990s (CDC, 2011q). An estimated 48,100 persons were infected with HIV in 2009 (Prejean et al., 2011). Th e proportion of HIV cases dif- fers by sex: In 2009, males accounted for 76% of diagnosed HIV cases. Th e transmission category for each sex also varies (see Figure 16.4). About three quarters of the adult and adolescent male HIV/AIDS cases were
Male-to-male sexual contact
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Male-to-male sexual contact and IDU Data from 40 states and 5 U.S. dependent areas with confidential, name-based HIV infection reporting.
Total percent is greater than 100% because of rounding.
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• FIGURE 16.4 Proportion of HIV Diagnoses Among U.S. Adults and Adolescents by Sex and Transmission Category, 2009. (Source: Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, 2011r.)
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attributed to male-to-male sexual contact, and 85% of the adult and ado- lescent female HIV/AIDS cases were attributed to high-risk heterosexual contact (CDC, 2010n). Th e proportional distribution of AIDS cases by transmission category has shifted since the beginning of the epidemic (see Figure 16.5), with the percent- age of cases for male-to-male sexual contact decreasing then rising to 49% of all AIDS diagnoses in 2009 and the percentage for high-risk heterosexual con- tact increasing and then leveling off . Th e proportional distribution of AIDS diagnosis among races/ethnicities has changed since the beginning of the epi- demic (see Figure 16.6). Th e proportion of AIDS diagnoses among Whites has decreased; the proportions among African Americans and Hispanics/Latinos
• FIGURE 16.5 Change in U.S. Adult and Adolescent AIDS Cases by Transmission Category and Year of Diagnosis, 1985–2009. (Source: Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, 2011r.)
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Population, 40 States N = 241,832,054
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• FIGURE 16.7 Proportion of Diagnoses of HIV Infection and Population by Race/ Ethnicity, 2009. (Source: Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, 2011s.)
have increased (CDC, 2011r). Th e pie charts in Figure 16.7 illustrate the distri- bution of HIV diagnoses reported during 2009 among races/ethnicities and the racial/ethnic distribution in the 40 states with confi dential, name-based HIV reporting. African Americans and Hispanics are disproportionately aff ected by the AIDS epidemic in comparison to their proportional distribution in the gen- eral population (CDC, 2011s). Using HIV surveillance data and vital statistics from the 33 states in the United States that had confi dential, name-based HIV reporting to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention at the time of the analysis, researchers estimated lifetime risk of being diagnosed with HIV (see Table 16.1). Lifetime risk estimates are often reported in the popular press and in scientifi c literature for cancer and other diseases, but until recently no such estimates have been generated for HIV. Lifetime risk is typically considered to be the number of people who would need to be followed throughout their lives to observe one occurrence of the disease. As shown in Table 16.1, in 2004–2005, the esti- mated lifetime risk of being diagnosed with HIV was 1.9% for males, or 1 in
TABLE 16.1 • Estimated Lifetime Risk of HIV Diagnosis, by Sex, 33 States,a 2004–2005
Race/Ethnicity Male Female
All combined 1.9% (1 in 53) 0.7% (1 in 141)
White 1.0% (1 in 104) 0.2% (1 in 588)
Black 6.2% (1 in 16) 3.3% (1 in 30)
Hispanic 2.9% (1 in 103) 0.9% (1 in 114)
American Indian/Alaska Native 1.0% (1 in 103) 0.4% (1 in 278)
Asian American/Pacifi c Islander 0.6% (1 in 169) 0.2% (1 in 500)
aBased on surveillance data and vital statistics in 33 states in the United States that have confi dential, name- based HIV reporting to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.
SOURCE: Adapted from Hall, H. I., Qian, N., Hutchinson, A. B., & Sansom, S. (2008). Estimating the lifetime risk of a diagnosis of the HIV infection in 33 states, 2004–2005. Journal of Acquired Immune Defi ciencies Syndromes, 49, 294–297.
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53 males, and 0.7% for females, or 1 in 141 females. Th ese estimates varied by race/ethnicity. Th e researchers also found that the highest risk of HIV diagnosis was observed among people in their 30s. Th ese estimates can help strengthen prevention education by highlighting the risk of contracting HIV (Hall, Qian, Hutchinson, & Sansom, 2008).
Myths and Modes of Transmission
Research has revealed a great deal of valuable medical, scientifi c, and public health information about HIV transmission, and the ways HIV is transmit- ted have been clearly identifi ed. However, false information not supported by scientifi c fi ndings is still being shared. Because of this, the CDC has described the ways HIV is transmitted and has corrected misconceptions about HIV. Th e CDC states that HIV is spread by sexual contact with an infected person, by sharing drug injection needles and/or syringes with someone infected, or, much less commonly (and now very rarely in countries where blood and donated organs are screened for HIV antibodies), by expo- sure to infected blood, blood products, or organ transplantation. Th ese modes of transmission are the most common and involve transmission of HIV-infected semen, vaginal secretions, or blood. Th e CDC also says that babies born to HIV-infected women may become infected before or during birth, when their food is pre-chewed for them, or through breastfeeding after birth. (A more detailed description of these transmission routes is presented later in this chapter.) By now, most people have a more accurate understanding of HIV/AIDS and know the diff erence between actual transmission routes and transmission myths. But, just to briefl y review: Scientifi c and epidemiological evidence shows that the chances are essentially zero of acquiring HIV from an environmental surface (e.g., toilet seat), from nonsexual household or other-settings contact with an HIV-infected person, from typical social contact (e.g., hugging, shaking hands), from food-serving establishments, from closed-mouth or social kissing, from insect (e.g., mosquito) bites, from sport-participation accidents involving blood, or from donating blood. Contact with the saliva (e.g., being spit on by an HIV-infected person), tears, or sweat from an HIV-infected person has never been shown to result in transmission of the virus. Th e CDC knows of no instances of HIV being transmitted through tattooing or body piercing, although hepatitis B virus has been transmitted during some of these proce- dures. Also, biting is not a common method of transmitting HIV. Of the few reports in the medical literature in which HIV appeared to be transmitted by a bite, severe trauma with extensive tissue tearing and damage and the presence of blood were reported (CDC, 2010m, 2011p). Some people have been concerned about the possibility of acquiring HIV from a blood transfusion and organ donations. Th eoretically, donated blood, plasma, body organs, and semen are all capable of sustaining HIV. Because of this, medical procedures involving these materials now include screening for HIV or destroying the virus, and the chance of acquiring HIV from these procedures is extremely low. To be absolutely safe, some people who know they will have surgery donate their own blood a few weeks before the oper- ation so that it will be available during surgery if needed. Donated organs are screened for HIV, and there are guidelines regarding semen donation for artifi cial insemination.
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Sexual Transmission
HIV can be found in the semen, pre-seminal fl uid, vaginal fl uid, or blood of a person infected with the virus. Latex barriers, condoms, dental dams, and surgi- cal gloves, if used properly, can provide good protection against the transmission of HIV.
Anal Intercourse Unprotected anal sex (no condom use) is considered to be very risky behavior, and either sexual partner can become infected with HIV during anal sex. Th ough it is possible for either sexual partner to become infected with HIV during anal sex, in general, the partner receiving the semen is at greater risk of getting HIV because the lining of the rectum is thin and may allow the virus to enter the body during anal sex. However, a person who inserts his penis into an infected partner is also at risk since HIV can enter through the urethra or through small cuts, abrasions, or open sores on the penis. Some people mistakenly believe that only men who have sex with men are at risk of HIV through anal sex. However, a national study of men and women aged 15–44 from the 2006–2008 National Survey of Family Growth found that 36% of females and 44% of males ever had anal sex with an other- sex partner (National Center for Health Statistics, 2011). Table 9.2 in Chapter 9 shows the prevalence of anal intercourse among men and women for 10 age groups in the past year as reported by the 2009 National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior (Herbenick et al., 2010a). Research has shown that het- erosexual intercourse among men and women is often unprotected (i.e., no condom is used) and has been associated with other HIV/STI risk behavior and with STI diagnosis (Javanbakht et al., 2010; Jenness et al., 2011).
Vaginal Intercourse Vaginal sex is also quite risky as an HIV transmission route, especially for women, and is the most common way HIV is transmitted in much of the world. In women, the lining of the vagina can tear and possibly allow HIV to enter the body. HIV can also be directly absorbed through the mucous membranes that line the vagina and cervix. Adolescent females are bio- logically more susceptible to HIV than older women because their immature cervixes may be more easily infected (Braverman & Strasburger, 1994). However, the virus can enter the bloodstream through the urethra or through small cuts or open sores on the penis. Menstrual blood containing HIV can also facilitate transmission of the virus to a sexual partner.
Oral Sex HIV may be transmitted during fellatio, cunnilingus, or analingus (oral-anal contact), although evidence suggests that the risk is less than that from unprotected anal or vaginal sex. Th ere have been a few cases of HIV transmission from performing oral sex on a person infected with HIV (CDC, 2010m). Either partner can become infected with HIV through performing or receiving oral sex. Th e risk of HIV transmission increases if the person performing oral sex has cuts or sores around or in the mouth or throat, if the male receiving oral sex ejaculates in the mouth of the person performing oral sex, or if the person receiving oral sex has another STI. If the person performing oral sex has HIV, blood from the mouth may enter the body of the person receiving oral sex through the lining of the urethra, vagina, cervix, or anus or directly into the body through small cuts or open sores. If the person receiving oral sex has HIV, the blood, semen, pre-seminal fl uid, or vaginal fl uid may contain the virus. Cells lining the mouth of the person performing oral sex may allow HIV to enter the body.
“ Wake up. Don’t let someone feed you a line and don’t be afraid to ask questions.
Find out yourself.
—Ryan White (1971–1990)
“ The church has been silent for too long about sexuality.
—David Satcher, MD, 16th U.S. Surgeon General
(1941–)
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Kissing Kissing, because it involves saliva, is a frequent concern among those who are unsure how HIV is transmitted. As we said, HIV is not transmitted casually, so kissing on the cheek is very safe. No one has become infected from closed-mouth (dry) kissing (CDC, 2010m). Th ere are extremely rare cases of HIV being transmitted via deep “French” kissing, but in each case infected blood was exchanged due to bleeding gums or sores in the mouth. Prolonged open-mouth kissing could damage the mouth or lips and allow HIV to pass from an infected person to a partner and then enter the body through cuts or sores in the mouth. Because of this possible risk, the CDC (2010m) recommends against open-mouth kissing with an infected partner.
Sex Toys Although unlikely, HIV can be transmitted in vaginal secretions on such objects as dildos and vibrators; therefore, it is very important that these objects not be shared or that they be washed thoroughly before use.
Injection Drug Use
Sharing needles or other paraphernalia used to inject drugs provides an ideal pathway for HIV. An injection drug user (IDU) may have an immune system that has already been weakened by poor health, poor nutrition, or an STI. IDUs who become infected often pass the virus sexually to their partners. At the beginning of every drug injection, blood is introduced into the needle and syringe. Th e reuse of a blood-contaminated needle or syringe by another drug injector (sometimes called “direct syringe sharing”) is a high risk of HIV transmis- sion because infected blood can be injected directly into the bloodstream. Infected blood can be introduced into drug solutions by using blood-contaminated syringes to prepare the drugs, reusing water, and reusing bottle caps, spoons, or other containers (“spoons” and “cookers”) used to dissolve drugs in water and to heat drugs solutions. Also, infected blood can be introduced by the reusing of pieces of cotton fi lters (“cottons”) used to fi lter out small particles that could block the needle. “Street sellers” of syringes may repackage used syringes and sell them as sterile needles. For this reason, people who continue to inject drugs should obtain syringes from reliable sources of sterile syringes, such as pharmacies or needle exchange programs. Sharing a needle or syringe for any use, including skin popping and injecting steroids, can put one at risk for HIV and other blood-borne infections. When we think of injection drug use, we usually think in terms of psycho- tropic (mind-aff ecting) drugs such as heroin or cocaine. We may conjure up images of run-down tenement rooms or “shooting galleries,” where needles are passed around. But these are not the only settings for sharing drugs. HIV trans- mission in connection with the recreational use of injection drugs also occurs among people from the middle or upper class. Moreover, injection drug use exists among athletes and bodybuilders, who may share needles to inject steroids. HIV can be transmitted just as easily in a brightly lit locker room or upscale living room as in a dark alley.
Mother-to-Child Transmission
Women can transmit HIV to their babies during pregnancy, labor, and delivery. Called perinatal HIV transmission (mother-to-child), this mode of transmis- sion is the most common route of HIV infection in children and is the source of almost all of the AIDS cases of children in the United States. Most of the
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children with AIDS are members of minority races/ethnicities. About one quar- ter to one third of all untreated pregnant women infected with HIV will pass the infection to their babies. HIV can also be transmitted to babies through the breast milk of mothers infected with the virus and via an HIV-infected caregiver who gave the infant pre-chewed food. If an HIV-infected woman is treated with certain drugs during pregnancy, she can greatly reduce the chances that her baby will get infected with HIV. If she is treated and her baby is delivered by cesar- ean section, the chances of the baby being infected can be reduced to a rate of 1%. HIV infection of newborns has been almost eradicated in the United States because of voluntary prenatal HIV testing and medical treatment, yet 100 to 200 infants are still infected with HIV annually. Many of these infections involve women who were not tested early enough in pregnancy or who did not receive prevention services (CDC, 2007m, 2011p).
Factors Contributing to Infection
Researchers have found that certain physiological or behavioral factors increase one’s risk of contracting HIV. For people of both sexes, these include behaviors already discussed, such as anal intercourse, numerous sexual partners, and injec- tion drug use. Th ere is considerable biological evidence that the presence of other STIs increases the likelihood of both transmitting and acquiring HIV (Fleming & Wasserheit, 1999). Th is is true whether the STI causes open sores (e.g., syphilis, herpes) or does not cause breaks in the skin (e.g., chlamydia, gonorrhea). People are 2–5 times more likely to become infected with HIV when they have other STIs. In addition, an HIV-infected person also infected with an STI is 3–5 times more likely than other HIV-infected people to trans- mit HIV through sexual contact. Although HIV can be transmitted in a single encounter, it usually takes several exposures for a person to contract the virus. Moreover, the probability of HIV transmission is greater when the viral load is the highest, particularly in the early stage of the infection (Cates et al., 1997; CDC, 2010m; Gray et al., 2001; Keele et al., 2008).
• AIDS Demographics Th e statistical characteristics of populations are called demographics. Public health researchers often look at groups of people in terms of age, socioeconomic status, living area, ethnicity, sex, and so on in order to understand the dynamics of disease transmission and prevention. When STIs are involved, they naturally look at sexual behaviors as well. No one is exempt from HIV exposure by virtue of belonging or not belonging to a specifi c group. But certain groups appear as a whole to be at greater risk than others because they have unique challenges in the prevention, diagnosis, and treatment of HIV/AIDS. Many individuals within these groups may not be at risk, however, because they do not engage in risky behaviors.
Minority Races/Ethnicities and HIV
In the early 1980s in the United States, HIV/AIDS was primarily considered a gay White disease. Today, however, the epidemic has expanded, and the propor- tional distribution of AIDS cases among minority racial and ethnic groups has shifted, and, as mentioned earlier, Blacks and Hispanics are disproportionately
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aff ected (Figure 16.7). Being of a minority race/ethnic group is not, in itself, a risk factor for HIV infection and other STIs. However, race/ethnicity in the United States is a risk marker that correlates with other, more fundamental determinants of health status, such as poverty, homelessness, lack of access to quality health care, avoiding seeking health care, substance abuse, and residence in communities with a high prevalence of HIV and other STIs. Although poverty itself is not a risk factor, studies have found a direct rela- tionship between higher AIDS incidence and lower income (CDC, 2000b). A study of a diverse sample of women from urban health clinics found that socio- economic status, not race/ethnicity, had both direct and indirect associations with HIV risk behaviors; the women with lower income had riskier sexual behaviors (Ickovics et al., 2002). Several socioeconomic problems associated with poverty (e.g., housing insecurity and limited access to health care) directly or indirectly raise HIV risk (Buff ardi, Th omas, Holmes, & Manhart, 2008). Some minority race/ethnic communities are reluctant to acknowledge sensitive issues such as homosexuality and substance use.
African Americans Of all racial and ethnic groups in the United States, African Americans have been impacted most severely by HIV and AIDS (Figure 16.7). Th e United States’ HIV/AIDS epidemic is a health crisis for African Americans. Young Black gay and bisexual man are especially at risk. At all stages of HIV/AIDS—from infection with HIV to death from AIDS— Blacks are disproportionately aff ected compared to other racial/ethnic groups. Th e reasons for this are not directly related to race or ethnicity but, rather, to the barriers faced by many African Americans, including poverty, high incidence of another STI, limited HIV prevention education and the stigma of HIV/AIDS. Another barrier to HIV prevention is homophobia and con- cealment of male-to-male behavior. Homophobia and stigmatization can cause some African American men who have sex with men to identify themselves as heterosexual or not to disclose their same-sex behaviors. Black men are more likely than other MSM not to identify themselves as a gay man. Th is absence of disclosure of self-identifi cation may make it more diffi cult to pre- sent appropriate HIV prevention education. Other factors that contribute to higher risk among African Americans include higher rates of STIs than other racial/ethnic groups in the United States, lack of awareness of HIV status, and the tendency to have sex with partners of the same race/ethnicity result- ing in their facing a greater risk of HIV infection with each new sexual encounter (CDC, 2011t).
The HIV epidemic has dramatically and disproportionally aff ected African Americans. The disease poses a serious threat to the future health and well-being of many African American communities.
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Compared to other races/ethnicities, African Americans accounted for more new diagnoses of HIV infection (52%) in 2009 (CDC, 2011s) (see Figure 16.7). Further, Blacks living with HIV/AIDS often do not live as long and die more frequently. Blacks have a much greater lifetime estimated risk of being diag- nosed with HIV than Whites and Hispanics: 6.2%, or 1 in 16, for Black males and 0.9%, or 1 in 30, for Black females. In 2009, Black men accounted for 70% of the estimated new HIV infections among all African Americans. Th e estimated rate of new HIV infection for Black men was more than 6½ times as high as that for White men, and 2½ times as high as that for Latino men and Black women. Black men who have sex with men (MSM) have been par- ticularly impacted: In 2009, Black MSM represented 73% of new infections among Black men and 37% of all MSM. More new HIV infections occurred among Black MSM (aged 13 to 29) than any other age and racial/ethnic group of MSM. Further, new HIV infections among young Black MSM increased by 48% from 2005 to 2009. In 2009, Black women accounted for 30% of the estimated new infections among all Blacks. Most Black women (85%) infected with HIV acquired it through heterosexual sex. Th e estimated rate of new HIV infections for Black women was more than 15 times higher than the rate for White women and more than 3 times that for Latina women (CDC, 2011t).
Hispanics/Latinos Th e Hispanic/Latino community, which includes a diverse mixture of ethnic groups and cultures, is the fastest growing and largest ethnic group in the United States, and the HIV/AIDS epidemic is a serious threat to that community. Injection drug use, STIs, poverty, education, and cultural beliefs are some of the HIV prevention challenges that face them. In 2009, Hispanics/Latinos accounted for 18% of new diagnoses of HIV infection (CDC, 2011s) (see Figure 16.7). During the same year, the rate of new infections among Hispanics/Latinos was three times that of Whites. Th e estimated lifetime risk of a HIV diagnosis for Hispanic males is 2.9%, or 1 in 103; for females, 0.9%, or 1 in 114. In 2009, Latino men accounted for 79% of new HIV infections among all Latinos. Th e rate of new HIV infections among Latino men was 2½ times as high as that for White men. Latino MSM accounted for 81% of new HIV infections among all Latino men and 20% of all MSM in 2009. Among Latino MSM, 45% of new HIV infections occurred in men under age 30. Although Latina women accounted for only 21% of new HIV infections among Latinos in 2009, their rate was more than 4 times that for White women (CDC, 2011u). Given the growth of the Hispanic/Latino community in the United States, the prevalence of HIV/AIDS among this group will increasingly aff ect the health status of the nation. Prevention pro- grams must give special attention to the cultural diversity that exists within this and other diverse communities.
Asians/Native Hawaiians/Other Pacifi c Islanders Even though less than 2% of the total number of new diagnoses of HIV infection in 2009 was among Asians, Native Hawaiians, and other Pacifi c Islanders, the percentage may rise because these population groups are increasing in the United States. Because of language and cultural barriers, lack of access to care, and other issues, these ethnic groups often underuse health-care and prevention services. Among Asians, Native Hawaiians, and Pacifi c Islanders, there are many nation- alities—Chinese, Filipinos, Koreans, Indians, Japanese, Samoans, Vietnamese, and others—and more than 100 languages and dialects. Because many living in the
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United States are foreign born, they experience cultural and language barriers to receiving public health messages, making prevention education very challenging (CDC, 2008r). Most who are infected with HIV are MSM. High-risk heterosexual contact is the primary way women in these population groups become infected with HIV.
American Indians and Alaska Natives Among American Indians and Alaska Natives, HIV/AIDS is a growing problem. Th e number of new diagnoses of HIV infection for this population group is less than 1% of the total number of new HIV diagnoses reported in the United States. Th e largest transmission category for men was male-to-male sexual contact and high-risk sexual behavior for women (CDC, 2008s). Poverty, lower levels of education, and less access to health care coexist as risk factors for HIV infection among American Indians and Alaska Natives. Alcohol and illicit drug use are higher among American Indians and Alaska Natives than among people of other races or ethnicities. Th ese indicators increase the vulnerability of American Indians and Alaska Natives to additional health stress, including HIV infection. To be eff ective, HIV/AIDS prevention education must account for the numerous populations of American Indians and Alaska Natives by tailoring programs to individual tribal cultures and beliefs. Th e American Indian and Alaska Native population makes up 562 federally recognized tribes plus at least 50 state-recognized tribes. Because each tribe has its own culture, beliefs, and practices and these tribes may be subdivided into language groups, it can be challenging to create eff ective programs for each group (CDC, 2008s).
The Gay Community
“AIDS has given a human face to an invisible minority,” says Robert Bray of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force. From the beginning of the HIV/AIDS epidemic in the United States, the most disproportionate impact has been among the MSM group. Although epidemiologists do not know for certain how HIV fi rst arrived in the gay community, they do know that it spread like wildfi re, mainly because anal sex is such an effi cient mode of transmission. Furthermore, initial research, education, and prevention eff orts were severely hampered by a lack of government and public interest in what was perceived to be a “gay disease” (Shilts, 1987). Now, over 30 years after the virus fi rst appeared, the gay com- munity continues to reel from the repeated blows dealt by AIDS. Men who have sex with men is a behavioral description of a diverse population, many of whom identify themselves either privately or publicly as a gay man or bisexual person. Others may engage in sex with men but not think of themselves as a gay man or bisexual person. Even though the numbers of AIDS cases for MSM decreased during the 1980s and 1990s, recent surveillance data show an increase in HIV diagnoses for this group representing 49% of all AIDS diagnoses in 2009 (Figure 16.5). MSM still represent the largest transmission category, accounting for 74% of the AIDS cases among adult and adolescent men in 2009. Even though the CDC estimates that gay, bisexual, and other men who have sex with men represent about 2% of the U.S. population, new HIV infections have steadily increased within this group since the early 1990s. MSM accounted for more than 50% of all new HIV infections annually dur- ing 2006–2009. In 2009, MSM accounted for 57% of HIV diagnosis. As previously stated, HIV/AIDS has dramatically impacted African American
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MSM, particularly the young. Th is group is the only risk group in the United States to experience statistically signifi cant increases in new HIV infections from 2006 to 2009. Among MSM aged 13–29, HIV incidence increased signifi cantly (48%) from 2006 through 2009 with an estimated 12% annual increase. Th e dramatic increase of diagnoses of HIV infections among African American MSM aged 13–24 in contrast to other races is illustrated in Figure 16.8 (CDC, 2010n, 2011q, 2011v). Sexual risk behaviors account for most HIV infections in MSM. Anal sex without a condom continues to be a major health threat to MSM, particularly having unprotected anal sex (barebacking) with casual partners. Th e reasons for unprotected sex are not completely understood, but research points to several factors, including optimism about improved HIV treatment, substance use, complex sexual decision making, seeking partners on the Internet, and failure to practice safer sex (CDC, 2010n; Wolitski, 2005). Some of these men may be serosorting, or having sex or unprotected sex with a partner whose HIV serostatus, they believe, is the same as their own. For men with casual partners, serosorting alone is likely to be less eff ective than always and correctly using condoms because some men do not know or disclose their HIV serostatus (Golden, Stekler, Hughes, & Wood, 2008; Truong et al., 2006). Actually, a study using mathematical modeling found that serosorting is unlikely to be benefi cial to many MSM populations and could more than double the risk of acquiring HIV in settings with low HIV testing (Wilson et al., 2010). Over three decades into the HIV epidemic, evidence points to an under- estimation of risk and diffi culty in maintaining safer sex practices among gay and bisexual men. Th e success of newer medical treatments may have had the unintended consequence of increasing risk behaviors among MSM, because some gay men seem to have abandoned safer sex practices. Research has shown several outcomes of improved treatment, such as minimizing the negative aspects of HIV infection, believing that their partners who take the new treatments
“ I think God did send AIDS for a reason. It was to show how mean and sinful a
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are not infectious, and being more willing to have unprotected anal sex (Crepaz, Hart, & Marks, 2004; Kalichman et al., 2008; Ostrow et al., 2002). Other than sexual risk behavior, factors that increase HIV risk among MSM are high rates of other STIs, social discrimination, poverty, lack of access to health care, stigmatization, concurrent psychosocial problems, lack of risk assessment, being unaware of infection, childhood sexual abuse, alcohol and illicit drug use, homophobia, complacency about HIV, and partner violence. Because of the severity of the HIV/AIDS problem among MSM, the U.S. government has placed major emphasis on combating the devastating impact of HIV/AIDS in this population. For example, the CDC has allocated a signifi cant portion of its budget toward providing support to state and local health departments and community-based organizations for prevention services for MSM, including those in minority ethnic/racial groups. Th e CDC (2010n) also supports the training and technical assistance for several HIV prevention interventions that focus on MSM.
Women and HIV/AIDS
Early in the epidemic, HIV infection and AIDS were diagnosed for relatively few women and female adolescents. Now, we know that many women were infected with HIV resulting from injection drug use but their infections were not diag- nosed. In 2009, women accounted for 23% (11,200) of new HIV diagnoses. High-risk heterosexual contact was the source of 85% of these newly diagnosed infections. At some point, an estimated 1 in 141 women will be diagnosed with HIV infection. Black and Latina women are more likely to be diagnosed with HIV and are disproportionately aff ected at all stages of HIV infection compared to women of other races/ethnicities. One in 30 Black women and 1 in 114 Hispanic women will be diagnosed with HIV compared to 1 in 588 White women, 1 in 278 American Indian/Alaska Native women, and 1 in 500 Asian American/Pacifi c Islander women. Of the total number of new HIV infections in U.S. women in 2009, 57% occurred in Blacks, 21% in Whites, and 16% in Hispanics/Latinas.
Activism continues to focus public attention on the need for greater resources to control the HIV/AIDS epidemic.
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Several factors place women at ever greater risk for HIV infection. Both unprotected vaginal and anal intercourse pose a risk for transmission, but unprotected anal sex presents a greater risk. Some women may be unaware of their male partner’s risk factors for HIV infection, such as unprotected sex with numerous and concurrent partners, sex with men, and injection drug use as well as an HIV and other STI diagnosis (Montgomery, Mokotoff , Gentry, & Blair, 2003; Witte, El-Bassel, Gilbert, Wu, & Chang, 2010). Other risk factors include having experienced sexual abuse, injection drug and other substance use, the presence of some STIs, socioeconomic issues associated with poverty, limited access to high-quality health care, and the exchange of sex for money or to meet other needs (CDC, 2011w). Some women infected with HIV report more than one risk factor such as those cited here plus inequity in relationships, socioeconomic stresses, and psychological distress. For example, a study of Black women from North Carolina who were infected with HIV found that their most commonly cited reasons for risky behavior were fi nancial depen- dence on male partners, feeling invincible, low self-esteem coupled with the need to feel loved by a male fi gure, and alcohol and drug use (CDC, 2004b). An HIV diagnosis can have a dramatic negative impact on a woman’s sexual interest and activity, sense of sexual attractiveness, and appeal to a sexual part- ner. In a sample of HIV-infected women, many reported that sex had become too plagued with anxiety, worry, danger, and stress to still be enjoyable. Th e loss of their sense of themselves as desirable, attractive, and enticing women was very painful for the women. Many would have liked the companionship of men rather than a sexual relationship (Siegel & Scrimshaw, 2006). Female-to-female transmission of HIV appears to be a rare occurrence, but there are case reports of it. Th e well-documented risk of female-to-female trans- mission of HIV shows that vaginal secretions and menstrual blood may contain the virus and that mucous membrane (e.g., oral, vaginal) exposure to these secretions has the potential to lead to HIV infection. To reduce the risk of HIV transmission, women who have sex with women should avoid exposure of a mucous membrane, such as the mouth, to vaginal secretions and menstrual blood. Condoms should be used correctly and consistently for each sexual con- tact or when using sex toys, and sex toys should not be shared. Also, natural rubber latex sheets, dental dams, cut open condoms, latex gloves, or plastic wrap may provide some protection from contact with body fl uids during oral sex and possibly reduce the risk of HIV transmission (CDC, 2010m).
Children and HIV/AIDS
Th rough 2006, a total of 9,878 children (those under 13 years of age) in the United States were reported as having AIDS. During 2009, 141 new diagnoses of HIV infection in children were reported, down from 204 in 2006. Of these 141 cases, 107 involved African American children, 20 involved Hispanic/Latino children, 10 involved White children, 3 involved Asian children, 1 involved a multiple-race child, and no American Indian/ Alaska Native and Native Hawaiian/other Pacifi c Islander children were involved (CDC, 2009g). Th e incidence of AIDS among children has been dramatically reduced by recommendations by the CDC, which suggests routine counseling and voluntary prenatal HIV testing for women and the use of medical treatment to prevent perinatal transmission.
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HIV/AIDS Among Youth
Far too many young people in the United States are at risk for HIV infection. Th is risk is particularly notable for young gay, bisexual, and other MSM, espe- cially young African American and Latino MSM, and all youth of minority races and ethnicities. In 2009, those aged 13–29 accounted for 39% (14,245) of all new HIV infections in the U.S. (see Figure 16.9), yet persons aged 15 to 29 comprised 21% of the U.S. population. MSM aged 13–29 accounted for 27% of all new HIV infections in the U.S. and 69% of new HIV infections among persons aged 13–29. Among young African American MSM, new HIV infections increased 48% from 2006 through 2009. In 2009, 75% of new HIV diagnoses occurred in persons aged 20–24; this age group had the highest number and rate of HIV diagnoses of any age group in 2009 (36.9 new HIV diagnoses/100,000 people). In 2009, African Americans accounted for 65% (5,404) of diagnoses of HIV infection reported among persons aged 13 to 24 (CDC, 2011x). Sexual risk factors for youth include early age of fi rst sexual intercourse, unprotected sex, and older sexual partners. Th e CDC’s 2009 national Youth Risk Behavior Survey found many adolescents begin having sexual intercourse at early ages: Forty-six percent of high school students have had sexual inter- course and 6% reported fi rst sexual intercourse before age 13. Further, of the 34% of students reporting sexual intercourse during the 3 months prior to the survey, 39% did not use a condom (CDC, 2010a). Young people with older sexual partners may be at increased risk for HIV (Th urman, Holden, Shain, & Perdue, 2009). A CDC study showed that young MSM and minority MSM were more likely unaware of their HIV infection. Young MSM may be at risk since they have not been reached by eff ective HIV interventions or prevention education, especially because many sexuality education programs do not include informa- tion about sexual orientation. Other HIV risk factors for HIV infection include having experienced sexual abuse, the presence of another STI, and high usage rates of alcohol and other drugs. Runaways, homeless youth, and young persons dependent on drugs are at high risk for HIV if they exchange sex for drugs, money, or shelter. Also, many youth are not concerned about becoming infected
“ I have never shared needles. And obviously I’m not a gay man. The only
thing I did was something every single one of you has already done or will do.
—Krista Blake, infected with HIV as a teenager
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with HIV, which often results in them not taking measures to protect themselves from HIV (CDC, 2011x).
Older Adults and HIV/AIDS
In 2009, 6,963 cases of new HIV infections were diagnosed among adults aged 50 and older, representing over 16% of the total new HIV diagnoses (CDC, 2011x). Compared to the early days of the epidemic, when most cases among older adults were contracted through a blood transfusion, more cases are now the result of unprotected sex and injection drug use. Contributing to the higher rates among both older men and older women are the similarity of symptoms of AIDS with other age-related diseases, increasing population of sexually-active divorced singles, a lack of awareness on the part of physicians, and a sense among older people that they are not vulnerable to AIDS. Because of an increasingly aging society and the recent availability of sexual performance enhancement prescription drugs (e.g., Viagra), focus on the prevention of HIV and other STIs among older adults has increased (Lovejoy et al., 2008) (see Figure 16.9). In 2006, 7,548 AIDS cases were diagnosed among those aged 50 and older (CDC, 2008bb).
Geographic Region and HIV
Th e distribution of HIV infection diagnoses in 2009 shows that most of the adults and adolescents with a new HIV infection (79%; 32,854 cases) resided in metropolitan areas with populations of more than 500,000 at the time of diagnosis. In 2009, nearly 13% (5,263) of new HIV diagnoses were reported from metropolitan areas with populations of 50,000 to 500,000; 8% (3,340 cases) were reported from nonmetropolitan areas. Smaller metropolitan and non- metropolitan areas, especially in the South, share a signifi cant burden of the AIDS epidemic (CDC, 2011y). Several factors may contribute to AIDS cases in rural communities: lack of availability of and access to health-care services, lack of HIV testing, poverty, sexual risk behavior, injection drug use, political barriers, and stigmatization. Th ese barriers are particularly diffi cult to overcome in the rural areas (Ohl & Perencevich, 2011; Rural HIV/STD Prevention Work Group, 2009; Sarnquist et al., 2011; Yarber & Crosby, 2011). Few studies have compared the sexual risk behavior of rural and urban residents. Analysis of national probability data indicates that rural residents are at greater risk for health problems compared to residents of metropolitan areas (Auchincloss & Hadden, 2002). However, because rural areas often have more conservative values, rural residence has been viewed as protective of sexual risk that might lead to HIV/STIs in contrast to urban areas. Data from a nationally representative survey of adults in the United States were analyzed to compare coital risk behaviors of single, young adult rural men and women to those of their nonrural counterparts. No signifi cant diff erences were found between rural and nonrural men and women relative to lifetime number of penile-vaginal intercourse partners, number of penile-vaginal intercourse part- ners in the past 3 months, frequency of unprotected sex during the previous 4 weeks, condom use at last sexual contact, ever having had an HIV test, and discussing correct condom use with a health professional during the last HIV test. Th is suggests that eff ective HIV prevention education must be provided in rural as well as urban areas of the United States (Yarber, Milhausen, Huang, & Crosby, 2008).
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• Prevention and Treatment As a whole, our society remains ambivalent about the realities of HIV risk. Actually, the percentage of Americans who have heard about AIDS and believe it is the most urgent health problem facing the nation has dropped in recent years (Kaiser Family Foundation, 2009; Rochkind, DuPont, & Ott, 2009). Many people assume that their partners are not HIV-infected because they look healthy, “clean,” and/or attractive. In addition, some believe that the federal government has failed to provide enough resources to combat the HIV/AIDS epidemic. With tens of thousands of Americans— many of them teenagers and young adults—becoming infected with HIV each year, inactivity and apathy become enemies in the fi ght against this disease. To assess your own attitudes toward HIV prevention, see the “Practically Speaking” box above.
practically speaking
Indiana University researchers Mohammad Torabi and William L. Yarber developed a scale to measure attitudes toward HIV and its prevention. Completing this scale can help you determine which behaviors you might need to improve your HIV prevention attitude.
Directions
Read each statement carefully. Record your immediate reaction to each statement by writing the letter that corresponds to your answer. There is no right or wrong answer for each statement.
Key
A � Strongly agree B � Agree C � Undecided D � Disagree E � Strongly disagree
1. I am certain that I could be supportive of a friend infected with HIV.
2. I feel that people infected with HIV got what they deserve.
3. I am comfortable with the idea of using condoms for sex.
4. I would dislike the idea of limiting sex to just one partner to avoid HIV infection.
5. It would be embarrassing to get the HIV antibody test.
6. It is meant for some people to get HIV.
7. Using condoms to avoid HIV is too much trouble.
8. I believe that AIDS is a preventable disease.
9. The chance of getting HIV makes using injection drugs stupid.
10. People can infl uence their friends to practice safe behavior.
11. I would shake hands with a person infected with HIV.
12. I will avoid sex if there is a slight chance that my partner might have HIV.
13. If I were to have sex, I would insist that a condom be used.
14. If I used injection drugs, I would not share the needles.
15. I intend to share HIV facts with my friends.
Scoring
Calculate the total points for each statement using the following point values:
Items 1, 3, 8–15: Strongly agree � 5, Agree � 4, Undecided � 3, Disagree � 2, Strongly disagree � 1
Items 2, 4–7: Strongly agree � 1, Agree � 2, Undecided � 3, Disagree � 4, Strongly disagree � 5
The higher the score, the more positive the prevention attitude. Higher prevention attitudes are often associated with lower HIV risk behaviors.
HIV Prevention Attitude Scale
SOURCE: Adapted from Torabi, Mohammad R., & Yarber, William L. (1992) Alternate Forms of the HIV Prevention Attitude Scale for Teenagers. AIDS Education and Therapy, 4, 172–182. With permission from the authors.
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practically speaking
The Health Protective Sexual Communication Scale (HPSCS) assesses how often people discuss health protection, safer sex, sexual histories, and condom/contraception use with a fi rst-time partner. High scores on the HPSCS are strongly linked to high-risk sexual behaviors, including multiple partners, incor- rect or inconsistent condom use, and alcohol use before sex. An adapted form of the HPSCS follows. The HPSCS is designed for individuals who have had a new sexual partner in the past 12 months. If this is not the case for you, it might be in the future. The scale can alert you to health protection issues that are important to discuss, so go ahead and look at the questions.
Directions
Read each question carefully, and record your immediate reaction by writing the number that best applies.
Key
1 � Always 2 � Almost always 3 � Sometimes 4 � Never 5 � Don’t know 6 � Decline to answer
Note: Questions 9 and 10 are excluded for gay men and lesbian women.
How often in the past 12 months have you:
1. Asked a new sex partner how he/she felt about using condoms before you had intercourse?
2. Asked a new sex partner about the number of past sex partners he/she had?
3. Told a new sex partner about the number of sex partners you have had?
4. Told a new sex partner that you won’t have sex unless a condom is used?
5. Discussed with a new sex partner the need for both of you to get tested for HIV before having sex?
6. Talked with a new sex partner about not having sex until you have known each other longer?
7. Asked a new sex partner if he/she has ever had some type of STD, like genital herpes, genital warts, syphilis, chlamydia, or gonorrhea?
8. Asked a new sex partner if he/she has ever shot drugs like heroin, cocaine, or speed?
9. Talked about whether you or a new sex partner has ever had homosexual experiences?
10. Talked with a new sex partner about birth control before having sex for the fi rst time?
Scoring
To obtain your score, add up the points for all items. The lower your score, the more health protective sexual communication occurred with a new partner.
Health Protective Sexual Communication Scale
SOURCE: Catania, J. A. (2011). Health Protective Sexual Communication Scale. In Fisher, T. D., Davis, C. M., Yarber, W. L., & Davis, S. L. (Eds.)., Handbook of sexuality-related measures (3rd ed., pp. 591–594).
Protecting Ourselves
To protect ourselves and those we care about from HIV infection, there are some things we should know in addition to the basic facts about transmission and prevention. First, to protect ourselves, we need to honestly assess our risks and act to protect ourselves. Second, we need to develop our communication skills so that we can discuss risks and prevention with our partner or potential partner. (To assess how often you discuss health protective concerns related to safer sex, sexual histories, and condom or contraception use with a new partner, see the “Practically Speaking” box above.) If we want our partner to disclose information about past high-risk behavior, we have to be willing to do the same. Disclosure of HIV-positive status is critical, as research has shown that peo- ple make poor judgments about their sexual partner’s HIV status (Niccolai,
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Farley, Ayoub, Magnus, & Kissinger, 2002). One study of female patients at a clinic and their regular male partners revealed that 2% of women and 4% of men were unaware whether their partner was HIV-positive (Witte et al., 2010). A study found that attractive romantic sexual partners are perceived as less likely to have HIV/AIDS or another STI (Hennessy, Fishbein, Curtis, & Barrett, 2007). Studies have shown that many people engage in risky sexual behavior with partners perceived to be “safe,” but have “safer” sex with those judged to be riskier (Hennessy et al., 2007). Another study showed that many people are relying on partner attributes and relationship characteristics when assessing the HIV/STI status of a sexual partner. Partners who were known well and trusted were evaluated as safe, yet these assessments of partners’ sexual risk were shown to be inaccurate when compared to partners’ self-reported risk. Th e researchers concluded that when trust has been “established” in a relationship, some peo- ple assume their partner is safe even when there is evidence of risky sexual behavior (Masaro, Dahinten, Johnson, Ogilvie, & Patrick, 2008). Th ird, we may need to have information on HIV testing. If we have engaged in high-risk behavior, we may want to be tested for our own peace of mind and that of our partner. If we test positive for HIV, we need to make important decisions regarding our health, sexual behavior, and lifestyle. Actu- ally, research has shown that people living with HIV who know of their infection, in contrast to those living with HIV who don’t know they are infected, are more likely to take precautions to prevent HIV transmission (Pinkerton, Holtgrave, & Galletly, 2008). Finally, if we are sexually active with more than one long-term, exclusive partner, we need to start using condoms correctly and consistently. Many people remain unconvinced regarding either their own vulnerability to HIV or the usefulness of condoms in preventing its transmission. Male latex and polyurethane condoms, when used consistently and correctly, can greatly reduce the risk of HIV and other STIs. (See the “Th ink About It” box on page 545 to learn about common condom-use mistakes by college students.) But the eff ec- tiveness of condoms has been disputed lately. (To help clarify the current beliefs about condoms, the position of the CDC is presented in the box “Preventing STIs: Th e Role of Male Condoms and Female Condoms” in Chapter 15.) Representing a major breakthrough in HIV prevention, the U.S. Food and Drug Administration approved in July 2012 the fi rst drug shown to reduce the risk of acquiring HIV infection. Th e drug, Truvada, must be taken daily and has been most eff ective for a relative focused group of people: unifected persons who are at very high risk for HIV infection through sexual activity, like persons whose partners are infected with HIV.
Saving Lives Through Prevention
Prevention Programs Th e Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (2008t) reports that HIV prevention eff orts across the United States have been successful, though there is still much work to be done. One analysis measures the annual rate of HIV transmission in the United States. Th is measure—the HIV transmission rate—represents the annual number of new HIV infections transmitted per 100 individuals living with HIV, (Holtgrave, Hall, Rhodes, & Wolitski, 2008). Th e researchers found that the HIV transmission rate has declined dramatically since the early days of the epidemic. For example, in 1980, when the disease was still undetected, the transmission rate was 92%, meaning
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think about it
For those wanting to prevent STIs and pregnancy, condom use is necessary for all sexual episodes. But consistent use is only part of the answer—the condom must be used correctly if it is to be eff ective. Very little research has been conducted on correct condom use, but the fi rst comprehensive study of college male students produced some startling and alarming results. Researchers at The Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender, and Reproduc- tion and the Rural Center for HIV/STD Prevention at Indiana University determined the prevalence of male condom–use errors and problems among samples of undergraduate, single, self-identifi ed heterosexual men (N � 158) who applied the condom to themselves and single, self-identifi ed heterosexual women (N � 102) who applied a condom to their male partner at a large, public midwestern university. Participants were asked to indicate if the error or problem occurred at least once during the past 3 months during sex, defi ned as when the male put his penis in a partner’s mouth, vagina, or rectum. The percentage of the errors and problems that occurred at least once in the past 3 months were remarkably similar whether or not the male applied the condom to himself or whether his female partner applied the condom to him. The table indicates some of the most important errors and problems.
Male Female Error/Problem Appliers Appliers
Put condom on after starting sex 42.8%* 51.1%* Did not hold tip and leave space 40.4% 45.7% Put condom on the wrong side up 30.4% 29.6%
(had to fl ip it over) Used condom without lubricant 19.2% 25.8% Took condom off before sex was over 15.3% 14.8% Did not change to new condoms when 81.2% 75.0%
switching between vaginal, oral, and anal sex (for those switching)
Condom broke 29.0% 19.3% Condom slipped off during sex 13.1% 19.3% Lost erection before condom was 21.6% 14.3%
put on Lost erection after condom was on 19.6% 20.2%
and sex had begun
*Percentage reporting that the error or problem occurred at least once in the past 3 months.
A subsequent focus group study of undergraduates who re- ported male condom use for other-sex behavior in the previous
“Do You Know What You Are Doing?” Common Condom-Use Mistakes Among College Students
month found that they had concerns about male condoms, including mistrust of each gender in supplying and properly using condoms, inadequate lubrication during condom use, condoms partially or fully slipping off during sex, “losing” part or all of the condom in the vagina, delayed applications, and irritation and reduced sensation (Yarber et al., 2007). An Internet study of men examined another aspect of condom-use problems: ill-fi tting condoms. Men reporting ill-fi tting condoms were more likely to report breakage and slippage as well as incomplete condom use (late application and/or early removal of the condom). Interestingly, the study also found that ill-fi tting condoms diminished sexual functioning and pleasure during penile-vaginal intercourse for both men and women (Crosby, Yarber, Graham, & Sanders, 2010). The researchers concluded that the condom-use errors and problems reported in these studies indicate a possible high risk of exposure of the participants to HIV/STIs and unintended pregnancy. They also stated that the eff ectiveness of condom use against HIV/STIs and unintended pregnancy is contingent upon correct condom use.
Think Critically 1. Did the types and frequency of condom-use errors
and problems found in these studies surprise you? Explain.
2. Why do you think these errors and problems occurred? 3. Is it really that diffi cult to use condoms correctly—
why or why not? 4. What can be done to promote correct condom use?
SOURCES: Crosby, R. A., Sanders, S. A., Yarber, W. L., Graham, C. A., & Dodge, B. (2002). Condom use errors and problems among college men. Sexually Transmitted Diseases, 29, 552–557; Crosby, R. A., Yarber, W. L., Graham, C. A., & Sanders, S. A. (2010). Does it fi t okay? Problems with condom use as function of self-reported fi t. Sexually Transmitted Infections, 86, 36–38. Sanders, S. A., Graham, C. A., Yarber, W. L., & Crosby, R. A. (2003). Condom use errors and problems among young women who put condoms on their male partners. Journal of the American Medical Women’s Association, 58, 95–98; Yarber, W. L., Graham, C. A., Sanders, S. A., Crosby, R. A., Butler, S. M., & Hartzell, R. M. (2007). “Do you know what you are doing?” College students’ experiences with male condoms. American Journal of Health Education, 39, 322–331.
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that there were 92 transmissions per 100 individuals living with HIV at that time (see Figure 16.10). Following the identifi cation of AIDS, and later HIV, and the implementation of prevention programs and HIV testing, the trans- mission rates began to decline. As prevention eff orts were expanded and improved medical treatments for HIV became available, the transmission rate declined by 33% (from an estimated 8 transmissions per 100 individuals liv- ing with HIV in 1997 to 5 in 2006). Five transmissions per 100 individuals living with HIV in 2006 means that more than 95% of those living with HIV did not transmit the infection that year. From 2006 to 2009, the HIV diag- noses remained stable, a refl ection of continued eff ective prevention according to the CDC (2011q). Using national estimates of selected HIV risk behaviors, researchers have found fewer persons are now engaging in HIV risk behaviors. About 10% of men and 8% of women in 2006–2010 reported at least one HIV risk-related behavior. In 2002, 13% of men and 11% of women reported one or more risk behaviors (Chandra, Billioux, Copen, & Sionean, 2012). A review of 18 meta-analyses of sexual risk reduction interventions found signifi cant increases in condom use and reductions in unprotected sex (Noar, 2008). Another meta-analytic review of HIV prevention interventions was con- ducted to see if they not only decreased sexual risk behavior but also may have inadvertently increased sexual behavior. Th is analysis of 174 studies of HIV risk reduction interventions showed that HIV prevention programs did not increase the frequency of sexual activity. Some studies that were behavioral theory–based showed that HIV prevention interventions reduced the frequency of sexual activ- ity and the number of sexual partners (Smoak, Scott-Sheldon, Johnson, Carey, & SHARP research team, 2006). Recently, research studies have examined whether administering daily oral HIV treatment drugs, called antiretroviral therapy (ART), to uninfected indi- viduals prior to HIV exposure can help prevent HIV infection. Th is approach, called pre-exposure prophylaxis (PrEP), has been found to reduce HIV trans- mission by 63% in a population of heterosexual men and women and by 44% in MSM and transgender women who have sex with men. According to the CDC, these fi ndings represent a major advance in HIV prevention research.
“ Ignorance breeds passivity, pessimism, resignation, or a sense that AIDS is
someone else’s problem.
—Paul Farmer, MD (1959–)
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At the time of printing of this book, the CDC was working on guide- lines specifi c to the use of PrEP among heterosexual men and women and high-risk MSM in the United States, and it has already provided guidance to health-care providers who believe that the use of PrEP for a patient is urgent (CDC, 2011z, 2011aa). To keep abreast of developments of PrEP, refer to the CDC HIV/AIDS website: http:// www.gov.hiv.
Obstacles to Prevention HIV/AIDS is still seen by many people as a disease of “marginalized” groups, those who are outside the main- stream of American life. People who are not White, not middle class, and not heterosexual are often viewed with suspicion by people who are. People who are gay or lesbian are often ignored or reviled even within their own ethnic communities. People who use drugs are written off as useless, worthless, and criminal. Sex workers are frequently blamed for spreading STIs, even though they undoubtedly contract these diseases from their clients, who more than likely have or will spread them to their partner or partners. One eff ect of AIDS has been to make gay men more vulnerable to hate- motivated violence. Men who have been victims of vicious incidents of gay- bashing report that their attackers accuse them of causing AIDS. Assigning blame for AIDS to certain groups not only stigmatizes people in those groups but also those who blame from scrutinizing their own risk behavior. Th is denial is one of the biggest obstacles AIDS prevention specialists face. And it aff ects not only adults but their children as well.
Syringe Exchange Programs Syringe exchange programs (SEPs), especially those that provide information about risks and HIV prevention, also play an important role. Multiple literature reviews have concluded that SEPs clearly improve the health outcomes of injection drug users by reducing the transmis- sion of blood-borne diseases like HIV and lowering high-risk injecting behav- iors (Institute of Medicine, 2006; Nacopoulus, Lewtas, & Ousterhout, 2010; Palmateer et al., 2010). However, these programs are controversial because some people believe that they endorse or encourage drug use. Others feel that because the drug use already exists, saving lives should be the fi rst priority. Actually, several studies have shown that exchange programs can reduce injection drug risk behavior, such as syringe sharing.
Bono, lead singer of the Irish rock band U2, is in the company of other public fi gures who have established charities that help fi ght HIV/AIDS.
Community outreach programs provide information about prevention and assistance available to those at high risk for HIV.
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Although syringe exchange programs are illegal in some areas, they are often allowed to continue as long as the workers keep a low profi le. Syringe exchange activists believe that high priority should be given to legalizing and expanding these programs, which are cost-eff ective and have the potential of saving thou- sands of lives.
HIV Testing
HIV testing is available in many areas, including local health departments, clinics, offi ces of private physicians, hospitals, and sites specifi cally set up for that purpose. For information on where to fi nd an HIV testing site, visit the National HIV Testing Resources website at http://www.hivtest.org or call CDC-INFO 8 a.m.– 8 p.m. (EST) M–F at 1-800-CDC-INFO (232-4636) or 1-888-232-6348 (TTY), in English, en Español. Both of these resources are confi dential.
Who Should Get Tested? Screening for HIV infection is a major HIV control strategy. Th e CDC has promoted HIV testing, and the number of people who have had one HIV screening test in their lifetime has increased. However, an estimated 1 in 5 individuals living with HIV is unaware of their infection and may be unknowingly transmitting the virus to others. Knowing one’s HIV sta- tus can reduce the number of new infections. Research shows that the majority of people who know they are infected take steps to prevent the transmission of HIV to others (Marks, Crepaz, & Janssen, 2006). A person participating in any of the following behaviors should defi nitely get an HIV test. If the person continues with any of these behaviors, he or she should get tested every year.
■ Injected drugs or steroids or shared drug equipment (such as needles, syringes) with others
■ Had unprotected vaginal, anal, or oral sex (didn’t use a condom) with men who have sex with men, numerous partners, or anonymous partners
Sharing needles and other injection drug equipment is a common mode of HIV transmission via infected blood. Some organizations provide clean needles for injection drug users.
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■ Exchanged sex for drugs or money ■ Was diagnosed with or treated for hepatitis, tuberculosis, or an STI, like
syphilis
■ Had unprotected sex with someone who had any of the above behaviors If a person has had sex with someone whose history of sexual partners and/or drug use is unknown or if a partner has had numerous partners, then he or she has a chance of being infected with HIV. Both individuals should get tested for HIV, and learn the results, before having sex for the fi rst time. HIV testing is important for women who plan to become pregnant as medical care and certain drugs taken during pregnancy can lower the chance of passing HIV to the child. All women should be tested during pregnancy. Most HIV tests are antibody tests that measure the antibodies the body makes against HIV. It takes some time for the immune system to produce enough anti- bodies to be detected by the antibody test; this is called the “window period,” which can vary from person to person. Almost everyone infected with HIV devel- ops antibodies to HIV within 2–8 weeks after exposure (the average is 25 days); 97% will develop antibodies within the fi rst 2–3 months; and, in very rare cases, it can take up to 6 months to develop antibodies to HIV. Th erefore, if the initial negative HIV test was conducted within the fi rst 3 months after possible exposure, repeat testing should be considered after the exposure occurred to account for the possibility of a false-negative result. Between the time of a possible exposure and the receipt of test results, a person should consider abstaining from sexual contact with others or use condoms and/or dental dams during all sexual encounters. What a person can do if he or she tests positive for HIV is discussed later in this chapter. Having an HIV-negative test does not mean that one’s partner is also HIV-negative. An HIV test result reveals only the HIV status of the person taking the test. HIV is not necessarily transmitted every time there is an exposure. Th erefore, taking an HIV test oneself should not be viewed as a method to fi nd out if one’s partner has HIV. A person should ask about the HIV status of his or her partner and what risk behaviors the partner engaged in both currently and in the past. Certainly it is advisable to encourage the partner to get an HIV screening test. In most cases the EIA (enzyme immunoassay), performed on blood drawn from a vein, is the most common screening test used to detect the presence of antibodies to HIV. A reactive (positive) EIA is then followed up with a confi rma- tory test such as the Western blot to make sure of a positive diagnosis. Other EIA tests that use other body fl uids to screen for antibodies for HIV include
■ Oral fl uid tests. Th ese tests use oral fl uid (not saliva) collected from the mouth using a special collection device and, if positive, require a follow-up confi rmatory Western blot using the same oral fl uid sample.
■ Urine tests. Urine tests are somewhat less accurate than blood and oral fl uid tests. If positive, they require a follow-up confi rmatory Western blot using the same urine sample.
A rapid test is a screening test that produces very quick results, in about 20 minutes, whereas other HIV tests take a few days for results. Th is means that the person tested can fi nd out the results at the same visit, which cannot be done for the other screening tests. Th e rapid test has become very valuable to HIV control eff orts because failure to return for HIV test results is very common
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(Sullivan, 2004). Rapid tests use blood or oral fl uid to look for the presence of antibodies to HIV. As is true for all screening tests, a reactive rapid HIV test must be confi rmed with a follow-up confi rmatory test before fi nal diagno- sis of infection can be made. Th e rapid test has similar accuracy rates as tradi- tional EIA screening tests. Another type of test is an RNA test, which detects HIV directly. Th e time between HIV infections and RNA detection is 9–11 days. RNA tests, which are more costly and used less often than antibody tests, are used in some parts of the United States. In 1997, the fi rst consumer-controlled test kit (popularly known as “home testing kits”) was licensed by the U.S. Food and Drug Administration (FDA). Although home HIV tests are sometimes advertised through the Internet, only the Home Access HIV-1 Test System is currently licensed; the accuracy of other home testing kits cannot be verifi ed. Th e Home Access HIV-1 Test System can be found in most local drugstores or purchased on the Internet. Th is kit is not a true home test, but a home collection kit. Th e testing procedure involves pricking a fi nger with a special device, placing drops of blood on a specially treated card, and then mailing the card to a licensed laboratory to be tested. Customers are given an identifi cation number to use when phoning in for the results. Callers may speak to a counselor before taking the test, while waiting for the test result, and when the result is given. All individuals receiving a positive test result are provided referrals for a follow-up confi rmatory test, as well as information and resources for treatment and support services. In July 2012 the Food and Drug Administration approved the fi rst rapid, over-the-counter test to detect HIV infection. Th e OraQuick In-Home HIV test is taken entirely at home by oral swab, and consumers fi nd out the results in 20 to 40 minutes.
Counseling for the Tested Most people who go for an HIV test are anxious. Even though the vast majority of test results are negative, there is still the understandable fear that one has “drawn the short straw.” For many people, there are probably also feelings of ambivalence or guilt about the risky behav- iors that led them to this situation. Because of these kinds of responses, which are normal, counseling is a key part of the testing process. It is important for people being tested to understand what their risks for HIV actually are and to know what the results mean. It is also important for everyone, no matter what the results of their tests are, to understand the facts of transmission and preven- tion. For the majority who test negative, practicing abstinence or safer sex, remaining sexually exclusive, avoiding injection drug use, and taking other preventive measures can eliminate much of the anxiety associated with HIV. (Th ese measures reduce the risk of other STIs as well.) Counseling is vital for individuals who are HIV-positive. Early treatment and positive health behaviors are essential to maintaining good health and prolonging life. Prompt medical care may delay the onset of AIDS and prevent some life-threatening conditions. Pregnancy counseling should be made avail- able for women. It is also essential that people know they can pass the virus on to others (CDC, 2010o).
Treatments
When AIDS fi rst surfaced in the United States in the early 1980s, there were no drugs to combat the underlying immune defi ciency and few treatments existed for the opportunistic diseases that resulted. People with AIDS were not
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likely to live longer than a few years. Researchers, however, have developed drugs to fi ght both HIV infection and its associated infections and cancers. HIV treatment is the use of anti-HIV medications to keep an HIV-infected person healthy. Treatment can help people at all stages of HIV disease. Although anti-HIV medications can treat HIV infection, they cannot cure it. People who are infected with HIV are treated with antiretroviral therapy (ART). Th e FDA has approved more than 30 antiretroviral drugs to treat HIV infection. ART uses diff erent types of medications to keep HIV from multiply- ing in the body. Most people on ART take a combination of several medications prescribed by their physicians to keep their HIV disease under control. Th e goal of ART is to lower the amount of HIV in the body so that the immune system can stay strong and healthy. Some ART drugs keep the virus from reproducing, and some block HIV from entering the body’s cells. ART works best when the doctor fi nds a combination of drugs and a treatment plan that keeps HIV in check with the least side eff ects. Despite the fact many persons on ART are living longer and are healthier than without ART, ART does not cure HIV but, rather, works to keep it from damaging the immune system. And the HIV- infected person can still transmit the virus to others. An HIV-positive person may not need to start treatment right after diagno- sis, but HIV experts agree that treatment should begin immediately if the person has an AIDS-defi ning illness, has a CD4 cell count less than 350, is pregnant, has HIV-associated nephropathy (a kidney disorder), or is being treated for hepatitis B. Many experts also agree that ART should start if the CD4 count is below 500. Although there is still some debate, some experts believe that ART should start immediately after an HIV-positive test because new evidence suggests that ART can help the person live longer, can lower the risk of developing non-HIV-related illnesses (e. g., heart disease, diabetes), and reduces the chances of HIV transmission to others. One study of serodiscordant heterosexual couples (one HIV-positive, the other HIV-negative) found that ART use by the infected person reduced HIV transmission risk to the uninfected partner by 92% (Donnell et al., 2010). Treatment for HIV infection should not be started until the person is ready since a lot of commitment is needed to follow a demanding drug regimen and, in most cases, the treatment will have to be taken for life. Once HIV treatment begins, it is possible to have an undetectable viral load within 3 to 6 months, but the person will not be considered cured because there still will be some HIV in the body. However, an undetectable viral load indicates that the anti-HIV medications are working eff ectively to keep the person healthy and reduce the risk of HIV transmission to others. Unfortunately, ART does not work for everyone: Some people respond very well but others do not. Sometimes when HIV has been exposed to a medication for a long time, the virus is not aff ected by the medication. In this case, the health-care provider will change the medication to a new one that does aff ect the virus (U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, 2011b; National Institute of Allergy and Infectious Diseases, 2011). Th e search for a cure for AIDS continues. Learning more about the genet- ics of the small number of HIV-infected individuals who remain healthy may lead to new therapies that can help others. Gene therapy, in which the immune system is reconstructed with genetically altered resistant cells, is one potentially promising approach. For HIV/STI prevention, researchers are working on topical microbicides, chemical or biological substances that can kill or neutral- ize viruses and bacteria that may be present in semen or cervical or vaginal
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secretions. Th e goal is to develop a microbicidal gel, cream, fi lm, or suppository that individuals can apply to the vagina prior to intercourse. A major value of microbicides is that women can have much more control of HIV/STI preven- tion, particularly when they have limited ability to get their male partners to use condoms. A rectal HIV microbicide is also currently in development. As a cream or gel, or maybe a douche or an enema, a rectal microbicide could off er protection when condoms are used and a back-up protection in the event of condom breakage or slippage. Also, the rectal microbicide could be a safe and eff ective alternative for couples who are unwilling or unable to use condoms (International Rectal Microbicide Advocates, 2011). According to the Interna- tional AIDS Vaccine Initiative (2011), an AIDS vaccine with 50% effi cacy given to 30% of the population would avert 5.6 million new infections in low- and middle-income countries from 2015 to 2030. Work has also begun to develop an STI microbicide that would be topically used for penile cleaning before and after sex. Development of an eff ective and safe vaccine for HIV is the ultimate goal, but many biological and social challenges have to be overcome. Vaccines tested have failed to achieve expectations. While some progress has been achieved, it will still be many years before an HIV vaccine is licensed and widely available. Microbicides and a vaccine would provide another barrier to HIV transmission, but individual practice of safe sex would remain paramount.
• Living With HIV or AIDS People infected with HIV or diagnosed with AIDS have the same needs as everyone else—and a few more. If you are HIV-positive, in addition to dealing with psychological and social issues you need to pay special attention to main- taining good health. If you are caring for someone with HIV or AIDS, you also have special needs.
The Names Project Foundation created the AIDS Memorial Quilt as a poignant and powerful tool in preventing HIV infection. Each square has been lovingly created by friends and families of people who have died of AIDS. The quilt now contains more than 47,000 panels.
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If You Are HIV-Positive
A positive antibody test is scary to just about anyone. Yet a positive test result is valuable news: It is news that may make it possible to actually save your life. If you don’t learn about your status in this way, you probably will not know until a serious opportunistic infection announces the presence of HIV. At that point, many of your best medical options have been lost, and you might have spread the virus to others who would not otherwise have been exposed. But remember, although HIV infection is serious, people with HIV are living lon- ger, healthier lives today, thanks to new and eff ective treatments. Fortunately, people with HIV who are taking ART can go a long time before their immune systems are damaged enough to allow an opportunistic infection to occur.
Staying Healthy Longer It is important to fi nd a physician who has experience working with HIV and AIDS, and—even more importantly, perhaps—who is sensitive to the issues confronted by individuals infected with HIV. Begin treat- ment promptly once your doctor tells you to. Keep your appointments and follow the doctor’s instructions. If your doctor prescribes medicine for you, take the medicine exactly the way he or she tells you since taking only some of your medicine gives your HIV infection more chance to fi ght back. Taking ART med- ications on schedule increases its eff ectiveness. If you get sick from your medi- cine, call your doctor for advice; don’t make changes to what your doctor has prescribed on your own or because of advice from friends. In addition to appro- priate medical treatment, factors that can help promote your continuing good health include good nutrition, plenty of rest, exercise, limited (or no) alcohol use, stress reduction, and taking ART. People with HIV or AIDS should stop smoking tobacco because it increases susceptibility to pneumonia. Th ey should also get immunizations to prevent infections such as pneumonia and fl u. In addition, if you decide to have sexual contact with another person, it means practicing safer sex, even if your partner is also HIV-positive. Research- ers caution that one can become reinfected with diff erent HIV strains. More- over, STIs of all kinds can be much worse for people with an impaired immune system. HIV doesn’t mean an end to being sexual, but it does suggest that diff erent ways of expressing love and sexual desire may need to be explored. If you are living with HIV or AIDS, you may need many kinds of support: medical, emotional, psychological, and fi nancial. Your doctor, your local health department and social services departments, local AIDS service organizations, and the Internet can help you fi nd all kinds of help. It is recommended that women who are HIV-positive have Pap tests every 6–12 months. Cervical biopsies may also be necessary to determine whether cervical dysplasia or cancer is present.
Addressing Your Other Needs Th e stigma and fear surrounding HIV and AIDS often make it diffi cult to get on with the business of living. Among gay and bisexual men, social support is generally better for Whites than for Blacks; in Black communities, there tends to be less affi rmation from primary social support networks and less openness about sexual orientation. Women, who often concern themselves with caring for others, may not be inclined to seek out support groups and networks. But people who live with HIV and AIDS say that it’s important not to feel isolated. If you are HIV-positive, we encour- age you to seek support from AIDS organizations in your area.
The evidence demonstrates that we are not powerless against the epidemic, but
our response is still a fraction of what it needs to be.
—Peter Piot, MD (1949–)
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Partner Notifi cation Both current and past partners should be notifi ed so that they can be tested and receive counseling. Actually, in many states, HIV-infected people are required by law to notify current and recent sexual and needle-sharing partners. AIDS counselors and health-care practitioners currently encourage those with HIV to make all possible eff orts to contact past and current partners. In some cases, counselors try to make such contacts, with their clients’ permission.
As we have seen, HIV/AIDS remains a major public health challenge, in the United States and globally. HIV continues to take a severe toll on many communities in the U.S., with gay and bisexual men of all races, African Americans, and Latinos bearing the heaviest burden. Not only is HIV/AIDS a medical problem, but barriers such as stigmatization, discrimination, limited health care and prevention education mes- sages, and gender inequity impede progress to controlling the epidemic. We must do more—as individuals, in our communities, and as a nation—to expand our pre- vention eff orts to people at risk and stop the spread of HIV. As we know, HIV can be avoided. We hope that this chapter has provided you with the information and motivation that will serve as your vaccine against HIV/AIDS.
Final Thoughts
Summary What Is AIDS?
■ AIDS is an acronym for acquired immunodefi ciency syndrome. For a person to receive an AIDS diagnosis, he or she must have a positive blood test indicating the presence of HIV (human immunodefi ciency virus) antibodies and have a T-cell count below 200; if the T-cell count is higher, the person must have 1 or more of over 20 diseases or conditions associated with AIDS to be diagnosed with the disease.
■ A host of symptoms are associated with HIV/AIDS. Because these symptoms may be indicative of many other diseases and conditions, HIV and AIDS can- not be self-diagnosed; diagnosis by a clinician or physician is necessary.
■ Leukocytes, or white blood cells, play a major role in defending the body against invading organisms and cancerous cells. One type, the macrophage, engulfs foreign particles and displays the invader’s antigen on its own surface. Antibodies bind to antigens, inacti- vate them, and mark them for destruction by killer T cells. Other white blood cells called lymphocytes in- clude helper T cells, which are programmed to “read” the antigens and then begin directing the immune
system’s response. Th e number of helper T cells in an individual’s body is an important indicator of how well the immune system is functioning.
■ Viruses are primitive entities; they can’t propel themselves independently, and they can’t reproduce unless they are inside a host cell. Within the HIV’s protein core is the genetic material (RNA) that carries the information the virus needs to replicate itself. A retrovirus can “write” its RNA (the genetic program) into a host cell’s DNA.
