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Conflict Management Styles

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Managing Conflict (Lussier & Achua)

Conflict

Exists whenever people are in disagreement and opposition

Is inevitable

Why is managing conflict important?

An organization’s success is based on how well it deals with conflicts.

So how can conflict impact an organization?

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The Psychological Contract (Lussier & Achua)

Is the unwritten implicit expectations of each party in a relationship

Is broken for two primary reasons:

We fail to make explicit our own expectations and fail to inquire into the expectations of the other parties

We further assume that the other party(ies) has the same expectations that we hold

Is the source of conflict when it is broken

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Dysfunctional Conflict versus Functional Conflict (Lussier & Achua)

Dysfunctional Conflict

Is when conflict prevents the achievement of organizational objectives

Functional Conflict

Is when disagreement and opposition supports the achievement of organizational objectives

What are some examples of conflict in your organization?

Are these conflicts Dysfunctional or Functional?

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What Conflict Management Style Do You Prefer? Thomas-Kilmann Conflict Mode Instrument (TKI)

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Thomas-Kilmann Conflict Mode Instrument (TKI)

ASSERTIVE

UNASSERTIVE

ASSERTIVE

UNCOOPERATIVE

COOPERATIVE

COOPERATIVE

COMPETING

COLLABORATING

COMPROMISING

AVOIDING

ACCOMMODATING

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Competing/Forcing

Competing/Forcing is assertive and uncooperative, a power-oriented mode.

Competing might mean standing up for your rights, defending a position you believe is correct, or simply trying to win.

Attempting to resolve the conflict by using aggressive behavior to get your own way.

Is uncooperative and aggressive.

Creates a win-lose situation.

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Competing/Forcing (Lussier & Achua)

Advantages

Decisions may be better, if the forcer is right

Disadvantages

Overuse leads to hostility and resentment toward its user

Forcers tend to have poor human relations

Appropriately used when:

Unpopular action must be taken on important issues

Commitment by others is not critical

Maintaining relationships is not critical

The conflict resolution is urgent

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Accommodating/Smoothing/ Withdrawing

Accommodating/Smoothing/Withdrawing is unassertive and cooperative—the opposite of competing.

Accommodating might take the form of selfless generosity or charity, obeying another person’s order when you would prefer not to, or yielding to another’s point of view.

Attempts to resolve the conflict by passively giving in to the other party.

Creates a win-lose situation.

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Accommodating/Smoothing/ Withdrawing (Lussier & Achua)

Advantages

May maintain relationships that a conflict might damage by going along with the other party

Disadvantages

May be counterproductive

Accommodators are taken advantage of

Appropriately used when:

The person enjoys being a follower

Maintaining the relationship outweighs all other considerations

The changes agreed to are not important to the accommodator, but are to the other party

The time to resolve the conflict is limited

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Collaborating/Problem Solving

Collaborating/Problem Solving is both assertive and cooperative.

Collaborating between two persons might take the form of exploring a disagreement to learn from each other’s insights, resolving some condition that would otherwise have them competing for resources, or confronting and trying to find a creative solution to an interpersonal problem.

Attempts to jointly resolve the conflict with the best solution agreeable to all parties.

Creates a win-win situation.

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Collaborating /Problem Solving (Lussier & Achua)

Advantages

Tends to lead to the best solution

Disadvantages

The skill, effort, and time needed are usually greater and longer than the other styles

Appropriately used when:

Dealing with issues requiring optimum solutions

Compromise will result in sub-optimization

Achieving group goals must come before self-interest

Maintaining relationships is important

Time is available

It is a peer conflict

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Compromising/Sharing/Negotiating

Compromising/Sharing/Negotiating is intermediate in both assertiveness and cooperativeness. It falls on a middle ground between competing and accommodating, giving up more than competing but less than accommodating.

Likewise, it addresses an issue more directly than avoiding but doesn’t explore it in as much depth as collaborating. Compromising might mean splitting the difference, exchanging concessions, or seeking a quick middle-ground position.

Attempts to resolve the conflict through assertive, give-and-take concessions.

Creates an “I win some, you win some” situation through compromise.

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Compromising/Sharing/Negotiating (Lussier & Achua)

Advantages

Resolved relatively quickly

Working relationships are maintained

Disadvantages

Can lead to counterproductive results

Can lead to suboptimum decisions

Overuse leads to high demands from the parties to use to bargain for more reasonable demands

Appropriately used when:

The issues are complex and critical

There is no simple and clear solution

Parties have about equal power and want different solutions

A solution will be only temporary

Time is short

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Avoiding

Avoiding is unassertive and uncooperative.

Avoiding might take the form of diplomatically sidestepping an issue, postponing an issue until a better time, or simply withdrawing from a threatening situation.

Attempts to passively ignore the conflict rather than resolve it.

Creates a lose-lose situation.

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Advantages

May maintain relationships that conflict resolution could damage

Disadvantages

Conflicts do not get resolved

Internal conflict in individuals

Avoiders are walked all over\

Appropriately used when:

The conflict is trivial

Your stake in the issue is not high

Relationships could be damaged

You don’t have time to resolve the conflict

Emotions are high

Avoiding (Lussier & Achua)

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