Research paper-How parenting style affect child development
ORIGINAL PAPER
Differences in Perceived Parenting Style Between Mothers and Fathers: Implications for Child Outcomes and Marital Conflict
T. Tavassolie1 • S. Dudding1 • A. L. Madigan1 • E. Thorvardarson1 •
A. Winsler1
Published online: 25 February 2016
� Springer Science+Business Media New York 2016
Abstract The current study focused on relations between
maternal and paternal perceived parenting style, marital
conflict, and child behavior outcomes. Child participants
(N = 152) ranged in age from 3 to 9 years old. Reports
from both parents on perceived parenting style, marital
conflict, and child behavior problems were collected.
Results indicated that (a) parenting styles of mothers and
fathers were related, (b) mothers’ and fathers’ authoritari-
anism and permissiveness were associated with increased
child internalizing and externalizing behavior problems,
(c) marital conflict was significantly related to child
behavior problems, (d) when mother and father reported
parenting styles differed, increased marital conflict was
reported, (e) increased differences between mothers and
fathers in self- and spouse-perceived permissiveness were
related to increased child externalizing behavior problems,
and (f) the direction of the differences between parents (i.e.
whether a particular parent reported being more permissive
than the other) was linked with marital conflict and child
behavior problems. Namely, marital and child outcomes
were poorer when mothers saw themselves as more
authoritative than fathers and when fathers were more
authoritarian than mothers, and outcomes were better when
fathers saw themselves as more permissive than mothers
and when mothers were more authoritarian than fathers.
Implications for marital and family therapy are discussed.
Keywords Parenting � Parenting style � Child behavior � Marital conflict � Perception
Introduction
Parents each have their own parenting styles and beliefs,
and often these styles differ between parents, which can
lead to conflict (O’Leary and Vidair 2005). Marital con-
flict, defined as the presentation of negative hostile emo-
tions from parents and poor conflict-resolution strategies
between parents, has negative effects on child well being
(O’Leary and Vidair 2005). Examining mothers’ and
fathers’ perceptions of their own and their partners’ par-
enting styles as they relate to parental marital conflict and
child behavior problems is beneficial to understanding the
relationship between these constructs.
Baumrind’s classic model of parenting styles delineates
two trait axes: demandingness and responsiveness. Baum-
rind (1991) proposed four parenting styles, namely, author-
itative, authoritarian, permissive, and rejecting-neglectful.
These parenting styles relate to child outcomes (Aunola and
Nurmi 2005; Darling and Steinberg 1993; Milvesky et al.
2008; Roopnarine et al. 2006). Generally, when mothers and
fathers use more democratic, authoritative techniques of
parenting, their children tend to experience more positive
outcomes (Roopnarine et al. 2006), however parents who are
more permissive in their parenting styles tend to raise chil-
dren who are typically lower in social skills and maturity
(Baumrind and Black 1967; Milvesky et al. 2008). From
previous research, we also know that when mothers and
fathers have similar supportive parenting styles, child out-
comes tend to be more beneficial and the quality of overall
parenting tends to be better (Meteyer and Perry-Jenkins
2009; Martin et al. 2007). For example, when both parents
are supportive at age two, children’s skills in language and
math are stronger at age five (Martin et al. 2007).
Bronfenbrenner’s bioecological model, which focuses on
proximal processes, can be applied within family dynamics.
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Parents become part of the microsystem, and have the ability
to affect their children’s outcomes (Bronfenbrenner and
Morris 2006). More positive parenting styles, coupled with
higher parental monitoring tends to lead to better outcomes
for children across social and behavioral domains. Parenting
styles are also related to more specific parenting practices
that are linked with positive and negative outcomes. For
example, authoritative parents are more likely to engage in
effective scaffolding of their child’s problem solving and
foster age-appropriate autonomy in children (Berk and
Winlser 1995; Bernier et al. 2010); which from both
Vygotskian (Carr and Pike 2012) and self-determination
theoretical perspectives (Ryan and Deci 2000) are thought to
lead to increased behavioral competence and self-regulation
in children. Permissive parents are unlikely to have clear,
consistent expectations rules and consequences for chil-
dren’s behavior (Milvesky et al. 2008), which is known from
behavioral and social learning theoretical perspectives
(Granic and Patterson 2006) to lead to externalizing behavior
problems. Similarly, authoritarian parents are more likely to
use overly strict, harsh, and punitive disciplinary practices
(Milvesky et al. 2008), which can encourage child aggres-
sion according to social learning theory (Chang et al. 2003).
Although there are clearly bidirectional transactional
relations between the parent and child, with child behavior
and characteristics eliciting certain type of parenting
behaviors (Pearl et al. 2014; Zadeh et al. 2010), both lon-
gitudinal research and parenting intervention studies show
that the direction of parental behavior affecting child
behavior is stronger than child effects on parenting style
(Choe et al. 2013). Margolin et al. (2001) found that when
parenting was characterized by misperception of the part-
ner’s parental styles this led to more marital conflict and
poorer parenting. A number of other studies suggest that
child behavioral outcomes are driven by parental behavior,
be it marital conflict (Schoppe-Sullivan et al. 2007), child
rearing disagreements (Chen and Johnston 2012), or dif-
ferences in parenting styles (Martin et al. 2010).
An important aspect of parenting is the relationship
between parents. Children are often exposed to marital
conflict and this can dramatically impact their parenting
style, parenting behaviors, and the parent–child relation-
ship (Shamir et al. 2001). Marital conflict has been pro-
posed to increase instability in the socioemotional context
of the family, resulting in ineffective and inconsistent
parenting practices, which in turn leads to child behavior
problems (Linville et al. 2010). Children tend to process
marital conflict in two ways: they evaluate threat in the
environment and attempt to resolve the reason behind the
conflict. Ineffective parenting styles can also serve as a
mediator between marital conflict and maladaptive child
outcomes. That is, the stress and emotional disruption of
inter-parental conflict taps parents’ emotional resources,
not allowing them to engage in the effective parenting and
disciplinary strategies that they would have otherwise
implemented, which then leads to child behavior problems
(Schoppe-Sullivan et al. 2007).
The Emotional Security theory proposed by Cummings
and Davies (2002) suggests that when a child is exposed to
destructive parental conflict, this leads to feelings of emo-
tional insecurity, which threatens the child’s confidence and
increases the risk for child psychological problems. This
insecure parental relationship is hypothesized to mediate the
relation between a child’s exposure to marital conflict and
child behavior problems (Cummings and Davies 2002).