■ Although HIV begins replication right away within the host cells, it is not detectable in the blood for some time—often years. HIV antibodies, however, are generally detectable in the blood within 2–8 weeks (the average is 25 days). A person’s serostatus is HIV-negative if antibodies are not present and HIV- positive if antibodies are detected. “T-cell count,” or “CD4 count,” refers to the number of helper T cells that are present in a cubic millimeter of blood.
■ When a person is fi rst infected with HIV, he or she may experience severe fl ulike symptoms. During this period, the virus is dispersed throughout the lymph nodes and other tissues. Th e virus may stay localized in these areas for years, but it continues to replicate and to destroy T cells. As the number of infected
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cells goes up, the number of T cells goes down. In advanced AIDS, the T-cell count drops to under 200, and the virus itself is detectable in the blood.
The Epidemiology and Transmission of HIV
■ Th e number of adults and adolescents living with HIV in the United States has grown to 1.2 million. Worldwide, more than 34 million people are now living with HIV. Rates of new infections are the highest in sub-Saharan Africa.
■ HIV is not transmitted by casual contact. ■ Activities or situations that may promote HIV trans-
mission include sexual transmission through vaginal or anal intercourse without a condom; fellatio with- out a condom; cunnilingus without a latex or other barrier; the sharing of needles and syringes contami- nated with infected blood; in-utero infection from mother to fetus, from blood during delivery, pre- chewing of baby food or in breast milk; the sharing of sex toys without disinfecting them; accidental contamination when infected blood enters the body through mucous membranes (eyes or mouth) or cuts, abrasions, or punctures in the skin (relatively rare); or blood transfusions (very rare).
■ Certain physiological or behavioral factors increase the risk of contracting HIV. In addition to anal intercourse, numerous sexual partners, and injection drug use, these factors include having an STI (especially if genital le- sions are present) and multiple exposures to HIV.
AIDS Demographics
■ HIV/AIDS is often linked with poverty, which has roots in racism and discrimination. In the United States, African Americans and Latinos have been dis- proportionately aff ected by HIV and STIs in com- parison to other racial/ethnic groups.
■ Certain groups have been particularly impacted by the AIDS epidemic in the United States: racial/eth- nic minorities (particularly African Americans), men who have sex with men; women; and young adults.
■ Because young people often have a sense of invulner- ability, they may put themselves at great risk without really understanding the consequences that may re- sult from their sexual behavior.
Prevention and Treatment
■ To protect ourselves and those we care about from HIV, we need to be fully knowledgable of what
constitutes risky behaviors and how to avoid them, develop communication skills so that we can talk with our partners, and get information on HIV testing. If we are sexually active with more than one long-term, exclusive partner, we need to use condoms correctly and consistently.
■ Free or low-cost HIV testing is available in many areas. HIV screening tests look for antibodies to the virus. A rapid HIV test in which the results are avail- able in about 20 minutes is now used at many testing sites.
■ Antiretroviral medications—the combination of drugs is called antiretroviral therapy (ART)—are avail- able for treatment of HIV/AIDS. Many people on the ART regimen have an increase in quality of life and longevity.
Living With HIV or AIDS
■ An HIV or AIDS diagnosis may be a cause for sad- ness and grief, but it also can be a time for reevalua- tion and growth. Th ose whose friends or family members are living with HIV, or who are themselves HIV-positive, need information and practical and emotional support.
■ Early detection of HIV can greatly enhance both the quality and longevity of life. Appropriate medical treatment and a healthy lifestyle are important. People with HIV or AIDS also need to practice safer sex and consider seeking support from AIDS organizations.
Questions for Discussion ■ What behaviors or measures have you taken
or will you take to prevent yourself from contracting HIV?
■ Despite the seriousness of the HIV/AIDS epidemic, some people continue to practice risky sexual and injection drug use; many of them are not receptive to HIV prevention messages. What do you suggest as strategies to reach these individuals?
■ Individuals who are diagnosed with an HIV infection react in many ways. How do you think you would react?
■ What would be your most important concern if you just learned that you had been infected with HIV?
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Sex and the Internet Frequently Asked Questions on HIV/AIDS The U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) provides information about HIV infection and AIDS on its website. One section is titled “Questions and An- swers (Q & A).” Go there (http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/re- sources/qa/index.htm) and answer these questions:
■ What are the categories of questions? ■ Are there questions that address issues you are curi-
ous about?
■ Choose a few questions and look at the responses. Do they seem adequate?
■ Are there questions you have that are not included? ■ What did you learn about HIV/AIDS from looking at
this site?
Also, note that in this section one can sign up to get free e-mail updates. All you have to do is go to http://www .cdc.gov/hiv/ehap and click on “subscribe to e-HAP” to get free updates.
Suggested Websites CDC National Prevention Information Network http://www.cdcdnpin.org Claims to house the nation’s largest collection of information re- sources on HIV/AIDS, STI, viral hepatitis, and TB prevention.
Centers for Disease Control and Prevention http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/ Provides information on HIV/AIDS. http://www.cdc.gov/std/ Provides information on STIs.
U.S. Government http://aids.gov Th e federal government’s Internet source for HIV prevention and treatment.
Joint United Nations Programme on HIV/AIDS http://www.unaids.org Contains epidemiological information on HIV/AIDS worldwide, as well as perspectives on HIV/AIDS-related issues.
Kaiser Family Foundation http://www.kff .org Off ers fact sheets and new releases on STIs and HIV/AIDS.
National Institutes of Health http://www.nih.gov Provides current information about HIV/AIDS.
Rural Center for AIDS/STD Prevention http://www.indiana.edu/~aids Provides information about issues related to HIV/STI prevention in rural communities in the United States.
Suggested Reading Fan, H. Y., Conner, R. E., & Villarreal, L. P. (2010). AIDS:
Science and society (5th ed.). Sudbury, MA: Jones & Bartlett. A solid overview of AIDS from both a biomedical and a psychosocial perspective.
Harden, V. A., & Fauci, A. S. (2012). AIDS at 30: A history. A history of HIV/AIDS written for a general audience that emphasizes the medical response to the epidemic.
Kalichman, S. (2009). Denying AIDS: Conspiracy theories, pseudoscience, and human tragedy. New York: Copernicus Books. Th e author focuses on the organized, widespread forms of denial of HIV and the junk science, faulty logic, conspiracy theories, and forces of homophobia and racism that fueled them.
Pepin, J. (2011). Th e origins of AIDS. Cambridge, United Kingdom: Cambridge University Press. Th e author looks back to the early-twentieth-century events in Africa that triggered the emergence of HIV/AIDS and traces its subsequent development into the most dramatic and destructive epidemic of modern times.
Pisani, E. (2008). Th e wisdom of whores: Bureaucrats, brothels, and the business of AIDS. New York: W. W. Norton. A “fl ame-throwing” epidemiologist talks about sex, drugs, mistakes, ideologies, and hopes of international AIDS prevention.
Shilts, R. (1987). And the band played on: People, politics, and the AIDS epidemic. New York: St. Martin’s Press. Th e fascinating story behind the “discovery” of AIDS, complete with real heroes and, unfortunately, real villains.
For links, articles, and study material, go to the McGraw-Hill website, located at
www.mhhe.com/yarber8e.
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Sexual Harassment 558
Harassment and Discrimination Against Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, and Transgender People 565
Sexual Aggression 572
Child Sexual Abuse 586
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Although sexuality permits us to form and sustain deep bonds and inti-mate relationships, it may also have a darker side. For some people, sex is linked with coercion, degradation, aggression, and abuse. In these cases, sex becomes a weapon—a means to exploit, humiliate, or harm others. In this chap- ter, we fi rst examine the various aspects of sexual harassment, including the distinction between fl irting and harassment and the sexual harassment that occurs in schools, colleges, and the workplace. Next, we look at harassment, prejudice, and discrimination directed against gay men, lesbian women, and bisexual and transgender persons. Th en we examine sexual aggression, including date rape and stranger rape, the motivations for rape, and the consequences of rape. Finally, we discuss child sexual abuse, examining the factors contributing to abuse, the types of abuse and their consequences, and programs for preventing it.
• Sexual Harassment Sexual harassment refers to two distinct types of behavior: (1) the abuse of power for sexual ends and (2) the creation of a hostile environment. In terms of abuse of power, sexual harassment consists of unwelcomed sexual advances, requests for sexual favors, or other verbal or physical conduct of a sexual nature as a condition of instruction or employment. Refusal to comply may result in reprisals. Only a person with power over another can commit the fi rst kind of harassment. In a hostile environment, someone acts in sexual ways that inter- fere with a person’s performance at school or in the workplace. Such harassment is illegal.
Being forced is poison for the soul.
—Ludwig Borne
(1786–1837)
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“I was sexually ha- rassed at work, but I stood my ground. I told the guy to knock it off or I’d sue him. It worked—he quit 3 weeks later.”
—20-year-old female
“At a very young age, I remember being sexually molested by two neighbors who were a couple years older than I. They did not insert any- thing in me. I was not physically hurt, but I remember losing my voice and the will to defend myself. I remember my father calling my name from the back porch and I could not answer him. I felt I had lost all power to speak or move. The regret of allowing this to happen to me still lingers in my feelings to- ward others and myself. I believe this event has contributed to shaping some deep paranoia and mistrust toward my peers, and I have carried this for a long time.”
—22-year-old female
“When I reached the fi rst grade, my mother’s boyfriend moved in with us. Living with him was the biggest nightmare of my
life. One night I was asleep and was awakened by something. It was my mother’s boyfriend, and what woke me up was his hand. He was touching me in my sleep while he watched tele- vision. He did not touch me under my clothes and he did not caress me, but he would place his hand on my private parts and that made me feel very uncomfortable. I used to move and roll around a lot so he would move his hand. I became afraid to sleep at night because I thought he would be there. These events aff ected me emotionally and psychologically.”
—20-year-old male
“I was sexually abused when I was about eight years old. My cousin and uncle molested me several times. They abused me for as long as 3 years. After this time, I decided to run away because I did not have a father, and I knew that my mother would not believe what happened to me. I tried to tell people what had happened to me, but everyone would call me a liar or crazy. In my town, people believed that if a woman was sexually abused it was her fault because she provoked the men. This includes child abuse. In my home, my family never talked about sex or sexuality, and I think that is one of the reasons I did not know that what happened to me wasn’t my fault.”
—21-year-old female
Student Voices
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What Is Sexual Harassment?
Title VII of the Civil Rights Act of 1964 fi rst made various kinds of dis- crimination, including sexual harassment, illegal in the workplace. Title VII applies to employers with 15 or more employees, including local, state, and federal employees, employment agencies, and labor organizations. In 1980, the U.S. Offi ce of Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC) issued guidelines regarding both verbal and physical harassment in the work and education environments. Th e EEOC defi ned sexual harassment as unwel- come sexual advances, requests for sexual favors, and other verbal or physical conduct of a sexual nature when this conduct (1) explicitly or implicitly aff ects an individual’s employment, (2) unreasonably interferes with an individual’s work performance, or (3) creates an intimidating, hostile, or off ensive work environment. A major component of the EEOC guidelines is that the behav- ior is unwanted and unwelcome and might aff ect employment conditions. Th e sexual aggression does not have to be explicit, and even the creation of a hostile work environment that can aff ect work performance constitutes sexual harassment. Th e victim as well as the harasser may be a man or a woman. Also, it is unlawful for an employer to retaliate against an individual for fi ling a discrimination charge or opposing employment practices that discriminate based on sex (U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission, 2009; U.S. Merit Systems Protection Board, 1995). Further, the victim does not have to be the person harassed but could be anyone aff ected by the conduct. In fi scal year 2010, 11,717 sexual harassment charges were fi led with the EEOC, down from a high of 15,889 in fi scal year 1997 (U.S. Equal Employment Oppor- tunity Commission, n.d.). (Fiscal year for the federal government is October 1 to September 30.) Sexual harassment is a mixture of sex and power; power may often be the dominant element. In school and the workplace, men and women are devalued by calling attention to their sexuality. For women especially, sexual harassment may be a way to keep them “in their place” and make them feel vulnerable.
Sexual harassment, particularly in the workplace, creates a stressful and hostile environment for the victim.
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Th ere are other forms of behavior that, although not illegal, are considered by many to be sexual harassment. Th ese include unwanted sexual jokes and innuendos and unwelcome whistles, taunts, and obscenities directed, for exam- ple, from a man or group of men to a woman walking past them. As with all harassment, these apply to male-female, male-male, and female-female interac- tions. Th ey also include a man “talking to” a woman’s breasts or body during conversation or persistently giving her the “once-over” as she walks past him, sits down, or enters or leaves a room. Clinical psychologist Elizabeth Powell (1996) lists the following as examples of sexual harassment:
■ Verbally harassing or abusing someone ■ Exerting subtle pressure for sexual activity ■ Making remarks about a person’s clothing, body, or sexual activities ■ Leering at or ogling a person’s body ■ Engaging in unwelcome touching, patting, or pinching ■ Brushing against a person’s body ■ Making demands for sexual favors accompanied by implied or overt
threats concerning one’s job or student status ■ Physically assaulting someone
Such incidents may make a person feel uncomfortable and vulnerable. Th ey have been described, in fact, as “little rapes.” Th e cumulative eff ect of these behaviors is to lead women to limit their activities, to avoid walking past groups of men, and to stay away from beaches, concerts, parties, and sports events unless they are accompanied by others. Sometimes, charges of sexual harass- ment are ignored or trivialized, and blame often falls on the victim. Sexual harassment more commonly occurs in school or the workplace, as well as in other settings, such as between patients and doctors or mental health and sex therapists. One type of harassment that may not involve sexual harassment, per se, is stalking. Th e U.S. Bureau of Justice Statistics defi nes stalking as “a course of action that would cause a reasonable person to feel fear” (Baum, Catalano, Rand, & Rose, 2009). It reports that an estimated 5.9 million U.S. residents aged 18 and older experienced behaviors consistent with either stalking or harassment in the 12 months prior to its Supplemental Victim Survey con- ducted in 2006; more than half experienced behavior that met the defi nition of stalking (Baum et al., 2009). Th e 2010 National Intimate Partner and Sex- ual Violence Survey reported that 1 in 6 women (16%) and 1 in 19 men (5%) in the United States have experienced being stalked at some point during their lifetime in which they felt very fearful or believed that they or someone close to them would be harmed or killed (Black et al., 2011). Typical stalking behav- iors include making unwanted phone calls, sending unwanted e-mails and texts, following or spying on someone, waiting at places for the person, leaving unwanted items or presents, threatening or attacking the person, and posting information or spreading rumors about the person on the Internet, in a public place, or by word of mouth. Persons who are stalked sometimes fear that the behavior will never stop and that they will be physically harmed. Th ey may wonder what will happen next and experience negative psychological outcomes such as anxiety, depression, and insomnia. Research indicates that partner stalk- ing is fairly common and, actually, is the largest category of stalking cases.
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Studies show that between 4.8% and 14.5% of women aged 18 and older report ever being stalked by an intimate partner in contrast to 0.6% of men reporting this type of stalking (Logan, 2010). Many college campuses provide educational and support services for persons who experience being stalked. Stalking is a crime in all 50 states, the District of Columbia, and the U.S. Territories, which allows the police to arrest a person who continually stalks.
Flirtation Versus Harassment
Th ere is nothing wrong with fl irtation per se. A smile, look, or compliment can give pleasure to both people. But persistent and unwelcome fl irtation can be sexual harassment if the fl irtatious person holds power over the other or if the fl irtation creates a hostile school or work environment. Whether fl irtation is sexual harassment depends on three factors:
■ Whether you have equal power. A person’s having power over you limits your ability to refuse, for fear of reprisal. For example, if a professor or teaching assistant in your class asks you for a date, you are placed in an awkward position. If you say no, will your grade suff er? Will you be ignored in class? What other consequences might occur? Or if your boss asks for a date, you may be similarly concerned about losing your job, being demoted, or having your work environment become hostile if you refuse.
■ Whether you are approached appropriately. “Hi babe, nice tits, wanna get it on?” and “Hey stud, love your buns, wanna do it?” are obviously off ensive. But approaches that are complimentary (“You look really nice today”), indirect (“What do you think of the class?”), or direct (“Would you like to have some coff ee?”) are acceptable because they do not pres- sure you. You have the opportunity to let the overture pass, respond positively, or politely decline. Sometimes, it is diffi cult to distinguish the intent of the person doing the approaching. One way to ascertain the intent is to give a direct “I” message and ask that the behavior cease. If the person stops the behavior, and especially if an apology follows, the intent was friendly; if the behavior continues, it is the beginning of sex- ual harassment. If he or she does not stop, you should contact a trusted supervisor, an academic advisor/counselor, or a resident assistant.
■ Whether you wish to continue contact. If you fi nd the other person appealing, you may want to continue the fl irtation. You can express interest or fl irt back. But if you don’t fi nd the other person appealing, you may want to stop the interaction by not responding or by respond- ing in a neutral or discouraging manner.
Th e issue is complicated by several factors related to culture and gender. Dif- fering cultural expectations may lead to misinterpretation. For example, when a Latino, whose culture encourages mutual fl irting, says “muy guapa” (“good look- ing”) to a Latina walking by, the words may be meant and received as a compli- ment. But when a Latino says the same thing to a non-Latina, he may be dismayed at her negative reaction. He perceives her as uptight, and she perceives him as rude, but each is misinterpreting the other because of cultural diff erences. Th ree signifi cant gender diff erences may contribute to sexual harassment. First, men are generally less likely to perceive activities as harassing than are women (U.S. Merit Systems Protection Board, 1995). Th e diff erence in percep- tion often is for the more subtle forms of harassment, as both men and women
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believe that overt activities such as deliberate touching constitute sexual harass- ment. Second, men tend to misperceive women’s friendliness as sexual interest. Th ird, men are more likely than women to perceive male-female relationships as adversarial. Given all this, not surprisingly, 84% of the harassment claims fi led in 2010 were by women. Interestingly, the percentage of males fi ling sexual harassment claims increased from 9.1% in 1992 to 16.4% in 2010 (U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission, n.d.). Power diff erences also aff ect perception. Personal questions asked by an instructor or a supervisor, for example, are more likely to be perceived as sex- ual harassment than they would be if a student or co-worker asked them. What needs to be clarifi ed is the basis of the relationship: Is it educational, business, or professional? Is it romantic or sexual? Flirtatious or sexual ways of relating are inappropriate in the fi rst three contexts.
Harassment in School and College
Sexual harassment in various forms is widespread. It does not necessarily begin in adulthood; it may begin as early as middle childhood.
Harassment in Elementary and High School It’s a “time-honored” practice for boys to “tease” girls: calling them names, spreading sexual gossip, and so on. If such behavior is defi ned as teasing, its impact is discounted; it is just “fun.” But if the behavior is thought of as sexual harassment, then the behav- iors may be viewed in a new light. According to a 2011 nationally representative survey of sexual harassment among 1,965 students in grades 7–12, 56% of the girls and 40% of the boys reported some form of sexual harassment in the 2010–2011 school year, the vast majority being peer-to-peer harassment (Hill & Kearl, 2011). Most of the incidents were verbal harassment, such as unwelcome sexual comments, jokes, or gestures. Nearly one third (30%) indicated that they were sexually harassed by text, e-mail, Facebook or other electronic means; many of these students were also sexually harassed in person. Girls were more likely to be sexually harassed in person than boys (52% vs. 35%) and by text, e-mail, Facebook, or other electronic means (36% vs. 24%). An equal percentage of boys and girls (18%) reported being called gay or lesbian. Th e vast majority of students (87%) said they were negatively aff ected by the harassment with girls reporting more nega- tive outcomes than boys. Negative eff ects included trouble sleeping, not wanting to go to school, or changing the way they went to and came home from school. Sadly, one half of the students who were sexually harassed said they did nothing afterward in response to the episode. Eighteen percent of the boys and 14% of the girls indicated that they sexually harassed other students; interestingly, 44% of those students did not think the harassment was “a big deal” and 39% said they were trying to be funny. Of those students who harassed other students, 92% of the girls and 80% of the boys reported that they had been the target of sexual harassment themselves. To address sexual harassment in schools, stu- dents suggested that the school should designate a person to talk to, provide online resources, and hold in-class discussions. However, the most common recommendations were allowing students to anonymously report problems, enforcing sexual harassment policies, and punishing harassers. Among middle and secondary school students, sexual harassment occurs most often when boys are in groups. Th eir motives may be designed to heighten
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their group status by denigrating girls—rather than based on any specifi c ani- mosity toward a particular girl. Harassment is usually either ignored by adults or regarded as normal or typical behavior among boys—“boys will be boys.”
Harassment in College Sexual harassment on college and university cam- puses has become a major concern in recent years. In 2005, the American Association of University Women (AAUW) (2006) conducted the most com- prehensive survey to date of sexual harassment on college campuses. Th e online survey of 2,036 undergraduates aged 18–24 included students enrolled in pub- lic and private two-year and four-year colleges. Sixty-two percent of female students and 61% of male students reported that they had been verbally or physically sexually harassed while in college. Th e students reported several types of harassment (see Figure 17.1); sexual comments and jokes were the most common. Among female students who experienced sexual harassment, one third said they felt afraid and one fi fth indicated they were disappointed in their college experience because of the sexual harassment. Although more than two thirds of the female students and more than one third of the male students who had experienced sexual harassment felt very or somewhat upset by it, only 7% reported the incident to a faculty member or other college employee. Slightly more than one half of the women surveyed and about one third of the women reported they had sexually harassed someone, largely because they thought it was funny. Lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) students (73%) experienced more sexual harassment than heterosexual students (61%) and were harassed more often (18% vs. 7%).
Sexual comments, jokes, gestures, looks
Flashed or mooned
Touched, grabbed, or pinched in a sexual way
Sexual pictures, photos, web pages, illustrations,
messages, or notes
Someone brushed up against them in a sexual way
Called gay, lesbian, or a homophobic name
302010 40 50 60
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• FIGURE 17.1 Types of Sexual Harassment Experienced by College Students. The fi gures are based on a 2005 survey of college undergraduates in the United States. (Source: From Hill, C. & Silva, E. Drawing the Line: Sexual Harassment on Campus. Copyright © 2005 by American Association of University Women. Reprinted by permission.)
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Two major problems in dealing with issues of sexual harassment in college are gender diff erences in levels of tolerance and attribution of blame. Women are often blamed for not taking a “compliment” and for provoking unwanted sexual attention by what they wear or how they look. Th ese attitudes are widely held, especially among men. Because of sexual harassment, many students, especially women students, fi nd it diffi cult to study; others worry about their grades. If the harasser is an instructor controlling grades or a coach providing team leadership, students fear reporting the harassment. Th ey may use strategies such as avoiding courses or sports taught by the harasser or choosing another advisor. In extreme cases, the emotional consequences may be as severe as for rape victims. However, many students, particularly women, view the dating of students by professors as unethical behavior rather than harassment (Oldenberg, 2005). Most universities and colleges have developed sexual harassment policies, most of which prohibit romantic/sexual relationships between students and pro- fessors. A fundamental principle of these policies is that the student-professor relationship cannot be truly consensual given the professor’s considerable power over the student’s academic standing and career plans. Although such policies help make students aware of harassment issues, their eff ectiveness depends on educating students about what constitutes harassment. Th e AAUW (2006) states that sexual harassment is disruptive to the college experience, shaping the behaviors that students will take with them into their work careers and into the broader society. Further, the AAUW contends, “A campus environment that encourages—even tolerates—inappropriate verbal and physical contact and that discourages reporting these behaviors undermines the emotional, intellectual and professional growth of millions of young adults.” Th e AAUW continues to note in its research that sexual harassment on the college campus takes a particularly heavy toll on women students, making it more diffi cult to acquire the education they need for themselves and any future family.
Harassment in the Workplace
Issues of sexual harassment are complicated in the workplace because the work setting, like college, is one of the most important places where adults meet potential partners. As a consequence, sexual undercurrents or interactions often take place. Flirtations, romances, and “aff airs” are common in the work environ- ment. Th e line between fl irtation and harassment can be problematic—especially for men. Many women do not realize they were being harassed until much later. When they identify the behavior, they report feeling naïve or gullible, as well as guilty and ashamed. As they learn more about sexual harassment, they are able to identify their experiences for what they were—harassment (Kidder, Lafl eur, & Wells, 1995). Sexual harassment in the workplace is a serious problem aff ecting tens of thousands of both men and women (Boland, 2005). Th e results of an AOL Jobs Survey reported in 2011 indicated that one in six persons has been sexu- ally harassed at work, with 43% and 51% of those harassed stating that they were harassed by a supervisor or a peer, respectively. Of the 35% reporting the harassment to authorities, 47% were women and 21% were men. In a 2008 telephone poll of 782 U.S. workers conducted by Louis Harris and Associates, 31% and 7% of female and male workers, respectively, reported being sexually harassed at work. All of the women and 59% of the men reported that the
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harasser was a person of the other sex (Mahabeer, 2011). An Employment Law Alliance survey of 826 employees found that 7% indicated they had been involved in a romantic relationship with a supervisor or a subordinate, and 43% noted they believed the relationship has hurt productivity (Hirschfeld, 2004). Romantic relationships at work can become a sexual harassment issue as well as lead to perceived favoritism and low morale. Sexual harassment tends to be most pervasive in formerly all-male occupa- tions, in which it is a means of exerting control over women and asserting male dominance. Such male bastions as the building trades, the trucking industry, law enforcement, and the military have been especially resistant to the presence of women. For example, the U.S. Department of Veterans Aff airs found that 22% of women and 1% of men had suff ered sexual trauma, which includes assault and harassment, in the military (Kaye & Estrada, 2008). Some veterans who are survivors of rape claim that investigations of alleged rape are mishandled (Hefl ing, 2011). In response to pressure, the military is taking steps to make the environment safer. Specifi cally for the Iraq and Afghanistan military operations, 15% of women and slightly under 1% of men who received Veterans Health Administration primary care or mental health services from 2001 and 2007 reported military sexual trauma. Th is trauma was associated with increased risk of mental disorder diagnoses and substance abuse disorders and is an important postdeployment mental health issue for this population (Kimerling et al., 2010). Th e reported rates of sexual trauma in the military probably underrepresent the actual amount of sexual abuse as some abused persons have been reluctant to report abuse given fears that the report will harm their careers or that nothing will be done to stop the abuse or punish the abuser. Although most sexual harassment situations involve men harassing women, men can be the victims of harassment, from either a woman or a man. Th e U.S. Supreme Court has ruled that a men can fi le legal action against a man for sexual harassment (Solomon, 1998). Sexual harassment can have a variety of consequences for the victim, includ- ing depression, anxiety, shame, humiliation, and anger, as will be discussed later in the chapter.
• Harassment and Discrimination Against Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, and Transgender People Researchers have identifi ed two forms of discrimination or bias based on sexual orientation: heterosexual bias and anti-gay prejudice.
Heterosexual Bias
Heterosexual bias, also known as heterosexism or heterocentric behavior, and widely (and silently) accepted in society, media, and the family, involves the tendency to see the world in heterosexual terms and to ignore or devalue homosexuality (Griffi n, 1998; Walls, 2008). Heterosexual bias may take many forms. Examples of this type of bias include the following:
■ Ignoring the existence of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender people. Discussions of various aspects of human sexuality may ignore gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender people, assuming that such individuals
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do not exist, are not signifi cant, or are not worthy of inclusion. Without such inclusion, discussions of human sexuality are really discussions of heterosexual sexuality.
■ Segregating gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender people from heterosexual people. When sexual orientation is irrelevant, separating certain groups from others is a form of segregation, as in proposals to separate HIV- positive gay men (but not other HIV-positive individuals) from the gen- eral population.
■ Subsuming gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender people into a larger cat- egory. Sometimes, it is appropriate to make sexual orientation a category in data analysis, as in studies of adolescent suicide rates. If orientation is not included, fi ndings may be distorted.
Prejudice, Discrimination, and Violence
Anti-gay prejudice is a strong dislike, fear, or hatred of gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender people because of their sexual orientation. Homophobia is an irrational or phobic fear of gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender people. Not all anti-gay feelings are phobic in the clinical sense of being excessive and irrational, but they may be unreasonable or biased. Th e feelings may, however, be within the norms of a biased culture.
Outcomes of Anti-Gay Prejudice and Discrimination As a belief system, anti-gay prejudice justifi es discrimination based on sexual orientation. Th is dis- crimination can take varied forms: Gay, lesbian, and transgender people are often discriminated against in access to housing, employment opportunities, adoption of children, and parental rights. For example, 29 states lack employ- ment nondiscrimination protections, and 35 states do not have such protec- tions for transgender persons. In most states, sexual minorities cannot legally marry (see Chapter 18 for discussion of gay-marriage issues and laws). Even in the few states that permit gay marriage, federal laws prohibit fundamental protections available to heterosexual couples such as Social Security benefi ts (Mushovic, 2011). Persons experiencing anti-gay prejudice may be harassed and bullied and become victims of physical violence. Anti-gay prejudice infl uences parents’ reac- tions to their gay and lesbian children, often leading to estrangement. As a result, many gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender persons suff er various neg- ative outcomes, including these:
■ More gay men and lesbian women live in poverty compared to hetero- sexual individuals (Mushovic, 2011).
■ Data from the Massachusetts Youth Risk Behavior Survey revealed that sexual minority teenagers are more likely to be unaccompanied (without their parents or guardians) and homeless (Corliss, Goodenow, Nichols, & Austin, 2011).
■ Analysis of Youth Risk Behavior Survey data from seven states and six large urban school districts from 2001 to 2009 found that sexual minor- ity students, particularly gay, lesbian, and bisexual students, had more sexual contact with both sexes and were more likely to engage in other health risk behaviors, such as behaviors related to attempted suicide, than other students (CDC, 2011bb).
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■ A study in the medical journal Pediatrics reported that gay, lesbian, and bisexual youth in Oregon were 5 times more likely to attempt suicide than their heterosexual counterparts (Hatzenbuehler, 2011). When suicide occurs among gay teens, it is often attributed to unsupportive environments.
■ Th e 2009 National School Climate Survey of middle and high school students found that nearly 9 in 10 lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender youth experienced harassment at school in the past year, and about two thirds felt unsafe at school because of their sexual orientation. Many of those bullied experienced depression and anxiety, and almost one third skipped school in the past month because of fear for their safety (Gay, Lesbian, and Straight Education Network, 2010).
■ A 2000 national study of gay men, lesbian women, and bisexual individ- uals in 15 major U.S. metropolitan areas found that 34% of the respon- dents said that their family or a family member had refused to accept them because of their sexual orientation; 74% experienced prejudice and discrimination; and 74% reported having been the target of verbal abuse, such as slurs or name-calling, because of their sexual orientation (Kaiser Family Foundation, n.d.).
Violence Against Gay Men and Lesbian Women Violence against gay men and lesbian women has a long history. At times, such violence has been sanc- tioned by religious institutions. During the Middle Ages, leaders of the religious court called the Inquisition condemned “sodomites” to death by burning. In the sixteenth century, England’s King Henry VIII made sodomy punishable by death. In our own times, homosexual individuals were among the fi rst victims of the Nazis, who killed 50,000 in concentration camps. Because of worldwide violence and persecution against lesbian women and gay men, in 1992 the Netherlands, Germany, and Canada granted asylum to men and women based on their homosexuality (Farnsworth, 1992). Today, gay men, lesbian women, and other sexual minorities are increasingly the targets of violence. In 2010, 2,503 hate violence incidents involving lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, and HIV-aff ected (LGBTQH) communities were reported, representing a 13% increase over the total number of survivors and victims reported in 2009. Transgender persons and people of color were more likely to experience certain forms of hate violence as compared to non- transgender White persons. Further, 27 anti-LGBTQH murders occurred in 2010, an increase of 23% from 2009. Persons of color, transgender women, and nontransgender men were most impacted by murder. Besides murder, the incidents included sexual assault/rape, robbery, vandalism, assault/attempted assault, intimidation, and verbal harassment. Unfortunately, only one half of these hate violence victims reported the incident to the police (National Coali- tion of Anti-Violence Programs, n.d.). A review of 75 studies that examined the prevalence of sexual assault victimization against people who identify as gay or bisexual men (GB men) and as lesbian or bisexual women (LB women) in the United States found the mean estimate of lifetime sexual assault to be 30% for GB men and 43% for LB women (Rothman, Exner, & Baughman, 2011). Th e brutal murder of Matthew Shepard, a gay University of Wyoming stu- dent, in 1998; the dragging death of a 34-year-old African American man, James Byrd, Jr., in 1998; the beating and strangulation of Gwen Araujo, a
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During the Middle Ages, gay men (called sodomites) were burned at the stake as heretics (above left). In Germany in 1933, the Nazis burned Magnus Hirschfeld’s library and forced him to fl ee the country (above right). Gay men and lesbian women were among the fi rst Germans the Nazis forced into concentration camps, where over 50,000 of them were killed. Today, violence against gay men and lesbian women, known as gay- bashing, continues (right). The pink triangle recalls the symbol the Nazis required lesbian women and gay men to wear, just as they required Jews to wear the Star of David.
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think about it
The American public has mixed opinions about most issues concerning the rights of gay men and lesbian women, as shown in the following results of a 2011 national poll. Subsequent polls may reveal changes in public opinion as issues related to gay/lesbian rights, such as legalization of same-sex marriage, become even more contentious in the political agenda. The Gallup Poll, one of the most respected polling agencies, has for more than 30 years conducted research on the public opinions related to same-sex issues and gay rights. The results presented below are from the latest poll conducted prior to the printing of this book. Go to the Gallup Poll website (Gallup.com) to fi nd out the latest results of the American pub- lic’s opinion about varied gay men and lesbian women’s rights and issues.
Gallup Poll 2011
More than 1,000 (1,018) adults nationally, aged 18 and older, were interviewed by telephone in May 2011 (Gallup Poll, 2011a, 2011b). Here is what the poll found regarding four important is- sues related to gay men and lesbian women, using the poll’s terminology:
■ Do you personally believe gay or lesbian relations are morally acceptable or morally wrong? Fifty-six percent considered gay or lesbian relations (i.e., sexual activity) morally acceptable, the highest percentage found since this question was fi rst asked in 2001, when 40% indicated it was morally acceptable. Likewise, the percentage indicating it was morally wrong has gone down since 2001 (53%) to the lowest percentage, 39%, found in 2011.
■ Do you think gay or lesbian relations between consenting adults should be legal or not? Sixty-four percent said that gay rela- tions should be legal. Support for legal gay relations has advanced and receded over the years with one peak at 60% in May 2003, yet support dropped the same year, likely as a backlash against the U.S. Supreme Court ruling that struck down the Texas sodomy law (see Chapter 18). As you can see, Americans were somewhat more likely to consider gay or lesbian relations to be legal than to say they are morally acceptable.
■ In your view, is being gay or lesbian something a person is born with, or due to factors such as upbringing and environment? The American public was nearly evenly divided as to the ori- gins of same-sex orientation. Forty-two percent indicated that being gay or lesbian is “due to factors such as upbringing
Public Opinion About Gay and Lesbian Issues and Rights
and environment” and 40% believed it is “something a person is born with.” In 1978, the fi rst year this question was asked, 56% and 13% indicated “upbringing/environment,” and “born with,” respectively. The percentages indicating these origins have been nearly the same since 2001.
■ Do you think marriages between same-sex couples should or should not be recognized by the law as valid, with the same rights as traditional marriage? For the fi rst time since Gallup began asking this question in 1996, a majority of Americans (53%) supported legalizing gay marriage with the same rights as traditional marriages, in contrast to 45% who op- posed it. In 1996, support for gay marriage was 27%, with 68% opposing. Despite the majority support in 2011, gay marriage remains a very divisive issue for Americans, as dis- cussed further in Chapter 18.
The poll concluded that Americans are as accepting now of gay men and lesbian women as at any time in the past 30 years, if not in U.S. history. The poll further noted that if the trend contin- ues and political leaders respond to public opinion on these is- sues (as the government has in repealing “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell”; see page 571 for a discussion of this repeal), one would anticipate that more states and the federal government will expand the legal rights of gay men and lesbian women, including legalizing gay marriage.
Think Critically 1. What is your opinion about the issues addressed in
the poll? 2. Does your opinion seem to be similar to that of most
of your friends and family? 3. Have your opinions on these issues changed over
time? If so, what changed them? 4. Should the results of opinion polls be used in shaping
public policy concerning gay men, lesbian women, and bisexual and transgender individuals?
SOURCES: Gallup Poll. (2011). Support for legal gay relations hits new high. Available: http://www.gallup.com/poll/147785/Support-Legal-Gay-Relations- Hits-New-High.aspx (Last visited 9/6/11); Gallup Poll. (2011). For fi rst time, majority of Americans favor legal gay marriages. Available: http://www.gallup .com/poll.147662/First-Time-Majority-Americans-Favor-Legal-Gay-Marriage. (Last visited 9/6/11).
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17-year-old transsexual female, in 2002; and the fatal classroom shooting of 15-year-old Lawrence King, who identifi ed as gay, in 2008, are four murders that have received national media attention. After more than a decade of advo- cacy, the Matthew Shepard and James Byrd, Jr. Hate Crimes Prevention Act was signed into law by President Obama on October 28, 2009. Th is law gives the Department of Justice the power to investigate and prosecute as a federal crime bias-motivated violence against an individual because of the person’s actual or perceived sexual orientation, gender identity, color, religion, national origin, or disability. Th e map in Figure 17.2 shows the states that have laws protecting against hate crime based on sexual orientation and gender at the time of this book’s publication (Movement Advancement Project, 2001a).
Ending Anti-Gay Prejudice and Enactment of Antidiscrimination Laws
As mentioned, gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender people are discriminated against in many ways that harm their self-esteem and mental health. Education and positive social advocacy and interactions are important ways to combat anti-gay prejudice. Another way is to create legislation to guarantee gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender individuals’ equal protection under the law. Th e Movement Advancement Project (MAP), an independent think tank focusing on expediting equality for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender peo- ple, states that “unequal treatment under the law can prevent LGBT Americans from being able to fully participate in American Life” (Movement Advancement
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Project, 2012). MAP has identifi ed nine areas in which legal rights should be aff orded to LGBT persons. Th ese legal rights and the states that currently provide them (as of the publication of this book) are: marriage and relationship recognition (21 states), nondiscrimination employment laws (22), nondiscrim- ination housing laws (22), joint adoption (18), second-parent adoption (20), stepparent and parental presumption (16), safe school laws (19), hate crime laws (31), and birth certifi cate laws (48). Some, but not all, of the states include transgender persons in their laws and policies. MAP has created equality maps for each of these areas. See Figure 17.3 for a snapshot of how many of the areas each state provides law and policy protection for, and go to the MAP website (http://www.lgbtmap.org/equality-maps/legal_equality_by_state) to see more information about each individual state (Movement Advancement Project, 2011b). Certainly, one of the most signifi cant recent legal advances in gay rights was the lifting of the U.S. military’s “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” (DADT) policy that banned openly gay service members. In all, 14,326 military gay, lesbian, and bisexual men and women were discharged under this policy, introduced in 1993. Under DADT, gay individuals were free to serve in the military as long as they didn’t discuss their sexual orientation and no one else accused them of homosexuality. Following congressional action; educational sessions of current service members; and certifi cation from the President, Secretary of Defense, and Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff that the repeal of the policy would not harm military readiness, DADT was ended on September 20, 2011. Now, the
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military can accept applications from openly gay recruits. Other changes include eliminating references in their military records of being banned from the military because of their homosexuality, halting pending investigations and discharges, and allowing service members discharged under DADT to re-enlist (Barnes, 2011).
• Sexual Aggression In recent years, we have increasingly expanded our knowledge about sexually aggressive behavior and its consequences. We have expanded our focus beyond stranger rape and examined the consequences of sexually aggressive behavior on survivors. Earlier, researchers had focused primarily on rape, usually defi ned as penile-vaginal penetration performed against a woman’s will through the use or threat of force. Th ey assumed that rape was committed by strangers for the purpose of sexual gratifi cation. In their work, researchers generally examined the sexual psychopathology of male off enders and the characteristics of women that “precipitated” rapes, such as acting docile, living alone, and dressing in a certain way. In the 1970s, feminists challenged the belief that rape is a form of sexual deviance. Instead, they argued, rape is an act of violence and aggression against women, and the principal motive is power, not sexual gratifi cation. As a result of feminist infl uence, the focus of research shifted. Contemporary research now views rape as a category of sexual aggression. Sexual aggression refers to sexual activity, including petting, oral-genital sex, anal intercourse, and penile-vaginal intercourse, performed against a person’s will through the use of force, argument, pressure, alcohol or drugs, or authority. Sexual aggression includes both women and men as victims. It also includes gay men and lesbian women, who traditionally had been excluded from such research because of rape’s heterosexual defi nition. Sexual coercion is a broader term than “rape” or “sexual aggression.” It includes arguing, pleading, and cajoling, as well as force and the threat of force. Sexual assault is a term used by the criminal justice system to describe forced sexual contact that does not necessarily include penile-vaginal intercourse, and so does not meet the legal defi nition of rape. Th us, for example, individuals could be prosecuted for engaging in forced anal intercourse or for forcing an object into the anus.
The Nature and Incidence of Rape
Rape is a means of achieving power or expressing anger and hatred. Rape forces its victim (the less pejorative term, “survivor,” is preferred by many health pro- fessionals) into an intimate physical encounter with the rapist against her or his will. Th e survivor does not experience pleasure; she or he experiences terror. In most cases, the survivor is a woman; sometimes, the survivor is a man. In most cases, however, the assailant is a man. Th e weapon in rape is the penis (which may be supplemented by a knife or a gun); the penis is used to attack, subor- dinate, and humiliate the victim. History reveals that rape occurs more fre- quently when women are devalued and the negative outcomes of rape are perceived to be low by the assailant (Lalumière, Harris, Quinsey, & Rice, 2005). Rape is not only a specifi c behavior but also a threat. As small girls, women are warned against taking candy from strangers, walking alone down dark streets, and leaving doors and windows unlocked. Men may fear assault, but women fear assault and rape. As a result, many women live with the possibility of being
The fear of sexual assault is a special fear; its intensity in women can best be
likened to the male fear of castration.
—Germaine Greer (1939–)
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raped as a part of their consciousness. Rape and the fear of rape are facts of life for women; this is not true for most men. Th e actual prevalence rates of rape in the United States are unknown, because most survivors do not report the crime. According to the Rape, Abuse, and Incest National Network (2009a), someone in the United States is sexually assaulted every 2 minutes. Th e 2010 National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey found that nearly 1 in 5 women (18%) and 1 in 17 men (1%) in the United States have been raped at some time in their lives (Black et al., 2010). Th e U.S. Department of Justice’s National Crime Victimization Survey (NCVS) (2010) states that the total number of reported rapes/sexual assaults of persons aged 12 and older was 125,910 in 2009. (Th e NCVS defi nes rape as “forced sexual intercourse including both psychological coercion as well as physical force. Forced sexual intercourse means penetration by the off ender[s]. Includes attempted rapes, males as well as female survivors, and both hetero- sexual and homosexual rape. Attempted rape includes verbal threats of rape.”) Th e rate (per 1,000 persons) for sexual assaults in the United States dropped 57% between 2000 and 2009, which refl ects an overall downward trend in violent crimes (including rape) that began in 1994. Th ere is no consensus among criminologists about the causes of changes in crime rates. Th e rate of rapes/sexual assaults for 2009 was 3 times greater among Blacks (1.2 per 1,000) than for Whites (0.4 per 1,000), and 79% of female survivors knew their assailant (see Figure 17.4) whereas 26% of the male survivors knew their assail- ant, who all were a friend/acquaintance. A nationally representative telephone survey of 9,684 U.S. adults found that 1 in 15 adults—10.6% of women, 2.1% of men—had been forced to have sex during their lifetime (Basile, Chen, Black, & Saltzman, 2007).Th e Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) found that nationwide 11% of female students and 5% of male students in grades 9–12 had ever been forced to have sexual intercourse when they did not want to (CDC, 2010a).
Myths About Rape
Our society has a number of myths about rape, which serve to encourage rather than discourage it. According to one myth, women are to blame for their own rapes, as if they somehow “deserved” them or were responsible for them. Often, women who were raped worried that they might be blamed for their assaults.
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• FIGURE 17.4 Type of Relationship With Off ender of Female Survivors of Rape and Sexual Assault. (Source: Data from U.S. Department of Justice, 2010.)
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practically speaking
There are no guaranteed ways to prevent sexual assault or coercion. Each situation, assailant, and targeted woman or man is diff erent. But rape education courses may be eff ective in reducing the rape myths that provide support for sexual aggression. To reduce the risk of date rape, consider these guidelines:
1. When dating someone for the fi rst time, even if you have es- tablished a relationship over the Internet, go to a public place such as a restaurant, movie, or sports event.
2. Share expenses. A common scenario is a date expecting you to exchange sex for his or her paying for dinner, the movie, drinks, and so on.
3. Avoid using drugs or alcohol if you do not want to be sexual with your date. Such use is associated with date rape.
4. Avoid ambiguous verbal or nonverbal behavior, particularly any behavior that might be interpreted as “teasing.” Make sure your verbal and nonverbal messages are identical. If you want to only cuddle or kiss, for example, tell your date that those are your limits. Tell him or her that if you say no you mean no. If necessary, reinforce your statement em- phatically, both verbally and physically (by pushing the person away).
5. If your date becomes sexually coercive despite your direct communication, consider physical denials such as pushing, slapping, and kicking.
To reduce the risk of stranger rape, consider the following guidelines. But try to avoid becoming overly vigilant; use reasonable judgment. Do not let fear control your life.
1. Do not identify yourself as a person living alone, especially if you are a woman. Use initials on the mailbox and in the tele- phone directory.
2. Don’t open your door to strangers; keep your house and car doors locked. Have your keys ready when you approach your car or house. Look in the back seat before getting into your car.
3. Avoid dark and isolated areas. Carry a whistle or airhorn, and take a cell phone when you are out by yourself. Let people know where you are going and what time you expect to get home.
4. If someone approaches you threateningly, turn and run. If you can’t run, resist. Studies indicate that resisting an attack by shouting, causing a scene, or fi ghting back can deter the as- sailant. Fighting and screaming may reduce the level of the abuse without increasing the level of physical injury. Many women who are injured during a rape appear to have been injured before resisting. Trust your intuitions, whatever approach you take.
5. Be alert to possible ways to escape. Talking with an assailant may give you time to fi nd an escape route.
6. Take self-defense training. It will raise your level of confi dence and your fi ghting abilities. You may be able to scare off the assailant, or you may create an opportunity to escape. Many women take self-defense training following an incidence of sexual aggression to reaffi rm their sense of control.
7. Do not post personal data or contact information on social networking sites.
If you are sexually assaulted (or the survivor of an attempted as- sault), report the assault as soon as possible. You are probably not the assailant’s fi rst victim. As much as you might want to, do not change clothes or shower. Semen and hair or other materials on your body or clothing may be very important in arresting and con- victing a rapist. You may also want to contact a rape crisis center; its staff members are knowledgeable about dealing with the police and the traumatic aftermath of rape. But most importantly, remem- ber that you are not at fault. The rapist is the only one to blame.
Belief in rape myths is part of a larger belief structure that includes gender- role stereotypes, sexual conservatism, acceptance of interpersonal violence, and the belief that men are diff erent from women. Men are more likely than women to believe rape myths (Kalof & Wade, 1995). Th e following list of 12 common rape myths can clarify misunderstandings about rape:
■ Myth 1: Rape is a crime of passion. Rape is an act of violence and aggres- sion and is often a life-threatening experience. While sexual attraction may be one component, power, anger, and control are the dominant fac- tors resulting in gratifi cation. Actually, most rapists have access to other, willing sexual partners but choose to rape.
■ Myth 2: Women want to be raped. It is popularly believed that women have an unconscious wish to be raped. Also, some people believe that
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many women mean “yes” when they say “no.” Th is myth supports the misconception that a woman enjoys being raped because she sexually “surrenders,” and it perpetuates the belief that rape is a sexual behavior rather than a violent one.
■ Myth 3: “But she wanted sex.” Th is myth contends that some rape vic- tims wanted to have sex. Th at is, they had desire and so the forced sex cannot be rape. Of course, it is possible to want to have sex but decide not to consent to sex. It is rape if the victim did not consent to sex even if the victim wanted sex. Peterson and Muehlenhard (2007) stated that “rape is about the absence of consent, not the absence of desire.”
■ Myth 4: Women ask for it. Many people believe that women “ask for it” by their behavior. One study found that provocative dress on the part of the victim of a date rape resulted in a greater perception that the victim was responsible and that the rape was justifi ed (Cassidy & Hurrell, 1995). Despite some attempts to reform rape laws, women continue to bear the burden of proof in these cases. No one, female or male, ever deserves to be raped, and regardless of what a person says, does, or wears, she or he does not cause the rape. Actually, most rapes are pre- meditated and planned by the perpetrator. Opportunity is the critical factor in determining when a rapist will rape.
■ Myth 5: Women are raped only by strangers. Women are warned to avoid or distrust strangers as a way to avoid rape; such advice, however, iso- lates them from normal social interactions. Furthermore, studies indicate that 79% of all rapes of women are committed by nonstrangers such as acquaintances, friends, dates, partners, husbands, or relatives (U.S. Department of Justice, 2010).
■ Myth 6: Women could avoid rape if they really wanted to. Th is myth rein- forces the stereotype that women “really” want to be raped or that they should curtail their activities. Women are often warned not to be out after dark alone. Approximately two thirds of rapes/sexual assaults occur between 6 p.m. and 6 a.m., but nearly 6 in 10 occur at the victim’s home or the home of a friend, relative, or neighbor (Greenfeld, 1997; McCabe & Wauchope, 2005). Women are also approached at work, on their way to or from work, or at their place of worship, or they are kid- napped from shopping centers or parking lots at midday. Restricting women’s activities does not seem to have an appreciable impact on rape. Men are often physically larger and stronger than women, making it dif- fi cult for women to resist. Sometimes, weapons are used and physical violence occurs or is threatened. And assailants catch their victims “off guard” because they choose the time and place of attack.
■ Myth 7: Women cry rape for revenge. Th is myth suggests that women who are “dumped” by men accuse them of rape as a means of revenge. FBI crime statistics show that only about 2% of rape reports are false; this rate is lower than the rate for most other crimes. False reporting is unlikely because of the many obstacles women face before an assailant is brought to trial and convicted.
■ Myth 8: Rapists are crazy or psychotic. Very few men who rape are clini- cally psychotic. Th e vast majority are psychologically indistinguishable from other men, except that rapists appear to have more diffi culty
Just because a woman is dressed provocatively does not mean she is inviting rape.
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handling feelings of hostility and are more likely to express their anger through violence. Studies on date rape fi nd that rapists diff er from non- rapists primarily in a greater hostility toward women, acceptance of tra- ditional gender roles, and greater willingness to use force.
■ Myth 9: Most rapists are a diff erent race/ethnicity than their victims. Most rapists and their victims are members of the same racial/ethnic group.
■ Myth 10: Men cannot control their sexual urges. Th is myth is based on the belief that men, when subjected to sexual stimuli, cannot control their sexual feelings. Th is also implies that women have some responsibility for rape by provoking this “uncontrollable” sexuality of men through their attire or appearance (Cowan, 2000). Men, like women, can learn to appropriately and responsibly express their sexuality.
■ Myth 11: Rape is “no big deal.” About 1 in 3 women who are injured during rape or physical assault require medical care. Rape victims can also experience negative mental health outcomes and are more likely to engage in harmful behaviors to cope with the trauma, such as drinking, smoking, or using drugs.
■ Myth 12: Men cannot be raped. Men can be victims of sexual violence from either men or women. Th is issue is discussed in more detail later in this section.
Forms of Rape
Rapists may be dates, acquaintances, partners, husbands, fathers, or other family members, as well as strangers.
Date Rape Th e most common form of rape is sexual intercourse with a dating partner that occurs against the victim’s will, with force or the threat of force. It is known as date rape. Sometimes, the term acquaintance rape has been used interchangeably with the term “date rape.” However, Rana Sampson (2003), an expert on crime control, says that they are diff erent. Th at is, most acquaintance rapes do not happen during a date; they occur when two people just happen to be in the same place. Because some of the rape literature uses the terms “date rape” and “acquaintance rape” inter- changeably, the discussion often does not diff erentiate these two types of rape and may actually be talking about one or both. Actually, some of the follow- ing discussion about date rape may also be applicable to acquaintance rape; however, we discuss some of the specifi c aspects of acquaintance rape among college students in a later section. Alcohol and/or drugs are often involved in date rapes (see the “Th ink About It” box on page 578). Men who believe in rape myths are more likely to see alcohol consumption as a sign that females are sexually available. To draw attention to the date rape problem and other sexual coercions by men, many college campuses have held “Take Back the Night” rallies, at which survivors of school assault share their stories and off er support for other survi- vors. Also, many colleges provide extensive prevention education on rape, as well as escort services for participants in late-night activities on campus.
Incidence Lifetime experience of date rape ranges from 13% to 27% for women, according to various studies (Rickert & Wiemann, 1998). If the defi nition is
Undismayed, he plucks the rose In the hedgerow blooming. Vainly she laments her woes, Vainly doth her thorns oppose, Gone her sweet perfuming.
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Confusion over whether consent for sex has been given may lead to a strong disagreement between partners.
expanded to include attempted intercourse as a result of verbal pressure or the misuse of authority, then women’s lifetime inci- dence increases signifi cantly. Among college students, the most likely assailant is a peer (Bridgeland, Duane, & Stewart, 1995).
Confusion Over Consent Th ere is confusion about what con- stitutes consent. As we saw in Chapter 8, much sexual commu- nication is nonverbal and ambiguous. Th e fact that we don’t usually give verbal consent to sexual activity indicates the sig- nifi cance of nonverbal clues. Nonverbal communication is impre- cise, however, and can be misinterpreted easily if not reinforced verbally. For example, men frequently mistake a woman’s friendli- ness for sexual interest. Th ey often misinterpret a woman’s cuddling, kissing, and fondling as a desire to engage in sexual intercourse (Gillen & Muncher, 1995). A woman must make her boundar- ies clear verbally, and men need to avoid misinterpreting clues. One study of young heterosexual adults found that women with intercourse experience, more often than men and more often than women without intercourse experience, emphasized the value of consent and preferred explicit verbal communication to obtain it (Humphreys, 2004). In 2003, Illinois became the fi rst state to pass a law explicitly stating that people have a right to withdraw their consent to sexual activity at any time. Th e law specifi ed that, no matter how far the sexual interaction has pro- gressed, a “no” means no when someone wants to stop (Parsons, 2003). At least seven other states (Alaska, California, Connecti- cut, Kansas, Maine, Maryland, and South Dakota) have ascribed to similar withdraws to sexual consent laws (Huff , 2009). Our sexual scripts often assume “yes” unless a “no” is directly stated (Mueh- lenhard, Ponch, Phelps, & Giusti, 1992). Th is makes individuals “fair game” unless they explicitly say “no.” But the assumption of consent puts women at a disadvantage. Because men traditionally initiate sex, a man can initiate sex when- ever he desires without the woman explicitly consenting. A woman’s refusal of sex can be considered “insincere” because consent is always assumed. Such think- ing reinforces a common sexual script in which men initiate and women refuse so as not to appear “promiscuous.” In this script, the man continues, believing that the woman’s refusal is “token.” Some common reasons for off ering “token” refusals include a desire not to appear “loose,” not being sure how the partner feels, inappropriate surroundings, and game playing, which few women (and men) actually engage in. Because some women sometimes say “no” when they mean “coax me,” male-female communication may be especially unclear regard- ing consent. Studies of college students found that more women than men reported sexual teasing, a form of provocation implying a promise of sexual contact but followed with refusal, and that they were more likely to agree that various forms of sexual violence are justifi ed in situations in which the woman is perceived as “leading a man on” or “giving mixed signals” (Locke & Mahalik, 2005; Meston & O’Sullivan, 2007). However, contemporary beliefs of most people and the law say that if a rape survivor did not explicitly consent to sex, it is rape, even though the survivor fl irted with the perpetrator, had been drinking, or experienced sexual arousal or orgasm during the incident (Peterson & Muehlenhard, 2007).
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think about it
So-called date rape drugs have become an increasing threat, particularly for young people. These drugs are placed in beverages so that the person consuming the drink will be in- capacitated, thus compromising his or her ability to give consent and increasing the person’s vulnerability to sexual contact. They also can minimize the resistance and memory of the victim. Al- though described commonly as “date rape” drugs, the drugs are used not only during dates but also by acquaintances; hence, the more accurate term is “date/ acquaintance rape drugs.” The drugs are also sometimes used during gang rapes. Drugging an unwilling or unknowing person is a crime. In 1996, the Drug-Induced Rape Prevention and Punishment Act was passed, making it a felony to distribute controlled sub- stances, such as those classifi ed as date/acquaintance rape drugs, to someone without that person’s knowledge and with the intent to commit violence, including rape, against that per- son (Woodworth, 1996). Briefl y, here are some of the major date/acquaintance rape drugs (Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network, 2008d):
■ Alcohol. Although many people may not think of alcohol as a date/acquaintance drug, alcohol is the most frequently used substance in drug-facilitated assault. Certainly it is easily ac- cessible in many social situations and very common on col- lege campuses.
■ Rohypnol. Also known as “roofi es,” “roach,” “forget pill,” “Mexican valium,” and “mind erasers,” Rohypnol is not approved for medical use in the United States but is becoming an increas- ingly popular street drug. This small white tablet quickly dis- solves in liquid. Alcohol increases the eff ects of Rohypnol.
■ GHB. Also known as “grievous bodily harm,” “easy lay,” liquid ecstasy,” and “bedtime scoop,” GHB has not been approved for sale by the FDA since 1990. GHB is sold on the street as a clear, odorless liquid and white crystalline powder, but since it is made in home labs its eff ects can be unpredictable. Alco- hol increases the eff ects of GHB.
■ Benzodiazepines. The legal form of Rohypnol, these drugs are prescribed as anti-anxiety and sleeping medications in the United States. Put into a drink in powder or liquid form, they markedly impair or eliminate functions that typically allow a
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person to resist an assault. Alcohol increases the eff ects of benzodiazepines.
■ Ketamine. Also known as “Special K,” “Vitamin K,” and “K,” ketamine is an anesthetic typically used by veterinarians. A fast-acting liquid, ketamine causes individuals to feel detached from their bodies and unable to fi ght back or remember what happened.
■ Ecstasy. Also known as “X-TC,” “X,” and “E,” ecstasy is the most common club drug. Illegal in the United States, ecstasy is a hallucinogenic and stimulant with psychedelic eff ects. Avail- able in powder or liquid form, ecstasy causes people to feel extreme relaxation, sensitivity to touch, and less able to per- ceive danger.
To protect yourself from date/acquaintance rape drugs, it is essential that you watch what you drink at parties or on dates. Do not take any drinks (soda, coff ee, or alcohol) from someone you do not know well and trust, and refuse open-container bev- erages. Don’t share drinks or drink from punch bowls or other common containers. If someone off ers to get you a drink from a bar or at a party, go with that person to order your drink. Never leave your drink unattended, and go to parties with a friend and leave with a friend. If you think you’ve been drugged, call 9-1-1 or get to an emergency room. If possible, try to keep a sample of the beverage. If you are a victim of drug-facilitated assault, do not blame yourself. The sexual assault was not your fault; the of- fender is solely to blame and is the one who took advantage of your diminished capacity (Ellis, 2002; Monroe, 1997; Offi ce on Women’s Health, 2008; Rape, Abuse, and Incest National Network, 2009c).
Think Critically 1. How common is the use of rape/acquaintance rape
drugs on your campus? In what type of situations does it occur?
2. What can a person do to avoid being vulnerable to date/acquaintance rape?
Postrefusal Sexual Persistence Men are more likely than women to think of male-female relationships as a “battle of the sexes.” Because relationships are confl ictual, they believe, refusals are to be expected as part of the battle. A man may feel he should persist because his role is to conquer, even if he’s not inter- ested in sex. Researcher Cindy Struckman-Johnson and her colleagues (2003) investigated college students’ pursuit of sexual contact with a person after he or she has refused an initial advance, a behavior they call postrefusal sexual
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persistence. Th ey believe that all postrefusal behaviors are sexually coercive in that the other person has already communicated that he or she does not con- sent to the sexual behavior. Th e researchers examined tactics in four areas: (1) sexual arousal (e.g., kissing and touching, taking off clothes), (2) emotional manipulation and deception (e.g., repeatedly asking, telling lies), (3) exploita- tion of the intoxicated (e.g., taking advantage of and purposely getting a target drunk), and (4) physical force (e.g., blocking a target’s retreat, using physical restraint) (see Figure 17.5). Th e researchers found that postrefusal sexual per- sistence was fairly common: Nearly 70% of the students had been subjected to at least one tactic of postrefusal sexual persistence since the age of 16, and one third indicated that they had used a tactic. More women (78%) than men (58%) reported having been subjected to such tactics since age 16, and more men (40%) than women (26%) reported having used such tactics.
A Date-Raper Profi le A review of research (Baumeister, Catanese, & Wallace, 2002; Hanson & Morton-Bourgon, 2005; Koss & Dinero, 1989; Malamuth, Sockloskie, Koss, & Tanaka, 1991; Muehlenhard & Linton, 1987) found that sexually coercive men, in contrast to noncoercive ones, tend to share several characteristics:
■ Th ey hold traditional beliefs about women and women’s roles. ■ Th ey grew up in a violent home environment. ■ Th ey have an antisocial orientation. ■ Th ey display hostility toward women. ■ Th ey believe in rape-supportive myths. ■ Th ey accept general physical violence. ■ Th ey express anger and dominance sexually. ■ Th ey report high levels of sexual activity. ■ Th ey use exploitative techniques.
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■ Th ey report alcohol and drug use. ■ Th ey report early sexual experiences. ■ Th ey tend to be narcissistic, having low empathy and a sense of entitlement.
One study examined the patterns of sexually coercive behavior among sam- ples of 266 Asian American men and 299 European American men for over one year. Men were classifi ed into various groups including sexually coercive and noncoercive based on their sexual history. Th e researchers found that the strongest predictor of sexual coercive behavior was past sexual coercion. Also, the men who were persistently sexually coercive were higher than the other groups in delinquency and hostile masculinity (Hall, DeGarmo, Eap, Teten, & Sue, 2006).
Acquaintance Rape Sampson (2003) notes that acquaintance rape accounts for the vast majority of college rapes and that there are various types of acquain- tance rape, such as party rape (can also include gang rapes), rape in a nonparty and nondate situation (e.g., while studying together), rape by a former intimate, and rape by a current intimate. Environmental factors that may contribute to the possibility of acquaintance rape include alcohol and drugs, availability of a private room in a fraternity or off -campus house, loud music that can drown out a person’s calls for help, and a cover-up by the house’s residents. By contrast, date rape usually occurs as the two people are getting to know each other and the rape may occur in a car or residence after the date. Stranger rape, which is much less common than acquaintance rape on college campuses, usually occurs in isolated parts of campus, such as campus garages; in these cases, the victim may not have consumed any alcohol and no prior relationship (or even acquain- tance) exists between the survivor and the rapist. Sampson (2003) outlines several factors found in research of acquaintance rape that might increase a woman’s vulnerability. Noting that a woman’s condi- tion or behavior does not cause rape, these factors include frequently drinking enough to get drunk, drinking so much that she cannot resist forceful sexual advances, using drugs, having previously been a survivor of sexual assault, being single, participating in social activities with sexually predatory men, being in an isolated site, miscommunicating about sex, and holding less conservative attitudes about sexual behavior. According to the Rape, Abuse, and Incest National Network (2009b), a person is more vulnerable to acquaintance rape when, over time, he or she becomes used to or more comfortable with the off ender’s intrusion into his or her personal space. Consequently, the victim may no longer consider the intrusive behavior threatening or may suppress feelings of fear. Th e off ender then uses the victim’s trust to isolate the victim from others. Th e Network advises that a person fi nding himself or herself in a threatening situation should listen to his or her instinctual sense or fear and discomfort and leave the situation.
Stranger Rape As mentioned previously, NCVS reports that in 21% of cases involving women and 74% of cases involving men who were raped or sexually assaulted, the rape was committed by a stranger (U.S. Department of Justice, 2010). A typical stranger-rape scenario does not necessarily involve an unknown assailant hiding in the bushes or a stairwell on a dark night. Rather, it is likely to involve a chance meeting with a person who seems friendly and congenial. For example, a woman relaxes her guard because the man seems nice and even
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protective. He casually maneuvers her to an isolated place—an alley, park, apartment, or house—where he quickly and brutally assaults her. Stranger rapes are more likely to involve guns or knives than date or acquain- tance rapes. And a stranger rape is more likely to be taken seriously by the police because it refl ects the rape stereotype better than does date, acquaintance, or marital rape.
Marital Rape By 1993, marital rape had become a crime in all 50 states, although the majority still have exceptions, usually with regard to the use of force. Laws against marital rape, however, have not traditionally been widely enforced. A review of marital rape literature found that marital rape is experi- enced by 10–14% of all married women and 40–50% of battered married women (Martin, Taft, & Resick, 2007). Many people discount rape in marriage as a “marital tiff ” that has little relation to “real” rape. Women are more likely than men to believe that a husband would use force to have sexual intercourse with his wife. When college students were asked to describe marital rape, they created “sanitized” images: “He wants to and she doesn’t, so he does anyway,” or “Th ey are separated, but he really loves her, so when he comes back to visit, he forces her because he misses her.” Th e realities are very diff erent. Marital rape survivors experience feelings of betrayal, anger, humiliation, and guilt. Following their rape, many wives feel intense anger toward their hus- bands; others experience constant terror because they are living with their assail- ant. A minority feel guilt and blame themselves for not being better wives. Others develop negative self-images and view their lack of sexual desire as a refl ection of their own inadequacies rather than as a consequence of abuse. Many do not report rape, thinking that no one will believe them. Some do not even recognize that they have been legally raped.
Gang Rape Among adults, gang rape disproportionately occurs in close-knit groups such as fraternities, athletic teams, street gangs, prison groups, and military units. Gang rape may be perpetrated by strangers or acquaintances. It may be motivated not only by the desire to wield power but also by male- bonding factors. It is a common form of adolescent rape, most often occurring with strangers (Holmes, 1991). When gang rape takes place on campus, the attackers may know the woman, who may have been invited to a party or an apartment, and alcohol is often involved (Sampson, 2003). Th e assailants dem- onstrate their masculinity and “share” a sexual experience with their friends. Gang sexual assaults are typically more violent than rapes committed individu- ally. Hence, the victims of gang rape are more traumatized and are more likely to contemplate suicide (Gidycz & Koss, 1990).
Statutory Rape Consensual sexual contact with a person younger than a state’s age of consent—the age at which a person is legally deemed capable of giving informed consent—is termed statutory rape. Th e laws rarely are limited to sexual intercourse but, instead, include any type of sexual contact. Today, the laws are applied to both female and male survivors. It may not matter whether the off ender is the same age as, older than, or younger than the survivor. If a victim is younger than a certain age—varying from age 16 to age 18 in most states—the court ignores the consent. Further, in some states,
The husband cannot be guilty of rape committed by himself upon his lawful
wife, for by their mutual matrimonial consent and contract, the wife gives herself in kind unto the husband which she cannot retract.
—Sir Matthew Hale (1609–1676)
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factors such as age diff erences between partners, the age of the survivor, and the age of the defendant are considered (Glosser, Gardiner, & Fishman, 2004). Th e enforcement of statutory rape laws, however, is generally sporadic or arbi- trary. (To learn the age of consent law in a particular state, check the website http://www.sexlaws.org.)
