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LEADING WITH YOUR STRENGTHS: A GUIDE TO THE 34 THEMES

34 Strengths Finder Themes ACHIEVER FUTURISTIC

ACTIVATOR HARMONY

ADAPTABI LlTY IDEATION

ANALYTICAL INCLUDER

ARRANGER INDIVIDUALIZATION

BELIEF INPUT

COMMAND INTELLECTION

COMMUNICATION LEARNER

COMPETITION MAXIMIZER

CONNECTEDNESS POSITIVITY

CONSISTENCY RELATOR

CONTEXT RESPONSIBILITY

DELIBERATIVE RESTORATIVE

DEVELOPER SELF-ASSURANCE

DISCIPLINE SIGNIFICANCE

EMPATHY STRATEGIC

FOCUS WOO

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LEADING WITH ACHIEVER

strong in the Achiever theme have a great deal of stamina work hard. They take great satisfaction from being busy and

BUILD TRUST o Others respect your work ethic and dedication. Hard work

and productivity are visible signs that you are someone who can be trusted to do things right. Live up to that trust. Deliver when you say you will.

o Establish relationships with others by working alongside them. Working hard together can be a bonding experience. When others see that you're willing to put your shoulder to the wheel and work beside them, you'll make a connection. Showing people that you see yourself as an equal, not a superior, can inspire feelings of trust and respect.

SHOW COMPASSION o Because setting and achieving goals is of paramount

importance to you, apply this way of living to more areas. Not spending enough time with the significant people in your life? Choose someone you care about, take on a project that both of you would like to accomplish, and set a timeline. You'll feel good about what you get done and about the time you spend together.

o Every day, put at least one personal relationship goal on your list of things to do. You'll make people feel worthy of your time and investment - plus you'll have the satisfaction of checking the "done" box daily.

PROVIDE STABILITY o Others can count on your belief in the importance of hard

work and diligent effort, and they come to expect this from

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you. They see your consistency and effort as an example of what it takes to create a steady, secure life, and this gives them a sense of stability. Talk to people about how it feels to always give everything you have. Strive to help them see that the one thing they can control in life is their own effort.

D Your stamina causes others to see you as a "rock:' You are always working; you never seem to tire. People may even feel sorry for you because you put in such long hours. Gently explain to these people that while others may not work this way, it's what feels good to you. Ask them what makes them feel good about their approach to work. Strive to understand and support others by giving them confidence in their own approach to their work.

CREATE HOPE D Your tremendous energy and desire to accomplish as much

as possible serves as an inspiration to others. You can encourage people by knowing what they want to accomplish and asking about their progress. By helping others put together timelines and checklists, you can help them achieve their plans and dreams.

o Setting goals and deadlines, so motivating for you, can also help others manage massive projects they undertake. You can make a large, complicated endeavor seem manageable by breaking it down and creating milestones along the way. When someone seeks you out for guidance about a colossal task, share your systems for managing the whole in a piece- by-piece manner.

LEADING OTHERS WITH STRONG ACHIEVER D When you have projects that require extra work, call on this

person. Remember that the saying "If you want to get a job done, ask a busy person" is generally true.

D Recognize that this person likes to be busy. Sitting in meetings is likely to be very boring for him. So either let

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LEADING WITH ACTIVATOR

People strong in the Activator theme can make things happen by thoughts into action. They are often impatient.

BUILD TRUST o Action is what you are all about. Show people that you are

someone whose ideals and principles are not just talk. Do something that promotes the values that are important to you. Make a difference. Demonstrate your integrity. Make your actions a reflection of your words.

o Action for action's sake is not enough. Honoring the desires of others is a way of demonstrating respect. Is this the direction they want to take? Are they willing to carry out what you start? Making certain that you are truly on their side, not merely promoting your own agenda, will build the trust and respect that allow you to lead.

SHOW COMPASSION o Activator talents can be a catalyst for creating one-on-one

relationships and then taking them to the next level. Is there someone you can help? Reach out and offer. Make the first move, and you can boost the number of people in your network or deepen a connection that leads to an important friendship.

o Your rapid actions, on behalf of another person, send a powerful message. By showing that you care, you can create bonds much more rapidly than idle words.

PROVIDE STABILITY o Stability may not be the first thing that comes to mind when

thinking about activation. However, consistency is part of stability - and you are consistently there to help others overcome hurdles and blast through resistance. Say it out

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loud: Let others know that you enjoy moving an objective forward and breaking bottlenecks. Knowing that you are there as a resource is a comfort to people who lack your talent for action.

o Perhaps courage is the part of stability you can offer. When others are reluctant to act and know they can count on you to help push them or their idea forward, they feel a sense of confidence that they do not have to go it alone. They can count on you to get them there faster.

CREATE HOPE o You can help others by reducing their fear of failure. "You

never know until you try" is an Activator attitude. Your ability to boost people's belief in a positive outcome and reduce the trepidation of a negative one can be very productive. "What's the worst case scenario?" you might ask. Helping others see that even the downside isn't so terrifying can be one way to lead them and help move them toward their dreams sooner than they would have gotten there without you.

o Sometimes others simply need your energy to move them from fear to action. Getting started can be daunting, especially when uncertainty looms. Your "put one foot in front of the other" approach can help lessen the intimidation factor. Boost others' confidence that they can launch initiatives and new projects. Cheer them on by sharing your enthusiasm, and help them gain momentum.

LEADING OTHERS WITH STRONG ACTIVATOR o Give this person the responsibility for initiating and

organizing a project that fits within her area of expertise. o Tell this person that you know she is someone who can make

things happen and that you will be asking her for help at key times. Your expectations will energize her.

o Assign this person to a team that is bogged down and talks more than it performs. She will stir them into action.

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i.J When this person complains, listen carefully - you may learn something. Then get her on your side by talking about new initiatives that she can lead or new improvements that she can make. Do this immediately, because unchecked, she can quickly stir up negativity when she gets off track.

i.J Examine this persons other dominant themes. If she is strong in Command, she may have the potential to sell and persuade very effectively. If she is also strong in Relator or Woo, she may become an excellent recruiter for you, drawing in recruits and then pressing them to commit.

o To prevent this person from running into too many obstacles, partner her with people who are strong in Strategic or Analytical. They can help her look around the corner. However, you may have to intercede for her in these partnerships so that her instinct to act is not stymied by their desire to discuss and analyze.

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LEADING WITH ADAPTABILITY

People strong in the Adaptability theme prefer to "go with the flow:' They tend to be "now" people who take things as they come and discover the future one day at a time.

BUILD TRUST o Sometimes all you can do is help people learn to trust

themselves and find their own ability to cope. When others feel like their power over a situation is lost, you can help them see that they still create the outcome by how they react. By trusting in their ability and helping them believe in what they can do, you can give them confidence in themselves.

o You don't grab the reins and try to take control. Rather, you are a co-traveler on the road of life. Your very lack of a personal agenda helps others come to trust that you are truly there to participate with, rather than manipulate, them. Ask questions about where people want to go, and help them get there. They will know that you are truly on their side.

SHOW COMPASSION o Others have such an appreciation for the way you are "in the

moment" when you are together. Make it a priority to focus on them - their feelings, their needs. Things may change in the future, but where they are right now is real. You can honor that and make them feel special by focusing your attention on what is important to them when you spend time together.

o Your ability to go with the flow creates a certain freedom from anxiety and allows frustrations to become more fleeting. This is good medicine for a number of other talent profiles. When others get stressed out, you're able to put things in perspective. Help others find the comfort that comes from releasing a need to control every aspect of

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terms with something you could not control. How did you feel? What did you do? Can you help others do the same?

LEADING OTHERS WITH STRONG ADAPTABILITY o This person lives to react and respond. Position him so that

his success depends on his ability to adjust to the unforeseen and then run with it.

o Let this person know about the plans you're making, but unless he is also strong in Focus, don't expect him to do the planning with you. He is likely to find much preparation work boring.

o Examine this person's other dominant themes. If he also has strong talents in Empathy, you might try to position him in a role in which he can be sensitive to and accommodate the varied needs of customers or guests. If one of his other strong themes is Developer, cast him in a mentor role.

D Be ready to excuse this person from meetings about the future, such as goal-setting meetings or career-counseling sessions. He is a "here and now" person and will find these meetings rather irrelevant.

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LEADING WITH ANALYTICAL

People strong in the Analytical theme search for reasons causes. They have the ability to think about all the factors might affect a situation.

BUILD TRUST D Think about what you endorse. Because others trust your

analytical mind, they may follow your recommendations without investigation of their own. This may be just fine, but at times, others may need your help to realize that what's right for you may not be what's right for them. Help them sort out the factors that make an action or product likely to be successful for their individual needs and desires rather than allowing them to base their analysis on yours. Help them know that you want what's best for them, and they will trust you even more.

D You automatically uncover what's real, true, and honest. Others will count on you to be the "truth finder" in any information that may conflict or confuse. Think of this as a way you can support others, and don't wait for them to ask for help. Extend yourself; they will respect and trust your proactive analysis.

SHOW COMPASSION D Others who love to scrutinize ideas will be drawn to your

analytical, truth-seeking approach. Stimulate debates, the tug-of-war of ideas that challenge one another. Make it fun to explore new ideas and sort out what is fact and what is conjecture. When you find a kindred spirit, take a gamesman's approach to discussion and debate, and forge a relationship that you will both enjoy.

D Responding to people in crisis is an obvious way to extend compassion and caring. When others are overwhelmed by

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data and decisions, you can step in to help sort what's real and what can improve their odds in a difficult situation.

PROVIDE STABILITY o Data are a source of security for many people; if the research

backs it, then they are willing to accept a plan and its consequences. Because you carefully examine all possibilities and non-possibilities, you provide the sense of security that many people seek. Do your homework carefully, and know that others are looking to follow your lead.

o Your endorsement can be a source of confidence that allows others to trust their own judgment. Thus empowered, they can move forward and make things happen. When you believe others are making good decisions, tell them. Your belief in their opinions and reasoning can give them the certainty and strength they need to proceed.

CREATE HOPE o Cheer for others when they are doing something difficult

that you believe is right. They may be trying to guess how you feel or what you would do. Give praise for wise judgment, and offer encouragement that they can face what's ahead. If you believe they will be successful, tell them.

o If others seek you out for advice in making decisions, offer to break down your thought process, and show them how it helps you sort information. Be aware that many people may not be capable of following suit. However, some will want to be students of your approach. Though it may be so well- practiced that it's automatic for you, try to articulate the steps you use for analysis. If you have a willing student, teach.

o Guidance can be a mutual endeavor. Partner with someone who has action-oriented talents. You can help them make wise, considered decisions. They can help you turn your analysis into action. Both of you will benefit and be inspired to grow.

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LEADING OTHERS WITH STRONG ANALYTICAL D If you are explaining a decision that has already been

made to this person, remember to layout the logic of the decision very clearly. To you, it may feel as though you are overexplaining things, but for her, this level of detail is essential if she is to commit to the decision.

D Every time you have the opportunity, recognize and praise this person's reasoning ability. She is proud of her disciplined mind.

D Remember that this person has a need for exact, well- researched numbers. Never try to pass shoddy data to her as credible evidence.

D Discovering patterns in data is a highlight in this person's life. Always give her the opportunity to explain the pattern in detail to you. This will be motivational for her and will help solidify your relationship.

D You will not always agree with this person, but always take her point of view seriously. She has probably thought through her points very carefully.

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LEADING WITH ARRANGER

People strong in the Arranger theme can organize, but they also have a flexibility that complements this ability. They like to figure out how all of the pieces and resources can be arranged for maximum productivity.

BUILD TRUST o You want people to tell you the truth because you depend on

honest feedback to make important midcourse corrections if necessary. Make sure people know that you expect the truth and that they will not be penalized for telling you exactly what they are thinking. Likewise, foster mutual respect by being honest with them.

o When you create new systems, plans, or ways to execute, do so with extreme transparency. Being very open about your thought process will help people understand and follow your reasoning.

SHOW COMPASSION o When you invest your time considering what's right for other

people and how to position them for success, they can't help but love you for it. You may see far more dearly than they do what they can do easily and well. Tell them what you see, and give them "permission" to be who they are and to do what they do best. You will free them to have a more satisfying life if you can minimize the frustrations and maximize the joys.

o Sometimes others simply need you to come to the rescue. Overwhelmed with confusion and dissonance, they may be rendered emotionally helpless. When you see someone going into overload, step in and help her simplify her world. Show her how all the pieces can be arranged to fit together - and reduce the chaos.