Chen and Johnston (2012) argued that child rearing dis-
agreements (which reflect the mother’s and father’s per-
ceptions of their disagreement) among parents uniquely
predicted child behavior problems, even after controlling for
parenting effectiveness. Parenting disagreements on child
rearing goals were a stronger predictor of child externalizing
behavior problems than child rearing behaviors (Chen and
Johnston 2012). Higher levels of parenting conflict also
relate to higher levels of externalizing behaviors in children
(Schoppe et al. 2001). O’Leary and Vidair (2005) found that
parent disagreement over childrearing and over-reactive
parenting are mediators between marital adjustment and
child behavior problems (O’Leary and Vidair 2005).
Unfortunately, most of the research in this area has been
conducted with only mother report, neglecting the important
role of fathers. Clearly, to fully understand links between
parenting styles, marital conflict, and child behavior, the
perceptions of fathers need to be included. Milvesky et al.
(2008) found an effect of paternal authoritative parenting
style on self-esteem and life-satisfaction in their children.
Vera et al. (2012) determined paternal psychopathology was
positively associated with their children’s antisocial behav-
ior with parenting style serving a mediating role. Roopnarine
et al. (2006) showed that fathers who were more authorita-
tive tended to have children who had more positive social
and behavioral outcomes. When mothers score low on
supportiveness, and fathers score high on supportiveness,
children tend to perform better on school readiness measures
(Martin et al. 2010). Father’s supportiveness generally
contributed to child’s social competence, but only when
maternal supportiveness was slightly below average (Martin
et al. 2010). These authors explained that an important
contribution of fathers is compensating for what mother’s
are lacking in their supportive parenting skills.
Rinaldi and Howe (2012) examined how parenting
styles jointly and uniquely predict child behavioral out-
comes. Authoritative parents tended to have spouses who
were fairly authoritative themselves, and parents’ rating of
themselves and their spouses were usually similar. Simi-
larity in parenting style may be a key component of having
healthy family relationships (Acitelli et al. 1993) by
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encouraging marital harmony and supporting and rein-
forcing similar parenting decisions. Additionally, the
combination of maternal permissiveness and paternal
authoritarianism was particularly predictive of children’s
externalizing behavior problems (Rinaldi and Howe 2012).
They conclude that certain pairings of parenting styles by
mothers and fathers may result in better or worse child
outcomes. Rinaldi and Howe, however, did not include a
measure of marital conflict and they did not consider
directionality of differences between parents (i.e. when
mothers are more authoritative than fathers, and vice
versa).
A few studies have assessed both parents’ styles and their
perceptions of their partner. Winsler et al. (2005) studied
similarities and differences of parenting styles as perceived
by spouses. Mothers and fathers of preschool-age children
completed the Parenting Styles and Dimensions Question-
naire (PSDQ; Robinson et al. 2001) and they found that
parents who self-reported as permissive or authoritarian
were likely to be in a relationship with a partner who shared
their same parenting style, and they also found that spouses
were fairly good at rating each other’s parenting styles
(Winsler et al. 2005). While mothers rated themselves as
more authoritative than fathers, fathers reported their wives
to be more authoritative and permissive but less authoritar-
ian than themselves. Gamble et al. (2007) conducted a
similar study with Mexican–American mothers and fathers.
They examined similarities and differences between parents
on various parenting dimensions using the same instrument
(PSDQ). In contrast to the Winsler et al. study, Gamble et al.
found more associations between parents on self-reported
authoritativeness than on authoritarianism and permissive-
ness with their Mexican–American sample. These two
studies examining perceptions of each other’s parenting
styles, however, did not include measures of child behavior
or marital conflict as outcomes of parenting styles/patterns.
Understanding perceptions of one’s own and one’s partner’s
parenting style and how that might differ from the percep-
tions of one’s partner is important not only for effective
parenting, but also for effective marital therapy and couple
counseling when couples seek help for marital dissatisfac-
tion (Blais and Renshaw 2014).
The current study evaluates relations between parents’
perceivedparentingstyles,maritalconflict,andchildbehavior
problems. It was expected that increased disagreement in
perceived parenting styles would relate to increased marital
conflict and child behavior problems. The following research
questions were addressed: (1) To what extent are parents self-
perceived parenting stylescorrelated? Are perceptions oftheir
spouses’ style associated with their own self-reported styles?
(2) Are disparities between one’s self-reported parenting
style(s) and one’s perception of their spouse’s style(s) related
to marital conflict and child behavior problems? (3) In the
context of disparities between spouse’s perceptions of par-
enting styles, does directionality matter for marital conflict
and child behavior? That is, does it matter, in terms of child
behavior and marital conflict, whether the mother or the father
is higher or lower than their spouse on a particular style?
Method
Participants
The current study aggregated data from three different
samples that contained similar parent self-report data on
parenting styles, marital conflict, and child behavior
(Madigan 2005; Thorvardarson 2000; Winsler et al. 2005).
Merging these three samples was done in order to increase
sample size, improve the power of our analyses, and yield
better parameter estimates. Since the same or very similar
measures were used across the three samples, we combined
them to strengthen our analyses.
Sample 1 (Winsler et al. 2005)
The participants of this study were 27 couples (i.e. 27 fathers
and27mothers)respondingaboutonetargetchild.Thechildren
(50 % female, age M = 48 months, SD = 1.71) attended a
university-affiliated laboratory preschool in the South that
enrolled students from the community, university faculty/staff,
and students. Accordingly, a range of socioeconomic levels
were represented (Hollingshead M = 49.85, range = 25–66).
Families had an average of 2.07 children in the home. The
fathers’ age was, M = 37.23 years (SD = 5.22) with an edu-
cation of M = 17.48 years (SD = 3.0). The mothers’ age was
M = 33.57 years (SD = 5.34), with an education of
M = 16.26 years (SD = 2.45). As reported in parental reports
on preschool enrollment forms, the ethnicity of children was
74.1 % Caucasian, 22.2 % Asian-American, and 3.7 % Afri-
can-American.
Sample 2 (Thorvardarson 2000)
Participants were 36 fathers and 39 mothers (35 were cou-
ples) from an urban and suburban mid-Atlantic region. Par-
ticipants were included in the study if they met three criteria:
(1) Two parents were working full-time, or at least 20 h a
week per parent with a total number of hours worked at or
above 60 per week, (2) both parents were married or living
with a partner of the opposite sex, and (3) there was at least
one child and no more than four children living in the home.
