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Hancock, K., Keast, H., & Ellis, W. (2017). The impact of cyber dating abuse on self-esteem: The mediating role of

emotional distress. Cyberpsychology: Journal of Psychosocial Research on Cyberspace, 11(2), article 2. doi:

10.5817/CP2017-2-2

The impact of cyber dating abuse on self-esteem: The mediating role of

emotional distress

Kaitlin Hancock, Haley Keast, & Wendy Ellis

King’s University College at Western University, London, ON, Canada

Abstract

This study examined how emotional distress mediated the relationship between cyber dating abuse and self-

esteem. Participants were 155 undergraduate students (105 females; 50 males) ranging from 17 to 25 years old

(M = 19.38, SD = 1.65) with dating experience and a minimum relationship duration of 3 months. Self-report

assessments of cyber dating abuse, self-esteem, and emotional distress from the relationship were completed.

Mediation analysis using multiple regressions revealed a full mediation model. Cyber dating abuse predicted

lowered self-esteem and greater emotional distress. However, when emotional distress was entered as a

predictor of self-esteem, cyber dating abuse became non-significant, indicating full mediation. Early-onset of

dating was also a risk factor for cyber dating abuse and emotional distress. Few gender differences were evident.

These findings add to the growing body of evidence on the negative effects of cyber dating abuse and suggest

that distressing emotional reactions may underlie the deleterious consequences of this form of abuse.

Keywords: Adolescent dating relationships; cyber dating violence; self-esteem; emotional distress; emerging

adulthood

Introduction

Romantic relationships commonly begin in early adolescence and increase in significance and stability over time

(Smetana, Campione-Barr, & Metzler, 2006). Reports indicate that by the end of high school, over 75% of

emerging adults are involved in romantic relationship (Smetana et al., 2006). The development of romantic

relationships is commonly linked to positive adjustment and increased levels of perceived support (Collins,

Welsh, & Furman, 2009). Unfortunately, not all individuals receive such benefits from their intimate

relationships. Dating abuse is a common experience among emerging adults that has significant consequences

for mental and physical well-being (Liu, Yu, & Ma, 2014). In particular, negative effects of dating abuse have been

found on an individual’s self-worth (Rill, Baiocchi, Hopper, Denker, & Olson, 2009). According to the National

Centre of Injury Prevention and Control (2016), dating abuse involves using psychological, physical, emotional,

and/or sexual behaviors to gain and maintain power and control over one’s partner in a romantic relationship.

The pervasive use of technology among youth has further complicated abusive behaviors in the dating context.

Cyber dating abuse is defined as abuse, threats, or harassment that is digitally perpetrated within a romantic

relationship through technology or other forms of new media such as social network sites, text messages, or

emails (Zweig, Dank, Yahner, & Lachman, 2013). Research examining cyber dating abuse has increased

considerably in recent years, but to date, most studies are descriptive in nature and there remain many

unanswered questions about the effects of cyber dating abuse on adjustment. The goal of the present study was

to investigate the relationship between cyber dating abuse and self-esteem in a sample of emerging adults (i.e.,

those within the period from the late teens through the twenties; Arnett, 2000). More specifically, our goal was to

examine how reactions of emotional distress could mediate or explain the expected relationship between the

experience of cyber dating abuse and decreased self-esteem (Katz, Arias, & Beach, 2000; Rill et al., 2009).

Traditionally, definitions of dating abuse have included physical, psychological or sexual harm occurring between

two people in a romantic relationship (Iconis, 2013; Stader, 2011). Researchers propose that the goal of this

abuse is often to manipulate the victimized partner, for example, by limiting the victim’s communication or

outside resources, forcing them to rely on the perpetrator for the fulfillment of their needs (Eshelman &

Levendosky, 2012). Cyber dating abuse overlaps with other forms of dating violence, particularly psychological

and emotional abuse; perpetrators who engage in these forms of offline abuse are also more likely to engage in

online dating abuse (Borrajo, Gamez-Guadix & Calvete, 2015). Examples of cyber dating abuse include: sending

threatening e-mails, posting hostile messages on the Internet, and obtaining personal information about the

victim without his or her consent such as from emails or texts. Cyber dating abuse is distinguished from

traditional violence in two primary ways, both associated with easier perpetration (Melander, 2010). First,

technology is quite accessible and relatively easy to use, making these behaviors quick and easy to execute.

