writing assignment
Marriage and Family
Family
- Family is a central socioeconomic unit
- Patriarchal Traditions prevail
- Subordination of Women
- Subordination of Children
- Extended ties among family members
Marriage
& Divorce
- Marriage patterns are: arranged; endogamy; polygamy; rights and obligations (mahr)
- Divorce patterns are produced following religious affiliation (sometimes it is almost impossible to divorce; mostly regulated par religious and civil laws)
Marriage in Arab Societies
(Hoodfar on Egypt)
- Marriage and sexuality are regulated by religion, customs and the legal system
- How to secure a successful marriage: strategies to reduce conflicts through family intervention
- Arranged marriages vs. love marriages: marriage is a parental/community affair
- Egypt: Low rate of polygamy
- Egypt: Low incidence of divorce
Weddings
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oSH_M4iQH2Y&feature=related
Zaffa (Bride and Groom entrance)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qQzyHfBIN3Q
Wedding in Dubai
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8hp8WXjXi0I
The Syrian Bride trailer (Syria)
Problematic Situations
- Pre-marital sexuality is prohibited and considered a crime in some parts of the Arab world.
- Inter-religious, inter-sectarian marriage is prohibited or discriminates against women.
- The right to divorce is usually granted to the husband not to the wife.
- Economic and financial domination of the male.
- Sexual abuse is not always sanctioned.
Examples of Abuse
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rE8KMNsMKWk
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4GRHD7nmWz0&feature=related
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dyg_ENqvnpk&feature=related
Shahrazad, Tell me a Story (Egypt)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CDxyS7GT7Yw
One of the Major Problems is:
The unchanged legal and
ethical framework which
upholds the primacy of the male
Family Law
Laws of personal status regarding polygamy, divorce, minimum age of marriage and inheritance have slightly changed over the
past century.
The views of the Sharia, according to women
feminists, are incompatible with the needs of an independent nation in the modern world.
Forms of Resistance
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6B1yXIhNEaw
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vHE_LQDYhjw
Inter-religious marriages in Syria
The fight for secularization
Religious or Civil marriage?
Tunisia…a unique experience
Bourghiba (1957-1987)
Population: 10 Million
Tunisian laws of personal status
Marriage Age:
minimum marriage age is 20 for males and 17 for females.
Marriage Registration: obligatory under Civil Status Act 1957.
Polygamy: prohibited; penal sanctions for polygamous husband and wife who knowingly enters into polygamous marriage are one years prison sentence and/or fine.
Obedience/Maintenance: the law provides for equal cooperation in managing family affairs.
Talaq or Extra-judicial divorce is prohibited.
Child Custody and Guardianship: divorced wife has right of custody over boys until age of 7 and girls until age of 9.
Class Discussion
20, 25, 30, 40 years old
Getting married in order to…
get divorced!
Before and After
First and Second Wives
Family and Female Roles
Freedom
of
marriage
Orfi Custom Marriage
Sunni Misyar and Shia Muttah
“Legal” Temporary Marriage