Intro to Marr/Fam Couns

REFLECTION 5

Reflection: Genogram

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Reflection: Genogram

By preparing the genogram, I gathered intergenerational data about my roots. This was significant in understanding my identity from ancestry. Creating a spiritual genogram allowed me to collect data across generations regarding my religious and spiritual customs, practices, beliefs, and experiences, which is important in understanding an individual's identity. Making a family genogram is a good technique for a visual representation of and a better understanding of the family tree. Genograms are diagrams that illustrate family links, patterns, and history. The genogram allowed me to gain a better understanding of my family as well as the consequences of various circumstances.

Genograms have an extremely significant role in the process of determining the conduct of members of a family. By conducting a detailed investigation of our family tree, I am in a position to explain the actions of various family members. On the other hand, I have developed some coping mechanisms that help me get through various traumatic experiences. As a result, neither the nature of my previous relationship nor the state of my second husband's health has ever impacted my life. I have traced my lineage through the genogram, which is essential in understanding my origin. My genogram has provided me with a point of reflection on my ancestry and how I fit within my family, connecting why various traits are illuminated in my behavior or other family members.

My sense of belonging has drastically improved through genogram development. I have learned that my family is diverse, and the challenge that we have faced and triumphed so far. Learning about oneself is the single most enlightening act that can be done. Learning more about my ancestors, participating in family rituals and traditions, embracing my culture, and understanding where I originated will help me better our family's resilience. It can improve both your sense of self-worth and your sense of belonging. However, life is challenging through the genogram. I have learned that it used to be far more challenging. There is a good chance that previous family members were affected by horrific tragedies and emotional suffering. They have likely had to contend with challenges that appear to be insurmountable. However, they were able to prevail over them. Learning about their experiences and how they overcame adversity can instill the grit you need to keep going and make you more resilient in situations in which you are confronted with obstacles.

My experience with developing the genogram has enhanced my cultural competency. This has enabled me to appreciate the nature of diversity and how it takes place in a family, which has contributed to my cultural competency. When developing this genogram, I took a lot of time asking my parents about my ancestry to become accurate in developing the genogram. During the process, I undertook the responsibility to ask my parents about my genealogy while digging deeper to understand the different cultural issues involved in our family. This provided me with a deeper insight into the composition of our family. By learning about our culture during the process and that of others, I became culturally aware of the issues involved in my culture and others. This is a significant improvement from the previous state, where I only had the knowledge of my culture, parents, and grandparents. As stated in the spirituality of the genogram, developing a genogram helps in, "spiritual genogram provides a method for students and supervisees to become aware of how their religious or spiritual heritage impacts therapeutic work with their clients" (Frame, 2001, p. 114). This was also reflected in my process of developing the genogram. The genogram also gave me a deeper understanding of my spirituality and that of my family, which is critical in developing interpersonal relationships. I understood our inclination to Islam, our devotion to the religion, and that we adopted it from our ancestors who were also Muslims, and our culture, predominantly Islam.

Experience in Sharing It with Others

When I shared my genogram with others, it was a delightful experience as my peers got to learn about my spirituality and cultural identity. When I shared my genogram with a friend, it provided us with an opportunity to connect with them. He was able to learn from my history, understanding my genealogy while at the same time inspiring him. My friend learned about the challenges my family has been through and how we have triumphed over these challenges. This made him appreciate our resilience even more and understand the role of our spirituality in overcoming these issues. My experience sharing the genogram with a friend helped me be a better human because I also had the opportunity to go through the genogram of others. It helped unleash a grateful, cheerful, empathic, and compassionate aspect of myself. One of the greatest lessons I learned from sharing the genogram is the lesson my friend, whom I happened to share it with, gave me. My friend enlightened me that knowing more about my ancestors should help me understand what health issues run in our family. The genogram, which is more significant, helps one identifies you’re their risk factors. Therefore, it assists in leading a healthy lifestyle and in making wise health-related decisions. The exchange of ideas through exchanging the genogram with my friend facilitated the sharing of information between us which is critical in being understanding and creates awareness amongst us.

Reference

Frame, M. W. (2001). The spiritual genogram in training and supervision. The Family Journal, 9(2), 109-115.