Discussion - 3

1. As Jordan's counselor, what non-verbal responses (both facial expressions and body language) would be appropriate when working with Jordan? Why?

There are a few important non-verbal responses that would be beneficial to keep in mind when working with Jordan. Because of his anxiety, I as his counselor would want to make Jordan feel as comfortable and at-ease as possible. This would include my posture being upright and keeping my head up so Jordan can see my expressions and know that I am not making disapproving looks. Even my movement and gestures would be important because body language speaks volumes. For example, I would make an effort to keep my arms uncrossed in order to show that I am open and understanding. Lastly, I believe the distance that I am from him is important. I would want to consider what is best for Jordan and whether he prefer I stand closer or further away.

2. As Jordan's counselor, observing his play is critical to understanding his word and potentially his anxiety. As you observe Jordan during free play, what components of observation (as stated in the textbook) would be important to document? Why?

First and foremost, Jordan's nonverbal behavior is one of the most important elements to observe and document. This would include paying close attention to his placement of the dinosaurs, which dinosaurs he is choosing, how he is arranging the dinosaurs, etc. Not only is the counselors body language extremely important in the counseling relationship, but noting the clients body language is important. I believe the phrase "Actions speak louder than words" is applicable in this situation. The text states that those who are generally communicating well mirror each other's body language (movement synchrony). It would be valuable for the counselor to note whether or not this was happening with Jordan.

3. As Jordan's counselor, timely verbal responses are important. Reread the client session again, then construct two "I" statements that you could you could use to gather insight into Jordan's play.

I think "I" Statements are a great way to get clients to open up without making them feel like they are under a lot of pressure. "I" Statement 1: "I see that the large dinosaurs are the ones having the battle. Tell me about the battle they're having." This statement would hopefully get Jordan to open up and explain his reasoning behind his actions. This would also give great insight to his anxiety and some of the underlying issues. "I" Statement 2: "I notice that each time the battle starts, you place the small dinosaur back under the wire basket. Tell me why that is." This also would hopefully give an explanation as to why he is doing what he is doing and maybe understand the representation behind the small dinosaur.

"I" Statement 2