chi square
Copyright © The British Psychological Society Reproduction in any form (including the internet) is prohibited without prior permission from the Society
Parental choice: What parents want in a son-in-law and a daughter-in-law across 67 pre-industrial societies
Menelaos Apostolou* University of Nicosia, Cyprus
Parents are influential over mate choice, and in most human societies they choose spouses for their offspring according to their own preferences. However, surprising little is known about the qualities which make a woman desirable as a daughter-in-law and a man desirable as a son-in-law. Using evidence from 67 societies such traits are identified and three hypotheses are tested: first, the hypothesis is tested that parents desire in an in-law qualities which are beneficial to them and their kin. Second, it is hypothesized that such preferences are contingent upon the sex of the in-law, as traits are weighted differently in a daughter-in-law and in a son-in-law. The third hypothesis tested is that parental preferences vary according to the subsistence type of a given society, as traits are valued differently in agropastoral societies and foraging societies. The evidence presented here provides support for all three hypotheses.
In the majority of human societies, the mating decisions of offspring are controlled by their parents who choose sons-in-law and daughters-in-law according to their own
preferences (Apostolou, 2007b; Broude & Greene, 1983; Stephens, 1963; Whyte, 1978).
In Western post-industrial societies, although individuals are free to choose their
spouses, parents also exercise a strong influence over their children’s mating decisions
(Sussman, 1953). This immediately raises the question of which traits parents prefer in a
son-in-law and a daughter-in-law.
Answering this question is a necessary step towards understanding how sexual
selection works in our species. As individuals with traits appealing to parents looking for an in-law gain a reproductive advantage over others who lack such traits, parental
preferences affect the direction of sexual selection by determining who is going to be
reproduced successfully (Apostolou, 2007b, 2009).
Moreover, knowing what parents want in an in-law is a necessary piece of knowledge
towards understanding family dynamics in societies where parents select spouses for
their offspring, but also in societies where parents exercise indirect influence over mate
* Correspondence should be addressed to Dr Menelaos Apostolou, Department of Social Sciences, University of Nicosia, 1700 Nicosia, Cyprus (e-mail: [email protected]).
The British Psychological Society
695
British Journal of Psychology (2010), 101, 695–704
q 2010 The British Psychological Society
www.bpsjournals.co.uk
DOI:10.1348/000712609X480634
Copyright © The British Psychological Society Reproduction in any form (including the internet) is prohibited without prior permission from the Society
choice (e.g., by giving advice). Finally, in-law preferences may reflect prior evolutionary
pressures, and thus, may provide information on past reproductive and survival history
(Buss, 1989). That is, current parental preferences may have been the solutions to
evolutionary problems of survival and reproduction that ancestral parents were faced
with during human evolution.
Parental preferences Recently, a number of research papers has provided some evidence on the traits
parents find desirable in an in-law. More specifically, Hynie, Lalonde, and Lee, (2006)
compared the mate preferences of children of Chinese-North American immigrants
with those of their parents. It was found that parents rate traits associated with
traditional family values higher in an in-law than their offspring rated the same traits in a spouse. Apostolou (2007a) found that British parents rank high in their son-in-law and
daughter-in-law traits such as good character and working ability. It was also found that
parents differentiate their preferences according to the sex of the in-law. For instance,
traits such as working ability and social status are valued more in a son-in-law than a
daughter-in-law.
Borgerhoff Mulder (1988) reports that among the pastoral Kipsigies in Kenya,
parents prefer as sons-in-law individuals who enjoy high social status, are wealthy,
educated, have a good character, and are industrious. Yu, Proulx, and Shepard (2007) found that Matsigenka women in Peru prefer men with masculine faces for sons-in-law
and interpreted this finding as a preference for good providers, as masculine men are on
average perceived as better resource providers. However, the aforementioned studies
are focused on a single culture, so they are less informative of parental preferences
across different societies.
Using a sample of 190 hunting and gathering societies Apostolou (2007b) found that
parents prefer sons-in-law who are good hunters and have a good family background,
while they prefer daughters-in-law who are industrious and come from a good family. Yet, this study is not particularly informative as it codes only for three traits on parental
preferences. Consequently, despite the recent interest in this aspect of parental
behaviour, and despite the call for more research on parental preferences (Beckerman,
2000; Buss, 1989), surprisingly little is known about the qualities parents value in a
son-in-law and a daughter-in-law.
