Policy reflection
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3 ~ Killer Profiles
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The murderers we interviewed were not representative of men who kill ~~I their partners in one important respect: none of them had also killed them-
selves. For two of the men, this had not been for lack of trying. Immedi- ', ately after strangling and stabbing his partner, one man had plunged the
same knife into his neck and slashed both wrists. In an attempt to finish Himself off, he had then attempted to stab himself in the chest. By that point, however, he had been too weak from loss of blood to penetrate his rib -cage and passed out. This man had survived only due to the rapid re- sponse of the EMTs. I will describe this man, Allen, in more detail in the later section about the suicidal type of killer. The other killer who had attempted suicide had shot himself in the chest immediately after shoot- ing his partner in the neck and head. He was hospitalized for two months in recovery. In profiling the suicidal type of killer, I will draw from other research findings.
Including the men who we characterized as suicidal, I found all thi~-ty- one killers could be classified under at least one of five broad types. These types were jealous, substance abusing, materially motivated, suicidal, and career criminal. I also found that there was considerable overlap among these types. We classified more than half of the men as belonging to more than one of these types. The laxgest overlaps were between the jealous and the substance abusing types. There was also a considerable overlap between the career cruninal and the materially motivated types. I will say more about these overlaps in the section about men who pose multiple threats.
'There are any number of alternative ways that killers, like any other individuals, could be classified. One possible classification scheme would
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be according to personalit
y type. I did not undertak
e to classify t he killers
in this manne r because it
is already lrn own that murd
erers have m any per-
sonality type s. I wished i
nstead Co foc us on assess
ments of beh avior and
attitude. Tho ugh there mi
ght be some value to asse
ssing which pexsonality
types are mos t common; th
e added time it would hav
e taken to ad minister
personality a ssessment too
ls would hav e been at the
expense of t he struc-
tured intervi ews and the a
ttitude and be havior measu
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Similarly, I d zd not attem
pt to categori ze the killers
formally acc ord-
ing to mental health diagn
oses. One re ason was tha
t this also wo ald have
been time co nsuming and
at the expen se of other i
nformation. S econdly,
:̀~ classification
s based on ps ychopatholo
gy are notor iously hard
to under-
stand and im practical for
those who i ntervene in d
omestic viole nce cases,
_~ and even mo
re so for the general publ
zc. For insta nce, to say th
at some
l
killers have narcissistic pe
rsonalities o r even anti-s
ocial ones is useless as
' ' a guide for a
ssessing dan gerousness s
ince most pe ople charged
with as-
k: '
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sessing dange r do not use,
and are not q ualified or tra
ined to use, p sycho-
_ .l diagnostic me asures. One
such measure , for instanc
e, is the psych opat,~ic
4. ; checl~list.l Th
is is used by farensic psy
chologists a nd other trai
ned crimi-
;; . nal justice w
orkers to ass ess for psych
opathy, one major aspec
t of anti-
,.~~ ' social person
ality disorde r. It is know
n that high p roportions o
f violent
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offenders, pa rticularly kil
lers, have su ch traits.2 Wh
ile some of these are
~, ~' behavior trait
s, such as chr onic lying an
d exploitativ e behavior, ot
hers are
more subjec tive, such as
the Lack of r emorse or gu
ilt for one's actions,
t glibness or s
uperficial cha rm, having a
grandiose se nse of self-w
orth, be-
f
~ ~ >, ing irrespons
ible, and hav ing shallow
affect. Discer ning these tr
aits is not
,~w~ ~ only difficul
t for the Iay public but als
o among law enforcemen
t profes-
'~~~ sionals, and
among train ed therapists
as well. Ev en the short
ened ver-
~x;-:" ' sion of the p
sychopathy checklist tak
es at least on e hour to co
mplete b}~
'~a ; a trained pro
fessional. Us ually those j
udged to be high in p
sychopathic
~2~ - traits have a
lready amply demonstrate
d their high potential fox
violence
~< and fox other
crimes agai nst people. P
erhaps the m ost useful
aspect o'
~ off~;
such diagnos tics is to ma
tch the indi vidual with
the form of treatmer~,
z ~ ~ ~1iat might b e most effect
ive. It is comm only advise
d that indivi duals wt,~
t ~~.i ~~
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eo be high in psychopath
y will not be nefit from
outpatie,~~
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therapy and should only r
eceive treatm ent in a highl
y structured enviro ~'
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ment. Furthe r discussion
of psychopat l~y will be pr
ovided in th e sectic
r ;;
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lly motivated and career c
runinal types of fillers.
36 ( TNhy Do They Kill?
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relationship histories more than on their psycholo gical cliaracteris- k r, ;;' " w ~'
and
Tics. These behaviors are easily di scernable for victims of abuse as well ~ ~ ".
as those who work with them. In classif ying each killer, I relied upon ; , ~ ,'
has own testimony as well as police repor ts and newspaper accounts of I:~ ' ~`~.
murders. Such accounts often provided backgroun d information, such
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as quotes from witnesses and friends and relative s of the victims. These i ~ ;
witnesses often had informarion about the perpetrator's prior abuse of the
deceased. I also had access to each killer's criminal record, as well as trial
transcripts in some cases. To confirm the validity of each of the categories
of killer, I relied upon information from the victims of attem pted homicide
that we interviewed. From these interviews, a more detailed picture of
perpetrators of near-fatal abuse emerged. Demographically, the perpet ra-
tors of attempted homicide were very similar to the killers. Judging fro m
their victims' accounts, they also exhibited similar attitudes, expectations,
and patterns of abuse. The killers and near-killers were also similar in
their rates of substance abuse and mental health problems, as well as their
exposure to violence in their upbringings. The more detailed information
provided by victims of attempted homicide, particularly about perpetra-
tors' abusive behavior, was indispensable in. completing the picture of
men who kill. In this way, the victims of attempted homicide served as
"stand-ins" for those women who could no longer speak.
Each of the five types of killers profiled had somewhat distinctive
ways of meeting women and of forming intimate relationships. I found
that each type also had unique patterns of behavior within those relation-
ships, as well as unique complaints and grievances toward their part-
ners. Though all five types of perpetrators exhibited abusive or coercive
behavior toward their partners, it seemed to be motivated by factors that
were unique to that particular style. Moreover, the fatal and near-fatal as-
saults appeared to be triggered by these same factors. For each type of
killer, I found that the man's short-term triggers were not new but were
consistent with his longtime grievances toward the woman he killed.
Jealous Type
Most of the killers carne across as extremely jealous. This was the largest
category of killers, with seventy-one percent fitting the criteria for mem-
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bership. It is probabl
e that the a ctual perc
entage is h igher, but
we did not
have suffi cient infor
mation ab out some o
f the kille rs to scree
n them in a s
jealous typ es. Accord
ing to info rmation fr
om the vic tims of att
empted ho-
nnicide tha t we inter
viewed, ezg hteen of t
he twenty p erpetrator
s (or 90% )
were extr emely jeal
ous, The c ziteria I u
sed for cat egorizing
a killer as a
jealous ty pe include
d the follo wing four
characteris tics and be
haviors:
1) The pe rpetrator f
requently had jealou
s suspicio ns that his
partner wa s sexually
involved o r intereste
d in others. He was
preoccupi ed with th
ese jealou s thoughts.
2) He fre quently ma
de jealous accusation
s to his pa rtner, and
frequently asked jea
lous quest ions.
3) He oft en made a
ttempts to confirm hi
s suspicio ns by moni
toring
the victim' s whereabo
uts and ac tivities.
4) He'd c ommitted
at least on e act of ab
use oz vio lence towa
rd the
victim or t oward her
alleged ro mantic par
tner in res ponse to hi
s
jealous su spicions a
r beliefs.
All twenty -two of the
killers wh om we cha
racterized as extreme
ly jealous
e~ibited at least th
ree of the a bove chara
cteristics. It is impor
tant to not e
that criteri a number t
hree by its elf did not
qualify a k iller as be
ing jealou s
since his m onitoring
may have had anothe
r motive be sides jealo
usy. Some
of the kill ers, especi
ally the m aterially
motivated ones, mon
itored the ir
victims' a ctivities n
ot with an y jealous n
otions but with inten
t to over see
their activ ities. The
purpose w as not to
confizm o z disconfi
rm a jeal ous
suspicion but to dete
rmine whe ther the vi
ctim was f ollowing
through o n
things tha t he expec
ted of her. For examp
le, several killers ad
mitted th a(
they often monitored
their part ners' spen
ding. Othe r killers s
aid that they
often moni tored thei
r partners' social act
ivities to ensure tha
t they w e+ -
not associ ating with
people th e znen con
sidered to be "a bad
in8uen cc
Often thes e "bad infl
uences" m eant peopl
e who migh t seek to t
ake steps ~~
end the rel ationships.
One killer admitted
that he for bade his
partner fro,
seeing cer tain relati
ves whom he said h
ad "put id eas in her
head a bs~-
being a ba ttered wom
an." Seve ral of the
ottzer kill ers said t
hat they ~~ ',~
often liste ned in on t
heir partne rs' teleph
one conver sations
with frie ' ''s
and relati ves to moni
tor what might be d
isclosed a bout the
women's
tivities an, d plans. So
me killers seemed n
ot to worr y about
tl~e ex iste L°
38 ( Wh y Do The
y Kill?
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we did not r them in as m ted 'P ho- (or 90%) ~ killer as a ~viors:
~~ s !'i , was
d ~
~itoring i E.
u'd the to his
jealous to note jealous ~. Some d their >versee ealous igh on ~d that ~t they
were :nce." eps to from about ~ had
of another man as much as the possibility that the victim would end the
relationship. These men could be said to be possessive more than jealous.
] will say more about possessive control and stalking in later chapters.
In many cases, the killer's monitoring of the victim appeared to have
a dual purpose: to confirm a jealous suspicion and also to look for signs
of compliance or noncompliance on her part. In determining whether
certain killers fit the jealous profile, it was necessary to go beyond their
self-assessments about jealousy since many downplayed any jealous ten-
dencies. Even some of the men who claimed to have killed their partners
in a "jealous rage" avowed not to be abnormally jealous individuals. As
one killer put it, "I'm a reasonable man but she drove me to be jealous
with what she was doing." This man cited no solid evidence that his part-
ner was being unfaithful, though he had continuously spied upon her and
sought to verify her accounts of her activities. During this man's murder
trial, the victim's family and friends strongly refuted his claims that she
had been having an affair and said that the victim had often complained to
them about his jealousy.
Killing from Jealous Rage?
One of the most popular and persistent ways that the media portray do-
mestic homicides is as "crimes of passion" in which a jealous husband
kills an unfaithful .wife and sometimes her lover as well. Unfortunately,
both investigators and reporters sometimes glibly offer this phrase as an
explanation, as if to distinguish these killings from others that are por-
trayed as more "heinous" and "cold blooded." But is that ever the whole
story? When a murderer claims to have killed out of jealous rage, this
should never be accepted at face value. When domestic violence has been
part of the equation, the man's accusation of the woman's infidelity must
be examined within the context of an abusive relationship. Was the killing
a moment of "temporary insanity" prompted by the killer's discovery of
an affair? Or was it the final culmination of possessive control and escalat-
ing violence within the relationship?
To answer this question, I examined each case in which the killer :ends claimed that the murder had been primarily prompted by his partner's in- s ac- i volvement with another person. Thirteen of the thirty-one killers (65% ence ~ of the jealous type of killers and 41% of the total) made such claims. It
E Killer Profiles ~ 39
should be no ted, howevex
, that twelv e of Chese m
en said that the warder
also had bee n prompted
by the victi m's decision
to end the relationship.
Seven of th ese victims h
ad already separated fro
m their futu re killers an
d
an. eighth, w ho had neve
r lived with him, had br
oken off any contact wit
h
him. Interes tingly, only o
ne of the thi rteen men wh
o claimed to have killed
out of a jeal ous rage had
been convic ted of mansl
aughter. Sev en were con-
a
victed of fir st degree mu
rder while the remaizun
g five were convicted of
second degr ee murder. T
his means th ere was ove
rwhe3ming evidence tha
t
these men, c laiming to ha
ve killed in a jealous ra
ge, had in fa ct acted with
considerable premeditatio
n.
One killer, Dennis, cla
imed to hav e found an
unused cond om on
his estrange d wife's nig
ht table, pro mpting him
to stab her i n the chest.
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Strong evid ence of prem
editation, h owever, was
presented at Dennis's
murder trial. The couple
had separa ted a year e
arlier when his wife, Su-
F
san, took ou t a restrainin
g order and f iled for div
orce. Over th e year befor
e
her death, Su san had acc
used Dennis of violating
her restzain ing ordex by
entering her house on th
ree different occasions wh
en she wasn 't there and
by making t hreatening p
hone calls o n two other
occasions. Susan had b
e-
gun dating a nother man
shortly befor e her divorc
e fxom Denni s was final-
ized. Meanwh ile, Dennzs'
s gambling problem ha
d escalated t o the point
where he was tens of thou
sands of doll ars in debt.
According t o the police
investigatio n of Susan's
homicide, D ennzs carri
ed a hunting knife with
him when he broke into h
er house on the evening
he killed he r, There was
also eviden ce that Dennz
s had made several pho
ne calls to tr ack Susan's
whereabouts that day. Th
e medical ex aminer repo
rted that Sus an had been
stabbed at l east nine tim
es.
In eight of t he cases whe
re the killers claimed to
have killed o ut of a
jealous rage , there is no
independen t evidence t
hat their part ner had been
involved wit h someone el
se. In four o f these cases
, friends and lor zelatives
of the decea sed provided
strong test imony to tb.e
contrary, sa ying that aa
y
rnfzdelzties o n the victim
's part had b een solely i
n the imagin ation of th
e
jealously po ssessive perp
etrator. Tab le 3.1 summa
rizes our fin dings abou
t
this.
In some cas es, it was ha
rd to discern whether th
e killer since rely be-
lieved that h is partner ha
d been inv olved with s
omeane else or whethe
r
his 'allegatio ns were fabr
icated in ord er to win s
ympathy fro m others, i
n-
cluding cour t juries. Far
some of the killers, their
continual allegations
of
infidelity ap peared To hav
e been a ma jor part of
their attempt s to cont
rol
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ers' claims
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of killing out of a jealous rage
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Total number of men claiming to
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have killed out of a jea lous rage
13 (42%) ~ ~ kS
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Of these thirteen man:
Number convicted of fir st degree murder
7
Number convicted of se cond degree murder
5
Number convicted of mansl aughter
1
There is evidence the victim was involved with
someone else 5 (38%)
There is no evidence the victi m was involved with
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someone else 8 (62%) ~
and to isolate their partners socially. Many victims o
f severe abuse said I'
that their abusers' frequent allegations had caused them
to curtail or cease
contact with friends and rela tives. One victim said, "I
just gave np with
my friends anyway because if I did make an effort to see th
em, he would
always badger me with questio ns and make my life miserab
le."
For battering men, their jeal ousy provides a nearly per
fect excuse
for their abusive behavior, maki ng it appear "crazy" or irr
ational rather
than deliberate or calculating. Some batterers go so far as to
proclaim that ~
their extreme jealousy is evid ence of their deep devotion a
nd passion for
their partners. In explaining hi s jealous rages, one young m
an told his
girlfriend, "I wouldn't do the se things if I didn't love you so
much:'
Jealous Thoughts and Behav iors
According to the victims of sev ere abuse that we interviewed
, the vast ma-
jority of their abusers displa yed extremely jealous behavi
or. Nearly 90%
of the women said that they we re subjected to frequent jeal
ous questions
and accusations, often accomp anied by abusive behavior su
ch as monitor-
ing, stalking, and threatening o r committing vzolence. At l
east half of the
women said that their partners checked their clothing for
signs of sexual
activity. Table 3.2 presents fi ndings about how victims ra
ted the jealous
feelings of their abusive part ners.
In some instances, the abusi ve men's lists of imagined r
omantic rivets
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Table 3.2: SeYiously ba ttered women's ratings
of their partners' jeal ousy
Percentage
of victims
who said "yes"
How jealous did your partner He was very
get of your relationships with jealous or 89
members of the opposite sex? extremely jealous
In general, how jealous of a He was very
person do you think your partne r jealous or
7
was? extremely jealous
In response to the following
scenarios, how jealous do you
think your partner would be
— We were at a bar together and He would be
another man invited me to dance moderately to 83
but I politely said no. extremely jealous
—When buying something at a He would be
convenience store, I laughed at moderately to 69
something the store clerk said. extremely jealous
N=35
are very long, extending even to members of the victims'
families. Nearly
one-quarter of the victims we interviewed said that thei
r abusers had ac-
cused them of sexual interest in their own relatives. The
women said they
found this particularly distress ing since these accusations
were sometimes
accompanied by demands that they stop having contact w
ith the relative.
Three women said that they regretted telling their abusers
about their past
traumatic experiences with incest since it subsequently le
d to allegations
that they had been complicit with the sexual acts or tha
t they continued
to have interest in the relat ive who abused them. In on
e case, the bat-
terer beat up the vicfiim's fat her who had sexually abused
her as a child.
This led to the victim beco ming further alienated from
her mother and
siblings.
42 ~ why Do zney emu?
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Case Exam
~<I 1~nAw th It was the
Emmit was thi
nursing home
twice previous
wife and one b
ended badly di
had threatened
mit insisted th
about it." Emr
date, when Lc
husband with f
sistence, Lour
parents. Louis
failed marriage
Emmit confro:
driveway. Afte
Emmit, Louise
After one mar
hirn and the ne i
now, Emmit h
working in an.
couple bought
Suspicion
ously urged h~
After about fr
~ the seasonal se
worked odd jc
ing all their bi
back to school
she resumed ~
By mid-1
fair because sl
incident in ea
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Case Example 1
"I knew that I couldn't trust her .
It was the same way with my sec ond wife."
Bmmit was thirty-nine and Louise twenty-nine when they first met a
t the
nursing home where they we re both working. Emmit had been marri
ed
twice previously and Louise once. Emmit had two children by his fir
st
wife and one by his second. Emmi t said that both of these prior marriages
ended badly due to infidelity on each ex-partner's part. Conceding that he
had threatened violence and someti mes hit or pushed each ex-partner, Em-
mit insisted that these were "natural reactions to their cheating and lying
about it" Emmit's first jealousy to ward Louise appeared after their first
date, when Louise admitted that she was still living with her estranged
husband with whom she had atwo -year old son, Brian. At Emmit's in-
sistence, Louise filed for divorce two mon ths later and moved in with her
parents. Louise's parents were negativ e toward Emrnit because of lus two
failed marriages and urged Louise to stop seeing him. In response to this,
Emmit confronted Louise's father, havi ng a "fist fight" with him in the
driveway. After Louise's father filed a ch arge of assault and battery against
Emmit, Louise decided to find an apartm ent in which to live with her son.
After one month in the new place, Emm it convinced Louise to live with
him and the new couple found a larger apartment several towns away. By
now, Emmit had taken a new job at a car rental agency and Louise was
working in another nursing home in the same town. Within one year, the
couple bought their first home and thei r son Benjamin was born.
Suspicious of Louise's relationship s with co-workers, he continu-
ously urged her to quit her job so tha t she could be a full-time mother.
After about five years of this, Louise reluctantly quit her job to work at
the seasonal seafood restaurant that Emix ut had purchased. Though Emmit
worked odd jobs during the winter mon ths, the family had difficulty pay-
ing all their bills and fell into debt. L ouise convinced Emmit to let her go
back to school so she could pursue her n ursing license. At the same time,
she resumed work as a nurse's aide at a nursing home.
By mid-1994, Emznit began to suspe ct that Louise was having an af-
fair because she was coming home l ate on some evenings. After orie such
incident in early September, he deman ded to know where she had been
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and she insisted that she had been shoppin
g. He rifled her purs e looking
for a store receipt, an d finding none, grabb
ed Louise by the shir t while
calling her a liar. He demanded that she L
eave, and in response , Louise
took the two children to stay with her paren
ts. The following da y, Louise
returned with the pol ice to geC some of har
belongings. Meanwhil e, Em-
mit has spoken with s everal neighbars who
all sought to assure him that
Louise had been faith ful to him. Fu11 of re
morse, Emmit drove to Louise's
work the next day to leave flowers and a n
ote of apology on the windshield
of her car. Louise cal led him that evening a
nd Emmit begged her to return.
Louise agreed to do so on the condition t
hat Emmit stop makin g jealous
accusations. Two days later, however, EmrrLi
t's suspicions return ed when
Louise was one hour late convng home fr
om work. They had a loud ar-
gument in which Em mit accused Louise of
neglecting the house and she
accused hzm of being short with the childre
n. During this conflict , Emmit t
knocked over several pieces of furniture an
d pushed Louise into a wall.
On September 22, Emm it drove by Louise's
workplace late in the da y
to verify whether she was working late as s
he had told hizn over t he phone.
When he arrived at th e nursing home, he n
oticed Louise getting i nto a car t
with a man. He follo wed the other car from
a distance until they pulled `
into a Dunkin Donuts . In a jealous rage, Em
mit appxoacl~ed the pai r in the j
parking lot, yelling a nd threatening to kill
both of them. Louise insisted `
that the other man wa s just a co-worker and
they had just been pic king up
donuts for a meeting at work. Emmit caLted
her a liar, telling her, "If you
want to destroy our m arriage, then goodby
e:' He then drove to L ouise's
parents house and told her father that Louise
was having an affair. R eturn-
ing home, he told th e same thing to twelv
e-year-old Brian, who quickly
left to visit a friend. Emrnit then loaded his
shotgun with the inte ntion of
shooting himself but stopped when Brian
returned home with hi s friend.
After putting the shot gun away, Emmit ga
thered up nearly eve rything
that Louise owned, ma king numerous trips
out to the back yard, where
he placed her clothing , shoes, jewelry, pict
ures, and. other keepsak es into
a pile. With Brian ques tioning what he was d
oing, Emmzt poured gasoline
on the pile, setting it a blaze. Fearing what w
ould come next, Brian $ed to
a neighbor's house. M eanwhile, Emmrt cal
led Yus brother, Ronal d, to te11
him what had happened . Ronald came over to
see the sti11-burning pi le and e
convinced Emmit to co me over to his house in
order "to calm down." Ron-
aldtold Emmit, "If you don't trust Louise, yo
u should just divarce he z." He
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took Enunit out to dinner, bnt Emmit was continuousl sobbin and couldY gnot eat. Emmit returned home to find the police. The police told him that Louise had taken out a protective order that barred him from being in the house and from having any contact with Louise. The police also informedEmmit that there would be a court date at 9:00 tl~e next morning for ahearing to determine whether the restraining and vacate order should becontinued. They transported Emmit back to Ronald's house. That evening,Ronald and his wife continuously sought to assure Emmit that Louise had ~not cheated on him On his way to court the following day, Emmit stopped at the bankwhere he cleaned out the joint checking account. At the court hearing,Louise told the judge that she feared Emmit due to his violent jealousy.The judge continued the restraining order, warning Emmit that he was notallowed to have any contact with Louise, Brian, ar Benjamin. A hearingwas set for ten days later to determine whether the restraining order wouldbe extended for a year and to determine whether Emmit would be allowedto have child visitations. After the court hearing, Emmit stopped back atthe barilc to tell them he would stop making mortgage papments on thehouse as well as loan payments on Louise's car. Emmit spent the rest ofthe day at his restaurant. That evening, Emrnit and Ronald planned to attend a party to be heldat a Chinese restaurant by a friend of the family. Knowing that Louisehad also been invited, Emmit went out to purchase a new suit in hopes ofimpressing her at the party. Arriving early at the party, Emmit was arixiousto see Louise despite her restraining order against him. He arrived at 5:45,and not seeing Louise, went to the box where he had four rum and Cokesover the next two hours. During this time, Emmit talked with many friendsas they arrived for the party, telling all of them that Louise had cheated onhim and kicked him out of the house. Most of the friends had already heard -about the situation and tried to tell Emmit that Louise was a good wifewho would never cheat on him. At 7:45, Louise arrived with Benjamin,now age eight, and several cousins. Benjanun ran over to sit in his father'slap as Louise and hex cousins took a booth in another section of the restau-~ rant. A bit later, when Louise came in to summon Benjamin, Emmit triedto speak with her. In response, Louise told him, "Don't make a scene," andretuxned with Benjanun to the other room. Over the next two hours, Emtnit had two more drinks while continu-
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He became in-
creasingly furious that others did not believe his accusat
ions of Louise.