Adult participants ranged in age from 25 to 50 (M = 39,
SD = 6.0 for fathers; M = 36.8, SD = 5.7 for mothers).
Ninety percent of participants reported being married while
the other 10 % reported living with a partner for an average
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of 10.8 years (SD = 5.3). Eighty-three percent of the par-
ticipants reported being a college graduate, and 28 % of
those also reported holding a graduate degree or higher. The
average number of children between 3 and 10 years old per
household was 2 (SD = .64). The children’s average age was
7.2 (SD = 1.4) and 60 % were boys. Couples worked a
combined average of 80.1 h per week (SD = 20.3) and had
an average income between $101,000 and $125,000.
Sample 3 (Madigan 2005)
The participants of this study were 89 mothers responding
about a target child. Participants were recruited from local
preschools, community music and movement programs for
children, and other child/family organizations in an urban and
suburban mid-Atlantic area. Inclusion criteria for participants
were: (1) parents were required to be the child’s primary
caregiver and must live with the child for the majority of the
year; (2) parents did not have to be the child’s biological
parent,(3)ifpreviouslydivorced,parentswereineligibleifthe
divorce had occurred within the last year, and (4) parents and
child had to be fluent in English. After screening 100 inter-
ested participants for eligibility criteria, four participants were
shown to be ineligible due to a child language problem, a
developmental disorder, or coming from a single-parent
family. Six other families who were eligible either changed
their minds or were unable to schedule a time to meet with the
researcher for the study. Thus, 89 of the 100 interested fami-
lies, participated. Children were, on average, 48.47 months
old (SD = 7.29), and were 53 % female and 47 % male.
Mothers’ age ranged from 29 to 49 years old (M = 36.54,
SD = 4.25). Fathers ranged in age from 28 to 50 years old
(M = 38.52, SD = 5.15). As indicated by participants, 81 %
of the children were White/Caucasian, 3 % African-Ameri-
can, 3 % Hispanic/Latino, 3 % Asian, and 10 % identified as
‘‘other.’’ All parents were married to the child’s biological
father (with the exception of one adoptive mother) for an
average of 9.41 years (SD = 3.37). Parents’ income was
measured on a 9-point Likert scale ranging from 1
($0–20,000) to 9 (more than $300,000). The families partici-
patinghadanaverage incomeof$81,000–100,000 per year.In
this study, 84 % of mothers had completed a bachelor’s
degree and 82 % of fathers reported the same. It was reported
that 95 % of fathers were employed full time while 62 % of
mothers were unemployed at the time of the study.
Procedure
For sample 1, each parent received the questionnaires from
school, and each parent completed the surveys independently
(Winsler et al. 2005). Upon completion, parents sent the
questionnaires back to school with their child. For sample 2,
participants were brought onto a University campus and
parents were asked to complete questionnaires in a separate
room while their child participated in the rest of the study and
completed tasks with an experimenter (Madigan 2005). For
sample 3, participants were sent a package of questionnaires
(each parent received a separate set of similar questionnaires)
and were asked to complete them independently from their
spouse (Thorvardarson 2000).
Measures
PSDQ
The Parenting Styles and Dimensions Questionnaire
(Robinson et al. 1995) is a 62-item survey of self- and
spouse-reported parenting practices for parents of preado-
lescent children and this was used with all three samples.
Each item used a 5-point Likert scale ranging from never
(1) to always (5). The PSDQ examines the three parenting
dimensions of Baumrind (authoritativeness, authoritarian-
ism, and permissiveness; Robinson et al. 1995). Results of
the measure are based on a continuous scale for each
dimension of parenting. Large numbers for each parenting
style indicate a greater use of that style.
The PSDQ has been praised as one of a few instruments
available that are psychometrically sound for assessing
parenting style (Locke and Prinz 2002; Olivari et al. 2013),
and has been used in multiple cultural settings (Daglar
et al. 2011; Wu et al. 2002). Typically these multi-cultural
studies focus only on the self-report feature, and very rarely
use the measure of parents’ perception of their spouse
(Porter et al. 2005). In a recent review of the PSDQ, it was
determined that the most valuable aspect of this question-
naire is its adaptability (Olivari et al. 2013). It can be
administered to parents as a self-report, spousal-report,
retrospective report, or given to a child to report on his/her
parents; this flexibility increases the validity of the measure
(Olivari et al. 2013). Parenting styles and the relationship
between parents and children seems to be relatively
stable across time (Dallaire and Weinraub 2005). Sensitive
and more positive parenting practices are especially con-
sistent across the early years of children’s lives (Dallaire
and Weinraub 2005).
The current study used the PSDQ as a self-report and
spouse-report measure. Four ratings, thus, are possible. Each
parent rated his and her own parenting styles, and also rated
their perception of their spouses’ parenting styles on the same
items. Therefore,there was a measure ofmothers’ and fathers’
self-perceived parenting style, respectively. Additionally,
there was a measure of mothers’ and fathers’ perceptions of
their spouses’ styles, respectively. For example, a mother
would rate her perception of her spouse’s parenting style, as
well as her perception of her own parenting style. The father
when available would then do the same. Robinson et al.
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(1995), with a larger (n = 1251 total parents) sample of
school-age children measured internal consistency reliabili-
ties(Cronbach alphas) for bothmothersand fathers self-report
and reported them to be .91, .86, and .75 for the authoritative,
authoritarian, and permissive scales, respectively. For the
present,smallersampleincludingyoungerchildren,Cronbach
alphas were acceptable and ranged from .73 to .89.
For analyses, several new variables were created. First,
we took the absolute value of the difference among self-
perceived parenting styles of each parent (i.e., mother self-
reported permissiveness minus father self-reported permis-
siveness). These new variables were continuous with higher
numbers meaning there were bigger differences in self-
perceived parenting styles between the mother and the
father. The same absolute value difference scores were
calculated between parent’s report of their own style and
their perception of their partner’s style (i.e., mother self-
reported authoritativeness minus mother’s perception of her
spouse’s authoritativeness). For analyses asking about the
directionality of the differences between parents, similar
difference score variables were calculated but without taking
the absolute value. Thus, the values indicated which parent
was higher than the other on each parenting dimension.