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PROVIDE STABILITY o Your ability to deal with fluid complexity is a comfort to

people who need a definitive agenda or plan. When you can keep the confusion as far away from them as possible and sort through myriad information to tell them what they need to know and do, they will feel safer and far more certain that all will be well.

o Sometimes the best laid plans spiral into chaos. By addressing problems before others even know any disruption happened, you help them remain in their comfort zone. Running a tight ship may not be so important to you, but running a steady one is. Many people need that kind of leadership to feel secure, and you provide it.

CREATE HOPE o Not only can you help people get involved in activities that

are right for them, you can also help them figure out what they shouldn't be doing and encourage them to stop doing it. They may feel trapped by calendars and commitments; you can free them. Inspire them to think about how to rearrange their responsibilities to make their lives more satisfying and productive.

o Before people can reorganize their time and responsibilities for a more fulfilling future, they may need a clear and concrete view of their current situation. Encourage them to fill out a calendar that shows everything they do in a week. Have them account for every hour. Then help them see ways to combine, eliminate, or add activities to enhance their quality of life.

LEADING OTHERS WITH STRONG ARRANGER U This person will thrive when given a new challenge, so give

him as much as you are able to, according to his knowledge and skill levels.

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o This person may well have the talent to be a manager or supervisor. His Arranger talents enable him to figure out how people with very different strengths can work together.

D Pay attention to this person's other top themes. Ifhe also has strong Discipline talents, he may be an excellent organizer, establishing routines and systems for getting things done.

D Understand that this person's modus operandi for team building is through trust and relationship. He may well reject someone who he believes is dishonest or does shoddy work.

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LEADING WITH BELIEF

People strong it the Belief theme have certain core values that are unchanging. Out of these values emerges a defined purpose for their life.

BUILD TRUST o Ethical behavior is the foundation of respect and trust.

Integrity is an expectation. To ensure fairness and promote unity, clearly communicate to others the behaviors you will and will not tolerate. Clarity on the front end can prevent misunderstandings and damage to relationships.

o The talent of Belief is more about an attitude of service than it is about a certain set of moral or spiritual beliefs. Show others what it means to be a servant leader. Get a team involved in doing something outside of themselves - something they do for the sole reason of helping another person or group. Demonstrate your Belief talents in actions that speak far louder than your words ever can. That level of integrity will earn you true respect.

SHOW COMPASSION o Your values are a deep source of meaning for you. Talk with

others about what's most meaningful in their lives. Just being a sounding board about something as important as core values builds relationships. Learn what's most important to the people in your life, whether you've known them a long time or just met them. Recognize that we all come from different backgrounds and go through various stages in our lives, and be accepting. Relationships can always grow. Listening creates a connection.

o Some bonds will be almost instantaneous. Common values will bring you close to some people quite rapidly - and sometimes for life. This can be a source of great joy in your

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life and theirs. Explore beliefs together, ask questions, and have conversations about what matters most in your lives. In these situations, relationships can grow surprisingly fast and remarkably deep.

o Take care not to create an "in" and an "out" crowd based on belief systems. Though you can never be "values neutral;' nor should you be, you should consider the messages you send with the judgments you make.

PROVIDE STABILITY :J Some of your beliefs are etched in stone. Even in this ever-

changing world, they never sway. This firm foundation can be a cornerstone of relationships, activities, and the work environment you create. Whether or not people believe as you do, they know where you stand and can be confident of the stability of those beliefs.

o Your passion equips you to fight. In these battles, strive to be seen as a leader who is fighting for something rather than one who is fighting against something. Being seen in a more positive light may help you enlist, engage, and retain more support for your cause. People will trust that you will fight for what's right. They take confidence in the strength of your convictions.

CREATE HOPE o The meaning and purpose of your work will often provide

direction for others, so talk about it; share its importance in your life. Remind people why their work is important and how it makes a difference in their lives and in the lives of others. Learn more about how they can live their talents and values through their work, and support them in finding those connections.

o Others may be less sure of their values than you are. If they are searching, ask them to take account of where they spend

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their time and money. The actual use of our time, talent, and treasure speaks volumes about what we really value.

LEADING OTHERS WITH STRONG BELIEF D This person will have some powerful bedrock values. Figure

out how to align her values with those of the organization. For example, talk with her about how your products and services make people's lives better, or discuss how your company embodies integrity and trust, or give her opportunities to go above and beyond to help colleagues and customers. This way, through her actions and words, she will make visible the values of your organization's culture.

D Realize that this person may place greater value on opportunities to provide higher levels of service than on opportunities to make more money. Find ways to enhance this natural service orientation, and you will see her at her best.

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LEADING WITH COMMAND

strong in the Command theme have presence. control of a situation and make decisions.

BUILD TRUST o Because you're known for saying what you think, others trust

that you won't play games. They can take what you say at face value, and they can be confident that you won't change your stripes once they've left the room. This directness builds trust, and trust builds relationships.

o Examine the correlations between your stated values and your actions. Are they consistent? Do they demonstrate integrity? Jot down the values that are most important to you. Can you think of recent examples of actions you have taken that confirm the integrity of your beliefs? Make this "walk the talk" checklist a regular part of your self-assessment, and ensure that others should trust what you say and respect your actions.

SHOW COMPASSION o You feel things intensely and are capable of expressing great

emotion. Do what you do naturally. Tell people how you feel and why they are important to you. Express the connection that others may be too reserved to say out loud. Your saying it first may free them to acknowledge that the feeling is mutual. And even if they are not there yet, you can launch the opportunity for a meaningful relationship. An expression of genuine caring, affection, or regard can be a powerful step toward initiating or deepening a bond between a leader and a follower.

o You use strong words. Express your sentiments to form a bond with others who will value what you stand for as a human being. Significant relationships are often formed on

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the basis of shared values, so stating your beliefs or passions can be a way for others to "find" you as a potential friend and champion. Invite others to join you based on your strong feelings and passionate beliefs - they may need the nudge.

D Sometimes others see the tough exterior of an individual with high Command and assume it's an impenetrable shell that protects him or her from all hurt. They may feel vulnerable and see you as invulnerable. Yet relationships depend on mutual vulnerability. Be open. Share your own pain and struggles. Letting others see the soft underbelly gives them equal power in the relationship and demonstrates trust.

PROVIDE STABILITY D People know where you stand. The security of understanding

that your convictions are not built on sinking sand allows people to feel confident that you will always be there for them and always stick to what you believe.

D Others come to you when they need someone to be strong for them - perhaps to shore up their own flagging courage or to step in and be a spokesperson for their needs. When their courage falters, they seek to "borrow" yours. Be aware of this need you fulfill, and ask others if they would like you to intervene on their behalf or accompany them on a difficult mission. Your "take charge" attitude steadies and reassures others in times of crisis. When faced with a particularly trying challenge, use your Command talents to assuage others' fears and convince them you have things under control.

CREATE HOPE D Because you call it like you see it, others seek you out

when they feel they can handle the truth. They might turn to others for support, but they go to you for an honest assessment of what they can and can't do, or should and

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shouldn't do. You don't shy away from offering advice. Ask them how committed they are to their current plan. Ask if they want your honest opinion. If they say yes, give it gently, but truthfully.

o Your powerful words inspire. Talk about the "why" of each mission without fearing to appear corny or sentimental. Your emotion allows others to rise to the occasion and give of themselves. They may be counting on you to give voice to the emotions that surround the cause. Paint an inspiring picture with your words.

LEADING OTHERS WITH STRONG COMMAND o As much as you can, give this person room to lead and make

decisions. He will not like to be supervised closely. o When confronting this person, take firm action. And if

necessary, require immediate restitution. Then arrange for him to be productive as soon as possible. He will get over his mistake quickly, and so should you.

o This person may intimidate others with his upfront, assertive style. You may need to consider whether or not his contribution justifies the occasional ruffled feathers. Rather than pushing him to learn how to be empathetic and polite, you'd make better use of your time by helping his colleagues understand that his assertiveness is part of what makes him effective - as long as he remains assertive rather than aggressive or offensive.

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LEADING WITH COMMUNICATION

People strong in the Communication theme generally find it easy to put their thoughts into words. They are good conversationalists and presenters.

BUILD TRUST o You are able to use language to "spin" and to manipulate. But

this is wearying over time. Remember that while spin can be persuasive in the short term, it exacts an emotional price. Make sure that you are not only effective, but ethical.

o Mutual respect is yours to build. Help people appreciate each other. Spend time "advertising" what they truly do well and what they are capable of contributing. Bear in mind that genuine praise encourages people, but false praise undermines them and is not taken seriously.

o Speak the same way about people to their faces as you do when they are not around. The consistency and honor of your words convey your integrity and shape the trust you build.

SHOW COMPASSION o You have the power to capture people's emotions and put

words to what they feel - sometimes words they cannot find themselves. This naturally draws others to you. So ask questions. Try to pinpoint the key issues people are trying to communicate, what joys or struggles they want to convey. Then give voice to those feelings. Helping people find the words to describe feelings is a powerful way to get them to express and process their own emotions, and it can support them on the way to making a plan of action.

o Language is a clue to culture. In any group, from a family to a corporation, think about what the words you use suggest. Names convey expectations. Do you tag your weekly

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meetings "department meetings;' "staff meetings;' "team meetings;' "quality meetings"? Are they held in a "meeting room;' a "conference room;' a "break room;' a "training center;' or a "learning center"? Do you frame questions positively to help others see how much you care?

PROVIDE STABILITY o Capture the successes of others in words, and relate those

words back to them, preferably in writing. Use your talent for finding just the right words to praise, give feedback, and reassure. Your positive support of others' achievements will help them feel secure in their roles.

o Think about how you express time. Are we here for the long haul? Are we seeking immediate results or building a long- term reputation? Give people the sense that the big picture is what matters, and they will be free to experiment a little - even fail a little - to make things better for the future. As you choose your words, consider that stability is confidence in the long-term picture.

D Besides being the spokesperson, become the collector of your group's success stories. Create a brand for your group based on accumulated triumphs. This solid foundation will bolster your group's confidence for the future.

CREATE HOPE o In an organizational setting, offer to be the person who

composes any "wrap-up" communication. After meetings, send a summary e-mail. Capture the key points, and outline the actions people must take. Summarize successes. Express kudos to those who have done good work. You can encourage and inspire positive activities and outcomes as well as future accomplishments.

U Your words influence the impressions and expectations that people form about individuals and groups. Are you enhancing or undermining their image? When you speak

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to or about others, consciously choose words that offer encouragement, inspiration, and optimism.

o What terms and expressions do you use to paint pictures of the future? Your words can guide others. Consider the direction your words take people, and select them well. Those words may continue to inspire people longer than you imagine.

LEADING OTHERS WITH STRONG COMMUNICATION o Ask this person to learn the folklore - the stories of

interesting events in your organization. Then give her the opportunity to tell these stories to her colleagues. She will help bring your culture to life and thereby strengthen it.

o Ask this person to help some of the specialists in your organization make more engaging presentations. In some situations, you could ask her to volunteer to make the presentation for the specialist.

o If you send this person to public-speaking training, make sure to place her in a small class with advanced students and a top-level trainer. She will be irritated if she's in training with beginners.

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LEADING WITH COMPETITION

People strong in the Competition theme measure their progress against the performance of others. They strive to win first place

revel in contests.

BUILD TRUST o Cheaters never prosper. Remember that winning at all costs

isn't winning; it's defeating yourself. The price of winning can be greater than the pain of losing, so make sure your integrity remains intact when you push for that ultimate victory.

o Protect the trust that you have created with others. Sometimes you may need to "walk off the court" to keep your competitive emotions from damaging the respect you seek from others. Do it. Give yourself the release of an emotional reaction, but make sure you do it where the "judges" won't see you.

SHOW COMPASSION o Competitors recognize one another almost immediately.

