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General Feedback on Ethics Paper #1 (Personal Decision/Rae Paper)

April 10, 2017

Suggestions: Dallas Willard www.dwillard.org and Cloud/Townsend http://www.cloudtownsend.com/

The Ethic of Jesus and Paul

This issue of ethics was the most important philosophical issue in the eyes of Socrates and Plato: “We are talking about no small matter, but how we should live!” Plato has Socrates rebuke his followers in the Republic with this line. On their read of things, our job is to figure out human nature and the path of growth into virtue.

Christianity might be false (let me make that disclaimer), but I would argue that the ethic of Jesus and Paul and the path of growth (through the spiritual disciplines: fellowship, worship, study, service, prayer, fasting, meditation, silence, solitude, simplicity, confession, celebration, etc.) into being virtuous individuals cannot be beat by any other philosophers out there. The best guy on this to read is the late philosopher, Dallas Willard: www.dwillard.org in books like Renovation of the Heart (and Revolution of Character is the same book in easier-to-understand language) and The Spirit of the Disciplines (where he argues against Karl Marx and claims a holy and virtuous people will destroy structural evils in society in one chapter). Email me if you want suggestions: [email protected]

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Many of my friends (with Ph.D.s in philosophy) just do not understand Christianity and they make straw man arguments against it. You may conclude that God doesn’t exist and that Jesus wasn’t raised from the dead, but (in the spirit of John Stuart Mill) learn the views and the arguments for it before dismissing Jesus because of straw man arguments like, “Look at the Westboro Baptists!”

After living with one of these guys for a year (and arguing 25 hours a week), he came to say, “Wow, Tuffer. I thought Christianity was stupid, but now I think it is a rational and plausible worldview. For now, I think scientific atheism (Naturalism) is a little more plausible, so I am just going to wait for God (if S/He exists) to show up in my life.” To his wish, I think Willard’s book, Hearing God, is so important. If even a few of the stories in the Bible are true, then God is talking to us every day whether we are listening or not. This is a 2nd order capacity we have in our souls that needs to be developed—most of us are not listening and most of us do not know how to listen. See Willard for more.

Henry Cloud and John Townsend (I’ve read 10 of these many times)

Most of you wrote on boundary issues with friends, parents, coworkers, bosses, roommates, significant others, etc. and these are (often) the largest ethical problems all of us face in life. We all need a philosophy of friendship, a philosophy of being a child, parent, sibling, co-worker, manager. Aristotle said it takes study and time to become people of practical wisdom. It just doesn’t happen without work.

One issue that I often see in papers is a problem with Step 4 and the alternatives. Brainstorming alternatives is always an enormous problem for humans in any decision-making format (e.g. National Security Council, corporations, families, administrators at universities, managers, etc.). With regards to personal relationships I want to recommend the following books to help see how there are many more alternatives open to us. Many of us see relationships as being 100% or nothing (and sometimes that is the case), when there are options of 1%, 30%, 75%, etc. This takes study and experience trying things.

Henry Cloud and John Townsend, Boundaries (book and workbook) and Safe People.

· This surveys all types of boundaries between ourselves and parents and friends, etc.

· I had to cut off my best friend for 3 months after reading this book. Another time, I had to cut off a relationship for a year until he respected boundaries.

John Townsend, Beyond Boundaries. Henry Cloud, Necessary Endings.

· This helped me deal with a relationship where there was a lot of manipulation and control. This will help you learn how to set up temporary “protective boundaries” in love and know when to take them down or if they need to stay up until a person behaves and respects your boundaries.

Cloud and Townsend, Boundaries in Dating and Boundaries in Marriage.

· This has helped countless people deal with the problems of ending a potentially good relationship too soon (for fickle Seinfeld-like reasons), and staying in a bad relationship way too long. They give case after case after case where you will see all of the relationships around you along that continuum. This helps people distinguish between “yellow flags” and “red flags” in relationships (which most of us don’t get).

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See books here: http://www.cloudtownsend.com/

1

General Feedback on Ethics Paper #1 (Personal Decision/Rae Paper)

April 10, 2017

Suggestions:

Dallas Willard

www.dwillard.org

and Cloud/Townsend

http://www

.cloudtownsend.com/

The Ethic of Jesus and Paul

This issue of ethics was the most important philosophical issue in the eyes of Socrates and Plato:

We are talking about no small matter,

but how we shoul

d live!

