L15A43

Goals

Goal 1:

Rafe Anderson shall enroll for therapy in Gentle Blooming Therapy and Counseling for April 2022.

· Objective 1: I will schedule an appointment with Anderson as his Therapist to discuss the way forward by April 30.

· Objective 2: I will schedule another appointment with Anderson and discuss what method is to be used to help him by May 20th.

· Objective 3: I will make an appointment with Anderson in order to address his urgent or priority issues by June 1st.

Goal 2:

I will work together with Anderson to come up with ways to help in resolving his emotional difficulty.

· Objective 1: Anderson shall be required with my help to find a social gathering that best suits his endeavors and participate in it by June 10th.

· Objective 2: Anderson will schedule a meeting with a friend through my help to talk and engage every week by June 10th.

· Objective 3: Anderson will engage with the therapist in order to ensure he has gone through all the five stages of grief which include denial, anger, bargain, depression and acceptance by June 24th.

Goal 3:

Anderson will show acceptance to the reality of his loss and express adjustment to life without his father and at the same time maintain a connection to his deceased father while continuing with his life.

· Objective 1: I will engage with Anderson to process the event or incidence that led to the death of his father by re-telling the loss. He should be able to communicate without struggle to me since I will have established trust, July, 10th 2022.

· Objective 2: Anderson will commit to live a life free of guilt and honor his deceased father even if it means forgetting the incidence for a while.

· Objective 3: I will help Anderson utilize the available therapy services with me to help him come to terms with reality and be able to move on effectively. He will start using a car without being anxious of being involved in an accident.

Staff notes- Progress

Anderson’s Progress pt. 1

April 27th

Anderson expressed an intention to engage with me and be assisted in grieving appropriately, coming to terms with reality, and letting go off the past in the most appropriate way.

Anderson expressed various concerns, especially his guilt feelings concerning what he did and what he did not do while his father was still alive.

I scheduled an appointment with Anderson with the intent to discuss the way forward and the necessary means for him to be assisted by April 30th (Goal 1, Objective 1) & the appointment with me to jointly come up with the most appropriate method to help him counter his deepest feelings of sadness by May 20th( Goal 1, Obj. 2).

May 20th

Anderson reported feeling ‘confused’ and not sure if he was ready to move on and embrace the grieving process. This was especially because he felt guilty for not being there for his father enough while he was still alive. Such thoughts haunted him a lot. E also felt that it would be inappropriate for him not to feel sad enough or moving on just like that when his father was dead.

We discussed the effectiveness of the therapy process and how the result would be so beneficial to him and help him let go the feelings of guilt and comfortably live with that fact.

I gave Anderson an insight on how the process was going to be done. I also assured him that the process would be friendly and managed to establish trust with Anderson and made him comfortable through the process.

Anderson has an appointment with me on May 25th ( Goal 1, Obj.2).

Anderson’s Progress pt. 2

May 28th, 2022

After our meeting appointment, Anderson decided to engage in the five stages of grieving which was held at the Gentle Blooming Therapy and Counseling.

Anderson expressed continuing guilt and regrets concerns. We discussed how to find a way to help Anderson ignite his social life and we were able I suggest an appropriate Social gathering group that would help him. This was a gathering meant to discuss various encounters that help individuals rant and let off some weight. Anderson will join the group by June 10th. (Goal 2, Objs. 1).

Anderson will schedule a meeting with his friend in order to talk about life and catch up on the events that have been happening. He was to be meeting with Mike every once a week to talk about general issues of life. (Goal 2, Obj. 2).

I will schedule a meeting with Anderson for him to express how the five stages of grieving are turning out for him by June 24th. (Goal 2, Obj. 3).

July 1st

Anderson reported attending meeting with the social group each week and was finding it very welcoming and helpful.

I provided Anderson with information regarding the five stages of the healing process as well as encourage him to attend the meeting with his best friend to talk about general life issues which was helping him move on gradually and peacefully by June 5th.(Goal 2, Obj. 3)

Anderson successfully engaged with the me to deal with his emotional situation through the five stages of grieving. Goal 2, Obj. 1)

Anderson appointment with me is on May 30th(Goal 1, Obj. 3).

Anderson’s Progress pt. 3

June 28th, 2021

Anderson showed a great improvement in dealing with the guilt and sad feeling that haunted him as a result of the accident that left his father dead. However he was still reluctant to move on and live his life without feeling unusual.

Anderson met with me and we discussed how the five stage grieving process has so far been working out for him whereby he was already at the bargaining stage. (Goal1).

Anderson has been engaging in the social group which he says has been of great help to his emotional relief and facing his deepest fears.(Goal 2, Obj. 1).

I highlighted to Anderson ways through which he could use to move on without feeling guilty. I also encouraged him to stop feeling sorry for what he did not do and celebrate whatever he was able to do with his father. (Goal 2). Anderson scheduled another appointment with me by July 6th.

July 12th, 2022

Anderson was able to communicate without trouble his story and relationship with his father to his me without any difficulties as he had come to terms with the fact that he was no more. He also expressed his concerns about being able to deal with the thoughts of his father not being in his life anymore.

Anderson expressed a great improvement in the grieving stage as he was already done with the depression stage and was now at the acceptance stage. (Goal 3).

Anderson shall commit to live a life free of guilt and honor his deceased father even if it means forgetting the incidence for a while.(Goal 3, Obj. 2). I also provided him with additional information to help him do so.(Goal 3, Obj. 3)