When you find someone who shares your desire to win, you might choose to compete and push each other, or you might combine forces to create a championship team. Either way, it's an opportunity to form a bond based on a shared outlook.

o Can you engage others in a weekly competitive activity they enjoy? This is a way to create a lasting connection based on mutual interests and a shared approach to life's challenges. Engage the competitor, and build on that relationship opportunity.

o Competition, despite all the effort it produces, can leave a bad taste in the mouths of many. Try to bring out the fun side of competition; help it create emotional bonds rather

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than barriers. Remember that not everyone assigns the same emotional intensity to every activity they undertake, and remember to show that you accept and respect that they may have different reasons for being in the "game:'

PROVIDE STABILITY D A winning team promotes confidence. How can you help

individuals or a team be their best? Position players so that they're building on their strengths; this gives them the best possible chance for success and security. Show people their capacity for peak performance based on their natural abilities.

D If you're in a lOSing battle now, remember your ultimate goal. Keep in mind that you're in it for the long haul, and help others see that too. Give them the peace of mind that this is an ongoing effort rather than a failure.

CREATE HOPE D Champion others. Verbalize your belief that they can be the

best at something. You may see potential in them that they cannot see. Point out the talents you notice in them, and help them learn how to turn those talents into strengths.

D What are the measures to beat in your organization? Put them out there so everyone has a clear target.

D Number one is the only position that counts in your book, so you tend to confine yourself to areas where you know you can win. As a leader, identify the market niches in which your group truly excels, and define its strengths and competitive edge in specific terms. In doing so, you set the group and the organization up for unparalleled success, which naturally increases your group's optimism.

o You are naturally attuned to real-world measures that assess achievements. Use this talent to identify world-class performance within and outside your organization and to identify industry benchmarks that truly count. Evaluate

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your organization against these standards, and inspire others to exceed them.

LEADING OTHERS WITH STRONG COMPETITION o Measure this person's accomplishments against other

people's - particularly other competitive people. You may decide to post the performance records of all your staff, but remember that only your competitive people will get a charge out of public comparison. Others may resent it or be mortified by the comparison.

o Set up contests for this person. Pit him against other competitors even if you have to find them in business units other than your own. Highly charged competitors want to compete with others who are very close to their skill level; matching them against modest achievers won't motivate them. Consider that one of the best ways to manage this person is to hire another competitive person who produces more.

o Talk about talents with this person. Like all competitors, he knows that it takes talent to be a winner. Name his talents. Tell him that he needs to marshal his talents to win. Do not "Peter Principle" this person by suggesting that winning means getting promoted.

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LEADING WITH CONNECTEDNESS

People strong in the Connectedness theme have faith in the links between all things. They believe there are few coincidences and that almost every event has a reason.

BUILD TRUST o Your philosophy of life compels you to move beyond your

own self-interests. Give voice to your beliefs. Take action on your values. When you move beyond self and give of what you have, others see the respect you have for every other human being, despite your differences. Respect is a natural byproduct of selfless acts.

o Seek out global or cross-cultural responsibilities that capitalize on your understanding of the commonalities inherent in humanity. Build global capability, and change the mindset of those who think in terms of "us" and "them:' Behaving in the best interests of all parties is a sign of good faith and trustworthiness.

SHOW COMPASSION o You seek the mutual bond. Develop good questions to ask

so that you can quickly find common ground between you and each person you meet. Keep asking these questions until you find the interests you share. Affirm and celebrate the connections you find, and start there to build a foundation for a relationship.

o Once you have discovered areas of commonality with someone, show that you care by remembering to inquire about the belief or activity you share with her. Use this as a point of entry into deeper conversations about other parts of her life. Get to know her as a whole person, rather than limiting your connection to only one aspect of who she is.

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o Your ability to bring people together around shared dreams and meanings is significant. You see the common thread in the greater whole. Take an active role in linking the lives of disparate individuals based on the connections you discover. Make others aware of the bonds they don't even know exist, and pave the road for friendship by helping strangers recognize the commonalities they have. You can help others make connections that influence the rest of their lives.

PROVIDE STABILITY o Your sense of the bigger picture can bring calm in chaos.

Point out the greater meaning you find in the events around you. Show others that a bump in the road is but a small part of a greater whole. Help them see the difference between what is constant in life and what is transitory. Put current difficulties in perspective.

o People feel safe when they are surrounded by what is comfortably familiar. When others need that sense of security, you can remind them of what is constant, what is shared. Help people remember that a network surrounds them. Simply knowing that they are not alone during difficult times can bring peace and confidence.

o Faith can be a foundational strength when it is shared. If faith is part of your relationship with another person, your support may be very important in times of uncertainty or fear. Reach out when you know someone needs the assurance that shared faith can provide.

CREATE HOPE o It may surprise you when others are slow to discover the

connections that you so easily see. Help them understand the interrelatedness you find in events and people. Broaden their worldview by helping them see a bigger picture. How could they take their own talent to a new level by applying it somewhere they've never thought to apply it? How might

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they partner with someone they see as much different from themselves? Get them thinking in new ways by sharing your broader vision.

o You are aware of the boundaries and borders created by organizational structure, but you treat them as seamless and fluid. Use your Connectedness talents to break down silos that prevent shared knowledge across industry, functional, and hierarchical divisions within or between organizations. Encourage different groups to work together for their shared goals.

o Help people see the links among their talents, their actions, their mission, and the success of the larger group or organization. When people believe in what they are doing and feel like they are part of something bigger, commitment to achievement is enhanced.

LEADING OTHERS WITH STRONG CONNECTEDNESS o This person is likely to have a spiritual orientation and

perhaps a strong faith. Your knowledge and, at the very least, acceptance of her spirituality will enable her to become increasingly comfortable around you.

U This person may be receptive to thinking about and developing the mission for your organization. She naturally feels like she is part of something larger than herself, and she will enjoy contributing to the impact of an overall statement or goal.

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LEADING WITH CONSISTENCY

People strong in the Consistency theme are keenly aware of the need to treat people the same. They try to treat everyone in the world with consistency by setting up clear rules and adhering to them.

BUILD TRUST D Cultivate trust by subjecting yourself to whatever rules or

programs you approve for your group or organization. When you live by the rules, it demonstrates your respect for principle, sets the tone for equality, and encourages peaceful compliance.

D Though others may take advantage of the perks of their position, your egalitarian mindset likely rejects them and prefers to live by the same set of expectations and standards as the larger population in your organization. Fully adapt this "equal footing" policy to win respect and solidify your constituency.

SHOW COMPASSION D Being able to predict how another person will act - and react

- helps us confidently plot the course for a relationship. Think about how Consistency influences the relationships others are able to build with you. Are you always there in times of need? Do you consistently show compassion and caring? Analyze the foundations of your closest relationships, and see what you discover about the role your Consistency talents play. Then consider how you can use this pattern to expand the number of friendships in your life.

D When you show your appreciation for the value another person places on fairness and equity, you validate who he or she is and form the foundation of support and understanding. You may fare best in relationships with

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others who live their lives according to similar principles. Seek out opportunities to commend those whose values and ideals you admire. Tell them how they make the world a better place. By doing so, you show them that you notice what they do best and that you care about them.

PROVIDE STABILITY o Others find comfort in knowing what is expected and what

is not tolerated. Let people know the norms so that they do not unintentionally violate them.

o When others know your codes of behavior, they can count on you to be constant in your application of them. Verbalize the importance of consistency in your expectations of yourself and others. By doing this, people will not only know the rules, but also their underlying principles. This will help them predict your behavior in situations the rules don't cover.

CREATE HOPE o When others come to you for help, it may be that they're

seeking the comfort of your consistency. Your assurance that they can count on you to be there for them will be encouraging.

[J You might find that you are a champion of the underdog. This should feel good to you - it means that your support is not destined only for those in the lead, but for all. Encourage those who struggle. Be sure to take into account their personal pattern of success. Perhaps they are striving to achieve in a way that does not suit them well and they need some redirection. Help them make the most of their opportunities by finding a pattern that works for them.

LEADING OTHERS WITH STRONG CONSISTENCY o When you need to put consistent practices in place for your

organization, ask this person to help establish routines.

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o When this person is in an analytical role, ask her to work on group, rather than individual, data. She is likely to be more adept at discovering generalizations that can be made about the group rather than particulars about a certain individual.

o If, as a manager, you struggle with situations in which rules must be applied equally, absolutely, and with no favoritism, ask this person to help you deal with them. The explanations and justifications will come naturally to her.

o In situations in which it is necessary to treat diverse people equally, ask this person to contribute to the development of the rules and procedures.

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LEADING WITH CONTEXT

People strong in the Context theme enjoy thinking about the understand the present by researching its history.

BUILD TRUST D Relate stories of your own life that you think will resonate

with others. Being vulnerable enough to share a bit of your own past can be a gateway to trust.

D Encourage mutual sharing of histories and life events if others are willing, and honor their trust when they confide in you.

SHOW COMPASSION D You're interested in the roots, the history, and the formative

moments in the lives of those around you. For you, a great conversation starter is "Tell me about a turning point in your life:' Ask questions that elicit stories that will be as fun for you to hear as they are for others to tell. Showing your interest will demonstrate that you care.

D Remember the details of stories you've heard someone tell, and use them as ongoing connecting points with that person. Looking across a room and making eye contact when something you've heard holds meaning for the two of you shows that you listened, remembered, and connected to the individual.

PROVIDE STABILITY D Stability is certainly linked to Context. The sense that

nothing in the universe is new means that we have experienced these things before and will do so again. Having survived previous trials indicates our fortitude and resilience and gives us the confidence and courage to find new ways to triumph.

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o History teaches patience, and putting things in perspective encourages understanding and security. Articulate the historical perspective on the issues people face today. Help them see the past as a teacher, and find wisdom in its lessons.

CREATE HOPE o Ask others questions like "How did you come to that

decision?" and "Have you ever dealt with an issue or situation like this in the past?" Your good questions and gentle guidance can help others get perspective on a situation and help them avoid recurring errors. You can give people hope by helping them recognize the strength they have already demonstrated - and will demonstrate again.

o Help people make sense of their lives and circumstances by showing them how to link their own history with their present and future. Work with them to develop a timeline of their lives that includes Significant decisions, trials, triumphs, and turning points. Ask them what they learned at each juncture. And help them consider what they can do now as a result of what they've learned.

o Boiling down complex ideas or proposals to their most basic elements helps you understand the original purpose or reasoning behind them. Trace the evolution of a plan or idea back to its inception, and clarify the purpose of its direction to those who may question it. You will strengthen the mission of your team.

o Remind your colleagues that the values and goals of your organization are based on wisdom derived from the past. Keep the history of your enterprise alive by retelling stories that capture its essence. These stories can offer guidance and inspiration in the present through understanding the inSights of the past. Can you be the keeper of the wisdom - or at least initiate the collection and recording of the wisdom? Future generations will thank you.

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LEADING OTHERS WITH STRONG CONTEXT o When you ask this person to do something, take time to

explain the thinking that led to the request. He needs to understand the background of a course of action before he can commit to it.

o No matter what the subject matter, ask this person to collect revealing stories, highlight the key discovery from each one, and perhaps build a class around them.

o Ask this person to collect anecdotes of people behaving in a way that exemplifies the cornerstones of your organization's culture. His stories, retold in newsletters, training classes, websites, videos, and so on, will strengthen your culture.

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LEADING WITH DELIBERATIVE

People strong in the Deliberative theme are best described by the serious care they take in making decisions or choices. They anticipate the obstacles.

BUILD TRUST o You inspire trust because you are cautious and considerate

regarding sensitive topics. Use these talents by taking on opportunities to handle delicate issues and conflicts.

D Others respect the time you dedicate to doing things right and to doing the right things. Let them know when you need time to think before making a decision. Trust them to appreciate that you have their best interests in mind.

SHOW COMPASSION D You understand the importance and weight of each

relationship, and you take this responsibility seriously. Once you've chosen to add someone to your life, tend the relationship well. Invest in activities and conversations that keep you close, and reveal your heart to the people who matter most. Lifetime relationships are hard to find, as you know, and they deserve and require your attention and love.

D Understand that your praise is rare - and precious to many. So when you commend others, consider marking the occasion with a tangible reminder of your recognition. Giving them a visible token of your appreciation will help the memory of your rare praise last for a long time.

PROVIDE STABILITY D Rather than take foolhardy risks, you are apt to approach a

decision cautiously. Trust your instincts when you believe something is "too good to be true:' Your deliberation and

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caution make others feel protected and secure about the conclusions you reach.