This paper attempts to identify and test specific hypotheses on parental
preferences with respect to in-law selection, using data from the standard cross-
cultural sample (SCCS).
Hypotheses on parental preferences Through the institution of marriage, a new member is introduced into the family unit,
which plays a vital role in its survival and reproduction. For example, in hunting and
gathering societies sons-in-law and daughters-in-law contribute substantially to the
subsistence needs of the family: women by gathering and men by hunting (e.g., among
the !Kung, Lee, 1979). However, individuals differ in their hunting and gathering
abilities: some are good hunters, some are not; some are industrious gatherers, some are not. Parents secure substantial benefits for themselves and their family by choosing
competent individuals, who can help them in their struggle for survival. By being
indifferent to the abilities of a prospective spouse for their children, parents risk
696 Menelaos Apostolou
Copyright © The British Psychological Society Reproduction in any form (including the internet) is prohibited without prior permission from the Society
accepting as in-laws individuals who are unable to contribute to the subsistence effort of
their family. On such grounds, it is hypothesized that parents are not indifferent to the
selection of a son-in-law and a daughter-in-law and tend to prefer individuals with traits
beneficial to them and their kin.
In most human societies, men and women differ in their roles and their social
position (Ember, Ember, & Peregrine, 2002; Whyte, 1978). For instance, men are typically considered to be the family providers while women have the responsibility of
the household and the children. Furthermore, although women contribute to the
production of material goods, wealth is usually controlled by the male members of a
society (Whyte, 1978). Consequently, parents are expected to value wealth and working
ability more in a son-in-law than in a daughter-in-law. It is hypothesized then that
parental preferences are contingent upon the sex of the in-law; that is, parents are
expected to value traits differently in a son-in-law and a daughter-in-law.
Finally, parental preferences are expected to vary according to the subsistence type of a given society. For example, agricultural and pastoral societies have more material
resources than foraging societies (cattle, land, etc.). Thus, in-laws or their family
are likely to control more wealth in agropastoral societies than in hunting and
gathering societies. Accordingly, parents are expected to place more emphasis on the
material resources of individuals and their family in non-foraging societies. It is
hypothesized then that parental preferences are contingent upon the subsistence type
of a given society.
Method
For the purposes of this study, the SCCS, which consists of 186 pre-industrial societies,
was employed. The use of the SCCS offers a number of advantages including a
well-described set of societies, which are relatively independent from each other
(Murdock & White, 1980). Furthermore, the SCCS was constructed without a specific hypothesis in mind, and it contains a sufficient number of cultures for statistical analysis
to be performed. Data for marriage patterns and modes of subsistence were taken
from the updated electronic version of SCCS from the World Cultures CD-Rom
(World Cultures, 2006).
Based on existing codes, the societies in the sample were classified into two
categories: agricultural–pastoral societies which base more than 50% of their
subsistence in agriculture and animal herding; hunting and gathering societies which
base more than 50% of their subsistence in hunting, fishing, and gathering. Note that societies could be classified into even smaller categories, to reflect their subsistence
type even more precisely (i.e., pastoral and horticultural categories). Such classification
was not made because it would result into certain categories having very few, if any,
observations preventing any statistical analysis, and perhaps, leading to false
conclusions.
Using prior codes on marriage patterns, societies with no information on marriage
type, and societies where the typical pattern of marriage was courtship (i.e., individuals
choose their own spouses) were excluded from the sample. Coding was made on the remaining sample of 148 societies, from which identification of parental preferences
was possible for 67 of them. The reason behind this lack of information for more than
half of the sample is that many anthropological studies fail to discuss the specific
preferences parents have when it comes to in-law selection. A common pattern is for
Parental choice in 67 cultures 697
Copyright © The British Psychological Society Reproduction in any form (including the internet) is prohibited without prior permission from the Society
anthropologists to report that parents find a suitable spouse for their offspring, without
specifying which traits make such an individual desirable.
Reference sources were collected predominantly with the use of White’s (1986)
compiled reference for the SCCS. Murdock’s Atlas of World Cultures (Murdock, 1981)
and Atlas of World Cultures (Price, 1989) were also used. The anthropological materials
used are mainly in the form of books and journal articles. To ensure reliability, where possible, more than one anthropological source was used for each society studied.