Emmit left the restaurant at 10:00 and decided to drive t
o Louise's house.
He parked his car several s treets away and walked to
her house, trying
to avoid being seen by any neighbors. He het himself in
via some sliding
doors in the back and looked around the house to see if an
yone was home.
He then sat in a chair and a waited Louise's arrival.
Hearing Louise and the chil dren arrive home at 10:30, E
mmit laid be-
hind achair in the living roo m. He waited there in the da
rk while Louise
made the boys take their showe rs and gave them a snack in
the dining room
before putting them to bed at 11:00. Emmit waited anoth
er fifteen minutes
before making his move. He first looked into both boys'
bedrooms, look-
ing fox Louise. He saw that Be njamin was already asleep w
hile Brian was
watching television. He then went into Louise's bedroom w
here he found
her lying an her bed with her television on. He wali~ed cl
oser Co see if_she
was asleep, and noticed tha t her eyes were closed. He
touched Louise's
arm and called her name. L ouise awoke with a start, say
ing, "What are
you doing here?" Emmit t old her, "Louise, I love you. P
lease don't leave
me. I don't care what you d id. Thin1~ of the kids. All I wa
nt is for you to
see a docCar." As he was say ing this, he put his hand on
her chest. When
she pushed to get up, Emmi t pulled a knife from her dr
esser drawer and
jumped on her. He stabbed h er several. times in the chest
, stopping only
when Benjamizi walked in s aying, "Daddy, what's goin
g on here?" The
knife was sti11 sticking in Lou ise's chest with its handle bro
ken off. Emmit
told Benjamin to go back into hi s room and then called his
brother, Ronald.
Ronald's wife answered and Emmit told her that he had j
ust stabbed Lou-
ise. Meanwhile, the next-do ar neighbor arrived, after hav
ing been sum-
moned by Brian. Emmit yel led at the neighbar, who then
fled the house
with the two boys. Before t he police arrived, Emmit stab
bed himself once
in the stomach. T'he wound w as not considered Life-threat
ening. The police
testified at Emmit's trial tha t Louise had been stabbed se
venteen times.
One witness who had atte nded the party on the night of
the murder testi-
fiedthat Emmit had kept say ing, "I'll kzIl Louise and pat
her in her grave."
Contrary to Emmit's claim t hae he'd had seven mixed drink
s that evening,
no alcohol had been found in his system when his blood alc
ohol level was
tested two ho2zrs after t11e mur der. Emmit was convicted o
f murder in the
first degree and is currently serving a life sentence.
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Emotional DependencE and Instability
The sheer prevalence of extreme jealousy among killers makes it difficult
tc~ deternune how they are unique, other than from their jealous behavior.
3 Many of their characteristics are similar to those found among the sub-
stance abusers who will be profiled in the next section. This is not sur-
prising given the large overlap between these two groups. Both kinds of
killers are emotionally volatile, moody, and self-centered. If we separate
out the substance abusers from the other jealous men,. the remaining men
~ ` are more stable in terms of their work records and relationship histories.
f They are more likely to be employed, to be married, and to have children.
They are similar to the substance abusers, however, in the frequency and
explosiveness of their violence. Their violence may be somewhat more
predictable in that it is often prompted by jealous suspicions and not sub-
ject to the aggravating effects of alcohol or drugs.
In some ways, it is easier to identify unique features of the jealous
types by exanuning the men who don't fit the profile. This was appro~-
f mately one-third of the killers. The most obvious differe nce of these nine
x men was that they did not display jealous behaviors, though nearly all
of them could be said to be possessively controlling. These men did not
appear to have worried about the possibility that their partners would be-
come involved with other men. Was it because their partners gave them no
reason for concern? Three of these men said that their partners had been
involved with other men. In all three cases, the killer said he had not cared
about this other relationship since he did not love his partner. Two of these
men said that they had left their partners shortly before killing them and
three others were estranged from their partners. None said that he wished
s to reunite with his partner.
f ` Compared to these men, the jealous men appeared much more in- vested in maintaining their relationships with the women they killed. None
who were estranged from their partners said that they had initiated the
break-up. All of these men said that they had wanted to reunite with their
partners. Jealous men were significantly more likely than their nonjealous
counterparts to say that they felt "highly dependent" upon their partners.
They were more than five times more likely to characterize themselves as
"needy or clingy." Nearly one-third of these men characterized themselves
as "helpless much of the time:' By contrast, none of the nonjealous men
Killer Profiles 47 . ,
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viewed themsel ves this way.
There were no differences bet
ween these
groups of men i n the proportion
who character ized themselves
as "impul-
sive" or as "expl osive." Howeve
r, the jealous m an were four t
imes more
likely to say th at they were "se
t off by Iittle tYu ngs:' They wer
e also more
than twice ~s li kely to say that
they were "sens itive to insult"
and to char-
acterize themsel ves as "moody
" A summary o f these self-pe
rceptions is
provided in Tabl e 3.3.
The jealous ki llers came acr
oss as more e motionally vol
atile and
moody than th e other killers,
though they we re no more li
kely to abuse
alcohol or drugs . The jealous k
illers also disti nguished themse
lves in how
much they were influenced by t
heir relationship s. They rated t
hemselves as
being much mor e emotionally d
ependent on the ir partners, as w
ell as more
emotionally ne edy oz clingy. Th
is suggests a much bigger i
nvestment in
their partners' l oyalty and emoti
onal availabilit y, One killer sai
d, "I didn't
realize how bad off I was emoti
onally. Y thoug ht in my heart
I could get
her back." When asked if there
was anything h is estranged pa
rtner could
have said to ha ve avoided bein
g killed, anotYi er man said, "If
she told me
she wouldn't lea ve me. I was so
vulnerable, I w ould have belie
ved her."
The jealous me n were more li
kely to say that they had want
ed fre-
quent sex with their partners. G
iven their jealo us thoughts, fr
equent sex
may have been a way for these
men of contin ually confirmin
g their pri-
mary status with their partners.
The jealous me n were also mo
re likely to
Table 3.3: Com parison of j
ealous and no t-jealous kiA
ers
on how they s ee themselve
s (by percen tage)
Jealous trait
Moody
Sensifiive to insul t
Feeling needy or clingy
Impalsive
Feeling highly d ependent on my p
artner
Set off by little th ings
Explosive
Feeling helpless much of the time
Jealous No t-jealous
I fount
men men
that let
70 30 `
of trig
68 30
we11 a
57 10
the zrr
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r e~
52 30 te
n se
42 1 0 men
d
36 3 0 mitten
31 0 allegF
N=22 N=9 persa
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tween these
s as "impul-
times more
-e also more
and to char-
:rceptions is
volatile and
;ly to abuse
;lves in how
emselves as
vell as more
vestment in
id, "I didn't
I could get
~rtner could
she told me
ved her."
granted fre-
-equent sex
:g their pri-
~re likely to
Llers
't-Jealous
men
30
30
10
50
30
10
30
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N=9
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say that they had w anted sex immediately followi
ng an act of violence
toward the victim. Th e perpetrators' expectations of se
x after violence are
discussed in more detai l in the section on sexual viole
nce.
A higher proportion of the jealous types of killers reported t
hat they i
had no friends, and on average, they had fewer friend
s than the other
killers. This was especi ally true when we separate out
the jealous men
who did not have substan ce abuse problems. Seven out of
the eight non-
substance-abusing jealous men said that they had no friends. Thes
e seven
men also had been far les s likely to want to engage in so
cial activities
with their partners. None said that he and his partner had
spent any sig-
nificant time with mutual friends . When asked why, one of thes
e men said,
"I didn't trust her friends." H e went on to explain that several
of his wife's
friends had encouraged her to leave him due to his violence
. 'Itvo other
men said their jealousy had been the reason for not socializi
ng with other
couples. Both had strongly s uspected their wives of having af
fairs with
other women's husbands. Th ese men had not only refused to
accompany
their wives on evenings out w ith other couples but had also
attempted
to dissuade their wives from do ing so. One man, Gregory, ha
d been so
suspicious that his wife was ha ving an affair with the husband of
her best
friend that he had followed her on several occasions when sh
e said she
was having dinner at a restaur ant with her friends. Crregory ad
mitted that
he had peered through the win dows of the restaurant to make s
ure that his
wife was "with who she said s he was with."
Triggers for Homicide
I found that each type of killer had somewhat distinctive trigger
ing factors
that led him to murder. In exam ining each homicide, I looked
at two kinds
of triggers: longstanding ones , such as grievances against t
he victim, as
well as recent events, such as estrangement or a suspected affai
r. Often,
the immediate triggers were s imply continuations of longstan
ding ones.
For example, the jealous killer' s "jealous rage" leading to ho
micide of-
ten seemed but a cuJ.mination of his longstanding jealousy. As
previously
mentioned, over half of the je alous men said that the murders
they com-
mitted had been primarily trig gered by jealous rage about their
partners'
alleged involvement with oth er men. About half of these men
named a
person whom they had believe d to be sexually involved with th
eir partner.
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Two men said that the imme diate trigger had been thei
r partner not admit-
ti~ng to an affair they had as sumed she was having. One o
f these men said,
"If she had said ̀ I'm sorry, ' or ̀ I don't want to be with
you,' I would have
killed myself instead." Th e other man said, "If she had
just admitted it, I
would have just left" This man had lured his estrange
d partner to a hotel
for one Iast night with her an,d then demanded that she
admit an affair.
Four men said that their mu rderous rage had been mot
ivated not by
.suspicions about a speczfi c rival but by the idea that th
eir partners would
end the relationships and even tually xeplace them with so
meone else. One
man said he had been inf uriated by the idea that "s
omeone else would
have her." Beyond their jeal ous vengeance, tl~e vast majo
rity of the jealous
men said that the murders also had been triggered by
anger at their part-
ners for ending or attemptin g to end the relationships.
The two most com-
ri~only stated motives for ki lling were to punish the par
tner for ending the
relationship and to prevent her from leaving. Asked hi
s motive in killing
his recently estranged partn er, one killer said, "To sto
p her from hurting,
me, and to keep our family to gether." This man went on t
o explain that his
having sex with her one la st time before killing her
had been "a way of
preserving us as a couple for ever."
Most of the men said that the ir suspicions about their par
tners ending
the relationships became m ore frequent over time, Thr
ee-quartexs of the
jealous men said that they b ecame "obsessive" about the
ir partners in the
hours and days leading up t o the murdez. Three-quarte
rs said that they
also had become increasin gly "desperate:' By contras
t, only 10% of the
other kiIlers said that they ha d felt desperate or obsessi
ve just prior to kill-
ing their partners, Several me n said that they had nat slep
t for days befare
the murder. One killer said, " I was obsessed, evezy waki
ng moment." This
obsession had been accomp anied by inexeased monitori
ng, and in many
cases, stalking of their partne rs.
One killer, Harold, said, "i suspected Jenaya was mak
ing plans [to
end the relationship] but I did n't know for sure. The mo
re distant she be-
came .. , it got worse. And i t got to the point where I wa
s obsessed with
knowing . , .what she was t hinking." In the weeks bef
ore he shot Jenaya
to death in a hotel room, Ha zold had begun to take mor
e and more time off
from work to monitor her acti vities. From obsezving her
interactions with
a fellow tenant, Harold had become convinced that Jena
ya was planning
to leave him fox the other m an. Unbeknownst to Jenay
a, Harold had quit
his job two weeks before the murder in order to devote
himself full time
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to observing her. He wo uld leave the house in the mornin
g at the usual
Time, as if lie were goi ng to work, -and then park his truck
down the street
from where he would s py on Jenaya.
Another killer, Anthony, had also quit his job in order to spy on h
is
wife, Robin. Two days befo re the murder, Anthony had bound Ro
bin's feet
and wrists with duct tape an d held her hostage all night while thr
eatening
to kill both of them. The next day, Robin had obtained a protec
tive order,
requiring Anthony to leave their house, Desperate to enlist t
heir support,
Robin had visited.Anthony's p arents to tell them of her decision t
o file for
divorce. She did not know that A nthony was sitting in the stairwell, li
sten-
ing to their conversation via a baby monitor. He had overheard Rob
in tell-
ing his parents that she would take the children to Cape Cod the fol
lowing
morning. Anthony's parents ha d been so fearful that he might kill R
obin
before she fled that they had ins isted he make an emergency appoi
ntment j
with his psychiatrist for the foll owing morning. Throughout that
night,
they had taken turns standing wa tch outside his bedroom to make
sure
that he didn't leave.
Early the following morning, Ant hony had called a cab from his room
and then told his parents he needed to go outside for a smoke. He had
then
fled in the cab to Robin's house. W hen he arrived, Robin had just p
ut the
two boys in the car and had gone b ack inside to get some bags. Anthon
y
told the two boys to stay quiet bef ore going into the house to find Robi
n, j
Trapping her in the bathroom, An thony stabbed Robin in the ches
t and
lower back with a fishing knife.
While Anthony had monitor ed Robin's behavior throughout th
eir
eleven-year marriage, he reporte d that this behavior became mor
e fre-
quent during periods of separat ion or pending separation. During
one
prior separation six years earlier, A nthony had hired a private investig
ator
to conduct surveillance of Robin. Reflecting back on the intense energy
he -
had devoted to "worrying" about Robin's plans, Anthony said that h
e felt
a great relief after killing her. "It was almost like having an orgasm,
" he
added.
Potential Deterrents
I asked each man a variety of qu estions to identify what might hav
e pre-
vented from killing his partner. Some questions related to potential
im-
mediate deterrents while others concerned long-term measures such a
s
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counseling, criminal sanctio ns, and other kinds of i
nterventions. I found a prc
that each of the killer type s was somewhat distinct in
the kinds of poten- f ,̀E,e ~
tial deterrents that they id entified. I asked each man
to look over a list of
potential deterrents, and to indicate which "would
have" and "would not Hers
have" prevented him from killing. This list included
it, "'
relat
a) a judge putting me in ja il with a warning that any
further violence Hers'
would result in more jail time
gest
b) attending a batterer in tervention program
upst;
c) a clergy person talking to me about my violence
romp
d) a pofice officer threaten ing to arrest me for any f
urther violence ~ smog
toward my partnex alle€
e) a family member urgin g me to stop my violence
toward my i
partner a ba
~ a friend or relative of m y partner threatening to
beat me up or had
kill me assa
g) being on probation f grax
h) being on probation an d having to wear an ankle
bracelet that ~ not ~~
notified police whenever I came close to my partner
com
i} my partner wearing a b eeper that notified the pol
ice whenever I Ve~1
came close to her ~ }us ;
j) my partner having a re straining order against m
e ~ and ~
k) having my violence t oward my partner publici
zed in the local ~ grat I
newspaper ~ whe
1) realizing I would spen d the rest of my life in pri
son ~ J~
intervention ~:
out
"prc
Nearly all of these men said that a batterer
program might ~
have helped them to stop t heir violence at an earlie
r stage. Despite this, fee l
none of these men had att ended such a program, eith
er voluntarily or as ue d
ordered by a court. Such p rograms were not as ava
ilable during the early ~ hav
to mid-nineties when many of these murders occurred
. Those who counsel ~ ad n
batterers say that the bigg est barrier for these men to
seek help is their de- ~ pro
nial of abusive behavior. The jealous killers I inte
rviewed were no differ- ~ pos
ent in this regard, othex tha n pexhaps having an even
highex level of denial.
Most denied having been abusive to theix partners,
and therefore would sho
not have seen the need for treatment that focuses o
n domestic violence. act;
The jealous men who were also substance abusers wer
e more apt to admit of
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a problem with alcohol or drugs than with domestic violence, though (as
we will see in the next section), neither did they seek treatment for this.
Those without a substance abuse problem tended to view their part-
~~ers, and not themselves, as the ones with the problems. As one man put
ix, "She couldn't keep her pants on, that was the main problem in our
relationship." Other jealous killers were more specific about their part-
ners' involvement with particular men. When asked to identify the big-
gest problems in his relationship with his partner, Harold said, "That man
upstairs," meaning another resident with whom he suspected Jenaya was
romantically involved. In response to this same question, James, who had
smothered his partner, Corinne, with a pillow, said, "her uncle," citing her
alleged past sexual involvement with her uncle.
James was the only killer I interviewed who had previously attended a batterer intervention program. One year prior to killing Corinne, James had agreed to attend such a program during his incarceration for a past assault of Corinne. Unfortunately, James had stopped attending this pro- gram after twelve sessions when he was released from prison, and did not heed the program's recommendation that he continue treatment in a community-based program. Interestingly, James credited the batterer inter-
vention program with helping him to recognize, at least temporarily, that his jealous feelings concerning Corinne and her uncle were unwarranted and had been destructive to their relationship. As James put it, the pro- gram had motivated him to "stop throwing her uncle in her face." Asked whether he had continued to do so following his release from prison, James said, "No, but I ruminated about it when we was separated, I guess out of insecurity." James added that if he had continued his treatment, he "probably" would have been better able to handle his jealous and insecure feelings. While there is certainly no guarantee of this, had James contin- ued his batterer intervention and substance abuse programs, he might not have violated Corinne's restraining order on the night he killed her. James admitted that these feelings "flared up" when he was drinking. James is profiled as a jealous substance abuser in the later section about men who pose multiple threats.
Outcome studies of batterer intervention programs have consistently shown that program completers are significantly less likely to commit new acts of violence, particularly serious ones, than noncompleters. One goal of such programs is that abusers strictly obey the conditions of protec-
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five orders. Progr ams also commonl
y require particip ants to commit to s
o-
briery, sometimes with the additzon
al requirement of submitting to ran
dom
drug screens that are conducted by
court personnel. Barterer intervent
ion
programs also pr ovide participants
a weekly opport unity to discuss a
ny
ruminations, obs essive thoughts, o
r forms of "negat ive self-talk" suc
h as
jealousy or anger toward their part
ners. One comm on intervention i
s to
help abusive men identify such neg
ative thoughts in their earliest stag
es,
before they escal ate, and to replac
e them with more constructive way
s of
thinking, which in turn will help th
em to make better choices. The nee
d to
choose an alterna tive course of act
ion was best arti culated by one of
my
former clients, Ke ndrick, who had
a history making jeatous accusatio
ns to
his partner.
"Yeah, I'd just r un with those fe
elings [his anger and jealousy] and
then 7'd do somet hing stupid like
going . .. to the bar and showing
up at
her house and tal king shit. ... Now
, I go to ameeti ng [Alcohol Anon
y-
mous] or call my sponsor."3
Though Kendrick 's wards suggest
someone with se lf-motivation, he
is like many abus ive men who do
not voluntarily ch oose to attend a b
at-
terer intervention or a subsCance a
buse program, an d only do so beca
use
of a court order. Without court mon
itoring, many ab usive men do not
re-
main in such prog rams long enou
gh to make lastin g changes. Outco
me
studies of abusive men in batterer i
ntervention progr ams have shown t
hat
program completi on, as well as de
sistence from vio lence, are most lik
ely
when program pa rticipation is acc
ompanied by cons istent monitoring
by
the courts.¢
Substance Ab4a. sing Type
Naxt to the jealo us type, the lar
gest category of kz llers was those
who
abused alcohol or drugs. Nineteen
of the killers, or 61%, frt this catego
ry.
In comparison, 7S % of the perpetra
tors of attempted homicide were c
las-
sified as substanc e abusexs based o
n the victim's rep orts of their alc
ohol
and drug use. Clas sification for the
killers was based on their self rep
orted
nse of alcohol an d drugs as well a
s their responses to the Addiction
Se-
veriry Index (ASI) .5 Questions on t
he ASI require res pondents to ind
icate
both lifetime use of alcohol and dr
ugs, as well as t heir use during
the
past thirty days. I also asked the m
en to rate the fre quency and amou
nt of
54 i Why Do The y Kill?
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and
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substance use during the thirty days immediately p receding the murder.
Each man was asked to estimate th e number of days he used alcohol and
particular drugs during this thirty-day per iod. To put this in context, I also
asked each man to talk about any increa ses, decreases, or other changes
in his substance use during the comple te duration of his relationship with
the woman he murdered. Each man was addi tionally asked to describe any
f' consequences of his use, such as arrest s for drunk driving or drug posses-
1 sion, or problems in the relationship rel ated to his own or his partner's use
of alcohol or drugs. Table 3.4 provides a summa ry of alcohol and drug
abuse by the killers.
Based on their patterns of use, all the men in this group fit the pro-
file of an alcoholic or a drug addict. Just over half o f the substance abus-
k ers could be classified as polydrug abusers since they abused more than
one substance. Aside from alcohol, the most common ly abused drug was
marijuana, reported by eight of the men. Eight of t he men also reported
~' overusing one or more medications that had been prescribed to them or
a that they had illegally obtained. ,These medic ations included Valium,
~ Elavil, Xanix, Codeine, Percocet, Demerol, o r Darvon. Four of the killers
reported heavy use of cocaine or crack, while two sai d they were addicted
to heroin.
When assessing an abusive man's potential for homicide, there is
some evidence that substance abuse by itself is a significant risk marker.
~ There is more evidence, however, that f requency of abuse is especially
f significant and that the risk of homicide increases dramatically when the
abusive man is abusing alcohol or drugs on a daily basis. The incidence of
F daily use of alcohol and drugs among the s ubstance abusers is shown in
Table 3.5.
Table 3.4: Patterns of substance use among killer s
(by percentage)
Substance abuse profile Substance abusers All killers
Abused alcohol only 26 16
Abused drugs only 21 12
Abused alcohol and drags 52 32
N=19 N=31
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s
(by percentage)
Substance abuse profile Substance abusers Afl la
llers
Daily abuse of alcohol only 57 35
Daily abuse of drugs only 52 32
Daily abuse of alcohol and dr ugs 31
19
N=19 N=31
Does Substance Use Contribu te to Murder?
Our findings about alcohol an d drug use by the killers are
consistent with
those of Jacquelyn Campbell and her colleagues based o
n their inves-
tigation of 445 intimate partne r homicides and attempted
homicides of
women.6 This study found tha t half the perpetrators were pr
oblem drink-
ers and that half used illegal drugs of some kind. There w
as a substantial
amount of overlap between the alcohol and drug abusers. Thi
s same study
found that one-third of the pe rpetrators had used alcohol
at the time of
the homicide ar attempted hom icide while 12% had used dr
ugs. In about
one-quarter of the cases, the p erpetrator had used both alc
ohol and drugs
on the day of the homicide or homicide attempt.' Pooling
the data from
the thirty-one killers and the twenty victims of attemp
ted homiczde in our
stztdy, we found somewhat higher proportions. Half of
our kiIlers said that
they had been drunk or high or both on the day that th
ey killed their part-
ner or ex-partner. Meanwhi le, half of the victims of a
ttempted homicide
also reported that their perp etrator had appeared to b
e drunk or high on
the day of the near-fatal as sault. For most of the perpe
trators who used
alcohol or drugs on the day of the murder or attempted
murder, alcohol or
drug use was not a departure from their usual pattern. Ne
arly all, from the
killers' and victims' accoun ts, had habitually abused al
cohol or dxugs on a
daily basis. Howevex, this do es not mean that alcohol or
drug use was not
a factor in the fatal and nea r-Fatal assaults. When aske
d if they thought al-
cohol or drugs had been a s trong factor in their partner'
s near-fatal assault,
1 half of the victims of attempted h
omicide said yes. Generally, victims
{ ' gave two rationales for their ans
wers. A few said that their partner's vio-
lence had always been more severe when he had been d
rinking or using
drugs. One woman said tha t hex boyfriend had physicall
y abused her only
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when he was drunk. As one woman put it, "He didn't hold back as much
when he was drinking." Another said, "He was more honest about what he
really thought when he had alcohol in him," citing his jealous accusations
and threats. These women were essentially saying that alcohol or drugs
seemed to trigger their partners' violence, including the men's attempts to
.kill them. Most of the women, however, gave a different reason for think-
1ng alcohol or drugs had played a strong role in their abusers' near-fatal
assaults. These women said that their partners' alcohol or drug use had es-
calated and seemed a part of an overall deterioration that they had noticed
in the days or months leading up to the assaults. In most cases, the victim
traced her abuser's deterioration to when she had separated from him or
otherwise taken steps to end the relationship. Besides increased alcohol or
drug use, some victims said they'd also noticed other signs of deteriora-
tion such as neglect of hygiene, depression, lack of sleep, or loss of a job.