D Others will appreciate the careful thought that goes into each decision you make. Tell them about the options that you have analyzed and why you have chosen a particular course. Consider that they have a stake in the decision too. Ask for and weigh their input as carefully as you do your own.

CREATE HOPE D Temper the tendency of others to move haphazardly into

action by declaring a "consideration" period before decisions are made. Your caution can serve to steer others away from folly and toward wise choices.

D When you know a great deal about a topic, offer others the benefits of the research and analYSis you have done. Encourage them to try something if you believe it's the right thing for them to do. Show them the supporting evidence.

LEADING OTHERS WITH STRONG DELIBERATIVE o Do not position this person in a role that requires snap

judgments. She is likely to feel uncomfortable making decisions on gut instinct alone.

D When caution is required, such as circumstances that are sensitive to legal, safety, or accuracy issues, ask this person to take the lead. She will instinctively anticipate where the dangers might lie and how to keep you protected.

o This person is likely to excel at negotiating contracts, especially behind the scenes. As far as you can within the confines of her job description, ask her to play this role.

D Do not ask this person to be a greeter, rainmaker, or networker for your organization. The kind of effusiveness that these roles require may not be in her repertoire.

D In her relationships, this person will be selective and discriminating. Consequently, do not move her quickly

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from team to team. She needs to feel assured that the people she surrounds herself with are competent and trustworthy, and this confidence takes time to build.

o This person will be known as someone who gives praise sparingly, but when she does, it is truly deserved.

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LEADING WITH DEVELOPER

People strong in the Developer theme recognize and cultivate the potential in others. They spot the signs of each small improvement and derive satisfaction from these improvements.

BUILD TRUST o Doing something good for the sake of another is a sign of

character and an invitation to trust. Extend yourself to others by helping them see their own potential and offering to work with them to develop it. This will increase the breadth and depth of your relationships, and you will enjoy watching them grow.

o Try not to be hurt when others look for an ulterior motive in your good deeds. It may take them time to trust you when you show interest in their personal development. Allow them to see you in action for weeks, months, or even years before expecting their full confidence. They may not trust as easily as you do.

SHOW COMPASSION o You take genuine delight in people's growth and

development. Your natural talent for focusing on others is a gift to those you nurture. Cheer for them, and let them know that you believe in them. Your compassionate caring touches their hearts and places you squarely on their side. They will never forget the support you offer so easily.

o "We learn best from those we love" is a quote you understand and appreciate. Who loves you? Whom do you love? Be sure to get close enough to not only teach and guide, but to love. Communicate your feelings. Your impact will last forever.

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PROVIDE STABILITY L.J As you begin working with another person on her

development, first acknowledge the progress you've already seen. This provides a basis of confidence and security. You can make taking the next step less intimidating by reassuring her that you are confident she can do it because of what she's already proven herself able to do. Express your certainty that the next goal is within her reach. Developers help others step over comfort thresholds. You provide a "safe zone" where people have permission to strive and fail and strive again. Set others up for success by letting them know that more than one attempt is likely to be necessary before ultimate success results. Helping people set the right expectations provides security that produces the confidence to try again.

D Encourage people to dig deep into their talents and to put them to the test. With you, they have a cushion for failure and will not feel the full force of it. You provide support so that they can take the risks necessary to make the most of their talents.

CREATE HOPE D Challenge others by asking good questions that stretch their

imagination. What's the most they've ever done? How much do they imagine they could do? What do they dream of doing? What would they do if there were no obstacles, no barriers to their choices?

D Your growth-nurturing approach is your spontaneous response to those around you and makes you an inspirational mentor to many. Consider the moves your best mentors made, and take a lesson from them. Adopt the ones that are right for you, and use them to encourage and champion those you are mentoring.

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o You will be compelled to counsel more people than you possibly can. To fulfill this inner drive, consider being a "mentor for the moment:' Many of the most poignant and memorable developmental moments occur in a mere instant when the right words are delivered at the right time - words that clarify understanding, re-ignite a passion, open eyes to an opportunity, and change a life course. Look for opportunities to magnify moments.

LEADING OTHERS WITH STRONG DEVELOPER o Position this person so that he can help others in the

organization grow. For example, give him the opportunity to mentor one or two people or to teach a class on a company topic, such as safety, benefits, or customer service. If necessary, pay the fee for him to belong to a local training organization.

o This person might be a good candidate for a supervisor, team leader, or manager role. If he is already a manager or executive, look to his business unit for people who can be transferred to positions with greater responsibilities in the organization. He develops people and prepares them for the future.

o Be aware that this person may protect struggling performers long past the time when they should have been moved or terminated. Help him focus his developing instincts on setting people up to achieve success and not on supporting people who are enduring hardship. The best developmental action he can take with these people is to find them a different opportunity where they can truly excel.

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LEADING WITH DISCIPLINE

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BUILD TRUST o You never let yourself off the hook, and others will respect

you for your uncompromising standards. Hold yourself to the standards you set, and your actions will reflect your integrity.

o Others can count on you to make sure every detail is executed exactly right. Discipline can become the basis for trust when people see that their expectations are met time and time again. They will learn to respect your consistent delivery.

SHOW COMPASSION o Your powerful sense of order can make you a tremendous

partner to those who rely on your discipline to supplement their own. Find and celebrate the positive traits others possess that you do not, and build a relationship based on mutual appreciation. Someone learns to rely on you, and you on them, when a complementary partnership is at its best.

o You can show others kindness by attending to the details that they are sure to miss. Adopt the mindset of a caring friend, and seek ways to free others from the details that bog them down. You can make their lives better - and win appreciation at the same time.

PROVIDE STABILITY o You are predictable and consistent. You do what is required

when it is required - if not before. Share your timelines with others, and let them see the consistent progress you make as

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promised. People will feel safe entrusting you with projects when they see that your actions always follow your words.

o Not everyone is blessed with your sense of order. Share with others the calmness and composure you get from order by letting them know that you have situations under control. Help them see that each part will be accomplished in its time, and the entire project will follow according to plan. Others will be freed to do what they do well when they know that nothing important can slip through the cracks.

CREATE HOPE o Your performance objectives spur your efforts; you like

to get things done each day and each week. Noticing your productivity, others may take their cue from your performance objectives as well. Detail your tasks, goals, and timelines, and share them with interested teammates who may use your example to inspire their own work efforts.

o Trying to impose your systems and structures on others who lack strong Discipline talents simply won't work. Rather than trying to "convert" those who appear to need your sense of order, seek to discover what they do well; then support and encourage them in those areas.

LEADING OTHERS WITH STRONG DISCIPLINE o Give this person the opportunity to bring structure to a

haphazard or chaotic situation. Because she will not be comfortable in such shapeless, messy circumstances - and don't expect her to be - she will not rest until order and predictability are restored.

o When there are many things that need to get done in a set time period, remember this person's need to prioritize. Take the time to set priorities together, and once the schedule is set, stick to it.

o If appropriate, ask this person to help you plan and organize your own work. You might enlist her to review your time

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management system or even your proposal for reengineering some of your department's processes. Tell her colleagues that this is one of her talents, and encourage them to ask her for similar help.

o This person excels at developing routines that help her work efficiently. If she is forced to work in a situation that requires flexibility and responsiveness, encourage her to devise a set number of routines, each appropriate for a certain set of circumstances. This way, she will have a predictable response to fall back on, no matter what the surprise.

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LEADING WITH EMPATHY

People strong in the Empathy theme can sense the feelings of other people by imagining themselves in others' lives or situations.

BUILD TRUST o Help others articulate and frame complex emotions when

they're faced with a worrisome situation. Respect their feelings, and allow them the freedom to express what they need to express, whether or not your feelings mirror theirs. Acknowledge and deal with these emotions honestly to build trust.

o Because trust is paramount to you, many of your associates are likely to feel comfortable approaching you to share thoughts, feelings, concerns, and needs. Your discretion and desire to be genuinely helpful will be greatly valued.

SHOW COMPASSION o Witnessing the happiness of others brings you pleasure.

Consequently, you are likely to be attuned to opportunities to highlight people's successes and positively reinforce their achievements. At each opportunity, deliver a kind word of appreciation or recognition. By doing so, you are likely to make a profound and engaging impression on that person.

o Sometimes you have the ability to understand what others are feeling before they've recognized it themselves. This uncanny awareness can be unnerving or comforting, depending on how it's shared. Ask questions to gently guide people toward recognition of what you already suspect. Help them name their feelings and create their own path to self-discovery, and you will be a valued partner.

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PROVIDE STABILITY o Sensitive to the feelings of others, you readily gauge the

emotional tone of a room. Use your talents to forge a bridge of understanding and mutual support. Your Empathy talents will be especially important during trying times because they will demonstrate your concern as a leader, thereby building security and loyalty.

o Patience and understanding are your hallmarks. Take time to hear people out; don't rush to judgment. Giving people time and space to sort out their own thoughts and feelings in a safe environment promotes their sense of stability and tranquility.

CREATE HOPE o Others are likely to choose you as a confidante or mentor.

Affirm that this is a satisfying relationship for you so they feel welcome to approach you. Encourage them by putting words to what you sense about their aspirations; inspire and guide their dreams by imagining with them.

o Your Empathy talents allow you to anticipate events and reactions. Because you are observant of how others are feeling, you are likely to intuit what is about to happen in the organization before it becomes common knowledge. Help people to be aware as positive emotions build, so as a group, you can capitalize on this to create hope.

LEADING OTHERS WITH STRONG EMPATHY o Pay attention, but don't overreact if this person cries. Tears

are part of his life. He may sense the joy or tragedy in another person's life more pOignantly than even that person does.

o Help this person see his Empathy talent as a speCial gift. It may come so naturally to him that he thinks everyone feels what he feels, or he may be embarrassed by his strength of feeling. Show him how to use his talents to everyone's advantage.

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o Test this person's ability to make decisions instinctively rather than logically. He may not be able to articulate why he thinks a certain action is right, but he will often be right nonetheless. Ask him "What is your gut feeling about what we should do?"

o Arrange for this person to work with positive, optimistic people. He will pick up on their feelings and be motivated. Conversely, steer him away from pessimists and cynics. They will depress him.

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LEADING WITH FOCUS

People strong in the Focus theme can take a direction, follow through, and make the corrections necessary to stay on track.

prioritize, then act.

BUILD TRUST o Others will respect you because you know what's important,

and you keep your attention there. Make sure that you're not delegating non-essentials. Before you ask someone to do something, ask yourself if it affects ultimate performance. If it's not worth your time, perhaps it's not worth anyone's time, and you don't even have to ask. Others will trust your judgment.

o As a person with strong Focus talents, you know that life is about choices. Remember that everyone is responsible for their own decisions. Demonstrate to others that you understand and respect their choices in life.

SHOW COMPASSION o Take a step back and think broadly about the priorities

in your life. Use your Focus talents to target not only the projects that are important, but also the people. Set goals and strategies for giving those people the time and attention they deserve as partners in your life. Include these goals on your daily to-do lists, and check off what you accomplish.

o In whom should you be investing at work? Who makes your life better every day through their efforts on the job? Show appreciation to those who enable you to be so efficient. Acknowledge their role in your effectiveness, and don't forget to reach out when they need your help too.

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PROVIDE STABILITY LJ Expand the effects of your Focus talents by extending the

period of time you usually plan in advance. For example, if you typically plan one year ahead, try planning three years out. Gradually increase the length of time you encompass in your forecasting. Share your thoughts with others. Knowing that you are focusing on and thinking about the long term will give them security now.

lJ When you share long-term goals with your family and your work teams, tell them that they are part of your future projections. Give them the assurance that they are valued and needed and will be there with you.

CREATE HOPE LJ Over a lifetime, we accrue responsibilities and tasks that

may have ceased to have meaning for us. Help others clear some of the accumulated clutter of their lives. Ask questions like "What are the most important priorities in your life and your work?" "What do you love about doing this?" and "What would happen if you stopped doing this?" By tackling these questions, you can help people focus - or refocus - their energies and offer them a fresh outlook on the future.

LJ Invest in your organization by guiding the career trajectories of your company's most promising proteges. When mentoring others, you can assist them in crafting well-defined career paths and action plans to secure their major aspirations.

o Having measurable, specific, and tangible performance objectives is critical to your effectiveness. You relish setting regular "mini goals" for yourself because they keep your Focus talents sharp. Share your goals, measurement systems, and performance objectives with associates. In doing so, you will increase the sense of "team" and inspire them to track their personal progress in relation to the larger organizational objectives.