Male Rape Sexual assaults against males may be perpetrated by other men or by women. Most rapes of men are by other men. In some states, the word “rape” is used only to defi ne a forced act of vaginal sexual intercourse, whereas forced anal intercourse is termed “sodomy.” More recently, states have started using gender-neutral terms such as “sexual assault” or “criminal sexual conduct,” regardless of whether the victim is a man or a woman. To be specifi c, we have chosen the term “male rape.” According to the U.S. Department of Justice (2010), in 2009, 19,820 men aged 12 and older in the United States were raped or sexually assaulted. Accord- ing to the Rape, Abuse, and Incest National Network (2009c), 10% of sexual assault survivors are men. Experts, however, believe that the statistics vastly underrepresent the actual number of males who are raped (Men Can Stop Rape, 2007). Th ough society is becoming increasingly aware of male rape, the lack of complete tracking of sexual crimes against men and the lack of research about their eff ects on survivors are indicative of the attitude held by society at large—that although male rape occurs, it is not an appropriate topic for discus- sion. Although many people believe that the majority of male rape incidents occur in prison, research suggests that the conditions for male rape are not unique to prison. Rather, all men, regardless of who or where they are, should be regarded as potential victims. Th ere are also many reasons male victims do not come forward and report being raped. Perhaps the main reason is the fear of many that they will be perceived as being homosexual. Male sexual assault has nothing to do with the sexual orientation of the attacker or the survivor, just as a sexual assault does not make the victim gay, bisexual, or heterosexual. Male rape is a violent crime that aff ects heterosexual men as often as gay men (Men Can Stop Rape, 2007). Furthermore, the sexual orientation of the survivor does not appear to be of signifi cance to half of the off enders, and most assailants in male rape are heterosexual. In the aftermath of an assault, many men blame themselves, believing that they in some way granted permission to the rapist. One study of 358 men who had been sexually assaulted by another male found that those exposed to nonconsensual sex were about 3 times more likely to abuse alcohol and have attempted suicide than those who had not been victimized (Ratner et al., 2003). Male rape survivors suff er from fears similar to those felt by female rape victims, including the belief that they actually enjoyed or somehow contributed or consented to the rape. Heterosexual male survivors sometimes worry that they may have given off “gay vibes” that the rapist picked up and then acted on (Men Can Stop Rape, 2007). Some men may suff er additional guilt because they became sexually aroused and even ejaculated during the rape. However, these are normal, involuntary physiological reactions con- nected to the parasympathetic fear response and do not imply consent or enjoyment. Another concern for male rape survivors is society’s belief that men should be able to protect themselves and that the rape was somehow their own fault.
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Although they are uncommon, there are some instances of women sexually assaulting men. Despite being threatened with knives and guns, the men are able to have erections. After the assault, the men may suff er rape trauma syndrome similar to that experienced by women (discussed later). Th ey may experience sexual function diffi culties, depression, and anxiety. Many may feel abnormal because they did respond sexually during the assault. And because they were sexually assaulted by women, they may doubt their masculinity. However, no matter whether the male was sexually assaulted by a female or a male, many of these survivors may believe that the rape threatens the very essence of their mas- culinity and manhood (Ellis, 2002).
Sexual Coercion in Gay and Lesbian Relationships Th ere is considerable sexual coercion in gay and lesbian relationships. One study found that 57% of gay men and 45% of lesbian women had experienced some form of sexual coercion. Th irty-three percent of the gay men and 32% of the lesbian women reported unwanted fondling, with 55% of the gay men and 50% of the lesbian women having experienced unwanted penetration. Th e coercive tactics used against both groups, such as threats of force, physical restraint, and use of alcohol, were similar (Waldner-Haugrud & Gratch, 1997).
Motivations for Rape
Most stranger rapes and some acquaintance or marital rapes can be characterized as anger rapes, power rapes, or sadistic rapes (Groth, Burgess, & Holmstrom, 1977; McCabe & Wauchope, 2005).
Anger Rape Anger rapists are physically violent, displaying anger overtly such as by using a knife or force, and their victims often require hospitalization (McCabe & Wauchope, 2005). Victims are often forced to perform certain sexual behaviors, such as fellatio, on the assailant. Clinical psychologist Nicholas Groth (1979) describes anger rape in this way:
Th e assault is characterized by physical brutality. Far more actual force is used . . . than would be necessary if the intent were simply to overpower the victim and achieve sexual penetration. . . . His aim is to hurt and debase his victim, and he expresses contempt for her through abusive and profane language.
Power Rape Power rapes are acts of dominance and control. Typically, the rapist wishes not to hurt the victim but, rather, to dominate him or her sexually. Th e rape may be triggered by what the rapist regards as a slight to his or her gender identity. Th e rapist attempts to restore his or her sense of power, control, and identity by raping. He or she uses sex to compensate for a sense of sexual inadequacy, applying only as much force as is necessary to rape the victim (McCabe & Wauchope, 2005).
Sadistic Rape A violent fusion of sex and aggression, sadistic rapes are by far the most brutal. A sadistic rapist fi nds “intentional maltreatment of his/her victim intensely gratifying and takes pleasure in her/his torment, anguish, distress, help- lessness and suff ering” (Groth & Birnbaum, 1978). Bondage is often involved, and the rape may have a ritualistic quality. Th e victim is often severely injured and may not survive the attack. Although sadistic rapes are overwhelmingly the most brutal, they are also by far the least frequent.
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The Aftermath of Rape
Most rape survivors report being roughed up by the rapist, and about 90% report some physical injury (Rape Network, 2000), although the vast majority do not sustain serious injury. Other eff ects of sexual assault can include substance abuse, self-harm, the Stockholm Syndrome (emotional bonding with the abuser), sleep disorders, depression, and posttraumatic stress disorder (PTSD), which is discussed below (Rape, Abuse, and Incest National Net- work, 2009d). PSTD is a group of characteristic symptoms that follow an intensely distressing event outside of a person’s normal life experience. It is important that rape survivors gain a sense of control over their lives to counteract the feelings of helplessness they experi- enced during their rape. Th ey need to cope with the depression and other symptoms resulting from their trauma.
Rape Trauma Syndrome Rape is a traumatic event, to which the survivor may have a number of responses, and each survivor’s response will vary depending on the situation (Rape, Abuse, and Incest National Network, 2009d). Th e emotional changes under- gone as a result of rape are collectively known as rape trauma syndrome. Rape survivors are likely to experience depression, anxiety, restlessness, and guilt. Th ese responses are consistent with posttraumatic stress disorder (PTSD), an offi cial diagnostic cate-
gory of the American Psychiatric Association (2000). Anyone who has been raped can develop PTSD. Th e following description of the aftermath of rape is presented in the context of outcomes for women. In general, the impact of rape on male victims has been underestimated and overlooked in research. However, male rape survivors often experience signifi cant physical and psycho- logical trauma from the assault, including long-term eff ects of anxiety, depres- sion, self-blame, loss of self-image, emotional distancing, feelings of anger and vulnerability, and self-harming behaviors (Ellis, 2002; Men Can Stop Rape, 2007; Walker, Archer, & Davies, 2005). Rape trauma syndrome consists of two phases: an acute phase and a long- term reorganization phase. Th e acute phase begins immediately following the rape and may last for several weeks or more. In the fi rst few hours after a rape, the person’s responses are characterized by feelings of self-blame and fear. A woman may believe that she was somehow responsible for the rape: She was wearing something provocative, she should have kept her doors locked, she should have been suspicious of her attacker, and so on. Self-blame, however, only leads to depression (Frazier, 1991). Following the acute phase, the rape survivor enters the long-term reorganization phase. Th e rape is a crisis in a person’s life and relationships. In a national sample of women, those with histories of sexual assault in both childhood and adulthood had signifi cantly greater odds of lifetime suicide attempts (Ullman & Brecklin, 2002). A person who has been raped may be wracked by fears: that the attacker will return, that she or he may be killed, that others will react negatively. Th ere are often signs of tension, such as diffi culty concentrating, hypervigilance, nausea, gastrointestinal problems, headaches, irritability, sleeplessness, restlessness, and jumpiness (Krakow et al., 2000). Th e rape survivor may also feel humiliated,
Rape crisis centers help sexual assault survivors cope with the eff ects of rape trauma.
Lara Logan, a South African journalist and CBS correspondent, broke a month’s-long silence when she revealed that she was sexually assaulted by a mob in Cairo’s Tahrir Square just as the dictatorship of Hosni Mubarak was falling.
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practically speaking
The mission of the organization Men Can Stop Rape is to mobilize men to use their strength for creating cultures free from violence, especially men’s violence against women. One of their fact sheets provides suggestions on helping people who say they were raped:
Supporting survivors: When someone says, “I was raped”:
1. Believe the person. It is not your role to question whether a rape occurred, but to be there to ease the pain.
2. Help the person explore the options. Don’t take charge of the situation and pressure rape survivors to do what you think they should do. That’s what the rapist did. Give them the freedom to choose a path of recovery that is comfortable for them, even if you’d do it diff erently. Remember, there is no one right way for a survivor to respond after being assaulted.
3. Listen to the person. It is critical that you let survivors in your lives know that they can talk to you about their experience when they are ready. Some may not wish to speak with you immediately, but at some point during the healing process, it is likely that they will come to you for support. When that happens, don’t interrupt, or yell, or inject your feelings. Your caring but silent attention will be invaluable.
4. Ask before you touch. Don’t assume that physical contact, even in a form of a gentle hug, will be comforting to survivors. Many survivors, especially within the fi rst few weeks after assault, prefer to avoid sex or simple touching even with those they love and trust. One way to signal to survivors that you are
ready to off er physical comfort is to sit with an open posture and a hand palm up nearby.
5. Recognize that you have been assaulted, too. We can’t help but be hurt when someone we love is made to suff er. Don’t blame yourself for the many feelings you will likely have in response to learning that someone close to you has been raped. Sadness, confusion, anger, helplessness, fear, guilt, disappointment, shock, anxiety, desperation, compassion— all are common reactions for survivors and their signifi cant others.
6. Never blame them for being assaulted. No one ever deserves to be raped—no matter what they wore, how many times they had sex before, if they were walking alone at night, if they got drunk, if they were married, or if they went to the perpetrator’s room. Even if survivors feel responsible, say clearly and caringly that being raped wasn’t their fault.
7. Get help for yourself. Whether you reach out to a friend, family member, counselor, religious offi cial, or whomever, make sure you don’t go through the experience alone. Most rape crisis centers off er counseling for signifi cant others and family members because they realize that the impact of rape extends far beyond the survivors. Keeping your feelings inside will only make you less able to be there for the survivors. Remember, getting help when needed is a sign of strength, not weakness.
Helping Someone Who Has Been Raped
SOURCE: Reprinted by permission of Men Can Stop Rape (http://www .mencanstoprape.org).
angry, embarrassed, and vengeful. In general, women are more likely than men to display these varied symptoms following rape (Fergusson, Swain-Campbell, & Horwood, 2002; Sorenson & Siegel, 1992). Long-term stress reactions are often exacerbated by the very social support systems and staff designed to assist people. Th ese systems and individuals have sometimes proved to be more psychologically damaging to survivors than the rape itself (National Organization for Victim Assistance, 1992), a phenomenon known as secondary victimization. Examples of these support systems and individuals include the criminal justice system, the media, emergency and hospital room personnel, social workers, family and friends, employers, and clergy. Nevertheless, the most important thing you can do to help someone you care about who suff ers from symptoms of PTSD is to help her or him get professional help.
Eff ects on Sexuality Typically, both men and women fi nd that their sexual- ity is severely aff ected for at least a short time after a rape (Meana, Binik, Khalife, & Cohen, 1999; Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network, 2009d). Some begin avoiding sexual interactions, because sex reminds them of the rape.
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Th ose who are the least depressed, however, have fewer sexual diffi culties. Two common sexual problems are fear of sex and lack of sexual desire, particularly among women. Male survivors of rape may act out in a sexually aggressive manner (Men Can Stop Rape, 2007).
• Child Sexual Abuse Child sexual abuse, by both relatives and nonrelatives, occurs widely. Child sexual abuse is any sexual interaction (including fondling, sexual kissing, and oral sex, as well as vaginal or anal penetration) between an adult and a prepu- bescent child. A broad defi nition also includes nonphysical contact, such as people exposing their genitals to children or having children pose nude or stim- ulate themselves while being fi lmed or photographed. It does not matter whether the child is perceived by the adult to be engaging in the sexual activity volun- tarily. Because of the child’s age, he or she cannot give informed consent; the activity can only be considered as self-serving to the adult. Th e topic of child sexual abuse has received increased national attention due to the allegations of child molestation against clergy in the Catholic Church. Th e revelation of wide- spread child sexual abuse by priests, bishops, and cardinals has rocked the nation and world, resulting in resignations, lawsuits, imprisonments, and even deaths, such as suicides (Simpson, 2008). Th ere are no reliable annual surveys of sexual assaults on children. Th e U.S. Department of Justice’s annual National Crime Victimization Survey does not include victims aged 12 and younger. It is also diffi cult to know how many children are sexually abused because many cases are not reported. Further, because of the stigma of sexual abuse and the enormous emotional distress caused by abuse, many victims keep the abuse a secret. One research study found that the amount of time between the end of sexual abuse and the victim revealing the abuse averaged 14 years (Roesler, 2000). Twelve percent of men and 17% of women who participated in the National Health and Social Life Survey (Laumann, Gagnon, Michael, & Michaels, 1994) reported that they had been sexually touched when they were children. A 10-year review of pub- lished research on child sexual abuse found that the prevalence rate of being sexually abused as a child was 17% and 8% for adult women and men, respec- tively (Putnam, 2003). Worldwide, sexual contact between an adult and a child has been reported by about 20% of women and 5–10% of men (Freyd et al., 2005). At least 90% of child sexual abuse is committed by men (Finkelhor, 1994). In a nationally representative study, of the 1 in 15 U.S. adults who reported having been forced to have sex, 26% of women and 41% of men indicated that they were under 12 years of age at the time of the abuse. Th irty-fi ve percent and 28% of women and men, respectively, were between 12 and 17 years old (Basile et al., 2007). Th ere has been a dramatic drop in reported child sexual abuse in recent years in the United States, declining 61% since 1990 (Administration on Children, Youth and Families, 2009). Possible reasons for the decline include fear among professionals and the public about the legal consequences of false reporting and abatement of the problem resulting from prevention programs (Finkelhor & Jones, 2006). According to the congressionally mandated Fourth National Incidence Study of Child Abuse and Neglect (Sedlak et al., 2010), girls are sexually abused more often than boys. Th e risk of being sexually abused does not vary among races,
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but children from lower-income groups and from single-parent families are more frequently victimized, as are children who have experienced parental inad- equacy or unavailability, confl ict, harsh punishment, and emotional deprivation (Putnam, 2003). Every incident of child sexual abuse causes the victim a loss of trust and sense of self. Child sexual abuse is generally categorized in terms of kin relationships. Extrafamilial abuse is sexual abuse by unrelated people. Intrafamilial abuse is sexual abuse by biologically related people and step-relatives. Figure 17.6 shows the type of relationship between the child survivor and the perpetrator. As shown, nonparent relatives were the most common off enders (30%) and parents were the least common (3%) (Snyder & Sickmund, 2006). Th e abuse may be pedophilic or nonpedophilic. (As explained in Chapter 10, pedophilia refers to an adult’s sexual attraction to children.) Nonpedophilic sexual abuse refers to an adult’s sexual interaction with a child that is not sexually motivated; the most important nonsexual motives are the desire for power and aff ection. One cannot determine who is a child molester from appearance—child molest- ers look like ordinary people. But research has shown that child molesters, in general, diff er from nonmolesters. Th ey are usually heterosexual males (Valente, 2005) and often have, for example, lower intelligence, more-diffi cult family histories, less-developed social skills, lower self-esteem, and lower life satisfac- tion than nonmolesters (Finkelhor, 1990; Hunter, Figueredo, & Malamuth, 2003; Milner & Robertson, 1990). Th e victimization may involve force or the threat of force, pressure, manip- ulation, and loss of innocence or ability to trust others. Genital fondling and touching are the most common forms of child sexual abuse (Haugaard & Reppucci, 1998). Th e most serious or harmful forms of child sexual abuse include actual or attempted penile-vaginal penetration, fellatio, cunnilingus, and anilingus, with or without the use of force. Other serious forms of abuse range from forced digital penetration of the vagina to fondling of the breasts (unclothed) or simulated intercourse without force.
Forms of Intrafamilial Sexual Abuse
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combinations). Sexual abuse in families can involve blood relatives, most com- monly uncles and grandfathers, and step-relatives, most often stepfathers and stepbrothers. In grandfather-granddaughter abuse, the grandfathers frequently have sexually abused their children as well. Mother-son sexual contact is con- sidered to be rare (or is underreported).
Father-Daughter Sexual Abuse One of the most common and traumatic forms of adult-child sexual abuse is father-daughter abuse, including that com- mitted by stepfathers (Turner, 1996). A study of 40 men (14 biological fathers and 26 stepfathers) and 44 children (18 biological daughters and 26 stepdaugh- ters) examined both the fathers’ and daughters’ recollections and interpretations of the incestuous activity (Phelan, 1995). Both fathers and daughters reported that the sexual contact grew out of existing family interactions, but their thoughts surrounding the events were diff erent. Many of the fathers indicated that their thoughts were dominated by ideas of sexual gratifi cation, control, power, and anger. However, the daughters indicated they experienced disbelief, confusion, guilt, and anger. Many of the fathers said they completely misread their daughter’s reaction to the sexual activity. Fathers indicated that they knew what they were doing was wrong, but few noted that they were worried about potential legal outcomes. In the past, many people have discounted the seriousness of sexual abuse by a stepfather because there is no biological relationship. Th e emotional conse- quences are just as serious, however. Sexual abuse by a stepfather still represents a violation of the basic parent-child relationship.
Brother-Sister Sexual Abuse Th ere are contrasting views concerning the consequences of brother-sister incest. Researchers generally have expressed little interest in it. Most have tended to view it as harmless sex play or sexual explo- ration between mutually consenting siblings. Th e research, however, has gener- ally failed to distinguish between exploitative and nonexploitative brother-sister sexual activity. One study found that brother-sister incest can represent a dev- astating violation of individual boundaries (Canavan, Myers, & Higgs, 1992). A study of women attending support groups for incest survivors concluded that the outcomes of brother-sister incest are equally serious as those of father- daughter incest (Rudd & Herzberger, 1999). Sibling incest needs to be taken seriously (Adler & Schultz, 1995).
Children at Risk
Incest does not discriminate; it occurs in all types of families. Nevertheless, not all children are equally at risk for sexual abuse. Although any child can be sexually abused, some groups of children are more likely to be victimized than others. Finkelhor (1994) notes that the most signifi cant risk factors are children separated from their parents and children whose parents have such serious problems that they cannot attend to or supervise their children. Th e result is emotionally deprived children who are vulnerable to the ploys of sexually abu- sive individuals.
Eff ects of Child Sexual Abuse
Until recently, much of the literature on child sexual abuse was anecdotal, case studies, or small-scale surveys of nonrepresentative groups. Nevertheless, numerous
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well-documented consequences of child sexual abuse hold true for both intra- familial and extrafamilial abuse. Th ese include both initial and long-term con- sequences. Many child sexual abuse survivors experience symptoms of posttraumatic stress disorder (Day, Th urlow, & Wolliscroft, 2003; Paolucci, Genuis, & Violato, 2001). In recent years, some women and men have stated that they were sexually abused during childhood but had repressed their memories of it. Th ey later recovered the memory of it, often with the help of therapists. When these recovered memories surfaced, those accused often expressed shock and denied the abuse ever happened. Instead they insisted that those memories were fi g- ments of the imagination. Th e question of whom to believe has given rise to a vitriolic “memory war”: recovered memories versus false memories. Each side has its proponents, and the fi erce controversy about the nature of memories of abuse continues today.
Initial Eff ects Th e initial consequences of sexual abuse occur within the fi rst couple of years or so and appear in many of the children survivors. Typical eff ects include the following (Anderson, 1995; Briere & Elliott, 1994; Calam, Horne, Glasgow, & Cox, 1998; Carlson, McNutt, & Choi, 2003; Wonderlich et al., 2000):
■ Emotional disturbances, including fear, sadness, self-hatred, anger, temper tantrums, depression, hostility, guilt, and shame
■ Physical consequences, including diffi culty in sleeping, changes in eating patterns, and headaches
■ Sexual disturbances, including signifi cantly higher rates of open masturba- tion, sexual preoccupation, exposure of the genitals, and indiscriminate and frequent sexual behaviors that might lead to pregnancy and STIs
■ Social disturbances, including diffi culties at school, truancy, running away from home, and early marriages by abused adolescents (a large propor- tion of homeless youths are fl eeing parental sexual abuse)
Long-Term Eff ects Although there can be some healing of the initial eff ects, child sexual abuse may leave lasting scars on the adult survivor. Th ese adults often have signifi cantly higher incidences of psychological, physical, and sexual problems than the general population. Abuse may predispose some women to sexually abusive dating relationships. Long-term eff ects of child sexual abuse include the following (Chen et al., 2010; Dube et al., 2005; Najman, Dunne, Purdie, Boyle, & Coxeter, 2005; Roller, Martsolf, Draucker, & Ross, 2009; Sachs-Ericsson et al., 2005):
■ Depression, the symptom most frequently reported by adults sexually abused as children
■ Self-destructive tendencies, including suicide attempts and thoughts of suicide
■ Somatic disturbances and dissociation, including anxiety and nervousness, insomnia, chronic pain, eating disorders (anorexia and bulimia), irritable bowel syndrome, feelings of “spaciness,” out-of-body experiences, and feelings that things are “unreal”
■ Health risk behaviors, including tobacco use, alcoholism, obesity, and unsafe sexual behaviors that may result in STIs and pregnancy
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■ Negative self-concept, including feelings of low self-esteem, isolation, and alienation
■ Interpersonal relationship diffi culties, including problems in relating to both sexes and to parents, in responding to their own children, and in trusting others
■ Revictimization, in which women abused as children are more vulnerable to rape and marital violence
■ Sexual function diffi culties, in which survivors fi nd it diffi cult to relax and enjoy sexual activities or in which they avoid sex and experience hypo- active (inhibited) sexual desire and lack of orgasm
A study of 534 women and 643 men attending a public STI clinic examined whether the severity of sexual abuse in childhood impacted sexual risk behavior in adulthood. Th e study found that penetration by itself (i.e., without force) and penetration with force were associated with greater sexual risk behavior. Specifi cally, those reporting childhood sexual abuse involving penetration and/ or force also reported more lifetime sexual partners and more previous STI diagnoses. Also, men experiencing sexual abuse with force and penetration reported a greater number of episodes of sex trading (exchanging sex for money, drugs, etc.), and women who were abused with penetration, regardless of whether force was involved, reported the most episodes of sex trading. Hence, the more severe childhood sexual abuse was associated with riskier adult sexual behavior (Senn, Carey, Vanable, Coury-Doniger, & Urban, 2007). Gay men and lesbian women who were sexually abused as children or ado- lescents may have additional issues to deal with. Th is is especially true if they were in the process of becoming aware of their sexual orientation at the time of the abuse. Th ey may have avoided telling anyone about the abuse because of their orientation and their fear of being blamed if their same-sex attraction was suspected by a family member or caseworker. Th e abuse may create or intensify self-directed homophobia.
Sexual Abuse Trauma Th e consequences of child sexual abuse may involve a traumatic dynamic that aff ects the child’s ability to deal with the world. Angela Browne and David Finkelhor (1986) suggest a model of sexual abuse trauma that contains four components: traumatic sexualization, betrayal, pow- erlessness, and stigmatization. Th ese consequences aff ect abuse survivors not only as children but also as adults.
Traumatic Sexualization Traumatic sexualization refers to the process by which the sexually abused child’s sexuality develops inappropriately and he or she becomes interpersonally dysfunctional. Sexually traumatized children learn inappropriate sexual behaviors (e.g., manipulating an adult’s genitals for aff ec- tion), are confused about their sexuality, and inappropriately associate certain emotions (e.g., loving and caring) with sexual activities. Adult survivors may experience fl ashbacks, suff er from sexual diffi culties, and develop negative feelings about their bodies. A fairly common confusion is the belief that sex may be traded for aff ection.
Betrayal Children feel betrayed when they discover that someone on whom they have been dependent has manipulated, used, or harmed them. Th ey may also feel betrayed by other family members, for not protecting them from abuse.
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As adults, survivors may experience depression as a manifestation, in part, of extended grief over the betrayal of trusted fi gures. Some may fi nd it diffi cult to trust others; others may feel a deep need to regain a sense of trust and become extremely dependent. For adolescents, antisocial or delinquent behavior may be a means of protecting themselves from further betrayal. Anger may express a need for revenge or retaliation, while distrust may manifest itself in social isolation and avoidance of intimate relationships.
Powerlessness Children experience a basic sense of powerlessness when their bodies and personal space are invaded against their will. Th is powerlessness is reinforced as the abuse is repeated. In adulthood, powerlessness may be experienced as fear or anxiety, with the person feeling unable to control events and having impaired coping abilities. Th is feeling of ineff ectiveness may be related to the high incidence of depres- sion and despair among survivors. Powerlessness may also be related to increased vulnerability or revictimization through rape or marital violence; survivors feel incapable of preventing subsequent victimization. Other survi- vors may attempt to cope with their earlier powerlessness by attempting to control or dominate others.
Stigmatization Stigmatization—the guilt and shame associated with sexual abuse that are transmitted to abused children and then internalized by them— is communicated in numerous ways. Th e abuser blames the child or, through his or her secrecy, communicates a sense of shame. If the abuser pressures the child to keep the abuse a secret, the child may also internalize feelings of shame and guilt. Children’s prior knowledge that their family or community considers such activities deviant may contribute to their feelings of stigmatization. As adults, survivors may feel extreme guilt or shame about having been sexually abused. Th ey may have low self-esteem because they feel that the abuse made them “damaged merchandise.” Th ey also feel diff erent from others because they mistakenly believe that they alone have been abused.
Treatment Programs
As stated earlier in this section, survivors of childhood sexual abuse often suf- fer both immediate and long-term negative outcomes. It is vital that they receive adequate support and therapy involving both cognitive and behavioral approaches. Th erapy should be available and considered for the child following the sexual abuse, as well as when the child becomes an adolescent and then an adult (McDonald et al., 2005). It is common now to deal with child sexual abuse by off ering therapy programs that function in conjunction with the judicial system, particularly when the off ender is an immediate family member, such as a father. Th e district attorney’s offi ce may work with clini- cians in evaluating the existing threat to the child in the home and deciding whether to prosecute or to refer the off ender for therapy—or both. Th e goal is not simply to punish the off ender but also to try to help the survivor and the family come to terms with the abuse. Many of these clinical programs work on several levels simultaneously; that is, they treat the individual and the family as a whole. Sex abusers also need treatment. Th is is important not only to assist these individuals in developing healthier child and adult relation- ships, but also to avoid any future abuse episodes.
One objective of child sexual abuse prevention programs is to teach children the diff erence between “good” touching and “bad” touching.
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Preventing Child Sexual Abuse
Programs focusing on preventing child sexual abuse have been developed; how- ever, they have been hindered by several factors. In confronting these problems, child abuse prevention (CAP) programs have been very creative. Most programs include group instruction in schools, either as a component of regular classroom instruction or as an after-school program. Th ese programs typically address three audiences: children, parents, and professionals. CAP programs aimed at children use plays, puppet shows, fi lms, videotapes, books, and comic books to teach children that they have rights: to control their own bodies (including their gen- itals), to feel “safe,” and to not be touched in ways that feel confusing or wrong. Th e CAP programs stress that children are not at fault when such abuse does occur. Th ese programs generally teach children three strategies: (1) to say “no,” (2) to get away from the assailant or situation, and (3) to tell a trusted adult about what happened (and to keep telling until they are believed). Other programs focus on educating parents, who, it is hoped, will in turn educate their children. Th ese programs seek to help parents discover abuse or abusers by identifying warning signs. Parents seem reluctant in general to deal with sexual abuse issues with their children, according to Finkelhor (1986). Many do not feel that their children are at risk, are fearful of unnecessarily frightening their children, and may also feel uncomfortable talking with their children about sex in general, much less about such taboo subjects as incest. In addition, parents may not believe their own children’s reports of abuse or may feel uncomfortable confronting a suspected abuser, who may be a partner, uncle, friend, or neighbor. CAP programs also seek to educate professionals, especially teachers, physi- cians, mental health workers, and police offi cers. Because of their close contact with children and their role in teaching children about the world, teachers are especially important. Professionals are encouraged to watch for signs of sexual abuse and to investigate children’s reports of such abuse. Signs that may indicate the presence of child sexual abuse are nightmares or other sleep problems, depression or withdrawal from family or friends, statements from the child that there is something wrong with her or him in the genital area, unusual interest in or avoidance of all things related to sexuality, secretiveness, and refusal to go to school (American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry, 2008). In 1997, the U.S. Supreme Court ruled in favor of what is now referred to as Megan’s Law. Enacted in 1995, the law requires law enforcement authorities to make information about registered sex off enders available to the public. Th at is, the law calls for schools, day-care centers, and youth groups to be notifi ed about moderate-risk sex off enders in the community. For high-risk off enders, the law requires that the police go door-to-door notifying neighborhood resi- dents. It also requires sex off enders who have been paroled or recently released from prison to register with local authorities when moving to a community. Th e law is named for Megan Kanka, a 7-year-old who was raped and murdered by a twice-convicted sex off ender who lived across the street from her. Although parts of the law have been challenged, the Supreme Court has rejected objec- tions (Carelli, 1998). Actually, the Court ruled in 2003 that photos of con- victed off enders may be posted on the Internet (CNN.com/Law Center, 2003). Most communities see the law as a welcome victory for their children. In eff orts to further prevent child sexual abuse, most states and many com- munities have enacted laws directed toward sex off enders to, for example, extend
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prison sentences, require off enders to register with the police, restrict where the person can live (not near schools or playgrounds), improve public notifi cation of their whereabouts, and order electronic monitoring (Koch, 2006). All states have Internet registries of sex off enders. For many of the attempts to make identity of sex off enders easily accessible to the public, constitutional and safety issues relative to the rights of the off ender have been raised. For example, a man who shot two sex off enders to death in April 2006 indicated that he got their names from the state’s online sex off ender registry (“Maine Killer’s Use of Sex- Off ender List,” 2006). Actually, Human Rights Watch, in its report No Easy Answers (2007), states that state and federal laws designed to monitor released off enders and protect the public may be counterproductive—they may actually cause more harm than good. Th e report notes that laws restricting where sex off enders can live and requiring public notifi cation of their crimes have not been shown to reduce sex crimes. Further, no other country in the world governs where sex off enders can live. Human Rights Watch says that, according to U.S. Department of Justice, only 5.3% of sex off enders re-off end in 3 years (Human Rights Watch, 2007; Rozas, 2007). As you can see, eff orts to protect children from sexual abuse can involve several components, not all of which may be compatible and many that are controversial.
Sexual harassment, anti-gay harassment and discrimination, sexual aggression, and sexual abuse of children represent the darker side of human sexuality. Their common thread is the humiliation, subordination, or victimization of others. But we need not be victims. We can educate ourselves and others about these activities; we can work toward changing attitudes and institutions that support these destructive and de humanizing behaviors.
Final Thoughts
Summary Sexual Harassment
■ Sexual harassment includes two distinct types of illegal harassment: the abuse of power for sexual ends and the creation of a hostile environment. Sexual harassment may begin as early as middle childhood. In college, 6 in every 10 female students and male students have experienced some form of sexual harassment (verbal or physical) from other students, faculty members, or administrators.
■ In the workplace, both fellow employees and super- visors may engage in sexual harassment. In many instances, harassment may not represent sexual attraction as much as an exercise of power.
Harassment and Discrimination Against Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, and Transgender People
■ Researchers have identifi ed two forms of discrimi- nation or bias against gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender people: heterosexual bias and anti-gay prejudice. Heterosexual bias includes ignoring, segregating, and submerging gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender people into larger categories that make them invisible.
■ Anti-gay prejudice is a strong dislike, fear, or hatred of gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender people. It is acted out through off ensive language, discrimination, and violence. Anti-gay prejudice is derived from a
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deeply rooted insecurity concerning a person’s own sexuality and gender identity, a strong fundamentalist religious orientation, or simple ignorance.
Sexual Aggression
■ Rape forces its victim into intimate sexual contact against her or his will. Sexual aggression refers to any sexual activity against a person’s will through the use of force, argument, pressure, alcohol/drugs, or authority. Sexual coercion, a broader term than “rape” or “sexual aggression,” includes arguing, pleading, and cajoling, as well as force or the threat of force. Sexual assault is the term used by the legal system for criminal sexual contact that does not meet the legal defi nition of rape.
■ Myths about rape encourage rape by blaming women. Men are more likely than women to believe rape myths.
■ Date rape and acquaintance rape are common forms of rape. Alcohol or drugs are often involved. Th ere is also considerable sexual coercion in gay relationships; there is less coercion in lesbian relationships.
■ Th e majority of reported rapes are by strangers. Stranger rapes are more likely to involve guns or knives than date or acquaintance rapes.
■ In every state, a husband can be prosecuted for raping his wife. Marital rape survivors experience feelings of betrayal, anger, humiliation, and guilt.
■ Gang rape may be perpetrated by strangers or acquaintances. It may be motivated by a desire for power and by male-bonding factors.
■ Most male rape survivors have been raped by other men. Because the motive in sexual assaults is power and domination, sexual orientation is often irrelevant.
■ Most stranger rapes (and some acquaintance and marital rapes) can be characterized as anger rapes, power rapes, or sadistic rapes.
■ Th e emotional changes undergone as a result of rape are collectively known as rape trauma syndrome. Th ese survivors may experience depression, anxiety, restlessness, and guilt. Th e symptoms following rape are consistent with posttraumatic stress disorder (PTSD). Rape trauma syndrome consists of an acute phase and a long-term reorganization phase. Women fi nd their sexuality severely aff ected for at least a short time after being raped.
Child Sexual Abuse
■ Child sexual abuse is any sexual interaction between an adult and a prepubescent child. Incest is sexual contact
between individuals too closely related to legally marry.
■ Th e initial eff ects of abuse include physical conse- quences and emotional, social, and sexual distur- bances. Child sexual abuse may leave lasting scars on the adult survivor.
■ Sexual abuse trauma includes traumatic sexualization, betrayal, powerlessness, and stigmatization. Treat- ment programs use both cognitive and behavioral psychotherapy to assist the survivor.
■ Child abuse prevention (CAP) programs that focus on skills training, such as self-protective behaviors, appear to be the most eff ective. CAP programs generally teach children to say “no,” to get away from the assailant or situation, and to tell a trusted adult about what happened.
Questions for Discussion ■ If you are a college student, how common is
sexual harassment on your campus? What makes it sometimes diffi cult to determine the diff erence between fl irting and sexual harassment?
■ Why do you think people rape? Are they mainly motivated by need for sexual gratifi cation, by need for power and control, or by other reasons?
■ What do you think you could do to help someone who has been raped? What resources or organizations would you recommend?
■ Have you observed anti-gay prejudice? If so, what could have been done to prevent it, if anything?
■ What do you think can be done to prevent child sexual abuse?
Sex and the Internet The Rape, Abuse, and Incest National Network The Rape, Abuse, and Incest National Network (RAINN) is the nation’s largest anti-sexual-assault organization and operates a national toll-free hotline for survivors of sexual assault (1-800-656-HOPE). RAINN off ers free,
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Suggested Websites Feminist Majority Foundation http://www.feminist.org Discusses its latest projects and gives information about feminist issues.
Human Rights Campaign http://www.hrc.org Off ers the latest information on political issues aff ecting lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender Americans.
Movement Advancement Project http://www.lgbtmap.org An independent think tank that provides research, insight, and analyses that help expedite equality for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender people.
National Coalition Against Domestic Violence http://www.ncadv.org Provides information about domestic violence and suggestions for getting help.
National Sexual Violence Resource Center http://www.nsvrc.org A project of the Pennsylvania Coalition Against Rape; is a resource for information about rape and links to other sites.
U.S. Department of Justice, Bureau of Justice Statistics http://www.ojp.usdoj.gov/bjs Gives statistics and information on legal and enforcement issues related to victimization crime, as well as press releases.
U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission http://www.eeoc.gov Provides information on federal laws prohibiting job discrimina- tion and gives directions for fi ling a charge.
confi dential counseling and support 24 hours a day. I also has an information-fi lled website: http://www .rainn.org. Go to the RAINN site and answer the following questions:
■ What type of information is provided? ■ What are some of the RAINN highlights? ■ What is in the “Latest News” section? ■ What types of programs and events does RAINN
off er?
■ How can one support or volunteer for RAINN?
Suggested Reading Bass, E., & Davis, L. (2008).Th e courage to heal (4th ed.). New
York: HarperCollins. A comprehensive guide that weaves together personal experience and professional knowledge to assist survivors of sexual abuse.
Fetner, T. (2008). How the religious right shaped lesbian and gay activism. Minneapolis: University of Minnesota Press. Descriptions of the two movements are signifi cantly shaped by their rivals.
Koenig, L. J., Doll, L. S., O’Leary, A., & Pequegnat, W. (Eds.). (2004). From child sexual abuse to adult sexual risk: Trauma, revictimization, and intervention. Washington, DC: American Psychological Association. Examines the relation between child sexual abuse and adult sexual health outcomes in men and women.
Lalumière, M. L., Harris, G. T., Quinsey, V. L., & Rice, M. E. (2005). Th e causes of rape: Understanding individual male propensity for sexual aggression. Washington, DC: American Psychological Association. Examines why some men are prone to rape, off ers probable causes for this inclination, and provides a comprehensive review of scientifi c studies of coercive sex.
Maltz, W. (2001). Th e sexual healing journey. New York: HarperCollins. A comprehensive guide designed to help survivors of sexual abuse improve their relationships and discover the joys of sexual intimacy.
Reddington, F. P., & Kreisel, B. W. (2009). Sexual assault: Th e victims, the perpetrators, and the criminal justice system. Durham, NC: Carolina Academic Press. A discussion of the legal aspects of victimization and other topics such as rape myths, male victims, and perpetrators. Great reference for clinics, survivors, and families.
Sandy, P. R. (2007). Fraternity gang rape: Sex, brotherhood, and privilege on campus. New York: New York University Press. Discusses the nature of fraternity gang rape and how Greek life in general contributes to a culture that promotes the exploitation of women on college campuses.
Schewe, P. A. (2002). Preventing violence in relationships: Interventions across the lifespan. Washington, DC: American Psychological Association. Focuses on building healthy relationships and preventing family violence.
Temkin, J., & Krahe, B. (2008). How ignorance perpetuates sexual assault myths, abuse, and injustice. Portland, OR: Hart Publishing. A concise and detailed discussion of the justice gap, the gap between the number of off enses recorded by the police and the number of convictions.
For links, articles, and study material, go to the McGraw-Hill website, located at
www.mhhe.com/yarber8e.
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Prostitution 610
Sexuality and the Law 620
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Money and sex are bound together in the production and sale of sexually explicit material and in prostitution. Money is exchanged for sexual images or descriptions contained in fi lms, electronic media, magazines, books, music, and photographs that depict people in explicit or suggestive sexual activ- ities. Money is also exchanged for sexual services provided by streetwalkers, call girls, escorts, massage parlor workers, and other sex workers. Th e sex industry is a multibillion-dollar enterprise with countless millions of consumers and cus- tomers. As a nation, however, we feel ambivalent about sexually explicit material and prostitution. Many people condemn it as harmful, immoral, and exploit- ative and wish to censor or eliminate it. Others see it as a harmless and even benefi cial activity, an erotic diversion, or an aspect of society that cannot (or should not) be regulated; they believe censorship and police action do greater harm than good. In this chapter, we examine sexually explicit material, including depic- tions of sex in popular culture, the role of technology in the distribution of sexually explicit material, the effects of sexually explicit material, and censorship issues. We then examine prostitution, focusing on females and males working in the sex industry, the legal issues involved, and the impact of HIV and other STIs. We then discuss current laws dealing with private, consensual sexual behavior among adults and end the chapter with gay marriage.
• Sexually Explicit Material in Contemporary America Studying sexually explicit material objectively is diffi cult because such material often triggers deep and confl icting feelings we have about sexuality. Many people enjoy sexually explicit material, others fi nd it degrading, and still others may simultaneously feel aroused and guilty.
Since the human body is perfect in all forms, we cannot see it often enough.
—Kenneth Clark (1903–1983)
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Obscenity is best left to the minds of man. What’s obscene to one may not
off end another.
—William O. Douglas (1898–1980)
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Student Voices
this would be a fan- tastic way for me to become a ‘man.’ I felt embarrassed, dirty, and ashamed of myself.”
—24-year-old male
“She (my aunt) actu- ally started molest- ing me when I was six. She would come home late at night, drunk, and carry me into her bed so that she could perform oral sex on me. She mo- lested me until I was twelve years old. She was a prostitute, so later in my molestation she tried to include her tricks, but I cried my way out of it every time.”
—26-year-old female
“My boyfriend and I sometimes use X-rated movies while we have sex. We have learned some new techniques from them, and they really help us get turned on. Some of our friends had recommended that we get them. At fi rst, we were a little hesi- tant to use them, but now watching the movies has become a regular part of our sex. But I wonder if something is wrong with us having to use the movies. And, at times, I still feel un- comfortable using them. I sure haven’t told any of my friends about them.”
—21-year-old female
“I was only sixteen when I traveled to Peru with Carlos, who was twenty-nine. We were in Lima for two days, and while we were there, Carlos took me to a hotel so we could both have sex with prostitutes. At the time, I did not really understand what was happening until after it occurred. Carlos knew that I was a virgin and thought
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Pornography or Erotica: Which Is It?
As sexual themes, ideas, images, and music increasingly appear in art, literature, and popular culture, the boundaries blur between what is socially acceptable and what is considered erotic or obscene. Much of the discussion about sexu- ally explicit material concerns the question of whether such material is, in fact, erotic or pornographic—that is, whether viewing it causes positive or harmful outcomes. Unfortunately, there is a lack of agreement about what constitutes erotica or pornography. Part of the problem is that “erotica” and “pornography” are subjective terms, and the line separating them can be blurred. Erotica describes sexually explicit material that can be evaluated positively. (Th e word “erotica” is derived from the Greek erotikos, meaning “a love poem.”) It often involves mutuality, respect, aff ection, and a balance of power and may even be considered to have artistic value. Pornography represents sexually explicit material that is generally evaluated negatively and might include anything that depicts sexuality and causes sexual arousal in the viewer. (“Pornography” is a nineteenth-century word derived from the Greek porne, meaning “prostitute,” and graphos, meaning “depicting.”) Webster’s New World Collegiate Dictionary defi nes pornography as “writing, pictures, etc. intended to arouse sexual desire.” Sexually explicit materials are legal in the United States; however, materials that are considered to be obscene are not. Although the legal defi nition of obscenity varies, the term generally implies a personal or societal judgment that something is off ensive; it comes from the Latin word for “fi lth.” Often, material depicting the use of violence and aggression or degrading and dehu- manizing situations is deemed obscene. Because such a determination involves a judgment, critics often point to the subjective nature of this defi nition. (Obscenity and the law are discussed in detail later in the section.) Th e same sexually explicit material may evoke a variety of responses in dif- ferent people. “What I like is erotica, but what you like is pornography” may be a facetious statement, but it’s not entirely untrue. It has been found that people view others as more adversely aff ected than themselves by sexually explicit material. Judgments about sexually explicit material tend to be relative. Because of the tendency to use “erotica” as a positive term and “pornogra- phy” as a negative term, we will use the neutral term “sexually explicit material” whenever possible. Sexually explicit material (SEM) is material such as pho- tographs, videos, fi lms, magazines, and books whose primary themes, topics, or depictions involve sexuality that may cause sexual arousal; the genitals or intimate sexual behaviors typically are shown. Sometimes, however, the context of studies we are citing may require us to use either “erotica” or “pornography” rather than “sexually explicit material.” Th is is especially true if the studies use those terms or are clearly making a positive or negative evaluation.
Sexually Explicit Material and Popular Culture
In the nineteenth century, technology transformed the production of sexually explicit material. Cheap paper and large-scale printing, combined with mass literacy, created an enormous market for books and drawings, including sexu- ally explicit material. Today, technology is once again extending the forms in which this material is conveyed. In recent decades, sexually explicit material, especially soft-core (material that portrays sexual behaviors in a highly suggestive rather than an explicit way), has become an integral part of popular culture. In recent years, Playboy,
The diff erence between pornography and erotica is lighting.
—Gloria Leonard (1940–)
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Obscenity is whatever happens to shock some elderly and ignorant magistrate.
—Bertrand Russell (1872–1970)
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Perversity is the muse of modern literature.
—Susan Sontag (1933–2004)
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How can you accuse me of liking pornography when I don’t even have a
pornograph?
—Groucho Marx (1890–1977)
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Penthouse, and Hustler were among the most widely circulated magazines in America. Th e depiction of sexual activities is not restricted to books and mag- azines, however. Various establishments off er live entertainment. Bars, for example, feature nude dancers. Some clubs or adult entertainment establish- ments employ erotic dancers who expose themselves and simulate sexual behav- iors before their audience, and some even have “live sex shows.” Th e Internet, cable and satellite television sex channels, and DVD revolutions have been so great that homes have largely supplanted adult theaters or “porno” movie houses as sites for viewing sexually explicit fi lms. Th e sexually explicit material industry is big business in the United States, with an estimated revenue of several billion dollars annually (Dines, 2010). Th e availability of in-home sexually explicit fi lms and downloadable clips and fi lms on the Internet have had a profound eff ect on who views erotic fi lms. In the past, adult movie houses were the domain of men; relatively few women entered them. Most explicit DVDs or fi lms, as well as books and magazines, have been marketed to heterosexual men. However, in part because of the success of shows like Sex and the City and books like Fifty Shades of Grey, women are becoming the fastest-growing consumers of the adult entertainment and erotica including sexu- ally explicit materials and sex toys (Comella, 2008). But with erotic fi lms available for viewing in the privacy of the home, women and couples have become consumers of sexually explicit material. Th e inclusion of women in the audience has led to the produc- tion of femme porn, sexually explicit material catering to women and heterosexual couples. Compared to other types of porn, femme porn typically involves women in its produc- tion and has story lines that depict emotional intimacy and greater equality between the sexes, is less male centered, avoids violence, and is more sensitive to women’s erotic fantasies (Milne, 2005). Another group of sexually explicit fi lms is the educational “Good Sex Video Series” by the Sinclair Institute. Th ese videos feature a sex therapist’s commentary about varied sexual behaviors with a focus on enhancing individual and couple sexual expression.
Sexually Explicit Materials on the Internet
Searching for sexually explicit materials is the most common online sexual activity. Certainly, online sexual materials are one of the most profi table revenue generators on the Inter- net. (See Chapter 1 for further discussions of other ways the Internet provides and shapes our sexual culture.) A nonrandom survey of 15,246 respondents in the United States assessed the viewing of erotic materials and sex-seeking behaviors online (Albright, 2008). Th e results provide us with a snapshot of adult viewing of online erotica. Important fi ndings include:
■ 75% of men and 41% of women reported that they had intentionally viewed or downloaded erotic images or fi lms online.
■ A larger portion of women than men reported benefi ts related to improving sexual behavior with their current partner, such as being more open to new things (26% vs. 24%), making it easier to talk about what
Singer Adam Lambert kisses musician Tommy Fever during a musical performance, prompting debate amongst viewers about what kinds of public displays of aff ection are acceptable.
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they want (26% vs. 23%), and watching together to enhance arousal (19% vs. 16%).
■ Men, in contrast to women, were more likely to indicate a solitary benefi t: enhancing arousal when alone (16% vs. 14%).
■ Women more often than men reported that watching online pornography decreased the amount of sex they had (12% vs. 9%), that online pornography was likely to make their partner more critical of them (9% vs. 2%), and that porn led to a perception of pressure to perform (15% vs. 2%).
■ Men more often than women reported that online pornography lowered their interest in having sex (9% vs. 3%) and made them more critical of their partner’s body (8% vs. 2%).
Note that the diff erences in perceived outcome of watching online explicit materials was small when comparing men and women and that the prevalence of many outcomes, particularly negative ones, was low. A study of 6,054 Swiss youth aged 16–20 who had used the Internet during the previous month concluded that pornography exposure was not associated with sexual risk behaviors. Th e research also found no diff erences in sexual risk behaviors between those who were willingly versus unwillingly exposed to the erotic online images (Luder et al., 2011). For the most part, college students are in the age group—18 to 25 years—that has the greatest number of persons reporting having seen an X-rated movie in the last year (Buzzell, 2005). With the dramatic increase in computer technology and availability, college students have ample access to sexually explicit websites. Studies of college students help us understand the factors related to the preva- lence of sex site use by this population. Th e reason people utilize online pornography has been understudied. A study of 321 undergraduate male and female students assessed specifi c motiva- tions for Internet pornography use and how gender and erotophilia/erotophobia are associated with motivations (Paul & Shim, 2008). Four motivations for online viewing of erotic material were found: (1) to build or maintain a rela- tionship; (2) for mood management, such as to increase arousal or for enter- tainment; (3) out of habit; and (4) for the purpose of sexual fantasy—to feel as if they themselves were interacting with the actors in the sexual scenes. Males showed stronger motivations for viewing the pornography than females for all four of the motivations. Lastly, the more erotophilic students (who had more positive sexual attitudes) were more likely than the more erotophobic students to be motivated to use Internet pornography for all four motivations. A study published in 2008 that assessed the viewing of sexually explicit media, including the Internet, movies, and/or magazines, among college students from six colleges across the United States found a viewing gap by gender: 87% for men, 31% for women (Carroll et al., 2008). Another study of college students (from the northwestern U.S.) found that 92% of men and 50% of women reported having used SEM in their lifetime (Morgan, 2011). (For more information about the fi ndings of these two studies, see the “Th ink About It” box on page 602.)
Content and Themes Many of the themes found in sexually explicit material are also found in the mainstream media. Music videos, TV shows, and movies, for example, contain sexual scenes and innuendos and images of the subordina- tion of women. Th ey diff er primarily in their levels of explicitness.
“ The older one grows, the more one likes indecency.
—Virginia Woolf (1882–1941)
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Many “mainstream” sexually explicit fi lms target a male, heterosexual audience and portray stereotypes of male sexuality: dominant men with huge, erect penises, able to “last long” and satisfy eager and acquiescent women who are driven mad by their sexual prowess. Th e major theme of the fi lms is “cookbook” sex; they show fellatio, cunnilingus, vaginal and anal sex, climax with the man ejaculating on the woman’s body, and the woman often faking an orgasm. Th e focus is typically on the physical beauty of the woman “star,” with threesomes (two women and one man) or group sex often featured. Th e male actors may not even be “good-looking” (Cassell, 2008; Paul, 2006). One criticism is that fi lms like these do not represent the unique individuality of sexual expression nor how women experience erotic fulfi llment. Very little focus is on relationships, emo- tional intimacy, nonsexual aspects of life, or the woman’s sexual satisfaction. Rarely are lovers shown massaging each other’s shoulders or whispering “I love you.” Nor do lovers ask each other questions such as “Is this OK?” or “What can I do to help you feel more pleasure?” (Castleman, 2004). Some sex therapists criticize these fi lms as reinforcing an unhealthy and unrealistic image of sexuality: that men are all-powerful and that women are submissive objects, deriving all sexual satisfaction from male domination. Gay and lesbian sexually explicit fi lms diff er somewhat from heterosexual- focused fi lms. Gay porn typically features attractive, young, muscular, “well- hung” men, and focuses on the eroticism of the male body. Lesbian-explicit fi lms usually depict realistic sexual interactions with a range of body types and both butch (notably masculine in manner or appearance) and femme styles. Sex between men is rarely shown in heterosexual fi lms, presumably because it would make heterosexual men uncomfortable. But heterosexual-focused fi lms may sometimes portray sex between women because many heterosexual men fi nd such depictions sexually arousing.
The performances of pop music artists are often highly sexual; Beyoncé Knowles uses sexuality as an integral theme in her videos and concerts, as do many pop music artists.
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think about it
Accessibility to and acceptability of sexually explicit materials (SEM) is becoming more widespread in our increasingly technological world. In contrast to the 1980s, when one would have to go to a store and ask for “porn” maga- zines (often located behind the counter) or visit an adult theater (located in a “seedy” part of town), young people today can easily access SEM on the Internet or on satellite television. Given the easy access to SEM, it is important to examine the prevalence, acceptance, and associations of SEM among young people. The major fi ndings of three studies of SEM and college students are presented here. Researchers at Indiana University used a study group of 245 college students to assess the eff ects of pornography from their perspective (Weinberg, Williams, Kleiner, & Irizarry, 2010). The study focused on determining if viewing pornography appeared to expand sexual horizons through normalization as well as en- hance willingness to try new sexual behaviors and relationships through empowerment. The qualitative data found that viewing pornography can expand the appeal and expression of a variety of sexual behaviors. That is, pornography’s profusion and dissemination of sexual scripts seems to have, for some people, a liberating impact. For example: there was an association be- tween the frequency of viewing pornography among heterosex- ual men and the appeal of vibrator use as sometimes depicted in pornography. The researchers concluded that, in general, the “fi ndings were consistent with our theoretical assumption.” They noted, however, that this normalization did not necessarily lead to desire or empowerment to engage in sex with partners outside the relationship.
College Students and the Viewing of Sexually Explicit Materials
Family life researcher Jason Carroll of Brigham Young University and his colleagues assessed pornography use among 813 men and women college students from six college sites across the United States (Carroll et al., 2008). Pornography was defi ned as media (such as Internet, movies, and/or magazines) portraying nudity and sexual behaviors used to increase or intended to increase sexual arousal. Here are some of their major fi ndings:
■ About two thirds of the men and one half of the women agreed that viewing pornography is an acceptable way to express one’s sexuality.
■ Nearly 9 in 10 of the men and nearly one third of the women reported using pornography. Nearly half of the men and only 3% of the women reported pornography use weekly or more often.
■ For men, signifi cant associations were found between use of pornography and greater number of lifetime sexual partners and higher acceptance of premarital, casual, and extramarital behaviors.
■ For women, higher acceptance and use of pornography was signifi cantly related to higher acceptance of casual sexual behavior, greater number of sexual partners in the past 12 months and lifetime, and alcohol use, binge drinking and cigarette use.
Psychology researcher Elizabeth Morgan of Boise State University examined how levels of SEM use during adolescence and young adulthood are related to sexual preferences, sexual
The Eff ects of Sexually Explicit Material
Th ere are a number of concerns about the eff ects of sexually explicit material. Beyond what was discussed in the prior section on the Internet and SEM, researchers have questions such as: Does SEM cause people to engage in “deviant” behavior? Is it a form of sex discrimination against women? And, fi nally, does it cause violence against women?
Sexual Expression People who read or view sexually explicit material usually recognize it as fantasy; they use it as a release from their everyday lives. Exposure to such material temporarily encourages sexual expression and may activate a person’s typical sexual behavior pattern or enhance experimentation. A study of a nationally representative sample of 398 Norwegian heterosexual couples aged 22–67 found that 15% of the couples had used pornography to enhance their sex lives and that these couples lived in a more permissive erotic climate compared to couples who did not use pornography (Daneback, Traeen, & Mansson, 2009).
“ Western man, especially the Western critic, still fi nds it very hard to go into
print and say: “I recommend you go and see this because it gave me an erection.”
—Kenneth Tynan (1927–1980)
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behaviors, and sexual and relationship satisfaction among 782 college men and women from the northwestern region of the United States (Morgan, 2011). Viewing pornography was defi ned as intentionally looking at pictures of nude individuals, movies in which there are nude individuals, pictures or movies of people having sex, written or audio material that describes people having sex, or real-life nude individuals. Sex was defi ned as vaginal, anal, or oral penetration. Major fi ndings include:
■ Slightly over 9 in 10 young men and one half of young women reported ever having used various types of SEM.
■ Men participants were more likely to have used all types of SEM than women except sexually explicit books.
■ Women users were more likely to report viewing SEM with a dating partner, whereas men users were more likely to report viewing SEM alone, when not in a relationship, and when masturbating.
■ Higher frequency of SEM use and consuming a greater num- ber of SEM types was found to have signifi cant association with more sexual experience (i.e., higher number of sexual intercourse partners, higher number of casual partners, and lower age of fi rst intercourse).
■ Higher frequency of SEM use was associated with less sexual and relationship satisfaction.
■ The frequency of SEM use and number of types of SEM viewed were both associated with stronger sexual preferences for the types of sexual behaviors typically presented in the SEM.
Both of these studies were exploratory in nature. Given the relatively high prevalence of SEM use among college students, further studies of SEM use, such as longitudinal and experimental research, should be conducted. For example, does the viewing of SEM among young people for long periods of time cultivate unrealistic expectations in their own sexual expression with a
partner that could lead to pervasive dissatisfaction, or do most young adults recognize the diff erence between some SEM and real-life experiences? Further, the two studies reported here examined the association of SEM use with other variables such as frequency of sexual behaviors; cause and eff ect was not established. Exploring whether the sex-related attitudes, behaviors, and feelings precede or follow SEM use would be benefi cial (Morgan, 2011).
Think Critically 1. Do any of the fi ndings surprise you? If so, which ones
and why are they surprising? 2. After reading the fi ndings, do you feel more or less
accepting of SEM as a positive way of expressing your sexuality?
3. Do you believe that SEM use impacts college students’ sexual attitudes and behavior negatively (e.g., leads to unrealistic expectations) or positively (e.g., is a healthy way for a couple to learn new sex techniques that improved their relationship)? If no, why? If yes, why and how?
4. If you were presenting a lecture on SEM to college students, what are the most important messages you would convey?
SOURCES: Carroll, J. S., Padilla-Walker, L. M., Nelson, L. J., Olson, C. D., Barry, C. M., & Madsen, S. D. (2008). Pornography acceptance and use among emerging adults. Journal of Adolescent Health, 23, 6–30; Morgan, E. M. (2011). Associations between young adults’ use of sexually explicit materials and their sexual preferences, behaviors, and satisfaction. Journal of Sex Research, 48, 520–530; Weinberg, M. S., Williams, C. J., Kleiner, S., & Irizarry, Y. (2010). Pornography, normalization, and empowerment. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 39, 138–141.
Th e researchers concluded that for this sample of Norwegians, pornography was more of a solitary activity and was not part of the sexual script of most commit- ted lovers. To study the impact of early exposure to sexually explicit materials, 1,528 heterosexual Croatian men and women aged 18–25 were assessed. Research- ers found no signifi cant association between early exposure to pornography (at age 14) and high sexual compulsivity in late adolescence and young adulthood among either men or women (Stulhofer, Jelovica, & Ruzic, 2008). Sexually explicit material deals with fantasy sex, not sex as we know it in the context of human relationships. Th is sex usually takes place in a world in which people and situations are defi ned in exclusively sexual terms. People are stripped of their nonsexual connections. People are interested in sexually explicit material for a number of reasons. First, they enjoy the sexual sensations erotica arouses; it can be a source of intense pleasure. Masturbation or other sexual activities, pleasurable in them- selves, may accompany the use of SEM or follow it. Second, since the nineteenth
“ The only thing pornography has been known to cause is solitary masturbation.
—Gore Vidal (1925–)
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century, SEM has been a source of sexual information and knowledge. Eroticism generally is hidden from view and discussion. Because the erotic aspects of sexuality are rarely talked about, SEM can fi ll the void. Th ird, sexually explicit material, like fantasy, may provide an opportunity for people to rehearse sexual activities. Fourth, reading or viewing SEM to obtain pleasure or to enhance one’s fantasies or masturbatory experiences may be regarded as safer sex. Sex therapist Barbara Keesling (2006) states that she often recommends the use of sexually explicit materials to women who experience low sexual desire and sexual arousal problems. She notes that “women can sometimes learn to become more aroused by retraining themselves in the ability to feel physical arousal at the sight of sexually explicit images.” Keesling also states that since some women may “shut down” because of their belief that some sexually explicit material may be disgusting, they should try to fi nd material that is both accept- able and arousing to them. Men are cautioned that sexually explicit materials are typically all-genital and that such focus can cause problems in sexual expres- sion with others; they should not buy into the idea that sex should occur like it does in most adult fi lms. Medical writer Michael Castleman (2004) suggests the following for men, although his advice could also apply to women:
Stop trying to imitate what you see in pornography—the rushed, mechanical sex that’s entirely focused on the genitals. Instead, cultivate the opposite of porn: leisurely, playful, creative, whole-body, massage-based lovemaking that includes the genitals, but is not obsessed with them.
Sexual Aggression In 1970, the President’s Commission on Pornography and Obscenity concluded that pornography did not cause harm or violence. It
recommended that all legislation restricting adult access to it be repealed as inconsistent with the First Amendment.
In the 1980s, President Ronald Reagan estab- lished a new pornography commission under Attorney General Edwin Meese. In 1986, the Attorney General’s Commission on Pornography stated that “the most prevalent forms of pornog- raphy” were violent; it off ered no evidence, how- ever, to substantiate its assertion (U.S. Attorney General’s Commission on Pornography [AGCOP], 1986). Th ere is, in fact, no evidence that the majority of sexually explicit material is violent; actually, very little contains aggression, physical violence, or rape.
In the 1970s, feminists and others working to increase rape awareness began to call attention to the violence against women portrayed in the media. Th ey found rape themes in sexually explicit material especially disturbing, arguing that those images reinforced rape myths. Again, however, there is no evidence that nonviolent sexually explicit material is associated with actual sexual
aggression against women. Even the conservative commission on pornography agreed that nonviolent sexually explicit material had no such eff ect (AGCOP,
“ Whatever you choose, however many roads you travel, I hope that you choose
not to be a lady. I hope you will fi nd some way to break the rules and make a little trouble out there. And I also hope that you will choose to make some of that trouble on behalf of women.
—Nora Ephron (1941–2012)
Some contemporary video games have strong, suggestive sexual messages.
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1986). It did assert that “some forms of sexually explicit materials bear a causal relationship . . . to sexual violence,” but it presented no scientifi c proof. Researchers have studied the relationship between violent sexually explicit material and aggression and negative attitudes toward women. Most studies have been experimental; that is, male college students were exposed to various media, and factors related to their attitudes about, for example, the rape of women were measured. In studying male responses to depictions of rape, researchers have found that realistic portrayals of rape tend not to be arousing to men and may actually produce negative emotional responses (Bauserman, 1998). Th is is in contrast to the responses that are elicited to “rape myths,” or unrealistic portrayals in fi lms in which women become aroused and participate willingly. In a national sample of men enrolled in postsecondary education, researchers reported that men having the highest levels of hostility, sexual “pro- miscuity,” and pornography use were the most likely to report a history of sexual aggression against women. But the researchers noted that we cannot conclude from this analysis that pornography use causes or is an outcome of aggressive sexual tendencies (Malamuth, Addison, & Koss, 2001). Sometimes, the consumption of sexually explicit fi lms and sexual assault are linked in the popular media, but with no evidence. An analysis of the trend of sexual assaults in the United States from 1995, when Internet pornography availability began to increase, to 2005 revealed a steady decline in the number of sexual assaults. Th e scientists who analyzed the trend of assaults concluded that “after a full decade of the easiest availability of every type of erotic, degrad- ing and violent pornographic material, no increase in rates of reported sexual assault was found” (Whitty & Fisher, 2008). A study of 1,023 Australian con- sumers of sexually explicit materials (in magazines, DVDs, novels, and the Inter- net) found no association between consumption of sexually explicit media and negative attitudes toward women (McKee, 2007). Contact with sexually explicit material is a self-regulated choice, and research on factors related to such self-directed behavior is very limited: “Existing fi nd- ings by and large fail to confi rm fears of strong antisocial eff ects of self-directed exposure to sexually explicit media” (Fisher & Barak, 2001). Despite some of these more recent fi ndings, whether violent sexually explicit material causes sexual aggression toward women remains a fractious issue.
Sex Discrimination Since the 1980s, feminists have been divided over the issue of sexually explicit material. One segment of the feminist movement, which iden- tifi es itself as antipornography, views sexually explicit material as inherently degrad- ing and dehumanizing to women. Many in this group believe that sexually explicit material provides the basis for women’s subordination by turning them into sex objects. Th ey argue that SEM inhibits women’s attainment of equal rights by encouraging the exploitation and subordination of women. Feminist and other critics of this approach point out that it has an antisexual bias that associates sex with exploitation. Sexually explicit images, rather than specifi cally sexist images, are singled out. Furthermore, discrimination against and the subordination of women in Western culture have existed since ancient times, long before the rise of sexually explicit material. Th e roots of subordina- tion lie far deeper. Th e elimination of sexual depictions of women would not alter discrimination against women signifi cantly, if at all. Sex researchers William Fisher and Clive Davis, in their review of research on the impact of sexually
“ My reaction to porno fi lms is as follows: After the fi rst ten minutes, I want to go
home and screw. After the fi rst twenty minutes, I never want to screw anything as long as I live.
—Erica Jong (1942–)
“ What’s wrong with appealing to prurient interests? We appeal to killing interest.
—Lenny Bruce (1925–1966)
“ Censorship can’t eliminate evil; it can only kill freedom.
—Garrison Keillor (1942–)
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explicit materials, state that sexual scientists are against any anti-woman attitudes and aggression that some people may fear would result from experience with pornography. Th ey suggest that remedies for such attitudes and behavior linked to pornography could be achieved through education, policies and laws, and social change, for example (Fisher & Davis, 2007). However, they also state:
Th e inconsistent evidence connecting pornography with harm would indicate that eff orts to fi ght pornography as a way of combating anti-woman attitudes and anti-woman aggression would not eff ectively bring about the sought-after result.
Leonore Tiefer (2004), clinical associate professor of psychiatry at the New York University School of Medicine and sex therapist who is a primary spokes- person for newer views of women’s sexuality, states that sexually explicit mate- rials can contribute to women’s sexual power. She notes that empowerment, not protection, is the path to sexual growth in women. Tiefer states that
if we accept that women’s sexuality has been shaped by ignorance and shame and is just beginning to fi nd new opportunities and voices for expression, then now is exactly the wrong time to even think about campaigns of suppression. Suppressing pornography will harm women struggling to develop their own sexualities.
Child Pornography Child pornography is a form of child sexual exploita- tion. Children used for the production of sexually explicit materials, who are usually between the ages of 6 and 16, are motivated by friendship, interest in sexuality, off ers of money, or threats. Younger children may be unaware that their photographs are being used sexually. A number of these children are related to the photographer. Many children who have been exploited in this way exhibit distress and poor adjustment; they may suff er from depression, anxiety, and guilt. Others engage in destructive and antisocial behavior. Digital cameras and smartphones with cameras, plus the ability to download photographs onto computers, have made this into what some call the “golden age of child pornography.” Children and teenagers have been reported taking pictures of each other and posting them on the Internet or sending them to each other, a practice called “sexting.” (See Chapter 1 for discussion of sexting.) Th e fact that the possession of such images is a crime does not deter people from placing or viewing them on the Internet. Laws governing obscenity and child pornography already exist and, for the most part, can be applied to cases involv- ing the Internet to adequately protect minors. Unlike some sexually explicit mate- rial, child pornography has been found to be patently off ensive and therefore not within the zone of protected free speech. Internet child pornography is common.
Censorship, Sexually Explicit Material, and the Law
To censor means to examine in order to suppress or delete anything considered objectionable. Censorship occurs when the government, private groups, or individuals impose their moral or political values on others by suppressing words, ideas, or images they deem off ensive. Obscenity, as noted previously, is the state of being contrary to generally accepted standards of decency or moral- ity. During the fi rst half of the twentieth century, under American obscenity laws, James Joyce’s Ulysses and the works of D. H. Lawrence were prohibited, Havelock Ellis’s Studies in the Psychology of Sex was banned, nude paintings were removed from gallery and museum walls, and everything but chaste kisses was banned from the movies for years.
“ Congress shall make no law . . . abridging the freedom of speech, or of
the press . . .
—First Amendment to the Constitution of the United States
“ A dirty book is seldom a dusty one.
—Anonymous
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U.S. Supreme Court decisions in the 1950s and 1960s eliminated much of the legal framework supporting literary censorship on the national level. But censorship continues to fl ourish on the state and local levels, especially among schools and libraries. Th e women’s health book Th e New Our Bodies, Ourselves has been a frequent object of attack because of its feminist perspective and descriptions of lesbian sexuality. More recently, two children’s books have been added to the list of most censored books: Lesléa Newman’s Heather Has Two Mommies and Michael Willhoite’s Daddy’s Roommate. Both books have come under attack because they describe children in healthy lesbian couple and gay couple families. Judy Blume’s books for teenagers, J. D. Salinger’s Th e Catcher in the Rye, and the Sports Illustrated swimsuit issue are regular items on banned- publications lists. And exhibits of the photographs taken by the late Robert Mapplethorpe have been strenuously attacked by the more conservative groups for “promoting” homoeroticism.