Here is one victim's account of this.
Interviewer: Were there any other changes you noticed in the three
months prior to the homicide attempt?
Vickie: He seemed to be coming apart.... I could tell he
wasn't bathing and he'd lost a lot of weight.. . . And
his sister told me that he'd been fired from his job.
Interviewer: Do you know the reason?
Vickie: She told me it was from his going to work drunk.
Several other victims said that their partner's deterioration was accompa-
nied by increasing levels of violence and "paranoid" behavior in the three
months leading up to the near-fatal assault.
Interviewer: Did you notice anything else?
Kelly: Well, he was always watching me.
Interviewer: How do you mean?
Kelly: Even when I was sleeping, he would be awake and
looking at me.
Interviewer: Why do you think he was doing that?
Kelly: I think it was because he was suspicious of what I was
up to.
Interviewer: You mean jealous?
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Kelly: Not just that. Par
anoid. He wa s always par
anoid but
he became e ven more so.
He thought everyone was
against him, not just me.
Interviewer: Do you kn
ow why?
Kelly: The only thing I c
an think of w as the cocai
ne just
because that was never a
big thing for I~im before.
Despite this testimony to
the effects of alcohol and
drugs, half o f the vic-
tiros of subst ance-abusing
perpetrators said that the
y did not thi nk alcohol
or drugs had been signif
icant factors in the neat-f
atal assaults. Most of
these women thought tha
t their partne rs would hav
e done the s ame thing
anyway, and several wome
n said they t hought alcoh
ol use was m erely in-
cidental to th e attacks. Fu
rther eviden ce of this is
provided by the court
~' i
findings con cerning the k
illers. Compa red to the o
ther killers, those who
abused subst ances were m
ore likely to have been c
onvicted of m nxder in
Y
the first degr ee (42% com
pared to 25 % of the non
substance ab users). A
conviction o f murder in
the first degr ee indicates
"irrefutable" evidence
of pramedita tian on the k
iller's part. Despite this,
over one-th ird of the
substance-ab using killers
did not show strong preme
ditation, acc ording to
the court, an d were found
guilty only of manslaugh
ter. Judging from the
court finding s and sentenc
es, the subst ance-abusing
killers were m ostly on
opposzte end s of the prem
editation sca le, suggestin
g that they h ad either
carefuIly pla nned the kill
ing or hardly at all.
How do subs tance-abusing
killers differ from those
who do not a buse
alcohol oz dr ugs? I found
that they are more severe
ly and frequ entlq vio-
Ient. They ar e also young
er, less likel y to be marri
ed or to hav e children,
and more like ly to be une
mployed. Tn m any ways, t
he substance abusers
appeared le ss stable and
more volati le than their
nonsubstance -abusing
counterparts . Many of t
he substance abusers talk
ed of a prog ression of
abuse that h ad correspon
ded with their increased c
onsumption o f alcohol
or drugs. Mo re often, the
ir relationsh ips had been
short-lived, including
theme relation ships with th
e deceased. O n average, t
hese relation ships had
lasted two y ears prior to
the murders. This compa
res to five a nd a half
years for the nonsubstanc
e abusers. Th eir relation
ships with th e deceased
had not only ended faster
but also star ted faster as
well. I found that the "
substance a busers had s
ignificantly shorter cour
tships with t he women
they killed; t wo and a half
months on a verage comp
ared to five a nd a half
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months for the
detail in a late
that was not cc
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months for the other killers. Short cou rtships will be discussed in more
detail in a later chapter, sinc e we found this to be a separate risk factor
that was not confined just to sub stance abusers.
Severe Violence
Some researchers and service prov iders have reported that substance-
abusing batterers exhibit more severe leve ls of violence than do other
batterers.8 There are two primary theo ries about this. According to pro-
ponents of the "disinhibition theory," alcoho l and some drugs directly
contribute to violence in a variety of wa ys. These include physiological
effects such as loss of motor control and ability to control one's impulses.9
Personality effects include a lowered ab ility to tolerate frustration, self-
centeredness, avoidance of problems, black-an d-white thinking, and being
more sensitive to insult. There are also li festyle consequences that can
include financial losses, unemployment, an d social alienation. All of these
factors can greatly contribute to a person's likelihood of using violence in
an intimate relationship.
Proponents of the "deviance disavowal" the ory argue that people re-
act very differently to alcohol, and whether a person resorts to violence
is determined by one's beliefs about drinking.10 They point to famous lab
experiments in which subjects who are led to believe they are drinking
alcohol-laced punch at a party, when in fa ct there is no alcohol in the
punch, become more aggressive than those s ubjects who had actually im-
bibed alcohol. Other experimental studies have shown that subjects who
falsely believe they have imbibed alcohol administer higher levels of elec-
tric shock to individuals who give wrong an swers to tests they are asked
to give.11 These experimental results suggest that individuals use alcohol
as an excuse to act out or become violent. By s aying "alcohol made me do
it," such individuals seek to avoid responsibil ity for actions that otherwise
might get them in trouble.12
At least two of the men I interviewed ap peared to be using the alco-
hol or drugs to downplay responsibility for mur der. These men claimed
that they had consumed large quantities of alcohol or drugs just prior to
killing their partners. Drug tests administer ed to them immediately after
their arrest, however, showed that there had been no alcohol oz drugs in
their systems. This does not mean that alcoh ol or drugs did not contribute
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to these killings in other ways, howe ver. Both men did in fact have long
histories of alcohol and drug use th at may well have contributed to thei
r
decisions to kill their partners. Each fit the profile of an advanced-stag
e
alcoholic who had experienced multip le negative effects as the result of
alcohol use. One was homeless and h ad not held a job of over two months
for the previous ten years. The oth er had committed multiple robberies
and other crimes to support his drug habit. Though neither was in fact
drunk or high on the day of the mur ders, alcohol and drugs appeared to
have greatly influenced their lifestyles and narrowed their choices.
', Regardless of whether alcohol or drugs cause
these men to be violent,
the substance-abusing killers appear ed to have committed more frequent
and more severe prior acts of violence toward the women they killed. They
were almost twice as likely as the othe r killers to admit past violence tha
t
had occurred on at least a monthly le vel. They were approximately twice
{'
as likely to have previously injured their partner. Several of the men had
F
committed past acts of severe vio lence that could have easily resulted i
n
the deaths of the victims. These inc lude the following incidents by five
different men:
1) Bludgeoned the victim repeatedl y over the head with a pipe until
she lost consciousness and required hospitalization for over one f
à week
2) Threw the victim over a stone wa11 onto a busy highway
li 3) Strangl ed the victim into unconsciousness
~ 4) Punched and kicked the victim repeatedly while
throwing her
around a room (for about twenty min utes), resulting in many &
severe lacerations to her head and bo dy
5) Repeatedly drove drunkenly and recklessly with the victim in
I th e car, once crashing into a set of gas
pumps and setting them
ablaze
For about one-third of the substance -abusing killers, the homicide ap-
peared almost as an inevitable culmi nation of their highly violent and
reckless behavior toward the victim. For two of the men, their fatal as-
saints were arguably not the most s evere acts of violence they had to
m-
mittedtoward the victims. ,~
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"She'd always do the opposite of what I'd tell her." ~.„
One year prior to killing Carol, Vincent had assault ed her while they were
out "drinking and partying" with mutual friends. Enraged that she was
"being too friendly" with a mutual friend, Vincent had hit her in the face
with a beer bottle. Carol had sustained a deep lacerati on over her eye for
which she'd required at least twenty sutures. Approxi mately six months
later, Vincent had again assaulted Carol while they were out drinking with
some friends. This time he'd punched her in the face, bre aking her jaw.
Vincent had been arrested and served three months in jail.
One night shortly after his release, Vincent and Carol went out party-
ing with mutual friends. Both of them consumed a great deal of alcohol,
according to Vincent. Vincent went to the liquor store six times during the
course of the evening, buying and helping to consume six pints of pepper-
mint schnapps, four quarter-pints of hot (cinnamon) schnapps, a h alf gal-
lon of vodka, and about sixty dollars' worth of whiskey. They arrived
home at 9:30 p:m. and began to argue. Carol complained that V incent had
stopped up the toilet by throwing some macaroni in it. Vincent tried to un-
stop it with a broom handle, and then broke it over his knee in frus tration.
After Carol yelled at him, Vincent punched her in the leg and ar m several
times and then backhanded her in the face, giving her a blood y nose. He
then gave Carol a towel to wipe her face and sat down to wa tch TV while
she went to bed. That evening Vincent slept on the couch.
When he awoke, Carol's face was swollen and he offe red to take her
to the hospital. She refused his help and instead called the p olice while
he was taking a shower. Vincent was arrested. Ten days later, w hile Vin-
cent was still in jail awaiting trial, Carol died of a blood clot to her brain.
Vincent was convicted of manslaughter and received aten-y ear prison
sentence.
Asked if a jail sentence for his serious assault of Carol a year p rior to
her death would have made a difference, Vincent said, "Not really, I world
have gone back to her. She'd always do the opposite of what I'd tell her
but I was infatuated with her. I'd do anything for her. I'd take h er out for
Chinese four times a week, buy her flowers. Twice I bought her kittens:'
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Economic and Emotional Instability
The substance-abusing killers were most distinct from the other killers
in their lack of stability. I have already mentioned that their relationships
with the deceased had faster beginnings and endings. They also appeared
to be less stable in a multitude of other ways. They were twice as likely as
the other men to be unemployed at the time of the killings. Overall, their
work histories were more sporadic. On average, they changed jobs much
more often and held jobs for shorter periods. They were almost three
times as likely to have been fired from a job. Their annual incomes were
considerably less than those of the other killers. They were three times
less likely to own a home, However, their level of education was similar
to that of the other killers. Just over half had completed high school and
one-quarter had attended at least one year of college.
A pattern of instability was also reflected in the substance abuser's re-
lationships. Despite the fact that they were an average of six years younger
than the other killers, the substance abusers had more relationships that
preceded their involvement with the women they killed. These relation-
ships were more short-lived and more likely to have ended due to abusive
behavior. The substance abusers were half as likely to be married to the
murder victim, and three times less likely to have ever married. They were
also half as likely to have had children. Those who did primarily appeared
to have been abusive parents. More than half admitted to assaulting their
children verbally or physically on a regular basis. Compared to the other
killers, substance abusers also appeared to have been less involved with
their children. Half admitted to having no contact with their biological
children following the dissolution of their relationships with the mothers.
Some admitted to being unable or unwilling to tolerate children's emo-
tional needs.
Compared to the other killers, except for those we deemed financially
exploitative, the substance abusers were most likely to have depended fi-
nancially upon the murder victims. Given their long periods of unemploy-
ment and underemployment, this often extended through most of the rela-
tionships and often had been a point of contention with their partners. One
man, who had been on extended disability, said that his wife had repeat-
edly questioned his inability to work. Several of the men said that they
had resented their financial dependency on their partners and believed t hat
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it had given their par tnexs too much power over th
em. One man added
that "she lorded it ove r me every chance she got." Tw
o men said that they
were more suspicious and jealous toward their partn
ers when they were
unemployed.
Compared to the other killer s, substance abusers seemed m
ore emo-
tionally volatile. They rated themselves as quick to anger b
ut also said
they were often depresse d. Two-thirds of the substanc
e abusers rated
themselves as being moody . This is ovex three times the
proportion of
other killers who perceived themselves this way. Despite
this, they were
no more likely to rate them selves as being depressed. Half
of all killers
said that they had been depres sed for significant periods of ti
me.
Another distinguishing featur e of the substance abusers was tha
t they
were mach more likely to repo rt that they had had many fri
ends and an
active social life. The median nu mber of friends claimed by the
substance
abusers was five, compared to o ne for the other killers. Substa
nce abus-
ers were also more than twice as likely to say ~ha~ they had s
pent at least
one day or evening per week w ith a friend or friends indepe
ndently of
their partners. overwhelmingly, these friends were fellow subst
ance abus-
ers and their times together had r evolved around alcohol or drugs
or both.
Four of the substance abusers said that they had spent more eveni
ngs with
their friends than with their partne rs. As well as their solo activi
ties with
friends, most of the substance a busers reported that they freque
ntly had
seen friends with their partners. About two-thirds of the substanc
e abusers
said that, together with their part ners, they had spent at least on
e evening
per week with mut-uaI friends. Th is compares to just one-quart
er of the
other kiIlers. One-third of the s ubstance abusers said that the
y and their
partners had spent most of their e venings out with friends, whil
e none of
the other killers reported this. As with their solo friends, the ki
llers re-
ported that most of these mutual friends were also heavy users of
alcohol
or dnigs. Thzs choice of friends ma y explain why sa few of the s
ubstance
abusers had voluntarily sought he lp for their drinking or drug u
se. As one
killer put it, "They wasn't [sic] g oing to te11 me to stop [drinki
ng] 'cause
they was all doing the same thing." This man went on to say that
he had
retained the same group of "drin king buddies" since childhood
and that
most had been arrested for alco hol-related crimes such as dis
turbing the
peace, dnmk dxiving, and assaults .
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The substance abusers were least likely to express self-regrets, next to
the materially motivated killers. When ask ed to check off whether they
"sometimes felt like a failure," only 17% o f the substance abusers gave an
affirmative response. By contrast, 40% of the other killers checked "yes"
to this. Given their poor economic and e mployment status relative to the
other killers, one would expect substanc e abusers to feel more like fail-
ures. However, many substance abusers are known to maintain grandiose
self-images. Substance abusers often use al cohol and drugs to avoid self-
doubts and to bolster their self-regard. This can become a vicious circle.
The more negative consequences the substa nce abuser incurs due to drink-
ing and drug use, the more he may want to further imbibe in order to
forget the past. Drinking also becomes a wa y of excusing or rationalizing
failures. When discussing their failure to advance their careers, a number
of the substance abusers I interviewed ex pressed "I could have been a
contender" sentiments. As one man put it, "Alcohol messed me up" in
reference to his long periods of unemploym ent. Not surprisingly, the sub-
stance abusers were far more likely to blam e their violence on alcohol or
drugs. More than half of the substance abuser s said that they would not
have killed their partner had they not been dru nk ar high on the day of the
murder. Only one of the nonsubstance abus ers made this claim.
Triggers for Homicide
Many of the substance abusers revealed long standing grievances against
their partners, but part of the long-term pi cture for these men was also
that their partners had had longstanding grie vances against them. Quite
often, these grievances had revolved about the man's substance use, lack
of financial stability, and general lack of resp onsibility. Victims had also
complained about the men's abusive behavior. As mentioned earlier, these
men's violence was often more frequent an d more severe than that the
other types of killers. Without exception, the ir physical violence was ac-
companied by economic abuse. Compared to th e other killers, substance
abusers were more likely to be unemploye d or underemployed and to
drain finances on alcohol and drugs. Alcohol a nd drug use also commonly
resulted in additional costs such as drunk drivin g injuries and fines, dam-
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controlling behavior. Just as often, victims said the complaints triggering
the murder attempts had been minor ones. Some women said they had
made no complaints at a11, and their partners appeared to be reacting to
some imagined slight.
age to one's car as well as other property, and medical costs associated
with poor health. Substance abusers often engaged in a wide variety of
psychological abuse that typically included name-calling, lying about their
whereabouts, having affairs, and not following through on promises.
Despite this, substance abusers were half as likely, compared to the I II,
other killers, to be estranged from their partners at the time of the homi- P
tide. For those who were no longer living with their partners, estrange-
ment appeared to be a prominent triggering factor for the murders they
committed. Nearly all of these men also qualified as jealous types of kill-
ers. For the substance abusers who were still living with their partners, the
immediate triggers to the murders appeared to have revolved around more
mundane grievances. Nine of these men said that the immediate trigger
had been that the victim was complaining about something. According to
the killers, these nine victims had complained about the following:
1) His drinking and wanting her to go into a particular bar
2) His staying home from work. Killer said he had been upset that
neighbors would hear her yelling and they would be kicked out
of their apartment
3) Him having stopped up the toilet by throwing macaroni in it
4) Him having left her at a party to go out with his friends
5) He had stolen her heroin
6) He had taken some of her money
7) He had broken a flowerpot
8) His not getting help for his depression
9) Something that the killer cannot recall
There is no way of knowing how accurately the killer is reporting these
triggering events. However, the victims of attempted homicide whose
partners had been substance abusers cited similar triggering events, even
though these victims often said that the near-fatal attacks had come not in
response to their complaints about their partners' behavior. In some cases,
there had been major complaints about the men's drinking, violence, or
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Potential Deterrents
The majority of substance abuse rs identified alcohol or drug treatme
nt as
the biggest potential deterrent for t hem. Despite this, only 36% had
re-
ceived any kind of treatment for th eir alcohol or drug abuse prior to
the
,' murders. Moreover, more than
half the men who had sought treat ment
only stayed in treatment for short periods that ranged from a single me
et-
ing at A1cohQlics Anonymous to three to four sessions with a substa
nce
abuse counselor. All of the four m en who had received longer treat
ment
did so as a prisoner or as a conditio n of probation. This usually consis
ted
of attending a residential detox pr ogram of ten to thirty days follow
ed by
a period of group education. Two o f the men who had attended detox sa
id
that this had been their only pe riod of sobriety during their entire
adult
lives. Most of the substance abuser s admitted that their abuse of alcohol
or
drugs had begun in their teen years, some starting as early as age eleven
.
I also asked each man whether he had experienced any mental health
problems as a child or as an adult . Just over half of the substance abusers
said that they had suffered from de pression or bipolar disorder at leas
t
once, though some had never recei ved a formal diagnosis for these. In
-
terestingly, these men were more likely to have sought treatment for
de-
pression than for their substance ab use. All eleven men who had depre
s-
sion said that they'd sought som e form of treatment for it. For two
of
these men, this treatment came o nly when they were children and
had
been triggered because of conduc t problems at school. For two others
,
the treatment they received had be en in prison or as a condition of pro
ba-
tion. One of these men, John, had been ordered to attend treatment fol
-
lowing his conviction for animal abuse. One year prior to killing his e
s-
tranged wife, John had poisoned ove r 10,000 migratory birds in his Ca
pe
', Cod neighborh ood. Accarding to John, neighbor
s had complained about
seagulls, and working as an extem unator, he had volunteered to take
care
'~~ of the pro blem.
'" Of the entire list of potential deterr
ents listed in the previous section
about jealous killers, none were se lected by more than half of the s
ub-
stance abusers. By contrast, a major ity of the other killers (ranging fr
om
<~ 62%-75 %) checked off six of the ten items.
Half the substance abusers
~~ believed that bei ng jailed by a judge and having to
wear an ankle bracelet
would have "very likely" prevente d the murders. The least likely
potential
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alking to
~ me about my violence." The other killers were thzee times more like
ly to
as r say that this would likely have
prevented them from committing murder.
e ~ The substance abu sers' low endorsement of this item reflects
their general
le ~ lack of participation in formal religio us activities. Less than one-third of
nt ~
;t- these men said that they attended religi
ous services on a regular or occa-
Je ~ sional basis. The propo rtion of church-going among the other kil
lers was
~t ~ ' somewhat higher at for ty percent Only two of the substance-ab
using kill-
;d ers said they had ever discussed marital problems with their clergy
person.
Neither, however, had disclosed his domestic violence to the pastor.
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id
alt ~ of measures that would have prevente
d them from drinking or using drugs
on the day of the murder. Short of bein g in jail or some other controlled
~r s environment, few of the men had any ideas of how this might have been
th t achieved. Only one of the substance ahuse
rs had been on probation. One
rs ; of the conditions of this man's probation h
ad been that he submit to ran-
st dom tests to detect whether he had used alco
hol or drugs. The last screen-
ing he had undergone had been three months prior to the murder, and the
i- results had been negative for alcohol or
drug use.
Compared to the other killers, substance abu sers were least likely to
s- ~ f have sought informal help o
r advice from other people. This may be be-
d ( cause many of their friends w ere fellow substance abusers. When asked
if
s, friends who had witnessed his domestic vi
olence had ever intervened, one
killer said, "Nah, they was all doing the s ame thing." Only one of these
1_ ~ men said that a friend had ever interve ned. This was Kevin, the young
man who shot and killed his friend, Rob, when Rob was trying to stop
ie Kevin from hitting his girlfriend, Rebecca
. After killing Rob, Kevin fired
zt ~ _ his assault rifle at Rebecca, ki]ling her too.
,e i A few of the murder vic tims, including Rebecca, appeared to be
sub-
stance abusers. Several of the victims of attempted homicide said that
~n their abusers had often pressured them to d
rink or to use drugs along with
>- ~ them. In two cases, victims said that
the perpetrators had been their prime
n suppliers of drugs. If a victim is abusin
g substances, she may not have as
-s much credibility to courts, police, child
welfare workers, and other help-
Jt ers as other victims of abuse. Many battered women's programs
do not
~ accept victims who are acti vely drinking ar drugging. This creates a c
on-
siderable gap in services. Our helping sy stems need to be better trained
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and equipped to deal with t he special needs and challen
ges of substance-
abusingbattered women. Safe ty planzung witi~ these victi
ms is essential as
they may be less aware of the danger they face ox less able
to take steps to
protect themselves and their children.
Even victzms who do not abuse substances often need h
elp to recog-
nize that substance abuse do es not cause their partner t
o batter, though
it may well make the abuse worse. When the batterer abu
ses alcohol ar
drugs ou a daily ar near-dail y basis, the level of danger
grows exponen-
tially worse. Those who asse ss danger with victims sho
uld therefore al-
ways ask detailed questions a bout file perpetrator's patter
n of alcohol and
dxug use. Sometimes, battere rs can be prosecuted for the
ir drug crimes
more easily than for domesti c violence since such pros
ecutions for drug
crimes don't require the batt ered partner's testimony. Tw
o victims of at-
tempted homicide said that t heir pezpetrators were never
prosecuted for
domestic violence since the w omen had beep too fearful t
o call the police
or to file criminal complaints. In both cases, howevez, th
e perpetrators u1-
timately received substantia l jail sentences for drug traffi
cking.
Mafierially Motivated Type
The term "materially motiva ted" conjures someone who
commits murder
for profit. Though it is know n that some men murder thei
r wives purely for
monetary gain, this was not the case for any of the kille
rs I interviewed,
including those I have chara cterized here as materially m
otivated. In this
context, materially motivated killers are those whose pri
mary interests in
their relationships with women related to money and other m
aterial assets.