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LEADING OTHERS WITH STRONG FOCUS o Set goals with timelines, and then let this person figure out

how to achieve them. He will work best in an environment where he can control his work events.

o Check in with this person on a regular basis - as often as he indicates would be helpful. He will thrive on this regular attention because he likes talking about goals and his progress toward them. Ask him how often you should meet to discuss goals and objectives.

o Don't expect this person to always be sensitive to the feelings of others; getting his work done often takes top priority. If he also has strong Empathy talents, this effect will obviously be lessened. Nonetheless, be aware of the possibility that he may trample on others' feelings as he marches toward his goal.

o This person does not thrive in constantly changing situations. To manage this, when describing the change to him, use language that he will be more receptive to. For example, talk about it in terms of "new goals" and "new measures of success;' giving the change trajectory and purpose. This is the way he naturally thinks.

o Arrange for this person to attend a time management seminar. He may not naturally excel at this, but because his Focus theme pushes him to move toward his goals as fast as possible, he will appreciate the greater efficiency that effective time management brings.

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: People strong in the Futuristic theme are inspired by the future I ",d Wha.t. c .. ould be. They inspire others with their visions of the

future.

BUILD TRUST o When helping others imagine what could be, make sure that

your visions are grounded in reality. Many people do not find it as easy as you do to envision what things will look like decades later, so provide as much detail as you can about what they can do to be a part of the future. A realistic attitude will help build trust and confidence in your visionary ideas.

o Given your natural ability to look ahead, at times you may see disturbing trends on the horizon. Even if you enjoy talking about possibilities more than problems, you may be able to help people see and eliminate potential roadblocks before they cause any difficulties. Others will come to depend on you for this and trust what you see.

SHOW COMPASSION o One of the best ways to make a connection with another

human being is to listen. Ask the people you lead about their dreams. Have them describe their ideal future to you. Somewhere in their story, your Futuristic talents are likely to find a connection. Build on that connection by asking questions, helping them find more clarity as they put feelings to words. They will feel closer to you simply because you took an interest in their hopes and dreams for the future.

o You see the future more clearly than others. Do a little dreaming for people. Tell them that these dreams are possible if they set their sights on them. Perhaps you see talents in them that they are blind to, or opportunities they have not considered. Investing your time and energy in thinking

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about possibilities and what is good for other people shows caring and friendship. It shows you are a leader.

PROVIDE STABILITY o People sometimes exaggerate the fear of the present because

they cannot see beyond to a future when "this too shall pass:' You have the gift of perspective; your thinking is not bound by present circumstances. Help others share the calm you possess, knowing that another day will come, and all this will be behind them.

o As you think about the future, be sure to "check in" with the people you lead about their emotions. If the visions you have are too distant for them to imagine, or if too much seems uncertain, they may get worried or uncomfortable. Ask people how they see themselves in the scenarios you discuss, and help them know that these are "what if" pictures, not "must be" plans. They are the ones in control of their destiny.

CREATE HOPE o Because you have the gift of future thinking, it should come

as no surprise that people choose you as their sounding board when they seek direction and guidance. You may have been playing the role of a guide for others your whole life. Think through this role. Consider what questions you should be asking. What do others need from you? How do you find out? Having a set of questions to ask when others seek you out may help you match your contribution to their expectations and aspirations.

o You inspire others with your images of the future. When you articulate your vision, be sure to describe the future in detail with vivid words and metaphors so that others can better comprehend your expansive thinking. Make your ideas and strategies more concrete via sketches, step-by-step action

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plans, or mock-up models so that your associates can readily grasp your intent.

LEADING OTHERS WITH STRONG FUTURISTIC o Give this person time to think about, write about, and plan

for the products and services your organization will need in the future. Create opportunities for her to share her perspective in company newsletters, meetings, or industry conventions.

o Put this person on the organization's planning committee. Have her present her data-based vision of what the organization might look like in three years. And have her repeat this presentation every six months or so. This way, she can refine it with new data and insights.

o When your organization needs people to embrace change, ask this person to put these changes in the context of the organization's future needs. Have her make a presentation or write an article that puts these new directions in perspective. She can help others rise above their present uncertainties and become almost as excited as she is about the possibilities of the future.

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LEADING WITH HARMONY

People strong in the Harmony theme look don't enjoy conflict; rather, they seek areas

BUILD TRUST o You show others respect by valuing their input and helping

them be heard. At times, you may need to point out that each person's point of view is valuable and deserves respect, if not agreement. Learn to briefly, yet effectively, communicate the value of listening.

o The loudest voices are not the only ones that should be heard. Sometimes you may need to stop the debate, open up the floor, and help each person have a say. When you do, make sure this environment is one of trust and respect so that those with quieter voices feel comfortable sharing their opinions. By making it clear that decisions are better when every voice is heard, others will have faith in your motives and be more likely to share discussion time equitably.

SHOW COMPASSION o Your Harmony talents make life more pleasant. You reduce

stress by reducing conflict and friction. Invest some time in conceptualizing the greater purpose of your organization. When tensions mount, remind others of the overriding mission that binds you all together. In addition to cooling the conflict, your actions help others rise to another level that is based on a shared purpose. Others will be drawn to you because you are considerate of everyone's opinions, and you honor their views.

o Seeking common ground comes naturally to you. Your quest for harmony between individuals and groups shows others that you care and enhances one-to-one and group relationships. How many points of commonality can

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you find per interaction? Count them, and see if you can increase your average over time. The greater the number of connecting points, the greater the opportunity for establishing significant and lasting relationships.

PROVIDE STABILITY o You naturally provide peace and understanding. Your

approach allows everyone to stay connected to the group, even when opinions differ. Remind others that the strength of a group is the ability to respectfully bring a variety of ideas to the table. Your knack for appeasing those with opposing views helps everyone in the group feel a sense of security that no matter what the issue, the group will remain intact.

o You calm others by smoothing the waters and helping everyone keep a level head. You ensure that no one is hurt by thoughtless words spoken in passion. Creating an atmosphere of dignity and respect helps others feel safe when it's their turn to share their views.

CREATE HOPE o Establish and encourage interactions and forums in which

people feel that their opinions are truly being heard. In doing so, you will promote engagement, raise individual achievement levels, and contribute to the overall performance of teams. This will, in turn, create hope for the future.

o Polish your talent for resolution without agitation by gathering skills and knowledge. Become skilled in moving through the steps of conflict resolution, and invite someone to learn with you. Encourage and inspire each other to become experts in finding solutions through consensus. Learn and teach at the same time.

LEADING OTHERS WITH STRONG HARMONY o Find areas and issues on which you and this person agree,

and regularly review these topics with him. Surround

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him with other people who are strong in Harmony. He will always be more focused, more productive, and more creative when he knows that he's supported.

o Don't be surprised if this person agrees with you even when you are wrong. Sometimes, for the sake of Harmony, he may nod his head despite judging your idea a poor one. Consequently, you may need other people who instinctively voice their opinions to help keep your thinking clear.

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LEADING WITH IDEATION

People strong in the Ideation theme are fascinated by ideas. They are able to find connections between seemingly disparate phenomena.

BUILD TRUST o The purpose behind your pursuit of what's new can help

others trust you to make good choices. Explain the "why" behind what you do. Help people see that you are seeking to improve the status quo, to better explain the world, and to make discoveries that ultimately serve humanity.

o Make things simple. All your ideas, possibilities, and tangents can be confusing to some people. You see the simplicity of the underlying principles; articulate that to others so that they can see it too. The clearer things seem to people, the more certain they can be that you are doing what is right and makes sense. Help people make connections between what is and what can be.

SHOW COMPASSION o Others have great appreciation for your creative imagination

and your continual quest for new ideas. Invite them along for the ride. Ask them to dream with you. Shared excitement about ideas and possibilities, even from vastly different fields and approaches, can be a foundation for a mutually satisfying relationship.

o Partner with others who have a practical bent - people who can make your ideas realistic and bring them to fruition. You can be their inspiration; they can help you realize your dreams. Your differences are what bind you together and make each of you more successful than you would be on your own. Show consideration and appreciation for what others bring to the table.

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PROVIDE STABILITY o Stability and Ideation might seem at odds. You are always

searching for ways to break from convention and look at things from a new angle. Verbalize the fact that you're not seeking to destroy what is - rather, you want to make things better. You understand that security doesn't come from maintaining the status quo and doing things the way they've always been done; security is about making sure you are prepared for the future.

o You must take risks. Still, you can calm others by educating them that those risks are calculated, not reckless. Give others confidence by helping them see the logic behind your pursuit of what's new, and keep them informed along the way.

CREATE HOPE o You are a natural fit with people in research and development;

you appreciate the mindset of the visionaries and dreamers in your organization. Spend time with imaginative staff members, and sit in on their brainstorming sessions. Invite people you know who have good ideas to join as well. As a leader with exceptional Ideation talents, you can contribute to inspirational ideas and make them happen.

o Find people in other walks oflife who like to talk about ideas, and build mutually supportive and satisfying relationships. Their knowledge and dreams about an area that is foreign to you can inspire you. Feed one another's need for big thinking.

LEADING OTHERS WITH STRONG IDEATION U This person has creative ideas. Be sure to position her where

her ideas will be valued. [] Encourage this person to think of useful ideas or insights

that can be shared with your best customers. From Gallup's research, it is clear that when a company deliberately teaches its customers something, their level of loyalty increases.

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o This person needs to know that everything fits together. When decisions are made, take time to show her how each one is rooted in the same theory or concept.

o When a particular decision does not fit into an overarching concept, be sure to explain to this person that the decision is an exception or an experiment. Without this explanation, she may start to worry that the organization is becoming incoherent.

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LEADING WITH INCLUDER

People strong in the Includer theme are accepting of others. They show awareness of those who feel left out and make an effort to include them.

BUILD TRUST D Your utter lack of elitism inspires respect and honor. Others

can rely on you to find common ground and recognize the contribution each person makes to the whole.

D Automatic acceptance is part of your wiring. You don't debate the merits and drawbacks of including someone. If someone is there, he should be welcomed and brought into the fold. Help others see past what's on the outside, and ask them to consider how others feel. Everyone will know that you are a person who deserves respect when they see the respect that you give to others.

SHOW COMPASSION D Everyone needs an Includer as a friend. You help people feel

welcome and immediately make them a part of something larger than themselves. You reach out and invite others to join when they are feeling like outsiders looking in. Never hesitate to invite, even when rebuffed. Know that you are always doing the right thing.

D Nurture the new folks in your organization. Be a first friend. Know their names, and introduce them to others, helping them find connecting points. You will collect many best friends this way. It's hard to forget the person who first made you feel like you belonged in a new place where you felt uncertain.

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PROVIDE STABILITY o Stability is fostered when everyone knows that they will not

be excluded. Being consistent with your invitations and open to a wide variety of people helps others know that they too find a welcome whenever they need it. That's security.

o Your attitude that "there's always room for one more" will promote inclusion rather than competition when someone new joins the group. When others see that the circle expands to accommodate all, they will feel less territorial and more secure that they have a place in the fold. Make them feel even more confident by asking them to take on some of the orientation for new people.

CREATE HOPE o Be an "Includer coach:' Share your ideas for helping people

feel welcome. Others may require a caring nudge to get them to step outside their comfort zone and make the first move to add someone to their inner circle. When you offer that nudge, you give two people a bit more opportunity for growth in the future.

o Consider that people will relate to each other through you. You are a conduit for information; you can connect with all of the people in a group and keep them effectively connected to each other. Watch as this network you have created multiplies by the day.

LEADING OTHERS WITH STRONG INCLUDER o This person is interested in making everyone feel like part

of the team. Ask him to work on an orientation program for new employees. He will be excited to think about ways to welcome new recruits.

o You can capitalize on this person's Includer talents by focusing them on your customers. Properly positioned, he may prove to be very effective at breaking any barriers between customer and company.

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o Because this person probably will not appreciate elite products or services made for a select category of customer, position him to work on products or services that are designed for a broad market. He will enjoy planning ways to cast a wide net.

o In certain situations, it may be appropriate to ask this person to be your organization's link to community social agencies.

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LEADING WITH INDIVIDUALIZATION

People strong in the Individualization theme are intrigued with the unique qualities of each person. They have a gift for figuring out how people who are different can work together productively.