Second, the electronic medium allows the perpetrator to easily turn private matters public, thus intensifying the

victim’s feelings of vulnerability. This vulnerability is further amplified by the inescapable nature of cyber dating

abuse, due to the allowance of constant communication, easier monitoring of a partner’s whereabouts, and

added methods of privacy invasion (Patchin & Hinduja, 2010; Wright, 2015). These unique characteristics suggest

that cyber dating abuse may be more harmful than other types of dating abuse because of the perpetual

accessibility technology offers. In recent studies, prevalence rates as high as 50% have been reported for cyber

dating abuse (Borrajo et al., 2015).

Exposure to dating violence in all forms during emerging adulthood is associated with a wide range of negative

outcomes involving diminished relationship quality (Marcus, 2004) and individual adjustment, including low self-

esteem (Katz, et al., 2000), substance use (Eshelman & Levendosky, 2012), school dropout (Kaukinen, 2014), and

feelings of depression and anxiety (Hanson, 2002). To understand these negative outcomes in greater detail,

researchers have often sought to explore the impact of specific types of dating violence (e.g., Ellis, Crooks, &

Wolfe, 2009). However, the victims of dating violence typically experience a combination of two or more types of

emotional, physical, psychological, or sexual abuse. Furthermore, those who experience multiple sources have

the highest rates of mental health symptoms (Eshelman & Levendosky, 2012). Cyber dating abuse specifically,

tends to coexist with other forms of dating aggression and is highly correlated with experiences of psychological

abuse (Temple et al., 2016; Zweig, Lachman, Yahner, & Dank, 2014). Therefore, an assessment of cyber dating

abuse likely implicates other abusive behaviors. The relative effect of cyber dating abuse on adjustment is largely

unknown at this time; however, in one study, adolescents reported psychological aggression to be more

unpleasant than physical aggression (Jouriles, Garrido, Rosenfield, & McDonald, 2009).

One consistent finding in research demonstrating effects of dating abuse on adjustment is the negative impact

of abuse upon an individual’s self-esteem (Göncü & Sümer, 2011; Katz et al., 2000; Rill et al., 2009; Robinson &

Cameron, 2012). Using traditional definitions of physical, emotional, and sexual dating abuse, studies have found

lowered self-esteem, increased feelings of inferiority, and self-defeating beliefs among victims (Göncü & Sümer,

2011; Longmore & Demaris, 1997; Sawangchareon et al., 2013). It has also been noted that low self-esteem is

linked to low satisfaction in romantic relationships and less commitment to one’s partner (Downey & Feldman,

1996; Katz et al., 2000; Rill et al., 2009). An individual’s self-esteem is likely tied to their intimate relationships

because of the fundamental need for positive acceptance (Leary & Baumeister, 2000). According to sociolocation

theory (Burton, Halpern-Felsher, Rehm, Rankin, & Humphreys, 2013), dating and other types of relationships

contribute to an individual’s “sociolocation”, defined as the “social self-location” or “self-identification and

recognition of social integration through relationship” (Burton et al., 2013, p. 804). From an evolutionary

perspective, humans who belonged to social groups were more likely to survive and reproduce. Self-esteem is

often defined as an internal representation of social value. Studies show that a partner’s evaluations clearly

affect one’s own self-evaluations (Leary, Tambor, Terdal, & Downs, 1995). As such, individuals are likely to collect

self-perceptions from patterns of interactions between themselves and their romantic partners. According to

this view, individuals are constantly assessing their perceived rejection or acceptance by their partners.

According to Rusbult’s (1980) investment model of relationships, commitment to a relationship is affected by the

level of satisfaction, investment, and attractiveness of other alternatives. This suggests that higher rates of

satisfaction and investment, and lower rates for attractiveness to other alternatives predict a more committed

relationship. This model illustrates the stability of some abusive relationships. A study conducted with abused

women (Rusbult & Martz, 1995) found that feelings of commitment were higher for women who were heavily

invested in their relationship (being married), had lower economic alternatives (not having a safe place to live),

and had experienced less dissatisfaction within the relationship (experienced less severe abuse). In a like

manner, people who engage in cyber dating abuse may have heavily invested in the relationship and may not

consider cyber dating abuse a serious offense.