Plato has Socrates rebuke his followers

in the

Republic

with this line. On their read of things,

our job is to figure out human nature and the path

of growth into virtue

.

Christianity might be false (let me make that disclai

mer), but I would argue that the ethic of

Jesus and Paul and the path of growth (through the spiritual disciplines: fellowship, worship, study,

service, prayer,

fast

ing, meditation,

silence, solitude, simplicity, confession

, celebration, etc.) into being

virtuous individuals c

annot be beat by any other philosophers out there.

The best guy on this to read is

the late philosopher, Dallas Willard:

www.dwillard.org

in books like

Renovation of the Heart

(

and

R

evolution of Character

is the sam

e book i

n easier

-

to

-

understand language)

and

The Spirit of the

Disciplines

(where he argues against Karl Marx and claims a

holy and virtuous people

will destroy

structural evils in society in one chapter)

.

Email me i

f you want sugges

t

i

o

ns:

[email protected]

Many of my friends (with Ph.D.s in philosophy) just do not understand Christianity and they

make straw man arguments against it.

You may conclude that God doesn

t exist and that Jesus wasn

t

raised from the dead, but (in the spirit of John Stuart Mill) learn the views and

the arguments for it

before dismissing Jesus because of

straw man arguments like,

Look at

the Westboro Bapti

sts

!

Aft

er living with one of these guys for a year (and arguing 25 hours a week), he came to say,

Wow, Tuffer. I thought Christianity was stupid, but now I think it is a rational and plausible worldview.

For now, I think scientific atheism (Naturalism) is a little more plausible, so

I am just going to wait for

God

(if S/He exists) to show up in my life

.

To his wish,

I think Willard

s book,

Hearing God,

is so

important. If even a few of the stories in the Bible are true, then God is talking to us every day whether

we are listening or not

. T

his is a

2

nd

order capacity we have

in our souls

that needs to be developed

most

of us are not listening and most of us do not know how to listen. See Willard for more.

1

General Feedback on Ethics Paper #1 (Personal Decision/Rae Paper)

April 10, 2017

Suggestions: Dallas Willard www.dwillard.org and Cloud/Townsend http://www.cloudtownsend.com/

The Ethic of Jesus and Paul

This issue of ethics was the most important philosophical issue in the eyes of Socrates and Plato:

“We are talking about no small matter, but how we should live!” Plato has Socrates rebuke his followers

in the Republic with this line. On their read of things, our job is to figure out human nature and the path

of growth into virtue.

Christianity might be false (let me make that disclaimer), but I would argue that the ethic of

Jesus and Paul and the path of growth (through the spiritual disciplines: fellowship, worship, study,

service, prayer, fasting, meditation, silence, solitude, simplicity, confession, celebration, etc.) into being

virtuous individuals cannot be beat by any other philosophers out there. The best guy on this to read is

the late philosopher, Dallas Willard: www.dwillard.org in books like Renovation of the Heart (and

Revolution of Character is the same book in easier-to-understand language) and The Spirit of the

Disciplines (where he argues against Karl Marx and claims a holy and virtuous people will destroy

structural evils in society in one chapter). Email me if you want suggestions:

[email protected]

Many of my friends (with Ph.D.s in philosophy) just do not understand Christianity and they

make straw man arguments against it. You may conclude that God doesn’t exist and that Jesus wasn’t

raised from the dead, but (in the spirit of John Stuart Mill) learn the views and the arguments for it

before dismissing Jesus because of straw man arguments like, “Look at the Westboro Baptists!”

After living with one of these guys for a year (and arguing 25 hours a week), he came to say,

“Wow, Tuffer. I thought Christianity was stupid, but now I think it is a rational and plausible worldview.

For now, I think scientific atheism (Naturalism) is a little more plausible, so I am just going to wait for

God (if S/He exists) to show up in my life.” To his wish, I think Willard’s book, Hearing God, is so

important. If even a few of the stories in the Bible are true, then God is talking to us every day whether

we are listening or not. This is a 2

nd

order capacity we have in our souls that needs to be developed—

most of us are not listening and most of us do not know how to listen. See Willard for more.