BUILD TRUST D Sometimes you know more than people would like you to

know. Keep strict confidences, and only share your insights with a person one-on-one. She should be the one to decide if she wants you to relate those insights to others.

D Others trust your instincts about people's unique qualities. Continue to build on that trust by focusing on the positive as much as you can when you are asked to share your impressions about someone.

D Stand behind your tendency to treat each person individually according to need, strength, and style. Many may see this as "playing favorites" and distrust you. Be prepared to defend your Individualization from a performance-excellence standpoint, as well as from a humane perspective. This will give others confidence in your decisions.

SHOW COMPASSION D Others are often surprised at the depth of your insights

about them, especially when you've known them only a short time. You've probably heard "How did you know that?" many times. As relationships develop, others will want to hear in greater depth your thoughts and insights regarding their actions, motivations, and talents. You are a mirror for them, and you offer a valuable perspective. Ask them to tell you more about themselves, and test your insights. Accept and affirm what they have to tell you.

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o You may have the gift of gifting - choosing the perfect gift for another person - even someone you don't know particularly well. Finding a small token and giving it at an unexpected time can be a quick relationship builder. Give yourself permission to reach out in this way, and enjoy the rewarding looks of surprise and delight. Who can resist a perfectly chosen gift? Bring joy into others' lives with little surprises.

PROVIDE STABILITY o Your awareness is essential to providing stability. By being

attuned to others' desires and needs, you can help them because you can position them in the right place. Their confidence grows because they are being asked to do what they do best.

o "All generalizations are false, including this one" is a phrase you might enjoy. Knowing that you are conscious of each person's special circumstances helps him or her feel understood and secure. Let people know that despite the rules or the classic wisdom, you will take their unique talents and needs into account when making decisions about opportunities they can pursue.

CREATE HOPE o Sometimes people are more predictable to you than they are

to themselves. Use your talent to notice others' consistent behavior patterns to help them see things they can't. You might be able to help them capitalize on talents they seldom use intentionally or avoid pitfalls that repeatedly ensnare them. Kindly give them feedback to help them streamline their dreams and aspirations.

o You are instinctively aware that individuals will be most productive when their environments are suited to their talents. Wherever appropriate, implement organizational policies that allow your associates to work in their own style

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- policies that allow people to express their individuality in the clothes they wear, how they decorate their offices, and the hours they work. Through these policies, you will engage and inspire your associates and enable them to produce their best work.

o You move comfortably among a broad range of styles and cultures, and you intuitively personalize your interactions. Consciously and proactively make full use of these talents by leading diversity and community efforts in your organization.

LEADING OTHERS WITH STRONG INDIVIDUALIZATION D Ask this person to serve on your selection committee.

She will probably be a very good judge of each candidate's strengths and weaknesses. By figuring out the right people for the right roles using her Individualization talents, she will also help improve the organization's productivity.

o When appropriate, have this person help design pay-for- performance programs in which all employees can use their strengths to maximize their pay.

D Ask this person to teach an internal training class or mentor new employees. She may well have a knack for spotting how each person learns differently.

o Look at this person's other dominant themes. If her Developer and Arranger talents are also strong, she may have the potential to be a manager or supervisor. If her talents lie in Command and Woo, she will probably be very effective at turning prospects into customers.

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LEADING WITH INPUT

I Peopl' 'trong m ;;;, Input th,m, havo a to more] l. Often they to collect archive all kinds of information. _

BUILD TRUST o Become a trusted authority by making sure that the

information you provide is both current and accurate. Check multiple sources just to be sure, and help others distinguish between fact and opinion.

o You earn respect by doing your homework and providing others with the information they need to succeed. When they see that you have put in the time and taken the responsibility to do thorough research, they can't help but appreciate your desire to do good work and trust your comprehensive findings.

SHOW COMPASSION o People will be attracted to you as a leader because they see

your resourcefulness and your awareness of the most recent developments and information. Let others know that you love to answer their questions and research their most pressing issues. Use your Input talents to connect with others, and make yourself available as someone they can depend on for help.

o When you meet others who share your interests, think beyond the learning opportunity at hand, and consider the relationship possibilities. Could this be the start of a friendship? Invite this person along when you discover opportunities to pursue your mutual interest, such as an exhibit or an upcoming speech. Use your Input talents as a stepping stone to relationships, and extend the first invitation.

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PROVIDE STABILITY o Your knowledge base can be a foundation for stability. When

others know that you have researched the topic at hand with your characteristic thoroughness and depth, they will feel confident that your decisions are well thought out. Share with them the extent of your research efforts.

o You don't merely collect information, you store it for a time when it might prove useful. By producing the backup and documentation for efforts that might seem risky to some, you assure them that they are moving in the right direction.

CREATE HOPE o Your mind is like a sponge - you naturally soak up

information. But just as the primary purpose of a sponge is not to permanently contain what it absorbs, neither should your mind simply store information. Input without output can lead to stagnation. As you gather and absorb information, be aware of the individuals and groups that can benefit from your knowledge, and be intentional about sharing it with them.

o Expose yourself to the written thoughts and ideas of other people. Then engage in serious discussion about them. Through this process, you will become a learner who also teaches.

LEADING OTHERS WITH STRONG INPUT o Focus this person's natural inquisitiveness by asking him

to study a topic that is important to your organization. Or position him in a role with a heavy research component. He enjoys the knowledge that comes from research.

o Pay attention to this person's other strong themes. If he is also strong in Developer, he may excel as a teacher or trainer by peppering his lessons with intriguing facts and stories.

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D Help this person develop a system for storing the information he collects. This system will ensure that he can find it when he and the organization need it.

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LEADING WITH INTELLECTION

People strong in the Intellection theme are characterized by their intellectual activity. They are introspective and appreciate intellectual discussions.

BUILD TRUST D When you carefully analyze others' thinking and then

respectfully give your honest opinion, you can help them avoid pitfalls and mistakes. They will appreciate your forthright willingness to help them succeed, and they will come to depend on you for this.

D Your sheer intellectual capacity will cause some to respect and revere you. Prove yourself worthy by remembering that thought without action is not always particularly helpful. Use your gift of Intellection to make a difference, and your respect will be well-deserved.

SHOW COMPASSION D Engaging others in intellectual and philosophical debate is

one way you make sense of things. It is also one way you build relationships. Channel your provocative questions to people who similarly enjoy the give and take of debate. They will seek you out as a friend and colleague who sharpens their thinking - and one they want to spend time with again and again.

D Some people will want you to think with them, while others will want you to think for them. You may be able to build relationships with some people because you look at things from an entirely different angle than they do. For people who are Single-minded and action-oriented, you may be the kind of thinking partner who improves their odds for success. Show that you truly care about them by sharing your thoughts with them.

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PROVIDE STABILITY o Remember to occasionally back up so others can follow

the trail of your thinking. They may not be ready for the pronouncement until they have followed the path. Share the mental steps you executed to arrive at your current conclusions so people don't worry that your thinking lacks foundation.

o Help others understand your need for solitude and space to think. Let them know that this is simply a reflection of your intellectual style and that it results from a desire to bring the most you can to relationships and opportunities. Sharing the fact that you think deeply about what's best for them and for the organization can be a great comfort.

CREATE HOPE o Encourage others to use their full intellectual capital by

reframing questions for them and by engaging them in dialogue. At the same time, recognize that there will be some who find this intimidating and who need time to reflect before being put on the spot. Help them engage their intellect in the way that is best for them. Then inspire them to use that way of thinking to dream and meditate about the future.

o Others will seek out your opinion because they appreciate the wise scrutiny you give to ideas and efforts. Bear in mind that you are at your best when you have the time to follow an intellectual trail and see where it leads. Get involved on the front end of projects and initiatives so that your thinking can have a greater impact on long-term outcomes.

LEADING OTHERS WITH STRONG INTELLECTION o Encourage this person to find long stretches of time when

she can simply muse. For some people, pure thinking time is not productive, but for her, it most certainly is. She will

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emerge from quiet periods of reflection with more clarity and self-confidence.

o Have a detailed discussion with this person regarding her strengths. She will probably enjoy the introspection and self- discovery.

o Give this person the opportunity to present her views to other people in the department. The pressure of communicating her ideas to others will force her to refine and clarify her thoughts.

o Be prepared to team up this person with someone who has strong Activator talents. This partner will push her to act on her thoughts and ideas.

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LEADING WITH LEARNER

strong in the Learner theme have a great desire to learn and want to continuously improve. In particular, the process of learning, rather than the outcome, excites them.

BUILD TRUST o Be honest enough to admit that you're still learning. Being

vulnerable and open about your own learning puts you on par with others and indicates a mutual, not a one-sided, expectation.

o Respect knowledge that is superior to your own. Some leaders feel the need to be more "advanced" than their followers in every area. This is unrealistic and unproductive; it impedes progress. Show your respect through your interest and appreciation of what others know and are capable of knowing. Listen to them, and trust them to be experts in these topics.

SHOW COMPASSION o Co-learning creates mutual vulnerability and discovery.

When you "sign up" for learning, always consider whom you can invite to learn with you. When you care enough to ask someone else to join in your learning, you create a shared memory and a common opportunity that forges a bond.

o Appreciate and celebrate others' learning, be it a project completed, a certification, a good spelling test, or an improvement on a report card. Let others know that you understand the hard work and effort that goes into personal growth. Emphasize that the outcome is exciting, but you recognize the merit of their journey as well. Affirm that learning has value, as does the learner.

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PROVIDE STABILITY o When you invest in another person's growth, you're saying,

"You matter. You are here for the long term. You are worth my investment:' This helps others know that you expect an enduring - not fleeting - relationship with them. Confirm that sentiment by saying it out loud. Tell people that you're committed to them for the long haul.

o Learning takes time. Your patience with others as they learn conveys to them that they're not disposable, but rather that you believe in their value and will stand beside them as they develop.

CREATE HOPE o Recognize that your enthusiasm for learning may be shared

by many in your organization. Ignite this passion by creating an ongoing, organization-wide learning program.

o Research supports the link between learning and performance. When people have the opportunity to learn and grow, they are more engaged, more productive, and loyal. Look for ways to measure whether people feel their learning needs are being met, to create individualized learning milestones, and to reward achievements in learning. These rewards and seeing measurable progress can inspire others to even greater learning goals.

LEADING OTHERS WITH STRONG LEARNER o Position this person in roles that require him to stay current

in a fast-changing field. He will enjoy the challenge of maintaining his competency.

o Regardless of this person's role, he will be eager to learn new facts, skills, or knowledge. Explore innovative ways for him to learn and remain motivated, or he may start hunting for a richer learning environment. For example, if he lacks opportunities to learn on the job, encourage him to take courses at the local college. Remember, he

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doesn't necessarily need to be promoted; he just needs to be learning. It is the process of learning, not necessarily the result, that energizes him.

D Encourage this person to become the master or resident expert in his field. Arrange for him to take the relevant classes to accomplish this. If necessary, help him secure financial support to continue his education. Be sure to recognize his learning.

o Have this person work beside an expert who will continuously push him to learn more.

o Ask this person to conduct internal discussion groups or presentations. There may be no better way to learn than to teach others.

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LEADING WITH MAXIMIZER

People strong in the Maximizer theme focus on strengths as a way to stimulate personal and group excellence. They seek to transform something strong into something superb.

BUILD TRUST D Admit that you do some things well and others not so well.

Allow people to admit that they too have areas where they consistently struggle. Simply being open can give others permission to be themselves in an honest way.

D Others will need to hear your message more than once before they believe that you're truly expecting them to shine where they shine and that you're avoiding their "dull spots:' Repeat the message so it is heard, understood, and trusted. Some people may need to know that you're not going to surprise them later with an accounting of where they are weak or how they have failed. Continually focus on their excellence until they can truly trust that this will always be your emphasis.

SHOW COMPASSION D Use your Maximizer talents to set others free. Too often,

people think they have to live up to expectations to be a jack of all trades, a straight-A student, or a well-rounded citizen. Make it clear that you appreciate their unique gifts, their personal brilliance. You don't expect all things from all people - you expect people to be more of who they already are. You may be the only one in people's lives who sees their gifts and talents this way.