When involved in abusive dating relationships, victims often experience persistent jealous reactions, anger, and

a lack of proper conflict resolution strategies (Korchmaros, Ybarra, Langhinrichsen-Rohling, Boyd, & Lenhart,

2013; Orpinas, Hsieh, Song, Holland, & Nahapetyan, 2013). In terms of cyber dating abuse, victims experience

behaviors from partners that violate their trust, make them feel untrustworthy or are inconsiderate. For

instance, hacking into emails or the feeling of being monitored could result in feelings of inferiority. Over time,

these exchanges may lead to diminished feelings of worth, distress or fear, and lower self-esteem. Emotional

distress in the relationship context involves feeling unworthy of the partner’s love and respect. In the present

study, we measured emotional distress reactions including guilt, anger, and hurt experienced in response to

their dating partners. According to the above theoretical explanations of self-esteem, individuals will gauge these

emotional reactions and formulate perceptions that they are an incompetent partner, leading to diminished self-

esteem.

A secondary goal of the present study was to assess gender differences in cyber dating aggression. In traditional

assessments of dating violence prevalence rates, mixed findings have been noted. One study reported a higher

proportion of women perpetrating verbal and physical aggression towards their partners (Munoz-Rivas, Gomez,

O’Leary, & Lozano, 2007). In numerous other studies, however, females reported being victimized more than

males (Eshelman & Levendosky, 2012; Hanson, 2002; Iconis, 2013). Few studies have examined rates of cyber

dating aggression; however, a study by Burke, Wallen, Vail-Smith, and Knox (2011) showed that females tend to

perpetrate this cyber aggression more than males, especially in terms of e-mail monitoring. Similarly, Zweig et al.

(2013) found that females perpetrated more non-sexual cyber dating abuse than did males. Dick et al. (2014)

noted that females also reported more cyber dating abuse victimization than males. However, when it comes to

sexual dating abuse, both traditional and cyber, males report as much as twice the amount of female

perpetration (Foshee, 1996; Zweig et al., 2013).

In summary, the goals of the present study were to: a) examine the relationship between cyber dating abuse and

self-esteem; b) examine emotional distress responses as a mediator of the relationship between cyber dating

abuse and self-esteem; and c) examine rates of cyber dating abuse and possible gender differences. More

specifically, it was hypothesized that emotional distress would be a mediator of cyber dating abuse in negatively

predicting self-esteem. Survey data was collected from a sample of first year university students to address

these goals.

Method

Participants and Procedure

A total of 155 undergraduate students (105 females; 50 males), ranging from 17 to 25 years of age (M = 19.38, SD

= 1.65), participated in this study. Female participants ranged from 18 to 25 years of age (M = 19.17, SD = 1.58),

while males ranged from 17 to 25 years of age (M = 19.96, SD = 1.98). Participants were recruited from

Introductory Psychology classes in a Canadian University. Introductory Psychology students received bonus

marks for completing a related assignment. The participants included only those who were currently in a dating

relationship or those who had a recent dating relationship within the past year, and both with a minimum

relationship duration of three months. If students did not meet these eligibility requirements they had the

opportunity to participate in other studies where they would receive the same amount of bonus marks.

The study was approved by the University’s Ethics Review Committee. Participants were recruited by an online

system directed towards Introductory Psychology students. The online system provided students with the title of

the study, a description of the tasks required of the participants, and the approximate length of time it would

take to complete the study.

Upon registering for the study, participants were sent an e-mail containing a link to the study and an electronic

copy of the research participation assignment. Participants followed the link and logged-in to the survey by using

their student username and password. The data was not connected to their student username. Consent was

administered to the participants electronically, where they were assured that their participation was confidential

and anonymous, and that they could withdraw from the study at any time while still receiving credit for their

participation. Upon completion of the study, debriefing forms appeared on the final page of the survey which

included the purpose of the study, the researchers’ contact information, and the contact information of the city’s

Distress Centre. The survey took approximately 15 minutes to complete.

Measures

Participants first answered demographic questions (e.g., age, gender), including four questions about their

dating habits; these questions pertained to their sexual orientation, the length of their most recent relationship,

the total number of relationships in their lifetime, and the age at which they began dating.

Cyber dating abuse. The 14 cyber dating abuse questions were taken from Picard (2007). Two items pertaining

to sexual cyber dating abuse were excluded as it was thought that they might cause the participants significant

distress. The items focused on various forms of abuse occurring within the past year (e.g., threats, humiliation,

harsh comments) committed through a variety of social mediums (e.g., texts, e-mails, chats, social networks).

Responses were made on a likert-type format consisting of four anchors: “never”, “rarely”, “sometimes”, and

“often”. Items and participants’ responses can be found in Table 1. For the purposes of the present study the

participants’ responses were averaged across all 14 items. The 14 items pertaining to cyber dating abuse had a

Cronbach’s alpha of .79.

