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ESSENTIALS OF
LIFE-SPAN
DEVELOPMENT 6e
John W. Santrock
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Chapter 6
Socioemotional Development in Early Childhood
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Chapter Outline
• Emotional and personality development
• Families
• Peer relations, play, and media/screen time
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Emotional and Personality Development
Children’s developing minds and social experiences produce remarkable advances in the development of
• The self
• Emotional development
• Moral development
• Gender
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The Self 1
Erikson’s psychosocial stages associated with early childhood
• Initiative versus guilt
• Children use perceptual, motor, cognitive, and language skills to make things happen.
• Children exuberantly move out into wider social world on their own initiative.
• The great governor of initiative is conscience.
• Initiative and enthusiasm may bring guilt, which lowers self-esteem.
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The Self 2
Self-understanding and understanding others
• Increased awareness reflects young children’s expanding psychological sophistication.
• Self-understanding: substance and content of self-conceptions
• Physical activities: central component of the self in early childhood
• Tend to confuse ability and effort
• Unrealistically positive self descriptions, which are self-protective
• Better basic understanding of emotions in early childhood enabled children to develop more advanced understanding of others’ perspectives
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The Self 3
Understanding others
• Children start perceiving others in terms of psychological traits.
• Children begin to develop an understanding for joint commitments.
• Young children are not as egocentric as depicted in Piaget’s theory.
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Emotional Development 1
Growing self awareness is linked to feeling
Growing self awareness is linked to expanding and expressing a range of emotions
• Young children experience many emotions during the day.
• Emotional development allows for ability to make sense of other people’s emotional reactions and control their own
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Emotional Development 2
Expressing emotions
• Pride, shame, embarrassment, and guilt are for examples of self- conscious emotions.
• During the early childhood years, pride and guilt become more common.
• Influenced by parents’ responses to children’s behavior, for example, “ You should feel bad about biting your sister.”
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Emotional Development 3
Understanding emotions
• Children’s understanding of emotion linked to increase in pro-social behavior
• Children begin to understand that same event can elicit different feelings in different people
• By age 5, most children show more ability to reflect on emotions and growing awareness of the need to manage emotions according to social standards
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Emotional Development 4
Regulating emotions
• Plays a key role in children’s ability to manage the demands and conflicts they face in interacting with others
• Parents can be described as taking an emotion-coaching or an emotion- dismissing approach to help children regulate emotions.
• Ability to modulate emotions benefits children in their relationships with peers.
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Moral Development 1
Involves thoughts, feelings, and behavior regarding rules and conventions about what people should do in their interactions with other people
Moral feelings
• Feelings of anxiety and guilt are central to the account of moral development.
• Emotions and guilt can motivate behavior.
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Moral Development 2
Moral reasoning
• Heteronomous morality: the first stage of moral development in Piaget’s theory, occurring from approximately 4 to 7 years of age
• Justice and rules are conceived of as unchangeable properties of the world, removed from the control of people.
• Autonomous morality: in Piaget’s theory, older children (approximately 10 years of age and older) become aware that rules and laws are created by people
• When judging an action, one should consider the actor’s intentions as well as the consequences.
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Moral Development 3
Immanent justice: concept that if a rule is broken, punishment will be meted out immediately
Parent-child relations in which parents have the power and children do not are less likely to advance moral reasoning.
• Rules are handed down in an authoritarian manner.
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Moral Development 4
Moral behavior
• Processes of reinforcement, punishment, and imitation explain the development of moral behavior.
• Situation influences behavior.
• Cognitive factors are important in the child’s development of self- control.
Conscience: internal regulation of standards of right and wrong that involves integrating moral thought, feeling, and behavior
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Gender 1
• Gender identity: the sense of being male or female, which most children acquire by 2 1/2 years
• Gender role: a cultural set of expectations that prescribes how females or males should think, act, feel
• Gender typing: acquisition of a traditional masculine or feminine role
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Gender 2
Biological influences
• Chromosomes
• Hormones
• Evolution
Social influences
• Social theories of gender
• Social role theory: gender differences result from contrasting roles of women and men
• Psychoanalytic theory of gender: preschool child develops a sexual attraction to opposite-sex parent
• Social cognitive theory: children’s gender development occurs through observation and imitation of others’ words and actions
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Gender 3
• Parental influences
• Mothers’ socialization strategies for daughters to be obedient restrict autonomy
• Fathers’ socialization strategies for sons to engage in activities promote intellectual development
• Peer influences
• Preschoolers prefer socializing with same gender.
