| LOVE ATTITUDE SCALE (Hendrick and Hendrick, Styles of Loving) |
| | Strongly Agree | Agree | Neutral | Disagree | Strongly Disagree |
| 1. My lover and I were attracted to each other immediately after we first met. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
| 2. My lover and I have the right physical chemistry between us. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
| 3. Our lovemaking is very intense and satisfying. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
| 4. I feel that my lover and I were meant for each other. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
| 5. My lover and I became physically involved very quickly. (My lover and I became emotionally involved rather quickly.) | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
| 6. My lover and I really understand each other. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
| 7. My lover fits my ideal standards of physical beauty/handsomeness. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
| 8. I try to keep my lover a little uncertain about my commitment to him/her. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
| 9. I believe that what my lover doesn't know about me won't hurt him/her. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
| 10. I have sometimes had to keep two of my lovers from finding out about each other. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
| 11. I can get over love affairs pretty easily and quickly. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
| 12. My lover would get upset if he/she knew of some of the things I've done with other people. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
| 13. When my lover gets too dependent on me, I want to back off a little. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
| 14. I enjoy playing the "game of love" with a number of different partners. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
| 15. I did not realize that I was in love until I actually had been for some time. (It is hard to say exactly where friendship ends and love begins.) | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
| 16. I cannot love unless I first had caring for awhile. (Genuine love first requires caring for awhile.) | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
| 17. I still have good friendships with almost everyone with whom I have ever been involved in a love relationship. (I expect to always be friends with the one I love.) | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
| 18. The best kind of love grows out of a long friendship. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
| 19. It is hard to say exactly when my lover and I fell in love. (Our friendship merged gradually into love over time.) | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
| 20. Love is really a deep friendship, not a mysterious, mystical emotion. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
| 21. My most satisfying love relationships have developed from good friendships. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
| 22. I consider what a person is going to become in life before I commit myself to him/her. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
| 23. I try to plan my life carefully before choosing a lover. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
| 24. It is best to love someone with a similar background. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
| 25. A main consideration in choosing a lover is how he/she reflects on my family. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
| 26. An important factor in choosing a partner is whether or not he/she will be a good parent. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
| 27. One consideration in choosing a partner is how he/she will reflect on my career. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
| 28. Before getting very involved with anyone, I try to figure out how compatible his/her hereditary background is with mine in case we ever have children. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
| 29. When things aren't right with my lover and me, my stomach gets upset. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
| 30. When my love affairs break up, I get so depressed that I have even thought of suicide. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
| 31. Sometimes I get so excited about being in love that I can't sleep. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
| 32. When my lover doesn't pay attention to me, I feel sick all over. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
| 33. When I am in love, I have trouble concentrating on anything else. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
| 34. I cannot relax if I suspect that my lover is with someone else. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
| 35. If my lover ignores me for a while, I sometimes do stupid things to get his/her attention back. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
| 36. I try to use my own strength to help my lover through difficult times. (I try to always help my lover through difficult times). | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
| 37. I would rather suffer myself than let my lover suffer. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
| 38. I cannot be happy unless I place my lover's happiness before my own. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
| 39. I am usually willing to sacrifice my own wishes to let my lover achieve his/hers. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
| 40. Whatever I own is my lover's to use as he/she chooses. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
| 41. When my lover gets angry with me, I still love him/her fully and unconditionally. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
| 42. I would endure all things for the sake of my lover. | 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 |
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