D Sometimes people don't recognize their own areas of brilliance. You can be the one who leads them to the light. Point out moments of excellence you see in others' performance. Tell them that you see the areas where they are truly gifted. We sometimes limit the notion of "talent"

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to obvious areas like sports or music. Broaden people's view of giftedness. Tell people if they are a gifted friend, a gifted organizer, or a gifted accommodator. Broaden their view of self. You can change a life and become a personal champion.

PROVIDE STABILITY o The surest way to destroy other people's sense of security

is to ask them to repeatedly do something for which they are not adequately equipped. Instead, allow others to do and build on what they do best, and watch their confidence grow.

o Support others in the areas in which they don't excel. Give them confidence by helping them find complementary partners or systems that free them from failure.

CREATE HOPE o Don't let your Maximizer talents be stifled by conventional

wisdom, which says you should find what is broken and fix it. Identify and invest in the aspects of people and organizations that are working. Make sure that most of your resources are spent building up and encouraging these pockets of excellence.

o Explain Maximizer concepts to those who may not have ever considered pursuing only what they do well. Point out the advantages of a life lived by these principles: Capitalizing on the gifts with which you've been blessed is more productive. It sets higher expectations, not lower ones. It is the most effective and efficient use of energy and resources. And it's more fun.

o You will probably not have the opportunity to observe everything people do exceptionally well. So encourage others to be the keepers and tenders of their own talents. Ask them to study their successes: What did they do best in winning situations? How can they do more of that?

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Inspire them to dream. Tell them they can come to you for these kinds of discussions - that this is one of your great pleasures in life. Transfer the ownership of their gifts to them, and support that ownership.

D As a leader, you have a responsibility to make the most of your organization's resources - and talent is every company's greatest resource. You see talent in others. Use your authority to help your associates see their own talents and to maximize those talents by positioning people where they can develop and apply strengths. For every need, there is a person with a gift to match. Recruit and select carefully, and you'll have an organization full of opportunities for brilliance.

LEADING OTHERS WITH STRONG MAXIMIZER D Schedule time with this person to discuss her strengths in

detail and to strategize how and where these strengths can be used to the organization's advantage. She will enjoy these conversations and offer many practical suggestions for how her talents can best be put to use.

D As much as possible, help this person develop a career path and a compensation plan that will allow her to keep growing toward excellence in her role. She will instinctively want to stay on a strengths path and may dislike career structures that force her off this path to increase her earning power.

D Ask this person to lead a task force to investigate the best practices in your organization. Also ask her to help design a program for measuring and celebrating the productivity of each employee. She will enjoy thinking about what excellence should look like across the organization as well as within in each role.

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LEADING WITH POSITIVITY

People strong in the Positivity theme have an enthusiasm that is contagious. They are upbeat and can get others excited about what they are going to do.

BUILD TRUST o Some people are so accustomed to hearing the negatives

pointed out that initially, they will be suspicious of your continued positive remarks. Keep those remarks coming, and allow others to trust, over time, that you're always going to have that upbeat emphasis - in your life and in theirs.

o Make certain that your praise is always genuine, never empty or false. Research shows that more damage is done through false praise than through criticism. If you believe it, say it. If you don't, show your respect for others' intelligence and discernment, and don't yield to the temptation of false flattery.

SHOW COMPASSION o Your Positivity makes you naturally liberal with praise. You

can't be too generous - precious few people believe that they are suffering from too much recognition in their lives. Give praise freely. Make it specific. Make it personal. Spread good feelings and genuine appreciation for others. Help others look forward to every interaction they have with you.

o In hard times, you may be one of the few bright spots in someone's life - a beacon. Never underestimate that role. People will come to you because they need the boost you consistently prOVide. Let them know that they can. Ask them what they need. You will refresh them.

o Be the person whose humor is always positive and encouraging. Because of your outlook, you don't resort to deprecating, callous humor or sarcasm. This positive

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approach will surely rub off on others, and you'll influence the atmosphere around you.

PROVIDE STABILITY o You have a natural talent to increase people's confidence.

Look for ways to catch people doing things right or doing the right things. Affirm them. Watch them become stronger and more certain of themselves as a result of your praise.

o Your optimism allows you to live with solutions that are sometimes less than perfect. As a result, you encourage others to make progress rather than insisting on perfection. Continue to look for and describe to others the potential that exists in less-than-ideal situations. By doing so, you encourage them to feel free to take risks to improve a situation, even when they don't yet have the total solution.

CREATE HOPE o Play up the drama of moments. If everyone deserves 15

minutes of fame, perhaps you are the person to set the stage. Make each person's 15 minutes big enough to count and important enough to last.

o Your optimism helps others look to the future with anticipation. Talk about the future. Talk about what is possible. Ask others to share the opportunities and possibilities they see. Just saying them out loud helps them become expectations, and eventually, realities.

o Sometimes feelings are the result of action; other times, feelings are the cause for action. Insist on celebrations, employ the therapy oflaughter, and inject music and drama into your organization. This positive impact on the emotional economy will influence your productivity, mutual support, and bottom line.

o As you create positive environments, be sure to protect and nurture them. As much as possible, insulate yourself and others from chronic whiners, complainers, and malcontents.

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Prune negativity - it's as contagious as your positivity. You and your group must intentionally spend time in highly positive environments that will invigorate and feed optimism.

LEADING OTHERS WITH STRONG POSITIVITY o Ask this person to help plan events that your organization

hosts for your best customers, such as new product launches or user groups.

o This persons enthusiasm is contagious. Consider this when placing him on project teams.

o This person likes to celebrate. When milestones of achievement have been reached, ask him for ideas about how to recognize and commemorate the accomplishment. He will be more creative than most.

o Pay attention to this persons other top themes. If he also possesses strong Developer talents, he may prove to be an excellent trainer or teacher because he brings excitement to a classroom. If Command is one of his strongest themes, he may excel at selling because he is armed with a potent combination of assertiveness and energy.

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LEADING WITH RELATOR

People who are strong in the Relator theme enjoy close relationships with others. They find deep satisfaction in working hard with friends to achieve a goal.

BUILD TRUST o Important relationships generate confidences. Maintain and

build on the trust you have by keeping the confidences with which you are entrusted. One breach empties a dam.

o You know that the deepening of a friendship carries inherent risk, but you're more comfortable than most in accepting that fact. Say so. Acknowledge it aloud, and tell the other person that the depth of the relationship has created trust on your part and makes you feel safe with disclosure.

SHOW COMPASSION o Make sure you get enough one-on-one time with the

key people in your life. Solidify relationships and create emotional energy to share with others. This is what endures. Don't miss opportunities to show that you care.

o As a strong Relator, you may get and give more love and friendship than most people. Tell others that your relationship with them creates happiness in your life. Ask them how it can enhance their happiness. Show them that you care about the quality of their lives by extending compassion, thoughtfulness, and interest in their well- being.

PROVIDE STABILITY o Long-term, close friendships are deeply fulfilling for you.

These might be in your family, your personal circle, or your organization. Tell others that you expect these relationships

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to last your whole life. Set an expectation of ongoing mutual support, understanding, and stability.

D You are more at home in situations characterized by informal, rather than formal, systems. But organizations that are growing in size and complexity are likely to require systems that are more formalized. Even in the face of such workplace realities, you can help others know that the core importance of relationships remains constant. Create an informal island in the midst of the vast formal sea of your organization.

CREATE HOPE D You are a giver, not a taker. But for your generosity to

continue, you must ensure that the inflow keeps up with the rapid outflow. Identify the people and events that really fulfill you, and schedule time for them. This will give you even more energy to share with those who look to you for hope.

D You build relationships that last, giving you a unique depth of perspective on other people's lives and triumphs. Help them see the big view. Point out their achievements and patterns of success. Show them in as many ways as you can that their life has made a difference.

LEADING OTHERS WITH STRONG RELATOR D Help this person identify her colleagues' goals. She is more

likely to bond with them when she understands their aims and aspirations.

D Think about asking this person to build genuine relationships with the critical people you want to retain. She can be a key employee who can help keep good contributors in your organization through relationship building.

D Pay attention to this person's other strong themes. If she also shows strong evidence of Focus, Arranger, or Self- Assurance talents, she may have the potential to manage others.

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Employees will always work harder for someone they know will be there for them and who wants them to succeed. She can easily establish these kinds of relationships.

o This person may very well have the gift of generosity. Draw her attention to it, and show her how her generosity helps her influence and connect with those around her. She will appreciate your noticing, and your own relationship with her will be strengthened.

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LEADING WITH RESPONSIBILITY

People strong in the Responsibility theme take psychological ownership of what they say they will do. They are committed to stable values such as honesty and loyalty.

BUILD TRUST o You may be the moral conscience for others. When a person

or an organization is involved in something that seems wrong, an alarm in your head will go off, and you will feel compelled to address that issue. Go to the source first; ask questions to ascertain the reality and the motive. State your concerns honestly. Whenever possible and ethical, allow the person to correct the situation on his or her own. If necessary, take the next step to right the wrong and assuage your conscience.

o It's important to appreciate and recognize people of moral strength and integrity. Make sure you acknowledge and affirm what's right at least as often - and preferably more often - than you point out what's wrong. Others will notice and respect you for this.

SHOW COMPASSION o You can't help but feel responsible for others, especially

for the people you care about most. Check in with them frequently: How are they doing? How can you help? Show your compassion every day, if you can, and know that you are adding warmth to their lives.

o When you make a mistake that affects someone else, go to that person as quickly as you can and try to make it right. Apologize, certainly, but go beyond apology to restitution. Own your errors in relationships and you will find yourself more easily forgiven. Intimacy will be more quickly restored.

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PROVIDE STABILITY o Your sense of responsibility naturally creates a feeling of

security in others. They know they can depend on you to make sure things get done properly and on time. Rather than shouldering all of the responsibility yourself, share some of it so that each team member is contributing to the stability of the group.

o You're a leader who likes to serve. The service concept is often applied to customers, members, and patrons, but sometimes overlooked when applied to one's followers. Let your followers know about your desire to serve and support them - and that asking for your help is a form of recognition that you appreciate.

CREATE HOPE o You naturally take ownership of every project you're

involved in. Share responsibility by encouraging others to do the same. Be their champion, and proactively guide them through the opportunity to experience the challenges of ownership. In doing so, you will contribute to their growth and development.

o Psychological ownership is a product of making choices. Rather than assigning responsibilities, invoke ownership by allowing people to choose what they will be responsible for contributing. Let them initiate true responsibility beyond merely accepting assignments.

LEADING OTHERS WITH STRONG RESPONSIBILITY o As much as possible, avoid putting this person in team

situations with lackadaisical colleagues. o Recognize that this person is a self-starter and requires little

supervision to ensure that assignments are completed. o Put this person in positions that require unimpeachable

ethics. He will not let you down.

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o Periodically ask this person what new responsibility he would like to assume. It's motivational for him to volunteer, so give him the opportunity.

o This person may well impress you with his ability to deliver time and again, leading you to consider promoting him to management. Be careful. He may much prefer to do a job himself than be responsible for someone else's work, in which case he will find managing others frustrating. It might be better to help him find other ways to grow within the organization.

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LEADING WITH RESTORATIVE

People strong in the Restorative theme are adept at dealing with problems. They are good at figuring out what is wrong and resolving it.

BUILD TRUST o People trust you because you close the loop, reinstate order,

and clean up messes. You restore integrity to systems and make certain that they perform reliably. Let people know that you're willing to do this whenever the need occurs, and they will come to depend on you.

o You're attracted to situations that others may deem "impossible:' Tell others that the more it seems like the odds are against you, the more motivated you are to resolve the problem and make things right. They will respect the intensity of your desire to tackle the tough jobs and learn to rely on you.

SHOW COMPASSION o People have such appreciation for your willingness to jump

in and solve problems. Your desire to put things right is a sign that you care. Solve problems before others are even aware they exist, and let people know that you did. It will demonstrate your concern and commitment.

o Perhaps you are most needed when people themselves feel broken. Your instincts are to run to them and offer your emotional support. Be a first responder - reach people in need as quickly as you can, and offer your support and love. They will always remember that you helped them heal from physical or emotional pain, and they will count you among their closest supporters.

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PROVIDE STABILITY ::J You are naturally drawn to turnaround situations. Use your

Restorative talents to devise a plan of attack to revitalize a flagging project, organization, business, or team. Others will feel safer knowing you are on the case.