Self-esteem. Using the Rosenberg (1965) Self-Esteem Scale, participants rated 10 items on a 4-point likert-type

scale (e.g., “I feel that I’m a person of worth, at least on an equal plane with others” and “All in all, I am inclined to

feel that I am a failure”). Response options were “Strongly disagree”, “Disagree”, “Agree”, and “Strongly agree”.

Five items were reverse-scored, as they are negative in valence and the 10 items were averaged to create a final

score. The scale had a Cronbach’s alpha of .88.

Emotional distress response. Participants’ emotional distress in the context of their dating relationship was

measured using 7 items taken from the Quality of Relationships Inventory (Pierce, Sarason, & Sarason, 1991).

Seven items were selected that specifically reflect the participant’s emotional response or pattern of emotional

reactions within the relationship. Example items include: “How angry does this person make you feel?”; “How

upset does this person make you feel?”; and “How much does this person make you feel guilty?”. The scoring for

the questionnaire is based from a 5 point likert-scale with anchors including “never”, “hardly ever”, “sometimes”,

“many times”, and “most of the time”. The 7 items were averaged to create one score for this variable. The

Cronbach’s alpha for this revised scale was .87.

Results

Analysis of Measures

First, all measures were examined with a confirmatory principal components analysis to determine the

dimensionality of our scales.

The factorability of the 14 item Cyber Dating Abuse Scale was examined using principal component analysis with

Varimax rotation. The analysis extracted four factors, accounting for 33%, 13%, 8% and 7%, respectively. There

were 10 items extracted for the first component. However, it was also noted that all 14 items correlated

significantly with at least one other item, suggesting it was reasonable to use a unidimensional scale. Also, the

Kaiser-Meyer-Olkin measure of sampling adequacy was .80 above the recommend value of .6 and Bartlett’s test

of sphericity was significant (X 2 = 596.13, p < .01). All scores were averaged across the 14 items to yield a final

score for each participant.

The factorability of the 10 item Self-Esteem Scale was also examined using principal component analysis with

Varimax rotation. The analysis yielded a single factor and accounted for 51% of the variance. It was observed

that 10 items correlated significantly with at least one other item, suggesting reasonable factorability. Also, the

Kaiser-Meyer-Olkin measure of sampling adequacy was .88 above the recommend value of .6 and Bartlett’s test

of sphericity was significant (X 2 = 725.60, p < .01). All scores were averaged across the 10 items to produce a final

number for each participant.

The factorability of the 7 items for the Emotional Distress Response was also examined with a principal

component analysis with Varimax rotation. This was a unidimensional scale and accounted for 57% of the

variance. It was observed that 7 items correlated significantly with at least one other item, suggesting reasonable

factorability. Also, the Kaiser-Meyer-Olkin measure of sampling adequacy was .86 above the recommend value

of .6 and Bartlett’s test of sphericity was significant (X 2 = 525.83, p < .01). All scores were averaged across the 7

items to produce a final number for each participant.

Descriptive Information on Participant’s Dating Experiences

The sample was first analyzed to determine information about the participants’ dating experiences and identify

any important covariates. Most participants reported that they started dating at age 14-16 (63%; M = 15.49 years,

SD = 1.82), with a range of 11-20 years of age. The majority of participants reported that they were involved in 1-

3 relationships (80%; M = 2.65, SD = 1.76), with a range of 1-12 relationships. Approximately 67% (105) of

participants reported they were involved in an intimate relationship during the study, while 33% (50) reported

they were not. For those who were in a relationship, participants’ reported that the length of their current

relationship ranged from 3 months to 8 years (M = 21.70 months, SD = 1.53) For those who were not in a

relationship, participants reported that the length of their past relationship ranged from 3 months to 5 years (M

= 13.90 months, SD = 12.72). The majority of the participants reported that they were involved in heterosexual

relationships; 150 participants reported that they were involved in opposite-sex relationships, while 5

participants reported being in same-sex relationships.

Frequencies of Cyber Dating Abuse Behaviors

Participants reported the frequencies of being a target of cyber dating abuse on 10 items and are listed in Table

1. The most common behavior (77%) involved participants receiving text messages from their partners checking

up on them (e.g., where are you, what are you doing, who are you with). The second most common behavior

(43%) involved participants being shouted at by their partners over the phone. Ten percent of participants

reported never to all items and 14% of the sample experienced 5 or more of the cyber dating abuse behaviors

that were examined.