Following from this, the murd ers they committed appear t
o have been pri-
marily motivated by grievance s concerning money, possess
ions, and other
material benefits. These murder s were not committed for p
rofit but rather
to avoid material loss. The te rm "material" is important
here since it en-
compasses more than money. It includes possessions, such
as a house and
a car, but also the benefits th at such possessions confer. In
the case of a
j hous e, the material benefits includ
e not just haying equity as we ll as status
within the community, but a lso having a place to call home
, with all of the
attendant privileges. In the con text of an intimate relationshi
p, ttze rriaterial
benefits of home also includ e the comforts one receives fro
m a committed
partner, such as sexual intima cy, emotional support, and
companionship,
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as well as housew ork and childcare. What s
tood out among the materi ally
motivated men wa s their unilateral expectat
ion of such services with out
assuming any recip rocal responsibilities. Per
haps more to the point, they
seemed to expect su ch services while having
no emotional attachment or
loyalty to their part ners. Many of the other
killers, such as the jealou s
men, similarly expect ed services from their pa
rtners. However, they also
displayed some degree of emotional attachment
to their partners, even zf
it had been often com municated in an abusive
manner. AlI of the jealous
killers said they had l aved their partners either
throughout or for some
period in their relationship with the women they kil
led. None of the mate-
rially motivated men sai d this.
The criteria for members hip in the materially moti
vated group of kill-
ers includes the following features:
1) He exhibited very few jealous feelings and little
jealous behavior.
2) He was materially ex ploitative andlor possessi
ve. His grievances
primarily revolved around money and other material
benefits.
3) He had an overwhelmin gly negative view of wome
n.
Lack o f Jealousy
Materially motivated kiIlers w ere unique among partner kill
ers in theiz reI-
ative lack of jealous thoughts a nd feelings concerning thei
r partners. This
is because jealousy, whether w ithin the normal or extrem
e range, requires
an emotional investment in on e's partner. The materially
motivated killers
showed no signs of having m ade such investments. Non
e of these seven
killers revealed a histozy of h aving been emotionally at
tached to the de-
ceased or to any previous pa rtners, While all of the other
killers admitted
some degree of jealousy, rangi ng from normal to extreme o
n the two jeal-
ousy scales that we used, no ne of the materially motivat
ed men reported
having even normal degrees of jealous ~lioughts or feelings.
Initially, I was
highly skeptical about these c laims, all the more so since
some of the men
admitted that they had monit ored their partners' activities
. When asked
about this apparent discrepa ncy, the men said that their m
onitoring had
been motivated not by jealous suspicions but by their wish
to know their
partners' plans, and in particul ar whether the women had be
en planning to
file charges fox domestic vio lence, obtain protective order
s, oz seek ~o end
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the victims of att empted homicide
b~-
also provided some evidence about th
e lack of jealousy a mong this sub-
anc
group of perpetrato rs. Four of the twe
nty victims of atte mpted homicide
De
that we interviewe d rated their partner
s as being "not jea lous at a1P' ar
tots
only "mildly jealou s." As one woman
said, "He didn't c are ai~out me or
for
worry about me bei ng with someone e
lse; he just cared a bout the horse
~V,
and all the things in it."
po,
Violence, for the mat erially motivated
perpetxators, was not triggered hey
by their own jealous y but more often b
y that of their partn ers. All four of !
ac]
the victims who said that their partners
had not been jealou s also reported ~
tiv
that their partners h ad been continually
involved with oth er women, and
no
that their complaint s about this had tri
ggered violent resp onses from the
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men. Most of the mat erially motivated f
illers also complai ned about their
lih
partner's jealous co mplaints. For som
e, these jealous com plaints repre-
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sented an attempt to "own me," as one m
an put it. E ~,
These men did no t appear to have wo
rried about losing their part-
ners so much as th e money and other
material benefits c onnected to the
th
relationship. For so me men, this would
have meant loss o f a home. For
~ m
those who were une mployed, it meant J
oss of their primary source of "in- ~
cc
+' come." Ideally for s
ome, the relationsh ip would have end
ed without the ~ to
Ions of such financi al support. In fact,
two of the men adm itted' that they
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had continued to re ceive money or gift
s from ex-partners w ith whom they
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had continued to ha ve sexual relations
during their relatio nships with the
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All seven of the mate rially motivated
killers painted an ov erwhelmingly
a
negative picture of their partners. No
t once during the fo ur-hour inter-
II
views did any of th ese men communica
te a positive senti ment about the
women they had mu rdered. When aske
d directly, none co uld think of a
p
positive attribute of h is partner. Each man
we~zt to great lengt hs to demon- ~
a
ize the deceased, as i f perhaps to ration
alize the murders th ey had commit-
a
ted. While this may be true, it-was also
clear that this hostil ity had been a
3 t
longstanding featur e in their reiationsl~
ips with their partne rs.
c
Abusive men in ge nezaJ tend to have
highly critical opini ons of their
t
;~ partners. In my pxe
vious study that com paxed abusive to n
onabusive hus-
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npted homicide unong this sub- npted homicide alous at all" or ire about me or about the house
is not triggered ers. All four of is also reported ~r women, and ~nses from the zed about their iplaints repre-
ing their part-
7nected to the f a home. For source of "in- d without the fitted that they th whom they ;hips with the
rwhelmingly r-hour inter- ;nt about the ld think of a is to demon- Zad commit_ ~ had been a
ons of their abusive hus-
bands, I found that abusive husbands had significantly less positive regard
and empathy for their wives, and much more antipathy towards them .13
Despite this, the vast majority communicated some positive regar ds
toward their partners, and most professed to love them. This was even true
for the majority of killers I interviewed, though as a whole, their neg a-
tive feelings and attitudes toward their partners appeared to outweigh their
positive ones. Their overall attitude seemed to be, "I couldn't live with
her and I couldn't live without her," revealing a sometimes begrudging
acknowledgment of affection or perhaps dependency. The materially mo-
tivatedkillers were the only type of perpetrator who appeared to have had
no positive regards or sentiments toward their partners. Their overall atti-
tude seemed to be something akin to "good riddance for someone I never
liked to begin with." Their contempt for their partners appeared to be an
extension of their contempt for women in general, These were the only
men I interviewed who revealed an overt distain for women. The other
killers appeared to like women, at least in theory. In practice, however,
they could never seem to tolerate the one they were with. By contrast, the
materially motivated killers were more consistent; they held all women in
contempt, including those with whom they had been partnered. These men
tend to view women primarily as objects of complaint, and perhaps more
to the point, as restrictors of their liberties. Referring to his many arrests
for domestic violence, Everett said, "Women have always gotten me in
trouble." For Everett, "trouble" came not from his violence toward women
but from women's complaints about it. Several of the materially moti-
vated men did express regrets for having killed, but their regrets seemed
to revolve around their loss of freedom rather than their partners' loss
of life. For some, their incarceration appeared to be their final grievance
against the deceased, as if to say, "Look at the problems she's caused for
me now."
The open contempt that materially possessive men held toward their
partners was accompanied and fueled by many longstanding grievances
and grudges. It should be noted that all of the killers had held grudges
against their victims or felt aggrieved in some way. For most, however,
these grudges appeared to have been short-lived and episodic, as in the
case of jealous rages or alcoholic binges. These periods of anger had of-
ten been followed by apologies, retractions, and periods of conciliation.
There appeared to have been many highs and lows in their relationships,
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and considerable emotional flu x on their parts. The materia
lly motivated
killers, however, did not repo rt this same pattern of high
s and lows, or
of emotional storms with thei r partners. Instead, these me
n appeared to
have e~ibited more of a patt ern of contemptuous detachm
ent toward their
partners. Their animosity to ward their partners had rese
mbled a "slow
burn" rather than a "quick fu se:' While 62% of the other ki
llers character-
ized themselves as being "moo dy," none of the materially
motivated men
thought of themselves in thi s way. Compared to the other
killers, these
men were the most guarded and evasive about discussing
the events that
had led up to them murdering their partners or ex-partners
. Only one of
the seven men acknowledged a ny intent to kill his partner. I
n fact, two de-
nied committing the murdexs a ltogether. Three others claim
ed that shoot-
ing their partner had been "a n accident," while another cl
aimed it to have
been in self-defense. Despite this, five of the seven men
had been con-
victed of first or second deg ree murder. This suggests tha
t, on avezage,
these men were more calcula ting killers than the others,
and ones who
were also more likely to atte mpt to cover their Uracks.
Judging from their relationsh ip histories, the materially
motivated
killers did not look to women for-love but primarily for s
ex and mate-
rial benefits, such as money, p lace of residence, housekeep
ing, and some
cases, childcare. Despite this o verall commonality, I found
that there were
two distinct types of men in t his category: those who w
ere financially
exploitive of women and thos e who were financially posse
ssive in their
relationships.
Financially Exploitative
The three men who fit this prof ile appeared Co view women
as interchange-
able, and disposable, objects of exploitation. These men ha
d had twice
as.many prior relationships, r elative to their ages, as the j
ealous killers.
Their past relationships had a lso been more short-lived an
d overlapping
and they often had been involv ed with several women at one
time. Consis-
tently, these men had sought to appropriate the financial res
ources of each
woman with whom he had bee n involved. A11 three of thes
e men acknowl-
edged that they had also stolen money or possessions from p
ast partners.
None of these men had marr ied the murder victim or had
children with
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All three of these men said that he had been s
exually involved with
other women during h is relationship with th
e woman he killed. Only one-
third of ttze other killers made such claims. Perha
ps directly related to thi s,
the materially explorta tive killers were most li
kely to complain about j eal-
ousy by tine women t hey killed. For these mer
z, their biggest grievan ces
seemed to be when th eir partners had compl
ained about their viole nce,
znfidelity, or substanc e use. One man said th
e biggest problem in his rela-
tionship with the deceas ed had been her complai
nts about his involveme nt
with a motorcycle club , Most of these men app
eared to knave longstand ing
perceptions of their par tners as "too bossy," "to
o jealous," or overly cri ti-
cal. Asked their bigges t complaints about their
deceased partners, two of
the znen simply said, "S he bothered me." Press
ed to clarify what he mea nt
by being bothered, one of these men, Sidney, s
aid, "She'd do nothing but
complain." This man we nt on to describe how hi
s girlfriend would com-
plain about his staying out all night, his not tel
ling her his plans, and his
yelling at her. Adding that he had gften encou
ntered this problem wi th
women, Sidney said, " They are nice at first but
when I move in they ge t to
think they own yon." T he other man who said
that his partner "bother ed"
him explained that "she was always getting int
o my business." Five of the
materially motivated me n killed their partners
after the relationships had
ended, essentially claimi ng that the victims had
provoked their own mu r-
ders by continuing to m ake claims on them.
When asked what he thought had been the
biggest problems in his
relationship, Evezett said , "Her jealousy, withou
t a doubt. Pius her alwa ys
wanting to fight with me ." Everett went on to c
omplain about Monique 's
frequent accusations of his interest in other wo
men. Despite this, Eve rett
freely admitted that he had had numerous affai
rs, but justified this by s ay-
ing she had been free to do the same. Everett al
so complained that afte r he
had broken off the relat ionship with her, Moniq
ue had demanded payme nt
of money and gifts she had given him, and a
lso accused him of havi ng
stolen some jewelry th at he had given her. Th
is culminated in Moni que
showing up at his hous e to demand he return t
he jewelry. Though he ad-
mitted beating her up, E verett continues to den
y shooting her to death as
ber. Each had lived i n her house or apartme
nt and had contributed lit tle or
no money to the re nt or mortgage. Each s
aid that he had lived pri marily
off of his deceased partner's income.
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she stood in his parking lot that evening. Despite ove
rwhelming evidence his wife
of his guilt, Everett insists that he was "framed" by an
other man who hap- ing or rn
pened to be visiting with fz iends that day.
"never s
Another killer, Kyle, had l eft his girlfriend, Hadley
, to move across murders
the country eight months be fore killing her. He said he
had returned only partner.
because Hadley had told h im that she was pregnan
t with his baby, and range mf
that he had wished to conv ince her to have an abortio
n. On the day of the own ed
murder, he had found out Hadley had lied about bei
ng pregnant in order ~ s hare of
to lure him back to Massa chusetts with her. He aske
d her to go for a walk dad o~,i
alon the railroad tracks, where he then strap led her
and buried her bod
g g Y
brose, i;
in the woods. Kyle fled ba ck to Oregon. Though he
had been questioned
about Hadley's disappea rance, he was not arreste
d until her body was Case I
found over a year later.
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Financially Possessive Ambro:
Two of the materially mot ivated killers, Ambrose
and Lester, had been ing a C
married to their victims and had more stable rela
tionship histories with fr om a 1
women than the five men p reviously described. Whil
e the financially ex- a year 1
ploitative men had relation ships with the deceased t
hat had averaged one a nd shf
year, Ambrose and Lester had each been married m
ore than ten years to ~ co ok at
the woman they killed. Furth er, each had far fewer prior
relationships rela- ° p ant an
five to his age. Both men h ad had children with his
wife. By every mea- fam ily,
sure, Ambrose and Lester h ad been more economical
ly stable than the ern,
other five men. Each had held the same job for mo
re than fifteen years, ~,f
owned a home, and had lo ngtime stakes in his comm
unity. In this regard, b rother
they deviated from the pat tern of the other five me
n who collectively '~ fey ~~
owned no homes, had held no jobs longer than two y
ears, and as adults ~ b rose
had not lived in any commu nities far more than a fe
w years. What these ~ and rer
two men had in common wit h the other five was their
lack of jealous feel- regular
ings, contempt fox their part ners, and their longstandi
ng grievances con- with a
cerning money and material things. These two men w
ere not financially A mbrc
exploitative of women but r ather had been equal wage
earners with their ~ only st
partners. But while neither looked to women for financ
ial support, both ~ from b
had been financially posses sive in their respective rel
ationships. Each man with p
'~ ha d frequently accused leis w
ife of being "a financial d rain." Each man ~
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his wife in resp onse to her spendu
cg or her corziplain ts about his spen
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ing or money management. Both
men complained that their partners w
ere
"never satisfie d °' In both cases, t
heir xelationships had ended prior to
the
murders, and ne rther man had se
emed interested in reconciling with
his c
partner. However , both were embit
tered about the div ision of property
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rangements of the ir divorces. Critic
al to this was tha t both men had co
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owned abusiness with their partner
s. Each had stood to lose half of his
share of the bus iness as part of th
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ter with hts wife. The other man, Am
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Case Exarr~ple 3
"You're old and fa t and I hate you"
Ambrose and Luis a were both thirt
y-one when they w ere married follow
-
ing a two-month courtship. Luisa
had an eleven-yea r-old son, Samuel,
from a prior marri age. Stanley, their
first and only cY~ii d together, was bor
n
a year later, Luisa had grown up wor
king in her family' s sandwich shop,
and she continued to work at her br
other's shop. Amb rose worked as a
cook at another res taurant. Ambrose
was restless to own their own restau-
rant and continual ly accused Luisa
of being too cont ent working for h
er
family. He also co mplained that Lui
sa was "selfish" an d overly critical of
him.
After four years of pressure from A
mbrose, Luisa ag reed to ask her
brother to sell Isis restaurant to diem
, and Ambrose qu it his other job so
they could manag e the new restaur
ant together. Shor tly after this, Am
-
brose was arreste d for soliciting a
police officer posi ng as a prostitut
e,
and received a fin e of $200. He nev
er admitted to Lu isa that this was
a
regular activity of his. Luisa did fin
d out, however, ab out his relationshi
p
with a younger wo man and his visits
to strip clubs. Wh en she confronted
Ambrose about t his, he told hex, "Y
ou are old and fat and T hate you. Pm
only staying with you because of St
anleq." Perhaps to sidetrack attentio
n
from his own inf idelity, Ambrose b
egan to accuse Lu isa of having affai
rs
with particular me n. Later that year
, Luisa obtained a restraining and va
-
cate order after cl azming that Ambr
ose had beat her u p. Though he denie
d
even being in the house that day, th
e order was grant ed and Ambrose w
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ordered to vacate their house as well as their busines s. He moved in with dQW
some friends and took a job at another restaura nt. Luisa filed for divorce. 1e~
As part, of the divorce settlement, Ambrose agr eed to sell his share of the
restaurant, receiving a substantial profit from his i zlitial investment.
Ambrose looked into buying a new restaurant. Ac carding to Luisa's
family, Ambrose continually violated Luisa's rest raining order by enter-
ing her home and threatening her and Samuel and by making threatening
phone calls. Ambrose denies this.
According to the police report, Ambrose wal ked into Luisa's res-
taurant on June 6, displayed a 38 caliber handgu n, and yelled, "Freeze,
motherfuckers!" He then went to the counter to wh ere Luisa was washing
pans and shot her in the side. His second shot st ruck her wrist and arm.
Luisa's sister, Mary, then pushed his arm, causi ng the third shot to miss
Luisa. Ambrose then straddled Luisa, who was lyi ng on the floor, and fired
two shots into her head and neck at point-blank ra nge. According fo sev-
eral eyewitnesses, he then turned to Mary, smiled, put the gun to her chest,
and pulled the trigger but was out of bullets. He fled the restaurant and
later called to turn himself in to the police.
Ambrose gives a very different version of thes e events. He says that
Luisa called him the previous day to ask him to come to the restaurant so
they could discuss something. When he arrived at the restaurant, Luisa
pulled a gun from her purse and pointed it at him . He kicked the gun out
of her hand, knocking it into the sink. Luisa trie d to grab the gun but he
got to it first. They struggled with the gun and it went off, striking Luisa in
the head. Despite the police report that he fired fi ve shots, Ambrose says
he remembers only one shot. After firing this shot, he grabbed the bag of
bullets and ran out of the stoxe.
According to testimony at Ambrose's trial, Stanley , aged six, said that
his father had frequently hit his mother. Mary said that Luisa had gotten
some kind of venereal disease due to Ambrose's f requent visits to prosti-
tutes. Once, when Luisa complained, he told her, "I will cut you up and
fry you." One day when Mary called the house, Stanley answered and
told her that his father had broken in and had go ne upstairs looking for
his mother with a big knife. He had grabbed his fath er by the leg to stop
him but Ambrose had told him he would kill him and his brother. Mary
had gone over to the house and .Ambrose had an swered the door, telling
her that i~uisa wasn't home. When she persisted. he h ad let Luisa come
true,
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downstairs to ma ke coffee. Luisa
had denied that there had been an
y proti-
lems but later c onfided to her si
ster that what S tanley had told
her was
true. Shortly after this inciden
t, Luisa had told Ambrose that she
wanted a
divorce. He to ld her, "Z'm not g
iving you a divo rce; I'll give you b
ullets in
-.the head inst ead." He also had
written a letter to her saying that
he would
kill her and Sam uel. Two weeks
prior to t1~e murd er, Ambrose had
brought
a friend over t o Luisa's house
to tz-y to convin ce Luisa to take
Ambrose
'back. When Lu isa refused, Amb
rose had told he r he would kill he
r. The
friend had told Ambrose that he
should be nice t o Luisa if he wan
ted her
back. Lnisa's mu rder occurred on
the anniversary of her wedding.
Follow-
ing the murder, Mary found that
Luisa's apartm ent above the res
taurant
had been ransac ked.
s Ambr ose was convicte
d of murder in th e first degree. Tw
o subsequent
~. ; f appeals f
iled by Ambrose have been denie
d.
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Projection
! ` Ambrose' s depiction of Lu
isa as selfish, ove rly critical, and
untrustworthy
~, would se em to be a more
accurate depicti on of himself rat
her than of her.
1 This is no t coincidental. A
mbrose appears to be using a psyc
hological de-
fense mechanism known as proj
ection. Projectio n is the tendency
to see
one's own (usuall y negative) chara
cteristics in othe r people. By ascr
ibing
unflattering attrib utes onto others,
the individual eit her avoids seeing
these
same traits in him self or rationaliz
es that he is mer ely being like ot
hers.
~ Greedy in dividuals, for ex
ample, often just ify their venality
by saying that
they are just doin g what everyon
e else does or wa nts to da. 7n a s
imilar
vein, many batter ing men see thei
r partners as sel fish and unapprec
iative
I
because they the mselves are self
ish and unapprec iative. They see
theiz
partners as being controlling an
d vindictive beca use they themsel
ves are
controlling and v indictive. They s
ee their partners as jealous becau
se they
themselves are je alous. Many of
the killers appea red to use proje
ctive
thinking as a way of seeing their p
artners as persecu tors rather than a
s vic-
f tuns. The se men frequentl
y complained th at they had felt m
ocked, humili-
ated, or otherwi se "disrespected
" by the women t hey killed. For ex
ample,
Ambrose said th at he had felt "hu
miliated" having to sell his share
of the
restaurant. Anoth er man said that
he had felt that h is wzfe was "mock
ing"
him by becoming involved with
another man fol lowing their sepa
ration.
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This man had in fact flaunted his relationstzips with other wo
men through-
out their marriage by continua lly bringing other women ove
r to the house
for sex when his wife was th ere and by openly comparing
these women to
her in highly unflattering and gzaphic terms.
Similarity to Murderers for Pro fit
Though there is no evidence t hat any of these men killed
their partners
purely for profit, they appear to have much in common wi
th those men
who do. The materially motiv ated men seemed the most ca
lculating and
remarseless of all the killers that I interviewed. These appea
r to be com-
mon traits among men who ki lled their partners for monetar
y gain. I know
of no systematic study of thes e kinds of killings. Therefore,
what we know
about them is based primarily o n court testimony and media
reports.
One potential difference in th ese media-reported cases is t
he apparent
absence of histories of domes tic violence. However, we
must remember
that domestic violence is often hidden from public view s
o it may well
have existed in many or mos t of these cases. As mention
ed previously,
there was strong evidence of p rior violence on the part of al
l thirty-one of
the men that I interviewed. O ther research studies of killin
gs of women
by their intimate partners have found histories of domestic v
iolence in the
vast majority of these cases.14 For instance, one researcher f
ound evidence
~, of prior domestic violence in 85
% of the eighty-seven women 's homicides
that she examined.15 No resear ch has specifically analyzed r
ates of prior
domestic violence in cases whe n husbands kill for profit.
However, there have been some high-profile cases in wh
ich there
was no known history of do mestic violence. One such cas
e was Charles
', (Chec k) Stuart, a furrier store manag
er, who murdered lais pxegna nt wife,
Carol, in Boston in 1989. Mr. S tuart tried to cover up his cri
me by claim-
ing that a man had robbed an d shot him and his wife in th
eir car shortly
jy after t hey had attended a chiTdbirthi
ng class at Brigham and W omen's
Hospital in the Roxbury sectio n of Boston.16 Boston police
subsequently
, arrested and charged an African
American man who matched the descrip-
floe that Chuck Stuart had give n of their assailant. Subsequent
ly, evidence
emerged that Mr. Stuart had e nlisted his brother, Matthew,
to help him
kill his wife so that he could benefit fxom her Life insurance
policy. On
the evening of the crime, Matt hew delivered the .38-caliber
handgun that
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Chuck used first to shoot Carol Ciauck
then shot himself i n the stomach in
order to bolster his claim of being
robbed. Evidence e merged that Chuck
Stuart had been invotved with anot
her woman with wh om he'd been mak-
f Ong secret plans to buy and m
anage a restaurant, Mr. Stuart subseque
ntly
killed himself by jumping off the
Tobin Bridge once it became clear that
he was about to be charged with t
he murder. Accordin g to the extensive
media reports, as well as the police
interviews with Ca rol 5tuart's fziends
E and relativ es, no one had kn
own of any instanc es of domestic abu
se by
,,._ ~ Chuck. Wh
ile evidence of pri or domestic violen
ce has been uncover ed in
other such cases, i t appears that a si
gnificant number o f these for-profit
killexs do not previ ously hatter their w
ives.