The coding was made by two coders. One independent coder was employed to
control for possible biases (Ember & Ember, 2001). The construction of the coding
sheets was made in two stages: in the first stage, a small subsample of societies was
examined and a list of characteristics preferred in an in-law was created. Coding sheets
were prepared for these traits and coding was made by the two coders in two different
subsamples of societies to check consistency of results. In the second stage, coding was
initiated for the full sample of societies. More traits were identified in this stage and new coding sheets were constructed. The average correlation across traits for the two sets of
coding data was .92. In cases of disagreement, the two coders would attempt to reach a
commonly accepted solution. If agreement was not reached, the specific case was
treated as one where there is not enough information to reach a conclusion. Overall,
13 traits were coded.
Results
The 13 characteristics reported as important for parents in an in-law are listed in Table 1.
Parents do not ascribe equal importance to all traits; consequently, it is crucial to have a measure of the strength of parental preferences. If parents consider a specific
characteristic as important, they will vigorously look for it in an in-law increasing the
probability of this preference to be reported by the anthropologist conducting research
in a given society. On the other hand, if parents ascribe little value to a trait, it is less
Table 1. Ranks of preferences according to the sex of the in-law
Son-in-law Daughter-in-law
Rank Traits Frequency % Traits Frequency %
1 Good character 27 18.5 Good family background 26 24.5
2 Good family background,
good worker**
21 14.4 Good character 18 17.0
3 Industrious 20 13.7 Industrious 16 15.1
4 Favourable social status** 16 11.0 Good worker** 8 7.5
5 Good economic prospects* 13* 8.9 Chastity**, wealthy
family background
7 6.6
6 Wealthy** 12 8.2 Good heredity, healthy,
similar family social status
5 4.7
7 Similar family social status 5 3.4 Good looking 4 3.8
8 Good heredity, wealthy
family background
4 2.8 Good economic prospects*,
favourable social status**
2 1.9
9 Healthy 2 1.4 Wealthy** 1 0.9
10 Good looking 1 0.7
11 Chastity** 0 0.0
Note. *Significant in-law difference at p , :05; **Significant in-law difference at p , :01.
698 Menelaos Apostolou
Copyright © The British Psychological Society Reproduction in any form (including the internet) is prohibited without prior permission from the Society
likely this trait will be reported. Thus, it is reasonable to assume that qualities weighted
heavily by parents are more frequently reported in the anthropological resources than
qualities which are considered less important. The traits parents prefer in an in-law have
been put in hierarchical order in Table 1 from the most frequently reported to the less
frequently reported ones. In this way, traits at the top of the hierarchy are considered
more important for parents than traits at the bottom.
Parental preferences Parents appear to place great emphasis on the good character of their in-law as this trait
is located at the top of parental preferences. Of equal importance appears to be the
family background of the in-law with good family background being one of the most
frequently reported traits. Other traits associated with the family background include an
in-law from a wealthy family background, which is also preferred by parents, but it is
located at the lower middle of the preferences hierarchy (Table 1). Moreover, it is
frequently reported that parents are looking for an in-law from a family of similar social
status to theirs. Traits associated with the ability to acquire resources such as good worker,
industrious, and good economic prospects are highly valued by parents and are
frequently reported as important. The list of preferred traits also includes wealth,
favourable social status, health, good heredity (in the sense of being free from
hereditary diseases), and chastity. Finally, parents rarely appear to value good looks in a
son-in-law and a daughter-in-law.
In-law differences It can be seen from Table 1 that parents value traits differently in a son-in-law and a
daughter-in-law. Chi-squared statistic was used to examine whether the frequencies that
a given trait is reported differ significantly between in-laws. There are relatively few observations for every trait in each category, thus, the likelihood ratio chi-squared test
was employed instead of Pearson’s chi-squared test (Chernoff & Lehmann, 1954).
Statistical analysis was not applied on the frequencies reported in Table 1, but on the
data which have been corrected for over-reporting of son-in-law traits. More specifically,
in many societies parents control the mating decisions of their daughters, but allow
much more autonomy to their sons to exercise mate choice (Apostolou, 2007b).
