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LISTENING
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[ Our Agenda • The Nature of Listening
• Ways of Listening
• Common Barriers to Effective Listening
• Becoming a Better Listener
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[ The Nature of Listening Listening is the active process of making meaning out of another person’s spoken message
• Listening is active, not automatic
• Listening requires more than just hearing
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[ The Nature of Listening (Styles) People have various listening styles that represent differences in their goals for listening
• The people‐oriented style emphasizes concern for other people’s emotions and interests
• The action‐oriented style emphasizes organization and precision
• The content‐oriented style emphasizes intellectual challenges
• The time‐oriented style emphasizes efficiency
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[ The Nature of Listening (Importance) Listening effectively is important
• We spend much of our waking day listening
• Good listening skills are essential in the workplace, families, and social relationships
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[The Nature of Listening (Misconceptions) Misconceptions about listening
• Myth: Hearing is the same as listening
• Myth: Listening is natural and effortless
• Myth: All listeners hear the same message
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[The Nature of Listening (Culture and Sex) Culture and sex affect some dimensions of listening behavior
• Expectations for directness
• Nonverbal listening response
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[ Ways of Listening The HURIER model explains the stages of effective listening
• Hearing
• Understanding
• Remembering
• Interpreting
• Evaluating
• Responding
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[ Ways of Listening (Listening Types) People often engage in these types of listening:
• Informational listening
• Critical listening
• Empathic listening
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[ Ways of Listening (Informational) Informational listening means listening to learn
• We engage in informational listening when taking notes in class, watching the news, or paying attention to driving directions
• Informational listening is a relatively passive process
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[ Ways of Listening (Critical) Critical listening means listening to evaluate or analyze something
• We engage in critical listening when we pay attention to a commercial to see whether we want to buy a product
• Critical listening doesn’t necessarily mean criticizing what we are hearing; rather, it means evaluating what we are hearing
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[ Ways of Listening (Empathic) Empathic listening means trying to understand what the speaker is thinking or feeling
• Perspective‐taking helps us understand a situation from another’s point of view
• Empathic concern is the ability to identify how someone is feeling and to experience those feelings ourselves
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[ Ways of Listening (Online) Effective listening can occur online as well as face‐to‐face
• It is possible to find people online, such as in support groups, who can listen actively and empathically to what you have to say
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[Ways of Listening (Online Suggestions) To be an effective listener online, take note of these suggestions:
• Be attentive to what others are saying
• Remember that words can be misinterpreted
• Don’t be a lurker
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[Common Barriers to Effective Listening Noise is a barrier to effective listening
• Noise is anything that distracts us from listening to what we wish to listen to
• Some noise is physical
• Some noise is psychological
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[Common Barriers to Effective Listening (Pseudolistening) Pseudolistening and selective attention are barriers to effective listening
• Pseudolistening means pretending to pay attention to someone
• Selective attention means listening only to what we want to hear
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[Common Barriers to Effective Listening (Information Overload) Information overload is a barrier to effective listening
• We are exposed to multiple messages daily
• It can be difficult to pay attention to particular messages when we have so many to process
• Information overload is especially common online
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[Common Barriers to Effective Listening (Glazing Over) Glazing over is a barrier to effective listening
• People speak more slowly than we can listen, so our minds can wander when we listen to others
• Glazing over can cause us to miss important details, listen uncritically, and make it appear as though we are not listening
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[Common Barriers to Effective Listening (Rebuttal Tendency) A rebuttal tendency is a barrier to effective listening
• Rebuttal tendency means debating a speaker’s point and formulating a reply while the person is still speaking
• A rebuttal tendency requires mental energy that should be spent listening and can cause us to miss details
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[Common Barriers to Effective Listening (Closed‐Mindedness) Closed‐mindedness is a barrier to effective listening
• Closed‐mindedness is the tendency not to listen to anything with which you disagree
• Many people are closed‐minded only about certain issues, not about everything
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[Common Barriers to Effective Listening (Competitive Interrupting) Competitive interrupting is a barrier to effective listening
• Competitive interrupting means using interruptions to take control of a conversation
• Most interruptions are not competitive
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[ Becoming a Better Listener (Informational) Becoming a better informational listener
• Separate what is and is not said
• Avoid the confirmation bias
• Listen for substance more than style
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[ Becoming a Better Listener (Critical) Becoming a better critical listener
• Be a skeptic
• Evaluate a speaker’s credibility
• Understand probability
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[Becoming a Better Listener (Empathic) Becoming a better empathic listener
• Listen nonjudgmentally
• Acknowledge feelings
• Communicate support nonverbally
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