D Use your Restorative talents to think of ways to "problem proof" schedules, systems, and efforts. Knowing that you have done the contingency analysis and taken precautions to prevent mistakes helps others feel secure.

CREATE HOPE ::J Use your Restorative talents to be the one who asks "How

do we take it to the next level?" Done is never done because improvement is always possible. Be the instigator and inspiration for ever-higher levels of achievement and service.

::J Make certain others don't think that all you can see are flaws and shortcomings. Appreciate people for current levels of service and performance. And when they suggest a way to get even better, encourage their desire for excellence.

LEADING OTHERS WITH STRONG RESTORATIVE D Position this person in a role in which she is paid to solve

problems for your best customers. She enjoys the challenge of discovering and removing obstacles.

::J When this person resolves a problem, make sure to celebrate the achievement. Every wrong situation righted is a success for her, and she will need you to view it as such. Show her that others have come to rely on her ability to dismantle obstacles and move forward.

::J Ask this person how she would like to improve. Agree that these improvements should serve as goals for the following six months. She will appreciate this kind of attention and precision.

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LEADING WITH SELF-ASSURANCE

People strong in the Self- Assurance theme feel confident in their ability to manage their own lives. They possess an inner compass that gives them confidence that their decisions are right.

BUILD TRUST o Surprise others by admitting the mistakes, wrong turns,

and poor decisions you've made in the past. People may not expect someone who is so confident to willingly disclose failures. Actually, conquering your failures is what has made you certain that you can overcome whatever challenges you face. Be vulnerable, and show others that your strength springs from that very vulnerability. It will help them trust that you are genuine.

o Share the fact that you sometimes face fears when you make decisions. It's not that you don't find decisions daunting - you simply ask yourself, "If not me, then who?" Once you have the best information you can gather, you know that it's time to take action. By better understanding how you approach decision making, others can see that you are indeed trustworthy.

SHOW COMPASSION o Some people are drawn to you because of your Self-

Assurance; your confidence bolsters theirs. They may not give themselves the credit they deserve for their ability to make good decisions, build solid relationships, or create success in their lives. Your belief system says "Of course you can!" You remember their successes much more than their failures, and you can readily recall them in detail. With a cheering, supportive friend like you, they can venture out and try.

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D You are undeniably independent and self-sufficient - and yet you need to give and receive love. You are human, after all. When you build a relationship, consider what you can contribute to someone else's life. And consider what they can contribute to yours. If you don't need anyone, how can the important people in your life feel valued? Think about how others make your life happier and more fulfilled, and let them know. Tell them you need them. Tell them why.

PROVIDE STABILITY D Confidence - you have it in spades. Share stories of previous

successes to help others realize that your confidence is based in experience. That will calm people when you choose a huge goal and say, "We can do it:'

D "If you must, you can:' Use this adage to help people understand that when there are no options, they have the strength and wherewithal to do what is required of them. Inaction is not an option. The only choice is to make the best decision with the available facts, and make a move.

D When considering a new task or venture, carefully reflect on the talents, skills, and knowledge it will require. Assemble a solid team, and be prepared to give the helm to someone else if your talents aren't the best fit for the role. People will appreciate your capacity to defer to an expert and make certain they are in capable hands. This will give them comfort and security.

CREATE HOPE D Set ambitious goals. Don't hesitate to reach for what others

see as impractical and impossible - but what you see as merely bold and exciting, and most importantly, achievable with some heroics and a little luck. Your Self-Assurance talents can lead you, your family, your colleagues, and your organization to achievements that they would otherwise not have imagined.

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o Ask others if they have set their goals high enough. They may not dare to dream as big as you do. If you can contribute to a loftier picture than they currently see, you can launch bigger lives.

LEADING OTHERS WITH STRONG SELF-ASSURANCE o Position this person in a role where persistence is essential to

success. He has the self-confidence to stay the course despite pressure to change direction.

o Give this person a role that demands an aura of certainty and stability. At critical moments, his inner authority will calm his colleagues and his customers.

o Support this person's self-concept that he is an agent of action. Reinforce it with comments such as "It's up to you. You make it happen;' or "What is your intuition saying? Let's go with your gut:'

o Understand that this person may have beliefs about what he can do that might not relate to his actual talents.

o If this person has strong talents in themes such as Futuristic, Focus, Significance, or Arranger, he may well be a potential leader within your organization.

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LEADING WITH SIGNIFICANCE

People strong in the Significance theme want to be very important in the eyes of others. They are independent and want to be recognized.

BUILD TRUST o Share your desire for achieving big goals. Be very candid

about what motivates you, and ask the same of others. This will lead to shared trust.

o Your impact on the world is almost entirely dependent on the number of people who believe in you as a leader. Always be true to who you are, on and off the stage, and people will see your authenticity.

SHOW COMPASSION o Your aspirations will usually be higher than other people's.

During the long, steep climb toward the summit, be sure to reward yourself and others by recognizing and celebrating milestones. Reiterate the significance of the goal and the importance of each individual's contribution to it. Tell them what valued partners they are in this venture, and back up those words by giving them a stake in the prize. If your partnership is successful, you may be together for a long time.

:.::J Applause, appreciation, and affirmation from a valued audience will push you to ever-higher levels of performance. Whose approval you do most value? A parent, a Sibling, a teacher, a boss? Your significant other? Have you told them how critical their approval is to your very existence? Let them know how much you care about their opinions. Share with them the moments that mattered. Make sure that they understand the power of their perception and the valuable role they play in your motivation and in your life.

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PROVIDE STABILITY o Lasting impact matters to you. You want to build something

that makes a difference beyond the immediate moment. Share that desire with others. Help them know that your vision is not for immediate glory but for the long haul. They will feel better knowing how deep your commitment goes.

o Leading crucial teams or significant projects brings out your best. Your greatest motivation may come when the stakes are at their highest. Let others know that when the game is on the line, you want the ball. They will be comforted by your confidence to take big risks and carry the responsibility on your own shoulders.

CREATE HOPE o You spend time thinking about the heft of what you will

achieve and what it will mean to the present as well as to the future. Help others consider their legacy. Ask them what they are all about. What do they want to be known for? What do they want to leave behind? Give them a vision that looks past the moment and helps them assess the choices they are making every day.

o Your Significance talents often put you in the spotlight. Use this opportunity to direct positive attention toward others. Your ability to champion others and set them up for success may be the best measure of your Significance.

LEADING OTHERS WITH STRONG SIGNIFICANCE o Arrange for this person to stand out for the right reasons,

or she may try to make it happen herself, perhaps inappropriately.

o Position this person so that she can associate with credible, productive, professional people. She likes to surround herself with the best.

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D Encourage this person to praise other top achievers in the group. She enjoys making other people feel successful.

D When this person makes claims to excellence - and she will - help her picture the strengths she will have to develop to realize these claims. When coaching her, don't ask her to lower her aspirations; instead, suggest that she keep benchmarks for developing the relevant strengths.

D Because this person places such a premium on the perceptions of others, her self-esteem can suffer when people don't give her the recognition she deserves. At these times, draw her attention back to her strengths, and encourage her to set new goals based on them. These goals will help reenergize her.

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LEADING WITH STRATEGIC

People strong in the Strategic theme create alternative ways to proceed. Faced with any given scenario, they can quickly spot the relevant patterns and issues.

BUILD TRUST o When making decisions, discuss options candidly and

thoroughly with those involved. Help them learn to trust your process of examining all alternatives and then working toward the optimal solution.

o Be aware of your own biases. Are you weighting possibilities objectively or leaning toward personal desires and comfort levels? Give each option its due. Enlist the help of a good thinking partner to ensure that your decisions are made for the right reasons. Others will respect your integrity and your desire for objectivity.

SHOW COMPASSION o Apply your strategic thinking to your relationships. Write

down a list of the people who have the most positive influence in your life, and then map out specific things you can do to reinvest even more time and effort in each relationship.

o What are your goals for family? Close friends? What are their goals? Turn your strategic thinking talents toward these intimate partners in your life. Does someone have a dream but is seeing only obstacles? Does someone feel stuck somewhere with no options? You can help others circumvent a rocky path by pointing out alternate routes. Show that you care by helping them discover the possibilities.

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PROVIDE STABILITY o Take time to study the strategies employed by effective

leaders you respect or admire. Input equals output; the insights you gather are likely to have a stimulating and resourceful effect on your own strategic thinking. Make others aware that you are not bound by your own thinking and that your options and choices are supported by research. When they see the historical perspective and outside counsel you value, they will appreciate the stable foundation upon which your ideas are built.

o While others may consider only the tried-and-true route, you also see the many possibilities that could result from taking a road less traveled. Set aside time specifically for considering "what ifs;' and position yourself as a leader in that area. Explain your belief that focusing only on what has gone before may be more limiting than it is enlightening, and help others understand that all options will be carefully weighed. Your open-minded consideration will give others a sense of certainty that you are always on the lookout for the best path to take.

CREATE HOPE o Make sure that you are involved on the front end of new

initiatives or enterprises. Your innovative yet methodical approach will be critical to the genesis of a venture because it will keep its creators from developing counterproductive tunnel vision. Broaden their view and increase their chances for success.

o Your strategic thinking will be necessary to keep an achievable vision from deteriorating into a mere pipe dream. Lead people and organizations to fully consider all possible paths toward making a vision a reality. Wise forethought can remove obstacles before they appear and inspire others to move forward.

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o Make yourself known as a resource for consultation with those who are stumped by a particular problem or hindered by an obstacle or barrier. By naturally seeing a way when others are convinced there is no way, you will encourage them and lead them to success.

LEADING OTHERS WITH STRONG STRATEGIC o Position this person on the leading edge of your

organization. His ability to anticipate problems and their solutions will be invaluable. Ask him to sort through all of the possibilities and find the best way forward for your department. Suggest that he report back on the most effective strategy.

o Recognize this person's strong Strategic talents by sending him to a strategic planning or future-oriented seminar. The content will sharpen his ideas.

o This person is likely to have a talent for putting his ideas and thoughts into words. To refine his thinking, ask him to present his ideas to his colleagues or to write about them for internal distribution.

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LEADING WITH WOO

People strong in the Woo theme love the challenge of l new people and winning them over. They derive satisfaction from breaking the ice and making a connection with another .

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o You naturally charm others. Be certain that you do it with integrity so they can trust you when it matters. Otherwise, you may have contacts but not followers.

o Others may share a good deal of information with you, even on a first meeting. How can you collect and store that information so that individuals feel like their contributions are valued and, when necessary, protected? Invest in a system for maintaining contact with key people and logging important details of conversations. Make sure to exercise discretion when these details may be sensitive so others will trust you and continue to keep in contact.

SHOW COMPASSION o You win friends and fans wherever you go. It's important to

you that some of those contacts develop into long-lasting partnerships. Consider how to make those individuals feel a special connection with you - beyond the quick relationship you build with everyone you meet. How can you take important relationships to the next level? Invest the time and consideration necessary to do so.

o Leaders continuously build networks of trust, support, and communication by contacting and relating with a wide range of people. By building a constituency, leaders make an impact across barriers of time, distance, and culture. Create a map of your social network to define how broad you can go while still maintaining a genuine connection.

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PROVIDE STABILITY o Share the breadth and depth of your network with others.

Knowing that you have contacts everywhere can help people feel sure that you are in on the latest information and confident in the support you can expect when you need it.

o Get out and talk to your customers and your competitors, or get involved in the community. Effective leaders don't think their influence stops at the organizational walls, but rather recognize the larger network of affiliation and employ their influence within it. Enjoying a wide base of support helps ensure the continued existence of organizations and opportunities for their expansion.

CREATE HOPE o Your Woo talents give you the ability to quicken the pulse

of your organization. Recognize the power of your presence and how you can inspire an exchange of ideas. By simply starting conversations that engage your associates and bringing talented people together, you will help dramatically improve individual and organizational performance.

o All of your meeting and greeting is sure to produce information that's valuable to others - information from the customers, superiors, and colleagues of those you are trying to help and guide. Wherever you can, spread the good news and not the gossip. Let others know what they're doing well and how they're being perceived. Share with them the product of your wide-ranging influence, and help them feel affirmed when they succeed at pleaSing others.

LEADING OTHERS WITH STRONG WOO o Place this person at your organization's initial point of

contact with the outside world. o Help this person refine her system for remembering the

names of the people she meets. Set a goal for her to learn the names of - and a few personal details about - as many