Events Management
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CERTIFICATE PROGRAM IN EVENT MANAGEMENT
MODULE FOUR
SOCIAL EVENTS
INTERNATIONAL INSTITUTE OF EVENT MANAGEMENT
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MODULE FOUR: SOCIAL EVENTS .............................................................. 1
BIRTHDAY PLANNING ......................................................................................................... 1
ANNIVERSARY PARTIES ....................................................................................................... 3
FAMILY REUNIONS ........................................................................................................... 16
BABY SHOWERS ................................................................................................................ 23
MODULE FOUR: ASSIGNMENTS ......................................................................................... 32
MODULE FOUR: SOCIAL EVENTS
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THOSE WHO LOOK ONLY TO THE PAST OR PRESENT, ARE CERTAIN TO MISS THE FUTURE. - John F. Kennedy
BIRTHDAY PLANNING
Birthday parties are amongst the most common events planned by event managers.
These are relatively easy to plan and since birthdays are not seasonal, these can be a
good source of secondary revenue. Event managers usually manage such parties when
there is brief downtime between larger events. Let your creativity shine in planning all
elements from invitations to party favors. Create a checklist so that you don’t miss any
of the basic components.
The theme of the party should reflect the personality of the person for whom the party is
organized. The basic components of a birthday party are:
Invitations
Decorations
Cake
Party favors
Prizes
Food
Paper supplies
Activities
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Gift opening
Thank-you notes
Most of today’s birthday parties are themed parties. Make sure that you involve the
birthday person while planning the party, and never be tempted to choose a theme that
does not appeal to that person. It is always a good idea to test games or activities
before the party to get an estimate of the things needed and the time required for each
activity.
Give yourself plenty of time to plan the party; a month or two is recommended. Convene
a kick-off meeting with your client and get answers to these questions:
Is there a preferred theme for the party?
Will the party be at an indoor or outdoor location?
How many guests will be attending the party?
Is there a preference for the kind of cake?
Will there be meals served or just snacks?
Are there any dietary restrictions?
Will any family member participate in the planning process?
Will they be giving out party favors?
What is the budget for the event?
Who is the final decision maker if there are differing opinions?
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Remember that the birthday-party business is a fast-growing industry and there are
limitless opportunities for an event manager to specialize in this field. In today’s busy
world, parents and families are always on the lookout for experienced event planners to
create a party that can give them memories for a lifetime.
ANNIVERSARY PARTIES
An anniversary party is a very special event and many people look forward to this
occasion. Whether it is a one year or a fifty year anniversary party, the party itself
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should be very special for the couple celebrating
their anniversary. Therefore, the invitations used
for this event should also be very special and
inviting.
Over the years, planning for an anniversary party
was considered an easy task. The ever growing
varieties of anniversary party supplies and ideas
that are available have made the planning process
more complicated. Some anniversary parties are
planned and organized months or even years in
advance. Most often the planning begins very
early to give plenty of time and an abundance of
opportunities to choose anniversary party supplies. One of the most important
anniversary items for the party are the anniversary party invitations. More often than
not, anniversary party invitations are very special and personal.
Planning an anniversary party can sometimes be very challenging. One of the biggest
difficulties can be choosing a theme that reflects the tastes and preferences of both
partners in the marriage. Find out if the client wants a big party or an intimate gathering
of friends and family. Budget is another factor determining the size of the event. Many
couples wish to renew their vows and to hold a larger party resembling a wedding
reception, with appropriate catering, decor, music, flowers, speeches, cake, and
photography. Wedding albums and memorabilia from the couple’s lives are usually
displayed at the party.
CONSIDER THIS..
Over the years, planning for
an anniversary party was
considered an easy task.
The ever growing varieties
of anniversary party
supplies and ideas that are
available have made the
planning process more
complicated.
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Before beginning to plan the party, make sure that its objectives are clear. Use the
following questions as a guideline to focus your discussion:
What anniversary is being celebrated?
How many guests are expected?
What are the couple’s interests and hobbies?
Will children be invited? How many?