In these cases parents select mainly sons-in-law, and preferences for daughters-in-law are
unlikely to be reported. This creates a bias since a trait may appear to be more frequently preferred in a son-in-law than a daughter-in-law; this difference does not reflect a real
difference in parental preferences, but rather a difference in parental control over
mating. To correct for this bias, cases where the marriage of the daughter is controlled,
but the son is free to exercise choice were identified (with the use of existing codes) and
dropped (12 cases). Analysis was then performed on the remaining cases (N ¼ 55), where parental control over mating is exercised on both male and female offspring.
The results of the statistical analysis indicate significant differences for a number
of traits. In more detail, resource acquisition capacity is valued more in a son-in-law than a daughter-in-law, as parents are more frequently reported to prefer working
ability in a son-in-law than a daughter-in-law � x2ð1; N ¼ 23Þ ¼ 6:14, p ¼ :013
� . Similarly,
good economic prospects are more frequently reported to matter in a son-in-law than
a daughter-in-law � x2ð1; N ¼ 11Þ ¼ 5:07, p ¼ :024
� .
Parental choice in 67 cultures 699
Copyright © The British Psychological Society Reproduction in any form (including the internet) is prohibited without prior permission from the Society
It is not only the potential to acquire resources that is valued in a son-in-law, but also
the amount of resources that he already controls: parents are more frequently looking
for a son-in-law than a daughter-in-law who is wealthy � x2ð1; N ¼ 11Þ ¼ 8:96, p ¼ :003
� .
Additionally, favourable social status, which also correlates with control of and ability
to acquire resources, appears to be more important in a son-in-law than a daughter-in-
law � x2ð1; N ¼ 14Þ ¼ 8:44, p ¼ :004
� . It is no surprise then that during the coding
process many cases were found where rich and powerful men who enjoy high social
status have more wives than the rest (see also, White, 1988).
Parents also appear to prefer a daughter-in-law who is chaste, while this is not
reported as important for a son-in-law � x2ð1; N ¼ 6Þ ¼ 8:50, p ¼ :004
� . Traits such as
wealthy family background, good looks, and healthy are more frequently reported to
matter in a daughter-in-law; however these frequency differences do not pass the
significance level. As the sample size is relatively small, a future study which employs
a bigger sample is necessary to investigate whether significant differences exist for these traits.
Subsistence differences In Table 2, parental preferences have been arranged according to the subsistence type of
each society. Two broad categories of societies are distinguished here: agricultural–
pastoral and hunting and gathering (see Methods section). It can be seen that parental
preferences vary according to a society’s subsistence type.
To begin with, wealth is more frequently reported as important in agropastoral societies than in hunting and gathering ones
� x2ð1; N ¼ 12Þ ¼ 3:80, p ¼ :051
� .
Furthermore, parents place emphasis more frequently on the good family background
of an in-law in agropastoral societies than in foraging ones � x2ð1; N ¼ 29Þ ¼ 7:14,
Table 2. Ranks of preferences according to the society type
Agricultural–pastoral Hunting and gathering
Rank Traits Frequency % Traits Frequency %
1 Good character* 26 18.4 Industrious 12 20.7
2 Good family background** 23 16.3 Good worker 11 19.0
3 Industrious 18 12.8 Good character* 9 15.5
4 Good worker 13 9.2 Good economic prospects,
good family background**,
favourable social status
6 10.3
5 Favourable social status 11 7.8 Chastity, wealth*, wealthy
family background
2 3.4
6 Wealthy* 10 7.1 Good looking 1 1.7
7 Wealthy family background 8 5.7 Healthy 1 1.7
8 Good economic prospects 7 5 Good heredity*, similar
family social status*
0 0.0
9 Good heredity*, similar
family social status*
6 4.3
10 Chastity, good looking 5 3.5
11 Healthy 4 2.9
Note. *Significant in-law difference at p , :05; **Significant in-law difference at p , :01.
700 Menelaos Apostolou
Copyright © The British Psychological Society Reproduction in any form (including the internet) is prohibited without prior permission from the Society
p ¼ :008 � . Likewise, similar family social status is less frequently reported as
important in foraging societies [x2ð1; N ¼ 6Þ ¼ 6:70, p ¼ :010]. Other traits preferred significantly more in non-foraging societies include good
character � x2ð1; N ¼ 35Þ ¼ 5:14, p ¼ :023
� and good heredity
� x2ð1; N ¼ 6Þ ¼ 6:70,
p ¼ :010 � .