~ Despite this potential dif
ference, men who k ill for profit appe
ar to
~ have many of the same preocc
upation with money and material benefi
ts as
~: the material ly motivated killer
s that I've profiled. They appear to fit m
ore
closely the profile o f the financially p
ossessive men than the financially
-
~ exploitative ones. This is beca
use they are more .often married to t
heir
f murder victims. Thi
s makes sense sinc e the financzal gain
is greater when
t11e killer is married to his victim and
therefore stands to inherit hex as-
sets as well as to b e the beneficiary o
f her life insuranc e policy. Another
potential similarity between the profit
killers and tfie finan cially posses-
j slue ones th at I interviewed is t
heir ambitions for w ealth and social st
atus.
s Chuck Stuar t, for instance, had
apparently cultivat ed an image of some
one
E with high ambition
s. He had lavishe d his mzstress with
fuz coats, a dia-
} mond ring, a nd other expensive
gifts. Similarly, bo th Ambrose and Les
ter
had been business o wners with dreams
of wealth and of e nhanced social
status. Each man, li ke Chuck Stuart,
had seen his wife a s a hindrance to
~ these dreams. i
One perpetrator of a ttempted homicid
e, Richard, had alre ady achieved
{ high social s tatus as a physicia
n. Just prior to his attempt ~o kill leis
wife,
Louise, by poisoni ng her, he was und
er investigation for illegal prescrib-
ing practices. As h is one-time office
manager, Louise k new that Richard
had been overprescr ibing to his patien
ts and also fraudule ntly billing in-
stzrance pzoviders. S he also suspected t
hat Richard had att empted to finan-
F dally explo it disoriented elder
ly patients by "ply ing them with gifts
" and
inducing them to become dependent
upon drugs that he prescribed. Prior
j to her filing for divorce, Rich
ard had increased the amount of Louis
e's
life insurance polic y and was openly s
pending time with a nother woman.
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Louise was one of the t hree victims of attempted
homicide who felt that
her perpetrator had had a financial motive to kill he
x. "I was in the way of
the life he wanted to have ," Louise said, adding, "
and he figured my death
was cheaper than divorc e:'
Another potential similar ity between far-profit kil
lers and the mate-
xially motivated type of killer is that both kinds
of men appear to have
features associated with anti-social personality
. These include lacking
empathy and remarse, bein g manipulative and exp
loitative of others, and
having shallow emotions. Louise spoke of Richard'
s "complete lack of a
conscience," for instance . Three of the materially
motivated kiIlers had
been formally evaluated as having anti-social pe
rsonality. All thxee also
qualified as career criminal s, based on their lengthy
criminal recards. The
other four men might also have scored high on t
he psychopathy scale,
a test used to identify feat ures of anti-social perso
nality. None had ever
received a mental health evaluation ar been in a se
tting that required psy-
chological testing. None h ad an extensive criminal
history. In fact, Am-
brose and Lester had no p rior arrests at a11. Having
a criminal record is not
a prexequisite for a diagn osis of anti-social person
ality, however. Many
people with thzs persona lity exploit others witho
ut breaking laws, and
even when they do, mana ge to avoid arrest. Further
discussion about the
ch~acteristics of individua ls with anti-social perso
nality will be provided
in the section about the c areer criminal type of kill
er.
Potential Deterrents
Compared to the other type s of killers, the materially
motivated ones were
the least likely to have par kicipated in a therapeutic
program prior to com-
mitting murder. Only thre e of the seven men had
attended any kind of
counseling during his lif etime, and far one man, it
had been involuntary.
This man, Kyle, had been required to see a therapist
while in high school
because of missing classes and acting out in class.
Diagnosed with con-
duct disorder, Kyle had also been arrested numer
ous times for stealing
cars. Kyle reported that he had dropped out of schoo
l after seeing his psy-
chologist appro~mately ten times.
Two of the materially mo tivated killers had volunt
arily sought treat-
ment, but neither had staye d in treatment for more th
an ten weeks. In both
cases, this therapy had be en received more than fi
ve weeks prior to the
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ed. One of these m en, Lee, had atten
ded sev-
`' ezal grou p sessions at a Vete
ran's Administrati on Hospital for vic
tims of
'' post-trauma tic stress disorder.
More than ten yea rs later, Lee killed
his
t partner by s traiiglirtg her and b
reaking her neck. L ee claimed that this
was
~' an "involu ntary instinctive re
sponse" after his p artner had thrown
some
hot tea in his fac e. Lee reported th
at he had been tra ined to kill people
~ in this man ner while serving
in the army durin g the Vietnam War
era.
The other killer w ho lzad previously
sought counseling was Gerald, the
man who said tha t he "accidentally"
shot his gizlfriend , Pamela, at close
~ ' range in th e face with his sawe
d-off shotgun. Ger ald had bziefly rece
ived
treatment for depre ssion during one o
f his prior incarcera tions for armed
r robbery.
Not only ware th e materially moti
vated men least lik ely to have
sought therapy but they also identifi
ed the fewest potent ial deterrents for
~, the murders they committed. Th
eir reluctance to ci te factors might wel
l be
i' influenced by the fact that mo
st of these men den ied comzxiitting mu
rder
altogether or avowed that the killing ha
d been in self-defe nse or otherwise
provoked by the vic tim. As Gerald sa
id, "Nothing would have prevented
' it because i t was an accident;
' Despite this, six o f the men identified
some
potential factors that might have pr
evented their vict ims' deaths. Un-
like the jealous kill ers, few selected pa
rticipation in a ba tterer interven-
tion program as a potential deterrent.
Only two of the m en said that this
"might have" hel ped prevent the de
aths of their partn ers. Interestzngly,
three men identified two particular tec
hnological devices a s potential de-
terrents. They sele cted "knowing my
partner had a bee per that notified
the police whenever I came near her"
as a factor that "v ery likely would
have" deterred them from killing thei
r partners. They al so selected "be-
ing on probation a nd having to wear
an ankle bracelet t hat notified police
whenever I came ne ar my partner" as a
"very likely" dete rrent. When they
committed the murd ers; both of these
men had active re straining orders
tYiat required them t o stay away from
their partners. Each man accurately
reported that "my partner having a re
straining order" ha d not been a suf-
ficient deterrent.
Everett explained, "If someone does
something to me and gets away
with zt, the only thzn g that will work is
them being away where I can't find
them."
These men's endoz sement of beepers
for victims and an kle bracelets
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for perpetrators lends su pport to the arguments
of many threat assessmen t
specialists thafi strict mon itoring ox confinement
are the only effective de-
tezrents for some types o f dangerous offenders.
The "ankle bracelet"- is
one form of monitoring that has increasingly bee
n used with sex offend-
ers, particularly those wit h a history of assaulting
children. This system is
mare aptly known as Gl obal Position System (G
PS) monitoring since the
ankle bracelet worn by t he offender is programm
ed to send a continuous
signal that is tracked by satellites, which then b
ounce the signal back to
the monitoring device. T he monitoring device i
s programmed to keep a
real-time record, as well as a map, of the offend
er's whereabouts in rela-
tion to places that are frequented by potential
victims, such as schools
or playgrounds. Some j urisdictions have recent
ly used GPS to monitor
domestic violence offend ers._In these cases, the
system is prograznined to
show when the offender comes within a certain
distance, say one mile, of
certain buildings used by the victim. These typi
cally include her home,
workplace, house of wor ship, and businesses th
at she Frequents. In some
cases, the offender's prob ation officer is automatic
ally beeped whenever
the offender comes with in the specified distance
of any of the selected
buildings. One of the big gest drawbacks of GPS m
onitoring is that it can
only detect the offender's pro~mity to selected
buildings, rather than that
of the victim herself. Kno wing the victim's usual
travel route from home
to work, a perpetrator co uld accost her somewhe
re along this route with-
out alerting the GPS monit or. Another drawback is
that the system is only
as effective as the respon se time of the monitorin
g authorities. Even if a
perpetrator accosts his v ictim in one of the sel
ected buildings, he could
easily kiIl her before the m onitoring authorities ar
rive.
Suicidal Type
Though I did not know i t at the time, Jerold was m
y first encounter with a
suicidal abuser. I didn't l ~now Jerold was suicidal
since he'd revealed no
history of suicidal threats or attempts on the intak
e form when ke enrolle d
in the batterer interventi on program where I wor
ked. During the first thr ee
group sessions he atten ded, Jerold often cracke
d jokes and appeared t o
be optimistic about his f uture. Only after he had
missed the next two se s-
sions clid I learn from his probation officer that Jer
old had killed himself.
Despite his denials on t he intake form, Jerold's w
ife, Anita, knew him to
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be suicidal beca use he had frequen
tly threatened to kill her, thezr two ch
il-
dren, and himself. Jerold would oft
en repeat this threa t when Anita talk
ed
A about en ding the relations
hip. Fearing that h e would make go
ad on these
threats, Anita t ook steps to prote
ct the children and herself by obtaini
ng
a protective ord er tYiat required Je
rold to move out t he house and to a
void
any contact with her or the childr
en. Anita asked s ome of her neighb
ors
to alert her shou ld they see Jerold
in the neighborho od. She coached
the
f children t o go to a neighbor
's house should t heir father show u
p, telling
them, "Don't tr y to talk to daddy,
just z~un to Shirle y's Douse." Despi
te
these plans, Jer old showed up u
nannounced on ea rly morning wit
h a
loaded shotgun. Brandishing the gun
, he threatened to "take out tine who
le
family." Anita be gged and eventual
ly convinced Jero ld to let the childre
n i
go. After the chil dren fled, Anita sa
id silent prayers in anticipation of be-
ing killed. Instea d, Jerold walked u
p to her, saying, "Y ou ruined my life"
just before shooi ng himself in the
head.
7erold's case help ed me to recognize
that suicidal men are not a.Zways
easy to spot. I als o came to see that f
or some perpetrato rs, their suicidaliry
{and overall threat potential) rises an
d falls according t o the status of their
relationships with their partners. an
d children. Given the ever-changing
situational factors , threat assessmen
ts should not be one-time events bu
t
need to be repeate d when the circu
mstances change. F actors such as es-
trangement, as we ll as changes in
a perpetrator's e mployment, health
,
mood, and level of drinking, are al
l extremely relev ant to assessing hi
s
threat potential. As the situation chan
ges, the level of da nger may increas
e
or decrease. Thera pists who work w
ith suicidal indiv iduals similarly r
e-
port that the like lihood of suicide v
aries according to the situation. Whe
n
a suicidal individ ual has been abusi
ve to his partner a s Jerold had been
,
the threat of homic ide always looms
as a potential out come, Based on re-
search findings, there is good reas
on for this. As men tioned earlier, abo
ut
30% of intimate p artner killings of
American women are followed by su
i-
cide. The proporti on of murder-suic
ides xelative to mur der-only cases ap-
pears to vary a gr eat deal from regi
on to region in the United States, with
western and south ern states having
higher rates than in the central, eas
t-
ern, and northern states. CampbelY
s study of femicid es in eleven Ameri
-
can cities found the rate of murder
-suicides to be 51 % in Houston and
38% in Los Ange les, compared to
8% in Baltimore and 13% in Kans
as
City.l' During the ten-year period fr
om 1995-2004 in Massachusetts, the
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murder-suicide rate was 29%.18 By comparison, th
e murder-suicide rate ~ attempt
in Arizona was 55% durin g the two-year period fro
m 2000-2001.19 Dur- ~ biologi
ing the three-year period f rom 2002-20Q4, the rate
in Florida was 40%.20 temptzr.
Overwhelmingly, murder -suicides involving intim
ate partners are perpe- mother,
Crated by men. Various stud ies have found the propor
tion of male perpe- ~ killing
trators in these kinds of cas es to be in the 85%-95%
range.21 ~ childre: 1
More Stability ~ Gun U
Aside from the fact that th e killers are mostly male,
surprisingly little has ~ The re
been written about murder -suicides involving intim
ate partners. There is choice
some evidence that these perpetrators tend to be si
gnificantly older than ~1~ t~f
their victims. One analysi s of data of such cases in
six American states e of the
found that perpetrators w ere, on avezage, over six
years older than their i P~,~d ~
victims.22 Studies of homic ide-only cases have not
found such a signifi- of twee
cant age difference betwee n the killers and the kille
d. In our study, only perpett
17% of the killers were si x or more years older tha
n their victims. How- ers we
ever, neither of the two me n who attempted suicide
was six years older. In f to a gL
fact, one was twelve years younger his victim. Regard
less of whether they murder
axe older than their victims , there is stronger evidenc
e that perpetratars of up to t1
murder-suicide are older th an those who kill their pa
rtners only. The pre- ~ pe~~~
viously cited national stu dy by Campbell and collea
gues found that 11% ~~
of the perpetrators in murde r-suicide cases were fifty
years of age or older, ents tl~
compared to 7% of the pez petrators in murder-only ca
ses.23 his prc
Compared to men who kill only their partners, ano
ther distinguish- follow
ing feature of men who a lso kill themselves is that
they are more likely ~ explan
to be married to their vict ims. In CampbelYs study
, 51%o of the murder- risk fa
suicide perpetratars wexe married to their victims,
compared to 33% of of fem
the murder-only perpetrators .24 Though these killers
were no more likely x Lion is
to have biological children of Cheir own, they were m
ore likely to be liv- ~ stua
ing with the biological child ren of the victims. How d
o we interpret these had to
findings? It is possible that the e~stence of stepchildr
en poses additional panne
grounds for jealousy and r esentment for these men.
Some battered women
have reported that their abus ers are jealous of their rel
ationships with their
own children. Many of the abusive men I have coun
seled have expressed Subst
particular resentments tow ard their stepchildren. S
ome have attempted Suicic
to portray stepchildren as u ndermining influences o
n their relationships cuhol.
with the mothers. One man continually claimed that
his stepdaughter was murde i
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conciliation betwe en her mother a
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1~~ological father. Much of his tim
e during group se ssions was spent
at-
la was 40%,Z0 tempting to portra y this eleven-yea
r-old girl as an e `~il influence on
her
ors are perpe- mother. One of th e killers, Harold,
who had tried to conunit suicide
after
f male perpe- ~ filling his estra nged partner, said
that he deeply re sented Jenaya's a
dult
children becaus e he knew that th
ey were "against” him.
f
Gun Use
ngly little has ~ The reader might recall that gun
s are overwhelm ingly the weapo
n of
Hers. There zs choice for men w ho kiIl their partn
ers. This is even more so for men
who
tly.older than ( kill themselv es after slaying
thezr partners. Ca mpbell found th
at 61%
nerican states 4 of the women in the murder-s
uicide cases were killed with a gu
n, com-
.der than their pied to 28% of the women in
the murder-only cases.2S A second
study
such a signifi-
E of twenty murder
-suicides in Ariz ona found that ni
neteen of the twen ty
~Ur study, only perpetrators use d a gun.26 These
studies also found that the suicidal k
ill-
victzms. How- ers were mo re likely than th
e not-suicidal on es to have had ea
sy access
Years older. In to a gun. The Campbell study f
ound that 81% of those who perpe
trated
f whether tYtey murder-suic ide had easy acces
s to a gun over t he one-year period
Leading
perpetrators of a~
up to the fatal ass aults. This same
study found that just over half of t
hese
only, The pre-
~
perpetrators had previously threat
ened their victims with a weapon.
Fund that 11 % E One interp retation of this fin
ding is that easy access to a gun pr
es-
>f age oz older, ~ ents the depres sed and angry pe
rpetratar with mo re of a "quick fi
x" to
his problems. Si mply having a gu
n may make it m ore likely for him
to
~r distinguish- ~ follow t hrough on any im
pulses to kill his partner and/or
himself This ~
re more likely f explanation fit s research that s
hows that gun ac cess is one of the
leading
of the murder- risk factors t o femicide in ge
neral, and may b e even more so f
or cases
red to 33% of ~ of femicide-sui cide. Contrary to
this interpretatio n, substantial pxe
medita-
no more likely tion is eviden t in cases of mur
der-suicide. For some of the kille
rs in our
ikely to be liv- i study, their eas y access to guns
was not. coincident al to their crimes.
Many `
intezpret these had taken pains to obtarn
guns wick the a pparent intention t
o ki11 ti2eir
uses addi~ionai partners.
attered women
hips with their
lave expressed Substance Abus
e
ave attempted suicidal k illers may be m
ore likely than n onsuicidal ones t
o abuse al-
relation sYu p s c ohol. In their s
tudy, Campbell a nd colleagues fo
und that 52% of the
daughter was murder-s uicide group of
killers had been abusers of alcoho
1.28 In their
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closer examination of forty-two cases, these researchers found that 63%
along
of these perpetrators had used alcoho l on the day of the fatal assaults. This
~ of an
same study found no significant differ ences between the murder-suicide
ality ~
killers and the murder-only ones in thei r use of illicit drugs. About half of
ally v
each group had used one or more drugs of some kind. It seems likely that
~ style c
a higher proportion of the murder-suic ide group of killers had used pre-
~ a "slo
scription drugs since they were mo re Likely to have sought treatment and
; his pz
medication for their depression. ~ searcl
more
for be
Depression very d
Most studies of murder-suicide cases have found depression and other
~ matic
forms of mental illness to be prominent factors in the lives of the perpetra-
~ bid or
tors. One of the first studies of such ca ses in Great Britain, conducted in
j likely
1967, found that forty-five of the seven ty-eight killers had exhibited some
~ contin
form of "mental abnormality" and that twenty-eight had suffered from
styles,
depression.29 A later study that directl y compared murder-suicide cases to
~ a goon
murder-only ones found that three-quar ters of the first group of perpetra-
style.
tors had suffered from depression whil e none of the twenty-four killers
medic
in the latter category had been depr essed.30 The Campbell study judged
is hang
that 38% of the murder-suicide killers h ad had "poor mental health" com-
pared to 28% of the other killers.31 A f ourth study accessed coroner files Case
of 121 homicide cases. This investi gator found that the men who killed
themselves were more likely to have suffered from depression.32 Not sur-
"I
prisingly, most studies have found the se men were more likely. to have
~ m
threatened or attempted suicide. . ~
But how do we account for the surpris ingly large proportion of these ~
Allen
men with no apparent histories of suici de attempts ar depression? It seems
who n
likely that, for some of these men, kill ing their partner had been the pri-
~` ners. I
many aim and killing themselves merely an afterthought. Rather than re-
~ the th1
fleeting any longstanding wish to com mit suicide, these men's decision
~'
and a
to do so may have been a rational ch oice made after killing their partner:
disfigt
choosing death over the prospect of lif etime incarceration. Others might
Al
have arrived at this choice in a less r ational manner. Those who killed
~ as a cc
their partners in blind rage ar while in toxicated might have killed them-
match
selves in a panic before having the oppo rtunity to think about it.
~e pe
Much like the other types of killers, th e suicidal types appear to fall
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1. along both ends of the emot
ional control continuu m. Some e~ibit more
of an impulsive sty le while others fit mor
e of an over-controlled pexson-
ality profile. Tlae imp ulsive style of abusive
man is much more emo tion-
` - ally volatile a nd prone to frequent r
ages. In contrast, the ov er-controlled
j style of abuser is much more deliberate, calcul
ating and operates mor e at
~' a "slow burn. " This type of abuser te
nds to accumulate grie vances against
t - his partne r betwoen his period
ic explosions of rages. One team of re-
searchers compared t he rr~are impulsive sty
le of abuser to pit balls a nd the
more calculating one s to cobras.33 Jealous
feelings are common fe atures
for both styles of abu sers, bat as with ang
er, tend to be communi cated
very differently. The i mpulsive type tends to
make more frequent and dra-
matic jealous accusati ons. He may also be m
ore prone to so-cared mor-
bid or delusional jeal ousy, The more compu
lsive style of abuser is more
likely to keep his susp icions to himself for lo
ng periods, while condu cting
S continued survei llance on his partner. D
epression can be a fea ture of both
j styles. James, de scribed earlier in this c
hapter as a jealous type of killer, is
i ~ a good exampl
e of how depression lo oks for someone with a
n zmpulsive
` style. This typ e of man often uses al
cohol and drugs as fo rms of self-
medication. Allen, pro filed here, provides a
n example of how depre ssion
is handled by someone with the opposite sty
le.
Case Example 4
"I took the life of a bea utiful human being ..
.
my wife of 32 years.. . ,"
Allen was cited in Chap ter 1 as one of the tw
o perpetrators I intervi ewed
who made bona fide at tempts ~o kill themselv
es aff~r murdering their part-
ners. Due to the seriou s injuries he had sust
ained by stabbing himse lf in
the throat, Allen spoke in a voice that seeme
d halfway between a gr owl
and a whisper. Ten yea rs after the murder, Fu
s eerie voice along with hzs
disfiguring scars rema ined as daily reminders
.
A11en was twenty-two and Andrea sixteen wh
en they became involv ed
as a couple, and they ma rried two years later.
The couple seemed a znis-
match right from th e beginning. Andrea wa
s strikingly beautiful, with
the petite fzgure of a m odel. She was elegan
t in her style of dress , her
way of communicating, and in her overall man
ner. 7n contrast, Allen was
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rather coarse of feat ures, stocky, and usu
ally clad in overaIl s and flannel
work shirts. A Port uguese immigrant, h
e could barely speak and write in
English.
From the beginning o f their marriage, th
e couple fought freq uently.
Many of these conff icts centered on Andr
ea's dislike of Alle n's uncouth
mannex and his desir e to have sex three to
four times a day. Du ring some of
these arguments, All en would grab and sh
ake Andrea. His vio lence gradu-
ally escalated to slap ping her zn the face
and thxowing her to the floor.
Their first child was born in 1964. Until
1970, when their d aughter,
Lori, was born, Andx ea worked as a compu
ter software progr ammer. Allen
worked two jobs (on e full-time and one p
art-time) as a machin ist. In 1972,
Allen started his own construction compan
y, against the advice of Andrea
as well as his brothe r and sister. When th
e company foundere d, Allen be-
carne severely depres sed and spent much
of 1974 in bed. He began to see
a psychiatrist but wa s not pxescribed any
medications.
By 1976, Allen took a job at an auto plan
t and his depression lifted.
Meanwhile, Andrea had received a prom
otion at her softw are company
and was now heading her division. Still at
tempting to salvage h is constxuc-
tioncompany, Al1en convinced Andrea to
quit this fob. When t he construct
tion company folded three months later, A
ndrea felt "too prou d," accord-
ing to Allen, to ask fo r her job back. Instea
d, she took a job as a buyer for a
clothing store, a job that she continued unti
l her death nearly fi fteen years
later.
By the time the coup le bought a house lo
t in 1977, they were a rguing
every day and no lo nger sleeping togeti~e
r. Allen was rehired aC the auto
plant and spent nearl y all of his off time
helping to build thei r fourteen-
room house. During this period, Allen be
gan to suspect that Andrea was
having an affair, tho ugh he did not confro
nt her about this unti l years later.
A few times, he stop ped at Andrea's store
and sensed that she w as embar-
rassed by his unsophi sticated appearance
and manner. Allen complained
that Andrea was spen ding nearly all of her
paycheck on cloth ing for the
children and herself. He felt a growing gul
f between the rest of his family
and himself. At this point, he began to fre
quent strip clubs onc e or twice a
month.
Allen's depression wo rsened during the 19
80s, yet he refused t o seek
help at ehe urging of h is family and sibling
s. Finally in 1990, Al len started
seeing a psychiatrist on a weekly basis. He
was eventually dia gnosed with
as ~ why Do ~ney ~t~
~~
bipolar disordex
prescribed Proz;
were turned ofF
Between 1990
point where h~ ;
house and yard
In August 1
riod, according
of it" and r~tun
had been havin
mantically invc
confronted her,
out and find a p
avoided Andre
Allen awo]
According to A I
that he had bec I
twenty-three a
wave a kitchen
her until she p~
stabbed har zn
in the neck. Hf
to penetrate hi.
found A1Ien ly
EMTs and rus
life.
Dozing th
whom Andrea
leave Allen la
together." At 1
torney for hin
second de~ee
in prison. Dui
meat in haltin
I took the
and the n
n overalls and flannel
:ly speak and write in
ale fought frequently,
:e of Allen's uncouth
~ daq. During some of
~. His violence gradu-
gher to the floor.
when their daughter,
re programmer. Allen
a machinist. In 1972,
the advice of Andrea
foundered, Allen be-
bed. He began to see
~.
his depression Tilted.