PKBS
The measure of child behavior problems used in samples 1
and 3 was the Preschool and Kindergarten Behavior Scales
(PKBS; Merrell 1994). The PKBS can be used to assess the
behavior problems of children between three and 6 years
old. Parents were asked to complete the questionnaire which
consists of 76 items about the same target child. The items
are designed to identify three dimensions of children’s social
skills and five dimensions of behavior problems. Items are
answered with a 4-point scale ranging from never (0) to
often (3). The five dimensions of behavior problems are then
calculated to fall into two broad categories (internalizing and
externalizing behavior problems). The internalizing scale is
computed with a possible range of 0–45, with a higher
number indicating more internalizing behavior problems.
The externalizing scale is computed with a possible range of
0–81, with higher numbers indicating more externalizing
problems. The PKBS is a frequently used measure with
exceptional psychometric properties and construct validity
that is sensitive to specific differences relating social skills
with behavior problems (Merrell 1994). The Cronbach
alphas of these subscales are .90 with a test–retest reliability
of .80 for the internalizing subscale and .97 with a test–retest
reliability of .87 for the externalizing subscale (Merrell
1994). In the original published work, the construct validity
of the problem behavior subscale scales ranged from .46 to
.80 when correlated with other similar measures, and cor-
relations between the subscales and the total behavior
problems score ranging from .90 to .95 (Merrell 1994).
Within our sample, Cronbach alphas were .90 for the
internalizing subscale and .97 for the externalizing subscale.
CBCL
The Child Behavior Checklist (Achenbach and Edelbrock
1991; Heflinger et al. 2000) was completed by parents in
sample 2, referring to a specific target child. There were a
total 13 mothers and 12 fathers (12 couples, one mother’s
husband did not respond) who completed the CBCL. The
CBCL is a very widely used measure of child externalizing
and internalizing behavior problems with excellent psy-
chometric properties, validity, and test–retest reliability
(Achenbach and Rescorla 2000; Skovgaard et al. 2004;
Warnick et al. 2008). Items are rated from not true (0), to
very true/often (2). Test–retest reliabilities are .87 and .89
for the Competence and Behavior Problems scales,
respectively (Achenbach 1991). For the eight categories,
Cronbach’s alphas ranged from .62 to .92 for 4–11 year old
boys, and from .66 to .92 for 4–11 year old girls (Achen-
bach 1991). For our sample, Cronbach alphas, averaged
across boys and girls, were .90 for the internalizing sub-
scale, .93 for the externalizing subscale, and .96 for total
behavior problems. Overall internalizing and externalizing
behavior subscales were used.
When both mothers and fathers reported on child behav-
ior, the two standard scores were averaged. When only
mother or father reports were available for a child, that parent
report was used. Using combined mother-father reports of
child behavior problems increases reliability and reduces the
problem of single-source bias (using the same individual to
provide both parenting style and child behavior data). Other
studies often use one parent’s report with questionnaire data
when the other parent report is unavailable (Martin et al.
2007). For the purpose of the current study given that a
different scale was used for sample 2, we combined the
CBCL and PKBS into master internalizing, externalizing and
total behavior problem scores. T-scores from the CBCL were
converted to standard scores in order to be easily compatible
with standard scores from the PKBS). When both mothers
and fathers reported on child behavior, the two standardized
scores were averaged and put into a master internalizing,
externalizing, and total behavior problems score. When both
parents’ reports were not available, either the mother or
father report was included in the master internalizing,
externalizing, and total behavior problems variable. Com-
bining the PKBS and CBCL is justified given that these two
measures of child behavior problems have been shown to be
highly correlated (Brassard and Boehm 2007). The CBCL
and PKBS measure the same constructs (internalizing,
externalizing, and total behavior problems) according to their
manuals, and use the same type of standardization
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procedures, and are highly correlated with one another,
lending support to our decision to combine them.
CPS
The Conflicts and Problem-Solving (CPS; Kerig 1996) scale
was used to measure marital and interparental conflict for
sample 3 (n = 89 mothers). The CPS is a reliable and
commonly used measure of marital conflict that is especially
accurate in measuring marital conflict through self-report or
spousal report (Kerig 1996). The measure consists of 84
items which are comprised by four conflict dimensions
(frequency/severity, degree, efficacy, and outcome) and six
strategy subscales (cooperation, avoidance/capitulation,
stonewalling, verbal aggression, physical aggression, and
child involvement). Parents rated the items on a scale from
not a problem at all (0) to a severe problem (100). They were
then asked to rate the amount of time (percentage) that dis-
agreements were resolved from never (0) to always (100).
Furthermore, parents were asked to rate how often they use
strategies such as ‘‘Talk it out with partner’’ using a scale
ranging from never (0) to often (3). Lastly, parents were
asked to rate on a scale from never (0) to usually (3) how
often outcomes of disagreements such as ‘‘The whole family
ends up feeling upset’’ occur. For the four conflict dimen-
sions, Kerig (1996) found alphas ranging from .75 to .98.
Further, the current sample found alphas of .76 to .91. Alphas
for the six strategy subscales ranged from .70 to .87
according to Kerig (1996), and .73–.89 in the current sample.
SMAT
The Short Marital Adjustment Test is a 15-item question-
naire measuring martial satisfaction and conflict. It was only
used in sample 2 (n = 39 mothers and n = 36 fathers
completed the survey, this totals 35 couples, with a few
more mother only, and one additional father only, who
completed the questionnaire). This measure combines the
score of all 15 items resulting in a possible 2–158 points
(higher numbers indicating more adjustment/satisfaction
with minimal conflict, and lower numbers indicating mal-
adjustment/dissatisfaction within a marriage and higher
levels of conflict). Locke and Wallace (1959) found .90 test–
retest reliability. Further, Klitzmann (2000) found alphas of
.75 for women and .73 for men. Sample Cronbach alphas for
this study were .85 for women and .91 for men. As with the
child behavior problem measures, we combined the two
similar measures of marital conflict across samples. Each of
the scores for the CPS and SMAT were converted to stan-
dardized Z-scores. Although both measure aspects of satis-
faction and conflict, the CPS is scaled as a measure of
conflict (with bigger numbers meaning more conflict), and
the SMAT is scaled as a satisfaction scale (with bigger
numbers meaning more satisfaction/less conflict). So, we
reverse coded the SMAT so bigger numbers meant more
conflict. Then, we combined the Z scores into one variable.