What are the clients’ preferences in decor, food, location, cake, entertainment,
and favors?
Are there any other preferences to be considered? For example, do they plan to
renew their vows; do they wish to have a dance, etc.?
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CELEBRATING THOSE MI LESTONES
FIFTH WEDDING ANNIVERSARY
Five years of togetherness, of companionship and of
a happy married life. A relationship is perhaps the
most important thing in our lives and if someone has
survived for 5 beautiful years, it sure calls for a
celebration. These five years have given them some
of the best moments of their life and at this wedding
party; you need to raise a toast to them.
Every party has three things in common, the food,
the guests and a celebration. The idea in these
options is to do something different, something
unique, and something you perhaps haven’t done
before.
Celebration at home
A party planned at home is always the first option in all the 5 year wedding anniversary
party celebrations. Not many couples look for a grand celebration on their 5th wedding
anniversary. The spouse can throw a surprise party for the other partner using your
help. Depending on the number of people, you can either order the food or you can
reach out to close friends and family to organize a potluck.
CONSIDER THIS..
Every party has three
things in common, the food,
the guests and a
celebration. The idea in
these options is to do
something different,
something unique, and
something you perhaps
haven’t done before.
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Create a Theme
There are a number of themes to chose from for the fifth anniversary party, ranging from
a carnival theme, to retro to an interest shares by both. A themed party is always a lot
of fun for everyone. You can make the decorations and prepare the food in relevance to
the theme you decide. This way, even the guests can get involved in preparing for the
party and will surely look forward to it. Another option is to keep a ‘wooden’ theme.
Wood was one of the traditional five year anniversary gift. From the trays, to the plates
to even the glasses, you can arrange for and use wooden things for your party.
Cherish the memories
A well planned surprise will always be appreciated. You can make a movie, on the time
spent together over the past years, using photographs and videos of both of that they
have collected during occasions such as in parties, vacation and family get-togethers.
Ask among their friends and relatives for the photographs and the footage, if they have
any, to add more color to it. You can present this movie to the client before showing it at
the party. You can also request a few people, who are close to the couple, to give a
short speech on their life together.
TENTH WEDDING ANNIVERSARY
A tenth wedding anniversary is a special milestone for all couples. Traditionally, a tenth
anniversary is considered the anniversary of "tin or aluminum," as these are the gifts
that are given traditionally. Nevertheless, a decade of marriage calls for a celebration.
Some couples prefer parties, whereas others enjoy a romantic evening with each other.
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The actual time of year when the anniversary is celebrated will have a lot to do with your
plans, as it's certainly much easier to plan a picnic or outdoor adventure in warmer
weather, unless, of course, you're planning to celebrate skiing down a mountain or
doing some other type of winter fun.
Theme
Daffodils could be easily incorporated into the theme of the party, and while you may
have trouble finding some that are reasonably priced if they're out of season in your
area, craft stores are filled with realistic looking faux flowers and with a bit of
imagination and creativity, the possibilities are endless to create many beautiful
decorations. The colors silver and blue combine together wonderfully and represent the
gemstones associated with the ten year anniversary; diamonds and blue sapphires,
symbolizing durability and strength.
Gifts
Many couples choose to open a gift registry for their anniversary party. If you decide to
do this, mail that information with your invitation. Don't worry, it's not really
presumptuous. It'll actually give your guests a better idea of what they may like to
receive as a gift. It saves them a worrisome hassle and it keeps them from receiving
duplicate gifts.
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TWENTY FIFTH WEDDING ANNIVERSARY
The silver 25th anniversary is a milestone wedding anniversary. And rightly so!
Spending a quarter of a century in love with one
person is to be celebrated. To throw a fete
worthy of the feat demands careful, thoughtful
planning.
The first thing is deciding what kind of party best
suits the occasion and your guests of honor. You
can always run a few 25th anniversary party
ideas by them and see what they would prefer. A
silver anniversary bash can be a blow out black
tie affair at some fancy hotel ballroom. At the
same time, an intimate cocktail party at home,
brunch at a favorite restaurant, a casual
backyard BBQ or a potluck at the church hall can
be just as memorable. Some people recreate the
original wedding reception, complete with the color scheme, bridesmaids and
groomsmen and music.
