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This is what the late George Knudson, Canada's deeply intro- 11 spective and mightily gifted golfer, alluded to when he suggested that the golfer "give up control to gain control." That is, the player ought to stop thinking about what to do with the golf club at every segment of its route away from and back to the ball. Said Knudson: "Let yourself swing."
Perhaps that sounds too much like Zen golf. But we will risk 12 any accusation of limp thinking because we know that we find almost an altered state when we bounce on the rolling turf, and when we are aware of the high grass swaying in the rough and when we wrap our fingers around a velvety grip and when we swing the club to and fro and when we fall into the grace of the game, an outing that sends us inward.
If we play sensibly, we can discover the sensuality that lurks 13 everywhere on the course. Thinking about slow play, Knudson once said: "I don't know what all the concern is about. Slow play just means that you're going to spend a longer time in a nice place." Take a book along on the course, then. Read a poem. Chat with your companions. Swing, swing, swing. Walk in the woods.
Knudson's comment can be a code for the game. Spring has 14 been here for weeks, but the season still feels fresh, and we are renewed. As for me, I have scratched the itch long enough. I want grass clippings stuck to the soles of my shoes, mud on my golf ball, dirt on my club face, the club in my hand while I turn it round and round until it feels right. Care to join me?
Pornography I'v1ARGARET ATWOOD
One of Canada's best-known writers, Margaret Atwood was born in Ottawa in 1939. She has published more than twenty books , including novels, short stories, poetry, and criticism. Among her most recent works are The Robber Bride (1993), Morning in the Burned House (1995), and Alias Grace (1996). In 2000, Atwood won the prestigious Booker Prize for her novel The Blind Assassin.
W hen I was in Finland a few years ago for an international writers' conference, I had occasion to say a few para-graphs in public on the subject of pornography. The con- text was a discussion of political repression, and I was suggesting
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the possibility of a link between the two. The immediate result was that a male journalist took several large bites out of me . Prudery and pornography are two halves of the same coin, said he, and I was clearly a prude . What could you expect from an Anglo- Canadian? Afterward, a couple of pleasant Scandinavian men asked me what I had been so worked up about. All "pornography" means, they said, is graphic depictions of whores, and what was the harm in that?
2 Not until then did it strike me that the male journalist and I had two entirely different things in mind. By "pornography," he meant naked bodies and sex. I, on the other hand, had recently been doing the research for my novel Bodily Harm , and was still in a state of shock from some of the material I had seen, including the Ontario Board of Film Censors' "outtakes." By "pornography," I meant women getting their nipples snip p ed off with garden shears, having meat hooks stuck into their vaginas, being disemboweled; little girls being raped; men (yes, there are some men) being smashed to a pulp and forcibly sodomized. The cutting edge of pornography, as far as I could see, was no longer simple old copu- lation, hanging from the chandelier or otherwise: it was death, messy, explicit and highly sadistic. I explained this to the nice Scandinavian men. "Oh, but that ' s just the United States," they said . "Everyone knows they're sick." In their country, they said, violent "pornography" of that kind was not permitted on television or in movies; indeed, excessive violence of any kin d was not per- mitted. They had drawn a clear line between erotica, which earlier studies had shown did not incite men to more aggressive and brutal behavior toward women, and violence, which later studies indicated did.
3 Some time after that I was in Saskatchewan, where, because of the scenes in Bodily Harm, I found myself on an open-line radio show answering questions about "pornography." Almost no one who phoned in was in fav or of it, but again they weren't talking about the same stuff I was, because they hadn't seen it. Some of them were all set to stamp out bathing suits and negligees, and, if possible, any depictions of the female body whatsoever. God, it was implied, did not approve of female bodies, and sex of any kind, including that practised by bumblebees, should be shoved back into the dark, where it belonged. I had more than a suspicion that Lady Chatterl ey 's Lo ver, Margaret Laurence's The Di viners, and indeed most books by most serious modern authors would have ended up as confetti if left in the hands of these callers.
4 For me, these two experiences illustrate the two poles of the emotionally heated debate that is now thundering around this
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issue. They also underline the desirability and even the necessity of defining the terms. "Pornography" is now one of those catchalls, like "Marxism" and "feminism," that have become so broad they can mean almost anything, ranging from certain verses in the Bible, ads for skin lotion and sex tests for children to the contents of Penthouse, Naughty '90s postcards and films with titles containing the word Nazi that show vicious scenes of torture and killing. It's easy to say that sensible people can tell the difference. Unfortu- nately, opinions on what constitutes a sensible person vary ..
But even sensible people tend to lose their cool when they start s talking about this subject. They soon stop talking and start yelling, and the name calling begins. Those in favor of censorship (which may include groups not noticeably in agreement on other issues, such as some feminists and religious fundamentalists) accuse the others of exploiting women through the use of degrading images, contributing to the corruption of children, and adding to the gen- eral climate of violence and threat in which both women and chil- dren live in this society; or, though they may not give much of a hoot about actual women and children, they invoke moral stan- dards and God's supposed aversion to "filth," "smut" and deviated perversion, which may mean ankles.
