COMMUNICATION: ASSIGNMENT 2- 1 single spaced page

Nonverbal Communication

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Nonverbal Communication

Introduction

Nonverbal communication takes place where an individual utilizes gestures in the interaction instead of words. Signals or signs can be facial language or body language. Using various hypothesis or research I have realized that the body expressions or gesture are different in different cultures in the world. All individuals give and receive nonverbal cues during conversation. Nonverbal norms are often underappreciated and overlooked when it comes to communication. The ways in which people communicate is often done without thought and are usually automatic responses. Nonverbal communication can reinforce and reiterate what is stated verbally with sequential instead of simultaneous repeating. Haptics, which is an important component of communication, is the act of touching another during a conversation. It is not odd to see people giving each other pat on the backs or shaking each other’s hands which is a given form of interaction (Seiler, Beall & Mazer, 2011).

Haptics communication

One approach of using Haptics is in the form of a handshake or hugs. This can be done when two people are meeting for the first time or if they are old friends or close family. Handshakes are a very imperative part of human communication since they assist people to develop personal connections with each other (Richmond, McCroskey & Payne, 1991). This is a way in which to acknowledge the other person and to offer them friendship or an introduction into your own little world. When a handshake is rejected or goes by unacknowledged it can leave both parties feeling confused or at odds. When an individual is presented a handshake, it is the norm for them to acknowledge the handshake. Since this is the norm it can be quite confusing when a person’s handshake is rejected or goes by unacknowledged.

Current scenario

My recent scenario in which I encountered the reactions or confusing effects of a nonverbal communication was at home. My family invited over some distant relatives who I had never met before for dinner. When they all finally arrived, introductions were given along with hugs and kisses, which I am not so much accustomed to it. When I was finally reached by the first guest they attempted to hug me which I dodged and pretended nothing happened as I extended my hand for a handshake only. By doing this I completely rejected this person’s attempt at making a personal connection with me. It was a third cousin twice removed or something similar to that he seemed very confused when all of this happened. I was also very confused and full of guilt in my heart after rejecting his attempt of close connection with me. He looked over at who he knew was my grandmother and she in turn was embarrassed also. Needless to say, I had some explaining to do to my grandmother after dinner. For the rest of dinner, he did not speak to me or even look my way as if I was never even there in the first place. It seemed as though he was really embarrassed and wanted to forget that the whole thing ever even occurred.

Future implication

I think in future there is need to respond back to the other person nonverbal gesture by acknowledging it to create effective communication. Sometimes it’s safe and wise to follow the system or the way people around you are communicating to avoid the awkward moment as I experienced with my cousin. Also, understanding that people have different ways of expressing their non-verbal communication is very vital in facilitating effective communication.

Conclusion

This assignment was an effective example to show me how to better appreciate nonverbal communication and what it really means. The way in which my cousin and grand mother responded and my own personal take on each of the situations showed how just one small change in nonverbal communication can make a huge implication. I believe that in the future this assignment will help me to better appreciate nonverbal reactions that individuals give off during communication.

Reference

Richmond, V. P., McCroskey, J. C., & Payne, S. K. (1991). Nonverbal behavior in interpersonal relations. Englewood Cliffs, NJ: Prentice Hall.

Seiler, W., Beall, M., &Mazer, J. (2011). Communication making connections. (9th ed.). Boston,

Columbus, Indianapolis, New York, San Francisco, Upper Saddle River: Pearson.

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