It is acceptable to choose a theme for a 25th anniversary party. The kind of 25th
anniversary party you plan really depends on the wishes of the couple and their budget.
Planning for this 25th anniversary party should begin early. The venue, caterers and the
CONSIDER THIS..
A silver anniversary bash
can be a blow out black tie
affair at some fancy hotel
ballroom. At the same time,
an intimate cocktail party at
home, brunch at a favorite
restaurant, a casual
backyard BBQ or a potluck
at the church hall can be
just as memorable.
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guest list should be confirmed well in advance. Typically, give yourself three months to
plan such an occasion.
The guest list should include the couple’s close friends and family. Depending on the
relationships you may also want to expand the circle to include co-workers, spiritual
advisors or members of the couple’s original wedding party. The final headcount will
likely influence the location for this celebration. Their home would be a perfect location
for a small family affair. However, if the guest list is long, consider a restaurant or
banquet hall—the kind of facility that offers enough space, bathrooms and parking to
accommodate a crowd. If this is not a surprise party and is being planned by the couple
then your job gets more straight forward and easy. In case this is a surprise party for the
couple, consult the person who is responsible for throwing the party to get all the details
of organizing this event.
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Once the guest list is ready you will need to send out “save the date” e-mails or cards. If
the budget is tight and does not allow for a lavish celebration you can use some money
saving tips to create a grand affair. The cost of a traditional gathering at a restaurant,
can be shrunk considerably by keeping the party on a weeknight rather than a weekend.
If there is an option then select a cash bar or serve a selection of appetizers instead of a
full dinner or just cut down the guest list.
Once the couple has decided on the type of party, guest list and budget, it’s time to dive
into the details of the event itself. Location is one of the most important things. The
venue sets the tone for the evening. Once again, think of the couple. Did they get
married on a beach? If so, consider holding the party on a boat, or at a waterfront
venue. Consider their love for maybe wine, art or golf. A number of wineries, museums
and country clubs offer event spaces. There are plenty of private restaurant dining
rooms, banquet and church halls, community centers and outdoor gardens available for
rent. Just remember that not every space comes fully equipped with everything that you
may need. Many community centers, for instance, lack kitchens. Depending on your
choice of party venue, you may have to hire a vendor or two to provide food, tables and
chairs, glassware, linens, etc. Likewise, if you decide to host the wedding anniversary
party at home, you may want to supplement with extra tables, chairs, silverware,
glassware, etc. Depending on the season and size of the crowd, you may also consider
renting a tent and a port o potty or two.
Once again, the amount and type of food and drinks you provide depends on the style
of the party, the anniversary couple’s preferences and your budget. Food and
beverages are usually the biggest line item when it comes to an anniversary
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celebration. Will it be finger food or a full dinner? Will you serve wine and beer or have a
full bar? Having your party at a restaurant, hotel or country club simplifies the food and
beverage process. If you’re using a hall or community center, be sure to take stock of
what they do and don’t accommodate and plan the anniversary party accordingly. You
might, for instance, want to hire a full-service caterer who can supply not only the food
and drink, but all the other accessories as well.
If the couple decides to host the party at home, there are several points to consider.
Bring in a caterer—even if it’s just one person to help prep and serve so that you can
enjoy the party. Hiring a cleaning person to come in the day before the party and the
day after is also money well spent. In the event of a tight budget, a buffet may be the
way to go. Buffets are usually cheaper than sit down dinners and the variety is a good
get around against picky eaters. You might consider ordering trays of food from a
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favorite restaurant. Here are some guidelines on how to calculate how much food and
drink to have on hand. Always remember that it’s always better to err on the side of too
much when it comes to food and beverage.
Beer or wine: two glasses per guest
Hors d’oeuvres: two of each type per guest
Buffet dinner: order for 75% of the guest list
Lastly, no silver wedding anniversary party would be complete without champagne for a
toast, and some kind of dessert. Do not stock too much champagne; most guests will
take only a sip for the toast.