Since this study combined across multiple samples and
measures, it is important to clarify where the data come from
for analyses. All three samples used the PSDQ to measure
parenting style, so analyses on just the PSDQ include all
participants. Since the CBCL and PKBS were combined into
one master score, and all three samples used either the
PKBS or the CBCL, analyses involving child behavior
include all children. However, only samples 2 and 3 had a
measure of marital conflict (the SMAT or the CPS), there-
fore the composite score that combines these two measures
was used for these analyses meaning that only samples 2 and
3 are included in analyses involving parental conflict.
Results
Parenting Style, Marital Conflict, and Child
Behavior
Before addressing the main research questions, preliminary
analyses replicated previous findings that establish rela-
tions between parenting styles, marital conflict, and child
behavior. Correlations between self-reported parenting
styles and child outcomes and marital conflict are found in
Table 1. Marital conflict was positively associated with
both internalizing and externalizing behavior problems.
Authoritarian and permissive parenting in both mother and
father were positively associated with child behavior
problems. Multiple regressions predicting child behavior
problems from self-perceived parenting styles for both
mothers and fathers, with control variables (gender and
age) included in step 1 are found in Table 2. Externalizing
behavior problems were more common among younger
children and the combination of child gender and age in
step 1 was significant [F(2, 123) = 3.76, p \ .05]. We also examined whether child age was associated with parents’
self-reported parenting styles. Fathers’ parenting styles
were never associated with child age, and mothers’
authoritative and permissive parenting did not vary by
child age. However, there was a small positive association
between mothers’ authoritarian parenting and age of target
child (r = .25). As to be expected given this, mothers’
authoritarianism was slightly higher in sample 2 with older
children than in the other samples with preschool children.
To see if this was a problem in our analyses, we also ran
partial correlations between maternal authoritarianism and
the other child and family outcomes, controlling for child
age—all relationships remained the same. Therefore, we
are confident that child age did not influence the conclu-
sions made in this paper.
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The addition of mothers’ three self-reported parenting
styles in step 2 explained 10 % additional variance in child
externalizing problems [F(5, 120) = 4.58, p\ .01], with specifically maternal authoritarian parenting significantly
relating to increased child externalizing problems. Similarly,
for child internalizing behavior problems, maternal self
report of permissive and authoritarian parenting styles were
significant [F(5, 120) = 3.76, p \ .01]. Finally, similar results were found for total child behavior problems, with
17 % of the variance in child overall problem behavior
being predicted by the control variables and maternal par-
enting styles [F(5, 120) = 4.93, p \ .01]. Controlling for child age and gender, increased maternal self-reported
authoritarian and permissive parenting styles were related to
increased total child behavior problems (b = .31, t = 3.53, p \ .05; b = .21, t = 2.41, p \ .05, respectively).
Identical regression models were run for fathers’ self-
reported parenting styles predicting child externalizing,
Table 1 Mothers’ and fathers’ parenting style, conflict/satisfaction and child behavior correlations
Externalizing behavior
problems
Internalizing behavior
problems
Total behavior
problems
Marital conflict/satisfaction
Maternal perception of conflict (N = 128) .22* .21* .28*
Mothers’ self-perception of parenting style
Authoritative (N = 128) -.08 -.01 -.07
Authoritarian (N = 128) .23* .19* .30*
Permissive (N = 128) .19* .29* .25*
Fathers’ self-perception of parenting style
Authoritative (N = 37) -.08 -.22 -.23
Authoritarian (N = 37) .40* .32 ?
.35*
Permissive (N = 37) .46* .23 .34*
The marital conflict/satisfaction measure is the combination of SMAT and CPS, parenting style was measured through the PSDQ, and child
behavior was measured through combining the PKBS and CBCL
* p \ .05; ? p \ .10
Table 2 Parenting style predicting behavior problems regression
Externalizing behavior problems Internalizing behavior problems Total behavior problems
b t P b t p b t P
Mothers’ self perceptions (N = 155)
Step 1
Gender -.09 -1.02 .31 -.17 -1.89 .06 ?
-.14 -1.57 .12
Age -.23 -2.60 .01* -.12 -1.30 .20 -.10 -1.11 .27
Step 2
Authoritative .01 .11 .92 .09 .97 .33 .04 .44 .66
Authoritarian .29 3.23 .002* .17 1.86 .07 ?
.31 3.53 .001*
Permissive .14 1.56 .12 .26 2.98 .004* .21 2.41 .02*
Fathers’ self perceptions (N = 63)
Step 1
Gender .02 .11 .92 -.12 -.74 .46 -.04 -.26 .80
Age -.41 -2.57 .02* -.28 -1.68 .10 -.24 -1.44 .16
Step 2
Authoritative -.15 -.81 .43 -.37 -1.87 .07 ?
-.28 -1.40 .17
Authoritarian .19 1.07 .29 .27 1.42 .17 .29 1.54 .13
Permissive .18 .88 .39 -.19 -.89 .38 -.01 -.06 .95
Age and gender values are from step one. For final age and gender values see paper
These measures include the PSDQ and the CBCL/PKBS
* p \ .05; ? p \ .10
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internalizing, and total behavior problems. Although similar
patterns were seen as reported above for mothers, due to the
smaller size of the father sample, the regression models were
typically only marginally statistically significant. Of note in
Table 2 was that paternal authoritative parenting was mar-
ginally negatively related to child internalizing problems
when all parenting styles and the control variables of gender
and age were included in model 2.
Parenting Style Inter-correlations
Using bivariate correlations, the associations between the
three self-reported parenting styles of mothers and fathers
(authoritative, authoritarian, and permissive) were examined
and are listed in Table 3. For example, mothers’ self-per-
ceived authoritative parenting style was correlated with
fathers’ self-perceived authoritative parenting style (top
panel of Table 3). Further, mothers’ self-perceived authori-
tative parenting style was correlated with mothers’ percep-
tion of fathers’ authoritative parenting style (second panel of
Table 3) and fathers’ self-perceived authoritative parenting
style was correlated with fathers’ perception of mothers’
authoritative parenting style (bottom panel of Table 3).
An overall pattern was that spouses tended to share
parenting styles (r’s between mother and father styles
between .31 and .43). Interestingly, informant perspectives
of their spouse’s parenting style were more correlated with
their own style than were their spouse’s self report, perhaps
indicating that parents perceive themselves to be more
similar to each other than they actually are. Mothers’ self-
reported parenting styles were strongly associated with
mothers’ report of their spouses’ style (r = .70, r = .77,
r = .61 for authoritative, authoritarian, and permissive,
respectively, p \ .05). The same was true for fathers’ self- report being associated with fathers’ report of their spouse
(r = .77, r = .51 r = .64 for authoritative, authoritarian,
and permissive styles respectively, p \ .05).