:r software company
salvage his constnzc-
~• When the construc-
"too proud," accord-
ajob as a buyer for a
i nearly fifteen years
7, they were arguing
s rehired at the auto build their fourteen-
ect that Andrea was this until years later. that she was embar- r. Allen complained on clothing for the he rest of his family Tubs once or twice a
;t he refused to seek ~ 1990, Allen started .ally diagnosed with
bipolar disorder with "obsessive -compulsive Features; ~ ror wmcn ne wa
s
prescribed Prozac. Allen f requently checked the appliances t
o see that they
were turned off and compulsively tended the yard, mowing
it every day.
Between 1990 and 1993 , Allen's depression continued to
deepen to the
point where he started negle cting his hygiene and stopped atte
nding to the
house and yard altogether.
In August 1993, Allen stoppe d seeing his psychiatrist. During this
pe-
riod, according to Allen, An drea would frequently berate him
to "snap out
of it" and return to therapy. O n October 3, Allen's suspicions
that Andrea
had been haying an affair were confirmed. He learned that she
been ro-
mantically involved with her store manager for several years. When he
confronted her, she admitted the affair and told him she planne
d to move
out and find a place of her own later that month. Over the next week,
Allen
avoided Andrea but became in creasingly depressed and agitated.
A11en awoke at 8:30 on October 12 to find Andrea preparing for wo
rk.
According to Allen, she "blew u p at me" for pacing. She also comp
lained
that he had become a bad exa mple for their daughter, Lori, who wa
s now
twenty-three and still living at home. When she continued to yell
and to
wave a kitchen knife at him, Alle n said he "snapped" and began to
strangle
her until she passed out. To en sure that she was dead, he took the kn
ife and
stabbed her in the neck. Allen then slashed his wrists and stabbed h
imself
in the neck. He tried to stab him self in the heart but by then was too
weak
to penetrate his ribs due to the loss of blood. When the police arrived,
they
found Allen lying unconscious n ext to Andrea's body. He was revi
ved by
EMTs and rushed to the hospital. where he underwent surgery to save
his
life.
During their investigation, poli ce interviewed Charles, the man w
ith
whom Andrea had been involved, who confirmed she had made plan
s to
leave Allen later that month and that they had made plans "to make
a life
together." At his court hearing, Alen rejected an offer by the distri
ct at-
torney for him to plead guilty for manslaughter. Instead, he pled guilty
to
second degree murder, saying that he deserved to spend the rest of hi
s life
in prison. During his sentencing in court, Allen read the following
state-
ment in halting English:
I took the life of a beautiful human being ... my wife of 32 years
and the mother of our two beaut iful children. My wife was very
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pleasant, very intelligent. She always worked very ha
rd. Some
members of my family and my attorney thought that I
should be
charged with a lesser crime. I understand and appreciate
their
feelings and concerns far m e but I am the one who has
to live
with myself and my consci ence. When I came to Bri
dgewater [the
psychiatric hospital where he had awaited trial] I was in
bad shape
emotionally and physically. The help and care that I rec
eived is truly
overwhelming to me. Bef ore coming to Bridgewater, I
could only
spell very, little; after spendin g 14 months of school a
t the institution
I now write to my children, to my nieces and even legal
material to
my attorney. I realize these words and these sentences
are not well-
written but they are from my mind and heart.
Since there was no trial , it remains unclear how
premeditated Allen's
murder of Andrea had been . Allen said. that he had h
ad frequent, though
unexpressed, thoughts of k illing himself but denied a
ny foxethoughts of
killing Andrea.
Judging from his history, Allen is clearly not an im
pulsive person,
but neither does he come ac ross as a calculating and r
emorseless one. Al-
len does, however, fit the profile of someone who is
emotionally over-
controlled. He did not have fr equent outbursts of anger
but admitted. that
he had frequently ruminate d about Andrea's apparent l
ack of affection and
loyalty to him. His ruminat ion appeared to be a comb
ination of anger to-
ward her and self-loathing. He said that he had frequent
ly felt inferior to
Andrea. Allen also said thaf i he had felt "ashamed" abo
ut his long bouts of
depression during which he had been unable to work an
d to maintain his
house and yard, As Andrea grew more and more dista
nt, Allan had sunk
deeper into his depression. The final straw, evidently,
had been Andrea's
decision to leave him for ano ther man.
Allen was not blameless i n the breakdown of his rel
ationship with
Andrea. He admitted to f requent sexual coercion and
violence, primarily
during theix first ten years together. Over the last ten
years, he had ze-
treated into self-isolation an d depression. Andrea's dec
ision to become
involved with another man is undexstandable and even
reasonable, given
this context.
so ~ why Do ~ney ~?
Triggers for Hom;
Estrangement and j
jority of cases of ~
suicidal type of ki:
profiled earlier in t
to their victims, ar
be older. For some
to the perception t1
partners. This sen;
these men's suicid
contribute to an a
partners. I have k
who have said that
emotional needs, A
he wouldn't get he
him up and make k j
on to explain that
preventing her hus
For other suit
not be emotional r
ownership of them
sessiveness:' Beiz
betrayal or defeat
that his partner "~
experienced as an
his killing her. Th ;'
obedience of his ~ I
Daly and Wil
ral extensions of s
and families. They
apparently strikes
than the prospect
at least he has cal
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~ Triggers for Homicide
:ir ~ Estrangement and jealousy appear to be the immediate triggers in the ma-
ve jority of cases of murder-suicide. Tn terms of motivation and style, the ',
er [the suicidal type of killer appears most similar to the jealous type that was
3 .cha„P profiled earlier in this chapter. Suicidal killers are more apt to be married
to eheir victims, and to have had longer relationships with them, and to
be older. For some of these men, like Allen, these factors may contribute
to the perception that there is no life beyond their relationships with their
partners. This sense of no viable future may be greatly exacerbated by
these men's suicidal depressions. The existence of depression may also
contribute to an abnormal degree of emotional dependence upon their
~' partners. I have known many battered women with depressed partners
who have said that they feel overly responsible for meeting their partner's
~' emotional needs. As one woman said, "He was depressed all the time, but
he wouldn't get help. Instead he'd blame me and I was supposed to pick
~'' him up and make him feel better. It got to be too much." This woman went
on to explain that throughout their relationship, she'd felt responsible for
preventing her husband from killing himself.
For other suicidal types of killers, the primary triggering factor may
not be emotional dependency on their partners so much as their sense of
ownership of them, something that Websdale has labeled "obsessive pos-
sessiveness." Being left by a longtime partner may signify the ultimate
betrayal or defeat for this kind of man. So attached is he to the notion
that his partner "belongs" to him, her decision to end the relationship is
experienced as an unforgivable insult of him, and a larger injustice than
his killing her. This represents a valuing system in which the loyalty and
obedience of his partner supercede any beliefs in love or affection.
Daly and Wilson have argued that femicide and familicide are natu-
ral extensions of some men's proprietary beliefs concerning their partners
and fanulies. They state, "The prospect of losing his family through death
apparently strikes the desperate familicidal father as no more disastrous
than the prospect of losing them through desertion! Better, perhaps, since
at least he has called the shots and exerted his authority."34
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Potential Deterrents
Two problems are present for th e suicidal abusive man: depress
ion and
domestic violence. However, treat ment for one is not likely to allevia
te the
other. In fact, there is evidenc e that each form of treatment ma
y be less
effective if not accompanied by the other. Allen said that his tre
atment for
depression, along with his medica tion, had helped somewhat to all
eviate
his depression and to ward off t houghts of suicide. He added th
at he had
not been motivated to continue t his treatment because of the cont
inued
decline of his relationship and be cause of his growing suspicions abo
ut
his wife's involvement with anoth er man.
Allen said that he never discuss ed these suspicions with his psychia
-
trists, nor did he ever tell the psy chiatrist about his domestic violen
ce.
It is not unusual for abusive men to not disclose their domestic viole
nce
to mental, health therapists. Unfor tunately, surveys have also sho
wn that
therapists rarely ask about domes tic violence unless the client broa
ches
the subject. This has been an imp ortant matter for therapeutic tra
ining,
given the high incidence of dome stic violence among those in men
tal
health counseling, substance abuse treatment, ar family therapy.
Had Allen attended a batterer int ervention program (BIP), it is much
more likely that his violence wo uld have been discussed, since su
ch pro-
grams proactively require their clients to describe their violen
ce as well
as the issues, such as jealousy, t hat trigger their abusive behavior.
Such
programs also assess for indicators of dangerousness. For some pro
grams,
this assessment sometimes inclu des confidential telephone interview
s with
the victim, as well as accessing the perpetrator's police reports an
d crimi-
nal history. When strong indicators of dangerousness are identified,
these
programs alert the victim as well as the criminal justice system.
Beyond
this, BIPs work to manage the risk by continuously monitoring da
ngerous
perpetrators for signs of escalat ion, growing desperation or d
epression,
alcohol or drug use, and their ove rall reactions to changes in the
status
of their relationships with their part ners and children. The following
case
example illustrates how long-term risk management and treatment
were
provided by one such program.
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Case Example 5 f
"Whds going to prot ect her now?"
Philip was thirty- nine when he was arre
sted for domestic violenc e toward
his wzfe, Dons. Th e couple had three ch
ildren, ranging in age fr om siY
to seventeen. Philip was a trained plumber w
ho operated his own plu mb-
ing business anc3 hom e heating oil delivery b
usiness. Philip was conv icted
of one count of dom estic violence and s
entenced to a probation t erm of
one year. Two condi tions of Philip's probati
on were that he obey th e pra
tective order that fo rbade any contact with
his wife and that he at tend a
forty-week BIP. Durin g his first group session
, Philip admitted that h e had
pushed and grabbed Dor is in a restaurant during
the incident that led to hi s
arrest. When asked abo ut prior incidents, he
estimated that there had b een
at least twenty. Inclu ded in these had been
several threats to kill. Dor is.
In response to a questi on about suicide threats
and attempts on the in take
form, Philip wrote that he had cut his wrists
six weeks earlier. Philip had
been seeing a psychiatr ist since the zncident a
nd had been prescribed o ne
medication for anxiety and another for depress
ion.
Shortly after Philip s tarted attending the BIP,
his group leaders Learned
from Doris that he had violated the terms of his
protective order by ente r-
ing her home and had committed a new act of
violence toward her. Thi s
consisted of throwing a knife at her. The knif
e had narrowly missed h er
head, lodging in the wall . Doris want on to desc
ribe past incidents of vi a
lence on Philip's part t hat far exceeded his ow
n accounts. During a pri or
period of separation, P hilip had threatened a
nd assaulted her sister a nd
punched Doris in the ja w when she came to her
sister's defense. Doris said
that Philip was extremel y jealous and would con
tinually accuse her of ha v-
ing affairs. One time, a fter accusing her of ha
ving a romantic interes t in a
neighbor, Philip had ta ken out a knife and att
empted to bind Doris' ha nds
and feet with duct tape. When the knzfe grazed h
er and she began to ble ed,
Philip began to cry and plead with her not to cal
l the police. His pleas were
accompanied by Philip 's threats to kiIl Doris,
the children and himself
Doris said that Philip h ad frequently threatene
d to kill himself in the
past and even kept a pac ket of Exacto blades in
his pants pocket. He wou ld
sometimes take a bla de out while they were s
ittzng together on the co uch
and begin to cut his wri sts. Donis also reported
that Philip had continu ed to
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drink even after beai_nning his medications for depression and ar~iety. Do- Philip
ris said that when she attempted to discuss this with Philip's psychiatrist, not preven
he refused to believe that Philip had been physically abusive to her and ers control
urged her to accept Philip back into the hou se so that she could support the uniting wig
management of his depression. Philip said
Dons did not want the BIP staff to repor t Philip's new act of vio- to protect 1
lence to the police or court, saying that s he believed it would only put ing to viol:
her in more danger. Doris believed that Phi lip would kill her and possibly month but
the children if he were arrested. She said that when Philip had been ar- toward hey
rested in the past, he had used his mental i llness as a reason to avoid jail. become pr
Philip's group leaders respected Doris's w ishes but advised her to begin confirmed
seeing a battered women's advocate so tha t she could strategize about her school, an.
children's and her own safety. Doris agreed t o do this. Because Philip had The B
disclosed to his group leaders that he had continued to drink, they were since Phili
able to speak with his probation officer, who agreed to arrange for random were Conti
alcohol and drug testing during the durati on of his probation. The proba- adjusted tc ',
tion officer also agreed to begin seeing Philip on a weekly basis to monitar ~ would still
his progress. Meanwhile, the batterer inte rvention program continued to t ally offeri~
provide monthly reports to the court that documented the indicators of what she r
dangerousness that were present in Philip's s ituation. None of these oral timed to
or written communications included any re ferences to the new act of vio- become tr
lence that Doris had reported, however. relationshi
During his group sessions, Philip was as ked to talk about his feel- she and he
ings of depression andjealousy. His group leaders and fellow group mem-
bers pointed out to Philip that he had an i mportant role to play with his Career d
seventeen-year-old son who was now livi ng and working with him. The
son, Robert, had a serious drinking problem and had been arrested several Perhaps th
times for drunk driving, disturbing the pea ce, and vandalism. The group we investi
encouraged Philip to set a good example for h is son by maintaining his profile wh
own sobriety and nonviolence. Philip began to attend several AA meetings This repre
with his son. Robert also attended aparent-tea cher meeting with Robert to ria we use
discuss his problems at school. Over time, th is new focus appeared to help he had bef
Philip become less focused on the status of his relationship with Doris, five or mo
though he continued to hope for reconciliat ion with her. Because of his half of his
continuing feelings of jealousy, Philip's group l eaders recommended that the perpe4
he continue in the BIP for additional time b eyond the forty weeks that compares
were minimally required, and Philip agreed t o do sa
the other F
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ram after two years. Tho ugh they could
's psychiatrist, ~
not prevent Philip fr om leaving the progra
m at this point, his grou p lead- ~
;ive to her and continue d to wo that Phili
had still not abandoned his hopes of re-
ers ~' P
uld support the ~ uniting wit h Doris. Most troublin
g, when asked if he a ccepted the divorce,
Philip said that he mostly accepted it but
asked rhetorically, "Who' s gozng
ew act of vio- ~ to protect her now?" At this point, a
ccording to Doris, Philip was continu-
vould only put ing to vzol ate her protective order
by showing up at her ho use about once a
;r and possibly month but that he had avoided an
y new acts of physical or verbal violence
p had been ar- toward her. She said that the two
daughters who remained with her had
~n to avoid jail, become pr ogressively less ar~iou
s and fearful during thi s time. She also
:d her to begin confirmed that Robert had maint
ained his sobriety, had graduated high
:gize about her school, an d was doing well at his
new job.
ruse Phrlip had The BIP staff have spoken wit
h Doris periodically ove r the six years
ink, they were since Philip completed the program.
At last report, she an d the children
age for random ~ were con tinuing to do we11. Sh
e reported that foz the m ost part, Philip had
on. The proba- adjusted to their divorceand had
remained nonviolent. She added that he
~asis to monitor would stil l show up "unannoun
ced" at her house once or twice a year, usu-
n continued to ally offer ing to xepair somethin
g. Doris said that she felt she had escaped
e indicators of what sh e had once felt would
be certain death at Philip 's hands. She con-
ie of these oral tinned to wo rry that zf she should
begin a new relationsh ip, Philip would
new act of vio- become th reatening again, but s
aid that she was not lo oking for a new
relationship and just fe lt lucky to be alive and
free of "the daily terror" that
about his feel- she and her children had once f
aced.3s
~w group mem-
~ play with his Career Criminal Typ e
with him. The izrested several Perhaps
the most easily identi fiable type of killer and
would-be killer that
sm. The group we inves tigated was the career
criminal. One-fifth of the killers fit this
naintaining leis profile while one-fourth of
the perpetrators of at tempted honnicide did.
~1 AA meetings This r epresents a combined pr
oportion of 21% of the offenders. The crite-
with Robert to ria we u sed for classifying a p
erpetrator into this gro up included whether
ppeared to help he had be en incarcerated four o
r more times as an ad ult, whether he had
up with Doris, five or m ore prior convictions fo
r felonies, and whether he derived at least
Because of his half of hi s income from crimina
l activities. To qualify as a career criminal,
~mmended that the pe rpetrator had to have m
et at least one of these conditions. Table 3.6
any weeks that corxipare s the proportions of ca
reer criminals who me t each criterion with
the other perpetrators.
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Table 3.6: Prior criminal activities of killers
and would-be killers (by percentage)
Career
Criminal record criminals Others
Was incarcerated 4 or more times as an adult 54 0
Was convicted of 5 or more felonies as an adult 45 2
Derived at least half of his income from criminal 100 0
activities N=11 N=40
Prior Incarceration
Just over half of the career criminals qualified on the grounds of having
served four or more prison terms or having been convicted of five or more
felonies. Only one additional man in this group had served a prison sen-
tence; the rest had avoided convictions for their crimes or eluded arrest
altogether. By comparison, none of the other perpetrators had been incar-
cerated as many as four times. In fact, only twelve percent of these men
had been incarcerated at all. Mostly, their prior incarcerations had been for
domestic violence crimes. Overwhelmingly, the prison time served by the
career criminals had been for other crimes such as breaking and entering,
assault and battery, assault and battery with a weapon, drug possession,
drug sales, or probation or parole violation. However, two of the career
criminals had also served time for past domestic violence crimes. One ex-
ample was James, previously described as the man who had smothered his
partner, Corinne, to death with a pillow. Two of James's six prison terms
had been for domestic violence toward Corinne. The other four had been
for larceny, possession of a Class D drug, assault and battery, and assault
and battery with a dangerous weapon. Both of these last two crimes had
been committed against strangers. Prior to killing Corinne, James had ap-
peared in court forty-eight times to face ninety-one charges. The five years
of combined prison time that James had served were but a small fraction
of what he would have served had it not for his many suspended sentences
and reductions in prison time for "good behavior."
Three of the career criminals had served at least half of their adult
lives behind bars prior to killing their partners. One of these was Ger-
ald, the man who shot his partner Cynthia in the face with asawed-off
ss ~ why Do Bey x~?
shotgun. Pric three-fourths had been fivf months of tr violated the had lived in 1 robbery and her refusal to
Prior Convi~ E
Career crimi~ other killers ~ crime versati
{ prior convict: hicular infrac
t ones such as i had commute ~ tivity extende
violent crime rape and oche: violent felon} drug possessi their crimes r conventions a
Criminal Li f
Some of the c such based sty Eying killers and few felon most of their There were su crime and tho two of the me
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shotgun. Prior to meeting Cynthia, Gerald had spent
twelve years—nearly
three-fourths of his adult life—behind bads.
The longest of these sentenc es
had been five years for three armed robberie
s. During the entire four teen
months of their rel ationship, Gerald had be
en "on the lam" for havi ng
violated the terms of his parole. Facing a wa
rrant for his arrest, Geral d
had lived in hiding w ith Cynthia while continu
ing to support himself vi a
robbery and larceny. O n the day he killed Cynt
hia, they had argued over
her refusal to Iet Ium u se her car to commit a ro
bbery:
Przor Convictions
Career criminals who k ill their partners distingui
sh themselves from the
other killers not only in the sheer volume of thei
r past crimes but in their
crime versatility. For the non-career criminals, th
e vast majority of their
prior convictions had be en for domestic violen
ce, non-felony motor ve-
hicular infractions, such as driving without ins
urance, or alcohol-related
ones such as disturbing the peace or dnznk drivin
g. The career criminals
had committed many of these same crimes as weIl
, but their criminal ac-
tivity extended far beyo nd these realms. They ha
d committed many more
vi"nlent crimes against p eople other than their int
imate partners, including
rape and other assaults on strangers or acquaintances.
They had many non-
violent felony conviction s, such as for fraud, gra
nd theft, home invasions,
drug possession and sales , and buxglary. The shee
r volume and variety of
their crimes reveal these men as chronic and per
vasive violators of social
conventions and authority .
Criminal Li festyle
Some of the career crimi nals we interviewed wou
ld not have qualified as
such based strictly on pr ior convictions or prison
terms. Two of the quali-
fying killers and tl2ree of the would-be killers
had had no prison records
and few felony convicti ons. They qualified as c
areer crirriinals because
most of their income a s adults was derived f
rom criminal enterprises.
There were subtypes of these men: those who we
re members of organized
crime and those who a ppeazed to be "solo oper
ators." Of the first group,
two of the men were longtime "bikers," accord
ing to the women whom
they had attempted to k ill, while the third was
evidently a member of a
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more established cr ime syndicate, akin to
the Mafia. All three of these
men were perpetrator s of attempted homicid
e. Their victims decli ned to
discuss the details of t hese men's criminal ac
tivities for fear of xetri bution
from them or from th eir crime associates.
Some of the career cr iminals
that I interviewed co nfirmed that they had
warned their partners n ot to
disclose their criminal activities, and two men
said that they had speci fi-
cally threatened to ha ve their partner harme
d by others if she dis closed
their crimes. One victi m of attempted homici
de reported that her p artner
had repeatedly said th at he had "put a contrac
t out on her" after his arrest
for selling drugs. These threats continued from
prison. This woman added
that "he was so paran oid towards the end, h
e thought it was zne, even
though that was the la st thing I would have d
one."
All three of this latter group of men—those
who appeared not to b e
members of organize d crime—were men w
ho had killed their par tners.
Despite their not being part of a formal netwo
rk, each of these men admit-
tedthat most of his frien ds and peers were also
involved in criminal act ivi-
ties. One of these men, Donlon, characterized
himself as a fulltime "dea ler
and stealer" who also took part-time legitima
te jobs "when busines s was
slow." Donlon denied having any formal cri
minal partners but said t hat he
relied upon his netwo rk of friends to conduc
t and protect his drug sales.
This depiction is simila r to that of another kil
ler, Everett, to whom I asked
whether his friends su pported his criminal ac
tivities. Everett respo nded,
"They was all doing t he same thing" but als
o denied having any f ormal
crime partners. Both D onlon and Everett rep
orted that their father s had
extensive criminal reco rds. Everett's father h
ad been incarcerated fo r kill-
ing agirlfriend ten yea rs pzior to Everett's m
urder of his partner. E verett
said -his father had ta ught him "how to surv
ive on the streets" an d that
they had committed ma ny crimes together wh
en he still lived wzth hi s fa-
ther. Intezestingly, most o~ tYie career criminals
I interviewed said tha t they
were closer with their fathers than their mother
s. This was the only group
of killers in which the majority said this.
Donlon and Everett ar e typical of the other
career criminals in t hat
their criminal lifestyle appeared to be one that
they learned from their fa-
thers as well as from ot her adult figures during
their upbringings. Onc e es-
tablished, this lifestyle w as actively abetted and
refined by their re spective
peer networks. This ki nd of intergenerationa
l and peer support fo r anti-
social behavior is remi niscent of that reporte
d by the substance-a busing
98 ~ Why Da They Kill?
All three of these
ictims declined to
fear of retribution
career criminals
;ir partners not to
t they had specifi-
~s if she disclosed
;d that her partner
er" after his arrest
'his woman added
t it was me, even
appeared not to be
Led their partners.
these men admit-
in criminal activi-
a fulltime "dealer
Shen business was
;rs but said that he
pct his drug sales.
to whom I asked
'sverett responded,
laving any formal
their fathers had
:arcerated for kill-
is partner. Everett
streets" and that
lived with his fa-
wed said that they
gas the only group
criminals in that
ned from their fa-
ringings. Once es-
~y their respective
• support for anti-
;ubstance-abusing
type of killer. This is not coincidental given the large over
lap that appears
to exist between these two groups. Nine of the eleven m
en that we charac-
terized as career criminals w ere also substance abusers. Co
mpared to the
other three types of kil lers, men in these two groups
were far more likely
to report having five or more male friends, and to say
that they saw their
friends at least twice pe r week. Their friendships appe
ar to have provided
a powerful form of peer support for these men to
engage in drinking,
drugging, violent and in many cases, criminal behavior.