The camp in favor of total "freedom of expression" often comes 6 out howling as loud as the Romans would have if told they could no longer have innocent fun watching the lions eat up Christians. It too may include segments of the population who are not natural bedfel- lows: those who proclaim their God-given r ight to freedom, including the freedom to tote guns, d rive when drunk, drool over chicken porn and get off on videotapes of women being raped and beaten, may be waving the same anticensorship banner as respon- sible liberals who fear the return of Mrs. Grundy, or gay groups for whom sexual emancipation involves the concept of "sexual theatre." Whatever turns you on is a handy motto, as is A man's home is his castle (and if it includes a dungeon with beautiful maidens strung up in chains and bleeding from every pore, that's his business).
Meanwhile, theoreticians theorize and speculators speculate. Is 7 today's pornography yet another indication of the hatred of the body, the deep mind-body split, which is supposed to pervade Western Christian society? Is it a backlash against the women's movement by men who are threatened by uppity female behavior in real life, so like to fantasize about women done up like outsize parcels, being turned into hamburger, kneeling at their feet in slave- like adoration or sucking off guns? Is it a sign of collective impo- tence, of a generation of men who can't relate to real women at all but have to make do with bits of celluloid and paper? Is the current
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flood just a result of smart marketing and aggressive promotion by the money men in what has now become a multibillion-dollar industry? If they were selling movies about men getting their testi- cles stuck full of knitting needles by women with swastikas on their sleeves, would they do as well, or is this penchant somehow pecu- liarly male? If so, why? Is pornography a power trip rather than a sex one? Some say that those ropes, chains, muzzles and other restraining devices are an argument for the immense power female sexuality still wields in the male imagination: you don't put these things on dogs unless you're afraid of them. Others, more literary, wonder about the shift from the 19th-century Magic Woman or Femme Fatale image to the lollipop-licker, airhead or turkey-carcass treatment of women in porn today. The proporners don't care much about theory; they merely demand product. Th e antiporners don't care about it in the final analysis either; there's dirt on the street, and they want it cleaned up, now.
s It seems to me that this conversation, with its You're -a-prude/ You're-a-pervert dialectic, will never get anywhere as long as we continue to think of this material as just "entertainment. " Possibly we ' re deluded by the packaging, the format: magazine, book, mov ie, theatrical presentation. We're used to thinking of these things as part of the "entertainment industry," and we're used to thinking of ourselves as free adult people who ought to be able to see any kind of "entertainment" we want to. That was what the First Choice pay-TV debate was all about. After all, it's only enter- tainment, right? Entertainment means fun, and only a killjoy would be antifun. What's the harm?
9 This is obviously the central question: What's the harm? If there isn't any real harm to any real people, then th e antiporners can tsk- tsk and/or throw up as much as they like, but they can't rightfully expect more legal controls or sanctions. However, the no harm posi- tion is far from being proven.
10 (For instance, there 's a clear-cut case for banning- as the fed- eral gov ernment has proposed- movies, photos and videos that depict children engaging in sex with adults: real children are used to make the movies, and hardly anybody thinks this is ethical. The possibilities for coercion are too great.)
11 To shift the viewpoint, I'd like to suggest three other models for looking at "pornography" - and here I mean the violent kind.
12 Those who find the idea of regulating pornographic materials repugnant because they think it's Fascist or Communist or other- wise not in accordance with the principles of an open democratic society should consider that Canada has made it illegal to dissemi- nate material that may lead to hatred toward any group because of
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race or religion. I suggest that if pornography of the violent kind depicted these acts being done predominantly to Chinese, to blacks, to Catholics, it would be off the market immediately, under the pre- sent laws. Why is hate literature illegal? Because whoever made the law thought that such material might incite real people to do real awful things to other real people. The human brain is to a certain extent a computer: garbage in, garbage out. We only hear about the extreme cases (like that of American multimurderer Ted Bundy) in which pornography has contributed to the death and/or mutilation of women and/ or men. Although pornography is not the only factor involved in the creation of such deviance, it certainly has upped the ante by suggesting both a variety of techniques and the social acceptability of such actions. Nobody knows yet what effect this stuff is having on the less psychotic.
Studies have shown that a large part of the market for all kinds 13 of porn, soft and hard, is drawn from the 16-to-21-year-old popula- tion of young men. Boys used to learn about sex on the street, or (in Italy, according to Fellini movies) from friendly whores, or, in more genteel surroundings, from girls, their parents, or, once upon a time, in school, more or less . Now porn has been added, and sex education in the schools is rapidly being phased out. The buck has been passed, and boys are being taught that all women secretly like to be raped and that real men get high on scooping out women's digestive tracts .