Correlations and Gender Differences Among Variables

Correlations were computed among self-esteem, dating experience and demographic variables (see Table 2).

Both cyber dating abuse and the hypothesized mediator (emotional distress) were significantly correlated with

self-esteem. Emotional distress and cyber dating abuse were both related to an earlier onset of dating and more

frequent relationships. The number of total relationships was significantly correlated with the age of dating and

length of relationships, such that participants who reported dating on-set at younger ages reported more, and

longer relationships. These correlations did not differ significantly by gender.

There were no overall gender differences in the composite score for cyber dating abuse. However, t-tests were

used to compare rates for each response item. Only one difference was found for the item “used your social

networking site without your permission”. More females (25%; M = 1.28 (.58)) reported this behavior than males

(8%; M = 1.08 (.28), t(153) = 2.99, p < .01, d = .48).

Table 1. Frequencies of Reported Cyber Dating Abuse.

Behavior Percentage (CI)

Received text messages from their partner checking up on them (e.g., where are you, what

are you doing, who are you with)

78% (.72-85)

Partner shouted at you over the phone 42% (.03-.12)

Partner made you feel afraid when they did not respond to cell phone calls, texts, postings

on social networking page, or instant messages

18% (.10-.21)

Partner sent participant instant messages or chats that made you feel scared 14% (.17-.18)

You had been harassed or put down by your partner on social networking websites 15% (.07-.18)

You had been sent threatening text messages by your partner 14% (.32-.48)

Partner used your social network account without permission 14% (.01-.07)

Partner sent you so many messages (texts, emails, chats) that it made you feel scared 14% (.01-.07)

Partner posted embarrassing photos or videos of you online 12% (.07-.18)

Partner taken a video of you and sent it to his/her friends without your permission 11% (.07-.18)

Partner spread rumors about you using a cell phone, IM, Webchat or social networking site 8% (.02-.09)

Partner wrote nasty things about you on his/her profile page 4% (.01-.06)

Partner created a profile page (like Facebook, MySpace or YouTube) about you knowing it

would upset you

3% (.06-.16)

Partner threatened to harm you physically though a cell phone, text message or social

networking page

3% (.01-.07)

Table 2. Means, standard deviations and correlations among self-esteem, cyber dating abuse, emotional

distress and dating variables.

M (SD) 1 2 3 4 5 6 7

1. Self-Esteem 2.96 (.37)

2. Emotional Distress 3.80 (.63) -.38**

3. Cyber Dating Abuse 1.26 (.28) -.16* .48**

4. Length of relationship

reported

19.02months

(16.61)

.003 .10 -.10

5. Age of First Relationship 15.64 (1.69) .07 -.21* -.22** -.22**

6. Total Number of

Relationships

2.47 (1.47) -.17* .18* .16* .16* -.47**

7. Age 19.30 (1.53) .09 -.09 -.04 .29** .17 .09 .09

8. Gender 1.31(.46) .29** .10 .12 -.02 .08 .06 .20*

Note: N = 153, * p < .05, **p < .01

Differences in Relationships Reported

To determine if participants differed depending on their reported current relationship status, t-tests compared

average levels of cyber dating abuse, emotional distress, and self-esteem between those who reported on their

current dating relationship and those who reported on a previous dating relationship. As expected, participants

who reported being involved in a current dating relationship had less cyber dating abuse (M = 1.18(.15), t(153) =

4.27, p < .01, d = .72), lower emotional distress (M = 3.33 (.57), t(153) = 4.84, p < .01, d = 1.25), and higher self-

esteem (M = 2.89 (.34) t(153) = -2.07, p < .05, d = .32) than those who were reporting about past relationships

(Ms(SEs) = 1.38 (.38), 4.04 (.53), 3.00(.38), respectively). Given these differences, all regression analyses were first

tested with current relationship status as a covariate and as a moderator of cyber dating abuse and emotional

distress. However, relationship status was not significant in any equation and all results remained identical and

relationship status was subsequently removed from all analysis.