The traditional dessert is a cake, often some version of a wedding cake with a 25th
anniversary cake topper. But don’t be a slave to tradition. If the couple loves pies, then
pies it is!
This is a milestone wedding anniversary, so if the couple is planning a more formal
celebration, you could consider getting engraved invitations. A classy touch, engraved
25th wedding anniversary invitations also make nice mementos, especially if you
incorporate some elements from the couple’s original wedding invitation. Letterpress is
the gold standard for engraved invites. Whatever you choose, plan to send invitations 4-
6 weeks in advance—sooner for out-of-state guests. Also, make sure the invitation
translates the kind of event you’re planning so that guests will know what to expect and
what to wear. Is it a surprise party? Is there a theme? You don’t want the ladies showing
up in cocktail dresses if you’re hosting a square dance. For a surprise party make sure
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that whatever trick the friends use to get the couple to the 25th wedding anniversary
party is attire-appropriate. Don’t tell them you’re taking them to a Cowboys’ game if
you’re planning a formal sit-down dinner.
Decorating is where you can really let your creative side shine. Think outside the box
and have lots of fun with decorations. The color scheme for a traditional 25th wedding
anniversary celebration is silver. The occasion’s traditional flower is the iris. However,
unconventional ideas are welcome these days. Try and get the couple’s family or
friends to prepare a slideshow of the best moments of the couples’’ time together.
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INVITATIONS
Invitations for an anniversary party should be sent out at least 6 weeks in advance. The
invitations should be written using proper etiquette. All the phrasing should be in the
third person. Try to avoid using abbreviations and always spell out days and dates. In
case this is an adult only gathering do not write “kids are not invited”. Mention the dress
code at the very bottom of the invite if it is a black tie event.
Alternatively, consider using printed invitation cards or e-vites to send out invitations via
email. If the occasion is an informal occasion such as a Cook out/barbeque or, in the
case of a house party or Pitch-in dinner you want people to bring a item, make sure
you've included this information on the invite. To cover all bases try to co-ordinate the
dishes although refrain from making it prescriptive.
FOOD
No matter what kind of party you're planning, there will most likely be some kind of food
involved. If the party is planned at a hotel or restaurant, the food can be provided by the
location, so be sure to get quotes for the food along with the room rental fee. If it is an
informal celebration, at an outdoor setting then use caterers for the food.
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Toasts, whether formal or informal, are a nice touch for
anniversary celebrations. Toasts are usually given by
the host or hosts (usually children or grandchildren),
and sometimes by the anniversary couple as well. It's
fine to keep them short, simple and to the point.
It is often effective to focus on each partner as an
individual and to celebrate his or her qualities, which
will help set the direction and plan of the party. Consult
the clients on the type of anniversary cake desired. If
they wish to replicate their wedding cake, offer them illustrations of the different styles
available.
GIFTS
Instead of bringing individual gifts, guests may be asked to contribute to the cost of a
bigger gift, such as a vacation package, a spa retreat, or even a painted portrait of a
couple. Party favors are very common these days; check your local stores or online
options, and consider customizing favors for each guest.
FAMILY REUNIONS
More and more people are planning family reunions these days. We still long for the
simple social structure where the family members are found living within a few miles of
each other. A family reunion is a much needed contact that is slowly disappearing. A
CONSIDER THIS..
It is often effective to focus
on each partner as an
individual and to celebrate
his or her qualities, which
will help set the direction
and plan of the party.
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family reunion is a way of capturing some of this warmth. It gives an individual a sense
of belonging in an extended family.
TYPES OF REUNIONS
Family reunions may be held annually or at longer intervals. There are various types:
Casual: The simplest reunion is a casual backyard or outdoor picnic or barbecue.
Spring and summer are the best seasons for outdoor reunions. Choose a
location with plenty of trees and shade, and include activities that suit an outdoor
setting.
Formal dinner: This is typically a sit-down meal at a good restaurant or in a
private home. This kind of reunion is relatively easy to plan, requiring only
choosing the venue, making reservations, sending out invitations, and planning
activities.
