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Day 7: Loomings
BA 411: Financial Planning I
Stephen Summers
Beginning a New Job
Whatever kind of ship you sign up for…
It’s going to be a new challenge
The honeymoon period vanishes fast
How Do You Navigate Change?
Change is always difficult
Many of us just want to get it over with as quickly as possible
The sooner I’m back on the OK Plateau, the better I’ll feel
Challenge in Change
Challenge yourself to be opportunistic about change!
Use a new job as a reason to work on other things that matter to you
One goal is completed: you got a job. Now what goal will arrive in its wake?
Don’t Just Look at the Job: Look at Yourself
Look at your morning routine:
Does it need to adjust?
Will you have a new mode of transit?
Will you need to leave earlier, later for work?
Will you budget more/less money for the commute?
Find a carpool? Bus line?
Will your breakfasts change?
Will you start eating breakfast?
Will you finally start working out?
What about your nights?
Sleeping more/less?
Earlier bedtimes?
Packing lunch the night before?
Collecting your things before the last minute?
Beginnings are Crucial!
The way that you start a new job will become your new routine
If there are goals you want to accomplish, in or out of work, prioritize them immediately
The power of habit is that you can make yourself do anything, as long as you start doing it today
It’s easy to put off change—especially when you’re already facing change—but now is the best time to create a better routine
Think of this as a “sensitive learning period” for your work brain
Beginnings are Crucial!
And your routine goes two ways:
The way you dress, act, speak, and work the first day, week, and month, will become the identity your colleagues see
Moderation in all things:
Ask questions, be interested, but don’t pester
Be friendly, but don’t dig too deep on day one
Share interests and goals unless they’re weird
Offer some kind of positive image or interest
Unless you’re Aristotle, leave your hat at home
Practice is Your Friend
Practice and plan ahead for your commute, your wardrobe, even your conversations, if it makes you feel more confident
People will forgive a lot, if it seems like you’re trying
An easy way to appear to be trying, is to be on time (early), be attentive, be flexible, and be interested
Arrange Your Space
Coming to a cubicle or office or some horrific “open office plan” without any of the comforts of home, can be alienating
Bring a unique item on your first day that you can stash on your desk:
This will remind you of your larger values, identity, purposes
Help you see your workplace as your own
Invite others to engage with you on a more personal level
Make this new place feel a little less new
Speaking of Which…
Your goal on day one is not to understand the entirety of the organization or the work, or the tasks ahead
It’s to make as many meaningful connections as you can reasonably make
Focus on the people, not the problems, as the people you will be working with will be the ones helping you solve any other problems
Credibility comes from connections as much from experience
Networking is Tough
When easy networking opportunities appear, always take advantage
If you get a lunch or happy hour invite—you better go!
Getting a jump-start on the casual side of professionalism will help you
Getting to know your coworkers on multiple levels will help you find a good fit faster
If they want you to attend the retreat your third day on the job—do it!
When Lunch Is Over
Identify required trainings, organization reading materials, orientation work, or other items that you can check off
It’s good to feel like you’ve accomplished something on day one
Otherwise, it’s a lot of stress for not much positive feedback
If you’re expected to get right to work, don’t be afraid to ask a lot of questions: at this point, everyone expects it, and a question is better than a mistake
Target Your Best Friends
Find out who you’ll be working alongside
Try to sell the sense that you’re invested and will have questions, but are competent enough not to need total hand-holding
Pick up on the way others speak; there will always be acronyms to learn and jargon to decipher, but also consider style and tone
Volunteer if a need shows up; this goes a long way toward becoming a credible, capable, flexible coworker
When You Don’t Know What to Do
Have a notebook and pen with you at all times (bring one from home to be safe)
Write down what people are explaining, or take a few notes on your training materials, or identify some key points from the meeting and write it down
These notes will be a help when you don’t know who or what to ask
They will also give the impression that you’re somebody who takes a job seriously
It’s also a solid place to write down names/descriptions if you need to
When You Don’t Know What to Say
Smile, laugh politely, joke gently
Be confident with introductions
Shake hands
Be genuine
Have something to say!
What’s your elevator pitch? Does it need an update?
Who are you?
What are you doing?
Why is it necessary?
How will you get it done?
Consider Future Goals
Most jobs will have you busy from Day 1
What if your job doesn’t work that way?
Find professional development
Develop relevant skills
Ask around for opportunities
Allow yourself to breathe
One Win on Day One
Find a small “win” as soon as you can, something you can check off your list, something to make you feel like you can be a success here
Make a quality edit to a project
Suggest a specific change to a pitch
Add a clarifying PowerPoint slide
Clean up the rows of a spreadsheet
Help somebody with a familiar software task
But, Actually—Don’t Change!
In the midst of all this changing, remember:
They hired YOU for a reason
You don’t have to become somebody else to do this job
Even if you did have to, you’d have a hard time keeping up the ruse
Here’s a nice rundown:
Here’s a handy checklist
Print it out and check it off on your first day, if it helps!
Find it online: https://www.chairoffice.co.uk/blog/how-to-survive-your-first-day-at-the-office-infographic/
Having a plan beats the alternative!
Epilogue—
“And I only am escaped alone to tell thee.”
After the day ends…
…feel free to go home and cry
But know that tomorrow you won’t cry quite as long!
References
https://hired.com/blog/highlights/greatfirstday/
https://www.themuse.com/advice/8-tips-for-rocking-your-first-day-at-a-new-job
https://www.glassdoor.com/blog/first-day-behavior/
https://www.topresume.com/career-advice/tips-for-success-on-day-one-of-your-new-job
https://www.nerdwallet.com/blog/loans/expert-advice-8-tips-succeed-first-day-work/
https://www.chairoffice.co.uk/blog/how-to-survive-your-first-day-at-the-office-infographic/