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I read this passage very conscientious and I totally agree with the authors. When I did not achieve one of my results I will say something make me look less bad or embarrassed. 

1. Next time I can do better. Do not worry about, this is the past tense. When I did not pass the course or some events that I did not success.

2. My limiting belief is lack of new ideas.In fact, I am a person who likes to exchange ideas with you, but every time I can think the same as you. Over time, I think my thoughts are limited and I won't brainstorm.In the next work, we will rely on team members.

3. The opposite belief is trying harder. Because I'm a student, I say the situation of courses. Every time I get a course that is difficult for me, I will say in my heart that I may have to fail. I really can't do it again. This is a negative emotion, but I know that after that, I will work harder to learn this course, because I clearly know that if I don't work hard, I will definitely fail. This is a way for me to motivate myself.

4. Work is not only hard, but also requires a jumping way of thinking. I think I need to have and correct both of these points.If I always think actively and provide new ideas to the team members, I will be a different myself. People are stumbling on the road of growth，thus I can't flinch when I encounter difficulties. If I can actively face the difficulties and learn lessons in the process. In the next difficulties, I will meet them and bring different results.

Second Psychological power--Tianliang Lai

It was an unfamiliar environment when I first came to Canada, and I felt uncomfortable with it. Putting my own mentality under a lot of pressure. In this unfamiliar environment, there are no friends, no language, and completely different habits. It made me sleepless for a while. I told my parents about my situation at the time, but they thought it was easy to overcome, it was just a matter of time. Their indifference is my limited belief. But the opposite belief also made me realize that my own psychological endurance is the best way to resist stress. When I learned from my brother, my parents were worried about me but wanted me to grow up independently and have a strong heart. This is also my new belief. It allows me to adjust my mood and mentality more quickly, and then adapt to this life so that I can study and live happily in Canada.