Outdoor reunions in theme settings: These are held in more elaborate settings,
e.g., in a theme park or on an ocean cruise. They require more significant
planning, including a detailed budget and timeline.
Before you start planning the reunion, take time to understand the clients’ needs and
the personalities of family members. Ask these questions:
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What is the most appropriate date for the event?
How many guests are expected, and what are their ages?
What are the accommodation arrangements for out-of-town guests?
Do the clients have a theme in mind?
What kinds of activities and games are preferred?
Are there food preferences or dietary restrictions?
Who will make the final decisions (budget, schedule, invitees, etc.)?
Will the event be paid for by an individual or jointly?
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IMPORTANT ELEMENTS OF A REUNION
Selecting a date for a family reunion can be a daunting task. Allow adequate time for
planning, both for you and for the family members, especially if they have to travel long
distances and have other commitments. Try to avoid long holiday weekends, when
accommodations and traffic can be challenging and the invitees may already have
plans. It may be a good idea to plan a reunion around a milestone birthday or
anniversary.
Many families hold reunions during the summer because none of the kids would need to
miss school. But there are long school-holiday weekends throughout the year that can
open up your family's options for location and expense. Poll potential participants to
gauge their interest in attending a reunion and also get a feel on the date and place.
You can do this informally by phone, by mail or even through email. Don't ask open-
ended questions. Give a few specific choices to help build a consensus.
Once the date is set, the next task is to create the guest list. Ask the clients if they
would like to invite the extended or just the immediate family. Choice of venue is
determined partly by the number of people attending the reunion. It is a good idea to
create a mailer and send it out to the relatives to determine how many people will be
attending and what kind of reunion they would prefer. Include a preaddressed, stamped
return envelope in the mailing.
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For small reunions, this ‘location’ can be at someone’s home in the backyard (having
grass would be nice). But for larger reunions, you may want to consider a park,
campground, a nice resort, or maybe even a theme park. Wherever you choose, make
sure there is adequate lodging.
Planning to feed everyone will be one of the
most challenging jobs to accomplish. For a one
or two day reunion, many families ask everyone
to bring along a few prepared dishes. If that's
the case, the most important job you'll have will
be making sure you don't get ten of the same
dishes and nothing else. Assign each family a
category of food so that you'll have a good
distribution among the courses. Many families
like to assemble a heritage cookbook. You can
ask everyone to bring the recipe for their dish to
the reunion and then have someone gather all
of the recipes to turn into a cookbook. However,
if no one in the family feels like cooking for this
party, you can feed your group at a restaurant,
or bring in a caterer to handle all of the meal
details.
CONSIDER THIS..
Planning to feed everyone
will be one of the most
challenging jobs to
accomplish. For a one or
two day reunion, many
families ask everyone to
bring along a few prepared
dishes. If that's the case,
the most important job
you'll have will be making
sure you don't get ten of
the same dishes and
nothing else
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The season chosen for the event will naturally determine the sorts of activities planned.
Warm weather suggests a barbeque, camping, a picnic, and outdoor games. In the
winter, renting a condo or suites at a ski resort can provide excellent recreation and
ambiance. Some activities are suited to any season: you can organize a story-telling
session where each family member shares memories, or hire a photographer if the
family wants professional photos of the event or a family portrait. But be careful not to
over plan activities. Always allow for flexibility, remembering that the main purpose of
the reunion is simply to bring family members together. Too much structure may
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interfere with this goal. Be alert for signs of this problem during the reunion, and
postpone or cancel activities if you feel that they are burdening the attendees.
Large family reunions, often involve many young children of varying ages. Things can
get pretty chaotic when the kids get warmed up, requiring more attention than the
grownups might want to give as they catch up with distant relatives. But with a little
advance planning, there are a variety of things you can do to keep the little ones busy
and everyone happy.
In order to accomplish this you can hire an entertainer or a magician to keep the kids
busy. A baby sitter can be hired to take care of very young napping babies. Also plan on
setting up some craft tables for older kids and arrange for some toys for them to play
with.