• Group size: boys tend to create larger clusters
• Interaction in same-sex groups: boys tend to competitively play; girls tend to have conversations
Cognitive influences
• Gender schema theory: children gradually develop gender schemas of what is gender-appropriate and gender-inappropriate in their culture
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Families
• Parenting
• Child maltreatment
• Sibling relationships and other birth order
• The changing family in a changing society
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Parenting 1
Parents as compared to non-parents
• are typically more satisfied with their lives
• feel relatively better on a daily basis
• have more positive feelings toward children and daily activities
Recent study: 1/2 of fathers and 1/4 of mothers report feeling they are not spending enough time with their children
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Parenting 2
Baumrind’s parenting styles
• Authoritarian parenting
• Parents exhort child to follow directions and respect their work and effort
• Allows little verbal exchange
• Associated with children’s social incompetence
• Linked to child’s higher level of aggression
• Authoritative parenting
• Encourages children to be independent but still places limits and controls on their actions
• Extensive verbal give-and-take is allowed
• Associated with children’s social competence
• Children are more prosocial
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Parenting 3
Neglectful parenting
• Parent is uninvolved in the child’s life
• Associated with children’s social incompetence and lack of self-control
• Children externalize problems
Indulgent parenting
• Parents are highly involved with their children but place few demands or controls on them
• Associated with children’s social incompetence and lack of self-control
• Associated with children not respecting others
• Children may be domineering, egocentric, noncompliant, and have difficulties in peer relations
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Parenting 4
Parenting styles in context
• Authoritative parenting conveys the most benefits to the child and to the family as a whole.
• Parenting is reciprocal socialization and synchrony: children socialize parents, and parents socialize children.
• Consistent parenting is recommended; however, flexibility in style is warranted depending on the situation.
• Research about parenting styles mostly on mothers, not fathers, who often are authoritarian in comparison
• Consistent parenting styles are most beneficial.
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Parenting 5
Punishment
• Corporal punishment is linked to
• Higher level of child’s behavioral problems
• Higher levels of aggression as children and adolescents.
• Higher incidence of intimate partner violence as adults
• Fear of parent
• Best to handle misbehavior by reasoning with child and explaining consequences of child’s actions for others
Coparenting: support that parents give each other in raising a child
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Classification of Parenting Styles
Parenting Styles Accepting, Responsive
Rejecting, Unresponsive
Demanding, controlling
Authoritative Authoritarian
Undemanding, uncontrolling
Indulgent Neglectful
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Child Maltreatment
Types of child maltreatment
• Physical abuse
• Child neglect
• Sexual abuse
• Emotional abuse
Context of abuse
• Among the family and family-associated characteristics that may contribute to child maltreatment are parenting stress, substance abuse, social isolation, single parenting, and socioeconomic difficulties.
• About 1/3 of parents who were abused themselves when they were young go on to abuse their own children.
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Developmental Consequences of Abuse
• Poor emotion regulation, attachment problems, poor peer relations, difficulty in adapting to school, depression
• Physical abuse linked to diminished cognitive development and school participation
• Engaging in violent behavior and substance abuse
• Engaging in violent romantic relationships, delinquency, sexual risk taking, substance abuse
• Increase in 13 to 18 year olds’ suicide ideation, plans, attempts
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Sibling Relationships and Birth Order
Sibling relationships
• Important characteristics
• Emotional quality of the relationship
• Familiarity and intimacy of the relationship
• Variation in sibling relationships
Birth order
• Compared with later-born children, firstborn children have been described as more adult-oriented, helpful, conforming, and self- controlled.
• Only children often are achievement-oriented.
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Changing Family in a Changing Society 1
Working parents
• More than 1 of every 2 U.S. mothers with a child under the age of 5 is in the workforce.
• Children of working mothers engage in less gender stereotyping and have more egalitarian views of gender than do children of nonworking mothers.