Finally, during the coding process an effort was made to identify cases where parents are reported to disagree between them on what they want in an in-law. Not a
single case was found, as parents appear to be in agreement in what they are looking
for in a son-in-law and a daughter-in-law.
Discussion
Consistent with the original hypothesis, parents are looking for in-laws with traits which
are beneficial to them and their kin. More specifically, as marriage connects two families,
parents would like as a son-in-law or a daughter-in-law an individual from a good family
background. Such a marriage will forge an alliance between families that can provide
resources and support to parents and their kin.
Good character is one of the most frequently desired qualities probably because this
personality trait indicates that resources will be provided consistently over time (Buss,
2003, p. 32). More importantly, although marriage decisions rest predominantly with parents, divorce decisions rest predominantly with their offspring (Apostolou, 2007b).
An aggressive and abusive spouse is likely to be divorced. Betzig (1989) found that
cruelty and bad temper are among the most frequently reported reasons for divorce
across cultures. Consequently, parents who tend to prefer in-laws with good character
are more likely to arrange long-lasting marriages.
Marriage establishes a new member into the family, which has a vital role in its
subsistence activities. For instance, among hunters and gatherers, a son-in-law should
provide his parents-in-law with meat from his hunting efforts, while the gathering abilities of the daughter-in-law are of vital importance for the subsistence of the family
unit (e.g., the !Kung, Lee, 1979). Thus, traits related to provision capacity, such as
working ability and industry, are consistently preferred in an in-law by parents.
Although parental preferences are roughly consistent across cultures, there is also a
significant degree of variability. Prospective in-laws in foraging societies control less
material resources, so accordingly, parents in these societies value wealth less in an
in-law. Moreover, parents in foraging societies are less sensitive to the family background
of an in-law, and place less emphasis on good character. The explanation for these findings may be also related to the amount of wealth produced in each society type.
Families in agricultural and pastoral societies control more wealth, such as land and
cattle, than families in foraging societies. Therefore, parents in the former societies have
more to gain by being sensitive to the family background of an in-law. Additionally,
because good character increases the probability of an arranged marriage to last, this trait
is preferred more in agropastoral societies, where the stakes are higher if a marriage fails.
In accordance with the original hypothesis, parental preferences are found to be
contingent upon the sex of the in-law. In particular, parents appear to prefer wealth, working ability, social status, and good economic prospects more frequently in a
son-in-law than a daughter-in-law. This asymmetry may be explained by the fact that
parents exercise more control over the mating decisions of their female offspring. More
specifically, the female invests more in her offspring, and thus, becomes the scarce
Parental choice in 67 cultures 701
Copyright © The British Psychological Society Reproduction in any form (including the internet) is prohibited without prior permission from the Society
reproductive resource to which males seek access (Trivers, 1972). By controlling the
mating decisions of their daughters, parents can extract more resources from their sons-
in-law than they can by controlling the mating decisions of their sons (Apostolou,
2007b). Consequently, parents are more interested in the wealth and working ability of
their son-in-law than their daughter-in-law.
Finally, a premium is placed on the chastity of the daughter-in-law. This finding can be explained by the risk of cuckoldry: a daughter-in-law who is promiscuous and had
sexual relations before marriage may be or become pregnant by a man other than her
husband. Accordingly, this preference protects parents from diverting resources to
other people’s grandchildren. It should be noted here that chastity is a preference highly
susceptible to cultural influence. For instance, a cross-cultural study found that chastity
was highly variable across cultures both in magnitude of the value placed on it, as well as
in the presence or absence of sex differences (Buss et al., 1990).
This study has not coded for age preferences with respect to in-law selection. However, given the strong negative correlation between fertility and age for women, we
expect that parents would value youth more in a daughter-in-law than in a son-in-law. If
this is so, where marriages are arranged, women should be married at a younger age
than men, as parents would prefer older sons-in-law and younger daughters-in-law. This
hypothesis seems to be supported for the SCCS, where marriages are usually arranged
and women are married significantly younger than men (Apostolou, 2009).
In many instances reported in-law preferences correspond closely with mate
preferences. For example, people value strongly good character in a spouse, while resource acquisition abilities are valued more in a husband than in a wife (Buss, 2003).