Obscenity Laws Sexually explicit material itself is not illegal, but materials defi ned as legally obscene are. It is diffi cult to arrive at a legal defi nition of obscenity for determining whether a specifi c illustration, photograph, novel, or fi lm is obscene. Traditionally, U.S. courts have considered material obscene if it tended to corrupt or deprave its user. Over the years, the law has been debated in a number of court cases. Th is process has resulted in a set of crite- ria for determining what is obscene:
■ Th e dominant theme of the work must appeal to prurient sexual inter- ests and portray sexual conduct in a patently off ensive way.
■ Taken as a whole, the work must be without serious literary, artistic, political, or scientifi c value.
■ A “reasonable” person must fi nd the work, when taken as a whole, to possess no social value.
“ If a man is pictured chopping off a woman’s breast, it only gets an “R”
rating; but if, God forbid, a man is pictured kissing a woman’s breast, it gets an “X” rating. Why is violence more acceptable than tenderness?
—Sally Struthers (1948–)
Two of the most heavily censored books in America are Lesléa Newman’s Heather Has Two Mommies and Michael Willhoite’s Daddy’s Roommate (shown here). These books are opposed because they depict a lesbian couple family and a gay couple family, respectively.
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Th e problem with these criteria, as well as the earlier standards, is that they are highly subjective. For example, who is a reasonable person? Most of us would probably fi nd that a reasonable person has opinions regarding obscenity that closely resemble our own. (Otherwise, we would think that he or she was unreasonable.) However, there are many instances in which “reasonable people” disagree about whether material has social value. In 1969, the U.S. Supreme Court ruled, in Stanley v. Georgia, that private possession of obscene material in one’s home is not illegal (Sears, 1989). Th is does not, however, apply to child pornography. As we saw earlier, our evaluation of sexually explicit material is closely related to how we feel about such material. Our judgments are based not on reason but on emotion. Justice Potter Stewart’s exasperation in Jacobelis v. Ohio (1965) reveals a reasonable person’s frustration in trying to defi ne pornography: “But I know it when I see it.”
The Issue of Child Protection In 1988, the United States passed the Child Protection and Obscenity Enforcement Act, which supports stiff penalties for individuals involved in the production, distribution, and possession of child pornography. Since then, the development and distribution of child pornogra- phy, as well as minors’ access to online pornography, has been the focus of the U.S. Congress, resulting in the passing of numerous legislative acts. As you can see in Table 18.1, the bills have most often been turned down by the courts, usually based on protection of free speech; however, there have been a few instances of the courts upholding the law. Th e Communications and Decency Act of 1996 tried to address the prob- lem of sexual exploitation of children and teens over the Internet by making it a crime to send obscene or indecent messages to minors via e-mail, chat rooms, and websites (Biskupic, 2004). In 1997, the U.S. Supreme Court ruled that the statute was not constitutional because it violated the First Amend- ment’s guarantee of free speech. In two subsequent rulings, the Court rejected the law that made it a crime to send an indecent message online to a person under age 18 and the ban on computer-generated “virtual” child pornography and other fake images of sex, saying that the law could have banned works of art (Biskupic, 2002, 2003a, 2004). However, in 2008, the U.S. Supreme Court upheld the Child Obscenity and Pornography Act of 2003, a law that made it a crime to produce or possess sexually explicit images of children as well as to “pander” to willing audiences through advertising, presenting, dis- tributing, or soliciting such material. Th e 2003 law applies even if the mate- rial consists solely of computer-generated images or digitally altered photographs of adults, and even if the off er of material is fraudulent (e.g., the material does not exist) (Greenhouse, 2008; Mears, 2008). Justice Antonin Scalia, writing for the majority, noted, “Off ers to provide and obtain child pornography are categorically excluded from the First Amendment” (quoted in Greenhouse, 2008). Free-speech proponents question whether mainstream movies or inno- cent photographs of babies and young children, for example, might now be subject to prosecution. Another law intended to keep adult material away from Net-surfi ng children is the Child Online Protection Act (COPA). Passed in 1998, it sought to require Internet users to give an adult ID before accessing a commercial site containing “adult” materials (Miller, 2000). Th e law has been blocked twice by the U.S. Supreme Court. Table 18.1 provides a summary of congressional
“ I would like to see an end to all obscenity laws in my lifetime. I don’t know that it
will happen, but it’s my goal. If I can leave any kind of legacy at all, it will be that I helped expand the parameters of free speech.
—Larry Flynt (1942–)
“ To slurp or not to slurp at the fountain of fi lth is a decision to which each of us is
entitled.
—Stephen Kessler
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eff orts to protect children from online pornography and subsequent court rul- ings. In its 2004 ruling, the U.S. Supreme Court stated that the use of fi ltering software on home computers might be the best method of shielding children from pornography while preserving the rights of adults. Justice Kennedy wrote for the majority, stating that the Court presumes that any government attempts to limit explicit materials on the web are unconstitutional (Biskupic, 2004). In 2007, COPA was again struck down. A U.S. district court judge ruled that the defendant (the federal government) had failed to show that COPA is the least restrictive, most eff ective alternative in achieving the goal of shielding minors from online pornography and that COPA is impermissibly vague and over- broad. Th e judge also noted that “perhaps we do the minors harm if First Amendment protections, which they will inherit fully, are chipped away in the name of their protection” (U.S. District Court, Eastern District of Pennsylvania, 2007). In January 2009, COPA ended more than a decade after Congress had approved it. Th e U.S. Supreme Court rejected the government’s fi nal eff ort to revive the law by turning away the appeal without comment (“Internet pornog- raphy law dies quietly in Supreme Court,” 2009). With millions of children accessing the Internet from home, serious ques- tions must be asked about their access to certain kinds of information, pic- tures, graphics, videos, animation, and interactive experiences. Government censorship, academic freedom, constitutionally protected speech, child safety concerns, public health dilemmas—these and other troublesome issues are at the core of the Internet–free-speech debate. Our inability to fi nd criteria for objectively defi ning obscenity makes it potentially dangerous to censor such material. We may end up using our own personal standards to restrict speech otherwise guaranteed by the First Amend- ment. By enforcing our own biases, we could endanger the freedom of others.
“ Murder is a crime. Describing murder is not. Sex is not a crime. Describing sex is.
—Bill Margold (1943–)
“ I may disagree with what you say but I will defend to the death your right to
say it.
—Voltaire (1694–1778)
SOURCE: Adapted from “Congress’ Attempts at Limits Have Faced Several Obstacles,” USA Today, June 30, 2004, p. 6A (Years 1996–2004). Reprinted with permission.
TABLE 18.1 • Congressional Eff orts to Protect Children From Online Pornography and Court Rulings
1996 The Communications Decency Act is passed by Congress, banning the posting or sending of obscene or indecent messages on the Internet to persons under age 18.
1998 The Child Online Protection Act (COPA) is passed by Congress, targeting material “harmful to minors” only on commercial websites. The age of those protected is lowered to under 17. COPA is challenged by the American Civil Liberties Union and online publishers on the grounds that it violates free-speech rights.
1999 The Communications Decency Act is rejected by the U.S. Supreme Court, calling it too vague and broad.
2000 COPA is struck down by a U.S. appeals court citing the statute’s attempt to set “community standards” for the Internet. COPA defi ned materials that should be banned as those that “the average person, applying contemporary community standards, would fi nd . . . designed to appeal to . . . the prurient interest.”
2002 The Supreme Court rules that the use of community standards does not, by itself, make COPA too broad.
2003 A U.S. appeals court again rejects COPA, saying that the law is not the least restrictive way the government can shield minors from online porn.
2004 COPA is not permitted to take eff ect by ruling of the U.S. Supreme Court. The justices suggest that the law is likely unconstitutional and that software computer fi lters may be a less restrictive way to screen sexually explicit materials. The statute is sent back to a lower court.
2007 U.S. district court judge issues a permanent injunction against COPA, stating that it violates the First and Fifth Amendments of the U.S. Constitution. The federal government appeals the ruling.
2009 COPA ends as the U.S. Supreme Court turns away the government’s fi nal attempt to revive the law.
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• Prostitution Th e exchange of sexual behaviors such as intercourse, fellatio, anal intercourse, discipline and bondage, and obscene insults, for money and/or goods, is called prostitution. More recently, instead of the term “prostitute,” the terms “sex worker” and “commercial sex worker” have often been used, particularly by prostitutes, to identify themselves and other work in the “sex industry” they might do such as phone sex, exotic dancing, Internet sex, and acting in sexu- ally explicit fi lms. Many individuals who enter prostitution do so for monetary gains; hence, prostitution can represent a form of work. However, given that some research shows negative aspects of prostitution and that some prostitutes are coerced by a third party, some feminists are uncomfortable with connoting prostitution as a type of sex work and are hesitant to “celebrate the existence of a market for commoditized sex” (Davidson, 2002). We have decided to use the term “prostitution/prostitute,” to distinguish it from other types of “sex work.” Yet, we recognize that “sex work” is a preferred term by many prosti- tutes and is becoming more frequently used to describe prostitution. Boys and girls as well as men and women, including transvestites and trans- sexuals, work as prostitutes. By far the most common form of prostitution is women selling sex to men. Th e second most common is male prostitutes mak- ing themselves available to men. Less common is males selling sex to females. Prostitution between two women is rare. A growing international market of child sex slaves has fueled the economies of developing countries and spawned a multibillion-dollar industry commonly referred to as “sex travel” (see the “Th ink About It” box on page 612). Male customers of female prostitutes, called “johns,” represent a wide range of occupations, ethnicities, ages, and marital statuses. Although the seeking of prostitution is often considered a natural part of the masculine sexual experi- ence, research has shown that most men do not seek prostitutes and very few are regular customers (Monto, 2004). Men go to prostitutes for many reasons. Some want to experience a certain sexual behavior that their partner is unwill- ing to try, or they may not have a regular partner. Some desire to have sex with someone having a certain image, such as sexy or very athletic looking, and some customers fi nd that the illicit nature of being with a prostitute is attractive. Some like the anonymity of being sexual with a prostitute: No courting is required, there are no postsex expectations, and it is less entangling than having an aff air. Some men with very active sex lives simply want more sexual partners. Nonsexual reasons, such as companionship, sympathy, and friendship, can also be motives for seeking prostitutes. Finally, some young men go to a prostitute as their fi rst sexual experience (Bernstein, 2001; Brents, Jackson, & Hausbeck, 2010; Jordon, 1997; Monto, 2004; Xantidis & McCabe, 2000). Curiously, a study of 140 men from large cities in the Midwest and on the West Coast who have used prostitutes found that 6 in 10 men were currently in a sexual relationship, only one third reported that they enjoyed sex with a female prostitute, and 57% reported that they had tried to stop using prostitutes. Th e study also found that the common impression that men seek prostitutes when sexually dissatisfi ed with marital sex was only mildly supported, and the data did not support the notion that men seek “unusual” sexual behaviors such as bondage with a female prostitute. Nearly 30% indi- cated that they had used alcohol prior to visiting a prostitute (Sawyer, Metz, Hinds, & Brucker, 2001–2002; Weitzer, 2005).
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Females Working in Prostitution
Determining the number of women who are prostitutes is diffi cult for many reasons, including diff erent defi nitions of prostitution as well the secrecy often involved with the accepting of money for sex. Some studies of female prostitutes and their male clients can give us an idea of the prevalence of female prostitutes, although the numbers may not refl ect the true prevalence because the stigma associated with prostitution may result in underreporting. Sociologist Edward Laumann and his colleagues (1994) report that 16% of the men surveyed ever paid for sex. A more recent study of a representative sample of men from around the world found that, on average, about 9–10% of the men had purchased sex from a female prostitute in the past 12 months (Carael, Slaymaker, Lyerla, & Sarkar, 2006). A study of 2,665 British men completing a health-screening questionnaire found that 10% reported pay- ing for sex over the decade 1990 to 2000, with 96% of these reporting paying women and 4% paying men (Groom & Nandwani, 2006). And, in a national study of 4,545 Norwegian men, 13% reported ever paying for sex (Schei & Stigum, 2010).
Sex as Work Many women who accept money or drugs for sexual activities do not consider themselves prostitutes. Prostitutes often identify themselves as “working girls” or “sex workers,” probably an accurate description of how they perceive themselves in relation to sex. Common, but more pejorative, terms are “whore” and “hooker.” Th ey are usually sex workers not because they like anonymous sex and diff erent partners per se, but because they perceive it as good-paying work. Th ey generally do not expect to enjoy sex with their cus- tomers and avoid emotional intimacy by drawing boundaries around their emotional selves, thereby dissociating their physical sexuality from their inner selves. Th ey separate sex as a physical expression for which they are paid from sex as an expression of intimacy and pleasure (Brents et al., 2010). Two pros- titutes who work in Nevada’s legal brothels (see discussion of Nevada’s brothels on page 615) talk about the diff erence between sex at work and sex at home (quoted in Brents et al., 2010). Many prostitutes don’t kiss their clients; one said, “You don’t get personal. Kissing is personal and romantic.” In contrast to clients, sex with husbands or boyfriends is where “I really put my feelings into it, and I give him all my love, you know, I’m giving him me.”
Entrance Into Prostitution Many women begin working as prostitutes in their younger years, even in their early teens (Albert, Warner, Hatcher, Trussell, & Bennett, 1995; Dittman, 2004). Analysis of the National Longitudinal Study of Adolescent Health, a nationally representative sample of 13,294 U.S. ado- lescents, found that 3.5% of these adolescents (32.1% of whom were girls) had ever exchanged sex for drugs or money (Edwards, Iritani, & Hallfors, 2006). Childhood sexual abuse is often a factor in both adolescent girls’ and boys’ entrance into prostitution, for two reasons (Widom & Kuhns, 1996). First, sexual abuse increases the likelihood that a preadolescent or adolescent will become involved in deviant street culture and activities. Physically and sexually abused youths are more likely to be rejected by their conventional peers and to become involved in delinquent activities. Second, one major reason young people fl ee home is parental abuse—generally sexual abuse for girls and physi- cal abuse for boys.
“ Identifying women as sexual beings whose responsibility is the sexual service
of men is the social base for gender specifi c slavery.
—Kathleen Berry
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think about it
An estimated 12.3 million adults and children worldwide are forced into prostitution and labor. Called human traffi cking, this involuntary servitude is an estimated $32 billion industry aff ecting 161 countries around the globe (Polaris Project, 2010). According to the United Nations International Children’s Emergency Fund (UNICEF), as many as 2 million children are forced into prostitution in the global commercial sex trade (U.S. Department of State, 2010). With profi ts soaring and prosecution diffi cult, this patho- logical phenomenon shows no signs of abating. Families may sometimes feel they have little choice but to send their children into deplorable situations because, for example, they are simply too poor to feed their children. Increased trade across borders, lack of education (including sexuality education) of children and their parents, inadequate legislation, lack of or poor law enforcement, the eroticization of children by the media—all have contributed to commercial sexual exploitation of children (Chelala, 2000). In eastern and southern Africa, children who are orphaned as a result of AIDS may lack the support they need from other family members. Children from industrialized countries may be fl eeing abusive homes. In Southeast Asia, attitudes and practices perpetuate the low status of girls (Sternberg, 2005a). Sex traffi cking of children and young teens is not limited to countries other than the United States. Nearly 300,000 American children and teens, most of them young girls, are at risk for sex traf- fi cking (Polaris Project, 2010; The Advocates for Human Rights, 2009; U.S. Department of State, 2010). Most of those traffi cked into the United States are from Latin America, Southeast Asia, and eastern Europe. The Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI) estimates that tens of thousands of children and young women have been traffi cked into the United States. These victims, both girls and boys, range in age from 9 to 19, with the average being 11. Many of these children and young teens are runaways or kids who have been abandoned, whereas others are from “good families” or lured or coerced by skillful predators who promise jobs, money, clothing, and modeling careers. Pimps move these young people from state to state, which makes this a federal
Human Traffi cking: International Child and Teen Prostitution
matter. In 2003, the FBI initiated a project called Lost Innocence, which specializes in child and teen sex traffi cking (Fang, 2005; FBI, 2010; “Teen Girls Tell Their Stories,” 2006). This project has successfully rescued more than 1,200 children and has resulted in the conviction of over 600 pimps and madams. Children who enter sexual servitude at an early age suff er profound physical and psychological consequences. They can become malnourished, be at an increased risk for STIs including HIV/AIDS, and suff er feelings of guilt and inadequacy, to name just a few of the eff ects. In the United States, the Traffi cking Victims Protection Act of 2000 made human traffi cking within the U.S. a federal crime. Further, the law allows women traffi cked into the U.S. to receive permanent residence status after 3 years from the issuance of a temporary residence visa (Victims of Traffi cking and Violence Pro- tection Act of 2000, 2000). Also, according to U.S. law, Americans caught paying children for sex while in foreign countries can be prosecuted in the United States (National Center for Missing and Exploited Children, 2011). Education, social mobilization and awareness building, legal support, social services, psychosocial counseling, and prosecution of perpetrators are but a few of the strategies that have been used to address this problem. Much more must be done to protect the endangered lives and well- being of the world’s children.
Think Critically 1. What, in your opinion, contributes to the demand for
child sex workers? 2. What more do you think could be done to address sex
traffi cking worldwide? 3. What, if any, additional laws should the United States
enact to prevent the traffi cking of children and young women into the United States?
Girls usually are introduced into prostitution by pimps, men upon whom prostitutes are emotionally and fi nancially dependent. Prostitutes give their pimps the money they earn; in turn, pimps provide housing, buy them clothes and jewelry, and off er them protection on the streets. Many girls and young women are “sweet-talked” into prostitution by promises of money, protection, and companionship. Adolescent prostitutes are more likely than adults to have pimps.
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Once involved with pimps, women are frequently abused by them. Th e women also run the risk of abuse and violence from their customers. Prostitutes who solicit customers on the streets (called streetwalkers) are especially vulnerable.
Personal Background and Motivation Adult prostitutes are often women who were targets of early male sexual aggression, had extensive sexual experience in adolescence, were rejected by peers because of sexual activities, and were not given adequate emotional support by their parents. Th ere are high rates of physical and sexual abuse (including intrafamilial abuse) and neglect in their childhoods (Widom & Kuhns, 1996). Often, their parents failed to provide them with a model of aff ectionate interaction. As a result, as the girls grew up, they tended to be anxious, to feel lonely and isolated, and to be unsure of their own identity. Another common thread running through the lives of most pros- titutes is an economically disadvantaged background. However, there is a wide range of motivations and backgrounds among those who enter this “oldest profession.” As one ex-prostitute notes (quoted in Queen, 2000):
When I began sex work, I did not expect the range of education and life experience I found in my colleagues. Like many people, I believed prostitution was mainly engaged in by women who have no options. But I ended up working with women who were saving to buy houses, put kids through school, put themselves through school, start businesses.
Research has shown that adolescent prostitutes describe their general psycho- logical state of mind as very negative, depressed, unhappy, or insecure at the time they fi rst entered prostitution. Many had run away from home and engaged in sexual risk behaviors. Th ere were high levels of drug use, including alcohol, meth- amphetamines, marijuana, cocaine, and heroin, and many of those who became drug addicts later turned to prostitution to support their drug habit (Edwards et al., 2006; Potterat, Rothenberg, Muth, Darrow, & Phillips-Plummer, 1998). Th eir emotional state made them particularly vulnerable to pimps. No single motive seems to explain why someone becomes a prostitute. It is probably a combination of environmental, social, fi nancial, and personal factors that leads a woman to this profession. When women describe the most attractive things about life in the prostitution subculture, they describe them in monetary and material terms. One prostitute notes, “I said to myself how can I do these horrible things and I said money, money, money” (quoted in Weisberg, 1990). Compared with a minimum-wage job, which may be the only alternative, pros- titution appears to be an economically rational decision. Prostitutes are aware of the psychological and physical costs. A 15-year lon- gitudinal study of 130 sex workers found that sex work was associated with higher incidences of illness—including STIs, mental health problems, and sub- stance abuse—and death (Ward & Day, 2006). Prostitutes fear physical and sexual abuse, AIDS and other STIs, harassment, jail, and legal expenses. Th ey are aware as well of the damage done to their self-esteem from stigmatization and rejection by family and society, negative feelings toward men and sex, bad working conditions, lack of a future, and control by pimps. Many do not enjoy being a prostitute, and one international study found that nearly 90% wanted out of prostitution (Farley et al., 2003). In many countries, the availability of prostitutes has become part of the tourist economy, with the money paid to prostitutes an important part of the
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national income (“Asia,” 1996; Baker, 1995; Sternberg, 2005a). In developing countries such as India, Th ailand, and the Philippines, where social and economic conditions combine with a dominant male hierarchy and acceptance of a sexual double standard, prostitution is seen by many people in those countries as a necessary and accepted occupation.
Forms of Female Prostitution Female prostitutes work as streetwalkers, in brothels, in massage parlors, as call girls or escorts, and solicit heavily on the Internet. Some academics believe that the great majority of prostitutes in the United States live indoor and, for the most part, unnoticed lives.
Streetwalkers Estimates vary, but approximately 10% of American prosti- tutes are streetwalkers (Queen, 2000). Streetwalking is usually the fi rst type of prostitution in which adolescents become involved; it is also the type they pre- fer, despite its being at the bottom of the hierarchy of prostitution and having the greatest cultural stigma. Many advertise by dressing provocatively and hang- ing out at locales noted for prostitution. Women working as streetwalkers are often high school dropouts or runaways who fl ed abusive homes and went into prostitution simply to survive. Not all streetwalkers come out of desperate situ- ations, however; some are married and have satisfactory sexual relationships in their private lives. Because streetwalkers make their contacts through public solicitation, they are more visible and more likely to be arrested. Without the ability to easily screen their customers, streetwalkers are more likely to be beaten, robbed, or raped. One study found that more than 95% of street prostitutes had been sexually assaulted and 75% had been raped (Farley, 2003). Th e study also found that people often consider prostitutes to be “unrapable” or even deserving of being raped. Streetwalkers are also susceptible to severe mental health problems. A qualitative study of 29 street youths engaged in the sex trade found that they had a high rate of attempted suicide (Kidd & Kral, 2002). Further, most women interviewed in a study of streetwalkers in Scotland indi- cated that their work had a profoundly negative impact on their self-esteem and their life with family, friends, and partners (McKeganey, 2006).
“ Prostitutes are degraded and punished by society; it is their humiliation through
their bodies—as much as their bodies— which is being purchased.
—Phyllis Chester (1940–)
Because of their inability to screen clients or control their working conditions, streetwalkers are the most likely of prostitutes to be victimized.
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Streetwalkers suff er more occupational hazards such as assault, kidnapping, threats by a weapon, robbery, and rape than the so-called indoor prostitutes of the brothels, massage parlors, and escort services or independent call girls, or Internet purveyors. Th ey have less control over working conditions such as free- dom to refuse clients and particular sexual behaviors, are more likely to have been coercively traffi cked into prostitution, have less access to protective services, and depend more on pimps than indoor workers do (Weitzer, 2005). In contrast to other types of prostitutes, streetwalkers’ sexual activity with clients typically is less varied and shorter (Hock, 2007). Fellatio was their most common activity; less than one quarter of their contacts involved sexual inter- course. In a study of men arrested for soliciting female prostitutes in three western U.S. cities, fellatio was the most common behavior experienced in prior contact with a prostitute (Monto, 2001).
Brothels Brothels, also called “houses of prostitution,” “whorehouses,” and “houses of ill repute,” can be found in most large cities but, in the United States, are legal only in 10 rural counties in Nevada. A study of women work- ing as prostitutes at the Nevada brothels found that, prior to coming to the brothels, they had worked as illegal prostitutes and wanted relief from the stress of such work, had been working in other legal sex work such as stripping or in adult movies, and had worked in low-paying, service-industry jobs and needed a better paying job to survive (Brents et al., 2010). Prostitution in brothels has higher status than streetwalking, and it is safer. Indeed, protection from violence is a major advantage of Nevada’s legal brothels; they are the saf- est of all environments in which women sell consensual sex for money (Brents & Hausbeck, 2005). Several safety precautions, such as panic buttons, listening devices, and management surveillance, are used in Nevada brothels (Weitzer, 2005). Further, the Nevada brothel prostitutes are required to have regular medical and STI exams of which one outcome is less STI transmission. Also, to help prevent STIs, men who pay for services must submit to inspection of their genitals by the prostitutes. A major attraction of brothels is their comfort- able and friendly atmosphere. In brothels, men can have a cup of coff ee or a drink, watch television, or casually converse with the women. Many customers are regulars. Sometimes, they go to the brothel simply to talk or relax rather than to engage in sex. Researchers from the University of Nevada, Las Vegas, conducted an in- depth peer-reviewed study of the women who are prostitutes in the Nevada brothels. Th e fi ndings of the nearly 40 women who were interviewed were published in their 2010 book, Th e State of Sex (Brents, Jackson, & Hausbeck, 2010). From the fi ndings, the researchers stated that “we do not believe that selling sex itself is inherently harmful to women.” And they found no evidence of traffi cking or women working against their will. Th ey concluded that Nevada’s legal brothels are preferable to criminalization of prostitution and that they prevent violence, STIs, and severe exploitation, but that improved labor practices are needed. Th e fi ndings fueled the debate on prostitution among those who were critical of the study and believe that prostitution exploits women and should be ended (Schmidt, 2011). Male brothels, often called “stables,” are common in Southeast Asia and in some large cities in the United States. Th ese stables are where male prostitutes are available for sex with male customers, although there are also some male brothels for female customers called “stud farms.”
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Masseuses Th ere are relatively few brothels today; most have been replaced by massage parlors. Th e major diff erence between brothels and massage parlors is that brothels present themselves as places specifi cally dedicated to prostitu- tion, whereas massage parlors try to disguise their intent. Most massage parlors provide only massages. However, some massage parlors are fronts to prostitu- tion and off er customers any type of sexual service they wish for a fee, which is negotiated with the masseuses. But most are “massage and masturbation only” parlors. Th ese so-called M-and-M parlors are probably the most wide- spread; their primary service is the “local,” “hand fi nishing,” or “relief ” massage in which there is only masturbation. By limiting sex to masturbation, these parlors are able to avoid legal diffi culties, because most criminal sex statutes require genital penetration, oral sex, discussion of fees, and explicit solicitation for criminal prosecution. Women who work M-and-M parlors are frequently referred to as “hand whores”; these women, however, often do not consider themselves prostitutes, although they may go into prostitution later. Many masseuses run newspaper and website ads for their services and work on an out-call basis, meeting customers at their hotel rooms or homes.
Call Girls Call girls have the highest status among prostitutes, experience less social stigma than other prostitutes, and have among the safest working envi- ronments as they can experience more control over their working conditions and who they have as customers than streetwalkers. Th ey are usually better educated than other prostitutes, often come from a middle-class background, and dress fashionably. A call girl’s fee is high—much higher than those of a streetwalker or masseuse. She operates through contacts and referrals; instead of the street, she takes to the telephone or computer and arranges to meet her customers at the customer’s residence or at his hotel room or hers. Th e call girl is the one, not the agency, who arranges for the sex, thus providing the agency some protection from prosecution. Another major diff erence between call girls and streetwalkers is that streetwalkers usually have fl eeting interactions with customers whereas call girls are much more likely to provide “emotional work,”
Prostitution is legal and subject to government regulation in 10 rural counties in Nevada.
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such as counseling and befriending their customers (Lever & Dolnick, 2000; Lucas, 1998). Further, call girls often have interactions that resemble a dating experience involving conversation and receiving gifts, hugs, kisses, massages, and oral sex from the clients (Weitzer, 2005). Call girls often work for escort services that advertise through newspapers and the web. Escort agencies supply attractive escorts for social occasions and never advertise that they provide sexual services, although most do. Agencies usually specialize in one type of sex, that is, female-for-male, male-for-male, female-for-female, or male-for-female. Some off er transgender prostitutes. Not all escorts work through an agency; some are independent and communicate with clients themselves (“Prostitution,” n.d.).
Males Working in Prostitution
Although there has been extensive research into prostitution, most of it con- cerns female prostitution. Most research on male prostitution focuses on street hustlers, the male equivalent of streetwalkers. Th ere are other kinds of male prostitutes, such as call boys, rent boys, masseurs, and prostitutes who work out of gay bars, who have not been extensively investigated. Male sex workers represent varied backgrounds ranging from those with few literacy skills to middle-class and wealthy men working in varied conditions such as the street, clubs, and escort agencies. Increasingly, they are utilizing escort agencies and making their availability known through the Internet (Minichiello, Marino, & Browne, 2000). Few males who work as prostitutes are gigolos—heterosexual men providing sexual services for women in exchange for money. Th eir custom- ers are usually wealthy, middle-aged women who seek sex, a social “compan- ion,” or a young man. Th e gigolo phenomenon illustrates that women, like men, will pay for sex. Another type of male prostitute is kept boys—young men fi nancially supported for sexual services by an older “sugar daddy.” Th e overwhelming majority of male prostitutes sell their sexual services to other males. Young male prostitutes are called “chickens,” and the customers who are attracted to them are known as “chickenhawks.” Th e most common types of sexual behaviors male prostitutes engage in are fellatio and anal sex. Male sex workers are usually expected to ejaculate during the sexual encounters. Because of the refractory period, the number of clients seen by male sex workers in a short period of time is limited, in contrast to female sex workers. Women usually do not have orgasms during sex with a client; further, women do not have a refractory period. Most males are introduced to prostitution through the infl uence of their peers. A typical male begins when a friend suggests that he can make “easy money” on the streets. Hustlers sometimes live alone or with roommates, whereas female streetwalkers usually live with their pimps. However, one inter- view study of 90 street-based male sex workers (mean age 32 years) found that they had high levels of homelessness. Th ese men also had contact with the criminal justice system for drug and property off enses, and a high rate of attempted suicide (Kidd & Kral, 2002; Ross, Timson, Williams, Amos, & Bowen, 2007). Male prostitution is shaped by three subcultures: the peer delinquent subcul- ture, the gay subculture, and the transvestite subculture. Th e peer delinquent subculture, an antisocial street subculture, is characterized by male and female prostitution, drug dealing, panhandling, theft, and violence. Young people in
Street hustlers, like female prostitutes, are often young adults with drug, alcohol, and health issues.
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this culture sell sex for the same reason they sell drugs or stolen goods—to make money. Teenage hustlers may not consider themselves gay, because they are sell- ing sex rather than seeking erotic gratifi cation. Instead, they may identify them- selves as a bisexual or heterosexual person. Th ey may fi nd their customers in urban “sex zones”—adult bookstores, topless bars, and adult movie houses— which cater to the sexual interests of people of all sexual orientations. And they are more likely to work the street than bars. Recall that earlier in this section we mentioned that 3.5% of 13,294 adolescents of a nationally representative study reported that they had exchanged sex for drugs or money. Two thirds of these youth (68%) were boys. For both genders, the odds of having exchanged sex for money or drugs were higher for those who had used drugs, had run away from home, and were depressed (Edwards et al., 2006). In contrast to male delinquent prostitutes, gay male prostitutes engage in prostitution as a means of expressing their sexuality and making money. Th ey identify themselves as gay and work primarily in gay neighborhoods or gay bars. Many are “pushed-away” children who fl ed their homes when their parents and peers rejected them because of their sexual orientation. Th e three most important reasons they give for engaging in prostitution are money, sex, and fun/adventure. Very little is known about male transvestite prostitutes. Th ey are a diverse group, distinct from other male and female prostitutes, and they can be found in most major cities. Th eir clients are heterosexual, bisexual, and gay men. Many of their heterosexual clients believe that the transvestites are women, but others are aware that the prostitutes are transvestites. Another type of male prostitute is the she-male, a male who has undergone breast augmentation. Th e she-male’s client may mistakenly believe that the he is a she. Often, the client is another she-male or a male who knows that the prostitute is genitally a male (Blanchard, 1993).
Prostitution and the Law
Arrests for prostitution and calls for cleanups seem to be a communal ritual practiced by infl uential segments of the population to reassert their moral, political, and economic dominance. Th e arrests are symbolic of community disapproval, but they are often selective and ineff ective at ending prostitution. Female prostitution is the only sexual off ense for which women are extensively prosecuted; the male patron is seldom arrested. Prostitutes are subject to arrest for various activities, including vagrancy and loitering, but the most common charge is for solicitation. Solicitation—a word, gesture, or action that implies an off er of sex for sale—is defi ned vaguely enough that women, and men, who are not prostitutes occasionally are arrested on the charge because they act “suspi- ciously.” It is usually diffi cult to witness a direct transaction in which money passes hands, and such arrests are also complicated by involving the patron. Th ere are periodic attempts to repeal laws criminalizing prostitution because it is perceived as a victimless crime: Both the prostitute and the customer engage in it voluntarily. Other people, especially feminists, want to repeal such laws because they view prostitutes as being victimized by their pimps, their customers, the law enforcement system, and social stigmas (Barry, 1995; Bullough & Bullough, 1996; Valera, Sawyer, & Schiraldi, 2001). Reformers propose that prostitution be either legalized or decriminalized. In recent years, there has been a shift throughout the world from prohibition of
“ I regret to say that we of the FBI are powerless to act in cases of oral-genital
intimacy, unless it has in some way obstructed interstate commerce.
—J. Edgar Hoover (1895–1972)
“ Driven underground, prostitution became integrated into the underworld
of crime. Like the prohibition of liquor, the criminalization of prostitution became a self-fulfi lling prophecy. Like the birth control movement—which also began with the aim of elevating women’s status—the antiprostitution movement resulted in the professional and offi cial victimization of poor women.
—Ruth Rosen (1945–)
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prostitution to legalization, refl ecting new sexual norms and a new economic climate. For example, New South Wales of Australia, New Zealand, and Germany have decriminalized prostitution, and most Western European countries as well as Turkey, Senegal, Denmark and Greece, have eliminated some criminal aspects of prostitution. Th e Netherlands has decriminalized prostitution and legalized brothels. Th e United States still lags behind in changing prohibitionist policies (Brents et al., 2010). Th ose who support legalizing prostitution want to subject it to licensing and registration by police and health departments, as in Nevada and parts of Europe. Th ose who propose decriminalization want to remove criminal penal- ties for engaging in prostitution; prostitutes would be neither licensed nor registered. Many reformers believe that prostitutes should be accorded the same political and legal protections and rights of all citizens (Davidson, 2002). Some prostitutes have organized groups like the North American Task Force on Pros- titution (NTFP), Prostitutes’ Education Network, and COYOTE (Call Off Your Old Tired Ethics) to push for decriminalization and support. NTFP’s goals include the repeal of existing prostitution laws, ensuring the rights of prostitutes and other sex workers, promoting the development of social support services for sex workers, and ending the public stigma associated with sex work. Whatever one’s opinion about decriminalizing adult prostitution, the crim- inalization of adolescent prostitution needs to be reevaluated. Treating juvenile prostitutes as delinquents overlooks the fact that in many ways adolescent prostitutes are more victims than criminals. As researchers and concerned oth- ers examine such social problems as the sexual and physical abuse of children, running away, and adolescent prostitution, they are discovering a disturbing interrelationship. Th e law, nevertheless, does not view adolescent prostitution as a response to victimization and an attempt to survive on the streets. Instead, it treats it as a criminal behavior and applies legal sanctions. A more appropri- ate response might be to off er counseling, halfway houses, alternative school- ing, and job training.
The Impact of HIV/AIDS and Other STIs
Prostitution has received increased attention as a result of the HIV/AIDS epidemic. Numerous studies have documented a high frequency of many STIs, including HIV, among female, male, and male-to-female transgender prostitutes (e.g., Cohan et al., 2006; Edwards et al., 2006; Jin et al., 2010; van Veen, Gotz, van Leeuwen, Prins, & van de Alaar, 2010). Th ere are sev- eral reasons female and male prostitutes are at higher risk than the general population. First, many prostitutes are injection drug users, and injection drug use is one of the primary ways of transmitting HIV infection. Prosti- tutes exchanging sex for crack in crack houses are also at high risk for HIV infection as well as other STIs. Second, prostitutes are at higher risk for STI/ HIV infection because they have numerous partners. Th ird, prostitutes do not always require their customers to use condoms. Male prostitutes are at even greater risk than female prostitutes because of their high-risk sexual practices, especially anal intercourse, and their high-risk gay/bisexual clien- tele (see Chapter 17 for discussion of anal intercourse and HIV risk). What can we learn from all of the above? Th at clients of prostitutes are putting themselves, as well as their partners, at high risk for HIV and other STIs if they do not use condoms.
“ Upon these women we have no right to turn our backs. Their wrongs are our
wrongs. Their existence is part of our problem. They have been created by the very injustice against which we protest.
—Carrie Chapman Catt (1859–1947)
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• Sexuality and the Law A basic tenet of our society is that all Americans are equal under the law. But state laws relating to sexuality vary from one state to another, with people having widely diff ering rights and privileges. Th ough most Americans don’t give much thought to the government’s decision making concerning their sexual lives, they generally agree that sexual behavior is private and that what occurs in their bedrooms is their own business. Th ey may even think that sexuality-related laws are for other people, not themselves. As a result, most Americans don’t think about how their lives can be impacted by the law depending on where they live or visit. Laws related to various aspects of human sexuality, such as HIV/AIDS, child sexual abuse, prostitution, and hate crimes based on sexual orientation and gender identity, have been discussed throughout the book. In this section, we discuss laws related to two specifi c sexuality-related areas: private, consensual sexual behavior between adults and same-sex marriage.
Legalizing Private, Consensual Sexual Behavior
Historically, the United States has enacted laws that criminalize certain sex-related behaviors, such as sexual harassment, rape, incest, sexual assault, public indecency, and prostitution. For the most part, there has been a strong consensus among Americans as to the need for and value of such laws. However, one area of sexual behavior, referred to as sodomy, has provoked considerable debate. Sodomy has had several defi nitions, including any sexual behaviors between members of the other or the same sex that cannot result in procreation (some of which were considered “crimes against nature”) and sexual behaviors con- sidered to be “homosexual acts.” Oral and anal sex are the behaviors typically considered to be sodomy. Rooted in sixteenth-century English laws prohibiting nonprocreative sex, the fi rst American antisodomy law was passed in 1610 in colonial Virginia; the penalty was death. In 1873, South Carolina became the last state to repeal capital punishment for sodomy. More recently, sodomy laws had been used to target individuals participating in same-sex behaviors (Greenberg, 2003; “Social Evolution Changed,” 2003). Every state had laws banning sodomy until 1961, when Illinois repealed its sodomy ban. By mid-2003, only 13 states had sodomy laws, of which nine states had laws prohibiting sodomy between both same-sex and other-sex partners, and four states outlawed sodomy between same-sex partners only. Civil rights activists and the gay community protested that the laws violated individual rights, were rarely enforced, and provided grounds for other types of discrimination based on sexual orientation. Other groups, particularly those that believe homosexuality is immoral, fought to retain the laws. In 2003, in Lawrence et al. v. Texas, the U.S. Supreme Court struck down, by a decisive 6–3 vote, the Texas law that banned sex between people of the same gender. Considered by many as a “watershed moment” in advancing sexual rights in America, the verdict reversed the Supreme Court’s 1986 ruling in Bowers v. Hardwick that upheld a state’s right (Georgia) to criminalize sodomy. Th e Court said that the Bowers ruling was incorrect then and is incorrect today. Th is landmark ruling also invalidated the antisodomy laws in the 13 remaining states that have them. Th ereafter, the sexual behaviors of consenting adults, in private—no matter the gender of the partners—was legal in every state.
“ I would rather be exposed to the inconveniences attending too much
liberty than to those attending too small a degree of it.
—Thomas Jeff erson (1743–1826)
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Th e Texas case originated in 1998 when John Geddes Lawrence and Tyron Garner were discovered having sex by a Harris County sheriff ’s offi cer who had entered Lawrence’s residence while responding to a false report about an armed intruder. Th ey were fi ned $200 each (Biskupic, 2003b) for violating state law prohibiting oral and anal sex between same-sex partners. In writing for the majority, Justice Anthony Kennedy (Supreme Court of the United States, 2003a) stated that
the case does involve two adults who, with full and mutual consent from each other, engaged in sexual practices common to a homosexual lifestyle. Th e petitioners [Lawrence and Garner] are entitled to respect for their private lives. Th e State cannot demean their existence or control their destiny by making their private sexual conduct a crime. Th e right to liberty under the Due Process Clause gives them the full right to engage in their conduct without intervention of the government.
Th e Lawrence et al. v. Texas ruling by the U.S. Supreme Court is considered a milestone ruling for gay rights advocates. For gay men in particular, not only did the decriminalization of same-sex behavior bring relief, but it also helped validate them as human beings and reduced some of the stigma they face. In recent years there have been several court rulings signifi cant to gay rights issues. A highlight of milestone court rulings in the United States at the time this book went to press is shown in Table 18.2. As discussed in Chapters 12 and 17, gay men and lesbian women can be fi red from their jobs, denied the opportunity to adopt children, denied custody of their own children, and denied housing because of their sexual orientation. To keep current on legal issues related to gay men and lesbian women, go to the Human Rights Cam- paign website: http://www.hrc.org.
Same-Sex Marriage
Th e right for same-sex couples to legally marry has become a major social and political issue in the United States. Table 18.2 presents a brief summary of major legal rulings on gay marriage in the United States. When this book was printed, marriage between same-sex individuals was legal in eight states (and the District of Columbia): Connecticut, Iowa, Massachusetts, Maryland, New Hampshire, New York, Washington, and Vermont. Comprehensive civil union or domestic partnership law was legal in nine states (and the District of Colum- bia): California, Delaware, Hawaii, Illinois, Nevada, New Jersey, Oregon, Rhode Island, and Washington (Movement Advancement Project, 2012). To learn of the status of individual state laws relative to same-sex marriage go to the Human Rights Campaign website: http://www.hrc.org and the Williams Institute (http://www.williamsinstitute.law.ucla.edu). Concerned that some states might legalize gay marriages, Congress in 1996 passed the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA), which defi ned marriage as a union between one man and one woman. By mid-2011, 12 states created their own version: Twelve prohibited gay marriage by statue and 29 by state constitu- tion. President Obama has expressed his opposition to the DOMA, and in February 2011 the Department of Justice said that it would no longer defend the law but would enforce it until the courts decide it constitutionality. Lawsuits challenging the DOMA are likely to reach the Supreme Court (Schwartz, 2011). Th e controversy surrounding same-sex marriage continues to be divisive in the United States even though more persons support gay marriage than ever before, with a slight majority supporting for the fi rst time in 2011 (see the box
“ Whether and to whom to marry, how to express sexual intimacy, and whether
and how to establish a family—these are among the most basic of every individual’s liberty and due process rights.
—Margaret Marshall, chief justice of the Massachusetts Supreme Court
(1944–)
“ In considering deviant behavior, it is wise to remember that it is not the prevalence
of deviance that triggers social reforms, but rather what deviance symbolizes.
—Ruth Rosen
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“Public Opinion About Gay and Lesbian Rights” in Chapter 17). Some oppo- nents to gay marriage declare themselves as “pro-family” and contend that same- sex couples do not fi t their defi nition of a family and hence should not receive similar legal rights as a “family.” See the “Th ink About It” box on page 623 to read a discussion on recent research on public opinion about whether gay cou- ples should be considered a family. While gay marriage remains an unsettled issue in the United States, over the past decade 10 countries legalized same-sex marriage beginning with the Netherlands in 2001. Several other countries have legalized same-sex part- nerships and off er spousal rights to same-sex couples, yet stop short of gay marriage (Bruni, 2011; Freedom to Marry, 2011). In June 2011, a landmark resolution was passed by the United Nations Human Rights Council reject- ing abuses against people based on their sexual orientation and commis- sioning a global report on discrimination against homosexuals and transgender persons (United Nations Human Rights Offi ce of the High Commissioner, 2011).
TABLE 18.2 • Recent Milestone Rulings Affi rming Gay Rights in the United States
1986 U.S. Supreme Court backs Georgia law that criminalizes sodomy.
1996 The federal Defense of Marriage Act was enacted, defi ning marriage as a “legal union between one man and woman” and stating that states do not have to recognize same-sex marriages from other states.
2000 Vermont becomes the fi rst state to legally recognize civil unions between same-sex couples, providing most of the same benefi ts of marriage.
2003 U.S. Supreme Court rejects Texas law that prohibited sex between adults of same sex, invalidating antisodomy laws in the 13 states that still had them.
2004 Same-sex marriage becomes legal in Massachusetts.
2005 The California Supreme Court issues the fi rst-of-its-kind ruling that recognizes co-parenting rights of same-sex couples.
2008 California becomes the second state to legalize gay marriage (for about 4 months), but voters later approve a constitutional amendment (Proposition 8) banning same-sex marriage.
2008 The Connecticut Supreme Court rules that same-sex couples have a legal right to marry.
2009 The California Supreme Court upholds a ban on same-sex marriage, ratifying voters’ decision in 2008.
2009 The Supreme Court of Iowa unanimously rejects state law that bans same-sex marriage.
2009 The Vermont legislature overrides the governor’s veto of a bill allowing gay men couples and lesbian women couples to marry, legalizing same-sex marriage, and becoming the fi rst state legislature to legalize same-sex marriage.
2009 Maine’s governor legalizes same-sex marriage in that state, but residents vote to overturn the law in the November polls.
2009 New Hampshire legalizes same-sex marriage.
2010 A U.S. district court rules California’s Proposition 8 unconstitutional, but the decision is being appealed and is expected to be decided by the U.S. Supreme Court.
2010 Congress legalizes same-sex marriage in the District of Columbia.
2010 Same-sex couples’ adoption of children becomes legal in Arkansas and Florida.
2011 New York passes a law legalizing same-sex marriage and recognizes gay marriage from other states.
2011 The military’s “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” policy that banned openly gay men and lesbian women from serving in the military is ended.
2012 Maryland and Washington legalize same-sex marriage.
2012 A U.S. appeals court struck down part of the Defense of Marriage Act that deprives married same-sex couples the same federal benefi ts accorded married other-sex couples.
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think about it
As we know, the family is a core component of society that is tied to many social institutions. Families have certain societal privileges such as inheritance and child rearing. Traditionalists, many of whom declare themselves as “pro-family,” defi ne family as a husband, a wife, and children, whereas progressive persons have expanded their defi nition to include other options such as same-sex couples. Whether the accepted societal defi nition remains the traditional man-woman couple or is expanded has far-reaching implications. For example, when same-sex couples are excluded from the legal defi nition of family, which they often are, their rights, such as the right to marry, are limited. Sociologist Brian Powell at Indiana University led a team of researchers in conducting three nationally representative surveys of the American public’s defi nition of family. The fi ndings from 2003 and 2006 were published in their book Counted Out: Same- Sex Relations and Americans’ Defi nitions of Family (Powell, Bolzen- dahl, Geist, & Steelman, 2010). A subsequent study was conducted in 2010. The major fi nding of these surveys is this: The American public has been moving steadily toward greater acceptance of same-sex couples as family units, particularly if they have children. Here are some of the specifi c fi ndings:
■ In 2010, about two thirds of respondents agreed that same- sex couples with children count as family units, but only about one half agreed if the couple did not have children. Just over half in 2003 believed that gay men and lesbian women living with children are families.
■ About 8 in 10 respondents considered cohabiting other-sex couples with children as family units, but only half thought the same about similar couples without children.
■ The proportion of respondents supporting gay marriage increased from about 4 in 10 in 2003 to slightly over half in 2010.
■ The proportion of respondents indicating that they did not have any friend or family who was gay decreased from 6 in 10 respondents in 2003 to 4 in 10 in 2010.
An Expanding Defi nition of “Family”: A Trend Leading to Further Legalization of Same-Sex Marriage?
■ Four in fi ve respondents indicated that they knew someone who was gay.
In contrasting the researchers’ fi ndings to prior laws and mores against interracial marriage, Powell stated, “We envision a day in the near future when same-sex families also will gain acceptance by a large plurality of the public” (quoted in Roberts, 2010). Powell also noted that he did not think that the American people are ready to embrace gay marriage but that they are ready to accept it (Roberts, 2010). Greater acceptance may result in increasing legal- ization of gay marriage as when public opinion toward a specifi c societal issue becomes consistently stronger, subsequent public policy and laws refl ecting the majority opinion sometimes follow. This is occurring now: More rights are being legalized for same- sex couples as the American public has become more accepting of gay couples.
Think Critically 1. How do you defi ne “a family”? Does the sexual orien-
tation of the couple or whether they have children impact your view?
2. Do you think that if more people accepted same-sex couples as family units more states would legalize same-sex marriage?
3. How would you explain the increase in the American public accepting same-sex couples as family units?
SOURCES: Powell, B., Bolzendahl, C., Geist, C., & Steelman, L. A. (2010). Counted out: Same-sex relations and Americans’ defi nitions of family. New York: Russell Sage Foundation; Powell, B. (2010, August). “Family” divided: Confl icting visions of “the American family.” Paper presented at the annual meeting of the American Sociological Association, Las Vegas, NV; Roberts, S. (2010, September 15). Study fi nds wider view of “family.” New York Times, p. A13.
Advocating Sexual Rights
Policymakers and advocates of free speech continue to scrutinize states’ sexuality laws and enforcement practices and to monitor and report on them. One such advocacy group is the Sexuality Information and Education Council of the United States (SIECUS), which states (n.d.):
Sexual rights are human rights, and they are based on the inherent freedom, dignity, and equality of all human beings. Sexual rights include the right to bodily integrity, sexual safety, sexual privacy, sexual pleasure, and sexual healthcare; the
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right to make free and informed sexual and reproductive choices; and the right to have access to sexual information based on sound scientifi c evidence.
In many ways, sexuality-related laws refl ect an ambivalence about sexuality in America’s culture. For some sexuality-related issues, there is not a consensus, although laws have been enacted. Th is is particularly evident with issues relating to sexuality education and abortion. Although some laws seem to be based on sexuality as something from which we must be protected, in other cases, the absence of laws speaks loudly. For example, many states have yet to protect against sexual harassment and discrimination based on sexual orientation, and every state has work to do in developing laws that support sexual rights and sexual health. Recall that in Chapter 1 we presented the World Association for Sexual Health’s Declaration of Sexual Rights, which identifi es 11 sexual rights. As discussed in various chapters of this book, the expression of many of these rights has been hampered by laws and social restriction. Further legal protection of fundamental sexual rights is needed for people to fully attain individual sexual health.
The world of commercial sex is one our society approaches with ambivalence. Society simultaneously condemns sexually explicit material and prostitution, yet provides both to customers. Because of confl icting attitudes and behaviors, our society rarely approaches the issues surrounding sexually explicit material and prostitution with disinterested objectivity. Now, in every state, adults can legally participate in private consensual sexual behavior with other adults, no matter what their sexual orientation is; but other fundamental sexual rights remain hampered by laws or social restriction.
Final Thoughts
Summary Sexually Explicit Material in Contemporary America
■ Th ere is a lack of agreement about what constitutes erotica, pornography, and obscenity because they are subjective terms. Th e term sexually explicit material is a more neutral term.
■ Th e viewing of sexually explicit materials is becoming more common.
■ Th e increasing availability of erotic fi lms in the privacy of the home via DVDs, pay-for-view television, and the Internet has led to an increase in viewers. Th e inclusion of women in the audience has led to femme porn.
■ Th e legal guidelines for determining whether a work is obscene are that the dominant theme of the work
must appeal to prurient sexual interests and portray sexual conduct in a patently off ensive way; taken as a whole, the work must be without serious literary, artistic, political, or scientifi c value; and a reasonable person must fi nd the work, when taken as a whole, to possess no social value. Obscene material is not protected by law.
■ People who read or view sexually explicit material usually recognize it as fantasy. Th ey use it as a release from their everyday lives. Sexually explicit material temporarily encourages sexual expression, activating a person’s typical sexual behavior pattern. People are interested in sexually explicit material because they enjoy sexual sensations, it is a source of sexual infor- mation and knowledge, it enables people to rehearse sexual activities, and it is safer sex.
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■ Child pornography is a form of sexual exploitation that, because of the Internet, has become a world- wide problem. U.S. courts have prohibited its pro- duction, sale, and possession.
■ Some feminists believe that sexually explicit material represents a form of sex discrimination against women because it places them in what they believe to be a degrading and dehumanizing context. Other feminists believe that opponents of sexually explicit material have an antisex bias.
■ In 1970, the President’s Commission on Pornogra- phy and Obscenity concluded that pornography does not cause harm or violence. Over the years, there has been a heated debate over the eff ects of sexually ex- plicit material. Th ere is no defi nitive evidence, how- ever, that nonviolent sexually explicit material is associated with sexual aggression against women, nor is there evidence that sexually violent material pro- duces lasting changes in attitudes or behaviors.
Prostitution
■ Prostitution, also called sex work, is the exchange of sexual behaviors for money and/or goods. Both men and women work as prostitutes. Women are gener- ally introduced into this type of sex work by pimps.
■ Adolescent prostitutes describe their psychological state as negative when they fi rst entered prostitution. Streetwalkers run the risk of abuse and violence from their customers. Prostitutes report various motives for entering prostitution, including quick and easy money, the prostitution subculture, and the excite- ment of “the life.” Fellatio is the most common sex- ual behavior of streetwalkers.
■ Prostitutes solicit on streets and work in brothels and massage parlors. Some masseuses have intercourse with clients, but most provide only masturbation. Call girls (escorts) have the highest status among prostitutes.
■ Most research on male prostitution focuses on street hustlers. Male prostitution is shaped by the peer de- linquent, gay male, and transvestite subcultures. Th e three most important reasons given for engaging in prostitution are money, sex, and fun/adventure.
■ Prostitution is legal in the United States in 10 rural counties in Nevada. A study of these brothels con- cluded that they are a good alternative to criminaliza- tion of prostitution.
■ Arrests for prostitution are symbols of community disapproval; they are not eff ective in curbing prostitu- tion. Female prostitution is the only sexual off ense for
which women are extensively prosecuted; the male patron is seldom arrested. Decriminalization of pros- titution is often urged because it is a victimless crime or because prostitutes are victimized by their pimps, customers, police, and the legal system. Some people advocate regulation by police and health departments.
■ Prostitutes are at higher risk for HIV/AIDS than the general population because some are injection drug users, have multiple partners, and do not always re- quire their customers to use condoms. Female and male prostitutes and their customers may provide a pathway for HIV and other STIs into the general heterosexual community.
Sexuality and the Law
■ In 2003, the U.S. Supreme Court overturned state antisodomy laws in the 13 remaining states that had them, making it legal for consenting adult gay men and lesbian women, as well as heterosexual individu- als, to have sex in private in all states.
■ At the time of the printing of this book, marriage be- tween same-sex individuals was legal in eight states (and the District of Columbia): Connecticut, Iowa, Maryland, Massachusetts, New Hampshire, New York, Washington, and Vermont. Nine states and the District of Columbia off er comprehensive civil unions or domestic partnerships for same-sex couples.
■ In 2011, the U.S. military’s “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” policy banning openly gay men and lesbian women from serving in the military was ended.
Questions for Discussion ■ Imagine that you were assigned to argue that
the federal government should regulate sexually explicit material. What would you say? Imagine the converse: that sexually explicit material should be available freely to adults in the marketplace. How would you advocate that position?
■ Do you think that sexually explicit materials are helpful, harmful, or neutral? What place, if any, do they have in a society? Explain your position on this issue.
■ Do you think that prostitution should be legalized/regulated (i.e., licensed and/or registered by health and police departments) or decriminalized (i.e., no criminal penalties
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and no licensing or registration) or neither? Defend your stance.
■ Do you believe that gay marriage will ever be legalized in every state in the United States? Why or why not?
Prostitution Research and Education www.prostitutionresearch.com Advocates for alternatives to prostitution, including emotional and physical health care for sex workers.
U.S. Supreme Court http://www.supremecourtus.gov Lists U.S. Supreme Court decisions by year and volume. Type in “sodomy” in the search box to locate the Court’s ruling on the Lawrence et al. v. Texas case.
Suggested Reading Angell, J. (2004). Call girl. Sag Harbor, N.Y. Permanent Press. A
revealing memoir of a university professor who is also a call girl.
Brents, B. G., Jackson, C. A., & Hausbeck, K. (2010). Th e state of sex: Tourism, sex, and sin in the New American heartland. New York: Routledge. A decade-long multimethod study of Nevada’s legal brothels that captures the voices of the brothels’ sex workers.
Flowers, R. B. (2001). Runaway kids and teenage prostitution: America’s lost, abandoned, and sexually exploited children. Westfi eld, CT: Greenwood Press. A concise text that examines the correlations between runaway children and teenage prostitution in the United States from a criminological, sociological, and psychological perspective.
Powell, B., Bolzendahl, C., Geist, C., & Steelman, L. C. (2010). Counted out: Same-sex relations and Americans’ defi nitions of family. New York: Russell Sage Foundation. A report of national surveys that asked Americans their views on the defi nition of “a family,” gay marriage and adoption, legal rights of unmarried partners, among others.
Ringal, N. J., & Daly, R. (2003). Love for sale: A world history of prostitution. New York: Grove Press. A panoramic tracing of the global history of prostitution.
Spector, J. (Ed.). (2006). Prostitution and pornography: Philosophical debate about the sex industry. Stanford, CA: Stanford University Press. Th is anthology examines the debates about the sex industry, discussing the ways prostitution, pornography, and other forms of commercial sex are made subject to legislation.
Strosser, N. (2000). Defending pornography. New York: New York University Press. A lucid, broad exploration of the long debate over pornography.
Weitzer, R. (Ed.). (2010). Sex for sale: Prostitution, pornography, and the sex industry (2nd ed). New York: Routledge. Examines sex work and the sex industry.
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Sex and the Internet American Civil Liberties Union Protection of our First Amendment rights is part of the mission of the American Civil Liberties Union (ACLU). But what exactly is this organization, what does it do, and how can it help you? To fi nd out, click to the ACLU’s home page (http://www.aclu.org) and fi nd one topic related to this chapter or text that interests you. This could include Internet issues, free speech, HIV/AIDS, lesbian and gay rights, privacy, reproductive rights, or women’s rights. After reading information related to this topic, answer the following:
■ What new information or news release did you fi nd related to this topic?
■ What is the history or background of laws related to it? ■ What is the ACLU’s stance? ■ What is your position, and why?
Suggested Websites Human Rights Campaign http://www.hrc.org Th e HRC advocates for equal rights for LGBT individuals.
National Center for Missing and Exploited Children http://www.missingkids.com Serves as a resource on the issues of missing and sexually exploited children.
National Coalition Against Censorship http://www.ncac.org Provides action alerts, censorship news, and frequently asked questions about censorship.
Polaris Project http://www.polarisproject.org Named after the North Star, which guided slaves toward freedom along the Underground Railroad, Polaris Project provides a compre- hensive approach to combating human traffi cking and modern-day slavery.
Prostitutes’ Education Network http://www.bayswan.org Provides information and resources related to prostitution.
For links, articles, and study material, go to the McGraw-Hill website, located at
www.mhhe.com/yarber8e.
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abortifacient A device or substance that causes an abortion. abortion Th e expulsion of the conceptus, either spontane-
ously or by induction. abstinence Refraining from sexual intercourse. acculturation Th e process of adaptation by an ethnic group
to the attitudes, behaviors, and values of the dominant culture.
acquaintance rape A nonconsensual sexual encounter by two people who just happen to be in the same place and know each other.
acquired immunodefi ciency syndrome (AIDS) A chronic disease caused by the human immunodefi ciency virus (HIV), in which the immune system is weakened and unable to fi ght opportunistic infections such as Pneumocystis carinii pneumonia (PCP) and Kaposi’s sarcoma.
adolescence Th e social and psychological state that occurs between the beginning of puberty and full adulthood.
afterbirth Th e placenta, the remaining section of the umbilical cord, and the fetal membranes.
agape In John Lee’s typology of love, altruistic love. age of consent Th e age at which a person is legally deemed
capable of giving consent. AIDS See acquired immunodefi ciency syndrome. alveoli (singular, alveolus) Small glands within the female
breast that begin producing milk following childbirth. amenorrhea Th e absence of menstruation, unrelated to
aging. amniocentesis A process in which amniotic fl uid is with-
drawn by needle from the uterus and then examined for evidence of possible birth defects.
amnion An embryonic membranous sac containing the embryo and amniotic fl uid.
amniotic fl uid Th e fl uid within the amniotic sac that surrounds the embryo or fetus.
ampulla Th e widened part of the fallopian tube or the vas deferens.
anabolic steroids A class of natural and synthetic hormones that are derivatives of the male hormone testosterone. Th ey promote the growth of several tissues, especially muscles and bones.
anal eroticism Sexual activities involving the anus. anal intercourse Th e insertion of the erect penis into the
partner’s anus.
anal stage In Freudian theory, the period from age 1 to 3, during which the child’s erotic activities center on the anus.
analingus Th e licking of the anal region. anatomical sex Identifi cation as male or female based on
physical sex characteristics such as gonads, uterus, vulva, vagina, and penis.
androgen Any of the male hormones, including testosterone. androgen insensitivity syndrome (AIS) A condition whereby
a genetic male (XY) is resistant to male hormones or andro- gens. As a result, the person has some or all of the physical characteristics of a woman.
androgyny Th e unique and fl exible combination of instru- mental and expressive traits in accordance with individual diff erences, situations, and stages in the life cycle.
andropause or male climacteric A constellation of changes that occur in older men, including decreased libido and sexual performance, decreased sperm quantity and quality, frailty, decreased muscle and bone mass, and increased body fat.
anodyspareunia Pain occurring during anal intercourse. anorexia nervosa An eating disorder characterized by the
pursuit of excessive thinness. antibody A cell that binds to the antigen of an invading cell,
inactivating it and marking it for destruction by killer cells. anti-gay prejudice A strong dislike, fear, or hatred of gay
men and lesbian women because of their same-sex behavior. antigen A molecular structure on the wall of a cell capable
of stimulating the immune system and then reacting with the antibodies that are released to fi ght it.
antiretroviral therapy (ART) Drugs designed to control the reproduction of HIV and slow the progression of HIV disease.
anus Th e opening of the rectum, consisting of two sphincters, circular muscles that open and close like valves.
anxious/ambivalent attachment A style of infant attach- ment characterized by separation anxiety and insecurity in relation to the primary caregiver.
Apgar score Th e cumulative rating of the newborn’s heart rate, respiration, color, refl exes, and muscle tone.
aphrodisiac A substance that supposedly increases sexual desire or improves sexual function.
areola A ring of darkened skin around the nipple of the breast.
GlossaryGlossary
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birth control patch (also called Ortho Evra) A transdermal reversible method of birth control that releases synthetic estrogen and progestin to protect against pregnancy for 1 month.
birth control shot (also called Depo-Provera) An injectable, hormonal method of birth control that is used to prevent pregnancy for 12 weeks.
bisexuality An emotional and sexual attraction to members of both sexes.
blastocyst A collection of about 100 human cells that develops from the zygote.
bondage and discipline (B&D) Sexual activities in which one person is bound while another simulates or engages in light or moderate “disciplinary” activities such as spanking and whipping.
Braxton-Hicks contractions Uterine contractions during the last trimester of pregnancy that exercise the uterus, preparing it for labor.
breast self-examination (BSE) A method of checking one’s own breasts for lumps or suspicious changes.
bulimia An eating disorder characterized by episodes of uncontrolled overeating followed by purging (vomiting).
calendar (rhythm) method A contraceptive method based on calculating “safe” days depending on the range of a woman’s longest and shortest menstrual cycles.
capacitation Th e process by which a sperm’s membranes become fragile enough to release the enzymes from its acrosomes.
caring Making another’s needs as important as one’s own. castration anxiety In Freudian theory, the belief that the
father will cut off the child’s penis because of competition for the mother/wife.
celibacy Not engaging in any kind of sexual activity. censorship Th e suppression of words, ideas, or images by
governments, private groups, or individuals based on their political or moral values.
cervical cancer Invasive cancer of the cervix (ICC). cervical dysplasia or cervical intraepithelial neoplasia
(CIN) A condition of the cervical epithelium (covering membrane) that may lead to cancer if not treated.
cervical mucus method A contraceptive method using a woman’s cervical mucus to determine ovulation.
cervicitis Th e swelling (infl ammation) of the cervix, usually the result of an infection.
cervix Th e end of the uterus, opening toward the vagina. cesarean section (C-section) Th e delivery of a baby
through an incision in the mother’s abdominal and uterine walls.
chancre A round, pea-sized, painless sore symptomatic of the fi rst stage of syphilis.
child-free Individuals or couples who choose not to have children.
child sexual abuse Any sexual interaction (including fondling, erotic kissing, oral sex, and genital penetration) between an adult and a prepubertal child.
artifi cial insemination (AI) See assisted reproductive techn ology.
asexuality Th e state of having no sexual attraction for either sex or no sexual contact with another person by choice.
assigned gender Th e gender ascribed by others, usually at birth.
assisted reproductive technology (ART) A procedure in which a woman’s ovaries are stimulated and her eggs surgi- cally removed, combined with sperm, and returned to her body. Commonly referred to as artifi cial insemination.
attachment Th e emotional tie between an infant and his or her primary caregiver.
attitude Th e predisposition to act, think, or feel in certain ways toward particular things.
atypical sexual behavior Sexual activity that is not statisti- cally typical of usual sexual behavior.
autoerotic asphyxia A form of sexual masochism linking strangulation with masturbation.
autoeroticism Sexual self-stimulation or behavior involving only the self; includes masturbation, sexual fantasies, and erotic dreams.
autofellatio Oral stimulation of the penis by oneself. avoidant attachment A style of infant attachment charac-
terized by avoidance of the primary caregiver as a defense against rejection.
bacterial vaginosis (BV) A vaginal infection commonly caused by the bacterium Gardnerella vaginalis.
Bartholin’s gland One of two small ducts on either side of the vaginal opening that secretes a small amount of moisture during sexual arousal. Also known as vestibu- lar gland.
basal body temperature (BBT) method A contraceptive method based on a woman’s temperature in the morning upon waking; when her temperature rises, she is fertile.
B cell A type of lymphocyte involved in antibody production. BDSM An acronym used to describe the variant sexual
behaviors that combine bondage, discipline, sadism, and masochism.
behavior Th e way a person acts. benign prostatic hyperplasia (BPH) Enlargement of the
prostate gland, aff ecting many men over age 50. benign tumor A nonmalignant (noncancerous) tumor that
grows slowly and remains localized. bestialists People who have sexual contact with animals. bias A personal leaning or inclination. biased sample A nonrepresentative sample. binge eating disorder An eating disorder characterized by
rapid eating, eating to the point of discomfort or beyond, continual eating, and eating when not hungry. Also called compulsive overeating.
biopsy Surgical removal of tissue for diagnosis. birth canal Th e passageway through which an infant is
born; the vagina. birth control Any means of preventing a birth from taking
place, including contraception and abortion.
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confl ict A communication process in which people perceive incompatible goals and interference from others in achieving their goals.
congenital adrenal hyperplasia A group of inherited disor- ders of the adrenal gland whereby individuals born with this conition lack an enzyme needed by the adrenal gland to make the hormones cortisol and aldosterone.
contraception Th e prevention of conception. contraceptive fi lm A small, translucent tissue that contains
spermicide and dissolves into a sticky gel when inserted into the vagina.
contraceptive foam A chemical spermicide dispensed in an aerosol container.
contraceptive patch A reversible method of birth control that releases estrogen and progestin to protect against preg- nancy for 1 month.
control group A group that is not being treated in an experiment.
coprophilia A paraphilia in which a person gets sexual plea- sure from contact with feces.
corona Th e rim of tissue between the glans and the penile shaft. corpora cavernosa Th e hollow chambers in the shaft of the
clitoris or penis that fi ll with blood and swell during arousal. corpus luteum Th e tissue formed from a ruptured ovarian
follicle that produces important hormones after the oocyte emerges.
corpus spongiosum A column of erectile tissue within the penis enclosing the urethra.
correlational study Th e measurement of two or more natu- rally occurring variables to determine their relationship to each other.