Hypotheses

The hypothesis of the present study was tested using multiple regression analysis in SPSS version 21. To

examine the possibility that emotional distress was a mediator of cyber dating abuse in predicting self-esteem, a

series of regression analyses were first computed. As recommended by Baron and Kenny (1986), three

regression analyses were performed following an examination of variable correlations. All variables in this study

were significantly correlated and mediation testing was warranted (see Table 2). For the first regression, cyber

dating abuse was regressed upon the criterion variable, self esteem (step 1). In the next regression equation,

cyber dating abuse was entered as a predictor of emotional distress (step 2). According to Baron and Kenny

(1986), if step 1 and 2 are significant, a mediation test is acceptable. For step 3, the mediator (emotional distress)

and predictor variable (cyber dating abuse) were simultaneously regressed upon the criterion variable (self-

esteem). If the relationship between the predictor and criterion variables was reduced to an effect of no

significance while the relationship between the mediator and criterion remained significant, then a full

mediation would be supported.

Hierarchal linear regression was used for each step in testing the mediation model. In each equation, age and

gender were entered into the first block to control for these variables. To test for moderating effects of age and

gender, interaction terms were created using recommendations from Aiken and West (1991) and entered in the

final step of the third regression. There were no significant interactions between gender, age, and cyber dating

abuse or gender, age and emotional distress in predicting self-esteem. Given no significant interactions were

found, these variables were subsequently removed from equations.

Because the first two paths were significant, mediation analyses were tested using the PROCESS macro and

bootstrapping method with bias-corrected confidence estimates (MacKinnon, Lockwood, & Williams, 2004;

Preacher & Hayes, 2004). In the present study, the 95% confidence interval of the indirect effects was obtained

with 5000 bootstrap samples (Preacher & Hayes, 2008).

Step 1. The first regression analysis was computed to determine whether cyber dating abuse could predict levels

of self-esteem. This model was significant, F(3, 152) = 7.650, p < .01, and accounted for 13.4% of the variance in

self-esteem. As shown in Table 3, gender was a significant predictor of self-esteem, indicating that females

reported lower levels of self-esteem than males. Cyber dating abuse was also a significant, negative, predictor of

self-esteem and showed that participants who reported higher levels of cyber dating abuse also reported lower

levels of self-esteem.

Step 2. The second regression was computed to determine whether cyber dating abuse could significantly

predict levels emotional distress as the second step of the mediation model. This model was significant, F(3, 151)

= 18.54, p < .01, and accounted for 28% of the variance in emotional distress. As shown in Table 2, neither age

nor gender was a significant predictor of emotional distress. Cyber dating abuse did significantly predict higher

levels of emotional distress.

Step 3. A third regression was computed to determine whether emotional distress could be a mediator of cyber

dating abuse in predicting self-esteem. Age and gender were entered into the first block of the equation and

both cyber dating abuse and emotional distress were added together in the second block. This model was

significant, F(3, 151) = 10.82, p < .001, and accounted for 23% of the variance in self-esteem. As shown in Table 3,

only emotional distress emerged as a significant predictor of self-esteem and cyber dating became non-

significant when the variables were entered simultaneously. The final model was tested using the bootstrapping

method with bias-corrected confidence estimates (MacKinnon et al., 2004; Preacher & Hayes, 2004). Results of

the mediation analysis confirmed the mediating role of emotional distress in the relationship between cyber

dating abuse and self-esteem (Table 3, CI = -.45 – -.13). In addition, results indicated that the direct effect of cyber

dating abuse became non-significant when controlling for emotional distress, suggesting full mediation.

Table 3. Regression steps testing the mediation of emotional distress on the relationship between

cyber dating abuse and self esteem.

Variable Beta (CI) SE t Variance

accounted

Step 1: Predicting Self-Esteem from Cyber Dating Abuse

Age .05 (-.03; .05) .02 .58

Gender .30 (.11; .37) .07 3.74** 9.2%

Cyber Dating Abuse -.20 (-.48; -.07) .10 -2.56* 13.2%

Step 2: Predicting Emotional Distress from Cyber Dating Abuse

Age .10(-.15; .03) .04 .21

Gender -.20(-.09; .50) .15 -.11 2.0%

Cyber Dating Abuse .51(-2.00; 1.14) .21 7.19** 28.2%

Step 3: Mediation Model Predicting Self-Esteem from Emotional Distress and Cyber Dating Abuse

Age .05 (-.02; .06) .02 .67

Gender .30 (.11; .37) .07 3.82** 9.8%

Cyber Dating Abuse .001 (-.24; .24) .12 .01

Emotional Distress -.36 (.08; .25) .04 -4.24** 22.7%

Note: Age and Gender were entered together in the first block, * p < .05, ** p < .01

Discussion

In line with previous research (Eshelman & Levendosky, 2012; Hanson, 2002), the results of this study

demonstrate the negative relationship between dating abuse and well-being among emerging adults. The

results of this study were consistent with our main hypothesis that cyber dating abuse is a significant negative

predictor of self-esteem. Furthermore, we found that cyber dating abuse is a significant positive predictor of

emotional distress, and that emotional distress fully mediated the relationship between cyber dating abuse in

predicting self-esteem. The emotional response that is elicited when partners engage in cyber dating abuse may

account for decreased self-esteem.

