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Interpersonal Messages Fourth Edition Joseph A. DeVito
Chapter 3
Perception of
Self and Others
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Chapter Objectives After reading this chapter, you should be able to:
3.1 Define self-concept, self-awareness, and self-esteem and explain the ways in which you may increase self-awareness and self-esteem.
3.2 Define perception and explain its five stages.
3.3 Define the six factors that influence interpersonal perception, and explain how you might increase accuracy in your own interpersonal perception.
3.4 Identify and give examples of the strategies of impression management.
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The Self in Interpersonal Communication (1 of 5) 3.1 Define self-concept, self-awareness, and self-esteem and explain the ways in which you may increase self-awareness and self-esteem.
Self-Concept
Others’ Images of You
Comparisons With Others
Cultural Teachings
Self-Evaluations
Figure 3.1
The Sources of Self Concept
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The Self in Interpersonal Communication (2 of 5)
Self-Awareness
Your knowledge of yourself
Understanding how your self-concept develops can increase your self awareness
The Johari Window
Figure 3.2 The Johari Window
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The Self in Interpersonal Communication (3 of 5)
Your Four Selves
Open Self
Blind Self
Hidden Self
Unknown Self
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Figure 3.3
Johari Windows of Varied structures
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Growing in Self-Awareness
Ask yourself about yourself
Listen to others
Actively seek information about yourself
See your different selves
Increase your open self
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VIEWPOINTS Cultural Background
Your cultural background will significantly influence your responses to how you’d respond to this simple question, “Who am I?” In one study, for example, participants form Malaysia (a collectivist culture) and from Australia and Great Britain (individualist cultures) completed this test. Malaysians produced significantly more group self-descriptions and fewer idiocentric self-descriptions than did the Australian or British respondents (Bochner, 1994).
Can you identify self-descriptions that are influenced by your cultural orientation, particularly your collectivist-individualist orientation?
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The Self in Interpersonal Communication (5 of 5)
Self Esteem
Attack self-destructive beliefs
Beware of the imposter phenomenon
Seek out nourishing people
Work on projects that will result in success
Secure affirmation
Figure 3.4
Climbing to Self-Esteem
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VIEWPOINTS Self-esteem
Despite its intuitive value, self-esteem has its critics (Epstein, 2006). Some researchers argue that high self-esteem is not necessarily desirable: It does nothing to improve academic performance, does not predict success, and may even lead to antisocial (even aggressive) behavior. Interestingly enough, a large number of criminals and delinquents are found to have high self-esteem. And conversely, many people who have low self-esteem have become quite successful (Owens, Stryker, & Goodman, 2002).
How do you feel about the benefits or liabilities of self-esteem?
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Perception in Interpersonal Communication (1 of 5) 3.2 Define perception and explain its five stages.
Stage One: Stimulation
Interpersonal perception
Selective perception
Selective attention
Selection exposure
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Figure 3.5 The Stages of Perception
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VIEWPOINTS Selective Perception
Consider your own selective perception, particularly as it occurs in the classroom or in the workplace.
In what ways is your selective perception useful? In what ways does it hold you back?
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Perception Interpersonal Communication (2 of 5)
Stage Two: Organization
Proximity
Similarity
Contrast
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Perception Interpersonal Communication (3 of 5)
Stage Three: Interpretation—Evaluation
Based on your own filter, you determine meaning and evaluate what you have sensed.
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Perception Interpersonal Communication (4 of 5)
Stage Four: Memory
Your interpretations and evaluations are placed into memory.
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Perception Interpersonal Communication (5 of 5)
Stage Five: Recall
As you go through this process in the future, you may access what you remember.
You reconstruct items in a way that is meaningful to you.
Sometimes recall can have inaccuracies:
Stereotypes
Inconsistencies
Contradictions
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Impression Formation (1 of 3) 3.3 Define the six factors that influence perception, and explain how you might increase accuracy in your own interpersonal perception.
Impression Formation Process
Self-fulfilling prophecy
Personality theory
Halo effect
Reverse halo effect
Perceptual Accentuation
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self-fulfilling prophecy: a prediction that comes true because you act on it as if it were true
perceptual accentuation: leads you to see what you expect or want to see
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Impression Formation (2 of 3)
Impression Formation Process
Primacy-recency
Primacy effect
Recency effect
Consistency
Attribution of control
Attribution
Self-serving bias
Overattribution
Fundamental attribution error
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primacy effect: what comes first exerts the most influence
recency effect: what comes last exerts the most influence
attribution: the process by which you try to explain the motivation for a person’s behavior
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Impression Formation (3 of 3)
Increasing Accuracy in Impression Formation
Analyze your impressions
Reduce uncertainty
Check your perceptions
Increase your cultural sensitivity
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VIEWPOINTS Impression Formation
What one suggestion for increasing accuracy in impression formation do you wish others would follow more often when they make judgments about you?
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Impression Management (1 of 7) 3.4 Identify and give examples of the strategies of impression management.
To Be Liked: Affinity-Seeking and Politeness Strategies
Impression management
Affinity seeking strategies
Increases chances of being liked
Politeness strategies
Positive face
Negative face
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Figure 3.6 Impression Management Goals and Strategies
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Impression management: refers to the processes you go through to create the impression you want other people to have of you.
positive face: the desire to be viewed positively by others, to be thought of favorably
negative face: the desire to be autonomous, to have the right to do as we wish
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Impression Management ( 2 of 7)
To Be Believed: Credibility Strategies
To be seen as competent, of good character, and dynamic.
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Impression Management (3 of 7)
To Excuse Failure: Self-Handicapping Strategies
Self-handicapping strategies
To excuse actual or possible future failures
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VIEWPOINTS Accents
There is some evidence that we attribute less credibility to people who have accents than we do to people who don’t. (Lev-Ari & Keysar, 2010).
Does your experience support this? Can you think of exceptions? For example, might the chef who speaks with a French accent been seen as having more credibility than one without such an accent?
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Impression Management (4 of 7)
To Secure Help: Self-Deprecating Strategies
Self-deprecating strategies
To secure help by making yourself seem unable to do the task
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Impression Management (5 of 7)
To Hide Faults: Self-Monitoring Strategies
Self-monitoring strategies
To hide faults, to emphasize the positive and minimize the negative
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Impression Management (6 of 7)
To Be Followed: Influencing Strategies
Influencing strategies
To be persuasive, to be in control, to be followed, to be the leader
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Impression Management (7 of 7)
To Confirm Self-Image: Image-Confirming Strategies
Image-confirming strategies
To see reassurance of one’s self-image; to be recognized for who you are or how you want to be seen
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