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Chapter 8
Childhood and Adolescent Sexuality
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Sexuality Now – Embracing Diversity 5e
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Chapter Outline
Studying Childhood and Adolescent Sexuality
Beginnings: Birth to Age 2
Early Childhood: Ages 2-5
Middle Childhood to Preteen: Ages 6-12
Adolescence: Ages 12-18
What Children Need to Know: Sexuality Education
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Studying Childhood Sexuality
Society in the United States limits research on childhood sexuality
Due to a belief that it may cause undesired sexual behaviors in children
Four large-scale studies have been conducted in the United States
More research is needed on variety of adolescent sexuality issues, not just on decreasing problems
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Beginnings: Birth to Age 2—Physical Development
Functional sexual anatomy
Many behaviors are due to curiosity; not to be termed “sexual”
Male fetuses and newborns are capable of erections
Female newborns are capable of vaginal lubrication
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Beginnings: Birth to Age 2—Psychosexual Development
Bonding between mother and infant
Gender identity
After 24 months, gender identity is in place
Gender constancy will take a little longer
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Beginnings: Birth to Age 2—Sexual Behavior
Lack of differentiation between sexual functions and other functions
Curiosity
Children are learning about their bodies and how to control them
Penile and clitoral erections, and vaginal lubrication may all occur
Genital touching is common after 3-4 months; frequency varies
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Early Childhood: Ages 2 to 5—Physical Development
Mastering coordination
Critical time period to learn the basic physical skills we use in life
Continued learning about the body, how it functions, and how to control it
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Early Childhood: Ages 2 to 5—Psychosexual Development
Who am I?
Turn to parents, siblings, or television for models of gender behavior
Interest and questioning nature about the genitals, bodily wastes
Discovering what it is to be a “girl” and “boy”
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Psychosexual Development and Curiosity
Young girls and boys are curious about their bodies and bodily functions.
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Early Childhood: Ages 2 to 5—Sexual Behavior
Sexual curiosity and responsibility
Girls and boys self-stimulate, although reports indicate boys do so more than girls
More common at this age than in later childhood; increases again after puberty
Parental reaction is important
Disapproval may lead to shame of self
Rules of appropriate conditions should be provided
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Early Childhood: Ages 2 to 5—Sexual Play
Child sex play may involve:
Exposing genitals
Undressing and touching
Asking questions
Rubbing their bodies against each other, often with those of the same sex
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Early Childhood: Ages 2 to 5—Sexual Knowledge and Attitudes
Developing a sense of sexuality
Children learn that genitals are a unique part of the body and there are privacy issues
Children, especially girls, are rarely taught anatomically correct terms for their genitals
Boys are taught about the penis as focus of sexual pleasure
Girls are not taught about their focus of sexual pleasure (clitoris)
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Middle Childhood to Preteen: Ages 6 to 12—Physical Development
Moving toward puberty
External signs of puberty around age 9–10; begins age 8–13 in girls, 9–14 in boys
Girls: breast buds, pubic hair, menarche
Boys: pubic hair and semenarche; frequent erections to various stimuli
Girls beginning puberty earlier than ever
Overall, girls’ maturation is 1.5-2 years ahead of boys
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The Age Sequence of Pubertal Maturation in Boys and Girls
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Developing Relationships
Young boys develop strong relationships with same-sex and other-sex friends and relatives, and these relationships set the stage for adult intimate relationships.
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Middle Childhood to Preteen: Ages 6 to 12—Psychosexual Development
Becoming more private
Socialization takes place about acceptable sexual behaviors
Bodily privacy becomes a concern
Sexual interest and activity increases throughout this time period
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Middle Childhood to Preteen: Ages 6 to 12—Sexual Behavior
Learning about sex
Curiosity about others’ genitals
Age of sexual discovery: learn about intercourse, taboos, prejudices
Masturbation: at end of time period, most are able to stimulate to orgasm
Boys and girls learn from peers and media, rarely from parents or teachers
Both boys and girls exhibit wide range of same-sex behavior
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Imitating Adult Relationships
In their relationships with each other, boys and girls in middle childhood often imitate adults.