Differences in Perceptions of Parenting Styles
Related to Marital Conflict and Child Behavior
Problems
To analyze whether differences in self-perceived parenting
style between mother and father were associated with child
behavior, six bivariate correlations were conducted (three
for the absolute value of the difference in style and
mothers’ perceptions of marital conflict, and three for the
absolute value of the difference in style and fathers’ per-
ceptions of marital conflict). Further, analyses were con-
ducted to examine the relationships between parents’ self-
perceived parenting style absolute value differences and
child internalizing, externalizing, and total behavior prob-
lems. Overall, lower levels of marital conflict were asso-
ciated with smaller differences in self-reported parenting
styles and better child behavior (see Table 4).
Parenting Style Differences and Marital Conflict
In general, as mothers’ and fathers’ self-reported parenting
styles differed more from each other, marital conflict increased.
Results showed that greater differences in self-reported
authoritativeness were significantly correlated with greater
mother-reported marital conflict (r = .38, p\ .05), and mar- ginally correlated with father-reported marital conflict
(r = .31, p\ .10). For both mother and father-reported con- flict, differences in authoritarianism and permissiveness did not
Table 3 Self- and spouse- perceived parenting style
correlations
Self-perceived (N = 61) Mothers’ authoritative Mothers’ authoritarian Mothers’ permissive
Fathers’ authoritative .39*
Fathers’ authoritarian .31*
Fathers’ permissive .43*
Mothers’-perceived (N = 153) Self-perceived
authoritative
Self-perceived
authoritarian
Self-perceived
permissive
Perception of fathers’ authoritative .70*
Perception of fathers’ authoritarian .77*
Perception of fathers’ permissive .61*
Fathers’-perceived (N = 62) Self-perceived
authoritative
Self-perceived
authoritarian
Self-perceived
permissive
Perception of mothers’ authoritative .77*
Perception of mothers’ authoritarian .51*
Perception of mothers’ permissive .64*
* p \ .05
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significantly relate to marital conflict, however, the difference
between parents in authoritativeness was marginally related to
increased marital conflict reported by mothers (see Table 4).
Parenting Style Differences and Child Behavior Problems
Correlations between the absolute value differences
between mothers’ and fathers’ self-reported parenting styles
and child behavior problems are also found in Table 4. As
the difference in parents’ self-perceived permissiveness
increased, child externalizing behaviors also increased
(r = .35, p \ .05). There were no other statistically sig- nificant relationships between differences in self-perceived
styles and behavior. All of the above analyses (Table 4)
had to do with self-perceived differences in parenting style
(i.e., mother’s perception of her style compared to father’s
perception of his). Similar correlational analyses were also
run to examine differences within the individual parent in
their perception of themselves compared to their perception
of their spouse (i.e., mother’s perception of her permis-
siveness compared to her perception of her spouse’s per-
missiveness). These analyses are discussed next and
summarized in Table 5.
Conflict
Overall,similar towhatwas seen in Table 4 for self-perceived
differences, as mothers’ perceived differences between her
parenting styles and her spouses’ parenting styles increased
(for example, the absolute value of mothers’ self-perceived
authoritarianism minus mothers’ perception of the fathers’
authoritarianism), her rating of marital conflict increased
(Table 5). This relationship was significant for authoritative-
ness and permissiveness (r = .64 and r = .40, p \ .05) for maternal perceptions. Thus, as the difference in how the
mother rated her own authoritativeness and how she rated her
spouse’s authoritativeness increases (and the same for per-
missiveness), her perception of marital conflict increased.The
overall trend was similar for fathers’ perceived differences.
Child Behavior Problems
Associations between perceived differences in parenting
styles and child behavior problems are also found in
Table 5. In general, as reported differences between the
perception of one’s own parenting style and the perception
of the spouse’s style increase, so do most behavior
Table 4 Differences in mothers’ and fathers’ self-perceived parenting style associated with marital conflict and child behavior problems
Diff. between partners
in authoritativeness
Diff. between partners
in authoritarianism
Diff. between partners
in permissiveness
Mothers’ perception of marital conflict (N = 35) .38* .31 ?
.19
Fathers’ perception of marital conflict (N = 35) .31 ?
.19 .22
Child externalizing behavior problems (N = 37) -.09 .27 .35*
Child internalizing behavior problems (N = 37) -.04 .12 -.02
Child total behavior problems (N = 37) -.08 .22 .25
* p \ .05; ? p \ .10
Table 5 Differences in mothers’ and fathers’ perceptions of self and other predicting marital conflict and child behavior
Diff. between partners’
authoritativeness
Diff. between partners’
authoritarianism
Diff. between partners’
permissiveness
Mothers’ perception of Diff.
Mothers’ perception of marital conflict (N = 39) .64* .03 .40*
Child externalizing behavior problems (N = 126) .11 .15 ?
-.03
Child internalizing behavior problems (N = 126) .20* .12 .04
Child total behavior problems (N = 126) .21* .14 .05
Fathers’ perception of Diff.
Fathers’ perception of marital conflict (N = 36) .15 .15 .39*
Child externalizing behavior problems (N = 37) .20 .31 ?
.35*
Child internalizing behavior problems (N = 37) .25 .26 .23
Child total behavior problems (N = 37) .22 .29 ?
.38*
Analyses involving parenting style and child behavior used all three samples, but analyses involving marital conflict and parenting style only
used samples 2 and 3
* p \ .05; ? p \ .10
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problems. For mothers, a greater difference in how she
rates her authoritativeness and how she rates her partner’s
authoritativeness was significantly related to internalizing
and total behavior problems in children (r = .20 and
r = .21, p \ .05, respectively). For fathers, there was a significant association between the difference in how
fathers rate their own permissiveness and their spouse’s
permissiveness and child externalizing and total behavior
problems (r = .35 and r = .38, p \ .05, respectively).
Does Directionality of Parenting Style Differences
Matter for Marital Conflict and Child Behavior?
Until now, all analyses related to differences in parenting
style have been conducted with absolute value difference
scores which ignore the direction of which parent is higher
than the other on that particular parenting dimension. The
last set of analyses was conducted on the directional dif-
ference scores within informant (mother’s perception of
herself minus mother’s perception of the father, with pos-
itive scores indicating that the mother was higher on that
dimension than the father and negative scores meaning that
the father was higher on that dimension than the mother).
