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Chapter 4
Loss, Grief, Death, and Dying
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Objectives
Define and explore the meaning of loss and ways to cope with loss.
Describe and discuss theories about the grieving process.
Explore definitions of death and the meaning of a good death.
Examine components of advanced directives.
Compare and contrast end of life care options.
Loss and Grief (1 of 6)
- Loss
- Feelings associated with a loss can emerge after:
- An incident or event
- Changes in social role, responsibility, or personal expectation
- Philosophical view
- Loss helps a person gain a better perspective and understanding of life and eventually rediscover joy
Loss and Grief (2 of 2)
- Wilson identified two categories of loss:
- Circumstantial
- Unexpected incidents or events that negatively affect daily life
- Developmental
- Anticipated events or milestones that occur as a function of personal growth and maturation
Loss and Grief (3 of 6)
- Viktor Frankl
- Concluded that although humans often cannot control life events, they can control their response to those events
- Developed logotherapy
- Based on the belief that the ability to attach meaning to life is key to motivation and life preservation
Loss and Grief (4 of 6)
- Grief
- “Keen mental suffering or distress over affliction or loss; sharp sorrow; painful regret”
- Personal, intimate, and intense
- Affects an individual emotionally, socially, mentally, and spiritually
- Differs from mourning, which is an outward expression of grief
Loss and Grief (5 of 6)
- Typical reactions to grief
- Sadness
- Guilt
- Confusion
- Loneliness
- Disbelief
- Denial
- Anger
- Happiness
Loss and Grief (6 of 6)
- Typical reactions to grief (continued)
- Fear
- Acceptance
- Shock
- Hatred
- Anxiety
- Emptiness
- Relief
- Helplessness
Theories on Managing Grief (1 of 8)
- Sigmund Freud
- Proposed that an individual should confront their grief by identifying and talking about issues that make it difficult for them to accept their losses
- Encouraged patients to “move on” with their lives so that their “broken” hearts and spirits could heal
Theories on Managing Grief (2 of 8)
- Attachment theory
- Developed by John Bowlby
- The level and nature of personal attachments to nurturing figures changes over time
- We mourn persons with whom we have the closest attachments
- Even close relationships have a degree of ambivalence
Theories on Managing Grief (3 of 8)
- Michael Bradley and Cafferty
- Found those who had a partnership that included high levels of quarreling and tension tended to display more “disordered mourning” after the death of a partner
- Those with a healthier relationship tended to display “uncomplicated grief”
Theories on Managing Grief (4 of 8)
- Stage process model
- Elisabeth Kübler-Ross outlined five stages of grief that help dying people come to terms with their own impending death:
- Denial
- Anger
- Bargaining
- Depression
- Acceptance
Theories on Managing Grief (5 of 8)
- Phase process models
- Dual Process Model
- Resolving grief is dynamic and oscillates between two orientations
- Grief process shifts between coping with loss and reorienting to daily life
- Avoidance and denial are embraced as potentially helpful
Theories on Managing Grief (6 of 8)
- Worden’s Task-Based Model
- Identifies four tasks to be completed:
- Accept the reality of the loss
- Work through the pain of grief
- Adjust to an environment in which the deceased is missing
- Find an enduring connection to the deceased while embarking on a new life
Theories on Managing Grief (7 of 8)
- Edwin Shneidman
- Purported that the grieving process has many interlaced emotional “themes” that can appear, disappear, and reappear again
- Beehive theory
- Depicts the bereaved individual going back and forth between acceptance and denial
Theories on Managing Grief (8 of 8)
Coping with Loss and Grief (1 of 11)
- Complicated grief
- “Persistent complex bereavement disorder”
- Inability to manage grief
- Symptoms include intense sorrow, yearning, and emotional pain during the majority of days for more than 12 months
Coping with Loss and Grief (2 of 11)
- Risk factors for complicated grief:
- Witnessing a violent death
- Losing someone with whom they maintained a high level of dependence
- Experiencing high levels of anxiety
- Exhibiting an insecure attachment style
Coping with Loss and Grief (3 of 11)
- Individuals also face a higher risk of complicated grief if they have:
- Low levels of social support
- Limited religious or spiritual support
- Low socioeconomic status
- Physical disability or illness
Coping with Loss and Grief (4 of 11)
- Theory of complicated mourning
- Developed by Dr. Therese Rando
- Three phases:
- Avoidance
- Confrontation
- Accommodation
Coping with Loss and Grief (5 of 11)
- Six steps or “Rs” of mourning occur within the three phases of complicated mourning:
- Recognition
- Reaction
- Recollection and re-experiencing
- Relinquishing
- Readjustment
- Reinvesting
Coping with Loss and Grief (6 of 11)
- Supporting a person who has sustained a loss
- Talking about a personal loss is difficult for many people
- May Sarton and Susan Sherman developed a collection of response strategies that did and did not help
Coping with Loss and Grief (7 of 11)
Coping with Loss and Grief (8 of 11)
- Rituals