Whether your reunion is large or small, it's nice to have a "Welcoming address" to kick it
off. It doesn't have to be long, about five to ten minutes unless there is a really good
speaker in the family. A good welcome address, starts by welcoming everyone to the
reunion, thanking them for coming and gives a general outline of the day's (or
weekend's) festivities.
PREPARE FOR THE UNEXPECTED
As the saying goes, "Hope for the best but prepare for the worst." Make sure you have
backup plans as there should always be a contingency.
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If your reunion is an outdoor affair, make sure you have plans in case it rains
(even if those plans are to stay outside and play around in the mud).
Make sure you have extra everything (food, plates, silverware, game
accessories, et cetera). It is almost a given that someone will forget something.
There is no reason why you should have to do everything yourself. Hire some help or
get the family members volunteer with some of the arrangements. Make sure you
contact family members and ask them if they can help out beforehand. Make sure you
have a cleanup crew otherwise you might be stuck doing all the cleanup yourself. The
most important thing to remember is not to expect everything to go exactly as
planned. It never, ever works that way. Be flexible to the inevitable changes in the
reunion plan.
Most importantly, make sure you (or someone you assign) takes as many pictures as
possible or perhaps hire a professional photographer. You will have a lot of memories
of your well-planned family reunion, and pictures will make sure that those memories
stay fresh and remembered.
BABY SHOWERS
A baby shower is an opportunity to pamper an exhausted mother-to-be. If planned well,
it will distract her from third-trimester discomforts and possibly allay some of her pre-
labor jitters. Planning begins by asking the planners—the mother herself or her friends
or family—what they want in the baby shower. Know your budget and the guest list
before choosing the venue, theme, food, and favors.
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THE GUEST LIST
Ask the mom-to-be or other client (the person throwing the shower) to prepare a list with
all the contact details. Find out if this is a ladies-only event or if men and children will be
attending as well.
BABY-SHOWER GIFT REGISTRY
A baby-shower gift registry makes gift giving simple. Shower guests can check the
registry online and pick a gift according to their budgets. This ensures that guests won’t
have to spend a lot of time looking for the perfect gift, that every gift is unique, and that
the mom-to-be receives items that she actually wants and needs.
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BUDGET
Create a plan based on your budget. Planning a baby shower does not require large
amounts of money. You can keep it simple and fun by using your creativity and asking
for help from family and friends. The budget checklist should include these items:
Invitations
Food
Decorations
Rentals (chairs, tables)
Location reservations (if the shower is not held at home)
Games and prizes
Favors (if they are normal for your area)
Tableware (napkins, plates, utensils)
Table centerpiece (cake, diaper cake)
Gifts
To facilitate shopping, assign a dollar amount to all of these items. Keep the budget
flexible to allow for adjustment as you plan. Holding the shower at a friend’s home will
save on the rental cost.
THEME
These days almost all baby showers have a theme. Consult with the client on the theme
and discuss the budget restrictions. If it is a surprise shower, keep the mother’s tastes in
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mind. Planning is easier if the mother knows the sex of the baby. Creative themes for
baby showers include nursery, teddy bear, alphabet, polka dots, princess, and many
more. An online search will give you more ideas and allow you to purchase decor.
TIME AND PLACE
Date and venue are other important points to discuss with the client. Most showers are
held on weekends to make it easy for people to attend. It is always wise to pick a couple
of backup dates. For an intimate gathering, the best location is the house of a relative or
friend. A community hall is better for large showers. In fair weather even a park can
work.
INVITATIONS
Invitations can be purchased at a local party store or online. You may also choose to
make them yourself, bearing in mind that making invitations is very time consuming and
requires buying supplies, which can be more expensive than readymade invitations. Be
sure to put the date, time, location, and directions on the invitation, along with
instructions to RSVP.
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DECORATIONS
Decorations are a very important aspect of a baby
shower, and should be chosen in accordance with
shower’s theme and location. Simplicity and
elegance are as important as creativity. The use
of excessive and unnecessary decorations will
make cleanup more difficult. Before shopping for
decorations, determine if the venue imposes any
restrictions on hanging banners or taping
streamers and balloons.