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Middle Childhood to Preteen: Ages 6 to 12—Sexuality and Relationships
Relationships with parents, caretakers, peers
Parents can become upset and confused about child sex or cross-gender play
Friendships essential to adolescent development
Peers teach acceptable sexual principles; typically same-sex peer groups and experimentation; other-sex peers begin to be seen as potential boy/girlfriends; may experience early sexual contact
Sibling/relative sexual contact may occur
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Cultural Transitions into Adulthood
Many cultures have rituals of passage that signify the entry of the child into adulthood. Here a young Jewish boy practices reading from the Torah for his Bar Mitzvah.
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Adolescence: Ages 12 to 18—Physical Development
Adolescence ends at “adulthood” (around age 17 or 18 or extending into one’s 20s)
Physical maturation
Profound and sometimes fast physical changes
Changes in cardiovascular, energy, sexual desire, mood, personality
Can be an awkward stage for many
Sexual exploration, changing bodies, and peer pressure can lead to having negative body image
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Adolescence: Ages 12 to 18—Psychosexual Development
Emotional self-awareness
Most psychologically and socially difficult of life cycle changes
Forging identity separate from family; more emphasis on peers, cliques are common
Growing interest in intimate relationships by 14
Sensitive to perceived threats to emerging ideas about masculinity/femininity
Development of LGBTQ challenges long-held or socially taught ideas
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Discovering an Identity
In early and middle adolescence, teens try on different looks, from trendy to rebellious, as they develop identities separate from their parents.
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Adolescence: Ages 12 to 18—Sexual Behavior (1 of 4)
Sexual activity
Today’s adolescents are more likely to act responsibly about sexual behavior than media suggests
Masturbation
Increases as an activity to achieve orgasm
Decreases with partnered sex
Abstinence
Close to 30% of sexually active adolescents refrain from sexual activity at some point
Some adolescents avoid penetrative sex, but engage in other activities
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Adolescence: Ages 12 to 18—Sexual Behavior (2 of 4)
Sexual contact
Oral sex
41% of girls age 15–19
47% of boys age 15–19
Anal sex
15% of females age 18–19
17% of males age 18–19
Adolescents who have had penile-vaginal intercourse are more likely to engage in oral and anal sex
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Adolescence: Ages 12 to 18—Sexual Behavior (3 of 4)
Heterosexual intercourse
By senior year, 57% of females and 59% of males have had sexual intercourse
90% of boys wanted first intercourse; mostly curiosity, also affection; 0.3% forced
70% of girls wanted first intercourse; mostly affection, also curiosity; 4% forced
Same-sex sexual behavior
Same-sex contact is common at this age
3% of males and 8% of females age 18-19 identify as LGB, but 4% of males and 12% of females report having had same-sex sexual behavior
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Adolescence: Ages 12 to 18—Sexual Behavior (4 of 4)
Other sexual situations
7% of high school students forced to engage in sexual intercourse
Prevalence of forced sex with LGB teens was 18% and 13% with questioning teens
Some teens, runaways, engage in sex work or pornography for money to buy food, face many sexual and psychological difficulties later
Ethnic and racial differences in sexual activity
Prevalence of engaging in sexual intercourse higher among Black and Hispanic students than White students
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Sexual Behaviors in Adolescence and Young Adults (1 of 2)
| Masturbation | ||
| Age | Male | Female |
| 14-15 | 67.5% | 43% |
| 16-17 | 79% | 52% |
| 18-19 | 86% | 66% |
| 20-24 | 92% | 77% |
| Vaginal Intercourse | ||
| Age | Male | Female |
| 14-15 | 10% | 12% |
| 16-17 | 30% | 32% |
| 18-19 | 62.5% | 64% |
| 20-24 | 70% | 86% |
| Anal Sex | |||
| Age | Male Gave | Male Received | Female |
| 14-15 | 4% | 1% | 4% |
| 16-17 | 6% | 1% | 7% |
| 18-19 | 10% | 4% | 20% |
| 20-24 | 24% | 11% | 40% |
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Figure 8.3 Average percentage of men and women by age who have engaged in specific sexual behaviors. Source: National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior (NSSHB) results in Herbenick et al. (2010a).