For the most part,
the substance-abusing men had attempted to induct thei
r partners into this
netwark. This was somew hat less true for the career crirr
iinals, who tended
to keep their peers somewha t separate from their partners.
In any event,
the existence of such a stron g peer network for these me
n surely poses a
daunting challenge for a fe male partner who seeks to compl
ain about, or
leave, her abusive partner. The victims of attempted hom
icide whose part-
ners were substance abusers or career criminals were le
ast likely to say
that they could turn to mut ual friends for support or help. A
s one woman
put it, "They were all doing the same thing," referring bo
th to their drink-
ing and violence. Another wo man, Anna, said that she woul
d routinely see
her boyfriend's friends "slapp ing their girlfriends around,"
adding, "it was
like a big joke [to them]."
Abused women whose part ners are involved in crime ap
pear to be es-
pecially vulnerable. Not only do they have fewer mutual fri
ends to whom
they can turn for help, but a lso fewer of their own friends
as well. Most
of the victims whose partners were involved in criminal ac
tivity said that
they feared disclosing this in formation to their friends and
family for fear
of jeopardizing them. Not c oincidentally, these women se
emed the most
isolated. One woman, Angel a, said that her parents knew
about her part-
ner's criminal activities and f eared for her life. "But what
could they do?"
she asked. "They knew wha t he was capable of." Angela
went on to de-
scribe how her partner had r epeatedly threatened to kill her
. father.
Triggers for Homicide
The career criminals identifi ed many of the same triggers
that the sub-
stance abusers did. For some men, killing their partners app
eared to arise
out of mundane arguments. One example was Vincent,
already profiled
in the previous section, wh o had killed Carol by backhan
ding her to the
r
face after she had complained that he'd stopped up the toilet. Similar to
this was James, who smothered Corinne after she had complained about
his breaking a flowerpot. In other cases, the triggers for murder are more
similar to those described in the section about materially motivated killers,
reflecting another overlap in style. Many of the career criminals appeared
to have contempt for their partners, which seemed to be fueled by long-
standing grievances against them. This was evidenced by Gerald, the man
who killed Cynthia after she refused to let him use her car because he had
been drinking. Gerald's fury about this fit with his intolerance for any past
complaints or defiance by Cynthia. This same contempt was manifested
by Everett, who shot his estranged girlfriend when she showed up at his
house to demand that he return some jewelry that he had taken. Another
example was provided by Reagan, who killed his girlfriend, Crystal, after
she refused to have sex with him. Gerald, Everett, and Reagan are ex-
amples of highly vindictive men with very little emotional attachment to
their partners. All three men appeared primarily to expect money and sex
from their partners. Each would frequently come and go with little ac-
counting of their activities to their partners. Each admitted to having had
frequent sex with other women. At the same time, they were intolerant of
any expectations or complaints from their partners. Gerald and Everett
both talked of frequently having been "bothered" by their respective part-
ners, such as their complaints about the other women or the lack of time
spent together. Each had a prior history of other financially exploitative
relationships with women. None of these men seemed upset about hav-
ing killed his partner. Similar to the materially motivated type of killer,
each appeared to blame the deceased for the legal consequences that had
ensued.
Murder appears to be the result of the killer's immediate triggers
and the evolving situational factors, as well as his longer-term traits and
grievances. Of all the types of killers we interviewed, the career criminals
seemed most predisposed to kill. Similar to the materially motivated men,
the career criminals held overwhelmingly negative views of women. They
appear to view women as a somewhat necessary nuisance: useful for sex
and a place to stay but "nothing but trouble" in other regards. Not only
did they continue to demonize the deceased but most of their past part-
ners as well. Five of the six career criminal killers admitted to violence
100 ( Why Do They Kill?
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toward at least one past partn er. By comparison, less than one-fourt
h of i
the other killers admitted violen ce toward a past partner. It is likely that
a
` much higher proportion of the other killers had actually committ
ed vio- ''
lence in their past relationships but were unwilling to admit it. It is rev
eal- l
ing that the career criminals had no such qualms about disclosing such ill
treatment of women. For them, it appeared to be a point of pride. Don-
lon talked of vandalizing an ex-par tner's apartment and car and stealing
money from her after she had kick ed him out of her apartment. In disclos-
ing this, Donlon explained, "I had t o show her that I don't take that kind
of crap from a woman."
Based on their relationship histories and criminal records, as well as
` their lack of remorse about the murders they committed, these men
seem
most similar to how criminologists oft en portray murderers in general.
Many if not most chronically violent offenders are thought to have anti-
' social personality disorder. Thou gh I did not administer any tests to ass
ess i
for these traits, I suspect that most if no t all of these men would score high
on psychopathy scales that are designed to measure features of anti-social
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personality disorder. People with the se features were previously referred
~ to as "psycho aths." According to criminologist Robert Hare, the most
i p common traits found in psychopaths in
clude the following: 36
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Glib and superficial attachments to othe rs Impulsive
Egocentric and grandiose Poor behavior controls
Lack of remorse Need for excitement
it
Lack of empathy Lack of responsibility
Deceit and manipulation Early behavior problems
Shallow emotions Adult antisocial behavior
Though many of these features are p resent to some degree in most men
w$o kill their partners, career criminals st ood out in seeming to have many
of these features. For these men, women are objectified as disposable and
interchangeable commodities. This is evidenced not only in•their lack of
remorse for their deceased partners but fox their overall pattern of exploit-
ing women. With this set of expectation s, it seems inevitable that each
woman soon outlives her usefulness. In fact, these men's relationships
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with the deceased were more short-lived on average than those of any
other of the killer types. Their relationships averaged twenty-nice months
compared to ninety-two months for the other kil lers.
Potential Deterrents
For most of the career criminals, the most ob vious deterrent to killing or
trying to kill their partners would have been serving a jail sentence for
domestic violence or other crimes so that th ey would not have had ac-
cess to their victims. None of the victims of attempted homicide whose
abusers were career criminals had called the police due to a prior act of
domestic violence. In the few times the poli ce were involved, witnesses
had called them. Even when they had been arrested, none of these men
had been convicted of prior domestic viole nce, since their victims had
refused to testify. In two of the five cases, th e perpetrators even avoided
prosecution for the final act of attempted homicide due to their victim's
reluctance to testify. In both of these cases, however, the men received
substantial prison sentences for subsequent convictions for drug-related
crimes. A third perpetrator, who had bludg eoned his victim unconscious
with his motorcycle helmet, agreed to plead gui lty to assault and battery
in exchange for having charges of assault with intent to murder dropped.
This perpetrator received only a prison suspe nded prison sentence of siY
months, with one year of probation to follow. The two career criminals
who were convicted of assault with intent to murder were prosecuted be-
cause of "no drop" charges on the part of the district attorney. In both
cases, these cases were prosecuted without the testimony of the victims
and the perpetrators received prison sentences of eight to ten years.
Similarly, only two of the six career criminal killers that I interviewed
had previously been arrested for domestic violen ce. In both of these cases,
the violence occurred in public, and bystande rs—not the victim—had
summoned the police. Though there was strong evidence of prior domes-
tic violence by the other three career criminals, it appeared that their vic-
tims might have been too fearful to call the police. Despite this, two of
the career criminals had active wazrants against them at the time that they
committed murder. One of these was Gerald, wh o had been "on the lam"
the previous fourteen months for parole violation s. The other was Vincent,
who had an outstanding warrant for violation of the terms of his proba-
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tion at the time
for assaulting
his probation c
Vincent would
of his long cri~
prison sentencf
the opportunity
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prison system
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cords re-offend
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unless attendin
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f .
ose of any { tion at t he time that he kill
ed Carol. Following h is three-monttz jail t
erm
ine months =' for assaulting Carol, h
e had violated proba tion by not checking
in with
a;- his probation offic
er. Had he been pi cked up by police fo
r his warrant,
~; Vincent wou ld likely have rece
ived an additional ja il sentence becaus
e ~'
of hzs long crimi nal record. In both
Vincent's and Geral d's cases, long
'
~` prison sente nces might well ha
ve provided their re spective victims with
~ ~~li~b ar ~ the opportunity to e
nd the relationships. For his part, Gerald
said that he
~ntence for likely would not have res
umed his xelationship with Pamela if he ha
d been
ive had ac- incazce rated for violating hi
s parole since he " didn't want her to b
egin
side whose ~ with." Gerald went on to e
xplain that his prima ry interest in Pamel
a had
prior act of been that she provided a pla
ce for him to stay wh ile avoiding the law.
witnesses f O nly one of the caree
x criminal killers wh o had served jai]. tz
me had
these mEn j attende d a batterer interve
ntion program whi le in prison. At the
time
victims had ~ that some of these mur@
ers were committe d, no such programs
existed
ren avoided ~ in mos t prisons or jails in
Massachusetts. Curr ently, nearly all the
state's
eir victim's ~ coun ty jails have such px
ograzns. Since 2000, many states have be
gun to
en received shift toward more of an
emphasis on rehabili tative programming i
n their
trug-related pri son systems, espec
ially for prisoners with histories of vi
olence and
inconscious oth er crimes against p
ersons. This has bee n prompted by the m
any stud-
and battery zes that have shown that
the vast majority of prisoners wzth viole
nt re-
~er dropped, i cords re-offend within on
e year of their releas e from prison. Furthe
r, most
tence of six ?i prisoners are releas
ed without parole, pr obation, or any leve
l of commu-
:r criminals pi ty supervision. This
means that convic ted batterers who s
erve prison
~secuted be- iI sent ences do not attend
batterer intezventio n programs upon the
ir release
~eY• In both ~ unles s attending such a
program was made a condition of their
original
the victims j sent ence. Even batterer
s who received a pri son sentence for viol
ating the
~~e~S~ ~ conditions of their
probation by failing to attend a batterer
intervention
interviewed ~ pr ogram are often not
required to attend such a prograrzi onc
e t1~ey wrap
these cases, ~ up the ir sentences. I have
known some battere rs who have chosen
to sezve
victim—had a rela tively short prison
sentence, say of one to three months, rak
her than
lrior domes- attend aforty-week batter
er intervention pro d am. In choosing thi
s option,
iat their vic- they sometimes are able t
o avoid any kind. of rehabilitative prograi
m~ing
this, two of altogethe r.
rna that they ~ Wi th a new emphasis
on prisoner re-entr y programs, however,
an rn-
`on the lam" creasing number of battere
rs are being requi red to attend batterer
inter-
~as Vincent, ven tion programs eithe
r daring or followi ng their prison sente
nces. This
f his probe- makes sense for a variety
o£ reasons. One is that there is strong e
vidence
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that most batterers refrain from abuse whil e attending batterer interven-
tion programs. Further, those who comple te their programs are two to four
times less likely to re-offend than those who don't complete one.37 Bat-
terer intervention programs in most states are required to notify courts
promptly in cases when a batterer has d ropped out of his program or other-
wise not complied with program requirem ents, such as to consistently
attend, actively participate, refrain from abuse, and follow program rec-
ommendations. Further, programs are re quired to provide the court with
written documentation of the perpetratar' s noncompliance. This notifica-
tion to the courts serves as an early notice to courts that an offender is
at increased odds to re-offend. Tn many jurisdictions, the probationer's
failure to fulfill program requirements r esults in a probation revocation
hearzng, where he is subject to being inc arcerated for violating the terms
of his probation.
Too often, however, batterers who fail to a ttend or to complete their
batterer intervention programs are simpl y allowed to attend a less rigar-
ous program of their own choosing. In ma ny cases, convicted batterers are
able to avoid a certified batterer intervent ion program altogether by agree-
ing to plead guilty to domestic assault in exchange for being sentenced to
a shorter program, such as an anger man agement program, a substance
abuse program, or a private therapist. One study has shown that convicted
batterers who attend anger management or substance abuse programs are
significantly more likely to re-offend than those who attend state-certified
batterer intervention programs.38 Certified batterer intervention programs,
unlike anger management programs, are required to provide information
to victims such as the whether the batterer has enrolled in the program,
dropped out, or failed to complete the progra m. These programs provide
both victims and referring courts with w ritten documentation about the
batterer's potential to commit serious act s of violence, including homi-
cide and suicide. This information is often instrumental to the victim's
decision-making about her own safety, and also is useful to judges in their
sentencing decisions. 39
Several outcome studies of domestic violence offenders referred to
batterer intervention programs have shown that program completion rates
are improved and recidivism is reduced when the courts strictly monitor
attendance in such programs.40 In some juri sdictions, dedicated domestic
violence courts provide the structure for s uch enhanced monitoring. Typi-
l04 ~ why Do zney ill?
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r interven- i cally, in such systems, offenders attending batterer intervention programs
:wo to four must o before a 'ud e eve thirt da s for reviews of their rog ress.
g J g rY Y Y P
~ne.37 Bat- This review not only includes whether they have refrained from vio lence ~,
tify courts ~ ' and respected protective orders but also whether they have activ ely and
n or other- ~ positively participated in their batterer intervention program.41 Positi ve
insistently ; participation generally entails a willingness to discuss openly one's own
'gram rec- 4 past violence without blaming the victim, an ability to grasp the concepts j
;ourt with ~' of the program, and a demonstrated willingness to use nonabusive and
s notif ca- noncoercive ways of communicating with others. ~'
ffender is ~
~ationer's ~ Comparing Killers to Would-Be Killers '~
evocation ~
the terms I The most obvious difference between the men who killed their partners
and those who attempted to do so was the ineptness of the latter group's
lete their ~ efforts. For many, the problem did not seem to be in their lack of effort
;ss rigor- ~ but rather in poor execution. One strong factor in their lack of success was
terers are ~ that far fewer of these men used guns. A comparison of the methods used
>y agree- ~ in the killers' and the would-be killers' final assaults on their victims is
enced to ~ provided in Table 3.7. While nearly half of the killers used guns to kill
zbstance i their partners, only one of the would-be killers used one. This was Mark, it
onvicted ~ the man described at the beo nning of this book, who had fired seven shots
-ams are ~ into his estranged wife's car, missing each time.
certified ! Why didn't more of the perpetrators of attempted homicide use guns?
ograms, ~ One reason may be that they apparently had less access to guns than did I
rmation ~ the killers who succeeded. While 58% of the killers said that they had had
ro ramg e e s when the committed their crimes this wa s trae foras acc ss to nY ~ Y
provide ~ only 40% of the would-be killers.
gout the ~ Of course, this does not tell the whole story. I mentioned previously
homi- that three of the killers went out to get guns specifically for the purpose of
victim's ~ ,killing their partners. Therefore, a more likely explanation for the killers
in their greater success was that a higher proportion of them carefully planned
their fatal attacks. Two-thirds of them, after all, were convicted of mur-
rred to der in the first or second degree, meaning that there had been irrefutable
~n rates evidence of premeditation. By contrast, far fewer of the would-be killers
ionitor showed strong evidence of such careful calculation. Only about half of
mestic these men were prosecuted for attempted murder. The major reason for
• TYPi- this low prosecution rate appeared to be that fearful victims were reluc-
~'
Killer Profiles ( 105
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Table 3.7: Methods used by killers and would-be killers
during their final assaults on their victims (in percentages)
Method Used Killers Would-be killers
Shooting with gun 45 5
Stabbing 16 35
Strangling with hands 16 5
Bludgeoning/B eating 10 40
Asph~iating/Smothering 6 0
Stabbing and bludgeoning 3 5
Strangling and beating 0 5
Sabotaging victim's car 0 5
Strangling and running over with car 3 0
N=31 N=20
tant to testify against their assailants. In some cases, this was additionally
prompted by hearing that the offender would agree to plead guilty to a
lesser charge such as assault and battery with a dangerous weapon, kid- j napping, rape, ar just assault and battery..
Two of the perpetrators weren't charged with any crime, however, due
to insufficient evidence. This was because the victims did not file a police In report. Both women said their partners were members of organized crime
j th,
and. that they were too fearful to call the police. lie Judging from the victims' accounts, about one-third of the perpetra-
tors (35%) had engaged in some form of planning for their final assaults ~ or
Of on the victims. Here is a sampling of these cases. ~
I be
1) Reggie's wife, Anna, had left him three years earlier and was ~ Pet living with another man when he tried to kill her. Having just '
to
found out that he was dying of liver disease, Reggie called Anna
~
att
the ~~~~' and asked her to meet him at a subway discussion so they could
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2) After his wife, Sylvie, moved ou t of their home, Edgar began
sneaking into her apartment to spy on her from a hidden crawl
space that he had enlarged undernea th the stairway. Once he
overheard her telling a friend.that sh e never intended to return
to him. The next evening, he knocke d on the door and when she
opened it, he stabbed her five times in the head while their two-
year-old daughter sat on the floor cryi ng.
3) Shortly after Lisa tried to have h er estranged husband, Alex,
committed to a detox center, he broke into her house at midnight,
bound her wrists and feet as she lay n aked in bed, and began
bludgeoning her and stabbing her wi th a screwdriver. Lisa was
able to break free at one point and d ove headfirst through the
closed second-story window, but Alex caught her by the feet
and pulled her naked body back thr ough the broken glass of the
window. He then rebound her and resumed his attack. Lisa broke
free a second time and leaped out the window, crashing onto
the driveway below. She then ran to a neighbor's house and had
them summon the police. Lisa susta ined multiple lacerations,
penetration wounds, and broken bones .
In contrast to these attacks, howeve r, the majority of victims believed
that the near-fatal assaults on them had been less calculated. Most be-
lieved that their partners' decisions to kill had been made "on the spot"
or immediately before an attack in reaction to something said or done.
Often, the attack had occurred withi n the context of a heated exchange
between them. This is somewhat m isleading, however, since it also ap-
pears that many of the men had ini tiated the interactions with the intention
to kill their partners. In fact, it se emed to some victims that the verbal
attacks had been simply the first part of the murder attempts. Many of
these victims said that the attacks began with the assailants loudly accus-
ing them of something, swearing at them and threatening to kill them.
In many cases, the assailant appe ared to have been ruminating about the
victim's presumed affair or plans t o end the relationship. One woman sai
d
it seemed he had been "working h imself up to it more and more." Another
said, "I could see he was kind of p syching himself up for whatever." A
third woman said, "I could tell he was hurting and just wanted to end
it
all. I should have known he wanted to end me!"
Killer Profiles ( 107
i
While most of the killers were more calculating than this, a substan- Table 3.8: Corn tial number of them were similar to the attempted killers in their apparent circumstances c lack of planning. This seemed particularly true of the killers who blud-
Characteristic geoned or strangled their victims. I have previously mentioned Vincent, 1 Mean age for instance, the man who had punched his partner, Carol, in the head
Mean grade comply after she had complained about his stopping up the toilet with macaroni. Had completed hig Carol died two weeks later of a brain aneurism. Vincent was one of the ten Had attended some killers who were convicted of manslaughter. Had married the vii
Aside from being less calculating and adept at killing, how else did ' Had children with the attempted killers differ from those who succeeded? Demographically, Caucasian they were remarkably similar. Table 3.8 summarizes the demographic African American traits of both groups of men. They were nearly identical in age, class Latino background, employment status, and marital status. One significant differ- Had blue-collar occ ence is that a somewhat higher proportion of the killers were Caucasian, F Had white-collar oc and while an equal proportion of each group was African American, none ~ Unemployed at time of the killers were Latinos. In contrast, four of the would-be killers were Estranged at time of
Latino men. The racial breakdown of all fifty-one of the perpetrators col- Victim was plannin,
lectively, however, is similar to that found among men who kill their part- relationship at t~
ners in this country, though our study had fewer African American vic- ~ Estranged at time or
tims. While 20% of the victims in this study were African American, just {
under 30% of American women killed by their intimate partners in 1998 ~ *This includes all chili were African American. The rate of Latina victims during this same year same household with is unknown since Hispanic victims of crime are classified as of "White"
or of "Other Race" by the National Institute of Justice in Uniform Crime
Reports. However, Peace At Home, a victim advocacy group that tracks '~ what consistent with
intimate partner homicides in Massachusetts, found that of 149 women { origin. The class bac
killed from 1991-1995, 9.4 percent were Hispanic.42 This same study matches those found
found that 65% of the victims were Caucasian, 21%were African Ameri- ~ research studies.
can, 2.7% were Asian, and 2% were classified as "Race Unknown." The `. Nearly equal pr
previously cited Campbell study of 445 homicides and attempted Komi- employed at the tim
cides of women in eleven American cities found that 24% of the women at the context of the
were of Hispanic backgrounds.43 not always coincider.
One other substantial difference between the killers and the would-be unemployed men hac
killers was that a higher proportion of the former group had failed to com- ? for their partner's aci
plete high school. Despite this, equal proportions had attended college. because they were m
Overall, the perpetrators were significantly less educated than the gen- = surveillance. Exampl
eral population of men, though their collective level of education is some- stalking.
108 ~ Why Do They Kill?
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~n this, a substan- a Table 3.8: Comp arison of demographic character
istics and
s in their apparent ~ circumstanc es of killers and would-be killers
killers who blud- ~ Characteristic Killers Would-be killers
~ntioned Vincent, ~ ~
Mean age 33 34
;arol, in the head Mean grade completed 11 12
et with macaroni, Had completed high school 48% 70%
gas one of the ten 7 Had a
ttended some college 22% 20%
Had married the victim 45% 45%
ing, how else did Had children with victim 61% 80%*
C3emographically, Caucasian 81% 60%
the demographic J African American 19% 20%
ical in age, class ~ Latino 0% 20%
significant differ- ~ Had blue-collar occupation 87°Io 85%
were Caucasian, ~ Had white-collar occupati on 13% 1
5%
i American, none Unemployed at time of fin al assault 29% 2
5%
d-be killers were ~ Estranged at time of f inal assault 48%
50%
perpetrators col- ~ Victim was pl anning to separate or end 16°Io
10%
ho kill their part- J relati onship at the time
m American vic- 1 Estranged at time or planned estrangement
64% 60%
~n American, just
partners in 1998
~g this same yeax
~d as of "White"
i Uniform Crime
Troup that tracks it of 149 women Phis same study
.African Ameri-
Unknown." The attempted homi- % of the women
nd the would-be ~d failed to com-
ttended college. :d than the gen-
ucation is some-
N=31 N=20
* This includes all children, whether b iological or step-children, who lived in the
same household with the couple.
what consistent with the lower econ omic backgrounds of their families of
origin. The class background and occupational status of the perpetrators
matches those found among perpetrato rs of domestic homicide in larger
research studies.
Nearly equal proportions of both groups of perpetrators were un-
employed at the time that they commi tted their final assaults. Looking
at the context of these cases, howev er, I found that unemployment was
not always coincidental to the murd er or attempted murder. Some of the
unemployed men had quit their jobs in order to have more time to moni-
tor their partner's activities. A few others had been fired from their jobs
because they were missing so many da ys from work in order to conduct
surveillance. Examples of these cases are given in the later section about
stalking.
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Another similarity between the two groups of perpetrators was that Table 3.9: $reakdc
e' uictims or about the majority of each group were estranged from
th lr (in percentages)
to become estranged, at the tame of the fatal or ne ar-fatal assaults. Many
research studies have previously identified estrang ement as a strong factor
in domestic homicides.4̀` For this reason, estr angement is one of the risk
markers included on nearly all formal tools to asse ss danger and potential
lethality in domestic violence cases. Only recently, however; has this fac-
torbeen broadened to include planned estrangement b y the victim. In my
interviews with the killers as well as the victims of attempted homicide, I
found that the victims' plans to separate or to end the relationships were
just as likely to be cited as triggering factors for t he perpetrators as cases
where the victims had already left. As can be see n from Table 3.8, im-
minent estrangement was a condition in about one -eighth of the cases. In
conducting threat assessments, it therefore makes s ense to include whether
the victim is making plans to separate from her abuser and whether he
knows about those plans.
