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SIBLING ABUSE

  • PHYSICAL AND EMOTIONAL ABUSE
  • NAME-CALLING AND RIDICULE
  • DEGRADATION
  • PROMOTION FEAR
  • TORTURING OR KILLING A PET
  • DESTROYING PERSONAL POSSESSIONS
  • PARENTS OFTEN DO NOT GIVE THE ATTENTION THEY SHOULD TO SUCH ABUSE
  • SEXUAL ABUSE
  • COMMON AMONG BROTHERS AND SISTERS, BUT RARELY REPORTED

SON, YOU HAVE TO

LEARN THAT HITTING

YOUR YOUNGER SISTER

IS NOT THE WAY TO

SHOW HER YOU’RE

UPSET WITH HER.

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  • LIKE THE OTHER FORMS OF ABUSE, BUT DEALING WITH THE OLDEST POPULATIONS IN AMERICA
  • WHO ARE THESE ABUSERS
  • MEN AND WOMEN ARE EQUALLY LIKELY TO FINANCIALLY EXPLOIT AND PHYSICALLY ABUSE THEIR PARENTS AND OTHER ELDERLY PERSONS
  • WHY ABUSE?
  • IMPAIRMENT OF CAREGIVER
  • IMPAIRMENT OF RECIPIENT
  • DEPENDENCY IN THE OLDER PERSON
  • MEDICAL COSTS

IN AMERICA, TAKING

ADVANTAGE OF THE

ELDERLY IS BECOMING

A SERIOUS PROBLEM!

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EXPLAINING THE VIOLENCE

  • PATRICARCHY AND MALE DOMINANCE
  • THERE ARE STILL SOME COUNTRIES WHERE WOMEN AND CHILDREN ARE DEFINED AS “PROPERTY” OF MEN
  • SOCIAL LEARNING THEORY
  • VIOLENCE IS LEARNED THROUGH MODELING AND IMITATION
  • RESOURCE THEORY
  • MEN HAVE ACCESS TO MORE OPPORTUNITY WHICH LEADS TO MORE POWER AND STATUS
  • MEN WHO DO NOT SHARE IN THIS MAY RESORT TO VIOLENCE AS A WAY OF ESTABLISHING AUTHORITY

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TWO MORE THEORIES

  • CONFLICT THEORY
  • MOST INSTITUTIONS, INCLUDING THE FAMILY, DO NOT BENEFIT WOMEN AND CHILDREN AS MUCH AS MEN
  • EXCHANGE THEORY
  • WEIGHING THE BENEFITS AND COSTS OF ENGAGING IN SUCH BEHAVIOR

THE COST ARE

BEGINNING TO

OUT WEIGH ANY

BENEFITS WHEN

IT COMES TO

MALTREATMENT

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  • PREVENTION AND TREATMENT
  • TENDENCY TO STILL BLAME VICTIMS
  • HUSBANDS ARE JUSTIFIED IN ABUSE DUE TO WIFE’S “NAGGING”
  • THE DAUGHTER WAS ALWAYS BEHAVING SEDUCTIVELY
  • WHILE MORE SHELTERS ARE BUILT, THE NEED GROWS
  • LAWS HAVE CHANGED TO SUPPORT VICTIMS OF ABUSE

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OTHER ISSUES

  • BARRIERS
  • SOCIETAL ATTITUDES
  • PUBLICITY IS A TURN-OFF TO THOSE WHO WISH TO REPORT ABUSE
  • FEAR OF ISOLATION, OR TOO MUCH IN THE MEDIA SPOT LIGHT
  • FEAR OF “GETTING INVOLVED”
  • DUE TO LAWSUITS
  • LEGAL ISSUES
  • BATTERED-WOMAN SYNDROME
  • WOMEN BEING EXCUSED FROM ABUSE AND EVEN KILLING THEIR PARTNERS
  • STILL NOT EVERYONE AGREES WITH THIS AS A VALID DEFENSE PLEA

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ABUSE OFTEN CAN LEAD TO OTHER CRISIS SITUATONS WITH THE CONTEXT OF THE FAMILY

  • DRUG ABUSE
  • BILLIONS OF DOLLARS BEING SPENT TO FIGHT THIS SOCIAL PROBLEM
  • TEENAGE DEPRESSION AND SUICIDE
  • NOT ENOUGH TREATMENT PROGRAMS AND RECENT CUTBACKS IN GOV’T SPENDING IN THESE AREAS
  • PARENTS NEED TO BE TAUGHT TO LISTEN TO THE CHILDREN
  • EATING DISORDERS
  • MOST IMPACT FEMALES, FAR TOO MANY STILL DIE FROM ANOREXIA AND BULIMIA

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