Critical

Gottman Love Map Questions

1. Name two of my closest friends 2. What is my favorite musical group, composer, or instrument? 3. What was I wearing when we first met?

4. Name one of my hobbies. 5. Where was I born? 6. What stresses am I facing right now? 7. Describe in detail what I did today, or yesterday.

8. When is my birthday? 9. What is the date of our anniversary?  

10. Who is my favorite relative? 11. What is my fondest unrealized dream?

12. What is my favorite website? 13. What is one of my greatest fears or disaster scenarios? 14. What is my favorite time of day for lovemaking? 15. What makes me feel most competent? 16. What turns me on sexually? 17. What is my favorite meal? 18. What is my favorite way to spend an evening?  

19. What is my favorite color? 20. What personal improvements do I want to the least?

21. What kind of present would I like best?  

22. What was one of my best childhood experiences? 23. What was my favorite vacation? 24. What is one of my favorite ways to relax?  

25. Who is my greatest source of support (other than you)?

30. What is my favorite movie?

31. What are some of the important events coming up in my life? How do I feel about them?  

32. What are some of my favorite ways to work out? 33. Who was my best friend in childhood? 34. What is one of my favorite magazines? 35. Name one of my major rivals or enemies.  

36. What would I consider my dream job? 37. What do I fear the most? 38. Who is my least favorite relative? 39. What is my favorite holiday? 40. What kinds of books do I most like to read?  

41. What is my favorite TV show? 42. Which side of the bed do I prefer? 43. What am I most sad about? 44. Name one of my concerns or worries. 45. What medical problems do I worry about?  

46. What was my most embarrassing moment?  

47. What was my worst childhood experience?  

48. Name two people I most admire. 49. Name my favorite ice cream flavor. 50. Of all the people we both know, who do I like 51. What is one of my favorite desserts?  

52. What is my social security number? 53. Name one of my novels. 54. What is my favorite restaurant? 55. What are two of my aspirations, hopes, make in my life? 56. Do I have a secret ambition? What is it?  

57. What foods do I hate? 58. What is my favorite animal? 59. What is my favorite song? 60. Which sports teams is my favorite?