According to Leary’s (1999) Sociometer Theory and Burton et al.’s (2013) Sociolocation Theory, humans have a

natural drive to maintain significant relationships. Self-esteem acts as a monitor, searching for cues to determine

whether the individual is being accepted or rejected in a relationship. The concept of the sociometer aligns with

our notion that it is not necessarily the cyber dating abuse that is directly tied to self-esteem, but rather the

emotional distress that occurs when an individual is faced with distrust, criticism, guilt, and anger from pervasive

abusive behaviors. Abusive cyber behaviors that are used to monitor a partner’s whereabouts signal that they

are not a trustworthy partner and devalue their contribution to the relationship. Recipients of cyber dating

abuse are at risk for maladjustment because they are likely to make negative interpretations about themselves.

This notion of increased emotional distress leading to poorer self-esteem may be similar to other negative

mental health outcomes that occur when an individual experiences abuse. It has been found that dating abuse

can elicit symptoms related to anxiety, depression, or post-traumatic stress (Hanson, 2002). As such, it is

probable that cyber-dating abuse may be linked to other types of disorders as well.

Our results showed that an earlier onset of dating and more frequent relationships are related to both high

emotional distress and increased cyber dating abuse. This is in accordance with previous research showing that

early onset dating is considered to be a risk factor for negative relationships and interactions (Connolly, Pepler,

Craig, & Taradash, 2000; Hanson, 2002). Emerging adults who are involved in dating relations at a young age

may have multiple risk factors for violent dating relationships, including a family history of violence (Olsen, Parra,

& Bennett, 2010). It is possible that younger adolescents may be lacking knowledge or proficiencies to cope with

intense dating relationships and all forms of dating abuse. Given that the stability of dating violence among

youth into adulthood has been well-documented (Foshee, 1996), school programming that involves education

on cyber dating abuse would be beneficial at an early age.

Although there were no broad level gender differences in the present study, as stated previously, contradicting

results have emerged in the field. Some research suggests that women tend to be the perpetrators in verbal and

physical aggression (Munoz-Rivas et al., 2007), yet women also report being victimized more often than men

(Marquart, Nannini, Edwards, Stanley, & Wayman, 2007). This study provides support that men and women

equally report abuse and their mode of communication technology may only differ marginally. It is likely that

each mode of communication could serve a different purpose based on the type of reaction the perpetrator is

expecting. For example, sharing a hurtful or insulting comment regarding one’s romantic partner on a social

media website may receive a different response compared to someone sending a text message, with the exact

same content, directly to their partner. This difference in response may vary depending on whether the message

is private or public. For example, a public message or comment on Facebook allows the opportunity for others

to publicly respond and potentially agree with hurtful or demeaning comments. In contrast, a hurtful or

threatening private text message personally attacks and isolates the receiver. In the present study more females

reported that a partner used their social networking site without permission. Females are higher consumers of

social media (Valenzuela, Park, & Kee, 2009) suggesting this may be a key method for partners to track their

behaviors. However, in previous research, it has been noted that females are more likely to monitor a partner’s

e-mail accounts and believe that this is acceptable behavior (Burke et al., 2011). This remains an important

consideration for future research as it is difficult to make accurate conclusions based on one item.

Our results also show that cyber dating abuse is a frequent issue among youth in our sample. Previous work has

found prevalence rates of up to 50% -54% for cyber dating abuse (Borrajo et al., 2015). In the present study, we

have found that 10 - 15% of youth reported involvement in eight of the areas assessed. One item asking

participants about receiving text messages from their partner checking up on them was endorsed by 78% of the

sample. This item clearly reflects a common behavior among dating couples, which may not always signify dating

abuse and may reflect both controlling and friendly behaviors. Despite this ambiguity, there is evidence that

even vaguely hurtful behaviors could provoke anxiety or criticism and have harmful effects (Madlock &

Westerman, 2011). One important consideration with ambiguous behaviors in the dating context may involve

frequency. Checking-in on a partner once a day is quite different than checking-in every hour and may lead to a

different interpretation of the partner’s motivations (Alexy, Burgess, Baker, & Smoyak, 2005). Moreover, there

may be developmental differences in the victim’s interpretation of these behaviors.