Cowper’s gland or bulbourethral gland One of two small structures below the prostate gland that secrete a clear mucus into the urethra prior to ejaculation.
cross-dressing Wearing the clothing of a member of the other sex.
crura (singular, crus) Th e internal branches of the clitoral or penile shaft.
crytorchidism A condition that occurs in a minority of infants whereby one or both of the testes fail to descend. Also known as undescended testicle.
cultural equivalency perspective Th e view that attitudes, behaviors, and values of diverse ethnic groups are basi- cally similar, with diff erences resulting from adaptation to historical and social forces such as slavery, discrimina- tion, or poverty.
cunnilingus Oral stimulation of the female genitals. cystitis A bladder infection aff ecting mainly women that is
often related to sexual activity, although it is not transmit- ted from one partner to another.
date rape Sexual penetration with a dating partner that occurs against the victim’s will, with force or the threat of force.
delayed ejaculation A sexual function diffi culty character- ized by a male not being able to ejaculate easily during intercourse.
chlamydia An STI caused by the Chlamydia trachomatis organism. Also known as chlamydial infection.
chorion Th e embryo’s outermost membrane. chorionic villus sampling (CVS) A procedure in which tiny
pieces of the membrane that encases the embryo are removed and examined for evidence of possible birth defects.
cilia Tiny, hairlike tissues on the fi mbriae and ampulla that become active during ovulation, moving the oocyte into the fallopian tube.
CIN See cervical dysplasia. circumcision Th e surgical removal of the foreskin which
covers the glans penis. See also clitoridectomy. clinical research Th e in-depth examination of an individual
or group by a clinician who assists with psychological or medical problems.
clitoral hood A fold of skin covering the glans of the clitoris. clitoridectomy Th e surgical removal of the clitoris and all
or part of the labia. Also known as female genital cutting and female circumcision, or female genital mutilation.
clitoris (plural, clitorides) An external sexual structure that is the center of arousal in the female; located above the vagina at the meeting of the labia minora.
cloning Reproduction of an individual from a single cell taken from a donor or parent.
coercive paraphilia Sexual behavior involving victimization and causing harm to others.
cognitive development theory A child development theory that views growth as the mastery of specifi c ways of per- ceiving, thinking, and doing that occurs at discrete stages.
cognitive social learning theory A child development theory that emphasizes the learning of behavior from others, based on the belief that consequences control behavior.
cohabitation Th e practice of living together and having a sexual relationship.
coitus Penile-vaginal sex. coitus interruptus Th e removal of the penis from the vagina
prior to ejaculation. Also called withdrawal. colostrum A yellowish substance containing nutrients and
antibodies that is secreted by the breasts 2–3 days prior to actual milk production.
coming out Th e public acknowledgment of one’s sexual ori- entation, such as gay, lesbian, or bisexual.
commitment A determination, based on conscious choice, to continue a relationship or a marriage.
communication A transactional process in which symbols such as words, gestures, and movements are used to estab- lish human contact, exchange information, and reinforce or change attitudes and behaviors.
conceptus In medical terminology, the developing human off spring from fertilization through birth.
condom or male condom A thin, soft, fl exible sheath of latex rubber, polyurethane, or processed animal tissue that fi ts over the erect penis to prevent semen from being transmitted and to help protect against STIs. See also female condom.
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egocentric fallacy An erroneous belief that one’s own personal experiences and values are held by others in general.
EIA (enzyme immunoassay) A test used to detect antigen- soliciting molecules specifi cally related to autoimmune dis- orders and cancer.
ejaculation Th e process by which semen is forcefully expelled from the penis.
ejaculatory duct One of two structures within the prostate gland connecting with the vasa deferentia.
ejaculatory inevitability Th e point at which ejaculation is imminent in the male.
elective delivery Birth delivery that is scheduled prior to the baby’s intended due date.
Electra complex In Freudian theory, the female child’s erotic desire for the father and simultaneous fear of the mother.
embryo Th e early form of life in the uterus between the stages of blastocyst and fetus.
embryonic membranes The embryo’s membranes include the amnion, amniotic fl uid, yolk sac, chorion, and allantois.
emergency contraception (EC) Th e use of hormones or a copper IUD to prevent a pregnancy from occurring.
emission Th e fi rst stage of ejaculation, in which sperm and semen are propelled into the urethral bulb.
endometriosis A disease caused by endometrial tissue (uterine lining) spreading and growing in other parts of the body; a major cause of infertility.
endometrium Th e inner lining of the uterine walls. epidemic A wide and rapid spread of a contagious disease. epidemiology Th e study of the causes and control of disease
epidemics. epididymis Th e coiled tube, formed by the merging of the
seminiferous tubules, where sperm mature. epididymitis Infl ammation of the epididymis. epidural A method of anesthetic delivery during childbirth
in which a painkilling drug is continuously administered through a catheter in the woman’s lower back.
episiotomy A surgical procedure during childbirth that enlarges the vaginal opening by cutting through the perineum toward the anus.
erectile dysfunction A sexual function diffi culty character- ized by not having or maintaining an erection during inter- course. Previously referred to as impotence.
erection Th e process of the penis becoming rigid through vasocongestion; an erect penis.
erogenous zone Any area of the body that is highly sensitive to touch and associated with sexual arousal.
eros In John Lee’s typology of love, the love of beauty. erotica Sexually explicit material that is evaluated positively. erotic aid or sex toy A device, such as a vibrator or dildo, or
a product, such as oils or lotions, designed to enhance erotic responsiveness.
erotophilia A positive emotional response to sexuality. erotophobia A negative emotional response to sexuality.
delayed labor Pregnancy that has gone 2 weeks beyond full term.
demographics Th e statistical characteristics of human populations.
dependent variable In an experiment, a factor that is likely to be aff ected by changes in the independent variable.
DHT defi ciency A genetic disorder in which some males are unable to convert testosterone to the hormone dihydrotes- tosterone (DHT), required for the normal development of external male genitals; usually identifi ed as girls at birth, the children begin to develop male genitals in adolescence.
diabetes mellitus A chronic disease characterized by excess sugar in the blood and urine due to a defi ciency of insulin.
diaphragm A rubber cup with a fl exible rim that is placed deep inside the vagina, blocking the cervix, to prevent sperm from entering the uterus.
dilation Gradual opening of the cervix. dilation and evacuation (D&E) A second-trimester abor-
tion method in which the cervix is slowly dilated and the fetus removed by alternating curettage with other instru- ments and suction.
disinhibition Th e phenomenon of activating behaviors that would normally be suppressed.
disorders of sexual development (DSD) Variations in con- genital sex anatomy that are considered atypical for females or males. Also called intersex.
domestic partnership A legal category granting some rights ordinarily reserved to married couples to committed, cohab- iting heterosexual, gay men, and lesbian women couples.
domination and submission (D/S) Sexual activities involv- ing the consensual acting out of fantasy scenes in which one person dominates and the other submits.
dominatrix In bondage and discipline, a woman who special- izes in “disciplining” a submissive partner.
doulas Specially trained individuals who off er birthing mothers emotional support and help in managing pain during the birth process.
drag Cross-dressing, often with comic intent. drag queens Gay men who cross-dress to entertain. dual control model A theoretical perspective of sexual
response based on brain function and the interaction between sexual excitation and sexual inhibition.
dysmenorrhea Pelvic cramping and pain experienced by some women during menstruation.
dyspareunia A female sexual functioning diffi culty charac- terized by painful intercourse.
eating disorder Eating and weight management practices that endanger a person’s physical and emotional health.
ectoparasitic infestation Parasitic organisms that live on the outer skin surfaces, not inside the body.
ectopic pregnancy A pregnancy in which the fertilized ovum is implanted in any tissue other than the uterine wall. Most ectopic pregnancies occur in the fallopian tubes. Also known as a tubal pregnancy.
eff acement Th inning of the cervix during labor.
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fertility awareness–based (FAB) method One of several contraceptive methods based on a woman’s knowledge of her body’s reproductive cycle, including calendar (rhythm), basal body temperature (BBT), cervical mucus, and symp- tothermal methods.
fetal alcohol eff ect (FAE) Moderate alcohol consumption by pregnant women resulting in some intellectual and behavior defi cits.
fetal alcohol syndrome (FAS) Chronic ingestion of alcohol by pregnant women resulting in unusual facial features, congenital heart defects, defective joints, and behavioral and intellectual impairment in children.
fetishism A paraphilia in which a person is sexually attracted to certain objects.
fetus Th e stage of life from 8 weeks of gestation to birth. fi brocystic disease A common and generally harmless
breast condition in which fi brous tissue and benign cysts develop in the breast.
fi mbriae Fingerlike tissues that drape over the ovaries, but without necessarily touching them.
5-alpha reductase defi ciency A condition whereby a genetic male (XY) will not produce enough of a hormone called dihydrotestosterone (DHT), a shortage of which will disrupt the formation of the external sex organs, causing individuals to be born with external genitalia that appear female.
follicle-stimulating hormone (FSH) A hormone that reg- ulates ovulation.
follicular phase Th e phase of the ovarian cycle during which a follicle matures.
foreskin Th e portion of the sleevelike skin covering the shaft of the penis that extends over the glans penis. Also known as prepuce.
45,X (Turner syndrome) A chromosomal disorder aff ect- ing females born lacking an X chromosome, resulting in the failure to develop ovaries.
frenulum Th e triangular area of sensitive skin on the under- side of the penis, attaching the glans to the foreskin.
friends with benefi ts An uncommitted, non-long term casual sexual relationship between acquaintances.
frotteurism A paraphilia involving recurrent, intense urges to touch or rub against a nonconsenting person for the purpose of sexual arousal.
gamete A sex cell containing the genetic material necessary for reproduction; an oocyte (ovum) or sperm.
gender Th e social and cultural characteristics associated with being male or female.
gender identity A person’s internal sense of being male or female.
gender identity disorder (GID) A strong and persistent cross-gender identifi cation and persistent discomfort about one’s assigned sex.
gender presentation Th e way in which we present our gender to others, whether it be through gestures or personality.
gender role Th e attitudes, behaviors, rights, and responsi- bilities that society associates with each sex.
estrogen Th e principal female hormone, regulating repro- ductive functions and the development of secondary sex characteristics.
ethnic group A group of people distinct from other groups because of cultural characteristics transmitted from one generation to the next.
ethnicity Ethnic affi liation or identity. ethnocentric fallacy or ethnocentrism Th e belief that one’s
own ethnic group, nation, or culture is innately superior to others.
exhibitionism A paraphilia involving recurrent, intense urges to expose one’s genitals to a nonconsenting person.
experimental research Th e systematic manipulation of an individual or the environment to learn the eff ect of such manipulation on behavior.
expressiveness Revealing or demonstrating one’s emotions. expulsion Th e second stage of ejaculation, characterized by
rapid, rhythmic contraction of the urethra, prostate, and muscles at the base of the penis, causing semen to spurt from the urethral opening.
extradyadic involvement (EDI) Sexual or romantic relation- ship outside of a primary marital or dating dyad.
extrafamilial abuse Child sexual abuse by someone unrelated to the child.
fallacy An error in reasoning that aff ects one’s understand- ing of a subject.
fallopian tube One of two uterine tubes extending toward an ovary.
familismo Emphasis on family among Hispanics/Latinos. Family and Medical Leave Act (FMLA) (Public Law 103-3)
Allows an employee to take unpaid leave for the birth and care of a newborn child, during his or her own illness, or to care for a sick family member.
feedback Th e ongoing process in which participants and their messages create a given result and are subsequently modifi ed by that result.
fellatio Oral stimulation of the penis. female condom A soft, loose-fi tting, disposable polyure-
thane sheath with a diaphragm-like ring at each end that covers the cervix, vaginal walls, and part of the external genitals to prevent conception and to help protect against sexually transmitted infections.
female genital cutting (FGC) Th e surgical removal of the clitoris and all or part of the labia. Also known as clitoridec- tomy, female circumcision, or female genital mutilation.
female impersonators Men who dress as women. female orgasmic disorder Th e absence of or delay in
orgasm for women following typical sexual excitement. female sexual arousal disorder Th e persistent or recurring
inability of a woman to attain or maintain the level of vaginal lubrication and swelling associated with sexual excitement.
feminism Eff orts by both men and women to achieve greater equality for women.
femme porn Sexually explicit material catering to women and heterosexual couples.
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helper T cell A lymphocyte that “reads” antigens and directs the immune system’s response.
hepatitis A viral disease aff ecting the liver; several types of the virus can be sexually transmitted.
herpes simplex virus (HSV) Th e virus that causes genital herpes.
heteronormativity Any set of norms that hold that people fall into distinct genders, with natural roles, and are pre- sumed to be heterosexual.
heterosexual bias or heterosexism or heterocentric behavior Th e tendency to see the world in heterosexual terms and to ignore or devalue homosexuality.
heterosexuality Emotional and sexual attraction between members of the other sex.
HIV See human immunodefi ciency virus. HIV transmission rate Th e annual number of new HIV
infections transmitted per 100 people living with HIV. homoeroticism Sexual attraction, desire, or impulses directed
toward members of the same sex; homosexuality. homologous structure A similarity in structures that per-
form the same function. homophobia An irrational or phobic fear of gay men
and lesbian women. See also anti-gay prejudice, hetero- sexual bias.
homosexuality Emotional and sexual attraction between members of the same sex.
hooking up Sexual encounters with a nonromantic partner, often a friend.
hormone A chemical substance that acts as a messenger within the body, regulating various functions.
hormone replacement therapy (HRT) Th e administration of estrogen, often with progestin, in the form of pills, vaginal cream, or a small adhesive patch. Also known as menopausal hormone use, postmenopause hormone therapy (PHT), or hormone therapy for menopause.
hostile environment As related to sexuality, a work or edu- cational setting that interferes with a person’s performance because of sexual harassment.
hot fl ash An eff ect of menopause consisting of a period of intense warmth, fl ushing, and perspiration, typically lasting 1–2 minutes.
human chorionic gonadotropin (HCG) A hormone pro- duced right after a fertilized egg attaches to the uterus; its function is to promote the maintenance of the corpus luteum.
human immunodefi ciency virus (HIV) Th e virus that causes AIDS.
hymen A thin membrane partially covering the introitus prior to fi rst intercourse or other breakage.
hypoactive sexual desire (HSD) or inhibited sexual desire A sexual function problem characterized by low or absent sexual desire.
hypospadias A hormonal condition in which the opening of the penis, rather than being at the tip, is located some- where on the underside, glans, or shaft or at the junction of the scrotum and penis.
hysterectomy Th e surgical removal of the uterus.
gender-role attitude Beliefs about appropriate male and female personality traits and activities.
gender-role behavior Th e activities in which individuals engage in accordance with their gender.
gender-role stereotype A rigidly held, oversimplifi ed, and overgeneralized belief about how each gender should behave.
gender schema A set of interrelated ideas used to organize information about the world on the basis of gender.
gender variation A person’s inability or unwillingness to conform to societal gender norms associated with his or her biological sex.
genetic sex Identifi cation as male or female based on chro- mosomal and hormonal sex characteristics.
genital candidiasis A yeast infection caused by an overgrowth of Candida albicans, which is always present in the body.
genital herpes An STI caused by the herpes simplex virus (HSV).
genital human papillomavirus infection Viruses, many of which are sexually transmitted, that infect the genital and rectal areas of both females and males. Certain types of human papillomavirus infection (HPV) can cause genital warts in men and women.
genitals Th e reproductive and sexual organs of males and females. Also known as genitalia.
genital stage In Freudian theory, the period in which adoles- cents become interested in genital sexual activities, especially sexual intercourse.
genital warts An STI caused by the human papillomavirus (HPV).
gestation Pregnancy. gestational carrier A carrier who is not related to the fetus.
In this case, a woman with ovaries but no uterus uses her own egg and the man’s sperm to create the embryo, which is then placed within the carrier’s uterus.
GIFT (gamete intrafallopian transfer) An ART procedure that transfers gametes into the woman’s fallopian tubes through small incisions in her abdomen.
glans clitoris Th e erotically sensitive tip of the clitoris. glans penis Th e head of the penile shaft. gonad An organ (ovary or testis) that produces gametes. gonadotropin A hormone that acts directly on the gonads. gonadotropin-releasing hormone (GnRH) A hormone that
stimulates the pituitary gland to release follicle-stimulating hormone (FSH) and luteinizing hormone (LH), initiating the follicular phase of the ovarian cycle.
gonorrhea An STI caused by the Neisseria gonorrhoeae bacterium.
Grafenberg spot (G-spot) According to some researchers, an erotically sensitive area on the upper front wall of the vagina midway between the introitus and the cervix.
gynecomastia Swelling or enlargement of the male breast. halo eff ect Th e assumption that attractive or charismatic
people possess more desirable social characteristics than are actually present.
Hegar’s sign Th e softening of the uterus above the cervix, indicating pregnancy.
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in vitro fertilization (IVF) An ART procedure that com- bines sperm and oocyte in a laboratory dish and transfers the blastocyst to the mother’s uterus.
involuntary ejaculation Th e male not being able to control the moment of his ejaculation.
jealousy An aversive response that occurs because of a partner’s real, imagined, or likely involvement with a third person.
Kaplan’s tri-phasic model of sexual response A model that divides sexual response into three phases: desire, excite- ment, and orgasm.
Kaposi’s sarcoma A rare cancer of the blood vessels that is common among people with AIDS.
Kegel exercises A set of exercises for women designed to strengthen and give voluntary control over the pubococ- cygeus and to increase sexual pleasure and awareness. For males, the exercises can be valuable in improving erectile function and learning ejaculatory control.
killer T cell A lymphocyte that attacks foreign cells. Klinefelter syndrome A condition in which a male has one
or more extra X chromosomes, causing the development of female secondary sex characteristics.
klismaphilia A paraphilia in which a person gets sexual pleasure from receiving enemas.
labia majora (singular, labium majus) Two folds of spongy fl esh extending from the mons pubis and enclosing the labia minora, clitoris, urethral opening, and vaginal entrance. Also known as major lips.
labia minora (singular, labium minus) Two small folds of skin within the labia majora that meet above the clitoris to form the clitoral hood. Also known as minor lips.
lactation Th e production of milk in the breasts (mammary glands).
lactational amenorrhea method (LAM) A highly eff ective, temporary method of contraception used by exclusively breastfeeding mothers.
lanugo Th e fi ne, downy hair covering the fetus. laparoscopy A form of tubal ligation using a viewing lens
(the laparoscope) to locate the fallopian tubes and another instrument to cut or block and close them.
latency stage In Freudian theory, the period from age 6 to puberty in which sexual impulses are no longer active.
leukocyte White blood cell. Leydig cell Cell within the testes that secretes androgens.
Also known as an interstitial cell. libido Th e sex drive. lifetime risk Th e risk within one’s lifetime of a disease. limbic system A group of structures in the brain associ-
ated with emotions and feelings; involved with producing sexual arousal.
lochia A bloody vaginal discharge following childbirth. Loulan’s sexual response model A model that incorporates
both the biological and the aff ective components into a six-stage cycle.
low-birth-weight infants Th ose born weighing less than 2,500 grams, or 5.5 pounds.
ludus In John Lee’s typology of love, playful love.
implant A contraceptive device inserted under the skin that protects against pregnancy for up to 3 years. Implanon is the most common among them.
implantation Th e process by which a blastocyst becomes embedded in the uterine wall.
incest Sexual intercourse between individuals too closely related to legally marry, usually interpreted to mean father- daughter, mother-son, or brother-sister activity.
incidence Th e number of new cases of a disease within a specifi ed time, usually 1 year.
independent variable In an experiment, a factor that can be manipulated or changed.
induction A type of reasoning in which arguments are formed from a premise to provide support for its conclusion.
infertility Th e inability to conceive a child after a year of unprotected intercourse, or the inability to carry a child to term.
infi bulation Th e stitching together of the sides of the vulva or vaginal opening; part of the process of female circumci- sion or female genital mutilation.
informed consent Assent given by a mentally competent individual at least 18 years old with full knowledge of the purpose and potential risks and benefi ts of participation.
infundibulum Th e tube-shaped ends of the fallopian tubes. inhibited ejaculation A sexual function problem in which the
male does not ejaculate despite an erection and continued stimulation.
inhibited sexual desire A common condition in which the person has very low sexual interest or desire, rarely responds to a partner’s sexual initiation, and rarely initi- ates sexual activity. Also known as hypoactive sexual desire (HSD).
instrumentality Being oriented toward tasks and problem solving.
interfemoral intercourse Movement of the penis between the partner’s thighs.
internalized homophobia Negative attitudes and aff ects toward homosexuality in other persons and toward same- sex attraction in oneself.
intersex Variations in congenital sex anatomy that are con- sidered atypical for females or males. Also called disorders of sexual development (DSD).
intimate love Love based on commitment, caring, and self- disclosure.
intracytoplasmic sperm injection (ICSI) An ART proce- dure that involves injecting a single sperm directly into a mature egg; the embryo is then transferred to the uterus or fallopian tube.
intrafamilial abuse Child sexual abuse by biologically and step-related individuals.
intrauterine contraceptive (IUC) A long-acting reversible contraceptive method that prevents fertilization from occurring. Also referred to as intrauterine device or IUD.
intrauterine device (IUD) See intrauterine contraceptive (IUC).
introitus Th e opening of the vagina.
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menstrual synchrony Simultaneous menstrual cycles that occur among women who work or live together.
metastasis Th e process by which cancer spreads from one part of the body to an unrelated part via the bloodstream or lymphatic system.
miscarriage Th e spontaneous expulsion of the fetus from the uterus. Also called spontaneous abortion.
Mittelschmerz A sharp twinge that may occur on one side of the lower abdomen during ovulation.
mons pubis In the female, the mound of fatty tissue cover- ing the pubic bone; the pubic mound. Also known as mons veneris.
mons veneris Th e pubic mound; literally, mountain of Venus. Also known as mons pubis.
mosaicism A condition in which cells within the same per- son have a diff erent genetic makeup.
myotonia Increased muscle tension. necrophilia A paraphilia involving recurrent, intense urges
to engage in sexual activities with a corpse. neonate A newborn. neural tube defect screening A test on a pregnant woman’s
blood during the second trimester to measure the level of alpha-fetoprotein; test results reveal possible defects of the spine, spinal cord, skull, and brain.
neurosis A psychological disorder characterized by anxiety or tension.
nocturnal orgasm or emission Orgasm and in males, ejacula- tion while sleeping; usually accompanied by erotic dreams. Also known as wet dream.
noncoercive paraphilia Harmless and victimless paraphilia sexual behavior.
nongonococcal urethritis (NGU) Urethral infl ammation caused by something other than the gonococcus bacterium.
nonoxynol-9 (N-9) Th e sperm-killing chemical in spermicide. nonpedophilic sexual abuse An adult’s sexual interaction
with a child that is motivated not by sexual desire but by nonsexual motives such as for power or aff ection.
nonspecifi c urethritis (NSU) Infl ammation of the urethra with an unspecifi ed, nongonococcal cause.
normal sexuality behavior Behavior that conforms to a group’s typical patterns of behavior.
nulliparous woman A woman who has never given birth. nymphomania A pseudoscientifi c term referring to “abnor-
mally high” or “excessive” sexual desire in a woman. objectivity Th e observation of things as they exist in reality
as opposed to one’s feelings or beliefs about them. obscenity Th at which is deemed off ensive to “accepted”
standards of decency or morality. observational research Studies in which the researcher
unobtrusively observes people’s behavior and records the fi ndings.
Oedipal complex In Freudian theory, the male child’s erotic desire for his mother and simultaneous fear of his father.
oocyte Th e female gamete, referred to as an egg or ovum.
lumpectomy Breast surgery that removes only the malignant tumor and surrounding lymph nodes.
luteal phase Th e phase of the ovarian cycle during which a follicle becomes a corpus luteum and then degenerates.
luteinizing hormone (LH) A hormone involved in ovulation. lymphocyte A type of leukocyte active in the immune response. machismo In Latino culture, highly prized masculine traits. macrophage A type of white blood cell that destroys foreign
cells. male condom See condom. male climacteric or andropause A constellation of changes
that occur in older men, including decreased libido and sexual performance, decreased sperm quantity and quality, frailty, decreased muscle and bone mass, and increased body fat.
male erectile disorder Th e persistent or recurring diffi culty of a man attaining or maintaining an adequate erection until completion of sexual activity.
male impersonators Women who dress as men. male orgasmic disorder Th e persistent delay in or absence
of orgasm for men following typical sexual excitement. malignant tumor A cancerous tumor that invades nearby
tissues and disrupts the normal functioning of vital organs. mammary gland A mature female breast. mammogram A low-dose X-ray of the breast. mammography Th e use of X-rays to detect breast tumors
before they can be seen or felt. mania In John Lee’s typology of love, obsessive love. mastectomy Th e surgical removal of part or all of the breast. Masters and Johnson’s four-phase model of sexual response
A model that divides sexual response into four phases: excitement, plateau, orgasm, and resolution.
masturbation Stimulation of the genitals for pleasure. mate guarding A person’s eff orts to keep an existing rela-
tionship partner in the relationship. mate poaching A deliberate eff ort to lure a person who is
already in a relationship to a brief or long-term relation- ship with oneself.
medication abortion A two-drug regimen used to terminate early pregnancy. Previously known as RU-486.
menarche Th e onset of menstruation. menopausal hormone therapy (MHT) Th e administration
of estrogen (often along with progestin) to relieve the symptoms of menopause. Also known as hormone replace- ment therapy (HRT).
menopause Th e complete cessation of menstruation. menorrhagia Heavy or prolonged bleeding that may occur
during a woman’s menstrual cycle. menses Th e menstrual fl ow, in which the endometrium is
discharged. menstrual cycle Th e more-or-less monthly process during
which the uterus is readied for implantation of a fertilized ovum. Also known as uterine cycle.
menstrual phase Th e shedding of the endometrium during the menstrual cycle.
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pedophilia A paraphilia characterized by recurrent, intense urges to engage in sexual activities with a prepubescent child.
peer delinquent subculture An antisocial youth subculture. pelvic fl oor Th e underside of the pelvic area, extending
from the top of the pubic bone to the anus. pelvic infl ammatory disease (PID) An infection of the
fallopian tube (or tubes), caused by an organism such as C. trachomatis or N. gonorrhoeae, in which scar tissue may form within the tubes and block the passage of eggs or cause an ectopic pregnancy; a leading cause of female infertility. Also called salpingitis.
penis Th e male organ through which semen and urine pass. penis envy In Freudian theory, female desire to have a penis. perimenopause A period of gradual changes and adjust-
ments a woman’s body goes through prior to menopause, before menstruation stops completely.
perinatal HIV transmission (mother to child) Women who transmit HIV to their babies during pregnancy or labor and delivery.
perineum An area of soft tissue between the genitals and the anus that covers the muscles and ligaments of the pelvic fl oor.
persistent sexual arousal syndrome (PSAS) Sexual arousal in women that does not resolve in ordinary ways but con- tinues for hours, days, or weeks.
Peyronie’s disease A painful male sexual disorder, resulting in curvature of the penis, that is caused by fi brous tissue and calcium deposits developing in the corpora cavernosa of the penis.
phallic stage In Freudian theory, the period from age 3 through 5 during which both male and female children exhibit interest in the genitals.
pheromone A sexually arousing chemical substance secreted into the air by many kinds of animals.
placenta Th e organ of exchange between mother and fetus. Plan B One-Step A backup method of preventing preg-
nancy that, if taken 72 hours (3 days) after unprotected intercourse, can reduce the chances of pregnancy. Also referred to as “emergency contraception.”
pleasuring Erotic, nongenital touching. plethysmograph A device attached to the genitals to measure
physiological response. PLISSIT model A model for sex therapy consisting of four
progressive levels: Permission, Limited Information, Specifi c Suggestions, and Intensive Therapy.
Pneumocystis carinii pneumonia (PCP) An opportunistic lung infection caused by a common, usually harmless organism, frequently occuring among people with AIDS.
polyamory Th e practice or lifestyle of being open to having more than one loving intimate relationship at a time, with the full knowledge and consent of all partners involved.
pornography Sexually explicit material that is generally evaluated negatively.
postpartum depression A form of depression thought to be related to hormonal changes following the delivery of a child.
oogenesis Th e production of oocytes; the ovarian cycle. oophorectomy Th e removal of one or both ovaries. open marriage A marriage in which both partners agree to
allow each other to have openly acknowledged and inde- pendent relationships with others, including sexual ones.
opinion An unsubstantiated belief in or conclusion about what seems to be true according to an individual’s personal thoughts.
opportunistic infection (OI) An infection that normally does not occur or is not life-threatening, but that takes advantage of a weakened immune system.
oral contraceptive (OC) A series of pills containing synthetic estrogen and/or progesterone that regulate egg production and the menstrual cycle. Commonly known as “the pill.”
oral-genital sex Th e touching of a partner’s genitals with the mouth or tongue.
oral stage In Freudian theory, the period lasting from birth to age 1 in which infant eroticism is focused on the mouth.
orgasm Th e climax of sexual excitement, including rhyth- mic contractions of muscles in the genital area and intensely pleasurable sensations; usually accompanied by ejaculation in males beginning in puberty.
orgasmic platform A portion of the vagina that undergoes vasocongestion during sexual arousal.
os Th e cervical opening. osteoporosis Th e loss of bone density that can lead to
weaker bones. ovarian cycle Th e more-or-less monthly process during
which oocytes are produced. ovarian follicle A saclike structure in which an oocyte develops. ovary One of a pair of organs that produces oocytes. ovulation Th e release of an oocyte from the ovary during
the ovarian cycle. ovulatory phase Th e phase of the ovarian cycle during
which ovulation occurs. ovum (plural, ova) An egg; an oocyte; the female gamete. oxytocin A hormone that stimulates uterine contractions
during birth and possibly orgasm. Known as the “love hor- mone,” oxytocin has a major role in pair bonding.
Pap test A method of testing for cervical cancer by scraping cell samples from the cervix and examining them under a microscope.
paraphilia A mental disorder characterized by the American Psychiatric Association as recurrent, intense, sexually arousing fantasies, sexual urges, or behaviors generally last- ing at least 6 months and involving nonhuman objects, the suff ering or humiliation of oneself or one’s partner, or chil- dren or other nonconsenting persons.
parous woman A woman who has given birth. partialism A paraphilia in which a person is sexually
attracted to a specifi c body part. participant observation A method of observational
research in which the researcher participates in the behav- iors being studied.
pathological behavior Behavior deemed unhealthy or dis- eased by current medical standards.
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proximity Nearness in physical space and time. psychoanalysis A psychological system developed by Sigmund
Freud that traces behavior to unconscious motivations. psychosexual development Development of the psycho-
logical components of sexuality. puberty Th e stage of human development when the body
becomes capable of reproduction. pubic lice Phthirus pubis, colloquially known as crabs; tiny
lice that infest the pubic hair. pubococcygeus A part of the muscular sling stretching
from the pubic bone in front to the tailbone in back. queer theory Identifi es sexuality as a system that cannot be
understood as gender neutral or by the actions of hetero- sexual males and females. It proposes that one’s sexual identity and one’s gender identity are partly or wholly socially constructed.
random sample A portion of a larger group collected in an unbiased way.
rape Sexual penetration against a person’s will through the use or threat of force.
rape trauma syndrome Th e emotional changes an individual undergoes as a result of rape.
refractory period For men, a period following ejaculation during which they are not capable of having ejaculation again.
relaxin A hormone produced by the placenta in the later months of pregnancy that increases fl exibility in the ligaments and joints of the pelvic area. In men, relaxin is contained in semen, where it assists in sperm motility.
representative sample A small group representing a larger group in terms of age, sex, ethnicity, socioeconomic status, orientation, and so on.
repression A psychological mechanism that keeps people from becoming aware of hidden memories and motives because they arouse guilt or pain.
reproduction Th e biological process by which individuals are produced.
retrograde ejaculation Th e backward expulsion of semen into the bladder rather than out of the urethral opening.
retrovirus A virus capable of reversing the normal genetic writing process, causing the host cell to replicate the virus instead of itself.
reverse transcriptase An enzyme in the core of a retrovirus enabling it to write its own genetic program into a host cell’s DNA.
root Th e portion of the penis attached to the pelvic cavity. RU-486 See medication abortion. sadomasochism (S&M) A popular, nonclinical term for
domination and submission. satyriasis An excessive, uncontrollable sexual desire in a man. scabies A red, intensely itchy rash appearing on the genitals,
buttocks, feet, wrists, knuckles, abdomen, armpits, or scalp, caused by the barely visible mite Sarcoptes scabiei.
schema A set of interrelated ideas that helps individuals process information by organizing it in useful ways.
postpartum period Th e period (about 3 months) following childbirth, characterized by physical stabilization and emo- tional adjustment.
postpartum psychosis A serious and rare postpartum mental illness thought to be biologically based and related to hor- monal changes.
postrefusal sexual persistence Continued requests for sexual contact after being refused.
posttraumatic stress disorder (PTSD) A group of charac- teristic symptoms, such as depression, that follow an intensely distressing event outside a person’s normal life experience.
pragma In John Lee’s typology of love, practical love. precocious puberty Refers to the appearance of physical
and hormonal signs of pubertal development at an earlier age than is considered normal.
preconception care Interventions that aim to identify and modify medical, behavioral, and social risks to a woman’s health or pregnancy outcome through prevention and management.
pregnancy-induced hypertension Condition characterized by high blood pressure, edema, and protein in the urine.
premature ejaculation or rapid ejaculation A sexual func- tion diffi culty characterized by not being able to control or delay ejaculation as long as desired, causing distress.
premenstrual dysphoric disorder Severe premenstrual symp- toms, suffi cient enough to disrupt a woman’s functioning.
premenstrual syndrome (PMS) A set of severe symptoms associated with menstruation.
prepared childbirth or natural childbirth Based on knowl- edge of conditioned refl exes, women learn to mentally separate the physical stimulus of uterine contractions from the conditioned response of pain.
prepuce Th e foreskin of the penis. preterm birth Birth that takes place prior to 27 weeks of
gestation. prevalence Overall occurrence; the total number of cases of
a disease, for example. priapism Prolonged and painful erection due to the inability
of blood to drain from the penis. progesterone A female hormone that helps regulate the
menstrual cycle and sustain pregnancy. proliferative phase Th e buildup of the endometrium in
response to increased estrogen during the menstrual cycle. prostate gland A muscular gland encircling the urethra that
produces about one third of the seminal fl uid. prostate-specifi c antigen (PSA) test A blood test used to
help diagnose prostate cancer. prostatic hyperplasia A benign condition in which the
prostate gland enlarges and blocks the fl ow of urine. prostatitis Infl ammation of the prostate gland. prostitution Th e exchange of sex for money and/or goods. protection from harm A basic entitlement of all participants
in research studies, including the right to confi dentiality and anonymity.
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sexting Th e creating, sharing, and forwarding of sexually suggestive text and nude or nearly nude images.
sexual abuse trauma A dynamic marked by traumatic sexu- alization and feelings of betrayal, powerlessness, and stig- matization exhibited by children and adults who have been sexually abused.
sexual aggression Any kind of sexual activity performed against a person’s will through the use of force, argument, pressure, alcohol or drugs, or authority.
sexual assault Legal term for forced sexual contact that does not necessarily include penile-vaginal intercourse.
sexual aversion disorder A sexual function disorder charac- terized by a consistently phobic response to sexual activities or the idea of such activities.
sexual coercion A broad term referring to any kind of sex- ual activity initiated with another person through the use of argument, pressure, pleading, or cajoling, as well as force, pressure, alcohol or drugs, or authority.
sexual debut or fi rst sexual intercourse Penile-vaginal or anal intercourse that occurs for the fi rst time in a person’s life; it is often considered a milestone for many adolescents.
sexual diary Th e personal notes a study participant makes of his or her sexual activity and then reports to a researcher.
sexual double standard A standard applied more leniently to one sex than to another.
sexual dysfunction An impaired physiological response that prevents an individual from functioning sexually, such as erectile diffi culties or absence of orgasm. Also called sexual function dissatisfaction or sexual function problems.
sexual fl uidity Situation-dependent fl exibility in the gender of a woman’s sexual attraction.
sexual function dissatisfaction A condition in which an individual or couple, not based on a medical diagnosis, decide they are unhappy with their sexual relationship and that they have a problem. Also known as sexual function diffi culties or sexual dysfunction.
sexual function enhancement Improvement in the quality of one’s sexual function.
sexual harassment Th e abuse of power for sexual ends; the creation of a hostile work or educational environment because of unwelcomed conduct or conditions of a sexual nature.
sexual health Physical, mental, and social well-being related to sexuality.
sexual identity One’s self-label or self-identifi cation as a heterosexual, homosexual, or bisexual person.
sexual intercourse Th e movement of bodies while the penis is in the vagina. Sometimes also called vaginal intercourse or penile-vaginal intercourse.
sexual interest An inclination to behave sexually. sexuality Th e emotional, intellectual, and physical aspects
of sexual attraction and expression. sexually explicit material (SEM) Material such as photo-
graphs, fi lms, magazines, books, or Internet sites, whose primary themes, topics, or depictions involve sexuality or cause sexual arousal.
scientifi c method A systematic approach to acquiring knowledge by collecting data, forming a hypothesis, testing it empirically, and observing the results.
script In sociology, the acts, rules, and expectations associated with a particular role.
scrotum A pouch of skin that holds the two testicles. secondary sex characteristics Th e physical changes that
occur as a result of increased amounts of hormones target- ing other areas of the body.
secretory phase Th e phase of the menstrual cycle during which the endometrium begins to prepare for the arrival of a fertilized ovum; without fertilization, the corpus luteum begins to degenerate.
secure attachment A style of infant attachment characterized by feelings of security and confi dence in relation to the primary caregiver.
self-disclosure Th e revelation of personal information that others would not ordinarily know because of its riskiness.
semen or seminal fl uid Th e ejaculated fl uid containing sperm. seminal vesicle One of two glands at the back of the blad-
der that secrete about 60% of the seminal fl uid. seminiferous tubules Tiny, tightly compressed tubes in
which spermatogenesis takes place. sensate focus Th e focusing on touch and the giving and receiv-
ing of pleasure as part of the treatment of sexual diffi culties. serial monogamy A succession of monogamous (exclusive)
marriages or relationships. seroconversion Th e process by which a person develops
antibodies. serodiscordant A couple in which one person is HIV-
positive and the other is HIV-negative. serosorting Having sex with a partner one believes has
the same HIV status (negative or positive) as one’s own HIV status.
serostatus Th e absence or presence of antibodies for a partic- ular antigen.
sex Identifi cation as male or female based on genetic and anatomical sex characteristics.
sex fl ush A darkening of the skin or a rash that temporarily appears as a result of blood rushing to the skin’s surface during sexual excitation.
sex information/advice genre A media genre that transmits information and norms about sexuality to a mass audience.
sexism Discrimination against people based on their sex rather than their individual merits.
sexologist A specialist in the study of human sexuality. Also called sex researcher.
sex reassignment surgery A process that brings a person’s genitals in line with his or her gender identity and dimin- ishes the serious suff ering the person experiences.
sex selection Pre- and post-implantation methods that allow couples to choose whether to have a boy or a girl. (Also marketed as “family balancing.”)
sex surrogates In sex therapy, sex partners who assist clients having sexual diffi culties without spouses or other partners.
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spontaneous abortion Th e natural expulsion of the con- ceptus, commonly referred to as miscarriage.
squeeze technique A technique for the treatment of early or involuntary ejaculation in which the partner squeezes the erect penis below the glans immediately prior to ejaculation.
stalking A course of action that would cause a reasonable person to feel fear.
status An individual’s position or ranking in a group. statutory rape Consensual sexual intercourse with a female
under the age of consent. stereotype A set of simplistic, rigidly held, overgeneralized
beliefs about a person or group of people. sterilization A surgical procedure that makes the reproductive
organs incapable of producing or “delivering” viable gametes (sperm and eggs).
storge In John Lee’s typology of love, companionate love. strain gauge A device resembling a rubber band that is
placed over the penis to measure physiological response. streetwalker A prostitute who solicits on the streets. sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS) A phenomenon in
which an apparently healthy infant dies suddenly while sleeping.
surrogate motherhood An approach to infertility in which one woman bears a child for another.
survey research A method of gathering information from a small group to make inferences about a larger group.
sweating Th e moistening of the vagina by secretions from its walls. Also called vaginal transudation.
swinging A wide range of sexual activities conducted between three or more people. Typically, swinging activi- ties occur when a married or otherwise committed couple engages with another couple, multiple couples, or a single individual.
symptothermal method A fertility awareness method com- bining the basal body temperature and cervical mucus methods.
synthesis A whole formed by combining or integrating. syphilis An STI caused by the Treponema pallidum
bacterium. tantric sex A sexual technique based on Eastern religions in
which a couple shares “energy” during sexual intercourse. T cell Any of several types of lymphocytes involved in the
immune response. telephone scatologia A paraphilia involving recurrent,
intense urges to make obscene telephone calls. tenting Th e expansion of the inner two thirds of the vagina
during sexual arousal. teratogen A toxic substance that causes birth defects. testicle or testis (plural, testes) One of the paired male
gonads inside the scrotum. testosterone A steroid hormone associated with sperm
production, the development of secondary sex character- istics in males, and the sex drive in both males and females.
sexually transmitted infections (STIs) Infections most often passed from person to person through sexual contact.
sexual masochism A paraphilia characterized by recurrent, intense urges to engage in real (not fantasy) sexual behaviors in which the person is humiliated, harmed, or otherwise made to suff er.
sexual orientation Th e pattern of sexual and emotional attraction based on the gender of one’s partner.
sexual orientation uncertainty Being unsure of the gender of one’s sexual attraction.
sexual response cycle Sequence of changes and patterns that take place in the genitals and body during sexual arousal.
sexual sadism A paraphilia characterized by recurrent, intense urges to engage in real (not fantasy) sexual behav- iors in which the person infl icts physical or psychological harm on a victim.
sexual scripts Sexual behaviors and interactions learned from one’s culture.
sexual strategies theory Postulates that men and women have diff erent short-term and long-term mating strategies.
sexual variation Sexual variety and diversity in terms of sexual orientation, attitudes, behaviors, desires, fantasies, and so on; sexual activity not statistically typical of usual sexual behavior.
shaft Th e body of the penis. she-male A male who has undergone breast augmentation. smegma A cheesy substance produced by several small glands
beneath the foreskin of the penis and hood of the clitoris. social construction Th e development by society of social
categories such as masculinity, femininity, heterosexuality, and homosexuality.
social construction theory Views gender as a set of prac- tices and performances that occur through language and a political system.
socioeconomic status Ranking in society based on a com- bination of occupational, educational, and income levels.
sodomy Term used in the law to defi ne sexual behaviors other than penile-vaginal intercourse, such as anal sex and oral sex.
solicitation In terms of prostitution, a word, gesture, or action that implies an off er of sex for sale.
sonogram A visual image created by ultrasound. spectatoring Th e process in which a person becomes a spec-
tator of his or her sexual activities, thereby causing sexual function diffi culties.
sperm Th e male gamete. Also known as a spermatozoon. spermatic cord A tube suspending the testicle within the
scrotal sac, containing nerves, blood vessels, and a vas deferens.
spermatogenesis Th e process by which a sperm develops from a spermatid.
spermicide A substance that is toxic to sperm. spirochete A spiral-shaped bacterium. sponge A contraceptive device consisting of a round
polyurethane shield with a pouch in the center that covers the cervix.
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uterus A hollow, thick-walled, muscular organ held in the pelvic cavity by fl exible ligaments and supported by several muscles. Also known as womb.
vacuum aspiration A fi rst-trimester form of abortion using vacuum suction to remove the conceptus and other tissue from the uterus.
vagina In females, a fl exible, muscular organ that begins between the legs and extends diagonally toward the small of the back. It encompasses the penis during sexual inter- course and is the pathway (birth canal) through which an infant is born.
vaginal ring A vaginal form of reversible, hormonal birth control. Commonly referred to as NuvaRing.
vaginismus A sexual function diffi culty characterized by muscle spasms around the vaginal entrance, preventing the insertion of a penis.
vaginitis Any of several kinds of vaginal infection. value judgment An evaluation as “good” or “bad” based on
moral or ethical standards rather than objective ones. variable An aspect or factor that can be manipulated in an
experiment. varicocele A varicose vein above the testicle that may cause
lowered fertility in men. vas deferens (plural, vasa deferentia) One of two tubes that
transport sperm from the epididymis to the ejaculatory duct within the prostate gland.
vasectomy A form of surgical sterilization in which each vas deferens is severed, thereby preventing sperm from enter- ing the seminal fl uid.
vasocongestion Blood engorgement of body tissues. vernix Th e waxy substance that sometimes covers an infant
at birth. vestibule Th e area enclosed by the labia minora. virus A protein-coated package of genes that invades a cell
and alters the way in which the cell reproduces itself. voyeurism A paraphilia involving recurrent, intense urges
to view nonconsenting others while they are engaged in sexual activities.
vulva Th e collective term for the external female genitals. vulvodynia Chronic vulvar pain without an identifi able
cause. Western blot A test to determine whether antibodies are
specifi c to HIV. window period Th e variable amount of time it takes for the
immune system to produce enough antibodies to be detected by an antibody test.
yolk sac Th e producer of the embryo’s fi rst blood cells and the germ cells that will develop into gonads.
ZIFT (zygote intrafallopian transfer) An ART procedure whereby a woman’s eggs are fertilized in the laboratory and then transferred to her fallopian tubes.
zoophilia A paraphilia involving recurrent, intense urges to engage in sexual activities with animals. Also referred to as bestiality.
testosterone replacement therapy Treatment that is indi- cated when both clinical symptoms and signs suggestive of androgen defi ciency and decreased testosterone levels are present.
toxic shock syndrome (TSS) A potentially life-threatening condition caused by the Staphylococcus aureus bacterium and linked to the use of superabsorbent tampons and other devices that block the vagina or cervix during menstruation.
transcervical sterilization A permanent method of birth control that does not require surgery.
transgender Individuals whose appearance and behaviors do not conform to the gender roles ascribed by society for people of that sex.
transition Th e end of the fi rst stage of labor, when the infant’s head enters the birth canal.
transsexuality A phenomenon in which a person’s genitals and/or identity as a man or a woman are discordant.
transvestic fetishism A paraphilia in which a heterosexual male cross-dresses for sexual arousal.
transvestism A clinical term referring to the wearing of clothing of the other sex, usually for sexual arousal.
triangular theory of love A theory developed by Robert Sternberg emphasizing the dynamic quality of love as expressed by the interrelationship of three elements: intimacy, passion, and decision/commitment.
tribidism A behavior in which one partner lies on top of the other and moves rhythmically for genital stimulation.
trichomoniasis A vaginal infection caused by Trichomonas vaginalis. Also known as trich.
trust Belief in the reliability and integrity of another person, process, thing, or institution.
tubal ligation Th e cutting and tying off (or other method of closure) of the fallopian tubes so that ova cannot be fertilized.
Turner syndrome A genetic condition in which a female does not have the usual pair of X chromosomes. Also called 45,XO.
two-spirit In many cultures, a male who assumes female dress, gender role, and status.
ultrasound Th e use of high-frequency sound waves to create a visual image, as of the fetus in the uterus.
umbilical cord Th e cord connecting the placenta and fetus, through which nutrients pass.
unrequited love Love that is not returned. urethra Th e tube through which urine (and, in men, semen)
passes. urethral bulb Th e expanded portion of the urethra at the
bladder. urethral opening In females, the opening in the urethra,
through which urine is expelled. urethral orifi ce In males, the opening in the urethra,
through which semen is ejaculated and urine is excreted. urethritis Infl ammation of the urethra. urophilia A paraphilia in which a person gets sexual plea-
sure from contact with urine.
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Chapter 4
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Chapter 5
Opener: © John Cordes /Icon SMI/Corbis; p. 128: Katrina Wittkamp / Digital Vision/Getty Images; p. 129: © Creatas/PunchStock ; p. 131: © Aristide Economopoulos/Star Ledger/Corbis; p. 134: trbfoto /Brand X Pictures/ JupiterImages p. 135: Brendan Smialowski /Getty Images; p. 136: © Allison Rocks! Photography; p. 142: AP Photo/Lincoln Journal Star, Eric Gregory; p. 144: CRIS BOURONCLE/AFP/Getty Images; p. 145: © 2009 MICHAEL ENGLISH, M.D. – Custom Medical Stock Photo, All Rights Reserved; p. 152: Courtesy of Dr. Daniel Greenwald; p. 152: Courtesy of Dr. Daniel Greenwald; p. 153(top left): AP Photo/Steve Nesius ; p. 153(top right): China Photos/Getty Images; p. 153(bottom right): Beck Starr/ FilmMagic .
Chapter 6
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Chapter 7
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Chapter 8
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Chapter 9
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Chapter 10
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Chapter 11
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Chapter 12
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Chapter 13
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Petit Format/Photo Researchers, Inc.; p. 417: Michael Caulfi eld/Stand Up To Cancer via Getty Images; p. 419(top left): Steve Wisbauer / Photographer’s Choice/Getty Images; p. 419(bottom right): National Cancer Institute/Photo Researchers, Inc./Getty Images; p. 427: © John Henderson/ Alamy ; p. 428: Robert Laberge /Getty Images; p. 429: Catherine Leroy/ Sipa Press.