These findings are not surprising: if a given trait is equally beneficial to both parents and
offspring, it will be preferred equally by both. Moreover, the division of labour mandates
traits to be valued differently in men and women, irrespectively of whether they are
in-laws or spouses.
However, the close correspondence between mate and in-law preferences should
not mislead us to believe that the two overlap. In particular, this study has identified
good family background to be one of the most preferred traits in an in-law by parents. Nevertheless, decades of research on mating preferences has not identified this trait as
important in a spouse (Buss, 2003). Also, traits such as beauty rank very low in parental
preferences, but this trait ranks much higher in mate preferences (Buss et al., 1990).
Again, these findings are not surprising; parents and offspring are not genetically
identical, and this results into traits not being equally beneficial, and thus, not equally
preferred by both parties (Apostolou, 2007a, 2008; Buunk, Park, & Dubbs, 2008).
In addition, survey-based studies on people’s preferences can be revealing with
respect to what people value. However, this does not guarantee that individuals actually base their choices on reported preferences. For numerous reasons, people may not be
honest, or they may take different things into consideration when they have to actually
make a choice (Daly & Wilson, 1999; Smith, Smith, & Christopher, 2007). This study is
based on observational data rather than on survey or experimental data. That is data
obtained by anthropologists who have lived in a society for an extensive period of time
and have recorded what parents, who actually search and choose spouses for their
children, value in an in-law. Effectively then, the method employed here gives the
presented results ecological validity. Despite its strengths this study is not without limitations. To begin with, the most
frequently reported parental preferences are considered to be the most desirable ones.
Although this assumption is reasonable, a trait that is not particularly desirable is
702 Menelaos Apostolou
Copyright © The British Psychological Society Reproduction in any form (including the internet) is prohibited without prior permission from the Society
unlikely to be reported frequently; this is also problematic as this method does not code
for what parents consider as most desirable, but uses frequency as a proxy of
importance. Moreover, the sample used in this study consists only of pre-industrial
societies; therefore comparisons between pre-industrial and post-industrial societies
cannot be made. For the same reason, the findings of this study cannot be directly
generalized to post-industrial societies. Finally, it would be interesting to explore whether sex differences in in-law
preferences are contingent upon subsistence type. This requires the estimation of a
model where the mode of subsistence and the sex of the in-law enter simultaneously as
independent variables. However, the small sample size prevents such analysis to be
performed. By providing coded data for an additional number of societies, future
research should attempt to examine this possibility.
To conclude, despite the fact that across cultures parents have a significant role in
determining the choice of a spouse, there is a gap in our knowledge on what parents want in an in-law. This study attempts to fill this gap by providing cross-cultural evidence
for the qualities which are desirable in a prospective son-in-law and a prospective
daughter-in-law. As such, it constitutes an important step towards understanding this
aspect of human behaviour and it provides a sound basis for exploring its evolutionary
implications.
Acknowledgements
I am in debt to Lia Mexa for her help during the preparation of this manuscript. I would also like
to thank Aris Boukouras and Maria Doritou for their constructive comments. I would also like
to thank George Sermaidis for his advice on statistical issues. Finally, I would like to thank two
anonymous reviewers for their constructive criticisms and comments, which enabled me to
improve this article.
References
Apostolou, M. (2007a). Elements of parental choice: The evolution of parental preferences in
relation to in-law selection. Evolutionary Psychology, 5, 70–83.
Apostolou, M. (2007b). Sexual selection under parental choice: The role of parents in the
evolution of human mating. Evolution and Human Behavior, 28, 403–409.
Apostolou, M. (2008). Parent–offspring conflict over mating: The case of beauty. Evolutionary
Psychology, 6, 303–315.
Apostolou, M. (2009). Sexual selection under parental choice: Parental control in agricultural
and pastoral societies. Evolution and Human Behavior. Advance online publication.
doi:10.1016/j.evolhumbehav.2009.06.010
Beckerman, S. (2000). Mating and marriage, husbands and lovers: Commentary on Gangestad &
Simpson. Behavioural and Brain Sciences, 23, 590–591.
Betzig, L. (1989). Causes of conjugal dissolution: A cross-cultural study. Current Anthropology,
30, 654–676.
Borgerhoff Mulder, M. (1988). The relevance of the polygyny threshold model to humans.
