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MARRIAGE AND FAMILY THE QUEST FOR INTIMACY

EIGHTH EDITION

ROBERT H. LAUER AND JEANETTE C. LAUER

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THE

CONTEXT

OF

INTIMACY

PART ONE

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MARRIAGE AND

FAMILY

IN AMERICA:

NEEDS, MYTHS,

AND DREAMS

CHAPTER 1

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The Need for Intimacy: We are

Social Creatures

• Loneliness

• Well-Being and Intimacy

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Myths About Family Life

• We’ve Lost the Extended Family

• Opposites Attract

• People Marry Because They Love Each

Other

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Myths About Family Life cont.

• Having Children Increases Marital

Satisfaction

• A Good Sex Life Is the Best Predictor of

Marital Satisfaction

• Happily Married People Don’t Have Conflict

• Half of all Marriages End in Divorce

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Changing Patterns of Intimate

Relationships

• Premarital Sex

• Births to Unmarried Women

• Living Alone

• Cohabitation

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Changing Patterns of Intimate

Relationships cont.

• Delayed Marriage

• Birth Rates

• Household Size

• Employed Mothers

• Divorce

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Births to Unmarried Women,

by Race: 1960-2007

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Number of Americans

Living Alone

Sources: U.S. Census Bureau 1987:45 and 2010a.

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Birth Rate per 1,000 Population: 1910-2008

Sources: U.S. Census Bureau Web site and Centers for Disease Control 2010.

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What Do We Want? What Do We

Need?

• The Great Debate

• Changes in Traditional Arrangements

• Me or We?

• Strengths and Benefits of Marriage and

Family

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Applying Theory

Systems Theory

Exchange Theory

Symbolic Interaction Theory

Conflict Theory

Theory and Intimacy