Chapter 14
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Chapter 15
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Chapter 16
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Chapter 17
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Chapter 18
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NI-1NI-1
Abbey, A., 405 Abdsaleh, S., 417 Abma, J., 168 Abma, J. C., 178 Abrams, R. C., 97 Abramson, P. R., 274, 275 Absi-Semaan, N., 135 Accord Alliance, 145, 147 Adami, H. O., 417 Adams, G., 108 Addison, T., 605 Adimora, A. A., 236, 487 Adler, N. A., 588 Administration on Children, Youth and
Families, 586 Advocates for Human Rights, 612 Agnew, K., 485 Agyei, Y., 175 Ahmed, S. F., 143, 147 Ahrold, T. K., 62, 63 Ahrons, C., 206 Ainsworth, F., 313 Ainsworth, M., 231 Akrfe, C., 600 Al-Attar, Z., 313 Albert, A. E., 611 Albert, B., 167, 170, 181 Albright, J. M., 599 Alcott, W., 16 Alden, B., 421 Alfi revic, Z., 367 Alison, L., 319 Allen, E. S., 237 Allen, K. R., 90 Allen-Taylor, L., 488 Al-Tayyib, A., 39 Altekruse, S. F., 414 Althof, S. E., 455, 473 Altman, D., 490 Amaro, H., 56 Amato, P. R., 206 American Academy of Child and Adolescent
Psychiatry, 592 American Academy of Gynecological
Laparoscopists, 423 American Academy of Pediatrics, 147, 379,
387, 391, 428 American Association of Retired Persons,
204, 209, 210 American Association of University
Women, 563 American Cancer Society, 214, 414, 415,
417, 418, 419, 420, 421, 422, 423,
424, 425, 426, 427, 428, 430, 457, 474
American College Health Association, 53, 54, 135
American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists, 76, 377, 388
American Psychiatric Association, 17, 58, 151, 314, 400, 401, 402, 439, 440, 441, 446, 447, 448, 450, 451, 452, 453, 454, 455, 584
American Psychiatric Association Work Group on Eating Disorders, 400
American Psychological Association, 9, 13, 31, 58, 166, 301, 302, 303, 305, 307, 309, 311, 312, 313, 314, 315, 317, 318, 319
American Social Health Association, 483, 484, 491, 498, 502, 503, 505, 510
American Society for Reproductive Medicine, 380
American Society of Plastic Surgeons, 399 American Sociological Association, 58 Amos, C., 617 Andersen, A. M. N., 373 Andersen, P. K., 373 Anderson, A. M., 424 Anderson, C., 589 Anderson, C. L., 377 Anderson, G. L., 213 Anderson, P. B., 578 Anderson, S. E., 165, 166 Andrew, G. R., 221 Andriole, G. L., 426 Angier, N., 474 Angotti, 170 Annan, N. T., 496 Annang, L., 488 Annon, J., 472 Apicella, C. L., 259 Applegate, C., 417 Appugliese, D., 166 Aragaki, A., 213 Aral, S. O., 487, 491 Araujo, A. B., 451 Archer, J., 584 Armstrong, L., 428 Armstrong & Wilson, 72 Arndt, W. B., Jr., 314 Aron, A., 96 Ashton, A. K., 474 Assalian, P., 455 Associated Press, 313 Atkins, D., 237
Atrash, H., 368 Auchincloss, A. H., 541 Austin, S. B., 566 Auvert, B., 387 Avila, L., 375 Ayala, G., 200 Ayoub, M. A., 544
Babb, P. J., 421 Baidoobonso, S. M., 485 Bailen, J. L., 473 Bailey, J., 175 Bailey, J. M., 175 Bailey, J. V., 507 Bailey, R. C., 387, 491 Bajos, N., 402 Baker, C. P., 614 Baker, J. A., 422 Baldwin, J., 116 Balsam, K., 224 Balsam, K. F., 224 Bancroft, J., 42, 72, 94, 97, 161, 163, 172,
303, 317, 443, 451, 459, 474, 475 Bandura, A., 131, 160 Barak, A., 605 Barbach, L., 139, 466 Barnes, J. E., 572 Barnes, M. L., 229 Barry, C. M., 602, 603 Barry, K., 618 Bartky, S. L., 132 Basena, M., 586 Basile, K. C., 560, 573, 586 Basson, R., 411, 442 Baucom, D. H., 237 Bauer, G. R., 485 Baughman, A. L., 567 Baum, K., 560 Baumeister, R. F., 91, 222, 579 Bauserman, R., 605 Bavendam, 473 Beach, 237 Beach, F., 258, 259, 268 Beals, K. P., 224 Becher, M., 448, 476 Beech, A. R., 321 Beetz, A. M., 311 Begley, E. B., 500 Belin, T., 387 Bell, A., 193 Bell, R. J., 96 Belsky, J., 167 Beltrami, J. F., 498
Name Index Name Index
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NI-2
Bem, D. J., 175 Bem, S. L., 137, 142 Bennett, C., 611 Benson, P. J., 259 Berchtold, A., 600 Beren, S. E., 61, 534 Beresford, S., 213 Berg, C., 357 Berg, C. A., 250 Bergner, D., 95 Berlin, F. S., 318 Berman, S., 485 Bernadel, L., 411 Bernhardt, J. M., 60 Bernstein, D. J., 503 Bernstein, E., 610 Berry, S. H., 8 Best, K., 286 Bettens, F., 260 Beyer-Flores, C., 77, 96, 98, 100,
116, 120 Bhasin, S., 411 Bianchi, D. W., 368 Biely, E., 9 Bilbrey, S., 423 Billingham, R., 407 Billioux, V. G., 546 Billy, J. O. G., 487, 511 Bimbi, D. S., 305, 314, 319, 320,
399, 432 Bingham, A., 484, 488 Binik, Y. M., 101, 121, 585 Bin Mohd Tambi, M., 457 Birnbaum, H. J., 583 Biskupic, J., 608, 609, 621 Bitzer, J., 294, 295 Black, 573 Black, M. C., 560, 573, 586 Blackwood, E., 19 Blair, J. M., 539 Blair, K. L., 99, 447 Blakeslee, S., 206 Blanchard, R., 175, 618 Blank, H., 178 Bleakley, A., 8, 521 Blechman, E. A., 257 Blum, D., 223 Blumberg, E. S., 301 Blumstein, P., 223, 285, 287, 288, 289 Bogaert, A. F., 175, 224 Bogart, L. M., 275, 500 Bogle, K. A., 262 Boland, M. L., 564 Bolzendahl, C., 623 Bonas, M., 487 Bonilla, L., 62 Bono, C., 153 Borneman, E., 159 Borrello, G., 226 Bostwick, H., 16 Botterill, P. M. B., 321 Bourdeau, B., 134 Bowen, A., 617 Bowen, D., 415 Boyd, C. J., 407 Boyer, C. B., 487 Boyett, B. C., 500 Boyle, E. M., 367
Boyle, F. M., 589 Boyle, P. S., 413 Bradley, R. H., 166 Bradley, S. J., 130, 152 Bradshaw, C. S., 507 Bradshaw, D., 230, 231 Brandon, B. J., 55, 173 Brantley, C., 269, 303, 304 Braun, M., 456 Braverman, E. R., 294, 295 Braverman, P., 531 Brawley, O. W., 426 Braxton, J. K., 494 Brecklin, L. R., 584 Breedlove, S., 175 Breiding, M. J., 560 Brents, B., 615 Brents, B. G., 610, 611, 615, 619 Bretherick, K. L., 374 Brett, M. J., 421 Brewaeys, 154 Breyer, J., 619 Bridgeland, W. M., 577 Briere, J. N., 589 Brizendine, L., 131, 232 Brock, G., 474 Brody, S., 294 Brookmeyer, R., 533 Brotto, L. A., 63, 95, 442 Brouillard, P., 5 Brower, K. J., 403 Brown, C., 451 Brown, C. E. L., 377 Brown, J., 12, 14, 128, 147, 411 Browne, A., 590 Browne, J., 617 Brucker, R. A., 610 Brufsky, A., 116 Bruni, F., 622 Buck, P. O., 405 Buff ardi, A. L., 490, 534 Buisson, O., 76 Bull, S., 521 Bullough, V. L., 19, 47, 51, 153, 618 Bunker, C. H., 388 Burgess, A. W., 583 Burke, W., 204 Busko, V., 5 Buss, D. M., 100, 101, 199, 234, 258, 260,
263, 265, 312 Bussey, K., 160 Butchart, A., 503 Butler, J., 132 Butler, S. M., 545 Butler, W. T., 483, 486, 490 Butterworth, M., 152 Buzzell, T., 600 Byard, R. W., 321 Bybee, D., 415 Byers, E. S., 247, 248, 281 Byers, F. S., 281 Byrd-Craven, J., 260, 261
Calam, R., 589 Calderone, M. S., 161 Calvert, S. L., 12, 13 Campbell, S., 11 Campos-Outcalt, D., 485
Canavan, M. M., 588 Cann, A., 234 Cantor, J., 175 Cantor, J. M., 175 Caplan, A. L., 501 Carael, M., 611 Carelli, R., 592 Carey, M. P., 261, 262, 487, 546, 590 Carlin, L., 177 Carlsen, E., 424 Carlson, B. E., 589 Carmichael, M. S., 97 Carnes, P., 316 Caron, S. L., 310 Carpenter, L. M., 223 Carrere, S., 247, 248, 252 Carroll, 600 Carroll, J. L., 314, 318 Carroll, J. S., 120, 602, 603 Casey, B. R., 503 Cason, M. J., 262 Cassell, C., 265, 601 Cassidy, L., 575 Castalano, S., 560 Castleman, M., 448, 449, 454, 455, 459,
461, 469, 470, 475, 601, 604 Catanese, K. R., 579 Catania, J. A., 248, 543 Cate, R. M., 203 Cater, S. M., 33 Cates, J. R., 483, 515 Cates, W., 331, 332, 338, 339, 344, 347,
352, 353, 484, 485, 526, 533 Catlett, J., 460 Cecil, H., 42, 275 Center, B., 317 Centers for Disease Control and Prevention,
53, 59, 177, 181, 196, 379, 381, 387, 391, 392, 411, 483, 484, 485, 488, 489, 491, 493, 494, 495, 496, 497, 498, 500, 501, 502, 503, 504, 505, 506, 507, 508, 509, 510, 511, 519, 520, 522, 526, 527, 528, 529, 530, 531, 532, 533, 534, 535, 536, 537, 538, 539, 540, 541, 544, 546, 547, 548, 550, 566, 573
Central Intelligence Agency, 378 Cespedes, Y., 134 Chae, D. H., 200 Chambers, W. C., 287 Chan, C., 200 Chan, K. L., 411 Chandra, A., 8, 170, 174, 200, 236, 546 Chang, M., 490, 539, 544 Chapman, S., 11 Chartier, D., 7 Chatterjee, N., 96 Chatzi, L., 373 Chaves, B., 410 Chelala, C., 612 Chen, A., 374 Chen, H., 488 Chen, J., 573, 586 Chen, L. P., 589 Chesney, M. A., 526, 533 Chesson, H. W., 493 Cheung, F. M., 240 Chevret-Measson, M., 455
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Chia, M., 97 Chik, H. M., 63 Child Trends, Inc., 201, 202 Chivers, M. L., 95, 99 Choi, D. Y., 589 Christensen, B. S., 443 Christensen, S., 175 Christoff , 122 Christopher, F. S., 245 Chuanjun, L., 525 Civic, D., 490 Clark, D. B., 488 Clark, H. A., 500 Clark, J., 50 Clark, L. R., 488 Clark, M., 182 Clark, S., 503 Clark, T. D., 50 Clausell, E., 225 Cleary, P. A., 411 Clinton-Sherrod, A. M., 405 Cloniger, C., 619 CNN.com/Law Center, 592 Cochran, S. D., 415 Coff ey, P., 484, 488 Cohen, D., 490, 513, 585, 619 Cohen, E., 232, 294 Cohen, M. S., 526, 533 Coleman, E., 153, 316, 317, 456 Coleman, L. M., 33 Colgan, P., 153 Collins, K., 9 Collins, R. L., 8 Collins, T., 503 Collins, W. A., 233 Comella, L., 599 Commons, M. L., 315 Comstock, J., 204 Connell, R. W., 132 Cook, D. A., 357 Cook, R. L., 488 Cooke, B., 175 Cooley, P. C., 39 Cooper, D. A., 525 Cooper, M. L., 33 Copas, A. J., 293 Copen, C., 168, 170, 174, 200 Copen, C. E., 546 Corliss, H. L., 566 Corwyn, R. H., 166 Cosby, B., 168 Costanza, M. E., 204 Cotton, A., 613 Couch, M., 171 Couper, M. P., 39 Coury-Doniger, 590 Couture, M., 311 Coviello, A., 411 Cowan, G., 576 Cox, A., 589 Coxeter, P. D., 589 Crawford, M., 133 Creanga, D. L., 473 Crepault, C., 311 Crepaz, N., 538, 548 Crocker, M. M., 413 Crombie, G., 135 Cronkite, R. C., 565
Crosby, R. A., 42, 55, 173, 280, 341, 488, 489, 503, 541, 545
Cubbins, L. A., 487 Cummings, J., 408 Cunningham, I., 79 Cupach, W. R., 204 Curtis, B., 513, 544 Curtis, M., 368 Cutler, W., 87
Dahinten, V. S., 511, 513, 544 Daling, J. R., 415 Dalton, M. A., 7 Damon, W., 456 Daneback, K., 602 Darcangelo, S., 307 d’Arcy, H., 407 Darling, C. A., 277 Darroch, J. E., 483, 487, 515 Darrow, W. W., 613 Darwin, C., 25 Davidson, 176 Davidson, J. K., 277 Davidson, J. M., 97 Davidson, J. O., 610, 619 Davidson, P., 619 Davies, M., 313, 584 Davies, S., 8 Davies, S. L., 60 Davila, V., 211 Davis, C. M., 235, 605, 606 Davis, J., 295 Davis, K. C., 404 Davis, K. E., 220 Davis, M., 503 Davis, S. L., 235 Davis, S. R., 96 Davison, S. L., 96 Dawson, B. S., 179 Day, A., 589 Day, S., 613 de Bruin, W. B., 488 Decker, M. R., 487 DeGarmo, D. S., 580 de Keizer, M., 450, 459, 478 Dekker, R., 409 DeLamater, J. D., 40, 160, 161, 208, 260,
304, 310, 460 De La Pena, E., 286 Delgado, V., 485 Delk, J., II, 456 Dempsey, A. F., 503 Denny, D., 144 Deogracias, J. J., 130, 152 Des Jarlais, D. C., 39 Desmond, K., 387 Devaney, B., 182 Devaney, S., 368 de Visser, R. O., 170, 193, 293, 452, 453 Diamond, L. M., 91, 152, 194, 195 Diamond, M., 147 Diaz, R. M., 61 Dick-Read, G., 390 Dickson, N. P., 491 DiClemente, R. J., 8, 42, 60 Dijkstra, P. U., 409 di Mauro, D., 59 Dinero, T. E., 579
Dines, G., 599 Dinh, T., 502 Dittman, M., 611 Dixen, J., 97 Djerassi, C., 357 Docter, R. F., 308 Dodge, B., 50, 55, 172, 194, 276, 277, 278,
293, 445, 446, 452, 453, 464, 531, 545
Dodge, R. C., 422 Doherty, I. A., 487 Dolnick, D., 617 Donaldson, R. H., 487 Donath, S., 96 Donnell, D., 551 Donnerstein, E., 8, 9 Donovan, B., 503 Dorey, G., 464 Douglas, J. M., 488 Dowdall, G. W., 405 Downs, J. S., 488 Dowsett, G. W., 171 Draper, C., 308 Draucker, C. B., 589 Dreger, A., 145 Druley, J. A., 61, 534 Duane, E. A., 577 Dube, S. A., 589 Ducharme, S. H., 409 Duff y, S. W., 417 Dunn, C. D. R., 464 Dunne, E. F., 502 Dunne, M. P., 175, 589 DuPont, S., 542 Dutertrc, S., 171 Dworkin, S. L., 268 Dyky, M. A., 116 Dzokoto, V. A., 108
Eagly, A., 263 Eaker, E. D., 250 Eap, S., 580 Eardley, I., 473 Earls, C. M., 311 Easton, J. A., 234, 236 Ebadi, S., 64 Edozien, F., 200 Edwards, J. M., 611, 613, 618, 619 Edwards, R. P., 422 Eke, N., 429 El-Bassel, N., 490, 539, 544 Elieff , C., 225 Ellen, J. M., 487 Ellin, A., 408 Elliott, D. M., 589 Elliott, L., 269, 303, 304 Elliott, M. N., 8 Ellis, C. D., 578, 583, 584 Ellis, H., 46 Ellis, L., 175, 193 Ellis, R., 202 Ellison, C. R., 461, 471 Ellison, N. B., 12 Eng, T. R., 483, 486, 490 Engelmann, U., 456 Enquist, M., 307 Enzlin, P., 409, 411 Epstein, A., 201
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NI-4
Erens, B., 293, 443 Espín, O. M., 61 Essien, E. J., 500 Estcourt, C. S., 485 Estrada, I., 565 Evans, W. P., 204 Exner, D., 567 Eyal, K., 9
Fagan, P. J., 318 Fagin, D., 175 Fahey, T., 427 Fairbrother, N., 374 Fairley, C. K., 507 Faludi, S., 32 Family Profi les, 201 Fang, B., 612 Farley, M., 613, 614 Farley, T. A., 544 Farnsworth, C. H., 567 Farquhar, C., 507 Farrer, F., 373 Fauci, A. S., 525 Federal Bureau of Investigation, 612 Federal Communication Commission, 9 Feinberg, L., 144 Feldman, H., 451 Feneley, R. C. L., 464 Fenigstein, A., 263 Fenton, K. A., 293, 443 Feray, J. C., 57 Feresu, S. A., 374 Ferguson, D. M., 97 Fernandez, C., 374 Fetters, K., 485 Fichner-Rathus, L., 240 Fichter, M. M., 402 Field, D. J., 367 Fielder, R. L., 261, 262 Figueredo, A. J., 587 Fincham, F. D., 237, 261, 262 Finer, L. B., 487 Fingerhut, A., 224 Finkelhor, D., 586, 587, 588,
590, 592 Finn, P., 407 Finnerty, L., 9 Firestone, L. A., 460 Firestone, R. W., 460 Fischhoff , B., 488 Fish, L. J., 490 Fishbein, M., 8, 513, 521, 544 Fisher, D., 321 Fisher, H., 25, 230, 232, 244,
259, 260 Fisher, T. D., 235 Fisher, W. A., 266, 294, 295,
605, 606 Fishman, M., 582 Fitzpatrick, J. H., 227 Fleming, D. T., 533 Flores, S. A., 493 Florsheim, P., 250 Foldes, P., 76 Food and Drug Administration, 335,
337, 351, 399, 430, 474, 503, 550
Ford, C. A., 258, 259, 268, 486
Fortenberry, J. D., 42, 50, 55, 71, 172, 176, 193, 194, 272, 276, 277, 278, 293, 430, 445, 446, 452, 453, 464, 473, 521, 531
Fortson, K., 182 Fortuna, K., 225 Foucault, M., 58 Foxman, B., 406, 407, 487 Franklin, E. A., 388 Franzetta, K., 486 Fraser, M., 71 Frazier, P. A., 584 Frederick, D. A., 260, 399, 400 Frederickson, B. L., 225 Freedom to Marry, 622 Freeman, C., 135 Freud, S., 45–46, 108 Friedlander, W., 11 Friederich, W. N., 160–162 Friesen, C., 175 Frisch, M., 443 Frohwirth, L. F., 355 Frost, D. M., 460
Gades, N. M., 457 Gage, S., 415 Gagliradi, G., 318 Gagnon, J. H., 50, 51, 132, 170, 172, 188,
193, 204, 223, 224, 266, 269, 278, 453, 486, 586
Galletly, C. L., 544 Gallup, G. G., 286 Gallup Poll, 569 Galvan, F. H., 500 Gardiner, K., 582 Garland, S. M., 507 Gatcomb, P., 411 Gatzeva, M., 234 Gavrilova, N., 115, 204 Gay, Lesbian, and Straight Education
Network, 567 Gay, P., 57 Gaylord, J., 42 Geary, D. C., 260, 261 Gebhard, P., 24, 46, 47, 271, 311 Geertzen, J. H. B., 409 Geist, C., 623 Gentry, A. C., 539 Genuis, M. L., 589 George, W. H., 309, 404 Georgiadis, J. R., 96 Gergen, K. J., 132 Germain, A., 584 Gerressu, M., 275, 277 Ghassemi, A., 464 Ghavami, N., 400 Ghirlanda, S., 307 Gidyez, C. A., 581 Giesen, D., 237 Gijs, 154 Gilbert, E., 419 Gilbert, L., 490, 539, 544 Giles, L. C., 221 Gill, K. M., 409 Gillen, K., 577 Gillespie, B. J., 13 Gilmore, M. R., 42 Giovannucci, E., 424
Giusti, L. M., 577 Glasgow, D., 589 Glasser, D. B., 457, 611 Gleave, M., 474 Gleghorn, A., 485 Glonek, G. F. V., 221 Glosser, A., 582 Goetz, A. T., 261 Gold, M. A., 7 Goldberg, A. E., 90 Golden, M. R., 537 Goldstein, I., 451 Golombok, S., 160 Golub, S. A., 305, 314, 319, 320 Gomez, S., 139 Goodenow, C. S., 566 Goodman, A., 321 Gooren, L., 153 Gorbach, P. M., 487 Gore-Felton, C., 404 Gorzalka, B. G., 63, 122 Gosink, P. D., 320 Gossett, E., 286 Gotta, G., 224 Gottman, J. M., 225, 247, 248,
251, 252 Gotz, H. M., 619 Gøtzsche, P. C., 417 Grady, W. R., 511 Graham, C. A., 42, 55, 94, 173, 224, 275,
277, 280, 341, 463, 545 Grajek, S., 227 Grant, J. E., 314 Gratch, L. V., 583 Graugaard, C., 443 Gravitt, P. E., 491 Gray, 373 Gray, R. H., 387, 491, 533 Green, B. C., 193 Green, R. J., 224 Green, T., 527 Greenberg, J. C., 620 Greene, A., 586 Greenfeld, L., 575 Greenhouse, L., 608 Greenleaf, W., 97 Gregor, T., 14 Grello, C., 227, 262 Gribble, J., 39 Griffi n, 565 Grigorenko, E. L., 61, 534 Grimbos, T., 95, 99 Grimes, T. R., 59 Grimley, D. M., 488, 521 Grnapathi, L., 39 Gronback, M., 443 Grønboek, M., 373 Groom, T. M., 611 Gross, J., 225 Gross, M., 489 Groth, A. N., 583 Groth, N., 583 Grothaus, L., 490 Grov, C., 13, 399 Grubin, D., 318 Grulich, A. E., 193, 293, 525 Guay, A., 97 Guerrero Pavich, E., 61
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NI-5
Guest, F., 484 Gunasehera, H., 11 Gupta, J., 487 Gutheil, T. G., 315 Guttmacher Institute, 115, 173, 179,
189, 326, 328, 330, 333, 354, 356, 393
Haavio-Mannila, E., 448 Hadden, W., 541 Hadeed, V., 116 Hall, C. T., 383 Hall, G. C. N., 580 Hall, H. I., 529, 530, 544, 546 Hall, K., 447, 459, 461 Hall, L. R., 357 Hall, S. A., 451 Hallfors, D. D., 611, 613, 618, 619 Halpern, C. T., 222, 486 Halpern-Felsher, B. L., 168, 170 Hamilton, B. E., 367, 374, 389 Hamilton, C., 457 Hamilton, D. T., 39 Hammersmith, S., 193 Hampton, D., 40, 194 Han, M., 134 Handsfi eld, H. H., 504 Hanson, R. K., 579 Harbord, S. H. A., 375 Hardenberg, S. A., 301, 313 Harmon, T., 131 Harper, M. S., 227, 262 Harrington, K., 8, 60 Harris, G. T., 168, 572 Harris, S. M., 227 Harrison, M. A., 286 Hart, T. A., 538 Harte, C. B., 474 Hartzell, R. M., 545 Harvard Health Publications, 214 Harvey, J. H., 221 Haselton, M. G., 260 Hatcher, R. A., 331, 332, 338, 339, 344,
347, 352, 353, 484, 611 Hatfi eld, E., 235 Hatway, J., 42 Hatzenbuehler, M. L., 567 Hatzichristou, D., 451 Haugaard, J. J., 587 Hausbeck, 610, 611, 615, 619 Hausbeck, K., 615 Hawkins, M., 250 Hawkins, Y., 419 Haydon, K., 233 Hayes, D. K. 374 Hayes, A., 226 Hayes, R. J., 491 Hazan, C., 230, 231 Heesacker, M., 223 Hefl ing, K., 565 Heiman, J. R., 95, 97, 404, 423, 473 Heiss, G., 213 Hellquist, B. N., 417 Helms, D. J., 508 Henderson, J., 281 Hendrickson, C. S., 309 Hennessy, M., 8, 513, 544 Henning, K., 269, 270
Henshaw, S., 177 Herbenick, D., 50, 55, 71, 161, 172,
176, 193, 194, 272, 276, 277, 278, 293, 445, 446, 452, 453, 464, 473, 531
Herbert, J. H., 493 Herbison, P., 491 Herdon, A., 145 Herdt, G., 18 Herlyn, A., 619 Hernandez, A., 527 Herndershot, C. S., 404 Herndon, N. L., 483, 515 Herz, R., 260 Herzberger, S. D., 588 Herzer, M., 57 Hetherington, E. M., 206 Hicks, T. V., 270 Higginbotham, E. B., 59 Higgs, D. C., 588 Hill, C. A., 223, 562 Hill, G. J., 224 Hillis, S. D., 423 Hinds, J. D., 610 Hine, D. C., 60 Hines, M., 160 Hiripi, E., 401 Hirschfeld, M., 57, 58 Hirschfeld, S., 565 Hobson, K. M., 281 Hock, R. R., 615 Hoff man, V., 490, 513 Holden, A. E. C., 487, 540 Holland, A., 225 Holland, P., 206 Hollifi eld, M., 584 Holmberg, D., 99, 447 Holmes, K. K., 406, 407, 487, 490, 534 Holmes, R. M., 581 Holmes, T. H., 565 Holmstrom, L. L., 583 Holstege, G., 96 Holtgrave, D. R., 544, 546 Hood, J., 368 Hook, E. W., 8 Hooker, E., 58 Hook III, E. W., 521 Hopkins, P. N., 250 Hoppe, M. J., 42 Horne, L., 589 Horwith, M., 459 Hosmane, B., 97 Houk, C. P., 147 Houser, S., 488 Houts, R. M., 167 Howells, K., 321 Hsu, A., 378 Huang, B., 541 Hucker, S. J., 320, 321 Hudson, J. I., 401 Huey, S., 134 Huff , M., 577 Hughes, A., 143, 147 Hughes, I. A., 147 Hughes, J. P., 537 Hughes, S. M., 286 Human Rights Campaign, 143, 144, 152,
432, 621
Human Rights Watch, 593 Humbert, R., 97 Humphreys, L., 42 Humphreys, T. P., 577 Hunter, J. A., 193, 195, 587 Hunter, S. B., 8 Hurrell, R. M., 575 Hurwitz, S., 485 Hutchinson, A., 500 Hutchinson, A. B., 529, 530 Hutchinson, K. B., 488, 500, 507 Huws, R., 320 Hyde, J. S., 40, 260, 304, 310, 459 Hymel, S., 135
Ickovics, J. R., 61, 534 Ieuan, A., 147 Insel, P. M., 400, 402, 427 Institute of Medicine, 415, 439,
476, 547 InteliHealth, 87 International AIDS Vaccine Initiative, 552 International Rectal Microbicide
Advocates, 552 Ionannidis, J. P., 33 Iritani, B. J., 611, 613, 618, 619 Irizarry, Y., 602, 603 Ishii-Kuntz, M., 62, 63
Ja, D., 62 Jackson, C. A., 610, 611, 615, 619 Jackson, G., 411 Jackson, M., 488 Jackson, R. L., 318 Jackson-Brewer, K., 448, 476 Jacobs, S. E., 19 Jadva, V., 160 Jairam, J. A., 485 Jamiesons, D. J., 423 Jannini, E. A., 294, 295, 307 Janssen, D. F., 166 Janssen, E., 43, 94 Janssen, R., 548 Janus, C., 305 Janus, S., 305 Jasienska, S., 259 Javanbakhtg, M., 531 Jayson, S., 260 Jelovica, B., 603 Jenness, S. M., 531 Jin, X., 619 Johnson, A. M., 275, 277, 443 Johnson, B. T., 546 Johnson, D., 134 Johnson, J., 511, 513, 544 Johnson, K., 368 Johnson, L. B., 60, 179 Johnson, L. L., 130, 152 Johnson, V., 213, 410, 450 Johnson, V. E., 48–49, 51, 93, 108, 282,
459, 467 Johnston, J. C., 320 Joint Commission, 368 Jonason, R. K., 262 Jones, J. H., 236, 327, 349, 352, 500, 501 Jones, L. M., 586 Jones, R. K., 355 Jordan, A. B., 8, 9
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NI-6
Jordon, J., 610 Joyce, G. F., 432 Jumbelic, M. I., 320 Just the Facts Coalition, 171
Kaciroti, N., 166 Kaestle, C. E., 222, 485, 486 Kafatos, A., 373 Kafka, M., 315 Kahn, J. A., 503 Kaiser Family Foundation, 6, 8, 10, 169,
511, 542, 567 Kajumulo, K. F., 404 Kalager, M., 417 Kaldor, J. M., 525 Kalichman, S. C., 309, 538 Kalof, L., 574 Kanouse, D. E., 8 Kantrowitz, B., 213 Kaplan, A., 142 Kaplan, H. S., 91, 93, 455, 459, 471 Kaplowitz, P. B., 165 Karlin, G., 474 Kaufman, M., 410 Kavanaugh-Lynch, M. H. E., 415 Kaye, R., 565 Kayser, K., 419 Kearl, H., 562 Keele, B. F., 533 Keesling, B., 450, 451, 452, 453, 470, 604 Keller, S., 14 Kellerman, S. E., 500 Kellogg, N., 163 Kelly, J., 206 Kelly, M. P., 277 Kennedy, A., 609, 621 Kennedy, E., 500 Kennedy, H., 57 Kent, H., 368 Kenyon, E. B., 314 Kertbeny, K. M., 57 Kessler, R. C., 401 Keuls, E., 18 Keys, D., 171 Khalife, S., 585 Khan, A., 64 Khanum, P. A., 64 Kibblewhite, S. J., 130, 152 Kidd, S. A., 614, 617 Kidder, L. H., 564 Kigozi, G., 387, 493 Kigozi, K., 491 Kim, J., 9 Kim, Y. J., 223 Kimerling, R., 565 King, P. A., 501 Kingston, D. A., 319 Kinkel, D., 8 Kinsey, A., 24, 44, 46, 47, 48, 116, 166,
192, 193, 271, 289, 311 Kip, K. E., 488, 500, 507 Kirby, D., 51, 168, 169, 174, 182, 183 Kircher, J. R., 277 Kirkpatrick, L. A., 263, 265 Kissinger, P. J., 544 Klausner, J., 485 Klebanoff , M. A., 507 Klein, D. J., 500
Klein, M., 470, 471, 475 Kleiner, S., 602, 603 Kleinplatz, P., 318 Kleinplatz, P. J., 302 Klentrou, P., 175 Kloner, R. A., 473 Klotz, T., 456 Kluger, J., 25 Knowles, J., 294 Koch, P. B., 98, 442 Koch, W., 593 Kochanek, K. D., 260 Koenig, M. A., 39 Kogevinas, M., 373 Kohlberg, L., 132 Kolata, G., 50 Kolodny, R. C., 213, 410, 450 Komisaruk, B. R., 76, 77, 96, 98, 100, 116,
120, 270 Kong, X., 491 Kontula, O., 447, 448, 449 Koss, M., 405, 584, 605 Koss, M. P., 579, 581 Kost, K., 177 Koumans, E. H., 488, 507 Koutis, A. D., 373 Kowal, D., 331, 332, 338, 339, 344, 347,
352, 353 Kraff t-Ebing, R. v., 44–45 Krakow, B., 584 Kral, M. J., 614, 617 Krane, R., 451 Krivickas, K. M., 225 Kuhns, J. B., 611, 613 Kunkel, D., 9 Kurinczuk, J. J., 367
Laborde, C., 402 Lacey, R. S., 227 Ladas, A., 76 Lafl eur, R. A., 564 Lagarde, E., 387 Lalumière, M. L., 95, 99, 175, 311, 572 Lamaze, F., 390 Lampe, C., 12 LaMunyon, C. W., 261 Landry, V., 349 Lang, S., 19 Langmark, F., 417 Langstrom, N., 309, 313 Larsen, R. J., 234, 263, 265 Larsen, U., 429 Larsson, I., 160 Laties, A. M., 473 Lauman, 50, 236 Laumann, E., 50, 170, 172, 193, 204, 223,
224, 269, 278, 453, 486, 586 Laumann, E. O., 266, 267, 444, 453, 611 Law, M. G., 525 Lawrence-Webb, 134 Laws, D. R., 321 Lee, J. A., 226 Lee, J. E., 407 Lee, J. M., 166 Lee, P. A., 143, 147 Legenbauer, T., 400 Lehne, G. K., 301 Leiblum, S. R., 451, 455
Leibowitz, A. A., 387 Leigh, B. C., 42 Leitenberg, H., 269, 270 Leitzmann, M. F., 424 Lenahan, B., 457 L’Engle, K. L., 12 Lenz, R., 410 Leonard, A. C., 503 Lethbridge-Cejku, M., 411 Letherby, G., 56 LeVay, S., 116 Levenson, R. W., 225 Lever, J., 13, 283, 287, 293, 399, 400, 617 Lewis, J., 206 Lewtas, A. J., 547 Li, N. P., 262 Li, X., 533 Lichtenstein, B., 521 Lidegaard, O., 353 Lindau, S. T., 115, 204 Linden, D. J., 232 Lindstrom, P., 175 Linton, M. A., 579 Lips, H., 116, 241, 247 Lipshultz, L., 474 Lipson, P., 259 Little, A. C., 259 Littlefi eld, 134 Lloyd, B., 404 Lloyd, E., 98 Lloyd, S. A., 203 Locke, B. D., 577 Loenser, K., 400 Lofquist, D., 202, 225 Loftus, J., 443 Logan, C., 301 Logan, T. K., 561 London, S., 375 Long, S., 443 Loulan, J. A., 93 Lovejoy, T. J., 541 Lovell, N., 487 Lowe, K., 38 Lowenstein, L., 307 Lubienski, S. T., 135 Luder, M., 600 Lumeng, J. C., 166 Lussier, P., 315 Luszca, M. A., 221 Lutalo, T., 533 Lutnick, A., 619 LWPES/ESE Consensus Group, 143, 147 Lyerla, R., 611 Lyna, P., 490 Lynne, J., 613
Macaluso, M., 489 Macdowall, W., 443 MacKay, J., 59 Mackey, R. A., 240 Mackey, S., 96 MacNeil, S., 247 Madsen, L., 318 Madsen, S. D., 602, 603 Magnus, M. K., 544 Mah, K., 101, 121 Mahabeer, P., 565 Mahajan, A. P., 521
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NI-7
Mahalik, J. R., 577 Mahay, J., 266, 267 Maier, T., 50 Maisel, N., 400 Malamuth, N. M., 579, 587, 605 Mangum, J. L., 234 Manhart, L. E., 487, 490, 534 Manlove, J., 486 Mann, R. E., 313 Mansfi eld, P. K., 98, 442 Mansson, S., 602 Mansson, S. A., 42 Marchione, M., 426 March of Dimes, 375, 378, 389 Marcofty, J., 199 Margolies, L., 448, 476 Marino, R., 617 Markowitz, L. E., 491, 502 Marks, C., 485 Marks, G., 493, 538, 548 Marlow, F. W., 259 Marrazzo, J. M., 484, 485, 488 Marshall, D., 15 Marshall, L. E., 321 Marshall, W. L., 321 Marsolo, K. A., 503 Martin, C., 24, 44, 46, 47, 116, 166, 192,
193, 271, 289, 311 Martin, E. K., 581 Martin, J. A., 260, 367, 374, 389 Martin, N., 175 Martinez, G. M., 178 Martino, S. C., 8 Martinson, F. E. A., 487 Martsolf, D. S., 589 Marvin, T., 39 Masaro, C. L., 511, 513, 544 Masters, W. H., 48, 49, 51, 93, 108, 213,
282, 410, 450, 459, 467 Matarazzo, H., 172 Matek, O., 315 Matich-Maroney, J., 413 Matteson, D., 200 Maxmen, J., 309 Mayo Clinic, 432, 433, 511 Mays, V. M., 415 McAussian, P., 405 McBean, A., 317 McBride, C. M., 490 McBride, K. R., 430 McCabe, M. P., 408, 410, 575, 583, 610 McCabe, S. E., 403, 407 McCarthy, B. W., 279, 284, 285, 290, 438,
447, 450, 462, 464, 465, 474, 475, 477
McCarthy, E., 279, 284, 285, 290, 438, 447, 450, 464, 465, 477
McClung, M. W., 488 McConaghy, N., 321 McCormick, N., 56 McCoy, K., 225 McDonagh, L. K., 118 McDonald, A., 591 McFarland, W., 485 McFarlane, M., 521 McGarvey, E. L., 404 McGuire, B. E., 118 McKee, A., 605
McKeganey, N., 614 McKinlay, J., 451 McKinney, K., 204 McLawsen, J. E., 318 McMahon, C. G., 294, 295 McManus, B., 226 McManus, S., 293, 443 McNaughton-Collins, M., 432 McNeill, B., 139 McNutt, L., 589 McPherson, K., 586 McWhirter, D. P., 48, 192, 193 Mead, M., 98, 130 Meana, M., 585 Meaney, G. J., 312 Mears, B., 608 Meiners, L. C., 96 Men Can Stop Rape, 582, 584, 585, 586 Menvielle, E., 147 Mercer, C. H., 275, 277, 293, 443, 485 Merrick, M. T., 560 Meston, C. M., 62, 63, 100, 101, 199,
474, 577 Mettenburg, J., 586 Metz, M. E., 462, 610 Meuleman, E. J. H., 115 Meyer, I. H., 460 Meyer-Bahlburg, H. F. L., 130, 152 Meyers, A., 168 Michael, R., 50, 170, 172, 193, 204,
223, 224, 269, 278, 453, 486, 586
Michaels, S., 50, 170, 172, 193, 204, 223, 224, 266, 267, 269, 278, 453, 486, 586
Michaud, P., 600 Miletski, H., 311 Milhausen, R. R., 55, 173, 280, 341, 463,
489, 503, 541 Miller, H., 39 Miller, L., 608 Miller, W. C., 486 Millet, G. A., 493 Milliken, J., 39 Milne, C., 599 Milner, J., 587 Mindel, A., 485 Miner, M. H., 317 Minichiello, V., 617 Mintzes, B., 475 Miu, A., 8 Moalem, S., 259, 260 Moaveni, A., 64 Mohler-Kuo, M., 405 Mokotoff , E. D., 539 Molitor, F., 485 Moller, L. C., 135 Monahan, P., 407 Money, J., 302, 319 Monroe, J., 578 Montagu, A., 242 Montgomery, J. P., 539 Monto, M. A., 289, 610, 615 Montorsi, F., 473 Moore, N. B., 176 Moore, A. M., 355 Moore, G. R., 503 Moreau, C., 402 Moreiba, E., 457
Morgan, E. M., 600, 602, 603 Morrill, A. C., 61, 534 Morris, M., 39 Morrison, D. M., 42 Morrison, T. G., 118 Mortensen, P. B., 353 Morton-Bourgon, K. E., 579 Moser, C., 302, 304, 318 Moses, S., 387, 491 Mosher, B. S., 178 Mosher, D. L., 274, 275 Mosher, W. D., 170, 174, 200, 236, 327,
349, 352 Motluk, A., 175 Movement Advancement Project, 570,
571, 621 Moynihan, R., 475 Moysich, K. B., 422 Muehlenhard, C. L., 56, 99, 287, 575,
577, 579 Mukherjee, R. A. S., 373 Munabi, S. K., 491 Muncher, S. J., 577 Munk Laursen, T., 353 Munk-Olsen, T., 353 Murphy, W., 314 Murray, P. J., 488 Mushovic, I., 566 Must, A., 165, 166 Muth, S. Q., 613 Myers, W. J., 588
Nacopoulos, A. G., 547 Nagaraja, J., 311 Nagel, J., 60 Najman, J. M., 589 Nakano, M., 62 Nalugoda, F., 491 Nanda, S., 19 Nandwani, R., 611 Nasserzadeh, S., 77, 96, 98, 100,
116, 120 Nathan, S. G., 451, 455 Nathanson, C. A., 223 Th e National Campaign to Prevent Teen and
Unplanned Pregnancy, 12, 13, 176, 177, 178, 179, 180
National Cancer Institute, 211, 413, 414, 415, 424
National Center for Environmental Health, 457 National Center for Family & Marriage
Research, 201 National Center for Health Statistics, 52,
53, 531 National Center for Missing and Exploited
Children, 612 National Coalition of Anti-Violence
Programs, 567 National Guidelines Task Force, 190 National Institute of Allergy and Infectious
Diseases, 525, 551 National Institute of Child Health and
Human Development, 431, 432 National Institute of Mental Health, 400,
401, 402, 403 National Institute on Aging, 115, 211, 212,
213, 215, 411 National Institutes of Health, 491
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NI-8
National Organization for Victim Assistance, 585
National Vulvodynia Association, 431 National Women’s Health Information
Center, 432, 491 Navarro, M., 50 Navarro, R. L., 40, 194 Neale, M. C., 175 Nehra, A., 474 Nelson, A. L., 331, 332, 338, 339, 344, 347,
352, 353, 484 Nelson, L. J., 602, 603 Nelson, T. F., 403 Ness, R. B., 422, 488, 500, 507 Nevid, J. S., 240 Newman, L., 607 Newring, K. A. B., 308 Niccolai, L. M., 544 Nichols, L., 566 Nichols, M., 450 Nicolosi, A., 457 Nielsen, M., 417 Nielson, C. M., 488 Niemann, Y., 139 Nkanginieme, K., 429 Noar, S., 546 Nobre, P., 120 Nordling, N., 319 Nordone, A., 209 Norris, J., 309, 404 North American Menopause Society, 212 Nusbaum, M. R., 451, 457
Oades, G., 71 Oakley, A., 133 O’Brien, B. A., 240 Odette, F., 410 O’Donohue, W. T., 321 Offi ce on Women’s Health, 578 Ogden, G., 270, 463 Ogilvie, G., 511, 513, 544 Ohl, M. E., 541 Okazaki, S., 63, 139, 240 O’Keeff e, G., 72 Okonofua, F. E., 429 Okundaye, 134 Oldenberg, C. M., 564 Olsen, J., 373 Olson, C. D., 602, 603 Ontai, L. L., 62 Oronsaye, F., 429 Orr, D. P., 42 Oskin, T. A., 473 Osler, M., 443 Ostrow, D. E., 538 O’Sullivan, L. F., 268, 447, 577 Ott, A., 542 Ousterhout, M. M., 547 Owen, C., 507 Owen, J., 261, 262 Owen-Anderson, A., 130, 152 Owens, A. F., 316
Paans, A. M., 96 Pace, C. R., 473 Padilla-Walker, L. M., 602, 603 Padma-Nathan, H., 473 Paepke, A. J., 260
Page, J., 314 Page-Shafer, K., 485 Paik, A., 234, 262, 444, 453, 611 Palmateer, N., 547 Palmisano, G., 97 Palomaki, G., 368 Panzer, C., 97 Paolucci, E. O., 589 Paone, D., 39 Papp, J., 488 Parke, S., 96 Parker, C. B., 387, 491 Parker, R., 132 Parker, W. Y., 357 Parrinder, G., 14 Parson, J. T., 432 Parsons, C., 577 Parsons, J. T., 305, 314, 319, 320, 399 Parsons, S., 318 Partrick, D. M., 511, 513, 544 Pasco Fearon, R. M., 167 Patelarou, E., 373 Paterson, A. D., 175 Patnaik, J. L., 488 Patterson, T. L., 407 Paul, B., 600 Paul, C., 491 Paul, E. L., 226 Paul, P., 601 Pavao, J., 565 Paz-Bailey, G., 488 Pazol, K., 357 Pearce, G., 250 Pedersen, B., 443 Pedersen, C. B., 353 Pempek, T. A., 12, 13 Pepitone, M., 175 Peplau, L. A., 224, 399, 400 Perdue, S. T., 487, 540 Perel, E., 449, 460 Perencevich, E., 541 Perera, B., 407 Perrin, P. B., 223 Perry, J. D., 76 Pertot, S., 21, 24, 448, 449, 468 Perz, J., 419 Petersen, J., 424 Peterson, I., 485 Peterson, Z. D., 56, 575, 577 Peterson, Z. E., 423 Peterson-Badali, M., 130, 152 Petta, I., 586 Pew Internet & American Life Project, 12 Pew Research Center, 205 Phelan, P., 588 Phelps, J. L., 577 Phillips, J. A., 504 Phillips, M., 99 Phillips-Plummer, L., 613 Piche, L., 315 Pierce, A., 488 Pillard, R. C., 175 Pinheiro, A. P., 402 Pinkerton, S. D., 275, 544 Pinto, 373 Pistole, M. C., 233 Pittet, I., 600 Pitts, M., 171
Pizarro, M., 139 Plana, E., 373 Planned Parenthood, 334, 335, 336, 337,
338, 416 Platz, E. A., 424 Poehling, 374 Pogrebin, L. C., 160 Polaris Project, 612 Policar, M. S., 331, 332, 338, 339, 344,
347, 352, 353 Pollis, C. A., 56 Pomeroy, W., 24, 44, 46, 47, 116, 166, 192,
193, 271, 289, 311 Ponch, I. G., 577 Pontari, M. A., 432 Pope, H. G., 401 Popp, D., 133 Population Connection, 376 Porter, J., 62 Potdar, R., 39 Potterat, J. J., 613 Poulson, G., 367 Powell, B., 623 Powell, E., 560 Prause, N., 224 Prejean, J., 527 Preston, M., 263 Price, M., 315 Price, P., 240 Prieto, L., 139 Primack, B. A., 7 Prince, V., 308 Prins, M., 619 Pruitt, S. L., 503 Purdie, D. M., 589 Puren, A., 387 Putnam, F. W., 586, 587 Pyke, K., 134
Qian, A., 529, 530 Quay, L., 182 Quayle, E., 315 Queen, C., 613, 614 Quigley, M., 367 Quinn, M., 421 Quinn, S. C., 500 Quinn, T. C., 387, 525, 533 Quinsey, V. L., 572 Quintus, B. J., 261
Racette, S., 320 Raff aelli, M., 62 Raffl e, A. E., 421 Raj, A., 56, 487 Rakai Project Team, 533 Ramsey, S., 71 Rand, M., 560 Randall, H. E., 281 Randolph, M. E., 404 Raney, T. J., 402 Rankin, J., 374 Rape, Abuse, and Incest National Network,
573, 578, 580, 582, 584, 585 Rape Network, 584 Rashidian, A., 64 Rathus, S. A., 240 Rawlinson, L., 451 Raymond, N., 317
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NI-9
Reece, M., 50, 55, 71, 172, 176, 193, 194, 272, 276, 277, 278, 293, 407, 445, 446, 452, 453, 464, 473, 531
Reece, R., 450, 459, 476 Reed, E., 56 Reed, J. B., 493 Regan, P. C., 286 Regnerus, M. D., 170 Reifenrath, B., 456 Reifman, A., 227 Reimers, S., 42 Reinders, A. A., 96 Reinholtz, R. K., 287 Reinisch, J. M., 192, 193, 280, 281 Reiss, I., 24, 198, 219 Reitman, V., 474, 475 Renfro, S., 144 Reppucci, N. D., 587 Resick, P. A., 581 Resnick, P. J., 316 Reuters, 378 Reverby, S. M., 500, 501 Reynolds, G., 370 Reynolds, M., 161 Reyonds, A., 310 Reznik, Y., 168, 170 Rhodes, P. H., 544, 546 Rice, M. E., 572 Richards, K., 144 Richters, J., 170, 193, 293, 452, 453 Rickert, V. I., 576 Rideout, V., 9 Ringwood, K., 485 Riscol, L., 474 Rissel, C. E., 170, 193, 293, 452, 453 Roan, S., 431 Roberts, S., 623 Roberts, S. J., 415 Robertson, K., 587 Robillard, A., 60 Robinson, J. P., 135 Robinson, P., 44 Robinson, W. P., 375 Robson, S., 9 Rochkind, J., 542 Rodin, J., 61, 534 Roesler, T. A., 586 Rogan, W. J., 374 Rogers, S. M., 39 Rogler, L. H., 59 Roisman, G. I., 225 Roller, C., 589 Romanowski, B., 504 Rompa, D., 309 Rosario, M., 193, 195 Roscoe, W., 19, 153 Roselli, C., 33 Rosen, D. S., 400, 402, 403 Rosen, R., 411, 451 Rosen, R. C., 444, 453 Rosenberg, S. J., 473 Rosenthal, L., 225 Rosman, J., 316 Ross, M. W., 42, 317, 500, 617 Ross, R., 589 Rosser, B. R. S., 456 Roth, W., 427 Roth, W. T., 400, 402
Rothblum, E. D., 224 Rothblum, R., 224 Rothenberg, R. B., 613 Rothenberg, R. M., 423 Rothman, E. F., 567 Royce, T., 13 Rozas, A., 593 Rubin, K. H., 135 Rudd, J. M., 588 Ruiz, J., 485 Rupp, L. J., 308 Rural HIV/STD Prevention Work
Group, 541 Rutledge, B., 411 Rutter, 373 Ruzic, J., 603 Ryan, S., 486 Ryder, A. G., 63 Rye, B. J., 312
Sachs-Ericsson, N., 589 Sadker, D., 134 Salazar, L. F., 42 Saltzman, L. E., 573, 586 Sampson, R., 576, 580, 581 Sanchez, Y. M., 61 Sandberg, D. E., 149 Sanders, S. A., 50, 55, 71, 94, 172, 173,
176, 192, 193, 194, 272, 276, 277, 278, 280, 293, 341, 445, 446, 452, 453, 464, 473, 488, 531, 545
Sandfort, T. G., 450, 459, 478 Sandnabba, N. K., 319 Sandoval, M., 419 Sansom, S., 529, 530 Santtila, P., 319 Sarkar, S., 611 Sarnquist, C. C., 541 Sarri, K., 373 Saslow, D., 204 Satterwhite, C. L., 494 Sauvageau, A., 320 Savic, I., 175 Savin-Williams, R. C., 171, 172 Savoy, H. B., 40, 194 Sawyer, K. A., 204 Sawyer, R., 618 Sawyer, S., 610 Sayad, B. W., 182 Scalia, A., 608 Scalora, M. J., 318 Schact, R. L., 404 Schecter, E., 91 Scheer, S., 485 Schei, B., 611 Schick, V., 50, 55, 71, 172, 176, 193, 194,
272, 276, 277, 278, 293, 445, 446, 452, 453, 473, 531
Schiller, J. S., 411 Schiraldi, G., 618 Schmidt, C. W., 318 Schmidt, P., 615 Schmitt, D. P., 260, 263 Schnarch, D., 277, 448, 460, 466 Schoenbach, V. J., 236, 487 Schooler, D., 9 Schootman, M., 503 Schrader, R., 584
Schrimshaw, E. W., 539 Schultz, J., 588 Schulz, S. L., 483, 515 Schwartz, 307, 321, 451 Schwartz, I. M., 178 Schwartz, J., 33, 621 Schwartz, P., 223, 224, 285, 287, 288, 289 Schwarz, E. B., 7 Schwarzer, U., 456 Schwimmer, B., 15 Scorolli, C., 307 Scott, J. A., 368 Scott, J. L., 419 Scott, J. P., 227 Scott-Sheldon, A. J., 487, 546 Scrimshaw, E. W., 193, 195 Seal, B. N., 63 Sears, A. E., 608 Sedlak, A. J., 586 Seebeck, T., 260 Seeberg, D., 487 Seger, M., 474 Seligman, L., 301, 313 Semmelroth, J., 234 Semple, S. J., 407 Senn, T. E., 487, 590 Serran, G. A., 321 Serwadda, D., 387, 491, 525, 533 Seto, M. C., 95, 99, 313, 317, 318 Sevgi, A., 406, 407 Sewankambo, N. K., 525, 533 Seward, D. X., 487 Shackelford, T. D., 263, 265 Shackelford, T. K., 234, 236, 261 Shackelton, R., 451 Shafer, M., 487 Shain, R. N., 487, 540 Sharma, A. K., 521 SHARP Research Team, 546 Shaver, P., 230, 231 Shen, W., 286 Shilts, R., 490, 536 Shim, J. W., 600 Shippee, S. K., 99 Shirai, J., 457 Shlay, J. C., 488 Shon, S., 62 Short, B. J., 456 Sickmund, M., 587 SIECUS, 17, 31, 181, 182, 183, 190, 623 Siegel, J. M., 585 Siegel, K., 539 Sigmundson, H. K., 147 Sili, M. E., 511 Sill, M., 208 Silverberg, C., 410 Silverman, J. G., 487 Simon, W., 188, 266 Simonelli, C., 455 Simon Rosser, B., 317 Simpson, J., 233 Simpson, V. L., 586 Simpson, W., 315 Singer, D., 503 Singh, D., 130, 152 Singh, S., 487 Sionean, C., 170, 174, 200, 546 Sitta, R., 387
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NI-10
Skakkebaek, N. E., 424 Slanger, T. E., 429 Slater, L., 232 Slater, P., 98 Slaymaker, E., 611 Slowinski, J., 474, 475 Smith, A., 452, 453 Smith, A. M., 170 Smith, A. M. A., 193, 293 Smith, M. W., 565 Smith, R. A., 204 Smith, S. C., 560 Smith, T. W., 250 Smoak, N. D., 546 Snow, R. C., 429 Snyder, D., 237 Snyder, H. N., 587 So, H., 240 Sobngwi-Tambekou, J., 387 Sockloskie, R. J., 579 Solomon, J., 565 Solomon, S., 224 Solomon, S. E., 224 Sommer, F., 456 Song, R., 527 Sorenson, S. B., 585 Sorsoli, C. L., 9 Speakman, M. J., 464 Sprecher, S., 168, 204, 221, 223, 245 Stahn, C. A., 400 Stampfer, M. J., 424 Stancil, T. R., 487 Staples, R., 59, 60, 179 Steelman, L. A., 623 Stein, R., 286 Steinberg, S., 12 Steinfi eld, C., 12 Steingraber, S., 166 Stekler, J., 537 Stern, S., 14 Sternberg, M., 488, 502 Sternberg, M. R., 491 Sternberg, R. J., 227, 229, 230 Sternberg, S., 526, 612, 614 Stewart, C. S., 577 Stewart, F., 484 Stewart, P., 608 Stigum, H., 611 Stinnett, R., 315 Stohl, E., 408 Stoner, S. A., 309, 404 Storms, M. D., 193 Stothard, K. J., 374 Strage, M., 108 Strandberg-Larsen, K., 373 Strasburger, V., 531 Strasburger, V. C., 8, 9 Strassberg, D. S., 38, 277 Strathdee, S. A., 407 Street, A. E., 565 Striepe, M. I., 131 Strobino, D. M., 260 Strote, J., 407 Struckman-Johnson, C., 578 Struckman-Johnson, D., 578 Stulhofer, A., 5, 108, 603 Su, J. R., 498 Sue, S., 580
Sullivan, P. S., 500, 550 Suman, 14 Sundquist, K., 419 Supreme Court of the United States, 621 Suris, J., 600 Sutton, P. D., 374 Svedin, C. G., 160 Svoboda, E., 260 Swain-Campbell, 585 Swan, A. W., 223 Sweeney, C., 71 Swinkels, A., 464 Symons, D., 98
Taberner, P. V., 405 Tabrizi, S. N., 507 Taft, T. T., 581 Taleporos, G., 408, 410 Taljaard, D., 387 Talley, D. R., 473 Tanaka, J. S., 579 Tandberg, D., 584 Tanfer, K., 487 Tannen, D., 248 Tanner, L., 32 Tao, G., 484 Tasker, K., 259 Tavernise, S., 201 Taylor, V., 308 Tbarra, 14 Teitle, E., 487 Templeman, T., 315 Tennant, P. W. G., 374 Tepper, M. S., 316 Teten, A. L., 580 Th ables, V., 206 Th ayer, L., 243 Th omas, 237 Th omas, K. K., 485, 490, 534 Th omas, S. B., 500 Th omas, S. L., 491 Th omas, V., 134 Th omas, W., 19 Th ompson, B., 226 Th ornton, S., 500 Th orton, L. M., 402 Th une, I., 259 Th urlow, K., 589 Th urman, A. R., 487, 540 Th urmes, P. J., 456 Tian, L. H., 494 Tider, D., 432 Tiefer, L., 20, 99, 209, 475, 606 Tiegs, T. J., 223 Tikkanen, R., 42 Timpson, S. C., 617 Tobian, A. A., 387 Tobian, A. A. R., 491 Todd, M. J., 220 Tolman, D. L., 9, 95, 131 Tomassilli, J. C., 305, 314, 319, 320 Torabi, M. R., 489, 492, 542 Toro-Morn, M., 223 Torres, H., 404 Torres, I., 500 Tourangeu, R., 39 Tovee, J., 259 Traeen, B., 602
Trager, J. D., 72 Tran, S., 233 Treas, J., 237 Trenholm, C., 182 Tronstein, E., 504 Trujillo, C. M., 200 Trump, D. L., 116 Truong, H. M., 537 Trussell, J., 176, 331, 332, 338, 339, 344,
347, 352, 353, 484, 611 Tully, C. T., 432 Turner, A. N., 491 Turner, C. F., 39 Turner, J. S., 588
Uchino, B. N., 250 Ullman, S. E., 584 Ulrichs, K., 57 UNAIDS, 521, 526, 527 Unger, E. R., 488 United Nations General Assembly, 413 United Nations Human Rights Offi ce of the
High Commissioner, 622 United Nations International Children’s
Emergency Fund, 612 Urban, M., 590 U.S. Attorney General’s Commission on
Pornography, 604, 605 U.S. Bureau of Justice Statistics, 560 U.S. Census Bureau, 12, 196, 197, 201,
202, 205, 207 U.S. Department of Health and Human
Services, 195, 413, 490, 493, 503, 551
U.S. Department of Justice, 573, 575, 580, 582, 586
U.S. Department of Labor, 392 U.S. Department of State, 612 U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity
Commission, 559, 562 U.S. Merit Systems Protection Board,
559, 561 U.S. Public Health Service, 391 Ussher, J., 419
Valente, S. M., 587 Valenti, J., 140, 141 Valera, R., 618 Vanable, P. A., 590 van Cott, T., 533 van de Alaar, M. J. W., 619 van der Graff , F. H., 96 Vanderpool, R., 503 van Lankveld, J., 442 van Leeuwen, P. A., 619 Vannier, S. A., 447 Vannoy, S. D., 318 Van Ora, J., 432 van Roode, T., 491 van Veen, M. G., 619 Vardavas, C. I., 373 Veenker, C. H., 492 Velez-Blasini, C. J., 405 Ventura, S. J., 367, 389 Vera, E., 139 Verschuren, J. E. A., 409 Vigil, J., 260, 261 Vinikoor, L. C., 439
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NI-11
Violato, C., 589 Vitale, A., 152 Vocks, S., 400 Vrangalova, Z., 172 Vukadinovic, Z., 317
Wabwire-Mangen, F., 525, 533 Wade, B. H., 574 Wagner, G. J., 500 Wald, A., 488 Waldner-Haugrud, L., 583 Walker, J., 584 Wallace, H. M., 579 Wallace, R., 213 Waller, M. W., 485 Wallerstein, J. S., 206 Walls, N. E., 565 Walster, G. W., 235 Walter, C., 232 Walters, M. L., 560 Wan, J., 451 Wang, L., 388 Ward, H., 613 Ward, N., 309 Ward, T., 321 Warner, D. L., 611 Warren, T., 504 Wasserheit, J. N., 533 Wauchope, M., 575, 583 Wawer, M. J., 491, 525, 533 Webb, P., 10 Wechsler, H., 403, 405, 407 Wedekind, C., 260 Weekes-Shackelford, V. A., 261 Weeks, J., 57 Weinberg, M. S., 193, 304, 311, 602, 603 Weingert, P., 213 Weinstock, A. A., 498 Weinstock, H., 485, 494 Weis, D. L., 37 Weisberg, D. K., 613 Weiss, H. A., 491 Weissfeld, J., 116 Weitzer, R., 610, 615 Wellings, K., 275, 277, 293, 402, 443 Wells, B. E., 116, 432 Wells, C. V., 564 Wells, H. B., 50 Wells, M., 234
Welsh, D. P., 227, 262 Wenzel, A., 221 Werner, M., 504 Wessels, H., 411 West, B. T., 403 West, S. L., 439 Westen, D., 234 Wheeler, J., 182, 308 Whipple, B., 76, 77, 96, 98, 100, 116, 120,
270, 294 White, E., 415 Whitehead, M., 206 Whitemean, M., 423 Whitty, M., 605 Wibbelsman, C. J., 487 Widdice, L. E., 503 Widom, C. S., 611, 613 Wiederman, M. W., 38 Wiegel, M., 411 Wiemann, C. M., 576 Wienke, C., 224 Wierman, M. E., 442 Willet, W. C., 424 Willhoite, M., 607 Williams, C. J., 304, 311, 602, 603 Williams, M. L., 617 Williams, T., 175 Willis, G., 39 Wilson, D. P., 525, 537 Wilson, S., 456 Wingood, G. M., 8, 60 Winters, J., 122 Winters, S. J., 116 Wise, M., 432 Wise, T. N., 318 Wiseman, J., 318 Witte, S. S., 490, 539, 544 Wolitski, R., 537 Wolitski, R. J., 544, 546 Wolke, D., 367 Wolliscroft, J., 589 Wolman, W., 405 Wonderlich, S. A., 589 Wood, J. M., 98, 442 Wood, M. L., 240 Wood, R. W., 537 Woodworth, T. W., 578 Working Group for a New View of Women’s
Sexual Problems, 440, 442
World Association for Sexual Health, 23 World Health Organization, 129, 145,
182, 183, 387, 391, 398, 429, 440, 491
World Professional Association for Transgender Health, 154
Worthington, R. L., 40, 194 WPATH, 153 Wright, E. M., 487 Wu, E., 490, 539, 544
Xantidis, L., 610 Xu, F., 491
Yarber, W. L., 5, 50, 55, 173, 178, 182, 235, 280, 341, 463, 488, 489, 492, 493, 503, 541, 542, 545
Yarnall, K. S. H., 490 Yates, A., 405 Yates, P. M., 319 Yawn, B. P., 179 Yawn, R. A., 179 Yee, C., 400 Yermolayeva, Y. A., 12, 13 Ying, Y., 134 Yoon, H. C., 250 Yost, M. R., 269 Young, J., 134 Younger, J., 96 Young Women’s Survey Team, 485
Zaidi, A. A., 498 Zane, S. B., 357 Zattoni, S., 307 Zawacki, T., 405 Zelen, M., 417 Zians, J., 407 Ziebell, R., 527 Zilbergeld, B., 138, 214, 439, 461, 463 Zimet, G. D., 42 Zimmerman, R., 489 Ziomkiewicz, A., 259 Zittleman, K., 134 Zolnoun, D., 439 Zucker, K. J., 130, 152, 175, 309 Zuckerman, M., 33 Zurbriggen, E. L., 269 Zurenda, L., 149 Zylbergold, B. A., 9
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SI-1
AAP (American Academy of Pediatrics), 387, 391
AAUW (American Association of University Women), 563
“abnormal” sexual behavior, 20, 24, 48 abortifacients, 346 abortion
constitutional issues, 356–357 men and, 355 methods of, 346, 352–353, 353 f pro-choice argument, 355–356 pro-life argument, 355 Roe v. Wade court decision, 356 safety of, 353 spontaneous, 352, 378 stage of pregnancy and, 352,
352 f, 353 statistics on, 352, 352 f, 354, 354 f women and, 354, 354 f
abstinence aff ection and, 332 as birth control, 181–183,
331–333 celibacy vs., 331 defi nitions of, 281 education programs, 51, 181–183 eff ectiveness of abstinence-only programs,
51, 182–183 sexually transmitted infections
and, 511 abstinence-only sexuality education,
51, 181–183 abstinence standard, 198 abuse. See child sexual abuse; rape; sexual
aggression academic freedom, 50 acaults, 153 acculturation, 61–63, 62 f ACHES acronym, 335 acne, 114 ACOG. See American College of
Obstetricians and Gynecologists acquaintance rape, 576, 578, 580. See also
date rape acquired immunodefi ciency syndrome
(AIDS). See HIV/AIDS acrosomes, 363 activity exposure, gender-role learning
and, 133 addiction, sexual, 303, 316 Adiana, 350
adolescents. See also boys and young men; girls and young women
contraception and, 330, 337 defi nition of adolescence, 164 eating disorders in, 400–402 fi rst intercourse, 173–174, 173 t,
176, 176 f, 178 Gardasil vaccination of, 420, 424,
430, 503 gay, lesbian, and questioning, 11,
170–172, 540, 566–567 gender-role learning by, 133–137 health risk behaviors in, 53, 540 HIV/AIDS among, 540–541, 540 f masturbation by, 172–173, 173 t media exposure in, 6, 6 f, 8, 8 f, 10 online social networks and, 11–14 parental infl uence on psychosexual
development, 167–168, 168 f peer infl uence on, 135–136 physical changes in, 164–166, 165 f pregnancy in, 176–181, 177 f, 179 f in prostitution, 612, 613 risk behavior by, 53 rural, 541 sexting by, 12–13, 606 sex traffi cking of, 612 sexual activity with love in, 221–224 sexual assault of, 573 sexual harassment in high school,
562–563 sexuality education, 181–183, 181 f, 190 sexually transmitted infections in, 483,
485, 486, 491 sexual scripting by, 268 statutory rape, 581–582 suicide by, 566–567 teenage fathers, 180–181 teenage mothers, 179–180
adoption infertility and, 380 by same-sex couples, 225
adulthood. See early adulthood; late adulthood; middle adulthood
advertising, sexual sell in, 7–8, 403 advice columns, 31 Th e Advocate magazine, 283, 293 aff ection
abstinence and, 332 in families, 164 sexual activity and, 199
aff ectionate touch, 284 Africa, HIV/AIDS in, 526 f African Americans. See also race and
ethnicity abortions in, 354 breast cancer in, 414 breastfeeding by, 391 communication about sex and sexuality
by, 240 gay men and lesbian women, 200,
536–537, 537 f HIV/AIDS conspiracy beliefs among,
500–501 HIV/AIDS in, 528–529, 528 f, 529 f,
529 t, 534–535, 538, 540, 553 homosexual identities of, 200 precocious puberty in, 165 prostate cancer in, 424, 424 f sexual assaults on, 573 sexual behavior prevalence in, 276 f sexually transmitted infections in, 485 f,
486 f, 497, 500–501 sexual stereotypes of, 59–60 socioeconomic status and, 60–61 teenage pregnancy in, 179, 374 traditional gender roles of, 134, 139 Tuskegee syphilis study, 500–501
afterbirth (placenta), 364 f, 366, 385–386, 385 f
agape, 226 age groups
HIV infection by, 540 f masturbation and, 272 t oral contraceptives and, 335
age of consent, 581 aging. See also late adulthood
accepting the aging process, 203 male erectile disorder and, 451 sexual activity and, 209–210, 210 f sexual desire and, 447, 447 f sexual dysfunction and, 444 f, 445, 451 sexuality and, 209–215, 210 f sexually transmitted infections and, 485 sexual response and, 213–214 stereotypes of, 208–209 testosterone replacement therapy and,
115, 215 AI (artifi cial insemination), 381, 383 AIDS (acquired immunodefi ciency
syndrome). See HIV/AIDS AIDS Memorial Quilt, 552 f
Subject Index Subject Index
Note: Page references followed by italicized “ f ” or “ t ” refer to fi gures or tables, respectively.
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SI-2
Alaska Natives. See also American Indians HIV/AIDS in, 528 f, 529 f, 529 t, 536 sexually transmitted infections in,
485 f, 486 f alcohol use
adolescent sexual activity and, 33 binge drinking, 404 casual sex and, 262 by college students, 33, 404–405 date rape and, 576, 578, 580 male rape and, 582 in pregnancy, 372–373 prostitution and, 610, 613 risky sex behavior and, 404–405, 488 sexual function diffi culties and,
404–405, 457 sexually explicit materials and, 602 sexually transmitted infections and, 487,
488, 490, 536, 538–540 sexual response and, 43–44, 95–96,
404–405, 406 f allergies
to latex condoms, 342, 489, 512 to spermicides, 345
alpha-fetoprotein, 378 5-alpha reductase syndrome, 150–151 alveoli, in the breast, 78, 79 f amebiasis, 508 amenorrhea, 88, 400 American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP),
387, 391 American Association of University Women
(AAUW), 563 American Cancer Society
on breast cancer screening, 415, 415 f, 417 on cervical cancer, 420, 421 on prostate cancer, 424–426 on testicular cancer, 426–428
American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG)
on circumcision, 387 on episiotomy, 388 on hymenoplasty, 76 on pregnancy screening, 377
American College of Physicians, 417 American Indians
eating disorders in, 400 HIV/AIDS in, 528 f, 529 f, 529 t, 536,
537 f, 538 homosexuality in, 201 sexually transmitted infections in,
485 f, 486 f teenage birth rates in, 177 f, 179 two-spirits in, 19, 153
American Psychiatric Association on anorexia nervosa, 400 Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of
Mental Disorders, 151, 300, 300 t, 302, 439–440
on eating disorders, 400–401 on paraphilias, 304, 309 removal of homosexuality from disorder
list, 17, 58 on sexual function categories, 439–442,
441 f, 447 American Psychological Association
on body image, 9, 13 on gender identity disorder, 151
on paraphilias, 300, 300 t, 302 removal of homosexuality from disorder
list, 17, 58 on the sexualization of girls, 166 support for sex research by, 31
American Social Health Association (ASHA), 503
American Society of Plastic Surgeons, 399 American Sociological Association, 58 amniocentesis, 377, 377 f amnion, 364 amniotic fl uid, 364, 384 amniotic sac, 364, 364 f ampulla, 78, 110 f, 111 amyl nitrate, 320, 406 anabolic steroids, 403 anal cancer, 424, 430, 503 anal eroticism . See also anal intercourse
analingus, 113, 291, 293 anal-manual contact, 293 condom use in, 341 defi nition of, 291 statistics on, 174, 293
analgesics, 387 analingus, 113, 291, 293 anal intercourse. See also anal eroticism
anal cancer and, 424, 430, 503 anodyspareunia in, 456 antisodomy laws, 567, 568 f, 620–621 aversion to, in gay men, 476 by college students, 54, 54 f condoms in, 341, 514, 531, 537 by gay men, 293, 294 f as “having sex,” 281 hepatitis A transmission in, 505 lubrication in, 112–113 by male prostitutes, 617 microbicidal gels in, 552 prevalence of, 174, 293 prostate and, 113 race and ethnicity and, 276 f, 293 safety of, 78, 293 sexually transmitted infections and, 294,
487, 531, 537–538, 552 anal-manual contact, 293 anal stage, 45 anatomical sex, defi nition of, 127 anatomy. See female sex organs; male
sex organs androgen insensitivity syndrome (AID),
146 t, 149–150 androgens, 114. See also male reproductive
hormones; testosterone androgyny, 142–143 andropause, 213–214 anesthetics, 387 anger, sexual desire and, 447 anger rapes, 583 Anglo Americans. See White Americans animals, sexual contact with, 311 anodyspareunia, 392, 441 t, 456, 457 anorexia nervosa, 88, 400–401, 400 f, 401 f anorgasmia, 452 antibiotic resistance, 491, 497 antibodies, 523, 524 antibody tests, 549 anti-gay prejudice, 566–570 antigens, 523
antihistamines, 457 antiprostaglandins, 89 antiretroviral therapy (ART), 546, 551, 553 antisodomy laws, 567, 568 f, 620–621 anus, 71 f, 73 f, 78. See also anal eroticism anxieties, sexual, 108, 459 anxious/ambivalent attachments, 233 Apgar score, 386 aphrodisiacs, 405 appearance, sexual attractiveness and. See
sexual attractiveness Arapesh people, 130 areola, 78, 79 f arguments. See confl ict, about sex arousal. See sexual arousal ART (antiretroviral therapy), 546, 551, 553 ART (assisted reproductive technology), 381 arthritis
chlamydia and, 496 sexuality and, 411–412
artifi cial insemination (AI), 381, 383 asexuality, 192 f, 193, 224 ASHA (American Social Health
Association), 503 Asian Americans. See also race and ethnicity
acculturation of, 62–63 communication about sex and
sexuality, 240 gender roles, 134, 139 HIV/AIDS in, 528 f, 529 f, 529 t,
535–536, 537 f, 538 homosexuality in, 200 sexual behavior prevalence in, 276 f sexuality in, 62–64 sexually transmitted infections in,
485 f, 486 f teenage birth rates in, 177 f, 179 f
asphyxiphilia, 305, 320–321 assigned gender, 127, 129 assisted reproductive technology (ART), 381 atherosclerosis, sexual dysfunction in, 457 attachment, 230–231, 233 attractiveness. See sexual attractiveness atypical sexual behavior. See sexual variations audio computer-assisted self-interviewing
(audio CASI), 39 Australian Study of Health and
Relationships, 452 autoerotic asphyxia, 305, 320–321 autoeroticism, 268–278. See also masturbation
autofellatio, 289 defi nition of, 268 Freud on, 45 sexual dreams, 271 sexual fantasies, 269–271
autofellatio, 289 Avodart, 426 avoidant attachments, 233 “azoles,” 507
babyism, 306 bacterial vaginosis (BV), 484–485, 488, 490,
506–507 Bad Blood: Th e Tuskegee Syphilis Experiment
(Jones), 500 Bartholin’s glands, 71 f, 73 basal body temperature (BBT) method,
347, 348
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B cells, 523 B&D (bondage and discipline), 305,
305 f, 318 BDSM (bondage, discipline, sadism, and
masochism), 318 beginning relationships, 243–246 behaviorist approach, 131–132 benign prostatic hypertrophy (BPH), 214–215 benign tumors, 413 benzodiazepines, 578 bestialists, 311 bestiality (zoophilia), 311 betrayal, in child sexual abuse, 590–591 biased samples, 37 biases, 34–35 bicycle-riding, sexual diffi culties and, 457 big brother eff ect, 175 binge drinking, 404 binge eating, 401 binge eating disorder, 401–402, 401 f biopsies, 421, 425 biopsychosocial approach, 25 biphobia, 194 birth. See childbirth birth canal, 74. See also vagina birth control
abstinence, 181–183, 331–333 adolescents and, 330 barrier methods, 338–345 birth control patch (Ortho Evra),
336–337, 336 f birth control shot (Depo-Provera),
335–336 college students and, 54, 54 f condoms, female, 342–343, 342 f,
489, 512 condoms, male ( See condoms, male) contraception vs., 330 contraceptive fi lm, 345, 345 f contraceptive foam, 345 contraceptive patch, 336–337, 336 f costs of, 329, 330 diaphragm, 343–344, 343 f education on, 51, 181–183 emergency contraception, 351–352 failure rates of, 327, 332 t family planning clinics, 328, 330 FemCap and Lea’s Shield, 344, 344 f fertility awareness–based methods,
347–348, 347 f hormonal methods, 333–338 implants, 338 injectable contraceptive, 335–336 intrauterine devices (IUC or IUD),
346–347, 346 f in Japanese American culture, 63 lactational amenorrhea method, 348–349 in Latina culture, 62 media portrayals of, 9 method choice, 331 oral contraceptives, 333–335, 334 f ovarian cancer risk and, 422 parenthood as choice and, 367 “perfect use” vs. “typical use,” 331, 332 t prevalence of use, 327, 327 f reasons for failure to use, 329 research issues, 357 responsibility for, 327–328
spermicides in, 343–345 sponges, 344, 344 f sterilization, 349–351, 349 f, 350 f, 351 f unintended pregnancies, 326–327, 327 f vaginal ring (NuvaRing), 337–338, 337 f vaginal suppositories, 345
birth control patch (Ortho Evra), 336–337, 336 f
birth control pills, 333–335, 334 f birth control shot (Depo-Provera), 335–336 birth defects, 372–373, 381 birthing rooms and centers, 390 birth order, homosexuality and, 175 birth plans, 388 birth rates, 176, 177 f, 179 f, 367–368 bisexuality. See also gay men, lesbian women,
bisexual and transgender individuals defi nition of, 17 discrimination against, 566–567 HIV infection in, 536 identity formation, 194 media stereotypes of, 11 in models of sexual orientation,
192–193, 192 f nature of, 194 sexually transmitted infections and,
484–485, 488, 490 in sexual orientation continuum, 193
Black Americans. See African Americans Black Iris (O’Keeff e), 72 f bladder infections, 511 blastocyst, 364 blood transfusions, HIV and, 530 “blue balls,” 100, 122 BMI (body mass index), 374 body image
breast cancer and, 419 eating disorders and, 400 sexuality and, 402–403
body mass index (BMI), 374 body odor, 244, 260 body piercing, 506 body ratios, sexual attractiveness and, 260 body type, sexual attractiveness and, 260 bondage and discipline (B&D), 305,
305 f, 318 “booty calls,” 262 bottlefeeding, 391 bowel movements, wiping after, 89 Bowers v. Hardwick, 620 boys and young men. See also adolescents; men
Freud on sexual development of, 45 masturbation by, 172–173 nocturnal emissions, 116, 166 peer pressure on, 135–136, 168–169 as prostitutes, 617 puberty in, 164–166, 165 f teenage fathers, 180–181
BPH (benign prostatic hypertrophy), 214–215
brain “cheating hearts” and, 232 homosexuality and, 175 love and, 175, 232 sexual response and, 95–96
Braxton-Hicks contractions, 384 breast augmentation, 154, 399, 417,
419–420
breast cancer, 413–420 breast reconstruction and implant surgery,
419–420, 419 f detection of, 415–417, 415 f, 416 f in lesbian women, 415 in men, 429–430 prevalence of, 413–414, 414 f risk factors for, 335, 414 sexual adjustment after treatment, 419 treatment of, 417–418, 418 f
breastfeeding benefi ts of, 391 colostrum in, 390–391 HIV/AIDS transmission in, 530, 533 oxytocin in, 82 t
breast implants, 154, 399, 417, 419–420 breast reconstruction, 419–420, 419 f breasts, female, 78–79, 79 f, 100, 165 breasts, male, 112, 112 f breast self-examination (BSE), 416,
416 f, 417 bris. See circumcision, male brothels, 615 brother-sister sexual abuse, 588 BSE (breast self-examination), 416,
416 f, 417 bulbourethral glands (Cowper’s glands),
110 f, 111 bulimia, 401–402, 401 f BV (bacterial vaginosis), 484–485, 488, 490,
506–507
calendar (rhythm) method, 348 call girls, 616–617 cancer, 413–430
in AIDS, 521 anal, 424, 430, 503 breast ( See breast cancer) cervical, 420–422, 484, 502–503 hysterectomy in, 422–423 Kaposi’s sarcoma, 519, 521 ovarian, 422 penile, 428–429 prostate, 424–426, 424 f testicular, 426–428, 427 f, 428 f tumors and metastasis in, 413 uterine, 88, 421, 422 vaginal, 423–424, 503
candidiasis (yeast infection), 507–508, 522 cantharides, 406 capacitation, 363 CAP (child abuse prevention) programs,
592–593 cardiovascular disease, sexuality and, 411 caring, 239 case histories, 44 castration anxiety, 45, 108 casual sex
among adolescents and young adults, 261, 262, 263
among college students, 262 drug use and, 407 evolutionary mating perspectives on, 262
Catholic Church child sexual abuse in, 586 on contraception and abortion, 62 on fertility awareness–based methods, 347 sexuality and, 62
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caudate nucleus, 232 CDC. See Centers for Disease Control and
Prevention CD4 count, 520, 525–526 CD4 receptors, 523, 524 f, 525, 551 celibacy. See also abstinence
abstinence vs., 331 asexuality and, 192 f, 193, 224 choice of, 200 f, 224
cell phones in preventing sexual assault, 574 voyeurism by, 313
censorship, 606–609, 609 t Centers for Disease Control and
Prevention (CDC) on HIV prevention, 544, 546–547 on HIV testing, 548–549 on male circumcision, 491, 493 on the role of condoms, 489 on STIs in pregnancy, 374
cervical cancer cervical dysplasia and, 420 HIV and, 420 Pap test and, 421, 502 from sexually transmitted infections,
484, 502 treatment of, 421–422 vaccine against, 420, 503
cervical caps, 85, 344, 344 f cervical dysplasia, 420–422 cervical intraepithelial neoplasia (CIN),
420–422 cervical mucus method, 347, 348 cervicitis, 498, 510–511 cervix, 73 f, 77 cesarean section. See also C-section 389 chancres, 499, 499 f chancroid, 508 channeling, gender-role learning and, 133 Chemistry.com, 199 “chickens” and “chickenhawks,” 617 child abandonment, 393 child abuse. See child sexual abuse child abuse prevention (CAP) programs,
592–593 childbirth
becoming a parent, 372–373 birthing rooms and centers, 390 birth plans, 388 by cesarean section, 389 elective deliveries, 389 home birth, 390 hospital birth, 387–388 labor and delivery, 384–386, 385 f, 386 f male circumcision decision, 387 midwifery and doulas in, 390 premature, 375–376 prepared, 390
child-free couples, 367 child marriage, 36 f child molesters, 587, 587 f . See also child
sexual abuse Child Obscenity and Pornography Act, 608 Child Online Protection Act (COPA),
608–609, 609 t child pornography, 606, 608 Child Protection and Obscenity
Enforcement Act, 608–609, 609 t
children. See also child sexual abuse abandonment of, 393 child pornography, 606, 608 curiosity and sex play in, 160–161, 162 t in divorce, 206–207 eating disorders in, 400, 403 expressing aff ection, 164 gender-role learning by, 133–136 HIV/AIDS and, 532–533, 539 human traffi cking of, 610, 612 masturbation by, 161–163 nudity and, 163 pedophilia and, 302, 317–318 privacy need of, 163 problematic sexual behavior in, 163 of same-sex parents, 383–384 sexting by, 606 sexually explicit materials and,
608–609, 609 t child sexual abuse, 586–593
betrayal in, 590–591 in the Catholic Church, 586 child pornography, 606, 608 children at risk, 588 convicted sex off enders and, 592–593 defi nition of, 586 entrance into prostitution after, 611 human traffi cking of, 610, 612 incest, 587–588 initial eff ects of, 589 long-term eff ects of, 460, 589–590 pedophilia, 302, 317–318 perpetrators of, 587, 587 f powerlessness after, 591 prevalence of, 586 prevention of, 592–593 prostitution after, 611 rape, 587 repressed memories of, 589 sexual abuse trauma, 590–591 sexual functional diffi culties after, 471 stigmatization after, 591 traumatic sexualization, 590 treatment programs for victims of, 591 warning signs of, 592
chlamydia (Chlamydia trachomatis) HIV infection and, 496 as notifi able disease, 484 f pelvic infl ammatory disease and, 510 in pregnancy, 496 prevalence of, 493–495, 496 f race/ethnicity and, 485 f symptoms of, 494 t, 496 testing for, 497 transmission of, 494 t
cholesterol, estrogen and, 212 chorion, 364, 364 f chorionic villus sampling (CVS),
377, 377 f Christianity, 14, 200 Christina (methamphetamine), 407 chronic illness, sexuality and, 410–412 chronic pelvic pain, 484, 510 churches, 14, 200. See also Catholic Church Cialis (tadalafi l), 473–474, 475 cilia, on fi mbriae, 78 CIN (cervical intraepithelial neoplasia),
420–422
circumcision, female, 429 circumcision, male
debate over, 387 hypospadias and, 150, 151 penile cancer and, 428–429 penis appearance, 107 f, 109 f procedure for, 107 sexually transmitted infections and,
491, 493 sexual pleasure and, 493
civil unions, 225, 621, 622 t “the clap.” See gonorrhea class. See socioeconomic status clinical research, 38–39 clitoral hood, 71 f, 72, 457–458 clitoral tumescence, 100 clitoridectomy, 39, 429 clitoris, 71 f, 72, 73 f clomiphene citrate, 422 cloning, 382 CMV (cytomegalovirus), 508, 522 cocaine, 407 cognitive-behavioral approach in sexual
diffi culties, 467–471, 471 t cognitive development theory, 132 cognitive social learning theory,
131–132 cohabitation
acceptance of, 201–203 extradyadic involvements in, 234, 237 of same-sex couples, 201 f, 237
coitus. See penile-vaginal intercourse college students
alcohol use and sexuality, 33, 404–405 attractiveness rating by, 263–265,
264 f, 265 f birth control use by, 54, 54 f casual sex among, 262 condom-use mistakes by, 545 confusion over consent by, 577 on defi nitions of “having sex,” 281 on the fi rst kiss, 286 frotteurism by, 315 gay, lesbian, or bisexual identity formation
in, 193 “hooking up” among, 262 masturbation by, 274–275 oral-genital sex by, 287 postrefusal sexual persistence by,
578–579, 579 f rape of, 577, 580 reasons for having sex, 199 sexual activity by, 53–54, 54 f sexual arousal factors in, 463 sexual harassment of, 563–564, 563 f sexually explicit materials viewed by, 600,
602–603 sexual scripting by, 268 sexual variations among, 303, 304 f single, 197–198, 199 voyeurism and, 312
colostrum, 390–391 “coming out,” 11, 38, 171, 195 commercial sex workers. See prostitution commitment
intimacy and, 238–239 in triangular theory of love, 227 f, 228,
229, 230 f
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communication confl ict and, 250–252, 250 f cultural context of, 239–240 defi nition of, 239 developing skills in, 247–250 directing sexual activity, 246 Dydaic sexual communication scale,
in established relationships, 246 feedback, 249–250, 249 f fi rst move and beyond, 244–245 halo eff ect, 243–244 Health Protective Sexual Communication
Scale, 543 initiating sexual activity, 246–247 interest and opening lines, 244 Love Lab lessons, 251 nonverbal, 241–243, 245, 249 f obstacles to, 247 partner satisfaction and patterns of, 248 during pregnancy, 369 psychological context of, 241 in same-sex couples, 245 self-disclosure, 189, 238–239, 243,
247–248, 537 sexually transmitted infections and, 513,
537, 543–544 sexual scripts and, 243 social context of, 240–241 trust and, 248–249
Communications Decency Act, 14, 608, 609 t
companionate love, 227 f, 229 complementary sexual style, 279 compromise, 248, 449 compulsive overeating, 401 f, 402 computers. See Internet conception, 362–363, 363 f conceptus, 330 conceptus development, 364–367,
365 f, 366 f condoms, female, 342–343, 342 f,
489, 512 condoms, male
adolescent use of, 330 advantages of, 342 in anal intercourse, 78, 341, 514,
531, 537 college student use of, 545 eff ective use of, 340, 340 f, 341, 489 fi t problems with, 545 inconsistent and incorrect use of,
488, 545 latex and synthetic, 339, 489, 512 lubricants for, 339, 340 possible problems with, 342 prostitution and, 619 in same-sex sexual activity, 341, 514,
531, 537 STI prevention, 489, 504, 512, 544 women and, 340–341, 539
confi dentiality, in research, 37 confl ict, about sex, 248, 250–252,
250 f, 459–460 confl ict resolution, 252 Confucianism, 62 congenital adrenal hyperplasia, 146 t, 150 conjunctivitis, 497 consummate love, 227 f, 229
contraception. See also birth control birth control vs., 330 emergency, 351–352 trends in, 173 t
contraceptive fi lm, 345, 345 f contraceptive foam, 345 contraceptive patch, 345, 345 f control groups, 58 COPA (Child Online Protection Act),
608, 609 t Copper T 380A, 346, 346 f coprophilia, 305–306 corona, of the penis, 106, 107 f coronary artery disease, sexuality and, 411 corpora cavernosa, 71 f, 72, 107,
107 f, 110 f corpus luteum, 77, 83–84, 86, 86 f corpus spongiosum, 107, 107 f, 110 f Correct Condom Use Self-Effi cacy Scale, 341 correlational studies, 43 couple counseling, 467–468 couple sexual styles
complementary sexual style, 279 emotionally expressive sexual style, 281–282 pleasure-oriented touch in, 284 soulmate sexual style, 280–281 traditional sexual style, 279–280
couvade, 129, 389 f Cowper’s glands, 110 f, 111 COYOTE (Call Off Your Old Tired
Ethics), 619 “crabs,” 495 t, 509–510, 509 f cramps, 88, 89 cremaster muscle, 109 critical thinking
biases, 34–35 egocentric fallacy, 35 ethnocentric fallacy, 35–36 opinions, 34–35 on pop psychology, 32 on sex advice columns, 31 stereotypes and, 34–35 value judgments vs. objectivity, 34
cross-dressing. See transvestites crura (singular, crus ), 71 f, 72, 73 f, 107 cryptorchidism, 110 crystal (methamphetamine), 407 C-section, 389 . See also Caesarean section culdoscopy, 349 culpotomy, 349 cultural equivalency perspective, 61 culture
aging and sexuality and, 209 communication and, 239–240 female orgasm and, 15, 98–99 gender and, 18–19, 136–137 gender identity and, 129–130 kissing and, 285 normal behavior and, 21, 22–24 sexual attractiveness and, 258–260 sexual desire and, 15, 120 sexual harassment and, 561 sexual interests and, 14–15 sexually explicit material and, 598–599 sexual orientation and, 17–18 sexual scripts and, 139, 266, 267 transgendered and transsexual
persons and, 19
cunnilingus. See also oral-genital sex in child sexual abuse, 587 concerns in, 288, 514 female sexual scripts and, 139 HIV transmission in, 531 lesbian women, 288, 450, 476 as “normal” behavior, 20 during pregnancy, 372 prevalence of, 20, 452 prior to penile-vaginal intercourse, 453 as sexual activity, 285, 287–288, 287 f in sexually explicit materials, 601 sexually transmitted infections and,
514, 531 cutaneous phase, 159 cutting, 429 CVS (chorionic villus sampling), 377, 377 f cystitis, 511 cytomegalovirus (CMV), 508, 522
Daddy’s Roommate (Willhoite), 607, 607 f DADT (“Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell”) policy,
571, 622 t Dani people, 15 dartos muscle, 109 date rape
acquaintance rape and, 576, 580 alcohol and drug use and, 576, 580 date-rape drugs, 578 incidence of, 576–577 prevention of, 574 rapist profi le, 579–580
date-rape drugs, 578 dating, 199, 207, 237 D&E (dilation and evacuation), 353 death of a fetus, 379 death of a partner, 208 “Declaration of Sexual Rights,” 23, 624 Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA), 621 delayed ejaculation, 454, 470 delayed labor, 377 delivery, 384–386, 385 f, 386 f . See also
childbirth demographic facts of life, 376 t demographics of AIDS, 533–541, 537 f,
540 f . See also HIV/AIDS dental dams, 514, 531, 539, 549 dependent variables, 42–43 Depo-Provera (DMPA), 335–336 depression
in aging, 213 after being abused as a child, 589, 591 casual sex and, 262 in divorce, 206 in eating disorders, 400, 401, 402 exhibitionism and, 314 in gay, lesbian, and bisexual
adolescents, 567 in menopause, 212, 213 oral contraceptives and, 335 physical disabilities and, 408, 410, 411 postpartum, 390, 391, 392–393 after rape, 583, 584, 586 sexual desire and, 457, 469, 473, 476 in teenage parents, 180
DES (diethylstilbestrol), 175, 420, 423 desire. See sexual desire desogesterel, 338
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development, sexual. See sexual development developmental disabilities, sexuality and,
412, 413 Developmental Disabilities Assistance and
Bill of Rights Act, 413 diabetes mellitus, 411, 457 Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental
Disorders (DSM-IV-TR) on disorders of sexual desire, 446 on gender identity disorder, 151 on orgasmic disorders, 452, 454, 455 on paraphilias, 300, 300 t, 302 on sexual function diffi culties, 439–441,
441 t, 446 on sexual pain disorders, 455 on sexual variation, 305, 319, 320
diaphragms, 343–344, 343 f dichotomous-psychoanalytic model, 192 f diet, sexual functioning and, 122 diethylstilbestrol (DES), 175, 420, 423 digital rectal exam (DRE), 425, 430 dihydrotestosterone (DHT), 150 dilation, in labor, 384 dilation and evacuation (D&E), 353 dildos, 514 direct syringe sharing, 532 disabilities
arthritis, 411–412 cardiovascular disease, 411 changing expectations in, 408–410 developmental, 412 diabetes mellitus, 411, 457 “ideal” bodies and, 409–410 sexual esteem and satisfaction and, 408 sexual rights of people with, 412–413 spinal cord injuries, 408–410 vision and hearing impairment, 410
Discovering Your Couple Sexual Style (McCarthy and McCarthy), 279–282, 284
discrimination against gay men, lesbian women, bisexual
and transgender individuals, 566–570
heterosexual bias, 565–566 pornography and sex discrimination,
605–606 disinhibition, 404 disorders of sexual development (DSD).
