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Hello Again, Firstly, Please consider updating your personal contact information as my attempts to reach you have been disturbingly unsuccessful?  Left to my own conclusions, my thoughts immediately conclude that health issues may be involved?   So, I hope that all is well with you, in every aspect possible, I sincerely do? Pursuant to our last communication, you had some personal funds tied up in limbo?  Now that the tentative project involving replacing the badly worn carpet on the steps and 2^nd floor hallway project at your property located at xxxxxxxxxxxxx  has been permanently  canceled, ( a decision that I can totally relate to & agree with) I devotedly continue to be  prepared to re- capture those stalled funds for you and immediately return them  ($300.00)to you entirely, assuming that you had misplaced or lost your original deposit receipt  as physical verification including  date sensitive and personal information? I also allowed myself to believe that you would let me know it the situation had been satisfactorily resolved? Your generosity has more than satisfied our previous arrangement and I would not leave you hanging?

The next issue is a matter that I am reluctant to discuss digitally due to the sensitive perception that may be misunderstood and you not being particularly interested or concerned, accordingly involving gender ( a males interpretation vs. a females take on  personal situations.  I need to share this with you because it won’t leave my consciousness and I would really like to put it to rest as a done issue that is persistently remaining “fresh”, so here goes, Mary called me out of the blue recently, which in itself is unusual because we talk so infrequently? So when her name comes up on my caller ID, my heart immediately accelerates to faster beats assuming that it’s about bad news?  However it was not about bad news, depending on how one personally interprets the message?  She announced that Don’s health is deteriorating at an accelerated speed and they will all be spending the harsh winter in Texas? She said that she has discussed this with you. Of course we shared our immediate concerns for my beloved Aunt. After some chit chat, her passionately reiterating the close mother-daughter relation she has with your mom ( her “Ma”), there was a mention of what she considerers as her personal inheritance that further establishes the assumed cemented bond between them, which I do not dispute? Again, another topic, your Mom’s jewelry, namely 3 rings, that she said aunt Skimp promised to her and baby? The only caveat is that that is not what your Mom told me and after I hung up from Mary, I called your Mom to asked her if she had changed what she shared with me, because Mary was actually in doubt and stated that she may have changed her mind and now intended give them to (her words verbatim) your DEBBIE! After recovering from that shocking revelation, I emphatically shared what is my personal knowledge regarding the future ownership of said property, that your Mother specifically told me that you are the inheritor of all of her worldly goods, including those particular objects, period?  When I shared with her that that was not Mary’s belief, she shared with me, the back story as to how Mary aligned herself to her jewelry?  She shared that she originally had the rings in question in a safety deposit box in a bank, that closed and Mary was with her when she went to retrieve her property and laid her claim on them?  Your Mom further stated that is why she has hidden them somewhere that she considers “safe” to protect them from Mary?  As for giving them to Debbie, your Mom further stated that she would give them to you and you could give them to whomever or do whatever you wished with them? The really sad thing is that we are not exactly discussing the crown jewels here and Mary, Baby & Jackie have all done well materialistically, so this is not about money as much as it is about status and in this case, you come before any and everyone else, whether you  accept it or not? I have asked her to give and share all that she should with you, because God forbid, if something should happen with them having immediate access before you or I could even get there, could cause some confusion, because I have your Mom’s story and Mary has her story? I will not confront Mary, subjecting your Mother from a backlash, when she is so vulnerable and needs all of the attention she deserves. So, my dear cousin at the risk of annoyingly upsetting your day, with things that  may seem trivial to you and are the least of your concerns, a position that is  obviously not necessarily shared by those professional  estate prospectors, living in Mansfield, I am sharing what I know  about some of your Mother’s personal belongings and property with you.  I wish that your mother would consider coming to live with me, as the window for me to move there was closed years ago when I desperately wanted to establish residency there, foreseeing a situation that has unfortunately arrived, me here and her there. Punkin, the sum token of all we both have in OHIO is XXXXXXXXXXX, your beloved Mother and my beloved Aunt, both of our lives geographically elsewhere.  In fact, I can go so far as to say that she is the only reason for me to visit OHIO ever again!  Without her, OHIO is a place of memories only.   So, if you ever need my testimony, you will have it?

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