Conflict
Table 6 shows the correlations between these directional
scores and marital conflict for mothers. When mothers’
self-reported greater authoritative parenting than perceived
in their partners, maternal perception of marital conflict
was higher (r = .64, p \ .05). Interestingly, when mothers reported themselves as more authoritarian than their per-
ception of their spouse, the mother reported less marital
conflict (r = -.40, p \ .05).
Child Behavior
Table 6 also includes correlations with child behavior
problems. In terms of child behavior, when mothers saw
themselves as being more authoritative than she saw fathers,
there were increased total child behavior problems (r = .20,
p \ .05) and increased child internalizing behavior prob- lems (r = .16, p = .08). Table 7 reports these same direc-
tional differences in parenting style perceptions and links to
marital conflict and child behavior but from the father’s
perspective, that is, father’s perception of himself minus
father’s perception of the mother. So a large positive number
signifies that the father sees himself as being greater on this
dimension than the mother and negative scores mean he sees
his spouse as being higher on that dimension than himself.
For fathers’ reports, there were no statistically significant
correlations between directional perceptions of differences
in parenting style and father’s reported marital conflict due
to the smaller sample size of fathers, however there was a
marginal (p = .056) relation for permissiveness, indicating
that when fathers saw themselves as more permissive than
their partner, they perceived less conflict in the marriage. As
for child behavior, when a father reported himself to be
more authoritarian than his perception of the spouse, chil-
dren displayed more externalizing and total behavior prob-
lems (r = .34, p \ .05; r = .28, p \ .10, respectively). Alternatively, when fathers rated themselves as being more
permissive than they rated their spouses, the child displayed
fewer internalizing and total behavior problems (r = -.30,
p \ .10; r = -.33, p\ .05).
Discussion
The current study examined maternal and paternal per-
ceptions of their own and their partners’ parenting styles,
and linked those perceptions to self-reported marital con-
flict and child behavior problems. As an advantage over
much of the previous research, the current study (a) ex-
amined fathers’ perspectives in addition to mothers’,
(b) examined not only parental self-reports of parenting
style but also their perceptions of their partners’ styles,
(c) explored whether directional differences in parenting
styles (i.e., mom being higher than dad on permissiveness)
mattered for child problems beyond just absolute value
Table 6 Directionality of mothers’ perceptions of self and her perceptions of spouse predicting marital conflict/satisfaction and child behavior problems
Diff. between partners’
authoritativeness
Diff. between partners’
authoritarianism
Diff. between partners’
permissiveness
Mothers’ perception of marital conflict (N = 39) .64* -.40* -.23
Child externalizing behavior (N = 126) .11 -.08 .003
Child internalizing behavior (N = 126) .16 ?
-.12 .08
Child total behavior problems (N = 126) .20* -.12 .04
Analyses involving marital conflict and parenting style used samples 2 and 3, where analyses involving child behavior and parenting style used
all three samples
* p \ .05; ? p \ .10
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differences, and (d) combined the constructs of parenting
style, marital conflict, and child behavior problems in the
same study. Results were consistent with prior findings that
the authoritative style of parenting was linked to the best
child behavior outcomes overall while authoritarian and
permissive parenting styles were correlated with increased
behavior problems (Baumrind 1967, 1991; Cohen and Rice
1997). Also consistent with prior research, we found evi-
dence that mothers’ perception of increased marital conflict
was associated with increased child behavior problems
(Dadds and Powell 1991; Smith and Jenkins 1991). How-
ever, this study went further by taking into consideration
both parents’ perceptions of their own parenting styles and
of their spouses’ parenting styles.
Consistent with Winsler et al. (2005) and Gamble et al.
(2007), we showed that parents tend to be in relationships
with people who have similar parenting styles, and they tend
to rate their partners as having similar styles as themselves.
Interestingly, parents perceive themselves to be more similar
to their partners in parenting styles than they actually are
according to both parents’ self reports. Acitelli et al. (1993)
found that perceived similarity in behavior is typically
higher for both wives and husbands compared to actual
similarity, and perceived similarity is related to marital well
being. The authors argue that perceiving oneself as similar to
another provides a sense of security and assurance that
allows and protects self-esteem. This, in turn, can create a
more harmonious and healthy relationship between the wife
and husband (Acitelli et al. 1993). Extending this logic to a
counseling setting, when counseling couples, it is important
to address perceptions of the other, rather than (or in addi-
tion to) focusing on the actual behaviors of the other.
Building on Rinaldi and Howe’s work (2012), we focused
on how certain combinations of parenting styles are asso-
ciated with marital conflict and child outcomes. In addition
to mothers’ and fathers’ parenting styles being individually
associated with child behavior problems, we found that
differences between mother and father parenting styles were
also uniquely associated with child behavior problems. Our
findings suggest that when the father saw himself as more
permissive than the mother this was associated with less
paternal-perceived marital conflict and fewer behavior
problems in children. These findings suggest that marital
conflict and perceived parenting differences is associated
with child behavior problems, which supports the longitu-
dinal literature proposing that relationship instability and
disagreement among parents can lead to increased child
behavior problems (Linville et al. 2010).
Also, although absolute value differences between par-
ents in authoritarianism were not associated with child
behavior problems, the particular direction of the difference
seemed to matter—when mothers were more authoritarian
than fathers within the family, mothers experienced less
marital conflict, and when fathers were more authoritarian
than mothers within the home, children experienced more
behavior problems. Finally, the more different parents were
in their authoritativeness, the more marital conflict was
experienced, especially by the mother, and the more inter-
nalizing (and total) behavior problems were present among
the children. Direction seemed to be important here as
well—it was specifically the situation where mothers saw
themselves as more authoritative than their partner that was
associated with higher marital conflict and child behavior
problems. Existing models of parenting have argued that
mothers are more likely to be authoritative than fathers
(Winsler et al. 2005) and having at least one parent who is
authoritative can help child outcomes when the other parent
is not particularly authoritative (Milvesky et al. 2008;
Simons and Conger 2007). Father’s supportiveness also
seems to have the greatest influence on child behavior when
mothers are lower on the supportive scale (Martin et al.
2010). Our findings fall in line with this prior research with
older children and builds on it by incorporating marital
conflict, examining child outcomes among young children,
and exploring agreement between parents on parenting style.
