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According to Bummdumal,” Traditionally, parental authority was often defined by distance, punishment, and dominance. The authority figure saw him- or herself as the sole and absolute source of power, accountable to no one, and holding no responsibility for escalation in the interaction with the child. Disciplinary harshness was viewed solely as a function of the child’s opposition” (Omer et al. 194). I agree with the author because I come from a similar background. Which such memories have negatively impacted my life, and it leads to a very dark chapter. From the cultural experience as an African, It was taboo to communicate openly or share your thoughts or goals with a parent. The parent believed that if a child is given the platform to speak their mind or expressed a dislike would lead to that child's measuring arm with the parent. It came from the infrequent experience of a parent-child bond. As an African child, our parents' knowledge of the parent-child bond was prone to maintaining fear between the child and parent or a family member. There was limited knowledge about bonding with the child and parent. The parent was responsible for providing the basic needs of the child. Such as food, health, clothing, and shelter. Growing up as a child, I got abused almost every day physically, emotionally, and mentally. I didn't know the meaning of parental love towards me as a child. There were straight boundaries set by parents. Beating and harsh punishment were the order of the day for the child. Grieve and agony soaked in my heart as a little girl.

There was not enough attention showed to me as a child. Such experience had a downplay tour on life while growing up. There was little affection given to the child to feel any security and belonging. Being a parent and learning each day about showing quality love and providing the best care to your child. When I was an adolescent, not something I would like to share with my teenage daughter. I was not giving the opportunity when it came to making decisions or choices. My mother was mostly the only person that had the authority to make choices and decisions. I never did feel safe or protected all my childhood life, even till today’s date. My mother and I still have trouble with bonding together. As a parent, I feel like continuing in the same upbringing pattern will create a gap between the daughter and mother bond. The African parent mindset related to bonding with a child is far more different from European or American parents." the anchoring function reflects the

As a parent, it is our responsibility to protect, guide, and foster our children 's growth. If the child is left unattended, misplaced in any aspect of their life will devastate their future. Good parenting is necessary at all times. With advanced technology and social media, parents seem to be more careful about who becomes friends. Due to the high demand for internet usage among teenagers, parents have to increase their interpersonal relationships and communication skills. Appropriate use of the internet will reduce the child from getting into a dangerous pursuit with cyberbullying, romantic relationships, or risky activities. Although there are positive things and resources on the internet that help build and enhance the child's mind. According to Symons, " By establishing open communication with their child about his or her internet

use, parents may create a context in which the child

is more inclined to accept

parental authority in this field, which in turn offers parents more opportunities to

support their children in becoming safe and responsible Internet users" ( Symons et la ...4). Every parent wants the best for their child, which may seem like the mother or father is too overprotective. At times, parents appear to be problematic in the mind of a child, or society sees the parent as intrusive. With regards to "The anchoring function reflects the safeguarding aspect of the parents' role, by which they keep the child from venturing into dangerous waters."( Omer et al ..195), I support the author's view. Without the guidance of a parent in the child's life, there will be so many mistakes and consequences that will envelop the child's life as a whole.

There will be challenges in achieving this goal due to peer pressure and social media with teenagers."According to Symons," By establishing open communication with their child about his or her internet

use, parents may create a context in which the child is more inclined to accept

parental authority in this field, which in turn offers parents more opportunities to

support their children in becoming safe and responsible Internet users. As a parent, it is their responsibility to ensure the child's safety and well-being are protected. One way to be successful is to create an open communication flow between the child and the parent. Maintaining a unique relationship of the parent-child bond is a big deal to the child's mind. It may be bumpy at the beginning of the road, but it will all come to play in the best way with time and perseverance. According to Dornbusch," in families with an involved

grandparent, adolescents are at less risk of anti-social behaviors (Omer et al., ..199)". This statement is accurate, and grandparent plays a significant role in a teenagers life. With a grandparent's presence in the home, it alleviates pressure on the mother or father. When you look at the world today, most parents are single and find it challenging to single-handle their child in working late and ensuring their children have all the basic needs. With the help of grandparents' presence in the home, I will minimize fatigue and anxiety for the parent to function in career and domestic lifestyle. I Had the privilege of living with my grandparents. Because of their presence, being always around me help shift me to become the woman I am today. My grandparents put in so much time teaching me a modest life to be a unique person in society.