In C. Mascie-Taylor & A. Boyce (Eds.), Human mating patterns (pp. 209–230). Cambridge:
Cambridge University Press.
Broude, G. J., & Green, S. J. (1983). Cross-cultural codes on husband–wife relationships.
Ethnology, 22, 263–280.
Buss, D. M. (1989). Sex differences in human mate preferences: Evolutionary hypotheses tested
in 37 cultures. Behavioral and Brain Sciences, 12, 1–49.
Parental choice in 67 cultures 703
Copyright © The British Psychological Society Reproduction in any form (including the internet) is prohibited without prior permission from the Society
Buss, D. M. (2003). The evolution of desire: Strategies of human mating (2nd ed.). New York:
Basic Books.
Buss, D. M., Abbott, M., Angleitner, A., Asherian, A., Biaggio, A., Blanco-Villasenor, A., … Yang, K.-S. (1990). International preferences in selecting mates: A study of 37 cultures. Journal of
Cross-Cultural Psychology, 21, 5–47
Buunk, A. P., Park, J. H., & Dubbs, S. L. (2008). Parent–offspring conflict in mate preferences.
Review of General Psychology, 12, 47–62.
Chernoff, H., & Lehmann, E. L. (1954). The use of maximum likelihood estimates in x 2 tests for
goodness-of-fit. Annals of Mathematical Statistics, 25, 579–586.
Daly, M., & Wilson, M. I. (1999). Human evolutionary psychology and animal behaviour. Animal
Behaviour, 57, 509–519.
Ember, C. R., & Ember, M. (2001). Cross-cultural research methods. Oxford: Altamira Press.
Ember, C. R., Ember, M., & Peregrine, P. N. (2002). Anthropology (10th ed.). Upper Saddle River,
NJ: Prentice Hall.
Hynie, M., Lalonde, R. N., & Lee, N. (2006). Parent–child value transmission among Chinese
immigrants to North America: The case of traditional mate preferences. Cultural Diversity
and Ethnic Minority Psychology, 12, 230–244.
Lee, R. B. (1979). The !Kung San. New York: Cambridge University Press.
Murdock, G. P. (1981). Atlas of world cultures. Pittsburgh, PA: University of Pittsburgh Press.
Murdock, G. P., & White, D. R. (1980). Standard cross-cultural sample. In H. Barry & A. Schlegel
(Eds.), Cross-cultural samples and codes (pp. 3–43). Pittsburgh, PA: University of Pittsburgh
Press.
Price, D. H. (1989). Atlas of world cultures. Caldwell, NJ: The Blackburn Press.
Smith, K. D., Smith, S. T., & Christopher, J. C. (2007). What defines the good person? Cross-cultural
comparisons of experts’ models with lay prototypes. Journal of Cross-Cultural Psychology,
38, 333–360.
Stephens, W. N. (1963). The family in cross-cultural perspective. New York: Holt, Rinehart &
Winston.
Sussman, M. B. (1953). Parental participation in mate selection and its effect upon family
continuity. Social Forces, 1, 76–81.
Trivers, R. L. (1972). Parental investment and sexual selection. In B. Campbell (Ed.), Sexual
selection and the descent of man: 1871–1971 (pp. 136–179). Chicago, IL: Aldine.
White, D. R. (1986). Ethnographic bibliography of the standard cross-cultural sample. World
Cultures, 2, 1–126.
White, D. R. (1988). Rethinking polygyny: Co-wives, codes, and cultural systems. Current
Anthropology, 29, 529–559.
Whyte, M. K. (1978). The status of women in preindustrial societies. Princeton, NJ: Princeton
University Press.
World-Cultures CD-Rom (2006). Journal of Comparative Cross Cultural Research.
Yu, D., Proulx, S. R., & Shepard, G. H. (2007). Masculinity, culture and the Paradox of the Lek.
In V. Swami & A. Furnham (Eds.), Body beautiful: Evolutionary and sociocultural
perspectives (pp. 88–107). London: Palgrave Macmillan.
Received 16 June 2009; revised version received 25 October 2009
704 Menelaos Apostolou
Copyright of British Journal of Psychology is the property of British Psychological Society and its content may
not be copied or emailed to multiple sites or posted to a listserv without the copyright holder's express written
permission. However, users may print, download, or email articles for individual use.