Boys learn their concept of masculinity from other men: is this 14 what most men want them to be learning? If word gets around that rapists are "normal" and even admirable men, will boys feel that in order to be normal, admirable and masculine they will have to be rapists? Human beings are enormously flexible, and how they turn out depends a lot on how they're educated, by the society in which they're immersed as well as by their teachers. In a society that advertises and glorifies rape or even implicitly condones it, more women get raped. It becomes socially acceptable. And at a time when men and the traditional male role have taken a lot of flak and men are confused and casting around for an acceptable way of being male (and, in some cases, not getting much comfort from women on that score), this must be at times a pleasing thought.
It would be naive to think of violent pornography as just harm- 1s less entertainment. It's also an educational tool and a powerful pro- paganda device. What happens when boy educated on porn meets girl brought up on Harlequin romances? The clash of expectations can be heard around the block. She wants him to get down on his knees with a ring, he wants her to get down on all fours with a ring in her nose. Can this marriage be saved?
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16 Pornography has certain things in common with such addictive substances as alcohol and drugs; for some, though by no means for all, it induces chemical changes in the body, which the user finds exciting and pleasurable. It also appears to attract a "hard core" of habitual users and a penumbra of those who use it occasionally but aren't dependent on it in any way. There are also significant num- bers of men who aren't much interested in it, not because they're undersexed but because real life is satisfying their needs, which may not require as many appliances as those of users.
17 For the "hard core," pornography may function as alcohol does for the alcoholic: tolerance develops, and a little is no longer enough. This may account for the short viewing time and fast turnover in porn theatres. Mary Brown, chairwoman of the Ontario Board of Film Censors, estimates that for every one mainstream movie requesting entrance to Ontario, there is one porno flick. Not only the quantity consumed but the quality of explicitness must escalate, which may account for the growing violence: once the big deal was breasts, then it was genitals, then copulation, then that was no longer enough and the hard users had to have more. The ultimate kick is death, and after that, as the Marquis de Sade so bor- ingly demonstrated, multiple death.
1s The existence of alcoholism has not led us to ban social drinking. On the other hand, we do have laws about drinking and driving, excessive drunkenness and other abuses of alcohol that may result in injury or death to others.
19 This leads us back to the key question: what's the harm? Nobody knows, but this society should find out fast, before the sat- uration point is reached. The Scandinavian studies that showed a connection between depictions of sexual violence and increased impulse toward it on the part of male viewers would be a starting point, but many more questions remain to be raised as well as answered. What, for instance, is the crucial difference between men who are users and men who are not? Does using affect a man's rela- tionship with actual women, and, if so, adversely? Is there a clear line . between erotica and violent pornography, or are they on an escalating continuum? Is this a "men versus women" issue, with all men secretly siding with the proporners and all women secretly siding against? (I think not; there are lots of men who don't think that running their true love through the Cuisinart is the best way they can think of to spend a Saturday night, and they're just as nau- seated by films of someone else doing it as women are.) Is pornog- raphy merely an expression of the sexual confusion of this age or an active contributor to it?
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Nobody wants to go back to the age of official repression, when 20 even piano legs were referred to as "limbs" and had to wear pan- taloons to be decent. Neither do we want to end up in George Orwell's 1984, in which pornography is turned out by the State to keep the proles in a state of torpor, sex itself is considered dirty and the approved practice is only for reproduction. But Rome under the emperors isn't such a good model either.
If all men and women respected each other, if sex were consid- 21 ered joyful and life-enhancing instead of a wallow in gern;i-filled glop, if everyone were in love all the time, if, in other words, many people's lives were more satisfactory for them than they appear to be now, pornography might just go away on its own. But since this is obviously not happening, we as a society are going to have to make some informed and responsible decisions.
Hunger MAGGIE HELWIG
Maggie Helwig (b. 1961) is a Canadian writer living in Toronto. Her books include Where She Was Standing (2001 ), Real Bodies (2002), and One Building in the Earth: New and Selected Poems (2002).
C onsider that it is now normal for North American women to have eating disorders. Consider that anorexia-deliberate starvation- and bulimia-self-induced vomiting-and
obsessive patterns for weight-controlling exercise are now the ordinary thing for young women, and are spreading at a fright- ening rate to older women, to men, to ethnic groups and social classes that were once "immune." Consider that some surveys sug- gest that 80 per cent of the women on an average university campus have borderline-to-severe eating disorders; that it is almost impossible to get treatment unless the problem is life- threatening; that, in fact, if it is not life-threatening it is not consid- ered a problem at all. I once sat in a seminar on nutritional aspects of anorexia, and ended up listening to people tell me how to keep my weight down. All this is happening in one of the richest coun- tries in the world, a society devoted to consumption. Amazing as it may seem, we have normalized anorexia and bulimia, even turned them into an industry.
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