Class discussion
Gerontologic nursing
Chapter 6: Family Influences
Role and Function of Families
Families play a significant role in the lives of most older persons
When family is not involved it generally is because the older person has no living relatives nearby or there have been long standing relationship problems
Families
Several demographics and social trends have affected families abilities to provide support
Increasing aging population
Living arrangements
Disability and activity (limitations in ADLs and IADLs)
Decrease in birth rate
Increase in employment of women
Mobility of families (live in different city or state)
Increase in blended families
Older adults providing as well as receiving support
The state of the senior housing industry
Caregiver workplace issues (missing work)
Late Life Family Issues
Some of the most common issues and difficult decisions families face include:
Changes in living arrangements
Nursing facility placement
Financial and legal concerns
End of life health care decisions
See Table 6.2 on page 95: Common End of Life Documents
Vehicle driving issues
Table 6.3 on page 96: Online Resources for Older Adults who Drive
Family caregiving
See Table 6.1 on page 94: Internet Resources
Changes in Living Arrangements
Older family member begins to have problems living alone
Family members are often emotionally torn between allowing a person to be as independent as possible and creating a more secure environment
It can be particularly frustrating when a family knows an older relative has difficulty functioning independently yet refuses to accept help in the home
See Box 6 – 2 and 6 – 3 on pages 93 and 94
Should I move my parents into my home
Questions to consider when moving from independent living to a supervised living facility
Nursing Facility Placement
Many older people need help with things such as:
Housekeeping
Meals laundry
Transportation
Continuing care retirement community (CCRC)
Restaurants
Pools
Fitness centers
Spas
Assisted living
Financial and Legal Concerns
Paying for long term care
Helping an older person who has problems managing money
Many families do not discuss finances before a crisis and then it is often too late
Hesitate to discuss financial concerns for fear of appearing overly interested in inheritance
End of Life Care Decisions
The main interests of patients nearing the end of life are pain and symptom control, financial and health decision planning, funeral arrangements, being at peace with God, maintaining dignity and cleanliness and saying goodbye
Tools
Five wishes
Issues of Driving
How does age affect driving
Joints may get stiff
Muscle weaken
Difficult to turn head
Safely hit the brake
Need more light to see things
Glare from oncoming head lights
Peripheral vision narrows
Eye disease (cataracts, macular degeneration, glaucoma)
Reflexes get slower
Attention span shortens
Issues of Driving
Older drivers are more likely to get into multiple vehicle accidents
Most likely to get traffic citations for (indication of decreased driving ability):
Failing to yield
Turning improperly
Running red lights
Running stop signs
Issues of driving
Factors that contribute to increased risk:
Loss of hearing acuity
Loss of visual acuity
Limited mobility and increased reaction time
Medications
Dementia or mental impairment
Driving symbolizes autonomy, control, competence, self-reliance, freedom, and belonging to the mainstream of society, so older persons alter their driving when their abilities decline
Drive during the day
Limit geographic area
Issues of Driving
Health problems:
Arthritis
Parkinson’s disease
Diabetes
Depression (easily distracted)
Sleep disturbances
Heart disease (pacemaker)
Medications
Sleep aids
Anti-depressants
Antihistamines
Pain killers
Issues of Driving
Is it time to give up driving:
Do others often honk at you
Have you had some accidents
Do you get lost
Am I driving less because I am not sure about my driving
Family Caregiving
Provided by adult children of the older person
Types and levels of family caregiving
Routine care: regular assistance / daily routine
Back up care: provided at request of caregiver
Circumscribed care: boundaries (hair appt., nails)
Sporadic care: irregular participation
Dissociation: potential caregiver does not participate al all in care
Challenges & Opportunities of Caregiving
Few families are prepared to cope with the physical, financial and emotional cost of caregiving
Caregivers may become frustrated and exhausted because of unrealistic expectations or lack of knowledge and time
Chronic stress is another challenge to family caregivers – the families normal routine may be disrupted
Many adult caregivers express frustration regarding the inequality of the contributions by their siblings
Caregiver Stress
See Figure 6.1 on page 105:
Modified Caregiver Strain Index
Just as an older adult’s situation can change and require reassessment, so can family’s situation and a caregivers ability to provide care
Change in older adult’s condition
Change in family structure (marriage, divorce, birth, death)
Change in employment status of the caregiver
Interventions to Support Family Caregivers
Education
Understanding the family member’s medical condition
Improving coping skills / stress management
Dealing with family issues
Communicating effectively with older persons
Using community services
Long term planning / legal and financial plans
Respite Programs
Designed specifically to benefit the caregiver
Allows caregivers planned time away from their caregiving role
Premises to respite care
Shared responsibility for caregivers
Caregivers support
Respite Programs
Often underused
Lack of awareness
Apprehension (leaving loved one with a stranger)
Caregiver attitudes
Timing / a last resort (seek help too late)
Finances
Care receiver resistance
Energy required to use program
Program inflexibility and bureaucracy
Support groups
Some support groups are oriented to specific diseases
Cancer
Parkinson’s disease
Lung diseases
Alzheimer’s disease
Support group may be a place where caregivers get:
Advice
Gain knowledge about medical condition
Share experiences and feelings
Develop new coping strategies
Learn about community resources
Decision Making
Families find it helpful to have a model to follow as they make decisions or solve problems
Gathering information
Clearly identify issue
Formulating options
See all possible options
Evaluating options
Assess the advantages and limitations of each option
Creating a plan
Implementing the plan
Put plan into action
Reassessing
Assess the outcome / how well plan is working
Decision Making
Involving the older person in decision making
Validating feelings
Families experience many emotions when faced with difficult decisions and caregiving
May include: grief, frustration, anger, resentment, embarrassment or guilt
Because feelings, beliefs and attitudes influence behavior, it is important to address the belief systems and feelings of family members