Tableware includes serving trays, extra
tablecloths, silverware, glasses, hot plates, extra
chairs and tables, etc. It too can be chosen to
accord with the theme. Dinner plates should be
suited to the menu items—i.e., don’t buy flimsy
plates than cannot bear the weight of the food. Plan to provide at least three plates per
person for the main course and one cake plate per person, with a few extras to avoid
leaving anyone empty handed.
CONSIDER THIS..
Decorations are a very
important aspect of a baby
shower, and should be
chosen in accordance with
shower’s theme and
location. Simplicity and
elegance are as important
as creativity. The use of
excessive and unnecessary
decorations will make
cleanup more difficult.
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A table centerpiece can be placed on the cake-cutting table if the event does not feature
a sit-down lunch or dinner. The centerpiece should fit the theme of the shower. Varieties
include an edible cake, diaper cake, creative display of favors, flowers, and a cupcake
tier. These items can be purchased at your local party store or online. If time permits,
you can also make them yourself or with the help of friends and family.
ACTIVITIES AND GAMES
Games and activities create a fun environment and be used as an icebreaker at parties
where the guests do not know each other. Choose the games wisely, avoiding the
awkwardness of intimate games between unacquainted people, and forestall tedium by
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planning no more than two or three games. Include a mix of active and less-active
games to please all guests. Homemade baby-shower games can take some time to put
together, so be sure to set aside the necessary time in your planning schedule. You can
also buy printable games, most of which are quick and easy to use. It is wise to allocate
a time period for each game so that you don’t overrun the schedule, including time for
explaining the game to the guests. Don’t forget to provide wrapped prizes for winners of
the games.
FOOD
Showers are usually very casual parties with buffet-style food arrangements where
finger food can be served. This setup allows the guests to mingle with each other. Food
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will be one of the biggest expenses on your list. Decide if you want to serve just snacks
or a full-course meal. Look for a caterer who can give you multiple menu options. You
can also cater part of the food yourself, and the family and friends can take part in a
potluck arrangement. Potlucks are more personalized than catered meals and offer a
wide variety of choices.
FAVORS
When you plan a baby shower, don’t forget to prepare some favors for the guests to
thank them for coming. Popular favors include scented candles, bath and body soaps,
small picture frames, and small flower pots. When selecting baby shower favors, try to
stick with practical items that your guests will be able to enjoy and use after the party.
You can make your own favors or buy readymade ones.
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END OF MODULE FOUR
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MODULE FOUR: ASSIGNMENTS
INSTRUCTIONS
The objective of these Assignments is to demonstrate a good understanding of
concepts presented in this Module.
Complete these assignments by preparing your responses to the tasks described
below.
A maximum of 100 points can be earned by completing all assignments.
The minimum passing score is 70 points. If you are graded with less than 70
points, the Assignments must be revised and re-submitted.
You are welcome to send a draft of your assignment and our faculty can work
with you to finalize your assignment, before it is graded.
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ASSIGNMENT 1 – 30 POINTS
Conduct research on one social event of your choice, either online or by attending a
local event. Prepare a report related to this event.
Describe at least three aspects of social event management presented in this
Module
Describe things you believe could have been improved and state how you would
improve upon them
ASSIGNMENT 2 – 40 POINTS
You are asked to plan a 16 th birthday party for a client’s daughter. Your client intends to
host a Hollywood theme birthday party at a local restaurant. Prepare a report using the
following guidelines:
Prepare a list of questions will you ask the client when you first meet them.
Recommend three birthday party games to your client.
Suggest theme ideas and approximate cost for a cake (call a local bakery for this
information). Determine the cost and facilities available at a local restaurant for
20 people (call a local restaurant for this information).
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ASSIGNMENT 3 – 30 POINTS
You have been tasked to plan a family reunion for the Jones family. Provide creative
ideas for location, catering, invitations to attendees, activities and create a budget for
this event.