• More recent study found negative associations with father’s employment but not mother’s employment.
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Changing Family in a Changing Society 3
Children in divorced families
• show poorer adjustment than their counterparts in never-divorced families
• New research indicates that experiencing divorce during childhood was linked to worse cohabitating/material relationships from 16 to 30.
• Also influenced by SES at birth
• Also influenced by experiences of childhood sexual abuse
• Parental divorce and child maltreatment linked to midlife suicidal ideation
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• Many problems children experience after parents divorce date to before the divorce.
• Frequent noncustodial parent visits benefit children.
• Children with difficult temperament have problems coping with divorce. The opposite is also true.
• Co-parenting after divorce helps children adjust, reduces anxiety and depression, and increases self-esteem and academic performance.
• Divorced mothers often lose income and experience increased workloads, high rates of job instability, and high rates of moving.
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Gay and lesbian parents compared to heterosexual parents
• Few differences between children growing up in homosexual families
• No differences in peer relationships, mental health adjustment
Cultural, ethnic, and socioeconomic variations
• Trends toward greater family mobility, migration to urban areas
• Minority parents tend to have less education and may live in low- income circumstances.
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Lower-SES parents
• More concerned that their children conform to society’s expectations
• Create a home atmosphere in which it is clear that parents have authority over children, among others
• Use more physical punishment
• Are more directive and less conversational
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Higher-SES parents
• More concerned with developing children’s initiative and delay of gratification
• Less likely to use physical punishment
• Create a home atmosphere in which children are more nearly equal participants and in which rules are discussed
• Are less directive and more conversational
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Peer Relation, Play, and Media/Screen Time 1
Peer relations
• Give children information and comparison about the world outside their family.
• Good peer relations are necessary for normal socioemotional development.
• Developmentally, children start spending time with same gender.
• Children make friends of all ethnic groups.
• Parents’ lifestyle decisions determine their children's friend choices.
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Peer Relation, Play, and Media/Screen Time 2
Play
• Play therapy is used to allow the child to work off frustrations and to analyze the child’s conflicts and ways of coping with them.
• Provides important context for development of language and communication skills.
• Children have less unconstructed play time, need more time for play for development
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Connected Worlds of Parent-Child and Peer Relationships
• Parents influence children’s peer relationships directly and indirectly
• Basic life decisions
• Attachment and security
• Play’s Function
• Important aspect of development
• Play therapy: allows children to work off frustrations and analyze children’s conflicts and ways of coping
• Important context for cognitive development, exploration, and language development
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Types of Play
• Sensorimotor: infants derive pleasure from exercising their existing sensorimotor schemas
• Practice: involves repetition of behavior when new skills are being learned
• Pretense/symbolic: transforming physical environment into symbols
• Social: involves interaction with peers
• Constructive: combines sensorimotor/practice play with symbolic representation
• Games: activities are engaged in for pleasure and have rules
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Television strongly influences children's development
• Children also use other media
• Screen time: includes how much time individual spends with television, DVDs, computers, video games, and mobile devices
• Young children’s use of mobile devices dramatically increased 2011 to 2013
• playing games using apps
• watching videos
• watching TV/movies
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Playful learning and cognitive development
• Creativity
• Abstract thinking
• Imagination, attention
• Concentration, and persistence
• Problem-solving; social cognition
• Empathy, and perspective taking
• Language
• Mastery of new concepts
Playful learning and socioemotional development
• Enjoyment
• Relaxation
• Self-expression
• Cooperation
• Sharing, and turn-taking
• Anxiety reduction
• Self-confidence
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Many 2 to 4 year olds spend 2 to 4 hours/day watching TV, more time than they spend with parents
Children and Television: American Academy of Pediatrics
• 2- to 5-years olds should watch maximum of 1 hour of TV per day, watching high quality programs, for example, Sesame Street and PBS shows.
• Can teach children positive, prosocial behavior
• Linked to higher obesity rates in children and adolescents
• Linked to violent and aggressive behavior
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Media/Screen Time
• Best types of educational apps parents can purchase for children
• Active involvement
• Engagement
• Meaningfulness
• Social interaction
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