3 different assessments (1 page reflection for each)
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SexualAssertivenessScale.docxFor the following questions, think about your current or most recent sexual partner.
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1. I feel uncomfortable talking during sex.
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2. I feel that I am shy when it comes to sex.
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3. I approach my partner for sex when I desire it. |
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4. I think I am open with my partner about my sexual needs. |
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5. I enjoy sharing my sexual fantasies with my partner. |
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6. I feel uncomfortable talking to my friends about sex. |
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7. I communicate my sexual desires to my partner. |
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8. It is difficult for me to touch myself during sex. |
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9. It is hard for me to say no even when I do not want sex.
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10. I am reluctant to describe myself as a sexual person. |
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11. I feel uncomfortable telling my partner what feels good. |
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12. I speak up for my sexual feelings.
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13. I am reluctant to insist that my partner satisfy me. |
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14. I find myself having sex when I do not really want it. |
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15. When a sexual technique does not feel good, I tell my partner. |
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16. I feel comfortable giving sexual praise to my partner. |
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17. It is easy for me to discuss sex with my partner. |
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18. I feel comfortable in initiating sex with my partner. |
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19. I find myself doing sexual things with my parent that I do not like. |
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20. Pleasing my partner is more important than my own sexual pleasure. |
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21. I feel comfortable telling my partner how to touch me. |
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22. I enjoy masturbating myself to orgasm.
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23. If something feels good in sex, I insist on doing it again |
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24. It is hard for me to be honest about my sexual feelings. |
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25. I try to avoid discussing the subject of sex. |
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Section 1:
For number 1, 2, 6, 8, 9, 10, 11 13, 14, 19 20, 24, and 25 scores are the following:
All of the Time = 0 points
Most of the Time = 1 points
Some of the Time = 2 points
Rarely = 3 points
Never = 4 points
#1 _____ + #2 _____ + #6 ______ + #8 ______ + #9 ______ + #10 ______ + #11 ______ + #13 ______ +
#14 ______ + #19 ______ + #20 ______ + #24 ______ + #25 ______ = _______ points
Section 2:
For numbers 3, 4, 5, 7, 12, 15, 16, 17, 18, 21, 22, and 23 scores are the following:
All of the Time = 4 points
Most of the Time = 3 points
Some of the Time = 2 points
Rarely = 1 points
Never = 0 points
#3 _____ + #4 _____ + #5______ + #7 ______ + #12 ______ + #15 ______ + #16 ______ + #17 ______ +
#18 ______ + #21 ______ + #22 ______ + #23 ______ = _______ points
Total Scores from Section 1: _______
Total Scores from Section 2: _______
Add Section 1 and Section 2 = ___________ (sexual assertiveness score)
Higher scores = higher levels of sexual self-assertiveness. Scores can vary from partner to partner but are generally similar.