The above results have important implications for pre-
vention/intervention efforts and for marriage and family
counseling. Therapists should assess both parents’ parent-
ing styles as well as their perception of each others’ par-
enting to look for the particular patterns identified here that
are associated with problems (fathers being very authori-
tarian relative to mothers, mothers being more permissive
relative to fathers, and mothers being more authoritative
than fathers) and/or strengths (fathers more permissive
Table 7 Directionality of fathers’ perceptions of self and his perceptions of spouse predicting marital satisfaction and child behavior problems
Diff. between partners’
authoritativeness
Diff. between partners’
authoritarianism
Diff. between partners’
permissiveness
Fathers’ perception of marital conflict (N = 36) -.18 -.09 -.32 ?
Child externalizing behavior (N = 37) -.14 .34* -.23
Child internalizing behavior (N = 37) -.19 .19 -.30 ?
Child total behavior problems (N = 37) -.17 .28 ?
-.33*
This table uses the PSDQ and PKBS/CBCL measures
* p \ .05; ? p \ .10
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relative to mothers, mothers more authoritarian than
fathers). Applied in a different way, when husbands and
wives share similar opinions and beliefs about parenting,
wives tend to report increased feelings of intimacy over
time (O’Brien and Peyton 2002). These results can have
clinical applications as agreement in parenting beliefs
could be targeted and addressed in therapeutic settings. It
also may be good for parents to understand and be aware of
their own styles and how their spouse’s parenting style
might differ from their own, and how they can work
together and collaborate with their parenting styles, rather
than having them clash. For therapists who work with
families, these results could help point toward potential
areas of disagreement that parents would have not thought
of before (such as perceived authoritative parenting style
disagreements). When parents understand the source of
their disagreement, they may be able to adjust in a way that
leads to more effective collaborative parenting and this
could lead to better child behavior and decreased couple
conflict. Accurate perceptions and expectations of the self
and partner when it comes to parenting can lead to more
effective collaboration and parenting together, which can
lead to less disagreement, more marital satisfaction, and
better child outcomes (Feinberg 2002). Often, in families,
parent perceptions of each other are more important than
their actual behaviors. For example, satisfaction with one’s
partner is more related to one’s perception of the partner’s
behavior than that person’s actual behavior (Cohen et al.
2012). If one parent perceives the other as being more
permissive compared to his or herself, and this has been
causing problems in the marriage, then this might be a
potential target focus for intervention in improving martial
satisfaction and decreasing conflict. This is an area in the
literature that has not been explored.
Limitations
Although the current study has made some advances over
previous research in the area, there are limitations that must
be considered. First is the fact that we had a relatively small
sample size (and we combined several different samples into
one and in some cases not all participants filled out all of the
same measures), making it difficult in some cases to find
statistically significant effects. However, the fact that we did
find reasonable effects sizes and statistical significance even
with our small sample suggests that this is an important area
for future research with larger and more systematic samples.
Also the current study only used parent reports via surveys
for all measures. Observational measures and/or teacher
reports of child behavior in the future would help avoid
single-source bias. We did include combined mother and
father reports of child behavior problems when possible in
order to have it not always be reported by the exact same
single parent, but the data were still limited to parental self-
reports. Other studies (Modry-Mandell et al. 2007) have
used more direct assessments of child behavior, family
emotional expressions, and parental agreement/disagreement
using in-home personal interviews and questionnaires
administered by researchers, while other studies have used
more laboratory based semi-structured assessments of par-
ent–child interactions (Martin et al. 2010); this kind of
methodology provides a deeper understanding of these
constructs. Since our study was examining individual per-
ceptions of the other’s parenting style, this can perhaps best
be completed through self-report instead of direct assess-
ments or observations. Future research should incorporate
self-report with direct observations of behavior.
This sample was fairly homogenous in its ethnic makeup
and made up of two-parents (one biological mother, one
biological father). More studies are needed to examine these
questions concerning perceived parenting styles across a
variety of different demographic groups including those
from different ethnic backgrounds, those in poverty, and
those in more diverse types of families (i.e., step families,
adopted families, gay/lesbian parents, extended families).
Relations between parenting styles and child behavioral
outcomes, for example, are known to vary somewhat across
different ethnic groups (Chao 2001; Ispa et al. 2004). Thus,
it is important to replicate the work done in the present paper
with larger and more diverse samples.
Finally, our single point in time, correlational design is
not able to inform about direction of effect. Although
empirical research and theory support the direction of
causality moving from parental behavior to child behavior
problems (Chen and Johnston 2012; Martin et al. 2010;
Schoppe-Sullivan et al. 2007) which is what we are
assuming, it clearly works both ways, with parenting
behavior also being affected by child behavior and child
characteristics over time (Zadeh et al. 2010). Child behavior
can certainly be an important contributor to marital conflict
as well (Manning et al. 2014). Also, parenting style interacts
with child temperament and personality, with certain types
of parenting leading to better outcomes for children
depending on the temperament/type of child (Fay-Stamm-
bach et al. 2014). Future work should examine the active
role the child herself plays in determining parenting styles
and parenting style disagreements between parents.
Compliance with Ethical Standards
Conflict of interest The authors declare that they have no conflict of interest.
Ethical Statement The procedures and methods that were used in this study are in compliance with ethical standards given by the
American Psychological Association (APA).
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Informed Consent Informed consent was obtained from all indi- vidual participants included in the study.
Human and Animal Rights Statement This article does not con- tain any studies with animals performed by any of the authors.
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- Differences in Perceived Parenting Style Between Mothers and Fathers: Implications for Child Outcomes and Marital Conflict
- Abstract
- Introduction
- Method
- Participants
- Sample 1 (Winsler et al. 2005)
- Sample 2 (Thorvardarson 2000)
- Sample 3 (Madigan 2005)
- Procedure
- Measures
- PSDQ
- PKBS
- CBCL
- CPS
- SMAT
- Results
- Parenting Style, Marital Conflict, and Child Behavior
- Parenting Style Inter-correlations
- Differences in Perceptions of Parenting Styles Related to Marital Conflict and Child Behavior Problems
- Parenting Style Differences and Marital Conflict
- Parenting Style Differences and Child Behavior Problems
- Conflict
- Child Behavior Problems
- Does Directionality of Parenting Style Differences Matter for Marital Conflict and Child Behavior?
- Conflict
- Child Behavior
- Discussion
- Limitations
- References