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Sexual Behaviors in Adolescence and Young Adults (2 of 2)
| Oral Sex | ||||
| Age | Male | |||
| With a Male Gave | With a Male Received | With a Female Gave | With a Female Received | |
| 14-15 | 2% | 2% | 8.5% | 13% |
| 16-17 | 3% | 3% | 20% | 34% |
| 18-19 | 10% | 9% | 61% | 60% |
| 20-24 | 9% | 9% | 71% | 73.5% |
| Oral Sex | ||||
| Age | Female | |||
| With a Female Gave | With a Female Received | With a Male Gave | With a Male Received | |
| 14-15 | 5% | 4% | 13% | 10% |
| 16-17 | 9% | 7% | 29% | 26% |
| 18-19 | 8% | 8% | 61% | 62% |
| 20-24 | 14% | 17% | 78% | 77% |
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Figure 8.3 Average percentage of men and women by age who have engaged in specific sexual behaviors. Source: National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior (NSSHB) results in Herbenick et al. (2010a).
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Adolescence: Ages 12 to 18—Influences
Peers
Strong influence
Perceptions of peer behavior impact sexual behavior; lessened with strong family ties
Parents
If moderately strict and open climate, tend to delay intercourse and use contraception; mainly mothers discuss sex
Religion
If religious, tend to delay and have fewer partners
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Adolescence: Ages 12 to 18—Complex Issues
Contraception and pregnancy
80% of female and 84% of male teens used contraceptive method for first intercourse
National teen pregnancy rate decreasing over past two decades
Teen mothers: lower birth weight babies, dropping out, poorer health, welfare, children with poorer health, and more behavioral/educational problems
Society asks little of teen fathers; few social pressures to take responsibility for offspring
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Figure 8.7 Approximately 80% of U.S. teens use a contraceptive method the first time they engage in sexual intercourse and condoms are the most popular method. Source: Martinez et al., 2011.
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Adolescence: Ages 12 to 18—Sexually Transmitted Infections
Education and prevention
Chlamydia and gonorrhea higher in 15- to 19-year-old females than any other age group
15- to 24-year-olds acquire approximately 50% of all new sexually transmitted infections
Rates of STIs are increasing annually
Condom use critical to reducing transmission of STIs
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What Children Need to Know: Sexuality Education (1 of 2)
Sexuality education in the United States
Sexuality education increased in the early 1900s to decrease STI rates
The United States has opposed sex education on two grounds:
Sex is private, not for kids, and meant to be discussed within religion and moral beliefs
Public schools cannot discuss religion and would provide implicit permission if sex was discussed
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What Children Need to Know: Sexuality Education (2 of 2)
Sexuality education today
Each state responsible for developing its own sexuality education program
Less than half of high schools and a fifth of middle schools include all nationally recommended topics
37 states require abstinence information
18 states require contraception information
13 states require sexual orientation information
11 states require tools to help talk to parents about sex
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What Children Need to Know: Sexuality Education—Programs (1 of 2)
Comprehensive sexuality education
Guidelines includes four main goals:
Provide accurate information
Provide opportunity to explore their sexual attitudes
Help development of interpersonal skills
Help development of responsible sexuality
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What Children Need to Know: Sexuality Education—Programs (2 of 2)
Abstinence-only sexuality education programs
Variety of abstinence-based programs; tend to exaggerate the danger and negative aspects of sexuality
From 1996 to 2010, federal funding for abstinence-based sexuality education grew significantly
Federal funds could only be used for sexuality education if programs taught abstinence only until marriage
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What Children Need to Know: Sexuality Education—The Results
Impact of sexuality education programs
Sexuality program effectiveness measures include vaginal intercourse, pregnancy, and contraceptive use
Comprehensive sexuality programs are most successful
Virginity pledges decrease sexual behavior immediately following pledge, but increase STIs and pregnancy risks
88% of pledges engage in premarital sex
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