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COMMUNICATION AND THE SELF
3 Floyd, Interpersonal Communication, 3e
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[ Our Agenda • Understanding the Self: Self‐Concept
• Valuing the Self: Self‐Esteem
• Presenting the Self: Image Management
• Communicating the Self: Self‐Disclosure
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[ Self‐Concept • Who are you?
• Your self‐concept reflects your stable ideas about who you are
• Your self‐concept is your identity
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[ Self‐Concept (Characteristics) • Self‐concepts are multifaceted
• Self‐concepts are partly subjective
• Self‐concepts are enduring but changeable
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[ Self‐Concept (The Johari Window)
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[ Self‐Concept (Factors) Many factors affect our self‐concept
• Personality and biology
• Culture and gender roles
• Reflected appraisal
• Social comparison
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[ Self‐Concept (Self‐Monitoring) • We manage our self‐concepts through
self‐monitoring
• Awareness of how we look, sound, and affect others
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[Self‐Concept (Self‐fulfilling Prophecies) Self‐fulfilling prophecies can reinforce our self‐concept
• We have expectations based on how we perceive ourselves and others
• Our expectations prompt us to act in specific ways
• Those actions bring about the outcomes we expected
• Our self‐concepts are therefore reinforced
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[ Self‐Esteem Your self‐esteem is your subjective evaluation of your value and worth as a person
• Can influence social behavior, how you see yourself and others, and school and work performance
• Affected by culture and sex
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[ Self‐Esteem (Needs) We have three fundamental needs with respect to self‐esteem:
• Need for control
• Need for inclusion
• Need for affection
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[ Image Management Image management means adjusting our behavior to project a desired image
• Image management is collaborative
• We manage multiple identities
• Image management is complex
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[ Image Management (Face Needs) We manage three face needs:
• Fellowship face
• Autonomy face
• Competence face
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[ Self‐Disclosure Self‐disclosure is the act of intentionally giving others information about ourselves that we believe to be true but we think they do not already have
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[ Self‐Disclosure (Characteristics 1) • Self‐disclosure is intentional and truthful
• Self‐disclosure varies in breadth and depth
• Self‐disclosure varies among relationships
• Self‐disclosure is a gradual process
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[ Self‐Disclosure (Characteristics 2) • Online self‐disclosure follows a different pattern
• Self‐disclosure is usually reciprocal
• Self‐disclosure can serve many purposes
• Self‐disclosure is influenced by cultural and gender roles
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[ Self‐Disclosure (Benefits) Self‐disclosure has benefits
• Enhancement of relationships and trust
• Reciprocity
• Emotional release
• Helping others
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[ Self‐Disclosure (Risks) Self‐disclosure has risks
• Rejection
• Chance of obligating others
• Hurt to others
• Violation of other people’s privacy
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[ Self‐Disclosure (Online) Online self‐disclosure has specific challenges and risks
• Be careful what you say
• Protect your personal information
• Think twice before posting photos
• Don’t say or show something you wouldn’t want shared
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Self‐Concept (The Johari Window) (Appendix)
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Known to self and others: Open. What you know and choose to reveal to others about yourself.
Known to self and unknown to others: Hidden. What you know about yourself but choose not to reveal.
Unknown to self and known to others: Blind. What others know about you but you don’t recognize in yourself.
Unknown to self and others: Unknown. The dimensions of yourself that no one knows.