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Hilal Alsaadi

ALI 150

C.Stammler

10/11/18

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How can people learn to forgive

Forgiving is a thing that may not be learned easily. It is a difficult task and easy at

the same time, but it is consequences is positive in the most time. Forgiveness is a

thing that may improve our our psychology because we do not have hatred in our

hearts. It is an simple thing that if everyone does will make the life seems better for the

two parties. We are human, and we make mistakes if god forgives who we are to not

forgive. So, people should learn how to forgive even if it is hard to do it.

First of all in the past were many conflicts which became bigger because they

did not forgive. The stories that we have heard about those who have hearts, which are

made from stones, are a good example for us to learn from them. Many people lost

members of their families because of being unforgivable then they regret that they did

not forgive them , so forgiveness is existed in the humanity to use it . Nothing worths in

the life that makes people hate each other; therefore, everyone should have good

relations with all people, for example, my uncle had a conflict with his friend for money,

and this conflict became bigger, and my uncle did not want to forgive him and after 3

years of the conflict his friend died, so he remorse that he did not forgive him. We

should not wait until the time is over and regret because regretting has nothing to

change after the thing is gone.

Nowadays people are more knowledgable than before, so we should learn from

them how to forgive. Avoiding to exclude relationships is an important art that should

have, for example, when someone try to nervous, the best thing is controlling the

tongue from saying anything which may make the problem gets bigger. The way of

treatment that people have are much better than before. Also, visiting each others even

though there is a misunderstanding with having a gift may make relationship be better.

The feeling becomes better after forgive someone, and that is from people’s experience.

Why do we have emotions if we do not forgive each other; consequently, forgiveness

makes people feel from better to much better.

Ignoring what people have done to us even if it affected us in different ways. The

most important thing that everyone should do is not focusing on the mistakes that

happened, and take the positivities. If people wise their minds and forgive each others,

the conflicts will end up and disappear; therefore, the peace will be in the whole world.

In many situations that people face pressure from friends or families that they urge them

to do not forgive, but being wiser than them and forgive surely is better. There are no

advantages from having a difference with others, so forgetting is the reasonable choice.

Also, it is a lesson that we learn from after we forgive because we will avoid it the next

time. Finally, without a doubt ignoring something or someone after having forgiven can

be a good strategy in order to make life more endurable.

In conclusion, Forgivness makes the life looks very nice. The past hatred should

be a good lesson through the negative results of not forgiving each other. The life

becomes more developed which reflects on people behaviors. Ignoring the difference

between each other would make the relationships better. Unity is much better than

loneliness, so forgive because we all human.