See also gender variations androgen insensitivity syndrome, 146 t,
149–150 coming to terms with, 153 congenital adrenal hyperplasia, 146 t, 150 delaying gender surgery in children, 147 5-alpha reductase syndrome, 150–151 gender identity disorder, 128, 144,
151–152 hypospadias, 150, 151 Klinefelter syndrome, 146 t, 148–149,
149 f, 430 mosaicism, 149 sex assignment/reassignment in, 152–153,
152 f, 154 sexual aversion disorder, 441 t, 448,
450, 471 tabulated summary of, 146 t Turner syndrome, 145, 146 t, 148, 148 f
DivaCup, 85 divorce
changing climate of, 205 consequences of, 206–207 dating after, 207 rates of, 205 serial monogamy, 202 single parenting, 207–208
DMPA (Depo-Provera), 335–336 DOMA (Defense of Marriage Act), 621 domestic partnership laws, 201, 621 domination and submission (D/S), 304–306 dominatrix, 305 “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” (DADT) policy,
571, 622 t dopamine, 232 double standards, 133 douching, 491, 507, 512 doulas, 390 Down syndrome, 375, 377 drag queens, 308. See also transvestites DRE (digital rectal exam), 425, 430 “the drip.” See gonorrhea Drug-Induced Rape Prevention and
Punishment Act, 578 drug use
aphrodisiacs, 405 casual sex and, 407 date-rape drugs, 578 injecting drugs, 532, 538 during pregnancy, 373 in prostitution, 613, 619 sexual functioning and, 406 sexually transmitted infections and, 407,
488, 513 syringe exchange programs, 547–548
“dry humping,” 282 “dry orgasm,” 122 D/S (domination and submission), 304–306 DSD. See disorders of sexual development DSM-IV-TR. See Diagnostic and Statistical
Manual of Mental Disorders dual control model, 94 dysmenorrhea, 88 dyspareunia, 392, 441 t, 455–456, 457
early adulthood being single, 196–201 cohabitation, 201–203, 201 f, 202 f college environment, 197–198 developmental concerns, 188–191 gay, lesbian, and bisexual people,
193–196 life behaviors of the sexually healthy
adult, 190 relationship status in, 202 f sexual and reproductive time line, 189 f sexual orientation establishment,
188–189, 191–193 early ejaculation, 441 t, 454–455,
469–470, 469 f early puberty, 165–166 eating disorders, 398–402, 401 f EC (emergency contraception), 351–352 ecstasy (MDMA), 406 f, 407, 578 ectoparasitic infestations, 493, 495 t,
509–510, 509 f ectopic pregnancy, 347, 375, 484, 510
edema, in pregnancy, 370 EDI (extradyadic involvement), 236–238 education. See sexuality education educational attainment, sexuality and,
275, 445 EEOC (Equal Employment Opportunity
Commission), 559 eff acement, 384 egocentric fallacy, 35 Egyptians, ancient, 108 eHarmony.com, 199 EIA (enzyme immunoassay), 549 ejaculation
aging and, 444 f, 445 Cowper’s glands in, 111 electroejaculation, 409 in fellatio, 289 female, 77 inhibited or delayed, 454, 470 male, 111, 120–121, 121 f onset of fi rst, 166 premature, 441 t, 454–455,
469–470, 469 f prostate cancer risk and, 424 retrograde, 121 semen in, 111 sperm in, 111–112
ejaculatory duct, 110 f, 111 ejaculatory inevitability, 120 ELA (Employment Law Alliance), 565 elderly. See late adulthood elective deliveries, 389 Electra complex, 45 electroejaculation, 409 elementary school, sexual harassment in,
562–563 Ellis, Havelock, 46, 46 f embryo, 364 embryonic development
diff erentiation of external reproductive organs, 69–70, 70 f, 364–366, 364 f, 366 f
oogenesis, 81–82, 83 f overview of, 69
embryonic membranes, 364 emergency contraception (EC), 351–352 emission, female, 77 emission, male, 120, 121 f . See also
ejaculation emotionally expressive sexual style, 281–282 emotions
evolution and, 25 fi rst intercourse reaction, 178 gender roles and, 130 infertility and, 380 postpartum, 392–393 during pregnancy, 369–370
Employment Law Alliance (ELA), 565 empty love, 227 f, 229 endogeneous opioids, 96 endometrial (uterine) cancer, 88, 421, 422 endometriosis, 88, 375, 431–432, 457 endometrium
location and function of, 73 f, 77 shedding of, 85–86, 86 f
endorphins, 89 Enduring Desire (Metz and McCarthy), 462 enemas, in sexual activity, 305
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enhancement. See also sexual function enhancement
breast, 154, 399, 417, 419–420 penis, 399
enteric infections, 508 enzyme immunoassay (EIA), 549 epidemics, defi nition of, 526 epidemiology, defi nition of, 526 epididymis, 110–111, 110 f, 111 f, 116 epididymitis, 496 epidurals, 387–388 episiotomy, 388 Equal Employment Opportunity
Commission (EEOC), 559 erectile dysfunction
infi delity and, 237 myths about, 469 prevalence of, 451 quality of life and, 445 symptoms of, 441 t, 451 treating, 451, 468–469, 473–474, 475
erections anxieties and, 459 exercises to improve, 464 in infants, 162 lifestyle aids to, 122 myths about, 469 natural enhancement products, 474 nocturnal, 116 persistent sexual arousal syndrome,
451–452 Peyronie’s disease, 456 physical causes of problems in, 457 priapism, 456–457 process of, 108, 109, 120 sexual excitement and, 93 t treating diffi culties in, 451, 468–469,
473–474 triggers for, 122
erogenous zones, 96 eros, 226 erotica, defi nition of, 598. See also sexually
explicit material erotic aids. See sex toys erotic dreams, 271 erotic fantasies, 269–271 erotic “sexual voice,” 464 erotic touching, 282–283, 284 erotophilia, 266 erotophilic/erotophobic continuum,
192, 192 f erotophobia, 266 Escherichia coli, 511 escort agencies, 617 Essure , 350 established relationships. See also marriage
changing a sexual relationship, 466–467 child-free, 367 cognitive-behavioral approach to
diffi culties in, 467–468 decline of sexual passion in, 460 evolutionary mating perspectives on,
260–263, 261 t extradyadic relations and, 236–237 gay and lesbian, 223–224, 225 gender diff erences in desires for, 223 initiating sexual activity in, 246 painful feelings from childhood in, 460
sexual communication in, 246 sexual desire diff erences in, 448–449 sexual dysfunction caused by, 442 sexual styles in, 279–282
estradiol, 114 estrogenic phase, 86 f estrogen replacement therapy, 212–213, 214 t estrogens
breast cancer and, 414–415 cholesterol and, 212 functions of, 81, 82 t hot fl ashes and, 212 in menopause, 211–213 in menstrual cycle, 81, 82 t, 84, 86 in oral contraceptives, 333 in ovarian cycle, 83, 86 f in sexual functioning, 97
ethics in sex research, 37 Tuskegee syphilis study and, 500–501
ethnic groups, 36. See also race and ethnicity ethnocentric fallacy, 35–36 evolutionary mating perspectives,
260–263, 261 t evolutionary psychology, 25 evolutionary theory, sexual pleasure and,
25, 98 Examining Tuskegee: Th e Infamous Syphilis
Study and Its Legacy (Reverby), 500 exclusiveness, 234–236. See also jealousy exercise, premenstrual changes and, 89 exhibitionism, 24, 313–314 experimental research, 42–44, 58 explicit material. See sexually explicit material expressiveness, 130 expulsion, 120–121, 121 f extradyadic fantasies, 270 extradyadic involvement (EDI), 236–238 extrafamilial abuse, 587 extramarital sex, 51 eye contact, 242, 244
FAB (fertility awareness–based) methods, 347–348, 347 f
Facebook, 12, 199 FAE (fetal alcohol eff ect), 373 fallacies, in reasoning, 35–36 fallopian tubes, 73 f, 77–78, 80 t, 363 f families. See also parents
acceptance of diff erent sexual orientations, 171
aff ection expressed in, 164 children’s psychosexual development and,
167–168, 168 f incest in, 587–588 in Latino culture, 61 nudity in, 163 parents as socializing agents, 133–134 of same-sex parents, 383–384, 623 single-parent, 207–208 of teenage mothers, 179–180
familismo, 61 Family and Medical Leave Act (FMLA), 392 “family balancing,” 382–383 family planning clinics, 328, 330 Family Research Lab, 251 fantasy sex, 603 FAS (fetal alcohol syndrome), 373
father-daughter sexual abuse, 587–588 fatigue, sexual function and, 458 fatuous love, 227 f, 229 FDA (Food and Drug Administration), 357 Federal Bureau of Investigation
(FBI), 612 Federal Communications Commission
(FCC), 9 feedback, 249–250, 249 f fellatio. See also oral-genital sex
autofellatio, 289 condom use in, 514 HIV transmission in, 531 prevalence of, 20, 452 in prostitution, 610, 615, 617 as sexual activity, 20, 285, 288–289,
288 f, 293 sexually transmitted infections and, 514
female circumcision, 429 female condoms, 342–343, 342 f,
489, 512 female ejaculation, 77 female genital cutting (FGC), 429 female impersonators, 308 female orgasmic disorder, 441 t, 452,
470–471, 471 t females. See girls and young women; women female sex organs, 69–80
breasts, 78–79, 79 f, 100, 165 embryonic-fetal diff erentiation of,
69–70, 70 f external structures, 71–73, 71 f, 74 f, 80 t homologous structures, 119, 119 f internal structures, 73–78, 73 f, 74 f,
76 f, 80 t other structures in genital area, 78, 80 t self-examination of, 75, 75 f shaving hair from, 71–72 summary table of, 80 t vaginal mucus and secretions, 77
female sexual arousal disorder, 441 t, 450 female sexual disorders. See women’s sexual
dysfunctions female sexual response, 90–101
brain and, 95–96 desire, 95–98 dual control model, 94 hormones in, 96–98 Masters and Johnson on, 48–49, 91–93,
92 f, 93 t orgasm, 49, 98–99, 100–101 senses and, 96 sexual excitement, 99–100 sexual response models, 90–94, 92 f, 93 t vasocongestion and myotonia in, 98–99
FemCap™, 344, 344 f femininity, 130–131. See also gender roles feminism, 56, 132, 605 femme porn, 599 fertility awareness–based (FAB) methods,
347–348, 347 f fertility awareness calendar, 347,
347 f, 348 fertilization, 362–363, 363 f fetal alcohol eff ect (FAE), 373 fetal alcohol syndrome (FAS), 373 fetal development, 364–367, 365 f, 366 f fetishism, 24, 301, 306–307
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fetus, 364–367, 365 f, 366 f . See also pregnancy
fever blisters, 504 FGC (female genital cutting), 429 fi brocystic disease, 417 fi lms, sexism in, 10–11 fi mbriae, 73 f, 78 fi ngering, 293 fi nger length, homosexuality and, 175 First Intercourse Reaction Scale, 178 fi rst kiss, 286. See also kissing fi sting, 113, 293 5-alpha reductase syndrome, 150–151 “Five Th ings to Th ink About Before Pressing
‘Send’,” 13 fl ashers. See exhibitionism fl irtation, sexual harassment vs., 561–562 FMLA (Family and Medical Leave Act), 392 foam, contraceptive, 345 folic acid, 378 follicle-stimulating hormone (FSH)
in men, 114 t in menstrual cycle, 86, 86 f in ovarian cycle, 82–84, 82 t, 86 f
follicular phase, 82–83, 84 f folliculitis, 72 Food and Drug Administration (FDA), 357 forced sex. See rape; sexual aggression forceps, in childbirth, 388 foreplay, female orgasm and, 98 foreskin, 107, 107 f Foucault, Michel, 58, 58 f Fourth National Incidence Study of Child
Abuse and Neglect, 586–587 French kissing, 532 frenulum, 106 Freud, Sigmund, 45–46, 45 f friendship, love and, 220–221 “friends with benefi ts,” 221, 261–263 frigidity (female sexual arousal disorder),
441 t, 450, 452 frotteurism, 315–316 FSH. See follicle-stimulating hormone
Gallup Poll, 569 gamete intrafallopian transfer (GIFT), 381 gamete production, 77 gang rape, 581 Gangsta rap, 60 Gardasil, 420, 424, 430, 503 Gardnerella vaginalis, 506 gay bashing, 568 f “gaydar,” 245 gay men. See also gay men, lesbian women,
bisexual and transgender individuals; men who have sex with men
anal sex and, 291, 293–294, 294 f anodyspareunia in, 456 antisodomy laws, 567, 568 f, 620–621 domination and submission in, 306 drag queens, 308 eating disorders in, 400 extradyadic involvements of, 237 fellatio and, 289 HIV/AIDS in, 476, 534, 536–538, 537 f initiating sexual activity, 246 kissing, 285 longevity and quality of relationships of, 225
on love and sex, 223, 225 media stereotypes of, 11 as parents, 571 performance anxiety in, 459 prostitution and, 618 serosorting by, 537 sexual aversion in, 450 sexual communication by, 245 sexual fantasies of, 270 sexual function diffi culties in, 439, 448,
450, 456, 459–460, 475–476 touching activities, 283 violence towards, 171, 567, 568 f, 570
gay men, lesbian women, bisexual and transgender individuals. See also sexual orientation; specifi c group
adolescents, 170–172 adoption of children by, 225 antidiscrimination laws, 570–572,
570 f, 571 f anti-gay prejudice, 566–570 antisodomy laws and, 567, 568 f child sexual abuse, 590 cohabitation, 201 f, 237 “coming out,” 11, 38, 171, 195 contemporary research, 58–59 early researchers and reformers, 57–58 eating disorders in, 400 hate crime legislation, 567, 570, 571 f heterosexual bias and, 565–566 HIV/AIDS and, 476, 536–538, 537 f identity process, in early adulthood,
170–172 importance of love to, 223–224, 225 internalized homophobia in, 195–196,
460, 476 language and, 240 in late adulthood, 209, 211 longevity and quality of relationships
of, 225 media portrayals of, 11 meeting places for singles, 199–200 in the military, 571–572 prejudice against, 566–570 psychiatric distress in, 200 public opinion on rights of, 569 race and ethnicity and, 200 rape and, 583 relationship longevity in, 225 same-sex marriage ( See same-sex marriage) sex therapy for, 475–476 sexual aversion disorder in, 450 sexual coercion in relationships of, 583 sexual communication by, 245, 246 sexual desire disorder in, 448 sexual function diffi culties, 439, 448, 450,
456, 459–460, 475–476 sexual harassment of, 563 sexual identity process, 193–196 sexually explicit fi lms for, 601 social networking and, 13–14 violence against, 171, 567, 568 f, 570
Gay/Straight Alliance, 171 “gears of connection,” 284 gender. See also gender roles; gender
variations assigned, 127, 129 biology and, 128–130
continuum of, 24, 47–48, 48 f, 143, 143 f, 193
culture and, 18–19, 153 emotional processing and, 130 equality, 222 gender-role learning, 131–137 gender roles vs., 127–128 masculinity and femininity, 130–131 sexual orientation and, 131
gender atypical behavior, 128 gender diff erences. See also men; women
in birth control responsibility, 327–328
in body image, 402–403 in brain response to stimulation, 232 in confl ict, 250, 250 f in cross-dressing, 308 in evolutionary mating perspectives,
260–261, 261 t, 263, 264 f, 265 f in HIV/AIDS cases, 527–528,
527 f, 539 in inhibitory response, 94 in jealousy, 234 in love styles, 227 in masturbation, 172–173 in moral standards of nonmarital
sexuality, 61 in orgasm frequency, 452–454 in paraphilias, 301 in partner communication, 247 in psychosexual development, 45 in reasons for sexual activity, 199 in self-disclosure, 247–248 in sex and love, 223–224 in sexual activity, 272 t, 276 f in sexual arousal factors, 90, 463 in sexual attractiveness, 258 in sexual fantasies, 269–270 in sexual function diffi culties, 442,
443–446, 444 f, 446 f in sexual harassment, 561–562 in sexually transmitted infections, 340,
484–485, 491, 496 f, 504 in telephone scatologia, 315 in Victorian sexual views, 15–16 in viewing sexually explicit materials, 600
gender dysphoria, 128, 310 gender identity
development of, 129–130 disorders of, 128, 144, 151–152, 400 transgender and, 144, 152–153, 152 f
gender identity disorder (GID) eating disorders and, 400 as gender variation, 128 symptoms of, 151 transgender phenomenon, 144 treatment for, 152
gender presentation, 128 gender-role attitude, 128 gender-role behavior, 128 gender roles
androgyny, 142–143 in contemporary sexual scripts,
141–142 in female sexual scripts, 138–141 gender schemas, 136–137 gender vs., 127–128 learning of, 133–136
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in male sexual scripts, 137–138 masculinity and femininity, 130–131 media and, 136 parents and, 133–134 peers and, 135–136 as schemas, 136–137 sexual double standards, 133 in socialization theories, 131–133 stereotypes of, 127–128, 130 teachers and, 134–135 traditional female, 138–139 traditional male, 137–138
gender-role stereotypes, 127–128, 130 gender schemas, 136–137 gender studies, 156 gender variations, 143–154. See also
disorders of sexual development coming to terms with, 153 defi nition of, 128 gender continuum, 24, 47–48, 48 f, 143,
143 f, 193 gender identity disorder, 128, 144,
151–152 intersex, 144–145 medical treatment for, 147, 152–153, 152 f transsexuality, 19, 152–154, 152 f, 310
gene therapy, for HIV/AIDS, 551–552 genetic counseling, 377 genetics
breast cancer and, 414, 430 chromosomes in fertilization process, 117 gender and, 117, 119, 145 homosexuality and, 175 number of sex chromosomes, 145 pregnancy after age 35 and, 374–375 sex chromosome anomalies, 145,
148–149, 148 f, 149 f sex of zygotes, 117 sexual behavior and, 25
genetic sex, defi nition of, 127 genital candidiasis (yeast infection),
507–508 genital herpes (herpes simplex virus)
AIDS and, 504 in bisexual and lesbian women, 484 causes of, 504 management of, 504–505 prevalence of, 504 symptoms of, 495 t, 504, 505 f transmission of, 504 treatment of, 491, 495 t
genital human papillomavirus infection (genital HPV infection). See also genital warts
in anal cancer, 430 in cervical cancer, 420, 495 t, 502 circumcision and, 491 condom use and, 489 Gardasil vaccine against, 420, 424,
430, 503 in penile cancer, 428 prevalence of, 502 social support for people with, 503 symptoms of, 495 t tests for, 502 transmission of, 502 treatment for, 495 t in vaginal and vulvar cancer, 424, 503
genital retraction syndrome, 108 genitals, gender and, 71. See also female sex
organs; gender variations; male sex organs
genital sexual arousal disorder. See sexual arousal disorders
genital stage, 45 genital warts
appearance of, 502–503, 503 f in bisexual and lesbian women, 484 condom use and, 489 human papillomavirus and, 502 prevalence of, 502 treatment of, 491 vaccine against, 420, 503
German measles, during pregnancy, 373 GES (“Good Enough Sex”) model, 462 gestation, 364 gestational carrier, 382 GHB, 578 giardiasis, 508 GID. See gender identity disorder GIFT (gamete intrafallopian transfer), 381 gigolos, 617–618 girls and young women. See also adolescents;
women chlamydia and gonorrhea in, 494–496, 497 female genital cutting, 429 Freud on sexual development of, 45 Gardasil vaccination of, 420, 424,
430, 503 in Latino culture, 134, 139 masturbation by, 172–173 media infl uences on, 136 menarche in, 86, 165 peer pressure on, 135–136 pelvic infl ammatory disease in, 510 physical changes of puberty in,
164–166, 165 f sexualization of, 166 susceptibility to HIV infection, 531 as teenage mothers, 179–180 television portrayals of, 9, 11
glans clitoris, 71 f, 72 glans penis, 106–107, 107 f, 110 f glycogen, in menstrual cycle, 86 golden showers, 305 gonadotropin-releasing hormone (GnRH),
82, 82 t, 84, 114 t gonadotropins, 81, 164–165 gonads, 77 gonorrhea (Neisseria gonorrhoeae)
ectopic pregnancy and, 497 HIV and, 497 as notifi able disease, 484 f pelvic infl ammatory disease and, 510 prevalence of, 497 race/ethnicity and, 486 f symptoms of, 494 t, 497 f transmission of, 494 t, 497 treatment of, 497
“Good Enough Sex” (GES) model, 462 “good sex,” 461–463 “Good Sex Video Series” (Sinclair Institute),
599 Grafenberg spot (G-spot), 70, 73 f,
76–77, 76 f Graffi an follicles, 77
granuloma inguinale, 508–509 Great Sex: A Man’s Guide to the Secret
Principles of Total-Body Sex (Castleman), 448
Greece, ancient, male-male relationship in, 17–18
grieving for death of a fetus, 379 groping, 315–316 group marriage, 238 group therapy, 472 G-spot, 70, 73 f, 76–77, 76 f, 277 Guidelines for Comprehensive Sexuality
Education (SIECUS), 181–182 gynecomastia, 112
halo effect, 243–244 handedness, homosexuality and, 175 harassment. See sexual harassment hate crime legislation, 567, 570, 571 f Hate Crimes Prevention Act, 570 “having sex,” defi nitions of, 173–174, 278,
280–281 HCG (human chorionic gonadotropin),
82 t, 84, 364, 368 HDL (high-density lipoprotein), 212 health care
homosexuality and, 415, 432 men’s needs, 115, 425 prenatal, 376 sexually transmitted infections and, 490 for teenage mothers, 179–180 women’s needs, 213, 328, 330, 417,
431, 452 health insurance, 115 Health Protective Sexual Communication
Scale (HPSCS), 543 Healthy People 2020, 195 hearing impairment, 410 heart attacks, sexuality and, 411 Heather Has Two Mommies (Newman),
607, 607 f Hegar’s sign, 369 helper T cells, 523, 524, 525 Hemophilus ducreyi, 508 hepatitis, viral, 495 t, 505–506 herbal remedies, 408, 474 hermaphroditism, 144–145 herpes. See genital herpes Herpes Resource Center, 505 herpes simplex virus (HSV), 495 t, 504.
See also genital herpes hetaerae, 18 heteroeroticism, 192 f, 193 heteronormativity, 131 heterosexual bias (heterosexism), 565–566 heterosexuality. See also sexual orientation
defi nition of, 17 in models of sexual orientation,
192–193, 192 f power and, 56 transvestic fetishism in, 300 t, 309–310
high-density lipoprotein (HDL), 212 “highly sexual” women, 301, 303 high-risk behaviors. See risk behaviors high school, sexual harassment in, 562–563 hijras, 153 Hinduism, 14 Hirschfeld, Magnus, 57–58, 57 f
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Hispanics. See Latinos/Latinas Th e History of Sexuality, Volume I (Foucault), 58 HIV/AIDS, 519–554. See also human
immunodefi ciency virus; sexually transmitted infections
in adolescents, 540–541, 540 f anal intercourse and, 531, 537–538 behavioral factors in spread of, 533 breastfeeding transmission of, 530, 533 CDC defi nition of AIDS, 520 in children, 532–533, 539 circumcision and, 491, 493 conspiracy beliefs about, 500–501 counseling for HIV-positive
individuals, 550 demographics of, 533–541, 537 f, 540 f disclosure of status, 537, 544 discovery of, 501 disease progression, 524–526, 525 f epidemiology in the United States, 526 f,
527–530, 527 f, 528 f, 529 f epidemiology in the world, 526 f fear of, 553 female-to-female transmission, 539 gay community and, 476, 536–539, 537 f as “gay plague,” 547 geographic region and, 541 immune system and, 522–523, 523 f,
525, 525 f injection drug use and, 532, 538 Kaposi’s sarcoma and, 519, 521 lifetime risk, 529–530, 529 t, 535 living with, 552–554 male-to-male transmission, 536–538, 537 f microbicides in prevention of, 552 myths about, 530 in older adults, 540 f, 541 opportunistic infections in,
520–521, 525 f oral sex and, 531 partner notifi cation, 484 f, 554 in pregnancy, 513, 532–533 prevalence of, 526–527, 526 f prevention attitude scale, 542 prevention education, 51, 181–183, 544 prevention obstacles, 547 prevention programs, 544, 546–547 prostatitis and, 432 prostitution and, 547, 615, 619 protecting ourselves, 543–544 race/ethnicity and, 528–530, 528 f, 529 f,
529 t, 533–536, 538, 553 recreational drug use and, 407 sexual activity after infection, 551–552 sexually transmitted infections and
acquisition of, 493, 496, 497, 504, 506, 507
spermicides and, 344 stigmatization of, 490, 521, 553 symptoms of, 494 t, 522 syringe exchange programs, 547–548 testing for, 544, 548–550 transmission of, 527–528, 527 f, 530,
531–533, 536–539 transmission rate, 527–528, 527 f, 537 f,
544, 546–547, 546 f treatment of, 491, 550–552 women and, 531, 538–539
HIV transmission rate, 527–528, 527 f, 537 f, 544–547, 546 f
Home Access HIV-1 Test System, 550 home birth, 390 homelessness, homophobia and, 171 homeopathic sexual enhancers, 474 home testing kits, for HIV infection, 550 homoeroticism, 193 homologous structures, 119, 119 f homophobia
adolescents and, 171 defi nition of, 566 heteronormativity and, 131 HIV/AIDS and, 519, 534, 538 homelessness and, 171 impact on sexual functioning, 476 internalized, 171, 195–196, 460,
476, 590 sexual harassment and, 563, 563 f
homosexuality. See also gay men, lesbian women, bisexual and transgender individuals; sexual orientation; specifi c groups
African American culture and, 200 in ancient Greece, 17–18 Asian American culture and, 200 biological theories of, 175 defi nition of, 17 discrimination against, 566–570 distortions of research on, 33 early rights eff orts, 57–58 Ellis on, 46 gay, lesbian, and questioning adolescents,
170–172 gender-role beliefs and, 131 hate crime legislation, 567, 570, 571 f in history, 17–18 homoeroticism and, 193 homophobia ( See homophobia) in Kinsey scale, 47–48, 48 f,
192–193, 192 f Latino culture and, 200 in models of sexual orientation,
192–193, 192 f moral judgments on, 569 not considered a psychological disorder,
17, 58 origins of, 175 prevalence of, 170 same-sex marriage ( See same-sex marriage) social constructionist and psychological
theories, 175 Hooker, Evelyn, 58, 58 f “hooking up.” See casual sex hormone disrupters, early puberty and, 166 hormone replacement therapy (HRT),
212–213, 214 t, 473 hormones. See reproductive hormones,
female; reproductive hormones, male hormone therapy
in menopause, 212–213, 214 t, 473 for primary amenorrhea, 88 in sex reassignment, 154 testosterone replacement therapy, 97, 115,
215, 473 hospital births, 387–388 hostile environment, 558. See also sexual
harassment
hot fl ashes, 212 HPSCS (Health Protective Sexual
Communication Scale), 543 HPV See genital human papillomavirus
infection HPV and Cervical Cancer Prevention
Resource Center, 503 HRC (Human Rights Campaign), 144 HSDD (hypoactive sexual desire disorder),
441 t, 446–448, 447 f, 471 HSV (herpes simplex virus), 495 t, 504.
See also genital herpes Huichol people, 389 f human chorionic gonadotropin (HCG), 82 t,
84, 364, 368 human immunodefi ciency virus (HIV).
See also HIV/AIDS disclosure of status, 537, 544 HIV-1 and HIV-2, 524 living with, 552–554 pattern of infection, 523–526,
524 f, 525 f replication of, 523, 524–525, 524 f structure of, 523, 524 f symptoms of, 521, 525–526, 525 f T cells and, 523–524, 523 f, 525–526 testing for, 544, 548–550 transmission rate, 527, 544,
546–547, 546 f treatment during pregnancy, 533 window period, 549
human papillomavirus (HPV). See genital human papillomavirus infection
Human Rights Campaign (HRC), 144 Human Sexual Inadequacy (Masters and
Johnson), 49 human sexuality education, 3–4, 51,
181–183, 190 Human Sexual Response (Masters and
Johnson), 48–49, 49 f human traffi cking, 612 humiliation, in sexual activity, 305–306,
319, 320 hymen, 73 f, 74–76 hymenoplasty, 75–76 hypermasculinity, 319 hypersexuality (sexual addiction), 303, 316 hypertension, pregnancy-induced, 375 hypoactive sexual desire disorder (HSDD),
441 t, 446–448, 447 f, 471 hypospadias, 150, 151 hypothalamus, 95, 114 t, 164 hypoxphilia, 320–321 hysterectomy, 213, 422–423
ICC (invasive cancer of the cervix), 420–422 ICD-10 (International Classifi cation of
Diseases), 440 ICSH (LH), 114 f ICSI (intracytoplasmic sperm injection), 381 identical twins, homosexuality in, 175 identity integration, 195 IDU (injection drug use), HIV transmission
in, 532, 538 immune system, HIV/AIDS and, 522–523,
523 f, 525, 525 f Implanon, 338 implantation, 364
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implants breast, 154, 399, 417, 419–420 contraceptive, 338 pectoral, 112 penis, 399
impotence. See erectile dysfunction incest, 587–588. See also child
sexual abuse incidence, defi nition of, 482 income. See socioeconomic status indecent exposure. See exhibitionism independent variables, 42 India, rites of passage in, 167 f Indians, American. See American Indians induction, 36 induction abortions, 353 infant-caregiver attachment, 230 infantilism, 306 infant mortality, 378–379 infants
breastfeeding, 82 t, 390–391 circumcision of male, 387 gender-role learning by, 160 HIV in, 530, 533 importance of touch to, 159–160 low birth weight in, 178, 179 mortality rates, 378–379 neonates, 386 safe havens for relinquishment of, 393 sexuality in, 159–160 sudden infant death syndrome in,
378–379 infatuation, 227 f, 228–229 infectious diseases, during pregnancy,
373–374. See also sexually transmitted infections
infertility defi nition of, 379 emotional responses to, 380 female, 379–380 male, 380 medical intervention for, 381–384 from sexually transmitted infections,
484, 510 treatment for, 379, 380–381
infi bulation, 429 infi delity, 236–237 infl uenza, pediatric, 373–374 informed consent, 37 infundibulum, 78 inhibin, 114 t inhibited (delayed) ejaculation, 454, 470 inhibited female orgasm, 452 inhibited sexual desire, 447 inhibited (hypoactive) sexual desire
disorder (HSDD), 441 t, 446–448, 447 f, 471
inhibitory response, 94 injectable contraceptives, 335–336 injection drug use (IDU), HIV transmission
in, 532, 538 inorgasmia, 452 Institute of Medicine (IOM), 483, 486 instrumentality, 130 intellectual freedom, 27 intercourse. See anal intercourse; penile-
vaginal intercourse; sexual intercourse interfemoral intercourse, 282
internalized homophobia, 195–196, 460, 476
International AIDS Vaccine Initiative, 552 International Classifi cation of Diseases
(ICD-10), 440 Internet
dating Web sites, 13–14, 199 fetishism and, 307 laws on access to, 27 online sexual activity, 599–602 pedophilia and, 318 questionnaires and interviews on, 39, 42 restricting access by children,
608–609, 609 t sex information/advice, 14 sex site use by college students, 600,
602–603 sexual exploitation of children on,
606, 608 sexual health information, 14 sexually explicit materials on, 14,
599–602, 606 social networks, 11–14
interpersonal scripting, 267–268 intersex, 144–145. See also disorders of
sexual development interstitial (Leydig) cells, 111 f, 114 interviews, 38 f, 39, 42 intimacy
confl ict and, 250–252, 250 f in early adulthood, 189 kissing and, 232 signs of, 227–228 in triangular theory of love, 227–229,
227 f, 230 f intimate love, 238–239 intracytoplasmic sperm injection (ICSI), 381 intrafamilial abuse, 587 intrapersonal scripting, 266, 267 intrauterine contraception (IUC)
for birth control, 346–347, 346 f for emergency contraception, 352 for menopausal hormone therapy, 213
introitus, 73 f, 74 invasive cancer of the cervix (ICC), 420–422 in vitro fertilization (IVF), 381 involuntary (premature) ejaculation, 441 t,
454–455, 469–470, 469 f IOM (Institute of Medicine), 483, 486 Iranian Americans, 64 Islam
circumcision and, 387 marriage and, 240
“It Gets Better” Project, 171, 171 f “I-Th ou” relationship, 239 IUC/IUD. See intrauterine contraception IVF (in vitro fertilization), 381
Jacobelis v. Ohio, 608 Japanese Americans, sexuality in, 62–63.
See also Asian Americans jealousy
anxious/ambivalent attachments and, 233 defi ning, 234, 236 extradyadic involvement and, 236–238 love and, 233–234 managing, 236 psychological dimension of, 234, 236
Joint United Nations Programme on HIV/ AIDS (UNAIDS), 521, 526, 526 f
jokes, harassment through, 560, 562, 563, 563 f
Judaism, 14, 89–90, 387
Kaplan’s tri-phasic model of sexual response, 91, 93, 93 t
Kaposi’s sarcoma, 519, 521 Kegel exercises, 122, 212, 464 kennelism, 306 kept boys, 617 Kertbeny, Karl Maria, 57 ketamine, 578 killer T cells, 523 kinky sex. See sexual variations Kinsey, Alfred
contribution of, 46–48, 46 f, 48 f, 50–51 model of sexual orientation,
192–193, 192 f scale of sexual orientation, 47–48, 48 f
Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Reproduction, and Gender, 66–67, 281
Th e Kiss (fi lm), 10 Th e Kiss (Rodin), 209 f kissing
biological response to, 232 cultural diff erences in, 14, 22 f fi rst, 286 French, 532 HIV transmission and, 532 by prostitutes, 611 sexual orientation and, 285
Kiwai people, 108 Klinefelter syndrome, 146 t, 148–149,
149 f, 430 klismaphilia, 305 koro, 108 Kraff t-Ebing, Richard von, 44–45, 44 f
labia majora, 71 f, 72–73 labia minora, 71 f, 72–73 labor, 384–386, 385 f, 386 f lactation, 78–79 lactational amenorrhea method (LAM),
348–349 Lakota Sioux, two-spirits in, 19 Lamaze method, 390 lanugo, 366 laparoscopy, 349–350, 349 f, 423 laparotomy, 349 late adulthood. See also aging
death of a partner, 208 developmental concerns in, 208 HIV/AIDS in, 540 f, 541 male sexual responsiveness and, 213–214 menopausal hormone therapy,
212–213, 214 t menopause physical eff ects, 211–212 prostate enlargement in, 214–215 sexual activity in, 209–210, 210 f sexual and reproductive time line, 189 f stereotypes of aging, 208–209 testosterone supplementation, 215 women’s issues, 211–213
latency stage, 499 latex allergies, 342, 489, 512
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Latinos/Latinas. See also race and ethnicity abortions in, 354 birth rates of, 177 f, 179 f Catholicism and, 62 communication about sex and
sexuality, 240 diversity of subgroups, 62 eating disorders in, 400 familismo, 61 HIV/AIDS in, 528–529, 528 f, 529 f,
529 t, 535, 537 f, 538 homosexuality in, 200 machismo, 61, 134, 240 sexual behavior prevalence in, 276 f sexually transmitted infections in,
485 f, 486 f sexual stereotypes of, 61–62 teenage pregnancy among, 177 f, 179 f traditional female gender role, 134, 139
Lawrence et al. v. Texas, 620–621 laws
antidiscrimination, 570–572, 570 f, 571 f antisodomy, 567, 568 f, 620–621 on censorship, 606–609, 609 t on child pornography and protection,
608–609, 609 t on civil unions, 621, 622 t on hate crimes, 567, 570, 571 f on human traffi cking, 612 on marital rape, 581 on obscenity, 14, 607–608 on private, consensual sexual behavior,
620–621 on prostitution, 618–619 on registered sex off enders, 592 on same-sex marriage, 621, 622 t sexual rights advocacy groups, 23, 623–624 on statutory rape, 581–582
LDL (low-density lipoprotein), 212 Lea’s Shield™, 344 leptin, early puberty and, 166 lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender
(LGBT) individuals. See gay men, lesbian women, bisexual and transgender individuals
lesbian women. See also gay men, lesbian women, bisexual and transgender individuals
artifi cial insemination of, 383–384 autoerotic asphyxia in, 320 breast cancer in, 415 cervical cancer in, 484 condom use by, 539 cunnilingus and, 288, 450, 476 devaluation of sexuality of, 56 domination and submission, 305 extradyadic relationships of, 237 health issues, 432 HIV/AIDS in, 539 initiating sexual activity, 246 kissing, 285 Latina, 200 longevity and quality of relationships, 225 on love and sex, 224, 225 media stereotypes of, 11 as parents, 383–384 sexual aversion in, 450 sexual communication by, 245
sexual fantasies of, 270 sexual function diffi culties in, 439, 448,
450, 459–460, 475–476 sexually transmitted infections in,
484–485, 488, 490 touching activities by, 282, 283 tribidism and, 282, 283 f
leukemia, priapism in, 457 leukocytes, 522 Levitra (vardenafi l HCl), 473–474, 475 levonorgestrel, 346 Leydig cells, 111 f, 114 LGBT individuals. See gay men, lesbian
women, bisexual and transgender individuals
LGV (lymphogranuloma venereum), 509 LH. See luteinizing hormone libido. See also sexual desire
hormones and, 81 oophorectomy and, 423 resolving diff erences in, 449 types, 448
lifetime risk, for HIV/AIDS, 529–530, 529 t liking, 227 f, 228 limbic system, sexual response and, 96 lingams, 108, 112 f liver disease. See hepatitis, viral lochia, 386 Lost Innocence project, 612 Loulan’s sexual response model, 93, 93 f love
as attachment, 230–231, 233 as caring, 239 commitment and, 238–239 communication contexts, 239–241 communication in beginning
relationships, 243–246 communication in established
relationships, 246 components of, 227–228 extradyadic involvement, 236–238 friendship and, 220–221 in gay and lesbian relationships,
223–224, 225 gender diff erences in sex and love,
223–224 gender equality and, 222 geometry of, 230, 230 f halo eff ect, 243–244 intimate, 238–239 jealousy and, 233–234, 236–238 kinds of, 227 f, 228–230 Love Lab, 251 nonverbal communication in, 240–242 paradoxical quality of, 219 Passionate Love Scale, 235 science of, 232 sexuality and, 189, 221–224 sociobiology and, 25 styles of, 226–227 triangular theory of, 227–230, 227 f, 230 f unrequited, 233 without sex, 224
Love Lab, 251 love maps, 251 low-birth-weight infants, 178, 179, 373, 375 low-density lipoprotein (LDL), 212 LSD, 407
lubrication in anal sex, 113 diffi culties, 444 f, 445, 446 f, 450, 455 in the sexual response cycle, 74, 95 vaginal lubricants, 89, 473
ludus, 226 lumbar disc disease, 457 lumpectomy, 418, 418 f luteal phase, 83–84, 84 f, 86 luteinizing hormone (LH)
in menstrual cycle, 86, 86 f in ovarian cycle, 82–84, 82 t, 86 f
lymphocytes, 523, 523 f lymphogranuloma venereum (LGV), 509
machismo, 61, 134, 240 macrophages, 523 magazines, sexualization by, 7–8 Male Body Image Self-Consciousness
Scale, 118 male climacteric, 213–214 male erectile disorder. See erectile dysfunction male impersonators, 308 male orgasmic disorder, 441 t, 454, 470 male prostitutes, 615, 617–618 male rape, 576, 582–583 male reproductive hormones, 113–116,
114 t, 116 f . See also testosterone males. See boys and young men; men male sex organs, 106–113
embryonic development of, 70 f external structures, 106–109, 107 f, 109 f homologous structures, 119, 119 f internal structures, 110–113, 110 f, 111 f summary table of, 113 t
male sexual physiology, 113–119 homologous structures, 119, 119 f reproductive hormones, 113–116, 114 t,
116 f ( See also testosterone) semen production, 118–119 spermatogenesis, 110, 116–117, 117 f
male sexual response, 119–123 aging and, 213–214 desire and, 95–98 ejaculation, 120–121, 121 f ( See also
ejaculation) erection process, 120, 121 f, 122 ( See also
erections) orgasm, 122 ( See also orgasms) sexual response models, 90–94, 93 t
malignant tumors, 413 mammary glands, 78–79, 79 f mammography, 415–417, 415 f M-and-M (massage and masturbation only)
parlors, 616 Mangaia people, 15 mania, 226 manipulation, gender-role learning and, 133 Maori people, 108 marianismo, 134, 139 marijuana, sexuality and, 95–96, 406,
406 f, 457 marital rape, 581 marriage. See also established relationships
in ancient Greece, 18 child-free, 367 of children, 36 f cohabitation vs., 201–203
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cross-cultural, 62 cross-dressing in, 310 death of a partner, 208 Defense of Marriage Act, 621 division of tasks in, 202–203 extradyadic involvements in, 238 factors in success of, 204–205, 205 f group, 238 long-term, 203, 204–205, 205 f marital rape, 581 no-sex, 450 open, 238 polygamy, 238 same-sex ( See same-sex marriage) serial monogamy, 202 sexuality in, 204–205
masculinity, 130–131. See also gender roles mashing (frotteurism), 315–316 masochism, 301, 320. See also sadism and
masochism (S&M) massage and masturbation only (M-and-M)
parlors, 616 masseuses, 616 mastectomy, 154, 418, 418 f Masters and Johnson
cognitive-behavioral approach, 467–471, 471 t
model of sexual response, 48–49, 91–93, 92 f, 93 t, 121 f
master-slave script, 304 masturbation
by adolescents, 172–173, 272 t by adults, 272 t, 276–278 by age group, 272 t, 276 attitude quiz, 274–275 autoerotic asphyxia in, 320–321 by children, 161–163 by college students, 274–275 condemnation of, 268 devices designed to stop, 269 f Ellis on, 46 exhibitionism and, 314 gender and, 172–173 guilty feelings after, 172–173 Kinsey on, 47 in Latino culture, 62 by men, 273 f, 277–278 mutual, 273 f prevalence of, 55, 172, 272 t, 274–275, 276 f race/ethnicity and, 62, 276 f reasons for, 271, 273, 464 sexually explicit material and,
603–604 in sexual relationships, 278 by women, 271 f, 272 t, 276–277, 276 f
masturbatory asphyxia, 24, 26 matchmaking, 207 mate poaching, 263, 264 f mate selection, 25, 260–265, 261 t,
264 f, 265 f Mating in Captivity (Perel), 460 Matthew Shepard and James Byrd, Jr. Hate
Crimes Prevention Act, 570 Mayan people, 108 MDMA (ecstasy), 406 f, 407, 578 Measure of Sexual Identity Exploration and
Commitment (MoSIEC), 40–41 meatus, 75
media adolescents and, 6, 6 f, 8, 8 f, 10 birth control in, 9 evaluating information from, 31, 32 gender roles and, 136 online social networks, 11–14 portrayals of sexuality in, 5–8, 6 f, 8 f psychosexual development and, 169–170 sex information/advice genre, 30–33 sexual attractiveness and, 264 sexually explicit materials in, 600–601 sexual orientation stereotypes in, 11 socialization by, 2 television, 9, 11 time spent by youth on, 6, 6 f, 8, 8 f, 9
medication abortion, 352 . See also RU-486 Megan’s Law, 592 Mehinaku people, 14 meiosis, 83 f, 117 f men. See also boys and young men; gender
diff erences abortion and, 355 andropause, 213–214 body image of, 118, 402–403 cancer in, 424–430, 424 f, 427 f chlamydia in, 496 circumcision in ( See circumcision, male) cultural views on sexuality of, 16 diabetes in, 411 dyspareunia in, 392, 441 t, 455–456, 457 eating disorders in, 398–402, 401 f epididymitis in, 496 erectile dysfunction in ( See erectile
dysfunction) evolutionary mating perspectives,
260–263, 261 t, 264 f, 265 f exhibitionism in, 313–314 gender identity development in, 144,
151–152 gonorrhea in, 494 t, 497, 497 f health care needs, 115, 425 hormones in, 113–116, 114 t, 116 f,
164–165 infertility in, 380 kissing and, 285 masturbation by, 273 f, 277–278 orgasmic disorder in, 441 t, 454, 470 pedophilia in, 317 penis enhancement, 399 Peyronie’s disease in, 456 physical causes of sexual dysfunction
in, 457 premature ejaculation in, 441 t, 454–455,
469–470, 469 f prostatitis, 432–433 as prostitutes, 615, 617–618 rape of, 576, 582–583 refractory period in, 101, 122 responsibility for birth control, 327 f,
328, 329 “satyriasis” in, 303 secondary sex characteristics in, 114, 165,
165 f, 166 on sex and love, 223–224 sex organs of, 106–113 sexual dysfunction prevalence in,
443–446, 444 f, 446 f sexual fantasies of, 269–270
sexual harassment of, 560–565, 563 f sexual health care, 115 sexual response in, 119–123 sexual stereotypes of, 59, 61 with spinal cord damage, 409–410 sterilization of, 111, 350–351, 351 f tasks during pregnancy, 370, 371 t testicular self-examination, 427, 427 f testosterone replacement therapy, 97, 115,
215, 473 tight underwear on, 381 traditional gender roles and scripts, 137–138 transvestic fetishism in, 308–309 transvestism in, 308–310
menarche, 86, 165 Men Can Stop Rape, 585 menopausal hormone therapy (MHT),
212–213, 214 t, 473 menopause
hormone therapy in, 212–213, 214 t, 473 physical eff ects of, 211–212 societal reaction to, 203
menorrhagia, 87–88 menses. See menstruation menstrual cycle, 81–90
bleeding in, 84–85 hormone levels in, 81, 82 t, 84, 86 menstrual phase, 84 f, 85–86 menstrual synchrony in, 87 Mittelschmerz, 83 ovarian cycle, 81–84, 81 f, 83 f, 84 f, 86 f overview of, 86 f proliferative (follicular) phase, 82–83,
84 f, 86 secretory phase, 86 sexuality and, 88–90
menstrual synchrony, 87 menstruation, 84–90. See also menstrual cycle
age of fi rst, 86, 165 amenorrhea, 88, 401 cramps, 88, 89 dysmenorrhea, 88 menorrhagia, 87–88 oral contraceptives and, 334 premenstrual syndrome, 87 products to absorb fl ow, 85 slang for, 87 toxic shock syndrome, 85, 430–431 vaginal and menstrual health care, 89
men who have sex with men (MSM). See also gay men
African American, 535 anal intercourse in, 293, 537 anodyspareunia in, 456 circumcision and, 493 condom use by, 341, 514, 531, 537 HIV transmission by, 531, 535, 536–537,
537 f, 546 in Latino culture, 61 male prostitutes, 615, 616–617 sexual dysfunction in, 445 sexually transmitted infections in,
485, 496 syphilis transmission by, 485
mercury exposure, during pregnancy, 373 mescaline, 407 metabolic syndrome, testosterone replacement
and, 115
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metastasis, 413 methamphetamine, 407 MHT (menopausal hormone therapy),
212–213, 214 t, 473 microbicides, in HIV prevention, 552 middle adulthood
developmental concerns, 203 divorce and after, 205–208 pregnancy after age 35, 374–375,
379, 382 sexual and reproductive time line, 189 f sexuality in established relationships,
204–205, 205 f Middle Eastern Americans, 64 midwifery, 390 Mifeprex, 352 mifepristone, 352 mikvah, 89 military
sexual harassment in, 565 sexual orientation and, 571–572
minilaparotomy, 349 minipills, 333 Mirena , 346, 346 f mirror examination, 464 miscarriages, 352, 378 misoprostol, 353 missionary position, 290, 290 f mitosis, 83 f, 117 f Mittelschmerz, 83 modeling, of gender roles, 132 molluscum contagiosum, 509 mons pubis, 71 mons veneris, 71 moral judgments and standards
on abortion, 355–356 on cloning, 382 on homosexual relations, 569, 620–621 on nonmarital sexuality, 61 normality and, 21 on prostitution, 618–619 research ethics, 37, 500–501 on same-sex marriage, 621–622 in sex advice genre, 31, 32 sex research funding and, 49–50 in sex therapy, 472 sexual addiction and, 303, 316 on sexuality, 490 on sexually explicit materials, 606–608 on sexually transmitted infections, 490 on sexual variations, 301, 314
morning-after pill, 352 mosaicism, 149 MoSIEC (Measure of Sexual Identity Explo-
ration and Commitment), 40–41 Movement Advancement Project (MAP), 570 MSM. See men who have sex with men mucous secretions, 77 multiple sclerosis, sexual dysfunction in, 457 Mundugumor people, 130 muscle dysphoria, 402 music industry, sexual images in, 7, 10 mutual masturbation, 273 f myotonia, 98–99
Names Project Foundation, 552 f National Center for Health Statistics
(NCHS), 52–53
National College Health Assessment, 53–54, 54 f
National Comorbidity Survey Replication (NCS-R), 400
National Crime Victimization Survey (NCVS), 573, 580, 586
National Health and Social Life Survey (NHSLS)
on autoerotic activity, 268–269, 278 on child sexual abuse, 586 fi ndings of, 51–52 on orgasm prevalence, 453 political pressure and, 50 on sexual dysfunction prevalence,
444–445 National HIV Testing Resources, 548 National Intimate Partner and Sexual
Violence Survey, 560, 573 National Longitudinal Study of Adolescent
Health, 611 National School Climate Survey, 567 National Survey of Family Growth
(NSFG), 52–53 National Survey of Sexual Attitudes and
Behaviors 2000 (Natsal), 443 National Survey of Sexual Health and
Behavior (NSSHB), 54–55, 445–446, 446 f, 452–453
Native Americans. See American Indians Nazi Germany, gay and lesbian people in,
567, 568 f NCHS (National Center for Health
Statistics), 52–53 NCS-R (National Comorbidity Survey
Replication), 400 NCVS (National Crime Victimization
Survey), 573, 580, 586 necrophilia, 316–317 needle exchange programs, 547–548 Neisseria gonorrhoeae. See gonorrhea neonates, 386. See also infants neural tube defects, 374, 378 neural tube defect screening, 378 neuroses, 45 Nevada, legal brothels in, 615 Th e New Our Bodies, Ourselves, 607 New Sexual Satisfaction Scale (NSSS), 5 NGU (nongonococcal urethritis), 498 NHSLS. See National Health and Social
Life Survey night sweats, 212 nocturnal emissions (wet dreams), 116, 166 nocturnal orgasms, 116, 271 No Easy Answers (Human Rights Watch), 593 nongonococcal urethritis (NGU), 498 nonlove, 227 f, 230 nonoxynol-9 (N-9)
with condom use, 339, 340 in contraceptive fi lm, 345 in contraceptive sponges, 344 in sexually transmitted infection
prevention, 344 used alone as spermicide, 344–345
nonpedophilic sexual abuse, 587 nonverbal communication, 241–243, 245,
249 f, 577 “normal” sexual behavior, 21, 22–24, 48 norms. See societal norms
North American Task Force on Prostitution (NTFP), 619
NSFG (National Survey of Family Growth), 52–53
NSSHB (National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior), 54–55, 445–446, 446 f, 452
NSSS (New Sexual Satisfaction Scale), 5 nucleus accumbens, 95 nudity, in families, 163 NuvaRing, 337–338, 337 f nymphomania, 301–303
obesity, 374, 402 objectivity, 33–34 obscene phone calls, 315 obscenity, 598, 607–608. See also sexually
explicit material observational research, 42 OCs (oral contraceptives), 333–335, 334 f Oedipal complex, 45 OIs (opportunistic infections), 520–521, 525 f old age. See late adulthood online resources. See Internet online sexual activity, 599–602 oocytes. See ova oogenesis, 81–82, 83 f oophorectomy, 423 opening lines, 244 open marriage and relationships, 238 opiates, during pregnancy, 373 opinions, 34–35 opportunistic infections (OIs), 520–521, 525 f oral contraceptives (OCs), 333–335, 334 f oral-genital sex. See also cunnilingus; fellatio
antisodomy laws and, 567, 568 f, 620–621 as “having sex,” 173–174, 278, 280–281 HIV transmission in, 531 power symbolism in, 289 prevalence of, 20, 54, 54 f, 287 sexually transmitted infections from,
485, 496 statistics on, 174
oral stage, 45 orgasmic disorders
female, 441 t, 452, 470–471, 471 t male, 441 t, 454–455, 469–470, 469 f
orgasmic platform, 100 orgasms
benefi ts of, 98 culture and, 15 disabilities and, 409 ejaculation and, 122 evolutionary role of, 98 factors in women’s, 76–77, 98, 471 t faking, 99, 459 gender diff erences in frequency of,
452–454 Grafenberg spot and, 70, 73 f, 76–77, 76 f inability to achieve, 453 in infants, 160 in masturbation, 277 menstrual cramp relief from, 89 multiple, 15, 101 nocturnal, 116, 271 oxytocin in, 97, 232 in penile-vaginal intercourse, 452 penis in, 121 f
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pressure to achieve, 98–99, 453–454 pretending, 99 satisfaction and, 99, 176 sexual fantasies and, 270 in sexual response cycle, 91–94,
92 f, 93 t surrender in, 5 vaginal, myth of, 49 “Was it good for you?” question, 99
Ortho Evra, 336–337, 336 f os, 73 f, 77 osteoporosis, 212 “out-of-control sexual behavior,” 317 ova (singular, ovum )
in assisted reproductive technology, 381 fertilization of, 362–363, 363 f in the ovaries, 77, 81–82 sex chromosomes in, 117, 145
ovarian cancer, 422 ovarian cycle, 81–84, 81 f, 83 f, 84 f, 86 f ovarian follicles, 77 ovaries, 73 f, 77, 423 oviducts (fallopian tubes), 73 f, 77–78,
80 t, 363 f ovulation, 77, 83, 363 f ovulatory phase, 83, 84 f oxytocin
in breastfeeding, 82 t connectedness and bonding, 204–205, 232 in labor, 82 t, 384 in men, 114 t during orgasm, 97, 232
Pacific Islanders. See also Asian Americans; race and ethnicity
HIV/AIDS in, 528 f, 529 f, 529 t, 535–536, 537 f, 538
sexuality in, 62–64 sexually transmitted infections in, 485 f, 486 f teenage birth rates, 177 f, 179 f
pain in dyspareunia, 392, 441 t, 455–456, 457 in vaginismus, 441 t, 455, 471
Pap test avoidance of, 413 in cervical cancer prevention, 420–421, 502 in cervicitis prevention, 511 guidelines for, 421 for HIV-positive women, 553 lesbian women and, 432
ParaGard , 346, 346 f paraphilias. See also sexual variations
autoerotic asphyxia, 320–321 coercive, 310–321 criticism of terminology, 302 defi nition of, 300–303, 300 t domination and submission, 304–306 exhibitionism, 24, 313–314 fetishism, 24, 301, 306–307 frotteurism, 315–316 necrophilia, 316–317 noncoercive, 306–310 “not otherwise specifi ed” category,
300, 300 t “nymphomania,” 301–303 origins and treatment of, 321 pedophilia, 302, 317–318 “satyriasis,” 303
sexual sadism and sexual masochism, 301, 318–321
telephone scatologia, 315 transvestism, 19, 308–310, 618 voyeurism, 24, 311–313 zoophilia, 311
para-urethral glands, 77 parents. See also families
adolescents’ sexual orientation and, 171 becoming, 392–393 childrens’ media use and, 9 gay and lesbian, 571 incest by, 587–588 negative attitudes towards sex, 459 parenthood as choice, 189, 367 pregnant women and, 369–370 psychosexual development and,
167–168, 168 f single, 207–208 as socializing agents, 133–134 tasks of expectant, 371 t teenage fathers, 180–181 teenage mothers, 179–180
“partial-birth” abortions, 356 partialism, 307 partial mastectomy, 418, 418 f participant observation, 42 passion
Passionate Love Scale, 235 in triangular theory of love, 227 f,
228–229, 230 f Passionate Love Scale (PLS), 235 patch, contraceptive, 345, 345 f pathological behavior, 38–39 “patient spotting,” 521 P.C. (pubococcygeus) muscle, 457, 464, 470 PCP ( Pneumocystis carinii pneumonia),
519, 521 pecs (male breasts), 112, 112 f pectoral implants, 112 pedophilia, 302, 317–318 peepers (voyeurism), 311–313 peer delinquent subculture, 617–618 peers
psychosexual development and, 168–169
sexual harassment by, 562–563, 564 as socializing agents, 135–136
pelvic fl oor, 78 pelvic infl ammatory disease (PID)
bacterial vaginosis and, 507 causes of, 510 dysmenorrhea in, 88 ectopic pregnancy and, 510 female infertility from, 510 from sexually transmitted infections, 484,
488, 495, 497 symptoms of, 510 vaginal douching and, 491
penile cancer, 428–429 penile inversion surgery, 152 f, 154 penile-vaginal intercourse
alternatives to, 466 as defi nition of “sex,” 173–174,
280–281, 289 fi rst, 173–174, 173 t, 176, 176 f, 178 HIV transmission in, 531 orgasm and, 452
positions, 290–291, 290 f, 291 f, 292 f, 293 f
prevalence of, 54, 54 f safety of ( See safer sex) signifi cance of, 289–290 statistics on, 174 tantric sex, 291, 293 f
penis anatomy of, 106–109, 107 f, 109 f, 110 f anxiety about, 108 cultural signifi cance of, 108, 112 f curvature of, 456 erection of, 108, 109, 116 Peyronie’s disease and, 456 priapism and, 456–457 prosthetic implants, 399 size of, 108–109
penis enhancement, 399 penis envy, 45, 108 “perfect” bodies
anabolic steroids and, 403 breast and penis enlargement, 399 disabilities and, 409–410 eating disorders and, 398–402, 401 f sexual health and, 402–403
performance anxiety, 108, 459 perimenopause, 211 perinatal HIV transmission (mother-to-
child), 513, 532–533 perineum, 78, 106 persistent sexual arousal syndrome (PSAS),
451–452 Personal Responsibility Education Program
(PREP), 182 Peyronie’s disease, 456 “phallic phallacy,” 108 phallic stage, 45 pheromones, 87, 96 Phthirus pubis, 509–510, 509 f physical activity, during pregnancy, 370 PID. See pelvic infl ammatory disease piercing, 505, 506, 530 “the pill” (oral contraceptives), 333–335, 334 f pimps, 612 placebo eff ect, 405 placenta, 364 f, 366, 385–386, 385 f Plan B, One-Step, 351 playful gear, 284 pleasing a partner, excessive need for, 459 pleasuring, 282 plethysmographs, 43 PLISSIT model, 472 PLS (Passionate Love Scale), 235 PMS (premenstrual syndrome), 87 Pneumocystis carinii pneumonia (PCP),
519, 521 polyamorists, 238 polygamy, 238 poppers (amyl nitrate), 320, 406 pop psychology, 32 pornography, defi nition of, 598. See also
sexually explicit material postpartum depression, 392 postpartum period, 392 postpartum psychosis, 393 postrefusal sexual persistence, 578–579, 579 f posttraumatic stress disorder (PTSD),
584, 589
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poverty. See socioeconomic status power, in sexual harassment, 558, 559 powerlessness, in sexually abused children, 591 power rapes, 583 power sharing, 222, 223, 289 pragma, 226 precocious puberty, 165–166 preconception care, 368 pre-exposure prophylaxis (PrEP), 546 pregnancy. See also childbirth
after age 35, 374–375, 379, 382 alcohol use in, 373 ambivalence about, 329 becoming parents, 392–393 birth rates, 176, 177 f, 179 f, 367–368 changes in women during, 369–370, 371 f chlamydia during, 496 complications of, 372–377 conceptus development, 364–367,
365 f, 366 f cytomegalovirus during, 508 delayed labor, 377 demographic facts of life, 376 t DES use in, 175, 420, 423 detection of, 368–369 diagnosing fetal abnormalities in,
377–378, 377 f drug use during, 373 ectopic, 347, 375, 484, 510 fertilization process, 362–363, 363 f gonorrhea during, 497 hepatitis B during, 505 HIV during, 513, 532–533 human papillomavirus during, 502 hypertension in, 375 infectious diseases during, 373–374, 484 length of, 362 loss of, 352, 378–379 as a matter of choice, 367 obesity during, 374 placenta, 364 f, 366, 385–386, 385 f preconception care, 368 preterm births, 375–376 sex determination, 368 sex selection, 382–383 sexuality during, 372 sexually transmitted infection protection
in, 513 statistics on, 326 STI screening during, 374 syphilis during, 498, 499 teenage, 176–179, 177 f, 179 f teratogens and, 372–373 tobacco use in, 373 unintended, 326–327, 329, 331, 332 t, 354
pregnancy-induced hypertension, 375 pregnancy loss, 352, 378–379 pregnancy tests, 368–369 premature births, 375–376 premature ejaculation, 441 t, 454–455,
469–470, 469 f premenstrual discomfort, 87 premenstrual dysphoric disorder, 87 premenstrual syndrome (PMS), 87 pre-orgasmia, 452 PrEP (pre-exposure prophylaxis), 546 prepared childbirth, 390 prepuce, 107
preterm births, 375–376 prevalence, defi nition of, 482 priapism, 456–457 primary dysmenorrhea, 88 privacy, of children, 163 pro-choice argument, 355–356 progestational phase, 86 f progesterone
functions of, 81, 82 t in menopause, 211 in menstrual cycle, 86, 86 f in oral contraceptives, 333 in ovarian cycle, 86 f
progestin in contraceptives, 333, 335–336 in menopausal hormone therapy, 212, 214 t
progestin-only pills (POPs), 333 prolactin, 82 t, 101 pro-life argument, 355 proliferative (follicular) phase, 82–83, 84 f Proscar, 426 prostaglandin inhibitors, 88, 89 prostaglandins, 82 t, 88 prostate cancer, 424–426, 424 f prostate gland
female, 77 male, 110 f, 111, 112–113, 214–215
prostate-specifi c antigen (PSA) test, 425 prostatic hyperplasia, 425 prostatitis, 432–433 Prostitutes’ Education Network, 619 prostitution and prostitutes, 610–619
in brothels, 615 call girls, 616–617 children and teens as prostitutes, 610 customers of, 610 defi nition of, 610 entrance into prostitution, 611–613 fellatio in, 610, 615, 617 HIV/AIDS and other STIs and, 490, 547,
615, 619 human traffi cking, 612 laws on, 618–619 male prostitutes, 615, 617–618 massage parlors, 616 personal background and motivation,
613–614 pimps, 612 prevalence of, 611 sex tourism, 613–614 as sex workers, 610, 611 streetwalkers, 613, 614–615
protection from harm, in research, 37 proximity, 242, 244 PSAS (persistent sexual arousal syndrome),
451–452 PSA (prostate-specifi c antigen) test, 425 pseudohermaphroditism, 144,
146 t, 150 psilocybin, 407 psoralen, 428 psychedelic drugs, 407 psychoanalysis, 45 Psychopathia Sexualis (Kraff t-Ebing), 44 psychosexual development
in adolescence, 164–166, 165 f in childhood, 160–164, 162 t defi nition of, 159
gay, lesbian, and questioning adolescents, 170–172
in infancy, 159–160 infl uences on, 167–170, 168 f, 170 f media and, 169–170 parental infl uence on, 167–168, 168 f peers and, 168–169 religion and, 170
psychosexual therapy, 471 psychotherapy, in sex reassignment, 154 PTSD (posttraumatic stress disorder),
