"Julia Measuring Up I grew up in a northeastern suburban town, and I’ve lived in
the same house for my entire life. My father is a lawyer, and my mother is the
assistant principal at our town’s high school. My sister, Holly, is 4 years younger
than I am. M
y parents have been married for almost 20 years. Aside from the
usual sort of disagreements, they get along well. In fact, I would say that my
entire family gets along well. We’re not particularly touchy
-
feely: It’s always a little
awkward when we have to
hug our grandparents on holidays, because we just
never do that sort of thing at home. That’s not to say that my parents are
uninterested or don’t care about us. Far from it; even though they both have busy
work schedules, one of them would almost always m
ake it to my track and cross
-
country meets and to Holly’s soccer games. My mother, in particular, has always
tried to keep on top of what’s going on in our lives. In high school, I took
advanced
-
level classes and earned good grades. I also got along quite
well with
my teachers, and ended up graduating in the top 10 percent of my class. I know
this made my mother really proud, especially since she works at the school. She
would get worried that I might not be doing my best and “working to my full
potential.”
All through high school, she tried to keep on top of my homework
assignments and test schedules. She liked to look over my work before I turned it
in, and would make sure that I left myself plenty of time to study for tests.
Describe the family dynamics a
nd school pressures experienced by Julia. Under
what circumstances might such family and school factors become problematic or
set the stage for psychological problems? In addition to schoolwork, the track
and cross
-
country teams were a big part of high sch
ool for me. I started running
in junior high school because my parents wanted me to do something athletic
and I was never coordinated enough to be good at sports like soccer. I was
always a little bit chubby when I was a kid. I don’t know if I was actually
overweight, but everyone used to tease me about my baby fat. Running seemed
like a good way to lose that extra weight; it was hard at first, but I gradually got
better and by high school I was one of the best runners on the team. Schoolwork
and running di
dn’t leave me much time for anything else. I got along fine with the
other kids at school, but I basically hung out with just a few close friends. When I
was younger, I used to get teased for being a Goody Two
-
Shoes, but that had
died down by high school.
I can’t remember anyone with whom I ever had
problems. I did go to the prom, but I didn’t date very much in high school. My
parents didn’t like me hanging out with boys unless it was in a group. Besides,
the guys I had crushes on were never the ones who as
ked me out. So any free
time was mostly spent with my close girlfriends. We would go shopping or to the
"Julia Measuring Up I grew up in a northeastern suburban town, and I’ve lived in
the same house for my entire life. My father is a lawyer, and my mother is the
assistant principal at our town’s high school. My sister, Holly, is 4 years younger
than I am. My parents have been married for almost 20 years. Aside from the
usual sort of disagreements, they get along well. In fact, I would say that my
entire family gets along well. We’re not particularly touchy-feely: It’s always a little
awkward when we have to hug our grandparents on holidays, because we just
never do that sort of thing at home. That’s not to say that my parents are
uninterested or don’t care about us. Far from it; even though they both have busy
work schedules, one of them would almost always make it to my track and cross-
country meets and to Holly’s soccer games. My mother, in particular, has always
tried to keep on top of what’s going on in our lives. In high school, I took
advanced-level classes and earned good grades. I also got along quite well with
my teachers, and ended up graduating in the top 10 percent of my class. I know
this made my mother really proud, especially since she works at the school. She
would get worried that I might not be doing my best and “working to my full
potential.” All through high school, she tried to keep on top of my homework
assignments and test schedules. She liked to look over my work before I turned it
in, and would make sure that I left myself plenty of time to study for tests.
Describe the family dynamics and school pressures experienced by Julia. Under
what circumstances might such family and school factors become problematic or
set the stage for psychological problems? In addition to schoolwork, the track
and cross-country teams were a big part of high school for me. I started running
in junior high school because my parents wanted me to do something athletic
and I was never coordinated enough to be good at sports like soccer. I was
always a little bit chubby when I was a kid. I don’t know if I was actually
overweight, but everyone used to tease me about my baby fat. Running seemed
like a good way to lose that extra weight; it was hard at first, but I gradually got
better and by high school I was one of the best runners on the team. Schoolwork
and running didn’t leave me much time for anything else. I got along fine with the
other kids at school, but I basically hung out with just a few close friends. When I
was younger, I used to get teased for being a Goody Two-Shoes, but that had
died down by high school. I can’t remember anyone with whom I ever had
problems. I did go to the prom, but I didn’t date very much in high school. My
parents didn’t like me hanging out with boys unless it was in a group. Besides,
the guys I had crushes on were never the ones who asked me out. So any free
time was mostly spent with my close girlfriends. We would go shopping or to the