- Often utilized for coping with loss and grief and to assist moving through the mourning process
- Can be personal, faith-based, or social
- Can be undertaken as an individual or group
- Participating in a ritual can:
- Strengthen feelings of social connectedness
- Offer psychological support
- Provide meaning to the loss
Coping with Loss and Grief (9 of 11)
- Burnout
- Caused by excessive and prolonged stress caused by the work environment
- Common signs:
- Emotional exhaustion
- Feeling detached from patients and their care
- Lack of personal accomplishment
- Increases risk for making mistakes
Coping with Loss and Grief (10 of 11)
- Compassion fatigue
- Also known as secondary or vicarious trauma
- Affects individuals affected by trauma experienced by someone else
- Signs include:
- Lack of self-care
- Low levels of compassion
- Loss of boundaries with a patient/client
Coping with Loss and Grief (11 of 11)
- Combat burnout and compassion fatigue by:
- Maintaining physical health
- Engaging in an increased variety of clinical roles
- Pursuing hobbies
- Relying on meditation techniques
- Maintaining realistic expectations about work
- Limiting work to 40 hours a week
- Engaging in rituals
Death and Dying (1 of 5)
- Death
- Determining when death occurs can be complicated
- Clinical death occurs when:
- The heart stops circulating blood through the body
- The lungs are unable to oxygenate the blood
- Possible to resuscitate a clinically dead individual
Death and Dying (2 of 5)
- Brain death
- Generally follows a devastating brain injury
- Occurs when coma, apnea, and lack of brainstem reflexes occur
- Life support is considered futile except to preserve organs for donation to a living being
Death and Dying (3 of 5)
- Persistent vegetative state (PVS)
- Occurs when brain activity in the cortex ceases, but primal functions regulated in the brain stem continue
- No possible return to normal functioning
Death and Dying (4 of 5)
- Natural death
- Dying at an old age when the body stops functioning on its own
- Premature death
- Dying at a young age
- Compression of morbidity
- Reducing personal and systemic burden caused by illness to the shortest time possible
Death and Dying (5 of 5)
- Perspectives on death
- Important not to assume that anyone is, or is not, prepared to die
- Conversations about death and dying are shaped by our own experiences and perspectives
- Fear of death typically peaks in young adulthood
- Can create anxiety
Seeking a Good Death (1 of 6)
- Good death
- Means something different for everyone
- Most hope for pain-free death without distress and suffering
- We also want our end of life to be:
- Aligned with our own and our families’ wishes
- Reasonably consistent with clinical, cultural, and ethical standards
Seeking a Good Death (2 of 6)
- Suicide
- Taking one’s own life
- Illegal in most states and viewed as morally reprehensible in most cultures
- High rates of suicide in men age 75+
- Older men are unlikely to seek therapeutic counseling services/mental health services
- Limited number of programs developed specifically for older adults to address suicide
Seeking a Good Death (3 of 6)
- Euthanasia
- An act of killing another being
- Passive euthanasia
- Standing by and not taking action to prevent death
- Active euthanasia
- Taking direct action to shorten life
- Illegal except for lethal injection used in capital punishment
Seeking a Good Death (4 of 6)
- Physician-assisted suicide
- Taking one’s own life under the guidance of a physician
- Currently legal in some countries in Western Europe and in a few U.S. states and the District of Columbia
- Critics argue that individuals may not receive adequate counseling or may not fully understand the outcome
Seeking a Good Death (5 of 6)
- Advanced directives
- Living will
- Instructs healthcare providers how you want to be treated if you become seriously ill or are terminally ill or cannot communicate their wishes
- Health care power of attorney (HCPOA)
- Appoints a designated individual to speak for you in making health care decisions if you cannot speak for yourself
Seeking a Good Death (6 of 6)
- Do not resuscitate (DNR) order
- Prohibits life-saving treatments in the event that your heart stops
- Cannot be revoked by anyone
- Organ and tissue donation
- One person can potentially save 8 lives and provide help to 50 additional people
End of Life Care Options (1 of 4)
- Hospice
- For individuals diagnosed with a terminal illness or injury
- Offers compassionate care that includes palliative care
- Can only be received after an individual has been certified by two physicians as having 6 months or less time to live
End of Life Care Options (2 of 4)
- Hospice utilizes an interdisciplinary team to offer support to the recipient and family
- Provides comfort and care in the recipient’s preferred surroundings without pain and invasive medical treatment
- May include services such as pastoral care, homemaker/companion services, and recreational and rehabilitation therapy
End of Life Care Options (3 of 4)
End of Life Care Options (4 of 4)
- Working with dying patients
- Often referred to as a calling
- Key points:
- Offer words of kindness and support
- Refrain from judging anyone or expressing discontent
- Treat everyone with respect and dignity
- Listen and watch
- Reflect on the situation to learn more about yourself
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