Study Limitations and Implications

Given the correlational nature of this study, it is difficult to determine the temporal ordering of abuse, emotional

distress, and self-esteem. It is important to note that ruminating on one’s emotional distress may be

perpetuating, as opposed to triggering, lowered self-esteem. Much like the cyclical nature of abuse, the process

of cyber dating abuse is a continuous one, where the repetition of the negative message is related to the

intensity of emotional distress (Temple et al., 2016). Self-verification theory (Swann, 1983) posits that individuals

with low self-esteem may be drawn to partners who abuse and mistreat them, as they prefer feedback that

confirms their pre-existing negative self-views. The concern is that, due to this desire for self-verification,

individuals with low self-esteem would remain in an abusive relationship. This concern was explored in research

by Katz, Street, and Arias (1997), which found that women with low self-esteem who attribute the cause of their

partner’s violence to themselves are more likely to forgive their partner and maintain the abusive relationship.

Although the correlation of cyber dating abuse and self-esteem may be partially explained by emotional distress,

it is possible that psychological abuse can also share this same relationship. Psychological abuse is a form of

mistreatment that involves mental or emotional pain or injury, which can include, but is not limited, to verbal

aggression (i.e., statements intended to humiliate, insult, or threaten an individual; O’Leary & Maiuro, 2004).

Thus, psychological abuse and cyber dating abuse share many of the same methods of presentation, such as:

relational aggression, demeaning language, and threatening behaviors. In fact, studies have shown that cyber

dating abuse is related to offline dating abuse, particularly psychological abuse (Borrajo et al., 2015; Zweig et al.,

2013). Cyber dating abuse could also encompass many types of abuse, including sexual and verbal acts of

aggression. It remains to be determined whether the medium through which these behaviors are expressed,

such as phones and computers, has any additive effect on adjustment. Future studies should assess the relative

contribution of cyber dating abuse to more traditional measures.

Another point for consideration is the dyadic nature of the romantic relationship context. It would be worthwhile

to consider the factors that contribute to self-esteem of both partners in a relationship and how this may change

over time. Robinson and Cameron (2012) found an additive effect within dating relationships, such that both

partner’s self-esteem levels combine in order to determine relationship quality. Similarly, there is considerable

overlap in both victimization and perpetration and each partner is likely to experience some level of retaliation.

Thus, the overall volatility of the relationship will also have consequences for adjustment.

Finally, although efforts were made to encourage equal participation, there was significant discrepancy in the

number of males versus females that participated in the study. As participants were recruited on a voluntary

basis, it was difficult to control this discrepancy. Therefore, any speculations made involving gender should take

this into account. The sample was also drawn from a population of first-year undergraduate university students,

which may limit the generalizability of the results. For example, as the participants were recruited from a low-

risk population, it is possible that well-adjusted university students are less likely to experience dating violence.

Conclusion

In summary, the present study shows that cyber dating abuse is negatively related to self-esteem among

emerging adults. Only recently have researchers interested in dating violence begun to study cyber dating abuse

as a separate category of behavior, and the majority of studies to date are descriptive in nature. We have shown

that emerging adults who report cyber dating abuse also experience emotional distress and lowered self-

esteem, possibly as a consequence of these controlling behaviors. Moreover, the relative number of youth who

report abusive cyber behaviors is comparable to other studies on cyber dating abuse (Zweig et al., 2013;

Melander, 2010). With these results in mind, current programs aimed at the prevention of dating abuse should

be careful to incorporate information specific to cyber dating abuse.

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Correspondence to:

Wendy Ellis

King’s University College at Western University

266 Epworth Ave, London, ON

Canada N6A 2M3

Email: wendy.ellis(at)uwo.ca

About Authors

Kaitlin Hancock began this project when she was an undergraduate student at King’s University College.

Haley Keast began this project when she was an undergraduate student at King’s University College.

Wendy Ellis is an associate professor at King’ University College. Her research interests are in the area of dating

abuse, bullying and other risk-taking behaviors among children and emerging adults.

Editorial record: First submission received on May 18, 2016. Revision received on January 18, 2017. Accepted for

publication on April 18, 2017.

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