Beyond the demographic and relationship status sim ilarities in the ho-
micide and attempted homicide groups, I found th at the would-be killers
could be classified according to the same types that I had profiled among
the killers. Further, in determining which type each o f these perpetrators
fit, I found that there was a similar proportional spread across all five of
the killer types. This is summarized in Table 3.9.
Double and Triple Threats
Most of the killers and would-be killers could be ca lled multiple threats in
that they had characteristics of more than one type. I n fact, this was true
of nearly two-thirds of the men. Table 3.10 provide s a breakdown of this.
A somewhat higher proportion of the perpetrators of attempted homicide
(70%) qualified as multiple threats than the killers (58%). This may reflect
the greater likelihood that victims, relative to perpetra tors, would identify
key perpetratar behaviors such as jealousy and sub stance abuse.
Jealous Substance Abusers
The most common type of double threat was the je alous substance abuser.
The overlap between these two types of killers is considerable. Two-thirds
Perpetrator type Jealous
Substance abusing Materially motivated Career criminal Suicidal
* Totals exceed 100% sing
** Due to the exclusion fr undercounts the true pr~ ies of femicides that inc ranges from 25% to 30'
Table 3.10: Breakd
according to numb
Number of killer types the perpetrator fit
One type only
Two types
Three types
N=51
of the substance-abusi
half of the jealous kill
stance abuse appear to
it is possible that one f
to trigger murder. A n
their drinking had exa
jealous, James said, "'
drinking, that would r
kick in and then I'd be
110 ~ Why Do They Kill?
. _ _ __ _ _
Table 3.9: Breakdown of perpetrator types
(in percentages)*
Perpetrator type Killers Would-be killers Overall
Jealous 71 80 75 ~
Substance abusing 61 75 67
Materially motivated 19 15 18
Career criminal 19 25 22
Suicidal 9 10 10**
N=31 N=20 N=51
* Totals exceed 100% since many perpetrators were classified as more than one type.
** Due to the exclusion from this study of actual suicide cases, this undoubtedly
undercounts the true proportion of suicidal perpetrators. From larger research stud-
ies of femicides that include murder-suicides, the proportion of murder-suicides
ranges from 25% to 30%.
Table 3.10: Breakdown of killers and would-be killers
according to number of membership types they fit
Number of killer types Number/proportion
the perpetrator fit of perpetrators
One type only 19 (37%)
'Itvo types 22 (43%)
Three types 10 (20%)
N=51
of the substance-abusing killers also qualified as jealous types. Just over
half of the jealous killers were also substance abusers. Jealousy and sub-
stance abuse appear to be particularly deadly combinations. In some cases,
it is possible that one factar without the other would not have been enough
to trigger murder. A number of the jealous killers, for instance, said that
their drinking had exacerbated their jealousy. Asked what had made him
jealous, James said, "To be honest, I'm not that jealous. I guess if I was
drinkuig, that would make me more so. You know, the insecurity would
kick in and then I'd be talking some real shit to her [Corrine]."
Killer Profiles ( 111
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Interviewer: Are you saying that when you were drinking that you
would think things that you normally wouldn' t think?
James: You can say that! Pd be thinking a lo t of things, yes.
Sick shit.
Interviewer: Like what?
James: Like her and her father.
Interviewer: You mean, you'd think Conine was sexually involved
with her father?
James: I might have accused her of that a co uple of times
when I had alcohol in me.
Interviewer: Did you really believe that?
James: Nah! Not regularly no. But again, if I'd been drinking,
yes.
Several victims of attempted homicide similarly noted that their abusers'
jealous threats would become worse with their drinl~ing and/or drug use.
Commenting on her partner's changes before his near-fatal assault on her,
Lydia said, "He seemed more paranoid. I think i t was the drugs."
Interviewer:
Lydia:
Interviewer:
Lydia:
Interviewer:
Lydia:
What do you mean by paranoid?
He'd always be thinking people was out to ge t him.
He'd say people was coming into the house and
stealing his money. He'd accuse me of crazy things.
Like what?
Hiding things from him. He'd accuse me of taki ng his
clothes if he couldn't find them.
Was his jealousy worse?
Oh God, yes! It was always bad but then he'd th ink I
had something going on with every person I'd meet.
We classifie ',
as both substanc ',
it was clear that
features of their
appeared to pias ',
of these women
in the six mont
said that their p
one of these fa
. which factor j
in the final assai
partner's jealou
ners had made j
comparison, on
drunk or high c
seemed an inin
her estranged h
sleeping with?''
Though his drir.
ing up to this a'
it [the attack] re
that their partne
using drugs. O~
her repeatedly
his recent drug ''
<̀very jealous" i
attack. The oth~
in the head. As: ,',
get messed up ~
For the ma
Other women did not believe that their abusive partners were necessarily that jealousy p~
more jealous when they had been drinking or u sing drugs but that their ' were merely fa
jealous threats and violence would be more severe . As one woman said, was used to cap
"That [jealous suspicions] was always in his head but when he was drink- 4 commonly cite
ing he'd really let me have it. He wouldn't hold back as much." Asked to in fact, many c
explain the connection between her abuser's use o f alcohol and his jeal- ~ the murder as f
ousy, another woman said, "I'd say it just enhan ced his insecurities." true even for b2
} t y
112 ( Why Do They Kill? . . Y
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ig ~a~ Y°U We classified ju
st over half of t he perpetrators o
f attempted homi cide
dn't think? Pr as bot h substance-abu
sing .and jealous types. From the
victims' accounts ,
ings, yes, ~ zt was clear that both
substance abuse and jealousy had
been longstandi ng
j.
features of thei r relationships
with their assail ants. In most ca
ses, both
appeared to pla y prominent rol
es in the final nea r-fatal assault. O
ver 90%
of these wome n said that thei
r parrners' jealo us behavior had
escalated
ly involved ~ in the six months
leading up to t he assaults. Two-
thixds of the w omen
said that their p artners' drinkin
g and/or drug us e had also escala
ted. Was
>f tzmes one of these factor
s more critical to the assault th
an the other? A sked
which factor je alousy ar subs
tance abuse—ha d played the bi
ggest role
in the final assa ult, most of the
women said the y believed it had
been their
'e~ ~n~ng> partner's jealou
sy. All but one of the women (
92%) said that th eir part-
ners had made jealous accusati
ons or threats on the day of the a
ssault. By
comparison, onl y two-thirds of
the victims sai d that their partn
ers were
Heir abusers' dr unlz or high on
the day of the assault. Jealous
accusations and threats
~ar drug use. see med an inimical
part of the phy sical assaults.
Lynette reported that
~sault on her, he r estranged husb
and, Wzlliam, k ept demanding t
o know, "Who a re you
gs• ~ sleeping
with?" as he bl udgeoned her ov
er the head wit h a baseball bat
.
Though his drin king and drug u
se had increased in the three mon
ths lead-
ing up to this at tack, Lynette sa
nd she believed t hat "he would h
ave done
o get dim, it [the attack] rega
rdless." In fact, only two women
said that they b elievad
se and tha t their partner w
ould not have a ttacked her had
he not been drin king or
azy things. u sing drugs. On
e of these was A manda, whose
husband, Ernest o, struck
her repeatedly over the head w
zth a wrench af ter overhearing
her reveal
of taking his h is recent drug
use to her moth er. Though con
ceding that Ern esto was
"very jealous" i n general, Aman
da said that jeal ousy played no r
ole in this
attack. The othe r woman was S
ylvie, whose hu sband, Edgar, s
tabbed her
he'd think I in the head. Asked
what prompted t his attack, she s
aid, "I think ne had to
~n I'd meet, g et messed up [wi
th alcohol] to give him the cou
rage."
For the majorit y of jealous dsv
nks or jealous dr ug abusers, it app
eared
re necessarily ~hae jealousy pr
ovided the moti ve for their attacl
~s while alcohol or drugs
b~zt that their w ere merely facil
itating factors. In some cases,
alcohol or drug use also
«oman said, was used to ca
mouflage preme ditation. Alcoho
l and drug impa irment are
~e was drink- commonly cited
grounds for di minished capacit
y during murder tr ials, and
=h." Asked to in fact, many o
f the killers cit ed their alcohol
or drug use on t he day of
and his jeal- t tze murder as e
vzdence that the murders were no
t premeditated. T his was
~ri~~S ~~ true even for tw
o killers who w ere found to ha
ve no alcohol ox drugs in
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Table 3.11: Comparison of crimes for which jealous
and non-jealous Substance Abusers were convicted
(in percentages)
Jealous Non-jealous
substance abusers substance ab users
First degree murder 54 17
Second degree murder 15 33
Manslaughter 31 50
N=13 N=6
their systems when apprehended im mediately following the murders t
hey
committed.
One distinguishing feature of jeal ous substance abusers, compared
to non-jealous ones, was that the former group was more likely to ha
ve
planned their crimes. The jealous substance abusers were more likely to
be convicted of first degree murde r compared to those who were su
b-
stance abusers only. Conversely, the non-jealous substance abusers wer
e
more likely to be convicted of mans laughter, suggesting a much lowe
r
level of premeditation. Summaries of these findings are provided in
Table
3.11. The level of premeditation sh own by the jealous substance abuse
rs
mirrored that shown by the other jealous killers who had no history
of
substance abuse.
Case Example 6 i
"I wanted to destroy all reminders of hun."
James was a slightly built man wh o cried nearly continuously during m
y F
interview with him. James said t hat he met Corrine in the fall of 1993
and
moved in with her within a week. B oth were thirty-siY. Corrine's daugh
ter, "'
Mary, was two years old. Shortly be fore James moved in, Corrine had
quit
her job as a legal secretary and so ld her condominium. The couple t
hen
lived off the proceeds of that sale. Du ring their first month together, C
or- ~
rine confided to James that she had been the victim of an incestuous
rape
by her uncle. Though James was init ially sympathetic, he began to
blarrze
Corrine for what had happened and to accuse her of being in love
with
the uncle. In November, Corrine c ame home to find that James had t
orn "s
114 ~ Why Do They Kill? } ,.
up a picture of the unclE
Corrine complained, Jar
a restraining order the n.
The following Apri:
her pictures, and tore u
other belongings. In eY
stroy any reminders of
entering, violating a rest
ceived a two-year prison
Corrine visited James e
program in prison and
born before his father ~
Within two months
gument outside a super
Mary wanted. James k
bystander called the po
a two-and-a-half year s
bation. All but six mono
decided to end her rel;
him another try by age
prison. Corinne and th~ ''~!
Shortly after Jame
high chair onto his fa I
and the police filed a z
Corrine were arguing
of the car and ran to
police were called. Af
yelled, "Shut the little
second child abuse red
removed both childre
a five-year term of pr
and see his probation
In August, Corin
her restraining order,
He was arrested and
to see Cozrine outside
ing order which forb
fought after she accu, I
~,
alous
icted
ealous e abasers
7
.3
.0
=6
tYie murders they
.users, compared
ire IikeIy to have
re more likely to
who were sub-
zce abusers were
ig a much lower
provided in Table
ubstance abusers
gad no history of
ously during my
- fall of 1993 and
>rrine's daughter,
Cortxne had quit The couple then th together, Cor-
iincestuousrape
began to blame -ing in love with t James load horn
up a picture of the un cle that he'd found in her f
amily scrapbook. When
Corrine complained, James backhanded her in t
he face. Corrine obtained
a restraining order the next day.
The following April, Jame s broke into Corrine's pla
ce, burned all of
her pictures, and tore u p all her clothes. He also
destroyed many of her
other belongings, In ex plaining this to me, James
said, "T wanted to de-
stroy any reminders of her uncle:' James was convicte
d of breaking and
entering, violating a retr aining order, and making th
reats, for which he re-
ceived a two-year prison s entence. During the one year
he spent in prison,
Corrine visited James ever y week. James completed a
n alcohol education
program in prison and w as promising never to drin
k again. James Jr. was
born before bis father was released.
Within two months of Ja mes's release, James and Co
rinne had an ar-
gument outside a superma rket after he had refused to
buy something that
Mary wanted. James kick ed Corinne in the shin an
d headbutted her. A
bystander called the pofi ce and James was arrested. Th
is time, he recezved
atwo-and-a-half year sent ence for assault and battery
and violation of pra-
bation. All but six months of this time was suspended
. Corrine had initially
decided to end her relatio nship with James but he co
nvinced her to give
him another try by agxeei ng to attend a batterer int
ervention' program in
prison. Corinne and the ch ildren viszted every weeken
d.
Shortly after James's dis charge in rune 1993, James
Jr. fell out of his
high chair onto his face, according to James. Corin
ne called the police
and the police filed a repo rt of child abuse. The follo
wing day, James and
Corrine were arguing in th e car about what had happ
ened. Corrine got out
of the car and ran to her mother's house. When Ja
mes pursued her, the
police were called. After t he police arrived, Mary beg
an crying and James
yelled, "Shut the little bit ch up!" He was arrested a
nd the police filed a
second child abuse report. Following a child abuse i
nvestigation, the state
removed both children an d placed them into foster
care. James received
a five-year term of probatio n with the condition that h
e maintain sobriety
and see his probation offi cer every two weeks.
In August, Corinne wen t to court to charge James
with violation of
her restraining order, sayin g that he had threatened t
o "knock [me] out"
He was arrested and relea sed after posting bail of $20
0. James continued
to see Cozrine outside of he r house, despite the condit
ions of the restrain-
ing order which forbade s uch contact. On August 20,
James and Corrine
fought after she accused h im of talking about her to f
riends. James went to
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a bar and began drinking. He called Corinne from the bar to demand that
she take his name off their phone bill. James says that, while at the bar,
he consumed ten to twelve beers and two shots of Jack Daniels. He called
Corinne four more times but she did not answer the phone. James took a
cab to Corinne's house, arriving at 11:00 p.m. When Corinne let him in,
James told her the place was a mess and ordered her to get rid of a par-
ticularhouseplant. When she refused, James knocked it over, breaking the
pot. Corinne began to scream at him to leave. James put his hands over her
mouth to prevent her from yelling. They struggled and fell down several
times, ending up near the couch. James was continuing to hold Corinne by
the mouth when he noticed she was no longer breathing. He was giving her
mouth-to-mouth resuscitation when the police arrived, having been called
by Corinne's neighbor. The police tried but failed to revive Corinne. Their
report indicated that Corinne had been suffocated, citing that there was a
pillow impression on her face. James pled guilty to murder in the second
degree and received a sentence of twenty years to life.
Jealous and Suicidal
While suicidal types of killers and would-be killers were clearly under-
represented in this study, their ranks among killers are substantial and
therefore warrant inclusion in this analysis. Nearly one-third of American
women's murders by their intimate partners are followed by the suicides
of the killers. As already noted, jealousy, combined with estrangement or
pending estrangement, appears to be the leading trigger for murder among
this type of killer. In many, and perhaps most of these cases, the man's
jealousy was not only an immediate trigger to murder-suicide but also
a long-term factor in the relationship. As was the case with Allen, who
was profiled in the section about suicidal type of killer, this jealousy is
accompanied and perhaps fueled by depression. Depression may lead this
type of man to become extremely dependent on his partner for emotional
support and caretaking. Allen's depression and dependency on Andrea ap-
peared to have been major factors in her desire to end the relationship,
which in turn only made Allen feel more jealous and depressed.
The picture that emerges from many other accounts of murder-suicide
is one of a depressed husband who becomes increasingly jealous and des-
perate as his partner seeks to end the relationship. Due to his depression
and extreme dependency on his partner, he sees no life for himself beyond
the end of 1
leads him t~
of the relati
their childrf
the idea tha
reflects a pr
why not jus
Carmer
himself as
stabbing his
had moved
another mat
throughout
to kill her
divorce. Ac
preceded the
himself at a
depressed a
had encoura
Only after Y
dren was C<
disorder. Th
Regardless c
"always jeal
curred two ~
with mutual
wanting to I
banged Amy
Carmen wog
out socially,
Jealous anc
Also a subsi
did not belie
to kill her a~
marijuana. C
sion, accordi
lss ~ Why Do They Kill?
demand that ile at the bar,
:ls. He called
James took a
ie let him in,
rid of a par-
breaking the
ends over her
sown several
d Corinne by
as giving her
been called
~rinne. Their
t there was a
n the second
early under-
~stantial and
~f American
the suicides
~ngement or
irder among
~, the man's
ide but also
Allen, who
jealousy is
iay lead this
r emotional
Andrea ap-
~lationship,
~.
-der-suicide
us and des-
depression self beyond
3'
~'
the end of the relationship. His sens e of ownership over his partner also
leads him to want to ensure tha t his wife will have no life beyond the end
of the relationship. In more ra re cases, jealous suicidal men seek to end
their children's lives as well. Besi des indicating depression and jealousy,
the idea that no part of one's famil y shall continue to exist beyond oneself
reflects a profound self-centeredn ess and sense of ownership. Otherwise,
why not just kill yourself?
Carmen (later profiled in the chapter about child abuse) tried to kill
himself as well as his two children with carbon monoxide shortly after
stabbing his former wife, Amy. This occurred after Amy and the children
had moved into a new apartment and A my had started a relationship with
another man. Reflecting back, Amy sai d that Carmen had been depressed
throughout their three-year relationsh ip. He had repeatedly threatened
to kill her and the children along with himself whenever she spoke of
divorce. According to Axny, Carmen's de pression and suicidal behavior
preceded their relationship. He told her that he had once attempted to kill
himself at age fourteen. Amy said that Ca rmen had become increasingly
depressed and dependent upon her during their relationship. Though she
had encouraged him to get help for his de pression, he'd refused to do so.
Only after his incarceration for attempte d homicide of her and the chil-
dren was Carmen psychologically evalua ted and diagnosed with bipolar
disorder. This fit Amy's perception of Carmen as being extremely moody.
Regardless of whether he was depressed ar manic, said Amy, Carmen was
"always jealous." She reported that his fir st act of violent jealousy had oc-
curred two months after they began dating w hen they were playing golf
with mutual friends. "Out of the blue," said Amy, "Cannen accused me of
wanting to have sex with one of our frien ds." In a jealous rage, Carmen
banged Amy's head against the side of the car. Amy went on to say that
Carmen would make jealous accusations virtually "every time we went
out socially, or any time I changed my r outine a little."
Jealous and Suicidal Substance Abuser s
Also a substance abuser, Carmen quali fied as a triple threat. While Amy
did not believe that alcohol or drugs playe d any role in Carmen's attempt
to kill her and the children, she said that he had been a habitual user of
marijuana. Carmen's marijuana use might have contributed to his depres-
sion, according to Amy. Other researchers have found that suicidal killers
Kilter Profiles ~ 117
t
are more likely than other types of kill ers to abuse alcohol ar drugs. In S
ubstance-Abu.
many cases, substance use may be an attempt by the perpetrator to "self- Five out of the si
.medicate" his depression. Since alc ohol is a depressant, however, it of-
ten has the effect of making the in dividual more depressed. As was the
Perpetrators of ai
case with Allen, profiled in the section a bout suicidal killers, alcohol also
Aso substance a
counteracts the effects of anti-depres sant medications. Many other kinds
the career crimi~
of drugs, including marijuana, function as depressants. Substance use, de-
extended far bey
pression, and jealousy become a very deadly combination for some abu-
cgs as well as
sive men. Each condition often exacerb ates the other two, leading to an
were also more
escalating spiral of depression, subst ance use, and jealous behavior. Feel-
~ an d drugs. The f
ing the increasing danger, some victim s of these men actively seek help
abused alcohol c
~ for their partners. One victim of at
tempted homicide, Lisa, had sought to na1s. Being the
involuntarily commit her estranged hu sband to a detox program. Unfortu-
type of perpetra I
nately, this attempt backfired when he sought retribution by trying to stab
( by inalc~ng her c
her to death shortly after the judge r efused to commit him. Though se-
? Secondly, he co
verely injured, Lisa survived the attac k. Other victims were not so lucky,
her quiet about
Karen Trudeau was killed by her husba nd, Henry, on May 31, 2002,
hooked [on dru€
Three months earlier, Karen had filed f or divorce, alleging longstanding
4 ever go to the p~
physical abuse, and was awarded t emporary custody of the couple's two
to report me to I
children. In mid-March, however, Karen filed a criminal complaint, re-
,~ Beyond bei
parting that Henry had violated her protective order twice within four
Aso were their I
days. Henry was arrested and held over the weekend. On March 25, Karen
~m into prostate
and Henry's family sought to have Henr y committed to an in-patient sub-
~ relationsh ip wit
stance abuse program for thirty days, citing evidence that his suicidal be-
i risk for domesti
haviar and his drinking had escalated. He had twice been hospitalized for
} rest yle by an ;
depression and attempted suicide. Sever al months previously, Henry had
~ Abus er-pimps c
punched Karen in the back, destroyed her belongings, and threatened to
I pe ndency, contr
kill her. Despite this, the court denied the petition to commit Henry, and
~ The socia l stig~
he was released from custody with t he conditions that he submit to ran-
means of entrap
dom drug and alcohol screenings, repo rt to probation, and comply with
~ children oft en f~
the protective order. A review hearing wa s scheduled for May 23. In early
'' `~e~~'e system
May, Karen applied for three addition al criminal complaints, alleging
~ tempted l~omic i
that Henry had followed her around t own, shouted obscenities at her, and
# lose my babies:
driven by her house. Though the court held a new hearing on May 14,
Henry's conditions of release were n ot revoked, and apre-trial hearing
was scheduled for June 6 when all p ending charges would be handled.
Henry stabbed Karen to death on May 31 and then committed suicide,
as f 3
11s ~ why Do zney x~u?
s
Substance Abusing Car eer Criminals
~ Five out of t he six career criminals we
re substance abusers. All five of the
perpetrators of attemp ted homicide who qualif
ied as career criminals wer e
also substance abuser s. This connection make
s sense given that most of
~'' the career crimi nals were traffickers of
illegal drugs. Their use o f drugs
extended far beyond product sampling however
; most were daily users of
~ drugs. as well as o f alcohol. Compared to
tl~e other perpetrators, the se men
' were also more likely to pressure or com
pel their partners to use alcohol
4 and drugs. The fo ur victims of attempted
homicide who reported th at they
abused alcohol or drug s were partners of subst
ance-abusing career crim i-
nals. Being the victim' s supplier appeared to se
rve two functions for this
type of perpetrator. F irst, he could more effec
tively control his partner
by making her dependen t upon drugs and then
threatening to cut her off.
Secondly, he could thr eaten to reveal her drug
use as a way of keeping
her quiet about his cri minal enterprise. Said one
victim, "He wanted me
hooked [on dnzgs] 'cau se he could always use t
hat against me if I was t o
ever go to the police. Af ter we was separated, h
e was always threatenin g
to report me to DSS [the child protection agency
in Massachusetts]."
Beyond being their par tners' drug suppliers, tw
o of the perpetrators
also were their pimps. In both cases, the perpetrato
r had inducted his vic-
tim into prostitution. N eithez woman had been
a prostitute prior to her
relationship with her a buser. Prostituted women
are known to be at high
risk for domestic violenc e.46 Many have said that
they are forced into this
lifestyle by an abusive p artner who also acts as
their pimp or trafficker.
Abuser-pimps often util ize a combination of vio
lence, induced drug de -
pendency, control over w ages, and social isolatio
n to control their victims .
The social stigma that these women experien
ce becomes an addition al
means of entrapment w ithin their relationships.
Prostituted women with
children often fear that t heir arrest for prostitutio
n might result in the chil d
welfare system stepping in to remove their chi
ldren. One victim of at-
tempted homicide said, "That was my constant
fear, that T was going to
lose my babies."
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