584, 589 puberty, 164–166, 165 f pubic hair, 71–72 pubic lice, 72, 495 t, 509–510, 509 f pubococcygeus (P.C. muscle), 457, 464, 470 Th e Purity Myth (Valenti), 140–141 Put Passion First (Cassell), 265
queer theory, 132 “questioning” adolescents, 170–172 questionnaires, 40–41
race and ethnicity. See also specific racial and ethnic groups
anal sex and, 276 f, 293 breast cancer and, 414 cohabitation and, 201 f, 202 f communication about sex and sexuality, 240 defi nition of, 36 eating disorders and, 400 gay, lesbian, and questioning
adolescents, 172 HIV/AIDS and, 528–530, 528 f, 529 f,
529 t, 533–536, 538, 539, 540 masturbation and, 62, 276, 276 f men who have sex with men, 61, 535 oral-genital sex and, 276 f penile-vaginal intercourse and, 276 f prostate cancer and, 424, 424 f in same-sex households, 202 f in sex research, 38, 61 sexual behavior and, 276 f sexual identity in, 172 sexuality and, 59–64 sexually transmitted infections and,
485–486, 485 f, 486 f sexual orientation and, 200 single parenting and, 208 teenage pregnancy and, 177 f, 179, 374 Tuskegee syphilis study, 500–501 underrepresentation in sex research, 38
radical mastectomy, 418 RAINN (Rape, Abuse, and Incest National
Network), 580, 582 random samples, 37 rape. See also child sexual abuse; sexual
aggression by acquaintances, 576, 578, 580 of adolescents, 587 aftermath of, 584–586 alcohol use and, 405 attempted, 573 confusion over consent, 577 date rape, 574, 576–580 date-rape drugs, 578 defi nitions of, 572, 573 gang rape, 581
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in gay and lesbian relationships, 583 helping someone who has been raped, 585 incest, 587–588 marital, 581 of men, 576, 582–583 motivations for, 583 myths about, 573–576, 605 nature of, 572–573 postrefusal sexual persistence,
578–579, 579 f prevalence of, 573, 573 f reporting of, 574 sadistic, 583 sexual fantasies of, 270–271 in sexually explicit materials, 604–605 sexually transmitted infections and, 488 sexual sadism and, 319 statutory, 581–582 by strangers, 574, 575, 580–581
Rape, Abuse, and Incest National Network (RAINN), 580, 582
rape trauma syndrome, 584–585 rapid ejaculation, 441 t, 454–455,
469–470, 469 f rapid tests, for HIV, 549–550 Reality, 342–343 rear-entry position, 291, 292 f rectosigmoid transplant, 154 refractory period, 101, 122 Rekindling Desire: A Step-by-Step Program to
Help Low-Sex and No-Sex Marriages (McCarthy and McCarthy), 450
relationships. See established relationships relaxin, 114 t, 384 religion, psychosexual development and,
170. See also Catholic Church reparative therapy, 58–59, 147. See also
gender variations Report of the APA Task Force on the
Sexualization of Girls, 166 representative samples, 37 repression, 45 reproduction, sexual norms and, 23–24 reproductive hormones, female. See also
specifi c hormones in birth control methods, 333–338 functions of, 81, 82 t homosexuality and, 175 menopausal hormone therapy, 212–213,
214 t, 473 during menstrual cycle, 81, 82 t, 84, 86 production of, 82 t in puberty, 164–165 sexual response and, 96–98 after sterilization, 350 tabulation of, 82 t
reproductive hormones, male, 113–116, 114 t, 116 f, 164–165. See also testosterone
research. See sex research Resurrecting Sex (Schnarch), 466–467 retrograde ejaculation, 121 retroviruses, 523. See also human
immunodefi ciency virus reverse transcriptase, 523, 524 f revirgination, 75–76, 141 rhinoceros horn, 405 rhythm method, 347–348, 347 f
Rigiscan, 43 rimming (analingus), 113, 291, 293 risk behaviors. See also safer sex
in adolescents, 53, 540 alcohol use and, 33, 404 child sexual abuse and, 590 in college students, 54, 54 f drug use and, 407 multiple sexual partners, 486–487 by prostitutes, 619 responsibility for birth control and,
327–328 sexual identity development and, 40 sexuality education programs and, 3–4,
51, 181–183 socioeconomic status and, 60–61, 490 syringe exchange programs, 547–548 Youth Risk Behavior Survey, 53
rites of passage, 167 f RNA test, for HIV infection, 550 Roe v. Wade court decision, 356 rohypnol (roofi es), 578 Roman Catholic Church. See Catholic Church romantic love, 227 f, 229, 230 root, of the penis, 106 RU-486, 352 . See also medication abortion rubella, during pregnancy, 373
sadism and masochism (S&M) autoerotic asphyxia, 320–321 in college students, 303, 304 f domination and submission vs., 304 sadism vs. masochism, 318 sexual masochism, 301, 320 sexual sadism, 319
sadistic rapes, 583 safe havens, for relinquishing infants, 393 safer sex. See also risk behaviors
in anal intercourse, 341, 487, 514, 531, 537
communication about, 513 condom use in, 488, 489, 512, 544 in early adulthood, 189 high-risk sexual behavior, 487–488 for HIV-positive people, 537 masturbation as, 273, 277, 514 ordinary kissing as, 285, 514 partner selection and, 512–513 perception of safety of partner and, 544 practices in, 514 serosorting and, 537 sexual exclusivity, 512, 513 statistics on, 546, 546 f vaccines and, 420, 503, 506, 513
safe surrender policies, 393 Salmonellosis, 484 f salpingitis. See pelvic infl ammatory disease Sambian people, 18 same-sex couples
censorship of depictions of, 607, 607 f domestic partnership laws, 201, 621 initiating sexual activity in, 246 parenting rights of, 622 sexual communication in, 245
same-sex marriage antisodomy laws, 567, 568 f, 620–621 civil unions vs., 621, 622 t defi nition of family and, 623
outside the United States, 622 public opinion on, 621–622, 623 state laws on, 621, 622 t in the United States, 201 f, 202, 202 f
sampling methods, 37–38 Sarcoptes scabiei, 509 satisfaction. See sexual satisfaction satyriasis, 303 scabies, 509 scat, in sexual activity, 305, 315 scent, 244, 260 Th e Scent of Desire (Herz), 260 schemas, 35, 136–137 schools
gender-role learning in, 134–135 sexual harassment in, 562–564, 563 f
scientifi c method, 36 scripts. See sexual scripts scrotum, 109, 110 f sea sponges, 85 secondary amenorrhea, 88 secondary dysmenorrhea, 88 secondary sex characteristics, 114, 165,
165 f, 166 secondary syphilis, 499 secondary victimization, 585 secretory phase, 86 secure attachments, 231, 233 “seeding,” 525 self-acceptance, 153 self-awareness development, 461–464 self-consciousness, 118 self-defense training, 574 self-disclosure
about HIV status, 537, 544 intimacy and, 189 love and, 238–239 touch and, 243 trust and, 248–249 understanding through, 247–248
self-esteem, 13, 590 self-examination, gynecological, 75, 75 f self-hanging, 320 self-help, 472 self-objectifi cation, 12–13 self-reported data, 39 SEM. See sexually explicit material semen donation, 530 seminal fl uid (semen), 111, 117, 118–119 seminal vesicles, 110 f, 111 seminiferous tubules, 110, 111 f, 116 seniors. See late adulthood sensate focus, 468, 468 f senses, sexual response and, 96 sensual gear, 284 SEPs (syringe exchange programs),
547–548 serial monogamy, 202, 486–487 seroconversion, 524 serodiscordant couples, 551 serosorting, 537 serostatus, 524 servilism, 306 sex. See also gender
defi nitions of, 127 genetic vs. anatomic, 127 “having sex,” 173–174, 278, 280–281 as intercourse, 289
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sex chromosomes, 117, 145, 148–149 sex determination, 117 sex discrimination. See discrimination sex education
abstinence-only, 51, 181–183 adolescents and, 181–183, 181 f, 190 on birth control, 51, 181–183 developmental disabilities and, 412 on HIV/AIDS prevention, 51,
181–183, 544 reasons for studying, 3–4 on risk behaviors, 3–4, 51, 181–183 on sexuality, 3–4, 51 on sexually transmitted infections,
181–183, 488, 490, 544 sex fl ush, 100, 120, 122 Sex in America: A Defi nitive Survey (Michael
et al.), 50 sex information/advice genre, 30–33 sexism
biological, 484 in the classroom, 135 defi nition of, 130–131 heterosexual bias, 565–566 machismo as, 61 in the media, 9, 10 sexually explicit materials and, 605
sex off enders, registered, 592–593 sexologists, 37 sex organs. See female sex organs; male
sex organs sex play, in children, 160–161 sex reassignment surgery (SRS), 152–154, 152 f sex research. See also sex researchers
clinical research, 38–39 correlational studies, 43 directions for future research, 59 ethical issues in, 37, 500–501 ethnic group representation in, 38, 61 experimental research, 42–44, 58 feminist scholarship, 56 on gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender
persons, 38, 57–59 historical, 44–49 interviews, 38 f, 39 National College Health Assessment,
53–54, 54 f National Health and Social Life Survey,
50–52 National Survey of Family Growth, 52–53 National Survey of Sexual Health and
Behavior, 54–55, 445–446, 446 f, 452–453
observational research, 42 participant observation, 42 political climate and funding of, 49–51 pop psychology and, 32 reasons for limited samples in, 38 sampling methods, 37–38 survey research, 30, 39–42 use and abuse of fi ndings, 32–33 Youth Risk Behavior Survey, 53, 540, 566
sex researchers Ellis, Havelock, 46, 46 f Foucault, Michel, 58, 58 f Freud, Sigmund, 45–46, 45 f Hirschfeld, Magnus, 57–58, 57 f Hooker, Evelyn, 58, 58 f
Kertbeny, Karl Maria, 57 Kinsey, Alfred, 46–48, 46 f, 48 f, 50–51 Kraff t-Ebing, Richard von, 44–45, 44 f Masters, William and Johnson, Virginia,
48–49, 49 f, 50–51 Ulrichs, Karl Heinrich, 57
sex selection, 382–383 “sex skin,” 100 sex slaves, 610 Sextasy, 406 f sex therapy. See also treatment of sexual
function diffi culties for gay, lesbian, bisexual, or transgender
people, 475–476 group therapy, 472 Masters and Johnson on, 467–471, 471 t PLISSIT model, 472 seeking help, 477 sexually explicit materials in, 604
sexting, 12–13, 606 sex tourists, 613–614 sex toys
disease transmission and, 514, 532 for men, 464 for women, 464
sex trading, after sexual abuse, 590 sex traffi cking, 612 sexual abuse, impact of, 450, 460, 471,
590–591. See also child sexual abuse; rape; sexual aggression
sexual abuse trauma, 590–591 sexual activity. See also sexual behavior
by adolescents, 33 by age group, 272 t anal eroticism ( See anal eroticism) autoeroticism, 45, 268–278 after childbirth, 392 by children, 160–161, 162 t communicating about, 246 concurrent sexual relationships, 487 couple sexual styles, 279–284 defi nition of, 278 after divorce, 207 in early adulthood, 188–191 early initiation and sexually transmitted
infections, 486 environmental factors in, 222 in established relationships, 204–205 evolution and, 25, 98 fantasies during, 270–271 frequency of, 204, 210 f,
448–449, 449 f gender equality and, 222 health benefi ts of, 294–295 initiating, 246–247 masturbation ( See masturbation) during menstruation, 89–90 numerous sex partners, 486–487 by older adults, 208, 209–210, 210 f online, 599–602 oral-genital sex ( See oral-genital sex) physical and cultural setting for, 222 during pregnancy, 372 prevalence of, 272 t, 276 f reasons for, in college students, 199 sexual attractiveness and, 258–266 sexual intercourse ( See penile-vaginal
intercourse)
sexuality education programs and, 3–4, 51, 181–183
sexually explicit materials and, 600–601, 602–604
sexual scripts and ( See sexual scripts) statistics on, 173 t, 174 STI prevention, 511–513, 514 touching, 242–243, 282–285, 283 f variations in ( See sexual variations)
sexual addiction, 303, 316 sexual aggression, 572–586. See also child
sexual abuse; rape acquaintance rape, 576, 578, 580 aftermath of, 584–586 confusion over consent, 577 date rape, 574, 576–580 defi nition of, 572 gang rape, 581 in gay and lesbian relationships, 583 male rape, 576, 582–583 marital rape, 581 in the military, 565 motivations for, 583 postrefusal sexual persistence,
578–579, 579 f prevalence of, 573, 573 f preventing assault, 574 rape myths, 573–576, 605 sex off enders, registered, 592–593 sexually explicit materials and, 604–605 against sexual minorities, 567 statutory rape, 581–582 stranger rape, 574, 580–581 by women on male children and teens,
586–588 sexual anxiety, 108, 459 sexual arousal. See also sexual response
alternatives to intercourse, 466 college students on, 463 factors in, 120, 471 t herbal preparations for, 408 intensifying, 465–466 kissing and, 232
sexual arousal disorders, 441 t, 450–452. See also erectile dysfunction
sexual assault, defi nition of, 572. See also rape; sexual aggression
sexual attractiveness, 258–266 college students on, 263–265, 264 f, 265 f cross-cultural analysis of, 258–260 desire and, 266 good looks in, 264, 265 f sexual strategies theory, 260–263, 261 t symmetry and, 259, 260 youthfulness and health in, 258
sexual aversion disorder, 441 t, 448, 450, 471 sexual behavior. See also sexual activity
anal eroticism ( See anal eroticism) autoeroticism, 45, 268–278 ( See also
masturbation) casual sex, 261, 262, 263, 407 erotophilic/erotophobic continuum and,
192–193, 192 f in established relationships, 279–282 frequency of, 204, 210 f “having sex,” defi nitions of, 173–174,
278, 280–281 ineff ective, 458–459
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by infants, 161–163, 162 t Kinsey on, 46–48, 46 f, 48 f, 50–51 kissing, 285 legalizing private, consensual,
620–621 love and, 189, 221–224 natural, 21 normal, 21, 22–24 NSFG study on, 52–53 NSSHB study on, 278–279 online, 599–602 oral-genital sex ( See oral-genital sex) orgasms and, 452 ( See also orgasms) outside of committed relationships,
236–238, 261, 262, 263 risky ( See risk behaviors) trends in, 173 t variations on ( See paraphilias; sexual
variations) Sexual Behavior, Sexual Attraction, and Sexual
Identity in the United States, 52–53 Sexual Behavior in the Human Female
(Kinsey), 46 Sexual Behavior in the Human Male
(Kinsey), 46 sexual coercion, defi nition of, 572. See also
rape; sexual aggression sexual communication. See communication sexual compulsivity, 316 sexual culture, Internet infl uence on, 13–14 sexual debut, 176 sexual desire
cultural diff erences and, 15, 120 diff erence between partners, 448–449, 449 f disorder characteristics, 441 t, 446–450,
447 f, 449 f erotophilic/erotophobic continuum and,
192–193, 192 f, 266 in female sexual response, 95–98 fl uidity of, 91 intensifi cation of, 465–466 in men, 447, 447 f pregnancy and delivery and, 392 role of relationships in, 442 in women, 91, 95, 442, 447, 447 f
sexual desire disorders. See also erectile dysfunction
female sexual arousal disorder, 441 t, 450
hypoactive sexual desire disorder, 441 t, 446–448, 447 f, 471
sexual aversion disorder, 441 t, 448, 450, 471
sexual development. See also disorders of sexual development (DSD)
disorders of, 144–151, 146 t in early adulthood, 188–191 Freud on, 45–46, 45 f in infancy, 159–160 in late adulthood, 208 in middle adulthood, 203 sex determination, 117 timeline, 189 f
sexual diaries, 42 sexual disorders. See disorders of sexual
development; sexual desire disorders; sexual function diffi culties
sexual double standards, 133
sexual dysfunction, DSM defi nition of, 439–442, 441 f . See also sexual function diffi culties
sexual equivalency concept, 442 sexual expression, 257, 602–604. See also
sexual activity sexual fantasies and dreams, 269–271 sexual fl uidity, 91, 194, 195 sexual function diffi culties. See also treatment
of sexual function diffi culties cognitive-behavioral approach to,
467–471, 471 t DSM classifi cations, 439–442, 441 f factors in, 442 in gay men and lesbian women, 439, 448,
450, 456, 459–460, 475–476 medicalization of, 475 orgasmic disorders, 441 t, 452–455, 470 Peyronie’s disease, 456 physical causes of, 457–458 prevalence of, 438–439, 443–445, 444 f priapism, 456–457 psychological causes of, 458–461 relationships and, 442, 466–467 seeking professional assistance for, 477 sexual arousal disorders, 441 t, 450–452 sexual desire disorders, 441 t, 446–450,
447 f, 449 f sexual function dissatisfaction, 440 sexual pain disorders, 455–456 surrendering and, 5 Working Group defi nitions of, 440, 442
sexual function dissatisfaction, 440. See also sexual function diffi culties
sexual function enhancement, 461–467 changing sexual relationships, 466–467 “good sex,” 461–463 homework exercises, 464 intensifying erotic pleasure, 465–466 medications for, 473–474, 475 self-awareness development, 461–464 sexual arousal factors, 120, 232, 408,
465–466, 471 t sexual desire disparities, 448–449, 449 f
sexual harassment, 558–565 defi nitions of, 558, 559–561 examples of, 560 fl irtation vs., 561–562 against gay men, lesbian women, bisexual
and transgender individuals, 563 in school and college, 562–564, 563 f stalking as, 560–561 in the workplace, 564–565
sexual health. See also sexually transmitted infections
anabolic steroids and, 403 body image, 402–403 defi nition of, 398 eating disorders and, 398–402, 401 f of lesbian women, 432 of men, 115, 424–430, 424 f, 427 f of women, 413–424
sexual identity, 170–172, 193–196. See also sexual orientation
sexual intercourse anal ( See anal intercourse) fi rst, 173–174, 173 t, 176, 176 f, 178 forced ( See rape; sexual aggression)
interfemoral, 282 vaginal ( See penile-vaginal intercourse)
sexual interest disorder (SID), 302. See also paraphilias
sexual interests, 14–17 sexuality
across cultures and times, 14–19 alcohol use and, 403–405 body image and, 402–403 cancer and, 413–430, 414 f, 415 f, 418 f in childhood, 160–163, 162 t critical thinking about, 33–36 disability and, 408–413 drug use and, 405–408, 406 f education in, 3–4, 15, 17, 51, 190 in established relationships, 203, 204–205 Internet sites on, 124 in late adulthood, 209–215, 210 f love and, 221–224 media portrayals of, 5–8, 6 f, 8 f menstrual cycle and, 88–90 in middle adulthood, 203 moral judgments on, 490 “normal,” 21, 22–24 during pregnancy, 372 race/ethnicity and, 59–64, 103 rape eff ects on, 585–586 reproduction and, 23–24 sexual rights, 23, 412–413, 623–624 social construction of, 56, 58,
132–133, 175 social context of, 7 societal norms and, 20–26 television viewing and, 9 time line of, 189 f women as defi ned by, 140–141
sexuality education, 51, 181–183, 181 f, 190 Sexuality Information and Education Council
of the United States (SIECUS) on evaluating media information on sex, 31 on life behaviors, 190 on sexuality education, 17, 181–183, 181 f on sexual rights, 623–624
sexually explicit material (SEM), 597–609 censorship, 606–609, 609 t child pornography, 606, 608 child protection, 608–609, 609 t college students viewing, 600, 602–603 content and themes, 600–601 debate over helpfulness or harmfulness of,
604–605 defi nition of, 598 femme porn, 599 gay and lesbian sexually explicit fi lms, 601 on the Internet, 599–602 Internet sex site use by college students, 600 limiting children’s access to, 608–609, 609 t obscenity laws, 598, 607–608 personal responses to, 14, 600 popular culture and, 598–599 pornography vs. erotica, 598 pubic hair in, 72 sex discrimination and, 605–606 sexting, 12–13, 606 sexual aggression and, 604–605 sexual expression and, 602–604
sexually transmitted diseases (STDs). See sexually transmitted infections
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sexually transmitted infections (STIs), 482–515. See also HIV/AIDS
anal intercourse and, 294, 487–488, 531, 537–538
asymptomatic nature of, 491 attitude scale, 492, 542 bacterial vaginosis, 484–485, 488, 490,
506–507 behavioral factors in spread of, 486–490 biological factors in spread of, 491, 493 cervicitis and, 498, 510–511 chancroids in, 508 chlamydia ( See chlamydia) circumcision and, 491, 493 condom use and, 488, 489, 512, 544 consequences of, 493 costs of, 493 cystitis and, 511 cytomegalovirus, 508 disparities among groups, 483–486,
485 f, 486 f drug use and, 407, 488, 513 ectoparasitic infestations, 493, 495 t,
509–510, 509 f enteric infections, 508 as epidemic, 483 French kissing and, 532 gender diff erences in, 340, 484–485 genital candidiasis, 507–508 genital herpes, 484, 491, 495 t,
504–505, 505 f genital human papillomavirus infection
( See genital human papillomavirus infection)
gonorrhea ( See gonorrhea) granuloma inguinale, 508 high-risk sexual partners, 487 incidence of, 483 lymphogranuloma venereum, 509 microbicides in prevention of, 552 molluscum contagiosum, 509 nonoxynol-9 and, 344 numerous sex partners and, 486–487 pelvic infl ammatory disease ( See pelvic
infl ammatory disease) perception of partner’s risk, 490 during pregnancy, 374 prevalence of, 483 preventing, 511–513, 514 ( See also safer sex) prostitution and, 490, 547, 615, 619 pubic lice, 72, 495 t, 509–510, 509 f recognizing symptoms, 513–514 reporting of, 483, 484 f scabies, 509 sexuality education and, 181–183, 488, 490 social factors in spread of, 490 stigmatization of, 490, 521 summary table of, 494 t –495 t syphilis, 484 f, 485, 494 t, 498–501, 499 f treatment of, 491, 513–515 trichomoniasis, 508 urinary tract infections, 494 t, 498 viral hepatitis, 495 t, 505–506
“sexual marathon,” 407 sexual masochism, 301, 320 sexual orientation. See also gay men, lesbian
women, bisexual and transgender individuals; specifi c sexual orientations
anti-gay prejudice, 566–570 biological infl uences on, 175 in childhood, 161 “coming out,” 11, 38, 171, 195 culture and, 17–18 defi nitions in, 17, 40 early researchers on, 57–58 establishing, in early adulthood, 188–189,
191–196 fl uidity of, 91, 194, 195 gay/lesbian/bisexual identity process,
170–172, 194–196 gender and, 131 hate crime legislation on, 567,
570, 571 f heterosexual bias, 565–566 Kinsey scale, 47–48, 48 f models of, 192–193, 192 f oral-genital sex and, 285, 287–288 questionnaire on, 40–41 race and ethnicity and, 200 reparative therapy, 58–59, 147 sadomasochism and, 319 same-sex marriage ( See same-sex marriage) social acceptance and, 17 statistics on, 193 two-spirits, 19
sexual pain disorders, 441 t, 455–456 sexual philosophy, 191 sexual pleasure, surrendering to, 5 sexual predators, online, 606, 608 sexual response. See also female sexual
response; male sexual response aging and, 213–214 alcohol use and, 43, 404–405 dual control model, 94 G-spot and, 76–77 in infants, 160 inhibitory response, 94 Masters and Johnson on, 48–49, 91–93,
92 f, 93 t models of, 90–94, 92 f, 93 t
sexual response cycle, 91 “sexual revolution,” 16–17 sexual rights, 23, 412–413, 623–624 sexual sadism, 319 sexual satisfaction
assessment of, 5 circumcision and, 493 communication patterns and, 248 love and, 221, 223 in older Americans, 210 f orgasms and, 99, 176 ( See also orgasms)
sexual scripts in beginning relationships, 243–246 components of, 138, 139–141 confusion over consent and, 577 contemporary, 141–142 cultural scripting, 266, 267 in domination and submission, 304 female, 139–141 interpersonal scripting, 267–268 intrapersonal scripting, 266, 267 male, 98, 138 master-slave, 304
Sexual Sensation Seeking Scale, 309 sexual strategies theory, 260–263, 261 t sexual styles. See couple sexual styles
sexual variations. See also paraphilias among college students, 303, 304 f as continuum, 24, 47–48, 48 f, 192 defi nition of, 24, 299–300 domination and submission, 304–306 Kinsey on, 47 moral judgments and, 303, 316 sexual addiction, 303, 316
“sexual voice,” 464 sex workers. See prostitution sex zones, 618 shaft, of the penis, 106, 107 f shamans, 21 f she-male prostitutes, 618 shigellosis, 508 sibling incest, 588. See also incest sickle-cell disease, 334, 457 SID (sexual interest disorder), 302. See also
paraphilias SIDS (sudden infant death syndrome),
378–379 SIECUS. See Sexuality Information and
Education Council of the United States
sildenafi l citrate. See Viagra silicone implants, 399 singlehood, 196–201
cohabitation, 201–203, 201 f, 202 f in college environment, 197–198, 199 gay men, lesbian women, bisexual and
transgender individuals, 199–200 meeting people, 198–199 new social context of, 196–197 postdivorce, 207 single parenting, 207–208 singles world, 198–199
16 and pregnant (MTV), 180 f “sixty-nine,” 285 Skene’s glands, 119 f slavery, sexual stereotypes in, 59–60 S&M. See sadism and masochism smegma, 107 smell, sexual response and, 96, 244 smoking
HIV/AIDS and, 553 infertility and, 379 oral contraceptives and, 335 in pregnancy, 373 sexual dysfunction in, 457
social construction of sexuality, 56, 58, 132–133, 175
socialization, 2 socialization theories, 131–133 social learning theory, 131–132 social networks, online, 11–14, 562 Th e Social Organization of Sexuality
(Laumann et al.), 50 societal norms
Ellis on, 46 Kinsey on, 46–47 “natural” sexual behavior, 21 normal sexual behavior, 21, 22–24, 267 sexual behavior and variations, 24, 26
sociobiology, 25 socioeconomic status
African American sexual values and, 60–61 child sexual abuse and, 587 HIV/AIDS and, 534, 536
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in late adulthood, 208, 209 sexual dysfunction and, 442 sexually transmitted infections and, 490 sexual orientation and, 566 teenage pregnancy and childbirth and,
177–178, 179 sodomy, laws regarding, 567, 568 f, 620–621 SOIU (Sexual Orientation Identity
Uncertainty) questionnaire, 40–41 solicitation, 618 sonograms, 377 soulmate sexual style, 280–281 Spanish fl y, 406 spectatoring, 459 sperm
in fertilization process, 117, 363, 363 f, 365 f misshapen, 380 number of, 119, 119 f production of, 110, 116–117, 117 f sex chromosomes in, 117 structure of, 117 f
spermatic cord, 110, 110 f, 111 f spermatogenesis, 110, 116–117, 117 f spermicidal condoms, 339 spermicides, 343–345 spinal cord injuries, 408–410, 457 spirochetes, 498. See also syphilis sponge, contraceptive, 344, 344 f spontaneous abortions, 352, 378 squeeze technique, 469–470, 469 f SRS (sex reassignment surgery), 152–154, 152 f “stables” (male brothels), 615 stalking, 560–561 Stanley v. Georgia, 608 Staphylococcus aureus, 430 “start-stop” technique, 470 Th e State of Sex (Brents et al.), 615 status, in relationships, 240–241 statutory rape, 581–582 STDs (sexually transmitted diseases).
See sexually transmitted infections stepfathers, sexual abuse by, 588 stereotypes
of aging, 208–209 of Anglos, 61 of Black sexuality, 59–60 common sexual, 34–35, 461 of exhibitionism, 314 of gender-role, 9, 16, 127–128, 574 of homosexuality, 11 of Latino sexuality, 61–62 rape and, 574–575, 581 as schemas, 35 in sexually explicit fi lms, 601 of sexual orientation, 11
sterilization of men, 111, 350–351, 351 f of women, 349–350, 349 f, 350 f
STI attitude scale, 492, 542 stigmatization
after childhood sexual abuse, 591 of HIV/AIDS, 490, 521, 553 of sexually transmitted infections, 490, 521
stillbirth, 378–379 STIs. See sexually transmitted infections storge, 226 Storms model of sexual orientation,
192–193, 192 f
strain gauges, 43 stranger rape, 574, 575, 580–581 streetwalkers, 613, 614–615 strep B, pregnancy and, 373 stress eff ects, 458 stroke, sexuality and, 411 “stud farms,” 615 Studies in the Psychology of Sex (Ellis), 46 substance abuse, sexually transmitted
infections and, 488 sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS),
378–379 suicide, 200, 566–567, 614 suppositories, vaginal, 345 surgery
for abortion, 352–353, 353 f for breast cancer, 417–418, 418 f, 419–420 for breast or penis enhancement, 154,
399, 417 for erection diffi culties, 473 for female sterilization, 349–350, 349 f, 350 f hysterectomy, 213, 422–423 for infertility, 379, 381 for prostate cancer, 426 for sex reassignment, 152–154, 152 f for testicular cancer, 428 vasectomy, 350–351, 351 f
surrender, to sexual pleasure, 5 surrogate motherhood, 381 survey research, 30, 39–42 sweating, 99 swingers, 238 symmetry, sexual attractiveness and,
259, 260 symptothermal method, 347, 348 syphilis (Treponema pallidum)
in men who have sex with men, 485 as notifi able disease, 484 f prevalence of, 498 symptoms of, 494 t transmission of, 498 Tuskegee study on, 500–501 in women who have sex with women, 485
syringe exchange programs (SEPs), 547–548
Take Back the Night rallies, 576 talking dirty, 303, 304 f tamoxifen, 418, 422 tampons
to absorb fl ow, 85 hymen and, 74, 75 intercourse while wearing, 90 Pap tests and, 421 toxic shock syndrome and, 85, 430–431 vaginitis and, 89
tantric sex, 291, 293 f tattooing, 506 T cells, HIV and, 520, 523–526, 523 f, 525 teachers, as socializing agents, 134–135 teenage fathers, 180–181 teenage mothers, 176–179, 177 f, 179 f teenagers. See adolescents telephone scatologia, 315 television, portrayals of sexuality in, 9, 11.
See also media tenting, 100 teratogens, 372–373
testes (singular, testis ) anatomy of, 107 f, 109, 110, 110 f cancer of, 426–428, 427 f, 428 f self-examination of, 427, 427 f undescended testicle, 110, 427
testicles. See testes (singular, testis ) testosterone
alcohol and, 405 anabolic steroids and, 403 cycles of, 116, 116 f functions of, 114, 114 t gender diff erentiation and, 119, 127 gynecomastia and, 112 kissing and, 232 Klinefelter Syndrome and, 149 paraphilia and, 321 production of, 96, 114, 114 t prostate cancer and, 424 in puberty, 165 secondary sex characteristics and, 114 in sex reassignment, 154 sexual response and, 96–97, 286 testosterone replacement therapy, 97, 115,
215, 473 in women, 77, 82 t, 86 f, 96–97, 423
testosterone replacement therapy, 97, 115, 215, 473
thrush (candidiasis), 522 Tina (methamphetamine), 407 Title VII, Civil Rights Act of 1964, 559 Title X program, 115, 330 tobacco use. See smoking Today Sponge, 344, 344 f tongue-lashing, 306 tossing salad (analingus), 113, 291, 293 touching
importance of, 242–243 pleasuring, 282, 283 f sensate focus, 468, 468 f sexual, 282–283, 283 f
toxic shock syndrome (TSS), 85, 430–431 traditional sexual style, 279–280 traffi cking, 612 Traffi cking Victims Protection Act, 612 transcervical sterilization, 349, 349 f, 350 f transgendered persons. See also gay men,
lesbian women, bisexual and transgender individuals
antidiscrimination laws, 571 defi nition of, 130 “diagnosis” of, 144 gender continuum, 143, 143 f HIV prevention in, 546 media stereotypes of, 11 prostitution by, 618, 619 transgender phenomenon, 144 violence against, 567, 570
transition, in labor, 384 transsexuality
culture and, 19 gender identity in, 152 prevalence of, 152–153 sex reassignment surgery in,
152–154, 152 f transvestism and, 19, 308–310, 618 two-spirits, 19
transvestic fetishism, 308–309 transvestites, 19, 308–310, 618
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traumatic sexualization, 590 treatment of sexual function diffi culties. See
also sex therapy case histories, 44 cognitive-behavioral approach,
467–471, 471 t erection diffi culties, 468–469,
473–474, 475 female function disorders, 470–471, 471 t gay, lesbian, and bisexual sex therapy,
475–476 Kegel exercises, 122, 212, 464 male function disorders, 468–469,
468 f, 469 f medical approaches, 472–475 PLISSIT model, 473 psychosexual therapy, 471 seeking professional assistance, 477 self-help and group therapy, 472 sensate focus, 468, 468 f
Triangles (Cunningham), 79 f triangular theory of love, 227–230,
227 f, 230 f tribidism, 282, 283 f Trichomonas vaginalis, 508 trichomoniasis, 508 triphasic pill, 333 trust, 248–249 TSS (toxic shock syndrome), 85, 430–431 tubal ligations, 349–350, 349 f tubal (ectopic) pregnancy, 347, 375, 484, 510 Turner syndrome, 145, 146 t, 148, 148 f Tuskegee syphilis study, 500–501 twin studies, on homosexuality, 175 two-dimensional–orthogonal model,
192–193, 192 f two-spirits, 19
Ulrichs, Karl Heinrich, 57 ultrasound, 377 umbilical cord, 366 UNAIDS (Joint United Nations
Programme on HIV/AIDS), 521, 526–527, 526 f
undescended testicle, 110, 427 unfaithfulness, 236–238 unidimensional-bipolar model, 192–193, 192 f United Nations
Human Rights Council, 622 Joint United Nations Programme on
HIV/AIDS, 521, 526, 526 f on sexual rights of persons with
disabilities, 413 unrequited love, 233 urethra
female, 73 f, 78 male, 107, 107 f, 110 f
urethral bulb, 107 urethral opening, 71 f, 78 urethral orifi ce, 106, 107 f, 110 f urethritis, 494 t, 498 urinary tract infections, 494 t, 498 Urnings, 57 urophilia, 305 uterine cancer, 88, 421, 422 uterine (fallopian) tubes, 73 f, 77–78,
80 t, 363 f uterus, 73 f, 77
vaccines against hepatitis A and B, 506, 513 against HIV, 552 against human papillomavirus, 420,
503, 513 vacuum aspiration, 353, 353 f vacuum extractors, in childbirth, 388 vagina. See also penile-vaginal intercourse
cancer of, 423–424, 503 maintaining health of, 89 in menopause, 212 odor worries, 288 self-examination of, 75, 75 f structure of, 73 f, 74–77
vaginal bleeding, during pregnancy, 378 vaginal cancer, 423–424, 503 vaginal contraceptive fi lm (VCF), 345, 345 f vaginal delivery after cesarean (VBAC), 389 vaginal dilators, 471 vaginal douching, 491, 507 vaginal estrogen ring, 213 vaginal intercourse. See penile-vaginal
intercourse vaginal lubricants, 89, 473 vaginal orgasm, myth of, 49 vaginal rejuvenation (revirgination),
75–76, 141 vaginal ring (NuvaRing)™, 337–338, 337 f vaginal self-examination, 75, 75 f vaginal suppositories, contraceptive, 345 vaginismus, 441 t, 455, 471 vaginitis (vaginal infections)
bacterial vaginosis, 484–485, 488, 490, 506–507
genital candidiasis, 507–508 prevention of, 89 symptoms of, 495 t trichomoniasis, 508
vagus nerve network, 96 value judgments, 34. See also moral
judgments and standards variables, 42 variations, sexual. See sexual variations varicocele, 380 vas deferens, 110–111, 110 f, 111 f,
116–117 vasectomy, 111, 350–351, 351 f vasocongestion, 98, 121 f VBAC (vaginal delivery after cesarean), 389 VCF (vaginal contraceptive fi lm),
345, 345 f V-chip, 9 “the velvet underground,” 306 venereal diseases (VDs). See sexually
transmitted infections ventral tegmental area, 232 verbal appellation, gender-role learning
and, 133 vernix, 385 vesicular (Graffi an) follicles, 77 vestibular glands, 71 f, 73 vestibule, 71 f, 73 Viagra (sildenafi l citrate)
desire and, 95 infi delity and, 237 for older men, 541 prevalence of use, 406 f after prostate cancer surgery, 426
recreational drugs taken with, 406 f, 407
in treatment for erectile diffi culties, 451, 473–474, 475
vibrators in autoeroticism, 269, 277 disease transmission on, 514, 532 physical limitations and, 410 in sex therapy, 464 in sexually explicit materials, 602 in sexual touching, 283, 284
Victorian Americans, sexuality and, 15–16 video games, sexist attitudes in, 10 “video voyeurism,” 313 violence. See also child sexual abuse; rape;
sexual aggression in established relationships, 234 rape as, 572 sexually explicit materials and, 10 against streetwalkers, 614–615 towards gay men, lesbian women, bisexual
and transgender individuals, 171, 567, 568 f, 570
against women, 141, 604 viral hepatitis, 495 t, 505–506 Virginity Vouchers, 140 viruses, 500–506, 523, 524 f . See also human
immunodefi ciency virus vision impairment, 410 voyeurism, 24, 311–313 vulva, 71, 71 f, 74 f vulvar cancer, 424, 503 vulvodynia, 431, 457
water retention, in pregnancy, 370 Western blot, 549 “wet dreams,” 116, 166 When Harry Met Sally (fi lm), 459 When Your Sex Drives Don’t Match
(Pertot), 448 White Americans. See also race and ethnicity
abortions, 354 autoerotic asphyxia in, 320 birth rates of, 177 f, 179 f breast cancer in, 414 cohabitation by, 201 eating disorders in, 400 HIV/AIDS in, 528, 528 f, 529 f, 529 t,
537 f, 538 ovarian cancer in, 422 precocious puberty in, 165 prostate cancer in, 424, 424 f same-sex households by, 202 f in sex research, 38, 61, 134 sexual assault of, 573 sexual behavior prevalence by, 172,
276–277, 276 f sexual debut in, 176 sexually transmitted infections in,
485 f, 486 f teenage pregnancy in, 177 f, 179, 179 f testicular cancer in, 427 traditional female gender role in, 139 traditional male gender role in, 137–138 Victorian-era, 15–16
WHO. See World Health Organization WIC (Women, Infants, and Children), 180 window period, 549
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withdrawal, 328 women. See also gender diff erences; girls and
young women abortions and, 354, 354 f African American, and HIV, 535 in ancient Greece, 18 body image in, 402–403 breast augmentation in, 154, 399 cancer in, 413–424, 432 changes during pregnancy, 369–370, 371 t
( See also pregnancy) chlamydia in, 494–496, 496 f cultural views on sexuality of, 15–16 cunnilingus ( See cunnilingus) as defi ned by sexuality, 140–141 diabetes in, 411 distress about sex by, 443 dyspareunia in, 457 eating disorders in, 398–402, 401 f endometriosis, 88, 375, 431–432 evolutionary mating perspectives,
260–263, 261 t, 264 f, 265 f faking orgasms, 99, 459 female genital cutting, 429 female orgasmic disorder, 441 t, 452,
470–471, 471 t feminist research perspective, 56,
132, 605 gonorrhea in, 494 t, 497 health care needs, 213, 328, 330, 417,
431, 452 “highly sexual,” 301, 303 HIV/AIDS and, 531, 538–539 hormones in ( See reproductive hormones,
female) infertility in, 379–380 initiating sexual activity, 246–247 kissing and, 285 in late adulthood, 211–213 male condom use and, 340–341 masochism in, 320 masturbation by, 271 f, 272 t, 276–277, 276 f menopausal hormone therapy, 212–213,
214 t, 473 menopause in, 203, 211–212 Middle Eastern American, 64
new view of sexual problems in, 440, 442
“nymphomania” in, 301–303 objectifi cation of, 9, 10 orgasmic disorder in, 441 t, 452,
470–471, 471 t orgasms in, 49, 76–77, 98, 471 t persistent sexual arousal syndrome in,
451–452 physical causes of sexual dysfunction in,
457–458 as prostitutes, 610–617, 618, 619 responsibility for birth control, 327 f,
328, 329 secondary sex characteristics, 165,
165 f, 166 on sex and love, 223–224 sex organs of, 69–80, 71 f, 73 f, 76 f,
79 f, 80 t sex traffi cking of, 612 sexual aggression ( See rape; sexual
aggression) sexual arousal disorder in, 450 sexual assaults by, 582–583 sexual attractiveness in, 258–266 sexual dysfunction prevalence in,
443–446, 444 f, 446 f sexual fantasies of, 269–270 sexual fl uidity in, 91 in sexually explicit fi lms, 605–606 sexually transmitted infections in, 340,
484–485, 491 sexual response of, 90–101 sexual stereotypes of, 59–60, 61–62 with spinal cord damage, 409 sterilization of, 349–350, 349 f, 350 f STI consequences in, 340, 484–485 toxic shock syndrome in, 85, 430–431 traditional gender role and sexual scripts,
138–141 vaginismus in, 441 t, 455, 471 vaginitis in ( See vaginitis) Victorian views on sexuality of, 15–16 virgin/whore dichotomy, 61 vulvodynia, 431
Women’s Health Initiative, 213
women’s orgasmic disorder, 441 t, 452, 470–471, 471 t
women’s sexual dysfunctions. See also sexual function diffi culties
dyspareunia, 392, 441 t, 455–456, 457 female orgasmic disorder, 441 t, 452,
470–471, 471 t female sexual arousal disorder, 441 t, 450 hypoactive sexual desire disorder, 441 t,
446–448, 447 f new view of, 440, 442 sexual aversion disorder, 441 t, 448,
450, 471 vaginismus, 441 t, 455, 471
Working Group for a New View of Women’s Sexual Problems, 440, 442
workplace laws, 564–565 World Health Organization (WHO)
on breastfeeding, 391 on HIV/AIDS prevalence, 526–527 on male circumcision, 491 on sexual dysfunction, 440 on sexual health, 398 on sexuality education, 182–183
X chromosome, 117 Xhosa people, 167 f X syndrome (Turner syndrome), 145, 146 t,
148, 148 f X-TC (ecstasy), 406 f, 407, 578
Yaz, 335 Y chromosome, 117 yeast infection, 411, 507–508 yohimbe, 408 yolk sac, 364 young people. See adolescents Youth Risk Behavior Survey (YRBS), 53,
540, 566
Zestra, 97, 408 zoophilia, 311 Zuni people, 19, 21 f zygote intrafallopian transfer
(ZIFT), 381 zygotes, 83, 83 f, 117
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- Cover
- Title Page
- Copyright
- Contents
- VISUAL PREFACE
- LETTER FROM THE AUTHORS
- 1 Perspectives on Human Sexuality
- STUDYING HUMAN SEXUALITY
- Practically Speaking: ASSESSING SEXUAL SATISFACTION
- SEXUALITY, POPULAR CULTURE, AND THE MEDIA
- Media Portrayals of Sexuality
- Television
- Feature-Length Films
- Gay Men, Lesbian Women, Bisexual and Transgender People in Film and Television
- Online Social Networks
- Think About It: BEFORE PRESSING “SEND”: TRENDS AND CONCERNS ABOUT TEXTING, SEXTING, AND DATING
- SEXUALITY ACROSS CULTURES AND TIMES
- Sexual Interests
- Sexual Orientation
- Gender
- SOCIETAL NORMS AND SEXUALITY
- Think About It: AM I NORMAL?
- Natural Sexual Behavior
- Normal Sexual Behavior
- Think About It: DECLARATION OF SEXUAL RIGHTS
- Sexuality Behavior and Variations
- Think About It: “MY GENES MADE ME DO IT”: SOCIOBIOLOGY, EVOLUTIONARY PSYCHOLOGY, AND THE MYSTERIES OF LOVE
- FINAL THOUGHTS
- SUMMARY
- QUESTIONS FOR DISCUSSION
- SEX AND THE INTERNET
- SUGGESTED WEBSITES
- SUGGESTED READING
- 2 Studying Human Sexuality
- SEX, ADVICE COLUMNISTS, AND POP PSYCHOLOGY
- Information and Advice as Entertainment
- Practically Speaking: EVALUATING POP PSYCHOLOGY
- The Use and Abuse of Research Findings
- THINKING CRITICALLY ABOUT SEXUALITY
- Value Judgments Versus Objectivity
- Opinions, Biases, and Stereotypes
- Common Fallacies: Egocentric and Ethnocentric Thinking
- SEX RESEARCH METHODS
- Research Concerns
- Clinical Research
- Survey Research
- Practically Speaking: ANSWERING A SEX RESEARCH QUESTIONNAIRE: MEASURE OF SEXUAL IDENTITY EXPLORATION AND COMMITMENT
- Observational Research
- Experimental Research
- THE SEX RESEARCHERS
- Richard von Krafft-Ebing
- Sigmund Freud
- Havelock Ellis
- Alfred Kinsey
- William Masters and Virginia Johnson
- CONTEMPORARY RESEARCH STUDIES
- Think About It: SEX RESEARCH: A BENEFIT TO INDIVIDUALS AND SOCIETY OR A THREAT TO MORALITY?
- The National Health and Social Life Survey
- The National Survey of Family Growth
- The Youth Risk Behavior Survey
- The National College Health Assessment
- The National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior
- EMERGING RESEARCH PERSPECTIVES
- Feminist Scholarship
- Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, and Transgender Research
- Directions for Future Research
- ETHNICITY AND SEXUALITY
- African Americans
- Latinos
- Asian Americans and Pacific Islanders
- Middle Eastern Americans
- FINAL THOUGHTS
- SUMMARY
- QUESTIONS FOR DISCUSSION
- SEX AND THE INTERNET
- SUGGESTED WEBSITES
- SUGGESTED READING
- 3 Female Sexual Anatomy, Physiology, and Response
- FEMALE SEX ORGANS: WHAT ARE THEY FOR?
- External Structures (the Vulva)
- Internal Structures
- Practically Speaking: PERFORMING A GYNECOLOGICAL SELF-EXAMINATION
- Other Structures
- The Breasts
- FEMALE SEXUAL PHYSIOLOGY
- Reproductive Hormones
- The Ovarian Cycle
- The Menstrual Cycle
- Practically Speaking: VAGINAL AND MENSTRUAL HEALTH CARE
- FEMALE SEXUAL RESPONSE
- Sexual Response Models
- Think About It: SEXUAL FLUIDITY: WOMEN’S VARIABLE SEXUAL ATTRACTIONS
- Desire: Mind or Matter?
- Think About It: THE ROLE OF ORGASM
- Experiencing Sexual Arousal
- FINAL THOUGHTS
- SUMMARY
- QUESTIONS FOR DISCUSSION
- SEX AND THE INTERNET
- SUGGESTED WEBSITES
- SUGGESTED READING
- 4 Male Sexual Anatomy, Physiology, and Response
- MALE SEX ORGANS: WHAT ARE THEY FOR?
- External Structures
- Think About It: THE PENIS: MORE THAN MEETS THE EYE
- Internal Structures
- The Breasts and Anus
- MALE SEXUAL PHYSIOLOGY
- Sex Hormones
- Practically Speaking: SEXUAL HEALTH CARE: WHAT DO MEN NEED?
- Spermatogenesis
- Practically Speaking: MALE BODY IMAGE SELF-CONSCIOUSNESS SCALE
- Semen Production
- Homologous Organs
- MALE SEXUAL RESPONSE
- Erection
- Ejaculation and Orgasm
- Practically Speaking: CAN AN ERECTION BE WILLED?
- FINAL THOUGHTS
- SUMMARY
- QUESTIONS FOR DISCUSSION
- SEX AND THE INTERNET
- SUGGESTED WEBSITES
- SUGGESTED READING
- 5 Gender and Gender Roles
- STUDYING GENDER AND GENDER ROLES
- Sex, Gender, and Gender Roles: What’s the Difference?
- Sex and Gender Identity
- Masculinity and Femininity: Opposites or Similar?
- Gender and Sexual Orientation
- GENDER-ROLE LEARNING
- Theories of Socialization
- Gender-Role Learning in Childhood and Adolescence
- Gender Schemas: Exaggerating Differences
- CONTEMPORARY GENDER ROLES AND SCRIPTS
- Traditional Gender Roles and Scripts
- Think About It: THE PURITY STANDARD: DEFINING WOMEN BY THEIR SEXUALITY
- Changing Gender Roles and Scripts
- Androgyny
- GENDER VARIATIONS
- The Transgender Phenomenon
- Disorders of Sexual Development/Intersex
- Think About It: A NEW APPROACH TO ADDRESSING DISORDERS OF SEXUAL DEVELOPMENT OR INTERSEX
- Unclassified Form of Abnormal Development
- Gender Identity Disorder
- Transsexuality
- Coming to Terms With Differences
- Think About It: SEX REASSIGNMENT
- FINAL THOUGHTS
- SUMMARY
- QUESTIONS FOR DISCUSSION
- SEX AND THE INTERNET
- SUGGESTED WEBSITES
- SUGGESTED READING
- 6 Sexuality in Childhood and Adolescence
- SEXUALITY IN INFANCY AND CHILDHOOD (AGES 0 TO 11)
- Infancy and Sexual Response (Ages 0 to 2)
- Childhood Sexuality (Ages 3 to 11)
- The Family Context
- SEXUALITY IN ADOLESCENCE (AGES 12 TO 19)
- Psychosexual Development
- Adolescent Sexual Behavior
- Think About It: THE “ORIGINS” OF HOMOSEXUALITY
- Practically Speaking: FIRST SEXUAL INTERCOURSE REACTION SCALE
- Teenage Pregnancy
- Sexuality Education
- Think About It: ABSTINENCE-ONLY VERSUS COMPREHENSIVE SEXUALITY PROGRAMS: IT’S A NEW DAY
- FINAL THOUGHTS
- SUMMARY
- QUESTIONS FOR DISCUSSION
- SEX AND THE INTERNET
- SUGGESTED WEBSITES
- SUGGESTED READING
- 7 Sexuality in Adulthood
- SEXUALITY IN EARLY ADULTHOOD
- Developmental Concerns
- Think About It: LIFE BEHAVIORS OF A SEXUALLY HEALTHY ADULT
- Establishing Sexual Orientation
- Think About It: BISEXUALITY: THE NATURE OF DUAL ATTRACTION
- Being Single
- Think About It: WHY COLLEGE STUDENTS HAVE SEX: GENDER DIFFERENCES, OR NOT?
- Cohabitation
- SEXUALITY IN MIDDLE ADULTHOOD
- Developmental Concerns
- Sexuality in Established Relationships
- Divorce and After
- SEXUALITY IN LATE ADULTHOOD
- Developmental Concerns
- Stereotypes of Aging
- Sexuality and Aging
- FINAL THOUGHTS
- SUMMARY
- QUESTIONS FOR DISCUSSION
- SEX AND THE INTERNET
- SUGGESTED WEBSITES
- SUGGESTED READING
- 8 Love and Communication in Intimate Relationships
- FRIENDSHIP AND LOVE
- LOVE AND SEXUALITY
- Men, Women, Sex, and Love
- Love Without Sex: Celibacy and Asexuality
- Think About It: ARE GAY/LESBIAN COUPLES AND FAMILIES ANY DIFFERENT FROM HETEROSEXUAL ONES?
- HOW DO I LOVE THEE? APPROACHES AND ATTITUDES RELATED TO LOVE
- Styles of Love
- The Triangular Theory of Love
- Love as Attachment
- Think About It: THE SCIENCE OF LOVE
- Unrequited Love
- JEALOUSY
- Defining Jealousy
- Think About It: THE PASSIONATE LOVE SCALE
- Managing Jealousy
- Extradyadic Involvement
- MAKING LOVE LAST: FROM PASSION TO INTIMACY
- THE NATURE OF COMMUNICATION
- The Cultural Context
- The Social Context
- The Psychological Context
- Nonverbal Communication
- SEXUAL COMMUNICATION
- Sexual Communication in Beginning Relationships
- Sexual Communication in Established Relationships
- Initiating Sexual Activity
- DEVELOPING COMMUNICATION SKILLS
- Talking About Sex
- Practically Speaking: COMMUNICATION PATTERNS AND PARTNER SATISFACTION
- CONFLICT AND INTIMACY
- Practically Speaking: LESSONS FROM THE LOVE LAB
- Sexual Conflicts
- Conflict Resolution
- FINAL THOUGHTS
- SUMMARY
- QUESTIONS FOR DISCUSSION
- SEX AND THE INTERNET
- SUGGESTED WEBSITES
- SUGGESTED READING
- 9 Sexual Expression
- SEXUAL ATTRACTIVENESS
- A Cross-Cultural Analysis
- Evolutionary Mating Perspectives
- Think About It: “HOOKING UP” AMONG COLLEGE STUDENTS
- Views of College Students
- Sexual Desire
- SEXUAL SCRIPTS
- Cultural Scripting
- Intrapersonal Scripting
- Interpersonal Scripting
- AUTOEROTICISM
- Sexual Fantasies and Dreams
- Masturbation
- Practically Speaking: ASSESSING YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARD MASTURBATION
- SEXUAL BEHAVIOR WITH OTHERS
- Most Recent Partnered Sex
- Couple Sexual Styles
- Think About It: YOU WOULD SAY YOU “HAD SEX” IF YOU . . .
- Touching
- Kissing
- Oral-Genital Sex
- Think About It: GIVING AND RECEIVING PLEASURABLE TOUCH: “GEARS OF CONNECTION”
- Think About It: THE FIRST KISS: A DEAL-BREAKER?
- Sexual Intercourse
- Anal Eroticism
- Health Benefits of Sexual Activity
- FINAL THOUGHTS
- SUMMARY
- QUESTIONS FOR DISCUSSION
- SEX AND THE INTERNET
- SUGGESTED WEBSITES
- SUGGESTED READING
- 10 Variations in Sexual Behavior
- SEXUAL VARIATIONS AND PARAPHILIC BEHAVIOR
- What Are Sexual Variations?
- What Is Paraphilia?
- Think About It: “SEXUAL INTEREST DISORDER”: A VIABLE ALTERNATIVE TO PARAPHILIA OR A RADICAL DEPARTURE?
- Sexual Variations Among College Students
- SEXUAL VARIATION: DOMINATION AND SUBMISSION
- NONCOERCIVE PARAPHILIAS
- Fetishism
- Transvestism
- Practically Speaking: SEXUAL SENSATION SEEKING SCALE
- COERCIVE PARAPHILIAS
- Zoophilia
- Voyeurism
- Think About It: WOULD YOU WATCH? COLLEGE STUDENTS AND VOYEURISM
- Exhibitionism
- Telephone Scatologia
- Frotteurism
- Think About It: “SEXUAL ADDICTION”: REPRESSIVE MORALITY IN A NEW GUISE?
- Necrophilia
- Pedophilia
- Sexual Sadism and Sexual Masochism
- ORIGINS AND TREATMENT OF PARAPHILIAS
- FINAL THOUGHTS
- SUMMARY
- QUESTIONS FOR DISCUSSION
- SEX AND THE INTERNET
- SUGGESTED WEBSITES
- SUGGESTED READING
- 11 Contraception, Birth Control, and Abortion
- RISK AND RESPONSIBILITY
- Women, Men, and Birth Control: Who Is Responsible?
- Family Planning Clinics
- Think About It: RISKY BUSINESS: WHY COUPLES FAIL TO USE CONTRACEPTION
- METHODS OF CONTRACEPTION AND BIRTH CONTROL
- Birth Control and Contraception: What’s the Difference?
- Choosing a Method
- Sexual Abstinence
- Hormonal Methods
- Barrier Methods
- Practically Speaking: TIPS FOR EFFECTIVE CONDOM USE
- Practically Speaking: CORRECT CONDOM USE SELF-EFFICACY SCALE
- Spermicides
- The IUCs (Intrauterine Contraceptives)
- Fertility Awareness–Based Methods
- Lactational Amenorrhea Method (LAM)
- Sterilization
- Emergency Contraception (EC)
- ABORTION
- Methods of Abortion
- Safety of Abortion
- Women and Abortion
- Men and Abortion
- The Abortion Debate
- RESEARCH ISSUES
- FINAL THOUGHTS
- SUMMARY
- QUESTIONS FOR DISCUSSION
- SEX AND THE INTERNET
- SUGGESTED WEBSITES
- SUGGESTED READING
- 12 Conception, Pregnancy, and Childbirth
- FERTILIZATION AND FETAL DEVELOPMENT
- The Fertilization Process
- Development of the Conceptus
- Think About It: A MATTER OF CHOICE
- BEING PREGNANT
- Preconception Care
- Pregnancy Detection
- Changes in Women During Pregnancy
- Think About It: SEXUAL BEHAVIOR DURING PREGNANCY
- Complications of Pregnancy and Dangers to the Fetus
- Diagnosing Fetal Abnormalities
- Pregnancy Loss
- INFERTILITY
- Female Infertility
- Male Infertility
- Emotional Responses to Infertility
- Infertility Treatment
- GIVING BIRTH
- Labor and Delivery
- Choices in Childbirth
- Think About It: THE QUESTION OF MALE CIRCUMCISION
- Practically Speaking: MAKING A BIRTH PLAN
- Breastfeeding
- Practically Speaking: BREAST VERSUS BOTTLE: WHICH IS BETTER FOR YOU AND YOUR CHILD?
- BECOMING A PARENT
- FINAL THOUGHTS
- SUMMARY
- QUESTIONS FOR DISCUSSION
- SEX AND THE INTERNET
- SUGGESTED WEBSITES
- SUGGESTED READING
- 13 The Sexual Body in Health and Illness
- LIVING IN OUR BODIES: THE QUEST FOR PHYSICAL PERFECTION
- Eating Disorders
- Think About It: “OH TO BE BIGGER”: BREAST AND PENIS ENHANCEMENT
- Body Image and Its Impact on Sexuality
- Anabolic Steroids: A Dangerous Means to an End
- ALCOHOL, DRUGS, AND SEXUALITY
- Alcohol Use and Sexuality
- Other Drug Use and Sexuality
- SEXUALITY AND DISABILITY
- Physical Limitations and Changing Expectations
- Vision and Hearing Impairment
- Chronic Illness
- Developmental Disabilities
- The Sexual Rights of People With Disabilities
- SEXUALITY AND CANCER
- Women and Cancer
- Practically Speaking: BREAST SELF-EXAMINATION
- Men and Cancer
- Practically Speaking: TESTICULAR SELF-EXAMINATION
- Think About It: FEMALE GENITAL CUTTING: MUTILATION OR IMPORTANT CUSTOM?
- Anal Cancer in Men and Women
- ADDITIONAL SEXUAL HEALTH ISSUES
- Toxic Shock Syndrome
- Vulvodynia
- Endometriosis
- Lesbian Women’s Health Issues
- Prostatitis
- FINAL THOUGHTS
- SUMMARY
- QUESTIONS FOR DISCUSSION
- SEX AND THE INTERNET
- SUGGESTED WEBSITES
- SUGGESTED READING
- 14 Sexual Function Difficulties, Dissatisfaction, Enhancement, and Therapy
- SEXUAL FUNCTION DIFFICULTIES: DEFINITIONS, TYPES, AND PREVALENCE
- Defining Sexual Function Difficulties: Different Perspectives
- Prevalence and Cofactors
- Disorders of Sexual Desire
- Practically Speaking: SEXUAL DESIRE: WHEN APPETITES DIFFER
- Sexual Arousal Disorders
- Think About It: IS INTERCOURSE ENOUGH? THE BIG “O” AND SEXUAL BEHAVIORS
- Orgasmic Disorders
- Sexual Pain Disorders
- Other Disorders
- PHYSICAL CAUSES OF SEXUAL FUNCTION DIFFICULTIES AND DISSATISFACTION
- Physical Causes in Men
- Physical Causes in Women
- PSYCHOLOGICAL CAUSES OF SEXUAL FUNCTION DIFFICULTIES AND DISSATISFACTION
- Immediate Causes
- Conflict Within the Self
- Relationship Causes
- SEXUAL FUNCTION ENHANCEMENT
- Developing Self-Awareness
- Think About It: “GOOD ENOUGH SEX”: THE WAY TO LIFETIME COUPLE SATISFACTION
- Think About It: SEXUAL TURN-ONS AND TURN-OFFS: WHAT COLLEGE STUDENTS REPORT
- Intensifying Erotic Pleasure
- Changing a Sexual Relationship
- TREATING SEXUAL FUNCTION DIFFICULTIES
- Masters and Johnson: A Cognitive-Behavioral Approach
- Kaplan: Psychosexual Therapy
- Other Nonmedical Approaches
- Medical Approaches
- Think About It: THE MEDICALIZATION OF SEXUAL FUNCTION PROBLEMS
- Gay, Lesbian, and Bisexual Sex Therapy
- Practically Speaking: SEEKING PROFESSIONAL ASSISTANCE
- FINAL THOUGHTS
- SUMMARY
- QUESTIONS FOR DISCUSSION
- SEX AND THE INTERNET
- SUGGESTED WEBSITES
- SUGGESTED READING
- 15 Sexually Transmitted Infections
- THE STI EPIDEMIC
- STIs: The Most Common Reportable Infectious Diseases
- Who Is Affected: Disparities Among Groups
- Factors Contributing to the Spread of STIs
- Practically Speaking: PREVENTING STIs: THE ROLE OF MALE CONDOMS AND FEMALE CONDOMS
- Practically Speaking: STI ATTITUDE SCALE
- Consequences of STIs
- PRINCIPAL BACTERIAL STIs
- Chlamydia
- Gonorrhea
- Urinary Tract Infections
- Syphilis
- Think About It: THE TUSKEGEE SYPHILIS STUDY: A TRAGEDY OF RACE AND MEDICINE
- PRINCIPAL VIRAL STIs
- HIV and AIDS
- Genital Human Papillomavirus Infection
- Genital Herpes
- Viral Hepatitis
- VAGINAL INFECTIONS
- Bacterial Vaginosis
- Genital Candidiasis
- Trichomoniasis
- OTHER STIs
- ECTOPARASITIC INFESTATIONS
- Scabies
- Pubic Lice
- STI AND WOMEN
- Pelvic Inflammatory Disease (PID)
- Cervicitis
- Cystitis
- PREVENTING STIs
- Avoiding STIs
- Treating STIs
- Practically Speaking: SAFER AND UNSAFE SEX PRACTICES
- FINAL THOUGHTS
- SUMMARY
- QUESTIONS FOR DISCUSSION
- SEX AND THE INTERNET
- SUGGESTED WEBSITES
- SUGGESTED READING
- 16 HIV and AIDS
- WHAT IS AIDS?
- Conditions Associated With AIDS
- Think About It: THE STIGMATIZATION OF HIV AND OTHER STIs
- Symptoms of HIV Infection and AIDS
- Understanding AIDS: The Immune System and HIV
- The Virus
- AIDS Pathogenesis: How the Disease Progresses
- THE EPIDEMIOLOGY AND TRANSMISSION OF HIV
- The Epidemiology of HIV/AIDS in the United States
- Myths and Modes of Transmission
- Sexual Transmission
- Injection Drug Use
- Mother-to-Child Transmission
- Factors Contributing to Infection
- AIDS DEMOGRAPHICS
- Minority Races/Ethnicities and HIV
- The Gay Community
- Women and HIV/AIDS
- Children and HIV/AIDS
- HIV/AIDS Among Youth
- Older Adults and HIV/AIDS
- Geographic Region and HIV
- Practically Speaking: HIV PREVENTION ATTITUDE SCALE
- PREVENTION AND TREATMENT
- Practically Speaking: HEALTH PROTECTIVE SEXUAL COMMUNICATION SCALE
- Protecting Ourselves
- Saving Lives Through Prevention
- Think About It: “DO YOU KNOW WHAT YOU ARE DOING?” COMMON CONDOM-USE MISTAKES AMONG COLLEGE STUDENTS
- HIV Testing
- Treatments
- LIVING WITH HIV OR AIDS
- If You Are HIV-Positive
- FINAL THOUGHTS
- SUMMARY
- QUESTIONS FOR DISCUSSION
- SEX AND THE INTERNET
- SUGGESTED WEBSITES
- SUGGESTED READING
- 17 Sexual Coercion: Harassment, Aggression, and Abuse
- SEXUAL HARASSMENT
- What Is Sexual Harassment?
- Flirtation Versus Harassment
- Harassment in School and College
- Harassment in the Workplace
- HARASSMENT AND DISCRIMINATION AGAINST GAY, LESBIAN, BISEXUAL, AND TRANSGENDER PEOPLE
- Heterosexual Bias
- Prejudice, Discrimination, and Violence
- Think About It: PUBLIC OPINION ABOUT GAY AND LESBIAN ISSUES AND RIGHTS
- Ending Anti-Gay Prejudice and Enactment of Antidiscrimination Laws
- SEXUAL AGGRESSION
- The Nature and Incidence of Rape
- Myths About Rape
- Practically Speaking: PREVENTING SEXUAL ASSAULT
- Forms of Rape
- Think About It: DATE/ACQUAINTANCE RAPE DRUGS: AN INCREASING THREAT
- Motivations for Rape
- The Aftermath of Rape
- Practically Speaking: HELPING SOMEONE WHO HAS BEEN RAPED
- CHILD SEXUAL ABUSE
- Forms of Intrafamilial Sexual Abuse
- Children at Risk
- Effects of Child Sexual Abuse
- Treatment Programs
- Preventing Child Sexual Abuse
- FINAL THOUGHTS
- SUMMARY
- QUESTIONS FOR DISCUSSION
- SEX AND THE INTERNET
- SUGGESTED WEBSITES
- SUGGESTED READING
- 18 Sexually Explicit Materials, Prostitution, and Sex Laws
- SEXUALLY EXPLICIT MATERIAL IN CONTEMPORARY AMERICA
- Pornography or Erotica: Which Is It?
- Sexually Explicit Material and Popular Culture
- Sexually Explicit Materials on the Internet
- Think About It: COLLEGE STUDENTS AND THE VIEWING OF SEXUALLY EXPLICIT MATERIALS
- The Effects of Sexually Explicit Material
- Censorship, Sexually Explicit Material, and the Law
- PROSTITUTION
- Females Working in Prostitution
- Think About It: HUMAN TRAFFICKING: INTERNATIONAL CHILD AND TEEN PROSTITUTION
- Males Working in Prostitution
- Prostitution and the Law
- The Impact of HIV/AIDS and Other STIs
- SEXUALITY AND THE LAW
- Legalizing Private, Consensual Sexual Behavior
- Same-Sex Marriage
- Think About It: AN EXPANDING DEFINITION OF “FAMILY”: A TREND LEADING TO FURTHER LEGALIZATION OF SAME-SEX MARRIAGE?
- Advocating Sexual Rights
- FINAL THOUGHTS
- SUMMARY
- QUESTIONS FOR DISCUSSION
- SEX AND THE INTERNET
- SUGGESTED WEBSITES
- SUGGESTED READING
- GLOSSARY
- BIBLIOGRAPHY
- CREDITS
- NAME INDEX
- SUBJECT INDEX